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Sondra Luckstone - Unknown - April 30, 2024

Departed: 04/30/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Sondra Luckstone passed away peacefully at home after a long battle with cancer. She is survived by her two daughters, three grandchildren, and three great grandchildren.

A graduate of Smith College, Sondra was active in the Summit Playhouse for many years as both an actress and director. She was also a eucharistic minister, a CCD teacher, and was part of the RCIA team at St. Vincent de Paul RC Church in Stirling, NJ.

Sondra enjoyed cooking, traveling, and time with family at the New Jersey shore. She will be missed.

Visitation will be Sunday, May 5, 2024 from 2 - 4:30 PM at St. Vincent de Paul RC Church in Stirling, NJ. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held Monday, May 6, 2024 at 10 AM at the Church. Interment will follow at St. Vincent de Paul Cemetery, Stirling. Arrangements are under the direction of the Valley Memorial Funeral Home 1012 Valley Rd., Gillette, NJ. For Information and online condolences visit valleymemorialfuneralhome.net.

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Mary G Cluett - May 20, 1946 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Mary G Cluett.

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Sue J Nozza - July 18, 1941 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Sue J. (Vancko) Nozza died Friday April 26, 2024 at her home in New Providence, NJ. She was 82.

Sue was born in Newark, NJ on July 18, 1941 a daughter to the late Susanne (Hoodak) and Joseph Vanko where she lived before moving to New Providence in 1971.

She worked as a Bank Supervisor for US Savings Bank in Newark, NJ for many years before retiring. She was a member of the Red Hat Society and served as the Queen in New Providence, she was employed and volunteered at New Providence High School, worked for Avon Woman for over 60 years, was a claims adjuster for DeFeo Agency in East Hanover, and she loved her computer, emails and playing games.

Sue is pre deceased by her two brothers Joseph and Edward Vancko.

She is survived by her husband Daniel J. Nozza, Sr., her two sons, Daniel J. Nozza, Jr. and his significant other Jennifer M. Schmidt, and Joseph P. Nozza and his wife Nikki, his Sisters Betty and her husband Joseph Petitti, and her nieces and nephew Priscilla and Debbie Petitti, and Ellen and Alex Vancko, and 2 grandchildren Robbie Waechle and Daniel J. Nozza III.

A Memorial visitation will be Saturday May 4, 2024 from 9 - 10 AM at Our Lady of Peace 111 South Street, New Providence, NJ followed by a 10:00 AM Memorial Mass at the Church. Cremation was private. Arrangements are under the direction of the Valley Memorial Funeral Home 1012 Valley Road, Gillette, NJ. For more information and online condolences visit valleymemorialfuneralhome.net.

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Dr. John Robert Crews - December 02, 1942 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: John Robert Crews, 81, of Warren, NJ, passed away on April 26, 2024. He is survived by his wife of fifty-eight years, Ann Marie (née Lamberti). John and Ann Marie have three children: Jennifer, John Jr., and David; and two grandchildren, Max and Josephine Cusack. He was born December 2, 1942 on Staten Island, NY to Alma and William Crews and was one of eight siblings: William, Paul, Barbara, Amy, Jane, Mark, and Laura.

John graduated from Manhattan College with a Bachelor of Arts and earned a Doctorate in Education from Rutgers University. He served as a public school educator for over forty years, beginning as a biology teacher, then as principal of Ocean Township High School and Ridgewood High School, finishing his tenure as assistant superintendent for the Scotch Plains-Fanwood School District. Later he served as a professor at Fairleigh Dickinson University and then at Saint Elizabeth’s University, where he designed a masters and doctoral program in Educational Leadership. John was on the planning committee for the Institute for Educational Leadership in Washington, D.C. and was an assistant coordinator of the Laboratory for Student Success for the Mid-Atlantic Dean’s and Superintendent’s Network at Temple University. As an educational leader, his vision put him at the forefront of progressive schooling and, while at Ridgewood, he put in place one of the first “block rotating schedules” of its kind in the state.

In college, John was a Division 1 basketball and baseball player, where he had the opportunity to play home basketball games at Madison Square Garden. In his senior year as a Jasper, he scored the winning run that allowed Manhattan College to win the Metropolitan Baseball Championship. Later John coached basketball teams at Keyport and Manchester High Schools and volunteered generously as a coach for many of his children’s recreational sports teams.

John loved young people. He was the consummate educator, teaching and mentoring in both school and sports. He spent the majority of his life serving and helping young people be the very best version of themselves. He was a natural leader; an individual who led by example and inspired many people. He was a life-long learner and an avid reader. Over the years he accumulated an impressive library on the life and times of Abraham Lincoln, one of his heroes. Above all, he was a man of faith who participated regularly in the Catholic Church, including as a Eucharistic Minister.

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Florence Kostecka - January 25, 1931 - April 23, 2024

Departed: 04/23/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Florence (Montpelier) "G-Ma" Kostecka, a long time resident of Chatham Township, died Tuesday, April 23, 2024. She was 93 years old..

Florence was born in Fall River Massachusetts on January 25, 1931, a daughter to the late Marie (Oliviera) and Henry A. Montpelier, living in Hillside, NJ before moving to Chatham Township, NJ in 1972, and was a graduate of Hillside High School.

She was the owner and operator of the Berkeley Wash and Dry in Berkeley Heights, NJ for many years before retiring in 2008.

Florence loved cats, was an avid reader, enjoyed travel and spending time with her family at the Jersey Shore, especially LBI and Point Pleasant, NJ. She was pre-deceased by her husband Edward P. Kostecka in 2000 and sister Patricia Belford,

Florence is survived by her son Bruce E. Kostecka, her two daughters Laura L. Kostecka, Debra L. Casorio and her husband Joseph Casorio and her daughter-in-law Maryann Kostecka. She dearly loved her four grandchildren Joseph Casorio and his wife Kristin, Ashley Casorio and her fiancé Brian Whitt, Brianna Kostecka and Kerry Adamek and her husband John Adamek. Her three great-grandchildren Gavin and Adalyn Casorio and John (LJ) Adamek were her joy as were her nephews Danny ,Matt and Paul Belford and their beautiful families, and her extended family of kids that called her “Mom K”.

Visitation for Florence will be Saturday, April 27, 2024 from 10:00 AM - 12:00PM at the Valley Memorial Funeral Home 1012 Valley Road, Gillette, NJ. A Funeral Service will follow at 12:00 PM at the Funeral Home. Interment will follow at St. Vincent de Paul Cemetery Chestnut Street, Stirling, NJ. For more information and online condolences visit valleymemorialfuneralhome.net.

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Raymond R Kotkoski - November 19, 1948 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Raymond R. Kotkoski died Friday, April 19, 2024 at Binghamton General hospital in Binghamton, NY. He was 75.

Ray was born in Shamokin, PA a son to the late Catherine and Raymond Kotkoski living in Manhattan, NY before moving to Millington, NJ in 1980.

He worked for Radio Shack as a salesman for many years retiring from the Gillette location.

Ray loved technology and was a member of the Morris County Radio Club and was an amateur Ham Radio Operator. He also enjoyed his free time at the Gun Range target shooting.

He was pre deceased by his parents Catherine and Raymond Kotkoski, and his cousin James Fitzgerald.

Ray is survived by his cousin Susan Dockey, and his close friends Marie C. Renard-Laux, Patrick Thompson, Kenneth Newell, Alipio, Philippe Mastromihalis, Jim and Rita Lafferty, and a lover of dogs, his loving dog Blue who was at his side while in hospital. He also was thankful for the Palliative care team at Binghamton General Hospital.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday April 26, 2024 at 10:00 AM at the Shrine of St. Joseph 1050 Long Hill Road, Stirling, NJ. Burial will follow at St. Vincent de Paul Cemetery Chestnut Street, Stirling, NJ. Memorial contributions in lieu of flowers can be made to The Shelter Connection at theshelterconnection.com. For more information and online condolences visit valleymemorialfuneralhome.net.

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William P. Hurlock - August 22, 1941 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: William P. "Bill" Hurlock Jr. passed away on Friday April 12, 2024 after years of battling cancer, at his home in Millington, NJ with his loving family at his side. He was 82.

Bill was born in Philadelphia, PA on August 22, 1941 a son to the late Mildred (Johnson) and William P. Hurlock, Sr.

Bill and his wife Ann Louise graduated from Watchung Hill Regional High School in 1959, the second graduating class of new high school.

He served in the US Army for two years during the Vietnam War. During the war Bill married his high school sweet heart Ann Louise Delli Paoli. After his Honorable Discharge from the Army, Bill joined the Passaic Township, now the Long Hill Township Police Department in 1966.

On May 18, 1978 Bill risked his own life to successfully talk a man out of committing suicide with a shotgun, while both of them were standing in the middle of the train trestle over the Passaic River in Millington, NJ. For his actions, Bill received the Police Departments highest award, The Medal of Honor. He retired from the Police Department in 1992 reaching the rank of Detective Lieutenant in charge of the Criminal Investigation Division with 26 years of service.

He was a member of P.B.A. 600, The Honor Legion of New Jersey, and the American Legion Post 293 in Warren Township, NJ.

Bill enjoyed playing golf and traveling around the states to play as often as he could.

He is survived by his wife of 58 years AnnLouise, traveled all over the world visiting over 15 countries.

Bill is survived by his wife AnnLouise Hurlock, his son Bill Hurlock, his two daughters Laura Starr, Dorothy Rose and her husband Scott Rose of Warren Township, NJ, his sister Joyce Koenig of Stirling, NJ and seven grandchildren: Kayleigh, Connor, Corey, Jake, Alyssa, Brittany and Ryan, and two nieces Karin and Susan.

A graveside services will be held on April 18, 2024, 11:30 AM at Somerset Hills Memorial Park ,95 Mount Airy Road, Basking Ridge, NJ. Family will be leaving the Funeral Home at 11:00 AM in a funeral procession.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Valley Memorial Funeral Home, 1012 Valley Road., Gillette, NJ. For more information and online condolences visit valleymemorialfuneralhome.net. Memorial contributions may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project at woundedwariorproject.org.

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Margaret Bender - June 10, 1935 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Margaret (Fox) Bender died Tuesday April 9, 2024 at her home in Warren, NJ. She was 88.

Margaret was born in Kamp Lintfort, Germany. She was the daughter to the late Wanda (Gurski) and Franz Fox.

She was one of six children. She Immigrated to Roselle Park in 1956 and lived in New Providence and Gillette before moving to Warren in 1978.

She was a Real Estate Proprietor with her siblings and her husband, Herbert Bender. Together they owned and operated properties in New Jersey.

She loved to go on Atlantic City Bus Trips with her friends from the Senior Citizens Club, especially to play the Slot Machines. She loved to cook and spend time with her family and discuss Politics at family gatherings.

She was pre-deceased by her husband Herbert Bender .

Margaret is survived by her 3 sons Eric A. Bender, Steven J. Bender and Marcus K. Bender , a daughter Tanya Bender and her husband Ernani Domingo, two brothers Norbert Fox and Heinz Fox, and 2 sisters Renate Bernhard and Hilda Fox. She is also survived by her grandchildren: Lindsey, Lauren, Ryan, Lukas, Amelia, Sophia and Brie, and a great-granddaughter Olivia. Visitation will be Sunday April 14, 2024 from 4-7 PM at the Valley Memorial Funeral Home 1012 Valley Road., Gillette, NJ. A Mass of Christian Burial will be Monday, April 15, 2024 at 10:00 AM at St. Vincent de Paul RC Church 250 Bebout Ave., Stirling, NJ with Fr. Richard Carton. Burial will follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery in East Hanover, NJ. Memorial contributions may be made to the Warren Township First Aid or Fire Departments. For more information or online condolences visit valleymemorialfuneralhome.net

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Ruth A Herbert - May 18, 1929 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Ruth A. (Moore) Herbert died Monday, April 8, 2024 in Morristown, NJ. She was 94.

Ruth was born in Basking Ridge, NJ at home on May 18, 1929, daughter to the late Agnes (Hedden) and George Moore, and was a lifelong resident of Basking Ridge.

She graduated from Bernards High School in 1947 and worked for Ciba-Geigy in Summit, NJ until the birth of her son Steve. She later worked as a school bus driver for many years for both the Bernards Township Board of Education and local private companies. She was a life-long member of the Basking Ridge Presbyterian Church. As a child, Ruth and her family spent summer vacations at The Villas, NJ where she developed a love for Cape May and Cape May Point, spending many future summers at her sister Virginia’s guest house, Lighthouse Manor, in Cape May Point. Ruth loved to travel around the country, never tiring of seeing the beauty of this country. She and her husband Don also enjoyed cruises, making many friends along the way. Ruth’s hobbies included bowling in the Friday Nite Mixed League in Bernardsville and the women’s Stragglers League at Strike N Spare in Bound Brook, and participated in many national tournaments. Ruth was an avid reader, enjoyed jigsaw puzzles and knitting. Ruth also loved horseback riding and she and her horse, Thunder, were members of the Trail Pals Club. Ruth loved telling people that she had her own horse, her own motorcycle (a Honda 350 CL) and her own car.

She was pre-deceased by her husband Donald W. Herbert (2020), her former husband W. William Liesch (2005) and her sister Virginia Sakos (2008).

Ruth is survived by her two sons Steve Liesch and his wife Patrice, and Scott Liesch and his partner Elvie Evans, a daughter Bonnie Sue Jordan and her husband Robert, her grandchildren Katrina DiLollo and her husband Jeffrey, Robert Jordan Jr. and his wife Emily, William Liesch, Jennifer Sasso and her husband Roberto, her step-granddaughter Danielle Evans, and her great grandchildren Genevieve, Dahlia, Jordan and Lincoln,.

Visitation will be Friday April 12, 2024 from 4-7 PM at the Valley Memorial Funeral Home 1012 Valley Road., Gillette, NJ. A Funeral Service will be Saturday April 13, 2024 at 10 AM at the Funeral Home. Interment will follow at Evergreen Cemetery in Basking Ridge. For more information and online condolences visit valleymemorialfuneralhome.net. Memorial contributions may be made to K9s for warriors.org or a charity of your choice.

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Joan M Edwards - Unknown - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Joan M Edwards died April 7, 2024 in Newtown, PA. She was 92.

Joan was born in Staten Island, NY on January 13, 1932, a daughter of the late Margaret M (Cahill) and John W Bruns Living in Stirling, NJ.

She was a communicant of St. Vincent de Paul RC Church in Stirling, NJ where she worked as an Administrative Assistant for many years before retiring. She was a member of the Interfaith Council for the Homeless of Morris County, and served on the church building committee. She focused on her family and enjoyed the occasional trip to Atlantic City with her friends from the Senior Center.

She was pre-deceased by her husband William H. Edwards and her son Douglas.

Joan is survived by two sons Christopher J. Edwards and his wife Sharron , and William F. Edwards and his wife Gayle.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:00 AM to 11:00 AM on Saturday, May 18th at St. Vincent de Paul RC Church in Stirling, NJ with Father Richard Carton officiating.

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Mary Ann Paster - September 28, 1938 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Mary Ann (Mirek) Paster died Easter Sunday, 2024 in Morristown, NJ after a courageous battle with lung cancer. She was 85 years young.

Mary Ann was born on September 28, 1938, in Chicago, IL, a daughter to the late Marion (LeStarge) and Walter Mirek. She lived in Basking Ridge and Berkeley Heights before moving to Stirling in 1987.

Her corporate career was spent at Prudential Group Insurance as an Administrative Assistant in Morristown, NJ for many years before retiring and working as an administrative assistant to a couple of healthcare practices, with several years spent nannying her twin granddaughters in between.

Mary Ann was an avid reader and she also enjoyed playing Dominoes with her family and Bingo and cards with her friends at Lounsberry. She was a member of The People of Hope, a Catholic community of lay and religious men and women who have experienced the power of the Holy Spirit and a call to spread the Gospel of Jesus Christ through prayer, the renewal of family life, and works of evangelization.

She was pre-deceased by her parents and her sister Barbara Ann Martin. Mary Ann is survived by her two sisters, Lee Ann Cummings and Patricia Ann Werderitsch and by her children Debra and her husband Brian DeWitt of Basking Ridge, NJ (and granddaughters Jamisen and Caroline); Wendy and her husband Gregg Koop of St. Petersburg, FL (grandson John Esposito, wife Grace and great grandson Jackson; granddaughter Elizabeth, granddaughter Annemarie and her husband Jeffrey Sommer and great granddaughter Pia and grandson Joseph); Kurt A. Paster of Livingston, NJ (grandson Matthew and granddaughter Kayla) and Kenneth M. Paster of Hillsborough, NJ.

Visitation will be Wednesday April 3, 2024 from 4-7:00pm at St. Vincent de Paul Roman Catholic Church, 250 Bebout Avenue, Stirling, NJ. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at the Church on Thursday, April 4, 2024 at 10:00am. Burial will follow at St. Vincent de Paul Cemetery in Stirling, NJ. The family of Mary Ann Paster respectfully requests any contributions made in her memory be directed to the Inpatient Hospice and Palliative Care Fund, c/o The Foundation for Morristown Medical Center, 310 South Street, 4th Floor, Morristown, NJ 07960. Donations may also be made online at https://www.f4mmc.org/donate-now/ and select “Inpatient Hospice and Palliative Care” as the designation.

Arrangements are under the direction of the Valley Memorial Funeral Funeral Home 1012 Valley Road., Gillette, NJ. For more information and online condolences visit valleymemorialfuneralhome.net.

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Raymond A Roman - August 12, 1961 - February 18, 2024

Departed: 02/18/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Raymond A. Roman "Kito" died Sunday February 18, 2024 at his home in Bernardsville, NJ. He was 62.

Raymond was born on August 12, 1961 in Puerto Rico, a son to the late Angel Manuel Roman and his wife Ana Victoria Roman, raised in Perth Amboy, NJ living in Metuchen, NJ before residing in Bernardsville for the last 7 years.

He worked at Runnells Hospital in Berkeley Heights for over 20 years and was a LPN at the Lyons VA Hospital for the last 2 years.

He served in the United States Army and was active with Martial Arts for many years. He loved to play video games, exercise and Yoga.

He is survived by his wife Amy (Stapperfenne) Roman, his daughters Faith Mary Roman and Jessie Adames, his sons Raymond Jr. and his wife Nikki Natiello Roman, and Christopher Roman and his significant other Megan Riedy, his brothers Angelo Roman, Willbert Roman and Jimmy Roman, and his sisters Annette Roman and Yvette Roman Phillips. He is also survived by his grandchildren Olivia, Zaymian, Christopher, Lalo, Mia and Emy and 2 great-grandchildren.

Visitation will be Thursday, February 22, 2024 from 4-7 PM at the Valley Memorial Funeral Home 1012 Valley Road, Gillette, NJ. A Funeral Service will be Friday February 23, 2024 at 10:00 AM at the Funeral Home. Entombment will follow at St. Mary Stony Hill Cemetery, Watchung, NJ. For more information and online condolences visit valleymemorialfuneralhome.net. Memorial contributions may be made to the go Fund Me page: https://gofund.me/f55e6c4e. Thank you!

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Lisa Marie Krais - January 10, 1969 - February 17, 2024

Departed: 02/17/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Lisa Marie Krais died peacefully in her home on Saturday, February 17, 2024, from complications of bladder cancer. She was 55.

Lisa was born on January 10, 1969, in Plainfield, NJ. She was the daughter of William D. and Rosanne Krais, and sister to William A. and Peter Krais.

Lisa was developmentally disabled from birth. But what Lisa may have lacked physically or cognitively, she made up for with a spirited personality and an ability to bring people together. Following her diagnosis, community members joined Lisa’s family to provide daily in-home therapies to help her reach her maximum potential. As a result, Lisa and her family developed strong, lifelong relationships with thoughtful and selfless friends. During her school age years, Lisa participated in, among others, the Beanstalk School at Kessler Institute for Rehabilitation in West Orange. As an adult, she spent many years receiving daily services from the Union County Day Training program.

Until 2023, Lisa was cared for by her parents in her family home. She benefited immeasurably from this loving and nurturing environment. She loved holidays when the house was filled with family and friends. She relished her mother’s cooking (maybe a little too much!) and sat at her father’s side while he read her one book after another. She loved playing with her brothers while growing up and was always eager to visit with them as adults. Long walks in her wheelchair brought her great peace and joy. She had a great laugh.

Last year, Lisa moved into a group home in Far Hills operated by Matheny Medical and Educational Center. This transition allowed Lisa to make new friends while receiving extraordinary care from a devoted team.

Family, friends, and even strangers came away changed after meeting Lisa and marveled at the loving and endless care that her parents provided.

Lisa is survived by her parents, Bill and Rosanne, her brothers, Peter and Bill, her sisters-in-law, Susan and Kathy, and her nieces and nephews, Timothy, Seamus, Molly, Quinn, Palmer, and Esme.

A wake is scheduled for February 20, from 3-7 pm, and a funeral service is scheduled for February 21, at 10:30 am at St. Vincent de Paul Catholic Church, in Stirling.

Flowers or contributions made to Matheny Medical and Educational Center, 65 Highland Avenue, PO Box 339, Peapack, NJ 07977 (https://matheny.org/support-us/donate/) will be graciously accepted.

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Cesare R Passarelli - October 18, 1935 - February 11, 2024

Departed: 02/11/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Cesare R Passarelli died Sunday February 11, 2024 in Morristown, NJ. He was 88.

He was born in the Bronx, NY, a son to the late Cecilia (Missio) and Richard Passarelli living in Yonkers, NY, and Closter, NJ before moving to Stirling, NJ in 1987.

Cesare worked as a Printer and Supervisor for UMDNJ in Newark, NJ before retiring in 2011. Prior employment was at Vogue Press in Yonkers, NY from 1972 - 1987.

He loved to Bowl and consistently posted great scores. He was a communicant of St. Vincent de Paul RC Church.

He is pre-deceased by his wife Patricia A (Gemmola) Passarelli in 2017.and his son-in-law Richard Haluska in 2020.

Cesare is survived by his son Richard Passarilli and his wife Kathleen and his two daughters Anne and her husband Raymond Lomupo and Dina Haluska.

He is also survived by his grandchildren Danielle, Sheila, Samantha, Richard, Michael, Penelope an Sandra and his great grandchildren Cesare, Mia, Angellina, Santino, Kayla, Lori, Isabelle, Nicholas, Alexa and Gabriel.

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Victor B. Tuma, - June 14, 1943 - February 08, 2024

Departed: 02/08/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Dr. Victor B. Tuma, MD died Thusday, February 8, 2024 at his home in Belmar, NJ with family by his side. He was 80 years old.

Vic was born in Orange, NJ on June14, 1943 a son to the late Catherine (Grimm) and Victor Tuma. He was raised in Springfield, NJ, moving to Philadelphia while in medical School from 1965 – 1972. He then moved with his wife Peggyann (Ferugia) and family to Edison, NJ where he lived from 1972- 2016. He summered in Belmar NJ since 2004 and became a permanent resident since 2020. Vic graduated Jonathan Dayton Regional High School class of 1961. He graduated with a BS from Providence College in 1965 and was admitted to the prestigious Friars Club, a significant student service/ social organization. He graduated cum laude and was the first member of his family to attend college. He left Rhode Island and headed to Philadelphia to attend Jefferson Medical School, obtaining his MD in 1969. He completed his residency including chief resident in Pediatrics from St. Christopher’s Childrens Hospital in Philadelphia, PA in 1972

He began his career with his long-time partner Dr. Eleftherios Halivopoulos in 1972 and was later joined by Dr Judy Farkas in 1984 where he practiced Pediatrics for over 50 years. Never retiring, he worked in the practice Metuchen Pediatrics now part of the Hackensack Meridian Health System. During his career he served on many committees as well as the Chief of Pediatrics from 1980-81 and again from 1993-2000 at JFK Medical Center. He cared for well over 10,000 children over his career. This spanned 4 generations of patients for many of his families.

A longtime parishioner of The Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi in Metuchen, NJ, he was a faithful man. Victor with his wife Peggyann where extremely active with Pre-canna, Marriage Encounter, and Retrouvaille. They hosted numerous Seder dinners at the church during the Lenten season. He sang in the Choir and ran a youth group for many years in their home. They volunteered with their children at the Saint Johns Soup Kitchen in Newark, NJ.

Never one to sit still, he was often found gardening and working around the home. He very much enjoyed watching his children and grandchildren perform in athletic, dancing and performing events through the years. He had a passion for traveling the world, reading and visiting with friends and family. He is predeceased by his wife Peggyann F. Tuma (2016) and is brother James J Tuma (2017). He is survived by his four children Gary A. Tuma, MD and his wife Rita, Craig V. Tuma and his wife Eileen, Heather T. Napolitano and her husband Michael and Glenn N. Tuma and his wife Mariana. He is also survived by his brother John Tuma and his wife Rita. Pop Pop was most proud of his 7 grandchildren Olivia, Jackson, Kyleigh, Delia, Emilia, Sienna, and Sidney.

Visitation will be Monday February 12, 2024 from 4-8 PM at St. Vincent de Paul RC Church 250 Bebout Ave., Stirling, NJ. A Mass of Christian Burial will be Tuesday, February 13, 2024 at 10:00 AM at the Church. Burial will follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery Ridgedale Avenue E. Hanover, NJ. Arrangements are under the direction of the Valley Memorial Funeral Home 1012 Valley Road., Gillette, NJ 07933. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital ALSAC/ St. Jude Children's Research Hospital 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105. Or stjude.org/donate.

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Anna Golden - August 03, 1928 - February 07, 2024

Departed: 02/07/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Anna Golden, nee Fusiak, died Wednesday, February 7, 2024 peacefully at her home in Millington, NJ. She was 95 years old.

Anna was born in Yonkers, NY on August 3, 1928, a daughter to the late Mary (Bybel) and Akim Fusiak.

Anna was raised in Jersey City, NJ, the oldest of three siblings. During WW2, Anna joined the war effort to work for Western Electric Co in a classified department and took a leave from her high school studies. After the war, she resumed her studies and ,at 19, graduated from William L Dickinson High School in Jersey City as a valedictorian. At Dickinson, she met Edward Golden, who became her husband in 1950. In 1957 they had their first son, Patrick, followed in 1959 by Tee and in the next 9 years their daughters Mary and Joanne were born.

In 1959 they purchased their home in Millington where all four children were raised and where Anna lived out her life. As a mother of four, Anna had a busy life. When her children reached school age, she became a very involved volunteer with the community as a den leader for Cub Scout Pack 56 and as a Girl Scout leader. In addition, she worked for the Lyons VA Medical Center in Lyons, NJ from 1980 to 1997.

As the children grew up and had their own children Grandma Anna became a great presence for her grandchildren and of course great help to their parents. As the grandchildren grew older Anna was able to focus more on volunteer work again. Having been a faithful and longtime volunteer to local resident Charlie White, she decided that she would honor his father’s wish to take on even more responsibility for Charlie. She became his legal guardian and remained so until his passing. Many in the community have recognized Anna for the effortless and endless help that she gave Charlie and that he benefited tremendously from. In 2017, she was awarded the Good Scout Award by the Boy Scouts’ local council, Patriot’s Path. The Good Scout Award is given to recognize outstanding citizens who serve as exemplary role models, chosen for their outstanding community service.

Anna was also a longtime volunteer with the Seniors of Long Hill Township and was for many years a volunteer at the biannual rummage sale for the VNA of Somerset Hills.

She has also been a long-time member and founder of a group of women who referred to their group as Stitch and Chat, which met regularly for more than 25 years. The women, from all corners of the world, created a lifelong support system of sisterhood among themselves.

She is predeceased by her husband Edward Golden (1986). She is survived by her four children, Patrick Golden and his wife, Lena, Tee Golden, Mary Taylor, and Joanne Banfi and her husband, Silvano. Grandma Anna was very loved by her grandchildren Linus, Griffin, Sophia, Massimo, Maija, Giulia, and Björn.

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J. Stephen Badgley - March 31, 1949 - February 01, 2024

Departed: 02/01/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: J Stephen "Steve" Badgley, died Saturday December 30, 2023 at Overlook Hospital in Summit, NJ. He was 74.

Steve was born on March 31, 1949 in Summit, NJ. Son of the late Robert H & Frances (Eastman) Badgley. His father Robert served as Mayor of New Providence, NJ in the 1950’s and his mother Frances was a founding member of the New Providence Historical Society.

Steve was a lifelong resident of New Providence, from 30 Glenside Road to 31 Barberry Lane. He graduated from New Providence High School in 1967, started his college career at Rutgers, and transferred to Huron College in South Dakota where he graduated with a BS in Biology in 1972.

Steve played NPHS soccer and volleyball. He was a Life Scout and active leader in Cub and Boy Scouts. He was a New Jersey State Champion Accordion Player, a member of the Amateur (Ham) Radio Club, and orchestrated lighting and effects for Chatham Community Players.

Steve met his high school sweetheart, Elaine Robbins, volunteering for the VA and EMS services. He was a 50-year Respiratory Therapist at Overlook and Morristown Memorial Hospitals. In the 1980s, he started a 30-year career as systems analyst and computer programmer for System Dynamics and Geneve Corporations in Stamford, CT. He shared time in both careers until he retired in 2017.

Steve loved time with family and faith. He was a committed Christian, attending Long Hill Chapel services, bible study groups, and playing in the Bell Choir.

Steve was predeceased by his wife Elaine Christine Badgley and his brother Dr. Robert H Badgley Jr - He is survived by his [3] children: John S Badgley, Erin A & husband Kurt Wade, and Daniel L & Jenna (Dente) Badgley- his [3] grandchildren: Sabrina, Gracelyn and Benjamin - and his great-grandson: Luca Martin-Badgley. He is also survived by a brother James L & Katherine (Mergler) Badgley, his sister Judith & husband J Parker Bailey, along with [11] nieces and nephews.

Funeral services are planned for May 4th, 2024. Details to follow. Memorial contributions may be made to: Red Cloud School. He was passionate about donating to the Lakota since his days in South Dakota. https://www.redcloudschool.org/page.aspx?pid=474 Wounded Warrior Project. https://support.woundedwarriorproject.org/default.aspx?tsid=10043&ovr_acv_id=5246

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John Peter Osmond - August 02, 1945 - January 30, 2024

Departed: 01/30/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: John Peter Osmond, known to all as “Pete,” passed away on January 30, 2024 at the age of 78, surrounded by his loved ones. He met a long, unidentified neuromuscular disease with bravery, optimism and even humor, managing enough strength to get home for a weekend and listen to the Borderland Music Festival from his back deck, his favorite spot to sit with friends and family and admire the beautiful yard he worked so hard to design, plant and maintain.

Pete was known for many things – his kindness, his generosity, his patriotism, his faith, his love of family and friends, and for celebrating birthdays, anniversaries and other major events on Newfoundland time. He loved a good catch phrase and often brought on equal parts laughter and groans for using the same ones repeatedly. “Blame is mandatory,” “Thank God it wasn’t a snake,” “To make a short story long . . . ,” “It’s too early to tell,” “I haven’t been properly trained” and “I’m functioning at a reduced capacity” were among his favorites. Unfortunately, the entire family has inherited the use of these one-liners. During the last two years of his life, his grandkids taught him how to binge watch TV shows, “proving you can teach an old dog new tricks.” Watching his last episode of Jeopardy, he got the right question for Final Jeopardy, as he did almost every night for at least four decades.

He was born in Fitchburg, MA to Austin L Osmond of Morton’s Harbor, Newfoundland and Geraldine (Fitzgerald) Enos of Norwich, Connecticut. Pete grew up as an only child in Ridley Park, PA, attending high school at Archmere Academy and then studying at Boston College. After participating in ROTC and graduating from BC in 1968, Pete became an officer and pilot in the Army and served in Vietnam flying “Birddogs” on reconnaissance missions. After his tour of duty, which ended in 1970, he remained on active duty and learned to fly helicopters. Pete served in the National Guard for over 25 years, officially retiring from the Army as a Major in 2005. He also worked for the Federal Aviation Administration and Lockheed Martin, living in Arizona, Alabama, Georgia, Connecticut and New York, finally settling in East Aurora, NY, where he raised his family and lived for over 45 years. After his retirement from Lockheed Martin and the FAA in 2007, he was a volunteer at Immaculate Conception Church, a member of the American Legion and an active caretaker for his grandchildren.

Pete is survived by his long-time partner, Kathy Nelsen; his sons, Tom (Tina) and Pete (Jane); and by five grandchildren: Jack, Tom, Ailis, Mallory and Fitzgerald.

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Eleanor Z Kielblock - September 15, 1926 - January 26, 2024

Departed: 01/26/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Eleanor Z. Kielblock died Friday, January 26, 2024 at her home in the Meyersville section of Gillette. She was 97.

Eleanor was born on September 15, 1926 in Gillette, NJ a daughter to the late Sophie (Illg) and Joseph Ziegelmeier. She was a lifelong resident of Meyersville, NJ.

She graduated High School from Morristown High School.

She started her career at the Piston Ring Factory in Stirling, NJ, worked as a telephone operator starting in Millington, NJ then Plainfield, NJ and was a school bus driver for many years. She was the wife of a farmer Edward A. Kielblock on Meyersville Road in Meyersville, NJ.

Eleanor was a life member of the Meyersville Grange, a member of the County Board of Agriculture, the Farm Bureau, The National AACA and the New Jersey Region and Watchung Mountain AACA and the Telephone Pioneers. She was a lifelong member of the Meyersville Presbyterian Church.

She was pre-deceased by her husband Edward A. Kielblock in 2001, her brothers William, Fred, and Walter Ziegelmeier, Thomas and Donald Maines, her grandchild Theodore Jr. and 2 great grand-babies Sylvi and Madison.

Eleanor is survived by her daughter Barbara Moody and her husband Theodore, her two sons Edward A. "Skeeter" Kielblock Jr. and his companion Erin Gilmartin, Robert C. Kielblock and his wife Lisa, a sister Mae Kingman and her husband Bill. Eleanor’s 8 grandchildren include Amy, Daniel, William, Kirsten, Alyssa, Emma, Jacob and Ann. Her 12 great grandchildren include Scarlett, Wesley, Joshua, Daniel Jr., Alexandria, Julia, Alletta, Soren, Lucca, Charles, Michael V and Ellowyn. Visitation will be Friday, February 2, 2024 from 4-8 PM at the Valley Memorial Funeral Home, 1012 Valley Road, Gillette, NJ. A Funeral Service will be held on Saturday, February 3, 2024 at 11:00 AM at the Meyersville Presbyterian Church, 223 Hickory Tavern Road Gillette, NJ. Burial will follow at Meyersville Cemetery, Meyersville Road, NJ. Memorial contributions may be made to the Meyersville Presbyterian Church .For more information and online condolences visit valleymemorialfuneralhome.net

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Anthony Joseph Viola - November 06, 1928 - January 18, 2024

Departed: 01/18/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Anthony Joseph Viola died Thursday, January 18, 2024 in Morristown, New Jersey.

He was 95.

Tony was born on November 6, 1928 to Vita and Pancrazio Viola in Mount Kisco, NY, but grew up in Manhattan and Queens.

At 17, he enlisted in the United States Army, stationed on the Aleution Islands, serving honorably from late 1945 through 1947.

He married high school sweetheart Theresa Natalizio in April, 1951. They first resided in Jackson Heights, Queens (where they had their first child), before moving in early 1955 to East Northport, NY. Tony continued to live in that house until his passing.

Tony enjoyed success in the automobile business, first as a mechanic, then moving to an executive position with the UK-based Rootes Group. Following that, working for Volkswagen Worldwide, he was part of the team responsible for setting up VW dealerships throughout North America. He also lobbied, getting legislation passed in Pennsylvania that opened the state for more equitable competition among auto manufacturers.

Later, he ran dealerships. He would spend most of his career as Vice President and Sales Manager of Bristol Motors, an independent VW dealer on Manhattan’s Upper East Side. From the mid-eighties until 1992, he worked as General Manager of Smithtown Toyota on Long Island, while also active in the town’s Rotary Club.

A busy retirement was spilt between his New York home and a cabin on Spectacle Pond in Island Pond, Vermont. There, he fished and read avidly, enjoyed cross country skiing and travelled--all while playing host to dear friends and a growing extended family.

At age 70, he began a second career as a sculptor, creating countless works for loved ones.

He was pre-deceased by his wife Theresa Viola, his parents, sister Martha Wellings and her husband, Donald, and their son Michael.

Tony is survived by sons Anthony J. Viola Jr. and his wife Filippa; Peter C. Viola and his wife Rose Anello; daughter Nancy Theresa Viola and her former husband Edward S. Wilk, and sister Gloria Viola and her family.

Also surviving him are seven beloved grandchildren: Marissa and her husband Christopher, Alexandra and her husband Daniel, Melissa "Mimi" and her husband Austin, Natalie and her fiancé Cameron, Emily and her husband Bob, Andrew and Matthew and his girlfriend Carly, and a great-grandson named for him, Owen Anthony.

Additional survivors include cherished nieces, nephews and their families, as well as many friends and former business colleagues.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be Saturday, February 10, 2024, 10:00 AM at St. Vincent de Paul RC Church 250 Bebout Ave., Stirling, NJ. Interment will follow at St. Vincent de Paul Cemetery, Stirling. Arrangements are under the direction of the Valley Memorial Funeral Home 1012 Valley Road, Gillette, NJ.

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Patricia Olive Clark - September 27, 1931 - January 05, 2024

Departed: 01/05/2024 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Patricia (Horner} Clark passed away at 92 on Friday afternoon, January 5th, 2024.

She was the beloved wife of John "sonny" Clark to whom she was married for 68 years.

Patricia was born and spent her early years in Portland Maine. The daughter of Clifford Jackson and Phebe Horner she moved to Kent Place Blvd in Summit NJ, where they lived for many years. She graduated from Summit High School.

She met and married John Clark and they lived in New Providence, Berkeley Heights, and Millington NJ. After John's death she moved to Brightview Assisted Living in Warren, NJ where she spent her last years.

Patricia was an active and creative woman who had many interests. During the family's boating years she was the navigator and first mate...During the "horse" years she was in charge of the barn and kept things running smoothly. She had a horse which she rode and in addition trained to drive a cart. She later worked in Barbara's Shop in Chester for many years...mastering the cash register. She spent many hours painting furniture for customers. She was a self taught artist and painted in many mediums.

She was an avid reader, loved to cook and eat, and kept a garden.

She leaves her three children Steven G. Clark, Barbara L. Collins, and Martha M. Malavasi; five grandchildren Leigh Ann Panas, Erica Lang, Jennifer Neebling, Trisha Malavasi and John Malavasi; six great grandchildren Matthew Panas, Clark Panas, Stephen Panas. Jackson Lang, Blake Lang.and Holly Malavasi.

Services were private and under the direction of the Valley Memorial Funeral Home 1012 Valley Road., Gillette, NJ. For more information and online condolences visit valleymemorialfuneralhome.net.

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J. Stephen Badgley - March 31, 1949 - December 30, 2023

Departed: 12/30/2023 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: J Stephen "Steve" Badgley, died Saturday December 30, 2023 at Overlook Hospital in Summit, NJ. He was 74.

Steve was born on March 31, 1949 in Summit, NJ. Son of the late Robert H & Frances (Eastman) Badgley. His father Robert served as Mayor of New Providence, NJ in the 1950’s and his mother Frances was a founding member of the New Providence Historical Society.

Steve was a lifelong resident of New Providence, from 30 Glenside Road to 31 Barberry Lane. He graduated from New Providence High School in 1967, started his college career at Rutgers, and transferred to Huron College in South Dakota where he graduated with a BS in Biology in 1972.

Steve played NPHS soccer and volleyball. He was a Life Scout and active leader in Cub and Boy Scouts. He was a New Jersey State Champion Accordion Player, a member of the Amateur (Ham) Radio Club, and orchestrated lighting and effects for Chatham Community Players.

Steve met his high school sweetheart, Elaine Robbins, volunteering for the VA and EMS services. He was a 50-year Respiratory Therapist at Overlook and Morristown Memorial Hospitals. In the 1980s, he started a 30-year career as systems analyst and computer programmer for System Dynamics and Geneve Corporations in Stamford, CT. He shared time in both careers until he retired in 2017.

Steve loved time with family and faith. He was a committed Christian, attending Long Hill Chapel services, bible study groups, and playing in the Bell Choir.

Steve was predeceased by his wife Elaine Christine Badgley and his brother Dr. Robert H Badgley Jr - He is survived by his [3] children: John S Badgley, Erin A & husband Kurt Wade, and Daniel L & Jenna (Dente) Badgley- his [3] grandchildren: Sabrina, Gracelyn and Benjamin - and his great-grandson: Luca Martin-Badgley. He is also survived by a brother James L & Katherine (Mergler) Badgley, his sister Judith & husband J Parker Bailey, along with [11] nieces and nephews.

Funeral services are planned for May 4th, 2024. Visitation will be held at the New Providence Presbyterian Church at 11:00 AM. Interment of Cremanins will be held at 1:00 PM and a Memorial Service will be held at 1:30 PM. Memorial Contributions can be made to: Red Cloud School. He was passionate about donating to the Lakota since his days in South Dakota. https://www.redcloudschool.org/page.aspx?pid=474 Wounded Warrior Project. https://support.woundedwarriorproject.org/default.aspx?tsid=10043&ovr_acv_id=5246

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James Hughes - September 20, 1941 - December 25, 2023

Departed: 12/25/2023 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: James P. Hughes entered into Eternal Rest on December 25, 2023 at Center for Hope Hospice in Scotch Plains. James “Jim” was born in 1941 to the late Lillian (Quinn) and Patrick Hughes in Newark, NJ. He lived in Bloomfield during his early childhood, before moving to Irvington in 1955. Jim was a long-time resident of Irvington before moving to Basking Ridge in 2019.

Jim was a graduate of Archbishop Walsh High School and Seton Hall University. He served as a member of the National Guard. He worked for the Social Security Division of Disability Determination for 35-years, where he was supervisor. He retired in 2008.

Jim was a deeply religious man and was a daily communicant at mass. He prayed the rosary daily. He served as a lector and cantor at St. Leo's RC Church in Irvington. Additionally, he was a member of the Holy Name Society, the Knights of Columbus and the Serra Club of the Oranges. He had a great devotion to the Blessed Mother Mary. One of his favorite trips was travelling to Fatima, Portugal where the Blessed Mother appeared to 3 young children in 1917.

Jim was also a man of diverse interests and had a love for learning new things. He found great pleasure in teaching himself to play the keyboard and guitar, and learning how to speak and read Spanish, Portuguese, German and Gaelic. During the summer months, he enjoyed listening and watching Yankee games. He consistently offered an endless array of jokes to bring a smile to everyone’s faces. For many years, he was a loving caretaker to his mother, aunts and to those who needed a helping hand around his parish. Jim was a selfless, thoughtful man, who seldom spoke of his own accomplishments. He much preferred to listen and celebrate the success of his friends and family who he held so dear. Jim is survived by his brother Patrick (Mary) Hughes, his sisters: Mary (Thomas) Giblin, Lillian Shaw, Sheila (Edward) O'Donnell. He is also survived by 15 nieces and nephews:

Thomas Giblin, Teddy Giblin, Patrick Giblin, Noreen Giblin Karnes, Anne McDonald, Thomas Shaw, Bill Shaw, Brendan Shaw, Brian Shaw, Terri Shaw Kowalczyk, Edward O’Donnell, Patricia Carfora, Patrick Hughes, Kevin Hughes and Maureen Ladieu. Visitation will be Friday, December 29, 2023 from 3-7 PM at the Valley Memorial Funeral Home 1012 Valley Road., Gillette, NJ. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday December 30, 2023 at St. Vincent de Paul RC Church 250 Bebout Avenue, Stirling, NJ. Interment will follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery, East Hanover NJ. Contributions in Jim’s Memory may be made to: Immaculate Conception Seminary School of Theology 400 South Orange Ave South Orange, NJ 07079 Attn: Michael Burt (senior Dir. Seminary Advancement) -please write in memory of James Hughes on check memo line

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Stephanie Robel - June 28, 1931 - November 26, 2023

Departed: 11/26/2023 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Stephanie Robel died Sunday, November 26, 2026 at St. Clare's Hospital in Denville, NJ. She was 92.

Stephanie was born in Newark, NJ on June, 28, 1931 a daughter to the late Katherine (Cieberia) and Michael Szalus. She lived in Stirling, NJ before moving to Succasunna, NJ 2 years ago.

She worked for the Independent Press in New Providence, then focused on her family as a homemaker.

Stephanie was a volunteer at Morristown Memorial Hospital in Morristown, Nj, and loved to spend her time at the Jersey Shore, her favorite beach was in Point Pleasant, NJ.

She was pre-deceased by her husband Raymond Robel.

Stephanie is survived by her 3 sons Kevin Robel and his wife Gail, Michael Robel and his wife Deborah, and Mark Robel and his wife Carol, a brother Fred Szalus and his wife Betty, five grandchildren: Larissa, Emmie, Cassie, Valeen and Laura, and five great grandchildren Dylan, Wesley, Kale, Izabella and Ayden.

Memorial Contributions may be made to Suicide Prevention.

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Judith Vreeland - September 21, 1944 - November 25, 2023

Departed: 11/25/2023 (Gillette)

Obituary Preview: Judy Vreeland, 79, of Bedminster, the wife of Wiliamson Vreeland, passed away peacefully on Saturday, November 25, 2023.

Born, September 21, 1944, in Montebello, CA, she was the daughter of Alexander and Elsa Simon.

Judy graduated from Summit High School and Valparaíso University. She also did graduate work at Rutgers University.

Early in her career Judy worked as a social worker for the State of New Jersey and as an insurance adjuster for Kemper Insurance Company. After her daughter was born, she worked as a beauty consultant for Avon Corporation. Later Judy suffered with Bipolar Disease and wrote a book, The Day I Fired My Psychiatrist, which has been and continues to be helpful to many people.

Family was very important to Judy. She was a terrific cook, and her homemade coffee cake and blueberry pie were especially cherished and still form happy family memories. The family also bonded during summer vacations at Long Beach Island.

She was a long-time member of Somerset Hills Lutheran Church where she was active in Bible study, Stephens Ministry, and the choir. She is survived by her husband, Wiliamson, her daughter and son-in-law, Carrie and Ronald Killian, and grandchildren, Abigail and Alexander Ruffner and Casey and Tyler Killian

A memorial service will be celebrated at Somerset Hills Lutheran Church, at 10:00 am on Tuesday, December 5. Memorial donations can be made to Somerset Hills Lutheran Church, 350 Lake Road, Basking Ridge, NJ 07920

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, funeral or memorial service arrangements, and any charitable organizations or causes that the deceased supported during their lifetime.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences to the grieving family. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. Funeral homes or mortuaries may also offer assistance in writing an obituary as part of their services.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral or memorial service arrangements, charitable donations, and other personal details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and help people remember the deceased.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the most basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed tribute that provides additional information about the person's life and legacy.

Where can I publish an obituary?

Obituaries can be published in local newspapers, online obituary platforms, funeral home websites, social media, and other digital channels. The choice of publication will depend on your personal preferences and the audience you want to reach.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication or platform. Some online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while traditional newspapers may charge by the word or line.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to reflect on their life and leave a lasting legacy. This can be a meaningful exercise in self-reflection and can also help to ensure that your story is told in your own words.

What is an online obituary?

An online obituary is a digital version of a traditional printed obituary. It can be shared on social media, sent via email, or posted on websites and online platforms dedicated to sharing obituaries.

How long do online obituaries stay online?

The duration that an online obituary remains available varies depending on the platform or website. Some sites may keep them online indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period of time.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after it's been published. However, this will depend on the policies of the publication or platform where it was originally posted.

What is a memorial website?

A memorial website is a dedicated online space where friends and family can share memories, photos, and stories about the deceased. These sites often include features such as guestbooks, photo galleries, and donation pages.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or websites that specialize in storing historical records. You can also contact local libraries or genealogical societies for assistance in finding old obituaries.

Can I use an obituary as a eulogy?

A well-written obituary can serve as a starting point for crafting a eulogy. However, you may want to expand on the information included in the obituary and add more personal anecdotes and stories to make it more engaging for your audience.

What is the purpose of an obituary in modern times?

In today's digital age, obituaries continue to play an important role in announcing a person's passing and providing closure for those who are grieving. They also serve as a way to preserve memories and tell the story of someone's life.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes! While an obituary should be respectful, it's also okay to inject some humor or personality into the writing. This can help capture the essence of the person being remembered and make the tribute more relatable and engaging.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper directly to inquire about their submission process and deadlines. Be prepared to provide all necessary information and payment (if required) according to their guidelines.

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If you're struggling with grief or feeling overwhelmed by the task of writing an obituary for someone who has recently passed away, consider seeking support from friends, family members, or professional writers who specialize in crafting tributes.

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Including survivors in an obituary acknowledges their loss and provides important context for those reading about the deceased. It also serves as a way to notify extended family members and friends about who is left behind.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes or lyrics that were meaningful to the deceased can add depth and personality to the tribute. Just be sure to verify copyright permissions if necessary.

How do I proofread an obituary for errors?

Carefully review the text multiple times for spelling mistakes, grammatical errors, and factual inaccuracies before submitting it for publication. Consider having someone else review it as well for added peace of mind.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be effective ways to share news of a loved one's passing with friends and acquaintances. You can post a link to the online obituary or share key details directly on your profile page.