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Frederick L. Knuetter - June 15, 1937 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Berlin, NY - “Fred” Knuetter, Sr. also known in his younger days by his friends as “KingFish” passed away at the age of 86 on April 8, 2024. He was born in Berlin, New York June 15, 1937 to Harriet and William Knuetter, Sr.

Fred lived his entire life in Berlin, New York; he loved to meet people and learn about their lives. He enjoyed the company and conversation with many friends that he would drop by and visit with. In the last couple of years, Fred appreciated the friends that would stop by to see him at home as well. Fred worked for the State of New York, retiring from the Construction Trade, and then worked various other jobs after retiring from the State of New York. He also processed and sold firewood locally and always had to be working. In his local travels, Fred would often barter and trade for items and attend local auctions, many of his “acquisitions” became his lifetime of treasures, “as you never know when you’ll need something!” Fred was known for his “deal-making” abilities when he wanted to buy something. He never paid full-price! His hobbies were working, going to auctions, and visiting his son Fred’s woodlot sites to watch him work on getting wood out. Most recently, Fred enjoyed watching the new overpass in Petersburgh being built, and spent many days watching the workers build it. Fred had a few makeshift workshop areas around his property, he would tinker on fixing saws, and fabricated other things that he gave away such as cutting boards.

Fred is predeceased by his wife of 63 years, Katheryn, his eldest son, Fred (Teresa) Knuetter, Jr., brothers: Joseph (Jean) Carr, William (Phyllis) Knuetter, Sisters: Thelma (Ron) Brock and Lois (Tobe) Goodermote and their extended families. He leaves behind his daughter, Vickie Lawrence and grandchildren: Jarred (Amanda) Lawrence, Great-Granddaughter Emily Lawrence of Homer, Alaska, Ashley (Ryan) Lawrence-Urice of North Carolina, and son Michael Knuetter of Berlin, New York. He also leaves behind he and Kay’s beloved wildcat named “Duke” but who only answered to his evolved and earned namesake of “Badcat” when Kay or others would call him. “Badcat” will be moving to live with Fred’s daughter, Vickie.

At Fred’s request, there will be no formal funeral service; instead there will be a private family graveside service held on April 25, 2024 at 10:00 a.m. at the Center Berlin Cemetery, Berlin, NY. In lieu of Flowers, should you wish to make a contribution in Fred’s memory, please contribute to any local animal rescue. Both Fred and Kay loved their rescued pets and would encourage you to save a pet’s life via sponsoring an adoption or donating to a shelter near you.

Final arrangements were managed by the Thomas M. Barber Funeral Home (Parker Brothers Memorial Funeral Home).

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Robert W. Berg - October 07, 1952 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Petersburgh - Robert W. Berg, Jr., 71, died peacefully in the comfort of his home with his wife at his side on March 26, 2024.

Born in Albany on October 7, 1952, Robert was the son of the late Robert W., Sr. and Gertrude E. (McFarlane) Berg.

Robert enjoyed working as a boom truck driver for all of his working life and retired in 1991. He loved motorcycles and rode numerous times to Hampton Beach as well as participating each year in Americade in Lake George, New York. He was a deer hunter, fisherman and camper. He enjoyed pressing his luck with the slot machines in Atlantic City and other nearby casinos and loved to work on his cars.

Robert loved his family and was the husband and life partner of Marie A. (Bartkowski) Berg; father of Robert W. Berg, III of Syracuse, Chris A. Berg (Jennifer) of Pennsylvania, Sean R. Berg Ramsey (Lyndia) of Ballston Spa and Tonia E. Berg Rhodes (James) of Colonie; grandfather of Katlyn E. Gardner (Joshua), Kadyn Rhodes, Dustin, Chance, McKenna, Damien and Hedi; great-grandfather of Skylar; brother of Wilfred Berg (Julie of Saratoga, James J. Berg (Lara) of Clifton Park and the late Ronald J. Berg; uncle of Ronald (Kelly), Matthew, Conrad, Andrew and Angel. He is also survived by his faithful canine companion, “Buddy”.

In accordance with Robert’s wishes, a graveside service will be held on Friday, March 29, 2024 at 3 pm in Brookside Cemetery, Plank Road in Poestenkill. Reverend Trygve Tomlinson will officiate and all are invited to attend.

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Irma M. Hammersmith - September 09, 1930 - February 29, 2024

Departed: 02/29/2024 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: PETERSBURGH – Irma M. Hammersmith, 93, of Berlin, passed peacefully on Thursday morning, February 29, 2024. Born on Berlin Mountain September 9, 1930, Irma was the daughter of the late Albert and Elsie (Maxon) Yerden and wife for 66 years to the late Joseph P. Hammersmith.

In the mid-1940s, Irma was employed at the shirt factory in Berlin and later worked at W. J. Cowee winding floral picks. In 1949 Irma and Joe built their house on the top of Berlin Mountain on a parcel of land that was given to them by Irma’s parents. They were married in December 1950.

When their daughter was born, Irma decided to leave her job and focus on being a homemaker. For many years as a homemaker, she also made wreaths and roping during the holiday season that were enjoyed by many in the Berlin area. Irma loved working in her flower gardens, reading, doing sudoku puzzles, and most of all spending time with her family. She also enjoyed watching and feeding all the wild animals and birds that were seen on her property.

Irma is survived by her loving daughter, Lois (Brian Clark) Whitman, her special niece, Sally Smith (Cathy Russell), her foster son, Joseph Rock, and many loving nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her husband Joseph Hammersmith, her grandson Christopher Whitman, 2 sisters and 1 brother: Doris Teal, Luella Osterhout, and Elmer Yerden.

A graveside service will be held on Tuesday, March 5, 2024, at 11 a.m. at Brookside Cemetery in Poestenkill.

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J. Mason Hubbard - April 30, 1927 - January 20, 2024

Departed: 01/20/2024 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Brunswick – James Mason Hubbard, 96, passed from this life on Saturday evening, January 20, 2024. Born in Petersburgh on April 30, 1927, he was the son of the late Eugene & Luella Hubbard.

Mason, as he was known by most, attended Petersburgh Elementary School and Hoosick Falls High School. He then served his country proudly as a US Marine during World War II, which brought him to Japan. Upon his discharge, he used his G.I. bill to attend the Utilities Engineering Institute in Chicago where he learned the refrigeration business. He used his knowledge to open his own business, Hubbard Refrigeration, which he operated out of Petersburgh for 40 years until retiring in 1985. Mason was the Petersburgh Town Supervisor for 2 terms and also served as a member of the Petersburgh Volunteer Fire Dept., the Berlin American Legion, the NRA, and picked up side work as a water dowser. In his free time he loved outdoor activities; hunting, fishing, and trapping, and spending time at his camps in Grafton Lakes and the Adirondacks. Every few years he took a big hunting trip; from hunting by horseback in Idaho, hunting moose by helicopter in Newfoundland, hunting caribou in Northern Quebec, and bear hunting in New Brunswick.

Mason is survived by his children; Luella (Peter) Hansen of Johnsonville, June (Robert) Hoffman of Cherry Plain, John Hubbard of Arizona, and Scott (Lillian) Hubbard of Petersburgh, his brother Peter (Kay) Hubbard of Colorado, 8 grandchildren, several great-grandchildren, and several loving nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his late wives; Jean Scott, Elizabeth Sheridan Hubbard, and Mary Welch, his step-son Phil Sheridan, and his brothers, Isaac Hubbard and Rev. David Hubbard.

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Marcia M. Trask - November 17, 1939 - November 16, 2023

Departed: 11/16/2023 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Petersburgh - Marcia Mains Trask passed away on November 16, 2023, the day before her 84th birthday, following declining health from Alzheimer’s.

Marcia was born in Rochester, NY to Marcus Mains and Helen Utter Mains. She grew up in Hampton Manor, East Greenbush NY and attended St. Mary’s Catholic School and Columbia High School. She received a B.A. in Elementary Education at Oneonta State College where she met her husband, Bruce Robert ‘Bob’ Trask who predeceased her. She was also predeceased by her only sister Ann Mains Wilsey and life-long friends Loretta Burt and Carol Hayes.

Marcia was a teacher for 35 years in the Berlin Central School District. She taught at Stephentown Elementary (Kindergarten), Petersburgh Elementary (Kindergarten and Principal) and Grafton Elementary (1st Grade).

Marcia and Bob had five children together, Scott Trask (Anita), Diana Trask Daley (Gary Zwiebach), Thomas Trask, Gwyn Trask and Robert Trask. She had five grandchildren and one great grandchild. She was an animal lover and had several dogs over the years. Marcia was stepmother to Bob’s children Terrie DeLoria (Shane) and Jean Miner (Mark). She was briefly married to Darius Lingener, III and was stepmother to Lynn Lingener Dunteman, Kim Lingener and Darius (DJ) Lingener. In addition, she had several step grandchildren and great grandchildren along with many nieces and nephews.

Marcia was altruistic, giving in nature, and community oriented. Seeing a deficiency in her town, she helped found the Petersburgh Volunteer Rescue Squad where she volunteered for many years. She later was President of the Grafton Senior Center and served as High Priestess for the Shriners. She was honored as Rensselaer County Senior Volunteer of the Year for her many acts of volunteerism. Marcia was an avid crafter and sewer who taught quilting classes for several years. She also enjoyed reading, painting, knitting and crocheting. She and Bob liked to dance and frequently spent summers traveling cross country in Bob’s big rig. Marcia loved to travel and went on many trips with family and friends, visiting several countries in addition to traveling the continental United States.

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Leonard Francis Clapp - February 02, 1948 - June 13, 2023

Departed: 06/13/2023 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Berlin – Sgt. First Class (Ret.) Leonard F. Clapp, Jr., US Army, 75, died unexpectedly on June 13, 2023 at his home. Husband of Sharon A. (Weaver) Clapp; brother of Robert (Darcy) Clapp; also a nephew, Christopher, and niece, Alyssa, as well as numerous cousins survive. He will be interred, with honors, on Monday, June 19, 2023 at 10:30am in Saratoga National Cemetery. Friends are invited and may also visit with his family on Sunday from 2 until 5 pm at the Thomas M. Barber Funeral Home, Petersburgh, NY.

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Joan Marie Hill - January 17, 1956 - March 23, 2023

Departed: 03/23/2023 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Petersburg - Joan M. Hill of Petersburg, NY, passed away at her home peacefully in her sleep on Thursday March 23, 2023. She was the beloved wife of Michael Hill for nearly 20 years. Born on January 17, 1956 in Bennington, VT, Joan was a lifelong resident of Petersburg where she was known and adored by many in the community.

She was the loving daughter of the late Luanne James Stevens and her father Earl A. Stevens. She was predeceased by her sister Judy Stevens-Crandall, brother Gregory E. Stevens, her niece Jolene A. Bedford and nephew John T. Bedford. Along with her husband, she is also survived by her daughter Clara Marie Haley, her sisters Laurie Broadwell, Jodi Hubbard, Jason Crandall, grandsons Jordan Jones, Micha Haley (whom she and Mike adopted), Matthew and River Crandall and several nieces and nephews. She was loved and will be dearly missed by her lifelong friend Hattie Buck and several other friends and family.

Joan was a graduate of Berlin Central School where she was employed as a custodial worker before the birth of her daughter. She was also employed by the Petersburg Post Office, Independent Living Center, and St. Peter’s Licensed Home Care. Joan had taken care of several elderly residents in the Petersburg and Berlin area for many years. She was also a volunteer treasurer of the Petersburg Methodist Church. Joan loved reading, cooking, holding anyone’s babies but, especially loved spending time with her family, friends, and she cherished every moment with all her grandchildren. She will be remembered for her infectious smile and laughter, her kind and generous heart, and the unwavering love that she had for her neighbors, family, and friends.

There will be a celebration of Joan’s life on Saturday April 1, 2023 at the Petersburg Methodist Church starting at noon with a reception to follow.

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Katheryn E. Knuetter - January 18, 1941 - March 18, 2023

Departed: 03/18/2023 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Berlin - Katheryn Knuetter, age 82, passed away following a long illness on Saturday, March 18, 2023 in Bennington, Vermont with her husband of 63 years, Frederick Knuetter, Sr., by her bedside. Katheryn was the daughter of Fred M. Young and Ethel Leshorn Young formerly of Buskirk, New York.

Katheryn grew up in Buskirk, New York and graduated from Cambridge Central School. She married Frederick Knuetter, Sr. in 1958 and moved to Berlin, New York.

Survivors include: Frederick Knuetter, Sr., of Berlin, NY and their three children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren: Frederick Knuetter, Jr. of Hoosick Falls, NY (Terri Knuetter, Wife), Jennifer Green, Daughter, and Grandson Carter Green; Vickie Knuetter-Lawrence (Grandchildren Jarred Lawrence of Santa Rosa, CA (Amanda- Wife, and Emily Granddaughter), Ashley Lawrence-Urice of Cameron, NC (Ryan Urice, Husband); and Michael Knuetter of Berlin, NY all who survive her today. Other survivors include Katheryn’s siblings: Carolyn Jordan (George) of White Creek, NY and her children/grandchildren; Judy Wooddell (Floyd-Deceased) children/grandchildren of Cambridge, NY; Edwin Young (Barbara) children/grandchildren of Eagle Bridge, NY; and Terry Young (Janet) children/grandchildren of Buskirk, NY. She is pre-deceased by her parents and brothers Alan, Carl/Hubble, and Ronald Young, also her sister Janice Young-Tollison.

Katheryn, also known by friends as “Kaybird” was a very generous and spirited woman who loved to laugh and visit with family and friends. She loved her trips to Saratoga with her daughter Vickie, sisters, and brother. She enjoyed her home and family, often hosted Sunday dinners and was a wonderful cook. One of Katheryn’s best attributes was her generosity and caring for others in need. She also loved her animals, she leaves behind a beloved black cat she adopted in 2021 she named “Duke” and several “grand-furbabies”. Kay never met an animal she didn’t love, nor a person who she didn’t befriend. Kay was a homemaker for years, and later worked at Taconic Plastics in the Sample Department and worked for the Eastwick Press Newspaper until her retirement due to illness. Kay’s travels took her to Florida and back by train a couple of times to visit her daughter, and to attend her grand-daughter’s wedding. She enjoyed those trips and took her sister Judy with her…She saw Seaworld, the beach at sunrise and sunset, and would have traveled more had she not become too ill. Kay also was able to visit the Capital in DC on her senior class trip.

Funeral arrangements will be conducted by the Thomas M. Barber Funeral Home, 66 Armsby Road, Petersburgh, New York on Friday, March 24, 2023 with a visiting hour for family and close friends at noon with a Funeral Service to follow at 1 p.m. The Family welcomes you to join us in sharing memories of Katheryn during this time.

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Charles T. Cinney - July 21, 1939 - February 17, 2023

Departed: 02/17/2023 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Berlin – Charles T. Cinney, 83, of Berlin, passed away peacefully after a long illness on February 17, 2023 with loved ones at his side. Born on July 21, 1939, he was the son of the late Mary and George Richmond of Petersburgh, NY.

Charlie was educated in Petersburgh and Hoosick Falls Schools. He was a lifelong Berlin resident who was employed for over 30 years at WJ Cowee in Berlin and later at the Berlin Central School District for over 20 years in the transportation department as a bus driver and mail carrier. Charlie was a real movie buff and recently went to see the new Elvis movie twice because he loved it so much. He could recall movies from long ago and remember who starred in them. He was an avid wildlife and nature lover and could often be found in the many hollows of the area with his camera in hand, as he was quite the photographer too. He was also an avid sports fan and especially enjoyed baseball.

Charlie is survived by his brother, John (Sharon) Cinney of Ocala, FL, his sisters, Patricia Stone of Berlin and Rhonda Bouchard of Salem,NY, and by his many nephews and a niece. He was preceded in death by his two brothers-in-law, William Stone and Norman Bouchard.

A memorial service will be held Saturday, April 29, 2023 at 1 PM at Thomas M. Barber Funeral Home, Petersburgh. All are invited to visit with Charlie’s family before the service, from 11 AM to 1 PM. Interment will follow the service in Meadowlawn Cemetery.

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Harold Hilton Burdick - July 18, 1960 - January 09, 2023

Departed: 01/09/2023 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Hoosick Falls - Harold H Burdick Jr., 62, of Hoosick Falls, NY passed away on Monday, January 9, 2023. Harold was born on July 18, 1960 in Troy, NY the son of the late Harold Burdick Sr. and Violet Harrington(Richter).

Harold worked for A & U magazine for the past 20+ years. Harold loved to travel, loved all things Disney, and enjoyed playing the occasional practical joke. Of all the things that brought him joy, his family was by far the most important.

Harold is survived by his 5 sisters and 2 brothers; Judy (Robert), Nancy (Irving), Julia (late Bill), Cinda, Carolynn, Loren (Karen) and Brian (Lacey). Harold is also survived by his children; Floyd, Wanda & Duane. Harold raised 5 of his grandchildren; Jake, Hunter, Savannah, Cody and Joey, but he was Poppy to many other grandchildren & great-grandchildren. Harold's memory also lives on in a very special cousin, Mary Tefoe. Harold was preceded in death by his parents, his husband David, and his sisters, Robin and Carol.

Harold was loved and cherished by all of his family but he had a very special relationship with his nieces and nephews.

A celebration of life will be held on Monday, January 16, 2023 from 11 am - 12 pm at Thomas M Barber Funeral Home, 66 Armsby Road, Petersburgh, NY. Burial will follow in Meadowlawn Cemetery, Petersburgh.

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Zachary Ryan Clyde - May 31, 1994 - August 18, 2022

Departed: 08/18/2022 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Petersburgh – Zachary Ryan Clyde passed away August 18, 2022 at the age of 28. He was born in Stephentown, NY to Claude and Terri Clyde. Zach was a very compassionate, kind, peaceful, generous, and humble young man. Everyone who met him loved him. He could light up a room while making you feel welcome and loved. Zach loved the outdoors and could always be found partaking in his favorite pastimes; hunting and fishing. Zach was always excited to get in the woods on opening day or to get a pole in the water on a beautiful day. More than anything, Zach loved being a dad and his son Mason was his entire world. Zach is survived by his parents, Claude Clyde and Terri Clyde, Deidra Michaels who was like a mother to him, in-laws Don and Melinda Bowen, his wife/partner April Bowen, his son and world, Mason Clyde, his siblings; Jessica Clyde, Coryann Clyde, David Clyde, Natalie Clyde, Mallory Clyde, Randy Spaniol, Harrison DeFelice, Ashley Bowen, Micheala Bowen, Evan Bowen, and Lena Wescott, his nieces and nephews; Seth Yerden, Lewis Stevens, Kristina and Angelina Maxfield, Sadie Wescott, Xander Wescott, and Finley Wescott, his grandparents; Sharon Woodcock and Bruce and Sally Michaels, his cousins Skylar Smith, Christopher Smith, Shalamoure Stone, and his aunt, Jade Smith. Mental health needs to be taken seriously. For anyone needing help for yourself or a family member, help is available 24/7 through the suicide and crisis lifeline by dialing 988.All are invited to visit with Zach’s family from 2 to 4 PM at Thomas M. Barber Funeral Home on Thursday, August 25, with a service to be held at the funeral home at 4 PM. Condolence book and memorial page at parkerbrosmemorial.com.

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Walter A. Brenenstuhl - February 08, 1932 - August 03, 2022

Departed: 08/03/2022 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: North Petersburgh, NY – Walter A. Brenenstuhl passed from this life, at the age of 90, on Wednesday, August 3rd 2022. Walter was born in Albany, NY on February 8, 1932 and was a son of the late Frederick and Gertrude (Rudd) Brenenstuhl. He spent his formative years in North Petersburgh where he was educated in a two room school house. He later graduated from the former Walter Wood High School in Hoosick Falls. Walter worked in the family store known as the Y Store at the intersection of Routes 22 and 346 in North Petersburgh and also worked on the railroad in Petersburgh. He served our nation during the Korean War in the U.S. Navy. He was honorably discharged on April 1, 1955 and returned home to North Petersburgh. Walter was a retiree of the Fitzgerald Brothers Quarry in Cropseyville. Walter enjoyed membership in several fraternal organizations and service groups and was a member of the Disabled American Veterans, the American Legion and the Teamsters Union. He was an avid bowler. Walter loved the outdoors and enjoyed hunting and fishing. He served as an educator and shared his knowledge of the outdoors with area students.Walter was preceded in death by his parents; his son, Ernest Brenenstuhl and his brother, Frederick Brenenstuhl, Jr. (late wife Evangeline). He is survived by his wife, Mary L. (Watson) Brenenstuhl; his daughter Lynn Steller (Joe); his grandchildren, Joshua Brenenstuhl (Janell), Nicholas Brenenstuhl (Jessica), Sarah Bushey (Andrew) and Shannon Deluca (Nick) as well as eight great-grandchildren and several nieces and nephews.A graveside ceremony with naval honors will be held on Tuesday, August 9, 2022 at 2 PM, in the Hoosick Cemetery, South Street (Route 95) Hoosick, NY. All are invited to attend.Contributions may be made to the DAV Charitable Service Trust, 860 Dolwick Drive, Erlanger, KY, 41018 in memory of Walter A. Brenenstuhl.

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Thomas K. Rose - May 14, 1930 - July 21, 2022

Departed: 07/21/2022 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Petersburgh – Thomas Kenneth Rose, Jr. (Ken), 92, passed away on Thursday, July 21, 2022. Ken was born on May 14, 1930, in Albany, NY to Violet Ingraham Rose and Thomas Rose, Sr. Ken was a jokester who treasured his family and always gave to those in need. From 1951 to 1953, Ken served as a paratrooper in the 11th 503rd Airborne Division of the United States Army. For 32 years, he worked for the Arsenal in Watervliet, NY, ending his career as a locomotive specialty mechanic. He was a DAV life member, a Star Lodge 670 member, and a member of the Masons. He helped build the Petersburg Memorial Hall. After retirement, he drove bus for Laid Law in Troy, NY, traveled the country, dug for gems, grew gardens, hiked, and worked as a mechanic and trolley driver for the New Bern Historical Society. He is survived by three sisters: Ruth Thompson, Beverly Kantrowitz, and June Varner, two daughters: Melodie Mooney and Jacqueline Krahforst, six step-children: Frank, Robert, Chuck, Joan, Rudy, and Laurie, and many grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He is preceded in death by his wives Mary Weaver Rose and Constance Snyder Rose, siblings Harriet Weeden and Richard Rose, his sons Thomas and Daniel Rose, and his stepdaughter Carol. The funeral will be held at the Petersburgh Methodist Church on Sunday at 3 pm followed by a graveside burial in the Meadowlawn Cemetery, and a reception.

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Brian David Jones - January 10, 1989 - April 07, 2022

Departed: 04/07/2022 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Petersburgh – Brian D. Jones, II, age 33, passed away April 7, 2022. Born in Bennington, VT on January 10, 1989, he was the son of Kathy (McCumiskey) and Brian Jones, Sr. of Petersburgh.Brian was a hard working tradesman who worked in roofing, construction, and masonry. He was an avid outdoorsman who loved fishing, hunting, snowboarding, gardening, and his Harley-Davidson. While these hobbies were important, nothing meant more to him than his children. Brian always enjoyed the time spent with his family and friends. Brian is survived by his parents, Kathy and Brian, his children; Lillian E. Jones, Izabella M. Jones (Yeaman), and Brian D. Jones, III, his siblings; Trisha (Chris) Schanz, Victoria Jones, and Amy Post, and by many nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, and cousins. He was preceded in death by his grandparents; Maureen Cook, Milton Jones, and Charlotte Jones.A memorial service for Brian will be held Saturday, April 30, 2022, 11 AM at the Petersburgh Methodist Church, Head of Lane Rd., Petersburgh. Following the service, family and friends are welcome to join together at the Petersburgh Veterans Memorial Hall, 71 Main St., Petersburgh, for food and refreshment. In lieu of traditional contributions, Brian’s family requests perennial flowers to make a memorial garden in memory of Brian.

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Douglas Stephen Homiak - December 02, 1965 - December 17, 2021

Departed: 12/17/2021 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: BERLIN, NY - Douglas S. Homiak, 56, now in the loving arms of Jesus, passed away Friday December 17 , 2021. Born on December 2, 1965 in Pequannock Township, NJ, he was the son of Nicholas (the late) and Marilyn (Rea) Homiak.

Doug was a loving husband, father, grandfather, son, brother and friend.

Doug is survived by his beloved wife of 36 years, Carla (Russell) Homiak, his mother, Marilyn Homiak, his loving children Douglas and Kazie (Furcinite) Homiak II, and Kassandra (Homiak) and James Babb, four grandchildren whom he adored: Liliana, Azalia, Lyla, Zander, his siblings Nicholas and Sherry (Chappell) Homiak and Christine (Homiak) and Jeffery Dugrenier, and many extended family members.

Doug was predeceased by his father, Nicholas S. Homiak.

Doug owned and operated a plumbing and heating business with his brother, Nicholas, for 35 years.

Doug loved spending time with his family and friends, but above all, he loved the Lord and sharing his faith and telling everyone he met about the personal relationship he had with Jesus. He had a heart for the souls of everyone he knew. Doug enjoyed hunting, fishing, having fires with his wife at night, and eating filet. He especially loved spending time with his family and enjoyed his family dinners with his wife, children, and grandchildren. Doug also enjoyed living in the country surrounded by the mountains and all of God's beautiful creation. He will be missed by all who knew and loved him.

As a member of the First Baptist Church of Berlin, Doug served faithfully in several ministries, with a special heart for Missions.

There will be no calling hours, there will be a private service for his immediate and church families.

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Kenneth F. Kornetzki - May 07, 1930 - September 28, 2021

Departed: 09/28/2021 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Berlin – Kenneth F. Kornetzki, Jr., 91, passed away peacefully on September 28, 2021. Born in Troy on May 7, 1930, he was the son of the late Kenneth Sr. and Helen (Coon) Kornetzki.

Kenneth grew up in Wynantskill and was the owner/operator of Kornetzki Well Drilling, a company started by his grandfather. In his later years, he was a salesman at several auto dealerships in Bennington, VT.

Kenneth is survived by his wife of 59 years, Kathryn G. (McMahon) Kornetzki of Berlin, his sister, Loraine (Arthur) Smith of Kinderhook, his nieces, Sandra (Ronald) Wills of Kinderhook and Sheryl (Timothy) Kline of North Chatham, his nephew Jeffrey (Patricia) Smith of Valatie, and by many grandnieces and grandnephews.

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Josephine Bentley - July 11, 1944 - September 23, 2021

Departed: 09/23/2021 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Berlin – Josephine “Josey” Bentley, 77, passed away peacefully on Thursday, September 23, 2021. Born in Berlin, NY on July 11, 1944, she was the daughter of the late William and Pearl Crandall.

Josey was a lifelong resident of Berlin, growing up on Satterlee Hollow Road. She worked for WJ Cowee, Inc. in Berlin and as a monitor for Berlin Central Schools. Josey loved children and especially adored her great-grandchildren. Nothing made her happier than time spent with her family.

Josey is survived by her children; Joyce (Peter) Jones of Petersburgh, Barbara (late Stephen) Kellar of Berlin, and Richard Bentley, Jr. of Waterford, her grandchildren; Justin Hartnett, Matthew Hartnett, Katie Hartnett, Tiffany (Chadd) Kiablick, Courtney (Scott) Rokjer, Caleb Bentley, Alexis Bentley, Noah Bentley, David Bentley, Jr., and Melody Bentley, her great-grandchildren; Quinn, Logan, Kayle, Heidi, Alicia, Nathan, Alana, and Thomas, and her sister Wanda Stanley of Pownal, VT. She was preceded in death by her husband Richard Bentley, Sr., her son David Bentley Sr., and by several siblings.

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Elmer A. Westcott - August 04, 1936 - May 21, 2021

Departed: 05/21/2021 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Berlin – Elmer Arthur Westcott, of Berlin, NY went to join his heavenly family on May 21, 2021 with his children by his side. He was born August 4, 1936 the tenth child of Perry L. Westcott and Clara B. Burdick.

Mr. Westcott was educated in the Berlin and Hoosick Falls School districts. In his early life, he worked for the Nancy Shoe Company and later, for WJ Cowee in Berlin where he was employed for over forty years. He was a longtime member of the Berlin Seniors and dedicated communicant of the United Methodist Church of Berlin. He faithfully read his bible every night. He enjoyed working outside in his yard and having his coffee on his front porch. He especially enjoyed spending time with his family.

Elmer was predeceased by his brothers; Chester, Robert, Jesse, Willis, Perry, Loyal, and Donald, three sisters; Ida Zablocky, Elizabeth Brock, and Marion Griswald, and by close companion Marie Snyder. He is survived by brother Joseph Westcott, two sisters, Martha Oakes and Joyce Alderman, his children; Anthony (Linda) Wescott Sr., Dawn (William) MacVeigh, Jerusha (Randy) Jarvis, and Yvonne Messemer, who was like a daughter to him. Also surviving are 11 grandchildren; Anthony Jr., Christopher (Elizabeth), and Dominik Wescott, William Jr., Patrick, and Cole MacVeigh, Adara (Dorian) Redden, Arianna and Caden Jarvis, and Ashley and Jessica Mattison, 5 great-grandchildren; Bradley, Chayton, and Damien Wescott, William III and Michael MacVeigh, and by many nieces and nephews who he loved.

A visitation will be held Wednesday, May 26, 2021 from 12-2 PM with a funeral to follow at Thomas M. Barber Funeral Home, Petersburgh. Burial will follow the service in Meadowlawn Cemetery, Petersburgh.

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Joseph Harrington - April 05, 1960 - January 18, 2021

Departed: 01/18/2021 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Berlin – Joseph P. Harrington, Sr. passed away peacefully at home on Monday, January 18, 2021 at the age of 60. Born in Bennington, VT on April 5, 1960, he was the son of Albertine “Tena” Harrington and the late William Harrington of Petersburgh.

Joseph grew up in Berlin and was a 1978 graduate of Berlin High School. Following graduation he worked as a dispatcher for the Rensselaer County Sheriff’s Department for nearly 20 years. He also worked as the “Manager” of The Bridgeway in Cherry Plain, as a Machine Operator at Green Renewable in Berlin, and was a past member in the Berlin Fire Department. When not at work, Joseph enjoyed camping and spending time just hanging out with his boys. Nothing brought him more happiness than his pride and joy; his grandson Kayden.

Joseph is survived by his mother, Tena of Petersburgh, his two sons, Joseph (Markie) Harrington, Jr. of Johnsonville and Evan Harrington of Scotia, his grandson Kayden Harrington, his siblings; William Harrington of West Sand Lake, Gary (Deanna) Harrington of Stephentown, Debby (late Kipper) Maxon of Cherry Plain, Sharon (Rick) Harrington of Center Berlin, Daren (Linda) Harrington of Grafton, and Patty (Joe) Sciacco of Grafton, and by many loving nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

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Seth Thomas Shaw - December 30, 1974 - October 02, 2020

Departed: 10/02/2020 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Seth T. Shaw of Shelburne, VT passed away unexpectedly at his home on October 2, 2020. He was born in North Adams, MA on December 30, 1974.

Seth grew up in Berlin, NY and graduated from Berlin High School in 1993. He attended CCV and moved to Burlington, VT in 1995 to work at the Vermont Teddy Bear Company. He also worked, for many years, at Big Lots and subsequently in the maintenance department at several fitness gyms in the Burlington area. Seth loved his hometown of Berlin and spent much of his youth fishing the creeks near his family home on Southeast Hollow. He helped out with the dairy cows on his family’s farm and was a member of the Taconic Livestock 4-H Club. He also had a love of drawing and spent many hours sketching the fields, hills and brook trout that he caught!

Seth had his struggles in life but he always brought his own unique and infectious personality to any given situation. He will always be remembered for his grin, his laugh and his big heart. Seth loved his brothers, his friends, his family and almost everyone he knew but the real love of his life was his daughter Cassidy. He was always so proud of her.

Seth is survived by his daughter, Cassidy M. Shaw of Burlington; his mother, Sara B. Palmer and his step-father, Llewellyn Palmer, Jr. of Berlin; his father, Gale Shaw and his step-mother, Katherine Shaw of Florida; his brothers, Reuben J. Shaw of San Diego, CA, Wyatt B. Shaw (Kenna) of Houston, TX and Llewellyn Palmer, III of Berlin. He is also survived by several aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins.

Friends are invited to visit with Seth’s family at the Thomas M. Barber Funeral Home, 66 Armsby Road in Petersburgh on Friday, October 16, 2020 from 11 am until 12 pm at which time a service will be held. Burial will follow, at 3 pm, in the family plot in Pine Grove Cemetery in Tribes Hill, NY. Donations, in Seth’s name, may be made to the Tourette Syndrome Association of America, 42-40 Bell Boulevard, Suite 205, Bayside, NY 11361

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Lucy R. LaRusso - May 02, 1922 - September 17, 2020

Departed: 09/17/2020 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Petersburgh, NY – Lucy R. LaRusso has passed away peacefully on Thursday, September 17, 2020 at the age of 98.

Lucy was predeceased by her parents; Cono Brigante and Louise Vigilante, her husband John J. LaRusso, and her siblings; Margaret Brigante, Millie Santarsiero, Angie DeShane, and Patsy and Anthony Brigante. She is survived by her children; Patricia (Herbert) Mace, John (Joan) LaRusso, Vincent (Marie) LaRusso, and Josephine (Ray) Coleman, and by 12 grandchildren, 17 great-grandchildren, and 4 great-great-grandchildren. Lucy was born in Brooklyn, NY and later in 1945 she married her husband and lived in Portchester, NY for 10 years where they had 3 children. In 1955 they moved to Harrison, NY where they added another child. Lucy worked as a dental assistant for 12 years and was a den mother for the Cub Scouts. In 1980 Lucy and John moved next door to their daughter in Petersburgh, NY to help their family in raising their six children. Lucy later became the president of The Petersburgh Sunshine Seniors. As president, she dedicated much of her time to planning activities and especially enjoyed putting together trips to the casino. Lucy was a go-getter who made things happen. She was always around to lend a helping hand and received numerous awards and certificates for her volunteer work. Lucy was at her happiest when she was spending time with her family, cooking, crocheting, playing bocci, dancing, and playing cards with her grandchildren. She will be missed by many.

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Sheila Lynn Sheffer - July 27, 1954 - June 24, 2020

Departed: 06/24/2020 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Spencer, MA - Sheila Lynn (Anderson) Sheffer, a long time resident of Spencer, MA, died June 24, 2020, at the age of 65, surrounded by her loving family. She fought a valiant battle with cancer.

Sheila was born in 1954 to the late John and Wilma Anderson of Berlin, NY. There she grew up in a bubbling household with her siblings Rusty, the late Billy, Susan, Nancy, Karen, Patty and Michael. There was always work to do and mischief to make. Sheila spent much of her adult life in Spencer, MA raising her children Robert Sheffer and the late Christine Karnes with her life partner, Thomas McHugh, Sr. Sheila was a waitress and bartender in many establishments in or near Spencer. Her warmth and gift of listening allowed her to make many friends along the way. Sheila enjoyed a good laugh and great times! Sheila is survived by her son, Robert Sheffer and his family of Las Vegas, Nevada, granddaughters Kara Cadrin and Jennifer Karnes and their families, and Thomas McHugh Sr. and family of Spencer, MA., along with her siblings, and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, aunts, uncles, and “grands.”

Our beloved “SheShe,” “Gigi,” “Gram” will be remembered most for her kindness and immense strength. She may have been small in stature, but mighty in character.

Sheila’s family would like to thank Dr. Siedler at the Harrington Cancer Center and Overlook Hospice Services for their loving care.

Services will be graveside at the Berlin Community Cemetery on June 30, 2020 at 11am.

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Ronald Bartus - August 17, 1941 - December 10, 2019

Departed: 12/10/2019 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Ronald Bartus.

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Ronald Bartus - August 17, 1941 - December 10, 2019

Departed: 12/10/2019 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: Petersburgh – The angels came to take Ronald Tudisco Bartus home to be with his parents and sister on December 10, 2019.

Ron was born in Rochester, NY, the son of the late Vito Tudisco and Josephine Goungo. His father was killed in World War II, his mother remarried the late Frank Bartus. His early years were spent in Washington DC and later he moved to Petersburgh in 1951 when his parents purchased the Taconic Inn where he had many happy memories fishing, hunting, and camping with his buddies. Later, Ron moved to Berlin where he completed his education and married his first wife, the late Wealthy Jones.

Ron’s career lasted almost 40 years, working for the Norton Company in Watervliet and Taconic Plastics in Petersburgh. He was a 20 year member of the Berlin Fire Dept. and Rescue Squad. He was also active in the Petersburgh, Grafton, and Stephentown Seniors, where he made many friends and was always available with a helping hand. In the retirement years Ron and his wife also enjoyed the six months a year they spent in Myrtle Beach as “snowbirds.” They made many friends and enjoyed group activities and trips.

Ron was the much-loved husband of Audrey Moon, whom he married in 1991, devoted father of Michelle (Marc) Daigle of Clifton Park and Melissa (James) Signorelli of Wynantskill, step-father to Anthony (Linda) Wescott of Petersburgh, Dawn (William) MacVeigh of Stephentown, and Jerusha (Randy) Jarvis of Schaghticoke, loving grandfather to Erica (Shawn) Robbins, Kimberly (Tony) Bucci, Karah, Anthony and Gabrielle Signorelli, Anthony, Christopher, and Dominick Wescott, William, Patrick, and Cole MacVeigh, and Adara, Arianna, and Caden Jarvis, Jessica and Ashley Mattison, as well as 9 great-grandchildren and his faithful feline companion, Jasper.

A funeral mass will be held Saturday, December 14, 2019 at 12 noon at St. Joseph’s Church, 458 NY Route 43, Stephentown. Relatives and friends may visit with Ron’s family for an hour before the service, from 11 AM till 12 noon at the church. Interment will follow in Meadowlawn Cemetery, Petersburgh, and a celebration of life will immediately follow at the Petersburgh Veterans Memorial Hall.

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MSgt Steven Porteus, U.S.A.F. (Ret) - April 15, 1952 - September 14, 2019

Departed: 09/14/2019 (Petersburgh)

Obituary Preview: GRAFTON - Steven Leroy Porteus, 67, of Grafton passed away at home Saturday September 14, 2019 surrounded by family after a battle with cancer.

Steve was born April 15, 1952 in Manhattan, NY and grew up in The Bronx. In March 1977, he married his longtime sweetheart Mildred “Mimi” Milby and they raised 3 daughters; Mimi Marie, Stephanie Anne and Lillian Grace. He loved his family dearly.

Steve was a 34 year US Air Force Veteran. He loved God and this country. When he wasn’t volunteering at church making building repairs, he spent much of his time in retirement with his granddaughter Adriana Rose Barker; the apple of his eye. They would garden, do many crafts like paper mache, painting, and collages- much of the same hobbies he enjoyed with his daughters when they were little.

Steve loved music and played the drums. He also loved to dance and he always planned on getting a huge stereo system and putting a dance floor into his garage so that he and Mimi could dance.

He enjoyed working on classic cars and had a great deal of knowledge about them. He could fix anything. He could usually be found tinkering in his garage or riding his motorcycle which he also really enjoyed. He loved life and had an unrivaled sense of adventure along with a delightful sense of humor. He was always making everyone laugh. He will be sorely missed.

Steve was preceded in death by his father, John Porteus; his mother, Lillian (Martin) Porteus; and his siblings, Joan, John, Gerald and Ann.

He is survived by his wife Mimi of 42 years, his 3 daughters; Mimi Marie Porteus, Stephanie Anne Porteus Clarke (David) and Lillian Grace Porteus (Griffin White), and his dear granddaughter Adriana Rose Barker. Services will be held at Thomas M. Barber Funeral Home 66 Armsby Rd Petersburg, NY 12138 A celebration of life service will take place Friday September 20, at 10 am led by Pastor David Martin. Interment, with military honors, will follow at 1pm in the Gerald B.H. Solomon- Saratoga National Cemetery at 200 Duell Rd. Schuylerville, NY 12871

Friends are invited to visit with Steve’s family Thursday, September 19, 2019 from 4-7 pm at the funeral home.

Flowers may be sent to the funeral home or in lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Steve’s memory to the USO, Samaritan’s Purse, or Ronald McDonald House Charities of the Capital Region.

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Community Involvement

Thomas M. Barber Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the Petersburgh community and is committed to giving back. The funeral home participates in local events, supports charitable organizations, and provides educational resources on end-of-life care and bereavement support.

Contact Information and Location

Thomas M. Barber Funeral Home is located at 66 Armsby Road, Petersburgh, NY 12138. For more information or to schedule a consultation, please call (phone number) or visit their website at (website URL). The funeral home's staff is available 24/7 to provide guidance and support during times of need.

In conclusion, Thomas M. Barber Funeral Home is a trusted and compassionate provider of funeral services in Petersburgh, New York. With its rich history, modern facilities, and commitment to excellence, this funeral home is an excellent choice for families seeking dignified and personalized services during their most difficult times.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, funeral or memorial services, and any charitable donations in their memory.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a lasting tribute to the deceased, preserving their memory and legacy for generations to come.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The responsibility of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or crematorium may assist with writing the obituary or provide guidance on what information to include.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the deceased person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also mention any notable accomplishments, awards, or charitable work.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform where it will be published. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words. Longer obituaries may be more suitable for online platforms or personal websites.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the essential details such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the deceased person's life and accomplishments.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can help to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful for those who knew the deceased.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The submission process varies depending on the publication or platform. You can usually find guidelines on their website or by contacting their customer service department directly. Be prepared to provide the written obituary text and any accompanying photos.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers and online sites offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge by the word or line. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to several hundred dollars.

Can I write my own obituary before I pass away?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure that their life story is told accurately and with dignity. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and accomplishments.

What if I'm not comfortable writing an obituary myself?

If you're struggling to write an obituary or need guidance, consider enlisting the help of a friend or family member. Funeral homes or crematoriums may also offer assistance or provide templates to make the process easier.

How long after a person's passing should an obituary be published?

The timing of publishing an obituary can vary depending on cultural and personal preferences. Typically, it's best to publish within a few days to a week after the person's passing, while memories are still fresh and condolences are being offered.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after it's been published. However, this may depend on the publication or platform's policies and procedures.

What if I want to keep the obituary private or only share it with certain people?

If you prefer to keep the obituary private or limit its circulation, you can opt for online platforms that allow you to control access or password-protect the content. Alternatively, you can share it personally with specific individuals or groups.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including lighthearted stories or humorous anecdotes can help celebrate the deceased person's personality and spirit. Just be sure to balance these elements with respect and dignity.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive topics or controversies surrounding the deceased person's life, it's essential to approach them with tact and discretion. Consider consulting with family members or friends before including such information in the obituary.

What if I want to include charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

This is a wonderful way to honor the deceased person's memory! Simply specify the charity(ies) you'd like donations to go towards and provide any necessary contact information in the obituary.

Can I create a digital archive of obituaries for my family history research?

Yes! Many online platforms allow you to save and organize obituaries for future reference. You can also create your own digital archive using tools like genealogy software or cloud storage services.

How do I find archived obituaries from past years?

You can search online archives of newspapers and genealogy websites, which often have extensive collections of historical obituaries. Local libraries and genealogical societies may also have resources available for researching archived obituaries.

What if I need help finding information for an obituary?

If you're struggling to gather information for an obituary, consider reaching out to family members, friends, or former colleagues who may have insight into the deceased person's life. You can also consult public records, social media profiles, or other online resources.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn can be effective ways to share an obituary with a wider audience. Just be mindful of privacy settings and respect any boundaries set by the deceased person's loved ones.

How do I ensure that an online obituary remains accessible over time?

To ensure that an online obituary remains accessible in the long term, consider using reputable platforms that guarantee permanent archiving. You can also create a backup copy of the obituary text and save it locally for future reference.

What if I want to create a memorial website for my loved one?

This is a beautiful way to honor their memory! There are many online platforms that allow you to create custom memorial websites with photos, stories, and tributes. These sites can serve as a lasting tribute and gathering place for those who knew the deceased person.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including meaningful quotes or poems can add depth and emotion to an obituary. Choose pieces that resonate with the deceased person's spirit and values.

How do I know when it's appropriate to stop accepting condolences?

This is a personal decision that depends on individual circumstances. Generally, it's common for condolences to slow down after a few weeks or months following the person's passing. You can always thank those who continue to reach out with kind words and support.