Vander Plaat Colonial Home Obituaries

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Vander Plaat Colonial Home, located at 13-31 Saddle River Road, Fair Lawn, NJ, 07410, is a trusted and respected funeral home that has been serving the community for many years. With a long history of providing compassionate and professional funeral services, Vander Plaat Colonial Home has earned a reputation as one of the premier funeral homes in the area.

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Carol Donnelly-Calvano - September 20, 1963 - May 16, 2024

Departed: 05/16/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Carol Donnelly-Calvano died suddenly at the age of 60. She grew up in Fair Lawn before moving to Clifton and eventually ending up in Port Monmouth. Carol was a graduate of Fair Lawn High School, where she was a baton twirler in the band. After graduating from The Berkeley School, she worked for a Fax Company where she received numerous promotions and she became the office manager there before moving on to Schuman Cheese Inc, as their Director of Customer Service, where she worked for over 20 years.

Carol was a wonderful loving wife who was an unselfish, kind, and caring person to all. She was a fun-loving and warm person who loved to travel and relax in her pool. She especially loved being a dog mom to her beloved Yorkie, Reilly, who just turned 18 last week.

She is survived by her husband, Pat Calvano, her brother Gerard Donnelly (Teresa) and her sister Joan Donnelly Taskalos (Jim). She is also survived by her nephew Nicholas Taskalos (Samantha) and her stepsons Patrick and Michael. Carol was predeceased by her parents, John and Rita Donnelly. She will be missed by her many friends, who are too numerous to count. If anyone has ever doubted whether or not Angels 👼 really do exist, please just think of my beautiful wife Carol, and you will have your answer 🙏🙏🙏 I love you my beautiful Angel 👼 , Now, Always, and forever. Love, Pat ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰🥰

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Paul D. Roberge - September 03, 1964 - May 14, 2024

Departed: 05/14/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Paul D. Roberge, age 59, of Saddle Brook, was called to heaven on Tuesday, May 14, 2024. Paul was born to Elaine and Fred Roberge in Englewood, NJ. He grew up in Fairview, NJ, and has lived in Saddle Brook since 1985.

Paul Graduated from Cliffside Park High School and The Computer Processing Institute in Paramus, NJ. He was a member of the International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers, Local 164, Paramus, NJ, for 37 years. He was employed with IPC Systems, Jersey City, NJ, as a Service Delivery Engineer for 34 years.

Paul was a Parishioner of St. Catharine RC Church in Glen Rock. He was an avid Yankees and Giants fan. You could find Paul on any given Sunday on his couch, with his dog Ruby, cheering on his favorite teams. Paul loved to cook and could also be found in the kitchen whipping up a delicious meal.

Paul was a people person. Anyone who met him knew instantly how outgoing and funny he was. He was a caring person and would help anyone at any time. He loved his friends, but more than anything in the world, he loved his daughters Marissa and Amanda Roberge. They were the light of his life.

Paul is the loving husband of Maria Roberge and the devoted father of Marissa and Amanda Roberge. Paul is survived by his mother, Elaine Roberge, his sister, Nadine Roberge, and his brother-in-law Louis DelPozzo. Paul will also be missed by his furry kids Ruby and Taylor.

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Alice Wiencek - January 28, 1932 - May 07, 2024

Departed: 05/07/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Alice Wiencek passed away peacefully on Tuesday, May 7, 2024 at the age of 92. Alice came to the United States from Poland in 1952 with her parents, 4 brothers and sister.

After retiring from Estee Lauder, she enjoyed traveling around the world with her husband Stanley and later with her children and grandchildren. She enjoyed walking and was an avid bird watcher. What she loved doing the most was spending time with her family and grandchildren.

Alice is predeceased by her loving husband of 54 years, Stanley Wiencek and her son-in-law Jim DiZenzo. She is survived by her four children Annette, Dorothy, her husband Paul; David, his wife Michele; Roy his wife Rhonda, and seven grandchildren, Matthew, Danny, Andrew, Kristi and her husband Kevin, Julianne and her husband Jon, Joe and Jacqueline.

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Maksim Otaryan - September 15, 1939 - May 07, 2024

Departed: 05/07/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Maksim Otaryan.

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Paul W. Pakosinski - February 04, 1953 - April 28, 2024

Departed: 04/28/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Paul W Pakosinski, age 71, of Hawthorne, NJ passed away on Sunday, April 28, 2024, with the comfort of family by his side.

Paul was born to Walter and Katherine Pakosinski. He was a lifelong Hawthorne resident and graduated from Hawthorne High School. He was a member of the Hawthorne Muchachos.

Paul enjoyed his work as a tractor trailer driver. He and his wife traveled the road together when he was an owner-operator. He also worked for Ruzila’s Trucking for many years as a local truck driver. He continued as a local truck driver with Sealy until his retirement.

Paul was an avid NJ Devils fan. He enjoyed season tickets to the games and shared his love of the sport with family. He also faithfully followed the NY Giants. Paul loved to swim and enjoyed going to Wildwood with his family. He had a quiet demeaner and would easily smile a jolly smile. He cared for and loved his pets. He had several lizards over the years who he loved and took great care of. His dog Panther was his pride and joy.

Paul is survived by his Wife of 44-years, Grace Pakosinski. He is also survived by his siblings Karen Garcia, Elaine Waldorf, Sandra Sconfienza, Bob Pakosinski and his wife Debbie as well as Joseph Pakosinski and his wife Jeanette. He will be missed by his numerous nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his parents Walter and Katherine as well as his brother-in-law Roy Sconfienza.

He is remembered fondly by all that knew and love him.

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Robert A. Graziano - February 02, 1935 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Robert A. Graziano, age 89, of Toms River, NJ, passed away on Saturday, April 27, 2024, surrounded by his family. Robert (Bob) was born on February 2, 1935 to Helen Kessler Graziano and Frank Graziano in NY City. He was raised in Clifton, NJ and graduated from Clifton High School. He continued his education with a year at Fairleigh Dickinson University.

Bob was drafted into the Korean War and was stationed in Germany for 2 years. He was very proud of his time in the military and always wore his Korean War veteran's hat. To the day he died, he maintained wonderful friendships with many of his army buddies.

Upon returning home, Bob entered art school and was soon employed by Continental Can Company in their art department. He spent most of his career there and moved through the ranks of the union artists into management and sales. He spent many years traveling in his sales position. He eventually moved to Schawk Graphics before retiring.

Bob met his wife Vivian and they married in 1958, living in Clifton, and welcoming their daughter Linda in 1960. Just prior to their son, Robert being born in 1964, they moved to Fair Lawn, where they lived for 43 years before moving to Toms River. Bob was an active member of the Fair Lawn community. He was a member of the Rec department and coached the boys baseball teams for many years, and also played on the men’s softball league himself.

Family meant the world to Bob, and he cherished his children and his grandchildren, Brian, Courtney, Bobby, and Nick. And he was over the moon to know his great granddaughter, Zoe. His wife Vivian predeceased him in 2009, and he later met Carolyn, whom he loved dearly.

Bob did not have any sisters or brothers, but he had wonderful friendships. He kept in very close touch with army buddies, and he met his best friend, Eddie Gilmore when he started working at Continental Can. He and Eddie were as close as any brothers.

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Patrick C. Tuohey - May 24, 1963 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Patrick C. Tuohey Jr, age 60, of Fair Lawn passed away on Saturday, April 27, 2024. Patrick was born on May 24, 1963 to Kathleen and Patrick C. Tuohey, Sr in Paterson, NJ. He grew up in Midland Park, NJ and has lived in Fair Lawn since 1998.

Patrick attended Midland Park HS and then William Paterson University. He met his lovely wife Emiliana through family and friends. After college, he worked for The Record and North Jersey Media Group, now known as Gannet Publications, for over 30 years.

Patrick was a Parishioner of St. Anne’s RC Church in Fair Lawn as well as a member of the Knight of Columbus in Fair Lawn and the Ancient Order of Hibernians. He was an avid Mets and Jets fan, loved his family, and enjoyed documenting memories with his favorite video camera to share with his family.

Patrick was a great storyteller and enjoyed making people laugh. He always had a story for any situation and could light up a room with smiles and laughter in a matter of seconds.

He is the loving husband of Emiliana Tuohey, devoted father of Patrick Charles Tuohey, III, Joseph Tuohey and Anna Elizabeth Tuohey and beloved brother of Maria Holland.

Friends and family may visit with the family on Wednesday, May 1 from 4:00-8:00PM at Vander Plaat Colonial Home, 13-31 Saddle River Road, Fair Lawn. A funeral mass will be held at St. Anne’s RC Church, 15-05 St. Anne St. Fair Lawn at 10:30AM. The burial will be held at St. Mary’s Cemetery in Saddle Brook afterward.

Memorial donations may be made to American Lung Association (www.lung.org) or to the Ancient Order of Hibernians Charity (https://aoh.com/aoh-online-donations/).

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Servio A. Davila - September 29, 1933 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Servio A. Davila, 90, of Elmwood Park, passed away on April 26, 2024 with his loving family by his side. Servio was born in Ecuador to Aristides and Roxana Davila.

Servio was good with his hands and found his passion was in construction. He started his own business where he was a self-employed builder. In 1990 after running his own business for 25 years, Servio decided it was time to enjoy retirement.

Servio met Lucia Munoz in Ecuador. They dated 1 year before getting married. They remained in Ecuador for 5 years where they started their family. In the 1960's they emigrated to the United States where they settled down in Astoria, Queens for six years before moving back to Ecuador and raised their children (Pablo, Tanya, Kathleen and Larry). Throughout Servio and Lucia's 61 years of a loving marriage they traveled to and from Ecuador and the United States many times.

Servio enjoyed the simple things in life. He loved nature and being outside and could often be found doing yardwork around his house. He loved traveling, especially to anyplace where it was warm. But most of all, Servio loved family. His family was the center of his life.

Servio is survived by his loving children Pablo Davila(Annabelle), Tanya Yannitsadis(Elias), Kathleen Vocaturo(David), Larry Davila(Dina), his beloved grandchildren Luciana, Ross, Andres, Daniela, Paulina, Dahne, Gabriella, Brianna and great grandchildren Sergio, Miranda, Elian. Servio was predeceased by his cherished wife Lucia and his parents.

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Neale E. Larsen - April 14, 1945 - April 25, 2024

Departed: 04/25/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Neale Edward Larsen passed on April 25, 2024 after years of slowly declining with Lewy Body Dementia. He is survived by his devoted wife Geraldine Cavadi Larsen. Their marriage of 49 years was a testament of the Holy Spirit giving them great love they had for each other as well as for all their family members and friends. Their home of 44 years is in Fair Lawn, NJ. Neale was a very fun loving generous man. He was raised in Cliffside Park, NJ. His deceased parents were Edward & Henrietta Larsen. Neale attended Bergen County Technical School after graduating from Cliffside Park High School in 1964. He was a draftsman for five years at Mooney Bros Corp in Little Falls. He then went on to become a NYC Lower East Side Housing Police Officer for two years. Neale continued his police career with the Port Authority Police of NY & NJ for 26 years before retiring. His passion was Lionel model trains.

There will be a private funeral. Donations may be made in memory of Neale Edward Larsen to Lewy Body Dementia Association by visiting: www.lbda.org or by mail: 912 Killian Hill Road, S.W., Lilburn, GA 30047

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Olivia L. Weidener - April 08, 1944 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: WEIDENER, Olivia L. (Cimino) 80 of Fair Lawn, passed away on April 24, 2024, with the comfort of her son & daughter by her side.

She was born in Passaic, NJ to William and Anna Cimino. Olivia attended Kindergarten through 8th grade at St. Anne’s Catholic School in Fair Lawn. She then went on to Graduate from Fair Lawn High School.

Olivia had a wonderful childhood surrounded by a large family with many cousins. She told stories of how they would play hide & seek in the warehouse of the family business. Her summers were spent living at the Jersey shore enjoying, The Beach, Water Skiing, Fishing & Crabbing. She worked summer jobs on the Seaside Boardwalk.

After High school Olivia got Married to James Weidener, they traveled all over the United States seeing many of the National Parks. She moved back to Fair Lawn where she had a Son Robert & Daughter Stefani. Olivia was a devoted parent, volunteering at school events, Cubscout & Girlscout leader, making homemade Halloween costumes for her kids, providing a loving home for her children. Olivia loved her large extended family, attending many family functions & never missing one of the great Cimino Cousin’s Parties.

As her children grew older she went back into the workforce as a Bookkeeper, She worked for several companies over the years but she was most proud of working for her son Robert as the Bookkeeper for his Construction Business which she did for the last 25 Years.

More than anything Olivia Loved the Beach, She loved the Ocean, sitting on the sand & jumping the waves. She also enjoyed boating, water & snow skiing and many other activities. Olivia was a talented seamstress making her own clothing. She also enjoyed Needlepoint, creating many beautiful pieces for family & friends. Olivia was fond of Snoopy & the Peanuts Gang, with a large collection of memorabilia.

Olivia had a warm & happy personality. A wonderful & caring friend who always went out of her way to brighten the day of others. She never forgot to send a birthday card to anyone she knew. You could always count on Olivia, a dependable & hard working person.

Devoted Mother to Robert Weidener & his wife Noreen of Wyckoff, NJ and Stefani Turso & her husband Pete of Deerfield Beach, Fl. Beloved Grandmother to Marissa, Andrew, the late Emma Weidener, Fox & Hadley Turso. She was predeceased by her sister Joanne Ruemler in 2022.

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Ryan Q Dunnigan - November 02, 1995 - April 23, 2024

Departed: 04/23/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Ryan Q. Dunnigan was called to heaven on April 23, 2024. Ryan was born in Ridgewood and resided most recently in Fair Lawn. He was a warehouse manager with Amazon in Somerville. Ryan loved music and singing, spending time with his friends and family, drawing, and was a reality tv enthusiast.

Ryan is survived by his mother Frances Meo and father Kevin Dunnigan, his sister Marilynn Dunnigan, many aunts, uncles, cousins and his faithful cat Kara. Ryan is predeceased by his brother Robert Meo.

A celebration of Ryans life will be held at a later date.

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Dianne Muse - June 01, 1959 - April 20, 2024

Departed: 04/20/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Dianne Muse.

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John J. Keller - July 09, 1959 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: John J. Keller, age 64, of Glen Rock passed on Friday, April 19th 2024. He was born and raised on Staten Island, NY and has lived in Glen Rock for almost 20 years.

John went to St. John’s University and later worked for the IRS and the National Credit Union Association. He spent several years as a Mr. Mom taking care of his daughter and volunteering at the school.

John kept himself busy with projects. He loved to MacGyver solutions to everyday problems. His love of anything with an engine included his beloved motorcycles, trains, and classic cars. He was known for his corny sense of humor (“What?”) and his willingness to drop everything to help anyone who needed it.

He was survived by his wife of 35 years, Stephanie and his daughter, Allison. Loving brother to Dawn Barbosa, Shirley Edwards, and the late Les Kracsun. Dear uncle to Kurt, Michael, Danny, Nicky, Kelly, Sam, Spencer, Samantha, Kyla, Sean, Connor, Kelly H., Finn, and the late Anthony Carozza. If you wish to make a donation in his honor, please support the Roswell Park Comprehensive Cancer Center at roswellpark.org

Visitation will be held on Wednesday, April 24, 2024 from 2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. and 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. at the Vander Plaat Colonial Home.

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Dusan T. Guberovic - January 03, 1951 - April 16, 2024

Departed: 04/16/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: We regretfully announce the passing of Dusan Guberovic, on April 16, 2024, at the age of 73. Born on January 3, 1951, in Sarajevo. He moved to America in 1976 and lived in New Jersey. Dusan was a beacon of light and love in the loss of those who knew him. He was a devoted husband, exceptional father, grandfather, uncle, cousin, and the very best of friends to many. His unwavering dedication to his family was evident through his daily communication and active involvement in their lives, and the joys and happiness he spread. Dusan's legacy is carried on by his loving family, his wife Vlasta Guberovic, his children Nina Prall and his late son Marko Guberovic; his granddaughter, Tessa Prall, his son-in law Jeff Prall; his sister Nada Hrkas and his brother-in-law Zvonko Hrkas, his niece Zeljka Palaia and his late niece Katarina Hrkas, his late brother Miso Guberovic, his sister-in-law Amira Guberovic, his nephews Igor Guberovic and Davor Guberovic and all his extended family. Dusan loved the outdoors, gardening, building birdhouses, his love for a good piece of cake, sitting around watching soccer, and just being a jokester. More than anything else, he loved his family. His absence leaves an immeasurable void in the hearts of all who love him.

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Daniel G. Vanino - July 21, 1952 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Danny Vanino, aged 72, passed away peacefully on April 12, 2024, at his home in Glen Rock, New Jersey. Born in the Bronx, New York, Danny dedicated his life to service, family, and community.

Danny served in the United States Air Force from 1971 until 1974. After his military service, he became a valued member of the Glen Rock Fire Department, where he served from 1982 to 2000. Danny was a devoted employee at Kyrocera, where he worked full-time from 2006 until his passing.

Above all, Danny was a family man. He leaves behind his beloved wife, Susan Vanino, with whom he shared a loving partnership of 47 years. He was a guiding light to his children, Alex Vanino and Stephanie Vanino, and a hero to his grandchildren, Zachary and Zoe Vanino. Danny's daughter-in-law, Nube Romero, also feels the deep loss of a truly supportive father figure.

Danny loved music and playing the guitar, often filling his home with custom guitars that he built himself. Danny was also an avid animal lover, caring deeply for his pets who were as much a part of the family as anyone. Whether it was a quiet evening at home on his spot on the couch in front of the TV or a home project, his presence was a comforting and loving constant in the lives of his family.

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Mary Margaret Pellegrino - December 24, 1941 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Mary Margaret Pellegrino (nee Brennan), 82, of Saddle Brook passed away peacefully on April 9, 2024, surrounded by her loving family. She was born and raised in Hoboken before moving to Saddle Brook with her late husband, Fred Pellegrino, and their young family 52 years ago. Throughout her life, she was known as her children's and grandchildren’s biggest fan! If there was a game she was there loudly supporting from the stands. She also enjoyed watching her Yankees and cheering just as passionately in her family room. Mary was kind and welcoming to everyone who knew her as she was always available for a phone call or to host a backyard barbecue. Prior to her retirement, she was the friendly voice and office administrator with Acquatic Pools in Wyckoff.

She will forever be cherished by her children, Dona McAvoy, Darren Pellegrino, Dana Farinella, Daryle Pellegrino and his wife Alyssa. Mary was the doting grandmother to Dylan, Kayla, Jena Kayte, Jake, Mackenzie, Jillian, Jack, Luke, Mia, Sophie, Tatum, Quincy, Velma, Xena, and Bambi. Mary was the oldest sister of Thomas Brennan, Ann Brennan Kelly, Martin Brennan, and the late Joseph Brennan. She touched the lives of many extended family and friends with her warmth and love.

The family will receive relatives and friends Sunday, April 14, 2024, 2-6 pm at Vander Plaat Colonial Home, 13-31 Saddle River Road, Fair Lawn, NJ.

A Funeral mass will be held on Monday, April 15, 2024, 11 am at St. Philip the Apostle RC Church, 488 Saddle River Road, Saddle Brook, NJ.

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Carolyn T. Telfer - July 22, 1934 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Carolyn T. Telfer (nee Sieckowski), age 89, of Saddle Brook, NJ passed away on Monday, April 8, 2024. Born in Jersey City to Joseph and Sophie Sieckowski she was raised in Jersey City and has lived in Saddle Brook for the last 60 years. Prior to retiring, she was employed as a secretary at St Philip’s RC School in Saddle Brook. As a young girl, Carolyn enjoyed dancing the Polka all night at local dances. Some of

Carolyn’s most cherished memories are the times she spent with her family filled with the love and laughter of those she loved most in life. All who knew her appreciated her great sense of humor and could count on her for a laugh and a pantry filled with good chocolate.

Beloved wife of the late Richard Telfer (2020).

Loving mother of Richard Telfer and wife Kathleen, Robert Telfer and wife Shari, Jackie Santoro and husband Michael and Cara O’Connell and husband Dan.

Cherished grandmother of Aidan, Maura, Collin, Jennifer Hook and her husband Kyle, Christina Wilkins and her husband Kevin and Alexandra Telfer, Jessica and Alex Santoro and Danny and Jaime O’Connell.

Dear sister of Patricia Sieckowski and the late Emily Balinski, Edward Sieckowski and Joseph Sieckowski. Loving aunt to many nieces and nephews

The family will receive relatives and friends Friday, April 12th 2024, 4 – 8 pm at Vander Plaat Colonial Home.

A Funeral mass will be held on Saturday, April 13th at St Philip’s RC Church, 488 Saddle River Road, Saddle Brook, NJ. Interment will follow at George Washington Memorial Park in Paramus.

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Jose Felipe Arzeno Arias - June 19, 1961 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Jose Felipe Arzeno Arias.

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Mary J. Lynch - December 16, 1932 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Mary J. Lynch (nee McNeila), wife of the late James J. Lynch (Captain, FDNY) passed away peacefully on April 5th, 2024 surrounded by her loving family. Loving mother of Anthony (Victoria), Kathleen Lynch, James (Karen), Maureen Mattsson (Rudy), Patricia Lahoz (Frank), Peter, and Kevin (Debby). Grandmother of Melissa, Shannon, Brian, Meaghan, Brendan, Elizabeth, James, Christina, Erik, Jacqueline, Jack, Kevin, and Arlene. Great-grandmother of Grayson, Adelyn, Riley, Sybil, Kaitlyn, and Mateo. Sister of Kathleen McNeila, Michael McNeila (Ann) and the late James McNeila (Mary Julia). Cherished aunt, cousin, and friend to many. Mary enjoyed reading, watching the Hallmark Channel and spending time with family.

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Martha Scholz - August 06, 1931 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Martha Scholz, nee Jaeger, 92, departed to heaven on Sunday, March 31, 2024. Born in Sossehnen, East Prussia, she married Gerhard Scholz and emigrated to the United States in 1957, eventually settling in Lyndhurst 60 years ago. She was a strong godly woman who was an example to her family. She served faithfully in her church, was an avid gardener and crafter, but was most passionate about spending time surrounded by her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. She loved sharing her cultural recipes with her girls and grandchildren.

She was predeceased by her beloved husband Gerhard of 63 years. She was the loving and devoted mother of Jutta (Manny), Doris (Norbert), and Ellen (Willie). She was the doting grandmother of Erin (Daniel), Chelsea (Josef), Mark, David, Eric (Julia), Kim (Danny), and Tyler. She cherished her great-grandsons, Logan, Aidan, and Ryan.

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Richard W. Van Handel - July 01, 1948 - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: All services were held private

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Lazuras Kozak - January 29, 1929 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Lazuras Kozak.

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Ethel M. Raymond - May 31, 1936 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Ethel M. Raymond, age 87, of Fair Lawn passed on Wednesday March 27, 2024 with her loving family by her side.

Ethel was born to John & Gerturde Wegele and graduated form Central High School in Paterson NJ with the class of 1954.

In 1956 Ethel married the love of her life, the late Richard J. Raymond, they settled in Fair Lawn in 1958. Together they raised their Family. She is survived by her Son Richard Raymond his wife Dawn of Midlothian, Texas, son Mark Raymond his wife Lori of St. James NY, her daughter Regina Gerard husband Paul of Calabash, NC, her sister Harriet Casamenti of Fair Lawn. Seven grandchildren, Jennifer Albanese husband John, Jessica Raymond husband Jono, Emily Graves husband Brice, Daniell Mineo husband Erik, Stefanie Giraldo husband Michael, Chelsea Pearse husband Michael and Emilyann Gerard. 10 Great Grandchildren, Rocco Albanese, Mallory Albanese, Angelo Albanes, Nico Mineo, Mia Mineo, Michael Giraldo, Rose Pearse, Rory Pearse and Maverick Graves.

In the early years Ethel worked with her husband Richard while they built a very successful insurance business in Fair Lawn and she worked part time teaching sewing and tailoring at the Fair Lawn night school.

For many years she was a very active member of the “Cosmos Club” in Fair Lawn where she was a past president and was involved in many activities at the club. She kept herself very active with her department 56 Christmas village club, building and designing Christmas villages.

Ethel enjoyed nothing more than spending her summers at her Lavalette beach home entertaining her family and friends. She could always be seen walking the beach looking for shells and enjoying the Jersey shore.

Family and friends may visit at the Vander Plaat Colonial Home, 13-31 Saddle River Rd. Fair lawn, on Tuesday April 2nd from 4-8 PM a service will be held at the Vander Plaat Colonial Home at 11:00 AM, Interment will follow at the Calvary Cemetery, 58 McLean Blvd, Paterson NJ.

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Phyllis Fano - February 04, 1928 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Phyllis Fano age 96 of Fair Lawn NJ died peacefully on March 27, 2024.

Phyllis, affectionally known to most as “Nana”, was born in Middletown NY February 4, 1928. She met her husband Daniel at the young age of 18 and they were married. Phyllis worked as a Home Health Aide and in her free time enjoyed knitting, crocheting, cooking and spending time with her grandchildren. After losing her daughter and husband she leaned heavily on her faith. She was active in St Annes church where she attended mass frequently and was a part of the Rosary society, as well as a member of the Cosmos Club, VFW Ladies Auxiliary, and served as Sargent of Arms for the American Legion. Phyllis was predeceased by her daughter Marilyn Miletti, and her Husband Daniel Fano Sr. She is survived by 4 children, 8 Grandchildren, 10 Great Grandchildren, and 2 Great Great Grandchildren. Phyllis lived in Florida for 7 years before returning home 6 months ago to spend time with her Granddaughters, Great Grandsons and Great Great grandchildren. Nana Passed away peacefully at the Villa Marie Claire Hospice with her beloved family.

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In Leu of flowers we ask that donations be made to Brightside Manor ALF Teaneck NJ.

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Caroline M. Pompeo - October 30, 1942 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Fair Lawn)

Obituary Preview: Caroline Marie Pompeo, age 81, of Fair Lawn passed away on Tuesday, March 26, 2024, in her home which she shared with her beloved husband, Patrick.

Carol was born on Beacon Ave in Jersey City on October 30,1942 to Theresa and Nicolas Conza. She is granddaughter to Josie and Joe Ranone, the sister to Anthony and Joseph, mother to Annemary, grandmother to Sydney, Jenna, and Emily and beloved wife of 66 years to Patrick.

Carol met the love of her life, Patrick in 1957. She graduated from Ramapo High School in 1961 and continued to go on to work as a secretary in New York City.

Following in her mother’s footsteps, Carol was a seamstress when Annemary was young, then went onto working for International Blimpie’s Accounting department, then Sterns, where she retired.

Carol was a profound writer and passionate about literature. She loved reading Edgar Allen Poe, about Italian culture and ancestry, Christianity and mystery books. Shortly after she retired, pursued a college degree in Literature at Montclair State University.

Carol was a meticulous crafter who crocheted countless baby blankets, sewed dresses from scratch for her granddaughters, and scrapbooking. She was always moving, she always had a plan, and she always had projects she was working on.

Carol had a passionate love of dogs throughout her entire life, starting with her neighbor’s dog, Jinx. Her passion for dogs radiated into the hobby her and Pat pursued together, dog showing. Pat and Carol got their first Rhodesian Ridgeback, Ebu, and he became an overnight sensation. Her love of dog handling poured into her granddaughter, Sydney. Carol trained Sydney, and her puppy Rhodesian Ridgeback, Kala, and he as well, became a champion. Carol and Pat trained police dogs, and bread Ridgebacks.

Carol was most well-known among family and friends as the most spectacular chef, baker and host. Holidays consisted of sitting around a big table, passing around the most delicious Italian food, like Ricotta Pie, sausage bread, chicken cutlets and meatballs.

Carol was the reason each holiday felt so festive. She expertly decorated for each holiday and season, and celebrated even small holidays with the most effort, just as another excuse to spend time together, make memories, and laugh. She had a love for anything miniature, little knick-knacks, and had the most fashion sense out of everyone in the family. Her favorite color was blue teal, she loved sitting on the deck in the sunshine, and she loved red roses.

Carol loved baking, especially with her granddaughters. Every Christmas season, Carol and her granddaughter, Emily would plan, bake, and construct elaborate gingerbread houses over the years, resulting in a town of gingerbread houses we take out every year. Grandma cookies were her specialty, and her Chocolate Pecan Pie recipe will be passed down for generations.

Carol loved making each and every birthday a big celebration, but her favorite was the combined birthdays she’d share with her granddaughter, Jenna.

Carol had an infectious personality that everyone wanted to be around. She loved hosting backgammon nights with her girlfriends, and they’d spend the whole night laughing. She always had a deep appreciation for family traditions and instilled those into her daughter and granddaughters.

Another passion that Carol and Pat both shared was giving back in any way they could. They were advocates and strong supporters of meaningful organizations like St. Jude’s Children Hospital, Wounded Warriors, Tunnel to Towers, New Hope, Several Sources Shelters, and St. Anne’s food pantry. This inspired a newer hobby, extreme couponing, which she learned how to do so that they could give back even more. This resulted in overflows at St. Anne’s and other food pantries in the area.

Carol was a devout Catholic her entire life and made it her mission to be able to send her grandchildren to Catholic school, even if that meant waiting in line for hours at 5AM to enroll them. She supported them with every homework assignment and project, every graduation and ring ceremony, every science fair and country-report day, every Christmas pageant, and was truly her granddaughter’s biggest cheerleader. She sat at the dinner table with her grandkids for hours making sure they completed their homework and fully understood the concepts and proofread every essay. She taught her daughter and granddaughters to be problem solvers, the meaning of hard and honest work, to always be eager to learn more, to be independent and strong, to know when to forgive, to laugh until your stomach hurts, to always follow your heart and your instincts, and to love, and support each other like there is no tomorrow.

The love that Carol showed for everyone was unwavering. She was always the first to volunteer to help, to cook, to accompany, and to console. She loved to spend days gardening in the country with Pat, playing trivia with her grandkids, and spending hours laughing about memories with Annemary.

Carol was an amazing wife. The love that she poured into her marriage overflows into everyone around them. Carol and Pat have been inseparable since 1957. They went to prom together, honeymooned in Florida, shared a love for the Midwest and log homes, and were a complete comedy act any time they were together. Their love inspired so many people. They welcomed so many into their home with open arms and a full plate.

Carol loved to dance and be active, participated in bodybuilding with her daughter, Annemary, and write four books- one for each grandchild, and the last featured Carol’s grandmother, Josie, and all the women of the family. Carol was and will forever be the matriarch of our family, no one will ever be able to fill the void on our hearts without her physically here, but we know she is dancing and jumping for joy with Jesus and her parents and grandparents.

Friends and family of Carol are welcomed to join with her family at St. Anne’s Church, in Fair Lawn, on Tuesday, April 2, at 10:30AM.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and surviving relatives.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The primary purpose of an obituary is to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing and to provide details about their life and legacy. It also serves as a way to share news of the death with a wider audience and to invite people to attend funeral or memorial services.

Who writes an obituary?

Obituaries are typically written by family members or close friends of the deceased, although they may also be written by funeral homes or professional writers. In some cases, the deceased person may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving relatives. It may also include information about funeral or memorial services, charitable donations, and other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the individual's life story. However, most obituaries range from a few sentences to several paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. These can be recent photos or ones from throughout the person's life.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Most newspapers have an online submission process or a dedicated email address for submitting obituaries. You can also contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to ask about their specific requirements and deadlines.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper, its circulation size, and the length of the obituary. Some newspapers offer free or low-cost options for basic listings, while others may charge by the word or line.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, many people choose to write their own obituaries in advance as a way to ensure that their life story is told accurately and in their own words. This can also help reduce stress on loved ones during a difficult time.

What if I don't have all the information needed for an obituary?

If you're missing certain details or information about the deceased person's life, you can still write an obituary that focuses on what you do know. You can also ask other family members or friends for input and assistance.

How soon after a death should an obituary be published?

It's generally recommended to publish an obituary within a few days of the person's passing, while the news is still fresh and friends and family are most likely to see it.

Can I edit or revise an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's not possible to make changes to an obituary once it's been published in print. However, online obituaries may be editable or correctable in some cases.

What if I want to include a special message or tribute in the obituary?

You can definitely include special messages, quotes, or tributes in an obituary to make it more personal and meaningful. Just be sure to check with the publication for any guidelines or restrictions.

Can I use humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries don't have to be somber or serious. Including humorous stories or anecdotes can help celebrate the person's life and personality.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or private details about the deceased person's life that you'd rather not share publicly, it's best to omit them from the obituary or discuss them with trusted family members or friends first.

What if I want to include information about charitable donations or memorials?

You can definitely include information about charitable donations or memorials in honor of the deceased person. This can help continue their legacy and support a good cause.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for a long time?

Yes, you can still write an obituary for someone who passed away years ago. This can be a meaningful way to honor their memory and share their story with others.

How do I find old obituaries from years ago?

You can search online archives of newspapers, genealogy websites, or libraries to find old obituaries. You may also be able to request copies from funeral homes or local historical societies.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be great ways to share news of a death and reach a wider audience quickly.

What if I'm unsure about what to say in an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary or unsure about what to say, consider asking a friend or family member for help. You can also look at examples of other obituaries for inspiration.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

To ensure accuracy when writing an obituary, double-check facts like dates, names, and spellings. You can also ask other family members or friends to review the draft before submitting it.

Can I include links or URLs in an online obituary?

Yes, many online obituaries allow you to include links to memorial websites, fundraising pages, or other relevant resources.

What if I need help writing an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're struggling with grief or emotional distress while trying to write an obituary, consider reaching out to a trusted friend, family member, or professional counselor for support. They may be able to assist with writing duties or provide emotional guidance during this difficult time.