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Mabel Irene Hurley - October 06, 1920 - February 05, 2022

Departed: 02/05/2022 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Mabel Irene Ruark Hurley, 101, passed away peacefully Feb. 5, 2022. She was born on October 6, 1920, in Cambridge, MD. to Elijah “Ottie” W. Ruark and Alice Flowers Ruark. Mrs. Hurley was a formerly employed at Devos Jewelry in Cambridge as a salesclerk. She was preceded in death by her husband, Norman Davidson Hurley and her son, Thomas Reid Hurley. She is survived by her son, Wayne Daniel Hurley, Sr. of Pollocksville and her daughter, Sheila Pierce Knight of Cary, NC; her six grandchildren and 16 great grandchildren. The family will celebrate her life privately. Services entrusted to Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville.

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Richard Perley McPhee - July 31, 1947 - January 11, 2022

Departed: 01/11/2022 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Richard P. McPhee, New Bern, NC

Richard P. McPhee, 74, of New Bern, NC passed away at home on January 11, 2022, following a period of declining health. He was born in Rutland, VT on July 31, 1947, to Edward A. and Anna (Martel) McPhee. A longtime resident of Chittenden, Pittsford and Brandon, Vermont, Mr. McPhee married Christine (Comeau) in 1968. He was an avid hunter and fisherman, enjoying many excursions to Pulaski, NY for salmon fishing, He also enjoyed spending time with his family and an occasional golf game with friends. He was a longtime member and Past Master of Otter Creek Lodge No. 70 F&AM, Ducks Unlimited, and a member of St. Roberts Parish. Mr. McPhee was an owner of Catamount Glove Factory prior to his retiring to New Bern, NC in 1999.

He is survived by his wife, Christine of New Bern, NC, one son Christopher McPhee and his wife Debbie of Wallingford, VT, two grandchildren, Olivia and Evan and many nieces and nephews.  He was predeceased by his parents and his siblings, Mary Wood, Shirley Wheeler, Benjamin Sharon, William Sharon, Hugh (Pudgy) McPhee and Edward McPhee.

A celebration of his life will be held at a later date in Vermont.  Memorial Contributions may be made to the Shriners Hospital for Children, 2900 Rocky Point Drive, Tampa, FL 33607...lovetotherescue.org/memorial-gifts.

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Juanita Denise Jenkins - November 23, 1961 - January 08, 2022

Departed: 01/08/2022 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Juanita Denise Jenkins, 60, of Louisburg, NC passed away January 8,2022 at Maria Parham Medical Center in Henderson, NC.  She was born in Lenoir County to Jacob Clifton Jenkins and Mary Elizabeth Griffin Jenkins; on Nov. 23, 1961.She was a cook. Surviving are her daughter, Kayla Melton of Trenton her grandson, Jackson Smith; her brothers, David Jenkins of Trenton and Jacob Clifton Jenkins of Lineville, AL and her sister, Gayle Elizabeth Apac of Pollocksville. Graveside service 2:00PM Wednesday Feb.12, 2022 at the Eubanks-Jenkins Cemetery on Plantation Road Trenton NC.

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Michael Leroy Trott - December 05, 1984 - December 21, 2021

Departed: 12/21/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Michael Leroy Trott, 37, a devoted husband, a loving father and a faithful son was called home on December 21, 2021. He was born in New Bern on Dec. 5, 1984 to Diane and Tommy Trott and spent his youth in Maysville. Michael enlisted in the US Navy.  As gas turbine mechanic he proudly served his country and was honorably discharged only to begin his time in school for motorcycle mechanics in Florida. He had a love for motorcycles and all things mechanical. He could fix anything, He then spent several years driving over the road trucks for Prime, until finally returning to Richlands where he began his career with Energyneering  Solutions. After his marriage to Ashley Codding, he was blessed with two daughters, Sophie and Adelynn Trott, through which his spirit will live on. Michael was preceded in death by his mother, Diane. His family along with his father, Tommy Trott and brother T.J. Trott will hold a memorial service on January 15 2022 in the Chapel of Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville at 12:00PM

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Ryan Christopher Jarboe - July 10, 1993 - December 21, 2021

Departed: 12/21/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Ryan Christopher Jarboe, 28, passed away Dec. 21, 2021 in Maysville NC.

He was a framer in the home construction business. A memorial service will be held 2:00 PM   Monday Dec.27, 2021 at the Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville NC. Surviving are his mother, Brenda Jarboe and stepfather, Brian Clemons of Clarksville, IN; his father, Walter David Jarboe and step mother, Cheri Jarboe of Memphis, IN and his three brothers, Derek Jarboe and David Jarboe of Louisville KY and Cory Jarboe of Maysville NC and his grandmother Alice "Sug" Jarboe of Louisville, KY.

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Carolyn Ann Price - May 28, 1936 - November 20, 2021

Departed: 11/20/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Maysville, NC

Carolyn Ann Price, 85, was received into Heaven by her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ in the early hours of November 20th, 2021.  Carolyn was born in Colquitt County, Georgia on May 28th, 1936.  As a military dependent with her husband and children, she lived a number of years in Far East Asia. She was a former secretary with the North Carolina Highway Patrol office in Jacksonville, honorably and faithfully serving there for 13 years. Surviving are her son, Tim Price of Maysville; her daughter, Teresa LeRiche of Jacksonville; her sister, Jane Roop of Austell, Georgia, 4 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren.

Visitation with the family will be held at 1:00PM Saturday, November 27th, 2021 at the First Baptist Church in Maysville, followed by a Memorial service at 2:00PM.

Inurnment will be at the Dogwood Memorial Cemetery in Maysville immediately following the service.

Services entrusted to Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville.

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Michael Joseph Duffy - November 02, 1960 - November 14, 2021

Departed: 11/14/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Michael Joseph Duffy, 61, of Pollocksville, passed away on November 14, 2021. Mike is survived by his sister, Patricia “Patty” Duffy, of Sneads Ferry, NC and his beloved furbaby and side-kick, Soonah. He was preceded in death by his parents, Aloysius Joseph Duffy and Katherine Vivien Duffy.

Born in Richmond, VA on November 2nd, 1960, Mike was raised on a farm with livestock which consisted of mostly show horses. Although this lifestyle was never of any interest to him, he did eventually find his niche in mechanics. He received a degree from the Nashville Mechanical and Diesel Institute. From 1985-1990, Mike was the General Manager of Max Trax in Charlottesville, VA where he booked gigs for bands and traveled the country to scout new, up and coming bands. Shortly after leaving Max Trax, he moved to Pollocksville, NC where he has been a resident for the past 30 years. While living in Pollocksville, Mike worked for FRC East at Cherry Point, working on jet engines, since 1999. For the past 6 years, Mike served on the Board of Commissioners for the Town of Pollocksville. Pollocksville doesn’t have a lot to offer, but it was his home and he took pride in his small town. It was in Pollocksville where Mike finally found contentment, true happiness and the freedom to just be himself. Living in a small town means you have a whole community that is your family. He didn’t miss many days of riding up to Bell’s Corner, with Soonah riding shotgun, just to hang out and catch up on the latest gossip and all things politics. Mike was a die-hard republican and didn’t mind telling you his opinion on current events. He may have had a “hard” façade, but there was never a doubt that Mike’s heart would lead him to help anyone at the drop of a hat.

His sister and Soonah invite you to celebrate his life on Saturday, November 27, 2021, at 11am, at the Trent River boat landing in Pollocksville.

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Jake Ledlow Jr. - May 11, 1938 - November 11, 2021

Departed: 11/11/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Maysville, NC

Jake Ledlow , Jr.; 83, or Papa as most called him, passed away peacefully on the early morning hours of Nov. 11, 2021 with his loving wife Mary and granddaughter, Frances by his side. Papa’s legacy will always be one of servant leadership, pranks pulled, laughter and love for God, his family and his community. He was a Marine veteran and an active member of the Maysville United Methodist Church. Jake had served several years on the Maysville Town Board. Jake retired from the maintenance department of Onslow Memorial Hospital and later worked in the Jones County School System maintenance department. Surviving are his wife, Mary Ledlow;  his daughters, Tammy Banther of High Point, Teresa Holsopple of Pollocksville; Michelle Greaser of Fuquay- Varina ; and Elizabeth Stevens of Lexington ; his brother, Alton Ledlow of Athens, AL ;his grandchildren and great grandchildren; Frances Turner and her children, Abigail and Killian of Richlands; David Banther and his son, Daniel of High Point; Ryan Holsopple and his sons, Peyton and Parker of Trent Woods; Janet Alford of Mooresville; Jonas Greaser and his son, Jackson of Angier; Jennifer Greaser and daughter Emma of Broadway; Dalise Thompson of Lexington; Cassandra Stevens of Lexington and Jonathan Stevens of Raleigh.. The family will celebrate his life privately. Arrangements by Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville.

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Gerald Page Riggs - November 15, 1939 - September 19, 2021

Departed: 09/19/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Gerald Page Riggs, 81, joined his wife of 64 years, Audrey, who passed away September 16, in their new Heavenly home on Sunday September 19, 2021. He was a retired meat cutter having work for the former Joe Monette’s store in Maysville and later with a grocery store in Jacksonville. He is survived by his children Jerry Riggs and Penny Wall of Jacksonville; his sister, Jane Freeman of Maysville and his 6 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren. Private services are entrusted to Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville

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Audrey Ann Riggs - November 11, 1942 - September 16, 2021

Departed: 09/16/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Audrey Ann Thomas Riggs, 78, passed away Thursday September 16 2021 at the Gardens of Pamlico in Grantsboro. She retired from Belk’s; her favorite store; after working in the receiving department for 25 years. Audrey was preceded in death by her parents, Marshall and Annie Ketchum Thomas and her brother, James.  Funeral services will be private. She is survived by her loving husband, Page Riggs and her devoted children, Jerry Riggs and Penny Wall, both of Jacksonville, a sister, Carol Young of Clarks Hill, SC; 6 grandchildren and 5 great grandchildren. Services entrusted to Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville.

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Charles Webster Russell - August 06, 1949 - August 12, 2021

Departed: 08/12/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Charles Webster Russell, 72, passed away August 12, 2021 at Onslow Memorial Hospital. He was a retired truck driver. The family will celebrate his life privately. Charles was preceded in death by his parents Dillard W. Russell and Lucille Morris Russell and his brother, Noland Russell. He is survived by his son, Roy Russell of Swansboro; brothers,  Ricky Russell  and Ray Russell of Swansboro ; Walter Russell of Newport and Steve Russell of Richlands; and his sisters; Irene Russell Huffman and Mary Russell Burns of Swansboro; Bertha Russell and Polly Russell Simpson of Newport and Denise Russell Howe of Endeavor, PA ; three grandchildren and five great grandchildren.

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Patsy Elizabeth Brown - May 25, 1952 - July 30, 2021

Departed: 07/30/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Patsy Sumblin Brown, 69, passed away July 30, 2021 at her home. Patsy work for many years at the Pak-A-Sak in Swansboro. She was a devoted wife and mother and a friend to many. She was preceded in death by her parents, Glenwood and Edith Sumblin and her husband Glenn Brown. Funeral services will be held at 11:00 AM Wednesday in the chapel of Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville. Private burial will be in Dogwood Memorial Cemetery in Maysville. Surviving are her son, Stephen Brown of the home; her siblings; Susan Guy of Rose Hill, Melba Normington of Cape Carteret and Glenwood Sumblin Jr. of Hubert. The family will receive friends at the funeral home Tuesday from 7-8:00 PM. Online condolences can be send to saylandfuneralhome.com

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Kayla Renee Thompson - September 01, 1998 - July 28, 2021

Departed: 07/28/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Kayla Renee Thompson Hubert, NC

Kayla Renee Cady Thompson, 22, passed away July 28, 2021. A memorial service will be held at 5:30 PM Wednesday Aug. 4, 2021 in the Chapel of Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville. She was preceded in death by her father, James Martin Cady, Jr and her grandmother, Juanita Craig. Surviving are her husband, Christopher Thompson, her daughters, Alexis Thompson and Emma-Lee Thompson; her step-son Landon Cox ,all of Hubert; her mother and step father, Teresa and John Craig of Swanquarter; her brothers, James Cady of College Park MD and David Cady of Hubert; her grandparents, Pauline Shunk of Chambersburg, PA; Joyce and Gary Craig of Hubert; and Connie Fortune of Sherman , NY.

Online condolences can be sent to saylandfuneralhome.com.

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Elizabeth Mallard - March 29, 1926 - July 06, 2021

Departed: 07/06/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Maysville, NC

Elizabeth (Lib) Collins Mallard passed away July 6, 2021 at the age of 95. She was born on March 29, 1926 in Greensboro NC to Marvin D Collins and Hilda M. Collins. She was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, Leslie E. Mallard and her brother George K. Collins .A graveside service will be held at 1:00 PM Saturday July 10, 2021 in the Dogwood Memorial Cemetery in Maysville. Arrangements by Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville.

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David Ervin Gibble - February 04, 1956 - July 06, 2021

Departed: 07/06/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Newport NC David Ervin Gibble passed away July 6, 2021 at his home. The family will celebrate his life privately. David was a former employee of Mallard Gas Company where he fixed everything. He is survived by his son Matthew Gibble of Newport and his step children, Leigh Anne Poplin of New Bern, Teresa Machle of Aurora, Brandy Lewis of Havelock and Michael Crawford of New Bern. Services by Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville

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Elizabeth Earl Phillips - September 18, 1947 - June 19, 2021

Departed: 06/19/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Pollocksville, NC

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James Earl Wiggins - June 30, 1966 - June 02, 2021

Departed: 06/02/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: James Earl Wiggins, 55, died June 2, 2021 at Vidant Medical Center in Greenville. He was a handyman and love to be outdoors in the woods. James love fishing and his Lord, Jesus. The family will celebrate his life privately. He is survived his daughter, Sheila Holland of Goldsboro; granddaughter, Makayla Fehr of Camp Lejeune and his great grandchildren , Charlotte , Caroline and Brelei.  Arrangements by Sayland Funeral in Maysville

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Daniel Earl Ramsey - September 24, 1955 - June 01, 2021

Departed: 06/01/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Daniel Earl Ramsey, 65, of Cedar Point, NC passed away at Carteret Healthcare in Morehead City on June 1, 2021. He was preceded in death by his parents, Rodney Earl and Ruby Ann  Ramsey.

Daniel loved to fish, hunt and cook and eat He was retired from Jacksonville Metal as a metal fabricator.

Surviving are his wife, Brenda Morton Ramsey; his children, Christopher Ramsey (Rachel) of Sequim, WA; Alicia Hamilton of Pearl, MS; Amanda Foster (Eddie Humphrey) of Cedar Point; Opal Trim (Charlie) of Sneads Ferry; Jimmy Wrenn of Texas; and Keven  Wrenn of Jacksonville ; his siblings, Connie Ramsey of Jacksonville and Rodney Matthew Ramsey of Cedar Point and his grandchildren, Evan Trim, Ember Trim, Kayla Humphrey and Chase Foster and many nieces and nephews and friends.

Visitation will be Friday June 4 from 6 – 8:00 PM at the Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville. Funeral services will be at 11:00 AM Saturday June 5 at the funeral home with the Rev. Jim Jarman officiating. Burial will follow in the Dogwood Memorial Cemetery in Maysville.

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Rodney Gerald Jones - May 10, 1945 - May 08, 2021

Departed: 05/08/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Maysville, NC

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Crystal "Crys" Gail Watson - February 13, 1975 - March 07, 2021

Departed: 03/07/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Crystal “Crys” Gail Watson, 46, passed away on March 7, 2021 at her home in Hubert, NC surrounded by family and friends. Crys was a bright spirit that touched everyone she met. From her days at Muscular Dystrophy Camp up to her passing, Crys had an infectious smile and way about her that just made the day brighter. Crys made friends everywhere she went and maintained many of those friendships throughout her life. She even made friends of the nursing aides, nurses, and doctors that helped care for her over the years. Crys loved to spend her days talking, listening to music, and watching horror movies. She was quick to laugh and loved with all her heart. Crys was a huge animal lover and would have had her own personal zoo if possible. Crys passed on a beautiful Sunday afternoon with the setting sun streaming in the window behind her head surrounded by loving family, lifetime friends, and her faithful dog Penny.There are many special people that helped care for Crys that need to be mentioned. Her team of Intellichoice Home Care nurses provided Crys with much care, comfort, and friendship and they include Megan, Aja, Chelsea, Shelby, Cassidy, and Hannah. She was also blessed with a dear friend and roommate, Donna, that was by her side faithfully during the last year. Crys was met at Heaven’s gate by her mom (Sara), grandma (Virginia),older brother (Roger), grandma (Dorothy), granddaddy (Jack), granddaddy (Zinnie), and her close friend John. She is survived by her sister (Jennifer) and her husband (Dean), niece (Ashley) and her husband (Cooper), nephew (Ryan) and his wife (Missy) and their children (Mackenna and Dolin), nephew (Bryce), aunt (Wanda) and her husband (Verl), aunt (Jackie) and special cousin (Zoe), aunt (Cil) and her husband (David), uncle (Chris) and his wife (Freida), uncle (Hubert), and many cousins and loving friends.

The Celebration of Life will be on Saturday, March 13, 2021 at 3:00 pm at Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville, NC.

Instead of flowers, the family asks that you make donations to your local animal shelter or the ASPCA in Crys’s name since she was such an avid animal lover.

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Vincent Frederick Hudgins - July 07, 1946 - March 02, 2021

Departed: 03/02/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Trenton, NC

Vincent Frederick. Hudgins, 74, passed away March 2, 2021 at Carolina East Medical Center. He was a Navy veteran and a former EMT with Vidant Healthcare. Services will be private. Surviving are his wife, Melissa Hudgins and his sons, Christopher Hudgins, Tyler Hudgins, Stephen Hudgins, all of New Bern and Jonathan Moffitt of South Carolina and five grandchildren Arrangements by Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville.

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Edith Almada Moncus - November 09, 1923 - January 22, 2021

Departed: 01/22/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Almada Melton Moncus Richlands

Edith Almada Melton Moncus, 97, passed away Friday, Jan. 22, 2021 at the Heritage House in Richlands. She was retired from Rose’s Dept. Store in Jacksonville and a member of Tar Landing Baptist Church. Services will be private. Surviving are her son, Pat (Sue)Padrick of Asheboro, NC ; her daughters, Tina (Rodney)Rhodes and Brenda (Perry)Byrd of Jacksonville ; her grandchildren, Jason Shepherd, Melissa Rhodes, Sydney and Madison Byrd and Jeremy Padrick; and her brother, Walker Melton of Virginia Beach , VA. Condolences may be sent to saylandfuneralhome.com. Arrangements entrusted to Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville

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Margaret Eloise Meadows - September 29, 1926 - January 12, 2021

Departed: 01/12/2021 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Fayetteville NC Margaret Eloise Meadows, 94, passed away January 12, 2021 at Highland House Rehab. and Healthcare in Fayetteville. She was a native of Maysville and a devoted daughter and sister. She took care of her parents and her brother for years when they really needed her. She was preceded in death by her parents, Mack and Alice Dixon Meadows and her brothers, Edward and Lionel. Surviving are her nieces and nephews.  A graveside service will be held 2:00PM Friday at the Dogwood Memorial Cemetery in Maysville with the Rev. Greg Meadows officiating. Arrangements by Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville

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Robert "Bobby" Lawson Norris - January 04, 1955 - December 28, 2020

Departed: 12/28/2020 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Jacksonville, NC

Robert “Bobby” Lawson Norris, 65, passed away Dec. 28, 2020 at Onslow Memorial Hospital. Funeral services will be held at 1:00PM January 2 at the White Oak Community Church, Maysville with the Rev. Bobby Williams officiating. Burial will be in the church cemetery. Visitation an hour before service. He was a member of the White Oak Community Church and a former vinyl siding installer. He was preceded in death by his father, Frank Durwood Norris, his mother and his "dad", Margie Hall Williams and Virgil Williams. Surviving are his wife, Rebecca Lynn Owens Norris; sons, Robert Lawson Norris, Jr.; and Christopher Lee Norris of Magnolia, NC and Von Hassell Simmons, Jr. of Troy, NC; daughter, Rebecca Lynn Norris McCoy of Beulaville; brothers, Durwood Lee Norris of Chesapeake, VA; Frank Durwood Norris, Jr. of Jacksonville; Clem Richard "Ricky" Norris of Livermore, CA; and David Lyn Norris of Richlands; sisters, Mary Lynn Williams Gladden of Hubert and Nicole Renee Williams of Richlands and 16 grandchildren. Masks are required at service. Arrangements entrusted to Sayland Funeral Home in Maysville.

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Shirley Ann Eubanks - June 05, 1938 - December 21, 2020

Departed: 12/21/2020 (Maysville)

Obituary Preview: Shirley Bender Eubanks Pollocksville, NC

Shirley Ann Bender Eubanks, 82, passed away peacefully Dec. 21, 2020 at Carolina East medical Center. She was born June 5, 1938 to the late Ethel Phillips Bender and the late John Latham Bender, and married her best friend and supporter, Jessie Ray Eubanks, who preceded her in death on August 8, 2016. She is survived by their son, John Ray Eubanks (Elizabeth), who brought them much joy. When John Ray married Elizabeth, Shirley and Jessie gained a grandson, Aaron Bordaes. Shirley was a devoted daughter who cared for her parents in her and Jessie’s home as their health declined.

A lifetime member of the Pollocksville Presbyterian Church, Shirley was a member of the youth group, Christian Endeavor and attended a church wide PCUSA youth gathering where she felt the call to serve the church in a significant way. Her service to the church included typing and preparing weekly church bulletins on the mineograph, assisting with financial records, servicing as a Deacon and Elder, and serving many terms as Moderator of the Pollocksville Presbyterian Women. Shirley also served at the Coastal Carolina Presbytery, and was named the Moderator of the Coastal Carolina Presbytery Finance Committee. She was a member of the Jones County Historical Society.

Shirley, a good cook and homemaker, also worked outside the home, first at First Citizens Bank in Jacksonville and then at Jenkins Gas Company in Pollocksville. As her responsibilities grew with Jenkins Gas Company, she became trouble shooter for Jenkins Gas sites in the region. She will be remembered as an energetic and valuable member of Jenkins Gas Company from which she retired.

Shirley enjoyed occasional visits to Atlantic City, being bookkeeper for Bender Electric which was owned by Jessie and John, and visiting Germany when Jessie was active in the National Guard.

The family acknowledges and express deepest thanks for a special housekeeper, clerical assistant, sometimes cook, and loving caregiver, Sue Morris. Over a period of thirteen years, Sue cared for Shirley’s mother until her death and for Shirley during her illness.

A graveside service will be held at 1:00PM Wednesday at the Pollocksville Cemetery with the Rev. Thomas Wesley Moore IV officiating.

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The team at Sayland Funeral Home is comprised of experienced professionals who understand the importance of empathy and compassion during times of loss. From the moment you walk through their doors, you'll be greeted with kindness, understanding, and a genuine desire to help. Their staff is committed to listening to your needs, answering your questions, and guiding you through the funeral planning process with sensitivity and care.

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Sayland Funeral Home recognizes that every life is unique, and every family deserves a personalized tribute that honors their loved one. They offer a range of funeral services tailored to meet your specific needs, from traditional funerals to cremation services, memorial gatherings, and more. Their experienced team will work closely with you to create a meaningful celebration of life that reflects your loved one's personality, interests, and legacy.

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The funeral home's facilities are designed to provide a comfortable and serene atmosphere, perfect for saying goodbye to your loved one. Their chapel is equipped with modern amenities, including audio-visual equipment, ensuring that your service is both memorable and dignified. Additionally, their visitation rooms provide an intimate setting for family and friends to gather, share stories, and pay their respects.

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Sayland Funeral Home understands that planning ahead can bring peace of mind and alleviate some of the burden on your loved ones. They offer pre-planning services, allowing you to make informed decisions about your final arrangements in advance. By doing so, you can ensure that your wishes are respected, while also locking in costs at today's prices. Their experienced team will guide you through the process, helping you create a plan that suits your needs and budget.

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Sayland Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the Maysville community and is committed to giving back. They participate in local events, sponsor charitable organizations, and support initiatives that benefit the community they serve. By doing so, they demonstrate their dedication to building strong relationships and fostering a sense of connection among residents.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It often includes details about the person's life, achievements, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a permanent record of a person's life and legacy.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. Funeral homes or mortuaries may also assist with writing and publishing obituaries.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about the funeral service, memorial donations, and other relevant details.

How long does it take to write an obituary?

The time it takes to write an obituary can vary depending on the complexity and detail required. On average, it can take anywhere from 30 minutes to several hours to write a well-crafted obituary.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many newspapers and online obituary platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can help personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to learn about their submission process and requirements. Some newspapers may accept submissions online, while others may require email or phone submissions.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms that allow you to publish an obituary, such as Legacy.com, Tributes.com, or Facebook Memorial Pages. These platforms often offer additional features like guest books and photo galleries.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or online platform. Some may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or flat fees.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it is possible to make corrections or edits to an obituary after it has been published. However, this may depend on the publication's policies and deadlines.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

Online obituaries typically remain available for an extended period, sometimes indefinitely. This allows friends and family to visit the tribute page at any time to leave condolences or share memories.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the most basic information such as name, age, and date of death. It is often used in conjunction with a full obituary.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing a person's death and providing biographical information. A eulogy is a spoken tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service to celebrate the person's life and legacy.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include humorous anecdotes or quotes in an obituary to reflect the person's personality and spirit. This can help make the tribute more personal and relatable.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

It's essential to be respectful and considerate when sharing sensitive or private information about the deceased. Consult with family members or close friends to determine what details should be included or omitted.

Can I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary. This can be a meaningful way to honor the person's memory and support a worthy cause.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking assistance from a funeral home, mortuary, or professional writer. They can provide guidance and support during this difficult time.

How do I ensure accuracy in an obituary?

To ensure accuracy, verify all information with reliable sources such as birth certificates, passports, or other official documents. It's also essential to proofread carefully before submitting the obituary for publication.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include quotes, poems, or lyrics that were meaningful to the deceased in their obituary. This can add depth and emotion to the tribute.

What if I need to make changes to an existing obituary?

Contact the publication or online platform where the obituary was originally published to request changes. They will guide you through their process for making updates or corrections.

How do I preserve an online obituary for future generations?

Consider saving a copy of the online obituary as a PDF or printing it out for safekeeping. You can also create a physical scrapbook or memory book with copies of the obituary and other mementos.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes, social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be used to share an obituary with friends and family. Many online obituary platforms also offer social sharing options.

What if I'm unsure about what to say in an obituary?

Talk to family members, friends, or colleagues who knew the deceased well. They can provide valuable insights and suggestions for crafting a meaningful tribute.

Can I include personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Yes, personal anecdotes can add warmth and personality to an obituary. Share stories that illustrate the person's character, accomplishments, or sense of humor.

How do I handle multiple marriages or complicated family relationships in an obituary?

Sensitivity and tact are essential when addressing complex family relationships in an obituary. Consult with family members or close friends to determine how best to acknowledge these relationships.