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Jim Lee Blocher - May 03, 1945 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Jimmie Lee Blocher, 79, of Altoona went Home to be with the Lord on May 3, 2024. He was born May 3, 1945 in Oakland, CA to Leon and Jane (Benson) Blocher.

He faithfully attended the Des Moines Assembly with his family where he met and later married Linda “Kay” Kathleen Tounsley. Kay passed away January 20, 2018.

Jim graduated from Roosevelt High School in 1963. His early work years were with the City of Iowa City, then as a draftsman for Lenox Corporation in Marshalltown, Iowa. Most of his career was spent managing Blocher Body Shop in Des Moines, Iowa. His final role was in Auto Body Sales for Keystone Automotive.

Jim accepted Jesus Christ as his personal savior at a young age and faithfully served Him for the duration of his life. He had a love for cars, enjoyed sporting events, and delighted in watching the events of his grandchildren. He also enjoyed traveling with Kay, playing golf and listening to Christian music especially quartet singers. He played Pickleball and enjoyed spending time with his family and friends.

Jim is survived by his children, Kalista (Tad) Savage of Fenton, MO, Timothy Blocher, Paul (Deanna) Blocher of Altoona, IA and Kara (Ryan) Roossinck of West Des Moines, IA; 9 grandchildren Nick, Noah and Taylor Savage, Jacob (Miranda), Abby, Ashley and Lexi Blocher, Dylan Blocher and Zachary Toillion. He is preceded in death by his parents, Leon and Jane, his wife, Kay and his brother, David.

Visitation will be held on Friday, May 10, 2024, between 5-7 pm at Iles Grandview Park Chapel, 3211 Hubbell Avenue, Des Moines. Services will be 11 AM Saturday, May 11, 2024, at the funeral home. A luncheon will be served at the Oakwood Assembly located at 4450 E Oakwood Dr in Pleasant Hill immediately following the funeral service. Memorial contributions may be directed to Bible Truth Publishers, 59 Industrial Road, Addison, IL 60101 Online condolence may be expressed at www.ilesCares.com Arrangements by Iles Grandview Park Chapel

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Nicholas E. Perez - September 03, 1997 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Nicholas Edward Perez, Des Moines, Iowa.

Nick, 26, was born in Salt Lake City, Utah, on September 3, 1997, and passed from this life on May 3, 2024. He graduated from Ankeny High School in 2016. Nick was a member of the local 234, where he achieved a dream of operating heavy equipment, and then found that moving dirt wasn’t fast enough for him, so he had recently joined Vincent General Contracting, working with his best friend, Zach. Nick was a hard worker from a young age.

He loved his friends and family and his dog, Lefty. Nick enjoyed the small things in life, had a huge heart, and had your back if you needed him. When Nick wasn’t working hard, he was playing hard. Whether on a bike, in his truck on a late-night drive with Baylea, in a shop, working around the house, catching fish, or teaching Kash one thing or another, he was always close to those he loved. Nick always lit up any room he was in, his infectious laugh and smile were contagious, and his presence was always known and will continue to be known and felt by those that know and love him.

Nick is survived by his girlfriend, Baylea Polito, and her son, Kash. Also left to mourn are his mother, Ronda (Rob) Wheeler, of Ankeny; sister, Carmen, of Ankeny; brother, Mateo, of Burlington; “Grandma Concha” and aunts, Mimi and Penny, all of San Diego, California; his grandparents, Ron and Joyce Schmidt, of Pleasantville, and many other loving aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Nick was preceded in death by his uncle, John Schmidt and cousin, Bryon Howard.

A gathering for friends and family will be held on Saturday, May 11, 2024 from 4-7pm at Iles Grandview Park Chapel, 3211 Hubbell Avenue, Des Moines. Memorials may be directed to his family. Online condolences are welcome at www.IlesCares.com.

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Catherine Cathy Kubik - April 12, 1942 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Catherine Mae (Phillips) Kubik, daughter of Robert Phillips and Mary (Farlow) Phillips, was born April 12, 1942 in Winterset, Iowa. She passed away peacefully May 3, 2024 with her daughters at her side at Traditions Memory Care in Newton, Iowa at the age of 82.

She had a passion for life, her flower gardens, and decorating for every holiday inside and out. Catherine had many pets with Boots being her final one. He was such a beautiful well-behaved dog. Catherine was able to keep Boots with her when she lived at Courtyard Estates until it was too difficult to care for him on her own. Danny took Boots into his home to love and care for him in Catherine’s stead.

Catherine loved beautiful clothes, jewelry, and perfume. She also loved to sing and was in many different choirs over the years. She has a beautiful singing voice. Of course, we cannot forget Catherine’s need for speed! She lived in many places over the years, but settled mostly in Madison & Clarke County. Her last house was in Osceola, Iowa. She made it a home with all of her beautiful flowers. Her final place of residence was Traditions Memory Care where the staff loved her. She was so proud of her grandkids and she supported them in any activities they were in.

She had many jobs over the years selling Avon & Mary Kay, waitressing, Sears Credit Card, etc. The job she was best at was being the activities director for Long Term Care in the Clarke County Hospital.

Catherine is preceded in death by her parents Robert and Mary Phillips and her niece Julie Phillips. She is survived by her 3 children Debbie Frey of Des Moines, Becky (Todd) Sexton Collins, and Danny Keys of Ft Wayne, Indiana, 8 grandchildren, Sherrie Gilbert, Cheryl (Adam) Lilland, Ashley Gilbert, Reymond Music, Chelsea (Josh) Claude, Ryan Kooiker, Courtney (Garrett) Husske, and Bekka Keys, 4 great-grandchildren Logan Lilland, Devon Lilland, Zander Wyman, and Charlotte Claude, her sister Elizabeth Woods, brother Denny Pillips, and many other family and friends.

She will be truly missed by many. We are not sure how the staff at Traditions will fill the void without their sassy ornery resident Miss Cathy.

A celebration of life will be held on May 10, 2024 at Collins Community Center, 219 Main Street, Collins, IA 50055. The visitation will be held from 2:00PM - 4:00PM, May 10, 2024. The service will begin at 4:00PM. The family will gather for stories, refreshments, and eating following the service.

At the request of the family, please come to the service in the brightest attire you own. No funeral clothing please. Cathy was a vibrant, bright color kind of lady. Please join the family in celebrating her beautiful life.

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Thomas D. Stanley - April 12, 1948 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Stanley, 76, died on April 19, 2024, at the VA Hospital in Des Moines due to complications of a stroke suffered in March.

He is survived by his daughters, Annette (Mark) Taylor of West Des Moines and Sarah Stanley of Kansas City, MO; his son, James (Jeni) Stanley of Waldorf, MD; his beloved granddaughters, Madi, Willa and Clara Stanley and Natalie and Caroline Taylor; his brother, James (Cathy) Stanley of Shawnee, KS; his sisters, Diane (Marc Oetker) Stanley of Des Moines, and Linda (Dave) Vorrath of Lake Worth, FL; his nieces, nephews, cousins and friends.

Tom was born on April 12th, 1948, in Des Moines and was raised in Des Moines, and is the son of Darwin and Madeline (Flahive) Stanley. He was a proud member of the East High Class of 1966.

After high school, he joined the Air Force and later the Iowa National Guard serving for a total of 14 years. After leaving the service, Tom worked several jobs, most recently working at O'Reilly Auto Parts in their warehouse. He was a hard worker and loved watching sports, particularly the Iowa Wild and the Iowa Hawkeyes. He enjoyed playing bingo and bowling. He was fun-loving and quick with a joke or a story, some of which were actually true.

Visiting hours are MONDAY April 29th from 4-6 p.m. at the Iles-Grandview Park Funeral Home. Burial will be at the Iowa Veterans Cemetery. ILES-GRANDVIEW PARK CHAPEL

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Robert E. Slater - December 28, 1931 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Robert “Bob” E. Slater, 92, died on Thursday, April 18, 2024 at Trinity Center at Luther Park following surgery for a fractured hip. Funeral services will be held 11 a.m. on Friday, April 26th at St. Joseph’s Catholic Church. Burial will follow at Laurel Hill Cemetery.

Bob was born December 28, 1931 to Ervin and Marian (McCulloch) Slater in Grinnell, Iowa. His family moved to Des Moines when he was a young adolescent. He joined the Naval Reserves just prior to his 18th birthday and later was drafted into the Army. Bob married Clarice Mattes in September of 1954 before reporting to active duty in November. While in the army, he also earned his GED. Bob and Clarice bought a house on the east side of Des Moines where they lived and raised their family.

Bob was an active member of St. Joseph Catholic Church, participating in the Knights of Columbus and coaching girls’ softball and track. He was also a member of the Athletic Committee and Parish Council. Bob deeply loved his family and, as a Grandpa, was known as “Grandpa Marshmallow”. He was dubbed the “Baby Whisperer” as he was always able to calm a fussy infant (whether related to him or not!).

Survivors include his children: Renee Bleuer of Rock Island, IL, Mike (Kathy) Slater of Des Moines, Karen (Darwin) Hook of Des Moines, Linda (Bill) Trimble of De Soto, KS, Dennis Slater of Bloomingdale, IL; 19 grandchildren; 25 great grandchildren; 1 great great granddaughter; sister, Frances McClaskey of Abingdon, VA. Bob was preceded in death by his parents; wife, Clarice; siblings: Louise Wagner, Lucille Rudd, Joe Slater and David Slater; grandsons: Brice Alan Deaton, Michael Robert Trimble.

The family will receive friends at Iles Grandview Park Funeral Home on Thursday, April 25th from 5:00 to 7:00 pm with a recitation of the Rosary following at 7:00.

Memorial contributions may be made to St. Joseph’s Catholic Church Capital Campaign.

A Live Stream of the service and online condolences are available on Bob’s obituary page at www.IlesCares.com.

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Emily Ramirez - September 25, 2023 - April 13, 2024

Departed: 04/13/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Emily Ramirez 09/25/2023- 04/13/2024

Una hermosa niña quien llenaba de felicidad a toda la gente rodeaba le encantaba comer y jugar con sus hermanas.

Falleció en el hospital Blanks Children’s Hospital in Des Moines, Iowa.

hija de Javier Ramírez y Daniela Soto, sus hermanas Alanis Andrade, Leamsi Sánchez; sus abuela Delia Hernández, Sus tíos quienes la acompañaron José Miguel, Juan Carlos, Alma Ramírez y Raúl Ávalos y Dulce Ramírez.

El velorio será de 11 a. m. a 2 p. m., el jueves 18 de abril de 2024 en Iles Grandview Park Chapel, 3211 Hubbell Avenue, Des Moines, Iowa. El servicio seguirá a las 2 p.m.

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Sharon Lynn Millard - January 17, 1946 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Sharon Lynn Millard, 78, passed away peacefully while surrounded by her family at home on April 9, 2024. Her funeral will be at 11 a.m., Wednesday, April 17 at Iles Grandview Park Chapel with interment at Avon Cemetery, followed by a luncheon at East Gate Lodge. Her family will greet friends beginning at 10 a.m.

Sharon was born January 17, 1946 in Des Moines to Henry C. and Etta Jane (Beck) Hesser. She worked many years for American Republic Insurance, and once she retired she spent several years as a food demonstrator at Sam’s Club.

A social butterfly, Sharon was known as “Mama Sharon” to everyone. She enjoyed family gatherings, and especially hosting Thanksgiving meals. Sharon liked shopping for clothes and shoes, as well as playing computer games and scrolling Facebook. She loved trying new restaurants and also sampling Bloody Mary’s. In 2023, Sharon was baptized and was happy attending Bethany Full Gospel Church.

Sharon was preceded in death by her parents; husband Rick; sister Sonia Frier; stepdaughter Stacy Millard. Sharon is lovingly remembered by her children, Craig (Missy) Vinzant, Danny (Lisa) Archer, Krissie Archer-Davis, Sam (Amber) Archer and siblings: Paulette (Mike) Young, Dena (Vic) Kocian, Charles “Chick” (Connie) Hesser, Jack (June) Quick, LuAnn (Paul) McCullough, and Judy (Ken) Thompson. She also leaves behind 28 grandchildren, 34 great grandchildren, step children, Rickie and Todd Millard, as well as many more she considered family and knew her as “Mama Sharon.”

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John C. Walker - September 03, 1964 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: John Charles Walker of Des Moines, IA, passed away in his home surrounded by his family on April 6, 2024 at the age of 59. He was a devoted husband, loving father, dedicated educator, and proud veteran. His life, marked by passion and commitment, touched the hearts of all who knew him.

John was born on September 3, 1964 in Waterloo, Iowa. John’s early life was spent in Waterloo, Iowa where he grew up and graduated from Waterloo West High School in 1983. Eager to serve his country, he joined the United States Air Force in 1985 embarking on a distinguished military career where he served for over 20 years. His service instilled in him the values of excellence, integrity, and service before self which remained hallmarks of his life. Following his honorable discharge from the Air Force, John pursued his passion for education. He earned a Bachelor’s degree in Education from the University of Northern Iowa and later obtained a Master’s Degree in Administration from Illinois State University. John passionately served the rest of his career working for the Department of Defense as an Education Service Specialist located out of Camp Dodge, IA. He poured his heart into teaching, coaching, mentoring, administration and leadership, leaving a mark on the lives of countless students and colleagues.

John Walker is best known for loving his family and friends. On June 12, 1993, he married the love of his life, Nadine Abernathey Walker. For over 30 years they shared an unwavering love that built an unbreakable foundation for their family. Together, they raised four children whom he cherished beyond measure. John’s devotion to his family was evident in every aspect of his life, from the countless memories created during family vacations to his active involvement in church events and his support for his children’s endeavors.

As a proud Eagle Scout, John found happiness in the outdoors, adventure, trying new things, and volunteer work in his community. He would never turn down a chance to spend time with the ones he loved, attend a concert or sporting event, or play with his best pup friend, Winston. He loved sharing stories of his adventures with people.

Above all, John had an infectious outlook on life and never missed an opportunity to live it. He will be remembered as ambitious, hard working, loyal, and a light to all. A light as bright as John’s did not deserve to go out the way it did, but he built a legacy that will go on forever.

John is survived by his beloved wife, Nadine Walker; his children, Kylie (Garrett) Fjeld of Ephreta, PA, Kaitlyn (Jake) Nelson, Nicholas Walker, Kara Walker, all of Des Moines, IA; his siblings, Kim (Mike) Wendel of Charles City, IA and Randall (Tracy) Walker of McCormick, SC; best friend Todd Meier of Des Moines, IA; as well as numerous nieces, nephews, and cherished friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Darwin & Marianne Cavet Walker.

A visitation will take place on Sunday, April 14, 2024 from 3:00-6:00 pm at Hope Lutheran Church- 3857 E. 42nd St, Des Moines, IA. A Celebration of Life will be held Monday, April 15, 2024 at 10:00 am at the church followed by a luncheon. Burial with military honors will follow at the Veterans Memorial Cemetery at 2:00 pm. A livestream will be available through Iles Funeral Home link.

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Judy Jane Gillman - March 18, 1938 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Judith Jane Gillman, 86, of Des Moines, Iowa passed away at Valley View Village surrounded by those who loved her. Funeral Services will be held at Iles Grandview Park Chapel on Thursday April 11, 2024 beginning at 11 am. A visitation will be on Wednesday April 10 from 5-7 pm. Interment will be at Berwick Cemetery.

Judy Jane Carr was born to James and Alice (Heskett) Carr on March 18, 1938 in Des Moines, Iowa. She met and later married her high school sweetheart from Woodside High School, Gilbert Leroy Gillman on July 3, 1953. Together they raised their family in Des Moines.

Judy loved being outdoors and camping especially at Twin Anchors in Colo, Iowa. Judy was active in her church especially as a choir singer. Most of all, Judy loved spending time with her family.

Judy is survived by her husband of 70 and half years Gilbert Gillman; children, Ed (Elizabeth), Jim (Sheri), and Gaylon (Dee) Gillman; brother, Tom (Nina) Carr; grandchildren, Kesli, Michael, Jamie, Aubrey, Josh, Kristin, Dayna, Emily, Rachel, Delena, and Shawna; and great grandchildren, Dallas, Aydrien, Margo, Jalen, Jayden, Landyn, Ariana, Chevy, Abigail, Katie, Sadler, and Canton; 3 great-great grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews.

She is preceded in death by parents, and sisters Ann and Nancy.

Memorial contributions may be directed to the Berwick Congregational Church or St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital.

Online Condolences are welcome at www.IlesCares.com.

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Paul J. Manor - February 11, 1966 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Paul J. Manor, 58, died Thursday, April 4, 2024 at MercyOne Medical Center. Funeral services will be held 11 am Saturday, April 13th at Iles Grandview Park Funeral Home where the family will receive friends one hour prior to the service. Burial will follow at Resthaven Cemetery.

Paul was born February 11, 1966 in Des Moines to Wilbur and Alice Manor. After graduating from Waukee High School Paul worked for Hy-Vee for over 35 years. Paul was very active in Sons of the Amvets and served as State Commander for four years. He was avid NASCAR fan, loved the Kansas City Chiefs, enjoyed fishing and loved spending time with his grandchildren and his dog, Zeke.

Survivors include his wife of 21 years, Janelle; daughter, Brittany Manor; grandchildren: Mila, Emma, Addy, Aubrey and Michael, Jr.; sister, Dee (Bill) Gaspar; Nephews: Noah (Kendra) Gaspar and Jacob Gaspar. Paul was preceded in death by his parents. Online condolences are welcome at www.IlesCares.com

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Denise L. Perry - February 28, 1945 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Denise Perry passed away April 5, 2024 at home with her family by her side. Denise asked for no funeral services or viewing. Denise has asked to be cremated and we will have a celebration of life May 11, 2024 at Mason-Lindsay Post 385 The American Legion on E42nd and Easton from 1pm - 5pm.

Born February 28, 1945 in Oskaloosa, Iowa to Jerald & Ionia Smith. She lived most of her life in Des Moines, IA. Retired lunch associate for the Des Moines Public Schools.

She was married to her husband Daniel Perry Sr for 46 years before he passed. Survivors are her 3 children Dana (John) Chaplin of Des Moines, Daniel Jr (Shelley) Perry of Slater, and DeDee (Steve) Warner of Carlilse. She has 11 grandchildren, 7 great grandchildren, and 1 great great grandchild. Many nieces and nephews and great nieces and nephews.

She enjoyed being outdoors camping and boating. She loved going to her kids and grandkids’ sporting events. She loved being around family and friends from watching Iowa Hawkeyes play, playing cards, and just time spent with family and friends.

She precedes in death her husband Daniel Perry Sr and grandchild Daniel Perry III.

Arrangements by Iles Grandview Park Chapel.

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Harry E. Gray - June 02, 1959 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Harry Elmer Gray, age 64, passed away surrounded by his loved ones on April 2, 2024. His family will host a Celebration of Life Gathering on Saturday, April 6th, 2024, from 4:00pm - 6:00pm at Iles Funeral home at Grandview Park, 3211 Hubbell Ave, Des Moines, IA 50317. Harry was born June 2, 1959, in Des Moines, Iowa, To the parents of Mary and Harry Gray Jr. Harry had a long career working in construction and building fences. Following his retirement, he spent time with his family and loved ones. Harry was a very loving person and made friends easily. He had an unforgettable personality that made everyone laugh. He loved tinkering in his garage with all his toys, and spending time in his garden or watching YouTube. Harry enjoyed spending time outdoors soaking up the sun with a beer in his hand. Harry is lovingly remembered by his fiancée, brothers, sisters, children, and grandchildren.

Memorial contributions may be directed to Kimberly Elsworth.

Harry will be deeply missed.

Arrangements by Iles Grandview Park Chapel.

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Jacob "Jay" A. Southward - July 16, 1949 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Jacob “Jay” A. Southward, 74, passed away with family by his side on April 1, 2024, in Des Moines. He was born July 16, 1949, in Des Moines to Anzelo C. and Wynona “Toni” (Smith) Southward.

Jay graduated from Des Moines Technical High School in 1967. He joined the United States Navy September 28, 1967, and discharged July 6, 1971. Jay was on the ship, USS Ticonderoga and after the service he did the Navel Reserves period for four years. He was a member of the American Legion Post 689 of Runnells. He worked and retired as a truck driver for Van Wyk of Sheldon, Iowa. Jay enjoyed fishing, working on his acreage, horses, and most of all his grandchildren and great grandchildren. He had a huge heart and would do anything for anybody, a proud Navy man, a huge Hawkeye Fan, watching NASCAR, enjoyed his country music and enjoyed most anything.

Jay is survived by his loving wife, Kathy; son, Bob (Nicole) Southward; daughter, Katie Snow; grandchildren, Cameron, Laura, Molly, Jakob, Connor, Lucy, Ethan, Natalie; great-grandchildren, Ellie and Wesley; brother, Gene (Carla) Barth; his best friend, David Kidd; and several nieces and nephews. He is preceded in death by his parents; sister, Dianna Stauffer; brother, Jerry Southward; grandson, Devin Southward.

Visitation will be 1-2 PM, Friday, April 5, 2024, at Iles Grandview Park Chapel. Service will follow at 2 PM with burial at Rising Sun Cemetery in Pleasant Hill where the United States Navy will provide the military funeral honors, American Legion Post 562 will provide the rifle volley and the Iowa Patriot Guard Riders will be present.

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Tina Bridges - August 27, 1966 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Tina Bridges, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and veteran, passed away on April 1, 2024, in Des Moines, Iowa, at the age of 57. Born on August 27, 1966, in Des Moines to John and Judy Shanks, Tina lived a life filled with love, service, and creativity.

On September 28, 2013, Tina married the love of her life, Ron Bridges, with whom she shared many cherished memories and adventures. Together, they formed a partnership built on love, mutual respect, and unwavering support.

In her leisure time, Tina found joy in simple pleasures, indulging her passion for crocheting, crafting, and immersing herself in the pages of a good book. Her creative spirit shone brightly in the beautiful pieces she crafted and the worlds she explored through literature.

Above all else, Tina's greatest happiness came from spending time with her daughters, grandchildren, and sister. Whether it was sharing stories, laughing together, or simply enjoying each other's company, Tina cherished every moment spent with her family.

Tina will be remembered for her kind heart, infectious laugh, and her unwavering love for those closest to her. Her legacy of love, courage, and compassion will live on in the hearts of all who were fortunate enough to know her.

Tina is survived by her loving husband, Ron Bridges; her daughters, Jessica Vaughn and Jami (Chad) Olson; grandchildren, Bevin Vaughn, Jude Olson and Luna Olson; mother, Judy Shanks; sister, Tammy Shanks; brother, Teddy Shanks and a host of other family and friends who will miss her dearly. She now rests in peace, forever remembered and forever loved.

She was preceded in death by her father and siblings, Timothy Shanks and Tracy Shanks.

A Memorial Gathering will be held Friday, April 12, 2024, from 1:00 to 3:00 pm, at Iles Grandview Park Chapel, 3211 Hubbell Avenue, Des Moines, Iowa 50317. ILES GRANDVIEW PARK CHAPEL

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Carroll Brewer - June 30, 1928 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Carroll Laverne Brewer, son of James and Alice (Bowman) Brewer was born on June 30, 1928, in Grimes IA. Carroll passed away peacefully at his home on Tuesday, March 26, 2024.

Carroll served in the Marine Corps from 1948 to 1952 as a Corporal in the Korean War. In 1950 he served at the Chosin Reservoir in North Korea, Easy Company, 2nd Battalion 1st Marine Division. Mr. Brewer was proud to have served his country.

Carroll, a dedicated worker with a strong work ethic, retired from American Freight Company in 1988. Carroll reminisced often about his fondness for his profession, sharing stories with family and friends of days past.

In a quaint log cabin church in Branson, Missouri, Carroll and Beverly Gooden exchanged vows on June 30, 1992. Carroll cleverly chose his birth date for their wedding day as it was a way never to forget their anniversary. Together, they explored the Lake of the Ozarks, creating cherished memories.

Carroll's passions were diverse. He often strummed melodies, embracing the tunes of country music. Artists like Vince Gill, George Strait, the Eagles, and George Jones were among some of his favorites. Many summers he enjoyed time at Saylorville Lake on the family's first boat named "Miss Nicole.” One of his greatest loves was reserved for the loyal companions who wagged their tails and dogs who shared his life's journey. And then there was football, the thrill of the game. Carroll's excitement could not be contained when Tom Brady took the field for the New England Patriots. He was a loyal fan.

Carroll's finest traits were kindness, humor, and generosity. He thoroughly loved spending time with his great-grandchildren. He beamed from one ear to the other when he had the chance to spend time with them. As the years passed and he witnessed his grandchildren and great-grandchildren grow older, he beamed with pride and joy. He will be missed by all.

We are grateful that he was able to watch his family prosper and that he witnessed both of his granddaughter's weddings, he was blessed beyond measure with six beautiful great grandchildren that he adored. He celebrated his 95th milestone birthday with family and friends in 2023.

Carroll's family includes his wife, Beverly, two daughters: Michele “Shelly” (Bill) Cheek and Teresa Brewer, granddaughters Nicole (Jake) Burkhart and Lauren (Clint) Pickering, great grandchildren, Luke, Madelyn, Zack, Ben, Mackenzie and Waylon, and many nieces, nephews, and extended family.

He was preceded in death by his parents James and Alice Brewer, previous wife Pearl Brewer, infant daughter Carol Renee, siblings, Ethel Clark, Bess Warden, Gladys Venerable, Dean Brewer, Jim Brewer, Kenneth Brewer, Marie Dalton, Jeraldine Brewer, and Winona Brewer.

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Veon Elizabeth Williams - January 14, 1949 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Veon Elizabeth Williams, 75 passed away on Monday, March 25, 2024, at Unity Point Lutheran Hospital in Des Moines. She was born January 14, 1949, in Des Moines.

She met and married George Weeks on April 2, 1965, and to that union three children were born. He passed away March 23, 2005. She later married Paul Gary Williams on April 6, 2007.

Veon worked at Corporate Image for several years. She loved to visit with her grandchildren and looked forward to a weekly visit from her adopted grandchildren, as she called them, Ezekiel and Evie. She enjoyed reaching out to her church family with birthday wishes and friendly hellos.

Veon is survived by her husband, Paul; sons, Bradley (Peggy) Weeks of Des Moines, Brian Weeks of Des Moines, daughter, Kimberly (Bill) Odom of Ankeny, step-daughter Sheila (Tony) Catron of Winterset; grandchildren, Amber (Zach) Zuber, Sasha Patrick, Heather (Zach) Hockett, Stanley (Lena) Weeks, Joshua Catron and Zach Catron; brothers Harold (Ruth) Barnes, Dave (Kim) Barnes and 11 great grandchildren. She is preceded in death by her parents; first husband, George Weeks; several brothers and a sister.

Visitation will be 5 - 7 PM Friday, March 29,2024, at Iles Grandview Park Chapel 3211 Hubbell Avenue. Funeral service will be at 11 AM Saturday at the funeral home. Burial will immediately follow at Berwick Cemetery.

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Robert Edler - October 12, 1950 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Robert Edler, 73, passed away at home on March 25, 2024. A visitation for family and friends will be held from 5-8pm, Thursday, March 28, 2024 at Iles Grandview Park Chapel, 3211 Hubbell Avenue, Des Moines, IA. Funeral services will be held at 10:30 a.m., Friday at the Chapel. Interment will be held at the Iowa Veterans Cemetery on Monday, April 1, 2024 at 11am.

Robert was born on October 12, 1950 in Marshalltown, Iowa to Howard and Harriet (Mulcahy) Edler. He grew up in rural Marshalltown and was a graduate of Marshalltown High School. Following high school, he was drafted into the US Army, and served during the Vietnam War. On June 1, 1974, he was united in marriage to Nancy Johnson in LaMoille, Iowa. They made their home in Des Moines, where they raised their two children, Angela and Jeffrey. In 2015, Robert and Nancy moved to Altoona, Iowa to be closer to their children and grandchildren.

Robert worked as machinist at EMCO Industries and later Townsend Plastics. His last employment was with Menards in Des Moines.

Robert was a member of the Well Covenant Church in Des Moines and lifetime member of the American Legion. He enjoyed wood working and baking.

Robert is survived by his wife, Nancy; daughter, Angela (Brian) Johnson and their children, Tricia (Troy) Sanford, Jordan, Amber (Sean Bish) and Conner Johnson; son, Jeffrey (Danielle) Edler and their children, Ellery, Elijah and Everett; a great grandchild, Brayden Sanford; siblings, Linda (Tom) Wall, John (Doris) Edler, David (Sandy) Edler and Jerry (Ellen) Edler as well as numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and their families. He was preceded in death by his parents.

Memorial contributions may be directed to the Well Covenant Church, 2625 Hubbell Avenue, Des Moines, IA 50317. The funeral service will be recorded and available after the service, on Robert’s obituary page at www.IlesCares.com, where you may also leave online condolences.

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Robert Edler - October 12, 1950 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Robert Edler, 73, passed away at home on March 25, 2024. A visitation for family and friends will be held from 5-8pm, Thursday, March 28, 2024 at Iles Grandview Park Chapel, 3211 Hubbell Avenue, Des Moines, IA. Funeral services will be held at 10:30 a.m., Friday at the Chapel. Interment will be held at the Iowa Veterans Cemetery on Monday, April 1, 2024 at 11am.

Robert was born on October 12, 1950 in Marshalltown, Iowa to Howard and Harriet (Mulcahy) Edler. He grew up in rural Marshalltown and was a graduate of Marshalltown High School. Following high school, he was drafted into the US Army, and served during the Vietnam War. On June 1, 1974, he was united in marriage to Nancy Johnson in LaMoille, Iowa. They made their home in Des Moines, where they raised their two children, Angela and Jeffrey. In 2015, Robert and Nancy moved to Altoona, Iowa to be closer to their children and grandchildren.

Robert worked as machinist at EMCO Industries and later Townsend Plastics. His last employment was with Menards in Des Moines.

Robert was a member of the Well Covenant Church in Des Moines and lifetime member of the American Legion. He enjoyed wood working, baking and listening to vinyl records. He loved spending time with his grandkids and had endearing nicknames for all of them.

Robert is survived by his wife, Nancy; daughter, Angela (Brian) Johnson and their children, Tricia (Troy) Sanford, Jordan, Amber (Sean Bish) and Conner Johnson; son, Jeffrey (Danielle) Edler and their children, Ellery, Elijah and Everett; a great grandchild, Brayden Sanford; siblings, Linda (Tom) Wall, John (Doris) Edler, David (Sandy) Edler and Jerry (Ellen) Edler as well as numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and their families. He was preceded in death by his parents.

Memorial contributions may be directed to the Well Covenant Church, 2625 Hubbell Avenue, Des Moines, IA 50317. The funeral service will be recorded and available after the service on Robert’s obituary page at www.IlesCares.com, where you may also leave online condolences.

Robert's family would like to send a huge THANK YOU to the Altoona Police and Fire Departments for their kindness and assistance over the last nine years. You are truly appreciated.

Arrangements by Iles Grandview Park Chapel.

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Ronald Eide - May 03, 1943 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Ron Eide died peacefully at home on March 25, 2024. Ron was born on May 3, 1943, to Thorval Eide and Elma Sheppard in Ankeny, Iowa. Ron was preceded in death by his wife, Mary Eide, his father, Thorval Eide, his mother, Elma Sheppard, his stepmother, Lorraine Eide, his sister, Nadine Eide, and his brother, Robert Eide. He is survived by his sons Patrick (Virginia) Nath, Chris (Tammy) Nath, Gene (Melissa) Eide, sister, Betty Eide, stepsister Deb Archbold, grandchildren Victoria, Vania, Vivianna, Emili, Tanner, Brooke, and 3 great-grandchildren.

Ron was a Navy Seal who served in the Vietnam War, and was a POW for 8 months. Ron worked at John Deere in Ankeny, Iowa for 30 years until his retirement. Ron enjoyed photography, eating at Cracker Barrel, traveling with his wife around central Iowa to small towns and outdoor locations, and watching crime shows on TV.

A celebration of Ron's life will be held at 12:30 PM on Thursday, April 4, 2024, at Westwood Baptist Church in West Des Moines. A 2 PM burial will follow at the Iowa Veterans Cemetery in Van Meter. The family would like to thank Mercy Hospice for caring for Ron during his illness. Memorial contributions may be directed to the family.

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Kristin Bowman - February 02, 2005 - March 16, 2024

Departed: 03/16/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Kristin Bowman, 19, left this world on March 16, 2024. A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, March 23, 2024, from 4-6 pm at Iles Grandview Park Chapel, 3211 Hubbell Avenue, Des Moines, IA. Per Kristin’s wishes, everyone is to wear what makes YOU happy and her favorite pizza and cake will be served.

Kristin was born on February 2, 2005, in Des Moines, Iowa to Travis and Stacy (Blome) Bowman. She graduated from North High School in Des Moines and worked for Torrid in Altoona.

She enjoyed animals, crafting and gaming online with her friends.

Kristin is survived by her parents, Travis and Stacy; brother, Zack Bowman; grandparents, Scott and Sue Bowman and Doug and Susan Blome; her aunt, Krisha Bowman, uncle, Brian Blome and cousins, Cassey, Kayla and Katelin; her boyfriend, Adrian Gonzales; and her two cats, Ernie and Tom as well as numerous other family and friends. She was preceded in death by her dog, Roscoe.

Memorial contributions may be directed to the Animal Rescue League of Iowa or the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention.

Online condolences are welcome at www.IlesCares.com.

Arrangements by Iles Grandview Park Chapel.

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Michael A. Plummer - June 19, 1944 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Michael “Mike” A. Plummer, 79, passed away peacefully surrounded by family on March 8, 2024, at Unity Point Iowa Methodist Medical Center, Des Moines. He was born June 19, 1944, in Des Moines, Iowa to Charles and Marjorie Plummer. He spent his formative years in Des Moines where he attended East High School.

Mike served in the United States Navy. He married the love of his life, Marilyn Stark, in 1966 and were blessed with two children, Troy Plummer and Julie (Plummer) Patterson.

Mike drove for Greyhound Bus Lines for 25 years and made many lifelong friends during his career. Mike was known for his hard work and dedication for helping others. Within the last few years of his Greyhound career, Mike found a passion for instructing new drivers. After retirement, Mike managed the bus depot in Ames, Iowa and delivered school lunches for the Des Moines Public School District.

Mike’s favorite activities include traveling to Anna Maria Island, Florida each spring with his family and spending time at the pool, on the beach and cheering on the Hawkeyes. He also spent hours at home manicuring his 2-acre lawn, which he found enjoyable and therapeutic. Mike and Marilyn treated their kids and grandkids to dinner nearly every Sunday where Mike was often standing at the grill to greet the family with a smile as they arrived. Over the years, Mike used his carpentry skills to build treehouses, swing-sets, a backyard baseball diamond and other projects for his family. Mike and his brothers even built the house he and Marilyn called home for 55 years.

More than anything, Mike was a devoted husband, father and grandfather. “Papa” especially loved spending time with his grandchildren, sharing stories, watching TV, and proudly showing his support from the sidelines of their ballgames and activities. He was always there to offer guidance and encouragement, and to shamelessly brag about their achievements.

Mike is survived by his loving wife of 57 years, Marilyn; son Troy (Amy) Plummer; daughter, Julie (Scott) Patterson; grandchildren Ty, Kaylee, Jack and Everly Plummer, Olivia (Benjamin) Juhl, Emily and Anna Patterson, and many nieces and nephews. He is preceded in death by his parents, 7 brothers and sisters and 2 half-siblings.

Visitation will be 5-7 PM Wednesday, March 13, 2024, at Iles Grandview Chapel. Funeral service will be 11 AM Thursday at the funeral home with burial following at Laurel Hill Cemetery, with the United States Navy providing the Military Funeral Honors along with the local VFW Post 738.

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Ronald Reed - February 06, 1957 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Ronald “Ronnie” Ray Reed passed away on March 8th, 2024, as his organs, bones, and joints could no longer keep up with his head and loving heart.

Ronnie was born in Des Moines, Iowa, to Harold and Mary Jane Reed on February 6th, 1957, and was welcomed into the world by his sister Elaine Reed. He was blessed with children Jade Micheal Reed (Candace) and Lacey Rae Reed. Later in life, Ronnie found more blessings with his son Matthew Wayne Reed (Amanda) and daughter Rebecca Sarah Toubes. Grandpa or Grandpa Tugs, as his grandkids called him, dearly loved watching and spending time with all his grandchildren, Lillian, James, Kaden, Quendel, Trae, Ryker, and Ryatt, whom he loved dearly.

Ronnie worked hard in his career as a brick and block layer, starting in his Dad’s business, Reed Masonry, and later working for M&M Masonry. Ronnie balanced his hard work with lots of “Fun loves” throughout his life. He enjoyed swimming and water skiing while camping with his family, then moved on to riding snowmobiles and motocross racing at the age of 15, where his fearless attitude and winning habit earned him a full-ride sponsorship from Garvis Honda Town and numerous top-placing trophies. He also had a passion for fishing and boating, activities he enjoyed from an early age with his Dad. Ronnie loved searching for rocks, arrowheads, and primitive stone tools, perhaps because they never disagreed with him or told him what to do!

A celebration of life will be held at the Ding Darling shelter house in Birdland Park, Des Moines, this Friday, March 29th, from 4-8 pm. Family and close friends are encouraged to join. Instead of flowers or gifts, please consider a donation to Ronnie’s After-life fund to help his family with his headstone. Donations can be mailed to Jade Reed at 3217 E. 26th St., Des Moines, IA 50317, or sent via Venmo @djjadereed.

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John Jack Hill - December 16, 1946 - March 06, 2024

Departed: 03/06/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: John “Jack” Robert Hill, age 77, of Pleasant Hill, IA passed away March 6th, 2024. Born December 16th, 1946 in Des Moines, IA.

Jack is survived by his 2 children Ryan Hill and Megan Hill; His Brother Richard “Dick” (Linda) Hill, Sister Beverly Carper and 4 Grandchildren Tarryn Hill, Quentin Hill, Sienna Hill, and Logan Rosiere.

Jack is preceded in death by his Father Robert Hill and Mother Louise Hill Blanchard, his Brother Donald Hill, his grandson Jackson Fersch and his wife of 50 years - Patty Hill.

Jack graduated from Des Moines East High School in 1965 and was drafted into the United States Marine Corp. Jack served honorably during a year-long tour in Vietnam. He returned to Des Moines and embarked on a long and distinguished career in sales. Jack retired and spent time chasing grandkids at any sporting event he could catch. Jack and Patty loved to travel with their family to the four corners of the United States in search of new and exciting adventures. They spent many winters in Orange Beach, Alabama. It was almost like a second home. Jack was known by all for his unyielding friendship to many, his mischievous smile and laughter coupled with his propensity to end up in the most comical and sometimes precarious situations. If you were friends with Jack - you knew it - and your life was brighter because of it.

Jack was a lifelong member of the Elks 98 Club and volunteered with the East High Alumni Association.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend the Funeral Mass at Iles Grandview Park Funeral Home, 3211 Hubbell Ave, Des Moines, IA 50317 Tuesday March 19th visitation at 11:00 with service starting at noon. A Get together after will be held at the Elk’s 98 Club in Pleasant hill.

The family would like to thank the wonderful nursing staff at the VA Hospital in Des Moines. Jack was a frequent flyer and everyone was amazing and treated him with the best care.

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Frank Thompson - March 09, 1937 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Frank Hundley “Huck” Thompson, age 86, passed away while surrounded by his family on March 4, 2024. His family will host a Celebration of Life Gathering on Saturday, May 4th, 2024 from 12:00pm - 3:00pm at Toad Valley Golf Course, 237 NE 80th St., Pleasant Hill, IA 50327.

Huck was born March 9, 1937 in Cincinnati, Ohio to Hundley Newton and Marie Magdalena (Gebing) Thompson. On April 1, 1969 he was united in marriage with Cheryle Ann (Crandall) in Lincoln, Nebraska. Huck had a long career at the Des Moines Register. Following his retirement, he also spent time working at The Teamsters Local 90, as a gopher at Grandview Golf Course and retiring for a second time as a driver from Toyota of Des Moines.

Huck was charismatic and made friends easily. He had a variety of interests: completing marathons and triathlons, golfing, speed skating, boating & water skiing, and diving. He was a well known, long time Ragbrai rider with Team Silver Streak. Huck was one of the only remaining OG riders to have ridden every mile of every day of every Ragbrai up until his last ride some 30 years later. He enjoyed trips to the Ozarks each summer with his family. Spending those days floating on his raft and soaking up the sun with a beer in his hand.

Huck was preceded in death by his parents; his wife Cheryle; son Tommy Joe “T.J.” Thompson; and two brothers Larry and Fred Thompson.

Huck is lovingly remembered by his children: Shawnda (Mike) Poortinga, Kimberly (Shawn) Carmichael and Randy Thompson; granddaughters: Kaylan, Aubrey, Kamryn, Olivia, Emma, Caroline, Abigail and Macy; great grandchildren, Lexi, Lawrence and Henry; brother Bill Thompson; and sisters Marie Ellen McLaughlin and Rose Hosale.

Memorial contributions are suggested to EveryStep Kavanagh House.

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Jovita Esquivel-Cruz - September 09, 1974 - March 02, 2024

Departed: 03/02/2024 (Des Moines)

Obituary Preview: Los servicios funerarios serán las 7:00 p. m. del miércoles 6 de marzo de 2024 en Iles Grandview Park Chapel, 3211 Hubbell Avenue, Des Moines, Iowa 50317. La familia saludará a los amigos de 6:00 p. m. a 7:00 p. m. el miércoles por la noche antes del servicio.

El sepulcro junto a la tumba será a las 2:00 p. m. del jueves 7 de marzo de 2024 en el cementerio Laurel Hill, 3601 E. Court Avenue, Des Moines, Iowa 50317. No habrá procesión, solo nos reuniremos en el cementerio.

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A Comforting Atmosphere

From the moment you step into Iles Grandview Park Chapel, you'll be enveloped in a sense of warmth and comfort. The chapel's elegant décor and serene ambiance provide a peaceful setting for families to gather, share stories, and celebrate the life of their loved one. The spacious facilities can accommodate intimate gatherings or large crowds, making it an ideal venue for any type of service.

Personalized Funeral Services

No two individuals are alike, and Iles Grandview Park Chapel believes that their funerals shouldn't be either. That's why they offer a range of personalized services designed to reflect the unique personality, interests, and achievements of the deceased. From traditional religious ceremonies to contemporary celebrations of life, their experienced team will work closely with you to create a customized service that honors your loved one's memory.

Pre-Planning Options

While it may seem difficult to think about, pre-planning your funeral can be a wise decision. By making arrangements in advance, you can spare your loved ones from having to make difficult decisions during an already emotional time. Iles Grandview Park Chapel offers pre-planning options that allow you to specify your preferences, ensuring that your final wishes are respected and your family is protected from unnecessary stress.

Cremation Services

Iles Grandview Park Chapel understands that cremation is becoming an increasingly popular choice for many families. That's why they offer a range of cremation services, including direct cremation, cremation with memorial service, and full-service cremation with visitation. Their experienced staff will guide you through the process, answering any questions you may have and ensuring that your loved one is treated with dignity and respect.

Grief Support and Resources

Losing a loved one is never easy, and the grieving process can be overwhelming. Iles Grandview Park Chapel recognizes the importance of supporting families beyond the funeral service itself. They offer access to grief counseling, support groups, and online resources to help you navigate the healing process. Their compassionate staff is always available to lend a listening ear or offer guidance when you need it most.

Community Involvement

Iles Grandview Park Chapel is deeply committed to the Des Moines community. They participate in local events, sponsor charitable organizations, and partner with other businesses to make a positive impact on the lives of those around them. By choosing Iles Grandview Park Chapel, you're not only ensuring that your loved one receives the best possible care – you're also supporting a business that truly cares about its community.

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If you're looking for more information about Iles Grandview Park Chapel or would like to schedule a consultation with one of their experienced funeral directors, please don't hesitate to reach out. You can contact them by phone at [phone number], email at [email address], or visit their website at [website URL]. Their dedicated staff is always available to answer your questions and provide guidance during this difficult time.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's often used to share information about the deceased with friends, family, and the community.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and remember the deceased, while also providing essential information to those who need it. They can help notify people of a loved one's passing, share details about funeral services or memorial events, and offer a sense of closure.

What information is typically included in an obituary?

A standard obituary usually includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, and surviving family members. It may also mention hobbies, achievements, or other notable aspects of their life.

Who writes an obituary?

In most cases, the obituary is written by the family of the deceased or a close friend. Funeral homes or mortuaries may also assist with writing and publishing the obituary.

How long does it take to write an obituary?

The time it takes to write an obituary can vary depending on the complexity and detail desired. On average, it may take anywhere from 30 minutes to several hours to craft a well-written and informative obituary.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many newspapers and online obituary platforms allow you to include one or more photos of the deceased. This can help make the obituary more personal and meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Typically, you'll need to contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and any specific requirements they may have. Some newspapers may accept online submissions, while others may require email or phone submissions.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only basic information like name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly common for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your story is told in your own words.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the newspaper or online platform you choose. Some may offer free listings, while others may charge by the word or line.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's difficult or impossible to make changes to an obituary once it's been published in print. However, online obituaries may be more easily edited or updated.

How long are obituaries kept online?

The length of time an online obituary remains available varies depending on the website or platform. Some may keep them archived indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including meaningful quotes, poems, or lyrics can add depth and personality to an obituary.

What if I want to keep the funeral private?

If you prefer to keep the funeral or memorial service private, you can simply omit that information from the obituary or indicate that it will be a private ceremony.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

Yes, many families choose to suggest charitable donations in lieu of flowers as a way to honor their loved one's memory and support a good cause.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers or websites that specialize in storing historical obituaries. Local libraries or genealogical societies may also have resources to help you find old obituaries.

Can I republish an old obituary online?

In most cases, yes, you can republish an old obituary online as long as you have permission from the original publisher or copyright holder.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary due to emotional distress, consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for assistance. You can also take breaks and come back to it when you feel more composed.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate someone's life and personality. Just be sure to use discretion and consider the audience.

How do I know what information to include in an obituary?

A good starting point is to think about what made the person unique and what they would want others to know about them. You can also ask friends and family members for input and suggestions.

What if I need help writing an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider consulting with a funeral home or mortuary for guidance. They often have experience crafting these types of notices.

Can I include links or URLs in an online obituary?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to include links to memorial websites, social media profiles, or other relevant resources.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?