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Miguel Luevano - May 22, 1962 - May 08, 2024

Departed: 05/08/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Miguel Luevano.

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James Anthony Santana - May 09, 1940 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for James Anthony Santana.

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Anna Marie Angier - December 08, 1930 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Anna Marie Angier (MacLellan) passed away on April 21, 2024, in Oceanside, California, at the age of 93. Anna was born on December 8, 1930, in Denver, Colorado. She was a devoted Catholic and a member of Saint Margaret’s Catholic Church in Oceanside, California, where she found great solace in her faith.

At 17 years old, Anna began her remarkable career in entertainment when she auditioned for Skating Vanities and was accepted immediately. She quickly rose to the position of captain and traveled the world with the show. Anna later became one of the Roxyette dancers at the Roxy Theatre in New York City, performing on the Sullivan show and serving as a co-choreographer. Alongside her husband Jim, she owned and operated a dance studio in Dayton, Ohio, producing and choreographing off-Broadway shows at Memorial Hall. She later moved to Los Angeles and continued her career choreographing and performing in theatrical theater.

Anna's life was enriched by her passions for gardening, writing children’s books, and creating spiritual and inspirational writings. She found joy in listening to Catholic television programs and reading spiritual books. Anna's dedication to her faith and her family was unwavering.

Anna is survived by her four children, John Alex, Mary Fair (spouse David), Elizabeth Alex, and Christiana Olah, as well as her six grandchildren, three great-grandchildren, and numerous nieces, nephews, and extended family members. She was predeceased by her husband, Don Angier, her parents Peter and Marie MacLellan, and her siblings Paul MacLellan, John MacLellan, Cathy Levesque, and Jeanette Savard.

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Robert Earl Parker - July 31, 1953 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Robert Earl Parker, a man whose vibrant spirit illuminated the lives of all who knew him, passed away on April 19th, 2024, in Vista, California, surrounded by his loving family. Born on July 31st, 1953, in Oklahoma, Robert embraced life with an unmatched zest and authenticity.

At the age of five, Robert's family relocated to Vista, California, where he would spend the rest of his 65 years of life. He purchased the very house he grew up in, anchoring himself to a place that held a wealth of memories and meaning.

Throughout his life, Robert was a beacon of joy and warmth. He approached each day with an unwavering commitment to living fully, embracing every moment with gusto. His adventurous spirit led him to forge deep connections with people from all walks of life, welcoming them into his home with open arms.

A master storyteller, Robert captivated audiences with his tales, each one more fascinating than the last. His generosity knew no bounds, and he took immense joy in supporting his family in their pursuits and dreams.

In retirement, Robert found solace in creativity, crafting Mandella rocks and painting signs with intricate designs. He cherished camping trips and fishing excursions, finding peace in nature.

Robert leaves behind his beloved spouse, Carol Parker, and four children, April, Amy, Jason Parker, and Elise Veatch. He was the heart and soul of the family, his radiant presence serving as the glue that bound us together.

Though Robert may have passed from this world, his spirit will continue to shine brightly in the hearts of all who knew him. His infectious laughter, unwavering love, and boundless generosity will be profoundly missed, leaving an indelible mark on those fortunate enough to have known him.

In honoring Robert's memory, let us carry forward his legacy of joy, kindness, and living life to the fullest. Though he may no longer walk among us, his light will forever illuminate our lives.

Rest in peace, dear Robert. You will be deeply missed, but your spirit will live on in our hearts eternally. **

On Saturday, April 27th at 2:00 pm, a Celebration of Life will be held at the Parker Family Home in Vista.  Army Funeral Honors will be presented promptly at 3:00pm. **

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Arthur Joseph Serrin - February 10, 1930 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Arthur Joseph Serrin, age 94, passed away on April 19, 2024, in Carlsbad, California where he lived for 37 years.

Art was born on February 10, 1930, to Bessie Catherine (Nemic) Serrin and Charles Henry Serrin. He graduated from Maple Heights High School and pursued a higher education at The Ohio State University while also serving in the United States Navy Reserve (1948-1953.) He received his Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Administration from Cal State Northridge and received his Master’s Degree in Education and Counseling from Kent State University in Ohio.

Art married the love of his life, Lois Mae Beegan, on May 16, 1953 at St. Mary’s Church in Bedford, Ohio. Their 70 years of marriage were filled with love and adventure.

Art launched his successful career as a Contract Management Negotiation Specialist in Aerospace and worked in the industry for almost 40 years.

He taught Business Law and Business Management night classes at Cuyahoga Community College and Cleveland State University in Ohio.

Retirement was busy and very productive for Art. He was the Dean of Counseling and Placement and founding faculty member of the Business Administration program for D-Q University on the Soboba Indian Reservation.

He also counseled high school youth, and was a high school and junior high school substitute teacher in Carlsbad.

In addition, Art was proud to represent the disabled, veteran and senior population of San Diego County with his work as an Advisory Council member for the AIS - Aging and Independent Services of California. As a result of his persistence and determination, two bills he wrote were passed in the California State Legislature benefitting the lives of many.

Art also was an active member of the Knights of Columbus at St. Patrick’s Church in Carlsbad.

Art supported his family in all their pursuits and sought justice for them when necessary. Preceded in death by his precious daughter, Jodine Elizabeth Serrin, Art worked with the Carlsbad police for many years to finally bring Jodi’s case to justice utilizing the latest familial DNA technology through Genetic Genealogy. As Art bids farewell to this world, his spirit lives on in the hearts of his beloved wife, Lois, and his cherished family: Children: Michael (Lydia) Serrin, Nancy (Thomas) Chrisopulos, Barbara (Ramon) Cervenka, Carole (Thomas) Cercek, Jodine (deceased) and Charles Serrin Grandchildren: Tammy Serrin, Sally (Leo) Melena, Valerie (Eli) Menaker, Bryan (Erin) Petsche, Joseph Serrin, Jordan Petsche, Gregory Petsche, Amy (Michael) Kinney, Jonah Cercek, Addison Serrin and Janson Serrin Great-grandchildren: Lunden Serrin, Leo James Melena II, Ryan Petsche, Ava Petsche, Cameron Menaker, Tori Serrin, Emily Menaker and Rosie Kinney

And to all who had the privilege of knowing him, services to honor Art’s remarkable life will be held at the Parish Chapel at San Luis Rey Mission at noon on Friday, May 3, 2024. followed by graveside service at 1:00 p.m. with a reception to follow.

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Aua Palagi Segi - January 26, 1955 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Aua Palagi Segi.

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Maria Cristina Ayala - December 29, 1970 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Maria Cristina Ayala.

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Elisha Adonijah Stevens - February 20, 2001 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Eli, 23 years old, was a creative, fun loving, free spirit that would light up any room with his beautiful smile and witty banter. His warmth and positive attitude was infectious which made him a well known figure in the community. From his siblings, to his friends and eventually the kids from the Carlsbad Boys and Girls club, he inspired positive energy. If there was a problem, Eli was the first to offer a solution. If he had no solution then he would offer a joke.

It was hard to stay sad or angry around Eli. He loved people and held a special place in his heart for his kids at the Boys and Girls Club. Being a former member, he understood the importance of having that safe space and fulfilling environment. He truly cared and that had an incredible impact on the kids as well as Eli.

There was only one thing Eli loved more than the people in his life and that’s music. Music was Eli’s passion from a young age and he was a consummate artist. He was studying music at the Berkeley College of Music and on course to make his mark on the world. Undoubtedly Eli has made his mark and his legacy of love will live forever.

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David Ragland - July 14, 1945 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Dave was born in Silver City, New Mexico to James and Ernestine Ragland. He grew up in Lordsburg, New Mexico and received a Bachelor’s degree in Civil Engineering from New Mexico State University.

His survivors include his brother, Paul, his wife of 52 years, Kathy, and his three children, Michelle, Greg (Erin) and Tim (Evie). He delighted in his four beautiful granddaughters, Brenna, Ivy, Leah and Sydney. He was so happy to be involved in all of his family’s various activities. He and Kathy have resided in Carlsbad for the past 24 years.

Dave spent the bulk of engineering career employed by Metropolitan Transit Development Board, later known as SANDAG. He took pride in being a project manager for the San Diego Trolley extension projects, and later consulting on the Sprinter project for North County Transit.

Dave loved to golf and was passionate about running, finishing both The Napa Valley and the inaugural San Diego Rock and Roll marathons. Dave and Kathy were able to travel extensively around the USA, Europe, Canada the Caribbean, The Holy Land and Fiji. They are blessed by many dear friends who have been with them during their decade-long Alzheimer’s journey.

Donations in Dave’s name can be made to the George G. Glenner Alzheimer’s Family Centers or to Alzheimer’s San Diego.

Oceanside Mortuary is handling his arrangements.

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Denise Lissette Diaz - April 01, 1966 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Denise Lissette Diaz.

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Dennis Wayne Wilson - July 25, 1935 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Dennis W. Wilson, age 88, of San Diego, California, passed away on March 25, 2024.

Dennis was born on July 25, 1935, to Dessel and Beulah Wilson of Illinois. He moved to Southern California with his parents and brother Tom in 1943. After graduating from Fullerton High School in 1953, Dennis attended the University of Southern California receiving a Bachelor of Science degree in Civil Engineering in 1959. Dennis served in the United States Army from 1962 to 1964 and, while stationed at Fort Ord, honed his well-known skills at golf and consumption of fermented beverages. After completing his service with an Honorable Discharge, Dennis became a California Registered Civil Engineer in 1965 and started his engineering career. Over the next three decades, Dennis worked for the City of Buena Park, City of Vacaville, and City of Escondido.

While with the City of Escondido, from 1977 through retirement in 1994, he served as the City Engineer, Public Works Director, and eventually the Deputy City Manager. Dennis was highly respected for his wisdom, honesty and engineering expertise, coupled with a marvelous sense of humor that endeared him to all his coworkers and friends over the years.

Family and friends will always remember Dennis as “BIGGER THAN LIFE”. He loved dropping in at Bully’s in Del Mar after the horse races, playing and watching golf, hosting outrageous Kentucky Derby parties, “Old Blue” his Mercedes Benz, March Madness basketball pools, collecting political yard signs; and road trips to the Del Dios Country Store where he often met with his peers to discuss current social and political topics.

Dennis is survived by Suzanne L. Wilson, his wife of 49 years, daughter Holly (Mike) Vieira, from a previous marriage, step-children Louise M. Stills, and Dennis O. Lamb, seven grand-children, 11 great grand-children and sister in law Mary-Anne Wilson.

Dennis was truly “one of a kind” and his memory will live forever in the hearts and minds of all who were privileged to know him.

Please contact Oceanside Mortuary 760-722-4264 for information regarding a Celebration of Life.

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Lena M Tolbertson - January 02, 1941 - March 21, 2024

Departed: 03/21/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Lena M Tolbertson.

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Tracey Evelyn Gross - December 11, 1972 - March 18, 2024

Departed: 03/18/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Tracey E. Gross, beloved wife, devoted mother, and cherished member of the community, was tragically injured while she was riding her bicycle in Oceanside on Saint Patrick's Day, 2024. Tracey's life was cut short by this senseless hit-and-run incident the following day, March 18th at the age of 51.

Born on December 11th, 1972, Tracey grew up to embody values of love, compassion, and selflessness. Throughout her life, Tracey was known for her unwavering dedication to her family, her work, and her faith. As a loving wife for 10 years, Tracey brought joy and warmth to her marriage, nurturing a bond built on love and mutual respect.

Tracey's love extended beyond her human relationships to her cherished pets, whom she adored. She embraced a healthy lifestyle, prioritizing fitness and wellness, and was an avid enthusiast of outdoor activities such as snowboarding with her family. Tracey's Christian faith was the cornerstone of her life, guiding her actions and providing her with strength and comfort in times of joy and adversity.

Professionally, Tracey was a dedicated postal carrier for over a decade, known for her tireless work ethic and commitment to serving her community. Her hard work and dedication earned her the respect and admiration of colleagues and customers alike.

Above all else, Tracey's greatest joy came from being a mother to her two children, Angel and Alec. She was a devoted and selfless parent, always putting her children's needs above her own. Tracey's love knew no bounds, and she poured her heart and soul into nurturing and supporting her children as they pursued their dreams and aspirations.

Tracey's passing leaves an irreplaceable void in the lives of all who knew her. She will be remembered for her kind and caring nature, her infectious laughter, and her unwavering faith. Though she may no longer walk among us, Tracey's spirit lives on in the countless lives she touched and the memories she leaves behind.

In accordance with Tracey's wishes, her legacy of compassion and generosity will continue through her decision to be an organ donor, providing hope and healing to others in need.

Tracey E. Gross is survived by her loving children, Angel and Alec, her devoted mother, Kim Booth, her former husband and friend, Bill Perez, and a multitude of family members, friends, and colleagues who will miss her dearly.

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Ida S Acuna - February 21, 1937 - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Ida S. Acuna concluded her earthly journey on March 10, 2024, leaving behind a legacy of remarkable achievements.

Born in Mountainair, New Mexico, Ida lived a life filled with warmth, kindness, and compassion. Ida joined the Marine Corps to help her mother and provide a way to earn an education. Her service, where she achieved the rank of Corporal, laid the foundation for a lifetime of dedication to her country and community. Most importantly, it allowed her to meet the “Marine of her dreams”, Fernando Acuña. In February 1957, they married at the Base Chapel at the Marine Corps Air Station El Toro, both proudly wearing their Marine dress blues. The Marine Corps took them to MCB Camp Pendleton where they settled down in Oceanside to raise their family. This past February, they celebrated their 67th wedding anniversary surrounded by four generations of family members.

Ida’s educational pursuits included earning an AA degree from Mira Costa Community College, undertaking undergraduate coursework at Chapman College, and receiving certificates in Personnel Management and Transit Resource Management. A reflection of her commitment to excellence and lifelong learning.

Her professional career began at the Camp Pendleton Marine Corps Exchange, followed by the MiraCosta College Bookstore. She found her place at North County Transit District, where she rose to the role of Personnel Administrator and was marked by numerous accolades, including the Hire a Veteran Award, the Employer Excellence Award from the state of California, and the Governor's Executive Director's Award.

Ida's impact extended far beyond professional endeavors. As a dedicated member of the American GI Forum of the US since 1967, she lived by their Motto, "Education Is Our Freedom, and Freedom Is Everybody's Business.” She held many positions on the local, state, and national levels. Ida was elected as the ninth and only veteran to serve as National Chairperson of the American GI Forum Women Auxiliary in 1974. Her accomplishments are recognized throughout the organization, such as allowing women elected officers in the American GI Forum to sit in decision-making positions. Ida was the only National Chairperson to preside as a member of the National Veterans Outreach Program Board of Directors representing the Veteran.

In her retirement, she continued to devote herself to volunteer work. Her continued work with the Oceanside Chapter of the American G. I. Forum raised funds to award scholarships to deserving students. At the old Mission San Luis Rey, Ida served in various capacities, even receiving the Franciscan Service Award for 50 years of service to the Mission alongside Fernando. Ida was also an active member of the Order of Alhambra-Ben Ziri Caravan whose mission is to assist those with intellectual and developmental disabilities. She was a lifetime member of the Veteran of Forum Wars Ladies Auxiliary, Don Diego Post, and a volunteer of the Veterans Association of North County (VANC).

Ida was preceded in death by her parents, Doroteo and Prisciliana Sisneros; brothers Pablo, Eliseo, Cpl. Dennis and Raymond Sisneros; sisters Ernestine Kidd and Lydia Sisneros; children Agnes and Jose Acuña.

Ida is survived by her husband Fernando Acuña; sister Maria Sisneros; daughters Debra Acuña, Denise Acuña, Tina Ortiz and Diane Pulealii; grandchildren Priscilliana Mora, Kaleena Villalobos, Justine Pulealii, Isaac Pulealii, Timoteo Pulealii, Brianna Ortiz, Kayla Acuña; eight great grandchildren and six great-great grandchildren.

Rosary on April 8, 2024 at 1:00pm and Funeral Mass at 1:30pm at Mission San Luis Rey 4050 Mission Avenue Oceanside. Following the Mass, a reception will be held to share memories and celebrate Ida’s life.

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Ena Frances Youngblood - May 18, 1942 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Ena Frances Youngblood, age 81, passed away peacefully March 8, 2024, due to complications of

pancreatic cancer. This was her second cancer battle, surviving breast cancer almost 15 years ago. She was born May 18,1942 in Lewisham, England. In 1963 she came to the States under a secretarial work program and resided in the Washington D.C area until she married her first husband, Wilfred Boyette, who was in the military at the time. Later, she married William Owen Youngblood of Texas,

where they lived for 46 years of marriage until his death in 2015. Ena continued as a secretary-legal typist in the mortgage and title insurance industry and had lightning

typing skills! This was her trade, and she was steadfast and true to her employers all her working years. She loved nature and the countryside. She lived many of those last years in Texas some 50 miles outside of Dallas where she commuted daily but was a dedicated and valued employee for over 23 years with her boss Mike in title insurance before retiring. She enjoyed dear friendships with her co-workers and

neighbors, Virginia, Jennifer, Brenda and Ron, that lasted beyond her time there. After Owens passing, Ena came to California to live with her daughter Kathrine. She enjoyed her retirement living near the sea. As a child she had grown up on the southern coast of England, so this seemed fitting. She always stayed busy with Sudoku, jigsaw puzzles, diamond art or just reading a good book. She had a fond love of classic musicals with some of her favorites being South Pacific, The King and I, and My Fair Lady. She also relished her chilling English murder mysteries shows and many of

the American classics as well. Ena is survived by daughters Kathrine and Trina, grandchildren Nathan, Joshua, Kaylee, Claudia and

Davanan, and greatgrandchildren Grady, Everett, Kinley, Logan, Quill, Theo and Abigal. Her life will be celebrated by a small gathering of family and friends aboard the Sea Star Charter on her

82nd birthday, May 18, 2024. Her family will scatter her ashes off the coast of Oceanside, California.

The family invites you to please leave your messages and share memories of Ena on the message board so that they can look back fondly on this life of a very special lady.

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Anthony Vincent Spano - September 12, 1931 - March 06, 2024

Departed: 03/06/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Anthony Vincent Spano passed away peacefully at home on March 6th, 2024. He was born in Watertown, New York and moved to California with his wife Lina in 1956.

Anthony and his brothers began their careers as business owners in the grocery and restaurant industry. Anthony dedicated 65 years to the Red & White Markets and the Harbor House Cafe, formally known as Hamburger Heaven. He was a selfless man with a charitable heart who mentored many employees and helped countless families put food on the table. He will be remembered and respected for his hard work ethic and his unconditional love for family and friends.

Anthony is survived by his wife Lina of 67 years, 6 daughters, 6 sons-in-law, 18 grandchildren, and 23 great grandchildren. We are proud to say his legacy will carry on.

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Nancy Harriett Shearen - August 01, 1931 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Nancy H Shearen of Carlsbad, CA passed away peacefully on the morning of March 4, 2024, at Coral Tree Senior Adult Living Center in Vista, CA. She was born in August, 1931 in St. Paul, MN to John and Lillian Olsen. She was a graduate of St. Joseph’s Academy Catholic School for Girls, Class of 1949. She met her future husband Ken Shearen by chance at a high school dance in 1948. They became inseparable and were married in 1951 and began a family. The family relocated to Southern California in 1969 and raised nine children. She resided in Carlsbad, CA for over 4 decades until her health compelled her to be relocated to Coral Tree.

A humble, loving, thoughtful and considerate woman of integrity and intellect, she lived a rich and fulfilled life having many experiences and wonderful memories. She loved a full house: be they her friends or family where laughter was abounding. One was always welcome at the Shearen family home. She cherished the time she spent with her family in California and elsewhere in the US. Her smile, wry sense of humor, laughter, quick wit, compassion for others were genuine and contagious. She was a resolute wife and mother full of understanding, comfort, and unyielding strength. After her youngest son entered high school, she returned to the workforce with Lancer Orthodontics in their accounting department until her retirement in the mid-1990’s.

She is survived by her brother Jim Olsen, daughters Christine Davis (Milton), Susan Bumgardner, and Molly Lauffer (Scott), sons Ken Jr (Esther), Kevin (Robin), Daniel, and David (Dara), 13 grandchildren, 17 great grandchildren and several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her husband Ken (Sr.), daughter Mary Jo, son Charles, parents, and brothers Bill and John, sisters Dorothy, Jean and Mary Kay and son-in-law Dennis Bumgardner.

She will be greatly missed by all those who came to know her and were touched by her genuine kindness and compassion as well as her feistiness. Rest in eternal peace our dear Mother, you have been welcomed home by your husband, children, and family who were beckoning you to join them. Glory be to God, his son Jesus, and the Virgin Mary.

A funeral mass will be held at St. Patrick’s Church in Carlsbad CA on April 2, 2024, at 10:00 AM. Interment will follow on April 13, 2024, at 10:30 AM at Holy Cross Cemetery in Culver City.

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Robert James Thiessen - November 30, 1949 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Robert James Thiessen, 74, of San Diego, California, passed away on February 26, 2024 surrounded by family.

He was born to parents Jacob and Frances Thiessen on November 30, 1949, in Winnipeg, Manitoba. Robert graduated from Miles MacDonell Collegiate and received a degree in Business Administration, with a specialty in Accounting, from the University of Manitoba. Robert was extremely intelligent and determined. He excelled in each of his endeavors. In his school years, he particularly excelled at mathematics and business. In his later life, he went on to work with and own many successful businesses.

Robert was a loving and devoted father to his four children. He is survived by his son Blake Thiessen and his wife Nikki Thiessen, and his daughters Brooke Thiessen, Georgia Thiessen, and Layla Thiessen. He is also survived by his sister, Joanne Devries, and was a loving uncle to Laureen Hoeft and her husband Brian Hoeft, Mark Devries, and his two great nephews Nolan and Miles Hoeft. He was a loving grandfather as well to his twin granddaughters Mila and Madeleine.

Robert was known for his witty sense of humor, his dedication to his children’s sports, and spending time with his family. In his younger years, he was an avid curler, golfer, and a water ski enthusiast. He loved being at the lake. He will always be remembered for his love of sports cars and racing on professional tracks whenever he had the opportunity.

A one hour visitation followed by a memorial service have been scheduled for Friday, March 15 starting at 1:30 pm at Oceanside Mortuary.

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Donna Marie (Wrenn) Fontenot - August 24, 1966 - February 18, 2024

Departed: 02/18/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Donna Marie (Wrenn) Fontenot. She”ll be remembered by her caring heart, funny personality and love for her three children.

Donna Marie Fontenot, resident of Escondido, CA and formerly of Charlestown, MA, entered into eternal life suddenly on February 18, 2024. She was 57 years of age.

Donna was born in Dorchester MA on August 24, 1966. She is the daughter of the late Joseph and Jane (Johnson) Wrenn. She attended elementary school at St Anthony’s in Somerville and then went to Christopher Columbus High School where she graduated in 1985.  She worked in real estate as an appraiser for over 30 years, but her biggest accomplishment was being a mom to her three children. She was so proud of each of them and so excited to become a grandmother for the first time in 2 months. Her love for her children was undeniable. She enjoyed spending time with her siblings, nieces, nephews and friends, singing karaoke which she won at times, loved to color, and last but not least, cheering on all the Boston sport teams. She touched so many lives and will be greatly missed.

Donna is the loving mother of Kileigh Fontenot and her fiance Christopher Cochran, Joseph Fontenot, and Jason Fontenot, ex-wife of Darrell Fontenot, and beloved sister to Diane, Paula and Joseph Wrenn. She is the aunt of Alton and Shayla Hanscom, Mya VanderPloeg and the late Mark Hanscom. She is the great aunt to Aidan, Mark, Sean, Alayius and Asyius. She is also survived by many aunts, uncles, and loving cousins.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend Oceanside Mortuary at 602 S Coast Hwy, Oceanside CA 92054. Donna’s visiting hours will be from 1:00 PM to 4:00 PM on Saturday March 16, 2024.

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George Donald Kramer - October 28, 1934 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: George Donald Kramer, PhD, 89, of Carlsbad, CA, passed away Saturday, February 10, 2024. He was a graduate from Covington Latin School, Thomas More University and received a Ph.D. in Physics from the University of Cincinnati. George was employed at the Lawrence Livermore National Laboratory as a Theoretical Physicist from 1962 until his retirement in 1996.

George was an avid bridge, card and game player, and helped his children on a nightly basis with math homework. He volunteered helping seniors with their tax returns, as he had a great interest in “numbers” which aided in a successful hobby in the stock market.

Born in Covington, KY, on October 28, 1934, he was the youngest child of George and Rose Kramer. George had two siblings, Louis Kramer and Lois Anneken, who preceded him in death.

After marrying Kathryn Boehling from Cincinnati, OH, in 1956, they made their way to San Diego, CA, where he was employed by General Dynamics, Corp.

He is survived by his devoted wife of sixty-seven years, Kathryn, six children: Anne, George, Stephen (Sharon), Thomas (Julie), Carolyn (Brent Hoy), and Michelle (James Gharib), and eight grandchildren: Stephanie and Sean (Stephen and Sharon), Kathleen, David and Kristine (Thomas and Julie), Madeleine (Carolyn and Brent), John and Daniel (Michelle and James) and many nieces and nephews in the Covington and Greater Mid-Atlantic region.

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Roy Lynn Youngblood, Jr. - November 13, 1944 - January 28, 2024

Departed: 01/28/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Roy Lynn Youngblood Jr., 79, of Oceanside, California, passed away peacefully in his sleep on January 28, 2024. He was born in Corvallis, Oregon on November 13, 1944, to Roy “Jack” and Julia Youngblood.

Roy graduated from El Centro High School, in the Class of 1963. Following graduation, he served with the U.S. Navy until 1983, retiring as a Senior Chief Petty Officer. During his career, Senior Company Corpsman or “Doc” Youngblood was awarded the Siver Star Medal and two Purple Heart Medals for his gallantry in action, extraordinary heroism, courageous lifesaving actions, and for being wounded twice while participation in seven operations in Viet Nam with multiple Marine Corps units engaged in combat. After the war, he married the love of his life and best friend, Beverly Dufresne, whom he met while stationed in El Centro in 1964, and they raised their family during many of Roy’s Navy assignments. They celebrated 56 years of marriage last November. They have enjoyed cruising since 1997 and have been on more than ninety-five cruises.

Roy served his community and dedicated himself to a family legacy of selfless service and tradition now persisting for three generations. His community service started when stationed in Guam and coaching Junior Bowling Leagues throughout his military tours and continued as an example to his family and for the benefit of every community his family lived. Like his father, he was a devout Master Mason, installed by his father-in-law, and life member to several Masonic Family Organization chapters and councils representing Imperial and San Diego counties, having served in many distinguished and top leadership roles since 1977. He held positions included at total of 47 years with the Masonic Fraternity and over 40 years of active membership with Oceanside-San Dieguito Lodge and Order of the Eastern Star. In addition to his commitment to the blue lodge, he was regularly active in The York Rite and Scottish Rite bodies of Masonry, to include the Ancient Order of Sciots and Al Bahr Shrine. He received numerous accolades for his devotion to Fraternity to include: The Hiram awarded from his Home Lodge, The Meritorious Service Award from Grand Chapter of Royal Arch Masons, and The Order of the Purple Cross from the York Rite College of North America. He was also known throughout the community for his participation in Masonic Youth Groups: Job’s Daughters and DeMolay serving in leadership positions for both groups. He also served Job’s Daughters International as an Associate Bethel Guardian with his wife and daughters.

After retiring from the Navy in 1983, earning two BS degrees in Healthcare and Education in 1987, and his State of California Teaching Credential, he started teaching at 11 San Diego County schools and served on the Oceanside Board of Education until 2012, during which five years were served as Board President. During this time, Roy was also appointed as the City of Oceanside’s Manufactured Homes Fair Practices Commission.

In addition to his parents, Roy was predeceased by his brother, Terry Youngblood and his grandson, Andrew Wesley McCarty. Surviving in addition to his wife Beverly (Dufresne) Youngblood, are his children Barbara (Curtis) Daniels and Deborah (Wesley) McCarty, his grandchildren – Blake, Alyssa, Haley, Alec, Amber, and Asher – and great grandchildren Gwendolyn, Maeve, Enoch, and Reuben.

A Celebration of Life service will be held Saturday, February 24, 2024, at 2 PM at the Oceanside Masonic Lodge 511 Eucalyptus St, Oceanside, CA 92054. Interment will be at Miramar National Cemetery on Monday, February 26, 2024, at 11 AM. Those who wish to remember Roy in a special way may make gifts in his memory to your preferred organization.

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Barbara Ann Ladwig - July 21, 1934 - January 22, 2024

Departed: 01/22/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Ladwig of Carlsbad, CA died on January 22, 2024 at the age of 89. She is survived by her husband of 64 years, Robert; their four sons, David (Diane) of Washougal, WA; Michael and Thomas of San Diego, CA; and Steven (Jen Dyke) of Trinidad, CA; and their three granddaughters, Katherine Ladwig of Newburg, OR; Jennifer Ladwig of Clarkston, WA; and Zoe Ziegler of Arcata, CA.

Barbara was born and raised in Sheboygan, WI. She earned a degree in Business Education at Whitewater State College (now University of Wisconsin, Whitewater) and taught at Beaver Dam High School for three years. She and Robert (Bob) were married on October 17, 1959, moved to San Diego in 1960 and to Carlsbad in 1972.

When their boys were all in school, Barbara began what would turn out to be a lifetime of volunteer service. Her first experience was teaching English to foreign-born adults at the Carlsbad Literacy Center, which is part of Laubach Literacy International. She eventually became Director of the Center, as well as Director of Tutor-Training for San Diego County.

Her next foray was as a lay counselor at Birth Choice of Encinitas. When that location was closed, she began a long stint at the Brother Benno Foundation in Oceanside, filling a variety of volunteer positions, especially as writer and editor of their monthly newsletter. She also co-wrote a book about Brother Benno’s with its founder, Harold Kutler.

In 1998, the Carlsbad City Counsel named Barbara “Citizen of the Year”.

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Jerry Jerome Gerrity - January 07, 1929 - January 18, 2024

Departed: 01/18/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: With humble acceptance of God’s will, we announce the passing of Joseph Jerome

(Jerry) Gerrity, age 95, on January 18, 2024 at his home In Oceanside, California. Jerry was born on January 7, 1929 in Scranton, PA to William T. and Helen V. Gerrity. At the age of 19 Jerry enlisted in the U.S. Army National Guard as a Sargent First Class in Battery A, 967 th Armored Field Artillery Battalion from June 1948 where he served until the summer of 1951. Jerry was then transferred to Battery C 300 th AFA BN in Korea until

May 1952 where he served near Heartbreak Ridge. Jerry received an Honorable Discharge along with the Distinguished Unit Citation, Korean Service Medal with 1 Bronze Service Star, and the UN Service Medal. The government of Korea awarded Jerry the Ambassador for Peace Medal for service he

performed in restoring and preserving their freedom and democracy. On return to civilian life, Jerry started his own business as a Manufacturer’s Sales Representative, M&J Associates in Timonium, Maryland. In 1986 Jerry founded the

Aerospace Manufacturers’ Agents Association (amaa-rep.com).

In February 1954 he married Mary R. Reilly. They raised 4 children in Timonium, MD. The couple retired to San Diego in the early 1990’s, where he enjoyed various activities including golfing, involvement in local community groups, traveling and visits with family

members. He made friends everywhere he went, and he will be sorely missed. He was predeceased by his parents, brother James Gerrity as well as his wife Mary Gerrity. He is survived by his fiancé Mimi Loutrel, his children and their spouses: Maureen Gerrity and Jan Gibson-Gerrity; Marty and Debbie Gerrity; Lisa Gerrity; and Ann Gerrity Bleeck and Brad Bleeck. He is also survived by his grandchildren Brooks

Gerrity, Kristina Gerrity, Jaden Gerrity and Brianna Bleeck. The funeral mass will be held on Friday January 26, 2024, at St. Margaret’s Catholic Church in Oceanside CA. Visitation will take place at 12:00 pm with the service following at 1pm. Interment will be at Mount Olivet Cemetery, Wyoming PA in the Spring. Details to follow. https://www.dioceseofscranton.org/directory/offices/diocesan- cemeteries/mount-olivet-cemetery/

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Kenneth Howard Stahl - September 24, 1943 - January 15, 2024

Departed: 01/15/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Our beloved husband and brave father, Kenneth Howard Stahl, passed away peacefully on

Monday, January 15, 2024, surrounded by his family after a valiant battle with pancreatic cancer.

He was born on September 24, 1943, to Grace and Walter Stahl in Honolulu, Hawaii. Ken was raised in San Diego, California. He was drafted into the Army serving six months before being medically discharged. Ken attended SDSU, graduating with a bachelor’s degree in science as well as a teaching certificate. After receiving his college degree, he married Marcia Nielsen (later divorced), in

which they had three beautiful daughters: Tracy, Tina, and Lindsay. In September 1996, surrounded by their children in Costa Rica, Ken married the love of his life, Kathy

McKinney Morton. Kathy, with her two sons, Jeff and Andrew Morton, joined Ken and his three girls. Ken worked most of his life in human resources. His employment briefly took him to other states, including Montana and Utah where he made a lasting contribution with his introduction of recreation soccer and team play in Libby, Montana. He also helped initiate adult classes in Libby, which led to establishing a junior college for that area. Post-retirement, Ken spent many summers working to set up the student showcase for the San Diego County Fair at the Del Mar Fairgrounds and was a proud

volunteer for the 2002 Utah Olympics. In his younger years, Ken was a surfer, always up for an adventure in Baja, Mexico. He was an avid skier, bicyclist, golfer, camper, gardener, and loved outdoor concerts and cruises. He had many lifelong friendships which he cherished. Ken had a passion for history, sharing his knowledge often. He had the

best memory and told countless stories of his camping trips and travel adventures with his wife, Kathy. You could always count on Ken to be the life of the party with his nonstop jokes, a fling for sarcasm, and his genuine zest for life. He loved his family, their extended families, and all his twelve grandchildren immensely, and was known for always showing up at your doorstep with a bouquet of flowers and/or a

welcome gift for the host.

Ken is preceded in death by his parents and his dear nephew, Gordon Stahl. Ken is survived by wife Kathy McKinney Morton Stahl; his daughters; Tracy Fresh (Mike); Tina Draney (Brandon); Lindsay Strickland (Bob); stepson, Jeff Morton (Kelly); stepson, Andrew Morton, as well as twelve grandchildren; his brother, James Stahl (Helen); sisters Sandra McNulty and Sue Liston (Larry) and

their extended families. Ken was a member of Venture Church in Encinitas. Please join us for a church gathering on Saturday, March 9, 2024, at Venture Church 777 Santa Fe Dr, Encinitas, California, from 10 a.m. to 11 a.m. followed

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Alicia Natividad Aberin - July 01, 1934 - January 12, 2024

Departed: 01/12/2024 (Oceanside)

Obituary Preview: Alicia Natividad Aberin, 89, of Oceanside, California, passed away peacefully as she slept, on January 12, 2024, surrounded by family members at her bedside.

Alicia was born July 1, 1934, to Emilio and Benedicta Natividad in Nueva Ecija, Philippines. After graduating from Santo Domingo High School, she went on to study dress making in Cebu. She joined her father’s business in custom made attire. They were well known in their province for making clothing for prominent members of society.

In 1959, Alicia met Celso Aberin. They were introduced by Celso’s brother, Piping, in Gapan, Nueva Ecija, and Celso starting writing Alicia letters. Alicia and Celso married in1960. They moved to California with the US Navy in 1962 and went on to have four children, Alvin, Celso Jr, Eileen, and Sheila. Alicia dedicated about 20 years of her life to raising children and continued to work after, at various jobs. In 1996, Alicia retired and spent her time enjoying grandchildren, going to church, giving to charities, gardening, galivanting and playing mahjong.

Alicia’s heart and soul was always with family. Every penny in dressmaking that she earned she gave to her parents. She took care of them. Married to a military man, Alicia raised four children in the US, often by herself and where she barely spoke the language. She cooked, cleaned, and ironed her husband’s military uniforms and even her baby cloth diapers. She was so funny in ways most people didn’t know about. As the kids grew up, she loved getting them ready for school with dimes for milk money, she safely guarded in their ears. She found the time to sew her children’s clothes, matching toddler outfits, and later formal prom dresses. She loved cooking Filipino food and was very content seeing everyone eat with bellies full.

The simplest pleasures in life brought great joy to Alicia and she saw the world through a colorful and playful lens. She came to love gold jewelry and started her own small business. Alicia always had a green thumb. She loved her roses, cacti, the aroma of gardenias, and colorful bougainvillea. She had an uncanny way of always being seen as innocent and childlike no matter what mischief she got herself into and no matter how guilty she was. Alicia loved winning at mahjong and games, she enjoyed puzzles, crossword, and crocheting. She was a fierce advocate for the disabled, those in need, and those suffering. Alicia was always selfless, generous, and donated to charities as much as she could.

Alicia is survived by her husband, Celso, sons Alvin and Celso Jr., and daughters Eileen and Sheila. She was fortunate to have grandchildren Melanie, Tiffany, Rachel, Alexandria, and Ethan as well as great grandchildren Marlee, Andy, Jordan, and Joi; and many relatives.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It is usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and acquaintances of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and remember the deceased, while also providing essential information to those who knew them. They help to notify others of the person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences to the family.

What information is typically included in an obituary?

A standard obituary usually includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral services, memorial donations, and other relevant details.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or obituary writer may assist with writing the obituary.

How long does it take to write an obituary?

The time it takes to write an obituary can vary depending on the complexity and length of the notice. On average, it can take anywhere from 30 minutes to several hours to write a well-crafted obituary.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it is possible to write your own obituary in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy. However, it's essential to keep in mind that your loved ones may still need to add or modify information after your passing.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the most basic information. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life and accomplishments.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

To submit an obituary to a newspaper, you can usually find instructions on their website or by contacting their obituary department directly. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for publication.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, many online platforms and funeral home websites allow you to publish an obituary online. This can be a convenient way to share the news with a wider audience and provide a permanent tribute to the deceased.

How long does an obituary stay online?

The duration that an obituary remains online varies depending on the platform or website. Some websites may keep obituaries online permanently, while others may remove them after a certain period.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many online platforms and newspapers allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and help others remember the deceased.

What is the cost of publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the newspaper, online platform, or funeral home. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to $1,000 or more for publication.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to make minor corrections or updates to an already-published obituary. However, significant changes may not be allowed due to space constraints or other limitations.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you notice errors or inaccuracies in an already-published obituary, contact the publication or platform immediately. They may be able to correct the mistakes or issue a correction notice.

What is a living obituary?

A living obituary is a self-written tribute that celebrates a person's life while they are still alive. It can be a unique way to reflect on one's accomplishments and share gratitude with loved ones.

Can I use humor in an obituary?

Yes, humor can be an appropriate way to celebrate the personality and spirit of the deceased. However, be mindful of the tone and ensure that it remains respectful and tasteful.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

When dealing with sensitive information such as cause of death or personal struggles, approach the topic with compassion and discretion. Consider consulting with family members or close friends before including such details.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or poems can be a meaningful way to add depth and emotion to an obituary. Choose pieces that resonate with the deceased's personality or spirit.

What is the purpose of an obituary guestbook?

An online guestbook allows friends and family to leave condolences, share memories, and pay tribute to the deceased. It can provide comfort and support to those grieving during a difficult time.

How long do people typically keep an obituary?

Families often keep copies of an obituary as a keepsake or memento for years to come. Some may also choose to frame or display it as part of a memorial tribute.

Can I create a memorial webpage instead of an obituary?

Yes, memorial webpages have become increasingly popular as a way to honor loved ones who have passed away. These pages can include photos, stories, videos, and other tributes that celebrate their life.

What are some alternative ways to announce a death besides an obituary?

Besides traditional print or online obituaries, families may choose to announce a death through social media posts, email notifications, phone calls, or personal visits.

Can I write multiple versions of an obituary for different audiences?

Yes, it's common for families to create multiple versions of an obituary tailored for different groups or communities. For example, one version might be more formal for publication in a newspaper, while another is more casual for sharing on social media.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

To ensure accuracy when writing an obituary, verify facts with multiple sources whenever possible. Double-check dates, names, and other details before submitting the notice for publication.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary or need guidance during this difficult time, consider reaching out to a funeral home director, grief counselor, or professional writer for assistance.