Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapels, LLC Obituaries

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Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapels, LLC is a trusted and compassionate funeral home located at 1040 Route 31, Macedon, NY, 14502. For years, the dedicated team at Murphy Funeral Home has been providing exceptional funeral services to families in Macedon and surrounding areas. With a deep understanding of the importance of honoring loved ones, the funeral home offers a range of personalized services to help families celebrate the lives of their dearly departed.

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The story of Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapels, LLC began with a commitment to serving families with dignity and respect. The funeral home's founders were driven by a passion to provide a safe and comforting environment where families could come together to mourn, celebrate, and heal. Today, the funeral home continues to build on this legacy, offering a level of care and compassion that is unmatched in the region.

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Robert E. Lloyd, Jr. - July 27, 1961 - April 15, 2022

Departed: 04/15/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: Ontario – Robert passed away on April 15, 2022 at age 60 with his family by his side.  He was predeceased by his mother, Patricia Ericson and stepson, Albert.

Robert is survived by his father, Robert Lloyd; wife, Kelley Lloyd; daughters, Ashley and Abbey; stepson, Anthony; sister, Connie. Robert is also survived by his grandchildren, nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

Robert was a member of the Sons of the American Legion Post #428, Ontario, NY.

Family and friends may gather for visitation from 3-5 PM on Thursday (April 21) at Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapels, 1961 Ridge Rd., Ontario, NY 14519.  Robert will privately be laid to rest in Furnaceville Cemetery.

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Robert W. Jensen - Unknown - April 14, 2022

Departed: 04/14/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: Robert W. Jensen Sr. passed away unexpectedly on April 14th 2022, at age 79. Survived by his loving wife of 50 years, a sister, three sons, beloved grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces and nephews.

Bob was unconditional in his willingness to help others, and his creativity knew no bounds. His personality and talents earned him many meaningful and long-lasting relationships with his friends, neighbors, and family.

A Xerox retiree, Bob was also a long-time member of the Heritage Square Museum in the Town of Ontario NY where he enjoyed participating in the newsletters as well as creating and maintaining the website for a number of years.  Bob kept his technical and creative skills sharp with his own business too, “Creative Designs II,” making marketing materials and greeting cards for customers, friends, and family.  Most of all, he enjoyed working with his hands. Bob spent countless hours in his workshop fixing and creating a wide array of beautifully crafted items. Some friends and family were lucky enough to get a handmade gift from him. As we plan for an intimate family service at a later date, the family appreciates your thoughts and prayers and asks that in lieu of flowers, you consider visiting or donating to your local historical society or the Heritage Square Museumin Bob’s name, Heritage Square Museum (google.com)

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Joan M. Spaulding - October 22, 1937 - March 30, 2022

Departed: 03/30/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: Joan M. Spaulding

Ontario:  Passed away peacefully at her home  Thursday, March 30, 2022 at the age of 84.  Predeceased by her husband Edward; son Michael and brother Gerald Feeney.  Survived by her daughter Anne (Jean-Paul Scott) Spaulding; son Timothy (Kim)  Spaulding; grandson Gregory Spaulding and granddaughter Isabel Spaulding; nieces, cousins and dear friends.  Joan was a teacher's aide for many years at Wayne Central.

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Donald A. Kossuth - Unknown - March 24, 2022

Departed: 03/24/2022 (Ontario)

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KOSSUTH - Donald A., ChE, PE Of Tonawanda TWP., March 24, 2022.

UPDATE: Services were conducted by the D. LAWRENCE GINNANE FUNERAL HOME, 3215 Delaware Ave.  A Mass of Christian Burial was at St. John the Baptist RC Church. Inurnment will take place at the Calvary Cemtery, Ontario, NY under the direction of the Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapels, Saturday, May 7, 2022 at 11AM.

Husband of 53 years to the late Helen E. "Murphy" Kossuth. Son of the late Andrew and Elizabeth Curtis Kossuth. Brother of the late Jerry (Sharon) and late Louis G. Kossuth. Brother-in-law of Richard (Shirley) Murphy. Loving uncle of Patrick, Timothy and Jamie Murphy.  Survived by many grandnieces and nephews.  Dear friend of Gail Riley-Licata.

Don was a graduate of Rensselaer Polytechnical Institute with a Chemical Engineering degree, an Army veteran, member of the Engineering Society of Buffalo, past President of the Lions Club of Kenmore, Brighton Golf League and life member of Twin Cities Elks Club.

Memorial contributions to the Lions Club of Kenmore, PO Box 663, Kenmore, NY 14217 are preferred.  To light a candle, leave a condolence, or to upload a photo please visit www.murphyfuneralservices.com.

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Mildred M. Traas - September 05, 1946 - March 20, 2022

Departed: 03/20/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: Mildred M “LeBerth” Traas, “Peaches”

Williamson:  aged 75, passed away at home on March 20, 2022.  She is predeceased by her parents Leo and Mildred “Jewett” LeBerth;  brother Leo LeBerth; sisters Geraldine Bloom, Carol Collins, Marilynn Wilson, Kathleen Owens and Judith LeBerth, and her much loved and missed grandson Devon “Markers” Traas.  She is survived by her brothers Lawrence and Francis (Susan) LeBerth; children Tracy (John) Lambie, Brandy Traas Moreno, Nicole Traas, David Traas and Dani (Zach) Quinn; her 17 grandchildren, Lauren, Megan and Sage Lambie; Cheyenne Traas, Cisco and Reyna Traas Moreno; Alex Traas, Madyson and Brayden Storey; Brian, Brandon, Damian, Shayla, Marcus and David Traas; and Kylea and Caitlin Quinn; and 2 great grandchildren, Serenity and Everett.  She will also be missed by very many nieces, nephews and friends.

Millie, affectionately known as Peach, Peaches, Peachy and Aunt Peachy was an avid bird lover and believed every life was worth saving down to the bugs in her house that she would relocate outside.  She would often get in the car and go for rides just “to see the cows”.  She cheated at board games, even going so far as to “accidentally” tip the Scrabble board over when losing, and had a habit of shouting out the answers when she clearly said she didn’t want to play.  She loved Eminem, and spent countless hours doing crossword puzzles.  She was a friend to many.  She was selfless, accepting and shared her love freely.  Millie spent many years working at Marine Midland bank, later HSBC.  After her retirement she began working at BOCES as a substitute teacher.  But her favorite job was taking care of her grandkids and watching them play sports and perform in their various activities, or just spending time with them and being in their presence.

Family and friends are invited to gather for a time of visitation on Thursday, March 31, 2022 from 4-7PM at the Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapel, 1961 Ridge Road, Ontario, NY 14519. “tears accepted, smiles and laughter welcome and appreciated.”  A Funeral Mass will be offered at St. Mary’s of the Lake Catholic Church, Walworth Road, Ontario, on Friday, April 1, 2022 at 10AM.  Interment will follow in Calvary Cemetery, Ontario, where she will be laid to rest next to her grandson Devon. Donations, in memory of Mildred, can be made to Williamson Central School District, Attn: Devon Traas Memorial Scholarship Fund, P.O. Box 900, Williamson, NY 14589.  To light a candle, leave a condolence, or to upload a photo please visit www.murphyfuneralservices.com.

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Frederick W. "Freddie" Bouchard - March 20, 1934 - March 15, 2022

Departed: 03/15/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: Ontario - Frederick W. Bouchard “Freddie” passed away peacefully on March 15th, 2022. Predeceased by his loving wife of 50 years, Carolyn Ann and son, Phillip Bouchard. He is survived by his brother, Joseph Bouchard; devoted daughters, Gwen DeBack & Kim (Bill) Wilcox; grandchildren, Chris (Megan) DeBack, Kolby (Katie) Bouchard, Trish (Bryan) Reiber, Brittny (Vlad) Petricevic; great-grandchildren, Layla & Madelyn Bouchard, Paisley Reiber, Luka & Landon Petricevic and many nieces, nephews and dear friends.

Fred was a veteran of the United States Marine Corps and was a lifelong member of the Sheet Metal Workers Local 46.

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Maryann A. Bates - May 20, 1936 - March 14, 2022

Departed: 03/14/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: Maryann A. Bates: On Monday, March 14, 2022 at age 85, after a brief illness. She was predeceased by her husband, Charles "Chuck" Bates; her brother, George Adams; and brother-in-law, Paul Duerr Sr.  She leaves behind her identical twin sister, Marilyn Duerr; sons Ray (Katie) Bates, Roy (Gretchen) Bates and their children, Alex and Brittany Sonneville. She was also loved by her dear sister-in-law, Beverly Adams;  special nephews, Paul Duerr Jr., Troy Duerr and Shawn Adams and their families.

Maryann and Chuck spent family time camping around the country with their sons.  In their retirement they spent many winters in Texas enjoying country music and warm weather.  In recent years, she kept busy with her many friends in Webster. Her family will miss her sense of humor and her thoughtfulness.

Family and friends are invited to gather for visitation from 10-11AM, on Saturday, March 19, 2022 at the Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapel, 1961 Ridge Road, Ontario, NY 14519.  A service of remembrance will be offered at 11AM.  Interment will follow at the Furnaceville Cemetery next to her husband Chuck.  Memorial donations in memory of Maryann may be directed to your favorite charity.  To light a candle, leave a condolence, or to upload a photo please visit www.murphyfuneralservices.com.

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Michael T. McGarry - November 25, 1955 - March 12, 2022

Departed: 03/12/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: Michael T. McGarry

Ontario:  On Saturday, March 12, 2022, Michael T. McGarry passed away at the age of 66 years young. Michael was born to the late Thomas and Hedy "Mueller" McGarry on November 25, 1955 in Rochester, NY. Michael is predeceased by his loving partner  Sharon Perry; sisters Ellen Whitman and Kathleen McGarry. Michael (aka "Santa Claus" due to his curly white hair and stature) is survived by his siblings; sister Patricia (Frank) Mahns of Spencerport; brothers Daniel (Lynda)  and Matthew (Jody) McGarry; several nieces, nephews, extended family members and  friends. He loved big furry dogs and will also be missed by his cat "Kitty". Michael was interested in woodworking as a young man, and this hobby eventually resulted in his ownership of MTM Woodworking.  Michael was also an avid cook, and the owner/operator of  Rochester's Mad Mike's Chicken Wings on South Ave.  He will always be remembered as a loving and caring man.  Michael lived by the motto: "treat everyone equally, rich or poor, young or old".

A service and celebration of Michael's life will be held at a later date. The family wishes to thank all those who helped Michael for their loving care.  If you wish, donations in memory of Michael, may be made to the American Diabetes Association,  or the charity of your choice. Mike will be greatly missed and leaves us rich with many memories.  To light a candle, leave a condolence, or to upload a photo please visit www.murphyfuneralservices.com.

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Leonard A. Roberts - December 27, 1958 - March 10, 2022

Departed: 03/10/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: ONTARIO, NY: Leonard A Roberts, 63, passed peacefully Thursday March 10th,  2022 at his home  surrounded by his family after a long illness.

Born December 27th, 1958 in Fort Edward to Jane Elizabeth Roberts and the late Leonard A. Roberts, Len was a 1977 graduate of Fort Edward High School and 1981 Graduate of the University of Rochester. He married his wife of 39 years, Tracy Ann Kiefer on June 5th 1982. He worked for Wegmans Food Markets for 31 years holding various positions and retiring from human resources in 2018, and then enjoyed working at the Home Depot.

Len loved cooking, gardening, boating, campfires, and sewing. He also enjoyed building and doing DIY projects with his daughters and friends. Len was a song leader and also enjoyed singing in the church choir.

He was a loving father and grandfather “Pa” who cherished time spent with his children and grandchildren. He enthusiastically attended his daughter’s activities through the years. His joyful boisterous laugh echoed through the air and was contagious.

He was predeceased by his father, Leonard A. Roberts.  Len is survived by his wife, Tracy Roberts; his three daughters, Elizabeth (Trevor) Szklany, Sarah J. Roberts (Dan Morell), Lauren (Nicolas) Femia; grandchildren, Ezra Adam Szklany and Charley Elizabeth Femia of Rochester. Len is also survived by his mother, Jane Elizabeth Roberts; brothers, Jeffrey (Theresa) Roberts, Thomas (Marian) Roberts ,Timothy (Deborah) Roberts, Aunt Judy (Murray) Broderick; father-In law, Rene Kiefer; sisters-In-law, Colleen Smith, Susan (James) Reszetucha; several nieces, nephews, cousins and fur babies.

Friends and family may call Monday (March 14) from 4-7pm at Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapels, 1961 Ridge Road, Ontario NY. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. on Tuesday March 15th at St. Mary’s of the Lake Church, 5823 Walworth Road, Ontario NY. Len will be laid to rest in Calvary Cemetery.

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Roberta L. Stevenson - August 15, 1944 - March 10, 2022

Departed: 03/10/2022 (Ontario)

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Ontario – Roberta passed away on March 10, 2022 at age 77.  She was predeceased by her mother, Millicent Wickman; father, Vernon (Helen) Wickman; granddaughter, Marina.

Roberta is survived by her husband of 53 years, Robert Stevenson; children, Sean (Janeen) Stevenson, Melanie Stevenson, and Joanne (Dan) Dall; grandchildren, Imara, Mason, and Miller; siblings, Scott Wickman and Doug (Karen) Wickman; several nieces and nephews.

Roberta was a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and teacher. She loved spending time in her beautiful flower garden and feeding the birds, especially the hummingbirds. Roberta and Robert enjoyed traveling and visiting family. Perhaps her most cherished role was that of Nana to her grandchildren. She loved to read stories to them, do fun projects, and could always be seen in the audience of their school and sporting events. Roberta will be dearly missed by all who knew her.

Family and friends may gather for visitation from 4-7 PM on Thursday (March 17) at Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapels, 1961 Ridge Rd., Ontario, NY 14519.  A memorial service for Roberta will be held on Friday (March 18), 10:30 AM at St. Mary’s of the Lake Church, 5823 Walworth Rd., Ontario, NY 14519.  Roberta will be laid to rest in Furnaceville Cemetery.

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Robert J. Hinchman - April 10, 1931 - March 06, 2022

Departed: 03/06/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: Robert J. Hinchman 4/10/1931 – 3/6/2022

Born to Robert B. and Helen "Tosch" Hinchman. Bob was a great father, husband, and friend to all. He loved music and reading. He played harmonica, guitar, and bagpipes. He was interested in French, Gaelic, and Spanish languages. He was active in 4H for horse shows and learned to shoe horses.

He worked at Singer, Xerox, and for many years at Wayne Central, as a cleaner, and in maintenance.

He was predeceased by his sister-in-law Jane Hinchman; brother-in-law Bobby Schum and grandson Ian Christopher Hinchman.  He is survived by his loving wife of 65 years Joanne "Schum" Hinchman; children Robert G (Kimberly) Hinchman, James (Angie) Hinchman, Donald (Melody) Hinchman, Barbara Hinchman, David Hinchman, Helen Cutler; brother George Hinchman; sister Carl (Bob) Aeckerle; brother-in-law Ed (Sharon) Schum; sister-in-law Carolyn Schum; many grandchildren and  great grandchildren; good friends Cyrus, Beth, and Joe.

Services will be held at a later date.  To light a candle, leave a condolence, or to upload a photo please visit www.murphyfuneralservices.com.

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Shirley Ann Kozak - April 26, 1948 - March 01, 2022

Departed: 03/01/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: Shirley Ann Kozak

Ontario – Shirley passed away on Tuesday, March 1, 2022.  She was predeceased by her father, Charles Campbell; sister, Diane Lynch; brother, Robert Campbell; niece, Donna Marie.

Shirley is survived by her husband of 56 years, Gerald A. Kozak; children, Lisa (Dave) Warfle and Denise (Timothy Taylor) Kozak; grandchildren, Gerald A. Kozak II, Nichole Kozak, Brandon and Chelsie Graffrath; mother, June Campbell; brother, Charles (Ellie) Campbell; several nieces and nephews.

Family and friends may gather for visitation from 1-4 PM on Sunday (March 6) at Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapels, 1961 Ridge Rd., Ontario, NY. A Mass of Christian Burial for Shirley will be offered on Monday (March 7), 10:30 AM at St. Mary’s of the Lake Church, 5823 Walworth Rd., Ontario, NY.  Shirley will be laid to rest in Calvary Cemetery.

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Darlene Gulisano - Unknown - February 23, 2022

Departed: 02/23/2022 (Ontario)

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Macedon – Darlene passed away on February 23, 2022.  She is predeceased by her parents, Orin and Ruth Alden; and brother, Arnold Alden.

Darlene is survived by her children, David (Chris) Gulisano, Jr., Denise Gulisano, Linda Vanvoris; ex-husband, David Gulisano; grandchildren; great grandchildren; sisters, Carol Draper and Linda Heath; many nieces, nephews, great nieces and great nephews.

All services are private.  To leave the family an online condolence, please visit Darlene’s tribute wall, www.fingerlakescremationllc.com.

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James L. Day - July 25, 1934 - February 18, 2022

Departed: 02/18/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: Marion – Jim passed away peacefully on February 18, 2022.  He was predeceased by his brothers, Bob and Earl Day and sister, Marge Day.

Jim is survived by his wife, Christine; sister, Nancy Day; and many dear friends.

Jim proudly served his country in the United States Armed Forces.  He worked for Schreiber Farms for many years and retired as head custodian from Webster Schroeder High School.  Jim loved all animals, especially horses and spending time in the countryside.

Contributions in memory of Jim may be directed to Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, www.lls.org or to Covid Research, cdcfoundation.org.  To leave the family an online condolence, please visit Jim’s tribute wall, www.murphyfuneralservices.com.

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William G. Dostman - March 20, 1944 - February 08, 2022

Departed: 02/08/2022 (Ontario)

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Walworth – William passed away on February 8, 2022.  He was born in Rochester, NY to Charles and Margaret Dostman.

William is survived by his wife, Shirley Dostman; children, William II (Sandy) Dostman, Todd (Lynn Gumina) Dostman, Stephanie Hawkins (Jim)  Tammy Dostman, and Caroline (Randy) Vanslyke; grandchildren, William III (PeiLin) Dostman, Tara (Nick) Palmer, Timothy (Ashley)Dostman, Cody (Lindsay Conger), Ryan, Brandon, Dostman,  Brittany (Michael Dougherty) Michael Dostman, Rick Caruana,  Courtney  Pecini (Brian Cotterman),  Nicole Pescini, Amanda (Adam) Cowen 15 great grandchildren; brother, Charles (Joyce) Dostman and sister, Barbara (John) Milks. Many nieces and nephews.

Family and friends may gather for visitation from 4-7 PM on Tuesday (February 15) at Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapels, 1961 Ridge Rd., Ontario, NY 14519.  A funeral service for William will be held on Wednesday (February 16), 10:30 AM at Walworth United Methodist Church, 3679 Main St., Walworth, NY 14568.  William will be laid to rest in Furnaceville Cemetery.

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James S. Church - October 22, 1943 - February 02, 2022

Departed: 02/02/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: James S. Church “Jim”

Ontario – Jim passed away on February 2, 2022 at age 78.  He was born in Rochester to the late Benjamin (Stan) and Doris Church.  Jim was also predeceased by his brother, Richard Thomas and daughters, Linda Lou and Lorraine Ann Church.

Jim is survived by his wife, Gloria Church; children, David Church and Jill (Bob) Heimrich.

Jim graduated from Wayne Central School in 1961.  He retired after 31 years from Kodak. Jim loved sports and was an avid fan of the Yankees and Buffalo Bills. In his spare time, Jim enjoyed watching movies and listening to all genres of music.

For many years, Jim was a greeter and usher at St. Mary's of the Lake Church.

Family and friends may gather for visitation from 4-7 PM on Monday (February 7) at Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapels, 1961 Ridge Rd., Ontario, NY 14519.  A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Tuesday (February 8), 10:30 AM at St. Mary’s of the Lake Church, 5823 Walworth Rd., Ontario, NY 14519.  Jim will be laid to rest in Calvary Cemetery.  Please leave Jim’s family an online condolence by visiting his online tribute wall, www.murphyfuneralservices.com.

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Frank Hertlein - Unknown - February 02, 2022

Departed: 02/02/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: Frank Hertlein “Papa”

Ontario – Frank passed away on February 2, 2022 at age 86.  He was born in Buffalo, NY and moved to Ontario, NY in 1966. He was predeceased by his parents; Karl and Anna Hertlein, his brother and sister-in-law Joseph (Jean) Hertlein, sister-in-law Molly Hertlein.

Frank is survived by his loving wife of 60 years, Donna; Loving father to, Marta (Steve) Crane, Mark (Kelly Stoner), Michael (Tina), twin brother, Karl (Linda), Proud Papa to; Austin (Erika) Crane, Breanna (Michael) Monachino, Nash and Ruby, Siena and Hailey, sister-in-law, Carol (Donald) Colucci, many nieces, nephews and friends.

Frank honorably served his country in the U.S. Army during the Korean War.

Frank was well known for his jokes, magic tricks and bottlecaps. He loved Nascar Racing, Spencer Speedway, snowmobiling, hunting, and fishing. He also enjoyed microding with his children as well as his grandson, Austin who he also followed onto motocross, having a cold beer, cigar and loving on his grand puppies. Frank was always bragging about his grandchildren. His hobbies were his gardens, taking care of his lawn and his home.

The family would like to express their gratitude for the kindness, compassion, and loving care to the entire staff of doctors and nurses at Highlands at Brighton, UR Medicine Hospice and the Home Care Team at the Canandaigua VA. A Mass of Christian Burial for Frank will be Saturday (April 9) at 11:00 at St Mary’s of the Lake Church 5823 Walworth Rd, Ontario.  A live stream of Frank's Mass can be viewed https://youtu.be/TPriMC8Sd2k

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Thomas J. Hemstreet - May 04, 1966 - January 27, 2022

Departed: 01/27/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: Thomas J. Hemstreet, 55, of Ontario passed away suddenly Thursday, January 27, 2022 as a result of a motor vehicle accident. He was the son of the late Donald and Mary Mulry Hemstreet.

Tom was a good-hearted man, involved in scouting for years. He was an Eagle Scout, who loved the outdoors and ran New York and Connecticut scout camp during summers. He worked for Wayne Central Schools as a bus driver and was well-loved by his students. Tom also loved photography and enjoy watching Star Wars with his son, Ryan.

Tom is survived by his beloved son, Ryan Hemstreet of Ontario, NY;  one brother, Donald Hemstreet of New Baltimore, NY; two sisters, Catherine Saxton of Hamden, CT and Peggy (Chuck) Fulkerson of Dunnellon, FL; and sister-in-law Kathryn Hemstreet of Ansonia, CT. He was predeceased by his brother Charles Hemstreet in September 2020. He leaves several nieces, nephews, and cousins who adored him and tons of scouting friends and families. Memorial service at a later date. To light a candle, leave a condolence, or to upload a photo please visit www.murphyfuneralservices.com

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Wesley Harvey Backus - September 12, 1933 - January 16, 2022

Departed: 01/16/2022 (Ontario)

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Williamson:  Born September 12, 1933 in Rushford, NY, Wes went to be with the Lord on January 16, 2022 at the age of 88. Residing in Williamson and formerly of Ontario, NY, Wes passed away peacefully Sunday at Rochester General Hospital after a 15 year battle with lung and heart issues. He was predeceased by his parents, the late George C. Backus and Carmaine Adelia Fleming; brother Murray “Toby” Backus; sister Beatrice (Fred) Dunham all from Rushford; granddaughter Sarah Kern of Newark and beloved nephew David Dunham.

He was the beloved husband of Susan "Kelsey" Backus with whom he shared 20 wonderful years. Wes, and his first wife, Mary Aker had four children, Pam Backus of Williamson, Lori Backus (Eric Stephens) of Spencer, Paul Backus of Williamson, and Dr. John Backus (Teri Erwin) of Henrietta. Wes also greatly enjoyed his stepchildren Kenneth “Corky” Kelsey (Wendy Warren) of Ontario and Robert Kelsey (Melinda Plakus) of Macedon who he treated as his own; grandchildren, Olivia Kern of Sodus, Hannah Stephens of Colorado Springs, Julia Stephens of Syracuse, Alicia Maxwell (Mark Orosz) of Boston, Rachel Backus (Christopher Webb) of Henrietta, Adam Backus (Laura) of East Rochester; step grandchildren, Clint Kelsey and Brooke Kelsey both of Ontario; great grandchildren: Natalie, Tristan, Lincoln, Samantha, Jonah, Adam, Antonio, Evan, and Adam Jr.

In Wes’ early years he used skills learned on the family farm in Rushford to work on the Zuber Farms as he loved all animals. He also worked at Perry Bowling Alley as a pin setter. After graduating in 1952 from Edison Tech in Rochester, he enlisted with the US Navy at San Antonio, Texas alongside his cousin Billy Wagner of Uvalde, Texas.  Wes served proudly aboard the USS Pine Island (Currituck Class Seaplane Tender AV-12) as a Machinist Mate from 1952 to 1956. During the Korean conflict his unit was responsible for patrolling and protecting the Formosa Straights. Upon his return with an honorable discharge from service duties he enrolled at Rochester Institute of Technology and in parallel started his career at RG&E on May 26, 1958. Wes remained there for 35 years and loved every minute of it! Some of his positions included Fossil Plant Boiler Operator, Gina Station Control Operator, Head Control Operator, Shift Operator, Operation Supervisor, Staff Assistant to VP of Nuclear Operations, and Technical Assistant to the Operations Manager. In retirement, Wes continued his work in the nuclear industry by serving as a contractor of the NSARB for five years. Other loves during retirement included being the neighborhood grandfather, hosting picnics, pool parties, woodworking and watching his own grandchildren grow up. Wes enjoyed “snowbirding” in Frostproof, FL, bowling, cruises and traveling to Texas and Oklahoma to visit relatives. Wes was a member of the Williamson American Legion, Post 394. Friends wishing to make memorial contributions may do so in Wes’ memory to the American Legion or North Ontario United Methodist Church.

No prior calling hours. Interment will be privately held at Lake View Cemetery, Pultneyville, NY at a later date.  A memorial service to celebrate the life of Wes, with military honors, will be held at 11AM, Saturday, February 12, 2022 at North Ontario United Methodist Church. 7200 Ontario Center Road, Ontario, NY. All are welcome to join us for lite refreshments following the service. To light a candle, leave a condolence, or to upload a photo please visit www.murphyfuneralservices.com.

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Lauri A. Cleason - April 08, 1963 - January 15, 2022

Departed: 01/15/2022 (Ontario)

Obituary Preview: Lauri Ann Cleason “Lor” “Love ya Lady” “Mama Bear”

Palmyra: Was a caring wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend. She left this world suddenly on January 15th, 2022, at 58 years old, with her family by her side at Newark Wayne Community hospital.

Lauri was born Monday, April 8th,1963, in Ithaca NY to William and Bonnie Thibodeau. Lauri would move several times in her early life before settling in Canandaigua NY where she would attend Canandaigua Academy and then CCFL (FLCC). While studying in college she met her future husband, Gregg Cleason. She attained her Associates Degree in Business Administration, upon her graduation.

After being married Lauri and Gregg would move out West during Gregg’s service in the military only to return to Palmyra NY, 6 years later,  where they would raise their two daughters Jehenna and Rachelle. Lauri was a well-known individual in the Palmyra community working for many years as a Pharmacy Technician at the local Rite Aid (now Walgreen’s) pharmacy where her warm smile and friendly disposition comforted many. Lauri was known for her infectious smile, kind, warm hugs and welcoming personality.  Her interests included reading, hiking, spending time with her family, watching films, antiquing, and baking (of which she would always share her cookies).

She is survived by her husband Gregg Cleason; daughters Jehenna Cleason and Rachelle Belden, mother Bonnie Thibodeau, brother Bill Thibodeau, and grandchildren Tallulah and Arlo Belden.

Lauri was preceded in death by her father William Thibodeau. Family and friends are invited to gather for a time of visitation on Wednesday, January 19, 2022 from 5 to 7PM at the Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapel, 123 East Jackson St., Palmyra, NY 14522.  Service and interment private.  To light a candle, leave a condolence, or to upload a photo please visit www.murphyfuneralservices.com. Donations may be made in Lauri’s name to the American Stroke Association https://www.heart.org/en/get-involved/ways-to-give

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Wayne David Ferry - January 02, 1942 - January 09, 2022

Departed: 01/09/2022 (Ontario)

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Ontario:  Passed away on Sunday, January 9, 2022 at the age of 80.  He was born on January 2, 1942 to the late Willis and Ruth "Laasch" Ferry.  He was also predeceased by his sister-in-law Diane Atkins and brother-in-law Keith Chamberlain.  Survived by his wife Bonnie "Atkins" Ferry; children, John Ferry, Janet (Peter) Thomas, Nisha (Michael) Cerame, David (Michele) Ferry and Brian Ferry; 9 grandchildren and step-grandchildren; sister-in-law Judy Chamberlain and brother-in-law Bruce Atkins.

Wayne served our country through the United States Army.  He was a longtime employee of the Bausch & Lomb Company, and worked in the fleet delivery department at Hoselton Auto Mall during his retirement.

Family and friends are invited to gather for a time of visitation on Saturday, January 15, 2022 from 1-4PM at the Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapel, 1961 Ridge Road, Ontario, NY 14519.  All other services will be private.  Memorial contributions in memory of Wayne may be directed to the Parkinson's Association. To light a candle, leave a condolence, or to upload a photo please visit www.murphyfuneralservices.com.

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Ann Clair Biear - January 14, 1948 - January 02, 2022

Departed: 01/02/2022 (Ontario)

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Middlesex, NY: Daughter of the late William and Clarice Yates, passed at F.F Thompson Hospital on Sunday, January 2, 2022 at the age of 73.  Ann was born on January 14,1948 in Manhattan, New York. Her passions were gardening, reading, birdwatching, crossword puzzles and she loved her trips to the casino.  Ann attended school to become an LPN and spent hours working for the community as a girl scout leader and an administrator at Cobblestone Manor. She is survived by her 2 children; Charmain Bassett of Middlesex NY, Charity (William) Chrysler of Middlesex NY; 8 grandchildren, Oh Nickalis, Tyler, Codie, Amber, William, Hunter, Lillian, Emily; and 1 great grandchild Addison May Bassett. Ann was predeceased by her lifelong companion Donald V. Swisher and brother Harry W. Yates. Ann had a requested no public service. A private service will be held by the family at a later date.  To light a candle, leave a condolence, or to upload a photo please visit www.murphyfuneralservices.com

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Elwood L. Smith - December 26, 1945 - January 02, 2022

Departed: 01/02/2022 (Ontario)

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Marion:  Elwood passed away peacefully with his family by his side on January 2, 2022 at age 76.  He is survived by his wife of 54 years, Helen Smith; 6 children, Tammy (Kevin) Piccola, Randy (Krista) Smith, Melinda (Dan) Roberts, Gary (Wendy) Smith, Kristie (Joe) Keller, Brian (Desi) Smith; 17 grandchildren, Derek, Paige, Stephanie, Austin, Sean, Meghan, Erin, Jessica, Kyle, Kensey, Taylor, Olivia, Madison, Teagan, Tristan, Taiva & the newest addition Trinick; siblings Virginia, Eugene, Leon and Steven.  Predeceased by his sister Nancy. Also survived by several dear farm friends and RTS friends.

Elwood was a Pal-Mac graduate.  He worked at Mobil Chemical for 23 years while also running a farm.  He was a dedicated farmer who worked hard and loved his family and animals.  He successfully raised 6 children as well as many foster children.  Almost everyone would agree that Elwood was a jack of all trades and extremely intelligent.  He was a human encyclopedia.  He could fix anything and knew everything about anything.  He taught his children to live off the land by growing your own food and raising animals.  He was very active in the Wayne & Ontario County Beekeepers club.  He would often mentor new beekeepers teaching them the importance of honeybees to our earth and food supply.  He was also a member of the Wayne County Bird Club.  Elwood had an adventurous spirit and recently zip lined at 75 years young.  He passed this adventurous spirit, love of nature and hard work ethic on to all of his children.  You would often see Elwood and his kids at the Wayne County Fair showing their animals, sheering sheep, setting up honeybee displays.  Elwood was always available to lend a hand whether you needed help building something, life advice, or picking up a homeless person and taking them to a hotel to get warm.  Elwood worked at RTS and had no plans of retiring.  He loved working and he loved his job.

A celebration of Elwood's life will be announced at a date and time to be determined.  To leave a condolence, light a candle, or to upload a photo please visit www.murphyfuneralservices.com.

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Pauline May Breezee - September 24, 1923 - December 29, 2021

Departed: 12/29/2021 (Ontario)

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Sodus – Pauline passed away on December 29, 2021 at age 98.  She was born in Watertown, NY to Walter and Grace Montague.  Pauline was also predeceased by her brother, Wayne and sister, Ruth.

Pauline is survived by her daughter, Helen Breezee; grandchildren, Helen Calus, Emily (Steve) Fisher, Scott (Karen) Carpenter, Amy (Lenny) Miller, Peggy Carpenter, Paula Carpenter, and Lisa Carpenter; 23 grandchildren; many great great grandchildren; many nieces and nephews.

Pauline was a hard worker and always true to her family.  She enjoyed baking for her family and her sour cream chocolate chip cookies are considered among her best.  Pauline also enjoyed shopping, crafts and caring for children.  She loved attending church and was often referred to “Choir Mother”.

Family and friends may gather from 4-6 PM on Tuesday (January 4) at Murphy Funeral & Cremation Chapels, 1961 Ridge Rd., Ontario, NY, where her funeral service will be held at 6 PM.  Contributions in memory of Pauline may be directed to any charity for children.  To leave the family an online condolence, please visit www.murphyfuneralservices.com.

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Paul Gary Kaplan - Unknown - December 23, 2021

Departed: 12/23/2021 (Ontario)

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Ontario – Paul passed away on December 23, 2021 at age 64.  He was predeceased by his mother, Francine Kaplan and brother, Jeff Kaplan.

Paul is survived by his brothers, Michael (Jayne) and Joel Kaplan; nephews, Dan, David, and Mark Kaplan; beloved dogs, Mavra and Max.

A celebration of Paul’s life will be announced at a date and time to be determined.  Please leave the family an online condolence by visiting Paul’s Tribute Wall, www.murphyfuneralservices.com.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, achievements, and surviving family members.

What is the purpose of an obituary?

The primary purpose of an obituary is to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing and to provide details about their life and legacy. It also serves as a way to honor and celebrate the deceased person's life.

Who typically writes an obituary?

Obituaries are often written by family members or close friends of the deceased, but they can also be written by funeral homes or professional obituary writers.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about memorial services or donations in lieu of flowers.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the individual's life story. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a few paragraphs.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Where are obituaries typically published?

Obituaries are often published in local newspapers, online obituary websites, funeral home websites, and social media platforms.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and the length of the obituary. Some publications offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge by the word or line.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it is becoming increasingly common for people to write their own obituaries before they pass away. This allows them to have control over how they want to be remembered and what information is shared about their life.

What is the etiquette for writing an obituary?

When writing an obituary, it's essential to be respectful, honest, and accurate. Avoid using overly sentimental language or making negative comments about the deceased or their loved ones.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

To submit an obituary to a newspaper, contact the publication's obituary department directly or use their online submission form. Be prepared to provide detailed information about the deceased and proof of death.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. These can be recent photos or ones from throughout the person's life.

What if I want to keep the funeral private?

If you want to keep the funeral private, you can still publish an obituary without including details about the service. You can instead mention that a private funeral will be held or that a memorial service will be scheduled at a later date.

Can I update an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to update an obituary after it's been published. However, this depends on the publication's policies and procedures. It's best to check with them directly before submitting changes.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The time it takes for an obituary to be published varies depending on the publication and their deadlines. Online obituaries are often published immediately, while print publications may take several days or even weeks.

Can I share an obituary on social media?

Yes, many people share obituaries on social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn. This can help spread the news quickly and allow friends and family to pay their respects online.

What if I want to include a special message or quote in the obituary?

You can definitely include a special message or quote in the obituary that reflects the person's personality or values. Just make sure it fits within the publication's guidelines and space constraints.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary. This allows friends and family to make a donation in memory of the deceased instead of sending flowers.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can find old obituaries through online archives, genealogy websites, libraries, or by contacting local historical societies. Some publications also maintain archives of past issues that can be searched online.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for a long time?

Yes, you can still write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for a long time. This can be a meaningful way to honor their memory and share their story with others.

What if I'm not sure what information to include in an obituary?

If you're unsure what information to include in an obituary, consider talking to family members or friends who knew the deceased well. You can also consult with a funeral home or professional writer for guidance.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include humorous anecdotes or quotes in an obituary to reflect the person's personality and spirit. Just be sure to keep it respectful and tasteful.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an already-published obituary?

If you discover errors or inaccuracies in an already-published obituary, contact the publication directly and provide corrected information. They may issue a correction or reprint the revised obituary.

What if I want to create a memorial website or online tribute instead of publishing an obituary?

You can create a memorial website or online tribute as a way to honor your loved one's memory. These platforms allow you to share stories, photos, and memories with others who knew them.

Can I republish an existing obituary on another platform?

In most cases, yes, you can republish an existing obituary on another platform with permission from the original publisher. Be sure to check their copyright policies before sharing elsewhere.