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Roger G. King - January 26, 1966 - May 01, 2024

Departed: 05/01/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: Roger G. King of Newfield passed away peacefully at Cayuga Medical Center on May 1st. Roger was born at Cayuga Medical Center in Ithaca, NY on January 26th 1966 to Clifford King and Jane Rosevink. Roger previously worked at the Ithaca Home Depot where he thrived as the top appliance salesman in the district. He was a natural salesman and loved working.

Roger lived for his family and his entire world revolved around his wife, daughters and grandchildren. Roger and Dawn have been inseparable for 39 years and their love story started when they were just teenagers. Roger proudly gushed over his love for his daughters and grandchildren to anyone he came in contact with.

Though Roger was a paraplegic due to a motorcycle accident when he was 17, he never let that deter him from living a wonderful life. He was told he could never have children, yet he had two daughters. He was told he would never drive, yet he did. He was told he would not live past 40 years old, and again he proved the doctors wrong. Prior to Roger getting sick you could find him playing outdoors with his grandchildren, having his favorite pizza at Sals or driving around downtown where he would surely run into someone he knew. He was always the life of the party and loved having bbq’s and late night card games with family and friends. As an avid Miami Dolphins fan, he made sure the games were always on. Imagine living in a house with diehard dolphins, cowboys and bills fans- it was always rowdy. Sunday dinners were always important to Roger which was a tradition he carried on from his mother- a table filled with his family always made him light up. Roger was undoubtedly a man full of determination and strength. He overcame obstacle after obstacle and defied so many odds. The last year and a half was very difficult with Roger’s health. He spent a majority of that time in the hospital fighting health challenge after health challenge. Roger was often jokingly called a magician who continued to pull tricks out of his hat while he pushed through each life threatening illness thrown his way.

Predeceased by his father Clifford King, mother Jane Rosevnk , brothers Alfie and Donnie, mother in law Judi Gelinas, step father in law Ed Stout, father in law Bob Gelinas, sister in law Jamie Gelinas, brothers in law Kelly and Bobby Gelinas, and nephews little Bobby and Seth Fuller. Survived by his wife of 39 years, Dawn. Two daughters Amber(James) Powers, Samantha(Zach) King. Grandchildren Aubriella, Jensen, Madden, Emilia and Greyson. Brothers Mikey Rosevink, Cliffy(Debbie) King, Robbie(Carrie) King. Sisters Karen Baker, Debbie(Mark) Owens, Becky Rosevink. Sister in law’s Kim Vann and Christine Holmes. Many nieces and nephews all who he loved very much.

We would like to send a special thank you to the doctors, nurses, and all the hospital staff at Cayuga Medical Center for taking such wonderful care of Roger the last few months of his life. They all treated him like their family and he was so appreciative of the care he received. Calling hours will be Monday May 13th at 12:30pm at Herson-Wagner Funeral Home followed by a service at 1:30pm. The family will be holding a celebration of life to honor Roger at the Eagles following the service

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Pixi Lee Lott - July 22, 1957 - April 25, 2024

Departed: 04/25/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: Pixi Lee Lott, 66, of Ithaca, NY, passed away on Thursday, April 25th, 2024 at the Pathway Home in Seneca Falls, NY.

Pixi was born to Janice (Schlock) Manning and Bruce Lott on July 22, 1957, and was raised by her stepfather Richard Manning. She went to Ithaca High School, a part of the Class of 1975. Pixi is survived by her loving partner Doug Griffen and devoted dogs Monkers and Zoki; children Mara (Bambi) Lott, Taneal Stewart (Donald Nielson), and Daniel Charles Smith; her grandchildren Hayden, and Justin; a myriad of siblings including Shawn, Mattison, Bruce Jr., Carmen, Britni, Brindi, Tracey, Heidi, Nicole, Suzanne, and many more; and the countless friends she considered Family with special mention to Bill and Chrisy Lower, and her bonus daughter Kati Dresser.

Pixi was known for her fierce love, supportive nature, and ability to make infinite space in her heart for everyone she met. Pixi never hesitated to tell you she was “proud like a peacock” of every accomplishment, big or small. Her open heart served her well during her years as a bartender and waitress at some of Ithaca’s legendary bars, and again years later when she worked as a Teacher’s Aide for the Seneca County School District, where she touched the lives of many students. Pixi was proud to call her home “a soft place to fall,” and always kept the door open to anyone in need.

Pixi had a personality like a firecracker, with a sharp wit, and a sharp tongue to match it. She was colorful and eccentric, boisterous, outspoken, and full of energy to spare. She was devoutly Christian and believed God’s purpose for her was to love and care for others. In that regard, she said she must have done something right because she was rewarded with her loving companion, Doug, who cared for her through her many illnesses over the years, and who loved and accepted her wholly until the end. A Celebration of Pixi’s Life will be held on Saturday, May 4th at 11 am at the West Hill Community Church, 3049 Van Dorn Corners Rd., in Ithaca, NY. Guests are encouraged to bring a picture and a story of Pixi, in lieu of flowers, and those wishing to do something in remembrance of her are asked to give to someone in need. She leaves you with a final message: “Thank you for being a part of my journey. The best is yet to come! See you on the other side!”

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James T. Lombardi - December 31, 1951 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for James T. Lombardi.

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Josefina Arias Rodriguez - March 29, 1928 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Josefina Arias Rodriguez.

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Gloria J. Huff - July 31, 1939 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: Gloria Jean Huff, 84, passed away on April 11, 2024 in her home. Born the daughter of Oliver and Mae Grant Ross, she was a graduate of Ithaca High School. After completing high school, she raised five children while owning and operating Carl's Cafe until she retired. After retirement, she worked as a bartender at the Eagles Club in Ithaca, NY. Her greatest enjoyment came from spending time with her family and friends.

She is predeceased by her parents, Oliver and Mae Grant Ross; her long-time partner Clifford “Chip” Osborn; son Benjamin Huff; and siblings Juanita Sinn, Jerry Ross, Arlene Huff , Virginia Iacovelli , Richard Ross, Rose Haskins, Mary Swansbrough, Rodney Ross, Timothy Ross, Nancy Rought.

She is survived by her children: Jenny and Timothy Wood, Veronica and Daniel Thurmeer, Karen and Raymond Grimard. Donald Huff and Jill Staats; grandchildren: Karelin and John Ellis, MaraLee and Joe Miceli, Neal and Sarah Huff, Kristy Mabee, Ashleigh Huff, Sarah Huff; and great grandchildren: Alijia Bailey, Gavin White, Dakota White, Allison Huff, Jacob Huff, Joseph Miceli, Evalynne Miceli, and Dominic Miceli.

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Patricia Lewis Strauss - November 20, 1942 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Patricia Lewis Strauss.

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Arleeta Mae Weissenborn - July 28, 1945 - April 07, 2024

Departed: 04/07/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Arleeta Mae Weissenborn.

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Robert W. Cook - December 27, 1928 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: Robert W Cook, a resident of Ithaca, NY, passed away peacefully on March 27, 2024, at the Cayuga Medical Center. Bob was born on December 27, 1928, in Ithaca, N.Y. He was preceded in death by his first wife, Marjorie Powers Cook, and his parents Herbert Monsal Cook, Sr. and Helen Vann Cook.

Bob is survived by his wife of 40 years, Sandra Teeter Cook; children - Deane (Susan), John (Susan), Claire (David) Teeter, Lori and Cherie Hulse; as well as numerous grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces and nephews. Bob is also survived by his three siblings: Richard Cook, Shirley Breen and Herbert Cook. He left behind his beloved dogs Emma Bean and Charlie Chip and his feisty cat Pixie.

Bob was a veteran of World War II, a volunteer firefighter of Company #3 and a lifetime member of the Ithaca Hook and Ladder Vet Volunteer Company. He was a Sr. Research Associate in the Department of Physiology at the Cornell College of Veterinary Medicine until his retirement in 1988 after 37 years.

A lifelong Cornell hockey fan, until recent years, you could find Bob at Lynah Rink on Friday and Saturday evenings watching the Big Red. He spent many summer evenings at Cass Park watching his son, John (Doc), play men’s slow-pitch softball and always enjoyed a good NY Yankees game.

A self-described "car nut", Bob would spend hours researching the latest cars and enjoyed his Sunday drives through the local car lots. A true Apple Mac lover, he had the latest version and up-to-date software until his passing.

Bob desired to leave this world quietly. In keeping with his wishes there will be no public services.

Good night and sleep well in the knowledge and comfort of a life so well lived, and a family that loves you very much.

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Jo Ann A. Ekdahl - May 17, 1942 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: Jo Ann Alma (Hanson) Ekdahl (81) of Ithaca, New York passed away Friday March 22, 2024 surrounded by her adoring family. Jo Ann was born May 17, 1942 in Busti, New York to Arthur and Alma (Anderson) Hanson. She was raised on the family’s farm and enjoyed country life and outdoor activities the entirety of her life. Jo Ann graduated Southwestern Central High School in 1959 and received her Associate Degree from Tompkins Cortland Community College in 1985. She married her Husband on June 9, 1967 and they had two Sons, in 1972 and 1975. The family settled in Ithaca, New York, where she lived until her passing. Jo Ann spent her entire career as an accountant, bookkeeper, and office manager at various local businesses, volunteering those services to some local not for profits until her passing. She was a member of St. Lukes Lutheran Church and the Friends of the Library.

Jo Ann is survived by her Husband Earl Willard Ekdahl of (57) years of Ithaca; her Sons Bradley Earl Ekdahl (Brandy Blackburn) of Prattville, Alabama; Carl Arthur Ekdahl of Middlesex, New York; Grandchildren Zaccary Ekdahl (Leah Stevens) of Phoenix, Arizona; Evelyn Ekdahl of Middlesex, New York; Nephew Danny Hanson (Pam Hanson), Nieces Michelle Firth (Bryce Kimmel), Lisa Bovard, Lynette Evans (Allan Evans), Elaine Nelson, Jessica Nonkes (Steven Nonkes) and Ann Kimmel (Mark Kimmel) and Cousin Christine Stuart.

Jo Ann Ekdahl will be remembered as a humble servant of God who never failed to put the needs of others before her own, a devoted wife, a loving mother and an example to be admired. Services will be held at St. Luke Lutheran Church of Ithaca on April 1, 2024 with calling hours to begin at 10:00 AM with funeral following at 10:30 AM. Further, additional, or other services will be announced

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Anatoliy Varetsa - September 30, 1938 - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Anatoliy Varetsa.

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Linda M. Vierling PH. D. - January 06, 1951 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: Dr. Linda M. Vierling, a highly respected Clinical Psychologist in Memphis, TN, died at age 73 on March 8, 2024 after a short illness. One of the city’s top specialists in family, child and adolescent psychology, Dr. Vierling practiced for over 35 years in Memphis and--except for when she gave birth to her three children--never took a sick day. She was as devoted to her patients as she was to her family.

A native of St. Louis, MO, Vierling was the fourth of 12 children born to Robert and Virginia Vierling. Growing up in a house of seven boys and five girls undoubtedly contributed to her ability to juggle the crazy schedules and pressures she confronted in her professional and family life. She worked to put herself through both college and graduate school, earning a Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from the University of Missouri, St. Louis in 1972; a Master’s Degree in Psychology from Marquette University in Milwaukee; and a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology from St. Louis University in 1979. She completed her Clinical Internship in Psychology at the University of Tennessee Center for the Health Sciences that same year.

After a short stint at the Southeast Mental Health Center, Dr.Vierling opened a solo private practice in Memphis and soon thereafter married fellow Psychologist Dr. Frank Masur. A few years after marriage Drs. Vierling and Masur joined their private practices under the name Health Psychology Associates and worked together for over 30 years.

For decades Memphis attorneys routinely called on Dr. Vierling to aid them in divorce cases, custody issues and parenting plans. She was a superb listener and exceptionally gifted at dispensing thoughtful advice and caring counsel. She respectfully responded to the words, and silences, that others shared, making her exceptionally skilled at dealing with troubled children, teens, and their parents. Teenaged patients often said that Dr. Vierling had “truly heard them,” a unique talent and loving gift that she willingly shared. Many of her young patients, now adults, have recounted the profound impact that Dr. Vierling had on their lives especially during their vulnerable adolescent years.

“Dr. Linda,” as many knew her, likewise shared her talents and enthusiasm with her family and community. For many years she coached soccer for her daughters’ teams at St. George’s Day School in Germantown. Similarly, she devoted countless hours and energy to St. George’s Odyssey of the Mind (OM), a program promoting intellectual and emotional creativity and teamwork for youth. She led her OM teams to several wins at both the state and national levels.

Linda truly loved sports. She was a gifted athlete and played both softball and volleyball in high school. A fan of her husband’s beloved Pittsburgh Steelers, she also enjoyed watching and napping to professional golf. She relished hosting intimate Super Bowl parties at which she plied her guests with enough appetizers to feed an entire stadium.

An avid walker and hiker, she encouraged friends to meet her for brisk “walk & talk” outings at Shelby Farms, her favorite Memphis walking venue. After retiring and moving to Ithaca, NY, to be closer to her grandkids, Linda joined the Ithaca Hikers, trudging through snowy gorges undeterred by freezing temperatures and inclement weather.

In more recent years, Dr. Vierling became involved with various community groups in Ithaca and was especially devoted to The Compassionate Friends, a self-support group for parents who had lost a child. Moreover, she volunteered at a food outreach program called Loaves & Fishes and a multiracial sustainable family farm called Fort Baptist Farm in upstate NY.

Dr. Vierling was predeceased by her parents, her beloved son Aaron Masur, and her sister Donna Vierling Brady.

She is survived by her husband of over 40 years Dr. Frank Masur; her older daughter Lena Masur (Casey Pendleton) of Ithaca, NY; her younger daughter Elise Masur (Dr. Kevin Cook) of College Park, MD; and her much-adored four grandchildren: Sam, Ruth, and Lin Pendleton and Rosalyn Cook. She is also survived by ten siblings: Joseph (Dianne) Vierling; Stephen (Theresa) Vierling; Kathy (John) Guckes; Deborah (Tony) Custodio; Susan (Chris) Browne; Tony (Stephanie) Vierling; James (Kim) Vierling; Vic (Jan) Vierling; Tom (Colleen) Vierling; and Tim Vierling.

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William G. Tomek - September 20, 1932 - March 03, 2024

Departed: 03/03/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for William G. Tomek.

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Lloyd Marshall French Jr. - June 06, 1957 - February 28, 2024

Departed: 02/28/2024 (Ithaca)

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Kayla L. Hamilton - April 24, 1983 - February 21, 2024

Departed: 02/21/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: Kayla (Radcliff) Hamilton, 39 of Ithaca sadly left us on February 21, 2024. Although Kayla’s life was difficult at times, she always had a smile for her friends and family. She was grateful to her parents who were able to raise her 2 oldest children, Dakota, and Harley. Dakota and Harley cherish the time they were able to spend with Kayla and they will miss her dearly. Kayla is survived by her father, Harold Radcliff, her mother Tracy Radcliff; her sister Kysha Radcliff and her brother Harold Radcliff III (Angela) as well as her children Dakota Radcliff and Harley Radcliff. The family will have a private ceremony this summer for Kayla and her Aunt Kim, who died in October 2023.

In honor of Kayla’s life the family wants to share that if you or someone you love is struggling with addiction, please visit https://tompkinscountyny.gov/health/opioids#localservices to learn more about the resources available to you.

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Patricia L. Smalser - March 05, 1959 - February 15, 2024

Departed: 02/15/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Lee Smalser, 64 ,of Ithaca NY passed away unexpectedly on February 15th, 2024. Born on March 5th, 1959 in Waterloo NY, she was the daughter of late Robert D. and M. Lucille

Smalser. Patricia, known as Patty to many, grew up in the town of Ovid and was an avid crafter and loved

to crochet. Her infectious laugh will be missed by many. In addition to her parents, Patty was preceded in death by her brother Lloyd Smalser, and is survived by her children: Jeremey and Dylan Yaw of Ithaca, Amanda (James Cornell III) of Candor; her grandsons: Riley, Colton and Walker Cornell; her brother Phillip (Priscilla) Smalser

of Ovid; and her brother John Smalser of Wyalusing PA. At Patty's request there will be no formal services planned. There will be a celebration of life

held at the Ovid Fire Department on Sunday, March 3rd from 1:00-3:00 P.M.

Herson Wagner Funeral home is assisting the family.

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Frances A. Mason - December 29, 1926 - February 13, 2024

Departed: 02/13/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: ITHACA: Frances (Frannie) A. Mason AKA: The Birthday Ranger

Passed away on Feb 13 2024 at Cayuga Ridge Nursing.

Born on Dec. 29 1926 the Daughter of Elmer Black and Ina (Cornish) Black. Frannie grew up on a dairy farm in Danby, NY and went to school at Danby School No 6 which was a one room school that taught grades 1st thru 8th on Jersey Hill Rd. After high school she became a waitress at Obie's Diner, which was down on the West End of Ithaca. This is where she met her first husband Wilbur "Bill" Weismann who was a mechanic for Mohawk Air Lines. They were married in July of 1958 and lived in Ithaca for a short time until he was transferred to Griffiss International airport in Rome, NY. They lived in Marcey, NY and while she lived there she was active in the community and volunteered at many events. She also baby sat neighbors children and had dinners and parties for her friends and neighbors.

After her husband Bill passed away Frannie lived in Marcey for a few years and then was invited to come to Ithaca by her former boss Eugene "Homer" Mason who had been the owner of Obie's Diner. She accepted the offer and one thing led to another and they were married in June of 1982, and she has resided in Ithaca since then.

She and her sister Eloise Phinney volunteered for many years at Oak Hill Manor when they had their holiday celebrations. She also was a volunteer and contributor to The Racker Center. Frannie was philanthropist and donated money to many charitable organizations. She also took down the names of people she met, along with their birthdays and anniversaries and the birthdays of their children. The WHCU radio station used to give away prizes for peoples birthdays and Frannie had a long list of birthdays and anniversaries and she would call the station give them the names of the people who had birthdays or anniversaries. Thus she became known as The Birthday Ranger. Not only did she announce greetings she also sent birthday, anniversaries, get well and sympathy cards to all the people she knew. She was a very smart person with an incredible memory and caring personality. She was a strong and independant woman and will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her.

She was predeceased by both of her husbands Bill Wiessmann and Homer Mason. Her parents Elmer and Ina Black. Her brothers-in-law Charles Phinney and Harold Conant, sister-in-law Gertrude (Phinney) Conant.

She is survived by her sister Eloise(Black)Phinney. Her nephews, Brian(Claire)Phinney Douglas(Lilianna)Phinney, Duncan(Karen)Phinney, Ralph(Darlene)Conant. Her nieces, Lorraine(Conant)Suess, Kathy(Conant)Valencia. Grand nephews, Shane(Kathlene)Borgeson and Noel Phinney. Grand nieces, Val(Les)Holden, Yvonne(Fred)Alger, Serena(Alger)Savage and Michelle (Phinney) Gallegos and many extended family members, Shaws and Boyers and the Brotherhood of the Woods.

A memorial service will be held on the 16th of March at 1:00 pm with a reception from 2:00 to 3:00 at the Danby Federated Church.

Internment to be determined at a later date.

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Linda Fetherbay - November 07, 1949 - February 12, 2024

Departed: 02/12/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Linda Fetherbay.

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Kenneth E. Spencer - April 25, 1946 - February 01, 2024

Departed: 02/01/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: Kenneth E. Spencer, of Burdett Passed away February 1, 2024 at the age 77

Ken was born in Ithaca NY, and son of Denman and Shirley Spencer.

He is survived by his wife of 45 years, Deborah Spencer, also his sons Gregory, Shane (Julie), and daughter Jodie. His grandchildren, Amber, Brett, and Ryder. He is also survived by his sister Denise, brothers, Ricky (Noreen), Jeffrey, and  Denman. His sister-in-law, Diane Ferris-Spoon, brother-in-law, James (Kathee) Shaff, Dan (Sheila) Shaff, Bill (Elizabeth Desch) Shaff and many nieces and nephews.

In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his brother, Gary. He served in the US Navy and US Naval Reserve from 1966-1971 as a 2nd Class Gunners Mate. He retired from Emerson Power Transmission where he worked for over 40 years. He enjoyed the slow pitch league playing on the J&B Team. He served as Commander of the VFW Post 961, also a member of the Cayuga Lake Beagle Club He loved to hunt and fish. Ken had many friends over the years. He had a special place in his heart for his dogs and was a certified Beagle Field Trial Judge. A military service will be held at the funeral home at the end of visitation at 2:00 PM

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Gilbert Condon - October 06, 1941 - January 30, 2024

Departed: 01/30/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Gilbert Condon.

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Charles E. Burke - January 09, 1929 - January 27, 2024

Departed: 01/27/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: Charles E. “Charlie” Burke, 95, passed away on January 27, 2024. He was born on January 9, 1929, in Jersey City, NJ at home and two months early and very small. His Aunt Lily put him in a shoebox on top of the radiator to keep him warm!

Born to Edward and Mary (Banta) Burke. He is predeceased by his son, Edward “Eddie” Burke. He is also predeceased by his sisters; Lorraine Pintak and Marie Madden. He is survived by his wife, Georgine (Gigi) Burke, his sister, Irene Burke Blazoski, his son Michael (Kimberly) Munson-Burke and daughter-in-law Madeleine Burke. He is also survived by his grandchildren; Amy (Jorge) Hurtado, Patrick (Claudia) Burke, Kieren Munson-Burke, Jenet Munson-Burke-Dolley and Mirana Munson-Burke. As well as his great-grandchildren; Valentina, Jorge Jr, Viviana, Victoria, Athena and Roy.

Charlie started working for pay at 12 as a dog walker and fetching groceries for people. But his real first job was getting beer from the back door of the local bar for Nana Burke. At 16, he started working for Maersk International Shipping Company and spent much of his career there in the World Trade Center. On November 16th 1949, he met Georgine (his future wife) on a blind date. He swears he knew he would marry her at first sight. In 1951, he was drafted into the Korean War. On January 26, 1951 he proposed to Georgine. He was deployed for two years, during this time, they wrote each other letters almost everyday. On April 6, 1953 they were married at Sacred Heart Church in Jersey City.

They moved into an apartment in New Jersey and had their first son, Eddie, shortly after. During their time in apartments they were unable to get a dog so they had an assortment of pets such as turtles, birds and fish. In 1964, they bought their house in Stormville, NY and got their first dog.

From then on, there would always be a dog around. Their second son, Michael, was born a few years later. Charlie always valued his family above all else. The Stormville house was host to many family gatherings and parties. The cousins often spent summers there where Charlie would take the kids and the dogs on adventures in the woods. In 1988, Charlie retired from Maersk and went to work as a school bus driver. His favorite job by far- he even brought the kids donuts every Friday and let them pick the music on the radio.

He was an active and loving grandfather throughout his life. Charlie and Gigi would visit as often as they could, even flying or driving regularly to Florida to visit. His eldest two grandkids often spent summers with them in Stormville. When his younger grandchildren came around he was just as thrilled and made many trips to visit them. Eventually, Charlie and Gigi split their time between Ithaca and Miami to be able to spend as much time with family as possible. Charlie was overjoyed to be a great-grandfather and spent as much time as he could with his great-grandchildren as they came along. While in Miami, Charlie and Gigi would volunteer at the hospital and babysit their great-grandkids.

Eventually, they moved full-time to Ithaca, NY, where they were able to spend more time with Kieren, Jenet, and Mirana. As Charlie and Gigi aged, they moved in with their son and daughter-in-law. When they started needing more assistance, Jenet took a very active role in making sure they got the care they needed. When they needed more care than could be provided at home, they moved to Cayuga Nursing and Rehab. The family would like to thank the staff there for their care, particularly Brad, Micaella, Chris, Brynn, and Michael. Charlie died peacefully with Gigi by his side.

There will be a wake from 2-4 followed by a service held at Herson-Wagner Funeral Home in Ithaca, NY on Saturday, February 3rd.

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Laura Tuttle - June 24, 1933 - January 25, 2024

Departed: 01/25/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: In Loving memory of Laura Mae Tuttle, who gained her wings to heaven on January 25, 2024 at the age of 90 surrounded by her family. She was born in West Farmington, Ohio, on June 24, 1933 to Eugene and Ruth Hall

Laura graduated from Farmington High School in 1952 then moved to Ithaca, NY where she attended TC3 for nursing. She cared for many clients in their homes until 2009. Finger Lakes Independence Center and Lifelong was very near and dear to her heart. Laura was a wonderful mother and grandmother who was always up for an adventure with her kids and grandkids. She was never afraid to try new things and was a very hard worker. Laura will be missed very much by all.

She was married to Richard Tuttle for 20 years who predeceased her in 2013. She is survived by her children, Zina(Kevin)Benjamin, David Austin, Janet(Will) Putnam, Molly(Chris) Hyer. She leaves behind her 6 grandchildren Nicole(Adam) Poorman, Kevin Benjamin Jr, Chloe Hyer, Chris Hyer, Dustin Morse, Fawn Lewis, and her great grandchildren Adon Bostwick, Leia Bostwick, and Nora Poorman. She is survived by her sisters, Ruth Jean Hawkins, Joanne Bahn, Nancy Marsh, and Lucy King. In Lieu of flowers please donate to Finger Lakes Independence Center. 215 5 th Street Ithaca N.Y. 14850

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Gary A. Bordoni - May 10, 1954 - January 24, 2024

Departed: 01/24/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: Gary A. Bordoni of Ithaca, NY passed away on January 24, 2024 surrounded by close family. He was born May 10, 1954, in Ithaca, son of the late David and Iolanda Bordoni. Gary grew up in Fall Creek where he made lifelong friends in the neighborhood. Gary retired from the City of Ithaca after 35 years where he worked as the Supervisor of the Parking Division. He was an avid golfer and could be found on the golf course several times a week during the summer or working with good friend Mike Gera as Golf Marshalls at LPGA events. He also enjoyed trap shooting every Sunday and was a member of the Lansing Rod and Gun Club. He enjoyed being out and about, meeting and helping people. He was a member (and past president) of Fire Company No. 1 for 52 years and a volunteer member (and past president) of the Veterans Department for 40 years where he spent a lot of time working and volunteering along side good friend Rob Longo. He enjoyed photography and was a wedding photographer in his free time for many years. He was an amazing cook and helped in the kitchen at the Lincoln Street Diner, Lakewatch Inn, Eagles and Elks Clubs, Fire Company monthly dinners, and assisted with yearly clambakes at Lansing Rod and Gun. Gary also worked many years as an usher at Cornell athletic events and could be seen braving the winter weather directing traffic for Cornell hockey games.He also was a member of The 9 S fire police and a valued member of the staff at Herson Wagner Funeral Home . He is survived by his children, Jennifer Bordoni of Albany, and Matthew and Jolee Bordoni of Ithaca; mother of his children Patricia Bordoni; beloved granddaughters Maddison and Charlotte Bordoni of Ithaca; brother Robert Bordoni of Boynton Beach, Florida; brother-in-law Kip Townsend of Brooktondale; Clifford “C D " (Samantha) of Spencer and Trevor Townsend (Kara) of Richford; brother-in-law’s Gary Emerson and Larry (Marsha) Emerson, and sister-in-law Carole Cotts, and several nieces and nephews, also a very special friend Penny Barcklay of Ithaca . He was predeceased by his brother Jack Bordoni, sister Sandra Townsend, sister in law  Shirley “Jeannie” Senno, and beloved aunt Elissa Olevano , also his mother in law Eleanora Emerson .The family would like to thank the wonderful ICU staff at Cayuga Medical Center and the countless friends and family that have provided unconditional support during this difficult time.

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Harry G. Schulz Jr. - January 02, 1940 - January 20, 2024

Departed: 01/20/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Harry G. Schulz Jr..

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Robert G. Silberman - August 20, 1939 - January 17, 2024

Departed: 01/17/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: Robert (Bob) Silberman passed away on January 17, 2024 at Groton Community Health Care Center at the age of 84. He was born on August 20, 1939 to the late Joseph (George) and Edith Pankin Silberman. Bob grew up in Brooklyn, NY, attending Stuyvesant High School and Brooklyn College. There he met the love of his life, June Forman, and they married in 1961.

Bob attended Cornell University for his masters degree and PhD in organic chemistry. He then moved to Cortland where he taught at SUNY Cortland as a professor of organic chemistry for 36 years. An authority on the teaching of chemistry, he was a frequent contributor to the Journal of Chemical Education, publishing over 20 articles, and collaborated with four other chemists to write a textbook with accompanying lab manuals, Chemistry In Context, for the American Chemical Society. Bob also developed a series of lab experiments for high schools to use in teaching chemistry, Small Scale Laboratory Manual, which continues to be used all over the United States.

Bob was invited to lecture in several foreign countries - Mexico, Russia, and Japan. He was an active member of the American Chemical Society (ACS), presenting numerous papers. He was a member of the Division of Chemical Education of the ACS and was the National Program Chair for this organization for three years. He also was a member of the National Science Teaching Association and Sigma Xi, the Scientific Research Honor Society.

Four years before he retired, Bob and his wife moved back to Ithaca. After retirement, he volunteered at the Sciencenter and developed a chemistry show for visitors, Chemsations. He trained high school students to present these shows which are still offered in the Sciencenter auditorium. He also co-authored two grant proposals to the Dreyfus Foundation for funds to develop museum chemistry programs for children. In addition, he was a consultant for the Smithsonian Institution on the Science in American Life exhibition, and a consultant for American College Testing (ACT) for which he prepared six sets of examination questions for yearly examinations from 1985 until he retired.

For over fifteen years Bob and his wife were figure skaters, doing ice dancing as members of the Cortland Figure Skating Club. In the summers, he and his wife hiked through over 30 parks in the United States, Canada, and Europe. A long-time woodworking hobbyist, Bob became a wood turner late in life and was a member of Handwork Artisan Cooperative in Ithaca, displaying and selling his wood-turned bowls, and also sold bowls at various area craft fairs. An avid birdwatcher, in the spring he was a volunteer walk leader for 5th grade students at Cornell’s Laboratory of Ornithology. During the walks, he directed the students’ attention to the different habitats and their characteristics as well as identifying birds that frequent the area. He also participated in the Migration Celebration held yearly at the Laboratory of Ornithology. Earlier in life Bob pursued multiple hobbies including swimming (he spent several summers teaching swimming through the Red Cross), playing squash, boating and fishing, raising tropical fish, reading mystery novels, and cooking. He made homemade sausage and pickles, and won a blue ribbon for his pickles at the New York State Fair.

Bob leaves behind his beloved wife of 62 years, June, two children - Peter Silberman (Jen Kagan) of Ithaca and Ellen Shapiro-Smith (Ricky Johansson) of Lowell, Mass., a grandson, Gabriel Shapiro of Lowell, Mass., a brother, Allen Silberman (Marjorie Waxman) of Philadelphia, several cousins, and several nieces and nephews.

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Ann F. Elmo - February 14, 1950 - January 08, 2024

Departed: 01/08/2024 (Ithaca)

Obituary Preview: Ann Francis Elmo, 73, of Ithaca, New York, passed away January 8, 2024, at home with her family, after a vigorous battle against cancer for nearly 4 years.

Ann was born February 14, 1950, in Ithaca, to the late Alfred Thayer and Lina Albanese Thayer. She was the fourth of their five children. Ann graduated from Ithaca High School in 1968.

After spending her early years in rural Trumansburg, Ann’s family moved to Ithaca. In middle school she met the man she knew she would marry, Michael J. Elmo. The two dated for 6 years and were married on April 4, 1970.

Both Mike and Ann began studying the Bible with Jehovah’s Witnesses in the early 1970s and were moved to dedicate themselves to their God, Jehovah in 1977. Shortly after they were blessed with two children, Angela and Joey.

Life in the Elmo house was busy and full of activity. Ann was known as a loving and involved mother and for showing hospitality to many near and far. She was always ready to laugh or try to get you to laugh. Whether at a dance party in the garage, a large dinner at the house, or in the tents she had to have to entertain, she was determined to enjoy life and laugh with those she loved.

Ann and Mike also worked hard to care for those in need, willingly sacrificing their time and resources to look after others. They would make meals, help with repairs and cleaning, or anything else they could think of; the two of them are well known for their self-sacrificing love.

Ann’s firm faith in the promise from the Scriptures, that God’s Kingdom would permanently solve mankind’s problems, moved her to help others in the community to benefit from the truths taught in the Bible. That faith motivated her to share in the volunteer ministry full time for more than 23 years. Her efforts proved to help many, as she lovingly shared Bible principles, assisting them to be more honest, loving, and active members of our communities.

Ann lived her life full of confidence that she will see her loved ones again, just as Jesus promised at John 5:28, 29.

Ann is survived by her devoted husband of 53 years, Mike; their two children, Angela (Stephen) Hoffman, Joseph (Jennifer) Elmo; their grandchildren, Skyler, Madilena, Gavin, and Adley Hoffman; her siblings, Fred Thayer, Randy (Barb) Thayer, and June Gee; as well as several nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, and cousins.

The memorial service will be at 2:00pm, Saturday, January 20, 2024, at the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses, 1201 Danby Road, Ithaca, NY 14850. The service will also be available on Zoom. Zoom Information - Meeting ID: 872 4341 7427 - Passcode: 040470

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What is an obituary?

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