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Jones-Harkins Funeral Home, located at 201 N. Central, Wilburton, OK, 74578, has been a pillar of support for the local community in times of grief and loss. With a rich history and a commitment to providing exceptional service, this funeral home has earned a reputation as a trusted and caring partner for families navigating the difficult process of saying goodbye to a loved one.

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Founded on a foundation of compassion and understanding, Jones-Harkins Funeral Home has been serving the Wilburton area for generations. The funeral home's experienced team is dedicated to providing personalized attention to each family they serve, ensuring that every detail is meticulously cared for and every need is met with kindness and empathy. From traditional funeral services to cremation options and memorial celebrations, Jones-Harkins Funeral Home offers a range of choices to honor the unique lives of those who have passed.

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Harold Nevada Boggs - June 20, 1938 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Harold “Red” Nevada Boggs, of the Veterans Colony in Wilburton, Oklahoma, passed away on April 24, 2024, in  Wilburton at the age of 85.

Harold's journey began in the heart of Cooke County, Texas on June 20, 1938. His spirit of adventure and service led him to join the United States Air Force in 1955. His dedication to his country was evident in his 20-year career, where he served with distinction and retired from the Civil Engineering Squad at Eglin AFB, Florida. As a structural technician and carpenter, Harold's skilled hands and keen eye contributed to the safety and efficiency of numerous military projects.

After retiring from the Air Force in 1975, Harold, alongside his beloved wife Wilma Jean, whom he married on September 17, 1959, in California. He then settled in Wilburton, Oklahoma and worked in several different areas. He continued to apply his expertise as a welder for Franklin Electric for ten years, before his second retirement.

Harold's life was not solely defined by his professional achievements but also by the love and legacy he left behind.

He was preceded in death by his wife, Wilma Jean (Hill) Boggs in 2021; his father, Harold Clifton Boggs;  his mother, Iona (Riddels) Boggs Hamel; his sons: Clifton Harold Boggs, and Ronald Howard Boggs; his granddaughter, Kristen Boggs; and his sister, Gwen Hamel.

His memory will be forever cherished by his surviving family members, including his sons: Don Boggs of Hollis, Oklahoma, and Frank Boggs and wife, Suzanne of Las Vegas, Nevada; 11 grandchildren; 21 great-grandchildren; brothers: Floyd Hamel, and Eric Hamel; sister, Carrelynn Hamel; uncles: Guy Riddels, and Carl Riddels; and a multitude of nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends who were all touched by his generous spirit.

In his retirement, Harold found joy in the simple pleasures of life. He was an avid fisherman, finding peace and solace in the rod and reel. As a faithful member of the Wilburton Assembly of God, Harold's commitment to his faith was unwavering, where he served as a beacon of light.

Harold embraced each day as an opportunity to learn, to love, and to leave the world a little better than he found it. His adventurous spirit, coupled with his loving heart, made him a pillar of strength and a source of inspiration to all who knew him.

The funeral service will be held at 2:00 p.m. Tuesday, April 30, 2024 at the Wilburton Assembly of God Church with Brother Lynn Bullard officiating. He will be laid to rest next to his wife, Wilma, at the Veterans Colony Cemetery, Wilburton, Oklahoma. Military honors will be provided by the Tinker Air Force Base Honor Guard.

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Toye Faye Massey - December 05, 1951 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Wilburton)

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Toye Faye Massey, a proud Nana, passed away on April 8, 2024, at the age of 72, in Wilburton, Oklahoma. Born on December 5, 1951, in Clifton, Colorado, Toye was the cherished daughter of Bervil Ray Rose and Hettie Lorene (Thompson) Rose.

In 1983, Toye's heart found its match when she married Ronald Massey, with whom she shared a life filled with joy and devotion until his passing in 2017. Together, they built a family that would be her pride and legacy. Toye's spirit is carried on by her loving daughter: Candace Edwards and husband Zach of Wilburton; son: Ronald Massey, Jr. and wife Alycia of Asheboro, North Carolina; adoring grandchildren: Ashleigh Saxon and husband Rane, Madison Shook, Ian Cox, Raylee Cox, and Zach Edwards, Jr., Christa Morman and husband Kevin, Brad Massey and Lyndsey, all of Wilburton, grandchildren: Phillip Massey and wife Savanna, Andrew Massey and Faith, all of Asheboro, North Carolina. Her great-grandchildren: Hank, Hallie, Danni Faye, Cayde, and Danni, Kenneth, Brayden, Harper, Grayson, and Hadleigh.

Toye's memory will also be cherished by her dear friend, Don Kirk of Wilburton, and her siblings: Mary Chester and husband Donnie of Wichita Falls, Texas, Steve Rose and wife Jan of Blair, Oklahoma, Peggy O'Neil of Moab, Utah, and Rocky Rose and wife Sue of Lubbock, Texas. Her life was enriched by the presence of numerous nieces, nephews, and extended family members, all of whom felt the touch of her gentle spirit.

Toye was preceded in death by her beloved husband: Ronnie Massey; her parents: Bervil and Hettie Rose; her brothers: Billy Rose, and Jimmy Rose; and her daughter: Rona Cavender.

Professionally, Toye retired as the Director of the Latimer County Office of Emergency Management, where her leadership and dedication to the community were evident.

Toye's interests were as vibrant and varied as her personality. She had a passion for shopping, collecting, reading and puzzles.

Toye's life was a journey of love, laughter, and the simple pleasures that make life worth living. Rest in peace, dear Toye, we love you bunches Nan, until we meet again.

Viewing will be held from 11:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Wednesday, April 10, 2024 at the Jones Harkins Funeral Home.

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Brock Carl Colantonio - March 27, 1984 - March 18, 2024

Departed: 03/18/2024 (Wilburton)

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Brock Carl Colantonio, 39, of Florida passed away surrounded by his family on Monday, March 18, 2024 in Wilburton, Oklahoma.

Cremation arrangements are entrusted in Jones-Harkins Funeral Home.

Brock was born on March 27, 1984 in Amarillo, Texas to Sherry (Pope) Howard and Joseph Carl Colantonio Jr.

Brock's journey in education culminated with his earning a G.E.D., a testament to his determination and resilience. He dedicated many years of service as a warehouse operator at GammerlerTech Corporation.

An avid lover of the outdoors, Brock found solace in fishing, camping, and capturing the beauty of nature through his photography. He cherished his trips to Colorado and the serene beaches, which provided him with endless inspiration and a sense of tranquility. He enjoyed the thrill of watching the Packers' football games. Above all, Brock cherished the time spent with family and friends, always extending a helping hand to those in need.

Brock's zest for life and his unwavering spirit will be deeply missed and forever remembered by all who had the pleasure of knowing him.

He is survived by his mother and stepfather: Sherry and Lance Howard of Wilburton; mother of Lance, Linda Howard of Wilburton; his father: Joseph “Butch” Colantonio Jr. of Amarillo, Texas, and wife, Angie; his sister: Jeron Colantonio of Wauchula, Florida and partner Joe Gili; his step-sister: Shanae Colantonio of Pensacola, Florida; his two nephews: Isaiah Luera and Joseph Luera of Amarillo, Texas; father of the nephews: Raymond Luera; Great-nephew: JoJo of Amarillo, Texas and a great-niece: Juliana of Amarillo; his aunts: Debbie Colantonio of Houston, Linda Bell of Lawton; his uncles: David Pope and wife, Vicki of Midland, Texas, Scott Pope and wife, Carol of Odessa, Texas; his cousins: Newton Jr., Hagerman of Houston, Kami Hamman and husband, Mike of Lawton, Cory Bell of Dallas, Scotty Jr., Pope and wife, Madison, and Bryan Pope; second cousin: Emily Zugg, Andy Pope and wife, Cortney of Irvin, Texas, Tiffany Ingram and husband, Mike of Dallas, Texas; numerous other family members and friends.

He is preceded in death by maternal grandparents: Bertie Pope and Rayford Pope; his paternal grandparents: Joe Colantonio and Margaret Colantonio; his uncles: Newton Hagerman, Larry Bell; his cousins: Jolene Hagerman, Cana Pope, Dana Pope, Ryan Pope, and Theresa Pope.

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Forrest Duane Jeffrey - April 12, 1942 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Forrest Duane Jeffrey passed away on Thursday, March 14, 2024 in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 81.

Duane, also known by many as "Chunk" was born on April 12, 1942 in the Center Point Community of Wilburton, Oklahoma to Walter and Icye (Hilburn) Jeffrey. Duane grew up in the Center Point Community attending school there through the 4th grade and graduating from Wilburton High School with the class of 1959. Duane played high school football but his passion was always in agriculture and he began judging livestock in FFA and this passion remained in him throughout the remainder of his life.

Upon graduation from high school, Duane attended Eastern Oklahoma A & M College, transferring and graduating from Oklahoma State University in 1963 with a degree in Animal Science. He was a member of the OSU livestock judging team that won many first-place awards across the nation.

Duane's first extension job was in Perry, Oklahoma where he had great success with his livestock judging team. Duane next became the county extension agent in Altamont, Kansas working extensively with the youth 4-H club in the judging and showing events. Under Duane's leadership, these teams traveled and participated in multiple county and state events winning many prestigious awards.

Duane later was employed as the county agent in Sedan, Kansas where he concentrated primarily in coaching youth that had a desire or interest in showing livestock. Duane's next position was in Ft. Hays, Kansas where he coached the livestock judging team at Ft. Hays State University. Again, his team proved to be very successful.

In 1988, Duane had the opportunity to come "home" as he accepted the ranch manager position for Eastern Oklahoma State College in Wilburton. Along with his duties as ranch manager, he assisted Ray Rice, the livestock judging coach at Eastern. The team excelled under Ray and Duane's leadership.

Duane retired from Eastern in 2004 and continued living the life he loved as a cattle rancher, specializing in raising superior show cattle. He raised several national champion Maine Heifers and is largely responsible for changing the Charolais cattle breed to the winning status that it is today with his Charolais heifer "Jo Jo" winning all the major stock shows in America.

Duane was inducted into the EOSC Agriculture Hall of Fame in 2021 for his contributions to Eastern while he was employed there. He was awarded the master breeder award from OSU in 2021 in recognition of his exemplary professional and personal accomplishment, and especially for his leadership in beef cattle breeding and improvement of multiple breeds of cattle. Duane, Sue and John will be honored with the Totusek Brand of Excellence during the Gala reunion of the Oklahoma State University Animal Science Alumni Association in April, 2024.

Duane was currently serving as a member of the Latimer Country Rural Water Board, a member of the Latimer County Excise Board, and he was a member of both the Latimer County Cattle Association and the Oklahoma Cattle Association. He was a member of the Center Point Baptist Church and was currently teaching the college Bible class on Wednesday night.

To sum up Duane's life in a few short words, you could say he loved "cows and kids" as evidenced by his life's work.

Duane is survived by his wife of 60 years, Sue of the home, and one son, John D. Jeffrey of Stillwater, Oklahoma. He is also survived by his brothers-in-law: Larry Harvey and wife, Helen of Beggs, Oklahoma, and Gary Harvey and wife, Jackie of Ft Scott, Kansas; sister-in-law: Gayla and husband, Ray Enlow of Sapulpa, Oklahoma. Also surviving Duane are his extended family members: Kyle and Amy Kitchens and their children: Cooper and Kinzie; Allen and Christy Lee and their children: Kix and Bristol; Micca and Craig Brown and their children: Sullivan and Mara; Val and Donna Reiss; and J. C. and Julie Kitchell and their children: Trent and Jaycee. Duane also leaves behind a host of loving nephews, nieces, cousins, and family friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents: Walter and Icye Jeffrey; his brothers: Harold McMahan, Jim McMahan, and Joe Jeffrey; and his sisters: LaVerne McMahan Smith, and Bernice McMahan Hardaway.

Funeral service will be held at 11:00 a.m. Tuesday, March 19, 2024 at the Center Point Baptist Church. The burial will follow at the Center Point Cemetery.

Pallbearers will be Jay Jeffrey, Dub Jeffrey, Rob Jeffrey, Tom Jeffrey, Lane Jeffrey, Latt Jeffrey, Jason Harvey, Brad Groves, and Vic Bullard.

Honorary pallbearers will be John Grego, John McAlester, John Chaney, Tom Holcomb, Bobby Pugh, J. C. Kitchell, Trent Kitchell, Mike Guazdausky, Gerald Shero, Ray Rice, Bill Hill, Wayne Lucas, Lindsey and Julie Grant, and Jackson Ferguson along with members of his Center Point Sunday School class.

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Oliver James Forwoodson - January 25, 2024 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Oliver James Forwoodson, born on January 25, 2024, in Talihina, Oklahoma, filled every room with joy. In his brief time here on Earth, Oliver's presence was a testament to the beauty of life and the quickness with which it can touch our hearts. He passed away on March 14, 2024, in Wilburton, Oklahoma, cradled in the warmth of a family that adores him.

Oliver's bright and attentive eyes mirrored a soul that was ready to embrace the world with love. He cherished moments of cuddling, creating precious memories with his family, especially during movie nights snuggled up with his dad. His admiration for his older brother, Harvey, was clear for all to see – a silent promise of brotherly bonds that inspire and uplift.

He leaves behind a loving circle, with his parents, Ethan Forwoodson and Amber White, his brother, Harvey Forwoodson at the core, also by loving grandparents, Louise Varela, Steven Forwoodson, Kathy White, and Jim and Shannon White, and a host of family.

Let Oliver's fleeting yet impactful journey remind us to cherish every moment, to love boundlessly, and to find joy in the simplest of pleasures. Oliver's life, though short, is a profound message: embrace life's journey with open hearts and open arms.

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Kenneth James Montgomery - December 15, 1963 - March 02, 2024

Departed: 03/02/2024 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Kenneth James Montgomery, 60, of Red Oak, Oklahoma, affectionately known as "Red" to his friends and family, passed away on Saturday, March 2, 2024, in Fort Smith, Arkansas surrounded by his family and friends.

A memorial service will be 1:00 p.m. Saturday, March 9, 2024 at the First Baptist Church of Red Oak with Brother Johnny Montgomery officiating. The burial of cremains will follow the service at North Rock Creek Cemetery.

Honorary pallbearers will be Kevin Statham, Gavin Statham, Kyle Statham, Betty Jo Johnson, Harvey Beach, and Devon Nelson.

Kenneth was born on December 15, 1963 Wilburton, Oklahoma to Francis Marion and Thurma Snolen Montgomery.

Red was a proud graduate of Red Oak High School, class of 1982. His high school years were marked by his exceptional talent on the basketball court, where he set a scoring record that was taken from him in 2009. His passion for the game was only matched by his dedication to his family's business, Montgomery Concrete. Red spent many years working alongside his family, placing and finishing concrete with a craftsman's touch and a strong work ethic.

Beyond his professional life, Red was an avid OSU Cowboys fan. He loved watching games with his family and friends. Another thing he was very passionate about was walking thru the woods hunting arrowheads. His adventurous spirit led him on many treks through the wilderness, where he found not only artifacts but also peace and solitude. Those who knew Red understood that these pursuits were more than hobbies; they were a reflection of his deep appreciation for nature and history.

As we say goodbye to Kenneth, we celebrate a life lived to the fullest. Red's legacy is one of love, laughter, and the courage to follow one's passions. He will be remembered not only for the records he set or the work he accomplished but for the warmth and kindness he extended to everyone he met.

Kenneth grew up surrounded by a large and loving family, including his brothers and sisters: Marvin, Johnny, Keith, Shirley, Gloria, Judie, and Susanne. Red's life was enriched by his past and present special friends; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, and a host of other family and friends who will miss him dearly.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Francis and Billie (Revis) Montgomery, his sisters Tincy and Paula, and his brothers Larry, Robert, Ellis, and David. Red's family takes comfort in knowing that he has been reunited with his loved ones who passed before him.

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Linda S Barnes - January 05, 1949 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Linda Sue Barnes (Walters) passed away on February 26, 2024, at the age of 75, in Wilburton, Oklahoma. Born on January 5, 1949, in Wichita, Kansas, she was a person of warmth and laughter, lighting up every room she entered.

A visitation will be held from Noon to 5 p.m. Friday, March 1, 2024 at Jones Harkins Funeral Home.

Funeral Service will 2:00 p.m. Saturday, March 2, 2024 at Sonshine Fellowship Church with Burial to follow at Memorial Gardens cemetery.

She walked through life with a heart full of prayer and hands ready to serve, embodying the very essence of a faith-filled life. An avid lover of life's simple pleasures, Linda found joy in watching her favorite TV shows, fishing with John at Sardis Lake, and engaging in lively board game nights with family sometimes bending the rules to win at Wahoo. Her culinary skills shone in her homemade pies and the mac and cheese that her grandsons couldn’t get enough of.

Linda's infectious laughter, generous spirit, and loving heart will be profoundly missed by everyone who had the privilege of knowing her. Her memory will be cherished and kept alive in the stories shared among friends and family.

She is survived by her loving daughters, Tina Kahler of Gore, OK, Melissa Junell and her husband, Jake, of Wilburton, and Kayla Mannon of the home. Her legacy is celebrated through her grandchildren, Jeremy Kahler and Darla, Chloe Moore, Mannon Moore, Ashton Davis, and Duke Davis, as well as her great-grandchildren, Blaze, Bentley, Blake, and Bree Kahler. Linda's zest for life and joyful spirit will also be fondly remembered by her beloved chihuahua, Rowdy, numerous cousins, extended family, and a multitude of friends whose lives she touched.

She was preceded in death by her cherished husband, Rev. John A. Barnes, and her parents, W.T. Walters and Ellen Mae Tillery. Linda's professional life was characterized by her time as Gift Shop Manager at Robbers Cave in Wilburton, Oklahoma. She held this role with dedication and charm, endearing herself to both coworkers and visitors.

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Debra Baxter - July 09, 1956 - February 02, 2024

Departed: 02/02/2024 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Debra Lyn Baxter, affectionately known as Debbie to her family, passed away on February 2, 2024, in McAlester, Oklahoma. Born on July 9, 1956, in Oakland, California, Debbie was a beacon of kindness and warmth throughout her 67 years of life.

Debbie was the cherished daughter of Roy Allen Baxter and Lorraine (Canady) Baxter, both of whom preceded her in death. She grew up surrounded by love and support, which she extended to all those around her. Debbie's family was the cornerstone of her life, and she leaves behind a legacy of love and cherished memories. Her sister, Judy Jack of Wilburton, and her brother, R.D. Baxter and his wife, Pam of Bache, will hold dear the memories of their beloved sister. Debbie's aunt, Pauline Christopher of Redman, Oregon, along with her many nieces and nephews—Michael Morgan, Lori Jack, Jeremy Jack, Rhonda Baxter, Angie Hadley, Pam Bush, Amy Hohner, Nina Adams, Ryan Gibson, Brett Baxter, and Kylie Jack—will miss her dearly. She was a treasured part of her cousins Mark and Jimmy Christopher's lives and will be fondly remembered by her numerous great-nieces and great-nephews. In addition to her parents, Debbie was preceded in death by her brother-in-law, Jim Jack, and her uncle, James Christopher.

Despite being born with a disability, Debbie never allowed it to define her. She lived her life with an unwavering spirit and a heart full of love. Her bright blue eyes and sweet demeanor were a source of joy to all who knew her. Debbie had a remarkable ability to remember all her nieces' and nephews' birthdays, a testament to her thoughtful and caring nature.

Debbie was a proud member of the VFW Auxiliary #3649 in Wilburton, Oklahoma, where she found a community of friends and a place to share her generous spirit. She had many friends but her best friend in the world was her sister Judy. They loved to spend time together and go for car rides whenever they had the chance.

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Linda Ann Dennis - October 02, 1953 - January 31, 2024

Departed: 01/31/2024 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Linda Ann Dennis, known affectionately as Linda to all who were lucky enough to cross her path, embarked on her final adventure on January 31, 2024, leaving a trail of laughter and cherished memories in her wake. Born on October 2, 1953, in McAlester, Oklahoma, Linda's zest for life and contagious laugh became her signature, a beacon of joy that illuminated the lives of those around her.

Linda's story is one of love, laughter, and the kind of spirited courage that could light up a room. She is survived by her loving husband, David Cotton, who shared in her love for life and laughter. Her legacy continues through her children: David Dennis and wife, Tonya, and Becci Fraughton and husband, Sonny all of Evanston, Wyoming, and her adoring grandchildren: Jericca, Taylor, Jessy, Shawn, Anissa, Alyssa, and Chaz, who will no doubt inherit her unique ability to make each person feel special.

Her siblings, Francine Fogle, Anita Batchelder, Carol Johnson and husband, S.L., Ronnie Wynn with wife Deborah, and Sharon Griffith with husband Keith, along with her half-sibling Joyce Ward of Texas, will miss her deeply. Linda's ten great-grandchildren and one on-the-way will grow up hearing legendary tales of their great-grandmother's funny and courageous spirit. Linda now joins her parents, Francis Schuller Wynn and Kathryn (Houston) Wynn, and her brothers, Larry and Frank Wynn, along with her half-sibling Billy John Wynn, in a place where the laughter never ends.

Linda's professional life was as dynamic as her personality. She was a successful Real Estate Agent, a homemaker, and the proud owner and operator of Highway 2 Bar-b-que in Wilburton for three unforgettable years. Her work ethic was matched only by her passion for life and the people she served.

Her interests were as eclectic and vibrant as her personality. Linda had a love for riding Harley Davidsons that rivaled her passion for leatherwork, cooking, canning, and, most importantly, her grandchildren. Each hobby was an extension of her love for life and the people in it.

Linda had a way of making the ordinary extraordinary, and her sense of humor was nothing short of legendary. She lived by the philosophy that "You can't take life too seriously; you'll never get out of it alive," a quote often attributed to the great comedian Elbert Hubbard. Linda embodied this sentiment, ensuring that every moment was filled with laughter and light-heartedness.

As we bid farewell to Linda Ann Dennis, let us do so with the laughter she adored and the spirit she embodied. Her journey on this earth may have concluded, but her legacy of love, laughter, and the ability to make everyone feel special will continue to resonate for generations to come. Here's to Linda, a woman who lived life like it was a comedy show, and in doing so, became the star of her own extraordinary story.

The celebration of Linda’s life will be held at 2:00 p.m. Sunday, February 4, 2024 at the Jones Harkins Funeral Home Chapel in Wilburton, Oklahoma with Troy Bullard officiating. The burial will follow at Damon Cemetery, Damon Valley Community, Oklahoma.

Pallbearers will be Chaz Dennis, Shawn Fraughton, Nathan Johnson, Jonathan Wynn, Taylor Grimm, and Christopher Boerstra.

Honorary pallbearers will be Jake Sowers, Sean Sowers, Lucas Johnson, Peeps Griffith, Duane Griffith, Colten Wynn, Skylar Wynn, Lonnie Warren, Aaron Warren, Justin Warren, Kevin Gwin, and J.R. Gwin.

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Henry Caldwell - August 26, 1953 - January 30, 2024

Departed: 01/30/2024 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Henry Newton Caldwell, Jr. of Clayton, Oklahoma passed away on January 30, 2024, at the age of 70. Born on August 26, 1953 in Antlers, Oklahoma to Henry Newton Caldwell, Sr. and Ruby Ruth (Pierce) Caldwell, Henry grew up surrounded by a loving family. He was a cherished brother to Carolyn, Ruby, and Annita.

Henry's journey took him far from home when he joined the United States Army on August 30, 1972. His service during the Vietnam Era was a testament to his dedication and love for his country. After his military service, Henry embarked on a career as a long-haul truck driver, a profession that suited his independent nature and allowed him to traverse the vast landscapes he so loved.

Though a very private person, Henry's generosity knew no bounds, especially when it came to his nieces and nephews. He took great joy in supporting them, whether through his presence at family gatherings or the quiet ways he helped guide them through life's challenges. His was a life lived with honor, humility, and a profound sense of duty to his family and country. Henry's memory will continue to inspire us, reminding us of the power of a gentle soul in a noisy world.

He is survived by his sisters: Ruby Kirkes of Canadian, Oklahoma, and Annita White of Clayton, Oklahoma; his brother-in-law: Gary Nelson of Wilburton, Oklahoma. His life was enriched by the close bond he shared nephew, Justin Pruitt of Oklahoma City, and niece, Amara Kirkes of Buffalo Valley, Oklahoma. Henry was a beloved uncle to his great-nieces and great-nephews: Raven Pruitt, Abby Pruitt, Chloe Cole, Clay Trieannie. J.J. Pruitt, Rainey Pruitt, and Noah Pruitt. His cousin, Betty Lynn Lee of Ft. Worth, Texas, also held a special place in his heart.

Henry was preceded in death by his father: Henry Newton Caldwell, Sr.; his mother: Ruby Ruth (Pierce) Peters; and his sister, Carolyn Caldwell.

Goodnight, Henry Newton Caldwell, Jr. Your journey was one of purpose and heart, and your memory will be cherished by all who had the privilege of knowing you. Rest in peace, gentle soul.

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Raymond Charles Mackey, III - August 11, 1963 - January 19, 2024

Departed: 01/19/2024 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Raymond “Little Red” Charles Mackey, III of Wister, Oklahoma peacefully passed away on Friday, January 19, 2024 at his home at the age of 60.

The family will greet friends on from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Monday, January 22, 2024 at the Jones Harkins Funeral Home Chapel in Wilburton.

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Barbara Jean Lawrence - December 05, 1941 - January 18, 2024

Departed: 01/18/2024 (Wilburton)

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Barbara Lawrence, 82, of Wilburton passed away Thursday, January 18, 2024 at her home in Wilburton.

A viewing will be held Saturday, January 20, 2024 from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. at Jones Harkins Funeral Home chapel.

Barbara enjoyed being a member of the Ladies Auxiliary where she loved to spend time with the other ladies. She was very passionate about donating her service to the Veterans of Foreign War. Spending time with her grandchildren was always the highlight of her day. Barbara also loved to play bingo any time she had the chance.

Barbara is survived by her daughters, Sarah Lawrence, Lucinda Butler and husband, James, Pam Lawrence, Elizabeth Caldwell and husband, Leland, and Teresa Lightfoot; son, Charles H. Lawrence Jr.; grandchildren, Miranda, Amanda, Travis, Chad, Zach, David, Brandon, Jeffrey, Breanna, Heaven, Steven, Chelsea, Mandy, Chuck, Drew, Miles, Bryan, Hunter, Thomas, Kavin, and Charlie Jo; sisters, Sue Warren and husband Charlie, and Linda Copeland; brothers-in-law, Junior Lawrence, and Johnny Lawrence and; sister-in-law Johnnie Wilson. Numerous great grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and other family and friends.

She is preceded in death by her husband, Charles Lawrence; her parents, Jessie H. Wilson and Viola Lucille Wilson; brother, Rodney H. Wilson; brother-in-law, Wayland Copeland; sisters-in-law, Sue Sassnett, Bernice Lawrence, and Shirley Lawrence. In-laws Zella and Bill Lawrence.

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Phyllis Diane Dunlap - June 09, 1956 - January 09, 2024

Departed: 01/09/2024 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Phyllis Diane Dunlap

Things to know about Phyllis; she loved driving, she loved the army, and she loved people.

Phyllis Diane Dunlap, 67, was born June 9th, 1956, in San Antonio and we sadly lost her on January 9th, 2024. She was living in Hartshorne, close to her daughter at the time. Her true home was always wherever her daughter was. Phyllis passed like she lived her life, surrounded by the people she loved. She was in the army as a paramedic and after that, she drove a truck with her husband for 15 years. She then became a stay-at-home mother. She later decided to better herself and returned to school, graduating from EOSC in accounting in 2017. She had always been great with numbers.

Lighter things to know about Phyllis were that she loved the movie Independence Day, her favorite color was Maroon, her favorite beverage was coffee (specifically from McDonald’s), and she collected all things patriotic. Her favorite song was Forever and Ever Amen and she was the sassiest woman you could have ever met. She loved making jokes, baking bread, and attending marching band competitions to support the Hartshorne Miners Marching Band.

She is survived by her only daughter Lacy Dunlap, but she was loved by all her ‘kiddos’ or in her words her ‘pain in the necks’: Shirlene Green and Rocky Hamilton, Lily Moore, Heaven Crossley, Dallas Green, Olivia Green and David Carpenter.

She is joining her mother Claudia Hudgins and the love of her life, Andy Dunlap. Phyllis was a wonderful mom and a wonderful person to be around, and she will be missed but we know she will be happy to be without pain and satisfied that she lived her life to the fullest and with all the laughter. We will miss you, Mom! I light a candle to bless this day. With the Splendor of fire, the freedom of the wind, the stability of the earth, and the depth of the sea. Sun and moon grant us birth and give us life, death, and rest. For we shall meet again once our souls leave this world. Guide me through the night, and the sunlit days. Merry part and merry meet to soul and heart, blessed be. - Unknown

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Edith Ree Brown - July 12, 1936 - January 08, 2024

Departed: 01/08/2024 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Edith Ree (Elwood) Brown, 87, of Salonia passed away Monday, January 8, 2024 in Talihina, OK.

A visitation will be held from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. on Wednesday, January 10, 2024 at Jones Harkins Funeral Home.

Funeral service will be 2:00 p.m. Thursday, January 11, 2024 at Salonia Freewill Baptist Church with Pastor Nathan Adams officiating and Mr. Darrell Ritter assisting. Burial will follow at Red Oak City Cemetery.

Active pallbearers are Steve Moore, Norman Elwood, Donnie Elwood, Cody Poor, JR McCool, and Sam McCool.

Honorary pallbearers are Wesley Coffey, Johnny L. Holbird, Cliff Brown, and Chris Piovesan.

Edith was born July 12, 1936 to Lee Roy and Winnie Lou (Cauthen) Elwood. She married Tom Brown on November 24, 1962. They made their home in a little valley called Hoot Owl Hollow. They had three children and raised them there to know the meaning of hard work. As a family they raised Hereford cattle. Edith loved her family. She loved to garden and work in the flower beds. If you listened close enough you would hear her praising God while she was hoeing the weeds.

She is survived by her three children, Tommy Joe Brown and wife, Frances of the home, Brenda Ree Abbott of Bates, AR, and Elizabeth McDaris of Red Oak, OK; six grandchildren, Amanda Townley and husband, James, Waylon Cannon and Haley, Zackery Statham and Erica, Sadie King and husband, Roy, Shelby Pinley and husband, Garrett, and Cheslor Joe Brown; four great grandchildren, Dawson Pinley, Wrinlee Pinley, Tymber Statham, Kayslee Ree King; two sisters, Lorice McCool of Choctaw, OK, and Adith Gibson of Reichert, OK.

Edith is preceded in death by her parents, Lee Roy and Winnie Lue Elwood; her husband, Tom Brown; sisters: infant twin sister: LaWanda Elwood, Erma Akers, and Eillen Parker; brothers: Connie Elwood, Jerry Joe Elwood, and Franklin Eugene Elwood.

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Ryan Nail - July 28, 1982 - December 13, 2023

Departed: 12/13/2023 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Ryan Matthew Nail passed away on December 13, 2023, in Wilburton, Oklahoma.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be at 1:00 p.m. on Friday, December 22, 2023 at the Sacred Heart Catholic Church celebrated by Fr. Bryan Ketterer in Wilburton. The burial will follow at the Veterans Memorial Park Cemetery at the Veterans Colony with military honors provided by the VFW Post #3649 of Wilburton.

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Pat Muncy - June 10, 1956 - December 04, 2023

Departed: 12/04/2023 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Patrick “Pat” Muncy passed away on Monday, December 4, 2023 at the Latimer Nursing Home in Wilburton, Oklahoma.

Visitation will be held from 9:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. on Wednesday, December 6, 2023 at Jones Harkins Funeral Home.

A graveside service will be held at 9:00 a.m. on Thursday, December 7, 2023 at Red Oak Cemetery with Reverend Johnny Montgomery officiating.  The burial will follow.

Pat was born on June 10, 1956 in Talihina, Oklahoma to William Murphy Muncy, Sr. and Florence (Stallaby) Muncy. As an infant, Pat developed a high fever that left him non-verbal throughout his life. However, he was very capable of expressing his happiness with big smiles while going on car rides and stopping at the EZ Mart for chicken strips.

He is survived by his brothers: William Murphy Muncy, Jr. and wife, Ginger of Claremore, Oklahoma, and Jerry Muncy of Hartshorne, Oklahoma; his sister: Shirley Mantaghi and husband, Fred of New Castle, Oklahoma; along with numerous nieces, nephews, and other family and friends.

Pat is preceded in death by his parents: William Murphy Muncy, Sr. and Florence (Stallaby) Muncy; and sisters: Diana Muncy, Rebecca Benson, and Margie Johnson.

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Bydia Elfina Carney - December 18, 1962 - December 04, 2023

Departed: 12/04/2023 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Bydia Elfina (Coley) Carney, 60, of Wilburton, Oklahoma passed away on Monday, December 4, 2023 at her home.

Visitation will be held from 11:00 a.m. to 7:00 p.m. on Wednesday, December 6, 2023 at the Jones Harkins Funeral Home Chapel.

A graveside service will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Thursday, December 7, 2023 at the South Rock Creek Cemetery with Brother Kenneth Baker officiating. The burial will follow.

Pallbearers will be Larry G. Harris, Mark Sam, Merle Sam, Morris Sam, Jimmie Williams and Joe Williams, Jr.

Honorary Pallbearers are the District 6 Choctaw Seniors.

Bydia was born on December 18, 1962 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma to Solomon Coley and Mary (Foster) Coley. She married Larry G. Harris on August 24, 2022. Bydia was a member of the Choctaw senior citizens and loved playing on the chair volleyball team for seniors.

She is preceded in death by her parents: Solomon and Mary Coley. Brothers: Adam, Leon, and Cleo. Aunts: Dollie Scott, Pamela Jefferson, and Bydia Pope. Uncles: John Coley, Wilburn Coley, and Cecil. Bydia is survived by her husband: Larry G. Harris of the home; brother Dondi Coley of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma and her uncle Joe Coley and wife Mary of Wilburton, Oklahoma and numerous family and friends.

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Charles "Buddy" Enis - December 16, 1948 - November 26, 2023

Departed: 11/26/2023 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Charles A. Enis, “Buddy” 74, of Wilburton, Oklahoma passed away on Sunday, November 26, 2023 in Fort Smith, Arkansas. He lived a full and meaningful life, touching numerous lives with his wisdom and kindness.

Charles was born to Orville and June (Sparks) Enis on December 16, 1948 in McAlester, Oklahoma.

A viewing will be from 3:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. on Wednesday, November 29, 2023 at Jones-Harkins Funeral Home.

A funeral service will be 1:00 p.m. at Panola Auditorium on Thursday, November 30, 2023. Paige (Booth) Scott and Tommie Parker will be officiating. A burial will follow at Lutie Cemetery under the direction of Jones-Harkins Funeral Home.

Active pallbearers will be Scott Lassiter, Shawn Lassiter, Mark Christenberry, Kyle Lassiter, Kace Lassiter, Parker McClary, Trenton Dill, and Paxton Christenberry.

Honorary pallbearers will be Gary Lay, Kyle Vanderburg, Jim Barnes, Platinum Home Health Care, along with staff and faculty of the Wilburton School District.

A proud graduate from Panola High School and later earned his Doctorate in Education at East Texas. He married his wife Beverly in June of 1997 at Eureka Springs, Arkansas, beginning a journey of love and companionship that would last 26 years.

Buddy dedicated his life to education, serving in various capacities throughout his career. He began his journey in education at Soper High School in 1971-1972 as a math teacher. In the fall of 1972, he joined Wilburton Public Schools where he taught junior high math for five years, served as a high school counselor for 3 years, and high school principal for 13 years. He then ascended to the role of superintendent, a position he held for 22 years. Remaining in the field of education for 43 years, Charles spent 22 of those years as a superintendent, a testament to his commitment and dedication to the profession. His legacy within the Wilburton School District is profound. He was instrumental in the construction of the basketball gym for the Wilburton Diggers and was known for ensuring the smooth operation of the schools. Buddy was a respected member of the Cooperative Council for Oklahoma School Administration and the Oklahoma Association of School Administrators.

Buddy was a pillar of the financial community, serving on the 1st National Wilburton Bank Board for many years. His keen insight and unwavering commitment played a pivotal role in the bank’s success, earning him the respect and admiration of his colleagues.

Beyond his professional contributions, Buddy’s involvement in various associations underscored his genuine interest in fostering community growth. His affable demeanor and dedication to service were truly contagious, inspiring those around him to strive for excellence.

Outside of his professional life, Buddy had a passion for rodeos and even rode bulls in his younger years. He loved ranching and taking care of cattle. He was a dedicated family man who cherished spending time with his wife, children, and grandchildren. Whether it was going on hunting trips or simply enjoying a quiet evening at home, his family was his pride and joy.

Described by many as wise, Buddy was a source of guidance and wisdom for many within his community. His hard work and dedication were evident in all aspects of his life, from his professional pursuits to his personal relationships.

Buddy was a man of integrity, wisdom, and unwavering dedication to his family and his work. His impact on the lives of his loved ones and the community he served will endure, and his memory will be cherished by all who knew him.

Buddy was a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather.

He is survived by his loving wife of 26 years, Beverly Enis; his sons, Shawn Lassiter and his wife, Candy, and Scott Lassiter and his wife, Treasa; and his daughter, Sheena Christenberry and her husband, Mark. As a doting grandfather, he leaves behind Madilyn Dill and her husband, Trenton, Kyle Lassiter and his wife, Cayden, Kace Lassiter, Parker McClary, Presley McClary, and Paxton Christenberry. His great-grandchildren, Kinzly Stancell, Wrenley Dill, Myles Lassiter, and Ella Duvall will remember their great-grandfather with fondness. He is also survived by his brother, Bob Enis and wife, Regenia of Knoxville, Tennessee; his sister, Sherry Swackhamer of Portland, Oregon; his nephew, Blake Enis; and his nieces, Lee Enis, Madison Swackhamer, Amelia Holbert and her husband, Brendan; soon to be identical great nephews Holbert; numerous other family members and friends.

Buddy was preceded in death by his parents, Orville and June Enis, and his brother-in-law, Roy Swackhamer.

In Lieu of flowers the family would like donations made to his granddaughter Madilyn Lassiter Dill at Farmers State Bank in Stigler, Oklahoma.

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Dora Faye Mangrum - December 03, 1938 - November 21, 2023

Departed: 11/21/2023 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Dora Faye Mangrum, 84, formerly of Wilburton, Oklahoma passed away Tuesday, November 21, 2023 in Sulphur.

A graveside funeral service will be held at 2:00 p.m. Monday, November 27, 2023 at Cupco Cemetery in Yanush, OK with Reverend Rodney Tate officiating.

Dora was born to Dock Stone and Dora Mae (Rooker) Stone on December 3, 1938 in Sherman, Texas.

She loved being outside with her flowers, going shopping, and watching Perry Mason. Dora also enjoyed dancing and listening to country music.

Dora is survived by her son, Al Neal and wife, Janet of Belton, Texas; grandchildren: Chad, and Shelby; great-grandchildren: Delainey, Kaysen, Blane, and Bishop; brother-in-law, Geral Mangrum, and wife Pattie of Atoka; sister-in-law, Diana Payne and husband, Tommy of Ore City, Texas; and good friends, Phillip Goines and wife, Jackie of Wilburton; along with numerous other family members and friends.

She is preceded in death by her husband, Cleadith “Jim” L. Mangrum; and her father, Dock Stone, and mother, Dora Mae (Rooker) Stone.

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Judy Dana Bordelon - July 23, 1956 - October 30, 2023

Departed: 10/30/2023 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Judy Dana Bordelon, a spirited and loving woman, passed away in Eufaula, Oklahoma on October 30, 2023.

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Wilfred Joseph Trosclair, Jr. - February 13, 1929 - September 26, 2023

Departed: 09/26/2023 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Wilfred J. Trosclair, 94, of the Veterans Colony, Wilburton, Oklahoma passed away on September 26, 2023 at his home. Arrangements are pending with Jones Harkins Funeral Home, Wilburton, Oklahoma

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Jolene Reeves-Wackerly - November 09, 1939 - September 25, 2023

Departed: 09/25/2023 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Jolene Wilcox Reeves-Wackerly, 83, of Red Oak, passed away peacefully in Poteau, OK on September 25, 2023.

A visitation will be held from 12 p.m. Thursday, September 28, 2023 at Jones Harkins Funeral Home.

The funeral service will 10:00 a.m. Friday, September 29, 2023 at the First Baptist Church of Red Oak with Rev. Johnny Montgomery officiating. Burial will follow at Baldwin Cemetery.

Pallbearers are Jason Allen, Gene Coffey, Eric Coffey, Jordan Coffey, Jared Gooch and Michael Reed.

Honorary pallbearers will be Jayden Allen, and Reed Allen.

She was born on November 9, 1939, in Rural Latimer County, OK to Walter and Barbara Wilcox.

A woman of great character and resilience, Jolene stitched the fabric of her life together with an enduring love and strength for her family. Her joy was interwoven into her favorite hobbies; quilting and sewing served as the foundation for countless beautiful memories and creative tapestries. A talented vocalist, Jolene cherished singing bluegrass and gospel tunes with her family, echoing melodies that will long resonate in the hearts of those who loved her. She also relished spending time outdoors, whether fishing or camping.

She is survived by her daughter: Debbie Allen and husband, Ronald of Red Oak; grandson: Jason Allen and wife, Rachelle of Red Oak; great grandsons: Reed Allen, and Jayden Allen; brothers: Ronnie Wilcox, and Wayne Wilcox; step children: Charlene Reeves, Linda Reeves, and Charlie Reeves along with numerous nieces, nephews, and other extended family members.

Jolene is preceded in death by her parents: Walter L. and Barbara (Jay) Wilcox; her first husband: Charles Reeves; her second husband: Bob Wackerly; grandson: Tyler Allen; siblings: Orvelle Wilcox, Gertie Battles, Marvin “Bill” Wilcox, Murel Wilcox Wackerly, Thelma Madden, Bob Wilcox, her twin Kathleen Phelan, and Harlan “Peck” Wilcox.

In the melody of her life's song and the texture of her stitched quilts, Jolene’s life story endures in our hearts. May her memory shine as a pattern of love, resilience, and creativity, celebrated in the heart of every family gathering, fishing trip, camping adventure, or sewn quilt.

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Barbara Ann Parker - October 12, 1942 - September 24, 2023

Departed: 09/24/2023 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Ann Parker, a beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother, passed away at the age of 80 on Sunday, September 24, 2023 in Ft. Smith, AR.

Born on October 12, 1942, in rural Cement, OK, to Harley and Willie Mae Douthit, Barbara spent her life as a shining beacon of love, devotion, and unwavering faith. Her absence will be deeply felt by her family, friends, and the tight-knit community of Red Oak, OK.

To commemorate and celebrate her life, a visitation will be held from 6 p.m. to 8 p.m. Wednesday, September 27, 2023, at the Jones Harkins Funeral Home. A funeral service will be conducted at 10:00 a.m. on Thursday, September 28, 2023, at the Assembly of God in Red Oak, OK with Rev. Randy Holmes officiating. Barbara will then be laid to rest at North Rock Creek Cemetery. Honoring her in their service as pallbearers will be Rusty Potts, Ruger Green, Ricky Potts, Paul Parker, Roy Green, Steve Goldsborough, Kayslee Green, and Kimber Green.

Barbara found a lifetime of joy and companionship in her husband, Charles Parker whom she married on April 25, 1963. Their enduring partnership offered a model of enduring love and commitment.

She is survived by her husband, Charles Parker, of the home; daughter, Dolores Ann Potts and husband, Frank of Muse; son, Paul Ray Parker and wife, Sheri of Wilburton; sister, Marilyn Howeth and her husband, Rev. Eugen Howeth of Chickasha; Brother in law, Randall Harris and wife, Betty of Rush Springs; grandchildren, Tristian McCool of Wilburton, Tori McCool of Wilburton, Heaven Tinney of OKC, Ava Parker of Wilburton, Teagan Parker of Wilburton, Atlee Parker of Wilburton, Piper Imler of Wilburton, Nicholas Parker of Wilburton, Ricky Potts and wife, Cortnye of Lequire, and Kayla Green and husband, Roy of Red Oak; great grandchildren, Ruger Green, Rusty Potts, Kayslee Green, Kimber Green, Breanna Potts, Oakly The Boy and Hunter Wilson.

Barbara is preceded in death by her parents, Harley and Willie Douthit; brother, Billy Douthit: and sister, Cleta Harris.

Known for her deep faith, Barbara was a loyal attendee of the Assembly of God in Red Oak, OK, where she served through her prayers and uplifting spirit. Her faith was central to her life, as time with her cherished Bible was a daily ritual. Barbara's love for her family was immense, with her greatest joy derived from spending time with her children and with her grand and great-grandchildren.

Not one to remain idle, Barbara filled her time with pursuits that nurtured her family and soul. She loved to let her legendary baking skills shine, presents from her kitchen becoming much-loved traditions in her home. She had a passion for canning, which became a gift to her family, feeding them throughout the year with her homegrown preserves. And, providing an endearing source of family humor, she took particular delight in lovingly keeping her husband, “Papa,” in line.

Though Barbara’s physical presence will be missed, her spirit, love, and cherished memories will forever remain in the hearts of her loved ones. May her life always be remembered for the love she spread and the inspiration she provided.

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Irene Goldie Boddy - June 18, 1939 - September 23, 2023

Departed: 09/23/2023 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Goldie Irene Boddy, known as Irene, passed away peacefully at her home in Wilburton, Oklahoma on September 23, 2023.

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Leroy Edward Chipman - November 11, 1952 - September 22, 2023

Departed: 09/22/2023 (Wilburton)

Obituary Preview: Leroy Edward Chipman, affectionately known as "Chip", passed away peacefully on September 22, 2023, in Wilburton, Oklahoma. Born on November 11, 1952, in San Bernadino County, California, Chip was a man of many talents who lived his life with a sense of humor, a loving

heart, and an ability to fix just about anything. Chip was a proud veteran of the U.S. Navy, serving his country with honor and distinction. After his military service, he embarked on a long and fulfilling career as an 18 wheeler truck driver. His travels took him across the country, and he loved to share stories of the places he'd seen and the people he'd met. He was very proud of his

ability to navigate and never use a GPS. Chip's many interests were a testament to his diverse skills and

passions. He had a deep love for dogs, motorcycles and dodge trucks. His mechanical aptitude was evident in his ability to rebuild engines and his enjoyment of working in his garage. Above all else, Chip loved spending time with family and friends. His home was a hub of activity,

laughter, and love. Chip was preceded in death by his mother, Mary Edith Walsh, stepfather Charles Edward Bowling, Father Lafayette Chipman, sister Mary Eileen Branam, brother William Joseph, and son Christopher Chipman. His memory will be cherished by his surviving family, including his sister Kathleen Stevens, brother-in-love Steve Kilbreath, daughter Sonja Forrest, son-in-law Varion Forrest, granddaughters Kayla Piscitelli, Chloe Forrest, Sydney Forrest, Piper Forrest, great-grandson Everett Flynn, daughter Trisha, grandson Vincent, granddaughter Destiny, granddaughter Bella, son Scott Chipman. Niece Stephanie Stevens-Foster, and nephew David Klumb. Nephew Troy Stevens and wife Leann. His great-nephews Broc, Blake and Grant and great nieces Logan

and Brylee will also remember their great-uncle with fondness. Chip was a man who was loved by many. His sense of humor was infectious, his determination was unmatched, his love was unconditional, and his knack for fixing things was unparalleled. He worked hard to ensure those around him knew he loved them and valued

their relationship. We will forever remember Leroy "Chip" Edward Chipman - a loving brother, father, grandfather, uncle, and friend. His life was a testament to the power of love, humor, forgiveness, and the simple joy of fixing things. He will be dearly missed, but his spirit will live

on through the many lives he touched.

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At Jones-Harkins Funeral Home, every funeral service is tailored to reflect the personality, interests, and spirit of the individual being honored. The funeral home's experienced staff takes the time to listen to families, understanding their needs and preferences to create a meaningful and memorable tribute. From selecting music and flowers to choosing a casket or urn, every detail is carefully considered to ensure that the service is a true celebration of life.

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In addition to traditional funeral services, Jones-Harkins Funeral Home also offers cremation options for families who prefer this alternative. The funeral home's state-of-the-art crematory ensures that every cremation is carried out with dignity and respect. Families can choose from a range of cremation packages, including direct cremation, cremation with memorial service, and cremation with traditional funeral service.

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One of the most thoughtful gifts you can give your loved ones is the gift of pre-planning your funeral arrangements. By making these decisions in advance, you can spare your family from having to make difficult choices during an emotional time. Jones-Harkins Funeral Home offers pre-planning services, allowing you to make informed decisions about your final wishes and budget ahead of time.

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Losing a loved one can be a devastating experience, and the grieving process can be long and challenging. Jones-Harkins Funeral Home understands the importance of supporting families beyond the funeral service itself. The funeral home offers access to grief support resources, including counseling services, support groups, and online resources, to help families navigate their journey through grief.

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Jones-Harkins Funeral Home is deeply committed to the Wilburton community it serves. The funeral home's staff members are actively involved in local organizations and charities, working to make a positive impact on the lives of those around them. This commitment to community extends beyond the funeral home's walls, as they strive to build lasting relationships with the families they serve.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and any notable achievements.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community. They provide a sense of closure and allow people to pay their respects to the deceased. Obituaries also help to preserve the memory of the person who has passed away.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The task of writing an obituary usually falls to the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or crematorium may offer assistance with writing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, and information about their family, such as surviving relatives and predeceased loved ones. It may also include details about their occupation, hobbies, achievements, and any notable accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform where it will be published. Typically, an obituary should be between 100-500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary for publication?

The process for submitting an obituary varies depending on the publication or online platform. You may need to email or fax the obituary to the publication, or submit it through an online form. Be sure to check the submission guidelines carefully before submitting your obituary.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication and the length of the obituary. Some publications may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals that include additional services like online memorials or guest books.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to have control over how they are remembered. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and accomplishments.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only the most basic information such as name, age, and date of death. It is often used in conjunction with a more detailed obituary.

What is a funeral notice?

A funeral notice is a specific type of death notice that includes details about the funeral or memorial service, such as the date, time, location, and officiant.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include quotes, poems, or other literary passages in an obituary as a way to add personal touches and reflect the personality of the deceased.

How do I announce a death on social media?

If you want to announce a death on social media, it's best to keep the post brief and respectful. You might say something like "It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of [name]. We will miss them dearly." You can also share a link to the full obituary if desired.

What is an online memorial?

An online memorial is a virtual space where people can leave condolences, share memories, and pay tribute to the deceased. Many funeral homes and crematoriums offer online memorials as part of their services.

Can I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased and support a cause that was important to them.

How do I write an obituary for someone who died suddenly or tragically?

In cases where someone has died suddenly or tragically, it may be especially difficult to write an obituary. Try to focus on celebrating their life and accomplishments rather than dwelling on the circumstances of their death.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include humorous anecdotes or quotes in an obituary as a way to celebrate the personality of the deceased. Just be sure to keep it tasteful and respectful.

How do I handle errors or corrections in an obituary?

If you notice errors or inaccuracies in an obituary after it has been published, contact the publication or online platform immediately. They will work with you to correct the mistakes and republish the revised obituary.

Can I reuse an old obituary for someone who has passed away again?

No, it's generally not appropriate to reuse an old obituary for someone who has passed away again. Instead, write a new obituary that reflects their life since the previous passing.

What is a legacy.com page?

A Legacy.com page is an online memorial page where people can leave condolences, share memories, and pay tribute to the deceased. These pages are often linked to from online obituaries.

How long will my online obituary remain available?

The length of time that an online obituary remains available varies depending on the publication or platform. Some may keep archives indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period of time.

Can I create my own online memorial website?

Yes, there are many tools and platforms available that allow you to create your own online memorial website. This can be a meaningful way to celebrate the life of your loved one and share memories with others.

What is a eulogy?

A eulogy is a speech or written tribute that celebrates the life of someone who has passed away. It is often delivered at a funeral or memorial service by a family member or close friend.

How do I write a eulogy?

To write a eulogy, start by brainstorming stories and memories about the person who has passed away. Focus on their strengths, accomplishments, and personality traits. Try to find ways to weave these elements together into a cohesive narrative that celebrates their life.

Can I include music or videos in an online memorial?

Yes, many online memorial platforms allow you to upload music or videos as part of the tribute. This can be a powerful way to evoke emotions and celebrate the life of your loved one.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress, consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for support. You might also consider seeking guidance from a funeral home or crematorium staff member who can offer guidance and resources.