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For generations, Ahern Funeral Home, Inc. has been serving the Unionville community in Connecticut with exceptional care and professionalism. Located at 111 Main St., Unionville, CT, 06085, this family-owned and operated funeral home understands the importance of honoring a life well-lived, providing personalized services that are respectful of the wishes of the deceased and their loved ones.

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John T. Turner - June 01, 1947 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: John T. Turner, 76, of Unionville, beloved husband of Diane (Cifaldi) Turner, passed away peacefully on Wednesday April 17th, 2024 after a 5-year battle with Alzheimer’s. John was born in Hartford, CT on June 1, 1947, son of the late Roland and Rita Turner. John is a graduate of Farmington High School, Class of 1965. He began working at 16 years old at First National and spent his career working with the company as it grew and changed names from Edwards to Stop & Shop, until he retired on his 70th birthday. John was an avid sports fan who followed the San Francisco 49ers, the New England Patriots, the Boston Celtics and of course, his beloved Boston Red Sox. John loved to help coach sports when his children were young, bowl with his bowling league, or just shoot hoops. He was most known for his years of playing softball for his teams, DJ’s and Sears Auto Body down at the Meade. While John loved sports, it was his dedication to his children’s team that never wavered and you would never catch him missing a game nor would you miss his cheers from the sidelines.

In addition to his wife Diane of 47 years, John is survived by his children, Sharon Bonini and her husband Tom of Unionville, John Turner and his wife Melissa of Shrewsbury Mass, Amy Peruti and her husband Jason of Farmington and Michael Turner and his wife Danielle of Avon. John is also survived by his cherished grandchildren, Jake Algiere, Nathan and Vanessa Turner, Olivia, Madison and Elliana Peruti and Dominic, Christian and Harper Turner; his sisters Maureen, Donna and Terry and brother Roy, step grandchildren Vic and Aidan, as well as his sisters and brothers-in-law, nieces, nephews, cousins, friends, and best buddy Tommy. John is predeceased by his parents, his brothers Roland and Raymond, and his mother and father-in-law, Dominic and Patricia Cifaldi. The family would like to share their utmost gratitude for the love and compassion John received from the amazing staff at Avon Health Center who went above and beyond to ensure John was safe, loved and smiling until the end. Additionally, the family would like to thank the team from Mclean Hospice and the staff at Day Break Adult Care for all their love and support. Lastly, his children want to thank their mother, Diane, for the sacrifices she made to keep John in his own home as long as she could throughout this heartbreaking illness.

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Margo Jones Nugent - July 16, 1968 - April 16, 2024

Departed: 04/16/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Margo “The Boss” Wollenberg Jones Nugent of Plainville, CT passed away on April 16, 2024, with loving family by her side.

Margo met her match in Larry and lived an exciting, fun -filled life with the people most important to her. Margo loved planning get togethers, opening her home to be a loving caretaker, working with local charities including but not limited to PARC and Brian's Angels, long trips on the motorcycle with biker friends, traveling to the beaches in Maine, particularly her and Larry’s favorite place, Ogunquit. She always wanted to bring everyone together. Margo also enjoyed photography, bringing her camera with her everywhere she went. Her ability to take beautiful photos left her family with the gift of thousands of memories. She loved surrounding herself with sunflowers which brought her so much comfort. She enjoyed the endless gatherings in the driveway that welcomed everyone, nighttime ipad sessions, decorating her seasonal tree to make everyone smile, texting through the night, teasing us all about joining her in retirement, her favorite wineries, reminiscing about her Farmington High School days where she earned the title of BS’er (class of ’86), her famous weather reports, finding special pennies around from GG, following her favorite bands in the area with a Corona and lime in her hand, shopping and bopping around, the famous breakfast club, and treasured time with family and friends.

After being diagnosed with neuroendocrine cancer, she fought this “nonsense” as she called it, like a warrior with humor, grace, and unprecedented courage. Through it all, her positivity prevailed, defying all odds. The family wishes to thank her nurse and friend Barb, and her amazing team of doctors for their perseverance, knowledge and commitment to her journey.

She is survived by her beloved husband Larry Nugent, her parents Peter and Linda Wollenberg, her sons Kyle Jones (Sarah), Zachary Jones and Luke Jones, her beloved granddaughters Kennedy (Princess) and Peyton (Mushy). She also leaves her sister Darcy Machuga (Martin) and niece Emma, her sister-in-law Megan, her Godchildren Logan and Lyla, many Aunts, Uncles, Cousins and friends as well as her chosen sisters Marlene, Julie and Susan. Margo has taught us all through her journey, that we fight, never give up, keep advocating for yourself, smile, cherish life, make lifelong memories, include everyone, and surround yourself with the people you love! Margo, we love you and will always keep your spirit and memories alive. “We’ve got this!”

Calling hours will be from 4-6pm at The Ahern Funeral home in Unionville, CT on Monday, April 22nd. In Lieu of flowers please consider donating to Neuroendocrine Research Foundation (netrf.org.)

PARC, Inc. (parcdisabilitiesct.org), Briansangels.org and/or Amysangels.org.

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Marilyn Gail Dorsa - August 07, 1947 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: After 76 years of loving life and all it offered, Marilyn Gail Dorsa made her final departure to her permanent home in Heaven to be with her gracious Heavenly Father on Thursday, April 11, 2024. Marilyn was born August 7, 1947 in Jacksonville, Florida to Harold and Evelyn Morrow. One of three children, Marilyn grew up on a farm in Fairfield, Iowa where she attended Fairfield High School. Marilyn loved to ride horses and barrel race!

Marilyn lived in Hawaii for several years before moving to Long Island, New York where she lived for almost 50 years. She raised her three children on Long Island where she also served on the PTA and Board of Education. She was a very respected woman in the community. She was an amazing, loving mom and grandma who was always there through the tough times and the good times for her children and grandchildren. Marilyn was a member of Trinity Baptist Church where she committed years of support and service. She taught Sunday School and ministered to everyone she met. Marilyn was truly the hands and feet of Jesus in every aspect of her life as she gave her heart and help to anyone who needed it. She unconditionally loved the world!

Marilyn is survived by her children, Nicole and David Bouffard, of Burlington; Karla Dorsa and Ryan Hatt, of Burlington; her grandchildren, Hailey Sciascia, Braydon Dorsa, Sydney Sciascia, Taylor Hatt, Madison Hatt, plus endless loving family & friends.

Marilyn was preceded in death by her son, Ronald Dorsa, her parents, Harold and Evelyn Morrow, her sister, Linda Karr and her brother, Ronald Morrow.

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Jan L. Minor - March 04, 1941 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Jan L. Minor, 83, of Burlington, CT passed peacefully in his home on April 11, 2024, after a courageous battle with cancer. He was born in Satanta, KS on March 4, 1941, to Guy L. Minor and Dana (Falkenstein) Minor. Jan grew up in Ulysses, KS spending his childhood in his father’s pharmacy/soda fountain shop with many wonderful memories shared with his sister, Gyla. He later went on to attend Emporia University and the University of Iowa where he obtained two master’s degrees in chemistry and pharmacology. Along this journey, Jan met the love of his life, Judith G. (Jarvis) Minor, and they wed on May 26, 1968.

Jan’s biggest accomplishments in life were his two children, David and Dawn, and the apple of his eye were his grandchildren. David and his wife, Elizabeth, cared for him tirelessly for the last two years. His daughter, Dawn (Minor) Perkins, has always been daddy’s girl in every sense of the word from the day she was adopted, and they were best friends. His three grandchildren were the center of his world.

Jan was the most humble, compassionate and a hard-working individual. He had a love of teaching, until he retired at age 79 from Tunxis Community College. Jan also enjoyed singing as a member of the Middlesex Hospital Vocal Chords in Middletown, CT, as well as, the Congregational Church of Burlington for 40+ years. Jan has been referred to as the “Mr. Rogers of the neighborhood” and we will truly cherish that memory.

Jan leaves behind David Minor and his wife Elizabeth (Miller); Dawn (Minor) Perkins and her husband Justin; grandchildren Arianna and Joshua; his sister Gyla Roberson and her husband Darrell Jones; many nephews and nieces. Predeceased by his wife, Judith G. (Jarvis) Minor and grandson Jacob A. Perkins.

A Celebration of Life service will be held on Saturday, May 18, 2024, at 10:30am at the Congregational Church of Burlington, 268 Speilman Hwy, Burlington, CT 06013. Please join the family as we gather to share a memory or a funny story of their loved one. The family has requested bright and cheerful attire for the celebration. Burial will be a private ceremony for the family.

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Martha Cloutier White - June 26, 1932 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Martha Cloutier White, 91, passed away peacefully on Friday, April 5th, surrounded by the love of her family. While we are saddened by her passing, there is great comfort in knowing that she lived a full and meaningful life.

Born in Pawtucket, Rhode Island on June 26, 1932, she spent her early childhood being raised by both her mom and loving aunts. She then moved to New Britain to attend Mary Immaculate Academy where she made lifelong friends. After graduating she was employed at General Electric as editor of their newspaper. She married Everett White and then put her heart into raising her 3 young children. When she was ready to return to work she was employed as an administrative assistant at Connecticut Transit until her retirement. She then had the opportunity to pursue her love of traveling and hiking, through the English countryside, many National Parks in the U.S. and Canada, and hiking trails close to home often with her best friend Lois. She was an avid reader and enjoyed painting, spending time at the beach, watching UConn basketball, and ice cream. She was known for her ice cream “surprises”. Throughout her life she advocated for those less fortunate, and instilled in her children the values of equality, compassion, and social justice.

Martha achieved 46 years of sobriety and was an inspiration to many, many people. She truly believed that there is always hope.

She had the good fortune to live at Middlewoods in Farmington before she became ill where she thrived with wonderful new friends. We are sincerely grateful to the staff at Middlewoods, Uconn Hospital, and Avon Health Center, for their care and compassion.

Her greatest happiness was being with her grandchildren and great grandchildren. It is impossible to capture in words the love she had for her family. She will continue to live on in those she leaves behind; her children; Susan (Jim), Jonathan, and Nancy, her grandchildren; Nick (Rachel), Kaitlin (Jazz), Abbey (Greg), Becca, and Ethan, and her great-grandchildren; Henry, Liam, Sadie, Zaylee, Zyan, Elliot, and Bodhi.

She was predeceased by her granddaughter Sarah. Friends and family may call at The Ahern Funeral Home, 111 Main St., Rt. 4, Unionville on Saturday, April 13th from 9:00 – 11:00 am

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Madeline A. Huppe - July 08, 1932 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Madeline A. Huppe, age 92, passed away peacefully on March 28, 2024 at Apple Rehab in Avon, surrounded by loving family.

Madeline was born in Biddeford, Maine on July 8, 1932 and was the daughter of Willie and Blanche D. (Lajeunesse) Roy. She attended parochial schools in Biddeford and, after leaving school, planned to pursue a calling to become a nun. Meeting Gene would change all of that.

Madeline was predeceased by her husband and soulmate, Eugene (Gene) Huppe. They were married on August 21, 1954 in Biddeford, Maine and shared 60 years of love and laughter before Gene passed in December of 2014. Madeline and Gene met when they were young teenagers. Gene worked at a local service station. Madeline would loosen the chain on the bicycle she shared with her younger sister. She would then bring the bike to Gene for repair and to see him for a little while. Her sister claimed in later years that the bicycle was never home and available to her because Madeline always had it at the service station.

After their wedding, Madeline and Gene moved to Washington, DC. Gene was stationed at Andrews Air Force Base and Madeline began working at Hex Department Store. Although her English was limited, Madeline’s French was very good and Hex often had her act as an interpreter. She enjoyed this very much. After Gene’s discharge from the Air Force, the couple returned to Maine only to find it difficult to find employment. They ultimately moved to Connecticut, where Gene’s family had been living. Madeline and Gene lived in New Britain for a few years before settling in Unionville. They raised their family in the home they loved on Mohawk Drive. One afternoon, Gene showed up on his motorcycle at PMP in Avon, where Madeline worked. To save face in front of her friends, Madeline agreed to get on the back of the motorcycle for a ride home. That was the first of many rides on the back of Gene’s motorcycle. They traveled throughout New England, taking leisurely rides from Spring through Fall. Madeline and Gene moved into their cozy in-law apartment at Denise and Normand’s home in Burlington in 2000 and Madeline continued to live there until just this past February. Madeline and Gene joined the Church of St. Mary Star of the Sea Roman Catholic Church in Unionville, where Madeline was a communicant until just a few years ago when she could no longer physically attend. In addition to her time at Hex Department Store in D.C., Madeline worked for Dietary Services in the Farmington Public Schools, primarily in the cafeteria at Farmington High School. She then worded at Petroleum Meter and Pump in Avon and retired from PMP in 1994.

Everyone who knew Madeline knew her to be kind, thoughtful, loving, and generous. She will be missed by many, especially her family, who will love and miss her always.

Madeline loved nothing more than spending time with her family. Over the years, she and Gene attended many of their grandchildren’s sporting, musical, and scouting events. They even drove out to Colorado to see their granddaughter receive her black belt in mixed martial arts. Most recently Memere was with her whole family at the Huppe Christmas celebration in late January.

In addition to her husband, Madeline was predeceased by her sister, Rejeanne (Jeanne) Gonthier with whom she shared many mischievous moments and a very close bond throughout their lives; her brother-in-law, Martin Gonthier; and her sister-in-law, Georgianna (Huppe) Amenta.

Madeline is survived by her four children; Dan and Christine Huppe of Hebron; Denise and Normand Genest of Burlington; Lynn and Leon Charette of Plainville; and Mark and Janice Huppe of Delaware Water Gap, PA. Madeline is also survived by her grandchildren; Carly Charette (AJ Doucette) of Plainville; Cortlyne Huppe (Nathan Kotewa) of Canon City, CO; Alexa Huppe (Steven Kelleher) of Boston, MA; Zachary Genest of Farmington; Tyler and Alexandra Huppe of Hebron; and Nathan Genest (Marci Nelson) of Middletown. Madeline also leaves behind many nieces and nephews, all of whom held a special place deep in her heart. We would be remiss if there was no mention of Muppet Genest, Memere’s great grandpup, whom she adored.

The family wishes to sincerely thank Elizabeth Pang, RN, our angel from Vitas Hospice, who was a blessing in more ways than one. The family would also like to thank the staff at Apple Rehab in Avon who surrounded Madeline with care and love from the day she arrived. We appreciate all of you.

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T. David Palmer - January 11, 1942 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: T. David Palmer, 82, of Farmington has died. Our great loss is heaven’s gain. He passed away the evening before Good Friday - March 28, 2024 - from pneumonia plus the lingering effects of six years of progressive hydrocephalus and complications.

David was born Jan. 11, 1942, in West Frankfort, Illinois, the son of the late Thomas Monroe Palmer and Jessie Myrtle (Armstrong) Palmer. His father died in a coal mine disaster when David was five; and despite his grief, he retained an optimistic outlook which carried him forward to a wonderful world-wide career.

David graduated from Zeigler Community High School, Illinois, in 1960, married his childhood sweetheart Sherra Ramsey, and joined the U.S. Air Force as a land surveyor. He was stationed at Pease Air Force Base in New Hampshire. Son Tom was born during David’s military service. After the Air Force, David attended Arizona State University on full scholarship and earned a BS degree summa cum laude in construction engineering in 1968.

He was then employed by Henry J. Kaiser Co. and became the youngest project manager of the company. His assignments took the family to numerous places, such as Upper Michigan, south Texas, the center of the Midwest, and the San Francisco Bay area. He was especially proud of his role at Lawrence Livermore Laboratories in California, where he was selected to be the project manager for the world’s largest laser facility.

He was then recruited by United Technologies to be Director of Construction for their worldwide projects. The family came to Connecticut in 1981, lived briefly in an historic house in Bloomfield and then moved to Farmington. A few years later, he went to Saudi Arabia to manage UTC’s projects there. He commuted between Riyadh and Conn. for ten years, then he and Sherra lived in Riyadh twice for a total of four years of the next decade. During his second assignment there, David, at the request of the Saudi government, successfully built an aircraft engine repair facility of which he was very proud. Returning to Conn., he retired from UTC in 2001 and assumed duties as a Moderator of elections for Farmington. He loved the town and was a Trustee and long-time volunteer for the Farmington Library. He worked at the annual book sale, priced thousands of books, and in 2009-2011 was the project manager for the renovations of the historic Barney Branch library. He supervised the complete restoration of that building, done with style and excellence. He was also a volunteer for the transportation of rescued animals. In addition, he was a docent at the Stanley-Whitman House, with his wife Sherra. He himself said, “I wasn’t born in Farmington, but this certainly has been our home, and I expect it to continue as such!”

David is survived by his beloved and devoted wife of 63 years, Sherra Ramsey Palmer; his son Tom D. Palmer and daughter-in-law Carolynn Palmer of Avon; and a niece, Deborah Dempsey Tinsley & her husband Stan of Illinois. He was predeceased by his beloved sister Dorothy Mae (Palmer) Dempsey. Sherra’s family, both in southern Illinois and Arizona, also lay claim to this good man. He also leaves a lifelong friend, Ralph Derickson of Texas.

The family wishes to thank the doctors, nurses, and personnel of the UConn John Dempsey Hospital, Apple Rehab of Avon, Accent Care Hospice, and others for their fine care of David through his progressive illness of six years. We will be forever grateful.

In place of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to your favorite pet cause or to the Stanley-Whitman House.

Calling hours will be held at The Ahern Funeral Home, 111 Main St, Unionville, on Sunday, April 14, from 1-2:30pm, followed by a memorial service there starting at 2:30pm. David’s friends and acquaintances are spread throughout the world, but those nearby are invited to gather in fellowship and to wish David Godspeed.

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Jimi DeLucia Unsworth - January 17, 1959 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Jimi DeLucia Unsworth, 65, of West Hartford passed away peacefully on Sunday, March 24, 2024, surrounded by her loving family and holding her sister’s hands. She was the beloved wife of Harry Unsworth, to whom she was married for 35 years.

Jimi was born on January 17, 1959, in New York, the daughter of Janet Conway of Massachusetts and the late George DeLucia. Born and raised in Glastonbury, Jimi made her home in Farmington for the past 35 years where she enjoyed spending time with family and friends. Jimi grew up attending Glastonbury schools and went on to continue her education at George Washington University and University of Colorado in Boulder. After graduation, she returned to Connecticut spending time in Mystic and after meeting Harry she eventually found her way to Avon where she worked as a sales executive for multiple car dealerships. Jimi was one of the few females at that time to break into the male dominated industry using her gift of gab, a trait she inherited from her father, to become a successful saleswoman. It was while working at a car dealership that she met the love of her life, her husband Harry. Together they went on to own and operate a car dealership for over 30 years, doing what they loved as a team. Jimi and Harry were always a team in life and in work.

Jimi was at her happiest spending time with her husband, her three sisters and extended family and friends. Family meant everything to Jimi. She and her sisters were very close and loved being “The DeLucia Girls' or “4 of a kind”. She always looked forward to her weekly lunch with her sister in laws and aunt. Jimi wanted to be surrounded by the people she loved and her sweet Ragdoll cats she and Harry shared, Annie, Coco and Maya. They brought her so much comfort. She had a tremendous heart and a fun-loving personality, going out of her way to make everyone feel welcomed and loved in her presence. Jimi loved spending time in the kitchen, creating delicious meals for her family and was the life of the party. One of the things we loved most about “GiGi” was her ability to make even the simplest things a celebration. She showed up for everything and everyone and created memories to last a lifetime.

Besides her loving husband, she is survived by her mother, Janet Conway, her sisters, Georjan DeLucia of Mystic, Janet Cimmino and her husband Louis of Massachusetts, and Andria Lewis and her husband Burt of Florida and many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, and stepsiblings. Jimi also leaves her dear friend of 40 plus years, Wendy Mahon and her husband Scott and two sisters-in-law, Lynn Dionne and her husband Reggie of Bristol and Kim Palazzo and her husband Bob of Farmington.

Please reach out a hand to someone in need or celebrate the simplest thing today in a big way in remembrance of our sweet wife, daughter, sister, sister-in-law, aunt, and friend. Celebrate with a Dirty Martini, raise your glass and say “Cheers” to a life well lived and loved.

Friends may call at The Ahern Funeral Home, 111 Main St, Unionville, CT 06085 on Saturday, April 13th from 2:00-4:00 pm with a Prayer Service to be held in the funeral home at 4:00 pm. A celebration of life will be held in Mystic, CT at a later date.

All expressions of sympathy, including flowers, honorary donations to a favorite charity, and cards are welcome.

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Stuart R. Schirmer - July 17, 1939 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Stuart R. Schirmer, 84, of Bristol, passed away peacefully Saturday, March 23rd, 2024. He was born on July 17, 1939 in the Bronx, New York, son of the late Helen and Carl Schirmer, and grew up in Valley Stream, Long Island.

His is survived by his beloved wife Edith, daughter Victoria Pelletier (Michael) of Bristol, and son Lance (Noemi) of Cape Coral, FL, his grandchildren Dakota, Meggan, Brianna, Mahdi and Mahyar, his brother Alfred Schirmer and family of Florida, a special brother, William Krohner (Doreen) and family of Pennsylvania and also, many dear friends and neighbors.

Stuart served in the U.S. Army-Special Forces in Vietnam where he was wounded for which he received the Purple Heart Medal. Also, he was a VFW Commander for Post 10361 in Farmington. Prior to retirement, he owned his own successful cabinet making business in town called Creative Woodworking. He made many lasting friendships playing Softball, Basketball and Golf.

Friends may call at The Ahern Funeral Home, 111 Main St., Rt. 4, Unionville on Monday, April 1st, 2024 from 5:00-7:00 p.m. Funeral Services will be held on Tuesday, April 2nd, 2024 at 10:00 am in Bethany Lutheran Church, on the corner of South Main Street and Boulevard, West Hartford. Burial with full military honors will follow at the State Veterans Cemetery, Middletown, CT.

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Judith Storrs Middlebrook - September 25, 1939 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Judith Storrs Middlebrook, 84, passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 23, 2024 in Farmington, CT. Judy was born in Hartford Connecticut to Arnold Storrs and Kathleen (Mulcahey) Storrs on September 25, 1939. She is survived by her daughter, Sara Middlebrook Heaney, husband Chris Heaney and three granddaughters, Caitlyn, Samantha and Jessica. She is also survived by her niece, Rebecca Jaoui, husband Omar, and three children, Tabitha, Emma and Max, nephew Jared Smith, daughters Rhea and Maeve and their mother, Leland. She was predeceased by her husband, Curtis Middlebrook and her daughter, Susan Middlebrook Rutkowski.

Judy was a voracious game player, whether it was tennis, paddle tennis or card games she was always ready to play, and win. Reading was another huge hobby of Judy’s and she was always the first one to get the Fast Reads at the Farmington Library and would usually return them before the week was out.

Judy loved the beach, any beach, but the beach that held her heart was in Floods Cove, Friendship Maine where she and her family spent over fifty years making lifelong friends and memories. She was also known as the dog whisperer and many friends would ask for assistance when training their dogs so that their own pets would be as well trained as Judy’s Kerry, Clancy, Willow, Maggie and Nikki; she truly had a way with dogs.

A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, June 8, 2024 at The Ahern Funeral Home, 111 Main Street, Unionville, CT from 10:00am - 12:00pm.

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James Edward Lee - March 09, 1939 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: James Edward Lee, 85, died on March 19th, 2024 with his family by his side. He was born in Danbury, CT and is preceded in death by his parents Akin Ellsworth Lee and Kathryn McNulty Lee, his brother Ronald Lee, his sister Marleen Boucher, his brother-in-law William Boucher and his nephew Robert Ellsworth Lee.

He is survived by his brother Brian Timothy Lee and sister-in-law Gloria Lassy Lee of Torrington, his brother Richard Francis Lee and his sister-in-law Beverly Tuller of Kittery, Maine, his son Brian Albert Lee and daughter-in-law Jodi Ann Lee of West Hartford, his daughter Jennifer Kathryn Norfleet and son-in-law Joshua Norfleet of Plainville, and his grandchildren Matthew Garrett Lee, Michael Albert Lee and Samantha Olivia Lee.

James was a loving father, brother, grandfather and uncle. A teacher of more than 30 years for Region 10 in CT, he was a veteran of the US Navy and graduated from Farmington High School, achieved a bachelor’s degree from Central CT State University and a master’s degree from the University of Hartford. He loved to read books, specifically about US History, played the dulcimer, played a little golf and for the last few years took up painting. James will always be remembered for a quick wit, self-deprecating sense of humor, his selflessness toward others in need and his annual impersonation of Santa Claus.

Friends may call at The Ahern Funeral Home, 111 Main St., Rt. 4, Unionville on Monday, March 25, 2024, from 10:00 - 11:00am followed by a brief service. Burial will immediately follow at Greenwood Cemetery in Avon, CT. Donations may be made to the Farmington Food Pantry at P.O. Box 84, Farmington, CT 06034-0084

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Nancy Jakiel - May 28, 1943 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Nancy (Machowski) Jakiel, 80, died on March 14, 2024 with her family by her side. Nancy is survived by her husband of 56 years Ronald Jakiel, her brother Joseph Machowski, her sister Rosalie Obremski and brother in law Tommy Obresmski, her brother in law Joel Jakiel and sister in law Linda Jakiel, by her sons Michael Jakiel and Peter Jakiel and girlfriend Debbie Gordon and daughter Allison O’Hara and son in law Michael O’Hara, 6 grandchildren Amy, Ryan, Joshua and Alexandra (Ally) Jakiel, Anna and Ethan O’Hara, her nephews Brian Obremski, Jeffrey and Johnathan Jakiel. She was predeceased by her sister in law Gloria Machowski and her niece Julie Obremski Currier.

Nancy was born on May 28, 1943 in New Britain, daughter of the late Joseph and Mary (Biegaj) Machowski and graduated from Bristol Eastern High School in 1961. She attended Champlain Junior College in Burlington, Vermont. On March 19, 1964 on St. Joseph’s day she met the love of her life and soul mate Ronald Jakiel. They married on September 30, 1967. She and Ron welcomed three children over the next 7 years and loved her children with all her heart. Nancy was co-owners with her siblings of Flower Box Florist in Bristol, CT, founded by her parents. She was a talented florist until she retired at the age of 65. Flowers were everything to her. She always had flowers in her house and would shower her family with flowers on special occasions. In her younger years, Nancy grew up loving to sing. She took singing lessons when she was young and continued into her teenage years. She also loved the sun, the beach and her pool. Her parents had rented homes in the summer where the family would come and live for the month of July. Her favorites were the ones on the Connecticut shore where she made wonderful memories with her family and her sister and brother’s family. Nancy also loved to travel with her immediate family every summer. Her favorite vacation was to Hawaii with her family. Over the years Myrtle Beach, South Carolina became another favorite spot with her family. In her retirement Nancy and Ron often traveled with her sister and brother in law to many places including San Diego. This brought her joy. Nancy loved to shop for clothing and jewelry. She loved to dress up and always looked beautiful no matter the time of day. When raising her children, Nancy loved cheering on her sons when motocross racing. This was another great family time with her husband, kids and in laws. Every weekend a different track somewhere in New England or New York. She enjoyed supporting her daughter with dance classes and then volleyball in high school and never missed a game. Nancy also enjoyed watching professional football with her husband and TV shows at night. Nancy loved her family and was a loving wife, mother and grandmother. She would help in any way she could and was always there to listen.

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Kang Lour - July 04, 1944 - March 11, 2024

Departed: 03/11/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Kang Lour, 79, of Burlington, husband of the late Sean Pell passed away peacefully Monday, March 11, 2024. Born in Cambodia on July 4, 1944, he was the son of the late Teng Lour and Srey Por.

He is survived by three daughters, Chanthan Lour, Chanthoeun Lour, and Chantha and her husband Soram Khim, 10 grandchildren, 5 great grandchildren, his sisters, Tang Lour, Kheng Lour, Heang Lour, Khorn Lour and Kim Heng and brothers, Houth Lour, Seng Lour, Stone Lour.

Friends and family may call at The Ahern Funeral Home, 111 Main St., Rt. 4, Unionville on Friday, March 15th from 6:00-8:00pm. Graveside Services will be held Saturday, March 16th at 9:00am in Riverside Cemetery, Farmington.

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Donald J. Bilodeau - December 30, 1925 - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Donald J. Bilodeau, 98, passed away peacefully on Sunday, March 10, 2024, after a brief illness. He was born on December 30, 1925, in Farmington, CT, the son of Amadelice and Lorenza (Gosselin) Bilodeau. Donald is preceded in death by Anita, his loving wife of more than 60 years, his parents, brothers Roger, Raymond, and Bernard, his sisters Lucille Parker and Georgette Reynolds, and son-in-law Edmund Dranginis.

He is survived by his children Steven Bilodeau and his wife Lisa, Donna Lee Dranginis, and Bruce Bilodeau and his wife Denise. Donald is also survived by his grandson Kyle Bilodeau and his wife Paige, his sister Doris Abraham, and sisters-in-law Janet Bilodeau and Gloria Bilodeau, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.

Donald was a loving husband, father, and grandfather. He was a US Air Force veteran of WWII before going to work at Hartford National Bank working his way up to Vice President in the computer division before retiring. Donald will be remembered for his love of family, working in his yard, duckpin bowling, and watching sports. He was a kind man and will be greatly missed for his caring ways, joy of life, and compassion for all.

Friends may call at The Ahern Funeral Home, 111 Main St., Rt. 4, Unionville on Thursday, March 14, 2024, from 9:30-10:30am. A Mass of Christian Burial will follow in the Church of St. Mary Star of the Sea, Unionville at 11:00am. Burial with full military honors will be at Riverside Cemetery in Farmington.

Donations may be made to The Connecticut Hospice, c/o The Development Office, 100 Double Beach Road, Branford, CT 06405, or at www.hospice.com.

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Andrew Michael Matava - December 03, 1945 - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Andrew Michael “Mike” Matava, Jr., 78, of Simsbury, beloved husband of 55 years to Janice (Weedall) Matava, cherished father and grandfather, and dear friend, passed away peacefully at his home on Sunday, March 10th, 2024. Born December 3rd, 1945 in Hartford, he was the son of the late Andrew M. and Ebba (Nelson) Matava, Sr. Mike was a proud United States Air Force veteran serving with distinction in the Vietnam War. Prior to retiring, he was a Director at Travelers for many years. He leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter and cherished memories that will forever live on in the hearts of those who knew him.

He was a generous and kind person who was always helping others. His favorite hobbies were fishing, golfing and woodworking - he could fix or build anything. After retirement he enjoyed traveling all over the US and Canada with his wife and friends.

Everyone who knew him knew one of his greatest joys in life was the time spent with his grandchildren. He was a doting grandfather who took immense pride in watching them grow and flourish. Mike will be deeply missed by his wife, Janice, his daughters, Vicki Harris and Sharon Zieg and their husbands, Christopher and Michael, his four grandchildren, Niko Harris, Taylor Zieg, Zachary Harris and Andrew Michael Zieg and his sister, Marie “Sandy” Matava.

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James T. Moore - June 07, 1942 - March 09, 2024

Departed: 03/09/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: James T. Moore, 81, of Farmington, CT passed away on March 9, 2024 at Bristol Hospital with family by his side.

James and his wife Kathleen met in 1965, married in 1966, and moved to Farmington in 1968 where they raised their three children. James is survived by his wife Kathleen, his three children and their spouses, James and Allison Moore, Elizabeth and William Arbour, and Gregg and Catherine Moore, and his three grandchildren; Esther Moore, and Caroline and Matthew Moore.

James was born in New Britain, CT on June 7, 1942 and was the only child of Harry P. and Rose E. Moore. After graduating from New Britain High School he attended the University of Hartford and then joined the Connecticut National Guard.

James worked at Travelers in Hartford, CT as a manager in the Data Processing Commercial Lines Unit. He made many friends there and elsewhere, and was always on hand to offer his help to them. He had many skills and would offer them to help anyone. Known as the mayor of Ledgewood Drive he would always like to give his help to those who could use his knowledge and skills to make life better for them. Anyone who knew him loved him.

His hobby of birding gave him opportunities to travel to many areas of the USA and Central America to find many different birds and he loved doing so. He became a president of The Hartford Audubon Society for a period of time and gave classes to children in school and adults in nursing homes to expand their knowledge of birds. He was also on the board for the Westerly Apartments for the Elderly where he helped the people who lived there feel safe and comfortable.

He also loved to play tennis, golf, and squash in his spare time and do yard work when needed. He also loved photography, bringing his camera with him where ever he went. His ability to take beautiful photos left his family with the gift of thousands of photographic memories.

James was an active individual who loved to play and work. He enjoyed many sports and spent many summers on Nantucket where he enjoyed birding and exploring the natural beauty of the island with new and old friends and family.

When James was in his seventies, he was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s Disease and lost many of his skills and was upset because he could not do many of the things he could do before. But that never stopped him from giving everything he had left to make life a little better for anyone he knew. He never lost his great sense of humor and he continued to do all that he could to make life better for others. He will be truly missed by his family and friends.

The family wishes to thank all the staff at KindCare in Bristol, CT, especially those on the Memory Care floor. They also wish to thank the hospice staff at Bristol Health Medical Group.

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Barbara Kathleen Wilson - April 25, 1945 - March 03, 2024

Departed: 03/03/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Barbara “Barb” Kathleen (Sweeney) Wilson (78) peacefully passed away at home on March 3, 2024. She was born April 25, 1945 in Bristol, Pennsylvania to the late Edward and Sarah Elizabeth (Denison) Sweeney. She was the beloved wife of James “Jim” Wilson; loving mother of Barbara Lassen (Dennis) and Wendy (Wilson) Wheelock; adored grandmother to Avery Wheelock; dear sister to Edward Sweeney (Nancy); treasured by nephews and other family; and a kind friend to everyone she met.

Barb was a lover of all animals, especially her rescue dog Harper. She was quick to laugh, had a kind spirit, unwavering faith and a passion for helping the homeless. Her church family and the ministries she supported enjoyed her lovely voice and music always brought her joy. Barb was well known for her fluffy cheesecakes and delicious baked goods at family gatherings and church events. Her great organizational skills and strong work ethic were the driving force behind the restoration of her and Jim’s 1850’s historic home in Litchfield County. Caring for this historic home and being a part of its history brought her great happiness.

A memorial service will be held Saturday, March 9, 2024 at the Bakerville Church, 1087 Litchfield Tpke, New Hartford at 10 a.m. If you’d prefer to make a donation in lieu of sending flowers, please visit the Alzheimer’s Association website at www.alz.org.

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Elena Vira Steier - February 14, 1958 - March 01, 2024

Departed: 03/01/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Elena Vira Steier passed away peacefully, surrounded by loving family, in the early hours of March 1, 2024 after a valiantly fought battle with cancer. An accomplished illustrator, author, and cartoonist, Steier created several comics and strips, such as The Ramp Rats (for the Detroit Metropolitan News), The Goth Scouts (for The South Shore Monthly Newspaper) and The Vampire Bed and Breakfast (a self-published comic book). Additional works have been published as locally as the West Hartford News and as far-reaching as ABC’s Monday Night Football. A longtime resident of West Hartford, she has taught art to generations of children as well as adults at the West Hartford Art League, and influenced innumerable young people through her work in the public schools. Her boundless enthusiasm, caring nature, bawdy humor, eccentric taste and deep wisdom will be profoundly missed by those who survive her, including her brother, Alex Vira; her children, Lydia Steier, Ted Steier, Andrew Steier and Julia Greer; and her grandchildren, Tilly Steier, Benton Greer, James Steier, and Landon Greer. Elena Steier was predeceased in 2022 by her loving husband of 45 years, Rodney Steier. She is loved and will be missed by family, friends and colleagues near and far.

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Joseph Hogan - July 22, 1935 - February 29, 2024

Departed: 02/29/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Joseph Hogan, of Farmington, Connecticut passed away on February 29, 2024 in Franklin, Massachusetts. He was predeceased by his beloved wife of 63 years, Mary Hogan, whom he met while they were both getting their Masters in Education at Boston College. After graduation, Mary and Joe married and moved to Farmington where they raised their three children. Joe is survived by his three children and their spouses (Bill and Jill Hogan, Judy Hogan and John Donovan, and Marybeth and Patrick Curran) and their eight grandchildren: Erin, Connor, Catherine, and Rebecca Hogan; Aidan and Corey Donovan; and Julia and Meghan Curran.

Joe was born in Boston, Massachusetts on July 22, 1935, the youngest of five children of William Hogan and Mary Crotty Hogan. Joe was very proud of his East Boston roots and his Boston accent. He was predeceased by his four siblings, Margaret Hogan, Mary Hogan, Cecelia Hogan Shore and William Hogan.

Joe spent his entire career as an educator – first as a teacher and then as an assistant principal and principal in the New Britain public schools. He finished his career as District Coordinator of Adult Education and Summer School in New Britain. Throughout his career, he was a teacher and mentor to many – not just his students but also his fellow teachers and administrators. Joe loved a good argument. He always had a strong opinion about everything, was never shy about sharing it when asked but also was a great listener who would make a connection with everyone no matter their background or position. He never forgot a name or a face.

Most important to Joe was his family and friends and his faith. He was a devoted husband and hands on father who was home for dinner every night even if he had to return to work. He would attend his children’s games and rounded up neighbor kids to go skating and tobogganing. He enjoyed tennis with family and friends, early morning sports games with colleagues, solo swims down Tyler Lake, socializing with Unionville friends, breakfasts with Goshenites, and coffee with the New Britain crew. His smile was never so bright as when he was with his grandchildren whether reading to them, building sand castles or swimming, playing with blocks or even doing art projects or having tea parties. He will be missed by all.

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Margaret DuBois - June 06, 1933 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Margaret (Peggy) DuBois (90) of West Hartford, CT passed away February 26, 2024. She was born on June 6, 1933 to the late John and Mary (Daniels) Dubrosky. In her younger years, she lived, worked and went to school in Unionville. She was married to Lucien (Bud) DuBois in 1955. They raised their family in Bristol and Burlington, CT.

Margaret’s unwavering faith and love for her family brought her so much happiness. She was an incredibly strong woman conquering many health issues with her passion for life. Her favorite hobbies were bowling, crocheting, hair dressing, canning and cooking. She loved to greet everyone with a welcoming hug and a plate of food. Pool parties, spontaneous dinners, Vermont visits and holidays are a few examples of how she filled everyone with treasured memories and deep family values. Her generosity, optimism, sweet singing and infectious laugh will forever live on in her loved ones hearts.

Margaret is survived by her brother Daniel Dubrosky (Patricia) of Bristol, CT, her four children: Gary DuBois (Jennifer) of Bristol, CT; Robert DuBois (Victoria) of Canton, CT; James DuBois (Beth) of Bristol, CT; and Brenda Mantei (Paul) of Burlington, CT, as well as 16 grandchildren; 22 great grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her sister Mary Jane (Jean) Drawec, sister Shirley Dunphy and brother Robert Dubrosky.

Calling hours will be held on Thursday, March 21, 2024 from 5:00-7:00pm at The Ahern Funeral Home, 111 Main St., Rt. 4, Unionville, CT. The Funeral Liturgy will be celebrated on Friday, March 22, 2024 at 10:00am in the Church of St. Mary Star of the Sea in Unionville with the burial following at Greenwood Cemetery in Avon.

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Margaret T. Kost - February 19, 1924 - February 19, 2024

Departed: 02/19/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Margaret T. (Pavelcak) Kost, 100, of Avon, CT, passed peacefully in her home surrounded by family and friends on Monday February 19, 2024.

Margaret was born in Unionville, CT to Albert and Mary Pavelcak and moved in 1935 to a home that her father built in Avon where she resided until her death.

She was an incredibly strong and resilient woman with an amazing sense of humor and an immensely deep love for her family. Margaret had one son, David, and raised him as a single mother. In 1968, after her sister Kathryn passed, she opened her home to her niece and nephew, Theresa and Michael Casasanta, and raised them as if they were her own children. She worked as the accountant for the town of Avon for 26 years, and that sense of attention to detail and leadership could be seen in her personal life as the matriarch of the family.

Through many hurdles in her life including the loss of her son, she remained an incredibly devoted member of St. Mary’s church in Unionville and attributed her strong will to her strong faith.

Margaret will be remembered for her love, her laugh, her unending support, her chocolate chip cookies and apple pie, and so many wonderful memories that will always make us smile.

Margaret was preceded in death by her son David Kost, her sisters Kathryn Casasanta and Ann Safcak, her brother Joseph Pavelcak, her brother-in-law Salvatore Casasanta, and her nephew Michael Casasanta. She is survived by her sister, Mary Carlson, 102, of Lenox, MA, her niece Theresa Bartos, who Margaret raised and cared for as a daughter, and who was her primary caregiver in her final years, her daughter-in-law Linda Casasanta of Bristol, CT, her grandchildren Eric Jones and his fiancé Lisa Bedard, Kevin Jones, and Anthony and Avery Casasanta (who will always remember her as their “Neenee”), her great-granddaughter Rylie Jones and her brothers Jake, Cody, and Oliver Bedard, and many nieces and nephews.

The family would especially like to thank McLean in Simsbury for their care and compassion in Margaret’s final months.

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Michael Wheeler - April 07, 1945 - February 17, 2024

Departed: 02/17/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Michael was a kind soul, generous with his time, hospitality, and humor. Before dawn on February 17, 2024, and in the company of his beloved daughter, Siobhan, he passed in the same humble, quiet manner in which he lived. And his was a full life well-lived.

Born in Hartford on April 7, 1945 to Reynold and Gertrude Wheeler, Michael was the third of five children. He grew up with his family in a modest home on South Road in Farmington located on the land his relatives had farmed for two generations. There, Michael’s doting mother, who according to his sister June considered Michael her favorite child, nurtured his gentle manner. His father, a formidable man who by all accounts could (and did) build or fix anything, set a stern example of how to live to the exacting standards of the master craftsman that he was.

As a child, Michael loved baseball. While his inability to hit a curveball ended his playing career too early, Michael’s love of the game never waned. As a devoted coach to his son Brendan’s Little League team, Michael dutifully pitched batting practice until he couldn’t lift his arm. He was a fixture in the stands as Siobhan and Brendan took to the diamond during their high school years. And of course, there was the Red Sox. Whether watching on TV at home or catching a game at Fenway, he reveled in the team’s ups and patiently endured their downs, never losing his sense of wonder in the magic they performed.

As a student, Michael exhibited an uncanny agility with numbers. After graduating from Farmington High School in 1963, he attended St. Michael’s College in Colchester, Vermont, where in 1967 he earned a bachelor’s in mathematics. Michael found a fit for his talents at The Hartford Insurance Company, where he worked as an actuary for over 20 years. At the outset of his career, he earned a master’s degree in mathematics from the University of Connecticut in 1973. As his career progressed, Michael even wrote test questions that appeared in the battery of professional certification exams all actuaries nationwide had to complete.

Although he would never say so himself, Michael was an able marksman. In his youth, he won shooting competitions, sometimes bringing home a Thanksgiving turkey as a prize. But as a young naval officer in Vietnam, his sharpshooting had a much more serious application. Michael served as the gunnery officer aboard the U.S.S. Westchester County, a flat-bottomed sea-going tank landing ship that could operate in Vietnam’s rivers. On November 1, 1968, he fought through the deadliest attack suffered by the U.S. Navy during the war, when Vietnamese frogmen placed mines below his ship’s waterline that exploded, ripping through the hull, killing 25 men onboard. Michael revered the U.S. Navy, cherished his service at sea, and honored all those who have served in the military.

After his honorable discharge in 1970, Michael retuned to the Hartford area, where he met Bridget “Bridie” Ahern, a Kerry woman and nurse at St. Francis Hospital, whom he married in 1973. In February 1975, they welcomed the birth of Siobhan on the same day they closed on their house on Arundel Avenue in West Hartford where Michael lived for nearly 50 years until his death. And two years later in 1977, Brendan was born, completing the West Hartford Wheeler clan.

Michael soon settled into the familiar routine of suburban life -- family, work, school, church, summer weekends at the beach house at Old Lyme Shores with his brothers and sisters, and the kids’ sports and activities. To unwind from it all, he picked at the banjo and savored his long walks and bike rides through West Hartford. But without complaint, he paid the heavy dues familiar to every dedicated hockey parent – countless hours driving through winter weather to games, and countless more standing frozen in frigid ice rinks, offering his kids his warm, heartfelt support no matter the outcome of the contest.

Most summers, Michael brought Bridie and the kids to Killorglin in County Kerry, Ireland to visit Bridie’s parents and siblings and their children. He embraced the charms of Irish country life, and won the hearts of the extended Ahern clan with his easy manner, “Yank” humor, and endless curiosity about Irish history and culture. He dreamed of building a house outside Killorglin. And from the first appearance of the Internet at his Arundel Avenue home until his death, Michael was a voracious consumer of Irish news, making him as credible a commentator on Irish affairs as could be found on this side of the Atlantic.

Eventually, the seasons of his life changed, the kids graduated into careers on their own, and in 2009 the unthinkable happened: Michael’s bride of 36 years passed. It was at this time, with Brendan married and posted overseas, a father-daughter friendship for the ages grew into its own. Together, Michael and Siobhan traveled the length of New England, attending football games, hiking, picnicking, or just simply seeing the sights. They also traveled overseas to Ireland to attend family weddings or to wherever Brendan was posted at the time, including to Egypt for a thrilling trip up the Nile River and back into the age of the Pharaohs.

In recent years, the consequences of Michael’s declining health tested his soul to its core. But instead of breaking him, the adversities he overcame revealed the bottomless depth of his faith, perseverance, and grace. And it is in celebration of his inspiring example of a full life well lived that we, his family, say farewell to Michael – a son, a brother, a father, a grandfather, a veteran, a friend, and now, a gentle soul taken to Heaven by God for blessed eternity.

Michael is survived by his daughter, Siobhan Wheeler; his son, Brendan Wheeler and his wife, Gina Reynolds-Wheeler and their daughter, Lucy Wheeler; his brother, David Wheeler and his wife, Linda Wheeler; his sister, June McKeon and her husband, Charles Friedman; his brother, Joseph Wheeler and his wife, Patricia Watras; and his sister, Elizabeth Wheeler.

Friends may call at The Ahern Funeral Home, 111 Main St., Rt. 4, Unionville on Wednesday (Feb 21), from 3 – 7 pm. Funeral procession from the Ahern Funeral Home will be Thursday (Feb 22) at 9:15 am followed by the Funeral Liturgy in the Church of St. Peter Claver, 47 Pleasant Street, West Hartford at 10:00 am. Burial with full Naval Honors will follow at Fairview Cemetery, West Hartford.

In remembrance of Michael’s life the family asks that any charitable donations be made to St. Michael’s College. You can make donations directly at https://engage.smcvt.edu/give or by contacting the Office of Institutional Advancement at 888-448-7111 or giving@smcvt.edu.

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Kelly M. LeBel - July 30, 1963 - February 04, 2024

Departed: 02/04/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Kelly M. (Morin) LeBel, 60, of Harwinton, CT, passed away peacefully at her home on Sunday, February 4, surrounded by her loving family. She was the beloved wife of Yves J. LeBel, to whom she was married for 35 years.

Kelly was born on July 30, 1963, in Hartford, CT – the daughter of the late Donald J. and Myrtle E. (Bartlett) Morin of Unionville, CT. Kelly grew up attending Farmington schools, where she excelled in academics and was the Farmington High School Homecoming Queen and captain of the cheerleading squad for two years. She earned a degree at Becker Junior College in Leicester, MA, majoring in Travel and Tourism. After graduating from college, Kelly managed several corporate travel agencies in Hartford for 12 years until she decided to become a full-time, stay at home Mom – a decision that she was proud to say was “the best decision of my life!”

Kelly was at her happiest raising and spending time with her three daughters. It was clear to see that motherhood came easily to Kelly as she was naturally compassionate, caring, understanding and strong.

Family meant everything to Kelly. She was selfless until the very end and her life revolved around taking care of others in their time of need, including her infant niece and her dad in his later years. She had a tremendous heart. Her door was always open and she went out of her way to make everyone feel safe, welcomed and loved in her presence. She was there to listen and lend an ear to anyone who needed advice or a shoulder to cry on – there was no one more trustworthy.

Kelly’s brilliant smile lit up a room and her laughter was infectious. Her inner beauty outshone her natural outer beauty. She was a positive influence on everyone she met and those who knew her well were blessed by her genuine warmth, kindness and subtle humor.

Kelly loved being at home and truly enjoyed putting on her favorite nightgown, robe and slippers to enjoy a night of reality TV shows with her girls on the family room couch. The simple things meant the most to Kelly. She was also an exceptional cook who loved making many of her mom’s old recipes.

Kelly’s love of family and motherhood led her to begin watching little children at her home – something she enjoyed for more than 16 years. She watched 12 children during that time and each one became part of her extended family. All the kids absolutely loved their “Kel-Kel”. Many would come visit and spend time with Kelly even as they got older because they truly loved being around her. Kelly’s hugs and kisses will be missed by all her little ones.

In addition to her husband, Kelly is survived by her three daughters and son-in law, Jordan (LeBel) and Charlie McKeeman of South Norwalk, Taylor LeBel of Harwinton and Lauren LeBel (and boyfriend Matthew Russell) of Harwinton. She is also survived by her three brothers and sisters-in-law: Kevin and Joan Morin of Farmington, Scott and Leslie Morin of West Hartford, Craig and Laurie Morin of Unionville, and sister Stacy Morin of Surprise, Arizona. She leaves behind several aunts and uncles – Gail Macaioni of Anna Maria Island, Florida; Nan Bartlett of Canton; Ann Morin of Kensington; Gisele Morin of Kensington; Eliette Morin of Frenchville, Maine; Irma Morin of Fort Kent, Maine; Gary Bailey of Madawaska, Maine; John and Nancy Daigle of Fort Kent, Maine, and many cousins, nieces and nephews. Kelly also leaves her mother-in-law, Claudette LeBel of Bristol, her brother-in-law, Robert LeBel of Bristol and two sisters-in-law, Christine LeBel of Bristol and Denise Porter and her husband Dennis of Winterport, Maine.

Friends and relatives are invited to call at Saint Mary Star of the Sea Church, 145 Main St. in Unionville, on Friday, February 9 from 4-7 p.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will take place on Saturday, February 10 at 10 a.m. at Saint Mary Star of the Sea Church. Burial will follow at Saint Mary’s Cemetery, 644 Huckleberry Hill, Avon.

Memorial donations in her memory may be made to The American Cancer Society or the Marcus Rogers Foundation.

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Lois A. Collins - July 05, 1930 - February 03, 2024

Departed: 02/03/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Lois A. Collins, 93, of Inverness, FL, passed away on February 3, 2024. She was born in Waterbury, CT, on July 5, 1930, to the late Paul and Rosaline Wollenberg.

She was a graduate of St. Francis School of Nursing and worked as a school nurse at Irving A. Robbins Junior High School. After relocating to Citrus County, FL, she became a member of Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Church in Inverness and was a part of their Helping Hands Food Pantry with her good friend Bob Landini. Lois enjoyed playing golf in her spare time.

Survivors include her daughters, Susan Scheidel, Karen Collins, and MaryRose Collins; two grandchildren, Heidi and Richard Scheidel; and two great grandchildren, Dylan and Cayden Scheidel. The family would like to thank Highland Place Assisted Living and Vitas Hospice for the care of Mrs. Collins. She was preceded in death by her parents, her sister, June Wollenberg and her husband, James D. Collins, who was also her high school sweetheart at Farmington High School.

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Carole J. Bopp - October 08, 1934 - February 02, 2024

Departed: 02/02/2024 (Unionville)

Obituary Preview: Carole J. (Benoit) Bopp went to be with the Lord on February 2, 2024. She was 89. Carole was born in Collinsville, CT and resided most of her adult life in Unionville, CT where she generously opened her home to everyone and rarely said no to a canine in need of a home.

Carole was predeceased by her husband, Robert F. Bopp and 10 of her 15 siblings.

She leaves behind her son, Keith Bopp and his wife Jill, granddaughter Cassie and her husband Andy, grandson Cameron, and great grandson Owen, her siblings Jan, Rich, John, Pat, and George and many nieces and nephews.

The family would like to thank the caregivers and staff at Sheridan Woods and her hospice care team.

A memorial service and celebration of Carole’s life will be held on Saturday, February 17, 2024 at 10:30 am in Faith Bible Church, 168 Unionville Ave., Plainville, CT. Memorial donations in Carole’s name can be made to: Faith Bible Church, 168 Unionville Ave., Plainville, CT 06062.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice of someone's death, typically published in a newspaper or online. It includes biographical details, significant achievements, and information about the funeral or memorial services.

Why is an obituary important?

Obituaries serve as a formal acknowledgment of a person's death, informing the community and allowing friends, acquaintances, and extended family to learn about the loss. They also help preserve the memory of the deceased, celebrating their life and legacy.

Who writes an obituary?

Obituaries can be written by family members, friends, or funeral home staff. Occasionally, if the deceased is a notable figure, a professional writer or journalist may craft the obituary.

What information is typically included in an obituary?

An obituary generally includes the full name of the deceased, age at death, date of birth, date of death, a brief account of their personal life and achievements, details about family members, funeral or memorial service information, and often a mention of a charity for memorial contributions.

How soon after a death is an obituary published?

An obituary is usually published within a week after death, often preceding the funeral or memorial service. This timing ensures that interested parties have information about the service and can make arrangements to attend.

Where are obituaries published?

Obituaries can be published in local newspapers, on various websites dedicated to obituaries, or on the funeral home's website. There are also national newspapers and online platforms that might publish obituaries for individuals of significant prominence.

Is there a cost to publish an obituary?

Many newspapers and online services charge a fee to publish an obituary, which can vary greatly depending on the publication's reach and the length of the obituary. Some online platforms or funeral homes may offer this service for free.

Can anyone submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Generally, funeral homes submit obituaries to newspapers on behalf of families, but individuals can also submit them directly. However, the newspaper might require proof of death and verification from a funeral home.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary, but it commonly ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs. The cost of publication and the amount of information the family wishes to include will often determine the length.

Is it necessary to include cause of death in an obituary?

Including the cause of death in an obituary is not mandatory and is a personal choice. Some families opt to include this information for transparency, while others prefer to keep it private.

What are some common mistakes to avoid when writing an obituary?

Common mistakes include spelling errors, particularly of people's names, incorrect details about the deceased's life, and omitting service information. It's also important to avoid sharing overly personal or sensitive information that the family might not want to make public.

Can obituaries be published online only?

Yes, many families choose to publish obituaries online only, especially as digital announcements become more popular and traditional newspaper readership declines.

What's the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of death, often with minimal detail and lacking a biographical narrative, while an obituary is more comprehensive and typically includes a life story and personal tributes.

How can I personalize an obituary?

To personalize an obituary, include anecdotes, unique traits, hobbies, passions, or sayings the deceased was known for. Mentioning their impact on the community or specific individuals can also add a personal touch.

Is it appropriate to add humor to an obituary?

While most obituaries are written in a solemn tone, adding humor can be appropriate if it reflects the personality of the deceased and is executed with sensitivity and respect for all readers.

Should I mention charitable donations in an obituary?

If the deceased was passionate about a cause or if the family prefers donations to flowers, mentioning a charitable organization or cause for donations can be included in the obituary. Be sure to provide the correct name and contact information for the charity.

Can photographs be included with an obituary?

Yes, photographs can often be included with both print and online obituaries. Some families choose to use a recent photograph, while others use one from a significant time in the deceased's life.

What to do if I find a factual error in an obituary?

If you find a factual error in an obituary, contact the newspaper or website where it was published as soon as possible. They can advise on the process for making corrections.

How does one handle survivors and predeceased family in an obituary?

In the obituary, list surviving family members to honor those left behind, such as a spouse, children, or siblings. You can also mention family members who have predeceased the person to acknowledge past losses within the family.

Are there legal considerations when publishing an obituary?

Legal considerations mainly involve ensuring that the publication of an obituary respects the privacy of survivors and does not release sensitive personal information. It's also advisable to gain consent from immediate family members before publication.

Can an obituary be updated or corrected after publication?

Corrections can usually be made to online obituaries. However, print obituaries cannot be changed once the paper is printed, but a correction or additional information can be published in a subsequent issue, if necessary.