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Richard Dennis Lynch - September 03, 1943 - May 17, 2021

Departed: 05/17/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Richard Dennis Lynch, of West Haven passed away May 17, 2021 at Lord Chamberlain Nursing & Rehabilitation Center surrounded by family. He was the beloved husband of 59 years of Valerie Modzelewski Lynch. Born in New Haven on September 3, 1943, son of the late Robert and Ethel Behnke Lynch, Richard was a proud US Navy veteran serving during the VietNam Conflict. Following his service, he was appointed to the New Haven Fire Department where he served as a firefighter and paramedic for 25 years. He later worked for AMR as a supervisor and community outreach manager for 10 years. He was beloved by his colleagues for his skills and sense of humor. Richard was an avid golfer and a member of the New Haven County Firefighters Emerald Society. He is the proud father of Robert (Christine) Lynch and Kimberly (Joseph) Keane. Brother of Barbara Corso, Susan (John) Bowen, and John Lynch. Grandfather of Robert Lynch, III, Hannah Lynch, Molly Keane, Aidan Lynch, and Connor Lynch. Also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, and great nieces and nephews. Richard's family would like to offer their thanks to the staff at Lord Chamberlain for the exceptional care they provided him during his illness.

Visiting hours will be held Friday evening from 4:00-7:00 in the Monahan, Cox, Smith & Crimmins Funeral Home, Inc. 11 Wooster Place in New Haven. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Saturday morning at 10:00 in St. Michael Church. Burial will follow in Beaverdale Memorial Park. Masks and social distancing are required for all services. Memorial contributions may be made to Lord Chamberlain Health & Rehab 7003 Main St. Stratford, CT 06614.

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Jeanne E. Eichelsdoerfer - August 16, 1921 - March 31, 2021

Departed: 03/31/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Jeanne Eichelsdoerfer at 99, died March 31, as the result of complications from a fall.  After graduating  from Smith College, she joined the Naval Women's Reserve - WAVES (Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Service). Always an avid horsewoman, an independent and active person, she lived in Bethany for 30 years. There will be a memorial service on June 6, 2021, at Lakeview Lodge in Veterans Memorial Park from 2 to 4 pm.

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Barbara M. Kavanagh - June 15, 1944 - March 21, 2021

Departed: 03/21/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Barbara M. Kavanagh, of East Haven, passed away peacefully at her home on March 21, 2021. She was the loving and caring wife of Edward T. Kavanagh for forty-five years. Born in New Haven on June 15, 1944, she was the eldest daughter of the late Kenneth and Genevieve Coleman Griffiths. As a young woman she was very active in Rainbow Girls and rose to the position of Worthy Advisor and eventually held a position at the state level. Barbara received her RN degree from Central Connecticut State university and went on to be a nurse at Yale New Haven Hospital for over forty years. She was a passionate and active parishioner of the Old Stone Church in East Haven, heading up Lay Ministry for nearly twenty years as well as being on every committee she could. She also served on the Town Council of East Haven for several years. She was the devoted sister of Nancy Worms. She was a beloved aunt of Katie Donroe and her husband Adam and Wendy Worms and her husband Brett Wilson and a doting great-aunt to Oliver and Paisley Donroe and Benjamin and Nathaniel Wilson.

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Rev. Robert J. Burbank - January 06, 1938 - February 04, 2021

Departed: 02/04/2021 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: The Rev. Robert J. Burbank, 83, retired Pastor Emeritus of St. Vincent de Paul Church in East Haven died February 4, 2021 in Yale New Haven Hospital. Born in Hartford on January 6, 1938, son of the late Walter and Margaret Furlong Burbank, he attended St. Augustine School, Cathedral High School and Holy Trinity High School, all in Hartford, before entering St. Thomas Seminary in Bloomfield. After completing his studies at St. Mary Seminary in Baltimore, MD, he was ordained to the priesthood on May 7, 1964 by Archbishop Henry J. O’Brien. Fr. Burbank was Assistant Pastor at the Immaculate Conception in Waterbury, St. Thomas in Thomaston and Assumption Parish in Manchester. He then became the Administrator of St. Gabriel Parish in Milford, and later St. Stephen in Hamden. On December 6, 1973 he became Co-Pastor of St. Rita Parish in Hamden. He was then appointed to St. James Parish in Manchester until May of 1984 when he became the priest-member of the First Collaborative Ministry Team. Together with Deacon Richard Santello and Pastoral Minister Gail Bellucci, he established and pastured the Parish of St. Elizabeth Seton in Rocky Hill. On August 1, 1996, he became Pastor Emeritus at St. Vincent de Paul Parish in East Haven. From 2008-2016, Father Bob was retired, in residence at St. Mary Church in Branford. Fr. Burbank received a Certificate of Pastoral Counseling from Connecticut Valley Hospital, and pursued further studies at Loyola University in Baltimore, the American College in Louvain, Belgium, and the University of California at Berkeley. He was chair of the Priests Retreat Commission for many years, and then was appointed Director of Liturgy and Music for the Archdiocese of Hartford until 1995. During that time, he taught Liturgy in various places and was an active member of the national Federation of Diocesan Liturgical Commission for many years. Fr. Burbank led many weekends for the Cursillo movement and preached retreats for liturgy committee members and Catholic School faculties, among others. He was predeceased by his parents and his brother Rev. William M. Burbank. He is survived by several cousins.

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John Joseph Pierson Jr. - June 03, 1943 - August 31, 2020

Departed: 08/31/2020 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: John Joseph Pierson Jr., of Branford passed away August 31, 2020 at the Summit of Plantsville. Born in New Haven on June 3, 1943 son of the late John Joseph Pierson Sr. and Elizabeth Casey Pierson, John worked for Yale University for almost 40 years. He had a great love of his Irish heritage and was a member of the New Haven Gaelic Football & Hurling Club. John was an avid sports fan and could be heard cheering on the NY Yankees and NY Giants. He is the beloved father of Janine Pierson and her partner Kris. Brother of the late Marilyn and Elizabeth Pierson. He is also survived by his former wife and friend Doreen Briggs Pierson and several nieces, nephews, and cousins,

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a  Mass of Christian Burial on Saturday September 12, 2020 at 11:00 AM in St. Pio of Pietrelcina Parish at Our Lady of Pompeii Church 355 Foxon Rd. in East Haven. Burial will be private. Masks and social distancing are required. The Monahan, Cox, Smith & Crimmins Funeral Home, Inc. has been entrusted with John's arrangements.

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Evelyn Irene Lee - July 28, 1923 - August 21, 2020

Departed: 08/21/2020 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Evelyn Irene Lee, of North Haven passed away August 21, 2020.  She was the wife of the late Henry F. Lee. Born in New Haven on July 28, 1923, daughter of the late Michael and Mary Kasarda Mursko, Evelyn worked at A.C Gilbert and Firegaurd for many years. She is the beloved mother of Nancy A. Lee. Grandmother of Dr. Michael (Dr. Maria) Johnson, Jason (Abby) Johnson, and Zachary (Micayla) Johnson. Also survived by 5 great-grandchildren:  Kali, Michael, Damian, Matthew and Marlena.  She was predeceased by six sisters and four brothers. Special thanks to her caregiver Lilliam.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial on Friday September 11, 2020 at 10:00 AM in St. Elizabeth of the Trinity Parish at St. Barnabas Church 44 Washington Avenue in North Haven. Burial will follow in St. Lawrence Cemetery. Masks and social distancing is required. The Monahan, Cox, Smith & Crimmins Funeral Home, Inc. is in care of her arrangements.

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Alice Irene Behnke - January 13, 1923 - August 16, 2020

Departed: 08/16/2020 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Alice Irene Behnke, of Summerville, SC, formerly of North Branford, passed away August 16, 2020. She was the wife of the late Richard Behnke. Born in Three Rivers, MA on January 13, 1923 daughter of the late Joseph and Lydia Beauregard Pothier, Alice worked in the payroll department of SNET for many years. She is the proud and loving mother of Richard Behnke and the late Robert Behnke. Grandmother of Allison and Adam Behnke. Sister of Everett Pothier and the late Madeline Clark, Lynn Vaughn, and Robert Pothier. She is also survived by many loving nieces, nephews and great nieces and nephews.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a memorial Mass on Thursday October 15, 2020 at 11:00 AM in St. Pio of Pietrelcina Parish at St. Vincent dePaul Church 80 Taylor Avenue in East Haven . The Monahan, Cox, Smith & Crimmins Funeral Home, Inc. is in care of her arrangements.

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Raymond G. Martino - November 14, 1940 - April 11, 2020

Departed: 04/11/2020 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Raymond G. Martino, of Bethany, CT, entered into rest on April 11, 2020. He was born on November 14, 1940, in Plattsburg, New York, one of four children of Francis and Florence Martineau. For over 50 years, he was the beloved companion of Carolyn Polio. Ray also leaves behind a daughter, Phyllis Martino; grandson, Jonathan Martino; and extended family and friends.

Ray belonged to Local 478 Teamsters Union for 35 years, working as a heavy equipment operator in CT and in Saudi Arabia in the late 1970s. He was the owner of C&R Trucking, a member of the Bethany Lions Club, Bethany Horsemen, Republican Town Committee, and served on the Zoning Board of Appeals.

He enjoyed horseback riding, especially dressed as Santa, to the delight of all. Ray had a passion for country music, RV road trips, farm auctions, and sitting with a lap full of rescue cats. Another passion was driving rigs—the bigger the better.  Affectionately called “Mayor of Sperry Road, ” Ray was always very generous with his time, helping family and friends at a moment’s notice. Snowstorms were his specialty, often surprising neighbors when they discovered their driveways had been plowed.

Ray shared half of their big barn with Coco, the horse. On field trips over the years from her day care on the property, Carolyn’s little students were greeted by the huge, papier-mache Lions Club parade mascot roaring from the rafters. A special treat for the children was to sit, propped up, in the driver’s seat of the many parked treasures, including an Amish wagon, antique fire truck, backhoe, tractor, crane, and one or two RVs.

Burial will be private. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at Our Lady of the Assumption Church, Woodbridge, at a future date.

Donations may be made to Bethany Horsemen, Inc., 340 Old Mill Road, Bethany, CT 06524 or to Bethany Volunteer Fire Department, 765 Amity Road, Bethany, CT 06524.

Funeral arrangements are being handled by Monahan, Cox, Smith, and Crimmins Funeral Home, Inc. of Wooster Square, New Haven.

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Marion G. Wolanic - September 02, 1922 - January 31, 2020

Departed: 01/31/2020 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Marion G. Wolanic, passed away January 31, 2020 at her home in Hamden, CT.  She was born on September 2, 1922 in Fair Haven and was the daughter of Grace Confrey Brunt and Eugene Confrey.  Marion was predeceased by her husband John Wolanic, her son John R. Wolanic, and brothers Richard Confrey and Robert Confrey.  She is survived by her daughter-in-law Susan Wolanic, granddaughter Tanya Bovée and her husband Robert, and her two great grandchildren Jack and Max.

Marion lived an extraordinary life.  She walked a mile to attend grammar school and graduated in a class of seven kids.  Marion’s first job was at Woolworth’s making 32¢ an hour.  She married at 18.  She worked in a factory during WWII.  Marion had her son at 23 and ran a turkey farm with her husband.  She traveled the world with her husband, going to countries like Kenya, Korea, Japan, Germany, Russia, China, Greece, Turkey, France, Greenland, Romania, Bulgaria, Italy, and Morocco. She took up genealogy and traced her family back to Franklin Pierce and traveled to Ireland with her brother and his wife to research their family history. She started nannying in her 60s and loved her extended family.  She took up golf in her 70s and went on many trips to St. Thomas with her cousins Elinor Gancarz and Marilyn Carter.  She was an amazing person who will be dearly missed.

Relatives and friends may visit with Marion’s family Saturday morning at the Monahan, Cox, Smith & Crimmins Funeral Home, Inc. 11 Wooster Place in New Haven from 9:00 to 10:30 and are invited to stay for her memorial service beginning at 10:30. Burial will follow in Centerville Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to Interfaith Volunteer Care Givers, 30 Gilles Road, Hamden, CT 06517.

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David L. Parsons - December 14, 1949 - November 24, 2019

Departed: 11/24/2019 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: David Parsons lost a long and fierce battle with metastatic colon cancer on November 24, 2019, at Connecticut Hospice in Branford.

An Army brat, David was born in Augusta, Georgia, and grew up in Austria and Italy before settling in Charlottesville, Virginia.  He was a Vietnam-era vet who served in U.S. Army Intelligence in Potsdam, Germany.  Upon his return to the U.S., he completed his education at Yale College.  He taught for three years in New Haven’s public schools, then pursued a varied career path in information technology, retiring in 2015 from Telliris Systems in Shelton, Connecticut, as Vice President of Systems Design and Implementation.

David had many hobbies, including reading, photography, bicycling and woodworking.  Above all, he loved to fix things.  He tackled everything from busted Crock-Pots to broken computers and complicated plumbing and electrical issues, often phoning around to friends and neighbors for new projects to work on.  Never without a pet, he rescued and rehabilitated nine stray kitties in the course of a lifetime.

David is survived by his wife, Catharine; by his sisters Suzanna Parsons and Virginia Parsons Dobmeier; by his brother-in-law, Steve Dobmeier; and by his niece and nephew, Carly and Eric Dobmeier.

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Thelma L. Lumpkin - December 03, 1925 - January 23, 2019

Departed: 01/23/2019 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Thelma Lydia Santoro Lumpkin (Teddy), of Bethany passed away peacefully at her home January 23, 2019. She was born the third of three children December 3, 1925 in her parental home at 32 Granger Street, Waterbury, Connecticut, after her mother had been told that she would not be able to have any more children, a fact that always amused both Teddy and her mother.  Starting the third grade at H.S. Chase Grammar School, Waterbury, Teddy was a writer. A collection of her poems was hung in the office of the school superintendent. A graduate of Crosby High School, Waterbury, and Simmons College, Boston, she directed her first play at Simmons and was class song leader for all four years. She led her class in the Alma Mater from the stage of Symphony Hall at Simmons night at the Boston Pops concerts and graduated with a BS degree in English and Publishing. Eventually, she expanded her public relations and advertising careers with special study at Yale and Harvard, and is listed in Who’s Who of American Women, Who’s Who in the East, Foremost Women in communications, and The World Who’s Who of Women, and the Two Thousand Women of Achievement, published in Cambridge and London, England, respectively. As playwright, her first play, Shadow of Reason, won the Connecticut State Drama Tournament. Her second play, Susanne’s Room, won second place in a national playwriting contest and was performed in St. Louis, MO. By commission of the Town of Woodbridge, she wrote book, music, and lyrics for a historical musical, Amity Parish, and directed it for three performances with a cast and crew of 150 townspeople. In 1960, she rode horseback with Ronald Regan who was passing through Waterbury on a speaking tour. At her invitation he stopped off in Bethany, CT where Teddy boarded her horse and spent the day riding with Teddy and three friends, later taking her and two friends out to dinner. At a time when allowing women into undergraduate study at Harvard was unthinkable, she was the first woman ever admitted to those hallowed halls and dormitories for a seminar in Advertising and Marketing Management at the Harvard Graduate School of Business Administration, under the sponsorship of the Advertising Federation of America. The seminar consisted of 60 top male executives of national corporations, and one woman, Teddy, who was Advertising Manager of the Waterbury National Bank at the time. She was the only graduate of the two-month seminar who received a kiss with her certificate. During her career with the bank, the 1963 annual report she designed won the Financial World Annual Report award.  In earlier careers, after running her own advertising agency for five years, she was Public Relations Director of St. Mary’s Hospital in Waterbury. She moved to Bethany in 1962 where she volunteered at the Bethany Library, helped establish a town scenic roads ordinance, helped initiate an increase in the tow’s financial support of the elderly, and was a founding member and later president of The Bethany Horsemen. Through the yeasts, she owned six horses and kept them all for their lifetimes. She married G. Thomas Lumkin Jr. of North Carolina in 1966, retired in 1967, and juggled marriage, horses, and writing, not always in that order, until Tom’s death in 1989. From 1995 until her death, she wrotea book every year and self-published them, giving as gifts to local libraries, family, and friends. Her parents Fiorinda M. DiNapoli Santoro and Quirino C. Santoro, and two brothers, Primo”Bud” M.V. and Quentin V. are deceased. She leaves many beloveds: her Corgis and horse; niece, Susanne Shaffer Santoro Whayne and great-niece Miranda Jane Miller, both of Massachusetts; nephew, Christopher Allen Santoro, of Florida; stepchildren, Kathryn Love Lumpkin of North Carolina and G. Thomas Lumpkin III of New York; cousins in Connecticut, New Jersey, and Florida; godchildren, the late Joanne Acford Burgay remembered here, and Cathie Jean Pugliese Cameron of Florida. Teddy loved the solitary life she chose as a writer and never felt alone.

All services will be held privately. The Monahan, Cox, Smith & Crimmins Funeral Home, Inc. has been entrusted with the arrangements. Memorial contributions in Teddy’s name may be made to the Bethany Horseman 340 Old Mill Rd. Bethany, CT 06524.

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Vita M. Leonardi - June 15, 1940 - January 04, 2019

Departed: 01/04/2019 (New Haven)

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William T. McKeon - March 16, 1925 - November 27, 2018

Departed: 11/27/2018 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: William T. McKeon Jr., of North Haven, formerly of New Haven passed away November 27, 2018 in Yale New Haven Hospital. Born in New Haven March 16, 1925, son of the late New Haven Police Officer William T. McKeon Sr. and Mary Ann Flynn McKeon, Bill was a proud US Army veteran serving in the 132nd Artillery Battalion in Europe during WWII. He was a graduate of St. Peter’s grammar school, Hillhouse High School and Central CT State University. After returning from his service, Bill worked for the New Haven-New York- & Hartford Railroad before becoming a surveyor with he State of CT Department of Transportation, a position he held for over 30 years. He is the beloved brother of Claire A. McKeon and the late Mary McKeon. Bill was a kind and humble man, always will to lend a helping hand to anyone in need.

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Mary Jane Lawlor - June 03, 1928 - July 27, 2018

Departed: 07/27/2018 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Mary Jane Lawlor, of New Haven passed away peacefully July 27, 2018 in the Masonic Healthcare Center. She was the wife of the late James F. Lawlor. Born in New Haven June 3, 1928, daughter of the late Joseph and Margaret O'Connell Hogan, Mary Jane worked as a dental receptionist for many years. Beloved mother of Mary Ellen (George) Richetelli, Brian (Lisa) Lawlor, and Kathleen (Christopher) Branca. Sister of the late Margo Pionzio and Joseph Hogan. Devoted grandmother of Christopher and James (Ruth) Branca, George Richetelli, Jamie (Michael) Gozzo, and Jessa, Eddie, and Joey Lawlor. Great grandmother of Nicholas and Noah Gozzo and David Branca. Mary Jane was a loving mother, grandmother, and a loyal friend. Her joy in life was her grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. She always had a warm and welcoming home where everyone felt welcome, even her furry friends. Mary Jane's family would like to thank the staff of Masonic Health Care-Ramage 3 for their kindness and compassionate care they provided. We are ever so grateful to the wonderful staff. It meant so much to our family and friends.

Visiting hours will be Wednesday morning from 8:30-9:30 in the Monahan, Cox, Smith & Crimmins Funeral Home, Inc. 11 Wooster Place in New Haven. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in St. Michael’s Church 29 Wooster Place in New Haven. Burial will follow in St. Lawrence Cemetery. Memorial contributions in Mary Jane's name may be made to the Masonic Healthcare Center 22 Masonic Ave. Wallingford, CT 06492.

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Mary Doolan- Cannon Irons - March 15, 1922 - July 16, 2018

Departed: 07/16/2018 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Mary Doolan-Cannon Irons, RN, of East Haven, formerly of Orange passed away July 16, 2018 in Orange Healthcare Center. She was married for 62 years to the love of her life, the late William Irons. Born in Bridgeport, CT March 15, 1922, daughter of the late Peter Doolan and Clara Baylis Doolan Cannon and step-daughter of James P. Cannon, Mary was a graduate of St. Raphael School of Nursing, class of 1942. She was a staff nurse at the Hospital of St. Raphael and later worked as a private duty nurse for many years. She was a longtime member of the Holy Infant Ladies Guild, the New Haven Council of Catholic Women, and the Hospital of St. Raphael Alumnae Association. She is the beloved mother of Mary Varunes and Kathleen (James) Harper. Proud and loving grandmother of Jessica Varunes, Kristin Varunes, William J. Harper, and Emma Harper (Glyn Harris). Mary was a loving and caring person who touched many lives.

Visiting hours will be held Thursday morning from 8:30-9:30 in the Monahan, Cox, Smith, & Crimmins Funeral Home, Inc. 11 Wooster Place. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated in Holy Infant Church at 10. Burial will follow in Orange Center Cemetery.

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Francis Pinto - February 12, 1928 - July 05, 2018

Departed: 07/05/2018 (New Haven)

Obituary Preview: Our Lord called his reverent servant, Frank Pinto, into perpetual rest on July 5, 2018.  He spent his last moments on earth surrounded by his closest friends and family.  Born in a closely knit Italian immigrant enclave in the Hill Section of New Haven on February 12, 1928 son of the late Michael and Pauline Cardinuto Pinto, Frank spent the majority of his 90 years as a New Haven resident.  After attending Hillhouse High School, Frank enlisted in the United States Marine Corps, meritoriously and gallantly contributing to the World War II effort.  He often reflected on this chapter of his life with jealous regard as it perpetuated the deep patriotism he imparted on his friends and family.  His formal military training as a combustion engine mechanic eased his transition to civilian life and afforded him the opportunity to continue doing what he loved.  For more than 50 years he owned A and P motors in West Haven, CT.  Settling in the Morris Cove Section of New Haven, Frank remained a pillar of the community.  A devout Catholic and member of Saint Bernadette Church Parish, he attended mass daily until his health precluded his doing so.  Even then, fellow parishioners brought him communion regularly.  Frank loved wine, his Italian heritage, chatting with neighbors, buying/selling cars, and spending time with those closest to him.  He imparted his gems of wisdom on those around him through many valuable lessons, most notably: love your country, family is the most important thing in the world, good company makes bad wine palatable, don’t steal fried chicken, and never cheat at cards.  Anyone who has ever eaten Sunday dinner on his back deck overlooking Long Island Sound can attest.  Frank exuded passion in everything he did especially going out for pizza, going furniture shopping, or watching his beloved New York Yankees.  Frank is predeceased by his wife Margaret Pinto, daughter Deborah Ann Brill, and brother Michael Pinto. He is survived by his daughter Francine Pinto; long-time loving companion Rosemary Spring; almost daughters Carol (David) Cyr and Debra (Robert) Forster and son-in-law Christopher Brill. Also survived by his grandchildren Arthur and Michael DeCato, Samantha and Gabrielle D’Errico, Julia Cyr, Carolyn Levy, Robert and Nicholas Forster, and Katie Gould and great grandchildren Emmaleigh, Dominic, and Daphne Decato, his beloved dog Diogi, and many nieces and nephews.

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A Team of Caring Professionals

The team at Monahan, Cox, Smith & Crimmins Funeral Home is comprised of experienced and compassionate professionals who are dedicated to helping families navigate the difficult process of planning a funeral. From the moment you walk through their doors, you'll be greeted with kindness, empathy, and understanding. Their staff is trained to provide guidance and support every step of the way, ensuring that your needs are met and your wishes are respected.

Personalized Funeral Services

At Monahan, Cox, Smith & Crimmins Funeral Home, they understand that every life is unique and deserves to be celebrated in a way that reflects the individual's personality, interests, and accomplishments. That's why they offer personalized funeral services that can be tailored to meet your specific needs and preferences. From traditional funerals to cremation services, memorial ceremonies, and more, they'll work with you to create a meaningful and memorable tribute to your loved one.

Facilities and Amenities

The funeral home's facilities are designed to provide a comfortable and welcoming environment for families and friends to gather and pay their respects. Their spacious chapels, visitation rooms, and reception areas are tastefully decorated and equipped with state-of-the-art technology to ensure that every service is conducted with dignity and respect. Additionally, they offer ample parking, wheelchair accessibility, and other amenities to ensure that all guests feel welcome and accommodated.

Pre-Planning Services

While it may seem difficult to think about planning a funeral in advance, doing so can bring peace of mind and relief to you and your loved ones. Monahan, Cox, Smith & Crimmins Funeral Home offers pre-planning services that allow you to make informed decisions about your final arrangements ahead of time. By pre-planning, you can ensure that your wishes are respected, reduce the burden on your family, and even lock in costs at today's prices.

Grief Support and Resources

Losing a loved one can be an overwhelming experience, but it doesn't have to be faced alone. Monahan, Cox, Smith & Crimmins Funeral Home offers grief support and resources to help you navigate the healing process. From bereavement counseling to support groups and online resources, they're committed to providing ongoing care and support long after the funeral service has ended.

Community Involvement

As an integral part of the New Haven community, Monahan, Cox, Smith & Crimmins Funeral Home is dedicated to giving back through various charitable initiatives and community events. They believe that by supporting local organizations and causes, they can make a positive impact on the lives of those around them.

Contact Information

If you're in need of funeral services or simply have questions about planning a funeral, don't hesitate to reach out to Monahan, Cox, Smith & Crimmins Funeral Home. You can contact them by phone at [insert phone number], email at [insert email], or by visiting their website at [insert website]. Their caring staff is available 24/7 to provide guidance and support whenever you need it.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's often used to share information about the deceased with family, friends, and community members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and remember the deceased, while also providing important details about their life and legacy. They can be a valuable resource for genealogists, historians, and researchers, and can also help loved ones process their grief.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the family of the deceased or a close friend will write the obituary. However, some funeral homes or newspapers may offer assistance with writing and publishing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary should include the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), hobbies, interests, and surviving family members. You may also want to include a photo, quotes, or other personal touches.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it's best to aim for 150-200 words. However, some publications may have stricter word limits or offer longer formats for more detailed tributes.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! While an obituary should be respectful, it's also a celebration of the person's life. Including humorous stories or anecdotes can help capture their personality and spirit.

Should I include the cause of death in an obituary?

This is a personal decision that depends on your comfort level and the circumstances surrounding the death. Some families choose to include this information, while others prefer not to.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Check with the specific publication or platform for their submission guidelines. Some may accept online submissions, while others may require email or phone submissions. Be sure to follow their formatting and content guidelines carefully.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, location, and length of the obituary. Some online platforms may offer free or low-cost options, while traditional newspapers may charge by the line or word.

Can I edit or revise an obituary after it's been published?

This may be possible depending on the publication or platform. However, it's essential to proofread carefully before submission to avoid errors or inaccuracies.

What if I need to correct an error in an already-published obituary?

Contact the publication or platform immediately to report the error. They may be able to make corrections or issue a revised version.

Can I include photos or other multimedia elements in an obituary?

Yes! Many online platforms and some newspapers allow you to include photos, videos, or audio clips to enhance the tribute. Check with the publication for their specific guidelines.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeline varies depending on the publication and their production schedule. Online platforms may publish immediately, while traditional newspapers may take several days or weeks.

Can I request a copy of the published obituary?

Yes! Most publications will provide a copy of the published obituary upon request. This can be useful for keeping as a memento or sharing with family and friends.

What if I'm unable to find an obituary for my loved one?

If you're having trouble finding an obituary, try searching online archives or contacting local libraries or genealogical societies for assistance. They may have access to historical records or resources that can help you locate the information you're looking for.

Can I write an obituary for someone who passed away many years ago?

Absolutely! Writing an obituary for someone who passed away previously can be a meaningful way to honor their memory and preserve their legacy.

Are there any specific rules or regulations around writing an obituary?

While there are no strict rules, it's essential to be respectful and accurate when writing an obituary. Avoid using offensive language or sensitive information that might cause distress to others.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes! Social media can be a powerful tool for sharing news of a loved one's passing and connecting with others who are grieving. Consider creating a memorial page or sharing a link to the published obituary.

How do I handle condolences and messages from strangers on social media?

This can be a challenging but touching aspect of sharing an obituary on social media. You can respond personally to messages or create a post thanking everyone for their kind words and support.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to emotional distress?

This is completely understandable! Consider enlisting the help of a trusted friend or family member, or seeking guidance from a funeral home or counselor. Remember that writing an obituary is just one part of the grieving process – take your time and prioritize self-care.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including this information can help honor your loved one's memory and support a worthy cause. Be sure to specify the charity's name and any relevant details.

How do I ensure that my loved one's legacy lives on after they're gone?

This is a beautiful question! Consider establishing a memorial fund, planting a tree or garden in their honor, or creating a scholarship or award in their name. These gestures can help keep their memory alive for years to come.

What if I need additional support or guidance during this difficult time?

DON'T hesitate to reach out! Funeral homes, counselors, and support groups are all valuable resources that can provide emotional support and practical guidance during this challenging time.