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Eddie Lee Lambert - May 05, 1951 - May 12, 2024

Departed: 05/12/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: EDDIE LEE LAMBERTMay 5th, 1951 - May 12th, 2024No service is planned.

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Oleta Mabel Hoopengarner - December 16, 1923 - May 08, 2024

Departed: 05/08/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: OLETA MABEL HOOPENGARNERBorn December 16th, 1923 and died May 8th, 2024.She was married to John Hoopengarner who proceededher in death. She had two children Carol Crowson whoproceeded her in death and Darrell Buttress. She also hadone stepdaughter Jannetta Stonebreak. Her grandchildrenare Bryan Buttress, Chris Crowson and Annetta Obermark,She has ten great grandchildren. She was also known asAunt Dink and Nanny.She was a caregiver. She was also an expert chickencooker, crappie fryer and cherry cobbler maker.She was a faithful Christian.

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Charles R Goff - March 06, 1965 - May 06, 2024

Departed: 05/06/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: CHARLES R. GOFFMarch 6th, 1965 - May 6th, 2024No service is planned.

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Joyce Ann Wakefield - March 07, 1936 - May 06, 2024

Departed: 05/06/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: JOYCE ANN WAKEFIELDMarch 7th, 1936 - May 6th, 2024

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Barbara Carole Loud - October 26, 1960 - May 05, 2024

Departed: 05/05/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: Barbara C Huffman Loud, 63, born October 26, 1960 passed from this life on May 5, 2024. Barbara was preceded in death by her mother, Dixie C Inhofe Huffman and grandson Hank Roe. She is survived by husband George "Jody" W Loud III of the home, daughters Stephanie Richards and husband Daniel "Danny" of Sapulpa, And Shelby Honn and husband Seth of Sapulpa. Father, Wm R Huffman of Tulsa, sister Cynthia "Cindy" Alexander of Tulsa, brother Wm D Huffman of Tulsa. Grandsons Dakota Richards and Chase Roe both of Sapulpa. Granddaughters Paisley Roe and Charlotte Honn, both of Sapulpa. Numerous nieces, nephews and cousins.

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Armand Luis Lardizabal - January 20, 1950 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: Armand Luis Lardizabal, age 74, passed away peacefully on Friday, May 3, 2024, at Clarehouse in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He was born on January 20, 1950, in Los Angeles, California, to Armando Jesus Lardizabal and Margaret (Herrera) Lardizabal. Armand graduated from Junipero Armand Luis Lardizabal Highschool in 1968 and El Camino College in 1970. He moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma, in 1980. Armand worked for the United States Postal Service for 42 years before retiring in 2014. He was a faithful member of the National Association of Letter Carriers until his passing.Armand was a husband, loving dad, Papa, brother, uncle and friend to many. He enjoyed a pleasant childhood in Southern California with his parents, sisters and brother along with many extended family members and friends. Armand had a wonderful sense of humor and child-like nature. He sometimes had a reserved and quiet demeanor, but you knew Armand liked and viewed you as a friend when he would tease and joke around with you. Armand was a big college basketball and college football fan. He was a huge USC (University of Southern California) fan and absolutely loved to mercilessly tease his friends and co-workers who were OU (University of Oklahoma) fans during the college football season. Armand proudly wore his USC Trojan gear, too. He loved every moment of being a girl dad and was one of the absolute best. Whether it was baking oatmeal chocolate chip cookies, putting sponge rollers in his daughters' hair, attending numerous dance concerts or cheerleading events, Armand was an incredible hands-on dad to his daughters, Toni and Kasey. Armand will be sincerely missed. Armand is preceded in death by: His mother and father, Armando Jesus Lardizabal and Margaret (Herrera) Lardizabal. Armand is survived by: His wife of 17 years, (together for 27 years} Deborah Lardizabal; his two loving daughters, Toni Jo Keltner (Andrew) and Kasey Leigh Smith (Corbin) ;Chris Rea (Stephanie): Armand's grandchildren: Michael Keltner, Samuel Keltner, Madison Keltner, Presley Smith and Sheridan Smith; Trenton Rea, Cortlyn Rea, Makenzie Rea, Blaine Phillips, Gage Phillips, Kaley Phillips, and Zach Counts brother: Robert Lardizabal (Margaret); sisters, Margie Monteros and Gloria Lardizabal; nephews, Christopher Monteros, Damon Monteros and Matthew VanDewater; niece, Kara Acuna; and many other family members who loved Armand.Family and friends are invited to attend the visitation on Monday, May 13, 2024, from 9am - 5pm at Mark Griffith Funeral Home located at 4424 S. 33rd W. Avenue in Tulsa.Family and friends are also invited to attend the funeral on Tuesday, May 14, 2024, at 11am at First Methodist Church Broken Arrow located at 112 E. College Street in Broken Arrow. The burial will follow at Memorial Park Cemetery located at 5111 S. Memorial Drive in Tulsa. The family would like to encourage those who attend the funeral to wear USC Trojans colors (Cardinal Red and Gold) or USC apparel.

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John Arthur Engle - February 02, 1947 - May 02, 2024

Departed: 05/02/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: JOHN ARTHUR ENGLEFebruary 2nd, 1947 - May 2nd, 2024No service is planned at this time.

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Mary Jane Gann - August 11, 1946 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: Mary Jane James,Gann, Born 8 -11-1946, Tulsa , Oklahoma, It is with great sadness ,Mary passed away April 26th,2024 . Family members Sister,Bonnie and Niece,Deana was at her bedside. Mary is predeceased by parents , Dad ,Jack James, Mother, Gladine James, Williams, Son Gerald Wayne Bronson, Daughter, Tammy Michelle Bronson, Ingram, She is survived by 2 Sisters Bonnie Wolfe,Sandra Deason, Brother In-law Buel Deason, Son John Headrick, Daughter In-law Hannah Headrick, 2 grandson's , Mathew Headrick, Randy Ingram, granddaughter's ,Lacy Jane, Jill Headrick, 2 nieces, Shelly Gram, Deana Jackson, great grandkids ,numerous, nephews, nieces ,and cousins, Mary is in the arms of Angels,she will be missed by family and friends.

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Salvador Vargas Urbieta - February 28, 1943 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: Sr. Salvador "Don Chava" Urbieta-Vargas, son of the late Celso and Paula Urbieta, was born February 28, 1943 in Cuida de Manuel Doblado, Guanajuato. At the age of 18 he proudly served in the Mexican military for 2 years. Salvador married his wife Santa Flores in 1976, in Fresno, California where they lived for 5 years. Together, they raised a family and worked hard to support one another. Once they relocated to Tulsa, OK in 1992, Salvador worked in various jobs before retiring from the University of Tulsa where he was loved and greatly appreciated. Salvador grew up in a Catholic household and professed his religion until the Lord called him home. Salvador loved to fish, sing, garden, gather with family, travel and tell jokes. Fishing was something he enjoyed doing with his wife and grandkids every chance he could. Our family always counted on him to sing at every birthday, and he was always ready! He was a very proud gardener, he loved to share his crop with all his family. He came everywhere prepared with a good story or two always ending in the best joke. Gathering with family was his best thing. He was so proud to have such a big family and always wanted to know what each and everyone of his grandkids were up to in life. He had an amazing way of making you feel like you were the only person in the room. If you were talking to him, you had his undivided attention. Salvador will be remembered as a proud and humble family man. His memory will live on in our hearts forever. As a family, we will stay united and keep his traditions alive. We are happy he has reunited with his wife.Salvador is preceded in death by his wife Santa F. Urbieta. He is survived by his siblings- M. Guadalupe Urbieta, Margarita Urbieta, Elarion Urbieta, Alfredo Urbieta and Maria de la Luz Rodriguez. Step Children- Amaris Strait, Cyrus Galvan, Teresa Lopez, Ramon Galvan and Matilde Garcia. 21 grandchildren, 48 great grandchildren and 8 great- great grandchildren. Uncle- Margarito Vargas. Nephews Rigoberto Urbieta, Bartolo Urbieta, Aval Urbieta, Juan Carlos Urbieta, Alfredo Urbieta Jr., Alfredo Zavala, Isidro Urbieta. Numerous nieces- Norma Zavala Urbieta, Beatriz Urbieta, Maria Del Consuelo Rodriguez. Numerous cousins- Jesus Figueroa, Jose E. Vargas Zaragoza, Hector Vargas, Felipe Vargas, Miguel Figueroa, Miguel Urbieta. Numerous close friends Honario Flores, Raul Michele, Jose Figueroa and family and many more family members and good friends that he kept in contact with. Salvador Urbieta will be laid to rest beside his wife at Woodland Memorial Park Cemetery 1200 N Cleveland, Sand Springs Oklahoma.The Family would like to give a Special Thanks to Mark Griffith Funeral home staff for taking care of our parents. Pastor David Narodowski always being present with support and love, Granddaughter Susanna England, Antonio and Veronica Figueroa, Maria Trujillo, Sabrina Thomas, Trinidad and Tiffany and many others that helped make this day special for our dad. Prayer- Lord, my God and my loving Father, you have made me to know you, to love you, to serve you, and thereby to find and to fulfill my deepest longings. I know that you are in all things, and that every path can lead me to you

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Randy Lawrence Pierce - April 17, 1957 - April 22, 2024

Departed: 04/22/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: Randy Lawrence Pierce (1957-2024)Randy Lawrence Pierce, affectionately known as "Pepaw," of Bristow, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully on Monday, April 22, 2024, after a short battle with Leukemia. He was 67 years old.Born in Lincoln, Nebraska, on April 17, 1957, Randy was the son of Earl Floyd and Barbara Jean Pierce. He attended Nathan Hale High School and later pursued college courses. His career in the oil and gas industry began with Dresser Rand, and for the last 23 years, he worked with SCFM Compression Systems.In his youth, Randy was passionate about sprint car racing. Even after hanging up his racing gloves, he remained a fixture at the racetrack, sharing his love for the sport with others. Despite his attempts to conceal it, Randy had a soft spot for animals, always carrying dog treats wherever he went, a silent testament to his affection for furry companions.A man of quiet emotions, he had a heart full of love and devotion to his family and friends. His unwavering honesty, bluntness, selflessness, and calm demeanor made him a unique, cherished man. His affection and good deeds for those around him will live on through memories and the love he shared with all. Driven by work and family, Randy was a problem solver and goal setter. Whether it was a work project, a race car in the garage, or fulfilling his kids' and grandkids' needs, he approached everything with determination. His curiosity led him to explore the ins and outs of various subjects, and he was an attentive listener.One of Randy's favorite sayings was, "If you don't have control of it, let it go." Despite its challenging implications, this advice consistently proved effective because of Randy's wisdom.Randy was preceded in death by his parents and his beloved wife, Pam, as well as stepdaughter Stephanie. He is survived by his brother Tim and his wife Kelly of Glenpool, sister Debbie and her husband Bob of Glenpool, daughter Kendra and her husband Tim of Bristow, son Tony and his wife Tabitha of Okmulgee, and Stepson Chad and wife Heather of Coweta. His legacy lives on through his grandchildren: Justin, Kelsie, Zakary, Melanie, Tyler K., Rylie, Mallory, Ariel, Sofia, Matthew, Dylan, Tyler and Hayden.

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Grace Margaret Cates - May 19, 1938 - April 20, 2024

Departed: 04/20/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: GRACE EVELYN CATESMay 19th, 1938 at Clarehouse Tulsa, Ok under hospice care.Born May 19, 1938 to Dwight Hays Rusco and Ruth Alma(Kincaid) Rusco in Stillwater, OK.Preceded in death by mother, father, husband GilbertCates, sister Edith, brothers Clifford and Jerry.Survived by sister Alice of Grand Slaine, Tx, brother Earl of Decatur Illinois and many other nieces, nephews and friends.Grace was a devoted wife and (caregiver to many familieschildren over many years). Never a mom herself but helpedto raise children as if they were her own.She had two good friends Roxy Pope and Beth AnnGreenwood she helped take care of.when they needed her.Masny thanks to the community of Mannford whostepped up and helped Grace whenshe needed it.Please make any donations in honor of Grace Catesto Clarehouse in Tulsa, OK.

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Elizabeth Evelyn Reade - November 09, 1928 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: ELIZABETH EVELYN READENovember 9th, 1928 - April 19th, 2024

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Arthur Royce Maimbourg - August 10, 1930 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: ARTHUR ROYCE MAIMBOURGAugust 10th, 1930 - April 17th, 2024No service is planned.

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Arvil Eugene Hurst - July 29, 1959 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: ARVIL EUGENE HURSTJuly 29th, 1959 - April 12th, 2024Service is pending.

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Murray Allen Whitsett - March 18, 1945 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Murray Allen Whitsett.

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Erik Nels Jacobson - August 14, 1969 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: ERIK NELS JACOBSONAugust 14th, 1969 - April 11th, 2024No service is planned.

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Beatrice Ida Dacus - September 19, 1943 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: Beatrice Ida "Sunday" Dacus, of Sand Springs, Oklahoma, went to heaven on Wednesday, April 10, 2024. She was born September 19, 1943 in Camden, NJ to James Joseph Bachman Sr. and Dorothy Beatrice Bachman (nee Moore).She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, James Lawrence Dacus Sr., her parents James and Dorothy, her brother James Joseph Bachman Jr. and grandchild Steven Cody Songer. Sunday is survived by children James Dacus Jr. and wife Stephanie, with children Brittney Williams and husband Bobbie, Trey, and John; Lois Rachelle Thurber and husband Brent, with children Kennedy and Delaney; John Dacus and wife Tammy, with daughter Ashley Songer; and Amy Dacus with daughter Abagail Dry. She also has 3 great-grandchildren, Bradley, Bailee, and Ezekiel.Sunday most recently attended The Stronghold Church in Sand Springs. She spent her life in ministry, beginning at Teen Challenge in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, and continuing in various churches after moving to Oklahoma in 1974.Sunday enjoyed every moment spent with family, and spent her time in prayer and worship and interceding on the behalf of others. She loved everyone she met, and would send messages of encouragement to family and friends on a daily basis. A memorial service will be held Friday, April 19th 2024 at 2:00PM, at Hillspring Church, 8801 W 41 st Street South, Sand Springs, Oklahoma 74063.

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Brett Reid Peterson - August 17, 1984 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: BRETT REID PETERSONAugust 17th, 1984 - April 10th, 2024

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Thomas Edward Nelson - February 09, 1985 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Edward NelsonFebruary 9, 1985 - April 7, 2024Thomas Nelson was relieved of his long suffering on April 7, 2024. Thomas was born in Tulsa, Oklahoma on February 9, 1985 to Julie (Turner) Nelson and Larry Nelson. Thomas was mostly raised by Julie and her second husband, Curtis Brown. Thomas always regarded Curtis as his father, never referring to him as a stepfather. Thomas attended St. Pius X School, and then Nathan Hale High School, from where he graduated in 2003. He then attended Southwestern College, in Winfield, Kansas, where he earned a double major in Theater and World History. Immediately after college, Thomas worked at Hilti North America as a Logistics Analyst in Tulsa. From there, he worked as an analyst at McElroy and then TDW in Tulsa, and then took a Sr. Analyst position with Murphy USA, in El Dorado, AR. Thomas was a loving son, brother, uncle, cousin, nephew, dog dad, and friend. Thomas was an awesome cook. He was always a big fan of the Food Network. One of Thomas' most enjoyable pastimes was online shopping, and his generosity for his family knew no bounds. Thomas is survived by his parents, Julie Nelson and Curtis Brown; his grandfather, Bob Turner, great aunt, Nancy Turner; uncles, Jeffrey Turner, (Patricia) and Jim Turner; cousins, Chloe and Jack; nieces, Kimmy and Kylie Nelson; nephew, Kaleb Nelson; stepsister, Jennifer Brown Brady, and her children, Kane, (Laney and Brylie) Kilian, Kamden, and Kayson Brady, and Bailey Kent; cousins Deidra Duncan, (Olen, Gemma and Ethan) of Florida, Ali Bejarano, (Alan and Sabrina) of Tulsa, and multiple uncles, aunts and cousins of Wisconsin. Thomas was preceded in death by his grandmother, Mary Ann Turner; uncles, Chris Turner (Pamela) and J. David Turner; aunt, Cherrie Turner; sister, Stephanie Nelson; brother, Jon Nelson.

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Staijeck Mark Helm - July 26, 2000 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: STAIJECK "STICKY" MARK HELM, IIJuly 26th, 2000 - April 6th, 2024The most important thing in Staijeck's life were his kids, he loved to skateboard and play video games. He left his kids way to soon Lilith lynn Helm and Kai Anthony Helm. Now he will be with his father Staijeck Helm, I, his grandmother Jayne Schrimsher Until we meet again sticky

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Donald Gene Brown - May 26, 1936 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: DONALD "GENE" BROWNMay 26th, 1936 - April 4th, 2024

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Stephen Gil Denny - May 22, 1954 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: STEPHEN GIL DENNYMay 22nd, 1954 - April 4th, 2024

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Dayton William Brock - October 01, 1983 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: Dayton William Brock passed on April 2, 2024 at the age of 40. He was born October 1, 1983 to Larry and Dorey Brock. He was a graduate of Jenks High School in 2002. He enjoyed playing guitar and hanging out with friends and family. He was especially close to his brother Jason and his Nana, who just passed away in February at the age of 98.His dad always remarked that he was "Mr. Lucky" when he was a kid. If at a driller's game his ticket number would be called to go down on the field and be a bat boy, or if there was a drawing for a big prize he would win. Jason had to think this happened too often. He had those movie star looks, literally, he was often told he looked like Ashton Kutcher.He had a very giving and optimistic spirit and loved lifting people up with his humor. He found joy in helping others. He will be greatly missed by anyone whose life he touched with his bright smile and loving nature.Dayton was preceded in death by his parents, Larry and Dorey Brock, his grandparents, Bill and Hilda Block and his Nana, Dell Brock. He is survived by his brother, Jason, Uncle and Aunt, Jerry and Pam Brock, and a host of cousins and friends.

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Patsy Jean Griffith - September 20, 1943 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: Patsy Jean Griffith was born on September 20, 1943, to Lonnie and Pauline O'Neal in Tulsa Oklahoma. She was the 5th of 5 children and the only girl. She grew up in the little town of Gypsy OK and thanks to her brothers, she met and married the love of her life Bert Griffith on April 4, 1961. Bert and Patsy welcomed their first child, Cynthia Ann followed by their only boy, Lonnie and then two more girls Roberta Jean and Joyce Marie.She was a member of the Sand Springs Seventh Day Adventist Church for 48 years. She was a retired armed security officer. She loved to spend time with her family and enjoyed cooking, crocheting, sewing, camping, fishing and relaxing outdoors.Patsy left this earth on March 30, 2024 at the age of 80 years young. She was surrounded by her family and loved ones during her last days.She is preceded in death by her parents, 3 brothers ,her beloved husband Bert and one grandson, Michael Moore. She is survived by 1 brother, her daughter Cynthia and husband Harvey, son Lonnie and his wife Kelly, and daughters Roberta and Joyce, 18 grandchildren, 37 great-grandchildren and 1 great-great-grandchild and a multitude of nieces, nephews, family and friends. Patsy loved big and taught others to be forgiving and compassionate, kind and considerate. She knew what it was like to give until it hurts and then give some more. She was a rock to many and a shoulder to cry on for others. She will be greatly missed and fondly remembered.

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Carl Wayne Merton - August 17, 1938 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Tulsa)

Obituary Preview: CARL WAYNE MERTONAugust 17th, 1938 - March 26th, 2024

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, achievements, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community members. They provide an opportunity to honor the deceased person's life and legacy, while also helping to process grief and begin the healing process.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The task of writing an obituary usually falls to a family member or close friend of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or newspaper may assist with writing and publishing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include details about their life story, accomplishments, and charitable donations in lieu of flowers.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and personal preference. Typically, it ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs. Online obituaries often have more flexibility in terms of length and content.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and help readers remember the person who has passed away.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and any specific requirements they may have. You can usually find this information on their website or by calling their office.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure that their life story is told accurately and authentically. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and accomplishments.

What is the purpose of an online obituary?

An online obituary provides a permanent tribute to the deceased person, allowing friends and family to visit and pay their respects at any time. It may also include features such as guest books, photo galleries, and donation links.

How long does an online obituary remain available?

The duration for which an online obituary remains available varies depending on the website or platform hosting it. Some websites may keep them online indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period of time.

Can I make corrections to an already published obituary?

If you need to make corrections to an already published obituary, contact the publication or funeral home that handled the original submission. They will guide you through the process of making changes or issuing a correction notice.

Is it appropriate to include humorous anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including lighthearted stories or humorous anecdotes can help capture the personality and spirit of the deceased person, making the tribute more relatable and engaging for readers.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, incorporating meaningful quotes or song lyrics can add depth and emotion to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person's values or personality to make the tribute even more special.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or private aspects of the person's life that you prefer not to disclose publicly, it's perfectly okay to omit them from the obituary. Focus on sharing positive memories and achievements that celebrate their life.

Can I include charitable donation information in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers as a way to honor their loved one's memory and continue their legacy.

How do I write an obituary for someone who had no immediate family?

In cases where there are no immediate family members, consider including friends, colleagues, or caregivers who played a significant role in the person's life. You can also highlight their accomplishments, hobbies, or community involvement.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to grief or emotional overwhelm, consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for support. You can also seek guidance from a funeral home or professional writer who specializes in crafting tributes.

Can I republish an obituary from a previous date?

If you want to republish an obituary from a previous date – for example, on a anniversary of the person's passing – you'll need permission from the original publication. Be sure to check their reprint policies before proceeding.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

To ensure accuracy when writing an obituary, verify facts with multiple sources whenever possible. Double-check dates, names, and other details to avoid errors that might cause confusion or distress for readers.

What is the role of social media in sharing an obituary?

Social media platforms can be useful tools for sharing an obituary with a wider audience. Many funeral homes and online memorial sites offer options for sharing tributes on social media channels like Facebook and Twitter.

Can I create a video tribute instead of a written obituary?

Yes! Video tributes are becoming increasingly popular as a way to celebrate someone's life through images, music, and storytelling. You can share these videos on social media platforms or online memorial sites.

How do I preserve an online obituary for future generations?

To preserve an online obituary for future generations, consider printing out a copy or saving it digitally in multiple locations (e.g., cloud storage services). You can also create a physical scrapbook or memory book featuring the tribute.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an obituary for someone who was young?

When writing an obituary for someone who was young – such as a child or teenager – focus on celebrating their short but meaningful life. Highlight their accomplishments, interests, and personality traits that made them special.

Can I include pets in an obituary?

Absolutely! If pets played an important role in the person's life, consider mentioning them in the obituary as part of their family circle. This can be especially comforting for those who are grieving.