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Kahler-Brende Funeral Home, located at 107 W 4th St, Dell Rapids, SD, 57022, has been a pillar of the community for many years, providing compassionate and professional funeral services to families in their time of need. With a long history of serving the Dell Rapids area, the funeral home has built a reputation for its dedication to helping families say goodbye to their loved ones with dignity and respect.

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Charles Eugene Schaefer - March 24, 2022 - March 27, 2022

Departed: 03/27/2022 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Charles Eugene Schaefer, infant son of John and Amanda (Taggart) Schaefer was born on March 24, 2022 and peacefully passed away in his mother and father’s arms March 27, 2022. His funeral service will begin at 2:00pm on Friday, April 1, 2022, at Peace Lutheran Church in Sioux Falls, SD.

Charles came into the world at a fighting weight of 4lbs 14 oz and 15.5 inches long. John, Amanda, Philip, Grandpa and Grandma Taggart, and Grandpa and Grandma Schaefer, Uncle Heath, and Aunt Erin Taggart, got to meet Charles. Charles knew his mom and dad were with him because the first time he heard their voices, he opened his eyes. He gripped his mom’s finger and responded to his dad’s touch. They were able to witness his Baptism into the kingdom of God before he was called home to receive his angel wings.

We are certain he was greeted in heaven by the best of the best, his Great Aunt Deb (Taggart) Gaikowski, and his Great Grandpa Philip Anderson and many others. Our hearts are broken for the loss of our sweet baby boy. We can’t wait to see you again.

Charles Eugene Schaefer is survived by his parents, John, and Amanda Schaefer; brother Philip and pet dog Molly; Great Grandma Colleen (Taggart) Abernathy, Grandparents, Ron & Kathy Taggart; Great Grandma Helen Rackerby; Grandparents Vince & Phyllis Schaefer; and many aunts, uncles and cousins.

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Dawn M. Burns - March 30, 1958 - March 24, 2022

Departed: 03/24/2022 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Dawn Marie Burns, 63, of Baltic, passed away on Thursday, March 24, 2022. A Memorial Visitation with family present will be from 1:00 p.m. - 3:30p.m. on Saturday, April 2, 2022 at Kahler-Brende Funeral Home. The family request that you dress casual.

Dawn was born on March 30, 1958 in Sioux Falls, SD. She grew up in Watertown and graduated from Watertown High School in 1976. She attended USD and then moved back to Watertown where she met Doug Burns. The couple married on March 7, 1981 and made their home in Watertown until moving to Pierre for three years. In June of 1987, the family moved to Baltic where she remained until the time of her death. Dawn worked for Sioux Vocational Services, now known as Lifescapes for 32 years before retiring in February of 2019.

Dawn or “Grandma New” was known for her passion and love of many things, including family, friends, gardening, decorating the porch and house for the holidays, watching Judge Judy, murder mysteries, collecting Native American art, shopping for the best bargains, and sitting in her hot tub. Dawn loved to travel especially to New Orleans, Gulf Breeze FL, Mexico, Jamaica and any place that was new and exciting. She enjoyed listening to music, attending Saturday in the Park and Jazzfest where she would bring her Parrot on a stick “Fernado” so everyone knew where to meet. She never passed up an opportunity to have a good time. She enjoyed crewing along with her daughter for the Hot Air Balloon Association. Dawn always had a heating blanket on and a Diet Mt Dew and a dessert close by. She loved all animals especially horses and cats, press on nails, Mardi Gras masks, jewelry, having backyard fires. Dawn loved her granddaughters with all her heart and enjoyed rolling down the hill, spending time and teaching them new things.

She is preceded in death by her sister, Darla, brothers, Donnie and Daniel; her in-laws, Harold and Grace Burns, her sister-in-law, Barb Weller; nephew, Joseph Hagele; brother-in-law, John Matthews and her best friend, Gigi Naggatz.

She is survived by her husband of 41 years, Doug Burns of Baltic; her son, Jason Burns of Crooks; her daughter, Jenni (Ryan) Nuttall of Watertown; her granddaughters, Lydia and Lainey Nuttall; her mother, Donna Anderson of Dell Rapids; her sister, Denise Matthews of Ward, CO; her sister-in-law, Carol (Larry) Hagele of Aurora, CO; her nephews, Joe and Luke Matthews and her nieces, Jessica Mobeck and Rosalee Hagele.

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Robert "Bob" Donahue - May 04, 1958 - March 11, 2022

Departed: 03/11/2022 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Robert “Bob” Paul Donahue, 63, of Dell Rapids, passed away peacefully in his sleep on March 11, 2022. His Mass of Christian Burial will be 11:00 a.m. on Wednesday, March 16, 2022 in St. Mary Catholic Church. Visitation with the family present will be from 5:00 - 7:00 p.m. on Tuesday, March 15, 2022 at Kahler-Brende Funeral Home with the Christian Wake Service starting at 7:00 p.m.

Bob was born in Dell Rapids to Francis and Mary Ann Donahue. He grew up on his family’s farm outside of Baltic. He married Michele (Donahue) Weldy on November 4, 1978. Together they raised three daughters: Jamie, Samantha, and Sarah.

Bob was known for his passion and love of many things, including his family, friends, fishing, gardening, and the Denver Broncos, to which he instilled in his children. Bob was an incredibly hard worker and loved ‘tinkering’ in his shop. Bob made the best peanut butter cookies and banana bread and he loved to share with everyone he could. He loved his grandchildren wholeheartedly and enjoyed spending as much time with them as possible.

Bob was preceded in death by his father, Francis, and his siblings, Patty, Jimmy, Joan, David, and Jerry. He is survived by his children, Jamie Hawthorne (Dell Rapids, SD), Samantha Kroeze (Sioux Center, IA), and Sarah Jungers (Maxwell, IA); his eight grandchildren, Brooke-Lynn, Logan, Sawyer, Laken, Parker, Kate, Jolee, and Halle; one great grandchild, Leighton; his mother, Mary Ann, and his siblings Mary, Judy, Richard, Betty, Kathy, Dorothy, Theresa, Mike, and John.

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Alice A. Dibbern - August 24, 1925 - March 09, 2022

Departed: 03/09/2022 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Alice Aletha Dibbern was a caring wife, mother and grandmother. She passed away on Tuesday, March 8th, 2022 at Bethany Home in Brandon SD at the age of 96 years. Her Memorial Service will begin at 2:00 p.m. on Friday, March 18, 2022 at Kahler-Brende Funeral Home. Visitation will be two hours prior to the start of the service. Inurnment will take place at a later date in Riverview Cemetery, Trent.

Alice worked as a telephone operator at Northwestern Bell from 1942 until 1956. It was there that she met her husband, Dick. They were married on October 5th, 1952. She spoke often of her career there and was quite proud that she was able to support herself and live independently.

Farm life proved to be a terrific training ground for her life as a wife and mother. She was an avid vegetable and flower gardener and was able to feed her family of five from the huge vegetable garden she and her husband tended in Trent SD. Canning all the vegetables needed to feed her loved ones was a chore she thoroughly enjoyed.

She will be remembered for her sense of humor and her great home-style cooking! She made the best fried chicken and it was always a favorite at family gatherings. The cooks in her family have all tried to recreate her potato salad but it is never quite the same as when she made it.

Alice was preceded in death by her husband Richard (Dick) and son Michael (Mike). She is survived by her daughters Kathleen Kennedy and Kimberlee Olson (Mark). Alice was the grandmother of eight, the great-grandmother of thirteen and a half, as well as the great great-grandmother of two.

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Pastor Eldon H. Thurow - December 23, 1936 - February 28, 2022

Departed: 02/28/2022 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Eldon Thurow, age 85 died unexpectedly on Feb 28th at Avera McKennan Hospital in Sioux Falls, SD.  He was born in Ramona, SD on Dec 23rd, 1936. He graduated from Augustana College in 1966 and went on to Lutheran Seminary to graduate with a degree in Divinity. He married Lillian Hansen in 1956. Lillian passed away in 2004. Eldon married Donna Hamer in 2005.

Eldon was a called servant of God, proclaiming God’s Grace in the world.  He shared his skilled hands, strength, and heart with anyone in need.  He loved people --  Especially his family and members of the rural congregations he served in SD, MN, and WI over 50 years of ordained ministry. He enjoyed spending time with family, watching sports (especially Augustana University), and his beloved dog, Stetson.

Pastor Eldon was given a special gift from God, He was called to many congregations who were experiencing problems. When he left they were united and ready to heal. He was dearly loved wherever he served. Let all who encountered Eldon celebrate the impact of his life this day!

Family celebrating his life include: wife Donna Thurow (Hamer) of Brandon; four sons, Randy (Miriam) Thurow, Rodney Thurow, Herbert (Kathy) Hamer and Jeffrey (Darla) Hamer; nine grandchildren, Kai (Lauren) Thurow, Kyra (Alan) Thurow Barton, Zeffen Thurow, Zetta Thurow,  Elizabeth (Jake) Sheffield, Bradley (Stephanie) Hamer, Hope (Dusty) Stultz, Ashley Hamer (Lance Richter) and Alexander Hamer (Taylor Freeman);  and nine great-grandchildren, Kaden Thurow, Cameron Thurow, Carson Sheffield, Morgan Sheffield, Rayleigh Stultz, Emma Stultz, Bristol Stultz, Talya Stultz and Ryder Richter.

He’s preceded in death by his first wife Lillian Thurow, brother Dennis Thurow, sons Timothy Hamer and Joel Hamer.

Memorials may be directed to: Agape’ + Kure Beach Ministries, 1369 Tyler Dewar Lane, Fuquay-Varina, NC 27526; or the ELCA World Hunger %Eldon Thurow Memorial Fund; or the memorial of your choice.

Eldon’s funeral service will begin at 11:00 on Thursday, March 3, 2022 in the Lutheran Church of Dell Rapids. Visitation will be from 4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. at Kahler-Brende Funeral Home on Wednesday, March 2, 2022 and resume one hour prior to the start of the funeral service at the LCDR Chapel. Interment is set for 9:30 am on Saturday, March 5, 2022 at a family plot located in Zur Ruhe Cemetery, Cedarburg, WI.

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Dorothy M. Wiebenga - January 15, 1943 - February 17, 2022

Departed: 02/17/2022 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Dorothy Marie Wiebenga (79) passed away peacefully at Avera Hospital with complications from pneumonia on February 17, 2022. Visitation with the family present will be from 2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. on Sunday, February 20, 2022 in the Reformed Church, Dell Rapids. There will be a prayer service starting at 3:00 p.m. A family inurnment will take place at a later date.

Dorothy was born January 15, 1943, to Sylvia (Buchholz) and Andrew Wiebenga in Avon, SD. She graduated from Tyndall High School in 1961. Dorothy was a baptized and a professed member of the Springfield Emmanuel Reformed Church.

Dorothy was diagnosed with Rheumatoid Arthritis in her 20’s and unable to work a full-time job as a nurses aide by her early 30’s. She lived her life enduring the pain of arthritis.

Dorothy assisted her father in his business, Andy’s Service, until his death in 1991. She also cared for her mother in her aging years. Dorothy resided in the Bon Homme County area until 2000 when she moved to Dell Rapids, SD to be near her only child, Todd Wiebenga and her grandchildren.

While living in Dell Rapids, she worked part-time as a patient feeding assistant at the Dell Rapids Nursing Home. She enjoyed serving the elderly and was passionate about their care and respect.

Dorothy loved going for a drive, since she was a young child. During the pandemic she longed to go for a drive and have her car back.

Dorothy was a member of the Dell Rapids Reformed Church and resided in Meadows on Sycamore Assisted living.

Dorothy was preceded in death by her parents. She is survived by her son Todd (Robin) Wiebenga, grandchildren - Morgan Wiebenga, Andrew (Kaitlyn) Wiebenga, and Ross Wiebenga; sister Barb Burke and nephew Brian Burke.

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Ronald "Ron" Miller - April 11, 1947 - February 15, 2022

Departed: 02/15/2022 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Ronald Jerome “Ron” Miller, 74, passed away peacefully at his home in Dell Rapids, SD on February 15,  2022. His Mass of Christian Burial will begin at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, February 26, 2022 in St. Mary Catholic Church. Visitation with the family present will be from 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. on Friday, February 25, 2022 with the Christian Wake beginning at 7:00 p.m. at Kahler-Brende Funeral Home.

Ron grew up in Dell Rapids and went to school at St. Mary where he graduated in 1965. He went on to pursue an Electronics degree at DeVry University in Chicago. Ron proudly served his country as a member of the U.S. Army during the Viet Nam War. After his time in the service and for many years thereafter, Ron worked as a sales representative and educator for Prudential Life Insurance. Ron was a great cook and gardener and loved to share these passions with his family and friends.

In his retirement years, Ron took on jobs at a small truck stop near Madison and then later at the grocery store in Dell Rapids. Ron started out working at his dad’s grocery store, Ken’s Super Saver as a young man and ended his working days full circle in the grocery business where he found joy in serving others.

Ron was a kind, generous and loving man and will be missed dearly by his family and friends. Ron leaves behind three special young people he called his own; Cody, Cameron and Jasmine, his mother LaVonne Miller, his siblings JoAnn Dickinson, Wayne (Barb) Miller, Patti (Tom) O’Connor, DeeDee (Brad) Iwen, Mary Lou (Brian) Johnson, Tom (Marcy) Miller, Kathy (Carl) Mousel, Donna (Daryl) Springman, Doug (Pam) Miller, and Teresa (Pete) Gatto and many nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his father, Ken Miller; two infant brothers, John and Joseph; and the love of his life Shannon.

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Jean M. Pederson - August 31, 1944 - February 12, 2022

Departed: 02/12/2022 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Jean M. Pederson, 77, of Dell Rapids, passed away on February 12, 2022. Her Mass of Christian Burial will begin at 10:30 a.m. on Thursday, February 17, 2022 in St. Mary Catholic Church. Visitation with the family present will be from 5:00 - 7:00 p.m. on Wednesday, February 16, 2022 in St. Mary Catholic Church. The Christian Wake Service will begin at 7:00 p.m.

Jean Marie Bunkers was born on August 31, 1944 to Andrew and Agnes (Dresch) Bunkers. She grew up on the family farm in Dell Rapids. She attended St. Mary Academy through the 12th grade, graduating in 1962. After graduation, she attended Presentation College in Aberdeen where she obtained her associate degree in education. She married Ray Pederson on August 14, 1965 at St. Mary Catholic Church in Dell Rapids.  She taught one year at St. Mary before the couple made their home in Arlington where Jean taught school while Ray attended his final year of Pharmacy at SDSU. After Ray finished school, they moved to Scottsdale, AZ. They returned to Dell Rapids and purchased Voy’s Drug in 1968. Jean joined Ray at the drug store while raising their five children. They worked together at Ray’s Family Drug Store until they sold the store and Jean retired in 2001.

Words simply cannot encompass the grandness of Jean’s life. She embraced literally every aspect of life and poured her endless energy in to all that she did. Her family and friends were her treasures. Her laughter was contagious and her spirit was unmatched.

Jean is preceded in death by her parents, two brothers, Earl and Jerry; sisters-in-law, Ellen Bunkers, Ann Pederson, Glenda Erickson-Bunkers, and Esther Pederson; her brothers-in-law, Jack Donovan, Glen Fields, and Pat Pederson and her niece, Julie Fields Bortnem and nephew, Darwin Pederson.

She is survived by her husband of 56 1/2 years, Ray of Dell Rapids; her children, Amy Pederson (Dell Rapids), Wendy (Jon) Brown (Baltic), Andy (Tanja) Pederson (Sioux Falls), Tricia (Noel) Heinricy (Dell Rapids), Sheri Dearduff (Dell Rapids); her grandchildren, Deitrich (Mary) Thompson, Abby (Brian) Skrovig, Andra (fiance Sean) Thompson, Riley Brown, Wes Heinricy, Meg (fiance Nic) Dearduff, Spencer (Jennifer) Thompson, Adyn Heinricy, Will Dearduff, Trey Pederson, Tessa Pederson, and Jake Dearduff; her siblings, Jen Donovan, Bob (Sis) Bunkers, Ken Bunkers, Mary Sue Bunkers, Diane (Bob) Reiff, George (Gwen) Bunkers; in-laws, Mary Anne Bunkers and Donna Bunkers; and many cousins, nieces, nephews, and in-laws. The service will be live streamed at https://www.facebook.com/KahlerFuneralHome

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Jesse Donald Godsk - November 13, 1923 - February 09, 2022

Departed: 02/09/2022 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Jesse Donald Godsk, 98, of Dell Rapids, passed away on Wednesday, February 9, 2022 at the Riverview Healthcare Center in Flandreau. His funeral service will begin at 1:00 p.m. on Tuesday, February 15, 2022 in the Lutheran Church of Dell Rapids. Visitation will be two hours prior to the start of the service.

Jesse Donald Godsk was born on November 13, 1923 at Hurley, SD, the son of John and Dana (Larsen) Godsk. He attended country school through the 8th grade and then Centerville High School, graduating in 1941. In 1944, Jesse and his family moved to a farm near Dell Rapids. Jesse entered the Army in 1946 and served in the 384th AAA Gun Battalion.

He married Margaret Elaine Haverberg on January 17, 1948 in Centerville, SD at the Scandia Lutheran Church. The couple made their home on the family farm near Dell Rapids. Jesse truly believed in family, the farm life, and the value of working hard. He and Margaret raised three children: David Donald, Susan Margaret, and Joe Jon. There was absolutely nothing that Jesse would not do for his children. Jesse continued to farm until 1996 when he and Margaret retired and moved into Dell Rapids.

During Jesse’s busy family farm life, he still found time to participate and contribute to his community. Jesse served on the DeVaney Country School Board for many years. He was an active member of the Lutheran Church of Dell Rapids serving on the Church Council, numerous committees, ushering, and anything else that was needed. Jesse especially loved the LCDR Chapel, and it was very unusual if a Sunday Service was missed.

In 1987, after Jesse was lucky enough to become a Cancer Survivor, he decided to serve as the Ostomy Chapter Coordinator for 24 years in Sioux Falls, visiting and counseling others at local hospitals and at home. He was very proud of this work and stayed very active by attending various meetings in SD, ND, Iowa, Montana, Wyoming, and Canada. Jesse was a lifetime member of Legion Post 122 in Trent, SD and was proud to have served on their Honor Guard for a short time.

Jesse is preceded in death by his parents (John and Dana Godsk) and his brother (James Godsk). He is survived by his wife, Margaret; his son, David (Louisa) Godsk of San Francisco, CA; daughter, Susan (David) Bredlow of Dell Rapids, SD; son, Joe (Margarita) Godsk of Miami, FL; his five grandchildren, Nancy Godsk, Kimberlie (Chet) Pascoe, Amie (Brian) Prue, Caramie (Justin) Faini, and Christopher (Stephanie) Berger; and his 10 great grandchildren.

Jesse was blessed with a long life filled with many meaningful family and friend memories. He will truly be remembered for his kind heart, his joking nature, and his positive attitude towards life.

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Barb Craig - December 12, 1952 - January 23, 2022

Departed: 01/23/2022 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Barb Craig, 69, of Trent, SD, passed away on Sunday, January 23, 2022. Her funeral service will begin at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, February 5, 2022 at Quarry Rock Church. Visitation will be two hours prior to the start of the service.

Barbara "Barb" Craig, loving wife and mother, was born December 12, 1952 in San Diego, CA to Delvin and Margaret Jakabosky. The family moved to Fairbury, NE when Barb was 17. While attending High School, she met the love of her life and best friend, Randy Craig. On June 24th, 1972 Barb and Randy were married at the hospital in Beatrice, NE in front of a small crowd and Barb's mother. The happy couple moved to Norfolk, NE where they made their home. They had three children, Rick, Brian and Tracy.

Barb was always devoted to her family. She attended wresting tournaments, helped with school work, and made sure meals were on the table for the kids. Barb always waited to have her meals with Randy if the family couldn't sit down together. She made sure she was there for her husband, through caring, honoring, and loving her best friend.

After Randy retired, in 2011, Randy and Barb moved to Trent, SD. Soon after, they started attending Quarry Rock Church in Dell Rapids, SD. Barb, in her outgoing way, was always quick to give hugs and clap at the end of every song. Barb was always the "mom" to most everyone she met.

Barb enjoyed painting, glass etching, wood burning and carving, crocheting, knitting with her knitting machine, making jewelry, and her latest hobby - diamond painting.

Barb was preceded in death by her parents, sister Ginger, and son Rick.

Those left to cherish her memory are her husband Randy Craig, son Brian (Kathy) Craig, Daughter Tracy (Jim) Jensen, grandchildren Chad, Delaney, Hannah, and Addysen, as well as countless friends and family, most of whom she considered her children.

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James "Jim" H. Norby - March 20, 1945 - January 22, 2022

Departed: 01/22/2022 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: James "Jim" Norby, 76, of Dell Rapids, passed away on Saturday, January 22, 2022 at the Dells Nursing and Rehab Center. His Memorial Service will begin at 1:00 p.m. on Thursday, January 27, 2022 at Kahler-Brende Funeral Home. Visitation will be one hour prior to the start of the service.

James “Jim” Norby was born on March 20, 1945 in Watford City, ND, the son of Lyle and Verna (Priester) Norby. He grew up and attended school in Watford City. He graduated from Watford City High School in 1964. He then enlisted in the US Army until being honorably discharged in 1968. On February 21, 1969 he married Joyce Merry in Dell Rapids, SD. The couple made their home in Dell Rapids where their first son, Bryon was born. He operated Jim’s Highway Service until 1973 when they moved to North Dakota. While in North Dakota, Jim went to work in the oil fields. The couple’s second son, Ken was born in 1977. In 1999, Jim semi-retired and the couple moved to Dell Rapids, SD.

Jim was a member of Ignite Church and the Dell Rapids American Legion.

He enjoyed working on small engines, doing carpentry work, doing jig saw puzzles and he learned to upholster.

He is preceded in death by his parents, his in-laws, and his sister, Linda.

Jim is survived by his wife, Joyce of Dell Rapids, sons, Bryon (Jana) Norby of Sioux Falls and Ken Norby of Lennox; his granddaughter, Kiah; his sister, Barbara Frye of Minot, ND and his half brothers, Arnold (Dana) Swenson of Watford City, ND and Vernon (Timi) Swenson of Williston, ND.

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Dennis Jon "DJ" Clark - January 14, 2022 - January 14, 2022

Departed: 01/14/2022 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Dennis Jon “DJ” Clark, infant son of Dylan and Shelby Clark was stillborn on January 14, 2022. There will be a Memorial Celebration with a reception to follow on at 11:00 a.m. on Friday, January 21, 2022 at the Brandon Golf Course.

He is survived by his parents, Dylan and Shelby Clark of Sioux Falls; his sister, Emarie at home; his grandparents, Deb Wells of Sioux Falls, Jon Wells of Pueblo, CO, Tami and Dennis Clark of Brandon; great-grandparents, Lee and Linda McInroy of Dell Rapids, Judy Kerkvliet of Rock Rapids, IA, Pat and Gene Zellmer of Moville, IA, Lynn Wells of Spirit Lake, IA and multiple aunts, uncles, and extended family.

He is preceded in death by his great-grandparents, Sharon Wells, Ralph Olson, Ival Clark and great-uncle Steve Clark.

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Edward "Ed" Klein - April 26, 1946 - January 11, 2022

Departed: 01/11/2022 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Edward P. Klein, 75, of Dell Rapids, passed away on Tuesday, January 11, 2022. His Memorial Service will begin at 1:00 p.m. on Monday, January 17, 2022 at Kahler-Brende Funeral Home. Visitation will be two hours prior to the start of the service. Inurnment will be in the St. Mary Cemetery.

Edward “Ed” Klein was born on April 26, 1946 in Dell Rapids, SD, the son of Peter and Mary (Ginsbach) Klein. He grew up on the family farm northwest of Dell Rapids. He attended St. Mary Catholic School graduating in 1964. After high school, he attended Southern State College in Springfield, SD where he played basketball. After college he returned to Dell Rapids. He married Janice Colling in 1972. To this union three daughters were born. Ed will mostly be remembered for being a fantastic mechanic at the Ford garage in Dell Rapids where he worked until 1996. He also worked at T&R Electric in Colman and various jobs until his retirement.   He was a member of the Dell Rapids Fire Department for many years and a member at River Community Church in Dell Rapids.   He was preceded in death by his parents.   Ed is survived by his daughters, Kim (Troy) Swift of Sioux Falls, Jackie Klein of Sioux Falls and Jessica (Mark) List of Sioux Falls; his six grandchildren; his siblings, Margaret (Gene) Finnegan of Chicago, IL, Jeanne (Tom) Reiff of Chester, Ken (Linda) Klein of Sioux Falls, Mike (Grace) Klein of Dell Rapids, Lois (Dennis) Ries of Pierre and Rosie (Paul) Nielsen of Dell Rapids; and his many nieces and nephews.

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Marietta Nelson - December 17, 1928 - December 19, 2021

Departed: 12/19/2021 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Marietta Nelson, 93, of Dell Rapids, passed away on Sunday, December 19, 2021 surrounded by her family at Riverview Health Care Center in Flandreau. Her Mass of Christian Burial will begin at 10:30 a.m. on Tuesday, December 28, 2021 in St. Mary Catholic Church, Dell Rapids. Visitation with the family present will be from 5:00 - 7:00 p.m. on Monday, December 27, 2021 at Kahler-Brende Funeral Home. The Christian Wake Service will begin at 7:00 p.m. www.kahlerfh.com

Marietta Maxine Schreier was born December 17, 1928 on a farm near Dell Rapids, South Dakota to Adam and Mary (Phelps) Schreier. Marietta attended country school and St. Mary’s Academy.

At a young age, Marietta moved to Sioux Falls to waitress. On November 7, 1949 she married the love of her life Stanley J Nelson in Dell Rapids. They farmed near Baltic and Dell Rapids until 1994 when they moved to town and retired. While on the farm, she worked hard side by side with her husband and waitressed for different establishments. This union was blessed with one daughter Sherry, whom they cherished greatly.

Marietta’s Catholic faith was the foundation in her life, which carried on to her family. She was a member of the St. Anthony Altar Society Group. She was an excellent cook and homemaker, feeding anyone and everyone who came to her door. The Veterinarian would always seem to want work Stanley’s cattle around dinner time. Marietta made the best cakes; her specialty was homemade German Chocolate cake.

In retirement, Marietta’s favorite pastime was going on drives with Stanley, playing cards with friends and neighbors, traveling, shopping, getting her hair done, volunteering at Padres, and spending time with her two grandchildren.

Grateful for having shared her life is her daughter, Sherry (Dale) Sovell; grandchildren Ashley and Dereck Sovell of Ivanhoe Minnesota; three nephews, Michael (Vicky) Schreier of Lexington, Kentucky, Lance Schreier of Charles City, Iowa, and Tim Schreier of Hoboken, New Jersey; two nieces, Teresa (David) Bennett of Cedar Rapids, Iowa and Janet (Jim) May of Maple Grove, Minnesota; and other family members and friends.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Adam and Mary, her husband, Stanley, her sister, Margretta, her brothers, Michael and Gene, her sister in-law, Elaine Schreier, her brother in-law, Irvin Nelson, her sister in-law, Edna Nelson, and her nephew, Glen Nelson.

Blessed be her memory.

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Leland Triebwasser - May 22, 1932 - December 18, 2021

Departed: 12/18/2021 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Leland Triebwasser, 89, of Dell Rapids, passed away on Saturday, December 18, 2021 at the Avera Dells Area Hospital. His funeral service will begin at 11:00 a.m. on Monday, December 27, 2021 at The Reformed Church, Dell Rapids. Visitation with the family present will be from 3:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. on Sunday, December 26, 2021 with a prayer service at 6:00 p.m. at Kahler-Brende Funeral Home.

Leland Triebwasser was born on May 22, 1932 on the family farm near Emery, SD, the son of Edward and Lydia (Koth) Triebwasser. He grew up near Emery and attended country school and helped on the family farm. He served in the US Army from 1953 to 1955 during the Korean War. After discharge, he returned to the family farm. He married Wilma Gerlach on December 18, 1957 at St. John’s Lutheran Church at Hillside. The couple made their home on a farm near Fulton from 1957-1972. In 1972, the couple moved to a farm north of Dell Rapids. On January 5, 2000, they moved to Dell Rapids. Leland continued to farm.

He was a member of The Reformed Church and was on the church consistory.

Leland enjoyed farming and family gatherings, but most of all he enjoyed spending time with the love of his life Wilma. Their journey began December 18, 1957 and ended exactly 64 years later on December 18, 2021.

Leland is survived by his wife of 64 years, Wilma of Dell Rapids; his children, Twila (Bruce) Kruger of Sioux Falls, Tamara (George) Birmingham of Sioux Falls, Terry Triebwasser of Dell Rapids, Teresa (Daniel) Ernesti of Dell Rapids, Trudy (Kevin) Alberts of Dell Rapids and Thelma (Gary) Haak of Dell Rapids; 17 grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren; three sisters, Lovella (Milton) Schrader, Mabel Triebwasser and Geraldine Rickmeyer; sister-in-law, Irene Gerlach and brother-in-law, Vernon (Charlene) Gerlach; and numerous nieces and nephews.

He is preceded in death by his parents; four sisters, Leona Frey, Bernitha Triebwasser, Lucille Klock and Irene Triebwasser; two brothers, Kenneth Triebwasser and Eldon (in infancy); 5 brothers-in-law, Harm Frey, Fred Klock, Earl Rickmeyer, Alfred Hohn and Norman Beiswanger; three sisters-in-law, Kathy Triebwasser, Esther Hohn and Anita Beiswanger. The service will be live streamed at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQHklHJf0QRdQmIC-LtBtKw/featured

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Kai Riley Theel - June 20, 2021 - December 03, 2021

Departed: 12/03/2021 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Kai Riley Theel was born on June 20th, 2021, to the joy of his parents Riley and Paige. He spent his last days surrounded by the love of family and friends. On December 3rd, Kai passed away in his parents arms, and went peacefully in to the arms of Jesus.

During Baby Kai’s time here, he loved laughing at his mom and dad, bath time, and going for walks or golf cart rides. Kai enjoyed laying on his play mat and being pestered by his puppies. He spent many nights being spoiled by his grandparents, aunts and uncles, and cousins. Nothing brought him more peace than listening to Luke Combs. He was the sweetest blue-eyed boy with the biggest smile and the light of his parent’s life.

Kai was preceded in death by his great-grandpas, Mick Krantz, Don Bunkers, Don Nelson, and Marvin Theel.

He is survived by his parents Riley and Paige Theel; grandparents Jerry and Michelle Bunkers, and Denny and Donette Theel; great-grandmas Mary Krantz, Betty Bunkers, Jeanette Nelson, and Mary Weber; great-grandpa Jerry Weber; uncles and aunts Tate and Emily Bunkers, and Sam and Kelsey Collins; cousins Henry, Eloise, and Rocky Bunkers, and Harrison and Hudson Collins; and many dear family and friends.

Kai changed the lives of all who have met him and will be forever missed.

Visitation will be Tuesday, December 7th from 5:00 to 7:00 pm at Kahler-Brende Funeral Home in Dell Rapids. His funeral service will be Wednesday, December 8th at 1:00 pm at Embrace Church 57th Campus in Sioux Falls .

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Denny Beekman - December 13, 1958 - December 01, 2021

Departed: 12/01/2021 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Denny Beekman, 62, of Dell Rapids, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, December 1, 2021 at his home under hospice care. His Memorial Service will begin at 10:30 a.m. on Monday, December 6, 2021 at Quarry Rock Church in Dell Rapids. Visitation with the family present will be from 2:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. on Sunday, December 5, 2021 at Kahler-Brende Funeral Home.

Denny was born on December 13, 1958 in Estelline, to Marwin and Roberta (Martin) Beekman. He grew up and attended school in Huron, graduating in 1977. While growing up, he worked with his father at Car Quest where he sold auto parts. He married Teresa Rounds, and to this union three sons were born. Denny married Sandy Oestreich on May 8, 1995. The couple started their life together in Huron. In 1998, they moved to Brookings where Denny started working for 3M. In 2004, they made their home in Dell Rapids. He retired from 3M after 20 years this past March.

Denny most loved spending time with family and friends. Always quick to make everyone laugh with his famous one-liners. He filled his free time with unforgettable PRPP time, grilling his famous ribs, golfing (where he hit a hole in one), camping, and his pastime of owning and admiring hot rod cars.

He is preceded in death by his parents and his brother, Doug.

He is survived by his wife, Sandy of Dell Rapids; their children, Andy (Jenny) Beekman of Shepherdsville, KY, Scott (Sovanna) Beekman of Woonsocket and Troy (Abby) Beekman of Bennington, NE, Nicole (Trent) Bruce of Sioux Falls, Amanda (Chad) Klosterbuer of Little Rock, IA and Brian (Kristin) Nedved of Baltic. He earned the name Papa from his 15 grandchildren: Treyton, Americus, Addison, Kennedy, Hannah, Emma, Summer, Cael, Lincoln, Oscar, Oliver, Eleanor, Sullivan, Eliza, Rylee, and Benton. He also has his special Aunt Sheryl of Pueblo, CO, and several cousins and close friends. The service will be live streamed at https://www.facebook.com/KahlerFuneralHome

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Kaaren Randel - August 31, 1967 - November 26, 2021

Departed: 11/26/2021 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Kaaren Randel, 54, of Dell Rapids, passed away on Friday, November 26, 2021 at Avera McKennan Hospital in Sioux Falls. Her Memorial Service will begin at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, December 11, 2021 at River Community Church in Dell Rapids. Visitation with the family present will be from 5:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. at River Community Church on Friday, December 10, 2021. A prayer service and time of sharing will start at 6:45 p.m. on Friday.

Kaaren was born on August 31, 1967 in Sioux Falls, SD. She grew up and attended school at O’Gorman in Sioux Falls. She raised her children and then worked as a server at Olive Garden in California. This is where she met her husband, James “Cricket” Randel. The couple moved to Dell Rapids in 2001. Kaaren worked for Wells Fargo in Sioux Falls for over 20 years and her and James owned and operated Cricket’s Catering in Dell Rapids.

Kaaren was a true giver. She always put everyone else first. She truly enjoyed giving back to the community and donating her time and talents for various charities. She always remembered anniversaries and birthdays for her family, extended family, her co-workers and many friends.

She was preceded in death by her son, Brad.

She is survived by her husband, James “Cricket” Randel; her kids, Jonny (Amanda) Schwarz, Christina (Tyler) Jorgensen, Andrew (Jamie) Schwarz, Michelle Miller, Trey Randel, Lealand (Ayriona) Randel; grandkids, Jayda, Corbin, Chase, Adelyne, Ava, Abel, and Anaya; two great-grandkids; her sisters, Neoma, Maggie, Ingred and Hallie.

The service will be live streamed on the church's youtube channel. https://youtu.be/qhN1SEs3_sE

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Anthony "Tony" Huntimer - June 02, 1954 - November 22, 2021

Departed: 11/22/2021 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Anthony "Tony" Huntimer, 67, of Mentone, CA, passed away on Novemeber 22, 2021. A private inurnment was held for him at St. Mary Cemetery, Dell Rapids.

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Bernice Magdaleno - December 06, 1931 - October 16, 2021

Departed: 10/16/2021 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Bernice Cramer Magdaleno, of Mentone, CA, formerly of Dell Rapids, passed away on October 16, 2021. A private inurnment was held in the Dell Rapids Cemetery.

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Berniece S. Blake - December 02, 1942 - October 15, 2021

Departed: 10/15/2021 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Berniece S. Blake, 78, of Dell Rapids, passed away on Friday, October 15, 2021 at the Avera Dougherty Hospice House in Sioux Falls. A private family service will be held.

Berniece is survived by her seven children, Tina (Mark Ericksen) of Sioux Falls, Bart (Kathy) of Dell Rapids, Brett of Fallbrook, CA, Clint (Maddie) of Sioux Falls, Debbie (Steve) of Valley Springs, Wade of Dell Rapids and Tim (Stacie) of Colton and her many grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

She is prceded in death by her husband, Harold; son-in-law, Robert Lindholm and daughter-in-law, Elisa.

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Willard "Will" W. Wirkus - May 19, 1949 - October 10, 2021

Departed: 10/10/2021 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Willard W. Wirkus, 72, of Dell Rapids, passed away on Sunday, October 10, 2021 at Riverview Healthcare Center in Flandreau, SD. His Memorial Service will begin at 1:30 p.m. on Friday, October 15, 2021 in the Lutheran Church of Dell Rapids. Visitation will be one hour prior to the start of the service. Inurnment will be in the Dell Rapids Cemetery. Will entered his final journey and is now at peace. He pursued his life’s greatest adventures with his loving wife, Diane Wirkus. They lived in Dell Rapids.

Will was born to Benedict and Clara (Gaikowski) Wirkus of Grenville, SD at the Webster Hospital in Webster, SD. He attended grade school in Grenville, SD and graduated from Watertown High School.

Will started his trucking career in 1974. He drove for Arrow truck lines, Hamlin County Implement and Orion Foods where he was a transportation driver for 25 years.  After he retired he worked for Jerry Ellefson Farms until he became ill in August of 2020. He loved going to the farm, that was a big part of his life and being with his special friends at the farm.

Will loved going to Toy Auctions and his “collection” of numerous Case IH Implements and other associated toys are a sight to see. Even with his collection looking complete, there was alway room for one more. He did have his special ones that he admired more than others.

He is a member of the Lutheran Church in Dell Rapids.

He is preceded in death by his parents, his daughter, Kelly Wirkus and his brother, Richard Wirkus.

Will is survived by his wife, Diane of Dell Rapids; his sister, Audrey Wirkus and companion Bill Worley of Bethel, MN; his sister-in-law, Bonnie Wirkus of Lennox; his nephews, David and Nikki Wirkus of Baltic, Rich and Alicia Wirkus of Baltic, Michael and Amber Wirkus of Dodge Centre, MN; his niece, Jamie and Mitch Rayman of Baltic; his brothers-in-law, Gary (Jan) Kangas, Dale (Janne) Kangas, Dewayne (Shari) Kangas; his sister-in-law, Jane (Doug) Youngblood and his many nieces, nephews and grand-nieces and nephews.

In lieu of flower, memorials may be directed to the Lutheran Church of Dell Rapids.

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Mark Boyum - February 26, 1957 - October 07, 2021

Departed: 10/07/2021 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Mark Boyum, 64, of Sioux Falls, passed away at his home of an apparent heart attack. A graveside service will begin at 1:30 p.m. on Monday, October 11, 2021 at St. Michael Cemetery, Sioux Falls.

Mark is survived by Lora Cady; his children, Zach Boyum, Dulcinea Boyum and Annie Boyum; his sisters,  Kathleen and Sue (Brian Rainey);  brothers, Jim (d) (Kathy), Tom (Janet) and Dan (Pam).

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Troy Trygstad - March 17, 1972 - October 07, 2021

Departed: 10/07/2021 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: Troy Trygstad, 49, of Dell Rapids, passed away on Thursday, October 7, 2021 at Avera McKennan Hospital in Sioux Falls. His Memorial Service will begin at 1:00 p.m. on Thursday, October 14, 2021 in the Lutheran Church of Dell Rapids. Visitation with the family present will be from 5:00 - 7:00 p.m. on Wednesday, October 13, 2021 at Kahler-Brende Funeral Home.

Troy Trygstad was born on March 17, 1972, to Gaylon and Linda (Connor) Trygstad. He grew up in Nunda, SD, until moving with his family for a short time to Nebraska and then returning to Nunda. He attended school in Rutland. While in high school he enlisted in the US Army National Guard. He served in the Army National Guard for 14 years. He graduated from Rutland High School in 1990. After high school he attended the School of Mines in Rapid City for a year and then SDSU in Brookings for a year. He then went to work for MMCA and sold investment securities. He married Laurie Becvar. To this union twin girls were born, Jessica and Elizabeth. The couple later divorced. He started his construction company and ran a mortgage and real estate company. He met Sarah Roseland in 2004. The couple married in 2013 where they made their home in Dell Rapids. To this union, a daughter, Elliott and a son, Gavin were born.

He was an avid Dallas Cowboys fan, he enjoyed reading, he loved the outdoors, but he was most proud of his children. He loved that his older daughters shared his love of music, he loved going to their concerts and listening to them sing and play their instruments. He loved teaching Elliott and Gavin new things and he loved reading with them.

Troy is preceded in death by his paternal grandpa, Melford Trygstad and his maternal grandparents, George and Mildred Connor.

He is survived by his wife, Sarah of Dell Rapids; his children, Elizabeth and Jessica of Sioux Falls and Elliott and Gavin of Dell Rapids; his father, Gaylon (Nancy) Trygstad of Dell Rapids and his mother, Linda (Mike) Lesselyoung of Madison; his paternal grandmother, Wilma Trygstad; his brother, Eric (Karen) Trygstad of Nunda; his nephews, Bennet, Brandon and Isaac and his niece, Julia; step-siblings;  Ann (Ryan) Kueter of Sioux Falls, Keith (Kerrie) Johnson of Becker, MN, Dustin (Kelli) Johnson of Sioux Falls, and Tyler Johnson of Dell Rapids and his extended family and many friends.

The family prefers memorials in lieu of flowers to help with expenses. The service will be live streamed at https://www.facebook.com/KahlerFuneralHome

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LaDonna Christensen - March 17, 1932 - October 01, 2021

Departed: 10/01/2021 (Dell Rapids)

Obituary Preview: LaDonna Christensen, 89, of Dell Rapids, passed away on Friday, October 1, 2021 at the Dells Nursing and Rehab Center. Her funeral service will begin at 11:00 a.m. on Wednesday, October 6, 2021 in Quarry Rock Church, Dell Rapids. Visitation will begin on Tuesday, October 5, 2021 at 2:00 p.m. with the family present from 5:00 - 7:00 p.m. at Kahler-Brende Funeral Home.

LaDonna Lou Andersen was born on March 17, 1932 at Madison, SD, the daughter of John and Sena (Nielsen) Anderson. She grew up on a farm near Colman. She attended school in Colman and graduated from Colman High School in 1950. She married Lauren Christensen on August 30, 1951 at the Trent Baptist Church. After their marriage the couple made their home on a farm near Dell Rapids and began farming together. They grew hybrid seed corn for 28 years. They fazed out of farming and moved into Dell Rapids in 1994.

She was active in the Trent Baptist Church and the ladies circle until retiring and moving to Dell Rapids. She was then an active member of Quarry Rock Church. LaDonna and Lauren entertained numerous groups from Lifescapes, School for the Deaf and Dakota Abilities on their acreage on the river near Trent.

She was preceded in death by her parents and one infant grandson, Jason John.

LaDonna is survived by her husband of 70 years, Lauren; her sons, Rob and Paul and her granddaughters, Cara and Dana; great-grandchildren , Brayden and Avery.

Memorials maybe directed to the Jason John Scholarship at the University of Sioux Falls. The service will be live streamed at https://www.facebook.com/KahlerFuneralHome

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It is usually published in a newspaper, online, or through other forms of media to inform friends, family, and the community of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who knew them. They help to notify others of the person's passing, share details about their life and accomplishments, and provide information about funeral services and memorial donations.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased. Funeral homes or crematories may also offer assistance in writing the obituary, or provide templates and guidance to help families craft their own.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral services, memorial donations, and any other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Typically, it ranges from 100 to 500 words. However, some online platforms may allow for longer or more detailed obituaries.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and help others remember the person.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. They may have specific requirements for formatting, word count, and deadlines.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms that allow you to publish an obituary, such as Legacy.com, Tributes.com, or Facebook Memorials. These platforms often offer additional features like guest books, photo galleries, and memorial donations.

Is there a cost associated with publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or online platform. Some newspapers or websites may charge a fee based on the length of the obituary or the number of photos included. Others may offer free or low-cost options.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Newspapers typically have deadlines for submission and publication, while online platforms may allow for immediate posting.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

Contact the publication or online platform directly to request changes to an already-published obituary. They may have specific procedures for making corrections or updates.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer to keep the obituary private, you can choose not to publish it publicly. Instead, you can share it with friends and family through email or social media.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include favorite quotes, poems, or lyrics in an obituary as a way to personalize the tribute and reflect the person's personality or interests.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you notice an error or inaccuracy in an already-published obituary, contact the publication or online platform immediately to request corrections.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure their story is told accurately and authentically. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and legacy.

What is a death notice versus an obituary?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed tribute that provides additional information about the person's life and achievements.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

Yes, many families choose to suggest charitable donations in lieu of flowers as a way to honor their loved one's memory and support a cause that was important to them.

How do I find archived obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers or websites that specialize in storing historical records. Many libraries also maintain archives of local newspapers that can be accessed for research purposes.

Can I create a digital archive of family obituaries?

Yes, you can create a digital archive of family obituaries by scanning or saving electronic copies of each one. This can be a meaningful way to preserve family history and share it with future generations.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an obituary for someone who was young or died unexpectedly?

Yes, when writing an obituary for someone who died young or unexpectedly, it's essential to be sensitive to the emotional impact on family and friends. Focus on celebrating their life and accomplishments rather than dwelling on the circumstances of their passing.

Can I include humor or lighthearted anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including humorous stories or lighthearted anecdotes can help capture the person's personality and spirit, making the tribute more relatable and memorable.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress, consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for support. You can also seek guidance from a funeral home or crematory staff who have experience with crafting meaningful tributes.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes! Social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be effective ways to share an obituary with friends and family who may not have access to traditional news sources.

How do I ensure that my loved one's legacy lives on through their obituary?

By sharing stories, memories, and accomplishments in the obituary, you can help ensure that your loved one's legacy continues to inspire and touch others' lives even after they're gone.