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Shelby Jay Vance - September 10, 1979 - November 01, 2023

Departed: 11/01/2023 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Shelby Jay Vance, 44, passed away on November 1, 2023 in Hays, KS. Shelby was born on September 10, 1979 to Dennis Vance and Cindy Garman in Phillipsburg, KS.

Shelby was raised in the Selden and Rexford area. He worked at Selden Lumber for 20+ years, where he had many friends from all over Northwestern Kansas. When he wasn’t at the lumber yard he was on or at the lake fishing. Shelby competed in many fishing tournaments in Nebraska and Kansas. If he wasn’t fishing in tournaments he would be fishing for leisure.

Shelby is survived by his father Dennis Vance and his mother Cindy Garman; sisters; Laura and Lacey; grandparents: Vernon Vance and Doralee Garman; he is also survived by several aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews. He was preceded by grandparents: Shirley Vance and Larry Garman.

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Richard Von Stevenson - May 30, 1942 - December 09, 2021

Departed: 12/09/2021 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Richard Von “Dick” Stevenson, 79, passed away on December 9, 2021, in Colby, Kansas. He was born on May 30, 1942, in Hutchinson, Kansas to Carlos Craig and Thelma Louise (Swafford) Stevenson.

Dick grew up in Kansas and Arizona, his grandparents were a huge part of his life as a kid. Dick was a very accomplish boxer, he won the Kansas and Oklahoma Golden Gloves Boxing Championship. He graduated from Hutchinson High School in 1960. After high school, he attended Hutchinson Community College for a year. In 1961, he began to work for Cessna Aircraft Company and he also married the love of his life, Patricia Swepston in Hutchinson, Kansas.

Dick enjoyed aviation. He became the first instrument flight instructor in the state of Kansas. He started crop dusting in 1968. Then in 1971, he moved to Selden, bought land and started farming, which he enjoyed immensely. His biggest passion was his family. He loved spending time with his wife, kids, grandkids and great grandkids. After 40 years, he retired from crop dusting and turned the business over to his son, Kevin and grandson, Ryan Stevenson.

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Bernita Mae Aumiller - April 29, 1932 - February 27, 2020

Departed: 02/27/2020 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Bernita Mae Sulzman Aumiller was born April 29, 1932 to John J. and Antonette Simpson Zodrow Sulzman. She passed away peacefully on February 27, 2020 at the Sheridan County Long Term Care facility in Hoxie, KS at the age of 87.

Being the youngest of eleven children and with the death of her mother so soon after her birth, she and her brother, Leo, were raised by John’s sister and husband, George and Katherine Sulzman Godfrey. After George’s death Katherine’s brother, Francis, moved in with her to help raise Leo and Bernita on a farm a few miles south east of Selden. Bernita attended the Old Sheridan One Room School house (just up the road from the farmstead) through the 8th grade. She attended and graduated from Selden High School.

Bernita married Orris Clovis Aumiller on May 5, 1953 at the Sacred Heart Parsonage in Selden, KS. To this union nine children were born. Bernita loved life, serving God, family, friends and community to her fullest.

In addition to her parents and husband, Bernita was also preceded in death by seven brothers: George Sulzman, Norbert (Millie) Sulzman, Edward Sulzman, Johnny (Etta) Sulzman, Lawrence Sulzman, Norris (Maxine) Sulzman, and Leo Sulzman and three sisters: Apalona Rohrs, Rita (Bert) Moeder, and Pauline (Lester) Havice.

Survivors include her nine children: Myrna (Alvin) LeCount of Hays, Colleen Klein of WaKeeney, Steven (Mindy) Aumiller of Colorado Springs, Brenda (Dale) Smith of Goodland, Tom (Diane) Aumiller of McPherson, Wanda Spresser of Colby, Roger (Cyndie) Aumiller of Hoxie, Russell (Marcia) Aumiller of New Almelo, Monica (Tim) Svoboda of Tampa, KS; 37 grandchildren and 40 great grandchildren and many nieces, nephews and friends.

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Mirl E. Barnett - August 17, 1933 - February 21, 2020

Departed: 02/21/2020 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Mirl E. Barnett, 86, Rexford, passed away February 21, 2020 at Prairie Senior Living, Colby.

He was born on August 17, 1933 on the family farm in Thomas County, Kansas north of Rexford, to Jesse E. and Edna F. (Chadd) Barnett. He was a 1951 graduate of Rexford High School.

Mirl married Evelyn Walters on September 27, 1952, in Rexford, Kansas. Throughout his life he was a farmer as well as the feed mill operator for COOP. In addition, he spent many years driving trucks for Short & Son, and M & A Barnett Trucking. After retirement, he hauled grain for Wark Farms and was the caretaker of the Rexford Cemetery.

He was a lifelong race fan. He began his driving career in 1954, one of his highlights was driving for Lonnie Morosic out of McCook, Nebraska in the propane powered #9 Sprint Car. He was inducted into the Big Car Racing Association Hall of Fame on June 14, 2013. He was extremely proud of this accomplishment.

Survivors include his wife, Evelyn of 67 years of Hoxie, Kansas; one son, Troy Barnett and his wife Connie of Elkhart, Kansas; two daughters, Kandi Washburn and husband Fred of Hoxie and Kris Hagans and husband Kirby of Wellington, Kansas; one sister, Opal Moss and husband Earl of Hoxie, Kansas; four grandchildren: Steve Washburn and wife Amber of Gorham, Kansas, Shawna Martinez and husband Lolo of Hobbs, New Mexico, Amy Brillhart and husband Dusty of Elkhart, Kansas, and Kade Hagans of Hays, Kansas; eight great-grandchildren: Ashtyn Washburn, Easton Washburn, Danzy Martinez, Izabelle Martinez, Zander Martinez, Madyson Brillhart, Mason Brillhart, and Emalynn Brillhart.

He was preceded in death by his parents; three brothers, Roy Barnett (in infancy), Elgin Barnett, Darrell Barnett; one sister, Virginia Allison; one grandson, Jason Barnett and one great-grandson, Zalan Martinez.

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Sheila Dawn Ritter - March 06, 1968 - August 15, 2019

Departed: 08/15/2019 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Sheila Dawn Ritter was born March 6, 1968 in McCook, NE to Loyal and Lynda (Martin) Springer. She passed away suddenly on August 15, 2019 at her home at the age of 51.

Sheila attended Beaver Valley High School and graduated in 1986. She married Michael Ritter on April 9, 1994 in Selden, KS. Sheila worked as a Special Education Para for Golden Plains Elementary; she loved helping all the student at the grade school. She enjoyed dancing and singing around the house and loved her collection of Berry Hill Bears. Sheila was very proud of her yard and always wanted it to look perfect. One thing she despised was any type of bird. She never went anywhere without her Yeti cup and Crystal Light drink.

Sheila was a loving wife and mother and dedicated her life to her family and friends. She was supportive in all the activities her children participated in and was very proud of her children and everything they have accomplished. Sheila was close with her mother, checking on her often and talking with her many times a day. She loved her summers and holidays with her grandson, Rostin and always wanted him to have the best time. Sheila was loved by her nieces and nephews and took a lot of interest in their lives.

She was preceded in death by her father, Loyal Springer; aunt, Dorothy Burroughs; uncles, Lyle Springer and Marvin Springer; father-in-law, Cletus Ritter; sister-in-law, Patricia Richmond and her grandparents. She is survived by her husband, Michael Ritter of Selden, KS; children: Christopher Springer (Leslie Smith) of Atwood, KS, Rachael Ritter (William Still) of Phillipsburg, KS and Danica Ritter of Selden, KS; grandson, Rostin Springer; mother, Lynda Springer; sister, Shelly Macfee of Oberlin, KS; aunt, LaDonna (Steve) Harrison; uncle: Marlin (Denise) Springer; mother-in-law, Wilma Ritter; brothers-in-law: Dennis Macfee, Bernard Ritter and Robert (Laura) Ritter; sisters-in-law: Juanita (Ken) Denning, Karen Simon, Marianne (Pie) Garza, Janet Baalman and Carleen (Steve) Brewer; nieces and nephews: Kaden Macfee, Taylor (Logan) Fortin, Madison Macfee, Landen Macfee, Melissa (Michael) Dick, Natalie (Ross) McCombs, Aaron Denning, Jennifer (Chad) Henry, Christy Simon, Janel (Jay) Jessen, Brandon (Liddy) Offutt, Devin (Megan) Ritter, Morgan Ritter (Isaic Dinkel), Nolan Ritter, Noel Ritter, Dustin Gonzales (Risa JaNe), Traci (Beau) Carroll, Derek (Erika) Gonzales, Cheyene Garza, Michelle (Jt) Tipton, Nicole Baalman, Timothy Baalman, Braxton Brewer, and Jaiden Brewer.

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Ohio "Pete" D. Aumiller - June 09, 1943 - June 11, 2019

Departed: 06/11/2019 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Ohio “Pete” Donald Aumiller was born June 9, 1943 in Hoxie, KS to Glen and Margie (Batchelor) Aumiller. He passed away June 11, 2019 at the Citizens Medical Center, Colby at the age of 76.

He was raised in Selden and graduated from Selden High School in 1961. In the late 1960s, he moved to Colby and worked for Thomas County Rd Dept. for 37 years. Pete married Delores Korte on September 21, 1973 in Colby, KS. He also worked for Caterpillar in Colby doing custodial work. Pete moved to Hoxie, KS in 2015. He was a member of the Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Colby and Knights of Columbus. He enjoyed Nebraska Football, following sports, fishing and teasing people.

Pete was preceded in death by his parents; wife, Delores; two infant sisters and one infant brother; brothers: Roy Lee Aumiller and Claude Aumiller; sisters: Nova Mader, Levita Aumiller, Glenadine Rodriquez, and Pauline Ashbaugh. He is survived by his daughter, Roxanne and husband Eric Baker of Colby; sister, Alice Stillwell and husband Chuck of Topeka, KS; brothers, Gary Aumiller and wife Evelyn of Lenora, KS and Winslow Aumiller of Hoxie and granddaughter, Jennifer Baker.

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James Rex Carswell - November 30, 1926 - May 29, 2019

Departed: 05/29/2019 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: James Rex Carswell, 92, of Selden, KS passed away on May 29, 2019 at the Sheridan County Health Complex. He was born on November 30, 1926, seven miles west of Selden, to Wylie Vinton and Mary Agnes (Geisenhener) Carswell.

Rex attended Violenta Grade School and then graduated from Decatur Community High School in 1944. He married Betty Thieler on June 6, 1946 in Selden, KS. Rex was baptized on February 17, 1974 at the Rexford Community Church. He was a famer / rancher until retiring in 2006. Rex was a member of the Rexford Community Church, Lions Club, Odd Fellows Lodge and the Masonic Lodge. He enjoyed baseball, puzzles, golfing, hunting, fishing and playing cards and dominoes at the Red Barn.

Rex was preceded in death by his parents; grandson, Richie Perry and granddaughter, Kelli Marie Hofmeier. He is survived by his wife, Betty Lou Carswell of Selden, KS; sons: Vincent Harold Carswell and wife Peggy of Oberlin, KS and Daryl Eugene Carswell and wife Rita of Hays, KS; daughters: Terry Ruth Salter and husband Steve of McPherson, KS and Peggy Ann Dible and husband Robert of Menlo, KS; 14 grandchildren and numerous great grandchildren and two great great granddaughters, Brylee and Hadley.

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Gerald D. Rogers - February 18, 1925 - May 13, 2019

Departed: 05/13/2019 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Gerald D. Rogers, passed away on Monday, May 13, 2019, at the age of 94. Gerald was born on February 18, 1925 in Selden, Kansas to Walter and Myrtle (Anderson) Rogers. Gerald graduated from Norton High School in 1943 and then volunteered for the United States Air Force. He served in the China- Burma- India theater during World War II. On September 30, 1952 he married Leona Koerperich. Gerald and Leona were married nearly 67 years. This union was blessed with five children, Sherry, Geralyn, Joe, Scott, and Tami.

Gerald and Leona started their married life on a farm near Jennings, Kansas. Gerald spent most of his life managing grain elevators in Selden and Republic, Kansas. He was a 50+ year member of Knights of Columbus, a member of the American Legion and Lion’s Club. He served on the Golden Plains School Board for sixteen years.

He was very proud of his WWII service, but was most proud of his family. His favorite activities were watching his grandchildren play basketball, soccer, tennis, dance and act in plays.

Gerald is survived by his wife, Leona, of the home in Newton, Kansas; his five children and spouses, Sherry Watts (Harry) of Manhattan, Kansas, Geralyn Parker (Lauren) of Goodland, Kansas, Joseph Rogers (Stephanie) of Davison, Michigan, Scott Rogers (Julie) of Larned, Kansas, and Tami Carlgren (Randy) of Newton, Kansas; 12 grandchildren and spouses, Anthony Parker (Amy), Father Nicholas Parker, Jillian Korte (Drew), Stuart Watts, Diana Watts, Conrad Rogers (Michelle), Jennifer Rogers, Hunter Rogers (Shazia), Melanie Morrison (Cameronn), Meredith Peterson (Johnathan), Joshua Carlgren (Kenzie) and Hannah Carlgren; and three great-grandchildren, Cole Parker, Scarlett Korte, and Cameronn Morrison.

He was preceded in death by his father, Walter Rogers and mother, Myrtle Warner; and great-grandchild, Camri Morrison.

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Paul "Paulie" A. Neff - September 12, 1929 - March 27, 2019

Departed: 03/27/2019 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Paul (Paulie) Neff (89) of Selden, Kansas died on March 27, 2019. He was born on September 12, 1929, to P. D. and Laura Neff at Selden, KS. He graduated from 8th grade while he was farming for his dad. He joined the army on February 15, 1951, and served as an Artillery Sargent in the Korean War. While at Camp Chaffee, he was a pitcher for the Divarty baseball team. He was discharged from the army on February 4, 1953. When he returned, he met the love of his life, Velma Marie Kaus, and they married on November 12, 1953, at the Immaculate Conception Church in Leoville, KS. The couple began their married life together on a farm north of Selden, KS. A year later they moved to Selden and operated a filling station. They then moved back to the farm. A short time later they moved to Oberlin, where he worked at Brown Motor Company and Decatur County Co-op. In 1962, they returned to the family farm where he resumed farming, which he loved. To this union were born six children: Bill, Chuck, Dorothy, Juanita, Mary, and Frank.

Paulie never met a stranger and treated everyone like a neighbor. Whether he was selling a bailer or sitting in a waiting room, he would strike up a conversation and make one walk away feeling like they had made a new friend. He announced baseball games, car shows, and many other community functions. He was very proud of what he called his “Gift of Gab”. Another one of the highlights of his life was helping Santa out at Christmas. For almost anyone who asked, whether it was a group function or just a neighbor wanting to see Christmas joy in their children’s faces, he would grab his suit and bag and head out to spread his Christmas cheer. Paulie also had a passion for fishing. Some of the family’s best memories are of fishing at Norton Lake.

He was a member of the Lion’s Club, American Legion, and the Sacred Heart Catholic Church of Selden, where he was an usher regularly.

He was preceded in death by his wife, Velma (Kaus) Neff; brother Leo E. Neff; brothers-in-law Bill Kaus and Merlin Diederich; brother-in-law Jim Kaus and wife Twila.

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Royce F. Cook - August 21, 1924 - October 13, 2018

Departed: 10/13/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Royce F. Cook of Oberlin, Kansas passed away at the Mitchell County Hospital Health Systems in Beloit, Kansas on Saturday, October 13, 2018 at the age of 94. Royce was born to Floyd E. and Murttis I. (Farr) Cook on August 21, 1924, in rural Logan County Kansas. He grew up in Logan and Scott Counties and graduated from Scott City High School with the class of 1942. On the 27th of June 1944, Royce entered the United States Marine Corps. His special military qualification was rifleman. Royce served in the Asiatic-Pacific Area and participated in actions against the enemy on Iwo Jima, where he was wounded. On September 29th of 1945, Royce was honorably discharged from the Casual Company, Marine Detachment, U.S. Naval-Retraining Command and the United States Marine Corps Reserve. He was proud to serve his country.

On June 20th, 1947, Royce Cook married Lola M. Derley at the Scott County Courthouse over their noon hour. This marriage lasted seventy-one years. Lola would tell you it was a great seventy-one-year partnership and a good marriage. Royce and Lola had two sons, Lee Royce and Verl Ray and a daughter, Sharon Faye. Royce and Lola lived in Scott City until 1950 when they moved to Gove County. In Gove County, they lived in the ranch house by the Pyramids. In 1952, they moved to Decatur County where Royce lived the rest of his life and Lola continues to live.

Royce was a farmer and rancher. He loved cattle and thoroughly enjoyed raising and taking care of them. He liked working at the Sale Barns in Oberlin, Atwood, and Quinter. He was the kind of person who was always willing to help a neighbor. He worked hard, but he enjoyed a little coon and coyote hunting. Another passion of Royces was attending auctions. He was always bringing home treasures that he was sure he would use or need one day. Most of all, he loved his family.

Royce is survived by his wife Lola of Oberlin, Kansas; daughter, Sharon Zimmerman and Lyle of Grinnell, Kansas; brother, Dale R. Cook and Jeanne of North Platte, Nebraska; sister, Joanne C. Black and Robert of Arizona; grandchildren, Daniel Weis and Kilee Zeman, David Weis, Lance Weis and Katie, Matthew Weis and Meghan, Kayla Zimmerman, Rebecca Cook, Janel Cook; and great-grandchildren, Walter Weis, Sawyer Weis, Anistynn Zeman, Oliver Weis, Emersynn Weis, and Eliot Weis.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Floyd and Murttis Cook; sons, Lee Royce and Verl Ray; and brother, Derald E. Cook.

A Funeral Service is planned for Wednesday, October 17, 2018, at 11:00 A.M. at the Pauls Funeral Home in Oberlin, Kansas, with Pastor Gordon Pettibone presiding. Interment will follow the service at the Oberlin Cemetery. Military honors will be provided by Oberlin American Legion #70, Fort Wallace Calvary Tribute, and the United States Marine Corp Honor Guard. Visitation will be held Tuesday, October 16, 2018, at Pauls Funeral Home from 9:00 A.M. until 7:30 P.M. and Wednesday, October 17, 2018, from 9:30 A.M. until service time. Memorials are suggested to the Royce F. Cook Memorial Fund and may be sent in care of Pauls Funeral Home, 121 N. Penn Avenue, Oberlin, Kansas 67749.

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Jack E. Fortin - March 31, 1929 - June 27, 2018

Departed: 06/27/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Jack Eugene Fortin was born March 31, 1929, northeast of Dresden, Kansas, to Everett and Rose (Ingrum) Fortin. He passed away June 27, 2018, at Decatur Health in Oberlin, Kansas, at the age of 89.

Jack was the second of six children in his family and spent his childhood years in the Dresden, Jennings and Allison communities. In 1952, he went to work for Tapp Construction in Jennings and learned to operate heavy equipment. He then roughnecked with Empire Drilling near Moreland for a time and O.K. Tire in Hill City. Jack moved to Oberlin in 1958 and worked for Boultinghouse Construction and later for the Decatur County Highway Department.

On September 16, 1960, Jack married the girl next door, Mildred (May) Morton, and two sons blessed their union. In 1971 the family moved to Denver, Colorado. During their years in Colorado, Jack worked for Thommason Concrete and Winslow Construction. After retiring, they returned to Oberlin.

Jack was a member of St. Johns Lutheran Church in Oberlin. He was an avid Denver Broncos and NASCAR fan and enjoyed painting, doing leatherworkmaking belts, wallets and purses, and jigsaw puzzles.

Jack is survived by one son, Everett E. Fortin of Spokane, WA; three granddaughters, Heidi, Samantha and Rebekah; a brother, Galen Lee Fortin of Las Vegas, NV; one sister, Lorraine Green of Bandon, OR; two sisters-in-law, Elna Shaw of Brighton, CO, and Evelyn May of Oberlin; nephews and nieces; and other family members.

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John "Jack" Karls - November 04, 1935 - May 28, 2018

Departed: 05/28/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: John Jack August Karls, 82, of Selden, Kansas passed away on Monday, May 28, 2018 at the Oberlin Hospital. John was born to August and Josephina Karls on November 4, 1935 in Hays, Kansas. He attended Leoville Rural Grade and High Schools and graduated with the class of 1953. After graduation, John attended St. Benedicts College and Fort Hays State College and received his Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Administration from Fort Hays in 1960. On December 15, 1969, John Karls and Helen Halbert Boultinghouse were married in Denver, Colorado. Upon marrying Helen, John became the father of six children adopting them all in the fall of 1978 and was a good father to them all. John and Helen lived in Oberlin, Kansas prior to moving to Selden in 1981. John followed the Karls family tradition to become the owner and manager of Karls Cash Store, a business his father August J. Karls started on June 23, 1921. John and Jacque worked together in the family business. Jacque has worked with John in the store for over 30 years

In his spare time, he farmed and raised cattle. John was a very community minded person serving as Mayor of Selden, was a County Commissioner, and worked to promote the community of Selden. When he was not working, John loved watching the news and was up on current events. He was a historian, and one could ask him anything about the Leoville and Selden Area. John and Helen loved to watch baseball, and basketball. He was a member of the Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Selden.

John is survived by his wife, Helen of Oberlin; three daughters, Barbara Nelson of McPherson, Kansas, Jacque Boultinghouse of Selden, Robyn Mendiola of Lawrence, Kansas, and three sons, Shane Boultinghouse and wife Jill of Great Bend, Kansas, Shawn Boultinghouse and wife Charlena of Lawrence, Kansas, Bart Karls of Hays, Kansas; sister, Helen Jo Ochs and husband Henry of Hoxie, Kansas; 13 Grandchildren; 24 Great-Grandchildren.

He was preceded in death by parents, August and Josephina Karls; brothers Winfrid Karls, Robert Karls, Joseph Karls; Sisters, Dolores Fleckenstein, Agnes Chvatal, Audrey Schroer; Sons-in-law, Ambrosia Mendiola and Ralph Nelson.

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Lee Don Scott - March 26, 1955 - May 19, 2018

Departed: 05/19/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Lee Don Scott, 63, passed away Saturday, May 19, 2018 in Omaha, Nebraska. He was born March 26, 1955 to Donald D. and Alene Faye (Krizek) Scott, in Oberlin. He married Melanie A. Sis on Aug. 13, 1982 in McCook, Nebraska.

He attended Decatur Community High School and graduated in 1973. After high school he attended Seward County Community College. He worked as a photographer at Double Day Photography. He was a drummer in local bands known as The Underground Railroad and The Undertakers. In his earlier years he loved the thrill of skydiving and riding motorcycles. Lee worked for USDA-NRCS as a soil conservation technician. In his spare time he enjoyed fishing, hunting, pickup rides with his dog, Annie Oakley. One of the biggest highlights of his life was spending time with his grandchildren and family. He was a member of the Sacred Heart Catholic Church, past president of Pheasants Forever and was a founding organizer of Oberlin Speedway. Lee's easy-going personality and contagious smile led him to never know a stranger.

Left to mourn his passing are: his wife, Melanie of the home; children, Danielle Becker (Justin) of Casper, Wyoming, Britton Scott (Amber) of Oberlin, Chanelle Browns (Brian) of Buckeye, Arizona, Bronson Scott (Kara) of Salina, and Rachelle Scott (fiance, Kurt Olson) of Beliot; brother, Mark Scott of South Sioux City, Neb.; sister, Kay Danburg of Grand Island, Nebraska; grandchildren, Teagan and Addison Becker; Claire, Mariah, Tucker, and Ryker Scott; Taelynn and Eislee Scott; and Corbin Browns; and in-laws, Ronald and Donna Sis of McCook, Nebraska.

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Gerold Kolsky - September 22, 1923 - May 10, 2018

Departed: 05/10/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Gerold J. Kolsky passed away May 10, 2018, at the Clay Center Presbyterian Manor, Kansas, at the age of 94. He was born September 22, 1923, at the Kolsky Family homestead northwest of Jennings, Kansas, to Joseph and Grace (Spiers) Kolsky.

Gerold grew up on the family farm in the Big Timber community along with two brothers and three sisters. He graduated from Jennings High School in 1941. Around that same time, his father passed away unexpectantly, and Gerold took over the farming operation.

For most of his adult life, Gerold lived in Oberlin. He married his former wife, Doreen Boutz in 1950, and they became the parents of four children.

On September 11, 1971, Gerold married Lucille Hadley in Oberlin, where they made their home. They enjoyed gardening, playing Bingo, and fishing together. Lucille preceded him in death April 10, 2010. He eventually moved to Clay Center to be closer to family.

Gerold is survived by two sons and their wives, Greg & Jolene Kolsky of Grand Junction, CO, and Evan and Mary Kolsky of Clay Center; two daughters and their husbands, Gina and Arif Hussain of Savage, MN, and Lynette and Mike Ball of Topeka; stepdaughter, Marlene Smith of Holdrege, NE; sister, Bettie Jannings of Storm Lake, IA; six grandchildren; two step grandchildren; and three great grandchildren.

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Kyle Chris Mines - November 15, 1930 - May 09, 2018

Departed: 05/09/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Kyle Chris Mines was born on November 15, 1930, to Cecil and Rowena Anne (Wilson) Mines in Summit Township, Decatur County, Kansas. He was born with his twin brother, Keith. Cecil and Anne had five children including Billy Chris who passed away when he was born. Patricia Louise and Delphine Nila are his surviving sisters. The Cecil Mines family all grew up living outside of Cedar Bluffs, Kansas, down by the Beaver, where Cecil farmed.

Kyle graduated from Decatur County Community High School in 1948. During his freshman year at DCHS he wrestled 112 lbs. and received his Varsity letter; he also played football and ran track. In his sophomore year he wrestled 127 lbs. and was the Regional Wrestling Champion. He played B Football and ran the mile on the track team and was 3rd in the State. In his junior year he wrestled 133 lbs. and was the District and Regional Wrestling Champion. He played guard on the Varsity Football team and ran the half mile on the track team that were regional champs and went to the State Meet. In his senior year he wrestled 138 lbs. and qualified to attend the Olympic Trials. During that wrestling season, opponents were pinned or didn't score any points against him. He was the State Wrestling Champion at 138 lbs. He also played football and ran track.

In 1950 he married Bonnie Jean Viles and in September, their daughter, Georganne was born. In 1952 they went to Manhattan, Kansas, where Kyle attended K-State. He wrestled while attending K-State. In August 1954, his second daughter, Becky Lou, was born. In January 1957, Kyle graduated with a degree in Physical Education and a teaching degree. The family later moved to Colby, Kansas, where he was hired as the head wrestling coach. Their third daughter, Nancy Lee, was born in January 1958. While coaching at Colby he had a State Wrestling Team Championship. They later moved to Tucson, Arizona, where he coached wrestling at the University of Arizona. He also received his Master's Degree in Education at the University of Arizona. He later coached wrestling at South Mountain High in Phoenix, and also later coached at Johnstown, Colorado.

Kyle then coached wrestling at Sidney, Nebraska, where he had 38 individual wrestling state champions and won the State Wrestling Team Championship. He later moved his family to St. Francis, Kansas, where he also had many individual wrestling state champions and also won the State Wrestling Team Championship. He attended college at Hays, Kansas, and received his Special Education Certificate.

In 1976, he married Sherri Rowe and adopted her son, Jayson Camery Mines. They lived in Texas and taught at Cal Farley's Boys Ranch, in Brownsville and then in Hereford, Texas, where he retired from teaching. He later moved to Oberlin, Kansas, to come back to his family roots and has lived there for many years, the last several at the Good Samaritan Society Retirement Home. Upon moving to Oberlin, Kyle renewed his friendship with his second cousin, Loyd Moore. Loyd and Kyle went to wrestling matches and to weekly activities at the American Legion Hall. On October 27, 2012, Kyle Mines was inducted into the Kansas Wrestling Coaches Association Hall of Fame in recognition of his coaching accomplishments and, more importantly, his positive impact on the lives of so many young people - both athletes and students, in general."

Kyle is survived by his daughter, Georganne (Mines) Ishii and husband, Larry; his daughter, Nancy (Mines) Fields and husband, Rob Fields; and his son, Jayson Mines and wife Rene. He is survived by his grandchildren, Tami (Ishii) and husband, Rob Norris; Jeff Ishii and his wife, Vivian; Melissa (Fields) and her husband, Todd Taylor; Michael Fields; and Cameron Mines. His great-grandchildren are: Jordan, Jaret and Kaitlyn Ishii; Joshua, Matthew and Jenna Norris; and Madison Taylor.

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Norine Bailey - September 03, 1926 - May 08, 2018

Departed: 05/08/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Norine Bailey was born September 3, 1926, in Kanona, Kansas, the only child of George A. and Josephine M. (Klein) Fiala. She passed away May 8, 2018, at the Andbe Home in Norton, Kansas, at the age of 91.

Norine grew up in the Kanona and Oberlin communities. She attended Kanona Grade School through the eighth grade and finished her education at Decatur Community High School in Oberlin, graduating as salutatorian in the Class of 1944. Norine then worked as a secretary at DCHS for three years.

On April 9, 1947, Norine married Elwood L. Bailey at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Oberlin. They lived most of their married life in the Jennings area and were blessed with two children. Norine was an excellent cook and enjoyed crocheting and sewing. When her grandchildren and great-grandchildren came along, they were her pride and joy, and she took great pride in making goodies for them.

Norine was co-publisher and co-editor of the Journal Advocate. When the Jennings Housing Authority formed in 1977, she served as their secretary for 12 years. Norine was an active member of the Jennings Community and served on the Jennings Pride committee. She was also a member of Immaculate Conception Catholic Church and Altar Society in Leoville.

Norine and Elwood eventually moved to the Andbe Home in Norton. He passed away there on January 14, 2012. She was also preceded in death by her parents, George and Josephine Fiala.

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Mildred Black - August 11, 1917 - April 18, 2018

Departed: 04/18/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Mildred Olean Black was born August 11, 1917, the daughter of Silas and Venie Belle (Moler) Hessenflow, at the family farm in Lincoln Township, Decatur County, Kansas. She passed away April 18, 2018, at her residence in Oberlin, Kansas, at the age of 100.

Mildred and her three siblings were reared on the family farm where she was born. She attended Prairie View and Prairie Bell country schools.

On July 19, 1938, Mildred was united in marriage to Eldon Black in Hoxie, Kansas. They made their home in Oberlin most of their married life and were the parents of three children. Mildred was a loving and devoted wife and mother who cared deeply for her family. She had a deep and abiding faith and was an active member of the Assembly of God Church in Oberlin.

In addition to caring for her family, Mildred cooked at Decatur County Hospital and Bryans Caf. After Eldon retired, he started a lawn mowing service, which he and Mildred both enjoyed for many years. Mildred also developed a love for gardening, raising flowers, sewing, going to the lake, fishing, and taking care of her dog, Snowball. Eldon and Mildred enjoyed pulling their camper to attend church camps along with their dog, Pepsi. Her family was the most important part of Mildreds life after her faith. She was especially proud of her grandchildren and enjoyed attending activities they were involved in and having them visit.

Survivors include her two children, Lyman and Sharon Black and Leanna and Jim Bryan, all of Oberlin; dear friend, Linda Forgue of Richmond, TX; six grandchildren: Jean Ann Hale (Byron), Kenny Black (Jody), Carla Depperschmidt (David), William Bryan (Ruth), Ben Bryan (Keri) and Robert Bryan; nine great-grandchildren; 16 great-great grandchildren; other relatives and friends.

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Leanna (McVay) Roberts - April 24, 1951 - April 18, 2018

Departed: 04/18/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Leanna Lynn Roberts was born April 24, 1951, in Oberlin, Kansas, the daughter of Harry Ross and Axie (Still) McVay. She passed away April 18, 2018, at Salina Regional Medical Center in Salina, Kansas, surrounded by her family.

She was raised in Oberlin along with one brother. She was a 1969 graduate of Decatur Community High School in Oberlin and 1973 graduate of Friends University in Wichita, Kansas, with a business degree.

Leanna and former husband, Michael Winstead, became the parents of three children, Philip, Dana and Amanda. They made their home in Oberlin where Leanna worked at Decatur County Hospital. She was a member of the United Church of Oberlin and Royal Neighbors.

In 1995 Leanna moved to Central Kansas, residing in Delphos and Salina before moving to Abilene. She married William Roberts on July 23, 2005, in Salina. During this time, Leanna worked as a coder and insurance biller for the Mowry Clinic in Salina. She was a member of the American Legion Auxiliary in Delphos.

Leannas grandchildren were her pride and joy, and her family a blessing who she appreciated very much. She will be fondly remembered and missed by those who knew and loved her.

She is survived by her husband, William Roberts of Abilene; two sons, Philip Winstead (Nicole) of Ellis and Dana Winstead of McCook, NE; one daughter, Amanda Nelson (Robert) of Salina; two stepchildren, Billy (Annette) Roberts of Clifford, ND, and Bret Roberts of Abilene; brother, Mike McVay (Marie) of Munjor; and two grandchildren, Ian Hays and Lilian Nelson of Salina; nephew, Scott McVay of Munjor; and niece, Christine Aschenbrenner (Donnie) of Colwich.

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Gordon John Christensen - July 09, 1925 - April 06, 2018

Departed: 04/06/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Gordon John Christensen was born in Seattle, Washington, to Ivor John and Helen Violet (Weston) Christensen on July 9, 1925. He passed away April 6, 2018, at the Christian Rest Home in Grand Rapids, Michigan, at the age of 92.

Gordon attended Franklin High School and then Seattle Pacific University. His education was interrupted by polio during his second year at S. P. U. He went to North Park College and North Park Seminary, graduating in 1950. That year he was ordained into the ministry and sailed for the Belgian Congo, where he was married to Geneva Noren on September 1, 1950. Gordon's Sunday School teacher led him to the Lord when he was about 10 years old. He enjoyed Bible Camp during the summers where they usually had missionary speakers. Influenced by them, he decided he would like to share the Good News he had received with those who hadn't as yet heard.

Gordon earned a Bachelor of Arts degree from Bethany College in Lindsborg, Kansas, with his major in teaching high school English. He also took some special studies at Fuller School of Missions in Pasadena, California, with Dr. Donald McGavran and Dr. J. Edwin Orr. In Gordon's own words, My passion is the renewing of the Church locally, nationally, and internationally. I'm excited about what God is doing in the Evangelical Church these days. My root gift is that of encourager. My greatest satisfaction comes when someone, whether high-schooler, collegian,or young married is encouraged through the mutual study of the Word and through prayer. I feel that obedience to the Word of God is the key to success, growth spiritually, and delight in the Lord.

He will be remembered by many as a man of prayer and the Word. Gordon was a prolific writer, producing helpful booklets for the Christian life such as: The Poison Cup, Puberty Rites, The Family, The Worker and his Word, etc. No doubt the greatest gift to the African church is the three volume New Testament Commentary, Mai na Bomoi (LivingWater). They were written in their own language at the request of the church and have been used as textbooks in many Bible schools. After retirement, both Gordon and Geneva served in interim pastor capacities in several places and were involved in Schools of Prayer and Evangelism, and Spiritual Intervention.

Gordon is survived by his wife, Geneva; his three children and their spouses ; Susan and Dale Lovercheck, Michael and Angela Christensen, and Mary Lynn and Dennis Carlson; and five grandchildren: James, Timothy, Kristin, Nathan, and Katelin.

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Wanda M. Farr - November 30, 1963 - March 29, 2018

Departed: 03/29/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Wanda Mae Farr, 54, passed away March 29, 2018, at the Olathe Medical Center in Olathe, Kansas, surrounded by her family. She was born November 30, 1963, to Claude and Ina Marie (Scott) Pierce and was raised in Oberlin. Wanda attended Oberlin Elementary School and Decatur Community High School, later earning her General Education Diploma, which she was very proud of.

For the past 10 years, Wanda and husband Stann Hartzog made their home in Jennings and farmed in the Jennings area. She enjoyed driving her combine, baling, calving time and all aspects of farming and the rural way of life. In addition, Wanda had worked as a bartender, something she enjoyed very much. Spending time with family was important to her, especially with her five grandchildren. She liked to watch football and was an avid Pittsburg Steelers fan. Wanda was a gentle and kind soul and her presence will be greatly missed.

Survivors include Stann Hartzog of Jennings; two sons, Matthew Farr (Tiffanie) of Gothenburg, NE, and Wiley Farr of Cozad, NE; mother, Ina Marie Goodnight of Oberlin; brother, Mitchell Pickett (Rhonda) of Hayes Center, NE; half-brother, Randy Pierce (Sue); two sisters, Rhonda Barth (Mick) of Oberlin and Valerie Faris of Oberlin; three half-sisters, Beck Pierce, Cindy Ware and Jenifer Pierce; five beloved grandchildren: Brittani, Kylie, Carsen, Justice and Kadence; nephews and nieces, other relatives and many friends.

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Frank L. McEvoy - July 27, 1940 - March 11, 2018

Departed: 03/11/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service: Thursday, March 15, 2018, at 10:00 am at Pauls Funeral Home in Oberlin with Pastor Keith Reuther officiating. Burial: Oberlin Cemetery with military rites by Oberlin American Legion Post #70 and Oberlin American Legion Riders Memorial Fund: Frank McEvoy Memorial Fund (may be sent in care of the funeral home - 121 N. Penn Ave., Oberlin, KS 67749) Visitation: Wednesday from 8:00 am-8:00 pm, with the family greeting friends from 6:00-8:00 pm In Loving Memory

Frank Leon McEvoy passed away March 11, 2018, at Decatur Health in Oberlin, Kansas, at the age of 77. He was born July 27, 1940, in Benkelman, Nebraska, the son of Leo Francis and Doris (Sparks) McEvoy.

Frank grew up in Benkelman along with one brother and five sisters. He attended Benkelman Grade School and graduated from Benkelman High School in 1958. In October of that same year, Frank was inducted into the US Navy. He received training as a Radioman, Class A. He was transferred from active duty to the reserves in 1962, then honorably discharged in 1964.

On June 19, 1963, Frank married Margaret Mert Thoren at Herndon Covenant Church, where they remained active members from then on. They made their home on a farm south and east of Achilles, Kansas, and four children blessed their union. Frank was a loving and devoted husband and father. He was proud of his children and enjoyed and cherished his grandchildren, along with the many children Mert babysat for over the years.

Frank farmed for 20 years. While he was farming, he took a second job at the Decatur County Cooperative in Oberlin in February of 1968. He retired as the Outside Operations Manager and Safety Director in December of 2003 after 35 years of service. He enjoyed many hobbies and interests, including visiting with others over a cup of coffee, tinkering, reading, watching westerns, gardening, fishing, camping, Nebraska sports, farming, and time spent with his grandkids.

Survivors include his wife, Mert of Oberlin; three sons, Lonnie and Mary McEvoy of rural Oberlin, Evan McEvoy of Hotchkiss, CO, and Stan and Tamara McEvoy of Oberlin; one daughter, Dawn and Brian Beckman of Grinnell; two sisters, Doris Randall of Sheridan, WY, and Janet and Norman Lee of Anchorage, AK; 10 grandchildren: Renee Jones (Wade), Alex McEvoy (Jen), Ryan McEvoy (Brianna), Shane McEvoy (Skyler), Ethan Beckman, Jordyn Beckman, Spencer Beckman, Griffin Beckman, David Sporn (Timmarie), and Autumn Spangenberg (Lonnie); 19 great-grandchildren: Hannah, Morgan, Kacie, Hunter, Charleigh, Wyatt, Tucker, Kinsley, Ella, Addison, Devin, Aubrey, Alissa, Gavin, Eryn, Ashlyn, Hannah, Kasey, and Kaylee; nieces and nephews and many friends.

Frank was preceded in death by his parents; brother, Curtis McEvoy; and three sisters, Indiana Wood, Geraldine Turpin, and Rosemary Sauvage.

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Melvin Lee Klima - April 02, 1927 - February 04, 2018

Departed: 02/04/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service: Saturday, February 10th at 2:00 p.m. at Pauls Funeral Home in Oberlin with Rev. Billy Duncan officiating Burial: Oberlin Cemetery with military rites by Oberlin American Legion Post #70 and American Legion Riders

Visitation: Friday from 8:00 a.m.-8:00 p.m. Memorial Funds: Oberlin American Legion Post #70, Decatur Health, and Good Samaritan Society-Decatur County In Loving Memory

Melvin Lee Klima, son of Charles J. and Frances (Cherny) Klima, was born April 2, 1927, in Cuba, Kansas. He passed away Sunday, February 4, 2018, at the Good Samaritan Society in Oberlin, Kansas, at the age of 90.

Melvin was reared on the family farm near Cuba and attended school in Cuba. He then continued to farm with his father. In February of 1945, Melvin was inducted into the United States Navy. He was stationed at the Naval Training Center in San Diego, California, was later sent overseas, taking part in the Asiatic-Pacific Area Campaign, and attained the rank of Seaman First Class.

His future wife, Della Lucille Phalen, attended school in Cuba also. They were united in marriage June 26, 1947, in Belleville, Kansas. They lived and farmed at Cuba for nine years and were blessed with three children. When Melvin began working as a Bridge Construction Foreman, the family moved to several places depending on where his work took them. The family finally settled in Oberlin in 1971.

Melvin was a hardworking man who was dedicated to providing for the needs of his family. For a time, he worked at Sappa Manor, then later assisted his son Rick at the Decatur Cooperative Association Tire Shop. Melvin enjoyed visiting with people, raising a large garden, hunting, and fishing.

Survivors include his children, Rick & Deb Klima, Brian Klima, and Marsha and Gene Morford, all of Oberlin; 10 grandchildren: Gina Nelson, Jeff Klima (fiance Julie Stofer), Lonnie Morford (Kendra), Lynette Glendy (Layne), Dan Morford (Carrie), Brianna McEvoy (Ryan), Katlyn Klima (Cody Kane), Keitra Klima, Shaylei Johnson (Josh), and Jaycee Miller; 16 great grandchildren; in addition to other family members and friends.

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Betty A. Maske - October 12, 1945 - January 24, 2018

Departed: 01/24/2018 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service: Monday, January 29th at 10:30 a.m. at Pauls Funeral Home in Selden with Pastor Gordon Pettibone officiating Burial: Selden Cemetery Memorial Fund: Russell Regional Hospital Campaign for Continuing Excellence (in care of the family or Pauls Funeral Home, 121 N. Penn Ave., Oberlin, KS 67749)

Visitation: Sunday from 4:00-6:00 p.m. at the funeral home in Selden and Monday after 8:30 a.m. In Loving Memory

Betty Ann Maske, the daughter of Joseph and Nettie (Parchell) Britton, was born October 12, 1945, in Norton, Kansas. She passed away January 24, 2018, at the Main Street Manor in Russell, Kansas, at the age of 72.

Betty was raised on the family farm west of Jennings along with her brother James. She attended school in Jennings, graduating from Jennings High School with the Class of 1963. Betty then attended Joseph's College of Cosmetology in Holdredge, Nebraska for a year.

On July 8, 1967, Betty married Robert Leroy Maske in Selden, Kansas, and they were blessed with five sons. During their marriage, they resided in Selden for 13 years, Russell for 23 years, and Natoma. Robert passed away March 22, 2015. Betty eventually made her home at Main Street Manor in Russell.

Betty was a very loving and devoted wife, mother and grandmother. She enjoyed spending time with her family, especially her grandchildren. In addition, Betty was a foster mother. While living in Selden, she operated her own beauty salon. After moving to Russell, Betty worked as an assistant accountant and sales clerk at a local gas station. She was a member of the United Methodist Church, and her hobbies included sewing, gardening and playing cards.

Betty was preceded in death by her parents, Joseph and Nettie; husband, Robert; son, Wesley Maske; granddaughter, Britton Marie Maske; and brother, James Britton.

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Rowena Cathcart - August 29, 1925 - December 30, 2017

Departed: 12/30/2017 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service: Wednesday, January 3rd at 11:00 a.m. at the funeral home in Oberlin with Pastor Gordon Pettibone officiating Burial: Oberlin Cemetery Memorial Funds: Oberlin United Methodist Church and Good Samaritan Society-Decatur County

Visitation: Tuesday from 8:00 a.m.-8:00 p.m. and Wednesday after 8:00 a.m. In Loving Memory

Rowena Mae Cathcart was born August 29, 1925, to Albert and Maude (Loomis) Lacey at their farm home near Hayes Center, Nebraska. She passed away Saturday, December 30, 2017, at the Good Samaritan Society in Oberlin, Kansas, at the age of 92.

Rowena attended a country grade school near her family's farm and graduated from high school in Hayes Center. Her family attended Bethel Missionary Church. Before her marriage, Rowena worked at the McCook Montgomery Ward and McCook Equity, where she met her future husband.

On May 15, 1958, Rowena married Virgil Clarence Cathcart in Oberlin. They resided on the Cathcart Family farm southeast of Danbury, Nebraska, where they raised their two daughters. Rowena was a loving and devoted farm wife, mother and homemaker who took pleasure in helping around the farm and making a home for her family.

Her faith, family and friends were the highlights of her life. Virgil and Rowena were active members of Prairie Chapel Church near their home for many years. They also enjoyed attending activities their girls and grandchildren were involved in, and Rowena liked to keep in touch with her grandchildren and others through letter-writing. She was an excellent cook, enjoyed embroidery work, and took an interest in what was happening around the farm, especially the cattle.

After living on the family farm for almost 35 years, Virgil and Rowena moved to Oberlin. They continued to enjoy their Prairie Chapel community and later became members of the Oberlin United Methodist Church. They also took time to do some traveling.

Rowena is survived by her daughters and son-in-law, Carolyn Hackney, of Oberlin, and Joyce and Lynn Rippe, of Danbury, NE; one brother and sister-in-law, Lloyd and Karen Lacey, of Culbertson, NE; eight grandchildren: Julie Plotts, Leslie Fox (Travis), Amie Burge (Darin), Lorie Kaczmarek (Kevin), Lewis Plotts (Tina), Marie Klee (Rob), Buddy Plotts, and Alyssa Rippe (Cole May); in addition to 20 great-grandchildren, eight great-great grandchildren, other relatives and friends.

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Melvia D. Paulson - September 13, 1930 - December 13, 2017

Departed: 12/13/2017 (Selden)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service: Monday, December 18th at 10:00 a.m. at the funeral home in Selden with Pastor Lane Purcell officiating Burial: Survey Cemetery, Woodston, Kansas Memorial Fund: Melvia Paulson Memorial Fund, in care of the family or funeral home (121 N. Penn Ave., Oberlin, KS 67749) Visitation: Monday after 8:00 a.m. at the funeral home in Selden In Loving Memory:

Melvia Deane Paulson was born September 13, 1930, in Osborne, Kansas, to Melvin and Rausa (Hale) Mischler. She passed away on December 13, 2017, at Citizen's Medical Center in Colby, Kansas, at the age of 87.

Melvia was one of six children in her family and was reared on a farm near Woodston, Kansas. She attended a country grade school and graduated from Woodston High School.

On November 21, 1948, Melvia was united in marriage to Leslie Leroy Paulson in Iola, Kansas. They moved many times in the early years of their marriage while Leslie worked for the railroad and finally ended up in Colby, Brewster and Selden. Three children blessed their union.

Melvia was a loving and devoted wife, mother and homemaker. While her children were growing up, she served as a scout leader and Sunday School teacher. In addition, Melvia loved to cook, garden, sew, make quilts, and knit. She lived to learn so enjoyed reading very much. Later in life, Melvia received her LPN degree, attending Colby Community College at the same time as her daughter Karla did.

She is survived by her three children and daughter-in-law, John and Lisa Paulson of Brewster, Karla Wessel of Selden, and Leslie Lavinia of Selden; two brothers and their wives, Sheldon and Sherry Nelson of Salina and Tommy and Betty Nelson of Clay Center; six grandchildren: Ben Wessel (Christa), Dan Wessel (Melissa), Chris Wessel (Robynn), Tyson Paulson (Kristin), Ryan Paulson (Sarah) and Carli Paulson; seven great-grandchildren: Leslie, Koi, Kade, Emma, Addy, Eva and Kailee; other relatives and friends.

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The Team at Pauls Funeral Home - Selden

The team at Pauls Funeral Home is comprised of experienced and compassionate professionals who are dedicated to helping families navigate the difficult process of planning a funeral. From funeral directors to support staff, every member of the team is committed to providing exceptional care and guidance throughout the entire process. With a deep understanding of the emotional challenges that come with losing a loved one, the team at Pauls Funeral Home is always available to offer support and guidance whenever it's needed.

Funeral Services Offered by Pauls Funeral Home - Selden

Pauls Funeral Home offers a wide range of funeral services designed to meet the unique needs and preferences of each family they serve. From traditional funeral services to cremation options, memorial services, and pre-planning, the funeral home provides everything necessary to honor a loved one's life and legacy. Some of the specific services offered include:

• Traditional funeral services with viewing and visitation
• Cremation services with optional memorial services
• Pre-planning and pre-funding options
• Monument sales and design
• Grief support and counseling

The Facilities at Pauls Funeral Home - Selden

The facilities at Pauls Funeral Home are designed to provide a comfortable and welcoming environment for families to gather and celebrate the life of their loved one. The funeral home features a spacious chapel, visitation rooms, and reception areas, as well as ample parking and easy accessibility. The facilities are also equipped with state-of-the-art audio-visual equipment, ensuring that every service is conducted with dignity and respect.

Community Involvement and Support

Pauls Funeral Home is deeply committed to giving back to the Selden community. The funeral home regularly participates in local events and charities, and provides support to organizations that benefit the community. Additionally, the team at Pauls Funeral Home offers grief support groups and counseling services to help individuals cope with their loss.

What Sets Pauls Funeral Home - Selden Apart

While there are many funeral homes in the area, Pauls Funeral Home stands out for its commitment to personalized service, attention to detail, and dedication to excellence. The funeral home's family-owned and operated status ensures that every family receives the care and compassion they deserve, without the impersonal feel of larger corporations. Additionally, Pauls Funeral Home's long history in Selden has allowed them to build strong relationships with local vendors and suppliers, ensuring that every service is conducted with precision and care.

Contacting Pauls Funeral Home - Selden

If you're in need of funeral services or would like more information about Pauls Funeral Home, please don't hesitate to reach out. The funeral home can be contacted by phone at [insert phone number], or by email at [insert email address]. You can also visit their website at [insert website URL] or stop by their location at 4th St and Illinois Ave in Selden, Kansas.

In times of loss, it's comforting to know that there are compassionate professionals available to guide us through the difficult process of planning a funeral. At Pauls Funeral Home - Selden, you can trust that you'll receive exceptional care, personalized service, and unwavering support throughout your time of need. Whether you're planning ahead or need immediate assistance, the team at Pauls Funeral Home is always here to help.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online, or in a funeral home's website.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the obituary is written by the family of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or a professional obituary writer. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include details about the funeral service and any charitable donations in lieu of flowers.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary, but it's generally recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important details. A good rule of thumb is to aim for around 150-200 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many newspapers and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

You can usually submit an obituary to a newspaper through their website or by contacting their obituary department directly. Be sure to check their guidelines and deadlines for submission.

Can I write my own obituary?

Absolutely! Writing your own obituary can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life is celebrated in the way you want. Just be sure to share it with your loved ones so they know what you want.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the newspaper or platform. Some may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to several hundred dollars.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's difficult or impossible to make changes to an obituary once it's been published. Be sure to proofread carefully before submitting to avoid errors.

What's the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only the basic facts. An obituary is a longer, more detailed tribute that celebrates the person's life and accomplishments.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a great way to capture the personality and spirit of the deceased. Just be sure to keep it respectful and appropriate for all readers.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive issues or conflicts surrounding the deceased's life or death, it's best to consult with family members or a professional writer for guidance on how to handle these topics with tact and respect.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person's personality or values.

What if I'm not comfortable writing an obituary myself?

DON'T WORRY! Many funeral homes offer assistance with writing obituaries, or you can hire a professional writer who specializes in this area.

How do I ensure accuracy in an obituary?

Triple-check facts like dates, names, and spellings to avoid errors. It's also a good idea to have multiple people review the obituary before submission.

Can I include information about memorial services or donations in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including details about memorial services, visitations, or charitable donations can help guide mourners on how to pay their respects.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publication varies depending on the newspaper or platform. Some may publish immediately, while others may take several days or even weeks.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

In some cases, yes! You may be able to republish an obituary on anniversaries or special occasions. Check with the original publisher for their policies on republication.

What if I need to correct an error in an already-published obituary?

Contact the publisher immediately if you notice an error. They may be able to issue a correction or reprint the revised obituary.

Can I create an online memorial or tribute page instead of publishing an obituary?

Absolutely! Online memorials can be a beautiful way to celebrate someone's life and allow friends and family to share memories and condolences.

How do I decide what details to include in an online memorial?

Consider including photos, stories, quotes, and other personal touches that reflect the person's personality and spirit. You can also invite others to contribute their own memories and tributes.

Are online memorials permanent?

MOST online memorials are intended to be permanent tributes. However, it's always a good idea to check with the hosting platform for their policies on archiving and preserving content over time.

Can I link multiple online memorials together?

Yes! Many platforms allow you to link multiple memorials together, creating a network of tributes that celebrate different aspects of someone's life.

How do I ensure that my online memorial remains active over time?