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Mary A. McKenna - June 27, 1956 - May 02, 2024

Departed: 05/02/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Mary A. McKenna, 67 of Westbrook died on May 2, 2024 at Connecticut Hospice in Branford, with her husband, friends and family by her side, after a short and courageous battle with brain cancer.

Mary was born June 27, 1956, in Providence, R.I., to Marjorie and Robert McLellan. Following High School, she attended Albertus Magnus College where she received her associates degree. She began her career in the health care field as an X-Ray Technician. Mary quickly changed careers in the early 1980s becoming an IT professional and started working at The Travelers in the Computer Science Division. This is where she fostered strong business relationships with some who eventually became best friends, with those relationships lasting over 40 years. In 1983 she met her husband Jim McKenna who also worked at The Travelers, playing softball at Colt Park in Hartford. Two separate games, fields overlapped, she was in right field for one game and Jim was in left field for another. A simple defensive suggestion by Jim for her to move to her right sparked the relationship. She caught the ball but Jim hit the home run. On July 20, 1985, Mary married her favorite left fielder and Jim his favorite right fielder. Mary remained in the IT field for the remainder of her career in various capacities, as an employee, consultant, and eventually went on to start her own business with a focus on health care administrative processing.

Mary was active her entire life. She loved her yellow lab Jassie and was with her all of the time. She loved the outdoors, sailing with her father, gardening, walking, running, bird watching from her deck, playing tennis or just relaxing by her pool. She ran several 5K, 10K and ½ marathons with Jim over a period of 20 years. Up until last month, she walked over 6 miles daily with neighbors.

Mary loved life, had a generous heart and loved everyone that she came in contact with. Whenever she walked into a room with her wonderful smile the fun would start and that room became a lot brighter. She was always first in line to help out when needed, regardless of the situation. She had a wonderful core group of friends, both near and far who truly enjoyed each other’s company where there was mutual support among everyone in good times and in bad. Mary never needed an invitation, but somehow knew when to call someone or just show up at their door.

Mary is survived by her beloved husband of 39 years, Jim; her mother Marjorie McLellan, brother Randall McLellan and wife Amy, sisters Carole and Helen McLellan, and several nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by her father Robert McLellan.

Mary was strong until the final end. This is the way she lived life. She and her smile will be missed dearly by everyone who ever knew her and by everyone whose life was impacted by the deep love she bestowed on them.

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Karen Abbatello - December 01, 1964 - May 01, 2024

Departed: 05/01/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Wednesday, May 1, 2024 Karen (DiNicola) Abbatello, 59, longtime resident of Guilford and North Branford passed away peacefully at Guilford House Nursing Center after a difficult battle with early-onset Dementia.

Karen was born in New Haven on December 1, 1964, daughter of Marie (Simone) DiNicola and the late Vincenzo “Vinny” DiNicola.

Loving mother of Michael Abbatello of North Branford and Marc Abbatello of Wallingford.

Sister of Vincent DiNicola Jr., Gary DiNicola Sr., and James DiNicola Sr.

She is also survived by thirteen nieces and nephews, a continually growing generation of great nieces and nephews, and her former husband Jeffrey Abbatello.

Karen is a 1983 graduate of Guilford High School and worked most of her early years at Diagnostic Medical Lab before moving on to the family business, Abbatello Electric.

She enjoyed her dogs, the beach, and her arts & crafts including making jewelry and specialty birthday cakes. But most of all, she loved her sons and her family. Family and Friends are invited to calling hours on Monday, May 6 from 4 – 7 pm at the Guilford Funeral Home, 115 Church St, Guilford. Funeral Services will be held at the Guilford Funeral Home on Tuesday, May 7 at 10 am. Burial will follow in St. George Cemetery, Hubbard Rd, Guilford. To share a memory or leave condolences, visit www.guilfordfuneralhome.com

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Gail H Walsh - June 10, 1940 - May 01, 2024

Departed: 05/01/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Gail H. Walsh passed away peacefully in her sleep on May 1, 2024 with her family by her side. Gail was born on June 10, 1940 in Guilford, CT. She was the wife of Thomas J. Walsh of Clinton. Predeceased by her brother, Frederick E. Hill Jr. and sister in law Patricia Hill, her parents, Frederick E. Hill Sr. and Florence I. Hill. She was the mother of Tammy (Kurt) Hitzfeld of Charleston, MA., Maureen (Joseph) Talarczyk of Guilford, Sharon (Chris) Capezzone of Deep River, and Thomas P. (Jon) Walsh of Clinton. She is also survived by her grandchildren Benjamin L. Hitzfeld (Tiffany), Joe T. Talarczyk Jr., Marina F. Capezzone,Max C. Capezzone, Brendan F. Talarczyk, and Isabella C. Capezzone- Her sister in law, Catherine (Kitty) Walsh; niece, Kelly (Mike)

Hanke, Frederick E. (Denise) Hill III and Hank (Amy) Lindgren. Gail was a 1958 graduate of Guilford High School- she was a majorette, a sodajerk at Douden’s Drugstore, making Checkerberry sodas. She was a seamstress at The Village Seamstress with her friend Betsy Heery, and sister in law Patty. She also worked with microchips at Batrow’s in Branford. Gail was a devoted wife and mother, and adored her sweet Basset hound, Nellie. She loved nature and snowmobiling in Maine. She loved baking, sewing, and hosting all Holidays. She will be greatly missed by her family and friends. She was the

‘Rock’ of our family.

Visitation will be Wednesday May 8th from 4-7PM at the Guilford Funeral Home located at 115 Church St. in Guilford. There will be a service on Thursday May 9th at the Funeral Home at 10 AM burial directly following the service in Alder Brook Cemetery Boston St. Guilford.

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Michael W. Joyce - January 09, 1943 - April 28, 2024

Departed: 04/28/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Sunday, April 28, 2024 Michael W. Joyce, 81, longtime resident of Guilford passed away surrounded by his immediate family at Mid-State Hospital, Meriden. Husband of Marilyn (Gagne) Joyce. Mr. Joyce was born in Port Chester, New York on January 9, 1943, son of the late Michael J. Joyce and Loretta (Abbott) Joyce.

Loving father of Robin Bavin (William) of Guilford, CT, Sharon Stabile (Shane) of West Hartford, CT, Marilyn Valace (Greg) of Lakewood, CO, and Michael Joyce of Guilford, CT. He is also survived by 4 grandchildren, Jessica Tefft (Kyle) of Higganum, CT, Morgan Stabile of Worcester, MA, Jake Bavin of Guilford, CT, and Mason Stabile of Fairfax, VA. Brother of Cathie Shea of Spring, TX and Jackie Boucher (Michael) of New Milford, CT. Predeceased by his brothers Robert Joyce and Jeffrey Joyce and his brother in law Timothy Shea.

Michael attended high school in Mount Vernon, NY. He worked as a top climber for Tree Preservation in New York, where he trimmed the tops of the tallest trees in New York State. After moving to CT, he worked as a Truck Driver at Stop & Shop Distributors for 35 years and retired in 2004.

Michael was a devoted husband, father, and grandfather. He was a great sports fan of the New England Patriots and the Boston Red Sox. He enjoyed playing card games and sports with his family. He was an avid music lover across genres, he loved everything from classic rock to country and loved dancing with his family at all events. Michael was known as a prolific pool player since the age of 14 where he competed at the highest level. He continued to play pool for his entire life and enjoyed playing pool and cards every morning at the Guilford Community Center with his friends. He will be missed greatly by his family and friends.

Friends are invited to celebrate Michael’s life on Tuesday, April 30 from 5 – 7 pm at the Guilford Funeral Home, 115 Church St, Guilford. Funeral Services will be held at the Guilford Funeral Home on Wednesday May 1 at 10:30 am. Burial will follow in St. Agnes Cemetery, 295 E. Main St, Branford.

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Barbara Hall Nolan - May 06, 1946 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: On Sunday, April 21, 2024, Barbara Hall Nolan, 77, longtime resident of Guilford, passed away peacefully at Saint Raphael Hospital in New Haven. She was surrounded by her loving family. Barbara was the beloved wife of Frank Nolan for 57 years. She was born in New Haven on May 6, 1946, daughter of the late Henry Hall and Marian (Johnson) Hall.

Barbara was the loving mother of Jennifer Champagne (Eric) and Alison Avallone (Brian).

She is predeceased by her sister, Maurine Keeler and niece Michelle Bert.

She is survived by grandsons Wyatt Champagne, Tucker Champagne, Nolan Avallone and Aidan Avallone. Barbara is also survived by niece Deborah Flanagan (Thomas), nephews Christopher Nolan (Sally) and Sean Nolan.

She was a 1964 graduate of North Haven High School. She attended Quinnipiac College and graduated from the University of New Haven with a degree in Business Finance.

Before retirement, she worked in the Business Sales Group at AT&T.

Barbara loved spending time with family and friends, who also treasured their time with her. She enjoyed the many years that her daughters played soccer and the family trips to tournaments. Other pastimes included studying Spanish, trips to the casino, and she was a big fan of General Hospital and Hallmark movies. Her favorite family vacation spot was Misquamicut Beach. Most of all, spoiling her grandsons was her passion.

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Joseph W. Mocarski - January 04, 1936 - April 20, 2024

Departed: 04/20/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Saturday, April 20, 2024 Joseph W. Mocarski, 88, longtime resident of Madison passed away at his home. Loving companion of Frances Hamilton.

Mr. Mocarski was born in Stamford, CT on Jan. 4, 1936, son of the late Lawrence Mocarski and the late Jean (Czar) Mocarski. Father of Mark D. Mocarski of Bethesda, MD, Steven J. Mocarski of Bethesda, MD and Nancy E. Mocarski of Thomaston, ME. He is survived by his brothers, Alexander Mocarski of West Haven, CT and Daniel Mocarski of Chamberlain, ME.

Joseph honorably served his country in the U.S. Marine Corps. He is a 1957 graduate of the University of Notre Dame. Before retirement he had worked as a marketing executive in product management for a number of well-known firms including General Foods, J. Walter Thompson, Gillette, Howard Johnson, and International Multifoods.

In addition to rooting for the Fighting Irish, Joseph made a point of celebrating the U.S. Marine Corps birthday every November 10 without fail.

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Marguerite Ann Scecina - July 18, 1938 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Marguerite Ann (Hanrahan) Scecina longtime resident of Guilford passed away quietly on Monday April 15th, 2024, at Whispering Pines Nursing Center, East Haven.

She was the wife of the late Thomas E. Scecina.

Marguerite was born in New Haven July 18, 1938, daughter to the late Michael and Francis (Courtney) Hanrahan. She was the loving mother of Mark Scecina of New Haven, Thomas Scecina of Wallingford, and Taryn Scecina of Branford. She was an active member of St George’s church in Guilford for over 30 years, involved in the bible study group and charitable activities. Her passions were attending arts & craft festivals, vacationing in Cape Cod and Florida and game show television. Marguerite was a very caring person for her extended family and friends, always supportive in life’s circumstances.

Marguerit was a member of the first graduating class at St Aedan’s school in New Haven. She also attended Sacred Heart high school before going to St Mary’s Nursing School in Waterbury, receiving her RN in nursing. She worked for the VA Hospital, the Visiting Nurses Assoc. and Yale University Health. Returning to obtain her Public Health degree later in life, she again returned to work for both Yale at Cancer Information Center and the VA in various roles.

She is survived by her sister Ann Hetherington of Guilford, brother the late Michael Hanrahan and grandchildren Ben, Noah and Kayleigh.

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Ellen C. Schmidt - April 26, 1925 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Thursday, April 11, 2024, Ellen C. Schmidt, 98, resident of Madison, CT and most recently living at Gladeview Rehabilitation and Health Center, Old Saybrook, CT, went to her heavenly home with her son and granddaughter at her side.

Wife of the late George Henry Schmidt, Mrs. Schmidt was born in New Haven, New York on April 26, 1925, daughter of the late Edward Van Buren and Bertha (Raymond) Van Buren.

The loving mother of Sharon Schmidt of Madison, CT and George Schmidt of Mystic, CT. She is also survived by her grandchildren, Ernest Scott Remillard of San Diego, CA, Lauren Rose Remillard of Woodstock, CT, and George Edward Schmidt and wife Heather of New Jersey, and great grandchildren, Eleanor Willa Remillard, Denton Schmidt and Carlotta Schmidt. Her sister-in-law Louise (Schmidt) Cloonan, nephew John Cloonan and wife Debra, niece Lynn Forbes, nephew Thomas Forbes and wife Kimberly.

She was predeceased by her sisters the late Bertha (Van Buren) Hubbard and husband Arthur and Margaret (Van Buren) Forbes and husband Emmer and sister-in-law Mary Schmidt.

Ellen is a 1943 graduate and long-time alumni member of Mexico Academy Central High School, Mexico, New York. She was in the Archery Club; the Four-H Club and the Art Club where she designed the MAC school flag which continues to be the school flag to this day. After marriage and starting their family in Oswego, New York, Ellen and George moved with George’s company to Sommerset, Kentucky where they resided for about eight years before finally settling in Springfield, MA. She worked and retired from US Envelope, Springfield, MA. She was an active member of Bethesda Lutheran Church.

Church was always an important part of her life and where she developed strong relationships with so many friends. She loved everyone, the activities and was always willing to lend a hand.

Most of all, she loved her family, holiday gatherings, Sunday dinners, receiving cards and calls, and viewing family pictures on her iPad. Her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren were the most special part of her life.

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Ethel (Fowler) Nann - January 06, 1930 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Friday, April 5, 2024 Ethel (Fowler) Nann, 94, longtime resident of Northford passed away at Yale New Haven Hospital following complications from a fall at her home.

Mrs. Nann was born in New Haven on January 6, 1930, daughter of the late Frederick Fowler and Edyth (Parke) Fowler. Wife of the late Edward F. Nann and loving mother of her daughters Patricia Nann (Duane Gray) of Guilford and Dorothy Grannis (late husband Donald) of Northford, and grandson, Justin Grannis of Burlington, MA. She is also survived by her sisters Jean Carlson and Muriel Tiedemann (Bud), brother Frank Fowler (Betsy), and several nieces and nephews.

She enjoyed both vegetable and flower gardening, reading and doing jigsaw puzzles with her daughters.

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Bill Holcomb - May 30, 1938 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: William Ho1comb,85, a lifelong resident of Guilford passed away peacefully on April 3 at Apple Rehab in Guilford with Margaret, his beloved wife of 64 years by his side.

Bill was born on May 30, 1938 son of Ann and Albert Holcomb. He is survived by his sons Bill (Tracey) of Maine, Chad of Connecticut, and his daughter Kathleen Rim1inger (Frank) of Colorado. Bill has five grandchildren Thomas (Bernadette), Anna (Cole) Jessa (Joe), Jamie (Najee) and Alex; and four great grandchildren, Gavin, Artemis, Athena, and Felix. He is also survived by his sisters, Judy Neubig and Marie Ready, as well as nieces, nephews and cousins and a host of friends. His family and friends were the centerpiece of his life.

A 1956 graduate of Guilford High school, Bill then attended UCONN for three years. G.H.S. class reunion events followed through the years; of which Bill was always involved. In 1960 Bill and Margaret were married in Richmond, Indiana, where Margaret was attending Earlham College. They built their home in 1968 near Bittner Park in Guilford and lived there for 50 years. A Jack-of-all Trades, Bill could fix anything; never had to call a repairman to the Holcomb household! Bill had a variety of local employment; most notably as an electrician and painter for Quonnipaug Hills condominiums and wood, Steel and Glass in Madison.

Bill's passion during his growlng up years was baseball! He began playing L.L. ball on the Guilford Green! Always an avid Red Sox fan, he would recall to anyone who would listen, how he was once a bat boy at Fenway Park and had a glove which was signed by the team, including Joe Cronin and Ted Williams! So it was to his delight in 1961 when a position opened up for coaching L.L. baseball for 10 to 12 year olds at the major league level. Thus began his "volunteer career" as a coach for 31 years, and 5 more years as an umpire. He loved this age group and was proud of all the children he coached. He hoped he became a role mode1in a positive way for each of them in the wider game of life.

Other areas of service to his community were many years as a Boy Scout leader for Troop #472 in North Guilford, a volunteer fireman, and a poll worker for local, state and presidential elections. A 50 year member of the North Guilford congregational church, Bill served as a deacon, a moderator, and was on a variety of committees. Through those years the annual country church Fair, the couples club and Bible study Groups were fun and rewarding experiences. This past decade.  Bill became a devoted member of the North Branford Congregational Church community, which he joined in March 2020. Bill's hobbies included an extensive collection of 1950's music-78's, 45's and LP'S, photography, gardening, chess, and various card games. He and Margaret traveled throughout all 50 states and to Canada and South Africa. Their favorite place to be was their cabin in "Brightwater" on the rock-bound coast of Maine which for over 60 years has been a gathering spot with family and friends. "Memories are Made of This"!

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Marion Hoben Cooksley - July 08, 1937 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Marion Hoben Cooksley, 86, passed away peacefully surrounded by family on April 1.

Marion grew up in Naugatuck in a multi-generational home, where she and her six brothers and sisters were in and out of constant mischief. She graduated from Saint Margaret’s School for Girls in Waterbury and attended UCONN in Storrs and Southern Connecticut State University where she majored in English and History. She later earned a MSW at the UCONN School for Social Work. Marion married and had a family with Stanley Banaszewski (divorced). More than anything Marion loved to swim and read. She appreciated all the times spent with family, and relished the large family reunions where her wry sense of humor was on full display. The beauty of flowers captured her heart. Her cat Miranda provided much joy to Marion; she was the second of two adopted from the Dan Cosgrove Animal Shelter. Professionally, Marion worked as a social worker for many years, and this made perfect sense as she loved people. She was a mentor to many, and always advocated for a more just world, especially for those in recovery.

She is survived by her three daughters Marion (Gregory) Belanger, Anne Banaszewski, Tania (John) Lanzillotto; grandchildren John Belanger (Julia Bennett) and Valerie Belanger (William Reynolds); great- grandchildren Isabella and Grayson Belanger Reynolds; siblings John (Jane) Hoben, Sandra (Allen Goodman) Hoben, and sister-in-law Sue Hoben. She was predeceased by her parents John and Marion (Butler) Hoben; siblings Suzanne Hinchey, Richard Hoben, Barbara Dotts, and Bruce Hoben. She adored her many cousins, nieces, and nephews – they brought so much love and light into her world. Marion will be dearly missed.

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Andrew A. Amarante - April 24, 1929 - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: On Good Friday, March 29, 2024, Andrew A. Amarante, 94, of Guilford, CT passed away peacefully at his home surrounded by loved ones.

Andy was born in New Haven on April 24, 1929, son of the late Antonio and Lucia Amarante.

Andy is survived by his wife of 67 years, Carmel “Lee” Amarante and his three daughters: Lucy (Walter) Krauchick, Lisa Amarante, and Karen (Lane) Tasto. He is also survived by six grandchildren: Kevin Krauchick, Ryan Krauchick, Brianna Oboikovitz-Tasto, Brittney Oboikovitz-Tasto, Shawna Bell, Breanna Tasto and nine great-grandchildren.

He is predeceased by his brother and sisters Madeline (Philip) Minichino, John (Ann) Amarante, Mary (Tony) Fraulo, Joseph (Anna) Amarante, Frank (Mary Girl) Amarante, Trifomena (Alphonse) Esposito, and Nancy (Santo) Piersanti.

Andy grew up in New Haven, CT where he attended Wilbur Cross High School. He was a proud veteran of the US Navy where he served honorably and traveled the world on the USS Ingraham. When he returned from duty, he worked for the Southern Connecticut Gas Company in the Street Department where he took great pride in his involvement with the company union up until his retirement.

Andy had a big heart and above all, enjoyed spending time with his family. Some of his pastimes included playing bocce with Alfred DeMichele, getting Thursday morning breakfast with Anthony Amarante, Benedetto Minichino, and Bobby Savino, and crabbing with his grandson Ryan and Anthony and Joanne Amarante. He loved to travel and visit his granddaughters in Florida. A fan of country music, Andy could always be heard singing and whistling his favorite tunes. Andy was a proud Italian American who enjoyed socializing with friends and family over a strong cup of espresso and a napoleon pastry. He was a devout member of the St. George Catholic Church.

Family and friends may visit at the Guilford Funeral Home, 115 Church Street in Guilford, CT on Friday, April 5from 4:00-7:00PM. Funeral will be held at St. George Catholic Church, 33 Whitfield Street in Guilford, CT on Saturday, April 6 at 10:00AM followed by a burial at St. George Cemetery.

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Judith (Beach) Martindale - July 17, 1941 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Wednesday, March 27, 2024, Judith (Beach) Martindale, 82, longtime resident of Clinton peacefully passed away at Middlesex Hospital with her sons by her side.

Wife of the late Harry F. Martindale (Buddy), they would have celebrated their 65th wedding anniversary in July. They enjoyed a wonderful life of adventures raising their boys in Guilford CT, and spending time at their homes in Denmark Maine, Clinton and Sarasota Florida.

Mrs. Martindale was born in Derby on July 17, 1941, graduated from Shelton High School and was the daughter of the late Lewis Beach and Myrtle (Morris) Beach.

Loving mother of Harry Martindale and his wife Lori of Clinton and Lewis Martindale and his wife Marci of Westbrook. She is also survived by her grandchildren Harry Martindale IV (Michelle), Kevin Martindale, Nicholas Martindale (Gabrielle), Caila Martindale (Albert), Alisabeth Martindale (Bryant), Rachael Nunez (Pedro), Rebecca Quinn (George), Melissa Quinn and Noah Quinn. Great grandchildren Abigail, Julianna, Harry V, Valentine, Grey, Lucan, Clover, Tierra, Luciana, Sky, Violet, and Posey.

Judi enjoyed life. She and Buddy loved to spend time with their friends and family with lots of picnics, holidays, camping and card games. Most recently, she loved pizza parties with the kids, shrimp rolls, sitting on the front porch with Rebel, sending the great grandchildren cards for EVERY holiday, and watching Saturday Night Fever or Grease reminiscing about the old days.

Special thank you to Alanna Oldham who spent countless hours taking Judi shopping and out for lunch. It meant the world to her. Alanna is not just a friend she is part of our family now.

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George Joseph Gaughran - August 16, 1937 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Wednesday, March 27, 2024, George Joseph Gaughran, 86, longtime resident of Guilford, passed away surrounded by his loving family. George Gaughran was born in Middletown, NY, on August 16, 1937, son of the late George and Alice Condon Gaughran. Beloved husband of Kathleen Pisarra-Gaughran. Loving father of Stephanie Gaughran-Moscato and her husband Angelo of Guilford, and Julie Gaughran-Etes and her husband Stephen of Guilford. He is also survived by treasured grandchildren Nicholas Moscato, AJ Moscato, Audra Etes, and Stephen Etes all from Guilford. George was a devoted brother of Joan Radecki of East Northport, NY. He was fortunate to have had many lifelong meaningful relationships with extended family. He was predeceased by his sister Mary Lou Burns of Tulsa, OK.

George was a 1955 graduate of St. Mary’s High School, Rutherford, New Jersey. A natural athlete, he played football, basketball and of course baseball, his favorite sport. On athletic scholarship he entered Saint Peter’s University, in Jersey City, NJ, graduating in 1959 with a BS in Business Administration. Among his best memories were lettering in golf, baseball and basketball and participating in the 1958 NIT Tournament.

George and Kay met following a series of curious circumstances that led to a blind date in 1958, became engaged in 1959, and married in 1960. They were gifted with 63+ years of life to share.

George honorably served the US Navy from 1959 to 1966. He was commissioned in 1960 and received his Wings of Gold in 1961. He flew the reconnaissance F8 Crusader during the Cold War and over Cuba during the Cuban Missile Crisis. He enjoyed recounting tales of his time spent on both the USS Enterprise and USS Saratoga aircraft carriers. He retired as a Lieutenant. His love of airplanes and flying led him to join American Airlines in 1966. He retired in 1997 as a Captain. He led a flight crew and ground crew who worked as an efficient strong team. Some flight crews called him Captain “Donut” because of the treats he brought for each flight. The ground crew competed for George’s infamous “pushback evaluations” that he would post on his cockpit window before each takeoff!

He valued the meaning of HONOR greatly as it related to his family, his country and himself. He enjoyed family times; attending his grandchildren’s sporting events; fly fishing summers in Montana; PB&J; driving Miss Daisy, a.k.a., his wife, Kay; reading military history and political thrillers; his work with the local American Legion; vanilla milkshakes; visiting local business owners in Guilford, and moments at the marina. You knew you were special to him if he gave you a “zinger”, as he loved to joke.

Gratitude to all the staff at The Guilford House for their loving and professional care! Thanks also to The CT Hospice nurses for their reassurance. George valued his life and battled his illness with strength. May he rest in peace and know he will forever be in our hearts!

Friends are invited to a Mass of Christian Memorial which will be celebrated at St. George, Church, 33 Whitfield St., Guilford, CT, on Saturday, May 4 at 10 AM. Burial will be private.

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Frederick S. Smith - December 10, 1931 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Frederick S. Smith, 92, a longtime resident of Guilford, passed away at his home at Evergreen Woods in North Branford on Tuesday March 26, 2024. Fred was the husband for sixty-six years to the late Barbara (McLeod) Smith who passed January, 2022.

He is survived by his son Frederick Jr (Maryanne) of Yardley, PA, his daughter Deborah Hathaway (Thomas) of Norwell, MA, his son Brendan (Susan) of Branford, CT and his son Patrick (Susanna) of Essex, CT. He is also survived by his grandchildren Seana, Conor, Elizabeth, Katherine, Kelsea, Rebecca, Nathaniel, Patrick, Delaina, Emmaline, Samuel, and Frederick III (Sam). Emily Smith predeceased her grandfather in 1988. He also welcomed great-grandchildren Henry, Stowe, Daniel, Gray and Clara. Fred is also survived by his brother Richard Smith (Marilyn) of Naples, Florida. Fred was predeceased by his brother John L. Smith Jr. as well as his sisters Katherine Murphy and Nancy O’Brien.

Fred was born in Jamestown, Rhode Island on December 10, 1931, the third of five children of John L Smith and Grace Delahunt Smith. As an islander, Fred rode the ferry to Newport for high school where Fred graduated from De La Salle High School. Fred made an effort to time his ferry trips to accompany his future bride. By 14, Fred had his driver’s license in order to work at his father’s commercial greenhouses on Jamestown. While attending URI, Fred obtained his Captain’s license and worked for the Jamestown-Newport Ferry.

After graduating from the University of Rhode Island, Fred attended and graduated from the Naval Officer Candidate School in Newport. Fred honorably served his country in the Navy, serving in both active duty and the reserves through 1981 when he retired as Lieutenant Commander. At the end of his active duty, Fred served as an instructor in the Amphibious Training Command, which convinced him to pursue a career in education. He was a social studies teacher in the Guilford School system for 33 years at the Junior High School and Middle School levels. He returned to school while teaching, earning graduate degrees at UConn. In addition to teaching, Fred was also the Director of the Adult Education Program in Guilford in the 1970’s and 80’s. He served on the Guilford Pension Committee for many years, finishing as the group’s Chairman.

Fred and Barbara enjoyed a fulfilling retirement together. First and foremost, they enjoyed time with their growing extended family. Known as Papa and Bobbie to their grandchildren, they took an active interest in their grandchildren’s lives, attending many games and events throughout the northeast. They also shared a passion for traveling, visiting all seven continents. While their travels took them to the far reaches of the globe, they always returned to their favorite cities, Paris and London.

Fred was also a faithful member of Keyarts Klamberers. These adventurers walked all over New England each Wednesday. Fred especially enjoyed leading the group for its annual Ocean Drive Walk in Newport where he also was able to show his friends his “hometown”. Fred was also an avid reader and was rarely seen without a newspaper tucked under his arm.

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Michael Anthony Fonicello - October 26, 1952 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Tuesday, March 26, 2024 Michael Anthony Fonicello, 71, longtime resident of Guilford passed away at Middlesex Hospital, Middletown. Michael was born in Middletown, CT on October 26, 1952, son of the late Pasquale Fonicello and Lucille M. (Ansalone) Fonicello.  Beloved brother of Thomas Fonicello of Guilford and the late Stephen Anthony Fonicello.

Michael is also survived by his aunts Helen and Doris, along with many  cousins.

Michael is a 1970 graduate of Guilford High School and attended business classes at the University of New Haven. He owned his own landscaping company. Michael’s passion was playing music on his bass guitar. He played at numerous venues along the East Coast. Michael was also an avid fisherman.

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Eleanor (O'Connell) Sullivan - February 25, 1945 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Eleanor (O’Connell) Sullivan, beloved wife, aunt and friend to many, formerly of Killingworth, Salem, and Guilford, CT, and the Villages, FL, passed away at age 79.

Eleanor, loving wife and cherished aunt, passed away peacefully on March 25, 2024. She was surrounded by her family and friends, who will forever remember her warmth, kindness, and unwavering love.

Born on February 25, 1945, in New Haven, CT, Eleanor was the daughter of Agnes and Jeremiah O’Connell. She grew up in New Haven, CT. There she met the love of her life, Richard Sullivan. Their love story was one of devotion and companionship and they shared many wonderful years together until his passing in 2012. Despite the loss, Eleanor continued to honor his memory and carried his love with her every day.

Eleanor was predeceased by her parents, Agnes and Jeremiah, and her beloved siblings, John (Jack) O’Connell of Stonington, CT, Maureen Tierney of Guilford, CT, Agnes (Bunky) Venice of Bayside, NY, Brother Kevin O’Connell, O.P, of Providence, RI, Robert (Bobby) O’Connell of New Haven, CT, Karen McHugh of Guilford, CT, and Lt. James O’Connell of New Haven, CT, brother-in-law Gary Sullivan, North Branford/Salem, CT, sister-in-law, Irene Sullivan Eagan, Wells, ME. She is survived by her brother-in-law Frank Venice, of Manchester, CT, and sisters-in-law, Jean O’Connell, of VA, and Linda Olson of East Bethel, ME.

Family was paramount to Eleanor, and she took great joy in her role as an aunt. She was adored by her many nieces and nephews, whom she showered with affection and wisdom. Nothing brought her more joy than to be surrounded by her family and friends at her lake house in Salem, CT. Eleanor was a constant source of comfort and guidance to them, always offering a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on.

Eleanor will be deeply missed by her many nieces and nephews, as well as her extended family and friends. Her legacy of love, compassion, and resilience will continue to inspire all who knew her.

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Henry Edward Mancuso, Jr. - June 22, 1933 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: To encapsulate the life of a wonderful human being on a single sheet of paper is a difficult thing to do. We will do our best.

Henry Edward Mancuso, Jr. was a dynamic man with a myriad of talents and a keen intellect. A devoted and loving son to his parents, Minnie and Henry Mancuso; a true partner to the love of his life and wife of almost 70 years, Ann Wiley Mancuso; and a supportive, involved and loving father to his five children; Steven Mancuso (Sally), Joanne Mancuso McSherry (Ted), Gregory Mancuso (Roberta), Susan Mancuso Zerio (Pete) and Henry Mancuso (Kelly). He had the joy of being close to all of his 8 grandchildren; Evan Honsberger (Cara), Sarah Nicolaides (Mario), Ian Honsberger (Morgan), Stephanie Lombardi (Scott), Justin Mancuso (Alyssa), David Lefkin (Brooke), Morgan Mancuso and Jessica Adams (Tim) as well as his 12 great grandchildren; George and Iliana Nicolaides, Leila, Callie and Max Lombardi, Brody and Will Mancuso, Miles and Jack Honsberger, Wiley Honsberger, Chase Lefkin and Easton Adams to whom he was “Poppy” and loved more than words can express.

Henry was born in New Haven, Connecticut on June 22, 1933. He was the only child of Minnie and Henry but was adored by a large family of aunts and uncles that were ever present in his life. He grew up on Beacon Avenue and there came his childhood nickname “Beak.” He was an athletic kid and spent time playing baseball with the neighborhood kids, frequently picking Ann Wiley to be on his team. And so it goes, this is where their romance began.

He attended Wilbur Cross and Hillhouse High School and after graduation went on to study at Tufts University. Marrying Ann Wiley on June 5, 1954, he began a journey that encompassed a stint in Korea serving his country, a long and successful career with John Hancock Financial Services, and countless hours supporting his kids on the soccer fields, basketball courts, field hockey and baseball fields as well as at chorus, madrigal, and theatrical productions.

His presence was also felt in his generous efforts in the organization of the Guilford Youth Football Program, participation in the Guilford Youth Soccer Program, coaching Pony League baseball and as an integral member of the Guilford Lakes Golf Course renovation committee.

His successes in his career afforded him the ability to retire young and travel frequently with his wife, Ann, as well as winter in Long Boat Key, Florida, their home away from home for 25 years.

His was a life well lived and his legacy can be seen in his family that has now grown from just two to almost forty.

Henry was a man of integrity, strength, kindness, and humility who had a special knack for seeing things as they were and facing all that he encountered head on. He led by example and left his mark on us all. His wisdom and love will be profoundly and deeply missed by all who are lucky enough to have known him.

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George (Ron) Lacko - May 03, 1942 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: George (Ron) Lacko peacefully passed away Saturday, March 23rd, 2024, at the age of 81. He was predeceased by his first wife, Patricia W.H. Lacko.

He was born and raised in Branford, Ct., Son of the late George Lacko Sr. and Mary Alice Hanchak Lacko. He is survived by his wife, Darlene Weitzman Lacko. Father of Patty Ferguson, and her husband, Gregg Ferguson, Step Son, Nate Kaplowitz and his wife, Kim, Step Daughter Molly Koren and her husband, Yuval Koren. Brother of Susan Moore, and his favorite Brother-in-Law, Stephen Moore. Ron was blessed with seven grandchildren-Grandsons Gregory Ferguson and his wife Jessica, John Ferguson, and Joseph Ferguson. Gabriel Koren, and his brother Isaac Koren, and Granddaughters Payton Kaplowitz and her sister, Rory Kaplowitz.

Ron's greatest joy was being a grandfather. He loved going fishing with his grandsons and his granddaughters. He taught all of them the art of catching the biggest and best fish, but unless they were big enough to eat, he taught them to throw them back into the water to live for another day. He also taught them to be patient, but if the fish weren't biting in one location, he'd take them to four or five other locations until at least one of them caught a fish. None of them were upset if they didn't catch a fish because when they were with Grandpa Ron, they always had a lot of fun, which was the real highlight of their time together. When the season of the year wasn't appropriate to go fishing, Grandpa Ron and all of the grandchildren were happy to play board games together. The biggest source of fun in playing board games with grandpa Ron was to see who could catch him trying to cheat or change the rules of the game so that he could win. Grandpa Ron was a "legend" at seeming to be playing fairly while actually playing the game according to his rules. The real winner of these games was the grandchild that figured out and exposed grandpa's attempts to get away with his cheating strategies. This was always a great source of good natured laughter and joyous triumph.

Ron loved boats, particularly sail boats. When he wasn't with members of the family, you could often find him outside working on his boat. When he was satisfied that the boat was once again seaworthy, he took great delight in returning it into the water and sailing off into the sunset. He also enjoyed being a member of the Branford Yacht Club for many years.

George graduated from Branford High School and the University of New Haven, where he earned a four year degree in Business Administration with a minor in Mechanical Engineering.

After he graduated from college, he wanted to do something for his country and he proudly joined the United States Army. After he honorably served his assigned tour of duty, he became employed by Sikorsky Aircraft, where he worked in the Quality Control Engineering Department. While he worked at Sikorsky, he created a number of new mechanical parts which helped improve aircraft construction and resulted in earning him government approval of his work and U.S. Patent status approval ratings.

George (grandpa Ron) was a good man who loved his family who will greatly miss his presence in their lives.

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Diane Frances Guerra - June 07, 1938 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Diane Frances Guerra, beloved mother, grandmother, daughter, sister and friend passed away peacefully on March 22, 2024 at the age of 85 with her family around her at Yale New Haven Hospital. She will be deeply missed by her sisters Patricia Bentivogli, Claire Seifert, Gail Jewell, her sister-in-law Camille DeRiso, her three children Patti Guerra, Joe Guerra, and Barb Guerra-Jankowski, her two Grandchildren Sam and Jac Guerra, her Daughter-in-Law Lisa Guerra, her Son-in-Law Ron Jankowski, and all who knew her. Diane was preceded in death by her brothers Jack Farrow, Joe Farrow, and Paul Farrow.

Born on June 7, 1938 in Newark, New Jersey, she was the daughter of John and Doris Farrow. She recently resided in Middlefield, CT via Branford, CT via Madison, CT. Diane’s unwavering love and dedication to her family and friends defined her life’s journey. It has been echoed that “Diane was always a Mother first”. She spent the majority of her career at Bank of America, forming lifelong friendships along the way. Diane’s selflessness and nurturing spirit touched the lives of everyone she encountered and was “best friend” to many. Please join us in celebrating her life and the lasting impact of her kindness and compassion.

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Janet Stapleford Blaha - February 06, 1942 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Janet Stapleford Blaha a longtime resident of Guilford passed away quietly on March 19, 2024 , at her home in Guilford.

She was the wife of the late William Ashman Blaha.

Janet was born in Concord, New Hampshire February 6, 1942, daughter to the late Vernon Stapleford and Virginia Spear Stapleford of Boothbay Harbor, Maine. She was the loving mother of Bonnie Blaha of Middletown. She was an active member and leader of the Appalachian Mountain Club, New Haven Hiking Club, and the Branford Hikers. She loved playing tennis, swimming, skiing, bicycling, hiking, sailing, camping, and paddling canoes and kayaks. She lived a life close to nature and animals; especially cats. She valued being in the outdoors with friends more than material possessions.

Janet was a graduate of Branford High School and received a bachelor's degree from Southern Connecticut State University in physical education. She worked as a physical education teacher in Guilford.

She is survived by her daughter Bonnie Blaha, her sister June Monahan, and brother in law John Monahan.

Friends are invited to a burial service on April 20 from 11:30 am at the Alder Brook Cemetery, 375 Boston Street Guilford.

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Lorraine Jacqueline Elmo Taylor - July 13, 1928 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Lorraine Jacqueline Elmo Taylor, 95, a resident of The Guilford House, peacefully passed away in her sleep on Sunday, March 17th. She was predeceased by her husband, Robert Taylor and daughter, Suzanne (Robert Cofer).

Lorraine was a faithful mother and wife whose husband and family adored her.  Lorraine lit up every room she walked into with her sense of style, her laugh and her sharp wit.  She was loving, affectionate and kind with a great sense of humor.  Lorraine was playful and silly.  Her love of making her family laugh was matched only by their love of making her laugh in return.  Despite being notorious for never being able to pose properly for a picture, Lorraine was a beautiful and radiant person.  She was creative and enjoyed cooking, painting, and traveling. With her husband Bob, she went on over 50 cruises and took trips all around the world.  But her favorite times were spent with her family.  They were the bedrock of her life.

She is survived by her daughters Karen (Ron Roane) and Kathryn Dann (Tom Romanik) along with 8 grandchildren, Maria Fresques (Lee), Daniel Waer (Sindy), Robert Waer (Kelsey), Christopher Dann (Lauren), Jessica Cohen (Andrew) and Jennifer, James and Matthew Cofer. She was also blessed with 8 great-grandchildren, Daniel and Aaron Waer, Summer and Brody Dann, Layne and Maren Waer, and Chase and Maisie Cohen. Nothing made her happier than hearing about them, seeing their photos and visiting with them in person.

Lorraine’s family is especially thankful to the caring staff at The Guilford House, The Connecticut Hospice and her loving caregivers, Sharon, Jocelyn and MaryAnn, who loved her like family.

There will be a family-only gathering to celebrate her life at The Village Lutheran Church, Bronxville, in the near future where she will be interned with her husband, Robert.

Donations in Lorraine’s memory may be made to the first hospice in the US, The Connecticut Hospice, 100 Double Beach Road, Branford CT 06405 www.hospice.com.

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Robert D. Cretella - September 17, 1944 - March 16, 2024

Departed: 03/16/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Saturday, March 16, 2024 Robert D. Cretella longtime resident of Guilford passed away at CT Hospice, Branford. Mr. Cretella was born in New Haven on September 17, 1944, son of the late Dominic Cretella and Mary (Dalessio) Cretella. Brother of Corrine Horvath. Loving father of April Cretella of Guilford, Trisha Cretella of Guilford and Angelina Cretella of Bridgeport. He is also survived by six grandchildren, Dominic, Vincenzo, Luna, Luca, Noah and Phoenix. His grandchildren were truly his pride and joy.

Robert had worked as a general car sales manager for many years. He enjoyed being in the sunshine. Whether it was laying on a beach or in a lawn chair in the yard, where the sun was he followed. He would say, “if only it could be California weather in CT, 75 and sunny.” He loved longs walks by Long Island sound. He loved classic Italian cuisine especially, italian ice, pignoli cookies and stuffed breads. He loved watching baseball and football, as well as he loved watching horse racing and going to the casino.

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Bernice L. Klebaur - November 24, 1924 - March 05, 2024

Departed: 03/05/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Tuesday, March 5, 2024, Bernice (Hess) Klebaur, 99, longtime resident of Tuttles Point in Guilford passed away at Connecticut Hospice, Branford.

Mrs. Klebaur was born in Newark, NJ on Nov. 24, 1924, wife of the late Eugene J. Klebaur. daughter of the late Louis M. Hess and Louise (Fraebel) Hess and Sister of the late Victoria (Hess) Stewart (deceased Husband, Francis Stewart). She is survived by Cousin Carole Clifford (late husband John Ashcom) of Quakertown, PA, Niece Judi Klebaur of High Bridge, NJ. and Nephew Edward J. Klebaur, Jr (wife Mary Ann Klebaur) of Salisbury, NC. In addition, she is survived by many other nieces and nephews.

Bernice is a 1942 graduate of Columbia High School in Maplewood, NJ where she met her future husband, Gene. They were married May 3, 1945. Before retirement she taught dance for 30 years at her own studio, known as Miss Bernice’s Dance Studio. It was in the old Grange Hall in Guilford. Her dancing career began as an 18-year-old when she became a Rockette at Radio City Music Hall. After about eight years as a Rockette, she joined the June Taylor Dancers on the Jackie Gleason Saturday evening TV variety show.

She loved being near the water, both in Connecticut and in Florida where she wintered for about 30 years. She was an accomplished water skier and she also enjoyed gardening, crafts and painting. She will be remembered as a wonderful lady and loved by all whom she touched.

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Rita Burns Quick - December 07, 1948 - March 02, 2024

Departed: 03/02/2024 (Guilford)

Obituary Preview: Rita Burns Quick, a cherished resident of Guilford, CT for over 50 years, passed away peacefully on March 2nd, 2024. She departed surrounded by her beloved family and devoted husband after bravely battling Cancer for 28 years.

Rita illuminated the world with her warmth, kindness, and was an exceptional mother and "Nannie." She was preceded in death by her parents, Lester and Mary (Moran) Burns, her brother Lester Burns, Sr., and his wife Shirley (Kamm) Burns, and brother-in-law Kevin Rogers. She is survived by her loving husband of 50 years, Arthur Quick, her sister Susan Burns Rogers, and brother David and Lorraine (Owens) Burns. Rita's legacy continues through her children: Kenneth and Cheryl (Mann) Quick of North Haven, CT, and their sons Owen and Jack; Paula (Quick) and Jeffery Heser of Clinton, CT, and their children Kam and Louis; Brian and Christine (Sousa) Quick of Franklin, MA, and their children Samuel, Julia, and Audrey. Family meant everything to her, especially her seven grandchildren, who were her pride and joy, along with numerous cousins, nieces, and nephews whom she cherished.

Rita was a graduate of West Haven High School and dedicated herself to her children's education, serving as PTA President. She later embarked on a 30-year career at Lester Telemarketing in Branford. Rita and Art enjoyed winters in Jupiter, Florida, they enjoyed fishing off their dock and spending time with friends.

In retirement, she embraced her role as "Nannie Quick," sharing her passion for cooking, family gatherings, travel, and card games. Rita was a familiar face at her grandchildren's sporting events and school activities, always cheering them on with unwavering support.

Above all, Rita was fiercely loyal, exceptionally generous, and loved her family with all her heart. She encouraged her loved ones to pursue their passions and take pride in their achievements.

The Quick/Heser family extends heartfelt appreciation for the overwhelming support and care received, especially from the doctors and nurses who cared for Rita over the past 28 years. While Rita's physical presence will be deeply missed, her spirit of love and dedication to family will endure in our hearts forever.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's often used to share information about the deceased with friends, family, and community members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important details about their passing and any upcoming funeral or memorial services. They can also be a valuable resource for genealogists and historians.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased, although it may also be written by a funeral home or other professional service. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, occupation, education, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their accomplishments, interests, and personality traits.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication and the family's preferences. Generally, it's best to keep it concise and focused on the most important details, ideally between 100-200 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the notice and provide a visual tribute to the deceased.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The submission process varies depending on the publication or platform. You can usually find guidelines on their website or by contacting them directly. Be sure to follow their specific requirements for format, length, and deadlines.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, location, and length of the notice. Some online platforms offer free or low-cost options, while traditional newspapers may charge by the word or line.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's difficult or impossible to make changes to an obituary once it's been published. Be sure to proofread carefully before submitting to avoid errors or inaccuracies.

What if I need to correct an error in an already-published obituary?

If you discover an error in a published obituary, contact the publication or platform immediately. They may be able to issue a correction or reprint the notice with the correct information.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication's schedule and deadlines. Online platforms may publish notices immediately, while traditional newspapers may take several days or even weeks.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes! Many people choose to write their own obituaries in advance as a way to ensure their story is told accurately and authentically. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and legacy.

What if I don't want to include certain information in an obituary?

You have control over what information is included in an obituary. If there are certain details you'd prefer not to share, simply omit them or discuss your concerns with the person writing the notice.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, poems, or other meaningful passages can add depth and personality to an obituary. Just be sure to keep them concise and relevant to the deceased.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or private details about the deceased that you'd rather not share publicly, consider omitting them or using discretion when deciding what to include.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes! Many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased and support a worthy cause.

What if I'm unsure about what to write in an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary, consider seeking guidance from a funeral home director, hospice worker, or other professional who has experience with end-of-life care. You can also find examples and templates online for inspiration.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

To ensure accuracy, verify important details like dates, names, and occupations with reliable sources. Also, proofread carefully before submitting the notice to avoid errors.

Can I use humor or lightheartedness in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary can be a celebration of the person's life, so feel free to include humorous anecdotes or personality traits that made them unique.

What if I need help finding resources for writing an obituary?

If you're overwhelmed or need guidance on writing an obituary, consider reaching out to local funeral homes, hospices, or bereavement support groups for resources and support.

How do I preserve an online obituary for future generations?

If you're concerned about preserving online obituaries for future generations, consider printing out a copy or saving it digitally in multiple locations. You can also explore archiving services that specialize in preserving online content.

Can I republish an old obituary online?

If you'd like to republish an old obituary online, check with the original publication or platform for permission. You may also need to obtain copyright clearance or adhere to specific guidelines for republication.

What if I have additional questions about writing an obituary?

If you have further questions or concerns about writing an obituary, don't hesitate to reach out to professionals in the funeral industry, bereavement support groups, or online resources for guidance and support.