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Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel Inc, located at 160 Central Avenue, Silver Creek, NY, 14136, has been a pillar of the community for many years, providing compassionate and professional funeral services to families in their time of need. The funeral home is dedicated to helping families celebrate the lives of their loved ones with dignity and respect.

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Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel Inc has a rich history that dates back many years. The funeral home was founded on the principles of providing exceptional service, compassion, and care to families during one of the most difficult times of their lives. Over the years, the funeral home has remained committed to these principles, earning a reputation as one of the most trusted and respected funeral homes in the area.

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MaryGrace Spencer - May 23, 1938 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: MaryGrace Spencer May 23, 1938 – April 24, 2024

MaryGrace Spencer, 85, of Fredonia, NY passed away on Wednesday, April 24, 2024 at Brooks Memorial Hospital in Dunkirk, NY. She was born in Silver Creek, NY on May 23, 1938, the daughter of the late Loretto and Mary (Desko) DePasquale. Beloved mother of John Spencer Jr., Kimberley (Ray) Prizel and Lance Spencer; loving grandmother “Sweetie” of Erica (Michael) Trysnicky, Cody Prizel, Damian and Ethan Spencer; cherished great-grandmother “Gigi” of Hattie and Henry Trysnicky; dear sister of Sal (Sony) DePasquale.

In addition to her parents, MaryGrace was preceded in death by four brothers and three sisters. MaryGrace enjoyed spending time with her loving family, going for rides for tea and pie. She especially looked forward to her nightly treat of reading to her great-granddaughter Hattie. Every time she was communicating with family and friends she would end the conversation with “Love You Big”

As per MaryGrace’s wishes services were private. Interment was in the Mt. Carmel Cemetery, Silver Creek.

Arrangements were entrusted to the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek.

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Steven Larosa - March 24, 1965 - April 13, 2024

Departed: 04/13/2024 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Steven Larosa March 24, 1965-April 13, 2024

Steven Larosa, 59, of Silver Creek, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, April 13, 2024 at his residence. He was born in Buffalo, NY on March 24, 1965 the son of the late Jerry and LaNett (nee Nephew) Larosa

Steven is survived by many family members and friends.

He was preceded in death by a son, Joshua Waterman.

Steven was a proud member of the Seneca Nation of Indians and he belonged to the Turtle Clan. In his younger years he played football for the Seneca Sachems. His team won the inaugural Super Bowl. He worked as a floor associate for the Seneca Bingo Hall in Irving, NY.

He loved sports and was a diehard Buffalo Bills and Buffalo Bandits fan.

Friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY on Friday, April 19, 2024 from 4-7 PM., where a funeral service will be held on Saturday, April 20, 2024 at 10 AM. Interment will be made in the Seneca Nation Cemetery.

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Cathy Stull - October 31, 1953 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Cathy Stull October 31, 1953- April 4, 2024 Cathy Stull , 70, of Westfield, NY formerly of Dunkirk, NY passed away on Thursday, April 4, 2024 at

Absolut Care of Westfield, NY. She was born on October 31, 1953 in Silver Creek, NY the daughter of the late James and Marian (nee

Samuelson) Stull. Cathy is survived by two brothers, William “Bill” Stull of Silver Creek, NY and Terry (Dina) Stull of

Cleveland, OH; close friends Anna Houser and Judy Calarco. ; also survived by many nieces and nephews. Relatives and friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY on

Thursday, April 18, 2024 from 11- 2PM, where a Memorial Service will immediately follow at 2 PM.

Burial will be made in the Evergreen Lawn Cemetery.

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Dr. John R. Vona, Jr. - October 28, 1935 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Dr. John R. Vona Jr. October 28, 1935 – March 14, 2024 Dr. John R Vona Jr. , “Doc” 88, of Silver Creek, New York, formerly of North Tonawanda, New York, passed away peacefully on Thursday, March 14, 2024, surrounded by family members. He is predeceased by his wife, Joyce R. Vona, parents, John R Vona Sr and Ruth Vona, and his beloved son, John R Vona III. Dr. Vona lived life for his family, “La Familia.” Nothing gave him more joy than spending time with his children, grandchildren, and great-grandchild Tony. He completed school at the University of Buffalo’s Dental School in 1961 and immediately entered the US Army Reserve Dental division at Ft Riley, Kansas. After an honorable discharge, “Doc” set down roots in Silver Creek, NY. He had a thriving dental practice for over 45 years and continued to work well into his mid-80s for the Resource Center in Dunkirk, NY, where he retired after working 61 years as an area dentist. He prided himself on building relationships and patient care with a splash of humor. Besides his dental talents, he was also an athlete and musician. He played on UB’s basketball and baseball teams, for which he was recently inducted into the Western New York Baseball Hall of Fame. A fifty-year member of Tri-County Country Club, “Doc” loved his golf, always looking forward to his annual outing with his Ganson Street boys and trips to Hershey, Pennsylvania. His musical prowess on his saxophone was remarkable, constantly filling the house with his smooth jazz sounds. For several years, he played with the New Horizon Band of WNY, performing in their seasonal concerts at Fredonia SUNY’s Mason

Hall. Dr. Vona is survived by his four children, sons Dr. David Vona (wife Judy), and Daniel Vona (Karin Scott) and two daughters, Linda Hart (husband Chris), Sandy Stewart (husband Randy); Granddaughters, Kimberly Tomasik (husband Zach), Haley Hart, Samantha Stewart, grandsons Brandon Hart and Matthew Vona, great grandchild Anthony (Tony) and sisters, Carol Robek and Janet Remzi. His family and friends will forever cherish his memory. Although his presence will

be deeply missed, he will live on in the hearts and minds of all who knew him. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, March 20, 2024 at Our Lady of Mt. Carmel, 165 Central Ave., Silver Creek, NY at 1 PM and a reception will immediately follow at the family’s residence, 12202 Ludeman Dr., Silver Creek, NY. A private family graveside service will be observed at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Kenmore, New York, where he will be laid to rest next to his son, John, and wife,

Joyce. The family kindly suggests memorial contributions in John’s memory be made to the Boy’s and Girls’

Club of the North Town, www.bgcnt.org.

Arrangements have been entrusted to the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY.

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Erva R. Garnsey - July 22, 1941 - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Erva R. Garnsey July 22, 1941-March 10, 2024

Erva R. Garnsey, 82, of Silver Creek, NY passed away Sunday morning March 10, 2024 at his residency with his loving family at his side.

He was born on July 22, 1941 in Lowville, NY the son of the late Bernard and Ala (Bailey) Garnsey.

Erva grew up in Lowville NY until marrying the love of his life and moving to Silver Creek NY. He graduated from Lowville Academy & Free School in 1959 and attended Buffalo University. He previously worked at Transit Country Club as a Sous Chef, Bethlehem Steel and Ralston Purina where he retired after more than 35 years of service. On February 9, 1963 Erva married Carol A Cross at the First Methodist Church in Silver Creek and they were wed for 56 years at the time of her passing in 2019. Erva spent many years remodeling his house, he enjoyed antiquing, yard sales, wintering in Florida and gardening.

Erva is survived by three daughters, Cynthia (Hassan) Abdelbaky of Monroe Township, NJ, Patricia (Kevin) Gilbert of Jamestown, NY and Kathleen Garnsey of Portland, NY; a grandson, Matthew Dow of Clermont FL; and a sister, Marion Garnsey of Park Ridge, NJ and companion, Joanne Abbott.

He was preceded in death by his parents and his wife.

Friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY on Thursday March 14, 2024 from 4-7pm where a funeral service will be held on Friday, March 15 at 11am. A private burial will be at the Evergreen Lawn Cemetery. He will be dearly missed by his family and friends.

The family suggests memorial contributions in Erva’s honor to the Silver Creek Emergency Squad, 162 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY 14136.

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Daniel M. Smith - December 21, 1983 - February 19, 2024

Departed: 02/19/2024 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Daniel M. Smith Age 40, of Silver Creek, NY passed away on Monday afternoon, February 19, 2024 at ECMC

in Buffalo, NY after complications from an organ transplant. He was born on December 21, 1983 in Socorro, NM the son of Marvin D. Smith and Cynthia A. (nee

Hicks) Davis. On September 20, 2008, he married the former Jennifer Hart in Prince George, MD. Dan is survived by his beloved wife of 15 years, Jennifer Smith , NY; his cherished daughter, Jalyn Smith; a sister, Wendy Matthews; his mother, Cindy (Sherry) Davis; his father, Marvin Smith; a step-sister, Debbie (Bruce) Brown; a step-brother, Marlin (Missy) Smith; his father-in-law& mother-in-law, Ronald & Melba Hart; sister-in-law, Stephanie Hart; many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins; also

survived by his best friends, Robert “Oppi” Kwaizer, Matt Wollburg and Wacey Brasmer-Tashnebully. He was preceded in death by his maternal grandparents, Herbert Hicks and Beva Metts; his paternal

grandmother, Thelma Smith and s sister-in-law Theresa Hart. Dan worked at Native Pride in Irving, NY as a diesel fuel attendant and later as an assistant manager for

Native Pride II also in Irving, NY. Dan was an avid video game player, loved WWE and AEW wrestling, he enjoyed attending shows when

they were in the area. Relatives and friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY on

Thursday, February 29, 2024 from 4-7 PM. Interment will be private in the Hart Cemetery.

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Jerome Reed - September 15, 1961 - February 08, 2024

Departed: 02/08/2024 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Jerome K. "Jerry" Reed, 62, of Jamestown, NY passed away on Thursday February 8th after a lengthy illness. Jerry was born in Silver Creek NY on September 15, 1961 the son of the late Harley and Josephine (DePasquale) Reed. He spent most of his years living in Silver Creek and Dunkirk before moving into a group home in Jamestown nearly 18 years ago. Jerry worked for the Resource Center in both Dunkirk and Jamestown for 25 years before retiring in 2015. He attended a Resource Center Dayhab in Jamestown in his later years. Jerry lived his life with joy and carried that joy into just about every room he entered. He loved attending dances. He loved superheroes (especially Iron Man). He loved Professional Wrestling and was even fortunate enough to meet and have his picture taken with his favorite wrestler of all time, Hulk Hogan. Most of all, Jerry loved meeting people. If you met Jerry, you were immediately his friend. Jerry's family would like to thank the countless Direct and Indirect Support staff that have taken such good care of Jerry and helped him live his best life over the past 18 years. You made a difference in his life as well as our family's. Thank you all.

In addition to his parents, Jerry was predeceased by his brother Charlie and several aunts, uncles and cousins. He is survived by his loving Aunt Marygrace Spencer, his Uncle Sal DePasquale, his brothers Jim (Kathy Thies) and Don, along with several cousins, nieces and nephews.

Friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave., Silver Creek, NY on Wednesday, February 14, 2024 from 4-7 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Thursday, February 15, 2024 at Our Lady of Carmel RC Church, 165 Central Ave., Silver Creek, NY at 10 AM. Interment will be private in the Mt Carmel Cemetery.

Memorial contributions in Jerry's memory may be made to Special Olympics of NY, 2821 Wehrle Dr. #7, Williamsville, NY 14221.

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Jessica A. Lauber - May 29, 1995 - February 07, 2024

Departed: 02/07/2024 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Jessica A. Lauber May 29, 1995- February 7, 2024

Jessica A. Lauber of Silver Creek, NY passed away on Wednesday, February 7, 2024 at ECMC in Buffalo, NY surrounded by her family. Even in her untimely passing Jessica performed a selfless act of being an organ donor, she will help save or transform the life of someone else.

She was born on May 29, 1995 in Fredericton, New Brunswick the daughter of David and Dawn (nee Guitard) Verge. Jessica just recently became certified to be a landscaper, she was apprenticing with Seasonal Lawn Care in W. Seneca, NY. She also was an active member of the DAV Ladies Auxiliary in Silver Creek, NY

Jessica was a “Free Spirit” who had a very engaging and caring personality. She loved meeting new people and enjoyed many different types of music. She will be dearly missed by family and friends.

She leaves behind to cherish her memory, her parents; her two beloved children, Charlotte “Charlie” Verge of Edmonton, Alberta and Robin Lauber of Angola, NY; Robin’s father, Daryle Lauber Jr. of Angola, NY; her paternal grandparents, Barry (Doreen) Verge; her maternal grandparents, Hugh (Beverly) Guitard; her father-in-law and mother-in law, Daryle (Deborah) Lauber Sr.

Friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek on Friday, February 9, 2024 from 4-7 PM, where a Celebration of Life ceremony will be held on Saturday, February 10, 2024 at 10 AM.

The family suggests memorial contributions in Jessica’s memory to your local Veterans Crisis Center.

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Shirley Estee - April 28, 1932 - February 07, 2024

Departed: 02/07/2024 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: SHIRLEY R. (PFLEUGER) ESTEE April 28, 1932 – February 7, 2024 Shirley R Estee, 91, of Virginia Beach, Va., formerly of Silver Creek, NY passed away on Tuesday, Feb. 7 2024

after a short illness. She was born in Silver Creek on April 28, 1932 the daughter of the late Ray and Ethel (Nordblum) Pfleuger. Shirley graduated from Silver Creek High School. She married William C. Estee on November 18th , 1950 at the Holy Cross Lutheran Church in Farnham, N.Y. They were married 61

years until his death on September 9th 2011. She is survived by a daughter Darlene Estee of Virginia Beach, Va., grandchildren Sarah (Harley)

Barletta, Alyssa and Michael Estee and great grandson William Barletta all of Rochester, N.Y. Besides her husband and parents, she is preceded in death by her son, Kevin R. Estee and her

brother Charles Pfleuger. Shirley had a long work history first the former Forbes and Wagner, then Silver Creek Central

School cafeteria, and of course the family farm. She was an avid Bingo player. She was a member of the Eastern Stars. She attended Christ

Chapel Wesleyan Church. There will be a Celebration of her life at Hole- Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave Silver Creek, NY from 11 to 1 pm on Thursday, April 25 2024. The family suggests memorial contribution be made to Legacy Hospice at https://legacy-hospice.com/make a donation.php

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Nancy L. Graham - May 02, 1936 - January 31, 2024

Departed: 01/31/2024 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Nancy L. Graham, 87, of Bemus Point, NY passed away peacefully on Wednesday morning, January 31, 2024 at Heritage Park Rehab & Skilled Nursing Home in Jamestown, NY.

She was born on May 2, 1936 in Westfield, NY, the daughter of the late Stanton and Alberta (nee Bills) Betts. She married the love of her life Oscar Graham on June 23, 1962 in Tidioute, Pa. and he preceded her death on May 5, 2013.

Nancy graduated from Westfield Academy and Central School in 1954 and was a resident of Bemus Point most of her life. She was employed by Bemus Point Central School, where she worked as a bus driver, retiring after 27 years of service. Nancy always volunteered to take the extra trips taking the students to their sporting events and extracurricular activities. She was her children and the student’s biggest cheerleader and supporter.

Nancy participated in many activities, she led her sons Cub Scout troop as a Den Mother, was very involved as a leader in 4-H, made costumes for Bemus Point school musicals. She enjoyed gardening, riding motorcycles, baking, scrapbooking, flower arranging. She loved decorating her home and going on family camping trips.

Her memberships included the Bemus Point United Methodist Church, the Westfield Quilters’ Guild and the Bemus Point Volunteer Fire Dept. Ladies Auxiliary.

She is survived by four loving children, Jeffrey (Kim) Graham of Maple Springs, NY, Randy (Julie) and David (Sue) Graham both of Bemus Point, NY and Diane (David) Pugh of Jamestown, NY; eleven cherished grandchildren, Erin (Nathan) Lord, Christopher Bombardo, Jackson (Katie), Taylor and Trevor Graham, Travis Pugh, Dakota Graham, Kate (Josh) Bartok, Graham Pugh, Brianna Swanson and Skylar Saxton; 12 great-grandchildren; a dear sister, Judy Esperson of Brocton, NY; also survived by many nieces & nephews.

Nancy was preceded in death by her beloved husband of 50years Oscar Graham and two brothers, Charles and Arthur Betts.

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Marcia Lou Erdle - August 26, 1939 - January 21, 2024

Departed: 01/21/2024 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Marcia L. Erdle August 26, 1939 – January 21, 2024

Marcia Lou Erdle, 84, of Silver Creek, NY passed away peacefully on Sunday morning January 21, 2024 at Buffalo General Hospital.

Marcia was born on August 26, 1939 in Dekalb, Illinois, the daughter of the late Harry and Marie (née Latham) Gates.

Marcia is survived by four loving children and their spouses, Stephen (Elaine) Martin of Silver Creek, NY, Sara K. (Rick Borgman) Martin of Bangor, ME, Wayne (J-Anne) Martin Jr. of Forestville, NY and Sean (Bria) Martin of Mill Valley, CA; nine cherished grandchildren, Kara Martin, Jordan Borgman, Haley (Carl) Murray, Jessica, Sydney and Finneas, Deirdre, Aidan and Everly Martin; one great-grandson, Cayne Murray.

In addition to her parents, Marcia was preceded in death by two husbands, Wayne Martin Sr. and Warren Erdle, and two brothers, Donald Gates and Wally Zook. She graduated from Elburn High School in 1957. Marcia worked for National Metalwares in the clerical department in Aurora, IL, Lake Shore Family Medicine as a medical transcriptionist for many years, and retired from Lakeshore Hospital. In her free time she was a member of Beta Sigma Phi sorority, served as a Girl Scout leader, both in Aurora, IL, and was very involved with T.O.P.S. in Silver Creek. She enjoyed bowling, reading mystery novels, and working on word and jigsaw puzzles. Marcia also loved animals and was a huge fan of Elvis, “ King Of Rock and Roll”.

Relatives and friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY on Wednesday, January 31, 2024 from 4-7 PM, where a Funeral Service will be held on Thursday, February 1, 2024 at 11 AM. Internment will be in the Glenwood Cemetery.

The family kindly suggests memorial contributions in Marcia’s memory be made to the Lakeshore Humane Society (431 E. Chestnut Street, Dunkirk NY 14048).

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Rachel L. Pfleuger - October 14, 1940 - January 20, 2024

Departed: 01/20/2024 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Pfleuger- Rachel L. 1940-2024 Age 83 of Silver Creek, NY passed away on Saturday, January 20, 2024. She is survived by her loving siblings Margaret (Late Randy) Rice , Benjamin (Sue), Hattie, Charles (Beth), Ernie (Nancy), Frank, Allen (Joyce), Carl and Helen Pfleuger and Dorothy (Jim) Hutch; along with many nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews. She is predeceased by her parents Benjamin and Lillian (nee Gattie) Pfleuger and six siblings: Milton, David, Laura, Leonard Pfleuger, Loretta Lack, and Lillian Williams. Rachel enjoyed gardening and working on the family farm. A Funeral Service will be held at 2:00 PM on Sunday, January 28, 2024 at Gage Chapel Community Church, Hanover Rd., Forestville, NY. Please share online condolences at www.holeparkerfc.com

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Phyllis M. Niedbalski - August 18, 1941 - January 11, 2024

Departed: 01/11/2024 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Phyllis M. Niedbalski August 18, 1941 – January 11, 2024

Phyllis M. Niedbalski, 82, of Irving, NY passed away peacefully on Thursday, January 11, 2024 at her home with her family at her side.

She was born on August 18, 1941 in Buffalo, NY, the daughter of the late Elmer and Ethel (nee Howes) Peacock. She married Donald E. Niedbalski and he preceded her in death in 2011.

Phyllis is survived by three children, David (Shirley) Niedbalski of Jamestown, NY, Donna Dietrich of Fredonia, NY and Dianna (Steven) of Cottage, NY; four grandchildren and five great-grandchildren.

In addition to her parents and her husband Phyllis was preceded in death by a brother, Donald Peacock.

Relatives and friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY on Tuesday, January 16, 2024 from 11- 1PM , where a funeral service will follow at 1 PM. Interment will be in the Evergreen Lawn Cemetery.

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Joshua C. Stull - August 01, 1976 - December 19, 2023

Departed: 12/19/2023 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Joshua C. Stull August 1, 1976-December 19, 2023

Joshua C. “Josh” Stull, 47, of Irving, NY passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday morning December 19, 2023 at his residence. He was born on August 1, 1976 in Springville, NY the son of Mark Colvin and the late Debra (nee Johnson) Stull.

Josh is survived by his step-father, William J. “Bill” Stull; seven loving children, Autumn (Jeremy), Jessica, Bella, Pyper, Skyler, Reese and Mia Stull; two dear sisters, Erica (Joshua Stewart) Bouvier and Lindsey (Joe) Newton and a brother, Brian (Mandie) Stull; three cherished grandchildren, Jaxon, Sophie and Jasper(on his way!).

Josh was an alumnus of Silver Creek Central School. He worked for PPP Future Development in Alexander, NY for more than 11 years, a job in which he loved because he could be outdoors.

Josh was the epitome of an outdoorsman, he just loved being with nature, hunting and riding his ATV. Most of all he enjoyed being with his family and friends. He will greatly missed by all.

Relatives and friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY on Friday, January 5, 2024 from 4-7 PM, where a Memorial service will be held on Saturday, January 6, 2024 at 11 AM. Burial will be made in Evergreen Lawn Cemetery.

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Lionel E. Herbeck - January 12, 1933 - December 09, 2023

Departed: 12/09/2023 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Lionel E. “Leo” Herbeck, 90, of Silver Creek, NY passed away peacefully on Saturday, December 9, 2023, at Mercy Hospital in Buffalo, NY, having enjoyed the prior year at Peregrine Senior Living at Orchard Park, NY.

He was born on January 12, 1933 in Buffalo, NY, the son of the late Charles and Marjorie (nee Seitz) Herbeck.

Leo was a 1951 graduate of Kenmore High School and proudly served his country in U.S. Army. He married the former Rosemarie Vargel in Berlin, Germany on February 2, 1955. She predeceased him on July 18, 2018 after 63 years of marriage.

Leo worked for Automation Gages, Inc. in Rochester, NY as a mechanical engineer retiring after 43 years of service.

His memberships included the Myopia Pistol Club in Rochester, NY, Desert Wings RC Club in Lake Havasu City, AZ, and the Hanford Bay Community Club. He was also a fix and repair hobbyist.

He is survived by his son Terrence “Terry” (Kimmarie) Herbeck of Silver Creek, NY; daughter, Peggy (Francis) Delach of Lake Havasu, AZ; and step-granddaughter, Francesca (Michael) Padgeon.

As per Leo’s wishes there will be no public visitation and a Celebration of Life will be held at the convenience of the family in 2024.

Arrangements have been entrusted to the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY.

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Violet M. Westerdahl - May 01, 1942 - December 04, 2023

Departed: 12/04/2023 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Violet M. (nee Cole) Westerdahl 1942-2023

Violet Marie (Cole) Westerdahl, 81, of Silver Creek, NY, passed away peacefully with her family by her side on Monday, December 4, 2023, following a lengthy illness. Vi was born May 1, 1942, in Stoneham, PA, to the late Lewis D. and Virginia (Ishman) Cole.

Vi was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and sister. Vi took great pride in her immaculate home and gardens. She enjoyed golfing, baking, going to the casino, traveling the country with her late husband Dave, and spending time with her family, close friends, and grand dogs. One of Vi’s fondest memories was a trip to Vegas where she and Dave parted the crowd on Fremont Street with their show-stopping dance moves. After marrying the love of her life and best friend on November 3, 1962, Vi devoted her time and energy to raising three incredible daughters.

Vi is survived by her two daughters, Michele Law and husband Phillip of Irving, NY, and Brooke Heber of Silver Creek, NY. Son-in-law, Glenn Chasser of Venetia, PA. Granddaughter, Ashleigh Gazda, husband Cullen, son Parker, daughter Chase, and son Greyson of Navarre, FL. Grandson, Justin Law, fiancé Megan Slocum, daughter Lexi, daughter Brielle, and son Kane of Gowanda, NY. Sister, Barb (late Sonny) Lietchenberger of Barnes, PA. Also surviving are several nieces and nephews.

Vi was preceded in death by her husband, Dave (April 13, 2010), her eldest daughter, Terri Chasser (April 21, 2022), and her brothers Walter and Donald.

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Nancy Taaffe - July 27, 1943 - December 01, 2023

Departed: 12/01/2023 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Nancy Botticello Taaffe Nancy Botticello Taaffe, 80, of Silver Creek, NY passed away peacefully on December

1, 2023. Born on July 27, 1943 in Silver Creek, NY, Nancy was the daughter of the late Angelo

and Mary (Dattilo) Botticello. Nancy graduated from Silver Creek Central School in 1961. Following her marriage and birth of her children, she was a stay-at-home mom until her children were teenagers and then worked for Citibank beginning in 1979 as a teller and later head

teller and retired from Community Bank in 1999. Nancy’s volunteer service included serving as a Board Member of Lake Shore Hospital Auxiliary, TLC Health Network Foundation, and Tri-County Country Club

Women’s Association, and for many years, especially over the Holidays, at St. Columbans. She was a long-time member of Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Catholic

Church. A member of Tri-County Country Club (“God’s Country”) for 60 years, Nancy won the Women’s Club Championship a remarkable 39 times between 1969 and 2020, spanning seven different decades. She and her husband Rick enjoyed playing golf together, including in tournaments, where they won two Mr. & Mrs. Buffalo District Championships, and in North Myrtle Beach, where they wintered for 10 years and enjoyed visits from their children and grandchildren. They were grateful to have

taken their dream vacation to Italy in 2019. Nancy’s passion was gardening and landscaping. Her lawn and garden were always impeccably manicured, and she maintained beautiful flowers at her parents’

graveside for 40 years. Most of all, Nancy cherished spending time with, and staying close to, her friends and family, especially her grandchildren, who so often visited in the summer months

and enjoyed many activities and wonderful meals together. Nancy is survived by her devoted husband of 30 years, Richard D. Taaffe; son, Mark (Mari) Pratt of Glen Allen, VA; daughter Julie (Luis Chacon) Beichler of Mooresville, NC; stepdaughter Jaclyn Taaffe (Derrick Hitchcock) of Cary, NC; six cherished grandchildren, Kristina Pratt and Andrew Pratt, and Jordan (Alex) Beichler, Nicholas (Emily) Beichler, and Sydney Beichler, and Holden Taaffe; and two great- grandchildren (Cohen and Avery); brothers-in-law Sal DePasquale (Chuck and Greg) and Dale VanVlack (Dale Jr. and Evie); and numerous cousins. She remained a friend

to her former husband, Charlie Pratt, until his passing in August 2023. In addition to her parents, Nancy was predeceased by her sisters Lucille

DePasquale and Judith VanVlack, and her stepdaughter Christine Taaffe. Relatives and friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave., Silver Creek, NY on Friday, December 8th from 4-7 PM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be

celebrated on Saturday, December 9th at Our Lady of Mount Carmel RC Church, 165 Central Ave. Silver Creek at 10 AM. Burial will be made in the Glenwood Cemetery at the

convenience of the family.

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David R. Metzger - February 27, 1939 - November 30, 2023

Departed: 11/30/2023 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: David R. Metzger Feb. 27, 1939- Nov. 30, 2023

David R. Metzger, 84, of Silver Creek, NY passed away peacefully on Thursday morning, Nov. 30, 2023 at the Chautauqua Nursing and Rehab Center in Dunkirk, NY. He was born on Feb. 27, 1939 in Silver Creek, NY, the son of the late Robert and Mary (Young) Metzger. He married the love of his life Diane Ellman in Forestville, NY on April 30, 1960 and she predeceased him on Jan. 16, 2019. Dave is survived by his three loving daughters, Deborah (Chris) Felt of Frewsburg, NY, Cynthia (Mark) Dietzen and Lisa (Joel) Schrantz both of Silver Creek, NY; five cherished grandchildren, Jessica, Jamie, Nicholas (Kirsten Burns), Lindsay and Joshua; five great-grandchildren, Hayden, Hunter, Brystol, Rowdy and Timothy; a brother, William (Donna) Metzger of Silver Creek, NY; a sister-in-law, Arlene (Ron) Gentile of Las Vegas, NV; a brother-in-law, Edward (Bonnie) Ellman of Rochester. NY; also survived by many nieces and nephews. In addition to his parents, Dave is preceded in death by his beloved wife of 58 years Diane Metzger and a sister, Susan (late Ronald) Ellman. Dave worked in the printing industry for many years he was a pressman for Great Lakes Color Printing in Dunkirk, NY and finished his career at IIMAK as a foreman retiring in 2001. He enjoyed woodworking, tinkering on cars, collecting trains, boating and camping. But most of all he enjoyed spending time with his children and grandchildren at the families "14 Acres" in Forestville, NY.

Relatives and friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave., Silver Creek, NY on Wednesday December 6, 2023 from 10 AM-11:30 AM. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday at 12 PM (noon). Burial will follow at Mt. Carmel Cemetery.

The family suggests memorial contributions in David's memory to the Alzheimer's Association, act.alz.org. Please share online condolences at www.holeparkerfc. com

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Georgia Mae Taber - August 15, 1927 - November 29, 2023

Departed: 11/29/2023 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Georgia Mae (nee Wright) Taber 1927 – 2023 Georgia Taber (nee Wright) passed away November 29, 2023. She left behind four children, seven grandchildren and 96 years of fabulous memories. Born in Fabius, NY in 1927, she remembers seeing horses and wagons tied up at the general store, listening to mystery programs on the radio, and searching for enemy aircraft during WWII. She married William R. Taber Sr. in 1948 and commenced a

series of moves around NY State with the NY State Conservation Department. Over the next seven years Georgia and Bill brought four children into the world: William Jr., Mary, Michele, and Martha. They moved to Silver Creek, NY where Bill became a biology teacher. During the next several decades she witnessed the commercialization of the television, the transistor, the computer, and the first steps on the moon. It was during these years that Georgia taught herself the world of antiques. She started a business in her home and eventually became a recognized expert in antiques, specializing in art, glassware, furniture, and jewelry. Throughout her 60 years in antiques, she participated in shops in Hamburg, Clarence, Sheridan, Springville, and Westfield. Georgia was well known throughout Western New York for not only her expertise, but also her frequent appearance at auctions, shows, shops, and sales. She was a consummate collector of stamps, and a member of the Erie Co. Philatelic Society. She loved collecting sport cards with her Grandsons. She will be dearly missed by

her family and dealers in the antique world. Private services were held by the family earlier in the week. Arrangements were entrusted to the Hole-Parker

Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave., Silver Creek, NY. Please share online condolences at www.holeparkerfc.com.

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Joseph D. Borrello, Sr. - March 02, 1946 - November 28, 2023

Departed: 11/28/2023 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Joseph D. Borrello Sr. March 2, 1946- November 28, 2023

Joseph D. Borrello Sr., 77, of Blasdell, NY passed away on Tuesday, November 28, 2023 at his residence. He was born in Sheridan, NY, the son of the late Patsy and Minnie (nee Flitt) Borrello.

Joe is survived by four children: Karla (Rick Schaper) Payne of Derby, NY, Linda Borrello of Blasdell, NY, Paul (Christen) of Raleigh, NC and Joseph Jr. (Karla) Borrello of Boston, NY; three step-children, Dana (Jay) Tobler of OR, Kimberly (Anthony) Aguirre of CA and Christopher (Colette) Tobler of Williamsville, NY; eleven grandchildren, Lindsay (Brad) Gottorff, Nicholas Payne, Matthew and Ava Borrello, Austin and Dylan Bakowski, Devon and Cole Tobler, Antonio and Leilah Aguirre and Callie Borrello; a brother, Richard (Eileen) Borrello of Silver Creek, NY; also survived by many nieces, nephews and cousins.

He was preceded in death by his wife, Linda (Tobler) Borrello and four brothers, Anthony , Vito, Patsy and Daniel Borrello.

Joe graduated from Silver Creek High school in 1964. He worked in the auto industry most of his life, retiring as a District Manager for Monro Auto Service in Buffalo, NY.

He loved sports, especially the NY Mets, Jets and the Knicks and NASCAR. In his younger years he enjoyed drag racing, in organized racing or on the street.

Relatives and friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY on Tuesday, December 5, 2023 from 10AM -1PM., where a funeral service will follow at 1 PM. Burial will be in the Mt Carmel Cemetery.

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John M. Doner, Jr. - August 05, 1967 - November 25, 2023

Departed: 11/25/2023 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: John M. Doner Jr., 56, beloved son of Ann Doner and the late John Doner Sr. of Hanford Bay, passed away suddenly in his Sheridan home on Saturday, Nov. 25, 2023. He was a 1985 graduate of Silver Creek Central School. He studied Culinary Arts at Erie 2 Chautauqua-Cattaraugus BOCES and operated the Snacks and More shop in the Little Valley Courthouse from 1991-1996. He is survived by his wife, Glenda (Austin) Doner; a son Christopher Doner; daughters Courtney (Doner) Johnson and Jessica Doner. He had two grandchildren, Asher and Emilia. All reside in Tennessee. He is also survived by his brothers, Brink, Winfield and Wayne; sisters: Cookie (Doner) Stevens, Yvonne Doner, Adalene (Doner) Aigotti of South Carolina and Elizabeth (Doner) Imel of Minnesota; as well as numerous nieces and nephews. In lieu of

flowers, memorial donations in John’s memory may be made to Yvonne Doner, 1153 Moran Rd. Silver Creek, NY 14136.

Arrangements have been entrusted to the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY.

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Joan B. Berner - May 23, 1945 - November 21, 2023

Departed: 11/21/2023 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Joan B Berner (Hathaway), age 78, entered into eternal rest on November 21st. Daughter of the late Eleanor and Lawrence Hathaway, wife of 54 years to Richard Berner, mother of Kimberly (Michael) Scherrer, Kristy Berner (Daniel Gross), Katy Berner-Wallen (John Wallen) and Grandmother to Noah and Riley Gross.

Joan spent her career in North Tonawanda Schools where she was a beloved coach and PE teacher, whose expectations for her players was matched only with her desire to help them succeed. In her retirement, she was an active volunteer at the Silver Creek Food Pantry and served on the Town of Hanover Planning Board for 22 years.

If you knew Joan, you knew that she was a force of nature who loved to make people laugh and found the best in people. No one was a stranger when Joan was around; she talked to everyone and gave freely of herself to help others. Joan’s favorite ways to spend her time was with her family on the lake and visiting with her friends at the Silver Creek Firemen’s Club. A private ceremony and burial were held on November 28th at the Hole Parker Funeral Home and Glenwood Cemetery. A celebration of life will be held at a later date. Please share online condolences at www.holeparkerfc.com

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George H. Weiskerger - October 05, 1947 - November 05, 2023

Departed: 11/05/2023 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: George H. Weiskerger, 76, of Irving, NY passed away on Sunday evening November 5, 2023 at the Buffalo VA Hospital with his family at his side.

He was born on October 5, 1947 in Buffalo, NY the son of the late Roy and Lillian (nee Leyh) Weiskerger. He married Dawn Knarr on August 20, 2011 in Irving, NY.

George graduated from Frontier High School in 1965. He was a proud patriot serving his country during the Vietnam War in the U. S. Air Force from 1967-1971.

He worked for Tops Grocery stores as a baker for many years, retiring from the Jamestown store as a supervisor after more than 30 years of service.

George was very active in the community in which he lived. He joined the Sunset Bay Fire Dept. on August 28, 1973 making him a 50 yr member.

He held every administration position at the fire dept., past chief, past president and was 30 yr member on the board of directors. He also served as a councilman for the Town of Hanover.

In his younger years he enjoyed fishing, he was an avid hunter, a diehard Buffalo Bills fan and loved to go to the casino with his wife Dawn and friends.

George is survived by his beloved wife, Dawn Weiskerger; four sons, Kevin (Melinda) Weiskerger of Irving, NY, Robert, Aaron and Jason Weiskerger all of Silver Creek, NY; four cherished grandchildren, Kaelee, Rylee, Layla and Isabella Weiskerger; six siblings, Ernest (Patricia) and Roy (late Sandra) Weiskerger, Kathleen(late Kenneth) Hartloff, Edith(Brian) Kelly, Joan (Jim) Breitwieser, Patricia (Chuck Hinman)Nicholoff and Edwin Weiskerger; also survived by many nieces & nephews.

He was preceded in death by a brother, Fred Weiskerger, a sister, Elisabeth Davis and two granddaughters, Madelyn and Alysen Weiskerger.

Relatives and friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY on Thursday, November 9, 2023 from 4-7 PM, where a funeral service will be held on Friday, November 10, 2023 at 11 AM. Burial will be made in the Glenwood Cemetery.

Memorial contributions in George’s memory may be made to the Sunset Bay Volunteer Fire Co #1, 12798 Allegany Rd, Irving, NY 14081.

Please share online condolences and remembrances at www.holeparkerfc.com.

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Roberta Keller Fetzner - January 07, 1950 - November 03, 2023

Departed: 11/03/2023 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Roberta Keller Fetzner, 73, of Silver Creek, NY passed away on Friday, November 3, 2023 at her home with her family at her side.

She was born on January 7, 1950 in Queens, NY the daughter of the late Murray and Lillian (nee Wilkinson) Keller. On June 10, 2017 she married Edward G. Fetzner in Fredonia, NY.

Roberta went to high school in Long Island, NY, she continued her education at SUNY Fredonia earning a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology with a minor in Psychology. She was the Executive Director of Chautauqua Opportunities for Development , Inc. in Dunkirk, NY from 2002 to the present.

Roberta was a fierce advocate for vulnerable people. She expanded housing opportunities and home ownership options for low – income residents. She was nationally recognized for her anti-poverty model helping disadvantaged individuals.

Her professional affiliations were NYS Community Action Assoc. Board of Directors (former vice-president), member of WCA Board of Directors, Fredonia Kiwanis Club, NYS Child Care Coordinating Council Board of Directors and former vice-president of the Jamestown Rotary.

In her free time she was a diehard Buffalo Bills fan, enjoyed traveling, all types of music and boating. Most of all she loved spending time with her family.

Roberta is survived by her beloved husband Edward G. Fetzner; a loving daughter and son, Jessica (Tim)Fenchel of Harleysville, PA and Matthew Lundgren of Raleigh, NC; three cherished grandchildren, Hayley, Brooke and Izaiah Fenchel; two brothers, David (Dolores) Keller of Frederick, MD and Martin (Linda) Keller of VA; a step-son, James (Bridget) Fetzner of Wattsburg, PA.

Relatives and friends may call at the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY on Tuesday, November 7, 2023 from 4-7 PM, where a funeral service will be held on Wednesday at 11 AM. Burial will be private in the Erie County Memorial Gardens, Erie, Pa.

Please share online condolences at www.holeparkerfc.com.

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Anthony J. Klonowski - May 29, 1963 - October 14, 2023

Departed: 10/14/2023 (Silver Creek)

Obituary Preview: Anthony J. “Tony” Klonowski, 60, of Silver Creek, NY entered into rest on Saturday October 14, 2023 at his home

after a long battle with kidney disease, diabetes and cancer.

Beloved son of Charlene Merzacco and the late Jack Maniscalco. Father of two daughters, Nichole Gedraitis and Melissa Klonowski.

Grandfather of Aiden and Austin. Brother of Charles Dominico, Maria Dominico, Leanne Maniscalco and the late Kurt Taylor.

Also survived by several nieces and great-nephews.

And we all walk on till we meet again.

Arrangements have been entrusted to the Hole-Parker Funeral Chapel, 160 Central Ave. Silver Creek, NY.

Please share online condolences at www.holeparkerfuneral chapel.com.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to notify friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a permanent record of the person's life and legacy.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the obituary is written by the family of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or mortuary. In some cases, a close friend or colleague may also write an obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their life achievements, charitable work, or other notable accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Typically, it ranges from 100 to 500 words. Some online platforms may have specific word count limits or requirements.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can help to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful to readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The submission process varies depending on the publication or platform. You can usually find guidelines on their website or by contacting their customer service department directly.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, word count, and other factors. Some online platforms may offer free or low-cost options, while traditional newspapers may charge by the line or word.

Can I edit an obituary after it has been published?

In most cases, it is not possible to make changes to an obituary once it has been published. However, some online platforms may allow corrections or updates for a limited time.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Online platforms may publish immediately or within a few hours, while traditional newspapers may take several days or even weeks.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to ensure that their life story is told accurately and authentically. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and legacy.

What is the purpose of an obituary in modern times?

In today's digital age, obituaries continue to serve as a way to honor and remember loved ones who have passed away. They also provide a permanent record of a person's life and legacy that can be shared with future generations.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include favorite quotes, poems, or lyrics in an obituary as a way to personalize the tribute and reflect the personality of the deceased.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you notice errors or inaccuracies in an obituary, contact the publication or platform immediately to report the issue. They will typically correct the error and republish the revised obituary.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in an obituary as a way to honor their loved one's memory and support a good cause.

What is the role of social media in sharing obituaries?

Social media platforms have become increasingly important in sharing obituaries and allowing friends and family to pay their respects online. Many funeral homes and online platforms now offer social media sharing options.

Can I create an online memorial page for my loved one?

Yes, many online platforms offer tools to create memorial pages where friends and family can share memories, photos, and condolences. These pages can serve as a lasting tribute to your loved one.

How do I cope with writing an obituary during a difficult time?

Writing an obituary can be a challenging task during a time of grief. Consider enlisting the help of a friend or family member, taking breaks when needed, and focusing on celebrating your loved one's life rather than mourning their loss.

What is the significance of including funeral service details in an obituary?

Including funeral service details in an obituary allows friends and family to attend the service and pay their respects in person. It also provides important logistical information for those who wish to attend.

Can I include personal anecdotes or stories in an obituary?

Yes, personal anecdotes and stories can add depth and character to an obituary, making it more engaging and memorable for readers.

How do I balance honesty with tact when writing an obituary?

When writing an obituary, it's essential to strike a balance between honesty and tact. Focus on celebrating your loved one's life and achievements while avoiding sensitive or controversial topics that may offend others.

What is the importance of proofreading an obituary before publication?

Proofreading is crucial to ensure accuracy and avoid errors that can be embarrassing or hurtful. Take the time to review your work carefully before submitting it for publication.

Can I use humor in an obituary?

Yes, humor can be an effective way to celebrate your loved one's personality and spirit in an obituary. Just be sure to use good judgment and avoid offending others.

How do I handle conflicting opinions about what to include in an obituary?

In cases where there are conflicting opinions about what to include in an obituary, consider having multiple family members contribute their thoughts and ideas. A compromise can often be reached through open communication and collaboration.

What is the role of technology in preserving obituaries for future generations?

Digital archiving technologies have made it possible to preserve obituaries for future generations. Online platforms now offer permanent storage options that ensure these important records remain accessible for years to come.