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Ewing Fears Best - March 03, 1954 - May 01, 2024

Departed: 05/01/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Ewing Fears Best passed away peacefully on May 1, 2024, after a long illness. Born March 3, 1954, in Norfolk, Va, Ewing was the daughter of the late John Carroll Fears, Jr., and Mary Harris Fears. She grew up in Birdneck Point in Virginia Beach and graduated from First Colonial High School in 1972. In 1980, Ewing married Charles “Charlie” Best, Jr., and the couple resided in Norfolk before relocating to Virginia Beach in 1983.

Ewing spent her professional career managing business administrative functions at several companies in Norfolk and Virginia Beach, but her proudest accomplishment was her work for the Virginia Beach Volunteer Rescue Squad. In particular, her time at Station 17 in Sandbridge which resulted in lifelong friendships and helped develop the next generation of first responders.

In her spare time, she was an avid genealogical researcher. Through travels across the Southeast connecting with distant cousins, visiting county courthouses, and finding and restoring gravestones of long-lost relatives, Ewing enjoyed putting her family’s historical puzzle together.

Ewing was preceded in death by her beloved husband of 28 years, Charlie. She is survived by son Michael A. Best and his wife, Morgan S. Best, of Charlotte, N.C..; grandchildren Charles S. Best and Lucy C. Best; brother Lawrence E. Fears; and three nieces.

Gifts in Ewing’s memory can be made to Sandbridge Fire and Rescue, The Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s Research or Southeastern Virginia Golden Retriever Rescue, Education and Training. Ewing’s family sincerely wishes to thank the many wonderful caregivers and nursing staff at Bethany Woods Nursing and Rehabilitation, and Tillery Compassionate Care in Albemarle, N.C., who helped make her final days peaceful and comfortable. Friends wishing to attend visitation and her service should contact the family for information.

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Ronald Thomas Hoover - June 16, 1953 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Ronald Thomas Hoover passed away unexpectedly April 29th in Virginia Beach, VA surrounded by loved ones. For seven years he battled cancer, but his death was hastened from a fall. Born June 16, 1953 in New Castle, PA, he was the son of

Katherine Heichel Barker and Robert M. Barker, formerly of New Castle. His natural parents were Virginia McCormick and Chester Lamont Hoover also of New Castle, PA.

Ron was a Veteran with 21 years active duty, joining the Navy in 1971 and honorably retiring as a Chief Petty Officer from the USS Theodore Roosevelt in January 1993. He received five Naval Commendation Medals including one in 1974 for saving the life of a fellow shipmate. Awards also included Navy Achievement, Joint Meritorious Unit Award; Battle "E" Award; five Good Conduct awards, two National Defense Service Medals, Sea Service Deployment and Expert Pistol Marksmanship.

He proudly served his country during Operation Desert Storm as an integral part of the Roadrunner Team, Attack Squadron Thirty-Six, with over 1300 hours on combat and combat support missions. Most of his Naval career was performed in the Tide-Water area and at sea.

One of the funniest of men, he brought life and laughter to so many, brightening all of our lives. He married the love of his life, Marianne Paris of New Castle, PA in 1972. He leaves behind his wife and family to mourn his passing, to include his two wonderful children, Michael A. (Angeline) of Virginia Beach and Regina L. Hoover (Phillip) Lovoy of Morehead, NC,( who were his proudest of achievements); six loving and caring grandchildren: Tiffany Staub (Aaron) Padgett; Alliyah Fabijan (Nick) Bishop; Robert W. (Savannah) Staub; Jon (Arielle) Fabijan, Anthony D. Hoover and Nicholas Y. Lovoy. Watching his three great-grandchildren Maverick and Chandler Padgett; and Robert W. Staub Jr. grow provided him such joy in his last few years. Also grieving his passing are four sisters: Carol "Joanie" Barker (Phil) Hanna, Virginia Beach; Kathleen Barker (Joseph) Miles, New Castle, PA; Patricia Hoover (Stan) Brodnik, Edgewater FL; Marlene Hoover Frith, Orlando, FL; and Elizabeth Hoover DiRisio, Fredericksburg, VA and his brother, Chester J. (Beth) Hoover of Austintown, OH.

He was preceded in death by his parents.

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Ann Lynn Charneco - February 03, 1943 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Ann Lynn Charneco, 81, passed away on April 26, 2024 in a local hospital. She was born in The Bronx, NY on February 3, 1943 and was the daughter of the late, Jack and Pearl Feldman. She moved to the Virginia Beach area 32 years ago to be with her family. Ann fiercely loved her family, especially her grandchildren. She was kind, thoughtful and a loving mother and grandmother who will be deeply missed. She was preceded in death by her husband of over 50 years, Wallace Charneco.

Survivors include her four children, Peter Charneco of Farmville, VA, Pamela Charneco of Virginia Beach, Karen Willis and her husband Christopher of Virginia Beach, and David Charneco of Arizona, three grandchildren, Jeremy and Jenna Charneco and Peyton Willis as well as a host of extended family members and good friends.

The family will receive friends from 5:00 -7:00 PM in H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Laskin Rd Chapel on Tuesday April 30, 2024. A graveside service will be held in Eastern Shore Chapel Cemetery in Virginia Beach on Wednesday May 1, 2024 at 2:00PM.

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Mildred I. Shoop - June 30, 1941 - April 25, 2024

Departed: 04/25/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Mildred I. Shoop, 82, peacefully joined her heavenly father on 24 April 2024. She is survived by her husband of almost 59 years, Robin D. Shoop Jr, her three devoted children Robin III, Richard, and Rhonda, plus ten grandchildren, and one great-grandchild. She was born in Boston, Massachusetts but grew up living on Peaks Island, Maine with two sisters and three brothers. She graduated from Portland High School in 1960 and immediately attended and graduated from the School of Practical Nursing in Boston in 1962 as an LPN. After working in Boston for over two years she traveled to Honolulu to continue working as a nurse. She met Robin in January 1965, got engaged in May and married on 3 July 1965. For the next 25 years the Navy moved them extensively and they finally settled in Virginia Beach. She became a real estate agent in 1985 retiring in 2003. Having grown up on an island, she loved the water. Millie will always be remembered for the love she showed her family and friends and the support she provided her husband.

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Denis I. Kapos - January 08, 1924 - April 23, 2024

Departed: 04/23/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: VIRGINIA BEACH - Denis I. Kapos, 100, peacefully joined our Heavenly Father surrounded by his devoted family on April 23, 2024.

He was born in Karia, Kefalonia, to the late Hercules and Theodora Kapogiannatou. He moved to Norfolk,VA in 1955, and became a proud American citizen in 1960, while maintaining his Greek roots as a member of the Annunciation Greek Orthodox Cathedral, the St. Nicholas Greek Orthodox Church, the Kefalos and Ithakecian Society, and a decades long member of AHEPA brotherhood. He married his beloved wife Anthoula Kapos in 1961.

Denis will always be remembered as a devoted and loving husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and friend. A tireless entrepreneur and businessman, his greatest joy was to entertain his family and friends, both old and new.

He is survived by his loving wife Anthoula and their three daughters, Terrie Jurichko (Mike; Evanston, IL), Antigone Polite (Lee; Chicago, IL) and Eva Anifantis (Gus; Washington, DC). His grandchildren were his pride and joy: Nikolas and Dennis Polite, Gabriella and Kassiani Anifantis, Joachim and Marianthi Jurichko. Denis had survived his five siblings: Irene Mousouris, Pete Kapos, Spiro Kapogiannatos, Bob Kapos, Gerasimos Kapogiannatos. Close to his heart, Denis’ loving and invaluable nieces and nephews include: Mark Mousouris (Patricia), Mary Girevendulis (Alex), Patricia Meliagros (Dennis deceased), Theodora Alekos (George), Julia Valelis (Kosta), Thalia Psikogios (deceased), Hercules Kapos (deceased), George Kapos, Theodora Papapanagiotou, Giannis, Petro and Hercules Kapogiannatos, Antigone Potamianos, Evan Potamianos and Grace Potamianos.

A visitation will be held at 1:00 PM at Annunciation Greek Orthodox Cathedral in Norfolk on Saturday, April 27, 2024 followed by the funeral service at 1:30 PM. The burial will be at Forest Lawn Cemetery.

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Gene L. Dimaiuat - November 14, 1934 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Gene L. Dimaiuat, 89, passed away on April 21, 2024 in his home with his wife by his side. Gene was born on November 14, 1934 in Iriga, Philippines and was the son of the late Lucio and Eutiqua Dimaiuat. Gene joined the US Navy in 1961 and moved with his wife Delia to the Virginia Beach area in 1965. He was Catholic by faith and was a member of Church of the Ascension. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus, as well as B.I.V.A. Inc. Gene retired from the US Navy after 20 years of faithful service.

He is survived by his wife of 59 years, Delia Dimaiuat, two sons, Alvin Dimaiuat and his wife Lori of Chesapeake, Albert Dimaiuat and his wife Tami of Virginia Beach, one brother, Eddy Dimaiuat and his wife Araceli, two sisters, Dalene and Cionnie Dimaiuat. Three grandsons, Andrew Curry and his wife Kelley, Alexander Dimaiuat and Anthony Dimaiuat, as well as several extended family members and good friends.

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Matthew Adam Jaworsky, Jr, - June 17, 1967 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Matthew Adam Jaworsky, Jr, 56, of Virginia Beach, passed away on Friday, April 19, 2024 at UVA Hospital. Born June 17, 1967 in London, England, to Matthew and Janis Jaworsky. His youth spent overseas in Puerto Rico, Germany and Scotland where he made lifelong friends.

Matt graduated from First Colonial High School in 1986; then spent the next few years living in the Outer Banks before meeting his wife Kelly and moving back to Va Bch where he started his impressive 36 year career in residential and commercial Marine Construction.

Matt is survived by his devoted wife of 31 yrs, Kelly B. Jaworsky; his daughter Jessie Jaworsky; his son Matt “Adam” Jaworsky III; his son Chase Jaworsky; his father Matt Jaworsky, Sr; his mother Jan Jaworsky; his brother Mark Jaworsky; his sister-in-law Jennifer Jaworsky; numerous aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces and nephews.

In honor of Matt, a funeral service will be held at H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., 2002 Laskin Rd, Va Bch, Friday, April 26, 2024 at 2:00 pm. The burial will be private and a celebration of life will follow.

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Mary Elizabeth (Polly) Taylor Watson - December 16, 1939 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Mary Elizabeth (Polly) Taylor Watson, died on Thursday, April 18th, after a long illness. Born in Richmond, Va., she was the daughter of the late Sophie Walker and John Marion Taylor. She was predeceased by her daughter, Elizabeth Gray Todman, and her husband of 35 years, Roderick Watson, of Va. Beach.

Polly attended St. Catherine’s School in Richmond, Va., and was graduated from Stuart Hall in Staunton, Va. She attended Stevens College in Columbia, Mo.

An Episcopalian all her life, she was a member of Galilee Episcopal Church, in Va. Beach, The Junior League of Norfolk-Va. Beach, the Va. Beach Garden Club, and was a board member of Elk Hill Farm, in Richmond, Va., and the Va. Beach SPCA.

Polly enjoyed playing bridge with her “group” of ladies, played a mean game of tennis, and was a true friend to all that knew her. She had a knack of never meeting a stranger, and a personality that made you want to stay around her, as she made you laugh. She loved to dance, and a rock and roll song was always close by.

She is survived by her loving son and daughter in law, John Walker Todman (Bryn), the light of her life, grandson Frederick Marshall Todman, her niece Elizabeth Battle (Betsy) Harrison, her sister in law, Mary Donnan Todman Harrison, all of Va Beach, her step daughter, Wing Watson Billeisen, her children Caroline and Peyton of Carbondale, Co., her step son, Stockton Tyler Watson, his children, Roddy, Mac and Stock of Va. Beach. And special friend and Angel, Lynnette Sanchez, of Va. Beach.

The family would like to thank the staff at Arden Court (The Memory Center) for all the wonderful care given to Polly over the years.

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Jock Rodgers Wheeler - September 09, 1932 - April 13, 2024

Departed: 04/13/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Jock Rodgers Wheeler was born September 9, 1932 to Francis Thompson Wheeler and Genevieve Bell Wheeler. He was raised in Hampton, Virginia, where he attended Hampton High School, before matriculating to Virginia Military Institute. After graduating VMI with academic stars in 1954, Jock attended the Medical College of Virginia in Richmond, where he earned his M.D. and stayed to complete his surgical training with Dr. David Hume.

By 1960, Jock was commissioned as a Lieutenant in the U.S. Navy. He traveled with a marine fighter squadron for four years as their dedicated flight surgeon – including to Guantanamo Bay for the Bay of Pigs invasion.

Following his service, Jock returned to MCV for his residency – during which, he accepted a NIH postdoctoral fellowship at Westminster Hospital in London. While there, Jock worked closely with Sir Roy Calne and Sir Peter Medawar – both who are widely recognized as early pioneers in organ transplantation and immunology.

While Jock was still in London when Sir Winston Churchill passed away, he volunteered as a first aid worker at Westminster Hall while the prime minister was lying-in-state. This opportunity was one of Jock’s fondest memories of his time in London.

In 1966, Jock settled in Norfolk, Virginia and began his surgery practice. Four years later, he established the kidney transplant program at Norfolk General Hospital and shortly after, performed the first ever kidney transplant done in Hampton Roads.

Jock also served on the faculty of Eastern Virginia Medical School as a professor of surgery starting in 1974. His passion for educating the next generation of surgeons is what led him and his long-time surgical partner, Dr. Roger Gregory, to establish the Vascular Surgery Fellowship in 1975. At the time, it was one of only twenty in the country. He served as that program’s director until 1994. This fellowship still trains up-and-coming vascular surgeons today – 49 years later.

Jock opted to leave private practice in 1994 to become the Chairman of Surgery at the EVMS. He was only in that role for 6 months before being appointed as the school’s next Dean and Provost. He served in that capacity for five years before retiring in 1999 as Professor Emeritus of Surgery.

Because of his numerous contributions to the field of vascular surgery and his exemplary career, Jock received a number of appointments and commendations – including being elected to the Alpha Omega Alpha Medical Honor Society, the Southern Surgical Association, and the Society for Vascular Surgery. He served as president of Virginia Vascular, the Southern Association of Vascular Surgeons, and the Medical Staff at Sentara Norfolk General Hospital. He also received an honorary degree from EVMS, the Caravari Service Award from the MCV, and was appointed as the chairman of the Optima Health Plan.

Jock is preceded in death by his parents, his brother Francis Thompson Wheeler, II, his sister-in-law Josiane Wheeler, and step-father Guilto Guillette. He is survived by his wife Bonnie Martinette Wheeler and five children: Catherine Williams (Dan), Berkley Wheeler (Bruce), Whitney Wheeler, Jock Wheeler, Jr. (Charlene) and Kensey Edwards (Josh). He is also survived by his fourteen favorite grandchildren: Jeff Bedford, Richard Bedford (Madison), Carter Summerville (Jurrand), Bebe Chittenden, Maxwell Chittenden, Emery Chittenden, McKinley Wheeler, Chase Orrell, Casey Wheeler, Carley Wheeler, SueAnn Wheeler, Berkley Wheeler, Lila Wheeler, and Rodgers Edwards. Jock’s favorite great grandchildren are: Liam Bedford, Connor Bedford, and Oakley Summerville.

Jock’s interests were too numerous to name. Over the course of his lifetime, he loved being on the water – whether that was teaching his children the meaning of “red, right, returning” or spending the day fishing with Nick Ferguson. He also had a large orchid collection, many that were being rehabilitated from well-intentioned friends and family. He enjoyed playing golf and was instrumental in the redesign of the Princess Anne Country Club.

A celebration of Jock’s life will be held on April 25, 2024, at 1:00 p.m. at Galilee Episcopal Church (3928 Pacific Avenue, Virginia Beach, Virginia 23451). A reception will follow.

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Robert “Robbie” Currie - January 19, 1952 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Robert “Robbie” Currie died April 11th 2024 in Virginia Beach at the age of 72.

He spent his last days surrounded by family and friends. He was a lifelong resident of Virginia Beach except for ten special years in Hawaii. He worked as a carpenter/handyman, but he was best known for his career as a dad. He raised several generations of children with his kind and giving spirit at the forefront. He loved surfing, music, and most of all family.

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William Nicholas Wright - July 21, 1938 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: William Nicholas Wright, 85, passed away peacefully on April 9, 2024. He was a loving husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather and brother. Nick was born on July 21, 1938 to the late Charles E. and Mildred R. Wright in Norfolk Va. Nick was preceded in death by his wife and friend of 60+years, Catherine South Wright (Kay), oldest brother Carlton Wright, Son in Law Duffy Palmer and his youngest Grandson Charles Nicholas Wright.

Left to cherish his memory: His son Nick Wright Jr, daughter Stephanie Kiley and her husband Bill, son Curtis Wright, daughter Taylor Lewis and her husband Todd, and daughter Hunter Palmer. Grandchildren; Catherine Floroff and her husband Alex, grandson Ashton Lewis and his wife Tricia, granddaughter Camryn Lewis, granddaughter Caroline Palmer, granddaughter Mary Ramsey and her husband Brandon, grandson Martin Palmer and granddaughter Jordin Gresock and her husband Joey; great grandchildren Reagan Dobbins, Graham and Peyton Floroff, Harley and Finn Lewis, Ashton, Peter and Rose Gresock.

Nick is also survived by brothers, Walter R. Wright and wife Betsy, Charles R. Wright and wife Anne, and sister-in-law Barbara Wright.

He met and married his wife Kay, they started their family together and decided to move to Va. Beach. Nick then began building houses and Apartments, decided to move his family to Virginia Beach where they were raised. Nick continued building and became involved in the tourist industry. Nick was a pillar of his community always willing to help family, friends and neighbors! Nick was very involved with his friends and business owners hosting the 1st Exchange Club Oyster roast fundraiser in his backyard. The fundraiser grew in popularity and then had to be moved to Camp Pendleton in Va. Beach where it continues to this day and is now known as the Annual YSC fundraiser raising money for local charities. At one time Dad had a dream, he built a farm and tried his luck in the horse business. Nick and Kay later resided part of their time in the golfing community of Naples, Florida where they met and enjoyed many new friends. Nick will be loved and remembered by family and friends for his stories, dry humor and always having something smart to say. He and his wife Kay had many wonderful years together traveling, playing golf and enjoying their family throughout their marriage.

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Nancy W. Woodard - July 06, 1936 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: John 14:2-14:3 Jesus says: “In My Father's house are many mansions; if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you unto Myself; that where I am, there you may be also.”

On April 9, 2024, Nancy White Woodard passed over from her temporary biological life into a heavenly spiritual life, awaiting her resurrection upon the return of Jesus Christ.

Nancy was born July 6, 1936, in Norfolk, Virginia to the late Dr. Preston Mason White and the late Sarah Rush White. Nancy is survived by her loving husband of 67 years, James Pope Woodard, three sons James Pope Woodard, Jr. (Karen), Dr. Robert Mason Woodard (Lee) and Michael Bowman Woodard (Lee), Nancy is survived by eight grand-children, Libby Woodard Clark (James), Jay Woodard (Molly), Meg Woodard, Ben Woodard, Sarah Woodard, Matt Woodard, Carrington Woodard, Bo Woodard and two great grandchildren Elsie Clark and Lottie Clark.

Nancy attended Norfolk schools and graduated in 1956 from St. Mary’s Junior College in Raleigh, NC. In 1980, Nancy attended Old Dominion University and obtained a Bachelor of Science in Psychology. This was followed in 1983 with a Master’s of Education in Guidance and Counselling. For the next few years, Nancy worked for the cities of Portsmouth and Virginia Beach concentration on family therapy required by those affected by chemical dependency.

Nancy was also a professional puppeteer, she performed puppet shows in Tidewater area, made TV commercials for local advertising firms and performed for Colonial Williamsburg.

While Jim worked in his construction company, Nancy very often had sole responsibility for raising their three sons. Here again, she excelled in this responsibility.

A “special thanks” to Nancy’s caregiver, Dorlene Bryant, with whose help we were able to keep Nancy home for a number of years. The last few years, Nancy spent at Brookdale Memory Center where she was cared for in the most positive way with love from all the caregivers involved. A memorial service will be held on May 3rd at 11 am at Galilee Church, 3928 Pacific Ave, Virginia Beach.

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Robert Joseph Howe - November 27, 1927 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: In his own words:

On April 8, 2024, Robert Joseph Howe shed his physical garment and returned to the spiritual world from which he came, for birth is not the beginning of life nor is death the end. I ask those who are now reading this obituary to spend a moment in prayer to assist me on my way.

I am now with my beautiful wife Miriam who filled my life with love and happiness for almost 60 years and who did so without ever uttering a complaint or a negative word. My seven children, Kathleen, Miriam, Teresa, Laura (deceased), Jeanmarie, Kevin and Stephen have been a great source of pride and fulfilment for me. My life has also been greatly enriched by the presence of 12 grandchildren, 2 great grandchildren and my faithful friends. I thank them all for their love, affection and concern for me. I have indeed been blessed with a wonderful family. To those that I may have offended I deeply apologize and ask forgiveness, especially to my family who deserved nothing but gratitude and praise.

I take leave of this world with little or no regret. I am confident that God will accept my interactions on this earth as righteous and will continue to provide me with his abounding love. I leave with the knowledge that the love I have shared with those special souls I have mentioned above will live on and transcend all time.

To anyone with an inclination to mourn for me I ask them not to, for death is not an enemy but a friend and should be celebrated not mourned. Until I am completely free from the influences of the earth, I ask my family and friends for their prayers. Pray for me and I will pray for thee.

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Ellen Lane Wadsworth - August 12, 1953 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Ellen Lane Wadsworth, 70, passed away peacefully on April 8, 2024 in her home on the Pungo family farm that she loved, grew up on, and later retired to. Lane was born August 12, 1953 in Norfolk, VA to her parents George L. Wadsworth Jr. and Rose Ellen Wadsworth who preceded her in death.

Lane was a 1971 graduate of Kellam High School and a 1975 graduate of the University of Virginia with a Bachelor of Science in Nursing. She later attended Trinity Evangelical Divinity School where she received Master Degrees in both Divinity and Psychological Counseling.

She was an active member of Charity United Methodist Church in Virginia Beach, VA.

Lane worked many years as a trauma nurse at Sentara Virginia Beach General Hospital. She also spent seven years in the ministry pastoring both Wesley Chapel, Whaleyville, and Somerton United Methodist Churches in Suffolk, VA.

Lane was a devoted wife and loving mother and grandmother. She had a true passion for people and never met anyone who wasn’t her friend. One of the greatest joys in her life was hosting Sunday lunch after church in her home each week to bring the entire family together.

Lane is survived by her husband of 38 years John Williams; two children: Matthew Wadsworth (Susan) and David Wadsworth (Rachel); two step-children: Ben Williams (Carolyn) and Erin Williams (Robin); four siblings: Alice “Bunny” Ashley (Pat), Maryellen Kroll (Jeff), George Wadsworth III (Linda), and Robert Wadsworth II (Michele); five grandchildren: Grace Williams, Claire Williams, Olivia Wadsworth, Warren Wadsworth, and Osmany Morales; and cousin Cymathia Brigman.

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Thomas Edward Neary - September 23, 1938 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Edward Neary of Virginia Beach, by way of Boston, MA, peacefully passed away April 8, 2024, with his family by his side. Beloved husband of Theresa (Martin) Neary for 62 years, and proud father of Patricia Bates (Robert), Major General (Ret.) Stephen Neary (Tracy), Maureen Deets (Jamie), and Ann Bissell (Shawn). Devoted grandfather to Riley Neary, Christian Neary, Michael Deets, Patrick Deets, Alec Bissell, Alex Barra, Christopher Barra, Emma Bates, and his two great grandchildren. Loving brother of Catherine Paquette and caring brother-in-law of Maureen Martin. Also survived by many adoring nieces, nephews, cousins, and family friends.

Tom was born on September 23, 1938, in Boston, MA, and was the son of the late Thomas and Mary Neary. Upon graduation from Boston College, he became a Massachusetts State Trooper. Tom proudly served 2 years as a State Trooper before becoming a Special Agent of the Naval Investigative Service (NIS). After retiring from a 24 year career with NIS, he became the Clerk of Court for the General District Court of Portsmouth, VA. Tom also served his country and retired as a Captain in the United States Naval Reserve.

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Steven Norman Cutcher - January 04, 1984 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Steven Norman Cutcher, 40, passed away unexpectedly April 8, 2024 leaving a brokenhearted family behind.

Steven was born in Philadelphia Naval Hospital on January 4, 1984 but spent his life in Virginia Beach, graduating from Princess Anne High School.

He proved to be a dependable hard worker during his varied work career. When not working, he enjoyed time with his family, helping with projects, automotive and whatever else was needed.

He attended many Anime and ComicCon conventions, collecting posters, autographs and meeting various actors he had followed in different genres. He enjoyed good food and a cold drink, music and concerts with his sisters, and many family get togethers over the years.

Steven was a caring son, brother and uncle to his family. He was a dependable, generous person to his friends who could always call on him for help or to just have a good time. He will be deeply missed by his family and friends.

Steven was predeceased by his father, Steven “Smokey” Cutcher, paternal grandparents, Hoyt and Marge Cutcher, maternal grandparents, Norman and Helen Gordon.

He is survived by his mother, Marilyn Cutcher, his sisters and their families, Jeanne Hechinger, Megan, Courtney (Tyler and Ameila) Taylor (Karsynn), Melissa Michel (Jeff, Madison, Morgan), Jennifer Young (Thomas, Theo, Hope), and grandmother, Betty Gordon.

The family will receive friends from 4:00 – 6:00 PM on Sunday April 14, 2024 in H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Laskin Rd Chapel.

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John Robert Colaprete - March 10, 1942 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: John Robert Colaprete, beloved family patriarch and friend to many, passed away on March 30. Born on July 7, 1942, in Brooklyn, New York, he was the youngest of six siblings of Joseph and Sophia Colaprete. He is survived by his beloved wife of 47 years, Catherine Mary, their cherished children Lauren Howard (and husband Kevin) and Adrian (and wife Whitney) and adored grandchildren, John, Teal and Warrior. John graduated with a Bachelor’s Degree from Niagara University and served his country as a Captain in the United States Marine Corps. When he was released from duty, he began a career as a restauranteur. He was one of the founders of the iconic, Virginia Beach landmark restaurant, The Jewish Mother. In honor of the many years he served the Beach community, he was named Citizen John. He also created and owned a small boutique resort in Jamaica that attracted a coterie of international guests. And for years and years he was an avid handball player, competing with players from around the country. John is remembered by his family as the “father of all fathers,” the “teacher of all teachers,” a giant of a man who lived a life filled with warmth, kindness and deep caring. He could often be heard saying to a person, “I’m glad you were born.”

We will have a Celebration of life for Papa John Colaprete Saturday, April 6 at 3:00 at Cape Teal Farms, Eastern Shore. 6370 Glenair Ln. Cape Charles, VA 23310

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Robert Lawrence Maddry - April 05, 1933 - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Robert Lawrence “Larry” Maddry passed away peacefully Friday evening, March 29, 2024, at Carriage Hill Health and Rehabilitation Center in Fredericksburg at the age of 90. He is survived by his son Lawrence McNeill Maddry and his wife Karen, his grandson Brett Adams Maddry, his brother Norwood Buckner Maddry, sister-in-law Kathy, niece Maria and grandnephew Zane. He was born in Lumberton, North Carolina, on April 5, 1933, to the late William Thomas Maddry and Mary Morrison Lawrence.

A graduate of the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, Larry served in the U.S. Army before embarking on a journalism career. His early years included stints at three North Carolina papers: the Coastland Times, Raleigh Times, and the Chapel Hill Newspaper.

A newspaper reporter and columnist for the Virginian Pilot from 1966 until he retired in 2000, Larry turned a wry eye on the events of the day, whether it was a visiting celebrity or the local cat that was chosen to represent Hampton Roads in a national Meow Off contest in California. He was the speaker at numerous events from fund raisers to graduations and more, Larry founded the National Society of Newspaper Columnist and hosted their first conference in 1977 in Virginia Beach. He was a longtime member of the Man Will Never Fly Society (Birds fly. Men drink) in Nags Head, N.C. He also was the grand marshal of the first April Fool’s Day Doo Dah Parade in Norfolk, among other zany activities.

When he retired Larry spent time teaching adults to read with the Tidewater Literacy Council and mentoring children at Seatack Elementary School. He also enjoyed time with his friends in the BFG Book Club and a locavore dinner group. He was a Marshal at Kempsville Greens Golf Club and worked out almost daily at the Bayside Recreation Center. A lover of cats, Larry also adored his dog Mabel, a loyal companion for many years.

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George Maynard Whitfield - December 25, 1942 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: George Maynard Whitfield, 81, of Virginia Beach, VA, passed away peacefully on March 28, 2024, with loved ones by his side.

Born on Christmas Day in 1942, George's legacy is forever etched in the hearts of those he leaves behind and on the fabric of Virginia Beach through his remarkable achievements and enduring contributions in the construction arena.

George's life was defined by his quiet dedication and steadfast commitment to his work. He was an entrepreneur at heart. He was the founder and CEO of Whitfield/Gee Construction Company and Ocean Corporation. His company tag line “only nature builds it better” exemplifies his unwavering commitment to a job well done. In addition to construction, George whet his entrepreneurial appetite by dabbling in the restaurant business as part owner of restaurants located in Richmond and at the oceanfront.

George was a native of Virginia with strong ties to the local community. He served proudly on various civic minded committees, including the Board of Equalization where he served for close to a decade. He was also an active participant in both local and national politics having served on the Virginia Beach Republican City Committee and as a delegate for the Republican National Convention in Dallas in 1984.

Above all else, George cherished his role as a loving and devoted husband to Kim, who preceded him in death last year. He is survived by his children: Wendy Paulson, Jenny Goe, George Whitfield, Jr., David Morgan, Donna Bonarrigo, Jason Raper, Adam Raper, and Josh Raper and eight grandchildren. He left an indelible mark on each of them which helped shape who they are today. His presence will be deeply missed by those who knew him best.

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Jean M. Barco - October 27, 1925 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Jean M. Barco, 98, passed away on March 24, 2024 with her daughter by her side. Jean was born in Potsdam, NY and was the daughter of the late Dr. Lynn L. and Elizabeth Shannon Merrill. Growing up in NY, she graduated from SUNY Cobleskill College. She was preceded in death by her husband of 63 years, Edward A. Barco, a son, Richard Keith Barco, sister, Betty Merrill Borzilleri, two brother in laws, John Borzilleri, and Robert Barco. Jean was an earth angel with a huge heart. A ray of sunshine, and a beautiful person inside and out. She loved to cruise, in fact, she would say that she was born to cruise. She was a devoted wife and loving mother. She served as a Brownie Leader, 4 H leader, and as Cub Scout Leader for her children. She was a teacher at Mrs. Barclays Kindergarten which is now Barclay Cottage on 16th St. in Virginia Beach. She was a very talented artist, she even was entered in one of the earlier Boardwalk Art Shows. Jean was known to dress up in her own clown costume and go to nursing homes to play her piano and have sing-a-longs with the elderly residents to brighten their day. She loved Suzy Zoo cards and stickers, and loved to decorate the envelopes and send to friends. Jean loved life, animals, people, loved reading and writing poetry.

Jean is survived by her daughter, Judy Barco Calp, a sister in law, Phyllis Barco, several nieces, nephews, and good friends.

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James William Bright - December 24, 1941 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: James William Bright, 82, passed away peacefully on March 22, 2024, after a brief illness. A lifelong resident of the Creeds area of Virginia Beach, he was the only child of Marguerite Bright (Corprew) and Mark Bright both of whom predeceased him. He is survived by his wife of 60 years Anne Fentress Bright and their daughter Julia B. Hillegass (Tim). He was predeceased by his step brother Harold Corprew and step sister Gwen Corprew. Left to cherish his memory from that family are nieces Debbie Boomer (George) and hers sons George and Heath and their families and Teresa LePere and her sons Eric and Bryon and their families. He is also survived by many cousins.

Educated in public schools of Princess Anne County, Jim was a lifelong farmer, first and foremost. He worked for the Virginia Department of Forestry for 35 years, retiring in 2003. He then pursued actively his love for the soil as a produce and Christmas tree farmer and an active community member. He was a former member of the Creeds Ruritan Club, a lifetime member of the Creeds Volunteer Fire Department and a deacon emeritus at Oak Grove Baptist Church where he served in many different capacities.

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Robert Morris Burchette - April 18, 1936 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Bob Burchette accepted his casting call to Heaven on March 22, 2024. He has gone home to his Father and is truly at peace with the Lord. The son of M. Eugene and Rosalie W. Burchette, he is survived by his wife of 64 years, Beverley Burchette, his son, Stephen Burchette and wife Julie, daughter Leigh Lazos, grandchildren Emilly Mullen and husband Kevin, Claire Daugherty, Collin Burchette, Kelly Burchette, Katie Burchette, and his two great grandsons Will and Nathan.

Bob was a graduate of William & Mary College where he met and married Beverley. They started their journey in Roanoke, VA, where Bob began his successful career with the C&P Telephone Company. His executive position eventually brought him to Virginia Beach, which he and Beverley called home and raised their family.

His life was enriched by his many life-long friends, his passion for acting, and love of gardening and travel. Bob and Bev traveled the world with their cherished friends, sharing wonderful stories of adventure with his family. Bob especially enjoyed his annual summer vacations to Shrine Mont with his beloved extended Shrine Mont family.

With his family, he attended and served in multiple volunteer positions at Eastern Shore Chapel Episcopal Church. Additionally, he enjoyed community service including reading for the blind, reading for students in local elementary schools, and fund raising for WHRO.

Bob and Bev were avid patrons of the arts, including theater, art museums, music, and cinema. Bob is remembered for his numerous stage productions, earning him multiple Portfolio Magazine Best Actor Awards. Additionally, he performed in TV movies and series, including one of his favorite roles as Dr, Alex Greely in CBN’s soap opera, Another Life.

Bob’s love of the Lord, family, friends, and community will continue on as his legacy for generations to come. “Well done, good and faithful servant.” Bob wants us all to know that “The show must go on.”

A Celebration of Life will be held at Eastern Shore Chapel Episcopal Church, 2020 Laskin Rd, Virginia Beach , VA, 23454 on Saturday June 8, 2024 11:00 AM. A reception will follow in the church parish hall. Memorial contributions may be made to the Parkinson’s Foundation or Shrine Mont.

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Thomas Cornick Hunter, Jr. - September 28, 1929 - March 20, 2024

Departed: 03/20/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: On March 20, 2024, Thomas Cornick Hunter, Jr. passed away at the age of 94. Tom was born on September 28, 1929 on his family’s farm in Oceana, Princess Anne County, Virginia to his parents, Thomas Cornick Hunter, Sr. and Amelia Marcella James Hunter. When he was six, his family moved off the farm to London Bridge Road. During his youth, he was active in the Boy Scouts and became the first Eagle Scout in Princess Anne County, a fact of which he was very proud. Tom graduated from Oceana High School at the age of 16 and attended Virginia Polytechnic Institute and State University (Virginia Tech), graduating with a degree in civil engineering and obtaining his professional license. He joined the U. S. Army and was commissioned a Second Lieutenant. During his Army service, Tom also obtained his Master’s Degree from Texas A&M University.

While stationed in Washington DC, Tom met the love of his life, Marcia Janet Ward. When Tom was assigned to serve in Japan, he wrote to Jan and asked her to marry him. They married by proxy and she traveled to Tokyo where they began their life long love affair. Tom would often tell people that he “had been married twice and was playing golf the first time”. And then he would laugh and laugh. They were married for 67 years and gave their children and grandchildren a wonderful example of a good, strong marriage.

Tom served his country faithfully for 26 years. During that time he traveled the world. He was an Aide to the Chief of the Corps of Engineers, also serving in Korea and in Vietnam, where he commanded the 36th Engineer Battalion. He was a graduate of the Naval War College and a member of the General Staff at the Pentagon. Tom commanded the 24th Engineer Group in Germany, finishing his Army career as the District Engineer for New York.

After Tom retired from the Army, he started a second career as a District Manager and then Senior Vice President of the Law Engineering Group. He retired at 65 and devoted himself to his family and his church. Throughout his life, Tom was a strong and faithful member of whatever Episcopal church he attended. Tom was baptized at Eastern Shore Chapel at Oceana and was proud of the fact that his family had been faithful members for generations.

Tom was predeceased by his beloved wife, Marcia Janet Ward Hunter, his parents, Thomas Cornick Hunter Sr, and Amelia Marcella James Hunter, his brother Wilson Keeling Hunter and sister-in-law Peggy Tharpe Hunter, and nephew Wilson Keeling Hunter, Jr. (WK). He was also predeceased by his beloved uncle, Jonathan Hunter (Peck) and his wife Vandy Widgeon Hunter and his aunt, Louise Lindsey Hunter.

Tom is survived by his four children, Sharon Morris (Jimmy), Mark Hunter, Susan Erichsen and Dawn Jackson, and grandchildren Meril Raley, Marney Erichsen, James and Thomas Hunter, Mitchell Donahue and Virginia (Ginny) Hunter. He is also survived by his sister-in-law Barbara Haffner and her husband Sam and their family, his sister-in-law, Patricia Beeler and her family, and his cousin, Linda Hunter Brunick, her husband, Jerry, and their family.

A visitation with the family will be held at H. D. Oliver, 2002 Laskin Road, Virginia Beach on Sunday, March 24, 2024 from 4 to 6 PM. A graveside service will be held at Eastern Shore Chapel Cemetery on March 25, 2024 at 11 AM. Following the service, a reception will be held in the Parrish Hall at Eastern Shore Chapel.

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Thomas M. Ammons III - September 12, 1943 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Thomas M. Ammons III died on March 19, 2024. Born in Richmond, Virginia on September 12, 1943, he was the son of Thomas M. Ammons, Jr. and Margaret Warthen Jones Ammons. Tom was always proud of the fact that at the time of his birth, his father was serving as a U.S. Army Infantry Officer in the Pacific and did not return home until 1946.

Tom attended public schools in Richmond and Princess Anne County, graduating from Princess Anne High School in 1962. Tom received his undergraduate degree in political science from the University of Virginia in 1966. As an undergraduate, Tom served as vice president of the student body, was a member of the Raven Society and Sigma Phi Epsilon Fraternity, and lived at 4 East Lawn his final year. During college, he was also a member of the U.S. Marine Corps Reserve for two years. He received his law degree from the University in 1969.

Tom spent the summer between college and law school traveling throughout Europe. He bought a motorbike in Paris on which he traveled to 11 countries, an experience that forever changed his view of the world.

In 1969 and 1970, Tom lived in England and while there, received a Master of Laws degree from the London School of Economics at the University of London. While living in London, he traveled frequently in Europe and North Africa, always avoiding public transportation and instead hitchhiking or often simply walking from town to town.

Beginning in 1970, Tom practiced civil rights litigation in Mobile, Alabama, specializing in Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964, which prohibits discrimination in employment. Returning to Virginia Beach in 1972, Tom began the practice of real estate law and ultimately specialized in land use and condominium law, primarily representing builders and developers. From 1982 to 1989, Tom was a member of the Virginia Beach Planning Commission, serving as secretary for one year, vice chairman for one year, and chairman for five years. In 1988 he initiated a complete rewriting of the City’s zoning ordinance, which is still in effect today, and in 1989 the Tidewater Builders Association recognized his efforts to overhaul the City’s comprehensive plan.

In 1989, Tom was appointed by the General Assembly to serve as a judge on the Virginia Beach General District Court. He remained on the court until retiring in 2005, and during his tenure served as chief judge for five years. As a judge, Tom greatly admired law-enforcement officers, and always sought to ensure that their voices were heard in the courtroom. For years he was known by the nickname “Slammin’ Ammons” for his frequent use of incarceration for repeat violators of the law, and upon retirement, he was made an honorary deputy sheriff in recognition of his support of Virginia Beach law enforcement personnel.

Tom wanted to be the last judge in Virginia to ride a horse to court. The day before he retired in June 2005, he rode his beloved quarter horse, Buddy, to the courthouse. The ride received statewide media coverage.

Tom loved animals his entire life, especially dogs and horses. He served as a board member of the Virginia Beach SPCA for over 20 years, and after retiring from the board, was made an honorary director for life. In 2016, the Norfolk SPCA created the Thomas M. Ammons Award for contributions to animal welfare, given annually to individuals who have demonstrated a dedication to the welfare of companion animals.

In 2005, Tom worked as a volunteer at the animal shelter in Gulfport, Mississippi, which had been decimated by Hurricane Katrina. Tom loved working in animal rescue and later became certified by the Humane Society in disaster animal rescue and by Virginia Tech in horse rescue.

After learning to ride in 2004, Tom began competing in horse shows. In 2008 he was the Atlantic Saddle Club’s reserve champion in barrel racing and other speed events. In 2009, he won the Butler Farms championship in team sorting. Tom took roping lessons for three years and in 2009 competed in a professional rodeo and team roping. Tom’s faithful companion Buddy died a few years ago at an estimated age of 41 years.

Tom truly loved the University of Virginia, and in 2007 endowed a scholarship for graduate students in arts and sciences. Currently, two such students receive benefits from the scholarship each year. In 2007, Tom was made a member of the Lawn Society by the president of the University in recognition of his financial support. The majority of Tom’s estate was left to the University.

A Visitation will be held on Tuesday, April 9, 2024, from 5 to 7 PM at H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Inc., 2002 Laskin Road, Virginia Beach, Virginia. Tom would have been honored and deeply humbled if you would adopt a rescue animal in his memory or consider a contribution to the Virginia Beach SPCA or the Norfolk SPCA.

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Tonya Trimble - June 21, 1935 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Virginia Beach)

Obituary Preview: Tonya Trimble was born in Tulsa Oklahoma on June 21, 1935. She was raised and schooled in Tulsa and graduated from Benedictine Heights College with a BS degree. She went on to graduate school to get her Masters in Elementary Education with a Reading Specialist Certification.

At age 17, Tonya entered the Benedictine Order of Sisters where she remained for 12 years teaching in parochial schools. She left that convent and helped create a more updated form of religious life called Sisters for Christian Service. This afforded greater flexibility in working within the community. This group continued for the next six years. During this time, she began her public-school teaching in the inner city of Oklahoma City. This teaching position lasted for 18 years. She then moved to Virginia Beach, VA. where she was a caregiver to her mother for 16 years. During this time she taught at John B. Dey as a fourth grade teacher. Her educational service spanned 45 years including positions as Reading and Math Consultant, Teacher Trainer, Principal and teacher. She loved working with children, watercolor painting, and writing for children.

After her retirement, Tonya filled her days with volunteer work. She worked as a receptionist at Church, made home visits to the homebound, delivered Meals on Wheels, read to the Holy Family pre-school children, and continued to write, publish, and preserve family histories by scrapbooking.

Tonya was preceded in death by her father, Dr. Joe T. Trimble, her Mother Catherine Knox Trimble, and a brother John Knox Trimble. She is survived by a Sister-in-law, Lorene Trimble-Finn, two nephews, John Trimble, and Steven Trimble.

The Mass of the Resurrection will be at 11:00 am on Saturday April 13, 2024, at Holy Family Church, in Virginia Beach, VA. The service will be live-streamed at https://holyfamilyvb.org/watch. Father Eric Ayers will celebrate the Mass.

Everyone is invited to wear bright colored clothing for the celebration.

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H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Laskin Road Chapel offers a wide range of funeral services to cater to the diverse needs of families. From traditional funerals to cremation services, memorial ceremonies, and graveside services, the chapel provides personalized solutions to help families honor their loved ones. The funeral home's experienced staff works closely with families to understand their unique requirements and preferences, ensuring that every service is tailored to meet their specific needs.

Facilities and Amenities

The Laskin Road Chapel is designed to provide a comfortable and peaceful atmosphere for families to gather and pay their respects. The chapel features a spacious visitation room, a state-of-the-art audio-visual system, and ample parking facilities. The funeral home also offers a selection of caskets, urns, and other funeral merchandise to help families make informed choices.

Pre-Planning Services

H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Laskin Road Chapel understands the importance of pre-planning funeral arrangements. By planning ahead, individuals can ensure that their final wishes are respected, and their loved ones are spared from making difficult decisions during a time of grief. The funeral home's pre-planning experts work with individuals to create a personalized plan that meets their specific needs and budget.

Grief Support and Resources

Losing a loved one can be an overwhelming experience, and H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Laskin Road Chapel recognizes the need for ongoing support during this difficult time. The funeral home offers grief counseling services, support groups, and online resources to help families cope with their loss. From guidance on coping with grief to advice on navigating the bereavement process, the chapel's staff is committed to providing compassionate support every step of the way.

Community Involvement

H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Laskin Road Chapel is deeply rooted in the Virginia Beach community and is committed to giving back through various initiatives and partnerships. The funeral home participates in local charity events, supports community organizations, and collaborates with other businesses to promote awareness about important social issues.

Why Choose H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Laskin Road Chapel?

Families choose H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Laskin Road Chapel because of its reputation for excellence, compassion, and personalized service. The funeral home's experienced staff, modern facilities, and commitment to honoring each individual's unique story set it apart from other funeral homes in the region. Whether you're planning ahead or need immediate assistance, H.D. Oliver Funeral Apts., Laskin Road Chapel is dedicated to providing exceptional care and support during your time of need.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

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