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A Legacy of Compassion and Care: Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home

Located in the heart of Hugo, Oklahoma, Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home has been a pillar of support for families in their time of need for generations. With a rich history and a commitment to providing exceptional service, this funeral home has earned a reputation as a trusted and compassionate partner in the community.

A History of Service and Dedication

Founded on a foundation of integrity, respect, and compassion, Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home has been serving the people of Hugo and surrounding areas since [year]. Over the years, the funeral home has remained family-owned and operated, with a focus on providing personalized attention to each family they serve. This dedication to excellence has earned them a reputation as one of the most respected funeral homes in the region.

Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home

Address: 216 E Jackson, Hugo, OK, 74743
Phone Number: 5803266464
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Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home

Address: 216 E. Jackson, Hugo, OK, 74743
Phone Number: (580) 326-6464
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Kathryn Swink - June 18, 1930 - May 04, 2024

Departed: 05/04/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Kathryn Swink, a beloved educator, devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and friend, passed away peacefully on May 4, 2024, in Durant, OK surrounded by her family at the age of 93. Born on June 18, 1930, in Turkey, TX, to parents James Elbert Loar and Mary Lee Gilland Loar, Kathryn was a shining example of dedication, compassion, and lifelong learning.Kathryn's academic journey was nothing short of impressive. After graduating early from Ft. Towson High School in just three years, she continued her education fervently. Kathryn attended Southeastern University in Durant, where she received both her bachelor’s and master’s Degrees, and furthered her studies at Texas Christian University in Ft. Worth, TX. She constantly pursued higher education while raising her family, always striving to enhance her teaching qualifications.On August 21, 1948, in Wallar, TX, Kathryn married the love of her life, Billy Lee Swink. Together, they built a strong family foundation and were blessed with four children: Jim Swink and wife Patty, Elizabeth Worthy and husband Tim, Tabby Gilbreath and husband Randy—all of Durant—and Kathy Swink of Ft. Towson. Kathryn's legacy expanded to include ten grandchildren, Jeana Jones, Jessica Worth, Julie Swink, Amy LeFlore, Tim Worthy Jr., Loy Talia Ribera, Joshua Worthy, Asacia Hicks, Eric Gilbreath, Randilea Hutson, twenty-six great-grandchildren, Lauren Swink, Laney Swink, Camden Jones, Carter Jones, Landri Worth, Lincoln Worth, Ledger Worth, Dusty Beene, Kylee Ribera, Konner Ribera, Ryder Ribera, Addison Worthy, Jolie Worthy, Era Worthy, Ford Worthy,  Harlee Worthy, Jocelyn Worthy, Jaxon Worthy, Christian Newman, Gavin Kelley, Kimber Hicks, Allie Gilbreath, Brooklynn Brigance, Brielle Brigance, Haddi Hutson, Holli Hutson and three great-great-grandchildren, Chunney Cobb, Eleanor Cobb, Logan Elaine Trent with two more on the way, who all brought her immense joy.Professionally, Kathryn was a trailblazer. Her teaching career spanned an inspiring 36 years, during which she taught in various cities across Texas and Oklahoma, including Ranger, Austin, Cotulla, Swink, Valliant, and Soper. She was a certified reading specialist, a special education teacher, and even coached girls' basketball in Cotulla, TX. Kathryn was a pioneer for many improvements in elementary education in public schools in Oklahoma. Notably, she organized and taught one of the first kindergarten classes connected to public schools in the state. Kathryn's dedication to her profession shone brightly when she spent 20 years teaching in Soper, OK, alongside her husband, who served as the superintendent. She was honored as Teacher of the Year in Oklahoma, a testament to her exceptional impact on the lives of countless students.Kathryn's interests and contributions extended beyond the classroom. She was instrumental in homeschooling two of her grandchildren and volunteered at both Goodland Christian Academy and Victory Life Academy. Kathryn found solace in her garden, joy in her painting, excitement in yard and garage sales, and pleasure in crafting. She also cherished the moments spent shopping sales and maintaining "grandma's closet of goodies" for her family, whom she adored.Kathryn was preceded in death by her husband, Billy Swink, in 1988, and her brothers James, Robert, Charles, and Frank Loar. Her loving and nurturing spirit will be deeply missed by her children, grandchildren, other family members, former students, and the countless lives she touched.A visitation for Kathryn Swink will be held on Wednesday, May 8, at Holmes Coffey Murray Funeral Home from 6 to 7 p.m. A service celebrating her life and legacy will take place on Thursday, May 9, at 1:00 p.m. at Victory Life Church in Durant, OK. The committal will follow on the same day at 3:00 p.m. at Fort Towson Cemetery. All funeral arrangements are being handled by Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home.The family requests that donations be made to Fort Towson Cemetery Fund or Fort Towson Fire Department.Kathryn Swink's enduring influence as an educator will be fondly remembered, and her guiding light will continue to live on through her family and the many generations of students she inspired.
Kathryn Swink, a beloved educator, devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and friend, passed away peacefully on May 4, 2024, in Durant, OK surrounded by her family at the age of 93. Born on June 18, 1930, in Turkey, TX, to parents James Elbert Loar and Mary Lee Gilland Loar, Kathryn was a shining example of dedication, compassion, and lifelong learning.
Kathryn's academic journey was nothing short of impressive. After graduating early from Ft. Towson High School in just three years, she continued her education fervently. Kathryn attended Southeastern University in Durant, where she received both her bachelor’s and master’s Degrees, and furthered her studies at Texas Christian University in Ft. Worth, TX. She constantly pursued higher education while raising her family, always striving to enhance her teaching qualifications.
On August 21, 1948, in Wallar, TX, Kathryn married the love of her life, Billy Lee Swink. Together, they built a strong family foundation and were blessed with four children: Jim Swink and wife Patty, Elizabeth Worthy and husband Tim, Tabby Gilbreath and husband Randy—all of Durant—and Kathy Swink of Ft. Towson. Kathryn's legacy expanded to include ten grandchildren, Jeana Jones, Jessica Worth, Julie Swink, Amy LeFlore, Tim Worthy Jr., Loy Talia Ribera, Joshua Worthy, Asacia Hicks, Eric Gilbreath, Randilea Hutson, twenty-six great-grandchildren, Lauren Swink, Laney Swink, Camden Jones, Carter Jones, Landri Worth, Lincoln Worth, Ledger Worth, Dusty Beene, Kylee Ribera, Konner Ribera, Ryder Ribera, Addison Worthy, Jolie Worthy, Era Worthy, Ford Worthy,  Harlee Worthy, Jocelyn Worthy, Jaxon Worthy, Christian Newman, Gavin Kelley, Kimber Hicks, Allie Gilbreath, Brooklynn Brigance, Brielle Brigance, Haddi Hutson, Holli Hutson and three great-great-grandchildren, Chunney Cobb, Eleanor Cobb, Logan Elaine Trent with two more on the way, who all brought her immense joy.
Professionally, Kathryn was a trailblazer. Her teaching career spanned an inspiring 36 years, during which she taught in various cities across Texas and Oklahoma, including Ranger, Austin, Cotulla, Swink, Valliant, and Soper. She was a certified reading specialist, a special education teacher, and even coached girls' basketball in Cotulla, TX. Kathryn was a pioneer for many improvements in elementary education in public schools in Oklahoma. Notably, she organized and taught one of the first kindergarten classes connected to public schools in the state. Kathryn's dedication to her profession shone brightly when she spent 20 years teaching in Soper, OK, alongside her husband, who served as the superintendent. She was honored as Teacher of the Year in Oklahoma, a testament to her exceptional impact on the lives of countless students.
Kathryn's interests and contributions extended beyond the classroom. She was instrumental in homeschooling two of her grandchildren and volunteered at both Goodland Christian Academy and Victory Life Academy. Kathryn found solace in her garden, joy in her painting, excitement in yard and garage sales, and pleasure in crafting. She also cherished the moments spent shopping sales and maintaining "grandma's closet of goodies" for her family, whom she adored.
Kathryn was preceded in death by her husband, Billy Swink, in 1988, and her brothers James, Robert, Charles, and Frank Loar. Her loving and nurturing spirit will be deeply missed by her children, grandchildren, other family members, former students, and the countless lives she touched.
A visitation for Kathryn Swink will be held on Wednesday, May 8, at Holmes Coffey Murray Funeral Home from 6 to 7 p.m. A service celebrating her life and legacy will take place on Thursday, May 9, at 1:00 p.m. at Victory Life Church in Durant, OK. The committal will follow on the same day at 3:00 p.m. at Fort Towson Cemetery. All funeral arrangements are being handled by Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home.
The family requests that donations be made to Fort Towson Cemetery Fund or Fort Towson Fire Department.
Kathryn Swink's enduring influence as an educator will be fondly remembered, and her guiding light will continue to live on through her family and the many generations of students she inspired.
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Rian Aldrich - August 27, 1940 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Rian Aldrich, a cherished soul known for his love of the outdoors and a heart full of kindness, passed away peacefully on April 29, 2024, in Sherman, Texas, at the age of 83. Born on August 27, 1940, in Glendale, California, to Frederick Aldrich and Ester Alberti, Rian's life was one of dedication and service, as evidenced by his time in the Army from 1958 to 1961.Rian's legacy is carried on by his beloved wife, Alison Aldrich, and the many lives he touched. His passion for life was infectious, and his companionship with his pets Milo and Pappy brought joy to all who knew him. Rian's commitment to his community and his unwavering spirit will be deeply missed.The arrangements for Rian are being handled by Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey, Hugo, Oklahoma.
Rian Aldrich, a cherished soul known for his love of the outdoors and a heart full of kindness, passed away peacefully on April 29, 2024, in Sherman, Texas, at the age of 83. Born on August 27, 1940, in Glendale, California, to Frederick Aldrich and Ester Alberti, Rian's life was one of dedication and service, as evidenced by his time in the Army from 1958 to 1961.
Rian's legacy is carried on by his beloved wife, Alison Aldrich, and the many lives he touched. His passion for life was infectious, and his companionship with his pets Milo and Pappy brought joy to all who knew him. Rian's commitment to his community and his unwavering spirit will be deeply missed.
The arrangements for Rian are being handled by Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey, Hugo, Oklahoma.
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Loretta Mae Hooper - May 01, 1950 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Loretta Hooper, a cherished member of the Boswell and Hugo communities, peacefully passed away on April 18, 2024, at the age of 73. Born on May 1, 1950, in Boswell, Oklahoma, to loving parents Joe and Mary Virginia (Byas) Pierce, Loretta's life was a tapestry of love, family, and dedication.Loretta was a beacon of joy to her family and all who knew her. She is survived by her two devoted daughters, Stephanie Blagg of Hugo and Rebecca Shehan of Ft. Towson, OK, who will carry on her legacy of kindness and warmth. Her life was further enriched by the laughter and love of her five grandchildren, Andrew Blagg of Hugoton, KS, Stephen Gallant, Matthew Gallant, Nichelle Gallant, all of Hugo, OK, and Chelsey Edwards of Ardmore, OK. The twinkling eyes of her great-grandchildren, Rylee Blagg, Brynleigh Blagg, Stephen Gallant Jr., London Gallant, and Eli Gallant, brought her immense happiness. She also leaves behind her dear sisters, Nancy Amend of Powderly, TX, and Cindy Richardson of Denison, TX.Loretta's passion for life was evident in everything she engaged in, from the meticulous stitches of her crochet projects to the vibrant blooms in her garden. Fancy, her beloved dog, was a constant companion and source of joy. Her work ethic and community involvement were evident to all who knew her, and her presence will be deeply missed.Final arrangements are under the caring guidance of Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home. As we bid farewell to Loretta Hooper, we celebrate a life well-lived, filled with love, creativity, and devotion to family. Her memory will forever blossom in the hearts of those she touched.
Loretta Hooper, a cherished member of the Boswell and Hugo communities, peacefully passed away on April 18, 2024, at the age of 73. Born on May 1, 1950, in Boswell, Oklahoma, to loving parents Joe and Mary Virginia (Byas) Pierce, Loretta's life was a tapestry of love, family, and dedication.
Loretta was a beacon of joy to her family and all who knew her. She is survived by her two devoted daughters, Stephanie Blagg of Hugo and Rebecca Shehan of Ft. Towson, OK, who will carry on her legacy of kindness and warmth. Her life was further enriched by the laughter and love of her five grandchildren, Andrew Blagg of Hugoton, KS, Stephen Gallant, Matthew Gallant, Nichelle Gallant, all of Hugo, OK, and Chelsey Edwards of Ardmore, OK. The twinkling eyes of her great-grandchildren, Rylee Blagg, Brynleigh Blagg, Stephen Gallant Jr., London Gallant, and Eli Gallant, brought her immense happiness. She also leaves behind her dear sisters, Nancy Amend of Powderly, TX, and Cindy Richardson of Denison, TX.
Loretta's passion for life was evident in everything she engaged in, from the meticulous stitches of her crochet projects to the vibrant blooms in her garden. Fancy, her beloved dog, was a constant companion and source of joy. Her work ethic and community involvement were evident to all who knew her, and her presence will be deeply missed.
Final arrangements are under the caring guidance of Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home. As we bid farewell to Loretta Hooper, we celebrate a life well-lived, filled with love, creativity, and devotion to family. Her memory will forever blossom in the hearts of those she touched.
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Lewis Bingham Hickenbottom - October 29, 1941 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Lewis Bingham Hickenbottom, fondly known simply as Lewis to friends and family he touched throughout his generous life, passed away peacefully on April 15, 2024, in Hugo, Oklahoma. Born on October 29, 1941, in Muskogee, Oklahoma, Lewis was a ray of light from the very beginning. His 82-year journey was marked by dedication to family, service to community, and unwavering faith.A loving son to his late parents, Willie Lewis and Velma Ann (Bingham) Hickenbottom, Lewis was no stranger to the values of family and support, which he carried with him through the years. He was a devoted partner to his surviving second wife, Mickie Braudrick Hickenbottom, whom he married with great joy on August 16, 2008, in Hugo. This union brought together a blended family that Lewis cherished deeply. He found strength and happiness in the love shared with his children, Paul Alan Braudrick, Kimberly Lee, Kendel Hickenbottom and his wife Tonna, Kara Prentice and her husband Corey, and Geni Hutchins and her husband Joey. His legacy extends to his seventeen grandchildren and fourteen great grandchildren, each of whom brought immense pride and joy to his life.Grandchildren include, Flint Braudrick of Durant, OK, Jordan Hutchings of Oklahoma City, OK, Jace Hutchings, Jaden Hutchings both of Durant, OK, Danny Lee and wife Sherrell of Liberal, KS, Pvt. William Jesse Milton Lee and wife Kate of Colorado Springs, CO Roy Joe Prentice of Calera, OK, Brittiney Prentice and wife Lindsey of Calera, OK, Keenan Hickenbottom of Knoxville, TN, Sammy Hickenbottom, Bethany Hickenbottom, Jess Hickenbottom, all of Linden, TX, Skyler Hickenbottom of Stephensville, TX, Katrisha Tomberlin and husband Christopher of Austin, TX; great-grandchildren, Isabella Braudrick and Damon Braudrick of Durant, OK, Ezme Lee and Rale Lee both of Lubbock, TX, , Hattie Lee of Liberal, KS, Liam Tomberlin, Greame Tomberlin, Alaric Tomberlin, and Memphis Tomberlin all of Austin, TX, Ryker Prentice, Johnnie & JuJu (Juilanna) Almeida, Presleigh & Baileigh Bruner all of Calera, OK, Everett Hutchings and Wyatt Hutchings of Oklahoma City, OKPreceded in death by his parents, his first wife, Conchita Gayl (Connie) Hickenbottom in 2007, and his beloved granddaughter, Alyssa Morse in 2017, Lewis's memory will forever be cherished, and his life celebrated by those who were fortunate to know him.Lewis attended Tulsa University before refining his craft at Gupton Jones Mortuary College. Lewis was a pillar in his community, having served as a dedicated funeral director since 1966. He served several SE Oklahoma communities in his 50+ year career including McAlester, Hartshorne, Durant, Atoka, Antlers, Broken Bow, and Idabel. In 1990, he brought his expertise and compassion to Hugo, where he became an integral part of many lives, guiding families through times of loss with dignity and kindness.Beyond his professional life, Lewis was an active member of the Hugo Lions Club and held a deep conviction in his faith at the Church of Christ where he served as an Elder for 20 years. His participation and service in these organizations were reflections of his innermost desire to make a positive difference in every life he touched.The memory of Lewis Hickenbottom will be honored on Friday, April 19th, at 10 am at the Church of Christ, with Steve Harbison officiating. The family warmly invites friends to join them in remembrance on Thursday, the 18th, from 6-7 pm at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Chapel. It is at these services, arranged with care by Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey, that we will bid farewell to a gentle soul who lived a life of purpose and left a lasting legacy of love.
Lewis Bingham Hickenbottom, fondly known simply as Lewis to friends and family he touched throughout his generous life, passed away peacefully on April 15, 2024, in Hugo, Oklahoma. Born on October 29, 1941, in Muskogee, Oklahoma, Lewis was a ray of light from the very beginning. His 82-year journey was marked by dedication to family, service to community, and unwavering faith.
A loving son to his late parents, Willie Lewis and Velma Ann (Bingham) Hickenbottom, Lewis was no stranger to the values of family and support, which he carried with him through the years. He was a devoted partner to his surviving second wife, Mickie Braudrick Hickenbottom, whom he married with great joy on August 16, 2008, in Hugo. This union brought together a blended family that Lewis cherished deeply. He found strength and happiness in the love shared with his children, Paul Alan Braudrick, Kimberly Lee, Kendel Hickenbottom and his wife Tonna, Kara Prentice and her husband Corey, and Geni Hutchins and her husband Joey. His legacy extends to his seventeen grandchildren and fourteen great grandchildren, each of whom brought immense pride and joy to his life. Grandchildren include, Flint Braudrick of Durant, OK, Jordan Hutchings of Oklahoma City, OK, Jace Hutchings, Jaden Hutchings both of Durant, OK, Danny Lee and wife Sherrell of Liberal, KS, Pvt. William Jesse Milton Lee and wife Kate of Colorado Springs, CO Roy Joe Prentice of Calera, OK, Brittiney Prentice and wife Lindsey of Calera, OK, Keenan Hickenbottom of Knoxville, TN, Sammy Hickenbottom, Bethany Hickenbottom, Jess Hickenbottom, all of Linden, TX, Skyler Hickenbottom of Stephensville, TX, Katrisha Tomberlin and husband Christopher of Austin, TX; great-grandchildren, Isabella Braudrick and Damon Braudrick of Durant, OK, Ezme Lee and Rale Lee both of Lubbock, TX, , Hattie Lee of Liberal, KS, Liam Tomberlin, Greame Tomberlin, Alaric Tomberlin, and Memphis Tomberlin all of Austin, TX, Ryker Prentice, Johnnie & JuJu (Juilanna) Almeida, Presleigh & Baileigh Bruner all of Calera, OK, Everett Hutchings and Wyatt Hutchings of Oklahoma City, OK
Preceded in death by his parents, his first wife, Conchita Gayl (Connie) Hickenbottom in 2007, and his beloved granddaughter, Alyssa Morse in 2017, Lewis's memory will forever be cherished, and his life celebrated by those who were fortunate to know him.
Lewis attended Tulsa University before refining his craft at Gupton Jones Mortuary College. Lewis was a pillar in his community, having served as a dedicated funeral director since 1966. He served several SE Oklahoma communities in his 50+ year career including McAlester, Hartshorne, Durant, Atoka, Antlers, Broken Bow, and Idabel. In 1990, he brought his expertise and compassion to Hugo, where he became an integral part of many lives, guiding families through times of loss with dignity and kindness.
Beyond his professional life, Lewis was an active member of the Hugo Lions Club and held a deep conviction in his faith at the Church of Christ where he served as an Elder for 20 years. His participation and service in these organizations were reflections of his innermost desire to make a positive difference in every life he touched.
The memory of Lewis Hickenbottom will be honored on Friday, April 19th, at 10 am at the Church of Christ, with Steve Harbison officiating. The family warmly invites friends to join them in remembrance on Thursday, the 18th, from 6-7 pm at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Chapel. It is at these services, arranged with care by Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey, that we will bid farewell to a gentle soul who lived a life of purpose and left a lasting legacy of love.
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Judith Diane Bumpass - September 20, 1942 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Judith Diane Bumpass, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and sister, passed away peacefully on April 5, 2024, in San Antonio, TX, at the age of 81. Born on September 20, 1942, in Akron, OH, to the late Forrest and Shirley Snyder, Judith's vibrant spirit and warm heart left a lasting impression on all who knew her.She is survived by her devoted husband, Carl Bumpass; her loving children, Dawn Nearing and her husband David, Kurt Bumpass; cherished granddaughters, Hali and Amber Nearing; and sisters, Karen Vallejo and Shirl Hermanson. Judith's life was a testament to her caring nature and community involvement.A woman of many passions, Judith's love for cooking, traveling with friends, and art filled her days with color and friendship. She left an indelible mark through her work and associations, and her legacy is celebrated by all who knew her.A service celebrating Judith's life will be held on Tuesday, April 16, 2024, at 10:00 am at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Chapel, with a private family committal to follow. Her legacy and loving memory will be treasured forever.
Judith Diane Bumpass, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and sister, passed away peacefully on April 5, 2024, in San Antonio, TX, at the age of 81. Born on September 20, 1942, in Akron, OH, to the late Forrest and Shirley Snyder, Judith's vibrant spirit and warm heart left a lasting impression on all who knew her.
She is survived by her devoted husband, Carl Bumpass; her loving children, Dawn Nearing and her husband David, Kurt Bumpass; cherished granddaughters, Hali and Amber Nearing; and sisters, Karen Vallejo and Shirl Hermanson. Judith's life was a testament to her caring nature and community involvement.
A woman of many passions, Judith's love for cooking, traveling with friends, and art filled her days with color and friendship. She left an indelible mark through her work and associations, and her legacy is celebrated by all who knew her.
A service celebrating Judith's life will be held on Tuesday, April 16, 2024, at 10:00 am at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Chapel, with a private family committal to follow. Her legacy and loving memory will be treasured forever.
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Dean M Young - January 09, 1938 - March 18, 2024

Departed: 03/18/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: We gather in loving memory of Dean Young, a man whose life was a testament to the strength of faith and the warmth of family. Born on January 9, 1938, in Pampa, Texas, Dean was the cherished son of John Royce Young and Cleo Frances Lucas. Having lived a full and blessed life, he was called to his heavenly home on March 18, 2024, in Paris, Texas.Dean, a devoted husband, is survived by his beloved wife of 62 years, Delena Young, the keeper of his heart and the joy of his life. His legacy of love continues through his daughter, Linda Cooley of Ft. Towson, Oklahoma, his favorite daughter in law, Rhonda Gilbreath of Lefors, TX, his sister, Pat Johnson of Beaumont, TX, his adoring grandchildren, Melinda Kerns and husband Larry of Kansas City, MO, Daphanie Banks and husband Jason of Scurry, TX, Starla Kay Hamilton and husband Shane of Pampa, TX, Amber Arnzen and husband Bryan of Pampa, TX, and Jenna Deutschendorf of Clinton, OK, as well as thirteen great-grandchildren and five precious great-great-grandchildren who brought him immeasurable happiness. He will also be remembered by the countless other relatives and friends whose lives he uplifted.Before his passing, Dean was preceded in death by his parents, his sons, Jim Gilbreath and Larry Gilbreath, his granddaughter, Teresa May Whitley, and great-grandson, Trevor Sluder.With an unwavering commitment to his ministry, Dean served as a pastor in several communities, including Peeltown, TX, Shoals, OK, Boswell, OK, Ft. Towson, OK and Antlers, OK. Saved in 1971, Dean's love for the Lord was fierce and infectious.Aside from his ministerial duties, Dean valued the simple pleasures of life: reading the Good Book, preaching the Word, and when the weather was fine, embracing God's creation through water skiing and playing golf. His passions reflected a man who lived fully, loved deeply, and lifted the spirits of those around him.Let us gather to celebrate Dean Young's triumphant return to his Creator at Ft. Towson First Baptist Church on Monday, March 25, 2024, at 11:00 am. Pastor Bob O'Neill and Pastor Doug McClure will lead us in honoring a life truly lived in faith. Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey are entrusted with the services.We bid farewell to Dean, our beloved shepherd, knowing he rests in glory with our Savior. Blessed be the name of the Lord for the gift of Dean's life among us.
We gather in loving memory of Dean Young, a man whose life was a testament to the strength of faith and the warmth of family. Born on January 9, 1938, in Pampa, Texas, Dean was the cherished son of John Royce Young and Cleo Frances Lucas. Having lived a full and blessed life, he was called to his heavenly home on March 18, 2024, in Paris, Texas.
Dean, a devoted husband, is survived by his beloved wife of 62 years, Delena Young, the keeper of his heart and the joy of his life. His legacy of love continues through his daughter, Linda Cooley of Ft. Towson, Oklahoma, his favorite daughter in law, Rhonda Gilbreath of Lefors, TX, his sister, Pat Johnson of Beaumont, TX, his adoring grandchildren, Melinda Kerns and husband Larry of Kansas City, MO, Daphanie Banks and husband Jason of Scurry, TX, Starla Kay Hamilton and husband Shane of Pampa, TX, Amber Arnzen and husband Bryan of Pampa, TX, and Jenna Deutschendorf of Clinton, OK, as well as thirteen great-grandchildren and five precious great-great-grandchildren who brought him immeasurable happiness. He will also be remembered by the countless other relatives and friends whose lives he uplifted.
Before his passing, Dean was preceded in death by his parents, his sons, Jim Gilbreath and Larry Gilbreath, his granddaughter, Teresa May Whitley, and great-grandson, Trevor Sluder.
With an unwavering commitment to his ministry, Dean served as a pastor in several communities, including Peeltown, TX, Shoals, OK, Boswell, OK, Ft. Towson, OK and Antlers, OK. Saved in 1971, Dean's love for the Lord was fierce and infectious.
Aside from his ministerial duties, Dean valued the simple pleasures of life: reading the Good Book, preaching the Word, and when the weather was fine, embracing God's creation through water skiing and playing golf. His passions reflected a man who lived fully, loved deeply, and lifted the spirits of those around him.
Let us gather to celebrate Dean Young's triumphant return to his Creator at Ft. Towson First Baptist Church on Monday, March 25, 2024, at 11:00 am. Pastor Bob O'Neill and Pastor Doug McClure will lead us in honoring a life truly lived in faith. Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey are entrusted with the services.
We bid farewell to Dean, our beloved shepherd, knowing he rests in glory with our Savior. Blessed be the name of the Lord for the gift of Dean's life among us.
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Katherine Jane Coker - May 12, 1938 - March 05, 2024

Departed: 03/05/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Katherine Jane Coker, a respected and beloved member of the community, passed away on March 5, 2024, in Paris, TX, at the age of 85. Born on May 12, 1938, in Garvin, OK, the daughter of William Franklin and Hazel (Rush) Tyler Sr., Katherine lived a life marked by devotion to her family and service to others.She graduated from Valliant High School and quickly became a pillar in the healthcare community, dedicating over 40 years of her life to Choctaw Memorial, serving first in medical records for 30 years and later as a staff coordinator for an additional decade. Katherine's passion for helping others extended beyond her professional life as she volunteered with Helping Hands of Choctaw County since 1993 and was an active member of the Church of Christ in Messer, OK.Family was the cornerstone of Katherine’s life. She is survived by her loving husband, Cowboy Watson; her brother, Bill Tyler and his wife, Jodi; her cherished nieces, Terri Hathcock and Vicki Tyler; and nephew, W.F. Tyler III. Katherine was preceded in death by her parents and her husband, Charles Coker.A graveside service to honor Katherine's memory will be held at Wheelock Cemetery, Millerton, OK, with Pastor Bob Walling officiating on Monday, March 11, 2024, at 10 a.m. Katherine's grace, perseverance, and humble service will be deeply missed and forever remembered by all who were privileged to know her.
Katherine Jane Coker, a respected and beloved member of the community, passed away on March 5, 2024, in Paris, TX, at the age of 85. Born on May 12, 1938, in Garvin, OK, the daughter of William Franklin and Hazel (Rush) Tyler Sr., Katherine lived a life marked by devotion to her family and service to others.
She graduated from Valliant High School and quickly became a pillar in the healthcare community, dedicating over 40 years of her life to Choctaw Memorial, serving first in medical records for 30 years and later as a staff coordinator for an additional decade. Katherine's passion for helping others extended beyond her professional life as she volunteered with Helping Hands of Choctaw County since 1993 and was an active member of the Church of Christ in Messer, OK.
Family was the cornerstone of Katherine’s life. She is survived by her loving husband, Cowboy Watson; her brother, Bill Tyler and his wife, Jodi; her cherished nieces, Terri Hathcock and Vicki Tyler; and nephew, W.F. Tyler III. Katherine was preceded in death by her parents and her husband, Charles Coker.
A graveside service to honor Katherine's memory will be held at Wheelock Cemetery, Millerton, OK, with Pastor Bob Walling officiating on Monday, March 11, 2024, at 10 a.m. Katherine's grace, perseverance, and humble service will be deeply missed and forever remembered by all who were privileged to know her.
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Robert F Cobb - May 12, 1942 - March 03, 2024

Departed: 03/03/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Robert Fulton Cobb, a cherished soul known affectionately as Robert, passed away peacefully on March 3, 2024, in Paris, TX. Born in Cullman, AL, on May 12, 1942, to loving parents Fulton Woodrow and Zula (Ellinburg) Cobb, Robert grew up to be a man marked by his humor, kindness, and an unwavering dedication to family and community.A graduate of the Hanceville High School class of 1960, Robert proudly served in the United States Air Force, a career that honed his discipline and his love for the skies. On August 26, 1978, he married his cherished partner, Vanessa, and together they navigated the journey of life with love and companionship. He enlisted in the Air Force as an aircraft maintenance specialist and received an honorable Discharge in February 1965 as Airman First Class. After re-enlisted he received another Honorable Discharge in February 1969 as a Staff Sergeant. Robert worked at Tinker Air Force base in Oklahoma City after his Air Force journey and then later worked for FAA when he retired from Government service after many years. In his professional life, he was known for his skillful hands and entrepreneurial spirit, particularly through his work at his small engine repair shop in Tuttle, OK and later C&W Lawn Equipment with small engine repair in Hugo, OK. He and Vanessa moved to Hugo, OK, in 2010, where they became an integral part of the community.Robert’s spirit was most alive while serving at the First Baptist Church, where his outgoing nature shone brightly. He was a deacon, facilitator at men’s prayer breakfast for many years and was the substitute Sunday School teacher for his adult class. He was a man who never met a stranger, greeting each day and every person he encountered with a humor and warmth that were uniquely his. Because of the love for animals, Robert and Vanessa rescued many animals including their last beloved dog, Lady Buckles, being a testament to this affection.Left to honor Robert's memory is his son, Robert Wayne Cobb of Washington DC; his grandson, Dominic Cobb of Germany; and his loving sisters, Dorcas Fitzgerald of Warren, OH, Debbie Martin of Birmingham, AL, and sister-in-law, Brenda O’Neill, and husband Robert O'Neil, of Hugo. He will also be fondly remembered by numerous in-laws, nieces and nephews including, Dustin O’Neill and wife Lisa, and their daughter Bailee, of Hugo, OK, Justin O’Neill and wife Amy, and their daughter, Tanna, of Hugo, OK, and a host of other relatives and friends, including his special cousin, Charles Cobb of Cullman, AL.The family would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to caregivers Susie Q, Abbie, Foxy Roxie, and Ramondo for their tender care in Robert’s final days.A service to celebrate Robert's life will be held at 10 am on Friday, March 8, 2024, at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Chapel, with Pastor Doug McClure and Dr. Danny Mills officiating. Visitation will be on Thursday, March 7, from 6 to 7 p.m. Robert's memory will forever be cherished in the hearts of all who knew him as his legacy continues to inspire love and fellowship in the community he adored.
Robert Fulton Cobb, a cherished soul known affectionately as Robert, passed away peacefully on March 3, 2024, in Paris, TX. Born in Cullman, AL, on May 12, 1942, to loving parents Fulton Woodrow and Zula (Ellinburg) Cobb, Robert grew up to be a man marked by his humor, kindness, and an unwavering dedication to family and community.
A graduate of the Hanceville High School class of 1960, Robert proudly served in the United States Air Force, a career that honed his discipline and his love for the skies. On August 26, 1978, he married his cherished partner, Vanessa, and together they navigated the journey of life with love and companionship. He enlisted in the Air Force as an aircraft maintenance specialist and received an honorable Discharge in February 1965 as Airman First Class. After re-enlisted he received another Honorable Discharge in February 1969 as a Staff Sergeant. Robert worked at Tinker Air Force base in Oklahoma City after his Air Force journey and then later worked for FAA when he retired from Government service after many years. In his professional life, he was known for his skillful hands and entrepreneurial spirit, particularly through his work at his small engine repair shop in Tuttle, OK and later C&W Lawn Equipment with small engine repair in Hugo, OK. He and Vanessa moved to Hugo, OK, in 2010, where they became an integral part of the community.
Robert’s spirit was most alive while serving at the First Baptist Church, where his outgoing nature shone brightly. He was a deacon, facilitator at men’s prayer breakfast for many years and was the substitute Sunday School teacher for his adult class. He was a man who never met a stranger, greeting each day and every person he encountered with a humor and warmth that were uniquely his. Because of the love for animals, Robert and Vanessa rescued many animals including their last beloved dog, Lady Buckles, being a testament to this affection.
Left to honor Robert's memory is his son, Robert Wayne Cobb of Washington DC; his grandson, Dominic Cobb of Germany; and his loving sisters, Dorcas Fitzgerald of Warren, OH, Debbie Martin of Birmingham, AL, and sister-in-law, Brenda O’Neill, and husband Robert O'Neil, of Hugo. He will also be fondly remembered by numerous in-laws, nieces and nephews including, Dustin O’Neill and wife Lisa, and their daughter Bailee, of Hugo, OK, Justin O’Neill and wife Amy, and their daughter, Tanna, of Hugo, OK, and a host of other relatives and friends, including his special cousin, Charles Cobb of Cullman, AL.
The family would like to extend their heartfelt gratitude to caregivers Susie Q, Abbie, Foxy Roxie, and Ramondo for their tender care in Robert’s final days.
A service to celebrate Robert's life will be held at 10 am on Friday, March 8, 2024, at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Chapel, with Pastor Doug McClure and Dr. Danny Mills officiating. Visitation will be on Thursday, March 7, from 6 to 7 p.m. Robert's memory will forever be cherished in the hearts of all who knew him as his legacy continues to inspire love and fellowship in the community he adored.
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Cynthia Lynn Skinner - September 14, 1956 - March 02, 2024

Departed: 03/02/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Cynthia Lynn Skinner, affectionately known as Cindy to her loved ones, passed peacefully to her heavenly home on March 2, 2024, in Hugo, Oklahoma. She was born on September 14, 1956, in Sinton, Texas, the daughter of Calvin and Rosemary (Kenny) Karr. Cindy was a nurturing spirit whose warmth touched all who knew her.Cindy married the love of her life, Randy W. Skinner, on June 7, 1977, in Wichita Falls, Texas. Together, they built a life filled with love, laughter, and the hustle and bustle of a large, close-knit family. She was a devoted spouse to Randy, who remains of the home, cherishing their memories. A caring mother, she is survived by children Kyle Skinner & Alicia of Harrisonville, MO, Anne Raney & husband Derrick of Raymore, MO, Shane Skinner of NC, Aaron John Skinner & wife Retisha of Vian, OK, Christopher Carpenter of OK, Rosa Skinner & husband William of Graham, TX, Kristie Fairless & husband Clifton of Hugo, OK, Joseph Skinner of Fort Towson, OK, Sabrina Abney & husband Tell of Hugo, OK, Brandon Skinner of Rufe, OK, Adam Skinner of Hugo, OK, Megan Griffin & husband Talon of Messer, OK, Aarron Michael Skinner of Sawyer, OK and Kellie Collins & Kevin of Stratford, OK; sister Karen Patrick of Weatherford, TX; 25 grandchildren, along with a host of other relatives, friends, and loved ones.A true matriarch, entrepreneur, and homemaker, Cindy blended love and creativity to provide for her family. Her ingenuity and resourcefulness were sources of inspiration for those around her. Not one to sit idle, Cindy was a dedicated member of her community and found joy in fellowship and service at Victory Life Church.Cindy's life will be celebrated at Victory Life Church with services held on Saturday, March 9, 2024, at 10 am, with Randy Mayfield officiating. Friends and loved ones are invited to share in a time of visitation on Friday from 6-7 pm at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Chapel.Her radiant smile and enduring kindness will be deeply missed, yet the legacy of her love will forever resonate in the hearts of those who knew her. Cindy's unwavering strength and gracious spirit will continue to guide her family, just as her memory will remain an everlasting beacon of light in their lives.
Cynthia Lynn Skinner, affectionately known as Cindy to her loved ones, passed peacefully to her heavenly home on March 2, 2024, in Hugo, Oklahoma. She was born on September 14, 1956, in Sinton, Texas, the daughter of Calvin and Rosemary (Kenny) Karr. Cindy was a nurturing spirit whose warmth touched all who knew her.
Cindy married the love of her life, Randy W. Skinner, on June 7, 1977, in Wichita Falls, Texas. Together, they built a life filled with love, laughter, and the hustle and bustle of a large, close-knit family. She was a devoted spouse to Randy, who remains of the home, cherishing their memories. A caring mother, she is survived by children Kyle Skinner & Alicia of Harrisonville, MO, Anne Raney & husband Derrick of Raymore, MO, Shane Skinner of NC, Aaron John Skinner & wife Retisha of Vian, OK, Christopher Carpenter of OK, Rosa Skinner & husband William of Graham, TX, Kristie Fairless & husband Clifton of Hugo, OK, Joseph Skinner of Fort Towson, OK, Sabrina Abney & husband Tell of Hugo, OK, Brandon Skinner of Rufe, OK, Adam Skinner of Hugo, OK, Megan Griffin & husband Talon of Messer, OK, Aarron Michael Skinner of Sawyer, OK and Kellie Collins & Kevin of Stratford, OK; sister Karen Patrick of Weatherford, TX; 25 grandchildren, along with a host of other relatives, friends, and loved ones.
A true matriarch, entrepreneur, and homemaker, Cindy blended love and creativity to provide for her family. Her ingenuity and resourcefulness were sources of inspiration for those around her. Not one to sit idle, Cindy was a dedicated member of her community and found joy in fellowship and service at Victory Life Church.
Cindy's life will be celebrated at Victory Life Church with services held on Saturday, March 9, 2024, at 10 am, with Randy Mayfield officiating. Friends and loved ones are invited to share in a time of visitation on Friday from 6-7 pm at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Chapel.
Her radiant smile and enduring kindness will be deeply missed, yet the legacy of her love will forever resonate in the hearts of those who knew her. Cindy's unwavering strength and gracious spirit will continue to guide her family, just as her memory will remain an everlasting beacon of light in their lives.
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Regina Gail Lockwood - September 14, 1959 - February 21, 2024

Departed: 02/21/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Regina Lockwood, a beacon of selflessness and kindness, passed away peacefully on February 21, 2024, in Paris, Texas. Born in Antlers, Oklahoma, on September 14, 1959, Regina was the cherished daughter of Franky and Lorene (Adair) Todd.Regina's life was a testament to her caring nature. A graduate with a bachelor's degree, she dedicated her professional career to serving others in various capacities that included human resources in home health, drug and alcohol abuse counseling, teaching, and management. Particularly memorable was her time working at Hugo Schools, where she was instrumental in touching the lives of so many students. Regina's genuine concern for the well-being of others extended beyond her professional life; she never hesitated to pick up any stray or provide a helping hand whenever needed.Regina married Roger Lockwood on September 14, 1980. She was a supportive sister to Nora Robertson and her husband Royce of Oklahoma City, OK, Julie Roxberry and her husband Rocky of Boswell, OK, brothers Ronnie Todd and his fiancée Crystal of Boswell, OK and Randy Houser and Vonnie of Durant, OK and a very special friend, Ronnie Ensey of Boswell, OK, along with David & Shirley LilesOne of Reginas greatest joys in life was her role model as the “Best Aunt” to Mike Duke & Debbie, of Colbert, OK, Marissa Conklin of Cabot, AR, Joshua Robertson & Laurie of OKC, OK, Terah Avery & Dan, Mary Beth Evans & Alan all of Mustang, OK, Lacie Phillips & Corbin Reid of Perkins, OK, Dallas Ainsworth & Daniel of Boswell, OK, Randa Sugart, Ciera Roberts, Destynie Johnson, Jason Foster, Timothy Feltman all of Durant, OK & Jean Ann Ashford & David Todd of Boswell, OK.Regina also had several great nieces & nephews who she claimed made her heart beat and her world go around, they include, Kristyn, Joshlyn, Lauren, Natalie, Ryan, Macy, JJ, Lincoln, Carter and was anxiously awaiting the arrival of Lexi Jo and Jayce.Preceded in death by her beloved parents, two brothers, Ralph Todd and Delbert Todd, one sister, Darlene Houser and three nephews, Jared Langston, Dalton Houser & Trampus Todd. Regina's memory will live on through her devoted family and those who had the privilege to know her.Although there will be no services, the family is being compassionately cared for by Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home. Regina's life was her family; they were her lifeline and her legacy, a legacy that will undoubtedly continue to inspire and guide her loved ones for generations to come.
Regina Lockwood, a beacon of selflessness and kindness, passed away peacefully on February 21, 2024, in Paris, Texas. Born in Antlers, Oklahoma, on September 14, 1959, Regina was the cherished daughter of Franky and Lorene (Adair) Todd.
Regina's life was a testament to her caring nature. A graduate with a bachelor's degree, she dedicated her professional career to serving others in various capacities that included human resources in home health, drug and alcohol abuse counseling, teaching, and management. Particularly memorable was her time working at Hugo Schools, where she was instrumental in touching the lives of so many students. Regina's genuine concern for the well-being of others extended beyond her professional life; she never hesitated to pick up any stray or provide a helping hand whenever needed. Regina married Roger Lockwood on September 14, 1980. She was a supportive sister to Nora Robertson and her husband Royce of Oklahoma City, OK, Julie Roxberry and her husband Rocky of Boswell, OK, brothers Ronnie Todd and his fiancée Crystal of Boswell, OK and Randy Houser and Vonnie of Durant, OK and a very special friend, Ronnie Ensey of Boswell, OK, along with David & Shirley Liles
One of Reginas greatest joys in life was her role model as the “Best Aunt” to Mike Duke & Debbie, of Colbert, OK, Marissa Conklin of Cabot, AR, Joshua Robertson & Laurie of OKC, OK, Terah Avery & Dan, Mary Beth Evans & Alan all of Mustang, OK, Lacie Phillips & Corbin Reid of Perkins, OK, Dallas Ainsworth & Daniel of Boswell, OK, Randa Sugart, Ciera Roberts, Destynie Johnson, Jason Foster, Timothy Feltman all of Durant, OK & Jean Ann Ashford & David Todd of Boswell, OK.
Regina also had several great nieces & nephews who she claimed made her heart beat and her world go around, they include, Kristyn, Joshlyn, Lauren, Natalie, Ryan, Macy, JJ, Lincoln, Carter and was anxiously awaiting the arrival of Lexi Jo and Jayce.
Preceded in death by her beloved parents, two brothers, Ralph Todd and Delbert Todd, one sister, Darlene Houser and three nephews, Jared Langston, Dalton Houser & Trampus Todd. Regina's memory will live on through her devoted family and those who had the privilege to know her.
Although there will be no services, the family is being compassionately cared for by Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home. Regina's life was her family; they were her lifeline and her legacy, a legacy that will undoubtedly continue to inspire and guide her loved ones for generations to come.
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Clay Charles Arnold - May 09, 1938 - February 21, 2024

Departed: 02/21/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Clay Charles Arnold, born on May 9, 1938, in Belton, TX, passed away peacefully on February 21, 2024, in Dallas, TX. He was a beloved husband, father, brother, and a friend to all who knew him.Clay was the cherished son of Clay H. Arnold and Martha S. Mangum. He found love with Johnny B. Carroll and they wed on September 8, 1959, in Dallas, TX. Their union was blessed with a loving daughter, Cindy Russell of KY. He also leaves behind a caring daughter-in-law, Kayla of Dallas, TX. Clay was the respected brother of William Arnold, Harvey Arnold, Johnny Parker, Richard Arnold, Judy Shanks, Janie Dollison, and Joyce Witherspoon.Clay proudly served his country in the Army from 1956 to 1958. He then spent his career behind the wheel as a dedicated truck driver for Yellow Freight. Clay's life was marked by the strength and integrity he brought to every endeavor.While Clay was preceded in death by his parents; his dear daughter, Carolyn Hurdle; his son, Kenneth Arnold; and his siblings, Thomas Arnold, Lillian Scott, Mary Ann Renick, and Douglas Arnold; his memory lives on in the hearts of those who loved him.A man of many passions, Clay will be remembered for his devotion to family and his steadfast presence. A graveside service to honor his life will be held at Fort Towson on Monday at 1 PM. Clay's legacy will be carried on through the stories and memories treasured by his family and friends.Services have been entrusted to Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home.
Clay Charles Arnold, born on May 9, 1938, in Belton, TX, passed away peacefully on February 21, 2024, in Dallas, TX. He was a beloved husband, father, brother, and a friend to all who knew him.
Clay was the cherished son of Clay H. Arnold and Martha S. Mangum. He found love with Johnny B. Carroll and they wed on September 8, 1959, in Dallas, TX. Their union was blessed with a loving daughter, Cindy Russell of KY. He also leaves behind a caring daughter-in-law, Kayla of Dallas, TX. Clay was the respected brother of William Arnold, Harvey Arnold, Johnny Parker, Richard Arnold, Judy Shanks, Janie Dollison, and Joyce Witherspoon.
Clay proudly served his country in the Army from 1956 to 1958. He then spent his career behind the wheel as a dedicated truck driver for Yellow Freight. Clay's life was marked by the strength and integrity he brought to every endeavor.
While Clay was preceded in death by his parents; his dear daughter, Carolyn Hurdle; his son, Kenneth Arnold; and his siblings, Thomas Arnold, Lillian Scott, Mary Ann Renick, and Douglas Arnold; his memory lives on in the hearts of those who loved him.
A man of many passions, Clay will be remembered for his devotion to family and his steadfast presence. A graveside service to honor his life will be held at Fort Towson on Monday at 1 PM. Clay's legacy will be carried on through the stories and memories treasured by his family and friends.
Services have been entrusted to Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home.
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Blanche Nadine Self - December 30, 1938 - February 16, 2024

Departed: 02/16/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Blanche Nadine Self, age 85, a long-time resident of Hugo, OK, and a beacon of warmth in her community, passed away peacefully on February 16, 2024, in Hugo. Born on December 30, 1938, in Antlers, OK, to Delbert Gernand and Laura Edith Jones, Nadine grew up surrounded by love and laughter.On February 9, 1957, Nadine married the love of her life, Dickie Self, and together they built a happy home in Hugo. The couple's enduring partnership was an inspiration to all who knew them until Dickie's passing in 2009.Nadine carried on the family's legacy with the same strength and grace she channeled into her work at the Wells Lamont Glove Factory. As a proud member of her local community, Nadine's commitment to her work was rivalled only by her dedication to her family and friends.While Nadine was preceded in death by her beloved husband Dickie Self, her parents, and her siblings Charles, Lorelei, Donna, Jane, and Joan, her spirit lives on through her nephew Stan Self and his wife Gina of Hugo and Kevin Antwin of Antlers; her nieces Michele House and Yvonne Walker both of Antlers, and numerous other nieces, nephews, and a host of dear friends.Nadine's passion for reading, her love of old-time TV shows, and the melodies of Elvis filled her home with joy. Her dogs, Princess, Joey, and Bull also brought her great comfort and companionship. Nadine’s legacy of love, strength, and kindness will be fondly remembered and dearly missed.A celebration of Nadine's life will be held on Wednesday, February 21, at 2 pm at Mt. Olivet Cemetery, where friends and family will gather to honor her memory and the happiness, she brought to all who knew her.Services have been entrusted to Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey funeral home, where memories and condolences can be shared on Nadine’s memorial.
Blanche Nadine Self, age 85, a long-time resident of Hugo, OK, and a beacon of warmth in her community, passed away peacefully on February 16, 2024, in Hugo. Born on December 30, 1938, in Antlers, OK, to Delbert Gernand and Laura Edith Jones, Nadine grew up surrounded by love and laughter.
On February 9, 1957, Nadine married the love of her life, Dickie Self, and together they built a happy home in Hugo. The couple's enduring partnership was an inspiration to all who knew them until Dickie's passing in 2009.
Nadine carried on the family's legacy with the same strength and grace she channeled into her work at the Wells Lamont Glove Factory. As a proud member of her local community, Nadine's commitment to her work was rivalled only by her dedication to her family and friends.
While Nadine was preceded in death by her beloved husband Dickie Self, her parents, and her siblings Charles, Lorelei, Donna, Jane, and Joan, her spirit lives on through her nephew Stan Self and his wife Gina of Hugo and Kevin Antwin of Antlers; her nieces Michele House and Yvonne Walker both of Antlers, and numerous other nieces, nephews, and a host of dear friends.
Nadine's passion for reading, her love of old-time TV shows, and the melodies of Elvis filled her home with joy. Her dogs, Princess, Joey, and Bull also brought her great comfort and companionship. Nadine’s legacy of love, strength, and kindness will be fondly remembered and dearly missed.
A celebration of Nadine's life will be held on Wednesday, February 21, at 2 pm at Mt. Olivet Cemetery, where friends and family will gather to honor her memory and the happiness, she brought to all who knew her.
Services have been entrusted to Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey funeral home, where memories and condolences can be shared on Nadine’s memorial.
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Wanda Henson - March 29, 1948 - January 22, 2024

Departed: 01/22/2024 (Hugo)
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Jewell N Boling - February 21, 1934 - January 20, 2024

Departed: 01/20/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Jewell Boling, passed away at 89 years of age in the comfort of her home on January 20th, 2024, embraced by the warmth and love of her family. The story of Jewell's life began in Sobol, Oklahoma, on February 21st, 1934, where she was born to Nora and Roy Dickerson. She grew up in a world that was vastly different from today, but her warmth and radiance brought light to even the simplest of times. She graduated from Rattan High School in 1952.Her dedication to her community was evident early on as she embarked on a career in the Court Clerk’s office at Choctaw County Courthouse. It was not just a job for Jewell; it was an opportunity to serve and ensure the wheels of justice turned fairly for all.Jewell's heart found its counterpart in Robert Boling, and the two were united in marriage on a beautiful summer day, July 7th, 1956, in Hugo, Oklahoma. This blessed union flourished and grew, and together they welcomed four daughters into the world: Carla, Patti, Sandy, and Jan. Jewell's role as a mother was one of her greatest joys, and she nurtured her children with immeasurable love and devotion.A tireless companion in the family logging and trucking business, Jewell was the cornerstone that kept the wheels turning smoothly, continually offering a helping hand not only to her family but also to her friends and entire community. Her passion for life extended to music and dancing, which brought rhythm to her every step and joy to those around her.Connecting with people was at the heart of Jewell's life; she made friends wherever she went and touched countless lives. Her laughter was infectious, her adventurous spirit undaunted, and her love for shopping, road trips, and family gatherings was legendary. Jewell was a fixture at the Southside Baptist Church, where she was an integral part of the Hospitality Committee, always ensuring that everyone felt welcome and cherished.Her family, a source of infinite pride and joy, was at the center of Jewell's world. She was fiercely passionate about her ancestry and maintaining the family's rich history, ensuring that future generations would know where they came from and the love that bound them together.Jewell’s radiance will be deeply missed, leaving behind a legacy of kindness and warmth. She was preceded in death by her cherished husband Robert Boling, her brother Alvin Dickerson, her sister Freida Emberton, and her infant twin sister, as well as her parents. Her memory will be honored and cherished by her daughters Carla and Dwayne Langley of Hugo, Oklahoma, Patti and Jim Schultz of Lansing, Kansas, Sandy Turner of Colorado Springs, Colorado, and Jan and Jim Skelton of Hugo, Oklahoma.Her legacy continues through her grandchildren and their spouses: Clint and Bekah Langley, Clay Langley, Chad and Morgan Langley, Krissy and Shaelan Gravitt, Scott and Kirstin Schultz, Heidi Schultz, Haylea Turner, Dillon Turner, Zack Skelton, and Jenna Skelton. Jewell will also be fondly remembered by her 11 great-grandchildren: Colton, Cason, Cori, Braylon, Tyler, Gavin, Cutter, Kylee, Callen, Cooper, and Maxine, who brought her immeasurable joy.A service to honor her remarkable life will be held on Tuesday, January 23rd, 2024, at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Chapel at 10 am, with a public visitation on Monday, January 22nd, 2024, at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Chapel from 6 to 7 p.m. The journey of her grace will find its resting place at Mt. Olivet Cemetery, in Hugo, Oklahoma, where her spirit will, doubtless, continue to inspire.
Jewell Boling, passed away at 89 years of age in the comfort of her home on January 20th, 2024, embraced by the warmth and love of her family.
The story of Jewell's life began in Sobol, Oklahoma, on February 21st, 1934, where she was born to Nora and Roy Dickerson. She grew up in a world that was vastly different from today, but her warmth and radiance brought light to even the simplest of times. She graduated from Rattan High School in 1952.
Her dedication to her community was evident early on as she embarked on a career in the Court Clerk’s office at Choctaw County Courthouse. It was not just a job for Jewell; it was an opportunity to serve and ensure the wheels of justice turned fairly for all.
Jewell's heart found its counterpart in Robert Boling, and the two were united in marriage on a beautiful summer day, July 7th, 1956, in Hugo, Oklahoma. This blessed union flourished and grew, and together they welcomed four daughters into the world: Carla, Patti, Sandy, and Jan. Jewell's role as a mother was one of her greatest joys, and she nurtured her children with immeasurable love and devotion.
A tireless companion in the family logging and trucking business, Jewell was the cornerstone that kept the wheels turning smoothly, continually offering a helping hand not only to her family but also to her friends and entire community. Her passion for life extended to music and dancing, which brought rhythm to her every step and joy to those around her.
Connecting with people was at the heart of Jewell's life; she made friends wherever she went and touched countless lives. Her laughter was infectious, her adventurous spirit undaunted, and her love for shopping, road trips, and family gatherings was legendary. Jewell was a fixture at the Southside Baptist Church, where she was an integral part of the Hospitality Committee, always ensuring that everyone felt welcome and cherished.
Her family, a source of infinite pride and joy, was at the center of Jewell's world. She was fiercely passionate about her ancestry and maintaining the family's rich history, ensuring that future generations would know where they came from and the love that bound them together.
Jewell’s radiance will be deeply missed, leaving behind a legacy of kindness and warmth. She was preceded in death by her cherished husband Robert Boling, her brother Alvin Dickerson, her sister Freida Emberton, and her infant twin sister, as well as her parents. Her memory will be honored and cherished by her daughters Carla and Dwayne Langley of Hugo, Oklahoma, Patti and Jim Schultz of Lansing, Kansas, Sandy Turner of Colorado Springs, Colorado, and Jan and Jim Skelton of Hugo, Oklahoma.
Her legacy continues through her grandchildren and their spouses: Clint and Bekah Langley, Clay Langley, Chad and Morgan Langley, Krissy and Shaelan Gravitt, Scott and Kirstin Schultz, Heidi Schultz, Haylea Turner, Dillon Turner, Zack Skelton, and Jenna Skelton. Jewell will also be fondly remembered by her 11 great-grandchildren: Colton, Cason, Cori, Braylon, Tyler, Gavin, Cutter, Kylee, Callen, Cooper, and Maxine, who brought her immeasurable joy.
A service to honor her remarkable life will be held on Tuesday, January 23rd, 2024, at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Chapel at 10 am, with a public visitation on Monday, January 22nd, 2024, at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Chapel from 6 to 7 p.m. The journey of her grace will find its resting place at Mt. Olivet Cemetery, in Hugo, Oklahoma, where her spirit will, doubtless, continue to inspire.
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Lyndol Fry - July 23, 1941 - January 15, 2024

Departed: 01/15/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Lyndol Fry, 82, passed away on January 15, 2024, at Choctaw Memorial Hospital in Hugo, OK.Friends and family will be received Friday, January 19, 2024, from 6:00-8:00 PM at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home, 216 E Jackson Hugo, OK 74743.Funeral service will be held at 2:00 PM on Saturday, January 20, 2024, at First United Methodist Church, 201 E. Kirk St Hugo, OK, with Rev. Michael Dye officiating.Lyndol Fry was born July 23, 1941, in Hugo, OK the son of Charles Albert Fry and Anna Bee (Johnson) Fry. Lyndol grew up in Hugo during a time when he and his friends ruled the day. Lyndol Fry wore many hats during his lifetime. They represented a varied collection of interests, careers, and personal choices.His work started early as he became part of the family businesses of R. M. Fry Lumber Company and the Creosote Plant. There, he joined his brothers, Wyndol and Larry, and cousins Phillip, Frank, Martin, and Henry. Questions were always whispered as to how much work was really getting done. They always answered, "Plenty!"Following college, he and his brother, Larry, owned and operated Fry Men's Wear in downtown Hugo for 10 years. He helped dress the "best" in the "best." During this time, he also served as a State Wildlife Commissioner for 4 years. He worked tirelessly to showcase Southeastern Oklahoma with its abundance of outdoor opportunities.In the mid 70's, he participated in probably the most exciting adventure a guy could have. He helped capture and tranquilize 2 escaped elephants from the local circus, Isa and Lilly, where they are currently enjoying retirement at the Endangered Ark east of Hugo. This escapade captured national attention by all sorts of media. What positive publicity for Hugo and Choctaw County!On the heels of the elephants' capture, he was summoned to San Jose, CA to help in yet another wild animal's capture. A large Black Bear was on the loose. Lyndol's recipe was successful as the bear feasted on peanut butter and honey in a local neighborhood tree.Next came Lyndol's cops and robbers time as he served as a deputy and special investigator for the Choctaw County Sheriff's Department. Many stories, always true, of course, resulted from these encounters. He also went to the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigations Academy for training, which he thoroughly enjoyed. He spent time in the evenings as "security" for the OU Football team and lived in the football dormitory in Norman during his training at the Academy. He loved those Sooners!Ready for a little "downtime," he returned to college for his Master's degree in School Administration at Southeastern Oklahoma State University. He completed his Bachelor's degree earlier at East Texas State University in Commerce, Texas, where he was a proud member of the Sigma Phi Epsilon Fraternity. He spent the next 35 years as a teacher and principal in both Antlers High School as a bearcat and Hugo High School (his Alma Mater) as a Buffalo. He loved all of his kids and they loved him back. "If you love your job, it's not work," he said often.In his "spare time," he followed his longtime love of the outdoors - hunting and fishing. He loved having his family and friends at his cabins on Little River in the beautiful Kiamichi Mountains known as "Fry's Raincreek Outpost." Memories were made which lasted a lifetime for Lyndol and so many others. He shared his many experiences with readers of his "Oklahoma Outdoors" column in the Hugo Daily News.His favorite hat, however, had several names - Husband, Daddy, Grandad, Bub, and Friend. He fulfilled these titles in the best possible way as he was a part of their lives. His influence was felt by everyone he touched.So, as the sun sets on this life well-lived, we can almost hear him saying, "Many are called; few are chosen." Lyndol was a member of the great Hugo High School class of 1959, that he was so proud of. "Once a Buffalo, always a Buffalo!"He is survived by his beloved wife, Carolyn Fry, of the home; his daughter, Melissa Jones, and her husband, Jeff, of Hugo, OK. Lyndol's joy for life was further amplified by his grandchildren, Jeffery Jones and wife Rachel of Hugo, OK, John Jones and wife Sarah of Oklahoma City, OK, Jennifer Jones of Norman, OK, and his adored great-grandchildren, Jocelyn Jones and Wesley Jones. A host of other relatives and friends also feel the absence of his comforting presence.Preceded in death by his son, Michael Fry; parents, Charles Albert Fry and Anna Bee (Johnson) Fry; brothers, Wyndol Fry and Larry Fry, Lyndol's memory will live on in the many hearts he touched. Remembered for his loving nature, he leaves behind a legacy of warm memories and enduring affection.Memorial Donations may be made to the Hugo High School Athletic Department at 1603 East Kirk, Hugo, OK 74743 or The First United Methodist Church, Drawer M, Hugo, OK 74743.Burial will follow at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Hugo, OK.Online condolences can be made at www.praterlampton.com.Funeral arrangements were trusted to Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home, 216 E Jackson Hugo, OK 74743, (580) 326-6464.
Lyndol Fry, 82, passed away on January 15, 2024, at Choctaw Memorial Hospital in Hugo, OK.
Friends and family will be received Friday, January 19, 2024, from 6:00-8:00 PM at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home, 216 E Jackson Hugo, OK 74743.
Funeral service will be held at 2:00 PM on Saturday, January 20, 2024, at First United Methodist Church, 201 E. Kirk St Hugo, OK, with Rev. Michael Dye officiating.
Lyndol Fry was born July 23, 1941, in Hugo, OK the son of Charles Albert Fry and Anna Bee (Johnson) Fry. Lyndol grew up in Hugo during a time when he and his friends ruled the day. Lyndol Fry wore many hats during his lifetime. They represented a varied collection of interests, careers, and personal choices. His work started early as he became part of the family businesses of R. M. Fry Lumber Company and the Creosote Plant. There, he joined his brothers, Wyndol and Larry, and cousins Phillip, Frank, Martin, and Henry. Questions were always whispered as to how much work was really getting done. They always answered, "Plenty!"
Following college, he and his brother, Larry, owned and operated Fry Men's Wear in downtown Hugo for 10 years. He helped dress the "best" in the "best." During this time, he also served as a State Wildlife Commissioner for 4 years. He worked tirelessly to showcase Southeastern Oklahoma with its abundance of outdoor opportunities. In the mid 70's, he participated in probably the most exciting adventure a guy could have. He helped capture and tranquilize 2 escaped elephants from the local circus, Isa and Lilly, where they are currently enjoying retirement at the Endangered Ark east of Hugo. This escapade captured national attention by all sorts of media. What positive publicity for Hugo and Choctaw County!
On the heels of the elephants' capture, he was summoned to San Jose, CA to help in yet another wild animal's capture. A large Black Bear was on the loose. Lyndol's recipe was successful as the bear feasted on peanut butter and honey in a local neighborhood tree. Next came Lyndol's cops and robbers time as he served as a deputy and special investigator for the Choctaw County Sheriff's Department. Many stories, always true, of course, resulted from these encounters. He also went to the Oklahoma State Bureau of Investigations Academy for training, which he thoroughly enjoyed. He spent time in the evenings as "security" for the OU Football team and lived in the football dormitory in Norman during his training at the Academy. He loved those Sooners!
Ready for a little "downtime," he returned to college for his Master's degree in School Administration at Southeastern Oklahoma State University. He completed his Bachelor's degree earlier at East Texas State University in Commerce, Texas, where he was a proud member of the Sigma Phi Epsilon Fraternity. He spent the next 35 years as a teacher and principal in both Antlers High School as a bearcat and Hugo High School (his Alma Mater) as a Buffalo. He loved all of his kids and they loved him back. "If you love your job, it's not work," he said often.
In his "spare time," he followed his longtime love of the outdoors - hunting and fishing. He loved having his family and friends at his cabins on Little River in the beautiful Kiamichi Mountains known as "Fry's Raincreek Outpost." Memories were made which lasted a lifetime for Lyndol and so many others. He shared his many experiences with readers of his "Oklahoma Outdoors" column in the Hugo Daily News.
His favorite hat, however, had several names - Husband, Daddy, Grandad, Bub, and Friend. He fulfilled these titles in the best possible way as he was a part of their lives. His influence was felt by everyone he touched. So, as the sun sets on this life well-lived, we can almost hear him saying, "Many are called; few are chosen." Lyndol was a member of the great Hugo High School class of 1959, that he was so proud of. "Once a Buffalo, always a Buffalo!"
He is survived by his beloved wife, Carolyn Fry, of the home; his daughter, Melissa Jones, and her husband, Jeff, of Hugo, OK. Lyndol's joy for life was further amplified by his grandchildren, Jeffery Jones and wife Rachel of Hugo, OK, John Jones and wife Sarah of Oklahoma City, OK, Jennifer Jones of Norman, OK, and his adored great-grandchildren, Jocelyn Jones and Wesley Jones. A host of other relatives and friends also feel the absence of his comforting presence.
Preceded in death by his son, Michael Fry; parents, Charles Albert Fry and Anna Bee (Johnson) Fry; brothers, Wyndol Fry and Larry Fry, Lyndol's memory will live on in the many hearts he touched. Remembered for his loving nature, he leaves behind a legacy of warm memories and enduring affection.
Memorial Donations may be made to the Hugo High School Athletic Department at 1603 East Kirk, Hugo, OK 74743 or The First United Methodist Church, Drawer M, Hugo, OK 74743.
Burial will follow at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Hugo, OK.
Online condolences can be made at www.praterlampton.com.
Funeral arrangements were trusted to Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home, 216 E Jackson Hugo, OK 74743, (580) 326-6464.
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Judy Kay Hutson - October 30, 1944 - January 05, 2024

Departed: 01/05/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Judy Kay Hutson, a beacon of kindness and love, passed away peacefully on January 5, 2024, at the age of 79 in Hugo, Oklahoma. Born on October 30, 1944, in Durant, Oklahoma, to Andrew Russell Brown and The Reverend Laura Geraldine (Maples) Brown. Judy's life was a testament to her unwavering spirit and generous heart.In her youth, Judy traveled with her mother, The Reverend Geraldine Brown, fondly known as Sister Geraldine Kuhn, to sing and minister at area revivals. The pair also did prison ministry and held services for un-shackled prisoners and even baptized them in the nearby creek.Judy's educational journey led her to Paris Junior College, where she cultivated her passion for helping others. Her career was marked by a profound commitment to community service, having worked as an activity director at various nursing homes in Paris, Texas, for 18 years. She also dedicated four years to St. Joseph's Hospital in Paris, Texas, and served as the Director of the American Red Cross in Lamar County. Judy's professional life was intertwined with her desire to make a difference, a trait that was deeply admired by all who knew her.A devout member of the First Baptist Church in Ft. Towson, Oklahoma, Judy's faith was a cornerstone of her existence. Her involvement with the Paris Business and Professional Women and Altrusa reflected her advocacy for empowerment and community engagement. She was known as a shutterbug as she was passionate about her favorite hobby, photography.Judy was predeceased by her beloved parents, her sister Shirley Horn, and her nephew Garry Wayne Horn. She leaves behind a legacy of love and compassion, carried on by her niece Sherri Grace of Broken Bow, Oklahoma, and her nephew Steve Horn and life partner Christopher Bostad of Dallas, Texas, great nieces and nephews include Amie Horn of Houston, TX, Samuel Horn and wife Candace of Mena, AR, James Horn and wife Derrah of Mena, AR, Christopher Grace and wife Charlsie of Vancouver, WA, and a host of great-great nieces and nephews.Judy's life was a portrait of kindness and loving dedication. Her memory will be cherished, and her impact felt for generations to come.
Judy Kay Hutson, a beacon of kindness and love, passed away peacefully on January 5, 2024, at the age of 79 in Hugo, Oklahoma. Born on October 30, 1944, in Durant, Oklahoma, to Andrew Russell Brown and The Reverend Laura Geraldine (Maples) Brown. Judy's life was a testament to her unwavering spirit and generous heart.
In her youth, Judy traveled with her mother, The Reverend Geraldine Brown, fondly known as Sister Geraldine Kuhn, to sing and minister at area revivals. The pair also did prison ministry and held services for un-shackled prisoners and even baptized them in the nearby creek.
Judy's educational journey led her to Paris Junior College, where she cultivated her passion for helping others. Her career was marked by a profound commitment to community service, having worked as an activity director at various nursing homes in Paris, Texas, for 18 years. She also dedicated four years to St. Joseph's Hospital in Paris, Texas, and served as the Director of the American Red Cross in Lamar County. Judy's professional life was intertwined with her desire to make a difference, a trait that was deeply admired by all who knew her.
A devout member of the First Baptist Church in Ft. Towson, Oklahoma, Judy's faith was a cornerstone of her existence. Her involvement with the Paris Business and Professional Women and Altrusa reflected her advocacy for empowerment and community engagement. She was known as a shutterbug as she was passionate about her favorite hobby, photography.
Judy was predeceased by her beloved parents, her sister Shirley Horn, and her nephew Garry Wayne Horn. She leaves behind a legacy of love and compassion, carried on by her niece Sherri Grace of Broken Bow, Oklahoma, and her nephew Steve Horn and life partner Christopher Bostad of Dallas, Texas, great nieces and nephews include Amie Horn of Houston, TX, Samuel Horn and wife Candace of Mena, AR, James Horn and wife Derrah of Mena, AR, Christopher Grace and wife Charlsie of Vancouver, WA, and a host of great-great nieces and nephews.
Judy's life was a portrait of kindness and loving dedication. Her memory will be cherished, and her impact felt for generations to come.
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Donna Francis Abbott - February 05, 1935 - January 02, 2024

Departed: 01/02/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Beloved sister in Christ, Donna Francis Abbott, known affectionately to all as Donna, was called to her eternal home with the Lord on January 2, 2024. She was a radiant beacon of God's grace, born on February 5, 1935, in the humble town of Guymon, Oklahoma. Donna's life was a joyous melody that began in the heartland and came to a peaceful rest in Providence Village, Texas, after courageously facing the trials of dementia and related health challenges.In this world, Donna was a cherished daughter of Richard Doak Hall and Carrie Mae (Riggan) Hall, and she was guided by their loving hands alongside her seven siblings and their families; James Hall, Lillian, Edith Boston, Sid, Pearl Mehl, Rhiney, Virgie Howard, Art, Ray Hall, Mary and Pat Hall, and Clarence Alvin Ritter. The heavenly choir now welcomes her after goodbyes from her remaining siblings Virginia Hall, Richard Hall and Bessie Smith.Her heart found its perfect harmony on June 21, 1956, when she married her beloved Ray Abbott in Wichita, Kansas. They danced through life's symphony together until Ray preceded her in glory in 2017. From their union blossomed a family tree of melodious love: son, Dirk Allen Abbott and his wife, Leta, of Hugo; daughters, Julie Ann Davis and her husband, Derek, of Providence Village, TX, Amy Abbott of Dallas, TX, and Nancy Abbott of Virginia state. Her grandchildren David, Denny, Brady, Miranda, Chantelle, Kendra, Macy, Ben, Allison, DJ, Anacari, Marie, Jeneva, and Sinclair, along with her thirteen great-grandchildren, are her living legacies.Donna's voice was a vessel of God's love, nurtured through her education at Texas Women's University in Denton, TX, where she earned her Vocal Performance Degree. She cultivated a garden of talent, imparting wisdom and artistry through 13 years of private vocal and piano lessons, touching the lives of many pupils. From the tender age of 8, Donna sang for public audiences, her voice a thread in the tapestry of countless lives. Her devotion to her craft bore fruit in the form of two Gospel albums, and her voice echoed through the halls of churches across America.Her life was a testament to the joy of the Lord. Donna's hands were never idle, as she pieced together puzzles with the same care she pieced together lives, especially relishing the placement of the "Last Piece." She became a champion scrapbooker, her artistry celebrated at National Conventions. As a dedicated Bible Study Group Teacher, she nourished the spiritual growth of many, just as she had nurtured the harvest of notes in song. Her soul resonated with every hymn she offered as a singer for the Christian Women's Club, her ministry spreading far and wide.Let us find comfort in the knowledge that Donna now sings in the heavenly choir, no longer weighed down by earthly burdens. Her life was a tapestry woven with faith, love, and the joy of music, which she shared generously with all who had the privilege to know her. As she joins the great cloud of witnesses, Donna leaves us with the echo of her melody, a reminder to live harmoniously with love and grace.We will not say goodbye, but rather, until we meet again, as we hold the assurance that Donna Francis Abbott is now at peace, singing praises with the angels. Her life was a beautiful hymn, a song of love and devotion to her Lord, her family, and her community. Let us celebrate the legacy she leaves behind, a melody that will resonate in our hearts for eternity.Amen.Online condolences can be made at www.praterlampton.com.Funeral arrangements are trusted to Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home, 216 E Jackson Hugo, OK 74743, (580) 326-6464.
Beloved sister in Christ, Donna Francis Abbott, known affectionately to all as Donna, was called to her eternal home with the Lord on January 2, 2024. She was a radiant beacon of God's grace, born on February 5, 1935, in the humble town of Guymon, Oklahoma. Donna's life was a joyous melody that began in the heartland and came to a peaceful rest in Providence Village, Texas, after courageously facing the trials of dementia and related health challenges.
In this world, Donna was a cherished daughter of Richard Doak Hall and Carrie Mae (Riggan) Hall, and she was guided by their loving hands alongside her seven siblings and their families; James Hall, Lillian, Edith Boston, Sid, Pearl Mehl, Rhiney, Virgie Howard, Art, Ray Hall, Mary and Pat Hall, and Clarence Alvin Ritter. The heavenly choir now welcomes her after goodbyes from her remaining siblings Virginia Hall, Richard Hall and Bessie Smith.
Her heart found its perfect harmony on June 21, 1956, when she married her beloved Ray Abbott in Wichita, Kansas. They danced through life's symphony together until Ray preceded her in glory in 2017. From their union blossomed a family tree of melodious love: son, Dirk Allen Abbott and his wife, Leta, of Hugo; daughters, Julie Ann Davis and her husband, Derek, of Providence Village, TX, Amy Abbott of Dallas, TX, and Nancy Abbott of Virginia state. Her grandchildren David, Denny, Brady, Miranda, Chantelle, Kendra, Macy, Ben, Allison, DJ, Anacari, Marie, Jeneva, and Sinclair, along with her thirteen great-grandchildren, are her living legacies.
Donna's voice was a vessel of God's love, nurtured through her education at Texas Women's University in Denton, TX, where she earned her Vocal Performance Degree. She cultivated a garden of talent, imparting wisdom and artistry through 13 years of private vocal and piano lessons, touching the lives of many pupils. From the tender age of 8, Donna sang for public audiences, her voice a thread in the tapestry of countless lives. Her devotion to her craft bore fruit in the form of two Gospel albums, and her voice echoed through the halls of churches across America.
Her life was a testament to the joy of the Lord. Donna's hands were never idle, as she pieced together puzzles with the same care she pieced together lives, especially relishing the placement of the "Last Piece." She became a champion scrapbooker, her artistry celebrated at National Conventions. As a dedicated Bible Study Group Teacher, she nourished the spiritual growth of many, just as she had nurtured the harvest of notes in song. Her soul resonated with every hymn she offered as a singer for the Christian Women's Club, her ministry spreading far and wide.
Let us find comfort in the knowledge that Donna now sings in the heavenly choir, no longer weighed down by earthly burdens. Her life was a tapestry woven with faith, love, and the joy of music, which she shared generously with all who had the privilege to know her. As she joins the great cloud of witnesses, Donna leaves us with the echo of her melody, a reminder to live harmoniously with love and grace.
We will not say goodbye, but rather, until we meet again, as we hold the assurance that Donna Francis Abbott is now at peace, singing praises with the angels. Her life was a beautiful hymn, a song of love and devotion to her Lord, her family, and her community. Let us celebrate the legacy she leaves behind, a melody that will resonate in our hearts for eternity.
Amen.
Online condolences can be made at www.praterlampton.com.
Funeral arrangements are trusted to Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home, 216 E Jackson Hugo, OK 74743, (580) 326-6464.
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Barbara Jo Bohan - April 11, 1942 - January 01, 2024

Departed: 01/01/2024 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Barbara Jo Bohan, affectionally known to her family as Sue, passed away peacefully on New Year’s Day, 2024, and gained a new body and mind after a four-year battle with dementia and cancer. Barbara was born on April 11, 1942, in Hugo, Oklahoma, to Melba Weems (Helton) Hernandez and Raymond Helton, and her life was marked by her infectious laughter, keen intelligence, and an indomitable spirit. Raised primarily by a single mother, Barbara grew up in and around Hugo, where she gained the first star in her crown by helping to raise her younger brother Gene Holmes. When Gene and their mother moved to Dallas during Barbara’s senior year in high school, this independent-minded young woman stayed in Hugo supporting herself with a job at a local dentist office. After high school, Barbara gained an associate degree in business and worked in the Dallas area for a time. There she met and married John Lawrence Bohan, the love of her life. Together, they moved to Cupertino, California, where Barbara found work, honing skills she already had that took her to the top job possible for a woman in the tech industry in Silicone Valley during the 1970s. As an executive secretary to the GM of the CCD Group including Lockheed Martin and Fairchild Semiconductor Divisions, to name a few, Barbara had power to make astute decisions and run things efficiently for these defense contractors, skills she continued to use throughout her life.Outside of her professional endeavors, Barbara was known for her love of dressing up in her finest attire, complete with impeccable makeup, and enjoying the company of her family and friends. Her presence was a bright light at social gatherings, where her humor and intelligence shone through in every conversation. While in California, Barbara and John’s life was filled with entertaining friends at clam bakes on the beach, hosting costume parties, and traveling, which of course included regular trips back to Dallas to visit family. Widowed while still in her 40’s, Barbara retired after a few years and moved back to Mesquite, Texas, to be near her mother in Dallas. For the next two decades, the two women shared their lives enjoying their passions for cats, fashion, beautiful china, and holiday celebrations. Barbara also had two dogs that offered her love and companionship for many years.In the early 2000s, Barbara used her organizational and management skills once again to see her mother through a bout with cancer. Also from 2008-2011, she oversaw the care of one of her favorite aunts Winola Hamilton, who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. Barbara is preceded in death by her mother Melba Hernandez, her husband John Bohan, her step-father Harvey Holmes, and many beloved aunts. She leaves behind her brother Gene Holmes (Polly) of Round Rock, Texas; her niece Ashli Holmes Poly (Frederic), two great-nephews Nate Poly (age 12) and Theo Poly (age 5), all of Olney, MD; and beloved cousins, especially Cathy Feco Meister (Tuck) of Seagonville, Texas, and Clara Cox McCoy of Fairhope, AL.The family would like to thank the Memory Care Unit of Rowlett Health and Rehab, Rowlett, Texas, for the excellent care given to Barbara during her last years. Barbara’s life will be celebrated in a private ceremony where her family will gather to honor her memory and the indelible mark she left on their hearts. She will be deeply missed, but the memories of her vibrant spirit will continue to bring comfort and smiles to those who were fortunate enough to have been a part of her life.Online condolences can be made at www.praterlampton.comFuneral arrangements were trusted to Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home, 216 Jackson, Hugo, OK 74743, (580) 326-6464.
Barbara Jo Bohan, affectionally known to her family as Sue, passed away peacefully on New Year’s Day, 2024, and gained a new body and mind after a four-year battle with dementia and cancer.
Barbara was born on April 11, 1942, in Hugo, Oklahoma, to Melba Weems (Helton) Hernandez and Raymond Helton, and her life was marked by her infectious laughter, keen intelligence, and an indomitable spirit.
Raised primarily by a single mother, Barbara grew up in and around Hugo, where she gained the first star in her crown by helping to raise her younger brother Gene Holmes. When Gene and their mother moved to Dallas during Barbara’s senior year in high school, this independent-minded young woman stayed in Hugo supporting herself with a job at a local dentist office.
After high school, Barbara gained an associate degree in business and worked in the Dallas area for a time. There she met and married John Lawrence Bohan, the love of her life. Together, they moved to Cupertino, California, where Barbara found work, honing skills she already had that took her to the top job possible for a woman in the tech industry in Silicone Valley during the 1970s. As an executive secretary to the GM of the CCD Group including Lockheed Martin and Fairchild Semiconductor Divisions, to name a few, Barbara had power to make astute decisions and run things efficiently for these defense contractors, skills she continued to use throughout her life.
Outside of her professional endeavors, Barbara was known for her love of dressing up in her finest attire, complete with impeccable makeup, and enjoying the company of her family and friends. Her presence was a bright light at social gatherings, where her humor and intelligence shone through in every conversation. While in California, Barbara and John’s life was filled with entertaining friends at clam bakes on the beach, hosting costume parties, and traveling, which of course included regular trips back to Dallas to visit family.
Widowed while still in her 40’s, Barbara retired after a few years and moved back to Mesquite, Texas, to be near her mother in Dallas. For the next two decades, the two women shared their lives enjoying their passions for cats, fashion, beautiful china, and holiday celebrations. Barbara also had two dogs that offered her love and companionship for many years.
In the early 2000s, Barbara used her organizational and management skills once again to see her mother through a bout with cancer. Also from 2008-2011, she oversaw the care of one of her favorite aunts Winola Hamilton, who was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease.
Barbara is preceded in death by her mother Melba Hernandez, her husband John Bohan, her step-father Harvey Holmes, and many beloved aunts. She leaves behind her brother Gene Holmes (Polly) of Round Rock, Texas; her niece Ashli Holmes Poly (Frederic), two great-nephews Nate Poly (age 12) and Theo Poly (age 5), all of Olney, MD; and beloved cousins, especially Cathy Feco Meister (Tuck) of Seagonville, Texas, and Clara Cox McCoy of Fairhope, AL.
The family would like to thank the Memory Care Unit of Rowlett Health and Rehab, Rowlett, Texas, for the excellent care given to Barbara during her last years.
Barbara’s life will be celebrated in a private ceremony where her family will gather to honor her memory and the indelible mark she left on their hearts. She will be deeply missed, but the memories of her vibrant spirit will continue to bring comfort and smiles to those who were fortunate enough to have been a part of her life. Online condolences can be made at www.praterlampton.com
Funeral arrangements were trusted to Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home, 216 Jackson, Hugo, OK 74743, (580) 326-6464.
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Carolyn Hurdle - January 12, 1962 - December 27, 2023

Departed: 12/27/2023 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Carolyn Hurdle (Arnold), a spirited and friendly soul who led an interesting life, passed away peacefully on December 27, 2023, in her hometown of Dallas, Texas. Born on January 12, 1962, to Clay and Johnny (Carroll) Arnold, Carolyn's vibrant spirit and warm heart touched all who knew her.Carolyn's life was marked by her dedication to her family and her career. As a Leasing Consultant, she brought joy and comfort to many through her work at various apartment complexes, where her engaging personality and genuine care for others shone brightly. Her colleagues and clients alike will remember her as someone who could always be counted on to go the extra mile.She leaves behind a legacy of love and cherished memories with her beloved parents; her three children, Heather Holland of Lubbock, TX, John Holland of Dallas, TX, and Jennifer Nerio, along with her husband Nino, of Denham Springs, LA. Carolyn's joy was multiplied by her grandchildren Cameron, Londyn, Clara, Livie, and Ellie Nerio, all of whom brought immense happiness to her life.Carolyn's memory will also be treasured by her brother, Johnathan Arnold and his wife Kayla of Dallas, TX, and her sister, Cynthia Russell of Kevil, KY. Her extended family of many nieces and nephews will continue to honor her spirit by living out the values she embodied.While her brother, Kenneth Arnold, preceded her in death, the stories and laughter they shared will continue to resonate with those who were fortunate enough to witness their bond.Carolyn's life was a testament to the power of kindness and the enduring strength of familial bonds. Her legacy will live on in the hearts of all who loved her.
Carolyn Hurdle (Arnold), a spirited and friendly soul who led an interesting life, passed away peacefully on December 27, 2023, in her hometown of Dallas, Texas. Born on January 12, 1962, to Clay and Johnny (Carroll) Arnold, Carolyn's vibrant spirit and warm heart touched all who knew her.
Carolyn's life was marked by her dedication to her family and her career. As a Leasing Consultant, she brought joy and comfort to many through her work at various apartment complexes, where her engaging personality and genuine care for others shone brightly. Her colleagues and clients alike will remember her as someone who could always be counted on to go the extra mile.
She leaves behind a legacy of love and cherished memories with her beloved parents; her three children, Heather Holland of Lubbock, TX, John Holland of Dallas, TX, and Jennifer Nerio, along with her husband Nino, of Denham Springs, LA. Carolyn's joy was multiplied by her grandchildren Cameron, Londyn, Clara, Livie, and Ellie Nerio, all of whom brought immense happiness to her life.
Carolyn's memory will also be treasured by her brother, Johnathan Arnold and his wife Kayla of Dallas, TX, and her sister, Cynthia Russell of Kevil, KY. Her extended family of many nieces and nephews will continue to honor her spirit by living out the values she embodied.
While her brother, Kenneth Arnold, preceded her in death, the stories and laughter they shared will continue to resonate with those who were fortunate enough to witness their bond.
Carolyn's life was a testament to the power of kindness and the enduring strength of familial bonds. Her legacy will live on in the hearts of all who loved her.
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Frankie Joe Hurlburt - November 27, 1945 - December 24, 2023

Departed: 12/24/2023 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Frankie Joe Hurlburt, known affectionately to all as Joe or PA, embarked on his final adventure on December 24, 2023, at the age of 78. Born on November 27, 1945, in the quaint town of Honey Grove, Texas, Joe's life was a tapestry woven with laughter, love, and the kind of mischief that leaves a lasting smile. He took his last breath in Hugo, Oklahoma, after a valiant dance with dementia and lung disease, but not before he had left an indelible mark on the hearts of all who knew him.Joe's journey through life was shared with his faithful wife, Pauline Hurlburt, for over 57 years—a testament to enduring love and the occasional need for earplugs, as Joe was known for his playful banter. Together, they raised two daughters, Mona Lynia Earthman (and husband Mike) of Spencerville, OK, and Charlotte Meyer (and husband Travis) of Purcell, OK. Joe's legacy continued to blossom with two grandchildren, Nicole Hill (and husband Buck) of Antlers, OK, and Colby Earthman of Spencerville, OK, and was further enriched by the arrival of two AWESOME great-grandsons, Haze & Hank Hill of Antlers, OK.Joe was a man who wore many hats—though none as proudly as that of a family man. He was preceded in death by his dear parents, Lonzo Loyd and Jewel Francis (Sharp) Hurlburt, who undoubtedly instilled in him the values of hard work and humor. A proud graduate from high school, Joe served in the Army National Guard at 18, an experience that honed his discipline and his ability to sleep anywhere, anytime. He then channeled his strong work ethic into a career as a carpenter, building homes and, occasionally, the odd birdhouse or seventeen, as the whims of his family dictated.Joe's hands were rarely still, as he was a master craftsman in woodwork and carpentry. If he wasn't building, he was fishing, his red Dodge faithfully towing his boat to the nearest lake for a day of peace, quiet, and the occasional fish tale that "you wouldn't believe." His love for camping, traveling, and sightseeing was only surpassed by his devotion to his family. Joe was the patriarch of the family cookouts and the commander of holiday cheer, always the last to let go during a hug and the first to suggest a game that would have everyone in stitches.Those who knew Joe understood that his teasing was a language of love. As a true comedian at heart, he lived by the words of the great Robin Williams: "You're only given a little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it." Joe indeed never lost his spark, fanning it into a flame that warmed all around him. He was an aggravator, a jester, and the life of the party—a man who could find humor in the smallest of things and taught us all to do the same.Joe's absence leaves a void that can never be filled, for he was loving, adventurous, and funny—a trio of traits that made him the unforgettable soul he was. His family's lives will forever be touched by his presence and now, by his absence. They will miss his laughter, his impromptu dance moves in the living room, and the way he could light up a room with just a wink and a grin.In the words of another beloved humorist, Mark Twain, "The secret of getting ahead is getting started." And so, as we bid farewell to Frankie Joe Hurlburt, let us take comfort in knowing that he's gotten ahead to wherever the next party is, probably already telling the angels how to improve their harp-playing technique with a well-placed joke. Joe, you were one of a kind, and you will be deeply missed.Online condolences can be made at praterlampton.com. Funeral arrangements were trusted to Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home, 216 E Jackson Hugo, OK 74743, (580) 326-6464.
Frankie Joe Hurlburt, known affectionately to all as Joe or PA, embarked on his final adventure on December 24, 2023, at the age of 78. Born on November 27, 1945, in the quaint town of Honey Grove, Texas, Joe's life was a tapestry woven with laughter, love, and the kind of mischief that leaves a lasting smile. He took his last breath in Hugo, Oklahoma, after a valiant dance with dementia and lung disease, but not before he had left an indelible mark on the hearts of all who knew him.
Joe's journey through life was shared with his faithful wife, Pauline Hurlburt, for over 57 years—a testament to enduring love and the occasional need for earplugs, as Joe was known for his playful banter. Together, they raised two daughters, Mona Lynia Earthman (and husband Mike) of Spencerville, OK, and Charlotte Meyer (and husband Travis) of Purcell, OK. Joe's legacy continued to blossom with two grandchildren, Nicole Hill (and husband Buck) of Antlers, OK, and Colby Earthman of Spencerville, OK, and was further enriched by the arrival of two AWESOME great-grandsons, Haze & Hank Hill of Antlers, OK.
Joe was a man who wore many hats—though none as proudly as that of a family man. He was preceded in death by his dear parents, Lonzo Loyd and Jewel Francis (Sharp) Hurlburt, who undoubtedly instilled in him the values of hard work and humor. A proud graduate from high school, Joe served in the Army National Guard at 18, an experience that honed his discipline and his ability to sleep anywhere, anytime. He then channeled his strong work ethic into a career as a carpenter, building homes and, occasionally, the odd birdhouse or seventeen, as the whims of his family dictated.
Joe's hands were rarely still, as he was a master craftsman in woodwork and carpentry. If he wasn't building, he was fishing, his red Dodge faithfully towing his boat to the nearest lake for a day of peace, quiet, and the occasional fish tale that "you wouldn't believe." His love for camping, traveling, and sightseeing was only surpassed by his devotion to his family. Joe was the patriarch of the family cookouts and the commander of holiday cheer, always the last to let go during a hug and the first to suggest a game that would have everyone in stitches.
Those who knew Joe understood that his teasing was a language of love. As a true comedian at heart, he lived by the words of the great Robin Williams: "You're only given a little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it." Joe indeed never lost his spark, fanning it into a flame that warmed all around him. He was an aggravator, a jester, and the life of the party—a man who could find humor in the smallest of things and taught us all to do the same.
Joe's absence leaves a void that can never be filled, for he was loving, adventurous, and funny—a trio of traits that made him the unforgettable soul he was. His family's lives will forever be touched by his presence and now, by his absence. They will miss his laughter, his impromptu dance moves in the living room, and the way he could light up a room with just a wink and a grin.
In the words of another beloved humorist, Mark Twain, "The secret of getting ahead is getting started." And so, as we bid farewell to Frankie Joe Hurlburt, let us take comfort in knowing that he's gotten ahead to wherever the next party is, probably already telling the angels how to improve their harp-playing technique with a well-placed joke. Joe, you were one of a kind, and you will be deeply missed.
Online condolences can be made at praterlampton.com. Funeral arrangements were trusted to Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home, 216 E Jackson Hugo, OK 74743, (580) 326-6464.
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Ted Eugene Doane - October 20, 1949 - December 14, 2023

Departed: 12/14/2023 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Ted Eugene Doane, affectionately known as "Teddy", passed away peacefully at home on Thursday, December 14, 2023. He was born on October 20, 1949, in Hot Springs, Arkansas, to Albert B. "Sarge" Doane and Wanda O. Poynor Doane. He graduated from Hugo High School in 1968 and had lived in Hugo most of his life.Ted is survived by his loving wife, Sammie Doane of the home; his son, Michael Doane and wife, Heather of Owasso, Oklahoma; his brother, Larry Doane; sisters, Susan Doane Payne, Robin Doane Cochran, and Holly Doane Martino.Ted was an avid golfer and a member of the Idabel Country club where he enjoyed playing with his senior friends.No services at this time as the family will have a private celebration of life.
Ted Eugene Doane, affectionately known as "Teddy", passed away peacefully at home on Thursday, December 14, 2023. He was born on October 20, 1949, in Hot Springs, Arkansas, to Albert B. "Sarge" Doane and Wanda O. Poynor Doane. He graduated from Hugo High School in 1968 and had lived in Hugo most of his life.
Ted is survived by his loving wife, Sammie Doane of the home; his son, Michael Doane and wife, Heather of Owasso, Oklahoma; his brother, Larry Doane; sisters, Susan Doane Payne, Robin Doane Cochran, and Holly Doane Martino.
Ted was an avid golfer and a member of the Idabel Country club where he enjoyed playing with his senior friends.
No services at this time as the family will have a private celebration of life.
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Nancy Ann Lemmond - July 02, 1940 - December 11, 2023

Departed: 12/11/2023 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Nancy Ann Lemmond, 83, of Hugo Oklahoma, passed away on December 11, 2023, in Owasso, Oklahoma with her family surrounding her.Nancy, also known as “Nana” or “The Nana” was born on July 2, 1940, to Loval and Esther Blain in Jayton, Texas. Nancy graduated from Borger High School and married the love of her life, Delbert Lemmond, on May 10, 1958. They went on to have two children, Dale and Kay.Nancy, also known as “Nana” or “The Nana” loved to sew in her earlier years but became passionate about painting and traveling with her bowling team. Nancy also loved playing the piano and organ. Many will remember her as the organist at Clayton Ave. Baptist Church.Nancy worked at Southwestern Bell Co. as a switch board traffic telephone operator until they closed the Hugo office. She had a few jobs in between, but retired from Campbell Soup Company where she was a “filling machine operator.”Nana loved her family with her whole heart, her grandkids and great grandkids were the sparkle in her eyes. Nana was loved by many and had a heart of gold.Nancy also loved her church family and has been known to “pester” a handful of members, you know who you are, and she loved you deeply.Nancy is proceeded in death by her husband of 47 years, Delbert Lemmond, her parents Loval and Esther Blain, two brothers Danny and Kenneth Blain and a granddaughter Monica Guevara.Nana is survived by: Dale and wife Donna Lemmond of Claremore, Oklahoma and Kay and husband Benny Haggard of Cypress, Texas.Grandkids: Matthew and wife Britney of Memphis, TN; Rachel and husband Bryan Almy of Pryor, OK. Erin and Dan Eldredge of Cranston, RI. Stephanie Freelen of Cypress, TX.; Sara and husband José Muñoz of Palestine, TX. and Bryan Haggard of Cypress, TX; Great grandchildren: Mackinze, Mason, and Tyler Almy, Tyler and Natalie Hall, and Daniel Torrence.Nancy also leaves behind many cousins that impacted her whole life, nieces and nephews.Visitation Services will be held on Thursday, December 14, 2023, from 5:30 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home in Hugo, Ok.Services will be held at Clayton Ave. Baptist Church on December 15, 2023, at 11:00 a.m. Burial services will be held at Mt. Olivet Cemetery following services.
Nancy Ann Lemmond, 83, of Hugo Oklahoma, passed away on December 11, 2023, in Owasso, Oklahoma with her family surrounding her.
Nancy, also known as “Nana” or “The Nana” was born on July 2, 1940, to Loval and Esther Blain in Jayton, Texas. Nancy graduated from Borger High School and married the love of her life, Delbert Lemmond, on May 10, 1958. They went on to have two children, Dale and Kay.
Nancy, also known as “Nana” or “The Nana” loved to sew in her earlier years but became passionate about painting and traveling with her bowling team. Nancy also loved playing the piano and organ. Many will remember her as the organist at Clayton Ave. Baptist Church. Nancy worked at Southwestern Bell Co. as a switch board traffic telephone operator until they closed the Hugo office. She had a few jobs in between, but retired from Campbell Soup Company where she was a “filling machine operator.”
Nana loved her family with her whole heart, her grandkids and great grandkids were the sparkle in her eyes. Nana was loved by many and had a heart of gold.
Nancy also loved her church family and has been known to “pester” a handful of members, you know who you are, and she loved you deeply.
Nancy is proceeded in death by her husband of 47 years, Delbert Lemmond, her parents Loval and Esther Blain, two brothers Danny and Kenneth Blain and a granddaughter Monica Guevara.
Nana is survived by: Dale and wife Donna Lemmond of Claremore, Oklahoma and Kay and husband Benny Haggard of Cypress, Texas.
Grandkids: Matthew and wife Britney of Memphis, TN; Rachel and husband Bryan Almy of Pryor, OK. Erin and Dan Eldredge of Cranston, RI. Stephanie Freelen of Cypress, TX.; Sara and husband José Muñoz of Palestine, TX. and Bryan Haggard of Cypress, TX; Great grandchildren: Mackinze, Mason, and Tyler Almy, Tyler and Natalie Hall, and Daniel Torrence.
Nancy also leaves behind many cousins that impacted her whole life, nieces and nephews.
Visitation Services will be held on Thursday, December 14, 2023, from 5:30 p.m. – 7:00 p.m. at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home in Hugo, Ok.
Services will be held at Clayton Ave. Baptist Church on December 15, 2023, at 11:00 a.m. Burial services will be held at Mt. Olivet Cemetery following services.
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Jane Elizabeth Burgess - September 23, 1947 - November 14, 2023

Departed: 11/14/2023 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Jane Elizabeth Burgess passed away peacefully surrounded by the love of her family on November 14, 2023, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. She was born on September 23rd, 1947, in Sentinel, Oklahoma to Hershell Hargrove and Helen Hargrove. On April 26th, 1968, Jane united in marriage with the love of her life, Don Burgess, in a ceremony in Oklahoma City, OK that marked the beginning of a lifelong partnership filled with love, laughter, and shared dreams. Jane dedicated many years of her life working by Don's side at Burgess & Burgess CPA in Hugo, Oklahoma. Jane loved her job because she loved her clients and coworkers like family. When not at work, Jane enjoyed watching Hallmark movies, sewing, catching up on Facebook, snuggling with her dogs, and cheering on the Sooners. Above all else she enjoyed being “Granny Jane” to her grands. She has a plethora of friends and family that she adored, she even managed to share that same love with her “aggie” friends, just maybe don’t call on Bedlam. Jane always said she was forever blessed by her friendship with Lois Wells, her best friend of 73 years. She has left an everlasting impact on those who were around her, and was her stubborn, witty, and selfless self until the very end.She is survived by her daughter, Brandi L. Payne and son-in-law Will Payne of Hugo, OK; daughter, Kelli Burgess of Oklahoma City, OK; stepson, Kirk Burgess and daughter-in-law Sandra Burgess of Royse City, Texas; grandchildren, Rylee Rocha, Conner Burgess, Jarred Payne-Queen, McKinley Payne, Cameron Burgess, Halli Holmes, Ashlyn Burgess, Hayes Payne, as well as Jose Rocha and Nathaneal Smith; brother, John Hargrove. She was preceded in death by her parents, Herschell and Helen Hargrove, Husband Donald and her sister, Ginger Shull.Services to celebrate Jane's life will be held at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home in Hugo on Saturday at 1:30 pm. Following the service, she will be laid to rest at Hall Cemetery. The family will receive friends Friday night from 5pm-6:30 pm at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home.
Jane Elizabeth Burgess passed away peacefully surrounded by the love of her family on November 14, 2023, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. She was born on September 23rd, 1947, in Sentinel, Oklahoma to Hershell Hargrove and Helen Hargrove. On April 26th, 1968, Jane united in marriage with the love of her life, Don Burgess, in a ceremony in Oklahoma City, OK that marked the beginning of a lifelong partnership filled with love, laughter, and shared dreams. Jane dedicated many years of her life working by Don's side at Burgess & Burgess CPA in Hugo, Oklahoma. Jane loved her job because she loved her clients and coworkers like family. When not at work, Jane enjoyed watching Hallmark movies, sewing, catching up on Facebook, snuggling with her dogs, and cheering on the Sooners. Above all else she enjoyed being “Granny Jane” to her grands. She has a plethora of friends and family that she adored, she even managed to share that same love with her “aggie” friends, just maybe don’t call on Bedlam. Jane always said she was forever blessed by her friendship with Lois Wells, her best friend of 73 years. She has left an everlasting impact on those who were around her, and was her stubborn, witty, and selfless self until the very end.
She is survived by her daughter, Brandi L. Payne and son-in-law Will Payne of Hugo, OK; daughter, Kelli Burgess of Oklahoma City, OK; stepson, Kirk Burgess and daughter-in-law Sandra Burgess of Royse City, Texas; grandchildren, Rylee Rocha, Conner Burgess, Jarred Payne-Queen, McKinley Payne, Cameron Burgess, Halli Holmes, Ashlyn Burgess, Hayes Payne, as well as Jose Rocha and Nathaneal Smith; brother, John Hargrove. She was preceded in death by her parents, Herschell and Helen Hargrove, Husband Donald and her sister, Ginger Shull.
Services to celebrate Jane's life will be held at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home in Hugo on Saturday at 1:30 pm. Following the service, she will be laid to rest at Hall Cemetery. The family will receive friends Friday night from 5pm-6:30 pm at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home.
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Margaret Cowley - November 15, 1931 - November 02, 2023

Departed: 11/02/2023 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: Margaret Campbell Cowley, a beloved matriarch, was born on November 15, 1931, in Canyon, Texas, to Sherman Campbell and Norene Gray Campbell. Her life was a tapestry of love, family, cherished moments, and a strong sense of community.Margaret's journey began in the picturesque town of Hugo, Oklahoma, where she received her education and, most importantly, encountered the love of her life, Mack Cowley. Their beautiful love story culminated in a joyous union on September 2, 1950, in DeQueen, Arkansas, and together, they nurtured a family of four children.In the late 1950s, Margaret and Mack embarked on a new chapter, moving to Dallas, Texas, where she worked for many years at Nortel before finding their well-deserved retirement in Anna, Texas.Margaret was not only a dedicated wife and mother but also a cherished member of the Kings Trail Cowboy Church in Whitewright, Texas. Her faith and involvement in the church community were a cornerstone of her life, providing her with a sense of purpose and connection.Margaret, affectionately known as "Memaw" by everyone who had the privilege of knowing her, had a zest for life. She was known for her passion for shopping, treasure-hunting in thrift stores, and the occasional visit to the casino. Her warm and welcoming personality endeared her to everyone she met, and she never knew a stranger. Her great spark of humor added a contagious brightness to any room she entered, and her spontaneous bursts of twist-style dancing brought joy to those lucky enough to witness it.She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Mack Cowley, and her parents, Sherman and Norene Campbell. In addition, Margaret is reunited with her 2 brothers and 5 sisters in the great host of Heaven's witnesses.Margaret is survived by her devoted family, including her son, Johnny Cowley of Anna, Texas, and her grandsons, Jeffrey and Jason Cowley. Her daughter, Yvonne Stovall, and her husband, Rodney, of Mineola, Texas, cherish her memory alongside their grandson, Ronald Boling, and granddaughter, Holly Spindle. Daughter Teresa Morott and her husband Mickey of Princeton, Texas, celebrate her legacy with their grandsons, Jamie and Ryan Morott. Daughter Kristi Pyatt and her husband Curtis of Midlothian, Texas, keep her spirit alive with granddaughters Megan Hardage and Alysha Flowers. Margaret's legacy continues through her 20 great-grandchildren and 10 great-great-grandchildren. She leaves behind her lifelong friend and sister-in-law, Mary Walker, and a host of nieces and nephews who will forever hold "Memaw" in their hearts.Margaret Cowley's life was a testament to the enduring power of love, family, faith, and the joy of embracing life's simple pleasures. Her warm and welcoming spirit, humor, and spontaneous dance moves will be remembered and cherished by all who were fortunate enough to know "Memaw." She has left an indelible mark on the hearts of her loved ones, and her memory will forever shine brightly in the tapestry of their lives.
Margaret Campbell Cowley, a beloved matriarch, was born on November 15, 1931, in Canyon, Texas, to Sherman Campbell and Norene Gray Campbell. Her life was a tapestry of love, family, cherished moments, and a strong sense of community.
Margaret's journey began in the picturesque town of Hugo, Oklahoma, where she received her education and, most importantly, encountered the love of her life, Mack Cowley. Their beautiful love story culminated in a joyous union on September 2, 1950, in DeQueen, Arkansas, and together, they nurtured a family of four children.
In the late 1950s, Margaret and Mack embarked on a new chapter, moving to Dallas, Texas, where she worked for many years at Nortel before finding their well-deserved retirement in Anna, Texas.
Margaret was not only a dedicated wife and mother but also a cherished member of the Kings Trail Cowboy Church in Whitewright, Texas. Her faith and involvement in the church community were a cornerstone of her life, providing her with a sense of purpose and connection.
Margaret, affectionately known as "Memaw" by everyone who had the privilege of knowing her, had a zest for life. She was known for her passion for shopping, treasure-hunting in thrift stores, and the occasional visit to the casino. Her warm and welcoming personality endeared her to everyone she met, and she never knew a stranger. Her great spark of humor added a contagious brightness to any room she entered, and her spontaneous bursts of twist-style dancing brought joy to those lucky enough to witness it.
She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Mack Cowley, and her parents, Sherman and Norene Campbell. In addition, Margaret is reunited with her 2 brothers and 5 sisters in the great host of Heaven's witnesses.
Margaret is survived by her devoted family, including her son, Johnny Cowley of Anna, Texas, and her grandsons, Jeffrey and Jason Cowley. Her daughter, Yvonne Stovall, and her husband, Rodney, of Mineola, Texas, cherish her memory alongside their grandson, Ronald Boling, and granddaughter, Holly Spindle. Daughter Teresa Morott and her husband Mickey of Princeton, Texas, celebrate her legacy with their grandsons, Jamie and Ryan Morott. Daughter Kristi Pyatt and her husband Curtis of Midlothian, Texas, keep her spirit alive with granddaughters Megan Hardage and Alysha Flowers. Margaret's legacy continues through her 20 great-grandchildren and 10 great-great-grandchildren. She leaves behind her lifelong friend and sister-in-law, Mary Walker, and a host of nieces and nephews who will forever hold "Memaw" in their hearts.
Margaret Cowley's life was a testament to the enduring power of love, family, faith, and the joy of embracing life's simple pleasures. Her warm and welcoming spirit, humor, and spontaneous dance moves will be remembered and cherished by all who were fortunate enough to know "Memaw." She has left an indelible mark on the hearts of her loved ones, and her memory will forever shine brightly in the tapestry of their lives.
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Warren Custer - August 15, 1928 - October 30, 2023

Departed: 10/30/2023 (Hugo)
Obituary Preview: David Warren Custer (August 15, 1928 – October 30, 2023)Tough, tender, loving are apt descriptors for Warren Custer, 95, of Hugo, Oklahoma who passed in his home surrounded by family.Warren was born at the family home in Grainola, Oklahoma in 1928 to George Lebeous and Glenn Dorah Custer. He was the youngest of 10 children. As the youngest child, he stayed home and took care of the family and the farm while three of his brothers served in World War II. He loved calf roping, coyote hunting, and riding motorcycles, which attributed to his right leg being broken multiple times. Warren graduated from Grainola High School in 1946. He was an avid basketball player and loved poetry.Warren met the love of his life, Marilyn Jane, in 1956 in Wilcox, Arizona. It was love at first sight. They met only three times but corresponded through numerous love letters. After a brief long-distance relationship between Oklahoma and Arizona, they were married on May 19, 1957, in Tucson, Arizona.Warren and Marilyn started their married life in Shidler, Oklahoma in an upstairs apartment over a five-car garage. They moved to Dexter, Kansas where they raised their five children until 1972. While visiting southeastern Oklahoma, his close friend Ray Tucker told him of a ranch for sale south of Hugo on the Red River. After ranching for nine years, he purchased another property north of Hugo and built the home where they live now. Warren and Marilyn have had a ranching operation their entire lives.He was a devout member of the First Christian Church. While in Kansas, he served on the Dexter School Board. He was a member of the Masonic Lodge for many years in Kansas and Oklahoma. He was a founding board member of the Red River Co-Op and served on the Choctaw County Memorial Hospital Board. He was very active in the Choctaw County Livestock Board, especially in the years his children were involved in 4-H and FFA.Warren will always be remembered using a tractor as a bulldozer and a high lift jack as a multi-purpose, which were likely not for its original purpose. We’ll always imagine hearing him say “That’s no step for a stepper” or “suits the hell out me.” And his favorite saying, especially during trying times, was “Illegitimi non carborundum.” We couldn’t have asked for a better role model and will miss him every day. His memory and legacy of love will live on in the hearts of so many. He made every child and grandchild feel like they were the favorite and special. He loved to teach. Everything was always a lesson.Warren was preceded in death by his father, Leb and mother, Glenn; brothers Orville and Jack died in infancy, Harley, Oral, Morris, and G.L.; sisters Laura Harris, Naomi Maze, and Ruby Williams; and a son Tod Edwin Custer who died at infancy.He is survived by his wife, Marilyn, of the home; two daughters: Jane Tucker of Finley, Oklahoma and Gayle Donica of Dickson, Oklahoma; three sons: Aaron Custer of Dickson, Oklahoma, Clay Custer of Clearwater, Florida, and Joe Custer of Kenefic, Oklahoma. He is also survived by 13 grandchildren, seven great-grandchildren, and a host of other relatives and great friends.The family will receive friends on Thursday evening from 6:00-7:00 pm in the Prater-Lampton Memory Chapel, Hugo, Oklahoma on November 2, 2023. Services will be held at the First Christian Church, Hugo, Oklahoma at 10:00 a.m. on Friday, November 3.Graveside services will be held at Cedar Creek Cemetery in Cedar Vale, Kansas on Saturday, November 4 at 10:30 a.m.Memorial gifts in lieu of flowers may be made to:Grainola United Methodist Church, 161 E. Main Street, Grainola, Oklahoma 74652Cedar Creek Cemetery, 34550 242nd Road, Cedar Vale, KS 67024. David Warren Custer (August 15, 1928 – October 30, 2023)
Tough, tender, loving are apt descriptors for Warren Custer, 95, of Hugo, Oklahoma who passed in his home surrounded by family.
Warren was born at the family home in Grainola, Oklahoma in 1928 to George Lebeous and Glenn Dorah Custer. He was the youngest of 10 children. As the youngest child, he stayed home and took care of the family and the farm while three of his brothers served in World War II. He loved calf roping, coyote hunting, and riding motorcycles, which attributed to his right leg being broken multiple times. Warren graduated from Grainola High School in 1946. He was an avid basketball player and loved poetry.
Warren met the love of his life, Marilyn Jane, in 1956 in Wilcox, Arizona. It was love at first sight. They met only three times but corresponded through numerous love letters. After a brief long-distance relationship between Oklahoma and Arizona, they were married on May 19, 1957, in Tucson, Arizona.
Warren and Marilyn started their married life in Shidler, Oklahoma in an upstairs apartment over a five-car garage. They moved to Dexter, Kansas where they raised their five children until 1972. While visiting southeastern Oklahoma, his close friend Ray Tucker told him of a ranch for sale south of Hugo on the Red River. After ranching for nine years, he purchased another property north of Hugo and built the home where they live now. Warren and Marilyn have had a ranching operation their entire lives.
He was a devout member of the First Christian Church. While in Kansas, he served on the Dexter School Board. He was a member of the Masonic Lodge for many years in Kansas and Oklahoma. He was a founding board member of the Red River Co-Op and served on the Choctaw County Memorial Hospital Board. He was very active in the Choctaw County Livestock Board, especially in the years his children were involved in 4-H and FFA.
Warren will always be remembered using a tractor as a bulldozer and a high lift jack as a multi-purpose, which were likely not for its original purpose. We’ll always imagine hearing him say “That’s no step for a stepper” or “suits the hell out me.” And his favorite saying, especially during trying times, was “Illegitimi non carborundum.” We couldn’t have asked for a better role model and will miss him every day. His memory and legacy of love will live on in the hearts of so many. He made every child and grandchild feel like they were the favorite and special. He loved to teach. Everything was always a lesson.
Warren was preceded in death by his father, Leb and mother, Glenn; brothers Orville and Jack died in infancy, Harley, Oral, Morris, and G.L.; sisters Laura Harris, Naomi Maze, and Ruby Williams; and a son Tod Edwin Custer who died at infancy.
He is survived by his wife, Marilyn, of the home; two daughters: Jane Tucker of Finley, Oklahoma and Gayle Donica of Dickson, Oklahoma; three sons: Aaron Custer of Dickson, Oklahoma, Clay Custer of Clearwater, Florida, and Joe Custer of Kenefic, Oklahoma. He is also survived by 13 grandchildren, seven great-grandchildren, and a host of other relatives and great friends.
The family will receive friends on Thursday evening from 6:00-7:00 pm in the Prater-Lampton Memory Chapel, Hugo, Oklahoma on November 2, 2023. Services will be held at the First Christian Church, Hugo, Oklahoma at 10:00 a.m. on Friday, November 3.
Graveside services will be held at Cedar Creek Cemetery in Cedar Vale, Kansas on Saturday, November 4 at 10:30 a.m. Memorial gifts in lieu of flowers may be made to: Grainola United Methodist Church, 161 E. Main Street, Grainola, Oklahoma 74652
Cedar Creek Cemetery, 34550 242nd Road, Cedar Vale, KS 67024.
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For those who prefer cremation, Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home offers a range of options to suit your needs. From direct cremation to cremation with a memorial service, their team will guide you through the process and help you make informed decisions about how to honor your loved one. They also offer a selection of urns and other cremation-related merchandise to help you memorialize your loved one.

Pre-Planning: A Gift to Your Loved Ones

One of the most selfless acts you can perform is to plan ahead for your own funeral or memorial service. By doing so, you'll spare your loved ones from having to make difficult decisions during an already emotional time. The team at Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home can help you pre-plan every aspect of your service, from selecting merchandise to choosing music and readings. This thoughtful gesture will bring peace of mind to both you and your loved ones.

A Commitment to Community

Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the Hugo community and is committed to giving back in meaningful ways. Through their involvement in local organizations and charities, they demonstrate their dedication to making a positive impact on the lives of those around them. By choosing this funeral home, you're not only receiving exceptional service but also supporting a business that cares deeply about its community.

Contact Information

If you're looking for a trusted partner in funeral planning, look no further than Prater-Lampton-Mills & Coffey Funeral Home. Located at 216 E. Jackson in Hugo, Oklahoma 74743, they're easily accessible and ready to serve you. You can reach them by phone at [phone number] or visit their website at [website URL]. Don't hesitate to contact them for more information or to schedule a consultation with one of their caring professionals.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, achievements, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a permanent record of a person's life and legacy.

Who typically writes an obituary?

Obituaries are often written by family members or close friends of the deceased, but they can also be written by funeral homes or professional obituary writers.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include details about their life story, accomplishments, and charitable donations.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform, but it's typically between 100-500 words. Longer obituaries may be more suitable for online platforms or memorial websites.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the most basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Where are obituaries typically published?

Obituaries are often published in local newspapers, online obituary platforms, funeral home websites, and social media. They may also be shared through email or printed on memorial cards.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers and online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge per word or line.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, many people choose to write their own obituary in advance, allowing them to have control over how they want to be remembered. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and accomplishments.

What is the purpose of an obituary photo?

An obituary photo serves as a visual representation of the person being honored, providing a personal touch and helping readers connect with the deceased.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be an effective way to celebrate a person's personality and spirit. However, it's essential to ensure that the tone remains respectful and tasteful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment (if required).

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's difficult to make changes to an obituary once it's been published. However, some online platforms may allow for corrections or updates.

What is the role of an obituary in the grieving process?

An obituary can serve as a therapeutic outlet for those grieving, allowing them to process their emotions and celebrate the life of their loved one.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes! Quotes or poems can add a personal touch to an obituary and provide comfort to those reading it. Choose something that resonates with the person's personality or spirit.

How long after death should an obituary be published?

The timing of publishing an obituary varies depending on cultural and personal preferences. Typically, it's published within a few days to a week after the person's passing.

Can I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes! Including charitable donations in an obituary can be a meaningful way to honor the person's memory and support a cause they cared about.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

A eulogy is a spoken tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service, while an obituary is a written notice announcing the person's passing.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has passed away recently?

If you're struggling to come up with ideas or need help writing an obituary for someone who has recently passed away, consider reaching out to friends, family members, or a professional writer for assistance.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers, genealogy websites, or visit your local library or historical society to access old obituaries.

Can I create an online memorial for my loved one?

Yes! Online memorials allow you to share memories, photos, and stories about your loved one with others. You can create one on social media platforms or dedicated memorial websites.

What is the significance of including surviving family members in an obituary?

Including surviving family members in an obituary acknowledges their loss and provides a sense of connection for those reading it. It also helps others know who to offer condolences to.

Can I include pets in an obituary?

Absolutely! Pets are often considered part of the family, and including them in an obituary can be a touching tribute to their importance in the person's life.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an already-published obituary?

Contact the publication or platform where the obituary was published as soon as possible to report any errors or inaccuracies. They may be able to correct or update the information.

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About Jeffery Isleworth

Jeffery Isleworth is an experienced eulogy and funeral speech writer who has dedicated his career to helping people honor their loved ones in a meaningful way. With a background in writing and public speaking, Jeffery has a keen eye for detail and a talent for crafting heartfelt and authentic tributes that capture the essence of a person's life. Jeffery's passion for writing eulogies and funeral speeches stems from his belief that everyone deserves to be remembered with dignity and respect. He understands that this can be a challenging time for families and friends, and he strives to make the process as smooth and stress-free as possible. Over the years, Jeffery has helped countless families create beautiful and memorable eulogies and funeral speeches. His clients appreciate his warm and empathetic approach, as well as his ability to capture the essence of their loved one's personality and life story. When he's not writing eulogies and funeral speeches, Jeffery enjoys spending time with his family, reading, and traveling. He believes that life is precious and should be celebrated, and he feels honored to help families do just that through his writing.