Mallory-Martin Funeral Home of Spiro Obituaries

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Mallory-Martin Funeral Home of Spiro is a trusted and respected funeral home serving the community of Spiro, Oklahoma, and surrounding areas. With a long history of providing compassionate and professional funeral services, the funeral home has established itself as a beacon of hope and support during difficult times. Located at 112 N Main Avenue, Spiro, OK, 74959, Mallory-Martin Funeral Home is dedicated to helping families say goodbye to their loved ones with dignity and respect.

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Nancy Hendrix - May 03, 1957 - April 27, 2024

Departed: 04/27/2024 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Nancy Lee Hendrix, 66, passed away at home in Pocola, Oklahoma on April 27,2024. She was born May 3, 1957 in San Jose, California to Kenneth & Phyllis Greer, and had two sisters Carol Manning & husband Rick, and Donna Gross. She married Steve Hendrix on May 21, 1976 in Stigler, Oklahoma. She enjoyed retirement and liked to travel but nothing was more important than spending time with her children and grandchildren. She was a faithful servant of our Lord Jesus and always put others first.

She is survived by her husband of 47 years, Steve Hendrix. Children, Zack Hendrix and wife Jill, Stacy Jones and husband Lee, and Eric Hendrix and wife Melissa. Grandchildren, Rae Hendrix, Zane Hendrix, Hagan Jones, Cadence Jones, Gage Jones, Nevaeh Jones, Jorja Hendrix, and Olivia Hendrix, and two great grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her mother, Phyllis Roberts and father Kenneth Greer.

Visitation will be held at Evans & Miller Funeral Home in Pocola on Tuesday, April 30, 2024 from 5-7pm.

A graveside service will be held at Stigler City Cemetery in Stigler, Oklahoma on May 1, 2024 at 10:30 a.m. In Lieu of flowers, donations can be made in her memory to 6:33 Recovery in Howe, Oklahoma. Donations can be made online at https://www.633recovery.com/ , CashApp @ $633Recovery, or mailed to 6:33 Recovery, P.O. Box 272, Poteau, Oklahoma 74953

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Martha Dillard - July 22, 1943 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service for Martha Lou Dillard, 80 of Fort Smith, Arkansas will be at 10:00am on Friday, April 12, 2024 at Mallory-Martin Chapel in Spiro, Oklahoma with Brother Tommie Parker and Brother Terry Russell officiating. Burial will follow at Keota City Cemetery in Keota, Oklahoma under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home. Viewing will be 12-7 Thursday where the family will receive friends from 5-7. Pallbearers will be Tyler Roe, Jerry Cook, David Russell, Cory Aberl, Don Dillard, Galen Hallsted.

Martha Lou Dillard was born on July 22, 1943 in Keota, Oklahoma to Mary Lucille (Peevy) McElroy and Houston Marvin McElroy and passed away on April 9, 2024 in Fort Smith, Arkansas.  She was married to Duel Keith Dillard on April 5, 2005 in Keota, Oklahoma. Martha was preceded in death by her parents.

Martha was survived by her husband, Duel Dillard; daughter, Sandy Hallsted Gilkey; sisters, Betty Cabe and husband Johnny, Helen Stowers and husband Roy; grandson, Aaron Tyler Roe and wife, Kelsey; great grandchildren, Marley Roe and Presley Roe, numerous nieces, nephews, other relatives and loved ones.

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Andrew "Jack" Brewer - October 06, 1935 - May 01, 2023

Departed: 05/01/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service for Andrew "Jack" Brewer, 87 of Bokoshe, Oklahoma will be at 2:00pm on Friday, May 5, 2023 at Mallory-Martin Funeral Home Chapel in Spiro, Oklahoma. Burial will follow at Old Bokoshe Cemetery in Bokoshe, Oklahoma under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home of Spiro, Oklahoma. Viewing will be 12:00pm-7:00pm Thursday at the funeral home.

Jack was born on October 6, 1935 in Bakersfield, California to Velma (Ragan) and James Andrew Brewer and passed away on May 1, 2023 in Bokoshe, Oklahoma. Preceding him in death were his parents; his wife, Betty Ann (Ritter) Brewer and his daughter Anita Fuller. He farmed and ranched in Bokoshe, Oklahoma ever since he moved back from California, where he rode his Indian Chief motorcycle home in the winter storm. He worked for Flander's Manufacturing in Fort Smith, Arkansas for 40 plus years as paint supervisor, he was also a member of Murrow Masonic Lodge #49 in Spiro and a 32* Mason at the Scottish Rite Temple in McAlester, Oklahoma.

Survivors include his daughter, Linda Marshall and husband Ron; son, Allen A. Brewer and wife Susan, numerous grandchildren and great grandchildren; sister, Joyce Dunn; brothers, Bill Brewer and Jay Brewer; numerous nieces and nephews, other family, friends, and loved ones.

Pallbearers will be His family members.

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Ina Sue Dodd - March 15, 1937 - April 30, 2023

Departed: 04/30/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Ina Sue Dodd, 86, of Pocola Oklahoma, was called home to be with the Lord in her home on April 30th, 2023. She was born March 15th, 1937, in De Queen Arkansas to Carl and Nivian Wright. She was preceded in death by her parents, her loving husband TJ Dodd, daughter Terri Jane, one sister Carlene, and one brother Kenneth. She retired from Rheem Mfg. She loved being with family members, bingo, and most of all Bible Study with her good friends from Church. She loved collecting recipes, reading, and her pet dogs. She loved the Lord and was ready to be with him.

She is survived by one son TJ Dodd Jr and companion Liz of Pocola Ok, a daughter Robin Alston and husband Kenny of Inola Okla, and daughter Valerie Lafferty and husband Burl of Panama Okla, one sister Jeri Cockram and husband Peter of Van Buren Ark, nine grandchildren ( Tracy Lunsford, Misti Lessley, Jeramy Finney, Michael Waterbury, Leon Alston, Brad Stiles, Taylor Dodd, Teri Jane Dodd, and TJ Dodd III) and seven great-grandchildren.

Cremation is under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home in Spiro,Oklahoma.

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Jeffrey Towe - March 22, 1956 - April 28, 2023

Departed: 04/28/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Graveside Service for Jeffrey Lynn Towe, 67 of Spiro, Oklahoma will be at 10:00 on Wednesday, May 3, 2023 at New Hope Cemetery in Spiro with Brother Marty Darneal officiating. Burial will follow at New Hope Cemetery in Spiro, OK under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home. Viewing will be Tuesday 12:00-7:00pm with family visiting with friends 5:00pm-7:00pm at the funeral home.

Jeffrey Lynn Towe was born on March 22, 1956 in Tulsa, Oklahoma to Jaunema (Miles) and James Marion Towe and passed away on April 28, 2023 in Spiro, Oklahoma. He was a member of the Choctaw Nation, a truck driver by trade, and an Army Veteran. He was also a proud Buffalo Bills fan especially the "Bill's Mafia" and enjoyed watching wrestling. Jeffrey will be missed by all that knew him.

Survivors include his mother, Jaunema (Miles) Sparacio; sisters, Denise (Sparacio) Reed and husband Robert; Brother, Tommy Sparacio; daughters, Karen and Nikki; sons, Dewey and Jeremiah; special nephews, Jay Robinson and wife Crystal and family, Dylan Robinson and wife Christine and family, and Brandon Robinson and wife Emily and family, grandchildren, Kyle, Courtney, Darrin, Toby, and Joey; numerous other family, friends, and loved ones. numerous other family, friends, and loved ones. He is preceded in death by his wife, Barbara Towe; infant son, Jeffrey Lynn Towe, Jr., father, James Marion Towe; and brother, Danny Towe.

Pallbearers will be Jay Robinson, Dylan Robinson, Brandon Robinson, Robert Robinson, Robert Reed, and Dennis Smith.

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Francis Elizabeth Dameron - December 18, 1937 - April 25, 2023

Departed: 04/25/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service for Francis Elizabeth Dameron, 85 of Spiro, Oklahoma will be at 10:00am on Saturday, April 29, 2023 at Mallory-Martin Chapel in Spiro, Oklahoma. Burial will follow at New Hope Cemetery in Spiro, Oklahoma under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home in Spiro, Oklahoma.

Francis was born on December 18, 1937 in Eufaula, Oklahoma to Martha Jane (Kurkendall) Rust and Willie Anderson Rust and passed away on April 25, 2023 in Spiro, Oklahoma. She was preceded in death by her parents; niece, Sheena Rodgers; nephew, Benny Benevidez; her brothers, Earnest Rust, Quincy Rust, Bill Rust, Van Rust, and Troy Rust; her sisters, Mary Crugar, Lorane Epley, Dortha Rust, Ruby Chaney, Rose Ayala, and Linda Chaney. Francis retired from OK Foods in Fort Smith. She loved camping, hunting, fishing, and cooking for her family.

Survivors include her sister, Martha Moore; numerous nieces and nephews and nine of which she raised as her own children; Brenda Hartley, Jerry Jones, Raymond Jones, Rita Covey, Julie Faulkenberry, Karen Rodgers, Tommy Rust, Kevin Holt, and Kalley Holt.

Pallbearers will be Raymond Jones, Tommy Rust, Alonzo Ayala, Quincy Ayala, Jerry Jones, Wesley Walters and Richard Hartley.

Viewing and Visitation will be Friday, April 28, 2023 from 9am - 7pm at the funeral home.

To plant Memorial Trees in memory of Francis Elizabeth Dameron, please click here to visit our Sympathy Store. Funeral Service Mallory Martin Funeral Chapel Spiro Saturday, April 29, 2023 10:00 AM 112 North Main

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Wayne Davis - August 29, 1933 - April 22, 2023

Departed: 04/22/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service for Wayne Davis, 89 of Spiro, Oklahoma will be at 2:00 on Wednesday, April 26, 2023 at Cavanaugh Free Will Baptist Church in Fort Smith, Arkansas with Reverend Rick Davis, Reverend Gary Thomas, Reverend Will Harmon, and Reverend Ray Copeland officiating. Burial will follow at New Hope Cemetery in Spiro, Oklahoma under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home. Viewing will be 9:00am - 7:00pm Tuesday with the family visiting with friends 5:00pm-7:00pm.

Roy Wayne Davis was born on August 29, 1933 in Moffett, Oklahoma to Bessie Mae (Floyd) and Roy Lynx Davis and passed away on April 22, 2023 in Spiro, Oklahoma. He married the love of his life, Wanda Lee Clark on April 1, 1952 in Spiro, Oklahoma. He was a longtime truck driver servicing most of his career with Consolidated Freightways, where he earned many safe driving awards and also won 1st Place in Truck Drivers Safety Competition in the state of Arkansas. He was passionate about serving God and loving his family and friends. Wayne was a member of Cavanaugh Free Will Baptist Church where he served in many capacities including working in the food bank, serving meals to the homeless, driving the Prime Timers on trips, and going on mission trips. Family gatherings, fishing and hunting with his buddies, and serving God were his favorite things in life. He will be remembered as a great man of God.

Wayne is survived by his wife of 71 years, Wanda; children, Rick Davis and wife Michelle, Rhonda Thomas and husband Gary, and Russell Davis and wife, Sharon; grandchildren, Ricky Wayne Davis (Mirinda), Nickie Kersh (Jason), Joshua Thomas, Nick Davis (Adrienne), April Carter (Nick), Jon Thomas (Stacey), Jordan Thomas (Jessica), and Jenn Riley (Lance); great grandchildren, Mallory Reed (Dillon), Marshall Davis (Haley), Linux Kersh, Davis Carter, Babe Carter, Sydney Davis, Greenley Carter, Marissa Davis, Everett Thomas, Axton Thomas, Wyatt Thomas, Zachary Etzkorn, and Isabelle Etzkorn.

He was preceded in death by his parents and brother, Tommy Floyd Davis. Pallbearers will be Ricky Davis, Josh Thomas, Nick Davis, Jon Thomas, Jordan Thomas, Davis Carter, Marshall Davis, Linux Kersh, Jason Kersh, Nick Carter, Dillion Reed and Zachary Etzkorn. Honorary Pallbearers will be J.E. McKinney, James McKinney, Dewey Rogers, Fred Trobaugh, Johnny Miller, Don Justice, and Mitch Davis.

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Henry Jeffery - February 28, 1954 - April 19, 2023

Departed: 04/19/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service for Henry Jeffery, 69 of Spiro, Oklahoma will be at 1:00pm on Wednesday, April 26, 2023 at Lighthouse at the Crossroads Church in Spiro, Oklahoma with Reverend Howard Jeffery officiating. Burial will follow at Forest Park Cemetery in Fort Smith, Arkansas under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home. Viewing will be Tuesday 2:00pm-6:00pm at the church with a wake service being held 6:00pm-8:00pm.

Henry Dog was born on February 28, 1954 in Austin, Texas to Ardell (Harrison) and Henry Jeffery and passed away on April 19, 2023 in Fort Smith, Arkansas. He was married to Rosemary Stanley on April 20, 1983 in Sallisaw, Oklahoma.

Survivors include his wife, Rosemary Jeffery; daughters, Tara Jeffery and Natalie Jeffery; son,Henry Jeffery and wife Lula Ann; grandchildren, Amelia, Riviera, Henry Giovanni, Ravana, Emma, Rosemary, and Billy Hunter; sisters, Betty Mary Harrison and husband Elmer, Shirley Kay Harrison and Billy, and Patsy Holmes and husband Billy; brother, Billy Jeffery and wife Patsy Louise, numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, other family, friends, and loved ones.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Henry and Ardell (Harrison) Jeffery; his sister, Patricia Ann Jeffery; and brother in law, Billy Holmes.

Pallbearers will be Billy Ray Harrison, Jimmy Harrison, Aaron Holmes, Little Billy Jeffery, Issac Jeffery, Albert Jeffery, and Elmer Harrison. The church will be open at 12:00pm Tuesday for flower delivery. You may leave an online message at www.mallorymartinfuneralhome.com

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Paul Perry - August 22, 1940 - April 16, 2023

Departed: 04/16/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Paul Perry, 82 of Spiro, Oklahoma will be at 10:30am Thursday, April 20, 2023 at Murry Spur Free Will Baptist Church in Spiro, Oklahoma with Pastor Lee Rogers officiating. Burial will follow at Fort Smith National Cemetery in Fort Smith, Arkansas under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home. Viewing hours will be 9:00am-7:00pm Wednesday with the family visiting with friends from 5:00pm-7:00pm at the funeral home.

Paul Dewayne Perry was born on August 22, 1940 in McCurtain, Oklahoma to Mary Opal (King) and Campbell Phillip Perry and passed away on April 16, 2023 in Spiro, Oklahoma. He was married to Dianna Perry on August 7, 1972 in Amarillo, Texas. He was a Navy Veteran and retired from the 188th Air National Guard and a member of the Choctaw Veterans Association Post 4501 in Skullyville, Oklahoma. He also retired from Pocola Elementary School and loved hearing from his former students.

He is survived by his wife Dianna Perry; children, Joye Jones and husband J.R.II, Richard B. Tackett, Robin Lanham and husband Allan, Cody Tackett and wife Denise, Joel Perry and wife Madeleine, Michael Perry and wife Dwanna, David Perry, and Stephen Perry and wife Debbie; 23 grandchildren, 25 great grandchildren; one brother, Joe Perry and wife Pam.

Paul was preceded in death by his father, Campbell P. Perry (full blood Choctaw) and mother, Mary Opal (King) (full blood Choctaw-Chickasaw); siblings, Harold, Betty, Edna, Davey Jean, Belvin, and Bolin.

Honorary Pallbearers will be Cody Craig Tackett, II, Ethan Tackett, Zach Tackett, Gavin Tackett, Chris Corbit, Clayton Corbit, Aryn Bronx Perry, J.R. Jones, III, Scott Jones, Matt Jones, and Richard D. Tackett. You may leave an online message at www.mallorymartinfuneralhome.com.

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Gary Dale Hope - December 25, 1956 - April 13, 2023

Departed: 04/13/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Gary Dale Hope was born in Sapulpa, Oklahoma on December 25, 1956 to JC and Violet (Haney) Hope. He passed away on April 13 , 2023 in Fort Smith, Arkansas at the age of 66.

Gary is survived by his spouse, Daniel Lee Clegg; sister, Shelia Hope Real; niece, Destiny Danyelle Owens; nephews, Seth Owens, Slade Garrett Owens, Dalton Real, numerous other relatives, and loved ones.

Gary was preceded in death by his parents. James and Violet Hope; his maternal grandparents ; Isac and Lucinda Haney, paternal grandfather, OB Hope; paternal grandmothers, Belle Hope and Josie Hope and nephew, Vincent Owens.

Gary spent most of his working career, forty plus years, as a cosmetologist. The last twelve years he was a master instructor for both barbering and cosmetology at a local college. He was inspired at an early age by his aunt, Betty Hope Moore. Gary loved the outdoors, hiking, canoeing, camping in general and roasting hotdogs and marshmallows over an open campfire. He loved to garden, raising both vegetable and flowers. Gary loved music and his pianos. He was an avid collector of sheet music for every genre. Perhaps, his greatest love was his horses; Apples, Cherokee and Tina (Turner). Gary was a good friend, and always put others first. Many times putting his own needs last.

Private family services will be held at a later date.

To plant Memorial Trees in memory of Gary Dale Hope, please click here to visit our Sympathy Store.

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Violet Cessna - April 28, 1942 - April 11, 2023

Departed: 04/11/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service for Violet Laverne Cessna, 80 of Spiro, Oklahoma will be at 2:00pm on Sunday, April 16, 2023 at Victory Worship Center in Spiro, Oklahoma with Reverend Bryan Fouts officiating. Services are under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home in Spiro, Oklahoma. Full obit to follow

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Huday Lee - July 16, 1941 - April 11, 2023

Departed: 04/11/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service for Huday Lee, 81 of Fort Coffee, Oklahoma, will be at 11:00am on Wednesday, April 19, 2023 at First Baptist Church in Spiro, Oklahoma with Pastor Wesley Hooks officiating. Burial will follow at Fort Coffee Cemetery in Fort Coffee, Oklahoma under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home. Viewing will be 9am-7pm on Tuesday with family visiting with friends 5pm-7pm at the funeral home.

Huday was born on July 16, 1941 in Fort Coffee, Oklahoma to Berneder (McKesson) and Floyd Lee, Sr. and passed away on April 11, 2023 in Fort Smith, Arkansas. He was preceded in death by his grandson-in-law, Johathan "Opie" Maxwell; sisters, Bobbie Guillory and Elizabeth Pickens; brothers, Floyd Lee, Jr., Albert Lee, James Lee, and Robert Lee. Huday was a member of the Fort Coffee Fire Department and the Mt. Triumph Baptist Church. He loved going to ball games and hunting.

Survivors include his wife Emma (Clayton) Lee; daughter, JoAnna Whitfield (William); sons, Wayne and Rondell Lee; grandchildren, LaToya Maxwell, William Whitfield, II (Ashley), and McKinley Whitfield (Cenia); great grandchildren, MaAliyah Whitfield, Justyce Maxwell, Luka Whitfield, and Milo Whitfield; special nieces, Coletta Russell, Brenda Montgomery, and Delores Steele; numerous other nieces, nephews, cousins, and loved ones.

Pallbearers will be William Whitfield, William Whitfield, II, McKinley Whitfield, Jarron Steele, Jerrell Clayton, LaPierce Gordon, Andre Walker, Ryan Steele, Justin Wooley, and Mark Bowlin. Honorary Pallbearers will be Jeff Simpson, Chester Steele, Harvey Shoate, Vernon Bunch, Sr. Carrol Rogers, Gerald Sublet, Sr., and Lawrence Fellows. You may leave an online message at www.mallorymartinfuneralhome.com

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Raymond Adams - January 19, 1961 - April 07, 2023

Departed: 04/07/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service for Ray Adams, 62 of Ida, Michigan formerly of Spiro, Oklahoma will be at 1:00pm on Friday, April 14, 2023 at First Assembly of God in Spiro, Oklahoma with Reverend Ron Barker officiating. Burial will follow at Spiro City Cemetery in Spiro, Oklahoma under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home.

Raymond Dale Adams was born on January 19, 1961 in Bakersfield, California to Janice Marie (VanDyke) Adams and John Thomas "Bob" Adams and passed away on April 7, 2023 in Ann Arbor, Michigan. He was married to Tamara (O'Flinn) Adams on August 20, 1982 in Spiro, Oklahoma.

Survivors include his wife, Tamara Adams; sons, Jeremy Adams and wife Heather, Darren Adams and wife Larissa; grandchildren, Lillian, Clinton, Eoghan, Amelia, Octavia, Gavin, Abigail, Evelyn and Lucia; sister, Mary Jo Kilgore and husband Fred; numerous nieces, nephews, other family and friends.

Ray was preceded in death by his parents, Bob and Janice Adams. He served in the United States Air Force and later worked as a Pharmacy Tech for the VA Hospital in Ann Arbor, Michigan; he was named Pharmacy Tech, Civilian of the Year and Pharmacy FNCO of the PACAAF. Ray also served as a Pastor for the Church of God at The Church Under the Bridge in Oklahoma City and also preaching in Washington, Canada, Guam and Okinawa.

Pallbearers will be Jeremy Adams, Darren Adams, Ryan Adams, Ethan Hudson, Fred Kilgore, Tim O'Flinn, Brett King, and Neal Vanderzwaag.

Viewing and Visitation will be 5:00pm-7:00pm Thursday at the funeral home.

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Gladys Ruffin - October 20, 1951 - April 05, 2023

Departed: 04/05/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Funeral services for Gladys Marie Swait Ruffin will be 11am Saturday, April 15, 2023, at the Victory Worship Center in Spiro, Oklahoma with burial to follow in the Fort Coffee Cemetery under the professional direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home of Spiro, Oklahoma. Viewing hours will be 2pm-7pm on Friday at the funeral home.

Gladys Marie Swait Ruffin, daughter of Eugene and Helen (Frazier) Swait, was born on October 20, 1951 in Ft. Coffee, Oklahoma. She was the fifth of thirteen children. She was preceded in death by her parents, two brothers Otis and Charles, three sisters Martha and unnamed twins. Also preceding her in death was her paternal sister Melody L. Johnson.

Gladys attended Spiro High School and graduated in 1969. She attended Northeastern Oklahoma State University in Wilburton, OK, however, she received her bachelor’s degree in Mathematics from Oklahoma State University in Stillwater, OK in May 1974. It was here on the campus of Oklahoma State she pledged and became a member of Delta Sigma Theta Inc. and she also met Bruce Ruffin. The two were married on June 1, 1974. To this union, four children were born.

Gladys was an exceptional wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, cousin, and friend. She was employed as a financial planner at TIAA Financial Services until her health failed. She spent many hours, days, and weekends following her boys as they played in their various sporting events. However, more important than any of these roles, she was a child of God. Gladys was a devout Christian and studied God’s word faithfully.

She leaves to cherish her memories, her husband Bruce of Denver, CO; four sons, Bruce DeWayne Jr. (Karla) of Tigard, OR; Michael of Phoenix, AZ; Brandon (Lora) of Cupertino, CA; Joshua of Denver, CO; daughter-in-law Mistye Ruffin of Phoenix, AZ; three brothers, Billie (Alice) Swaite of Ft. Coffee, OK; Edgar (Yonetta) Swait of Rowlett, TX; Quincy (Carolyn) Swait of Chicago, IL; four sisters, Kathey (Ronnie) Shocks of Midwest City, OK; Brenda Swait of Midwest City, OK; Carol (Chester) Hartgraves of Spiro, OK; Althea (Daniel) McDaniel of Midwest City, OK; sister-in-law Billie Sue Willard of Midwest City, OK; one uncle Douglas (Hazel) Frazier of Ft. Smith, AR; three aunts Lorene Lee & Gladys Quince of Detroit, MI; Joetta Frazier of Moore, OK; 11 grandchildren, her caregiver Tina Bolden of Phoenix, AZ, and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

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Milinda Kay Patton - September 12, 1958 - April 03, 2023

Departed: 04/03/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Memorial Services for Milinda Patton, 64 of Pocola, Oklahoma will be at 11:00am, Saturday, April 29, 2023 at Victory Worship Center in Spiro, Oklahoma. Cremation is under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home in Spiro, Oklahoma.

She was born on September 12, 1958 in Ft. Smith, Arkansas to Alpha Alice (Smith) Craig and James Craig and passed away on April 3, 2023 in Van Buren, Arkansas. She was preceded in death by her parents and her nephews, Kendall Dwight Craig and Jamey Alan Craig. She enjoyed reading and loved her family dearly.

Survivors include her daughter, Melanie Pinkerton; son, Beau Patton; grandchildren, Benjamin Pinkerton, Jaxen Pinkerton, Kaylee Patton; brothers, Ronald Craig and wife Becky, Dwayne Craig and wife Glenda, Kendall Craig and wife Julie, numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, other family and friends. https://www.tributeslides.com/tributes/show/TRNZKJ83SJS5BRRQ

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Mary Harper - December 29, 1939 - March 29, 2023

Departed: 03/29/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service for Mary Elizabeth Harper, 84 of Spiro, Oklahoma will be at 2:00 P.M. on April 4, 2023 at First Baptist Church in Spiro, Oklahoma with Reverend James Smith and Gary Sebo officiating. Burial will follow at New Hope Cemetery in Spiro, Oklahoma under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home.

Mary was born on December 29, 1939 in Fort Smith, Arkansas to Gillie (Webb) Boozman and Leo Boozman, Sr. and passed away on March 29, 2023 In Spiro, Oklahoma. Mary was married to Arnold Gene Harper on August 30, 1958 in Shady Point, Oklahoma. She was preceded in death by her husband, Arnold Gene Harper, her parents, Gillie and Leo Boozman, sister, Linda Ward, and son-in-law, Stan Scott. Mary was a member of First Baptist Church in Spiro for over 60 years and an active member of the women's quilting group. She was a member of the Prime Timers and the Carl Albert Travel Group. Mary retired from Harper Insurance Agency.

Survivors include her son, Doug Harper and wife Tara of Spiro, daughter, Beth Scott of Stroud, Oklahoma; granddaughters, Gena Waugh and husband Chris, Amy Green and husband Zach, Peyton Holland, and Taylor Scott; great grandchildren, Lucy and Lyla Waugh, Claire and Anna Green, Allicyn and Presley Holland, and SJ Santillan; sister, Carolyn Kyle and husband John; brother, Leo Boozman, Jr. and wife Karen; numerous nieces, nephews, and other relatives and loved ones.

Pallbearers will be Gary Sebo, Tracy Gibson, Kendall Beck, Pat Briley, Gary Harper, Phillip Evans, and Jimbo Holstead. Viewing hours will be 9:00 AM-7:00 PM, Monday, April 3, 2023 with the family visiting with friends from 5:00-7:00 PM at the funeral home.

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Kenneth Ray Tomlinson - July 15, 1941 - March 28, 2023

Departed: 03/28/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Memorial Service for Kenneth Ray Tomlinson, 81 of Poteau, Oklahoma will be at 11:00am on Wednesday, April 5, 2023 at Barrington Community Church ( 25347 Latham Road) in Shady Point, Oklahoma with Pastor Bruce Hatton and Pastor Matt Stimic officiating. Lunch will follow after the service.

Kenneth was born on July 15, 1941 in Ada, Oklahoma to Hazel (Russell) Tomlinson and Marvin Tomlinson and passed away on March 28, 2023 in Poteau, Oklahoma. He was preceded in death by his wife, Rita Allen Tomlinson; parents, Marvin and Hazel Tomlinson; wife, Virginia Wade Tomlinson; daughter, Ginger Owens; son, Rocky Tomlinson; brother, Frank Tomlinson; sister, Patricia Thornton, and stepson, Buddy Wade.

Survivors include his sisters, Phyllis Glass, Marlena Hatton and husband Bruce; brother, Howard Tomlinson and wife Pam; step daughters, Barbara Brook and Patty Walls, numerous nieces, nephews, other relatives and loved ones.

To plant Memorial Trees in memory of Kenneth Ray Tomlinson, please click here to visit our Sympathy Store. Memorial Service Barrington Community Church Wednesday, April 05, 2023 11:00 AM 25347 Latham Road

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Dorothy Cooper - November 09, 1941 - March 28, 2023

Departed: 03/28/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Funeral Service for Dorothy Marie Cooper, 81 of Spiro, Oklahoma will be at 1:00 on Monday, April 3, 2023 at Immaculate Conception Church in Fort Smith, Arkansas. Burial will follow at Forest Park Cemetery in Fort Smith, Arkansas under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home in Spiro, Oklahoma.

Dorothy was born on November 9, 1941 in Fort Worth, Texas to Charlene (Kelly) McBride and Archie McBride and passed away on March 28, 2023 in Fort Smith, Arkansas. She was preceded in death by her parents; husband, Levi Cooper; and sister, Delia Cooper.

She enjoyed knitting and making baby blankets, she was the last survivor from "Under the Hill', and she was loved by all. Everyone had a name for her, Momma, Nana, Granny, Grandma, Auntie, Aunt Granny, and Granny Irish. She will be missed by all that knew her.

Survivors include her daughter, Mary Ann Jeffery and husband Howard; sons, Harry "Glunt" Cooper and wife Margaret, Walter Cooper; grandchildren, Bridget Bryer and husband Mark, Henry Jeffery and wife Brianna, Levi Jeffery, Emerald Cooper, Ireland Watkins; great granddaughter, Mary Ann Bryer, numerous nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews, cousins, other relative and loved ones.

Pallbearers will be Henry Jeffery, Levi Jeffery, Mark Bryer, Tom Cooper, Anthony Cooper, Walter Jack Jeffery, and Aaron Wells. Honorary pallbearers will be her beloved nephews. Viewing will be 4pm-8pm Sunday April, 2, 2023 at Lighthouse Crossroads Church in Spiro, Oklahoma, with a Catholic Rosary Service starting at 6pm. You may leave an online message at www.mallorymartinfuneralhome.com

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Yazelle 'Joy' Blaylock-Darneal - June 02, 1952 - March 26, 2023

Departed: 03/26/2023 (Spiro)

Obituary Preview: Yazelle "Joy" Blaylock-Darneal, of Bokoshe, Oklahoma, was born on June 2, 1952 in Bakersfield, California ro Ray Mirelle and Ester (Taurus) Mirelle and passed away on March 26, 2023 in Fort Smith, Arkansas. Joy was married to Danny Darneal on August 26, 2017 in Bokoshe, Oklahoma. She was preceded in death by her parents and son, Donny Blaylock. Joy was a member of the Bokoshe Assembly of God Church.

Survivors include her husband Danny Darneal; one son, Danny Blaylock; four grandchildren, one great grandchild, two sisters, and one brother.

Cremation services are under the direction of Mallory-Martin Funeral Home of Spiro, Oklahoma. Private family services will be held at a later date.

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Funeral Services Offered

Mallory-Martin Funeral Home offers a wide range of funeral services designed to meet the unique needs of each family. From traditional funeral ceremonies to cremation services, memorial gatherings, and graveside services, the funeral home provides families with the flexibility to choose the type of service that best honors their loved one's memory. Additionally, the funeral home offers pre-planning services, allowing individuals to make arrangements for their own funeral in advance, alleviating the burden on their loved ones.

Cremation Services

Mallory-Martin Funeral Home recognizes that cremation is an increasingly popular choice for many families. As such, the funeral home offers a range of cremation options, including direct cremation, cremation with a memorial service, and cremation with a traditional funeral ceremony. The funeral home's experienced staff is trained to handle all aspects of the cremation process with dignity and respect, ensuring that families receive the highest level of care and compassion.

Facilities and Amenities

The facilities at Mallory-Martin Funeral Home are designed to provide families with a comfortable and peaceful environment in which to gather and celebrate the life of their loved one. The funeral home features spacious visitation rooms, chapels, and reception areas, all tastefully decorated to create a warm and inviting atmosphere. In addition, the funeral home offers ample parking, wheelchair accessibility, and state-of-the-art audio-visual equipment to accommodate families' specific needs.

Staff and Leadership

The staff at Mallory-Martin Funeral Home is comprised of experienced professionals who are dedicated to providing exceptional service and support to families during their time of need. Led by a team of licensed funeral directors and morticians, the staff is committed to upholding the highest standards of integrity, compassion, and professionalism. From assisting with funeral arrangements to providing emotional support and guidance, the staff at Mallory-Martin Funeral Home is dedicated to helping families navigate the grieving process.

Community Involvement

Mallory-Martin Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the Spiro community and is committed to giving back through various outreach programs and initiatives. The funeral home partners with local organizations to provide support for bereaved families, hosts educational seminars on topics related to grief and loss, and participates in community events aimed at promoting awareness about end-of-life care. By engaging with the community in this way, Mallory-Martin Funeral Home demonstrates its commitment to serving beyond just providing funeral services.

Contact Information

If you're in need of funeral services or would like more information about Mallory-Martin Funeral Home of Spiro, please don't hesitate to reach out. You can contact the funeral home by phone at [insert phone number], by email at [insert email address], or by visiting their website at [insert website URL]. The funeral home's caring staff is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to assist you with any questions or concerns you may have.

Mallory-Martin Funeral Home of Spiro is more than just a funeral home – it's a trusted partner in your time of need. With its rich history, commitment to excellence, and dedication to providing personalized funeral services, the funeral home has earned its reputation as a leader in the Spiro community. Whether you're planning ahead or require immediate assistance, Mallory-Martin Funeral Home is here to support you every step of the way.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online, or in a funeral program to inform friends, family, and acquaintances of the person's passing.

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