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Joseph Sean Kollmer - March 21, 1984 - March 01, 2024

Departed: 03/01/2024 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Joseph Sean Kollmer passed away in a car accident on I-10 near mile marker 61 on Friday, March 1, 2024. He would have celebrated his 40th birthday later this month on March 21.

His biggest accomplishments in life were defeating addiction, having three beautiful children, and having a family that truly loved him unconditionally.

He leaves behind his fiancé Lauren Gauvey, daughter Haylee Mae Gauvey-Kollmer, sons Brian Joseph Hallett and Jordan Dunne Hallett, his father, George Kollmer, sisters Christina Feye and Jessica Pickett, biological mother Cathie Anderson, and biological father Jeffrey Daugherty.  He is preceded in death by his brother John Kollmer.

Joseph had a great ability to make people laugh and his extremely caring nature was a gift to all who knew him.  He was always willing to help anyone in need, was a true friend, and loved unreservedly.  His intelligence, heart of gold, loyalty, and strong will helped him to be the true survivor he was – surviving all the hardships he endured in his lifetime.  He will always be remembered as a true overcomer.

A family service will be scheduled at a later time.

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Melvin "Doug" King - July 29, 1945 - February 22, 2024

Departed: 02/22/2024 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Melvin Douglas King passed away peacefully on February 22, 2024.  Born July 29, 1945 in Hartburg, Texas to parents Charlie and Plennie King, Doug spent all of his childhood in Texas and graduated from Deweyville High School.

He graduated with a bachelor’s degree in Theology and was an ordained minister. He was a pastor and traveling minister with his wife for many years. Vision Church at Christian International in Santa Rosa Beach, Florida was his home church after settling in Santa Rosa Beach Florida in the 1990’s. He loved Jesus with all of his heart and had the heart of David.

Doug was an accomplished builder by trade. In 1997, he built his own house, and he built one for his daughter in 1998.  His family does not remember a time when he was not busy building something for someone.  His grandchildren are forever blessed with the memories of building projects completed with him – making their own bed frames, designing a play yard complete with ½ a basketball court and gymnastic bars, creating Barbie houses, and many more special things.

Doug was full of love.  He loved time with his family, time with family dogs, Rainbow and Boni, and time serving others.  Anything his family needed he provided with love.  He absolutely adored his grandchildren and took advantage of every opportunity to spoil them.

He is preceded in death by his parents Charlie E. King and Plennie A. King, daughter Crystal Elaine King, nephew Mark Billiott, sister-in-law Linda King, and great-great niece Maribelle Sims.

Doug leaves behind his wife, Marilyn King, daughter Tonya King (Wayne Williamson), brothers C A King and Gene King (Melodie), sister Helen, Huskey (Raymond), grandchildren Caleb King-Williamson, Zane King-Williamson (Macy), and Crystal Byrd (Hayden), great grandchild “Baby Byrd” (due in 2024).  Doug is also survived by nephews and nieces, (King side) Kim Vandever (Steven), Craig Huskey (Kristi), Shay Huskey (Niko), Lydia Wisnoski, Jennifer King, and Jason King (Kellie), great nieces, Rachel, Rori, Phoebe Vandever, Ray, Ryan Huskey, Kenzie Sims (Jonathan), Harlie King, Jad, and Jenna and great-great nephew Levi Sims. Plus, many nieces, nephews, great and great great nieces and nephews on the Hixon side.

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Joseph Elliot Goldsborough - February 09, 1954 - February 20, 2024

Departed: 02/20/2024 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Joseph Elliot Goldsborough passed away on Tuesday, February 20, 2024.  He was born in Leonardtown, Maryland, on February 9, 1954, to parents Joseph Raymond Goldsborough and Mary Lorraine Elliot.  Joseph graduated from high school in Maryland, Chopticon High, and then joined the Marines in 1973.

Joseph was a proud Marine and served our country from 1973-1977.  He was also incredibly proud of his daughter, Melissa and his retirement from DynCorp.

Time spent with his pets, Albert and Natalie, was always a joy to him, as was playing card games with friends, finding treasures through metal detecting, tinkering with small engines, and collecting coins.

Family and friends will always remember Joe for his genuine kindheartedness.  He never hesitated to do without in order to give to those less fortunate than himself.

Joe is preceded in death by his parents, Joseph Raymond and Mary Elliot Goldsborough.

He is survived by his surviving partner Maggie Sansone, his daughter, Melissa Lynn Goldsborough, stepdaughter, Kelly Marie Redmon, stepson, Michael Allen Jochmann (Tia), and stepson Matthew Scott Jochmann.  He is also survived by his sister, Estell Pilkerton, and brother, Bill Sharp, grandson Justin Tyler Goldsborough, granddaughter Kiara Aniya Deviney, great-granddaughter Autumn Lemeir, and his former wife Cindy Jochmann (Mike).

Donations in Joe’s memory may be made to a Disabled Veterans charity of your choice.

A time of visitation is 9:00am on Tuesday, February 27, 2024 at McDonald Family Funeral Home.  Funeral service will follow at 10AM.

Burial will be at Barrancas National Cemetery.

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Sarah Ellen Burgess - February 18, 1931 - January 24, 2024

Departed: 01/24/2024 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Sarah Ellen Burgess passed away peacefully in her sleep on the night of January 24, 2024.  Born on February 18, 1931, to parents Joseph and Maggie Creamer, she was very near to celebrating her 93rd birthday.

Sarah was an extraordinary mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother.  She took care of all others before taking care of herself.  She loved spending time with family, and her family members knew she was always just a phone call away.  She never missed an opportunity to play cards with family or go dancing in Samson.  One of her favorite sayings, “her get up and go has got up and went,” will long bring a smile to the face of all who knew her.

She is preceded in death by her husband, Howard C. Burgess, her parents, Joseph Clarence and Maggie Crews Creamer, brothers John “Buford” Ward, Joseph “Jake” Creamer, and Tommy Creamer, and sister Eva Padgett.

She is survived by sons Robert Burgess, Ralph Burgess, Gary (Vicki) Burgess, Greg (Sherri) Burgess, and Jeff Burgess, and a daughter Myra (Dean) Shaw.  She is also survived by a brother, Aaron “Leroy” (Barbara) Creamer, grandchildren: Erica and Josh Smith, Andrew Burgess, Anthony and Brianna Burgess, Adam Shaw, Tyler Burgess, Nancy Richardson, and great-grandchildren Riley Nowling, Emily Burgess, and Otto Burgess, and numerous nieces and nephews.

Visitation 10AM and funeral service 11AM - Saturday January 27, 2024, at McDonald Family Funeral Home.

Graveside service will be Monday, January 29, 2024, at 1:00pm at Leonia Baptist Church Cemetery.

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Nakoma Weeks - December 12, 1961 - January 17, 2024

Departed: 01/17/2024 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Nakoma Irene Weeks died peacefully at home surrounded by loved ones on January 17, 2024.  She was born on December 12, 1961, to James and Alice Weeks.

Nakoma loved big.  She cared for the elderly, loved children, and adored her dogs.  There are many adults today who were blessed to be raised by Nakoma and who will always be grateful for the loving care she provided.

Time at the lake and the beach thrilled her, especially time at those places with those she loved.

She was a very strong and independent lady with a great sense of humor, a caring heart, and sarcasm backed with loving tenderness.  Putting others before herself was a normal way of life for Nakoma, and she never hesitated to help anyone in need.

Shortly before her cancer diagnosis, a vacation to Mississippi was filled with laughs and good times, and eternal memories were made.  A trip to the arcade there even recreated times from childhood – such a special time.

Those close to her will always remember her loving nature, her kind heart, and her matchless spirit.  She blessed many, many people during her lifetime.

A Celebration of Life will be held at the Cornerstone Faith Tabernacle in Crestview, FL on Saturday, February 10, 2024 at 4:00 PM.

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Betty Chestnut - August 04, 1936 - January 05, 2024

Departed: 01/05/2024 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Betty Chestnut, age 87, of Crestview passed away on Friday January 5, 2024 at North Okaloosa Medical Center. She was born in Brewton AL on August 4, 1936, to Austin and Lizzie Mae Pittman, she was the 2nd born of 9 children. Betty grew up in Crestview and married Billy Chestnut. For many years she worked for Piggly Wiggly and Monsanto. Betty loved her family and taking care of them. She loved being “MeMaw” to her 2 grandchildren and 6 great grandchildren. Betty was preceded in death by her husband, Billy Chestnut, her son Kenny Chestnut, a granddaughter Amanda Kaye Harris, and 3 brothers and 3 sisters.

Betty is survived by her children: Willie Chestnut and his wife Shirley, Katrina Harris and her husband Dennis; her adopted son Andy Powell and his wife Heather; granddaughters Jessica Breaux and April McPherson: great grandchildren: Owen McPherson, James McPherson, Kaitlyn Breaux, Aiden Breaux, Jesse Ladner, Daniel Ladner, Mason McPherson and Kevin McPherson: sisters Bobbie Strous and Elaine White and husband Wayne, and many nieces and nephews.

The celebration for Ms. Betty will be held on Thursday January 11th, 2024 at 10:30 a.m. at Victorious Life Worship Center with Pastor Donnie Cadenhead officiating. Burial will follow in the Pleasant Hill Cemetery. A time of visitation will begin with the family at 9:30 a.m.

McDonald Family Funeral Home is entrusted with arrangements.

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William "Bill" McMillan - December 09, 1945 - January 04, 2024

Departed: 01/04/2024 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: William “Bill” McMillan passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family on January 4, 2024.  He was born in Mobile, Alabama on December 9, 1945.  Bill served our country in the United States Air Force, and then went on to graduate from Auburn University with a degree in Psychology.  He also worked at the Kennedy Space Center in the early 1970s.

Being forever grateful for the loving care he received while spending his formative years in an Alabama Children’s Home, Bill knew he wanted to give that same love and care to other children in need, so he and Belinda became foster parents to 7 children over the years.

He was an avid fan of the Auburn Tigers and of the New Orleans Saints.  He was an ardent and very talented woodworker, and he created beautiful and special pieces that his family will treasure.

A great storyteller who loved to impart wisdom to the younger generation, his family and friends will forever remember the lessons he shared.  He was a lifelong learner and an enthusiastic reader.  He was a dependable mediator and the sensible one when it came to settling any argument.  His older sister Patsi always actually thought of him as the older sibling because of his calming presence and rational demeanor.

Bill loved his family deeply.  His children and grandchildren will always have the memory of him singing his special song to them – Peter, Paul and Mary’s “Lemon Tree,” and his family knew without any doubt that he would do anything for those he loved.  He will be greatly missed.

He is preceded in death by a sister, Carlene Roberts.

Bill is survived by his wife, Belinda C McMillan, sons Justin McMillan (Paige McNickle), Michael T. Fails (Rebecca), Christopher L. Fails, and Justin Martin (Christina), daughters Rebecca McMillan and Tracy Luckhardt, and grandchildren Alexia, Abigail, Addison, Olivia, and Alex Fails.  He is also survived by a brother, Mike McMillan and sister, Patsi Walters.

A family service will be held at a later date.

No flowers, please.

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Kenneth George May - July 15, 1955 - December 31, 2023

Departed: 12/31/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Kenneth George May Sr., age 68, passed away on December 31, 2023.  He was born on July 15, 1955 in DeFuniak Springs, FL to Kenneth Paul and Iva Jean Nowling May.

Mr. May was a resident of DeFuniak Springs.  He was LDS by faith and a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in DeFuniak Springs.  He was a devoted father and grandfather.  He was a military police and a law enforcement officer for many years.  He loved hunting, fishing, and farming.  He enjoyed researching genealogy, making jams and preserves, and baking and cooking.  He also enjoyed and was an avid fan of Alabama football.  In his youth, Kenneth enjoyed playing football and loved watching his sons and grandsons follow in his footsteps and play football also.

Mr. May was preceded in death by his parents, Kenneth and Iva Jean and a sister, Leslie White.

He is survived by his wife Marylon Couch May, his sons Kenneth George May, Jr., Kendal William May (fiancé Natasha Mitchell), Keenan Nathanael May (Keeley), and his daughter Brandi May.  He leaves behind a beautiful legacy in his grandchildren Atticus, Kaesen, Kapreigh, Paxton, Katherine, Emory, Rowan, and Kieran.  He is also survived by: his brother William Alec May, brother-in-law Erick White, sister Paula Blanchard (Ryck), sisters-in-law Diane Couch and Sue Couch, nephews Joren White, Leif White, William P.T. May, Harper May, Ryan Blanchard, Paul Langley, nieces Laurel Avery, Linda White, Lira Smith, Shannon Sanchez, Samantha May, Taylor May, and Lyndsey Henderson, and cousins Guy Anderson, Bryce Anderson, Chad Anderson, Sandy Anderson, and Kelly.

Celebration of life service will be held on Friday, January 5, 2024, at 11:00am at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in DeFuniak Springs with Bishop Eric Ramsey officiating.  The family will receive visitors beginning at 10:00am.

Interment will follow in Magnolia Cemetery.

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William "Bill" Jones - August 22, 1939 - December 28, 2023

Departed: 12/28/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: William “Bill” Robert Jones passed away on December 28, 2023.  Bill was born August 22, 1939, to Wesley and Beatrice Jones.  After graduating from Butler High School, Bill attended William Patterson University and then served our country in the Army National Guard.  He was dedicated to his service of God and of the community as he was a member of First Baptist Church in DeFuniak Springs, The Gideons International, the Glendale Masonic Lodge, the DeFuniak Masonic Lodge, and The Order of the Amaranth.

Bill had a contagious laugh and his smile lit up the room. He loved God, adored his wife, and treasured his family.  He also valued spending time with his sweet dog Molly, cooking, and studying his Bible.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Wesley and Beatrice, a brother Jack Jones, a son Patrick Jones, step-sons Keel Daniel and Michael Daniel.

Bill is survived by his wife, Dorothy Jones, sons Todd Jones and Alan (Nicole) Jones, daughter Colleen (Rocky) Markham, stepson Thomas (Heather) Johnson, and daughter-in-law Katie Stoudemire. Also surviving him are grandchildren David Smith II, Cara Martens, Korina Jones, Bailey (Austin) Jones, Dean Szostek, Jessica Jones, R.J. Jones, 14 great-grandchildren, and dear friends who were like children to him, Chris and Diane Miles.

He was always there for his people.  He will be missed greatly and long remembered by all who knew him.

Flowers are being accepted or donations can be made to First Baptist Preschool or to The Gideons International.

A memorial service is being held at First Baptist Church DeFuniak Springs on Jan 12, 2024.  Visitation will begin at 2PM with the service starting at 3PM.

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Gerald Roland Desruisseaux - February 16, 1949 - December 26, 2023

Departed: 12/26/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Gerald Roland Desruisseaux (Gary) passed away peacefully on December 26, 2023.  Gary was born in New Hampshire on February 16, 1949, and he lived there through high school, graduating from Goffstown High School in Goffstown, New Hampshire.

Gary served 4 years in the United States Navy and then moved to Florida around 1970.  While he lived in a few different places around the state, Fort Walton Beach was home for over 20 years.  Gary worked for many years as a maintenance superintendent at University of West Florida in Pensacola.  He transferred to Bradenton, Florida for a short time and worked at Ringling Museum of Art.  After retiring in 2003, he came back north to Fort Walton Beach and loved living in this special area.

He is preceded in death by his father, Roland Leopold Desruisseaux, mother, Lorna McEwan Desruisseaux, and a son, Kenneth Wayne Robinson.

Gary leaves behind his loving wife Joan D White Desruisseaux, children Jennifer Wassmer and Gwen Morland, brothers Steve (Linda) Desruisseaux and Dave Desruisseaux, and sister Doreen Adair.  He also is survived by seven grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

A time of visitation will be held at 1:00pm on Tuesday, January 2, 2024, at McDonald Family Funeral Home.

Funeral service will begin at 2:00pm with burial following at Mossy Head Community Cemetery.

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Janice Jowers - June 19, 1947 - December 26, 2023

Departed: 12/26/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: With Faith, Hope, and Love, she brightened the world and impacted the lives of her family, her friends, and the children she taught. Janice Lee James Jowers, age 76, of Mary Esther, Florida, passed away on December 26, 2023, after a brief struggle with ovarian cancer.

She was born in Tallahassee, Florida on June 19, 1947, to Walter and Rachel James. From their idyllic home at James Pond Road, she learned the importance of love, music, education, and family. She attended Leon High School before studying education at Florida State University and moving to Fort Walton Beach, Florida to begin her teaching career.

While attending Florida State, Janice met the love of her life, Keith Jowers, and together they would build a world that she truly loved. She may or may not have snuck out of the house for their first double-date, but nobody with actual knowledge will fess up. They dated for three years before (as Keith would say) making it legal. The two were married on June 9, 1968, at Trinity United Methodist Church in Tallahassee, Florida.

Janice and Keith couldn’t wait to start a family of their own, and their children meant the world to them. Alan was born in 1970; Kary followed shortly thereafter in 1972; and in 1978 Janice’s two little boys were joined by a baby girl, Kendra. Together, those five would enjoy the adventures of life including countless family trips to Tallahassee, van club convoys, midnights at Santa Rosa Mall tallying up the results of the Billy Bowlegs Midnight Run and participating in all manner of local sports and music events.

Though she loved teaching, singing, and creating lovely crafts with her hands, Janice’s favorite role was that as a grandmother. She treasured her time with her grandkids and loved being their Nana. She attended all their important events and cared for them in all the seemingly unimportant moments. She never failed to have a cold “Nana-water” ready for them when they came to her house. She was fortunate that all her grandchildren lived locally, and all of them, from age 4 to age 30, have their own special, personal relationship with their Nana.

Janice was passionate about her role as an elementary school teacher with the Okaloosa County School District. She taught 3rd grade at Wright Elementary School from 1969 to 2009. After her initial retirement, she was convinced to return to teaching for a few more years. It was an easy decision for her because she was able to teach some of her own grandchildren during that second stint. Some of her greatest friends in life were her fellow teachers from Wright Elementary, and she enjoyed the periodic lunches she and her fellow retired teachers would have.

In her retirement, Janice was also an active member of the Fort Walton Beach Community Chorus, devoting her time and energy to singing, ever filling her heart with delight.

Janice will always be remembered for her warm smile and the way that she loved on her friends and her family. Her favorite words were Faith, Hope and Love, and she embodied each of them. We could not have asked for a better Wife, Mother, and Nana, and we will miss Janice every single day. Her memory will live on in the hearts of all those who loved her.

Janice was preceded in death by her beloved parents Walter and Rachel James, her brother Bill James, her sister-in-law Iloni Franz James, and her infant grandson Joshua Alan Jowers. She is survived by her husband Keith Jowers; her children and their spouses, Alan and Kristi Jowers, Kary and Julie Jowers, and Kendra and Michael Bozard (Janice’s favorite conversation partner); eight grandchildren, Shelby, Clayton, Bethany, Emma Grace, Carolyn, Evelyn, Abigail and Victoria; and four siblings, Judy, Joneen, Steve and Jeff.

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Charles Edward Barefield - December 01, 1947 - December 01, 2023

Departed: 12/01/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Charles Edward Barefield, age 76, of Mentone, Alabama, passed away peacefully at his home on Friday, December 1, 2023, after a short battle with Lewy Body dementia.  Born on December 1, 1947 in Florala, Alabama, Charles was the son of Lorene and Byrd Barefield.  He graduated from Walton High School in 1965 and spent all of his life living in Walton County until moving to Mentone in 2020.  Charles was Baptist by faith.

Through his many years of teaching and coaching in Walton County, Charles greatly enriched the lives of countless students.  “Coach Barefield” is a familiar name to the many, many students who were blessed to know him.  His coaching included baseball at Walton High School and, his greatest joy, softball at Paxton School, and his teaching included ESE students, driver’s ed, and tutoring.

After his time serving in education, many will remember crossing paths with him at Consolidated Ace Hardware in DeFuniak. He spent many years working there and enjoyed the conversations and interactions with people each day.  When not at work Charles enjoyed hunting, playing golf, and watching sports – especially cheering on his Auburn Tigers.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Lorene and Byrd Barefield.

Charles is survived by his wife of 49 years, Helen Watson Barefield, his sons: Brad Barefield (Celeste) of DeFuniak Springs and Kevin Barefield of Bluffton, South Carolina. He also leaves behind 3 grandchildren: Grant Barefield of DeFuniak Springs, Mary and Isabella Barefield of Bluffton, South Carolina. A Celebration of Life for Charles is scheduled for Saturday, January 6, 2024, 2:00pm, at Anderson Farms Carriage House, 14475 US-331 North, DeFuniak Springs, FL 32433

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Joey Smith - December 01, 1966 - December 01, 2023

Departed: 12/01/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Joey Smith died peacefully on December 1, 2023.  It was his 57th birthday.    Joey was born in Crestview, Florida in 1966 to parents Homer Ervin Smith, Jr and Mattie Florene Robertson.  He resided in the Panhandle of Florida most of his life and attended both Walton Middle and Walton High School.

Joey was a welder.  He enjoyed his work and was a longtime member of the Boilermakers Union.  While he spent some time working for Fisher Tank, he was self-employed many of his working years.

The births of his children are what Joey would name as the most meaningful events in his life.  His loved ones will treasure the memories they have of time spent working with him.  When Joey wasn’t welding, he could often be found fishing on the river.

Joey is preceded in death by his parents, Homer E Smith, Jr and Mattie F Smith and his grandparents, Homer E Smith, Sr and Ella Mae Smith.

He is survived by his wife Candi Smith, his children Kyle V Smith, John E Smith, Richard J Smith, Andrew M Smith, Hannah R Smith, and Maddie J Smith, and his sisters Bettie A Mize, Bonnie S Mount, and Lisa J Gatch.

He will always be remembered as kindhearted and trustworthy and as a man who was hardworking and fair.

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John Jeffery Hartley - September 21, 1962 - November 28, 2023

Departed: 11/28/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: After a long illness, John Jeffery Hartley died peacefully at home surrounded by family on Tuesday, November 28, 2023.  The son of John Wesley and Anna Ruth (Waits) Hartley, John was born in Fernandina Beach, FL on Sept. 21, 1962.  He lived in various parts of north Florida - Jacksonville, Madison, Live Oak - before calling Ponce de Leon home.

John was a bridge superintendent for Sema Construction. Building bridges is what he knew best.  In his spare time, John enjoyed working on and restoring old cars, fishing, hunting, and collecting guns.  He adored his sweet fur-babies, Katie and Madison.  In 1995 John met the love of his life, Teena Bishop, and they married in 1997.

He never met a stranger and would give his last dollar to help anyone in need.  Family and friends will remember John as generous and kind, and as the most caring man they ever knew.

John is preceded in death by his mother, Anna Ruth Downing, his step-father, Louis Downing, and his father, John W. Hartley.

He is survived by his beloved wife Teena Hartley, daughters Tracy Potwin (Jamie) and Trina Starling (Kyle), grandchildren Amanda Weaver (Todd), Lindsey Starling (Kurt), Kyle Starling (Nicole), Dawson Starling, and Brittany Potwin, and great grandchildren Kynley Johnson, Trenton Johnson, Olivia Spurlock, Brynlee Spurlock, and Trinity Weaver.

Flowers are being accepted OR please consider making a donation to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital in memory of John.

A time of visitation is scheduled for Friday, December 1, 2023 at 10:00am at McDonald Family Funeral Home.  Funeral service will begin at 11:00am and, if weather permits, a graveside service will follow at Antioch Cemetery.

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Virginia Day - August 08, 1939 - November 19, 2023

Departed: 11/19/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Virginia Scott Day, age 84 of Darlington passed away on Sunday, November 19, 2023 at Specialty Health and Rehabilitation in Pensacola, Florida. She was born on August 8,1939 in Darlington Florida the daughter of Richard Lester Scott and  Alma Enfinger Scott.  She remained in Darlington until she graduated from Walton High School in 1957.  She moved to Pensacola in 1960 with her husband and daughter.  In 1981 Virginia and her husband relocated to Jackson Mississippi until her husband's retirement in 1996.  After retirement Virginia and her husband returned to Darlington to live their lives in the country they loved. She is preceded in death by her husband of 64 years, Clary Day, her parents and siblings, Lorene Dingman, Ben Scott, Wilburn Scott, Cile Gandy, Jean Mauldin, Eugene Scott, and Bill Scott. She is survived by her daughters, Debi Middleton and Myra Pettey.  Grandchildren, Christopher Pettey and wife Jennifer, Jenna Henderson and husband Charlie, Lindsay Pettey, Hallie Smith, Sara Reno, and Keely Courtney and husband Ryan. Virginia is also survived by twelve great grandchildren, Colton, Carleigh, Jackson, Kaydence, Colin, Corbin, Camden, Carson, Harper, Amelia, Aurora, and Violet.  Also surviving is her brother Ronnie Scott, and her sisters-in-law, Pat Day, Peggy Day, Vivian Scott, and Mary Ann Scott, along with numerous nieces and nephews that she loved dearly,

Funeral services will be held on Friday, November 24, 2023 at 11:00 am with visitation being held one hour prior to service at 10:00 am.  McDonald Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.  Burial to follow at Limestone Cemetery in Darlington.

Pallbearers will be Ron Alford, Gary Barker, Ryan Courtney, John Day, Charlie Henderson, and Stephen Pettey.

The family wishes to express their sincere appreciation and gratitude to the staff of Speciality Health and Rehabilitation not only for their excellent care provided to our Mother but also for the love you all showed her.  Krista, Annie, Jessica, Ms Dolly, Felecia, and Cindy, you are angels on Earth.  Ms. Margorie, thank you for loving Ms Virginia and watching over her as you did.

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William "Tim" Timothy Shaffer - October 11, 1966 - November 15, 2023

Departed: 11/15/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: William Timothy Shaffer went to be with his Lord on November 15, 2023, at age 57. Tim was born in Lawrenceburg, Tennessee, to William Kenneth Shaffer and Rose Janice Shaffer. He was an attorney who practiced Debt Defense and was passionate about helping others. He was a member of Providence Presbyterian Church in Pensacola, Florida. Before his recent move to Pensacola, he was a longtime member and deacon at Trinity Presbyterian Church of Valparaiso, Florida.

He is survived by his wife, Kristy Carden Shaffer, to whom he was married on November 27, 1992. He is survived by two children, Sarah Rachel (Kyle) Waldron and Christopher Ripken (Brittany) Shaffer. He is survived by three grandchildren, Gwendolyn Ray Shaffer, Daphne Eden Shaffer, and Amelia Rose Waldron. He is also survived by his brother Christopher Shaffer, sister-in-law April Shaffer, and niece Elizabeth Shaffer of Lawrenceburg, Tennessee. In death he was reunited with his father and mother.

Tim is remembered by his many friends and family for his sense of humor. Always able to crack a joke, he could bring a smile to everyone's face when no one else could. He enjoyed bluegrass concerts, vacations to the Caribbean, and spending time in his rocking chair on his porch. He loved to work on his photography, with his animals and his grandchildren being among his favorite subjects. A devoted husband, father, and grandfather, his memory will be cherished by generations to come.

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Howard "Gene" Eugene Reeves, Sr. - March 13, 1942 - November 07, 2023

Departed: 11/07/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Howard Eugene Reeves, Sr passed away on November 7, 2023.  He was born in Niceville, Florida on March 13, 1942, to parents Avery Edward Reeves and Bessie Mae Goodwin.  Gene spent his life living and working in the panhandle of Florida.  Gene owned and ran a successful mechanic/transmission business in Crestview for many years until his retirement, and he and his beloved wife of 59 years, Myrlene, raised a beautiful family here in the area.

Gene was a longtime member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in DeFuniak Springs.  He served as Bishop there for 7 years, and he and his wife, Myrlene, served a year as missionaries for the Church.  He found great joy in serving in the Church – participating in activities, service opportunities, and work with the youth in the Church. Along with time spent being active in the Church, Gene treasured time with family.  He highly prioritized relationships with his children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.  They all got to spend precious time with him enjoying the gift of the outdoors through hunting, fishing, riding horses, and just being together.    Each of his children holds special memories of outdoor adventures with their daddy, a true sportsman.  One of his sons specifically holds dear afternoons Gene spent playing catch with him in the front yard, even after a long day at work, and time shared fishing together – even though not much was ever caught!  The quality time spent sitting together during that time was priceless to his family members.  He was absolutely the best Paw Paw, and his own children are all so blessed to have gotten to see the special relationships their own children, his grandchildren and great-grandchildren.   Gene also loved his dogs (especially bulldogs) and animals, and he passed along that tenderness toward and affection for animals to his children.  A devoted fan of Alabama football, he watched the games with fervor and always showed confidence in his team by reminding Myrlene to “Calm down.  They will be ok.”

Each of Gene’s 6 children have countless cherished memories that they will always hold dear. One shared a birthday with her dad and was considered his best birthday present ever.  Another remembers him teaching her to work on cars, picking peppers in the garden, and performing the ceremony for her marriage.  A lifelong love of racing was birthed from time Gene spent building a race car with a son.  The hours he devoted coaching their ball teams did not go unnoticed either.  Playing ball, hunting, fishing, walking, talking – being present is one of the greatest gifts he gave his children.  He was steady and strong – the oak that put everyone at peace any times things were ‘swaying and chaotic’.  He set a solid example as a hardworking and honest man who loved his family and who served the Lord. His smile will never be forgotten.  He lived the gospel, and he loved his family.

Gene is preceded in death by his parents, Avery and Bessie Mae Reeves, and by brothers Robert “Sleepy” Reeves, Glenn Reeves, and Wesley Reeves. He is survived by his wife, Myrlene Allen Reeves, by his 6 children: Kimberly Carroll, Howie Reeves (Melissa), Jenni Bilderback (Grant), Jason Reeves (Holly), Mindy Sherrer (Scott), and Alison Kidd (Danny), and by his 2 sisters: Elizabeth Freeman and Linda Lane (Jerry).  He also leaves behind a beautiful legacy of 38 grandchildren and 19 great-grandchildren – with 3 more on the way!

People who knew Gene will long remember the compassion he had for others and that he was always willing to share whatever he had.   He always made time for others and put himself last.  He was the calm in the room.  Always honest and fair with anyone he dealt with, without hesitation he would give the shirt off his back for those in need.  He was the most giving, honest, compassionate, trustworthy, and integrity-filled man most will ever meet.

He will greatly be missed by all who were blessed to call him family or friend. “Families are forever, and we are an eternal family. “

There will be a time of visitation on Friday, November 10, 2023 at 10AM at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

Funeral service will begin at 11AM.

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Dealin James Williams - April 11, 1997 - October 29, 2023

Departed: 10/29/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Dealin Williams age 26 of Crestview passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, October 29, 2023. He was born in Crestview, FL on April 11, 1997, to Christie and D. J. Williams. He grew up in Crestview and graduated from Laurel Hill High School. Dealin loved the outdoors and loved to hunt and fish. He worked construction and loved going to work. Most of all Dealin loved his family. He was preceded in death by his grandparents Jimmy Henderson, Brenda Howlett, Barbara Williams, and Tammy Garrett, and by two cousins, Ashley Kerns and Robby Williams II.

Dealin is survived by his parents Christie and D.J. Williams, his two cousins who were raised in the house and were like his brothers, Caleb and Jayden Henderson; his Grandfather, Clint Williams; Uncles and Aunts: Jimmy Henderson, Jr., Stacey Howlett, Donald Williams and wife Vickie, Robby Williams, Clint Williams, Jr and wife Tammie, Mary Williams, Ginger Richard and husband Todd, and Angie Thompson. Also surviving are numerous cousins and many, many friends. Dealin will be greatly missed by everyone who knew him.

The celebration of Dealin’s life will be held on Friday November 3, 2023, at 11:00 a.m. at Pilgrim Rest Baptist Church with burial to follow in the Liveoak Park Memorial Cemetery. A time of visitation with the family will begin at 10:00 a.m. at the church.

McDonald Family Funeral Home of Defuniak Springs is entrusted with arrangements.

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James Lossie Potter - July 09, 1966 - October 19, 2023

Departed: 10/19/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: James Lossie Potter, 57, of Niceville, Florida, transitioned unexpectedly on October 19, 2023.  Born on July 9, 1966, to James Potter, Sr. and Carolyn Barnhill  in DeFuniak Springs, FL., James is the eldest of seven children.  He attended primary and secondary schools in Walton County, and he was proud of his football legacy at Walton High School.  James was an important part of the community through his work at Showell Farms, Waste Management, Inc, Dave Capps Electric Service, and he enjoyed volunteering at the Matrix Community Outreach Center. James was a member of Bethel Presbyterian Church, and his favorite scripture was Psalm 91.

While James truly enjoyed watching football, fishing, and hunting, he loved working on projects with his brothers, cooking, playing with his nieces and nephews, watching Westerns with his mom, or Yellowstone with his sisters even more.  Kay-K, his dog, was very important to him as well, and his time spent helping people at the Matrix COC was something he took great pride in.  Making sure to remind everyone of his birth order by saying, “I’m the oldest!” and creating great dishes on “JP’s Cooking Show” with hilarious commentary on Facebook are among the special memories his family will always treasure.  Friends remember James as a very kind guy, but one who would always speak his mind no matter the person.  He had a great sense of humor and could make anyone laugh.

He is preceded in death by his Father, James L. Potter, Sr., both paternal grandparents and maternal grandparents.

He leaves behind his Mother, Carolyn Barnhill of DeFuniak Springs, FL;  3 Brothers - Karlen L. Potter of Fort Mitchell, AL; Tyrone Potter of Tucson, AZ; Michael Barnhill (LaWanda) of Auburn, AL; 3 Sisters - Olivia Andrews-Beard (Brent Beard) of Allen, TX; Candice Andrews of Clarksville, TN; Kari Barnhill of Chicago, IL; 2 Aunts and  3 Uncles - Alverdean, Gloria, Rudy, Chester, and Joseph Robinson, respectively; 6 Nephews - Tyrell Potter, LaKorte’ Potter, Brevin Beard, Justin Barnhill, Brandon Beard, and Cortlin Fleming; 2 Nieces - Riara Potter and Myniah Barnhill; and a host of cousins and close friends, especially Frederick and Essie Walker-Siples, Bernice Sheffield, and Cousin Jeffrey.

Funeral services will be held on Saturday, October 28, 2023, 1 p.m., at  McDonald Family Funeral Home, 668 Walton Rd, DeFuniak Springs, FL 32433. The family will receive visitors after the service at the repass at The Community Civic Center, 361 N. 10th St., DeFuniak Springs, FL 32433.

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Debra "Debbie" McBroom - June 23, 1969 - October 14, 2023

Departed: 10/14/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Debra “Debbie” (Fickling) McBroom went to be with the Lord October 9, 2023.  Debbie was born in Pascagoula, Mississippi on June 23, 1969, to parents Phillip Burch Fickling and Clara Yvonne Fickling-Ramos.  Debbie grew up in Grand Bay, Alabama where she attended school and loved being outdoors.  Her smile would light up the world when telling childhood stories of her horse Junior and her dog Boozer.  She also cherished the memories she had of staying with her grandparents in Lucedale, Mississippi, and playing with her cousins during the summers.  Debbie graduated from high school in Baytown, TX and she later married Darren Wilson.  Together they had their son Austin Darren Wilson.  Several years later she moved to Ocean Springs, Mississippi and then Crestview, Florida.  While in Crestview she met and married Brian McBroom and then spent the next 23 years in DeFuniak Springs Florida.  Together they became parents to Kaylee Grace McBroom and Evan Wade McBroom.  Debbie was a Christian woman and loved her children completely.  She was a stay-at-home Mom for many years and later she worked in the Walton County School system where she loved working with pre-school age children.  As her children grew, she never missed Austin and Evan’s football and baseball games and was very involved in Kaylee’s beauty pageants and cheerleading.  Debbie believed in the value of a good education and encouraged her children to do well in school and attend college.  She led them by example by going back to college and receiving her own degree from Northwest Florida State College.  She had a bubbly personality, a beautiful smile, and a loving heart that just made you want to be near her.  Debbie was a Godly woman who enjoyed the simple things in life such as fishing, the beach, being outdoors in her garden, watching the hummingbirds from her porch, and, most importantly to her, studying GOD’s Word.

Debbie is preceded in death by her father Phillip Burch Fickling, paternal grandparents Everett & Jesse Ruth Fickling, and maternal grandparents Guyther & Alberta Fairley.

She is survived by her son Austin Darren Wilson & wife Emily of Charlotte, N.C., daughter Kaylee Grace McBroom of Troy, AL and son Evan Wade McBroom of DeFuniak Springs, FL., a granddaughter Blaire Grey Wilson and a grandson Roman Davis Wilson.

She is also survived by her mother Clara Yvonne Fickling-Ramos of Grand Bay, Alabama, brother Guy Vincent Fickling & Kathy of Grand Bay, AL, sister Velinda Gayle Hammack & Stanley of Lee’s Summit, MO, and brother Eric Lynn Fickling & Donna of Grand Bay Alabama.  She is further survived by Brian McBroom, Tommy and Kaye McBroom of DeFuniak Springs.

Many nieces and nephews also survive her:  Lucas Fickling and Family, Lance Fickling (Stella) and Family, Lacey Fickling-Byrd (Colton) and Family, Wesley Ross, (Missy) and Family, Jessica Brown, (Chase) & Family, Brittany Charlton, (Trey) and Family, Erica Fickling Wilks, (Chris) and Family, Cierra Fickling Brooks, (Jon Tyler) and Family, and Kinsey Fickling de Torres  (Andres).

A time of visitation for Debbie is being held on Saturday, October 21, 2023, 10:00am-11:00am at McDonald Family Funeral Home chapel.

Memorial service will begin at 11:00am.

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Jerrie Leonia Neely - January 27, 1942 - September 30, 2023

Departed: 09/30/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Jerrie Leonia Neely passed away on Saturday, September 30, 2023. Born in Geneva County Alabama on January 27, 1942, to parents Edgar B. Whitehead, and Eva Mae Marlow, Jerrie grew up in the South with sisters Naomi, Wyonia, and Wanda. She graduated from Central High School in Phenix City and went on to college at Troy State. She married William Huel Neely, Jr on May 5, 1962. They raised their family in St. Louis, Missouri before returning down south and calling Destin, Florida home.

Jerrie started as a secretary at May Company and was promoted to Director of Corporate Services, where she began a career in facilities management. She always said, “This is my one gift. I can look at a space and tell you exactly how many people can fit in there.” Anyone who knows her will tell you she never met a stranger. This, and her “one gift”, led to a prosperous transition into sales, and eventually the start of her own company, Neely & Associates. Jerrie especially loved working with the military and spent much of her career in Commercial Facility Design and Install for the Army, Air Force, Navy, and Coast Guard. She was a member of Vision Church in Ft Walton Beach, belonged to the American Business Women’s Association, and served as a volunteer for the March of Dimes. Jerrie enjoyed a fulfilling career, but she would tell you her greatest accomplishment, and one true passion was her family. Having just celebrated 61 years of marriage, she will always be remembered as a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. Her home was the gathering place for family Thanksgiving, Christmas, Easter, and July 4th celebrations, which created many treasured memories. Jerrie enjoyed hanging out with the great-grandchildren at the zoo, the bouncy house, or park. She was able to take the trip of a lifetime to Europe where she enjoyed the Sistine Chapel, and a romantic gondola ride through the City of Venice with her husband. Each of her grandchildren and great-grandchildren were blessed with hand-sewn nursery comforters, drapes, monogrammed pillows, and crocheted blankets. When a blanket was loved beyond repair, Jerrie was already busy making a replacement. She never missed an opportunity to spend time with her loved ones and her husband will always hold dear the family they shared. He says, “She joined me on a wonderful journey.”

Jerrie never met a stranger. She was generous and loving toward all and was eager to go the extra mile for family, friends, and neighbors. Extending well beyond her immediate family, Jerrie’s memory lives on in many homes in the area as she crocheted “Baby of Destiny” blankets for baby dedications at Destiny Worship Center and at Vision Church Ft. Walton Beach. She was the “baby whisperer” at Vision Church, always available in the cry room to rock, snuggle, and sing to the precious little ones.

Jerrie is preceded in death by a grandson, Zak Wilders and by her parents, Edgar B. and Eva Mae Whitehead. She is survived by her beloved husband, William Huel Neely, Jr., her children, Karen Neely, Steven Neely and his wife Mary, Michelle Wilders and her husband Rick, grandchildren, Laci Maraman, Lindsay Cunningham, Amanda Cheeley, Joshua Cawiezell, Jake Wilders, Caleb Neely, Taylor Cawiezell, and Melani Davis, sisters, Naomi Braegger, Wyonia Farner and Wanda Tumlin, and 23 great-grandchildren.

All who knew her would agree that Jerrie was a special lady. She was a blessing to her family, friends, and community. Jerrie loved well and is well loved. Her strength, caring smile, warm hugs, and sage advice will be missed. The love she poured out will not be forgotten. The life she lived will continue to be an inspiration for her family, and an ideal to be lived up to.

Donations made to Vision Church Ft Walton Beach will be forwarded to the Africa Children’s Mission in Jerrie’s name. Flowers are also being accepted.

The family will receive visitors at Destiny Worship Center in Freeport, FL on Wednesday, October 4, 2023, from 1:00-2:00pm.  A funeral service will begin at 2:00pm with graveside following at Magnolia Cemetery in DeFuniak Springs.

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Robert "Rob" Earl Hight, Jr. - April 16, 1965 - September 28, 2023

Departed: 09/28/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Robert “Rob” Earl Hight, Jr, age 58, of Webb City, Missouri, went to be with the Lord on Thursday, September 28, 2023, in DeFuniak Springs, Florida.

He was born in Joplin, Missouri on April 16, 1965, to parents Robert Earl Hight, Sr, and Freda Dodson (Eli).

Having moved to Florida for work, Rob truly embraced the Southern life.  He loved football, especially his favorite team, the Kansas City Chiefs.  In his free time, he could be found fishing, hunting, or cooking.  He took advantage of every opportunity to get outdoors.

Rob married Melissa Rangnow on June 20, 2008.

He is preceded in death by his mother, Freda Dodson, and his father, Robert Hight, Sr.

Rob is survived by his wife, Melissa Hight of Parsons, KS, his brother, Richard Hight (Sarah) and sister Peggy Hight (Mike) – both of Webb City, KS, three children - Danyelle Hight of Carl Junction, MO, Crystal Oesterreich (Robert) of Parsons, KS, and Alan Rangnow (Whitney) of TN, and two grandchildren – Sarah and John Rangnow of Parsons, KS.  He also leaves behind a host of aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews.

Rob will be missed dearly by all who knew and loved him.

The family will schedule a memorial service at a future time.

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Elizabeth "Betty Ann" Leopold - February 06, 1937 - September 24, 2023

Departed: 09/24/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Elizabeth Patrick Leopold (Betty Ann) died on Sunday, September 24, 2023.  Born in Cleveland, Ohio on February 6, 1937, to Nicholas Patrick and Elizabeth Dugas, Betty spent her early years enjoying life on a small farm in Solon, Ohio.  Retiring from the Rochester Community Schools in Rochester Michigan and working for the Detroit Public Schools in Michigan, Betty was instrumental in planning and executing a number of career exploration programs for students, and she was commended by Ferris State College for implementing an “Educators in Industry Program” for teachers.  She also developed and coordinated the first Career Resource Center at Adams High School in Rochester.

After retiring, she and her husband began a second career doing volunteer work.  She served as Co-Chair of the Ulster Project in Chattanooga, Tennessee which unites Catholic and Protestant youths from Northern Ireland.  She also served as project volunteer with her husband at Erlanger Hospital Medical Center – chairing many fundraisers and participating in the 100-year celebration of the Erlanger Medical Center.

When she and her husband moved to Florida in 1994, they continued their service by volunteering with the American Red Cross, serving as National Disaster volunteers. As a Family Service Representative, she served as a supervisor in for reliefs efforts during the floods of West Virginia, tornadoes, wildfires, and the 9/11 terrorist attack in New York City.  She was an active member of Resurrection Catholic Church in Destin, Florida where she served on the Liturgy Committee, was a Eucharist Minister, and trained Eucharist Ministers.  As a member of the Environment and Art Committee, she was an active member of the Design Committee for the new church which opened in 2001.  Betty was chair of the Dedication Committee.  When Sacred Heart Hospital of the Emerald Coast opened, she served as a Pastoral Care volunteer.  Betty began worshipping at St. Margaret of Scotland Roman Catholic Church in 2005 where she was an active member and also served as a Eucharist Minister.

She was preceded in death by her loving husband of 41 years, Gordon, and her parents, Nicholas and Elizabeth.

Betty is survived by her two sisters, Dolores Milota (Bernard) and Frances Sabine (Theodore), her five children: Christine Potvin (Harry) of Caledonia, MI, Cathlin Hummel (Ronald) of Salida, CO, Carin Aspen (David) of Buena Vista CO, Gregory Medla (Deobrah) of Fort Walton Beach, FL, Cindi Spring (Rick) Lancaster OH, and five step-children: Michael Leopold (Marcia) of Northville, MI, Jill Martinez (Robert) of Irving TX, Jolayne Thompson (Brian) of Royal Oak, MI, Julie Leopold Fernandez (Paul) of Metamora, MI, and Ellen Leopold-Beckham (Howard).  She also leaves behind 19 grandchildren and 26 great-grandchildren. Memorials in Betty’s memory may be made to:                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        - -     - Adrian Dominican Sisters, 1257 East Siena Heights Drive, Adrian, Michigan, 49221,                                                                                                                                                                                       - Catholic Charities of Northwest Florida, 11 First St SE, Ft Walton Beach, FL 32548, or                                                                                                                                                                                  - St Margaret of Scotland, US Hwy 331 N, DeFuniak Springs, FL, 32433

Mass of the Resurrection will be held on October 14 at 10 AM at St. Margaret of Scotland, DeFuniak Springs.

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Guy Spence - February 22, 1939 - September 24, 2023

Departed: 09/24/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: Guy Spence, 84, of Wake Forest, passed away on Sunday evening, September 24th, 2023 at his home surrounded by his family. He was born in DeFuniak Springs, Florida to the late Chess Spence and Bessie Beauchamp Spence.

Guy grew up on a farm in a rural part of northwest Florida.  Upon graduation from high school, he joined the Air Force and was stationed in Incirlik, Turkey for most of his four-year service.  After he was honorably discharged, he enrolled at the University of Florida where he received a bachelor’s degree in chemistry.  After graduating UF in 1967, he took a job with RJ Reynolds Tobacco Company in Winston-Salem, North Carolina where he would meet and marry Phyllis Reynolds in 1968.  At RJ Reynolds, Guy was put in charge of their new electron microscopy lab, a position he held until his retirement on January 1st, 1997.  Guy’s roots on the farm ran deep and he was an avid gardener, growing all kinds of vegetables in his sizable garden.  He loved tools and tractors and cultivating his home both inside and out.  Guy was passionate about his family and spent countless hours with his son Brian teaching him how to play sports (especially baseball and tennis) and how to be a man and take care of things.  He loved his wife deeply and was completely devoted to her for 55 years.  Vacations were an important part of every summer, and he loved to take the family to Florida for several weeks every year.  His retirement years were spent reading novels, working in his garden and yard, and waiting patiently for grandchildren which finally started arriving in 2016, much to his delight.  In 2020, Guy and Phyllis sold their home of nearly 50 years and moved to Wake Forest where they shared a home with their son Brian and his wife, Nikki and their grandsons Chess and Ben.  There, he continued to be the primary caretaker of the yard.  Most importantly, Guy loved Jesus and trusted him completely to forgive his sins and to be his great treasure and joy.  He was a faithful member of Grace Baptist Church in Winston-Salem for 30 years and was a member of Imago Dei Church after moving to Wake Forest.

Guy is survived by his wife of 55 years, Phyllis Reynolds Spence; son, Brian Spence and wife Nikki of Wake Forest; grandchildren, Maddie Cundiff & husband Daniel of Athens, Alabama, Charlie Tibbetts of Athens, Alabama, Chess and Ben Spence both of Wake Forest; sister, Marie Lathinghouse of DeFuniak Springs, Florida; special family, Yurami Hepler & husband David and their son Michael all of Winston Salem. He was preceded in death by his sisters Iris McCollum, Virginia Lathinghouse, Ann Beamon, and Chestine Henderson.

In North Carolina, a time of visitation will be held on September 29th from 2:30pm to 3:30pm at Imago Dei Church with a funeral service at 4:00pm.

In DeFuniak Springs, a Graveside Service will be held at Alaqua Methodist Church Cemetery at 2:00 p.m. Friday, October 6th, 2023. Memorial contributions can be made in Mr. Spence’s memory to Imago Dei Church, 9200 Strickland Rd, Raleigh, NC 27615 Arrangements in North Carolina were handled by Clancy Strickland Wheeler Funeral Home and Cremation Service, 1051 Durham Road, Wake Forest, NC 27587.(919)556-7400

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John "Jack" McLaughlin - September 25, 1960 - September 20, 2023

Departed: 09/20/2023 (DeFuniak Springs)

Obituary Preview: John P. McLaughlin, “Jack”,  passed away on Wednesday, September 20, 2023.  Born in Kearny, New Jersey on September 25, 1960, to parents John McLaughlin and Patricia Huhn, Jack graduated from Kearny High School in 1978 and went on to New Jersey Vocational School to become a machinist.   He worked as a machinist for Sheffield Tool, and as a computer numerical control (CNC) operator at International Tool.

Jack married Tana R. Toolan in 1981, and they were blessed with 42 years of marriage.  Together they raised their son, John Thomas, and Jack treasured the day their son came into his life as  one of his greatest life moments.

He loved his family more than anything, and he was an incredible husband, father, and brother.  He will be remembered as a perfectly balanced mix of funny and sarcastic, while always remaining kind and loving.  Though he prized his family above all else, Jack did have a few other favorites.  His dog, Buddy, trips to Biloxi, playing golf, fishing, watching the Discovery Channel, and enjoying music were things he thoroughly enjoyed when he had the opportunity.

Jack is preceded in death by his father, John, his mother, Patricia, and sister, Michelle.

He is survived by his beloved wife, Tana, his cherished son, John Thomas and his wife Samantha Gunter, sisters Denise Garry, Diane Slebode, brother Jimmy McLaughlin, and many nieces and nephews.

A family service will be held at a later date.

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At McDonald Family Funeral Home, no two funerals are alike. Each service is carefully crafted to reflect the unique personality, interests, and spirit of the individual being honored. From traditional religious ceremonies to non-traditional celebrations of life, the funeral home's experienced staff works closely with families to create meaningful and memorable experiences that pay tribute to their loved one. Whether you're seeking a classic funeral service or something more contemporary, McDonald Family Funeral Home is dedicated to helping you create a fitting farewell.

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In most cases, changes cannot be made once an obituary has been published. However, some online platforms may allow corrections or updates within a certain timeframe.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

You can seek assistance from a funeral home, mortuary, or professional writer who specializes in obituaries. They can guide you through the process and help craft a meaningful tribute.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including personal stories and humorous moments can help capture the personality and spirit of the deceased person.

Are there any specific formatting requirements for an obituary?

The format may vary depending on the publication or platform. Typically, it's best to use a clear and concise writing style with short paragraphs and proper grammar.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or lyrics that resonate with the deceased person's life or personality can add depth and meaning to the obituary.

What if I want to write an obituary for someone who was cremated?

The process is similar to writing an obituary for someone who had a traditional burial. Be sure to include any relevant details about memorial services or scattering ceremonies.

Can I include information about memorial services in an obituary?

Yes, it's common to include details about memorial services, visitations, or funerals in the obituary. This helps inform friends and family about opportunities to pay their respects.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive details about the deceased person's life or circumstances surrounding their death, it's essential to approach these topics with tact and respect. Consider consulting with family members or close friends before publishing sensitive information.

Can I write an obituary for someone who died under unusual circumstances?

In cases where the death was unexpected or involved unusual circumstances (e.g., accident, crime), it's crucial to approach the writing process with sensitivity and compassion. Focus on celebrating the person's life rather than dwelling on the circumstances of their passing.

What if I'm struggling emotionally while writing an obituary?

This is a normal response when dealing with grief. Take your time, seek support from loved ones if needed, and remember that writing an obituary is a meaningful way to honor your loved one's memory.