Stillinger Family Funeral Home Hendryx New Palestine Chapel Obituaries

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Located in the heart of New Palestine, Indiana, Stillinger Family Funeral Home Hendryx New Palestine Chapel has been a beacon of hope and comfort for families in their time of need. With a rich history and a commitment to providing exceptional service, this funeral home has earned a reputation as a trusted and caring partner for those navigating the difficult process of saying goodbye to a loved one.

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Stillinger Family Funeral Home Hendryx New Palestine Chapel has a long and storied history that dates back to 1923, when it was first established by the Stillinger family. Over the years, the funeral home has remained family-owned and operated, with a deep commitment to serving the local community. Today, the funeral home is part of the Hendryx Family of Funeral Homes, which has expanded its reach to include multiple locations throughout central Indiana.

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Cheryl Ann (McDonald) Corwin - March 28, 1961 - February 01, 2024

Departed: 02/01/2024 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Cheryl Ann (McDonald) Corwin, 62, Altoona, FL, formally of New Palestine, IN, passed away on Thursday, February 1, 2024. Cheryl was born on March 28, 1961, in Indianapolis, to the late Charles and Patty Lou (Curry) McDonald. She married Michael D. Corwin on June 2, 1979. Cheryl graduated from New Palestine High School and attended IN Business College.

Cheryl was a tremendously loving wife, mother, sister, grandmother, aunt, and friend to all who knew her and will be sadly missed. She enjoyed baking, cross-stitching, camping, and family time with the grandchildren. Cheryl and Michael moved to Florida 10 years ago. She was an executive assistant for Shorewood Packaging, turned International Paper, Indianapolis, for many years.

Cheryl is survived by her loving husband, Michael D. Corwin; their children, Mike (Tiel) Corwin and Christian Corwin; 11 grandchildren: Christian, Ashlyn, Taya, Tessa, Hannah, Madison, Tamryn, Tori, Braylynn, Jacobi, and Landyn; brothers, Jim (Bernadette) McDonald and Ronald McDonald; and many nieces and nephews. Visitation will be held on Monday, February 12, 2024, from 4:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. at Stillinger Family Funeral Home, 19 East Main Street, New Palestine, IN. The funeral service will be held the following day, Tuesday, February 13, 2024, at 1:00 p.m., also at the funeral home. Burial will take place in New Palestine Cemetery. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com

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Martha Ann (Crudgington) Hian - September 04, 1943 - September 22, 2023

Departed: 09/22/2023 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Martha Ann (Crudgington) Hian, 80, passed away with family by her side, on Friday, September 22, 2023, at Abbie Hunt Bryce Home, in Indianapolis, while under hospice care. Martha was born on September 4, 1943, in Little Rock, Arkansas, to Homer and Beatrice (McPhearson) Crudgington. She attended Little Rock High School.

Martha enjoyed all things New Palestine. She knew the ins and the outs of the town, as well as all her neighbors. She knew no stranger. She was generous. She worked in the New Palestine school system for many years either driving a school bus or working in the cafeteria. When not working, Martha enjoyed spending time with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren and being a caretaker to all. She even took care of the neighbor dog, whom she now claims as her own. She often listened to Neal Diamond and Elton John and was a frequent visitor of Sero’s in Cumberland. Martha was a tremendously loving wife, mother, grandmother, and friend to all who knew her and will be sadly missed.

She is survived by her sons, Russell A. Hian and Randy J. Hian (Sharon Douglass); loving grandchildren, Anastasia Dougherty, Miguel (Miciah) Alejos, and Sonya Napariu; 2 awesome great-grandchildren, Nathan and Elise Dougherty; and beloved dog, Olaf.

Martha was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Ronald Hian, Sr.; son, Ronald Hian, Jr.; and brothers, Allen and Jack. Stillinger Family Funeral Home, New Palestine, has been of assistance to the family. There will be a Celebration of Life gathering on Sunday, October 1, 2023, from 12:00 noon until 4:00 p.m., at the Lions Club, 5242 W, West U.S. Highway 52, New Palestine. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com

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Michael David Dellekamp - December 05, 1947 - July 08, 2023

Departed: 07/08/2023 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Michael David Dellekamp, 75, New Palestine, passed away unexpectantly on Saturday, July 8, 2023. He was born on December 5, 1947, in Shelbyville, to Francis John and Eva Geraldine (Moore) Dellekamp. Mike is a 1966 graduate of New Palestine High School. He also attended college at Indiana State.

Mike was a very devoted father, husband, and grandfather. He had a positive impact on so many over his years. He was generous with time and had an abundance in overflow. Mike was a thinker, an inventor, a teacher, a mentor, and a creator. He loved creating projects for others. At times, he overcommitted himself.

Mike loved to dance with wood as he created beautiful works of art, such as urns, bowls, and play tops. He has created over 70,000 tops and generously given those out to children and adults alike from a bag he carried with him daily. His passion for turning wood was exemplified in his enthusiasm for not only teaching others but learning from those he taught. He belonged to the American Association of Woodturners. Mike loved to dance, play chess, and was a fierce euchre player, even teaching the grandkids at a young age.

Mike was the embodiment of a great grandparent. He lit up with intent when he was able to see and play with his grandkids. He was blessed with meeting his wife, Gretchen Renae Wahls, 11 years ago. Mike celebrated 50 years as a Mason and loved being a member of Zion Lutheran Church of New Palestine. He worked as an engineer in manufacturing for many years in addition to being a business owner.

Mike is survived by his loving wife Gretchen Renae Dellekamp, of 9 years; children: Heather (Adam) Dellekamp Jones, Heidi Dellekamp, and Joshua Dellekamp; grandkids, Blaize Jones and Haizle Jones; beloved dogs, Sam and Lady; cousin, LuAnn Mattingly; many first, second, and third cousins; and ex-wife, Toni Dellekamp.

He was preceded in death by his father, Francis Dellekamp; mother, Eva Berry; grandfather, Guy Skillman “Shorty” Moore; and cousin, Kevin Ruschhaupt. A memorial visitation will be on Thursday, July 13, 2023, from 3:00 p.m. until 6:00 p.m. at Stillinger Family Funeral Home, 19 East Main Street, New Palestine, with the service immediately starting at 6:00 p.m., with Pastor Jason Taylor officiating. Memorial contributions may be made on behalf of his grandchildren via an account that has been established. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com

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John Francis Schroth, Sr. - February 13, 1936 - June 25, 2023

Departed: 06/25/2023 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Sergeant First Class (Retired) John Francis Schroth, Senior died peacefully on June 25, 2023. He was 87 years old, one of 9 children, from North Revere, Massachusetts. He was preceded in death by his spouse, Ginette Cecile Marta Bariteau, whom he met and married in 1956 while serving in the Army in France. Dad served 25 years as an Army Engineer, 13 of which were overseas, including two combat tours in Vietnam. He was a construction supervisor, platoon sergeant, First Sergeant, Green Beret, baseball coach, scoutmaster for many years, and sang Handel’s Messiah six times with chapel choirs. He was a rabid fan of the Boston Red Socks, New England Patriots, and the “Boston (Atlanta) Braves.” The week before he died he spent helping to plaster his son’s new home in New Palestine. He had a hearty laugh, was mischievous, stubborn, and generous. We are so happy that he can again be with the many loved ones who passed before him. We miss you pops! Stillinger Family Funeral Homes will oversee a graveside service with military honors Saturday, July 8, 2023 at 10:00 a.m. at New Palestine Cemetery, New Palestine. Memories of John and condolences for his family may be shared at www.stillingerfamily.com.

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Mary L. Fox - November 12, 1932 - April 12, 2023

Departed: 04/12/2023 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Mary L. Fox, age 90, of Freedom, Indiana, passed away surrounded by her loving family April 12, 2023 at her residence. She was born November 12, 1932 in Lebanon, Kentucky to the late Robert and Teresa

(Stapp) Cox. She was married to Norman Fox on May 25, 1949, and he survives. Mary had a long career with Western Electric, retiring in 1985. She is remembered for her great devotion to family and children. One of her greatest joys in life was feeding those she loved. She was an accomplished cook and grew many of her own vegetables. Mary was often busy canning her home- grown vegetables. She enjoyed mushroom-hunting and fishing. Mary loved all kinds of gardening, and her lovely gardens created a beautiful setting for another hobby: birdwatching. She was also an avid

reader. She is survived by her husband of 73 years, Norman; daughters, Carol (Fred) Flagle and Debra (Ray) Flagle; son, Steve (Mary Jo) Fox; 13 grandchildren; 33 great grandchildren; one great great grandson; one great great granddaughter (on the way); and sisters, Jean Henderson and Bobbi Richey. She is preceded in death by her parents, listed above; her son, Rick Fox; and brothers, Raybon Cox and Harold

Cox.

Services for Mary will be Wednesday, April 19, 2023 at 6PM at Stillinger Family Funeral Home-Hendryx New Palestine Chapel 19 E. Main St New Palestine, IN 46163.  Friends may visit from 4PM until the time of service.

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James Leonard Kissel - March 12, 1928 - March 25, 2023

Departed: 03/25/2023 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: James Leonard "Jim" Kissel, 95, of Rapid City, passed away Saturday, March 25, 2023. Jim is survived by his loving wife, Agnes Jean Kissel, his nieces, nephews and many other family members and friends. He was preceded in death by his ten siblings and his parents, George and Audrey Kissel.

Jim served in the United States Air Force and was honorably discharged in 1962 as a Captain. He also served in the Indiana Air National Guard. His primary career was assisting clients as an agent for State Farm Insurance for over thirty years. Jim was active in the community in many ways. He was a member of Canyon Lake United Methodist Church where he sang in the choir. He enjoyed singing and music brought him great joy. Jim was also a member of Mt. Rushmore Lodge #220 A.F & A.M., NAJA Shrine Temple and a member of the Chanter Unit. He was dearly loved and will not soon be forgotten.

A visitation will be held at held at Stillinger Family Funeral Home - Hendryx New Palestine Chapel, 19 E Main St, New Palestine on Thursday, April 6 from 12:30 to 2:30 p.m. with a graveside service to follow at New Palestine Cemetery.

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Daniel M. Morris - July 29, 1958 - March 01, 2023

Departed: 03/01/2023 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Daniel A. Morris, 64, of Shelbyville, IN passed away on March 1, 2023 at his residence. He was born to John Letcher and Cleo L. (Roberts) Morris on July 29, 1958 in Beech Grove, IN.

He is survived by his mother, Cleo; his brother, Timothy Morris and sister, Linda Drake; 6 nieces and nephews, Holly Hacker, Danielle Pinson, Tyler Morris, Ben, Jesse and Nathan Drake; aunt Jeanette Riegel.

Daniel was preceded in death by his father, John and his brother Mike Morris.

Burial will be March 6, 2023 at 3PM in New Palestine Cemetery.

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Nellie J. Kopp - February 08, 1933 - February 27, 2023

Departed: 02/27/2023 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Nellie Joan Kopp, age 90 of New Palestine passed away peacefully at home on February 27, 2023. She was born February 8, 1933 in Lyons, Nebraska to the late Axle and Laura Hansen.

Nellie was an avid word game and word puzzler. She enjoyed playing poker and vegetable gardening. Prior to her retirement, Nellie was a self-employed bookkeeper in the trucking industry.

She is survived by her son, Kevin (Jeannie Stivers) Kopp; daughter, Brianna (Alan) Memis; grandchildren, Cody Kopp, Kaylan Memis, and Rebekka Memis. She is preceded in death by her parents, mentioned above; husband Richard Kopp; son, Ricky Kopp; grandson, Jason Kopp; and siblings, Edward Hansen, and Irene Hansen.

Funeral service will be 3:00 pm, Tuesday, March 7, 2023, at Stillinger Family Funeral Home, Hendryx Chapel, 19 East Main Street, New Palestine. Indiana 46163. Friends may call from 1:00 pm until the time of service at the funeral home.

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Kevin Spring - March 14, 1968 - February 22, 2023

Departed: 02/22/2023 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Kevin Spring, 54, New Palestine, passed away Wednesday, February 22, 2023. Kevin was born on March 14, 1968, in Indianapolis to Rowland D. and Kay K. (Kelley) Spring. Kevin attended Warren Central High School.

Kevin was a tremendously loving son, brother, uncle, and friend to all who knew him and will be sadly missed. He had a big heart, was very caring, and was quite the prankster. He loved his family and would often play jokes on his sisters as they were growing up. Kevin was also very intelligent and very orderly. He excelled in attending to his flower and vegetable gardens. He enjoyed refurbishing houses, was a craftsman in woodworking, and enjoyed working on cars.

Kevin is survived by his mother, Kay Mundy; sisters, Rhonda (Dennis) Burton and Michelle (Tony) Kirk; nephews, Bryan (Megan) Kirk, Bailey (Ginny) Kirk; and many aunts, uncles, and cousins.

Kevin was preceded in death by his father, Ronnie and dear friend, Wayne Mundy. Visitation will be on Wednesday, March 1, 2023, from 11:00 a.m. until 1:00 p.m. at Stillinger Family Funeral Home -Hendryx Chapel, 19 East Main Street, New Palestine, IN.  The funeral service will immediately follow at 1:00 p.m.  Burial will be in New Palestine Cemetery. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com

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Sherry Lynn (Terrell) Branson - September 20, 1937 - December 27, 2022

Departed: 12/27/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Sherry Lynn (Terrell) Branson, 85, of Lakewood Ranch, Florida, formally of New Palestine, Indiana, passed away on December 27, 2022, at Tidewell Hospice of Lakewood Ranch. She was born on September 20, 1937, in Linton, IN, to Ora Lester and Marybelle (Noel) Terrell.

After her education at Ben Davis and Tech High Schools, she became employed at Indiana Bell where she retired after over 25 years as an Executive Secretary. In 1990, Sherry and her husband Bill moved to Florida to enjoy their retirement and traveling. Sherry cherished spending time with her children and grandchildren.

Sherry dedicated her life to the church from singing in the choir at New Palestine United Methodist Church to being one of the founding members of Harvest United Methodist Church in Lakewood Ranch, Florida.

She is survived by her sons: Mark (Cheryl) Highsmith, William (Pam) Branson, Robert (Chelsea) Branson, and James (Donna) Branson; daughter, Cheryl (Luke) Gerardi; daughter-in-law, Tina Branson; 14 grandchildren; and 21 great-grandchildren.

Sherry was preceded in death by her parents; sister, Phyllis Willever; husband, William “Bill” Branson; first husband, John Highsmith; and sons, Michael Highsmith and Dave Branson.

The entire family would like to express their outmost gratitude to Cheryl Gerardi as she managed care for Mom over several years. Visitation will be on Thursday, January 12, 2023, from 10:30 a.m. until 12:30 p.m. at Stillinger Family Funeral Home-New Palestine Chapel, 19 East Main Street, New Palestine, IN. The funeral service will start at 12:30 p.m., also at the funeral home with Chaplain Russ Jarvis officiating. Sherry will be laid to rest next to her late husband in New Palestine Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made in Sherry’s memory to Harvest United Methodist Church, 14305 Covenant Way, Lakewood Ranch, FL 34202. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com

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Reba Mae Abbott - February 03, 1938 - December 05, 2022

Departed: 12/05/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Reba Mae Abbott, 84, recently of Indianapolis, passed away on Monday, December 5, 2022. Reba was born on February 3, 1938, in Cabell, KY, to Edgar Lloyd and Ima Mae (Weston) Abbott. She is a 1959 graduate of New Palestine High School.

Reba was always cheerful, easy-going, and had a good sense of humor. Even with a disability, she was a blessing for and to others, especially her family. She had a strong faith in Christ and church and could often be seen reading from her Bible.

She is survived by her loving siblings, Ed Abbott, Troy Abbott, Jean Relford, and Opal Spragg and several nieces and nephews.

Reba was preceded in death by her parents; sisters, Shirley Blankenbaker and Cora Haney-Demaster; and her good friend, Lillian Williamson. Visitation will be held on Friday, December 9, 2022, from 11:00 a.m. until 1:00 p.m. at Stillinger Family Funeral Home- New Palestine Chapel, 19 East Main Street, New Palestine, IN 46163, with the funeral service immediately following at 1:00 p.m., conducted by Reba’s loving family. Burial will take place in New Palestine Cemetery. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com

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Janice Kay Lipscomb - April 11, 1940 - December 02, 2022

Departed: 12/02/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Janice Kay Lipscomb, 82, of Greenfield passed away on December 2, 2022, at her residence. She was born on April 11, 1940, to the late Holmer and Gertrude (Heiskenen) Wirth in Milwaukee, WI. She married the late Charles A. Lipscomb, Jr. in 1960.

She is survived by her 2 children, Kathryn (James) Livengood and Jim Lipscomb; 3 grandchildren, Jyri, Tatyana and Skyla.

In addition to her parents and husband, Janice was preceded in death by her daughter, Marge Mueller and twin sister, Joyce Sears.

Services for Janice will be Wednesday, December 7, 2022, at 2PM at Stillinger Family Funeral Home, Hendryx Chapel, New Palestine, 19 East Main Street, New Palestine, IN 46140 with Pastor Matt Wickham officiating. Friends may visit from 12:30PM until time of service. Burial will be Thursday, December 8, 2022, at 11AM in Valhalla Memorial Gardens in Bloomington, IN.

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Cora Sue (Abbott) Haney Demaster - August 05, 1945 - November 12, 2022

Departed: 11/12/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Cora Sue (Abbott) Haney-Demaster, 77, Greenfield, passed away Saturday, November 12, 2022, surrounded by her loving family. She was born on August 5, 1945, in Cabell, KY, to Ed Lloyd and Ima Mae (Weston) Abbott. Cora is a 1963 graduate of New Palestine High School.

Cora was employed as a real estate agent with Johnson & Dudley and then as an administrative assistant for BMG Records. She loved music, dancing, reading, and aimlessly driving here and there to get out and about and explore. In her younger years, Cora was on a bowling league and a dart league. She loved spending time with her family and grandchildren. She attended Franklin Road Baptist Church. She married James Edward Demaster on September 23, 1988.

Cora is survived by her loving husband Jim of 34 years; children: Barbara (Robert) Riddle, Joseph (Heather) Haney, and Nathan Demaster; grandchildren: Keegan Riddle, Kira Schnabel, Caleb Riddle, Michael Haney, and Rebecca Haney; siblings: Ed Abbott, Troy Abbott, Reba Abbott, Jean Relford, and Opal Spragg; sisters-in-law: Louanna Canter and Mary Ellen Harvey; and good friend and father of her children, Toad Haney.

She was preceded in death by her parents; infant son, Jonathan Haney; and sister, Shirley Blankenbaker. A visitation will be on Thursday, November 17, 2022, from 4:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. at Stillinger Family Funeral Home, New Palestine Chapel, 19 East Main Street, New Palestine, IN, as well as an additional visitation on Friday, November 18, 2022, from 10:00 a.m. until 12 noon, also at the funeral home. The service will start at 12 noon officiated by Pastor Chuck Circle. Burial will take place in New Palestine Cemetery. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com

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Martha Mae (Schilling) Sutherland - October 02, 1929 - November 09, 2022

Departed: 11/09/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Martha Mae (Schilling) Sutherland, 93, Greenfield, passed away Wednesday, November 9, 2022. She was born on October 2, 1929, in Shelbyville to Carl and Ruth (Meloy) Schilling. Martha married her love William T. Sutherland on December 6, 1950.

Martha was a tremendously loving wife, mother, grandmother, and friend to all who knew her and will be sadly missed. She co-owned Sutherland’s Grocery along with her husband in New Palestine for many years before they sold the business. Alongside working at the grocery store, Martha was busy raising a family of 4 girls. She also enjoyed sewing, crafting, quilting, and flower gardening. Martha regularly enjoyed playing rummy with her daughter as often as possible. She was a member of St. Michael Catholic Church.

Martha is survived by her loving daughters: Teresa (Jim) Whitton, Linda (Steve) Collins, Debra (Jim) Warren, and Karla (Jeff) King; 10 grandchildren; and 14 great-grandchildren.

Martha was preceded in death by her parents; siblings; foster parents; and beloved husband, William, of 37+ years. Visitation will be on Tuesday, November 15, 2022, from 12:00 noon to 2:00 p.m. at Stillinger Family Funeral Home, New Palestine chapel, 19 E. Main Street. Memorial contributions may be made to St. Michael Catholic Church, 519 Jefferson Blvd., Greenfield. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com

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Charles Teddy Ramey, Sr. - December 08, 1943 - November 01, 2022

Departed: 11/01/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Charles Teddy Ramey, Sr., 78, Fountaintown, passed away Tuesday, November 1, 2022, surrounded by his loving family. Charles was born on December 8, 1943, in Kingsport, Tennessee, to Robert and Lillian (Sexton) Ramey. Charles attended New Bethel High School in Franklin Township. He married his love Brenda Joyce Terry on November 13, 1964.

Charles was a mechanic for Ryder truck rental on Madison Avenue, Indianapolis, for 12 years. From there, he was self-employed as a mechanic. He then worked as a truck driver mechanic. In Charles’ younger years, he enjoyed camping, boating, fishing, and hunting with his wife and boys. He also enjoyed classic cars and attending car shows, especially the James Dean Festival Run. Charles and Brenda were also long-time members of Mt. Calvary Missionary Baptist Church.

He is survived by his loving wife Brenda of 58 years; their children: Dwayne (Angela) Ramey, Charles T. (Ellen) Ramey, Jr., and Jeff (Paula) Ramey; 8 grandchildren: Chuck Ramey, Taylor Ramey, Jody Barton, Ashtyn Ramey, Kenzie Ramey, Jordan Henry, Megan Ramey, and Henry Napier; 8 great-grandchildren; and brothers: Don (Faye) Ramey and Dwight (Pat) Ramey.

Charles was preceded in death by his parents; son, Kenneth R. Ramey; and brothers: Roy Ramey, Joe Ramey, and Bill Ramey. Visitation will be on Monday, November 7, 2022, from 10:00 a.m. until 1:00 p.m. at Stillinger Family Funeral Home – New Palestine Chapel, 19 East Main Street, New Palestine. The funeral service will immediately follow at 1:00 p.m., also at the funeral home. Charles will be laid to rest next to his son Kenneth in Orchard Hill Cemetery, Indianapolis. Memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association, 50 91st Street, Ste. 100, Indianapolis, IN 46240. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com

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Marjorie Ellen (Tongret) Ostermeier - January 07, 1921 - August 06, 2022

Departed: 08/06/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Marjorie Ellen Ostermeier (nee Tongret) of Wheaton, Illinois, passed away peacefully on August 6, 2022, eleven years to the day after her husband, Raymond. She was 101 years and 8 months old and was surrounded by people who adore her. Born to Anne and Bland Tongret in Indianapolis, Indiana in 1921, she married the president of her high school class and love of her life, Ray, shortly after the unexpected death of her father in 1941. They have three devoted children, Robert, Janet and Maurice, five grandchildren, five great grandchildren and one great-great grandchild.

Raised on Brandywine Dairy Farm near Carrollton, Indiana with her two sisters (Betty and Virginia) and brother (Charles), she was no stranger to working with her hands, wrapping butter in waxed paper, snapping beans, harvesting cherries, and canning tomatoes with her mother and daughter. She continued gardening on Webster Avenue in Wheaton into her 90’s.

She inherited her father’s artistic abilities demonstrated by her wool hooked rugs, patchwork quilts and handmade garments. She never met a scrap of paper she did not keep, or a swatch of fabric she could not reuse. She was an avid reader, a Cubs fan (TV on, sound off and radio on), a lover of puzzles, and dominos every day at 1 PM with her friends.

She loved fiercely and is loved by everyone she met. Active members of Gary United Methodist Church, Wheaton, since 1964, Marge and Ray were committed to service as they volunteered at the Wesley Shoppe and participated in church leadership.

She is preceded in death by so many. She leaves behind children Robert Ostermeier (Linda), Maurice Ostermeier (Kathy), Janet Ostermeier; grandchildren Cindy Hooker (Fred), Jennifer Ostermeier (Samir), Kendra Singelais (Robert II), Mackenzie and David Ostermeier; great grandchildren Anna Hooker, Jonah and Aida Oufkir, Brianna and Leo Singelais; great-great grandchild Ellianna Singelais.

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Ruth Ann (Rosenbaum) Plummer - November 30, 1936 - May 13, 2022

Departed: 05/13/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Ruth Ann (Rosenbaum) Plummer, 85, New Palestine, passed away on Friday, May 13, 2022. She was born on November 30, 1936, in New Palestine, IN, to Fred and Frieda (Harting) Rosenbaum. She was a 1954 graduate of New Palestine High School.

Ruth followed in her father’s footsteps by becoming the town clerk treasurer of New Palestine. Being a lifelong resident of New Palestine, Ruth loved to share her knowledge on the town history. She enjoyed volunteering her time at the New Palestine History Museum. She loved to travel and was proud to say she had visited all 50 states. She loved cardinals and irises.

Ruth is survived by her loving children: Beverly (John) Berndt, Barbara (Don) Cole, and Brenda Plummer; 4 grandchildren; and 5 great-grandchildren.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Donald Plummer, and children Ronnie and Linda. Visitation will be on Thursday, May 19, 2022, from 10:00 a.m. until 11:00 a.m. at Stillinger Family Funeral Home - Hendryx Chapel, 19 East Main Street, New Palestine, IN. The service will start at 11:00 a.m. and be officiated by Ruth’s son-in-law, John Berndt. Memorial contributions may be made to New Palestine United Church, 15 East Main Street, New Palestine, IN. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com

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Gary Dale Lee - August 30, 1960 - April 04, 2022

Departed: 04/04/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Gary Dale Lee, 61, Greenfield, passed away Monday, April 4, 2022, at St. Vincent Hospital, in Indianapolis. He was born on August 30, 1960, in Indianapolis to William and Francis (Foust) Lee. Gary is a 1978 graduate of New Palestine High School.

Gary was a self-employed contractor working as a cable TV installer. He loved his family and friends. Often, he was the life of the party. He also loved sports, especially watching NASCAR and football.

He is survived by his son, Zachary (Brooke) Lee; grandchildren, Raelynn Lee and Ryker Lee; siblings: Bill (Ellen) Lee, Doug Lee, Patty (Wes) Schnepp, and Karen Brown; and several cousins, nieces and nephews.

Gary was preceded in death by his mother, Francis Fitzgerald; his father and his wife, William and Barb Lee; and son, Joshua Lee. A Celebration of Life gathering will be held for family and friends at a later date and time. Stillinger Family Funeral Home, Hendryx New Palestine Chapel, has been entrusted with arrangements. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com

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Kenneth Randall Ramey - June 30, 1977 - April 01, 2022

Departed: 04/01/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Kenneth Randall Ramey, 44, passed away on Friday, April 1, 2022. He was born on June 30, 1977 in Indianapolis, IN, to Charles Teddy and Brenda Joyce (Terry) Ramey. He was a 1996 graduate of Franklin Central High School.

Kenny worked in the automotive industry pursuing his passion of cars. He loved to talk cars, work on cars, attend car shows, and drive his own pride and joy, but only in nice, clear weather. Kenny was also known for his love of having a heart of gold, knowing no stranger, being extremely caring and generous, and lending a hand when least expected. Kenny was a loving and caring man who was everyone’s best friend. He loved to joke with family and friends, mow grass for anyone and everyone, and put a smile on everyone’s face.

Kenny is survived by his loving parents, Brenda and Charles Ramey, Sr; brothers: Dwayne (Angela) Ramey, Charles (Ellen) Ramey, Jr., and Jeff (Paula) Ramey; beloved dog, Yahtzee; many aunts and uncles; several nieces and nephews; additional family members; dear friends and caretakers, Chuck and Judy Brown; and countless friends. Visitation will be held on Friday, April 8, 2022, from 10:00 a.m. until 1:00 p.m. at Stillinger Family Funeral Home, Hendryx New Palestine Chapel, 19 East Main Street, New Palestine, IN. The funeral service will immediately follow, officiated by Kenny’s cousin, Richard Jenkins. Burial will take place in Orchard Hill Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Diabetes Association, 8604 Allisonville Road, Ste. 140, Indianapolis, IN 46250. If you would like to sign the online guest book or send condolences to the family, you may do so by visiting www.stillingerfamily.com

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Dale Wayne Mattingly - January 08, 1941 - March 27, 2022

Departed: 03/27/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Dale Wayne Mattingly, 81, of New Palestine, passed away on March 27, 2022. He was born on January 8, 1941, in Indianapolis to Carl and Dorothy (Hall) Mattingly. He was a 1959 graduate of Scecina Memorial High School in Indianapolis. Following graduation, Dale entered the U.S. Army and proudly served for two years. After an honorable discharge, he married the love of his life, Marcia Elaine Sutton on September 26, 1964.

Dale was a very loving man; often hard to read and often misunderstood on the exterior, but very social, active, involved, and intelligent. He was fiercely independent, highly educated in all areas of discussion, was always prepared, and had a large heart that welcomed all. His love for cars always included hand-washed vehicles on the weekends, auto racing including Nascar, Formula One, IndyCar and, general car-talk. He also looked forward to the Tour De France as well. While in Florida, Dale joined the Bicycle Club for a daily 20-mile + ride and then would retreat afterwards to Panera with the Club for his daily cup of coffee and conversation at Panera. Afterwards, he could be found soaking up the sunrays at the pool. Dale also loved bowling. His additional love of politics was always prevalent. He debated with the best of them, was seldomly wrong, and never lost to statistical evidence. He was always matter-of-fact, had a plan for everything and was rarely caught off guard. He constantly conducted research on a vast array of topics, as he not only educated himself, but had a better understanding of where others were coming from. His family often referred to him as the ‘Consumer Reports of everything’.

He was often referred to as ‘Mr. Mayor’ of the neighborhood and was part of the welcoming committee and in some cases was the first to introduce himself to the prospective homeowners. He welcomed neighborly chats with all his neighbors on his daily walks and monthly get togethers. Dale would join his daughter and son-in-law and their dogs for a nightly meal and would avidly watch Wheel-of-Fortune and discuss whatever topic of current events.

Dale’s love for our country was also top of his mind and heart. Following active service in the U.S. Army, he immediately jumped into civilian life and worked at DFAS for 35 years on some pretty cool projects in the research departments. He was also a member of the New Palestine American Legion Post #182. He was a proud patriot until the end. Dale’s love, admiration, and support for his family was additionally important as he always wanted them to be happy and be the very best version of themselves. He was very proud of his children and grandchildren.

Dale is survived by his children, Denise (Charles) Snyder and Michael (Cathy) Mattingly; grandchildren: Sean, Heather, Mitchel, Emily, Allison, Max, and Marilyn; granddogs, Auggie and Beau; and siblings who affectionately referred to him as ‘Dale the Whale’, Carla Tharpe and Nadine Ripley.

He was preceded in death by his parents; loving wife of 53 years, Marcia Elaine Mattingly; sister, Nancy Piercy; and brothers-in-law: Boyd Piercy, Jim Tharpe, and John Ripley; and beloved granddog, Beasley.

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James L. Ott - September 27, 1941 - March 16, 2022

Departed: 03/16/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: James “Jim” Leroy Ott, 80 of New Palestine, IN passed away on March 16, 2022, in Indianapolis. He was born on September 27, 1941, in Indianapolis, IN to the late James Frances and Julia Jean (Waddell) Ott. He married the love of his life Judy (Taylor) Ott on February 3, 1961, she survives. Jim retired from Indiana Power & Light after 37 years of service. He enjoyed spending time with his loving family and reading.

Jim is survived by his wife, Judy; his three daughters, Kellie (Larry) Bryant, Kimberly (David) DeVore and Karla Ott; 2 sisters, Robin Kekar and Gloria Hollenbaugh; his brother, Jason Ott; 6 grandchildren and 7 great grandchildren.

In addition to his parents, Jim was preceded in death by his brother, Michael Ott.

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Tim E. Swegman - September 28, 1935 - March 12, 2022

Departed: 03/12/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Tim E Swegman (86) passed away peacefully on March 12, 2022, in Dayton Ohio. He was born September 28,1935 in Indianapolis, Indiana, the only son of the late Edwin and Marie (Bennett) Swegman. In 1958, he married Marlene Mayerle. This past February, they celebrated 64 years of marriage. Tim and Marlene moved from New Palestine Indiana to Kettering Ohio in 1997 to be closer to their daughter and her family.

Tim graduated from New Palestine High School, Franklin College (undergrad) and Butler University (master’s in education). He returned to New Palestine and taught middle school social studies for 38 years. Many of his students remember him for his stories of ancient history, his sense of humor, and how he genuinely cared for them. In 1979, he became the head coach for the girls track team at NPHS. During his 17 years of coaching, his teams won 16 conference titles and celebrated many individual awards. In 2006, Tim was inducted into the New Palestine High School Coaches Hall of Fame. “Coach” loved working with his girls and watching their hard work turn into success. He held very fond memories of the girls he coached and often told stories of his coaching days.

In his retirement, the role of grandpa became his primary focus. He was always in attendance for the basketball games, baseball games, swim meets, and track meets of his granddaughter and grandson. With each game and meet came the stat sheet and/or the stopwatch. The coach in him was always present.

Tim would freely give hugs, firm handshakes, fist bumps, and pinky shakes to everyone. He will be remembered for how he loved people and took the opportunity to touch their lives in a special way.

Tim is survived by his wife Marlene (Mayerle) Swegman, daughter Lorrie (Jim) Kohls, grandson Kevin Kohls, granddaughter Lauren (Tyler) Darden and great granddaughter Bexley.

Funeral service 12:00 pm, Saturday, March 26, 2022, at Stillinger Family Funeral Home, Hendryx Chapel, 19 East Main Street, New Palestine, IN 46163. Friends may call from 10:00 am until the time of service. Please share your memories of Tim and condolences with his family at www.stillingerfamily.com.

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Joyce Mae Arthur - April 16, 1932 - March 06, 2022

Departed: 03/06/2022 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Joyce Mae (Miller) Arthur 89, of New Palestine, IN passed away peacefully on March 6, 2022. She was born to the late Ralph and Ruth (Cartmell) Miller on April 16, 1932, in New Palestine, IN. Joyce was a 1950 graduate of New Palestine High School. She married her husband Richard on June 10, 1951. Together they made their home and raised their family in the New Palestine area. She was a loving, devoted Christian wife, mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. Always active in their church, Joyce and Richard volunteered together for many Christian ministries throughout the years. Joyce also cooked for many church camps. She was a member of the New Palestine Bible Church.

Although Joyce enjoyed her years as a homemaker, she did work outside the home as a receptionist in a medical office. In her spare time, she enjoyed cooking and antiquing. Above all else she loved her Lord and Savior, and spending time with her family.

She is survived by her loving children, Sharon Koontz, Terry Kinder and Roger (Tamera) Arthur; 8 grandchildren and 20 great grandchildren.

In addition to her parents and husband, she was preceded in death by her loving son, Randy Lee Arthur; her 2 sisters, Betty Wood, and Shirley Wheeler.

Services for Joyce will be Saturday, March 12, 2022, at 10AM at Stillinger Family Funeral Home-Hendryx Chapel New Palestine 19 E. Main St New Palestine, IN 46163, with burial to follow in New Palestine Cemetery. Friends may visit on Friday March 11, 2022, from 4PM-7PM at the funeral home. Memorial contributions may be made in Joyce’s memory to The Alzheimer’s Association. Stillinger Family Funeral Home is honored to care for the Arthur Family.

Please share your memories and condolences at www.stillingerfamily.com.

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Donald William Ortel - December 24, 1928 - June 21, 2024

Departed: 06/21/2024 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: Donald William Ortel, aged 95 years, a resident of New Palestine, Ind. passed away Friday June, 21, 2024 at Springhurst Health Campus, Greenfield. He was born December 24, 1928 in Indianapolis to the late Edward and Bessie (Bruce) Ortel.

Don graduated from New Palestine High School in 1946 and served his country during the Korean War in the US Army from 1951 until 1952. He was a member of the Zion Lutheran Church, a 60+ year member of the New Palestine American Legion Post #182, enjoyed beekeeping and traveling internationally with his former wife Marlis. Don always kept himself busy, he retired from the US Postal Service in New Palestine in 1994, enjoyed being a self-employed farmer and had passion for antique farm equipment.

He is survived by his children, Thomas (Karen Baker) Ortel, Tonia Ortel Chisham, Terry Ortel, grandchildren, Jason Chisham, Justin Chisham, Michael (Meredith) Ortel, Matthew (Meghan) Ortel, Alyssa (Russell) Matthews, great-grandchildren, Steven, Julie, Ava, Otis, Winston and Jack. He was a fond uncle to many nieces, nephews, cousins and loved his former wife’s (Marlis) children, grandchildren and great grandchildren.

He was preceded in death by his wife, Marlis J. Kottlowski Ortel and the mother of his children, Shirley Blankenbaker, siblings, Elmer, Audrey, Melvin and Thomas.

Visitation will be 2:00 pm until 6:00 pm Sunday June 30, 2024 at Stillinger Family Funeral Home, Hendryx Chapel New Palestine, 19 E. Main Street, New Palestine, IN 46163. Funeral service will 12:00 pm with visitation starting at 10:00 am, Monday July 1, 2024 at Zion Lutheran Church, 6513 W 300 S., New Palestine, Ind. with Pastor Jason Taylor officiating. Burial will follow at the Zion Lutheran Church Cemetery.

Memorial contributions may be sent to: Zion Lutheran Church or School, 6513 W. 300 S., New Palestine, IN 46163. Online condolences and memories may be shared at www.stillingerfamily.com

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Gloria Bonita "Bonnie" (Nuckolls) Redmon - December 04, 1948 - July 22, 2024

Departed: 07/22/2024 (New Palestine)

Obituary Preview: A full obituary will be forthcoming.  Kindly continue to check back with us.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, achievements, and surviving family members.

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Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a permanent record of a person's life and can be a valuable resource for genealogical research.

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The responsibility of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary.

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A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral or memorial service.

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