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Paula Ann Backes-Tanner - November 20, 1962 - April 05, 2022

Departed: 04/05/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Paula Ann Backes-Tanner, 59, of New Haven, MO, passed away Tuesday, April 5, 2022 at her home.

Paula was born in Washington, Missouri on November 20, 1962, the daughter of  Frederick "Bud" & Carroll (Quick) Backes.

She was the wife of Steve Tanner.  They were united in marriage on August 16, 2008, in New Haven, Missouri.

Paula was a member of St. Peter's United Church of Christ, New Haven.

Paula had a heart of gold and truly lived life to the fullest. Family was everything to Paula. She was the absolute best Nan to her grandkids, and an amazing mother to her three boys and two daughter-in-laws. Not to mention a second mom to many.

Paula never knew a stranger, and was there for anyone and everyone. She made anyone who knew her feel like a friend.

She was a fantastic beautician, but she was more than that–she cared for her clients deeply. She was the co-owner of Her's & His Hair in New Haven for several years, and most recently worked at Shear Connection Salon in New Haven.

Paula is survived by her mother, Carroll Backes, of New Haven; her husband, Steve Tanner, of New Haven; three sons, Jonathan Bloch, of New Haven; Tyler Bloch & wife Sarah, of New Haven; and Austin Bloch & wife Tara, of Wentzville, Missouri; by three step-sons, Kevin, Aaron and Ethan Tanner, all of St. Peters, Missouri; by five grandchildren, Johnna, Jackson, Adalaine, Henry and Braxton; four sisters, Jackie Weidle & husband Larry, of New Haven; Sharon Althen & husband James, of New Haven; Kim Hoemann, of New Haven; Kelly Toelke & husband Robert, of New Haven; a brother, Scott Backes & wife Jackie, of Houston, Texas; and by many nieces, nephews and friends.

She is preceded in death by her father, Bud Backes and a brother-in-law, James Hoemann.

Visitation will be held Friday, April 8th from 2:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven.

Funeral services will be held Saturday at 10:00 a.m. at St. Peter's United Church of Christ, New Haven, with Rev. Dr. Dan Smith officiating.

Burial will be in Assumption Cemetery, New Haven.  Memorials may be given to New Haven Community Outreach or New Haven Garden Club. C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Amanda Kristine Seitter - April 08, 1980 - March 25, 2022

Departed: 03/25/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Amanda Kristine Seitter, 41, of New Haven, passed away on March 25, 2022.

Mandy, daughter of John “Steve” Angell and Linda nee Hoemann, was born on April 8, 1980, in Washington, MO. She received her education from New Haven High School, completed her agricultural technology degree from the University of Central Missouri and then later completed her veterinarian technician degree in North Kansas City.  While in college Mandy made numerous lifelong friends.

Mandy met the love of her life at an 8th grade school dance. Mandy and Chad were united in marriage at St. Peter’s Church in New Haven on July 6, 2002.

Mandy loved her parents and sister and had a wonderful childhood riding horses, playing sports, taking trips, and making memories with her family in so many ways.

Mandy had too many talents to list and being part of the team at the New Haven School District brought her tremendous joy.  As much as Mandy loved pens, Reese’s, soda, and organization her true purpose and greatest talent was being a wife, daughter, sister, and most of all mother - and she was a great one.  Mandy would do anything for her children - sometimes that meant staying up all night to make sure they had a decorated dining room for their birthday when they woke up.  Other times that meant leading an organization such as Girl Scouts or Sunday school so her children could participate in such activities.  Mandy enjoyed taking vacations with her family and a couple favorites included Disney World, Sanibel Island, and Estes Park.  Mandy spent hours and hours organizing those trips to be sure everyone had something they would enjoy.  Mandy was such a caring person and would help anyone who needed it.  Mandy tried to show her children what it meant to be a good person and to do things not expecting anything but joy in return.

As a spouse Mandy was simply a gem. She was always compassionate and stubborn when necessary. Having been with Chad for 24 years many times they knew what the other would say or do without even having to discuss it.  Mandy would do all the hard things and Chad would do the things she didn’t want to do.  It worked well for them.  There was never an option to give up and when things got tough, they pushed ahead.  When Chad got sick, she stuck by his side.  When Chad asked if his dad could come live with them Mandy was on board and loved her father- in- law like her own.   Mandy is a true Angell and will be so deeply missed by so many.

She was preceded in death by her sister, Leisha Angell Ryno; maternal grandparents, Vernon and Minerva Hoemann and paternal grandfathers, John Angell, and Roland Fritzmeyer.

Among her survivors are her husband, Chad Seitter of New Haven; four children, Abigail Seitter, Lucas Seitter, Brinley Seitter, and Maizie Seitter; parents, Steve and Linda Angell of New Haven; grandparents, Verlee Ellis and husband Sonny of Owensville and Kathy Angell of Gerald; many other relatives and friends.

A visitation will be held on Friday, April 1, 2022, from 2-8 p.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home in New Haven. Funeral Service will be held on Saturday, April 2, 2022, at 10 a.m. at St. Peter’s Church in New Haven. Interment will be in the St. Peter’s Cemetery.

Memorial donations can be made to the Juvenile Arthritis Foundation or the Mandy Seitter Children’s Fund at Citizens Bank of New Haven.

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Douglas Ray Hasty - July 08, 1952 - March 20, 2022

Departed: 03/20/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Douglas Ray Hasty, 69, of St. Louis, MO, passed away Sunday, March 20, 2022 at his home surrounded by his family.

Douglas was born in St. Louis, Missouri on July 8, 1952, the son of George Wilbur & Helen Imo (Pogue)Hasty.

He was the husband of Renee (Trabue) Hasty. They were united in marriage on August 24, 1974, in Vandalia, Missouri.

Douglas is survived by his wife Renee, of St. Louis, Missouri; his mother, Helen Hasty, of New Haven, Missouri; two daughters, Shana Hasty, of St. Louis, Missouri; and Lisha Ewing & husband JeCory, of St. Louis, Missouri; two brothers, Edward Hasty, of New Haven, Missouri; and Wilbur Gerald Hasty, of Texas; a sister, Linda Chilton, of Eminence, Missouri; and by five grandchildren, Tre, Nadica, Malik, Kainan and Sadie.

He is preceded in death by his father, two sisters, Marsha Hudson and Vanessia Morris and an infant brother, Anthony Hasty.

Douglas was a carpenter.  He was a former member of the Masonic Lodge.

Visitation will be held Thursday, March 24th from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven, where funeral services will be held Friday at 10:30 a.m., with Pastor Jim Paulson officiating.

Burial will be at Nortman Cemetery, New Haven, Missouri.  Memorials may be given to families choice.  C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Kenneth "George" Elbert - April 22, 1938 - March 12, 2022

Departed: 03/12/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Kenneth "George" Elbert, 83, of St. Clair, MO, passed away Saturday, March 12, 2022 at Crabapple Village,  Senior Estates, St. Clair, Missouri.

George was born in Washington, Missouri on April 22, 1938, the son of the late Urban J. & Elivira Mary (Nowak) Elbert.

He was the widower of Marjorie Ann (Pomie) Elbert.  They were united in marriage on April 30, 1983, in Washington, Missouri.   Marjorie preceded him in death on January 28, 2020.

George worked in St. Louis County as a union carpenter for over 30 years.  He was a devote catholic.  He loved the St. Louis Cardinals, hunting, fishing and boating on the Gasconade River.

George is survived by a son, Dale Elbert & wife Debbie, of Washington, Missouri; a son, Doug "Mac" Elbert, of Leslie, Missouri; a son, Mark Elbert & wife Dawn, of Greenfield, Missouri; a son, Gary "Tiger" Elbert & wife Donna, of Chesapeake, Virginia; a son, Steve Elbert & wife Melanie, of Boston, Virginia; two daughters, Sue Courtway & husband Carl, of Union, Missouri; and Emily Elbert, of St. Louis, Missouri; a son, Bryce Elbert, three step sons, Kevin Haug & wife Amy, of Washington, Missouri; Keenan Haug & wife Brita, of Juneau, Alaska; and Keir Haug & wife  Geri Heberlie, of St. Louis, Missouri;  three step daughters, Karin Haug, of Vicenza, Italy; Kecia McKinnis & husband Scott, of Washington, Missouri; and Korine Haug Krieftmeyer & husband Doug, of Washington, Missouri; a sister-in-law, Mary Francis Pomie, of Kansas City, Missouri; and numerous grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Visitation will be held Thursday, March 17th from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven, where funeral services will be held Friday at 10:00 a.m.

Burial will be at Pershing Cemetery, Pershing, Missouri.  Memorials may be given to the cemetery.  C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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William Keith Halley - October 05, 1962 - March 10, 2022

Departed: 03/10/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Keith Halley, 59, of Gasconade, MO, passed away suddenly on March 10, 2022.

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Julia Joy Pruessner - February 24, 1953 - March 07, 2022

Departed: 03/07/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Julia Joy Pruessner, 69, of Berger, MO, passed away Monday, March 7, 2022 at Mercy Hospital, Washington, Missouri.

Joy was born in Washington, Missouri on February 24, 1953, the daughter of the late Bert & Dorothy  (Jenkins) Hassler.

Joy was a member of Memorial Baptist Church, New Haven, Missouri, where she was very involved in the church and church activities.

She was known to many in the community as Miss Joy.  She was a teacher and director of Wee Haven Daycare.  She was also a Parent as Teacher Educator for the New Haven and Hermann School Districts.   In her free time she enjoyed basket making, playing scrabble and spending time with her grandchildren and girls.

Joy is survived by two daughters, Shelley Stutzman & husband Chip, of New Haven, Missouri; and Tammy Schutt & husband Matt, of Berger, Missouri; by three granddaughters, Taylor, Ryan and Lizzy and four grandsons, Charlie, Wil, Henry and Chase; by two brothers, Carry Hassler & wife Sandi, of New Haven, Missouri; and Dave Hassler, of Lawrence, Kansas; a sister, Mamie Irvin, of Georgia and many nieces and nephews.

Visitation will be held Saturday, March 12th from 2:00 to 4:00 p.m. at Memorial Baptist Church, New Haven, where funeral services will follow at 4:00 p.m., with Rev. Joe Nogalski officiating.    Burial will be at New Haven Cemetery.  Memorials may be given to Missouri Kidney Foundation or Memorial Baptist Church (Vacation Bible School).  C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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James William Hoemann - April 20, 1957 - March 04, 2022

Departed: 03/04/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: James William Hoemann, 64, of Berger, MO, passed away Friday, March 4, 2022 at Mercy Hospital, Creve Coeur,  Missouri.

James was born in Washington, Missouri on April 20, 1957, the son of the late Roscoe William & Myrtle (Lefmann) Hoemann.

He was the husband of Kim (Backes) Hoemann.  They were united in marriage on May 26, 1979, at New Haven United Church of Christ.

James was a member of Assumption Church, New Haven and he was the president of the Berger Levy District.

James was a farmer.  He enjoyed hunting and spending time with his grandchildren.

James is survived by his wife, Kim Hoemann, of Berger; a daughter, Jennifer Louise Baynes & husband Michael, of Berger; a son,Craig William Hoemann & wife Elizabeth, of Berger; by three sisters, Margie Jones, of Washington; Sharon Speckhals & husband Allen, of Hermann; and Terrie Coulter & husband Dennis, of Springfield, Missouri; and five grandchildren, Landon, Carter, Hadley, Brillee and Dexter.  He is preceded in death by his parents and a son, Michael James Hoemann.

A memorial mass will be held Thursday, March 10th at 5:00 p.m. at Assumption Church, New Haven, Missouri, with Father John Deken officiating.  A reception and celebration of life will follow at the Parish Hall.

Memorials may be given to St. George School or Hermann F.F.A.  C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Roland A. Lutz - July 04, 1949 - March 03, 2022

Departed: 03/03/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Roland A. Lutz, 72, of New Haven, MO, passed away Thursday, March 3, 2022 at his home.

Roland was born in St. Louis, Missouri on July 4, 1949, the son of the late Walter A. & Rose M. (Knight) Lutz.

He was the husband of Connie (Wesselschmidt) Lutz.  They were married on August 19, 1972, in New Haven, Missouri.

Roland was an self employed over the road truck driver. Roland is survived by his wife, Connie Lutz, of New Haven; two daughters, Dawn Hellebusch & husband Dwayne, of Marthasville, Missouri; and Kim Peterson & husband Christopher, of Sullivan, Missouri; two sons, Roland Lutz, Jr., of New Haven, Missouri; and Michael Lutz & wife Susan, of St. Charles, Missouri; by his twin brother, Ronald Lutz & wife Gayle, of New Haven, Missouri; and 10 grandchildren, James, Sophia, Lucy and Claire Hellebusch, Abigail, Isabel and Cooper Peterson and Norah, Madison and Ellie Lutz

Visitation will be held Saturday, March 5th from 3:00 to 7:00 p.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven.

Funeral services will be held Sunday at 12:30 p.m. at Ebenezer Stone Church, Gerald, Missouri, with Pastor Glenn Hollander officiating.

Burial will be at Ebenezer Stone Church Cemetery. Memorials may be given to Special Olympics or Ebenezer Stone Church.  C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Bernard Henry Meyer - December 29, 1938 - February 28, 2022

Departed: 02/28/2022 (New Haven)

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Herbert McDaris - January 24, 1960 - February 16, 2022

Departed: 02/16/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Herbert McDaris, 62, of New Haven, MO, passed away Wednesday, February 16th, 2022. He was born in St. Charles, Missouri on January 24, 1960, a son of the late Beatrice  G.  (Williams) and Johnnie  E. McDaris.

He worked as a Control Engineer at Henniges Automotive, he previously worked at  Georgia Pacific and also Integram in Pacific, Mo.

He was a member of the Ebenezer Lutheran Church, Port Hudson.

Herbert was the widower of Darleen Mary (Cartwright) McDaris. They were married on August 10, 1993 at Ebenezer Lutheran Church, Port Hudson.

Herbert is survived by three daughters, Tina Weiser, of Washington, MO; Mandi McDaris and husband Nicholas, of Hermann, MO and Tracy Weiser, of New Haven, MO; by a son, Eric McDaris, of Gasconade, Missouri and by15 grandchildren.

He was preceded in death by his parents, his wife, by one sister Peggy Smith, and two brothers Clay and Jeff McDaris.

Herbert enjoyed watching school sporting events.  He loved to fish and shoot his guns, but he especially enjoyed spending time with his family and making people happy.

Visitation will be Wednesday, February 23rd, from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven, Mo.

Funeral Services will be held Thursday, February 24th, at Ebenezer Lutheran Church, Port Hudson, Missouri, at 1:00 p.m., with Rev. James Wilshusen officiating.

Burial will be at Ebenezer Lutheran Cemetery, Port Hudson, Missouri.  Family request donations to New Haven High School or Franklin County R-2 School.  C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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James J. Luecke - November 09, 1952 - February 11, 2022

Departed: 02/11/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: James J. Luecke, 69, of New Haven, MO, passed away Friday, February 11, 2022 at Mercy Hospital, Creve Coeur, Missouri.

James was born in Washington, Missouri on November 9, 1952, the son of the late Gregory & Antoneta (Narup) Luecke.

He was the husband of Dorothy (Jaco) Luecke.  They were united in marriage on May 1, 1976, in the New Haven City Park.

James was a member of Assumption Church, New Haven and served as city alderman for New Haven for 11 years.  He worked for the Washington Parks Department mowing grass.  Prior to that he worked for Metalcraft.

James is survived by his wife, Dorothy Luecke, of New Haven, Missouri; a sister, Marlene Pecaut & husband David, of Warrenton, Missouri; a brother, Larry Luecke, of Krakow, Missouri; by many nieces & nephews and three honorary grandchildren, Keven McDowell, Kimberley McDowell and Krista Bennett.  He is preceded in death by his parents and a sister, Theresa Luecke.

A celebration of life will be held Saturday, March 19th from 11:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. at New Haven City Park, New Haven, Missouri.

Memorials may be given to Assumption Church or New Haven Senior Center.  C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Jerry J. Jasper - February 07, 1951 - January 31, 2022

Departed: 01/31/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Our community sadly lost one of its pillars on January 31, 2022, when Mr. Jerry J. Jasper, 70, passed away peacefully surrounded by his family.

Jerry was a great ambassador for the community, with contributions to the city of Washington and to the lives of many that include the adoption of the Washington-Rotary Riverfront Trail; the 1983 remodel of the Washington Municipal pool, the largest stainless steel pool in the country; management of the Washington Fairgrounds during the annual Town & Country Fair; maintenance of the city’s sports fields and parks; and beautification efforts of Lions Lake. He was an active member of local civic organizations and was honored as a lifetime member in the Washington Lions Club. In 2005, a city athletic complex was named in his honor for his many years of dedication and service. Jerry studied forestry and graduated from University of Missouri–Columbia in 1973. Following graduation, he returned to the City of Washington, ultimately serving as its Parks and Recreation Director for 26 years, the longest tenure of any parks director in the city's history. In an open letter to the park board after his retirement, Jerry stated, “I will always treasure the great opportunities afforded to me by the good citizens of the Washington community."

After his retirement from the City of Washington, Jerry reinvented himself as a bank lender and facilities manager. He worked at Bank of Franklin County for 13 years before retiring in 2018 to enjoy fishing at Mark Twain Lake with his family.

Jerry had an affinity for conservation and preservation. He served as a certified educator in the Missouri Conservation MO Hunter Safety Program for more than 25 years, was an avid outdoorsman and tree enthusiast, and had a passion to share his knowledge with those around him.

Jerome Joseph Jasper was born February 7, 1951, in Washington, son of Raymond G. Jasper and wife Dorothy M., nee Eckelkamp.

On February 23, 1974, Jerry was united in marriage to Roxann Jeffery at St. Peter’s Catholic Church in Jefferson City, MO.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Ray and Dorothy Jasper and mother-in-law, Carolyn Jeffery.

Jerry is survived by his wife, Roxann Jasper, Washington; one son, Robert Jasper and wife Brittney, Washington; one daughter, Lesley Liesman and husband Rocky, Washington; one brother, Harvey Jasper and wife Susan, Washington; one sister, Darlene Konys and husband Mike, Washington; father-in-law, Donald Jeffery, Ashland, MO; one sister-in-law, LaDona Livell and husband Chester, Washington; one brother-in-law Virgil Jeffery and wife Melanie, Ashland, MO; 4 grandchildren, Roman and Bea Liesman, Henry and Samuel Jasper; other relatives and many friends.

Visitation and internment will be private. A memorial mass will be held on Saturday, February 5 at 12 pm at St. Francis Borgia Church, Washington.  Memorial donations can be made to Our Lady of Lourdes School or St. Francis Borgia Grade School.   C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Peggy J. McGinnis - October 05, 1954 - January 18, 2022

Departed: 01/18/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Peggy J. McGinnis, 67, of New Haven, MO, passed away Tuesday, January 18, 2022 at her home.

Peggy was born in St. Louis, Missouri on October 5, 1954, the daughter of the late William & Arline (Kline) Reimund.

She was the wife of Gary L. McGinnis.  They were united in marriage on June 30, 1973, in Jefferson City, Missouri.

Peggy was a member of St. Peter's United Church of Christ New Haven, Missouri. She worked as a secretary for the Washington, Missouri Police Department for over 25 years.

Peggy enjoyed spending time with her grandchildren, going on motorcycle road trips and traveling.  She also enjoyed cooking for her family, especially during the holidays.

Peggy is survived by her husband, Gary McGinnis, of New Haven; three daughters, Kelly Clark & husband Matt, of New Haven; Jennifer Borcherding & husband Dale, of New Haven; and Maureen LaBruyere & husband Stephen, of New Haven; by seven grandchildren, Lydia, Alayna, Hannah, Nicholas, Julia, Arianna and Micah and by several brothers and sisters.  She is preceded in death by her parents.

Visitation will be held Friday, January 21st from 9:00 to 11:00 a.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven , where funeral services will follow at 11:00 a.m., with Rev. Paul Schwartzkopf officiating.

Burial will be at St. Peter's Cemetery,  New Haven, Missouri.  Memorials may be given to American Cancer Society.   C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Minerva M. Hoemann - September 23, 1932 - January 15, 2022

Departed: 01/15/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Minerva M. Hoemann, 89, of New Haven, MO, passed away Saturday, January 15, 2022 at Mercy Hospital, Washington, Missouri.

Minerva was born in Berger, Missouri on September 23, 1932, the daughter of the late Henry & Lorene (Kropp) Juedemann.

Minerva was united in marriage to  Vernon H. Hoemann on October 8, 1950, at St. Peter's United Church of Christ, New Haven.  Vernon preceded her in death on October 11, 2017.

Minerva was a member of St. Peter's United Church of Christ, New Haven, Missouri.  She worked at Cedar Creek and Langenberg Hat Factory.

Minerva is survived by four daughters, Kathryn Straub & husband Charles, of New Haven, Missouri; Donna Wolfe & husband Virgil, of New Haven, Missouri; Linda Angell & husband Steve, of New Haven, Missouri; and Carrie Eggers & husband James, of New Haven, Missouri; six grandchildren, Amy Ruediger and husband Bryan, of New Haven, Missouri; Jaime Hoener & husband Josh, of New Haven, Missouri; Kyle Wolfe & wife Erica, of Washington, Missouri; Mandy Seitter & husband Chad, of New Haven; Missouri; Brent Eggers & wife Brooke, of New Haven, Missouri; and Blake Eggers, of New Haven, Missouri and 13 great grandchildren.

She is preceded in death by her parents, her husband, by two brothers, Merwin & Rafael Juedemann and a granddaughter, Leisha Angell Ryno.

Visitation will be held Tuesday, January 18th from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven.

Funeral services will be held Wednesday at 10:00 a.m. at St. Peter's United Church of Christ, New Haven, with Rev. Paul Schwartzkopf officiating.

Burial will be at St. Peter's Cemetery,  New Haven, Missouri.  Memorials may be given to St. Peter's U.C.C. or New Haven Care Center.   C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Leola Anna Deppermann - August 19, 1932 - January 10, 2022

Departed: 01/10/2022 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Leola Anna (nee Brune) Deppermann, age 89, of New Haven, Missouri, passed away on Monday, January 10, 2022 at New Haven Care Center.

Leola was born August 19,1932, just outside of New Haven, MO, a daughter of the late Robert & Rosa (Riechers) Brune.

Leola was united in marriage on June 2, 1951 to Leo Deppermann at the Trinity Lutheran church in New Haven, MO. That same year she joined Ebenezer Ev. Lutheran Church, Port Hudson.

Leola started working at Langenberg Hat Factory when she was a young girl.  After marrying Leo they moved to Lyon, MO and she went to work for the International Shoe Company in Washington until her daughter Kay was born.  After Kay got older she went back to work as a cook at the Campbellton Grade School from 1966-1986. In 1986 her and Leo moved to New Haven and she went to work for New Haven Care Center as a dishwasher, she worked there until her retirement in 1993.

After her retirement Leola enjoyed many bus tours to wonderful places with her girlfriends.  She loved quilting for her family and others and cooking and baking.

She was preceded in death by her, husband Leo Deppermann, parents Robert and Rosa Brune and her sister Bernice Brune.

She is survived by a daughter, Kay and her son-in-law Jimmy Kreftmeyer, of Minooka, IL; three grandchildren and their spouses, Ryan and Crystal Cryder, of Morris, IL; Christopher and Janelle Kreftmeyer, of Newark, IL; and Jerrod and Christina Grant, of Eddyville, KY; six great grandchildren, Keaton and Tessa Cryder, of Morris, IL; McKenna and McCalum Kreftmeyer, of Newark, IL; and Connor and Nora Grant, of Eddyville, KY; one sister, Ora May Zastrow of New Haven, MO, as well as 4 nephews and their families.

Visitation will be held Friday, January 14th from 4:00 to 7:00 p.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven.

Funeral services will be held Saturday at 10:30 a.m. at Ebenezer Lutheran Church, Port Hudson, with Rev. James Wilshusen officiating.  Burial will be at Ebenezer Lutheran Cemetery.

Memorials may be given to Ebenezer Lutheran Church or New Haven Care Center.  C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Joe H. Pruessner - June 10, 1958 - November 16, 2021

Departed: 11/16/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Joe H. Pruessner, 63, of New Haven, MO passed away Tuesday, November 16, 2021.  Joe was born in Hermann, MO on June 10, 1958, the son of the late Robert H. Pruessner and the late Helen M. Hassler.  He was united in marriage to Nadine M. Klott on September 12, 1981 at St. George Church in Hermann, MO.

Joe grew up on the family farm that has been in the Pruessner family for several generations.  He learned to take care of the livestock at an early age and always enjoyed driving a tractor.

Joe worked for Kellwood Company and later Marchem Coated Fabrics for 13 years.  Following that, he worked for Scheer Sales & Service for almost 20 years and then started his own business Joe’s Repair, LLC in 2010.  Joe enjoyed working with all the customers he met throughout the years.

Joe is survived by his wife, Nadine of New Haven; a daughter, Danielle Anderson and her husband Matt of New Haven; a son, Jared Pruessner of New Haven; a son, Robert Pruessner of Columbia, MO; two granddaughters, Elaina and Claire Anderson; three brothers, John and wife Quenna of Hermann; James and wife Carol of New Haven; Jerry and wife Paula of New Haven; two sisters, Janet Kohlbusch and husband Sanford of Berger; Jean Martin and Bill Hersh of Thompson, OH; sister-in-law, Joy Pruessner of Berger; sister-in-law Agnes Lackman of Hermann; sister-in-law Carol Brandt and husband Glenn of Hermann; and brother-in-law Daniel Klott and wife Donna of Washington and many nieces, nephews, and friends.  Joe loved spending time with his children and granddaughters at home.  He loved grilling and making his special BBQ sauce for everyone to enjoy.

He is preceded in death by his parents; a sister, Joyce Trentmann and a nephew, Chuck Martin.

Visitation will be held Friday, November 19, 2021 from 3-8 pm at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home in New Haven.  Funeral services will be held on Saturday, November 20, 2021 at 12 pm at St. Peter’s U.C.C. Church, officiated by Rev. Paul Schwartzkopf, with a burial service to follow at Assumption Cemetery in New Haven.

Memorials may be given to New Haven Community Outreach or New Haven Youth Fair.  C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Edna Buchheit - May 09, 1939 - November 05, 2021

Departed: 11/05/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Edna J. Buchheit, 82, of Union, MO and longtime resident of New Haven, MO, passed away Friday, November 5th, at New Haven Care Center.  Edna was born in St. Louis, MO on May 9, 1939, a daughter of the late Mary E. (Van Lear) and Eugene  Sossaman.  She was a member of St. Paul Lutheran Church, Union, MO and a long-time member of Trinity Lutheran Church, New Haven, MO.

She was the wife of James Buchheit, Sr.  They were united in marriage on March 18, 1978 at Trinity Lutheran, New Haven, MO.

She is preceded in death by her first husband, Ulo Tall.  They were married on January 15, 1959 at Lakeville, Arkansas and had 3 children.

Edna’s family include her husband James Buchheit, Sr. of  Union, daughter Linda Helfrich and husband, Tony Marquardt of Union, MO;  son Thomas Tall and wife Faye of Beaufort, MO;  daughter Joanne Tall (deceased) and husband Scott Kamen of Ossining, NY; step-son James Buchheit, Jr. and wife Donna, Hermann, MO; step-daughter, Peggy Obermark and husband Joseph Obermark III (deceased) of Washington, MO; step-daughter, Kathleen Narup and husband Ed, of Union, MO; step-son Frank Buchheit and wife Margaret, of New Haven, MO.  Edna is also survived by a sister Ruth Ritter of Lee Summit, MO.  Her grandchildren include Ryan Helfrich, Greg Tall, Erin Wildhaber, Todd Tall, Hannah Kamen, Abigail Kamen, Brittany Marquardt, Yvonne Buchheit, Jeff Buchheit, Jamie Buehrlen, Christie McNabb, Lynn Bell, Amanda Kohlbusch, Joseph Obermark, Natasha Skirvin, Cheyenne Narup, Devin Buchheit and Abigail Buchheit.  In addition, she and James Sr. have 36 great- grandchildren.

She is preceded in death by her parents, first husband, Ulo Tall, daughter, Joanne Tall, and brother, David Sossaman.

Edna was a private pilot in her teens and early twenties; she last flew when pregnant with daughter, Linda.  She worked for Union Electric Co, St. Louis, MO until she became a mother in 1960.  Her love of animals was demonstrated by running her private horse boarding business at home in St. Louis County and later at her home in Beaufort, MO.  She was a stay-at-home mom to her children until they were young teens, when she became employed by Langenberg Hat Company, New Haven, MO.

She became a widow in 1976 when her children were 14, 15 and 16 years old.  After marriage to James Buchheit Sr., the couple  settled in New Haven, MO, which was James’ hometown.  While residing in New Haven, Edna was an active member of Trinity Lutheran Church, enjoying fellowship within the congregation and performing servantship activities.  Edna and husband, James Sr., enjoyed residing within the New Haven community, making new friends and preserving the long-held friendships throughout 35+ years in the community.  In recent years, Edna and James Sr. relocated to Union, MO and became members of St. Paul Lutheran.

Visitation will be held Wednesday, November 10th, 2021 from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven, MO.

Funeral Services will be Thursday, November 11th at 11:00 a.m. from Trinity Lutheran Church, New Haven, MO, with Pastor Mathew Hayter officiating.

Family requests donations to the Alzheimers Association. C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Gilbert E. Brune - February 07, 1932 - October 25, 2021

Departed: 10/25/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Gilbert E. Brune, 89, New Haven, passed away Monday, October 25, 2021, at Mercy Hospital in Washington.   Gilbert, son of the late Martin and Clara Brune, was born February 7, 1932, in New Haven.  He was united in marriage to Lucille Biermann April 12, 1953, at the Methodist Church, Leslie.  Gilbert was an active member of Ebenezer Lutheran Church, Port Hudson, where he served on many committees and held many elected positions.   Professionally, he began working on the family farm, located off of Bucklick Creek Road, at an early age.  In addition to his dedication to his farm, he also held multiple other jobs as an electrician and mechanic, including his last job running an equipment repair service from his farm.  Upon retiring from his repair service, he continued crop and cattle farming.  In 2018 his farm attained Century Farm status.   While farming could also have been considered his hobby, Gilbert loved talking and visiting with people, enjoyed the challenge of repairing almost anything, and liked deer & turkey hunting on his family farm.   Gilbert was preceded in death by his parents, Martin and Clara Brune; his wife, Lucille; two brothers, Edwin and Elmer Brune; and one sister, Vera Kamper.   He is survived by two sons, Dennis G. Brune and wife LaRayne, and Paul W. Brune and wife Gretchen, all of New Haven; one daughter, Donna Sue Miller and husband Robert, Fenton; one sister, Verna Borgmann of Washington; eight grandchildren; and thirteen great-grandchildren.   Funeral services will be held Saturday, October 30th at 11:00 a.m. at Ebenezer Lutheran Church, Port Hudson, with the Rev. James Wilshusen officiating, with a lunch and reception following. (Masks are optional)

Burial will be at the church cemetery.

Memorials may be given to Mercy Hospice, the Alzheimer's Association or Ebenezer Lutheran Church, in care of Toedtmann-Grosse Funeral Home.

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Mary Jeanette Weland - March 19, 1947 - October 18, 2021

Departed: 10/18/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Mary Jeanette Weland, 74, of New Haven, MO, passed away Monday, October 18, 2021 at her home.   Mary was born in St. Louis, Missouri on March 19, 1947, the daughter of the late Bernard & Virginia (Castillo) Weland.   Mary was an elementary teacher for 30 years, working for several Missouri school districts.  She worked for Division of Family Services as a social worker. After her retirement, Mary was a nanny for three families and loved those children like her own.  Mary taught adult education part time for East Central College for the past 11 years and took pride in her students’ successes.    Mary is survived by a daughter, Rachel Terbrock, of New Haven, Missouri (Tony Russell); a sister, Judith Buss & husband Tom, of St. Peters, Missouri; two grandchildren, Daniel Littrell of Washington, Missouri (Emily Lewis) & Alexandra Littrell of Kirbyville, Missouri (Andrew Wade); two great grandchildren, Peyton Littrell and Jaxon Littrell-Wade; by a niece, Traci Black & husband Joel, of St. Louis, Missouri, a nephew, Todd Buss & wife Ann, of Kirkwood, Missouri; a cousin, Jan Wester, of St. Charles, Missouri; and many friends, students, co-workers, nieces, nephews, cousins, and pets who will mourn her passing.

Mary was one of the most selfless people on this Earth who always cared for others - teaching, social work, and childcare. She had a servant’s heart. Mary loved her family above all else. She gave all of herself to three generations of her family tribe. Mary adored her great-granddaughter Peyton, who thought of her grandma as her best friend. Mary was introduced via video call to her newborn great-grandson, Jaxon, born the morning of her passing. Her family now will carry on her legacy and love for all things beautiful. Mary was a master in the garden and took pride in her flower and herb gardens. She was a free spirit who loved nature and living in a peaceful country setting. Mary was a creative soul who enjoyed crafting and repurposing things, always having at least five projects in the works. Mary loved to decorate her home, especially for the holidays. She stayed up on current events, often listening to podcasts, and was an advocate for freedom and liberty.    Visitation will be held Monday, October 25th from 2:00 to 4:30 p.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven, where funeral services will follow at 4:30 p.m., with Father John Deken officiating.    Memorials may be given to Grace’s Place Crisis Nursery or East Central College Adult Education and Literacy. C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.   “When tomorrow starts without me, don’t think we’re far apart; for every time you think of me, I’m right here, in your heart.”

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Karen Sue Barbarick - August 10, 1947 - October 17, 2021

Departed: 10/17/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Karen Sue Barbarick, 74, of New Haven, MO, passed away Sunday, October 17, 2021 at New Haven Care Center, New Haven.

Karen was born in Washington, Missouri on August 10, 1947, the daughter of the late Floyd & Iva Bacon.

She was the widow of Wilbur C. Barbarick.   They were united in marriage on February 27, 1976, in Pacific, Missouri.  Wilbur preceded her in death on June 30, 2003.

Karen was a homemaker for many years.  She later went to work at Cedar Creek Event Center, where she was a cook in the kitchen.

She was a former member of the Assembly of God Church in Pacific, until it closed.  She then attended church at Friendship Baptist Church, New Haven.

Karen enjoyed cooking, going to church, playing music, and she was a big collector of figurines and Tupperware.  Her biggest enjoyment more than anything though was her grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Karen is survived by two daughters, Terri Bell & husband Steve, of New Haven, Missouri; and Tammi Elbert & husband Daryl, of Washington, Missouri; a sister, Doris McGlenn, of Illinois; a brother, Robert Bacon & wife Sharon, of Washington, Missouri; a brother, Bill Bacon, of New Haven, Missouri; a sister, Cathy Tash, of Washington, Missouri; a brother, Roy Bacon, of Grey Summit, Missouri, 10 grandchildren, 12 great grandchildren, 1 great-great grandchild and by many nieces and nephews.   She is preceded in death by her parents, Floyd & Eva Bacon, by her husband, Wilbur Barbarick, a son, Carl W. Barbarick, three sisters, Dorothy Strubberg, Erma Bacon and Shirley Pierce and a grandson, Joseph Barbarick.

Visitation will be held Wednesday, October 20th from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven, where funeral services will be held Thursday at 10:00 a.m., with Pastor Steve Sullivan officiating.

Burial will be at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery, St. Louis.  Memorials may be given to New Haven Care Center Activities Fund or Friendship Baptist Church.  C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Kenneth "Mr. Shamrock" Smith - April 09, 1929 - September 29, 2021

Departed: 09/29/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Kenneth "Mr. Shamrock" Smith, 92, of New Haven, MO, passed away Wednesday, September 29, 2021 at Hermann Area District Hospital, Hermann, Missouri.

Kenneth was born in St. Louis, Missouri on April 9, 1929, the son of the late Joseph & Hettie (McKee) Smith.

He was the widower of Mary E. (Hill) Smith.

Kenneth was well known in and around New Haven as Mr. Shamrock.  He enjoyed going to all of the New Haven High School sporting events and band activities.  He also enjoyed gardening.

Kenneth was a member of Memorial Baptist Church, New Haven.  He was an over the road truck driver.

Kenneth Smith is survived by two sons, David Smith, of Hermann, Missouri; and Mark Smith & wife Cindy, of New Haven, Missouri; a daughter, Janet Deckman & husband Richard, of Wright City, Missouri; a daughter-in-law, Carolyn Smith, of St. Peters, Missouri, and by many grandchildren and great grandchildren.

He is preceded in death by his parents, his wife, and two sons, Kenneth and Daniel Smith.

Visitation will be held Thursday, September 30th from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven, where funeral services will be held Friday at 10:00 a.m., with Rev. Nathan Franks officiating.

Burial will be at New Haven Cemetery. Memorials may be given to New Haven Band Boosters or Memorial Baptist Church.   C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Nadene C. Branson - March 15, 1935 - September 20, 2021

Departed: 09/20/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Nadene C. Branson, 86, of New Haven, MO, died Monday, September 20, 2021 at her residence in New Haven.

She was born in Perryville, MO, on March 15, 1935, the daughter of the late Hazel (Favier) and Trumer Duvall.

Nadene was a member of Assumption Church in New Haven.

She worked at Hawthorn years ago which later became American Recreation. There she trained people as a sewing machine operator. After retirement she worked at Wal-Mart in the fabric department.

Nadene's greatest joys were her love for flowers and sewing.  Most importantly it was time spent with her family going for a Sunday drive, family meals, marching band festivals, concerts, sporting events, graduation, or just spending time listening to stories.  Nadene leaves a legacy of laughter, creativity, and strength.    Nadene is survived two sons, Jim Buchheit Jr. & wife Donna of Hermann, Frank Buchheit & wife Margaret of New Haven, two daughters, Peggy Obermark of Washington & Kathleen Narup & husband Ed of Union, a sister, Judy Ponder & husband Ed of Perryville, 11 Grandchildren & 25 Great Grandchildren.

She was preceded in death by her parents, four brothers Melvin, Richard, William, & Clarence Duvall, & two sisters Mary Lou Zoellner & Glenda Duvall, & one son-in-law Joseph Obermark III.

Visitation will be held  from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. Wednesday, September 22, at the Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home in New Haven. Services will be held Thursday at 10:00 a.m. at Assumption in New Haven. Burial in the church cemetery. Memorials are requested to American Cancer Society or Veterans Memorial  C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home 1053 Hwy C. New Haven, Mo. 63068

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Shirley Mae Dietrich - April 08, 1940 - September 17, 2021

Departed: 09/17/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Shirley Mae Dietrich, 81, of Bolivar, Missouri, passed away Friday, September 17, 2021, at her home.

Shirley was born in Washington, Missouri on April 8, 1940, the daughter of George & Vera (Ebker) Panhorst.

She was united in marriage to Sylvester Dietrich on October 8, 1960 at Trinity Lutheran Church, New Haven.  He preceded her in death.

Shirley is survived by a daughter, Linda Moeckli & husband Clayton, of New Haven, Missouri; a son, John Dietrich & wife Pat, of Bolivar, Missouri; a son, Tom Dietrich & wife Sheila, of Beaufort, Missouri; a daughter, Tina Fudge & husband Mikel, of Owensville, Missouri; a son, Nicky Dietrich & wife Robin, of Owensville, Missouri; and a brother George Panhorst & wife Sheri, of New Haven, Missouri; a sister, Margaret Menz & husband Loui, of New Haven, Missouri, 19 grandchildren and 15 great grandchildren.

She is preceded in death by her parents, her husband and a sister, Violet McDonald.

A visitation will be held Saturday, October 9th from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven, where a memorial service will follow at 12:00 pm.  Burial will be at New Haven Cemetery.

Memorials may be given to National Kidney Foundation.  C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Kathryn Louise Spore - December 06, 1938 - August 25, 2021

Departed: 08/25/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Beloved teacher and friend, Kathryn Louise Spore, 82, of New Haven, MO, departed this life on Wednesday, August 25, 2021.   Kathryn was born in Hope, Arkansas on December 6, 1938, the daughter of the late Reverend Kenneth & Florence (Cypert) Spore.    After graduating from Monticello High School, Kathryn received her bachelor’s degree from Hendrix College in Conway, Arkansas, in 1960, and continued her education at the University of Missouri-Columbia, where she earned her master’s degree.    Kathryn’s calling was as a teacher, a journey which began at Caruthersville High School in 1961. In August 1965, she moved to New Haven High School, where she taught English and American History until May 1997.  For Kathryn, teaching was a passion, not a profession. Her great desire to bring literature, music, and American history alive to her students is perhaps her greatest legacy, in addition to her singular personality and enthusiasm. Each student who went through NHHS during Kathryn’s teaching tenure was impacted by her.  She is truly a Shamrock legend.    She always encouraged her students to broaden their perspectives through travel, an idea she modelled via her own adventures throughout the United States, Canada, Western Europe, and Russia.  Her most beloved destination was New Zealand, and she was delighted to return there to celebrate turning 80.    Fond of animated conversation, Kathryn relished discussing politics and current events, a love only eclipsed by her enjoyment of good food and a good Sauvignon Blanc.   Kathryn is preceded in death by her parents and her brother Harlan Spore. She is survived by a family of friends, and several generations of students.   Kathryn was a member of New Haven United Methodist Church, New Haven, Missouri, New Haven Town and Country Women’s Club and also volunteered at Mercy Hospital in Washington.    Visitation will be held Thursday, September 2nd from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. at Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home, New Haven, where a memorial service will follow at 6:00 p.m., with Pastor Brad Urban officiating.   Friends ask those attending to please wear a mask.   Memorials may be given to New Haven School District or New Haven United Methodist Church.   C/O Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home.

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Michael Lynn Blackwell - January 09, 1962 - August 20, 2021

Departed: 08/20/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Michael Lynn Blackwell, 59, of New Haven, MO, passed away Friday, August 20, 2021 at his home.  Michael was a resident of New Haven for 32 years.

Michael was born in Pocahontas, Arkansas on January 9, 1962, the son of the late Billy Gene & Mary Lawanda (Alphin) Blackwell.

He was the husband of Paula Sue (Buttery) Blackwell.  They were married on January 5, 1985, in Raytown, Missouri.   Paula survives at the home.

Michael is also survived by a son, Andrew Buttery, of Eureka, Missouri; a son, Donald & Jody Pierce, of Union, Missouri; a daughter, Elizabeth Blackwell & Rusty McKinney, of Villa Ridge, Missouri; a son, Michael Blackwell & Emiley Bungard, of New Haven, Missouri, a son, Cameron Blackwell & Katie Phillips, of New Haven, Missouri; eight grandchildren, Jackson, Chloe, Hailey, Alivia, Jane, Jennifer, Jasmine and James, and a brother, Tim Blackwell, of Pocahontas, Arkansas.

He is preceded in death by his parents, a brother, Anthony Leroy Blackwell and a sister, Patricia Virgin.

He worked 30 years in construction.  He enjoyed all things outdoors, gardening, hunting and fishing.

A celebration of Life ceremony will be held  Saturday, September 4th 2021 at Rennick Riverfront Park Pavilion in Washington, Missouri at 4:00 p.m.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It serves as a way to share information about the deceased with family, friends, and the community.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries are important because they provide a way to honor and remember the life of the deceased, while also serving as a formal announcement of their passing. They can also help to inform people of funeral or memorial service arrangements.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The responsibility of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or crematorium may offer to assist with writing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary should include the deceased's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their occupation, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary, but it's generally recommended to keep it concise and to the point. Aim for around 100-200 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many newspapers and online obituary platforms allow you to include one or more photos of the deceased. This can help to make the obituary more personal and meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

You can usually submit an obituary to a newspaper by emailing or faxing it to their obituary department. Be sure to check their specific submission guidelines and deadlines beforehand.

Can I write an obituary for someone who died a long time ago?

Yes, you can still write an obituary for someone who passed away in the past. This can be a meaningful way to honor their memory and share their story with others.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only basic information such as their name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the deceased's life and accomplishments.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, it's perfectly okay to inject some humor into an obituary if it was a characteristic of the deceased. This can help to make the obituary more relatable and memorable.

How do I handle sensitive or difficult information in an obituary?

If you're unsure about how to handle sensitive information such as the cause of death or other personal details, it's best to err on the side of caution and focus on celebrating the person's life rather than dwelling on difficult circumstances.

Can I write an obituary for a pet?

Yes, many people choose to write obituaries for their beloved pets. This can be a meaningful way to acknowledge their importance in your life and say goodbye.

What is the cost of publishing an obituary in a newspaper?

The cost of publishing an obituary in a newspaper varies depending on the publication and the length of the obituary. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to several hundred dollars.

Can I publish an obituary online for free?

Yes, there are many online platforms that allow you to publish an obituary for free. These may include websites run by funeral homes, crematoriums, or online memorials.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published in a newspaper?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary in a newspaper can vary depending on the publication's schedule and deadlines. Typically, it will appear within 1-2 days of submission.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it has been published?

If you need to make changes to an obituary after it has been published, contact the newspaper or online platform directly. They may be able to make corrections or updates for you.

What is the purpose of an online memorial or tribute page?

An online memorial or tribute page provides a space for people to share memories, condolences, and stories about the deceased. It can serve as a lasting tribute to their life and legacy.

Can I include links or multimedia in an online obituary?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to include links, videos, audio files, or other multimedia elements in an online obituary. This can enhance the overall experience and make it more engaging for readers.

How do I ensure that my online obituary remains accessible over time?

To ensure that your online obituary remains accessible over time, consider using a reputable online platform that archives its content. You may also want to save a copy of the obituary locally or print it out for safekeeping.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes, social media can be a powerful tool for sharing an obituary with friends, family, and acquaintances. Consider posting a link to the online obituary or sharing a brief summary along with any relevant photos or memories.

What is the etiquette for responding to condolences on social media?

If someone expresses condolences on social media, it's considered polite to respond with a simple "thank you" or acknowledgement. Avoid lengthy conversations or debates on social media during this time.

How do I handle negative comments or trolls on social media after sharing an obituary?

If you encounter negative comments or trolls on social media after sharing an obituary, try not to engage with them directly. Instead, focus on honoring your loved one's memory and ignore any hurtful or inappropriate comments.

Can I reuse content from an old obituary when writing a new one?

If you're writing multiple obituaries for different individuals within a short period of time (e.g., due to multiple losses within a family), you may be able to reuse certain biographical details or phrases. However, be sure to tailor each obituary specifically to the individual being honored.

What resources are available if I need help writing an obituary?

If you need help writing an obituary, consider consulting with a funeral home director, grief counselor, or professional writer who specializes in crafting personalized tributes. You can also find online resources and templates to guide you through the process.

Is there anything else I should know about writing an effective obituary?

Above all else, remember that an effective obituary is one that honors and celebrates the life of your loved one. Be honest, sincere, and authentic in your writing – this will shine through and create a lasting tribute that resonates with those who read it.