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Ronald L. Tralmer - August 17, 1932 - May 21, 2024

Departed: 05/21/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Ronald L. Tralmer, age 91, of Tomah, Wisconsin, passed away on Tuesday, May 21, 2024, at the Tomah VA Medical Center.

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Kari L. Bentheimer - February 07, 1962 - May 17, 2024

Departed: 05/17/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Kari L. Bentheimer, age 62, of Hillsboro, Wisconsin, passed away Friday, May 17, 2024, at the UW Hospital in Madison, Wisconsin.

Born February 7, 1962, to Perry and Janis Bentheimer, Kari's life was one marked by the joy she found in the simple pleasures. She had an innate ability to find happiness in the laughter of her children and grandchildren, the beauty of a garden in bloom, and the thrill of the open road beneath her motorcycle. Kari's love for the outdoors was evident in her passion for camping and hiking, activities that she often shared with her family and friends. She always loved watching the sunrise, whether it was from her kitchen window or over the lake.

Kari's legacy continues through her beloved grandchildren, Elle and NovaLee, who were the light of her life. She delighted in every moment spent with them, especially doing arts and crafts.

Kari's life was a beautiful tapestry woven with love, kindness, and adventure. Her spirit will continue to guide us. Though she has set off on her final journey, the memories she created will forever remain in the hearts of her family and friends. A life well-lived and a soul that touched so many.

She is survived by her children, Alex Degenhardt (Melanie), Perry Ravet (Elizabeth) and Kendra Ravet (Justin), granddaughters, Elle and NovaLee, sisters, Lisa (Martin) Potter, Ledi (Dean) Loeffler and Mari Buechner, former husbands, Michael Degenhardt and Michael Ravet, nieces, nephews, special friend, Karl Hagenah, other relatives and friends.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Perry and Janis.

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Marlyn Donald Kemnitz - July 01, 1949 - May 07, 2024

Departed: 05/07/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Marlyn Donald Kemnitz, age 74, of Tomah, WI, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, May 7, 2024 at Tomah Health, after a courageous fight to the very end with cancer. He was born on July 1, 1949 to Donald and Kathleen (Dunn) Kemnitz.

Marlyn's journey began as the cherished son of his parents in the Madison area, where he spent his formative years before graduating from Madison West High School. He furthered his education by earning a Bachelor's degree in Engineering from Madison School of Engineering (MSOE), which laid the foundation for a successful career.

Professionally, Marlyn was known for his sharp intellect and strong work ethic. He began his career at North Electric in Ohio and continued to make significant contributions to the telecommunications industry at Platteville Telephone Company. His expertise and leadership skills eventually led him to the role of Engineering Manager for CenturyLink, where he left an indelible mark through his dedication and innovative thinking.

Beyond his professional life, Marlyn was a devoted family man. He shared 45 years of love and companionship with his wife, Julie Kemnitz. Together, they raised their son, Don (Carrie) Kemnitz, and daughter, Tammy (Tim) Berry, Marlyn was a proud grandfather to Marley and Macy Kemnitz, and bonus granddaughters, Savannah and Dani. He also held a special place in his heart for his grandsons, Jordan (Savahna) Gibbard and Skyler (Trinity) Berry.

Marlyn was a beloved brother to Michael (Dawn) Kemnitz and Donna Johnson, and a respected brother-in-law to Lee (Kathy) Matthews. His family extended to numerous special nieces, nephews, cousins, other relatives, and friends who will fondly remember his warmth and generosity.

An avid outdoorsman, Marlyn's love for hunting and fishing knew no bounds. He found solace and joy in the tranquility of nature and was happiest when he was in the woods or by the water with a fishing rod in hand. His love for the great outdoors was a testament to his appreciation for life's simple pleasures.

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Brenda J. Solum - August 21, 1944 - May 06, 2024

Departed: 05/06/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Brenda J. Solum, age 79, of Tomah, Wisconsin passed away on Monday, May 6, 2024, at Mayo Hospital in Rochester, Minnesota, after a brief illness. She was born on August 21, 1944, in Tomah, Wisconsin to Roy “Babe” and Colene (Lambert) Harp.

Before Brenda found her forever love, Lloyd, with whom she united on January 25, 1969, she was briefly married to LaVern Woodard, a union that blessed her with her daughters, Debra and Lisa. Her love story with Lloyd blossomed by the soda fountain of Steele’s drugstore, a sweet beginning to a romance that would stand the test of time.

Professionally, Brenda dedicated 41 years to Dean's Refrigeration, where her diligent work in the office was a testament to her strong work ethic and commitment. She served her community with pride as the Town of Grant Clerk.

First and foremost, family was everything to Brenda. She never missed a gathering or event and being together brought her great happiness. Brenda found joy in the thrill of casinos, the intricate beauty of diamond painting, and the excitement of planning travels. A mother with a strict yet sassy approach, Brenda instilled the importance of family traditions, creating a loving bond that will be treasured for generations.

Brenda is survived by her daughters, Debra (Mike) Bauer and Lisa (Ron) Scheitler, her sister, Roxie (Jack) O'Connor, her grandchildren, Jenny Rattle, Jessica (Anthony) Reeves, and Dylan (Alysse) Scheitler, and her great-grandchildren, Taylor and Mason Reeves, and Henry and Eleanor Scheitler. She is further survived by numerous nieces, nephews, other relatives, and special friends.

She was preceded by her parents, her husband, Lloyd, her sister, Bev McFarlane, and her beloved grandchildren, Abigail and Dana Scheitler, and great-granddaughter, Maxine Scheitler.

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Geraldine "Gerry" Vera Jacob - February 02, 1926 - April 25, 2024

Departed: 04/25/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Geraldine Vera Jacob, age 98, formerly of Tomah, passed away peacefully on Thursday, April 25, 2024, in Burlington, Iowa. She was born February 2, 1926, to James and Vera Robertson at the farm home south of Tomah, Wisconsin.

Following graduation from Tomah High School, she attended La Crosse Technical School and then worked as a secretary for the American Red Cross at the hospital at Fort McCoy.

She was married in 1945, to her high school sweetheart, Russell Jacob for 66 years. They raised two daughters, Adena and Angela and farmed until 1966. In the early years, they both worked at the Habelman cranberry business in Warrens. In 1976, Gerry worked for the Tomah Public Schools as an aid to special needs students.

She was a lifelong member of the United Methodist Church, serving as Sunday School teacher, Director of Vacation Bible School, and committee member. She was a proud member of the United Methodist Women and Elizabeth Circle. Her community interests included the Tomah Area Food Shelf, Red Cross bloodmobile and American Legion Auxiliary. Gerry loved the Milwaukee Braves (in the day) and always the Green Bay Packers!

She was a devoted grandma to Krista (Hanson) Love and Karrie Hanson of Seattle, WA, and Melissa (Sharp) Olson of Burlington, IA. Her great grandchildren, Kailee Sharp and Baylen Olson in Iowa and Emily Hanson in Seattle, WA were her “loves”, along with a great great granddaughter scheduled to be born on the day of her passing. She was a loving aunt to many nieces and nephews in Tomah, California, and Georgia.

Gerry became a devoted care giver to her husband during years of kidney failure and dialysis. Following his death, she moved to Iowa, and enjoyed many happy years in an apartment at King’s Sons and Daughters Home, a few blocks from Angela, her constant companion and advocate. At age 93, a fall sent her to Great River Medical Center. Weakness and failing memory issues placed her in Cobblestone Hill, where she was well cared for until her passing.

Geraldine was preceded in death by an infant son, her husband, and daughter, Angela. She was the last of her family, preceded by her parents, and sisters, Berniece Hancock and June Gerke.

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Tommy Lee Miller - May 01, 1958 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Tommy Lee Miller, 65, of Warrens, Wisconsin, passed away on April 21, 2024. He was born on May 1, 1958 and raised in Illinois where he met his beautiful wife Mary (Hogan) Miller. He was a devoted father to his sons Shane Adam Miller and Jeremy Lee Miller.

Tommy had a fulfilling career, starting at Johns Manville in Waukegan, IL and later transitioning to work as a commercial Union painter.

Tommy had a passion for hunting and fishing throughout his life, starting when he was a boy. Tommy’s niece Allison has fond memories of her Uncle Tommy teaching her how to ice fish when she was a young girl. Tommy was a father figure for his nephew Dan Hogan, taking Dan fishing many times in both Summer and Winter. Dan spent a lot of time with Tom and Mary enjoying family dinners and watching NASCAR. Tommy even helped Dan fix a water pump on his first truck.

Tommy had a love of gardening. He always had crops to share and even made his own “PaPa’s Pickles”. He cherished the tranquility of his country home in Warrens, where he cultivated beautiful vegetable gardens and formed lasting friendships with his neighbors.

Tommy adored spending time with his sons, Shane and Jeremy, and his grandsons, Kyle and Aiden. He turned his backyard into a fun playground for his grandsons, creating cherished memories with them. In recent years, he was always accompanied by his loyal dog, Siri.

Tommy's love story with his wife Mary began in their teenage years in Northern Illinois in the Zion/Wadsworth area. Many Sundays were spent playing softball with their neighborhood friends near Newport school in Wadsworth. Tommy and Mary were married Sept 16, 1978, and eventually moved to Wisconsin, living for some time in Trevor, WI, and then Franksville, WI. In 2014, Tommy and Mary settled in Warrens, WI. Tommy and Mary had many wonderful adventures together, even briefly living near the Atlantic coast in South Carolina, where they developed a love of seafood. Many delicious feasts were enjoyed at the Miller kitchen table.

Tommy is survived by his wife Mary, son Jeremy, and grandsons Kyle Miller and Aiden Carpenter. Tommy was preceded in death by his son Shane Miller.

Tommy had a laugh that could fill a room. He will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and all who had the pleasure of knowing him. May he rest in peace. I’M FREE!

Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m free.

I’m following the path God laid for me.

I took his hand when I heard his call.

I turned my back and left it all.

I could not stay another day. To laugh, to love,

to work, to play.

Tasks left undone must stay that way.

I’ve found that peace at the close of the day.

If my parting has left a void.

Then fill it with remembered joy.

A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss.

Ah yes these things I too will miss. Be not burdened with times of sorrow,

I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow. My life’s been full, I savored much,

Good friends, good times, a loved one’s touch. Perhaps my time seemed all too brief,

Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief. Lift up your heart and share with me, God wanted me now,

He set me free.

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Dr. Constance "Connie" A. Petrick - June 23, 1953 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Dr. Constance Arlene Petrick, beloved sister and cherished friend, passed away on April 17, 2024, at the age of 70. Born on June 23, 1953, in Eau Claire, Wisconsin, Connie was the second of eight children born to Arlene and John Petrick.

Connie's journey began in northwest Wisconsin, where she graduated from Eau Claire Memorial High School in 1971. She continued on to the University of Wisconsin at Eau Claire before eventually graduating as an MD from the University of Wisconsin in 1979.

Throughout her life, Connie's medical practice brought her all across the country, from the rugged landscapes of Alaska to the shores of South Carolina and many places in between. Connies last professional endeavor prior to retirement was working as an Occupational Physician at Amoco Oil in Texas. Connie enjoyed being a hobby rancher and had wonderful memories of her cattle and land. Beyond her professional endeavors, Connie had innumerable passions and talents. She was celebrated as a dog breeder, achieving the prestigious honor of Best in Breed at the Westminster Dog Show. Her love for animals extended beyond the canine world, as she cared for several farm animals with the same tenderness and dedication.

An avid outdoorswoman, Connie seized every opportunity to explore nature's wonders, often embarking on adventures with the friends and family she loved more than anything. On one occasion, Connie and her sister misjudged when their boat would be departing from Alaska. Upon arriving at the port, the sisters could only laugh as they saw the massive vessel out on the water, well on its way south. Connie’s zest for life brought joy to all who had the privilege of knowing her. She would live the last years of her life in Wisconsin, back in the place she called home. Her return to Wisconsin brought much joy through several home renovations, gardening and biking. Connie’s vast knowledge spanned numerous subjects, reflecting her belief that one’s education never truly ends.

Connie is preceded in death by her parents, Arlene and John Petrick, and her sister, Tonya Anderson.

She is survived by her sisters Sally Fitzgerald, Corine Twin, Christine Lund Holtz, Laurel Riedel, and Barb (Vern) Jesse, her brother, John (Dorothy) Petrick, and a multitude of nieces, nephews, and friends whose lives were enriched by her presence.

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Ginger V. Baier - June 26, 1950 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Ginger V. Baier, age 73, of Kendall, Wisconsin passed away on Sunday, April 14, 2024. She was born on June 26, 1950, in Milwaukee, WI, to Herman and Betty (Carlson) Baier.

Ginger will be remembered for her dynamic role within the Madison Area Transgender Association, tirelessly championing for the rights and recognition of her peers. She was a beacon of strength and inspiration, not only within the association but also in her personal life, Ginger ran for office in Sun Prairie, and although did not win, she gave it a valiant effort, something she was very proud of.

She is survived by her sons, Adam, Matthew, and Josh; several grandchildren and great grandchildren; special friend, Christine Seaton; and many other friends and relatives.

Ginger's memory will be cherished and celebrated in the hearts she touched throughout her remarkable journey.

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John Patrick Emery - March 17, 1961 - April 13, 2024

Departed: 04/13/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: John Patrick Emery (Moraje), 63, of Tomah walked on April 13, 2024, at Gundersen Hospital in La Crosse, Wisconsin. He was born on March 17, 1961, in Portage, Wisconsin. John loved his family, golfing, hunting, and fishing. No matter where you were in the state, he would have a restaurant suggestion. He loved to tease, was quick to laugh, and a good friend to many.

He was always coming up with ideas for business ventures, even though few came to fruition, he never stopped dreaming and planning. John was a self-taught handyman who was always willing to help anyone.

John was a beloved cooka, nephew, father, and husband who loved spoiling his grandkids.

John was preceded in death by his mother, Linda Greendeer, and a sister, Estelle.

He is survived by his wife, Patti Emery, children Malachi (Amanda Sweeney) of Tomah, MicahMarie (Jordan) McCann of Holmen, Marishah (Zach) Schwanke of Tomah, ManaenJohn (Kara) of Tomah, stepson Jon (Sara) Bohnsack of Portage, Kaleena Emery of Tomah as well as 9 grandchildren, Macy, Zaden, Jadali, Alice, Mereck, Mavreck, Evelynne, Bruin, and Ellyana. He is further survived by many other relatives and friends.

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Donald F. Marsh - April 10, 1937 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Donald Frank Marsh, a longtime resident of Necedah, WI passed away peacefully on Monday, April 8, 2024, at the age of 86 after a long battle with Parkinson’s Disease.

The son of Lasca (McCollough) and William Marsh, he was born on April 10th, 1937. He spent his youth in Adams and Necedah, often visiting his grandparents in Bagley to help on the farm. Don graduated from Necedah High School in 1955 where he lettered in basketball. He then joined the Army, serving in Massachusetts and Okinawa, Japan, from 1955 to 1958.

He met Janice Fry in high school where they became friends and where she is known to have thought Don was very handsome. They kept in contact while he was serving in the military. Don married Janice in 1961 at the Methodist Church in Necedah after she graduated from nursing college. Together they raised two daughters. Don believed in higher education and strived to attain the best for his new family. He earned college credits while in the army and upon return he completed college classes from Platteville, Stevens Point, and eventually completed a degree from the Wisconsin School of Electronics while working for Oscar Mayer. He spent most of his career as an Engineer for Wisconsin Bell/AT&T, moving every few years to growing cities. When moving his family became too much, Don and his wife took over the family tavern in their hometown of Necedah. He eventually went back to consulting work for the phone company and lived with Janice in Franklin, WI until retirement.

Don loved racing go carts in his early years, and enjoyed hunting, fishing, boating, camping, spending time at the lake and traveling with his family and friends. He especially loved his vacations with his siblings and sharing memories. During his life he was active in his communities, serving as a Kiwanis and Lions Club member, became a Notary Public, and sat on the village board for many years. He loved fixing up the old house they purchased upon moving back to Necedah and passed that knowledge on to his children. That house would become his sanctuary during his health struggles. It brought him so much joy to sit in the 4 season back porch and watch the activity of wildlife on the river and in the backyard, often seeing a train passing on the tracks. He also took that time to enjoy his love of reading and watching his favorite old movie channels with Janice. His home away from home was his property on the outskirts of town where he would hunt. Don always had a passion for learning new things and tinkered with woodworking and electronics.

Don is survived by his loving wife Janice, daughters Julie (Scott) Thoreson of Germantown, WI, and Diane (Randy) Waddell of Tomah, WI. Grandchildren Sean (Kirsten)Thoreson, Skylar Thoreson, Jenna (Will Gruenert) Waddell and Seth (Danielle) Waddell. Great grandchildren Oliver Thoreson, Aceyn Christoffel, Jackson Waddell, Beckham Waddell, and Buckley Christoffel. He is further survived by his siblings Garry (Janet) Marsh of Monona, WI, Cheri (Arnold) McMillan of Las Cruces, NM, Nan (Donavan) Mayer of Paynesville, MN, sister-in-law Jeanine Fry of Janesville, WI and many nieces, nephews and cousins.

He was preceded in death by his parents; in-laws Marvin and Ruth Fry; brothers-in-law, James Davis, Myron Fry, and Gene Fry; niece Erika Davis.

We will be forever grateful for the wonderful, respectful and compassionate care that was given to him by everyone during his time at Mile Bluff Hospital/Fairview Nursing & Rehabilitation Center in Mauston.

In honoring Don’s wishes, a private graveside memorial with military honors will be held in the Bayview Cemetery in Necedah. Memorials may be given to the Necedah High School Alumni Association Inc. in Don’s memory for future scholarships.

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Lillian "Lynn" Baumgarten - January 25, 1949 - March 18, 2024

Departed: 03/18/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Lillian “Lynn” Lucille Baumgarten, of Tomah, passed away at the Serenity House on Monday, March 18, 2024. She was 75.

Lynn was born on January 25, 1949, to Henry and Georgia (Goodman) Cordle in Doran, Virginia. When she was 3, the family moved to Stateline Branch, Kentucky, where Henry worked as a coal miner. In 1965, Lynn moved with her family to Milwaukee, where she completed her education at Washington High School.

While working in the mailroom at the Inland Steel Company in Milwaukee, she met Thomas “Tom” Baumgarten, a young draftsman from Tomah. On December 27, 1969, the couple married at St. Mary’s Catholic Church in Tomah. After brief stays in Georgia and Milwaukee, they settled down in Tomah where they built their lifelong home and later adopted two boys, Eric and Mark.

Lynn was a member of Queen of the Apostles Catholic Parish and served in the Parish Council of Catholic Women. She would volunteer in the church kitchen for funeral luncheons and soup suppers preceding the Stations of the Cross. She was an avid quilter and took great pleasure in making beautiful, warm quilts for friends and family. She also made altar cloths for Queen of the Apostles, as well as dozens of baby quilts for use during baptisms at the church.

For more than 20 years, she worked in the billing department at Tomah Memorial Hospital. She was also employed by the Tomah Cash Store for 8 years.

She enjoyed playing euchre with friends and loved animals. Lynn also found joy in traveling with Tom and visited lighthouses throughout the country. When not traveling she enjoyed spending time at home with her pets, sitting in the four-season porch, watching wildlife outside and playing games on her iPad. Later in life, she and Tom ate breakfast most mornings at Perkins.

She also relished every opportunity to spend time with her granddaughter Davis, who was the delight of her life.

Lynn is survived by Tom, her sons Eric (Sandy) Baumgarten of Tomah and Mark (Paige) Baumgarten of Minneapolis, and her granddaughter Davis. She is further survived by her brother Jeffrey Cordle and her sisters, Pamela Frost, Marsha Pickl, Tommie Blackburn, Nancy Justice and Barb Beaudry.

She is preceded in death by her parents, brother William Ernest “Ernie” Cordle and sister Jo Ann Cordle.

The family would like to extend its sincere gratitude to the staff of Serenity House for their kindness and caring treatment of Lynn.

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Hollis Burton Herbison - December 20, 1928 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Hollis B. Herbison, age 95, of Tomah, WI, passed away on Sunday, March 17, 2024 at his home. He was born in the Town of Pilsen, Bayfield County, WI, on December 20, 1928, to Richard and Esther (Reed) Herbison.

Hollis graduated from Potosi, WI High School where he was both valedictorian and bottom of his graduating class (yes, he was the only student). Hollis followed his father into the field of education, attending Juneau County Teachers College and obtaining a teaching certificate in 1950. He began his teaching career with 44 students, grades 1 through 8, in a one-room country school in Grand Marsh, WI. He then moved on to Adams, WI where he taught 4th grade and his “extra duties as assigned” included 7th grade chorus, boys basketball, and driving school bus on emergency runs. Hollis's summer jobs included work with a survey crew on Castle Rock and Petenwell dams and as a spotter in a firetower near Necedah. He later went on to further his education at UW-Whitewater and UW- Stevens Point, earning two Master's degrees.

Hollis was united in marriage with Alyce Schmidt on July 23, 1955 at the Methodist Church in Necedah, WI. After their honeymoon at Copper Falls, Hollis and Alyce moved to Lake Geneva, WI where he was a teacher and then principal at Eastview Elementary School for 34 years. Hollis and Alyce spent much of their 66-year marriage traveling. Their love of travel took them to all 50 States, Canada, and Paris where they made it to the top of the Eiffel Tower. Together they also wintered in Arizona for 16 years.

Hollis was a Mason for 70 years, during which time he was a member of Necedah, Lake Geneva, and Tomah Lodges, as well as Zor Shrine. He enjoyed golfing, telling stories, and collecting classic cars; Hollis's cars won many awards at local car shows.

Hollis is survived by his sister Janet Smith of Tomah, WI; nieces Carleen Smith of Oregon, Valerie (Ed) White of Arizona, and Connie (Gary) Bower of Prairie du Sac, WI; nephews Bruce (Rosemary) Bishop of Oregon, Larry (Bushra) Puechner of Texas, and Ron (Martha) Puechner of Arizona; a sister-in-law Ruby Schmidt of Tomah, WI; along with other relatives and friends.

Hollis was preceded in death by his parents Richard and Esther Herbison; wife Alyce; sister Jean Smith; nephews Daniel Bishop and Jim Puechner; and a brother-in-law, Bob Schmidt.

The family would like to thank Kares-Just For You for the many years of devoted home care to Hollis and Alyce. They would also like to thank Good People for their 24-hour care of Hollis which allowed him to remain at home.

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John A. Kresken - October 07, 1944 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: John A. Kresken, passed away peacefully on March 17, 2024, in West Salem, WI, at the age of 79. Born on October 7, 1944, in Burlington, WI, to John B. “Jack” and Frances (Hancock) Kresken.

John's early years in Burlington were the foundation of a life lived with integrity and kindness. He graduated from St. Mary's Catholic High School in 1962. After high school, John honed his skills as a carpenter working for Frank Voss Construction, a trade that showcased his natural handiness and attention to detail.

His career path led him to We Energies, where he rose to the position of supervisor. John's work ethic was unparalleled, but it was his warmth and generosity that made him a beloved figure at his workplace.

John's heart was always with his family. He was a devoted husband to his wife, JoAnn, and together they created a home filled with love and laughter. They were married September 26, 1964. They cherished their time in the country, making unforgettable memories snowmobiling and fishing with friends. Their home was a hub of activity and joy, a testament to John's commitment to creating a nurturing environment for his loved ones. Watching his children and grandchildren grow and flourish brought him immeasurable joy. The move to West Salem upon retirement was motivated by his desire to be an even greater presence in their lives.

John's interests and activities were as varied as they were fulfilling. A true outdoorsman, he loved boating, fishing, and hunting. He was in his element when operating equipment and tractors or when he was out planting trees. His commitment to the land was evident in his dedication to making the Price County Deer Camp a wonderful place for family and friends to gather and create memories.

He is survived by his wife, JoAnn, his children, Barbara (Joseph) Krien and John J. (Ann) Kresken, his grandchildren, Mitchell, Joshua (Emily), Kaitlyn (Zachary), Nathan (Emma), and Julia, his siblings, Jackie Thompson, Michael (Joanne) Kresken, and Joseph (Kathy) Kresken.

He was preceded in death by his parents, and sisters, Judy Hoffman and Joan Minetti.

John's love for the outdoors and planting trees was matched only by his desire to help others. He was the kind of man who would stop at nothing to aid a friend or a neighbor in need. His ability to fix and build things, combined with his kind and handy nature, made him an invaluable member of his community. Memorials in John’s memory will be used to plant trees at deer camp and replace storm damaged trees at their home.

The Kresken family would like to thank Dr. Kevin Fitzgerald and the Mayo Hospice staff, especially Elizabeth, for the wonderful care given to John during his time with them.

Private family services will be held per John’s wishes. The Torkelson Funeral Home is assisting the family with arrangements. Online condolences are available at www.torkelsonfuneralhome.com.

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Jean M. (Hendricks) O'Hara - September 10, 1953 - March 15, 2024

Departed: 03/15/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Jean M. (Hendricks) O'Hara, age 70, of Tomah, WI, passed away on Friday, March 15, 2024 at Tomah Health. She was born on September 10, 1953 to Joseph and Patricia (Effertz) Hendricks. Jean was united in marriage to Kenny O'Hara on September 2, 1995 at St. Mary's Catholic Church in Tomah. Jean worked for many years for Fort McCoy in housekeeping and more than anything she enjoyed camping with her whole Hendricks side of the family, and especially camping at her daughter's home. The time she spent with her husband, Kenny, her children, and grandchildren were her happiest days in life.

Jean is survived by her husband, Kenny O'Hara; her mother, Patricia Hendricks; her children, Lori (Mark) Cleaver, and Terry (Jessica) Harmel; grandchildren, Johnathan, Brielle, and Ava; and one great grandson, Gunner; along with her siblings, John Hendricks, JoAnn Vespo, Jim (Mary) Hendricks, Joe (Barb) Hendricks, and Judy (Nick) Becerra.

She was preceded in death by her father, Joseph Hendricks; father-in-law, William J. O'Hara; mother-in-law, Judy Ann O'Hara; and brother-in-law, Vince Vespo.

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Kevin L. Ritter - July 13, 1959 - March 05, 2024

Departed: 03/05/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Kevin Lee Ritter, age 64, of rural Sparta and formerly of Tomah, passed away unexpectedly at home on Tuesday, March 5, 2024. Kevin and his twin brother, Karl, were born on July 13, 1959, to George and Evelyn (Zieber) Ritter in Tomah. Kevin grew up on the home farm and graduated in 1978 from Tomah High School. After high school, he and his brother, Karl, went to dairy farm on one of the family farms near Tomah. They had a number of milk quality awards.

Kevin met his future wife, Christine Schreier, through an adult friendship pen pal club and they later married on October 6, 1984, at the Catholic church on St. Mary’s Ridge. They lived on the farm for many years. In 2012, Kevin and Chris moved to rural Sparta. He had careers in factory work and Walmart and other various jobs until he retired. Kevin was a hard worker and he put love and care into his jobs and projects. He would tend to enjoy being comical with people. Kevin will be deeply missed and not forgotten.

Kevin is survived by his wife of 39 years, Chris of Sparta; their children, Thomas (Brianna) Ritter and Rebecca Ritter of Tomah; brother, Art (Linda) Ritter of Tomah; sister-in-law, Alice Ritter of Tomah; mother-in-law, Judy Schreier of Cashton; brothers-in-law, Ed Schreier, David (Jeannette) Schreier, and Brian (Janice) Schreier; and sisters-in-law, Dawn (Joe) DuCharme and Jody (Doug) Doebbert. He is further survived by many nieces, nephews and other relatives.

He was preceded in death by his parents; brothers, George, David and twin brother, Karl; father-in-law, Donald Schreier, and nephews, John and Andy Ritter.

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Kim A. Ballwahn - June 10, 1960 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Kim Ballwahn, 63, of Wilton, went home to meet Jesus on March 4, 2024. He was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, and friend who will be deeply missed by all who knew him.

Kim was born on June 10, 1960 to Kenny and Fern Ballwahn. He was a 1978 Royall High School graduate which we cannot hold against him. He married Rosalynda Towne on July 11, 1983 and they had two children, Adam and Heidi. He worked at Northern Engraving in Sparta for 27 years as a Sheet Prep Foreman. He coached Hank’s Honey’s Softball Team which gave him great joy, headaches, and hangovers. But more than anything, Kim was a devoted father and grandfather. He loved spending time with his children and grandchildren. He enjoyed watching sports of all kinds especially the ones his children and grandchildren participated in. Kim was also a chauffeur for his children and all their friends. He coached youth flag football, summer rec, and 3-on-3 basketball tournaments. Kim never failed to not remember an embarrassing story about you and would never let you live it down. He enjoyed playfully picking on people he cared about. Kim made sure to always call his wife, children, grandchildren, and other family members to ensure they made it safely to their destination or just to check to see how they are doing. He always called to let us know the County Trucks were out. Kim enjoyed his grandson Carter stopping over at his house just so they could talk about school, practice, or a game. That’s the reason Kim always made sure there was a Pepsi on hand for Carter at Grandpa’s house. Kim enjoyed his good morning and good night text messages from his grandson, Jacob and picking on him about what sports team he was supporting for that week. Kim looked forward to every Friday as he was able to help watch and care for his granddaughter, Bailey. He was stand in father for many people who needed one. Kim was kindhearted and giving without expecting something in return. He will be missed by all who knew him.

Kim is survived by his loving wife of 40 years, Rosalynda. His son Adam, and his son Jacob. His daughter Heidi (Ed) Skinner and their children Carter Arbuckle and Bailey. His brothers Larry (Arlis) and Jeff (Jenny). His sisters Carol Thompson and Patti (Ron) Parker. His sisters-in-law Barb Ballwahn and Kathy Ballwahn. His wife’s family, brothers – Roger (Linda), Terry (Evelyn), Billy (Sue), Dickie, Merton (Linda), Ted, Justin, and Adrian (Rita) and sisters – Judy, Hope, Joy, Juanda (Devan), Roxie (Fred), and Veronica. and sister-in-law, Pat Towne. Along with many loved nieces and nephews.

Kim was preceded in death by his parents, his brothers Ronnie and Dick, nephew David Ballwahn. His father-in law and mother-in-law, Harold and Margaret Towne, brothers-in-law Ed Towne, Marty Towne, Jim Bennett, and Roger Amacher, and sisters-in-law, Doris Towne, Iris Olson, Brenda Towne, Rose Towne, and Rosemary Towne.

Remember please to be kind to others and help those in need.

Funeral services will be held Saturday, March 9, 2024, 11:00 a.m. at the Wilton Community Center. Pastor Bob Streeter will officiate. Burial will take place at a later date. Family and friends are invited for visitation on Saturday from 9:00 a.m. until the time of service at the Wilton Community Center. The Torkelson Funeral Home of Tomah is assisting the family with arrangements. Online condolences are available at www.torkelsonfuneralhome.com.

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Vera A. Kuehl - October 16, 1927 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Vera Kuehl, age 96, of Tomah, WI, passed away on Monday, March 4th, 2024 at Gunderson Hospital in La Crosse, WI.

Vera was born in Tomah on October 16, 1927 to Paul and Clara Boettcher. In January of 1943 (at age 15) she traveled to Texas by train to marry her hometown sweetheart, Martin Kuehl, who was in Army training. They were happily married for over 64 years.

Vera spent her entire life in the Tomah area, and she also enjoyed traveling throughout the country and to Germany, Alaska, and Hawaii. She was a lifelong member of St. Paul Lutheran Church and she served on several women’s groups there. Vera worked many years at Shutter’s Supermarket, eventually retiring from the Tomah VA Hospital.

Vera camped often with family and friends and she was also a very good cook. In retirement she participated in several card clubs in the area and was widely known as a very good player at both cards and at the casino. She enjoyed frequent visits from her family and also other relatives and friends including Mary and Terry Boettcher, Carol Aune, John and Ruth Ann Gamerdinger, Sherry and Gary Tolle and many others, to include Pastor Bob Gerke and Pastor Steve Olson who provided her spiritual comfort.

Vera is survived by three children: Arlene (Mark) Fagasa of Texas, Craig (Christie) Kuehl of Tomah and Douglas (Judy) Kuehl of Georgia, seven grandchildren; Christopher Coleman of Texas and Deseree Rushford of Alaska, Trevor Ward of La Crosse, Brandon (Nicole) Kuehl of Madison, Gus (Glenda) Kuehl of Virginia, Adam (Courtney) Kuehl of Arizona and David (Laura) Kuehl of Georgia; ten great-grandchildren, Cassidy (Shane) Cada and Dylan Kotenbeutal of Minnesota, Sawyer Rushford of Alaska, Tanner and Caden Kuehl of Madison and Gracie Mae Kuehl and Adalyn Kuehl of Georgia, Jose' Cabrera of North Carolina, and Daniel Kuehl & Ada Sanchez of Virginia; and one great great grandchild, Ayvree Cada of Minnesota.

Vera is also survived by many loving nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her husband Martin, infant son Robert, daughter Barbara Ward, and granddaughter Tami Kotenbeutal; also brothers Michael Boettcher, Roland Boettcher, Earl Boettcher, Raymond Boettcher and sister, Dorothy (Boettcher) Kneifl.

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Nancy R. Schindel - June 28, 1949 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Nancy Ruth Schindel, age 74, passed away on Monday, March 4, 2024 at UW Hospital in Madison, Wisconsin. She was born June 28, 1949 to Warren and Ruth (Jensen) Gillett in Sparta Wisconsin. A proud graduate of Tomah High School, class of 1967. She married Ronald Schindel on September 7, 1968. Nancy had a dedication to her community. She loved being a part of the Cranberry Festival when she lived in Warrens. She owned and operated the gas station in Warrens with commitment and pride. The one thing she loved the most was Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior.

She is survived by her siblings, Wayne (Nancy) Gillette, Peggy Gillett, Laura (David) Witt, Amanda (David) Johnson, Brenda (Richard) Worthington and Warren Gillett. She is further survived by numerous nieces and nephews. Some of her cousins, Azaylah Dobbins who shares her birthday and Amber Toseff (Azaylah’s mother), Austin Small and Jodi (Jim) Hass who was there for her in the last years of her life in Madison.

In addition to her mother and father, she is preceded in death by her husband, Ronald Schindel, brother Dennis Gillette, a sister-in-law, Joyce Gillette, a niece, Rebecca Gillette Arttus, and a great nephew Kyle Burkhalter. She is also preceded in death by many aunts, uncles, grandparents and other relatives.

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Alice M. Olson - August 12, 1936 - February 25, 2024

Departed: 02/25/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Alice M. Olson, age 87, of Tomah, Wisconsin, passed away peacefully at Liberty Village in Tomah on Sunday, February 25, 2024. She was born August 12, 1936, in Osseo, WI to Albert and Elvina (Hendrickson) Larson. She was born the 8th of 9 children. She was confirmed at Upper Pigeon Lutheran Church in Northfield, WI and graduated from Hixton High School in 1954.

On July 16, 1955, Alice married the love of her life, Duane E. Olson. They settled North of Wyeville and raised their three children: Brian, Terry and Dawn. In 2017, they sold the homeplace and moved to Tomah.

Alice worked for the Tomah Greenhouse for many years and had a green thumb for house plants and flower gardens. Alice and Duane loved to travel. They went as far as Norway. She was an avid fan of the Packers, the Brewers and Badger Football.

Alice was a faithful member of St. Peters Lutheran Church in Shennington.

She is survived by her children, Brian (Lynn) of Omaha, NE, Terry (Kathy) of Colorado Springs, CO, Dawn (Tim) of Ontario, WI, 5 grandchildren: Joel (Tisha), Jon, Haley, Collin (Jenna) and Hannah, one great grandson, Nate, a sister, Selma Vradenberg and sister-in-law, Beatrice Larson, many nieces and nephews.

Alice was preceded in death by her husband, Duane, her parents, her in-laws, brothers, Alvin (Mildred) Larson, Odell (Eva) Larson, John (Leona) Larson, Earl (Alice) Larson and Arnie Larson, sisters, Anna (Jerry) Bloomer and Helen (Roger) Pierson, and a brother-in-law, Stan Vrandenberg.

A very special thank you to the Liberty Village staff of Tomah for taking very good care of Alice during her stay. Funeral services will be held Thursday, February 29, 2024, 11:00 a.m. at St. Peters Lutheran Church in Shennington, WI. Pastor Brad Lindberg will officiate. Burial will be held at the Upper Pigeon Lutheran Cemetery in Northfield, WI. Family and friends are invited for visitation on Wednesday, February 28, 2024, from 4:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. at the Torkelson Funeral Home in Tomah. Family and friends are also invited for visitation on Thursday from 10:00 a.m. until the time of service at the church. Online condolences are available at www.torkelsonfuneralhome.com

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Carl L. Ericson - January 19, 1939 - February 22, 2024

Departed: 02/22/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Carl L. Ericson, age 85, of Tomah, Wisconsin, passed away Thursday, February 22, 2024, at Gundersen Lutheran in La Crosse, Wisconsin. He was born January 19, 1939, to Carl and Elsa (Einarson) Ericson in Chicago, Illinois.

On September 2, 1961, he married Judith E. Dahlstrom in Chicago. In 1969, they moved to Tomah with their two sons and in 1970 a daughter was born. He was the manager of Tomah LP Gas for over 25 years and later worked for Walmart before retiring in 2008.

Carl was a longtime member of the First Congregational United Church of Christ where he served on several boards and committees. In his free time, Carl was an avid bowler and golfer.

He is survived by his wife, Judy, children, Richard (Sara), Brian (Ginean) and Beth, grandchildren, Alexander (Danielle), Ell (Colten), Brian and Seth, step-granddaughters, Crystle and Ginger, and step-great grandson, Michael. He is further survived by nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Carl and Elsa, and his twin sister, Alice Bock.

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Matthew A. Triolo - November 17, 1947 - February 21, 2024

Departed: 02/21/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Matthew A. Triolo (Chips) age 76, of Wausau, Wisconsin went home to be with his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. He was a courageous fighter who battled ALS until his passing on Wednesday, February 21, 2024. Matt passed away peacefully, surrounded by his loved ones at the Tomah VA Medical Center. Born to Salvatore and Eleanor (Newman) Triolo in the heart of Brooklyn, New York, on November 17, 1947, Matt’s journey was one of unwavering dedication and love.

He started his career on the streets of Brooklyn and served with the New York Police Department honorably for ten and a half years. Matt also taught Police Science at Northcentral Technical College in Marathon County. Later, he worked as a special investigator for the District Attorney's office until his retirement. Matt was a proud Vietnam veteran, and he served in the United States Marine Corps with his brothers in arms from 1967-1969. One of his most cherished experiences was the Never Forgotten Honor Flight which brought him together with fellow veterans and surrounded him with the spirit of boundless gratitude.

In July of 1981, he came to Wausau to visit his lifelong friend, Roger Jamgochian. It was during this visit that he met Deborah L. Degner and the three words he spoke, "I love you," felt like the perfect beginning to a love story waiting to unfold. They have been together for 43 years and have two children and one beautiful grandson named Mateo. Matt loved spending time at Springstead Lake Lodge, where he would often admire the beautiful sunsets while enjoying a Bloody Mary and listening to oldies music. He enjoyed relaxing at his cabin on Ess Lake with the sound of loons echoing in the distance. He often said, "This is the true Northwoods, it doesn't get any better than this."

Deb's delicious Italian cooking was always a treat for Matt, especially her homemade rice balls. The whole family enjoyed the aroma of Mr. Triolo's freshly baked quiche, which was one of his specialties.

Matt was a man who had a contagious laugh, an infectious smile, and a great love for life. He was an inspiration to many due to his passion for staying active and healthy. Matt loved to snowshoe on a trail that he and his wife had created near their cabin, and he also took pleasure in biking alone in the Northwoods. He was a regular at the Wausau YMCA where he enjoyed spending time with friends. Matt was an accomplished triathlete, participating in numerous events well into his 70s. He won several medals and awards in these events, and he will always be remembered as a true legend.

Matt is survived by his wife, Deborah Triolo, as well as their children, Matt Triolo (Rosa Triolo) and Jennifer Triolo (Casey Wyssbrod), and grandchild, Mateo Triolo. He is also survived by his sister, Eleanor Condy (Bill Condy), his brother, Charlie Triolo (Angela Triolo), his nieces, nephews, extended family members, and friends. He was preceded in death by his mother Eleanor (Newman) Triolo and father Salvatore Triolo.

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Junior Conklin - January 11, 1931 - February 18, 2024

Departed: 02/18/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Junior Conklin, age 93, of Marshfield, WI, passed away on Sunday, February 18, 2024 at the Tomah VA Medical Center in Tomah, WI.

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Nancy A. Lawrence - July 30, 1937 - February 11, 2024

Departed: 02/11/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Nancy A. Lawrence, age 86, of Camp Douglas, Wisconsin, passed away Sunday, February 11, 2024, at Liberty Village in Tomah, WI. She was born July 30, 1937, to Oliver and Mildred (Atwater) Cook in Detroit, Michigan.

She was united in marriage to Ronald Lawrence on September 30,1955 at the American Lutheran Church in Tomah, WI. Nancy loved her family more than anything. She enjoyed living in the country and looked forward to family gatherings during hunting season and holidays.

Nancy was a woman of strong faith. She was an active member at St. Stephen’s Lutheran Church being involved in multiple women’s groups, bible studies and served wherever she was needed.

She is survived by her children, Ronald (Cindy) Lawrence II of Baileys Harbor, WI, Terry (BJ) Giles of Neillsville, WI and Mariellen (Joe) Lawrence of Tomah, WI, grandchildren, Ronald (Melanie) Lawrence III, Elizabeth (Jesse) Shupe, David (Brooke) Giles and Corey (Ashley) Elsing, 12 great grandchildren, a sister, Carol (Ron) Duncan, nieces, nephews, other relatives and friends.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Oliver and Mildred, her husband of 67 years, Ronald, a granddaughter, Leah Degenhardt, an infant sister, Barbara Jean and sister, Mary Jane Woodworth.

Nancy’s family would like to extend a special thank you to St. Croix hospice and the staff at Liberty Village for the exceptional care given to Nancy.

Funeral services will be held Friday, March 1, 2024, 11:00 a.m. at St. Stephens Lutheran Church in Camp Douglas, WI. Pastor Brad Lindberg will officiate. A luncheon will be held immediately following the funeral service at the church. Burial will be held in the Mount Vernon Cemetery, Tomah, Wisconsin. Family and friends are invited for a visitation on Friday from 10:00 a.m. until the time of service at the church. The Torkelson Funeral Home of Tomah is assisting the family with arrangements. Online condolences are available at www.torkelsonfuneralhome.com.

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Gerald D. Blaubach - December 24, 1946 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Gerald D. Blaubach, age 77, of Gleason, WI, passed away on Saturday, February 10, 2024 at the Tomah VA Hospital in Tomah.

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Cleo L. (Miller) Sullivan - August 06, 1929 - February 09, 2024

Departed: 02/09/2024 (Tomah)

Obituary Preview: Cleo L. (Miller) Sullivan, age 94, formerly of Tomah, Wisconsin, was called to her eternal home on Friday, February 9, 2024 in Louisville, Colorado while in the care of hospice.  Cathy Huey, her daughter, was by her side that early morning.

She was born on August 6, 1929 to DeWayne and Edna (Friedl) Miller in Madison, Wisconsin.  Cleo grew up in Norwalk and Tomah.  She was an only child and enjoyed playing in Warrens, WI with her numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins that Cleo was typically older than in age.  She was united in marriage to Gerald Sullivan on September 20, 1952 at St. Mary Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Tomah.  They were classmates from the THS class of 1947.  Cleo was first a Navy wife upon marrying Jerry.  Later an Army wife for 20 years.  Cleo was the constant, steadfast, humble, self sacrificing, organized, and truly an amazing mother and homemaker for her six children.

Cleo studied business and initially worked as a bookkeeper at Farmer and Merchant's Bank in Tomah.  She volunteered her time all of her life.  Whether as a girl scout leader, or later in life with the DAV Auxiliary, at St. Mary's church, and at the VA hospital all in Tomah.  She was an avid reader, and enjoyed knitting, crocheting, setting puzzles, and she loved animals.

She is survived by her children, Diane (Daniel) Holschbach of Lakewood, WI, Dr. Thomas (Shirley) Sullivan of Pound Ridge, N.Y., Cathryn (Mike) Huey of Lafayette, CO, Barbara Sullivan of Golden, CO, William (Jackie) Sullivan of Nokomis, FL, and Linda Sullivan of Golden, CO.  Known to her grandchildren as Grandma M & M.  Seven grandchildren, Zachary (Tracy) Holschbach of WI, Hillary (Drew) Adelman of WI, Greta Gallagher of GA, Dylan (Katie) Huey of CO, Emily (Dr. Zachary) Denka of OH, Hannah (Nick) Eppley of CO, and Riley Sullivan (special friend Jordyn) of CO.  Mom's fruitful family tree continues to grow.  Currently thirteen great-grandchildren, George, Liberty, Daniel, Isaiah, Joseph, Titus, Maci, Henry, Grace, George, Logan, Nora, and Isla.

She was preceded in death by her parents; and husband, Gerald in 2014.

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