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Leroy Vaughn Brown - November 09, 1953 - November 21, 2023

Departed: 11/21/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Leroy Vaughn Brown.

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Mary Sue Rhodes - July 25, 1957 - November 17, 2023

Departed: 11/17/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Mary Sue Rhodes was born on July 25, 1957 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma to Odell and Edna Vaughn.  She died on November 17, 2023 at her home in Verden, Oklahoma. She married Rynie Rhodes on, April 14, 1978. Mary worked as a cook at Vivian’s Café for 38 years.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Odell and Edna Vaughn and her husband, Rynie Vaughn as well as her five siblings, Claude, Opal, Darlene, John and Richard.

She is survived by her sister, Lisa and nephew Michael of the home, her sisters, Marlene and Annie, nephew Richard Dewayne and many other nieces and nephews. Mary was loved by everyone that knew her and she most of the time loved them back. If you were a child that grew up around Verden, she probably made you a Mickey Mouse or Minnie Mouse pancake breakfast because she absolutely loved kids.  She is going to be missed by so many!!

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Jo Ellen Dunham - September 11, 1934 - November 16, 2023

Departed: 11/16/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Jo Ellen Dunham, 89, a long-time resident of Edmond, Oklahoma, passed away November 16th. Jo was born in South Dakota and had an opportunity to live in

several states during her lifetime. Jo’s career spanned from working as a bookkeeper for the Federal Bureau of

Investigation to working as bookkeeper for various car dealerships. Jo’s love of her family was evident upon entering her home. She proudly

displayed pictures of her son, two grandchildren and five great grandchildren.

She loved hearing stories of their accomplishments. Anyone who knew Jo, knew of her love of all things green. Each year, she spent hours cultivating her and her neighbor’s gardens. One of her favorite pastimes

was walking through the local green houses. Jo was preceded in death by her parents. Wallace and Mae Kratz, her sister Rita

and many uncles, aunts, and cousins. Jo is survived by her son Kevin Williams and his wife, Dianna. Her grandchildren Kimberly Loveridge, her husband, Garrett Loveridge and Michael Williams, his wife, Whitney Williams. Her great grandchildren: Alex Loveridge, Claire

Loveridge, Eli Loveridge, Jackson Williams and Beckham Williams. Each spring as flower beds start to bloom Jo will be remembered fondly by her

family.

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Marcus K Hartman - September 27, 1928 - November 16, 2023

Departed: 11/16/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Marcus K Hartman of Oklahoma City, Ok passed away November 16, 2023 at the age of 95. Mark was a

WWII veteran, serving in United States Marine Corp.

He is preceded in death by his wife, Teddye Hartman and daughter, Patricia Hartman Prince. He is survived by two children, Bill Hartman of Oklahoma City and Janie Hartman Parrott of Newport, NC. He is also survived by three grandchildren, Alicia Latta of California, David Conroy of Texas and Kelly

Urban of North Carolina. Also, survived by eight great grandchildren and one great great grandchild.

A special thanks to Elara Hospice Care for their loving and attentive services.

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Richard Charles Esser - April 15, 1972 - November 14, 2023

Departed: 11/14/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Richard Charles Esser III, better known as Richie, 51, passed away in his home on Tuesday, November 14th, 2023.

Richie was born April 15, 1972 in Oklahoma City to Rick and Janet Esser. He grew up in Bethany, Oklahoma and graduated from Putnam City West High School. Richie worked as a mailroom presorter/manager for Cushman & Wakefield for 20 years.

Richie’s life was torn apart when his father was tragically taken away from him in August of 1986. As a result of this and his self-proclaimed “YOLO” lifestyle, Richie received a liver transplant in September 2019. He felt that this was a rebirth, so to speak, for his life. He changed his lifestyle for the better, reacquainting and marrying the love of his life, Nancy, on June 5, 2021. The two of them enjoyed their short time together when Richie was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer, just 8 months ago. Richie recommitted his faith in the Lord and was baptized.

Richie amassed a tremendous amount of friends and family that have stood by his side throughout all the trials in his life. He will be remembered by them as a funny, kind-hearted, OU football-loving, keyboard-playing, KISS-loving, Godly man.

He was preceded in death by his loving parents Rick and Janet Esser, his grandparents, John, Helen, Dickie, Mary Ellen, Mary Lee, Jean, and Raymond; uncles George and Glen; cousins John and Alan.

He is survived by his wife, Nancy, her two sons, Brody and Max, his mother-in-law, Nonnie; his 3 dogs, Brutus, Penny, and Snoopy; His sister and brother-in-law, Shannon and John Lynch; Niece and Nephew, Vohn and Parker, as well as a host of uncles, aunts, cousins, and countless friends.

A memorial service for Richie will be held on November 25, 2023 at 12:00 PM at Bridging Vines Winery and Brewery, 11216 N Cimarron Rd. Yukon, Oklahoma.

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Ranetta Gail Huston - June 22, 1960 - November 12, 2023

Departed: 11/12/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Ranetta “Gail” Huston June 22, 1960- November 12, 2023 Daughter to Lanetta C. Sanderson and Ernest “Ray” Herring Sister to Renee Jones Mother to Tracy Michelle Albert, Travis Albert[son-in-law], Jesse Ray Huston, Martha Huston[daughter-in-law], Lillian Nicole “(Nikki)” Huston “GiGi”(Grandma Gail)to Sioux-Ellen Raynae Huston, Samantha Carlene Huston, Shannon Michelle Huston, Jesse James “(J.J.)”Huston

She has nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews and many aunts, uncles and cousins.

She had an adventurous life full of many things, a few were her horses, rabbits, koi fish, irises and bringing home flowers to plant. Her first and lasting love was for her horses. Preceded in death by Ernest “Ray” Herring We will have a Celebration of Life Ceremony on Saturday December 2, 2023 at 1:30pm Location is Riverlife Church 910 S. Santa Fe Moore, OK 73160

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Danny George Kidney - July 30, 1949 - November 11, 2023

Departed: 11/11/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Danny George Kidney.

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Daniel Martinez Esparza - July 21, 1972 - November 08, 2023

Departed: 11/08/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Daniel Martinez Esparza.

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Gordon Dale Nichols - May 20, 1942 - November 06, 2023

Departed: 11/06/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Gordon Dale Nichols.

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Levi Dylan Reed - May 13, 1986 - November 05, 2023

Departed: 11/05/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Levi dylan Reed, age 36, resident of Cyril Oklahoma passed away unexpectedly at his home on November 5th 2023. Levi was born in Burley, Idaho, to Barney and Jenny Reed. In the summer of 1993, Levi and his family moved from Ketchum, Idaho to cyril, Oklahoma, this becoming his forever hometown. Levi grew up playing baseball, camping, fishing, riding dirt bikes, and running with his friends. Levi had an amazing artistic ability and drawing soothed him. Levi worked as a farm hand on and off throughout high School, one of Levi's favorite jobs was working at the sale barns. Levi graduated from Cyril high school and attended about 8 months of mechanics at Caddo- Kiowa vo- tech. Levi decided he wanted to try his hand, at cattle farming, purchased about 70 head of longhorn cattle. During his cattle farming days, if Levi was not being chased by his cattle, he, his friends and family spent hours on hours, and all hours of night chasing his cattle. He quickly concluded that cattle farming was not for him. He then choose to concentrate on his one true passion in life, and he became an exceptional Mary Jane home grower. Levi love fishing, hunting, and sitting on his front porch chiefing and visiting with anyone and everyone. OH the stories Levi Dylan could tell, he will definitely have “heaven's audience captivated for sure” with “GHUALL” being his catch word, he would have everyone rolling with laughter. Levi knew no stranger and his friends were or became his family, Levi's love for his native brothers and family was as pure as the WASHITA River. Levi was very proud to claim native ways. Levi's love for his family was beyond honorable, He would brag to anyone that would listen. HE love to spend time with his nieces and nephews, and would do whatever it would take to make sure they were taken care of. When his great nieces

and nephew came along, the light in his eyes was restored. Levi was always excited when he got two babysit them. LEVI was a gentle, kind, AND LOVING SOUL, who loved every person he met. Levi was an amazing father to his fur baby Gigi. Levi loved his mama cat, he treasure his daddy, he loved and missed his baby sister, AND he WAS so very proud and supportive of his big brother, and Levi knew he was and would forever and always be his big sister's cherished, baby brother. Levi is preceded in death by his father Barney Reed. Survivors include, his fur baby Georgia beans, his mother Jenny Reed, Sister Cassie Reed and spouse Jason Smith, Brother Ian Reed, Sister Alie Gibson and husband Derek Gibson, niece Boston Gibson and nephew Jaco, niece Kelsey Reed and husband Matthew Cuksee, great niece Paisley Reed, great niece Zander cuksee, nephew ryker cuksee, niece Keryawn Kight, niece Kameen Reed, nephew Preston sires, nephew Jacoby Toahty and family, and many other friends and family.

God saw you getting tired when a cure was not to be. So he wrapped his arms around you and he whispered “come to me” You didn't deserve what you went through,

so he gave you rest. God's garden must be beautiful, he only takes the best, and when I saw you sleeping, so peacefully and free from pain, I cannot wish you back to suffer,

Through any of that again. Levi dylan we will miss you so much… until we meet again, give Daddy big hugs and promise

to be waiting for us to let us in….. Paisley has something she wants to say….. I love you  Uncle!!

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Joann Contreras Apreciado - November 16, 1965 - November 04, 2023

Departed: 11/04/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Viewing and Visitation with family and friends will be from 12:00 pm Noon until 5:00 pm on Friday, November 10, 2023, at the funeral home.

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Michael Lee Gold - August 31, 1947 - November 02, 2023

Departed: 11/02/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: In Loving Memory of Michael Lee Gold August 31, 1947 - November 2, 2023

Michael Lee Gold (Mike), a beloved history teacher at Putnam City School District, dedicated coach, Husband, Father, and Grandfather, left this world on November 2, 2023, surrounded by the love of his family. He was born on August 31, 1947, in Houston, Texas, to his parents Fred and Betty Gold. Mike’s passion for teaching and coaching led him to an everlasting impact on the lives of countless students and his players. He attended John Brown University, where he developed a love for learning that he shared with his students over his years at Putnam City School District. While attending John Brown, Mike played basketball and baseball where he was soon drafted into the MLB. This however was put aside as he was drafted for the Vietnam War. Thankfully, Mike never had to deploy. On December 22, 1973, Mike married the love of his life, Susan Gayle Phillips. Together, they created a loving home for their children, Michael Ryan Gold and Jamie Lee  Cope. Mike was a devoted father who cherished every moment spent with his family and loved to watch them compete in their respective sports. He was so proud of Ryan and Jamie and all of their accomplishments.

Mike’s legacy lives on through his children and grandchildren, and his brother. Steve Gold, his brother, his wife  Deb, and his children and grandchildren. Ryan Gold, his son, is married to Kari Gold, and they have four children, Kenley, Blaine, Gavin, and Talon. Jamie Cope, his daughter, is married to Josh Cope, and they have three children, Blake and his wife Madison, Jake, and Brynlee. Mike found immense joy in his role as a grandparent and took pride in his grandchildren's achievements and activities. His favorite thing to do was watch his grandchildren play in his back pasture or go across the pond to watch them learn how to play in the outdoors. Mike enjoyed fishing, working on and shooting his guns, and riding his tractor  around his property. Along with these hobbies, Mike also enjoyed leatherwork and woodwork. He created many chests and pieces of furniture for his family that they will have forever in his memory.

Mike was a God-fearing, competitive, funny, kind, and compassionate man whose presence left an impact on all who had the privilege of knowing him. His passion for learning, coaching, fishing, and watching his children and grandchildren grow will be remembered for generations to come. Most importantly, his love for Susan will always be remembered as they created a beautiful life together that their loved ones get to celebrate forever. Mike was greeted at the Gates of Heaven by his parents, Fred and Betty Gold, his Mother, and Father-in-law, Howard Boyd Philips his wife Anna Lee Philips, his brother-in-law Bill Philips, and his grandson Michael Blaine Gold.

Mike’s desire was for a quiet farewell without a formal service. In lieu of a traditional ceremony and floral tributes, the family is kindly requesting contributions to the Pulmonary Fibrosis Foundation. Mike battled the disease for numerous years, and supporting research for a cure in his name would be a meaningful tribute to his enduring spirit. https://fundraise.givesmart.com/vf/PFFTribute/MikeGold (https://fundraise.givesmart.com/vf/PFFTribute/MikeGold)

Please join us in remembering and celebrating the remarkable life of Michael Lee Gold. He will be deeply missed and forever remembered with love and gratitude.

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Linda Gaylen Stiffler - February 01, 1949 - October 30, 2023

Departed: 10/30/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Linda Gaylen Stiffler, 74, of Edmond, Oklahoma passed away Monday October 30, 2023.  Linda was born on February 1, 1949 in Bristow Oklahoma. Linda loved Wood working, photography, going out to eat, and going for walks with her nephew Jacob. She worked for MD Building  Products for 30+ years before taking a medical retirement in 2003.

She is  preceeded in death by Charles R. Stiffler and Alma L Stiffler and bother Michael N Stiffler.  She survived by her brother Harold Mary Stiffler, brother Claude Stiffler, Sister in law Margie and Nephew Josh Stiffler, and brother Darin,Tamara, Jacob Stiffler.

Linda was a sister and a true friend and will be greatly missed by all that knew her.

A memorial service will be held in her honor on November 11th, 2023 from 12:00 PM  to 3:00 PM at 711 N Boulevard, Edmond, Oklahoma, 73034.

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June Lewter - August 26, 1932 - October 25, 2023

Departed: 10/25/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: June Anderson Lewter gained her angel wings on October 25th, 2023, in Oklahoma City, OK. June had recently celebrated her 91st birthday!  On August 26th,1932 June Anderson was born in Pampa Texas to Grant & Flossie Anderson. She would be their only child.  She was talented and adventurous in many aspects of her life. She was a master of sewing, teaching, procrastination, an avid reader, and an amazing caregiver.  When June wasn't reading or sewing on her projects, she could be found volunteering, teaching someone or caring for someone in her family. Not a day went by where June didn't talk about how much her family and friends meant to her family is small but mighty and was arguably her most important achievement in life. June is survived by her son and wife, Robert L. Lewter & DeLanna, her granddaughter and husband Robin L. Haley & Sean and June’s great-grandsons- Conner L. Haley and Ashton C. Haley.  June was preceded in death by her parents, Grant & Flossie Anderson, her husband, Ronald L. Lewter, her daughter Cynthia Ann Lewter-Harrington. June had many cousins and countless friends that she held dear to her heart and enjoyed spending time with over the years. Having been an only child - she spent most of her time around other adults, at her parents' retail clothing and custom boot store - any time she could manage she would go to the library in Pampa.  She spent many hours reading books at the local library in Pampa. She always had multiple books going at once. She loved to be around her cousins and her grandmother-Mama Johnson! She and Ronald married in 1948, then the birth of Cynthia and Robert made their family complete.  The family moved many times around West Texas and endured many road trips making memories together! She was the girl scout leader for Cynthia and the Den-Mom for Robert as they grew up. Later in life, June spent a big portion of her life caring for others, whether it was standing guard in a hospital room to someone who was sick, making soul warming soups, having just the right words - She had a way of knowing what helped someone else feel cared for.  Sometimes she would offer to just come sit with you, not requiring conversation or pleasantries! In Odessa, She and other ladies created an organization Interfaith Community Services that held sewing classes teaching young ladies how to sew - to be able support their families in an economical way. She always wanted to teach anyone who had an interest. At 39 years old she was told by the doctors at MD Anderson in Houston she may not see her 40th birthday, being told that made an impression on her! She enjoyed each year of aging gracefully.  She never took any day for granted. And she would say “Use your “Good” things every day- don't wait for a special occasion - each day IS a special occasion.”  She meant use the China every day, use your good towels every day, eat the chocolate, enjoy the sunrises and the new blooms on a flower- take pride in seeing the little bunnies and squirrels in the yard. And most importantly don't hold grudges.  Say what you mean, when it needs to be said, then move on. She was a dedicated wife and mother- she took pride in her family but after her time as a homemaker, she excelled in the Clothing industry as a Sales Rep.  Spending time traveling and at the Market was a fun time for her.  She was the first woman Rep in the Men’s Western Wear Industry, and she was proud of that! In 1961 as a young adult, she joined Beta Sigma Phi Sorority, this was a major cornerstone of her life.  She volunteered, learned, and leaned on the ladies of her local sorority through all her many seasons!   So much as she achieved one of the highest awards of 60 years of membership.  During that time, she made lifelong friendships, even after moving from Odessa, TX to Oklahoma - Beta Sigma Phi was a constant for June, she was able to find a chapter in Oklahoma City that proved to be just as special as the one she left in Texas. June's life would seem too short to those close to her, but those of us who were blessed to be touched by her understand that her existence and the imprint she left on our hearts exceed the quantity of time that she stayed here.

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Marilyn Jane Piper - July 01, 1953 - October 22, 2023

Departed: 10/22/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Marilyn Piper passed away peacefully on October 22nd, 2023. Marilyn was born first of three children on July 1st, 1953 to Eskell and Reba Chappell in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Marilyn attended U.S. Grant high school in Oklahoma City and graduated in 1971. She had many jobs throughout her life, and lived in many different locations including Redding, California, Coeur d’Alene, Idaho, Durango, Colorado as well as the Oklahoma City metro area. Marilyn was preceded in death by her son Ray Burnett, her husband Tyler Piper, and both her parents. She is survived by her brothers and their families Ray Scott Chappell of Moore, Oklahoma and John Chappell of Oklahoma City, nephews Aaron Chappell and Johnny Chappell. She is also survived by her step-son Travis Piper and wife Sharon, and two grandchildren Thomas and Maylee, who were the light of her life. A memorial service will be held on Tuesday, October 31st at 2:00 pm In the Chapel at Absolute funeral home, 7721 NW 10th street in Oklahoma City. Marilyn had an insatiable zest for life and will be greatly missed. She had countless friendships and was loved by many. Rest in peace Sister.

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Sandra Sheny Gramajo Maldonado - September 22, 1980 - October 22, 2023

Departed: 10/22/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Sandra Gramajo, or as better known to her loved ones, Sheny, born on September 22, 1980, in Sibilia, Quetzaltenango, Guatemala, to parents Solomon Gramajo and Alida Maldonado. Sheny lived in her youth in Guatemala, where she met her husband, Saul. Sheny and Saul decided to move their lives to Oklahoma in search of better opportunities. This is when they had their beloved daughter, Katie. Sheny spent her adult life taking part of several Hispanic associations, putting Guatemala on high. Sheny had a passion for futbol and basketball and dedicated her free time to this sport's. Sheny was a loving wife, mother, and friend. Sheny passed away on October 22, 2023. Although she is gone, she will always remain in our hearts and will live in the legacy she leaves behind. Sandra, Sheny, we love you,  and I know you are in God's hands.

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Melody Ann Haley - January 18, 1969 - October 18, 2023

Departed: 10/18/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Melody Ann Haley, 54, of Ponca City, Oklahoma departed this world  on October 18, 2023 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.  She was born on January 18th,1969 in Newport, Arkansas to Dearl and Shirley Hutchison. Melody was a homemaker and attended Hartford Avenue Church of Christ in Ponca City, Oklahoma.  She was an avid reader, loved to attend church services, and was a lover of all animals. She was preceded in death by her parents and grandparents. She is survived by four sons: Patrick Hutchison, Benjamin Haley, Steve Haley, and James Haley, all of Paragould Arkansas; sister and brother in law Kim and Daren Keeling of Jonesboro, Arkansas;.brother Norman Hutchison of Paragould, Arkansas, and four grandchildren of Paragould, Arkansas. Currently there are no projected service times except to say there will be two seperate memorial services in Oklahoma and Arkansas given by family and friends. Melody will be deeply missed by all who have known her.

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JoAnne Carmelita Davis - July 16, 1945 - October 18, 2023

Departed: 10/18/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Little Italian Momma Joanne Carmelita Rubino Davis

was born July 16, 1945 in Cleveland, Ohio to her parents Mary Santelli Rubino & Carlos Rubino. She was oldest of the 3 sisters. Her youngest sister, Patricia Jachna, resides in Brooklyn, Ohio, and her sister, Dolores Myers, proceeded her in death. She grew up in and around Cleveland, Ohio. In 1965, at 20 years old, she married Curtis Surber and had 3 children, Licia Gray, David Surber, Steven Surber, adopted daughter, Tammy Taylor Evans and daughter in law Carol Surber. She moved to Oklahoma City, Ok in 1971. During her lifetime, she was well known for cooking and making everyone feel welcome and loved. She carried on the family Italian tradition of “no one leaves hungry”. Among many jobs she worked during her life, she made a career as a realtor, in 1979. She opened her own real estate office in 2000. She was still actively working in 2023. She was always referred by clients as the “sweetest and most trustworthy person you would ever meet”. She lived by the highest standards and always put God first. She married Ronald Davis in 1995, and they spent the last 28 years together. They traveled and enjoyed living life. Family was everything to her. She loved all of her grandchildren, Lauren Payne, and husband, Gabe Payne, Jerry Gray III, Brianna Gray and Hunter Gray. She loved that she had great grandchildren, Kailyn Summer Gray, Scarlet Payne, Violet Payne and Ruby Payne. She always kept in contact with her nieces, nephews and distant family members, making sure they all knew she loved them. She enjoyed celebrating birthday parties and family gatherings. She just glowed when she was around the ones she loved, and everyone loved her famous cheesecake. She always had so much energy, she went to the gym daily and dancing on weekends. She never met a stranger and everyone she met received a hug. She always had something positive to say and always with a smile. If you ever met the classy 5’ lil Italian lady, you’ll never forget her. Her sweet legacy will carry on, in all the hearts that cherished her. Looking forward to the promise of eternity, for there is never enough time to love the ones you love.

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Shelly Mae Spink - April 08, 1959 - October 17, 2023

Departed: 10/17/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Shelly Mae Spink, 64 left her earthly home for her eternal home on October 17, 2023. Shelly was born April 8, 1959, in Sterling, Illinois. Shelly was the second oldest of four children.  Shelly lived in Illinois until 1989 when she moved to Norman, Oklahoma where she resided until her passing.  Shelly was a homemaker for several years before returning to school to study nursing. Shelly became a Registered Nurse and spent over 20 years working at Norman Regional Hospital until her retirement in 2021. Shelly made an impact on every patient she took care of. Shelly loved gardening, wine, traveling, the beach and spending time with family and friends. Shelly was known for her big smile, spontaneity and love for all things chili pepper, cactus, and Santa Fe style. Shelly is survived by daughter Michelle Britz, Michelle’s wife Alex Britz, grandson Cullen Whittington; daughter Angie Shimon; daughter Sacha Reagan, grandson Brayden Reagan; older sister Bonnie Bopes-Bertolozzi, younger brother Barry Bopes, youngest brother Scott Bopes, numerous family members, and her best friends. Shelly is preceded in death by her parents Clair Bopes and Roberta Near.

Shelly’s Celebration of Life will be held on November 14, 2023, 3:00 p.m. at Put A Cork In It Winery located at 115 E California Ave, Suite 103, OKC, OK 73104.

Attire: Please wear anything floral and colorful as Shelly loved flowers and bright colors.

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Richard Todd Reynolds - November 03, 1966 - October 16, 2023

Departed: 10/16/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Richard Todd Reynolds was born to William and Vera Nadine Reynolds on November 3, 1966 in Norwalk, Connecticut. His parents named him after the legendary figure skater Richard (Dick) Button but everyone called him Todd and the name became synonymous with his life and skating career.  His family moved to Spring, Texas and Todd started on his road to become a U.S. Olympian after much hard-work and dedication.   Todd became a three-time US Figure Skating Gold Medalist in Figures, Free Style, and Pairs.  He was one of a few single skaters of his era competitively to land a Triple Axel (and in combination).  He went on to have his most success in Pair Skating with Karen Courtland.  As a team, Courtland and Reynolds represented the United States at the 1994 Winter Olympics and World Championships.  They also won the Gold Medal in Olympic Sports Festival, and are two-time US Bronze Medalists in the US National Pairs Figure Skating Championships.  Courtland and Reynolds also captured medals in the now Grand Prix Events - Skate America, Trophee Lalique (Paris, France), and medaled at the Pro-Am Championships.   Todd met and married Angela Nolan in 2018, and was loved by all of her family. He passed away after a fatal heart attack and went to be His Lord and Saviour on October 15th, 2023.  Todd lived a full life in his short 56 years, and will be missed dearly.  He is survived by his wife, Angela and step daughter Katrina Hodges. Todd was known as a kind and considerate gentleman, and was loved by ice skaters worldwide.  Angela has received hundreds of condolences from the Ice Skating World, which only shows the kind of personality that Todd had with his smiling blue eyes and happy to help demeanor.

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Masie Lee Holmes - August 13, 1949 - October 14, 2023

Departed: 10/14/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Masie Lee Holmes, 74, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, passed away at her home with her

loved ones by her side, Saturday, October 14, 2023. Masie was born on August 13, 1949 in Tamo, Arkansas, the daughter of Ollie Mae Holmes and Maso Holmes. She moved to Topeka, Kansas in 1956 with her family where she lived on and off much of her life. She received her education in Topeka and

graduated from Lincoln College where she obtained her degree in Administration. Masie started working at the Kansas Neurological Institute (K.N.I.) as a young woman, and spent most of her working life in Social work and Customer Service. Having spent 17 years working for the Internal Revenue Service (I.R.S.) and later AARP for several years, before moving on to the Virginia Historical Society, and retiring due to her

health.

Masie loved to travel, listen to music and dance. Masie is survived by two children: Jerome Lloyd Holmes and Shameika Holmes, both of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma; three grandchildren: Brittany Kirkcomb, Jamiah L. Holmes and Ava Holmes; brothers and sisters: Ollie Holmes, David Holmes, Jeffrey White, Quinton White, Ledell White, Jr., Rosie Mae Nix, Tonya Sullivan; a host of nieces,

nephews, cousins, other relatives and friends. Masie was preceded in death by her mother, father, sister Vernon Jean Jackson and

one grandchild, Romieshon.

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Vickie Lynn Young - August 02, 1953 - October 10, 2023

Departed: 10/10/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Vickie Lynn Young, most know as Nana, 70, of Mustang, Oklahoma, passed from this Earth on Tuesday October 10, 2023. She was born to Lawrence Coley and Delores Coley on August 2, 1953, in Oklahoma City, Ok. She is survived by her father, Lawrence Coley; her sister Robin Coley; her son Toby Young; her daughters Tiffany Taylor and Regan Sandefur; and numerous nieces, nephews, great grand babies and grand babies. Those grand babies were her whole world. Vickie loved spending time with friends and family, loved to travel and see the ocean, and was obsessed with online shopping and knew the delivery drivers by name. She will be greatly missed! A service to remember Vickie will be held at: 11:00 am Monday, October 16th, 2023 at Life.Church Mustang, 1052 E. State Hwy 152, Mustang, Oklahoma 73064.

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Kathy Ann Timberman - May 24, 1953 - October 09, 2023

Departed: 10/09/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Kathy Ann Timberman (Brown)

Kathy Ann Timberman, 70, of Yukon, Oklahoma, passed away on October 9, 2023. Born on May 24, 1953, in Oklahoma City, OK, Kathy was a mother, grandmother, aunt, sister, and friend.

For much of her life, Kathy enjoyed making people laugh. She had a passion for writing poetry and short stories, and her creativity shone through her words. Christmas was her favorite holiday, and she cherished the warmth it brought.

Kathy dedicated many years to federal service with the FAA in radar maintenance. Throughout her career, she utilized her excellent verbal and writing skills in every position she held.

Kathy is survived by her daughter, Gena Timberman, her son, Andrew Timberman, and his wife, Brooke Timberman, as well as her granddaughter, Andi Timberman. She is also survived by her sisters, Carla Killman and Nancy Wallis, and brother-in-law Donald Wallis. Kathy leaves behind many nieces, nephews, and extended family members who will cherish her memory.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Geneva and James Eugene Brown of Yanush, and her brother-in-law Paul Killman of Oklahoma City.

Kathy attended Capitol Hill High School and later pursued her higher education at Oklahoma City Community College.

In honor of Kathy's memory, contributions can be made to The Oklahoma Humane Society or the Oklahoma Museums Association.

Kathy will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her. Her warm smile and her witty sense of humor will forever be remembered. May she rest in peace.

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Nancy Jo Lauder - October 28, 1940 - October 09, 2023

Departed: 10/09/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: On October 9, 2023, Nancy Jo Lauder went home to be with Jesus. Nancy passed away peacefully with her husband Chuck and their close friend Evelyn Hopper by her side.

Nancy was born on October 28, 1940 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.

Nancy was preceded in death by her Father Gene Bolls, her Mother Joyce Downing, and her Step-Father Roland Downing.

Nancy attended Classen High School, Oklahoma City. She was also a graduate of Draughon's Business College in El Paso, Texas.

Nancy was employed by the State of Oklahoma at the OU Medical Center as the Supervisor of the Secretarial Department until her retirement. After her retirement from the State of Oklahoma she became a Medical Transcriptionist for multiple years finally quitting in 2013 due to medical issues. Nancy is survived by her Husband Chuck Lauder, who she married in 1997; Daughter Susan Valentine Vaughn, her Husband Tom Vaughn and a Grandson Jason Smart; Daughter Terrie (Lefebvre) Steele, Grand Daughter Jamie Aldrett, Great-Grand Son Isaiah, Great-Grand Daughter Isabella; Grand Son Anthony Collins, Great-Grandson Tyson; Grand Daughter Tasha Hope, Great-Grand Daughter Aliyah, Great- Grandson Brayden, and Great-Granddaughter Camille;

Son Ron Drumeller, his wife Marleen, Grand Daughter Malia, and Granddaughter Olivia; Son Robert Drumeller, his wife Tiara, and Grandson Shawn; Daughter Jody Gibson, her husband Wil Gibson, Grand Daughter Emily., and Grandson Jordan; Daughter Julie Benefiel, her husband Rhett, Grand Son Mitchell, his wife Annie, and Grand Daughter Kayla, and her husband Isaac; Step-Daughter Charlotte Coolidge, and Grand Daughter Tiffany; Step-Son Charles, his wife Nicky, Grand-Son Julian, and Grand Daughter Camille;, Step-Daughter Michelle Lauder, Grand Son Sam Patrick, and Granddaughter Diora; Step Son Don, and his Wife Joann.

Half Brother Larry Bolls, Half Sister Jan Webber, Brother In Law Mel Coats, Sister In Law Debbie Sandoval, and Sister in Law Libi Smith.

Nancy has been a Member of Church on the Rock since 1992. She taught in Children's Church, worked on the soundboard in the sanctuary, and spent time as a greeter and an usher. She enjoyed her work immensely at the church. Nancy was such a sweet spirit, a very giving heart. She is missed by one and all. Nancy's Memorial Service will be October 30, 2023 at 11:00 AM Church on the Rock, 1780 W. Memorial Rd, Oklahoma City, OK 73134 Phone 405 GOD-4900

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Melvin Keith Schemm - July 16, 1937 - October 08, 2023

Departed: 10/08/2023 (Oklahoma City)

Obituary Preview: Melvin K. Schemm, 86, of Edmond, Oklahoma Born in rural Wallace County, Kansas, July 16, 1937 Died at Mercy Comfort Care, Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, October 8, 2023

Melvin graduated high school in 1955, and attended Bethany College, Lindsborg, KS 1955-1958.

He married Caroline K. Johnson, April 24, 1960, in Lindsborg, KS.

Melvin is survived by his loving wife of 63 years, Caroline Kay (Johnson) Schemm; three children: Mark A. Schemm, Jerry D. (Gail) Schemm, and Sonja R. (Michael) Cutright; eight grandchildren:  Kaylea (Josh) Bushyhead, K.C. Schemm, Tyler Cutright, Carlice Cutright, Ethan Schemm, Carey Schroeder, Jill Schroeder, and Jared (Priya) Schroeder; six great grandchildren:  Jaxson, Declan, Anthony, Gabriella, Chaaya, and Sahana; two brothers, Dean Schemm and Ronald (Barbara) Schemm; sister-in-law Dixie (Chain) Schemm; and many nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Herman Fredrick “Fritz” and Maria Magdalena “Lena” (Deines) Schemm; infant brother, Donald; brother, Vernon Schemm; sister-in-law, Mildred (Olson) Schemm; nephew Kenneth Schemm; great nephew, Luke Schemm; daughter-in-law, Monica (Keister) Schemm.

Melvin was a farmer and Grade A dairyman in western Kansas for many years.  He helped build farming terraces in Wallace County, KS and Muleshoe, TX with high school friend Bruce Walker.  He served as a board member of Farm Bureau, and served as a President of Wallace County Wheat Growers Association.

Melvin was a former member of Sharon Springs Lutheran Church.  He participated in reenactments with the Ft. Wallace 7th Cavalry Unit.  He was a Model Airplane Club member for several years with close friends from Sherman, Cheyenne, and Wallace Counties, KS.  He was a skilled woodworking craftsman.

After their farm was sold in 1991, Melvin and Kay began traveling full time in their R.V. and he worked for the Holiday Rambler R.V. Club as a service technician on many caravan trips across the North American continent.  Later, they worked for Laborers for Christ through the Lutheran Church Missouri Synod with projects at St. John Lutheran Church in Genesco, IL; Hope Lutheran Church in Santa Rosa Beach, FL; a housing project in St. Louis, MO; and Zion Lutheran Church in Manning, IA.

They settled in Edmond, OK in 2016 and became members at Holy Trinity Lutheran Church in Edmond.

A memorial service will be held at a later date.  Memorial donations should be made to the American Diabetes Association. www.diabetes.org

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice of a person's death, often published in a newspaper or online. It typically includes a brief account of the deceased person's life, information about the funeral or memorial services, and the names of surviving family members.

Why do we write obituaries?

Obituaries are written to inform the community of a person's passing and to celebrate their life. They serve as a historical record and provide closure for friends and family. Additionally, obituaries help to notify distant relatives, friends, and the deceased person’s acquaintances who might not be reached otherwise.

Who can write an obituary?

Anyone close to the deceased, such as a family member or a close friend, can write an obituary. In some cases, individuals may write their obituaries in advance as part of their estate planning.

What are the key components of an obituary?

An obituary generally includes the deceased's full name, age, place of residence, date of death, cause of death (optional), a brief overview of their life and achievements, information about the funeral or memorial service, and a list of surviving family members.

How do I start writing an obituary?

Start by collecting the factual information such as the full name of the deceased, dates of birth and death, and details about the funeral services. Outline the key points you want to address, such as their life, legacy, and loved ones, then begin writing in a respectful and honorable tone.

What length should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary, but often it ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs. The length may be influenced by the publication's guidelines or space limitations, the life of the deceased, and costs associated with longer obituaries, especially in print.

Can an obituary be published online?

Yes, many obituaries are now published online on various platforms, including newspaper websites, memorial sites, and social media. Online obituaries can be more detailed and less restricted by space constraints than print obituaries.

Is it necessary to mention the cause of death in an obituary?

Mentioning the cause of death is a personal decision and is not required. Some families prefer to include this information, especially if the deceased was a public figure or the death was sudden. Others may choose to keep this information private.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost to publish an obituary can vary widely depending on the publication and the length of the obituary. Newspapers often charge by the line, column inch, or word count. Online publications may have different pricing structures, including some free options.

What are the common styles of obituaries?

Common styles of obituaries include the traditional format, which focuses on the deceased's biography and family; the life story format, which emphasizes personal anecdotes and memories; and the modern format, which may be less formal and include unique details or photos.

Can I include personal anecdotes or stories in an obituary?

Absolutely. Personal anecdotes or memories can add depth to an obituary and celebrate the uniqueness of the deceased. However, it is important to choose stories that are both meaningful and appropriate for the public nature of an obituary.

Should an obituary include information about donations or memorial contributions?

If the family prefers donations to flowers or wants to direct contributions to a specific charity, this information can be included in the obituary. It's a way to honor the deceased's memory and support causes they cared about.

How can I ensure the accuracy of the information in an obituary?

Double-check all facts, including the spelling of names, dates, and locations. It can be helpful to have another family member or someone who knew the deceased well review the obituary for accuracy before publication.

Is there a difference between an obituary and a death notice?

Yes, there is a difference. A death notice is a brief announcement of death that may list funeral service details, which is often paid for by the family. An obituary is more detailed and comprehensive, often including a biography and personal reflections.

Can I update an obituary after it has been published?

In print publications, an obituary cannot usually be updated once published. However, online obituaries may offer the flexibility to edit or add information after initial publication.

Are there any legal requirements when writing an obituary?

While there are no specific legal requirements for writing an obituary, it is important to be truthful and respect the privacy of the deceased and their family. Avoid including sensitive personal information that could lead to identity theft or other issues.

What should be done if a key fact in the obituary is incorrect?

If a key fact is incorrect, contact the publication as soon as possible to request a correction. For online obituaries, you may be able to make the correction directly or reach out to the website administrator.

How can I handle negative aspects of the deceased's life in the obituary?

An obituary should honor the deceased. While it is not necessary to omit all negative aspects, focus on recounting the positive contributions and legacy of the individual. It is common practice to handle sensitive topics with discretion and respect in obituaries.

Is it appropriate to include humor in an obituary?

If it reflects the personality of the deceased and is in good taste, a touch of humor can be appropriate. However, it is essential to consider the feelings of all who will read the obituary and maintain the respect and dignity of the occasion.

How soon after death should an obituary be published?

An obituary is typically published as soon as possible after death, often within a few days. This allows enough time for people to be notified and make arrangements to attend any services. However, there is no set rule, and the timing may vary based on circumstances.

Should children and grandchildren be listed by name in an obituary?

It is a personal choice whether to list children and grandchildren by name in an obituary. Some families prefer to name all members, while others choose to list just the number of descendants. Consider space limitations and privacy concerns when making this decision.