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Stephen P. Adams - April 01, 1941 - May 01, 2024

Departed: 05/01/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Stephen P. Adams of Stowe passed away on May 1, 2024 at the University of Vermont Medical Center. Steve was born on April 1, 1941 in Montpelier, VT. The second of three sons, his parents were Alice Barker Adams and Charles R. Adams.

Steve’s childhood was spent enjoying the ski slopes of Vermont, where he excelled at ski racing as a member of the Junior National Team and as a member of the Middlebury College ski team. Many summer days were spent with his cousins, aunts and uncles in Westport MA at the beloved family “boathouse” where he developed a lifelong love of sailing, and competed in many races on Lake Champlain, as well as the Newport to Bermuda Race.

Steve had a long and successful career managing the financial/operational aspects of the Department of Medicine at UVM. He was one of the first in the country to hold this type of position. He was a member of the Board of Trustees of University Health Center for many years. He also owned and ran Lamoille Medical Management, managing small local practices in his area of VT. He served as President of the Mt. Mansfield Ski Club, where he was enthusiastically involved in the junior ski racing program, spending many winter days in the start shack as well as traveling to ski races with his children, Kimberly and Krister.

Steve was never happier than when he was skiing on Mt. Mansfield, which he did well into his seventies. He enjoyed meeting friends for tea at the Octagon and cruising the Front Four. Second to Mt. Mansfield was his beloved Vail, CO, where he traveled many times with his wife Linda, who was a ski writer and photographer. He also enjoyed trips to Vail in later years with friends and family. Steve was a devoted alumnus of Middlebury College, and maintained exceptional lifelong friendships with many classmates. He loved to attend Middlebury events such as Homecoming.

Steve was predeceased by the love of his life, Linda, in 2001. He is survived by his daughter Kimberly and son-in-law, Douglas Weiss, of Denver CO; and his son Krister and daughter-in-law Clarissa (Kiki), of Waterbury VT. He also leaves his treasured granddaughters Kelsey Weiss and her husband Yahia Imam of Denver, CO; Bettina Weiss of Washington, DC; and Sydney Adams, of Waialua, HI. Steve was also a loving great-grandfather to Zayne and Ramy, both of Denver, CO.

Steve is also survived by his brothers William (Janet) Adams of Riverside, CT and James (Barbara) Adams of Jericho, VT, as well as many nieces, nephews, and cousins. He was predeceased by his special aunt Laura (Locket) Adams of Montpelier VT.

The family cannot adequately thank Audrianna Blais and Ann Marie Duff for their kindness and unparalleled dedication in assisting and caring for Steve in his later years. Many thanks as well to his wonderful neighbors on Shaw Hill.

Steve (aka “Buster”) will be remembered by many friends and family for his great sense of humor, his gregarious nature, and his loyalty as a dedicated friend. A true Vermonter, he lived life on his own terms on his beloved mountains of home.

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Peter Michael Pelkey - August 09, 1946 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Peter Michael Pelkey, age 77, chose to die with dignity right at home on Monday, April 29, 2024 with his wife Katrina by his side. He was able to exercise his choice after months of suffering and pain from advanced bladder cancer. In his last moments, Peter showed his delightful sense of humor while surrounded by family and friends. He touched many people in his life, showing respect and interest in each individual. Peter’s final life lesson was in how well he conducted himself his final day.

The majority of this obituary was composed by Peter.

Peter was the fifth child of Mirl George Pelkey and Mildred Laura (LaValley) Pelkey. He was born on August 9, 1946, at the former Heaton Hospital in Montpelier, Vermont. Peter is survived by his wife of 45 years, Katrina Edwards Pelkey; his brother and sister-in-law, Edward and Barb Pelkey of East Montpelier; sisters-in-law, Rachel Pelkey of Barre, Susan Edwards, Sally Canzoneri, Deborah Edwards and Amei Wallach; brothers-in-law, Bill Edwards, Stephen Edwards, an

d Matt Canzoneri. Peter loved his many nieces, nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews, delighting in their lives.

He was predeceased by his parents Mirl and Mildred (LaValley) Pelkey; his sister, Elizabeth Pelkey; and brothers, Mirl John Pelkey and Ronald George Pelkey; and sisters-in-law, Ruth Pelkey and Martha Hill.

Peter graduated from Marian High School (1964) in Barre, VT; St. Gregory’s College (1967) in Shawnee, OK; St. Anselm’s College (1969) in Manchester, NH; and from Vermont Technical College (1977) in Randolph, VT. Always interested in education, he also took courses at Alpena Community College in Michigan and at the University of Vermont for both undergraduate and graduate courses.

In 1970, Peter enlisted in the US Air Force as a Site Development Specialist. There he gained his interest in civil engineering. During his time in the Air Force, he served at Lackland AFB and Shepard AFB both in Texas; Wurtsmith AFB in Oscoda, Michigan; Lajes AFB, on Terciera Island, in the Azores, Portugal. He ended his enlistment in the Air Force at Pease AFB in Portsmouth,NH. At the end of his service in 1974, Peter bicycled from Portsmouth to his home in Graniteville, VT. He fondly remembered that on that trip, he never encountered another bicyclist during his three-day adventure.

On October 21, 1978, Peter and Katrina Edwards, were married at Bethany Church, Montpelier, VT.

Peter was proud that during his lifetime, he had the opportunity to work in different types of work. He had earned money as a field hand picking beans, janitor, tv antenna installer, memorial draftsman, cowboy (branding and neutering cattle), high school teacher, a lifeguard and a land surveyor. As Peter settled down, he got employment with the Vermont Agency of Transportation working in Construction, Highway Design, Bridge Design and Materials Divisions. Peter worked for AOT for 31 years and retired in 2009.

After retiring, Peter, who over the years had developed a homeowner’s “can do” attitude towards home projects, turning his attention more to wood working, gardening and traveling. One of his greatest attributes was his practicality and to know when a project called for a professional. Peter had a great, perhaps even weird, sense of humor. He could see humor in everything around him even his own demise. The object of most of his humor was aimed at himself. To quote himself, “I’m the biggest jerk I know.” And “I’ve been called worse by people who know me better.”

Peter was not a religious person in the formal sense, but he did think he was spiritual. Each day, he thanked God for the day. He often would be appalled at some of the hypocrisy he saw from the so-called religious leaders around him. He maintained that Christ is always pictured with open arms and a kindly demeanor towards others, not with folded arms and a scornful look. He also maintained that love and time are the greatest gifts humans are given, so be generous with them.

His arrangements are in the hands of Guare & Sons Funeral home with visiting hours from 6-8 on Friday, May 10. A memorial service will be held 11:00 am on Saturday, May 11, 2024 at Guare & Sons Funeral Home.

Katrina wants to express special thanks to everyone helping during Peter’s illness, but especially to Dr. David Ospina, Theresa Lever, Janice Jacobs, Joan and Bob Barrett, and Brenda and Chris Benda. A celebration of Peter’s life will be held sometime this summer, at his nephew’s camp.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Hospice Program of Central Vermont Home Health & Hospice, 300 Granger Road, Berlin, VT 05641. Those wishing to express online condolences may do so at www.guareandsons.com

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Junetta K. Fitts - October 15, 1929 - April 22, 2024

Departed: 04/22/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Junetta K. Fitts, of Venice, FL and Berlin, VT died on Monday, April 22, 2024, in Williamstown, VT.

She was born in Artesia, CA on October 15, 1929, to Leland and Eula Little, both Vermonters. She attended schools in Barre, VT, graduating from Spaulding High School in 1947.

In 1949, she joined the United States Air Forse (WAFS) for 3 years becoming a weather observer at Hamilton Air Force Base in San Rafael, CA.

Junetta retired from the Vermont Department of Labor and Industry in 1992.

In 1959, she married E. Stanley Kilburn and made their home in Berlin, VT and Venice, FL until his death in 1996. Later, in 2006, she married Stanley Fitts until his death in 2018.

She is survived by her sister Maureen Little, son Roy Kilburn, daughter-in-law Linda Kilburn, daughters Susan and husband Dr. Charles Beliveau, Kimberly Gauthier and partner Jon Blanchard. Grandchildren Ryan and Taylor Kilburn, Paige Beliveau and partner Kevin Carroll, Lt. Thomas Beliveau, USAF and wife Maribeth, Erika Bouffard and husband Nate, Curtis Gauthier and fiancée Carissa. Greatgrandchildren Aiden, Lilly and Max. Nieces and nephews, Mark, Linda, Scott, Brian, Melissa, Amy, Mike, Nan, Jay and Jini.

Junetta was a beloved member of the “Knit-wits”, a knitting and mostly social group since her high school days. She was preceded by Eva Bailey, Ruth Rand, Charlotte Violette, Phyllis Violette, Doris Perez, June Lowery and survived by Linda Kiniry.

In addition, she was predeceased by her sister Arlene Porter and brothers Henry Little and Gale Hersey and her best friend Laurine “Kelsey” Sierpinski.

She was the family glue that kept the Little's, McMinn's, Morris', Thurston's and Hersey families connected and "In the Know". For decades she organized the family reunions at her home in Berlin and later at area VT parks. She was famous for her baked beans and potato salad.

Her love of travel took her to Ireland to visit extended McMinn family members. A spring season in Spain with her close friend Kelsey and a cross country trip with Stan to visit as many relatives as she could find and to see as many state capitals as possible. She never found one as beautiful as her Montpelier Vermont golden dome capital that she viewed daily from her office window.

Venice, FL was her next love, walking the beaches and spending time with her dear friends Bob and Judy Dutton.

At her request there will be no memorial service but wishes that her family and friends remember the great memories she left behind, her easy laughter, and her love of life, a great sale and especially her family.

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Patricia Ann Whitney - August 13, 1946 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Patricia Ann Whitney Derby, VT

Patricia Ann Whitney passed away quietly and painlessly surrounded by family on April 21, 2024. Pat was born on August 13, 1946, in Rutland, Vermont, to Harold Glenn and Laura Mae Nicholson. She was raised in Montpelier and graduated from Montpelier High School. As a girl, Pat loved girl scouting and her church choir and youth group. All of which led to her meeting her future husband, Spencer Hale Whitney, whom she married on March 28, 1967.

After graduating high school Pat continued her education at Vermont College, then earned a Bachelor's degree in Secondary Education and English from the University of Vermont, and lastly received a Master’s degree in Library and Information Science from the University at Albany. Pat and Spence eventually put down roots in their hometown of Montpelier to raise their children, Lynnette and Gavin. Pat worked as a librarian for the Barre City School system.

Throughout her life, Pat was an avid reader, a crafter of any variety, and an excellent cribbage player. She enjoyed activities with her family at their camp in Norton, Vermont, and volunteering for numerous organizations. Pat enjoyed choral singing in college, then enjoyed following the Barre-Tones chorus.

Pat was widowed after giving her retirement notice in 2002. She then worked briefly as a part-time librarian at Brighton Elementary, where she got to enjoy reading to small children. Afterward, she started her full-time retirement, which she spent with her partner, Basil Ross of Derby.

Pat is survived by her partner, Basil, daughter Lynnette (Paul) Claudon of Monkton, and siblings, Steven Nicholson of Shrewsbury and Marjorie Magoon of Barre, as well as many nieces and nephews.

Pat was predeceased by her husband Spencer Whitney, her son Gavin Whitney, her parents, Harold Glenn and Laura Mae Nicholson; her brothers, Douglas and Frederick Nicholson; a nephew Billy Purdy, and lifelong friend Mary Myers.

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Michael Merrwin Chater - February 11, 1948 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Michael Merwin Chater, 76, of Terrace Street in Montpelier passed away suddenly at Dartmouth Hitchcock Medical Center on 4/21/24. Mike was born on February 11, 1948 to William Guy and Janet M. (Conklin) Chater in Bronxville, NY. He attended public schools in Bronxville through middle school and attended Northfield Mt. Hermon, in Gill, MA. He received his Bachelor’s degree at Union College, Schenectady, NY in 1969, where he played basketball and lacrosse and formed lifelong friendships as a proud member of the Delta Phi fraternity. For a year after college Mike served as a Vista Volunteer for the NYC Dept of Corrections counseling youthful offenders, then headed west to Casper, WY where he spent a memorable year as a cowboy/ranch hand. He never got on a horse again!

In his formative years, Camp Sloane, a YMCA camp in Lakeville, CT was a home away from home for Mike. At Camp Sloane he found confidence, connection, and friends for life. Mike loved being a camp counselor and that passion and enthusiasm became a trademark of his personality and approach to life.

Mike landed in Vermont in 1972 at his uncle’s dairy farm in Pomfret. From there, he started his career with the State of Vermont. He worked for the Dept of Corrections from 1973-82, beginning as a counselor in Woodstock and ultimately becoming Superintendent of the Rutland Community Correctional Center.

In December 1981, Mike went on a blind date and met the love of his life, Mary Maude Cosgrove, who “got him out of jail.” On September 11, 1982, Mike and Maude got married in the backyard of their new home in Montpelier. In 1983, their son, Benjamin Guy Chater, was born, completing their family.

Mike spent the next 22 years working for various Departments in the Agency of Human Services as an administrator. In each position he held, he demonstrated diverse and compassionate leadership skills and he was always guided by his compelling and unique vision for making systems better. He saw the potential in those around him and enjoyed helping people grow. Many would attest to his fairness, selflessness, and good humor. He retired in 2004. Mike was an avid fly fisherman. Whether he was casting for brookies in Furnace Brook or for steelhead in Pulaski, NY, or flats-fishing for Tarpon in the Florida Keys, fishing was his “happy place.” Mike loved to travel, and he always enjoyed a good meal. He especially liked finding a beautiful spot on the ocean to watch the sunset and eat raw oysters. He loved golf and had been a member of both Blush Hill and the Country Club of Barre. In recent years, he joined several local bridge groups and a poker group, keeping his competitive spirit alive. Most of all, he treasured his friendships, new and old, and he worked to maintain those connections. All who knew him loved his unmistakable hearty laugh and big hugs!

Survivors include his wife, Mary Maude of Montpelier; his son, Ben of Williston; his brother-in-law, Peter Richman of Shelburne; his sister-in-law, Betsy Chater of Asheville, NC; and two nieces and a nephew and their families. Mike was predeceased by his brother, William A. Chater, and his sister, Deborah D. Richman.

A Celebration of Life is being planned for a later date.

Those wishing to express online condolences may do so at www.guareandsons.com.

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Leon H. Marasco - October 11, 1935 - April 20, 2024

Departed: 04/20/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Leon H. Marasco, Jr. passed away suddenly at his home in Plainfield on April 20, 2024. Leon was born in Danbury, CT to Mildred Chudy and Leon Marasco, Sr. On October 11, 1935. He attended Wooster School, a private boarding school in Danbury. Graduating in 1954, Leon always viewed his time at Wooster as his most formative.

Leon went on to earn a bachelor’s degree in Aeronautical Engineering from Rochester Polytechnic Institute, which led to a successful 12-year career at Sikorsky Aircraft.

After earning a Master’s in counseling at the University of Bridgeport, he then moved to Vermont in 1970, where he worked first as personnel officer at the Brandon Training School and then in various roles for the State of Vermont. While at Brandon, he was also a pioneer in emergency services, where he was a charter member of the Brandon Area Rescue Squad, an accomplishment he was always very proud of.

He married the love of his life, Kate Harper, in 1994. Early in their relationship, Leon and Kate began to explore the role of their past loves in their life together, which led to their two books, If Only I Could Tell You: Where Past Loves and Current Intimacy Meet, and Heartscapes: True Stories of Remembered Love.

Leon loved life and the natural world, whether by enjoying glider flying, hiking and camping with Kate in many places, or simply being by the ocean at their place in Corea, Maine.

He is survived by Kate, as well as by his daughter Nancy Fuller (Dave) from a previous marriage and his three grandsons, Roger (34), Andrew (18), and Adam, (14).

Leon will be sorely missed. Those wishing to express online condolences may do so at www.guareandsons.com

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Edward J. Sbardellati - December 03, 1946 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Edward John Sbardellati, Jr. Middlesex, VT

Edward J. Sbardellati (Ed), 77, of Middlesex, VT passed away at his home on April 17, 2024.

Ed was born in Derby, CT to his parents Edward Sbardellati, Sr. and Genevieve Sbardellati, née Bilcz, on December 3, 1946.

Ed earned an AB History degree from Norwich University in 1968, an MS in Elementary Education in 1972 from Southern Connecticut State University, a MED in Special Education in 1975 from the University of Vermont, and a Ph.D. in Special Education in 1980 from the University of Pittsburgh.

Ed started his career as a middle school teacher in Connecticut. He then moved to Vermont and worked as a consulting teacher in special education. Ed was a professor at UVM for several years before joining Washington County Mental Health as a Behavioral Consultant from 1982 to 2016. Ed was also an adjunct faculty for Johnson State College for many years.

Ed married Jean Miller in 1968 and had two beautiful sons, Adam and Ian. They later divorced, and Ed married Clare McFadden in Calais, VT in 1989. They had a wonderful daughter Sarah together.

Ed Sbardellati is credited for bringing behavioral analysis as we know it to the state of Vermont, helping to establish the first Behavior Intervention programs in the state at Washington County Mental Health, and working for years to launch and maintain the ABA graduate program at Johnson State College. Ed’s work supported many children with special needs and their families.

There is an Ed Sbardellati Award for Excellence and Innovation in School-Based Mental Health Services, also known as "The Eddie". The award is granted to an individual who has made outstanding contributions to the field of behavioral intervention in the state of Vermont.

Ed had many interests and hobbies, including a long-time membership in the VT Association for Applied Behavior Analysis, snowshoeing with his friends, golfing, skiing, gardening, traveling, kayaking, and history.

Ed is survived by his loving wife Clare McFadden, daughter Sarah Sbardellati, sons Adam and Ian Sbardellati, four grandchildren Bayley, Maya, Hazel, and Celia, and his close cousin Dr. James La Paglia.

Ed was predeceased by his parents Edward Sbardellati, Sr. and Genevieve Bilcz, and his brother August Sbardellati.

Arrangements are in the care of Guare and Sons Funeral Home in Montpelier, VT.

A celebration of life will be held at a later date.

Memorial contributions may be made to World Central Kitchen at donate.wck.org, or Washington County Mental Health Children, Youth, and Family Services at www.wcmhs.org, or P.O. Box 647 Montpelier, VT 05601-0647 (attn CYFS programs).

Those wishing to express online condolences may do so at www.guareandsons.com.

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Thomas Richard Croteau - November 04, 1955 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Richard Croteau, 68, of East Calais, passed away at the UVM medical Center in Burlington after a brief illness.

Tom was born on November 4, 1955 in Montpelier, VT, the son of the late Leon and Sylvia (Wheeler) Croteau. He attended public schools in the area and graduated from U32 in 1973.

Upon graduation, Tom proudly enlisted into the United State Air Force, where he served for 4 years until his honorable discharge in 1977.

On August 20, 1977, Tom married Deborah Drury. Sadly, Deb passed away on December 8, 2005.

Tom was a lifelong granite worker in Barre. Most recently he worked for Granite Importers as a foreman until his retirement in 2018. His “after retirement” employment was with Thunder Road, working alongside Cris and Pat, where he did a little bit of everything to make the racing safe and fun for everyone. His effort and dedication earned him the 2023 Ken Squire Award, which he treasured and proudly displayed. Some of Tom’s extra time was spent with the Roberts Racing Team as one of the mechanics, where he worked to make the race car faster and more durable with each race.

He was a past member of the Future Farmers of America and current member of the American Legion Post 63 in Northfield.

Survivors include his partner, Valarie Roberts of East Calais as well as his children, Kristopher Croteau and his fiancé, Alicia Wallace of Northfield and Kimberly King and her partner, Steven Jenkins, Jr. of Mocksville, NC; his grandchildren who he cherished deeply, Koleton, Bella, J.C. & Andy of NC, Adelaide, and Uriah of Northfield; his step parents, Linda and Bruce Matheson of Barre; his siblings, Kathy Drury and her husband, Doug of Northfield, Todd Croteau and his wife, Martha Lange of Calais, VT, Kevin Croteau and his wife, Stephanie of Clayton, NC and Leann Morrissette and her husband, John of Alburgh, VT. He is also survived by step siblings, Keven and Ellen Matheson of West Berlin, VT and Jacqui Matheson of Churchill, TN.

Calling hours will be held 5-7pm on Thursday, April 18, 2024 at the Guare & Sons Funeral Home.

Memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society or Make-A-Wish or The American Legion - Post 63.

Those wishing to express online condolences may do so at www.guareandsons.com.

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Wayne Thomas Hamilton - September 29, 1948 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Wayne Thomas Hamilton, 75, of East Montpelier, Vermont passed away unexpectedly at his home on

Saturday, March 30, 2024. He was born on September 29, 1948, the son of Douglas and Vera (Cline) Hamilton on a small family

farm in Wappingers Falls, NY. After graduating from Roy C. Ketcham High School, he received a Bachelor's degree in Social Studies/Secondary Education from SUNY New Paltz. After a brief teaching career and military service in the New York Army National Guard, he attended SUNY Albany and received a Master’s degree in

Accounting. On August 15, 1981, Wayne married his partner-in-adventures, Rachel Senechal, on the rocky coastline

of Maine. Not many know that Wayne was a dairy farmer before realizing that administration was more suited for him. He began his accounting work as controller at the Maine State Housing authority. After several years he moved to Vermont to become controller at the Vermont State College System. In 1995 he was appointed Dean of Administration at Lyndon State College (now Vermont State University-Lyndon) where he served until his retirement in 2013. In 2019 Wayne received the Faculty and Staff Recognition Award

from the Lyndon Alumni council, to honor his impact on the lives of alumni. Wayne loved his family, and showed his love through hard work. Beyond his own homestead, Wayne made time to work on his daughter’s farm in Maine and his son’s property in Middlesex. He spent his last

day on earth boiling maple syrup at home with Rachel and his son, Tom. Whether playing the links at the Barre Country Club, walking his dog, Knickers, or cross-country skiing, Wayne would often be found outdoors. Vacations were spent cycling in Vermont and beyond, including multi-state trips in the US and Canada. He was a certified Master Gardener and during the pandemic,

Wayne began raising chickens at his home. Wayne served in a variety of volunteer and community-service positions. He served on the boards of the Lyndon State College Foundation, Plainfield Health Center and Lyndon Rescue Inc. He was also a volunteer income tax preparer for low-income and elderly taxpayers with Capstone, Inc. Above all of his hobbies and interests, Wayne was so proud of his work with Youth First Mentoring. Recently, Wayne

shared that his mentee declared “We’re really good friends”. This melted his heart. Wayne is survived by his wife, Rachel Y. Senechal of East Montpelier; his children, Thomas Anthony Hamilton of Middlesex, VT, his daughter Hannah Rose Hamilton and son in law James C. Buckle of Unity, ME; his siblings, Heidi Dohrenwend and husband Robert of Wappingers Falls, NY and Barry Hamilton and

his wife Susan of Whitsett, NC; and his spirited mother-in-law, Marie J. Senechal of Naples, FL. A memorial service will be held on Wednesday, April 10th at 11:00 am, at the Old Meeting House of East

Montpelier. Memorial Tributes may be made to Youth First Mentoring at 73 Main St, Suite 29, Montpelier, VT, or to the Vermont State University Senechal-Hamilton Family Scholarship Fund, which provides first-generation college student scholarships. Scholarship Fund donations may be made out to Vermont

State University and addressed as follows: The Senechal-Hamilton Family Scholarship Fund, Vermont State University, P.O. Box 919, Lyndonville, VT, 05851. His family would like to thank the East Montpelier Fire Department first responders, especially Jon

Boucher, and also their neighbors Greg and Paula Light.

Those wishing to express online condolences may do so at www.guareandsons.com.

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Lynn Garcia - February 24, 1943 - March 20, 2024

Departed: 03/20/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Lynn H. Garcia, 81, formerly of Grandview Terrace and most recently of Edgewood Brook Road in Barre Town, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, March 20, 2024, at his home with his family by his side.

He was born in Montpelier, VT on February 24, 1943, the son of Manuel and Jemma (Bertoli) Garcia. Lynn graduated from Montpelier High School in 1961 and later attended Champlain College.

On December 24, 1964, Lynn married Joan Gray. Together they had two sons.

Lynn enlisted in the 344th Army Reserves where he was later honorably discharged.

Lynn’s career was with Lockheed Martin where he was able to retire at the age of 58 after 40 years, later returning in a consulting capacity. His forever retirement came in 2014.

Lynn was a long-time member of the former Montpelier Elks Club, the Barre Elks Club, the First Congregationalist Church of Berlin, and the Barre Mutuo. He also enjoyed shooting pool with his friends.

Survivors include his wife of nearly 60 years, Joan Garcia; their two sons, Christopher Garcia and his wife Heather, of Montpelier, VT and Scott Garcia of San Fransico, CA; grandchildren, Nicole Garcia and Grayson Garcia; his sister, Lynda O’Grady of Montpelier; and brother, Manuel Garcia and his wife Mary of Barre; his nephews Michael Garcia, Marco Garcia, and Craig Royce. He was predeceased by his nephew, Paul Royce.

Lynn was immensely appreciative of the care he received from Dr. David Ospina and his oncology team and especially from his hospice nurse, Cat.

There will be no services are this time.

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Jane Greensmith Lowe - September 27, 1930 - March 18, 2024

Departed: 03/18/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Montpelier, VT

Jane Greensmith Lowe, 93, died March 18, 2024, after a short illness at her Montpelier home surrounded by members of her family. Born and raised in Philadelphia, she spent her adult life in her chosen state of Vermont where she raised her seven children in Montpelier.

Jane Greensmith was born Sept. 27, 1930, to Mary (Mellon) and James Henry Greensmith. She attended and graduated from Abington Friends School, a private day school, where a fond memory was playing field hockey against Grace Kelly (who was to become Princess Grace of Monaco).

For college, Jane attended Syracuse University. There she met and married William B. Lowe of Longmeadow, Mass. in 1950. Immediately after graduation in 1952, they moved to Vermont where they were both to remain until their passing.

Other than a few early years in Plainfield, Bill and Jane lived in Montpelier throughout the years their children were in school. Home was Colonial Drive, a tight-knit neighborhood that was home to some 60 children. Jane was passionate about her family’s participation in the Montpelier swim team and enjoyed transporting hers and other’s children to practice at the municipal pool in summer, and the Burlington YMCA in winters, and cheering them all on at meets.

A homemaker while the children were young, Jane went to work as the last of them entered junior high school. Her home away from home was Montpelier’s Kellogg-Hubbard Library where she spent many happy years, first as assistant librarian then as interim director. She also held various positions with the State of Vermont.

When the nest was empty, Jane and Bill moved to their dream home they had built In Moscow (Stowe). In Stowe, Jane was very active in St. John’s in the Mountains Episcopal Church. It was at this time that Bill finally took Jane to England, a longtime dream, the location of all her favorite mystery stories.

When Bill died in 2009, Jane made her home at The Woodlands in Stowe, joined for two years by her daughter Deborah Lowe until her death in 2017. Finally, as Jane’s health began deteriorating, her daughter Connie Lowe and daughter-in-law Cathy Caron invited her to make her home with them in Montpelier. There, Jane spent her final days enjoying family and friends.

Jane was predeceased by her parents, husband William B. Lowe, daughter Deborah J. Lowe, son Michael G. Lowe, brother Frederick P. (“Ted”) Greensmith, and granddaughter Samantha Spoth.

She is survived by her children James S. Lowe, Thomas B. Lowe (Janelle Shorb), Steven K. Lowe, Barbara L. Watson (Bruce), and Constance M. Lowe (Cathy Caron).

Surviving grandchildren are Ami Frappier (Charles), Will Lowe (Adrienne), Andie Lowe (Gabriel Ely), Elizabeth Lowe, Caroline Edlund (Dillon), Emily Lowe, Bonnie Miles (Tim), Brian Watson (Taylor Kuske) and Ian Norton-Lowe.

Surviving great-grandchildren are Jennah, Mittasille, Abigail, Nathanial, Lucy, Stella, Lois, Iris, Chrissy, Ella, Reese, Alessia, Maddox, Raain, Zoiey, and Persephone, plus several nieces and nephews.

Also surviving is Domino, Jane’s cat.

The family extends its thanks to Central Vermont Home Health and Hospice, especially Jessica and Becca, and to Betty and Kara, her personal caregivers.

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Timothy Yeatman Hayward - September 09, 1941 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Timothy Yeatman Hayward of Middlesex, Vermont, passed away on March 17th, 2024 surrounded by his family. He was born September 9, 1941, the son of the late Ruth Morison Faulkner of Keene, New Hampshire, and the late Richard Folsom Hayward of Cincinnati, Ohio. He was a Marine, mentor, advisor, consigliere, dear friend, devoted husband, and loving father.

He leaves behind his wife of 55 years, Susan Cady Hayward and their three children; daughter Heidi Urish and her husband Steven Urish and their three children Emily, Annie and Caroline all of Raleigh, North Carolina; son Nathaniel and his wife Katherine Krebs and their two sons Samuel and Joseph of South Hero, Vermont; and son Zachary and his wife Christina Steinbrecher and their daughter Kaelyn and son Gregory of Middlesex. He is also survived by his Hayward half-brothers; Richard of Jonesborough, Tennessee and his wife, Vivian, and daughter, Yvette; Philip of Alexandria, Virginia, and his wife, Polly, and their daughter, Clara; Jonathan of Elizabethton, Tennessee; and Alex of Richmond, Virginia. And, of course his canine sons, Liam and Brady.

He was predeceased by his sister Ellen Roentsch of Keene, NH; his brother James Duncan of Middlesex; and a half-brother, Geoffrey of Virginia. He was preceded in death by his beloved dogs; Freckles, Alex, Nicki, Sheka, Morris, Nina, Niko, Tyler, Tucker, as well as his granddogs; Bailey, Wilson, Sicily, Dharma, Rocky, Mya, Cotty, Molly, and Huckleberry.

Tim grew up in Keene, New Hampshire and Milton, Massachusetts. He was a 1960 graduate of Milton Academy and the Middlebury College Class of 1964. He served as an Officer in the U.S. Marine Corps from 1964 to 1967, reaching the rank of Captain. This experience profoundly shaped his life. Tim was proud of his service in the Marine Corps, and valued the lessons learned in completing Officer Candidate School. These lessons became ingrained in his character and served him well. The self-discipline, mental fortitude, leadership skills, integrity, and unwavering commitment to the task at hand stayed with him for life.

Upon his discharge from active duty, he returned to the Boston area and took a job that trained him in computer programming. He married Susan Cady, the sister of a college friend, in June of 1968 and they moved to Vermont in December of that year. He was hired as a senior analyst/programmer at National Life Insurance Company where he worked until February of 1974. During his time at National Life, he also became involved in local Republican politics. He served on the Town, County, and State Party committees as well as on the Middlesex School Board. From 1985-2002 Tim worked as the president of the Vermont Bankers Association. He poured himself into this work, helping to strengthen and modernize a rapidly evolving banking industry in the state.

Throughout his life, Tim served as the behind-the-scenes director and quiet confidant to Vermont’s most prominent leaders. Tim served one term in the Vermont House of Representatives in the 1970s as the member from Middlesex, where he got to know future governor and lifelong friend, Jim Douglas. In 1974, Jim Jeffords asked Tim to manage his first campaign for US House of Representatives; the campaign was a success, launching Jeffords’ 30-year career as a Congressman and Senator. Governor Dick Snelling hired Tim as a member of his executive staff in 1978; he served in senior positions throughout Snelling’s first tenure ending in 1985. In 2002, Governor Jim Douglas tapped Tim to manage his gubernatorial transition; Tim went on to serve as Douglas’ chief of staff for all eight years in office. He was especially proud of his efforts with Governor Douglas to strengthen relations with the Province of Quebec and to advance Vermont’s interests through the National Governors Association.

To his colleagues in the Douglas Administration, Tim was known as “Chief” – the name itself honoring Tim’s loyalty, integrity, and service. Even after he’d long left government, when Governor Phil Scott was elected in 2016, he asked the Chief to come back into public service and manage his transition into office. In all these roles, Tim’s love of Vermont and her people burned bright. With a deep sense of duty, he worked tirelessly to ensure the State was well-run and responsive to the people it served. As Tim’s dear friend Tom Evslin wrote, “Tim has been the greatest force for good and effective government in Vermont that you never heard of.”

Tim always relished a good challenge. In 1961 when he climbed Gray Mountain, he became an Adirondack 46er, having climbed all 46 peaks over 4,000 feet, half of which were then truly trailless. In the summer of 1990, he joined his son Nathaniel on the summit of Seymour Mountain as he celebrated becoming a 46er as well. Fifty years to the day after Tim became a 46er on Gray he joined son Zachary in achieving the same feat on the same peak. Speaking of challenges, after graduating from Middlebury in May 1964 and before going on active duty in the Marines in August, Tim hitchhiked roundtrip from Boston to Anchorage, Alaska.

His Marine service instilled in him a love of running, particularly the dirt roads and trails near his home. In his 70s, Tim picked up running again. He challenged himself to run every road in the Town of Middlesex, and did. He twice participated with former Douglas Administration colleagues in the 100-on-100 Relay Race down the spine of Vermont; Douglas himself drove the support van. The Worcester mountains served as his backyard, and he climbed Hunger Mountain with his friends, family, and dogs hundreds of times. For many years, Tim and Sue hosted the “Hunger Mountain Challenge” – a 4-mile, white-knuckle sprint from the top of Hunger down to their home in Middlesex. Tim would revel in the madness of the mud and blood-spattered spectacle, but most of all, he was just happy to have his family and friends close.

The bonds of family meant everything to him as did his ties to generations past; those who forged who we are today. He captured much of his life story in an autobiography to provide a bridge of understanding for those yet to come. He also wrote a book of poems to express his observations of nature, and philosophy.

Tim was not religious, but he loved classical music, the hymns of old and their great poetry. One of his passions was sitting at his pump organ, playing a seemingly unending medley of his favorites. His family knew this as his meditation and means of staying patient while waiting for his family (Sue) to get ready to leave the house.

Tim wanted to thank all of his medical “team” for their expertise and allowing him more time on the stage of life, and most particularly Sue for her love, care, and patience.

His family would especially like to thank the Intensive Care and Palliative Care teams at Central Vermont Medical Center. Their tender care in the final week of his life was remarkable. Drs Murphy, Parker, and Crainich; Abbey and Patsy; Rebecca, Joseph, Megan, Dennis and the rest of the nursing team. Thank You All for taking such good care of our Fafa.

A celebration of Tim’s life will be held this summer, when the trails are dry and the skies are clear.

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Buster L.R. Edson - August 27, 1961 - March 16, 2024

Departed: 03/16/2024 (Montpelier)

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Buster L.R. Edson, 62, of West Topsham, Vermont passed away unexpectedly on March 16, 2024 where he made his journey to heaven.

Buster was born in Barre, VT to his parents Edwin Edson and Mary Pape (Premont) on August 27, 1961.

Buster lived his early years in Northfield, VT and also attended schools in Northfield. Buster made a career as a school bus driver for First Student where he worked for many years. Buster loved driving a school bus and he also had a great appreciation of the children that he drove to and from school daily.

Buster was married to Charlene Edson, who predeceased him in June of 2022. Buster and Charlene were married in a beautiful ceremony on July 31, 2004, near their home and shared 31 wonderful years together, hosting many BBQs, family gatherings, dancing, and spending time at the Moose Club in Barre.

He is survived by his beloved children Travis Edson, Justin Edson, Jilleah Anderson, Craig Manning, and James Manning. His siblings Maretta Kenney, Allen Edson, Wayne Edson, and David Edson. His loving grandchildren Cameron Edson, Destiny Edson, Chauntee May, Heaven Anderson, Taygan Manning, Michael Manning, Ava Manning, and Kimberly Collins-Sweet. Buster is also survived by great grandchildren, nieces, nephews, and friends.

He was preceded to heaven by his parents Edwin and Mary, and his brother Gregory Edson.

Arrangements are in the care of Guare and Sons Funeral Home of 30 School Street in Montpelier, VT.

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Kent Roy Gardner - August 21, 1955 - March 15, 2024

Departed: 03/15/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Kent Roy Gardner of Waterbury Center, Vermont passed away Friday, March 15, surrounded by loving family members. Kent, a Californian from birth (born in Inglewood, Los Angeles on August 21, 1955) had made Vermont his home for the past 44 years after meeting and falling in love with a native Vermonter, Diane Buswell. The two met briefly in 1976 while Kent was serving a mission for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints during the mid-70’s in the Massachusetts, Boston Mission. They connected again after his mission when Diane was living out west and they married for all time and eternity in the Los Angeles, California Temple in 1977. They were still living in California when their first child, Nicole was born. After a year and a half of raising a child in California, they decided to move the family to Vermont. Later in life, when one of his adult children visited the beautiful weather of California and questioned this decision, (anyone who has been in Vermont in January would understand) Kent said that Vermont and the opportunities it gave his children growing up was always the right decision for the family. That statement sums up a lot about Kent. He was always willing to do anything he could for his family.

Kent and Diane went on to have three more children: Ryan, Marla and Marie. Kent's greatest source of pride and happiness were his children and grandchildren, whom he adored dearly. Kent was always his children and grandchildren’s most passionate cheerleader. He was observant at noticing and developing talent in his children and would encourage and support them to work and improve. Of his own work he could be quite critical, but to him, his children and grandchildren were always the best at everything they did. Anything the kids were interested in, he fully supported, encouraged, told everyone about, and was excited for. That unwavering support helped shape and bless the lives of each of his children.

Kent was a hard worker and even as a teenager was constantly employed in one way or another, whether it was delivering newspapers or working at an art supply store. He was skilled in many ways but chose to use graphic design to make a living for most of his life. After retiring from full-time graphic design work, he operated a puzzle business making custom puzzles and he enjoyed connecting with people over the simple joy of creating a puzzle.

Kent was a remarkable man whose passion for art illuminated our lives. His creative spirit and talent brought joy to all who knew him. He is known for skillfully inscribing people's names in calligraphy, a gesture he extended to anyone he encountered, including hospital staff, office personnel, airplane crews, friends of friends and families alike. He never went anywhere without a fountain pen and pad of paper so that he could be ready to instantly transform a blank sheet of paper into a piece of name artwork. He loved when he would revisit somewhere like a store, office or house years and years later and see a name displayed that he had done.

Predeceased: By parents, Robert Grant Gardner & Clea Anderson, in laws Roy Louis Buswell & Laurette Fortier, son in law Robert Hogan, brother-in-law Kim Proctor, among many other family members. He is survived by his wife, Diane Marie Buswell Gardner, his siblings Brant (Valerie) Gardner, Debra Proctor, Gary Gardner, Bruce (Sylvia) Gardner; his children: Nicole (Devon) Moss, Ryan (Aubrey) Gardner, Marla (Kevin) Eckman, Marie (Rutger) Hill. His grandchildren - Rhett Gardner, Elle Gardner, Tate Gardner, Bree Gardner, Amelia Moss, Clara Moss, Winnie Moss, Iris Eckman and Zeke Eckman.

Gratitude is extended to all the medical personnel, particularly those who provided care in the last few years, ensuring a few extra years for him to be with us.

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William R. Pollard - June 21, 1940 - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: William Ralph Pollard, 83, of Worcester, Vermont died at home peacefully in the arms of his wife and son on Sunday, March 10, 2024 following a long illness. Born on a farm in Richmond, Vermont on June 21, 1940, he was the son of Eldon and Fern (Dyer) Pollard.

He spent his younger years in North Sheldon, Vermont before the family moved to Morrisville where he graduated from Peoples Academy in 1958. The day after graduation he joined the Army and served in Germany as a member of the Military Police. During his time there, he traveled extensively throughout Europe. Upon discharge, he and three friends hitch-hiked across the United States. Once in Wyoming, the friends decided to hitch-hike back home. Bill stayed and worked on a cattle ranch for nearly three years where most of the work was done on horseback.

In 1965 he married Donna Gagnier. Their son, Christopher, was born in 1970. Bill spent most of his career as a master electrician, many years at the medical school of the University of Vermont, where he brought home many lab animals which were scheduled for euthanasia once the labs were through with them. Donna still remembers the full grown sheep he brought home in the back seat of his car. Due to several illnesses, he was found to be disabled in his early 50's when he had to stop working.

He was a firefighter for many years, serving in Morrisville, Waterbury Center and Worcester. He was also certified as an emergency medical technician and worked as a deputy for the Washington County Sheriff's Department. Christopher discovered scouting when he was young and Bill became a scout leader for many years. Then Christopher decided to join the Civil Air Patrol and before he knew it, Bill was heavily involved in that organization traveling as far away as Utah for meetings and conventions.

Bill loved his animals, especially all the dogs he had over the years. Although the dogs liked Donna, they were all definitely Bill's dogs. He enjoyed Saturday morning garage sales. Donna spent most of the money while he watched but about once a year Bill found something he couldn't live without and more than made up for all the money Donna had spent! After being unable to work, he discovered he loved reading and had a large collection of books. Last year he saved out his favorites and donated the rest, over 200, to the local book sale. He also could fix just about anything. For years until he got too sick to do it, we never had to have a repairman. The only things he refused to work on were color televisions and computers. Fortunately, he taught Chris well and now Chris can fix almost anything, including computers and fortunately for us, he lives next door.

Bill is survived by his wife Donna, son and daughter-in-law, Christopher and Christina, grandchildren Keisha, Victoria, Kohl, William, Harrison, Riley, Finnegan and one great-grandchild, Avery. He is also survived by two sisters, Ruth Schwartz and Joyce Lanphear, both of West Virginia, as well as his brothers-in-law David Gagnier (Marlene) and Peter Schwartz and several nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents, brothers Don and Duane, and brother-in-law Wyman Lanphear. A graveside service will be held in Morrisville later in the spring at a date to be determined

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Ken Libertoff - January 16, 1945 - March 09, 2024

Departed: 03/09/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: This was written by Ken Libertoff: After living a full life, Ken Libertoff is at rest after 79 years of adventures, achievements, some disappointments, but uplifted with the belief that he made a difference.

Ken was born in Brooklyn, New York on January 16, 1945. His mother, Lillian Libertoff, lived in New York City until age 92 when she moved to Westview Meadows in Montpelier. She passed away in 2016, age 95. Ken’s father, Wilford Libertoff, also a native of Brooklyn died when Ken was 12 years old.

Ken is survived by Sarah Hofmann, Ken’s wife and best friend whom he married later in life. Together they forged a full and happy union. Besides sharing loving children and grandchildren, they took pride in both having rewarding but different careers, and along the way, shared many friends and acquaintances. They were avid bike travelers with frequent visits to rail trails in Vermont and elsewhere, finding bikes in such diverse places as Maine, Florida, New Mexico, Wyoming and California. Combining a love for adventure with life on the road, they also managed to travel to and bike in Canada, France, Italy, Spain, South Africa and Scandinavia.

Ken is survived by son Jamie Libertoff, of Albuquerque, NM, who always made his father very proud. Jamie has been a social worker for many years helping people with behavioral health disorders. Jamie’s two children, Fiorella Gamio of Queens, NY and Rodrigo Sarmiento of Albuquerque, NM were shining stars in Ken’s constellation, as were Sarah’s children John Mullett of VT and Layne Mullett of PA, along with their loving partners. Mireya Ortiz, Jamie’s kind and caring partner, also lives in Albuquerque, NM with Mireya’s son Zahir.

Ken greatly valued his younger sister, Karen Harrington, and his brother-in-law, Leo Harrrington, of West Hartford, CT. He also leaves behind his nephews and Sarah’s brother and sisters.

Ken is also survived by Jamie’s Mother and former wife, Janet Ryan of Florida. He also was fortunate to have wives and partners with women who were “way above average” including Gabrielle Dietzel, and Trish O’Regan of Montpelier, VT.

Ken was a proud graduate of Public School 114 and Junior High School 198 in Queens, New York. His boyhood memories included countless games of stoop and stickball and hours of basketball on the streets of Rockaway and Brooklyn. His first job at age 14, was at the popular Bogianno’s Bar and Grill, where he manned the night-time outdoor hamburger and hotdog stand for a dollar an hour.

Ken graduated from Far Rockaway High School in 1962. While his academic record was modest, he made his mark on the basketball court and served as team captain during his junior and senior years. He was named to the All-Queens basketball team in his senior year.

Ken enrolled at the University of Connecticut. Given his less-than-stellar academic high school record, he was accepted “on academic probation” at UConn. This status, it was reported, caused his mother great stress. He was a proud member of several outstanding UConn Husky basketball teams including the 1964 squad which made it to the Elite 8 NCAA tournament. Ken was an English major in college and slowly but steadily matured as a student. In an effort to pad his grade point average, Ken was told about an easy course, so he signed up for an introductory Plant Science class. Arriving for the class, Ken discovered that it was devoted to the art of flower arranging, and that he was the only male student in a group of nearly twenty students.

After college, Ken stayed at UConn and served as the freshman basketball coach in 1967. However, after reflection, Ken shifted his priorities and committed himself to social activism. Thus, he moved to New Haven, Connecticut and served as an assistant to a young radical Yale University Psychology professor, Ira Goldenberg. Over the course of several years, Ken worked with troubled teenagers while also crafting services and programs as part of the War-on-Poverty. He also was asked to provide workshops within the Yale Department of Psychology.

With added maturity and life experience, Ken applied to graduate school at Harvard University, and in a startling development, he was accepted. He received his Ph.D. in 1978 in Clinical Psychology and Public Practice, and it was reported that his mother was most pleased. During his graduate career, Ken was awarded numerous National Institute of Mental Health scholarships while writing his dissertation on the subject of Runaway Children.

Ken moved to Vermont in 1976, and while still writing his dissertation, he served as the director with the relatively new Washington County Youth Services Bureau. In 1981, Ken was named the director of the Vermont Association for Mental Health, a post he maintained for 30 years. While working as a citizen advocate in this position he was engaged in many facets of legislative advocacy on many health and human service issues. Among his achievements was his leadership in passing of the Mental Health and Substance Abuse Parity Bill in 1997. This landmark legislation was viewed as the new national model and standard and included a mandate for all insurance policies sold within the state to cover both mental health and substance abuse conditions at parity with physical conditions. Another piece of legislation that had considerable national attention was a bill passed in Vermont in 2009, which banned gifts from the pharmaceutical industry to Vermont’s medical community including hospitals. This legislation also set a national standard that was replicated in many other states. During his tenure, he was known as a fierce advocate for consumer empowerment, innovative children’s services, and leadership in building recovery centers throughout the state. Ken lectured or consulted in more than 30 states as well as at the Sorbonne in Paris. He also served as an advisor in South Africa, where he worked with indigenous community groups, business leaders, government officials, and other advocacy organizations throughout the country.

Ken received considerable recognition, including the Lifetime Legendary Leadership Award from Mental Health America, but he was most proud of his award at Public School 114 when in 6th grade, he was recognized with the highly valued Good Eater Award.

Those who worked with Ken and those who had occasion to oppose his efforts might all agree that he was a vigorous and spirited advocate, one who could be both sharp in opinion but quick with wit and humor.

After retiring in 2010, Ken continued to serve as a consultant, traveled to New Mexico frequently on family visits, traveled abroad and refined his tennis game with a cadre of tennis buddies. He was a loyal member of the Vermont Tree Committee and an avid gardener. It might be said that at age 74, Ken stumbled into a new endeavor and adventure when he signed up for a couple of free writing classes on a whim. He had no design, plan, or thought about becoming a writer. Several local writers urged Ken to sign up for a more formalized writing group at the Montpelier activity senior center, specifically mentioning one of the group leaders named Maggie Thompson. Under her guidance and support, Ken wrote his memoir in short story and essay form and was thrilled when a few appeared in the Montpelier Bridge and Times Argus. Last year, Rootstock Publishing of Montpelier agreed to publish a collection of his work under the title Snapshots of a Life. Ken launched his book on January 20, 2024 just days after his 79th birthday.

A celebration of life will be held in the spring. As much as Ken loved flowers, if you wish to honor Ken’s memory please contribute to the Central Vermont Refugee Action Network (https://cvran.org/donate/) or the Montpelier Tree Board through The Montpelier Foundation (Montpelierfoundation.org) to purchase trees for the city.

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Charles Howard Martin - September 23, 1937 - February 29, 2024

Departed: 02/29/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Charles Howard Martin, 86, of Worcester, VT passed away peacefully at his home on February 29, 2024. Charles was surrounded by the love of his husband and life partner Richard DeCosta.

Charles was born in Montpelier, VT on September 23, 1937 to his parents Howard Martin and Mabel (Hill) Martin.

Charles was educated in the Vermont and Connecticut Public School Systems. He worked in retail sales for several years and was later employed by the Vermont State Hospital as a Psychiatric Technician. He supported many individuals over the years with varying abilities in the mental health field.

Charles was an active seventh-degree member of the Grange. He was also actively involved in the Worcester Community Kitchen and Food Shelf with his husband Richard DeCosta for many years. He was a member of the Past Masters Association, former trustee of the New England Grange Building at the Eastern States Exposition in Springfield, MA and was a member of the Middlesex Historical Society, and active in the CVARC now the Central Vermont Families and Friends United. Charles also enjoyed traveling, especially to his favorite city, Quebec City.

In his spare time, Charles excelled at sewing. Charles created many quilts and chef’s hats that used to be displayed at the Coffee Corner Restaurant in Montpelier, VT.

Charles is survived by his husband and life partner of over 50-years, Richard DeCosta of Worcester, VT. He is also survived by many friends and loved ones (especially of Worcester, VT).

Charles was predeceased by his parents Howard Martin and Mabel Martin, sister Lorraine Lewis, cousin Newell Shonio, and “my sunshine” Cora Shonio. He is also survived by many nieces and nephews, great nieces and nephews, all of who he loved dearly.

Charles lived a compassionate, giving, and zest filled life. He touched the lives and hearts of all who came to know him.

Charles would like to acknowledge all of his friends on Harris Hill. “I did it, I did it my way. Regrets, I’ve had a few. But then again too few to mention. I did what I had to do. …I did it my way.”

A memorial service will be held 11:00 am on April 20th at the Worcester United Methodist Church.

Arrangements are in the care of Guare and Sons Funeral Home of Montpelier, VT. Those wishing to express online condolences may do so at www.guareandsons.com.

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Linda Lorraine Goodrich - September 26, 1956 - February 19, 2024

Departed: 02/19/2024 (Montpelier)

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Linda Lorraine Goodrich, 67 of Barre, VT passed to a better life on February 19, 2024 at the McClure Miller Respite House in Colchester, VT.

Linda was born on September 26, 1956 to her parents Irene Goss and Wayne Goodrich.

She lived her early years in Norwich, VT, and graduated from Hanover High School with the class of 1975.

Linda was married to Bernard Davis Sr. and they had three children, Bernard Jr. (BJ), Richard, and Crystal.

Surviving family includes her children, Bernard Davis, Jr., Richard Davis, and Crystal (Davis) Mason (Doug Mason). Her sisters, Donna Goodrich (Jeff Lindholm) and Dianne Harlow (Ken), her brothers David and Dean Goodrich, and mother and step-father, Dick and Irene Harlow. Also, step-brother Rick Harlow Jr., and step-sister Amy Willcutt.

Linda was predeceased by her father Wayne Goodrich, and step-sister Cathy (Harlow) Nielson.

Linda had many interests and hobbies some of which were a love for Native American culture (she was recently reading a book by Tony Hillerman), intricate coloring and art with her favorite gel pens, a love of animals particularly wolves, a love of country music, and watching vintage films with Dean Martin.

Linda was very content with a simple life that included some of her favorite things and the love of her family.

Per Linda’s request, there will be no services.

Arrangements are in the care of Guare and Sons Funeral Home of Montpelier, VT.

In memory of Linda L. Goodrich donations can be made to the McClure Miller Respite House in Colchester, Vermont for their outstanding care and kindness. UVM Health Network – Home Health & Hospice, Attn: Maya Fehrs, 1110 Prim Road, Colchester, Vermont 05446 or visit https://www.uvmhomehealth.org/donate/make-an-online-donation/. Linda’s family would also like to thank the UVM/CVMC staff, nurses, and doctors for their high-quality care and kindness. “When I go, don’t learn to live without me, just learn to live with my love, in a different way. …When I go, don’t learn to live without me, just learn to look for me in the moments. I will be there.”

Those wishing to express online condolences may do so at www.guareandsons.com.

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Reginald D Welch - December 19, 1938 - February 15, 2024

Departed: 02/15/2024 (Montpelier)

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Reginald D. Welch, 85, of Montpelier, passed away on February 15, 2024 after a brief illness. He was a loving and devoted brother, husband, father, and grandfather. He died peacefully surrounded by family at the Central Vermont Medical Center.

Reg was born on December 19, 1938 in St Johnsbury to Gordon and Ruth Welch (Gibson) of Peacham. Reg grew up in Peacham, Canaan, Island Pond, Newbury, and St Johnsbury. He attended Keene State College, the University of VT, and ultimately graduated from VT Technical College in 1962, with an Associates of Applied Science degree in Highway Technology.

After college, Reg honorably served his country as a radio technician in the United States Army from 1962 to 1965. During his time in the Army, Reg was stationed in Korea where he taught English classes to middle school children during his spare time. He also sponsored a deaf-mute boy to attend the only school for the deaf in Korea. Following his military service, Reg became a career employee of the VT Agency of Transportation. He worked in the construction, design, and utilities sections; and traveled to every corner of the state until his retirement in 1996.

Reg was also very involved in the community. He was an active member of Bethany Church in Montpelier, where he served as president, historian, and deacon at various times. Reg also coached youth baseball and flag football and served as a Cub Scout and Boy Scout leader. He was also a member of the Capitol City Jaycees, VT JCI Senate, and the St Andrews Society of VT.

In addition, Reg had a life-long passion for genealogy. He worked tirelessly with various local, state, national, and international historical societies and record repositories to collect artifacts and complete details of his family tree. Reg even travelled to Scotland to visit ancient family homesteads, surprising and endearing the current residents with his unabashed and sincere curiosity. His friendly and gregarious nature served Reg well when making connections with people from all walks of life.

Reg was predeceased by his father, mother, sister Marjorie Welch (stillborn), and sister Beverly Isham (Welch). He is survived by his wife of 56 years, Elizabeth Welch (Brear) of Montpelier; son Rory Welch and wife Nancy of Manassas VA; son Keith Welch and wife Sandra of Winchester VA; four grandchildren; brother Raymond Welch of Greensboro NC; brother Donald Welch of East Montpelier; along with numerous cousins, nieces, and nephews.

A memorial service celebrating Reg’s life will be held at 11:00 am on Saturday, March 2, 2024 at Bethany Church in Montpelier.

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Nathaniel David Robinson - August 22, 1982 - February 14, 2024

Departed: 02/14/2024 (Montpelier)

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Nathaniel David Robinson, 41 of Calais, VT passed away unexpectedly at his home on February 14, 2024. He was born August 22, 1982 in Berlin, VT to Dawnna (Holt) Robinson and Brooks Robinson.

Nathan attended Union 32 High School in East Montpelier, VT where he graduated in the year 2000. Nathan attended Radford University in Radford, VA and Castleton where he earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Sports Medicine in 2004. Nathan worked for the State of Vermont as an Occupational Ergonomics Consultant & Investigator. He loved his profession and supervisors and colleagues alike spoke very highly of Nathan and his dedication.

Nathan married Erin Salls in September of 2017, and they later divorced, but remained friends.

Nathan is survived by his mother Dawnna Robinson, favorite aunt Cheryl Holt, Grandmother Sybil Miller, best pals Ben Reed & Justin Graham, special cousin Tori Hodgkins, many aunts, uncles, and cousins.

Nathan was predeceased by his father Brooks Robinson, best friend John Paul Girompini, and beloved dog Gus.

Nathan had many interests some of which were his love for nature, collecting guns, weight lifting, spending time with his beloved Grandmother Sybil, admiring Ford trucks and antiques. He was a fearless gentleman who would try anything one time. Nathan was strong and caring especially to those who were loyal to him. Nathan built his beautiful home in Calais with his owns hands. He took great pride in his home and the upkeep of it.

Nathan had a BIG heart and he cared for his grandfather and father in their final days. Nathan also took good care of his grandmother and looked out for her everyday up until his last moment on earth.

Nathan touched the hearts of all who crossed paths with him and he will live on in the hearts and souls of all who came to know him. A celebration of life in Nathan’s memory will be held this summer at the discretion of his family. Nathan’s ashes will be scattered in Calais, VT the place he loved and called home.

Arrangements are in the care of Guare and Sons Funeral Home of Montpelier, VT. Those wishing to express online condolences may do so at www.guareandsons.com.

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William Dunne Kirby - December 19, 1941 - February 12, 2024

Departed: 02/12/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: William (Bill) Dunne Kirby, 82, of Montpelier, VT died peacefully on February 12, 2024

Bill was born on December 19, 1941 to Virginia H Dunne and John J. Kirby, in New York City. Most of his childhood was spent in Norwich, NY, graduating in 1959 from Norwich High School. After a year at a Prep School in Washington D.C., he attended Norwich University, graduating in 1965. While at Norwich, he met and married his wife, Joan Miglierini. They were together for 62 years.

Bill served two years on active duty with the Army and then 20 years with the Reserve. He retired at the rank of Lieutenant Colonel. After his active duty tour, Bill taught for two years at Montpelier High School and then spent the next 28 years in public service. Bill worked for the State of Vermont, in several departments – Highway, Employment Security, Attorney General’s Office, VT Tax Department, and then culminated this amazing career as the Director of the Child Support Program for the Department for Children and Families. This was the position of which he was the proudest.

Bill’s interests were many, not the least of which was playing the Vermont Lottery. He could often be seen scratching off tickets, while sharing jokes and singing Christmas Carols, even in July! He loved to hunt and fish and was an avid crossword puzzler. His last name could easily have been Webster, for there was not a word he didn’t recognize or know the meaning of – he was a walking dictionary. He was a member of several local leagues throughout the years, to include softball, bowling, cribbage and golf. He was a member of the Montpelier Elks Club and may have spent the most time walking through the woods, beside the golf course, collecting lost golf balls.

Bill is survived by his wife Joan, his son Patrick and his wife Sara and granddaughters Maggie and Caroline; his son Kristopher and his wife Lesilee; brothers Thomas Fiori, Stephen and Peter Kirby and a sister Joan Ragsdale. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by one son, William Kirby II (Billy); a brother Jay and a sister Judy.

In keeping with what Bill wanted, there will be no public service. If anyone wishes, donations can be made to the Montpelier Food Pantry, the American Cancer Society or the Parkinson’s Foundation.

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John "Jade" Edwards Jr. - January 25, 1969 - February 12, 2024

Departed: 02/12/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Montpelier, Vermont – John Earl “Jade” Edwards, Jr.

John Earl “Jade” Edwards, Jr., 55, died suddenly February 12, 2024, at his home in Montpelier, Vermont. He was born January 25, 1969, in Pratt, Kansas, the son of John Earl Edwards Sr. and Connie Lee (Hacker) Edwards.

John lived in Nebraska as a child, attending school in St. John and Macksville, KS 1979-1985, then moved to Oregon. He later lived in Missouri for a time, then moved to Vermont. He married Carrie Jungclaus in August of 1996, in Missouri. They divorced after 13 years. He worked at various jobs including chemical biological specialist in the National Guard, welding, massage therapy, and survivalist consultant.

John is survived by his mother Connie Edwards of St. John, KS; a sister, Sally Edwards of South Hutchinson, KS; a brother, Ben Edwards of Lawrence, KS; other siblings, Michael and Joseph Hathaway both of St. John, KS; J.T., Valerie, and Sonya all of Nebraska, Scott of Kansas, and George; four nieces, Dana, Kristi, Alyssa, and Josephine; one nephew, Lucas; one great-niece, Aela; dear friends, Sharon Lassiter of Montpelier, and her son Nate of Wilmington, NY; and his beloved Maine Coon cat, Jasper.

He was preceded in death by his father in 2012; his grandparents, Orris C. & Lela Mae Brown, Jack Hacker, and Sibyl Irene (Smith) Hacker; foster mother, Jane (Smith) Hathaway; and stepmother, Cynthia Edwards.

A funeral will be held at 11:00 a.m., Saturday, March 2nd at Minnis Chapel in St. John, KS with Reverend Ray Davidson officiating.

Arrangements are in the care of Guare and Sons Funeral Home of Montpelier, Vermont. Those wishing to express online condolences may do so at www.guareandsons.com.

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Vasili L Bellini - February 08, 1926 - February 12, 2024

Departed: 02/12/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Vas graduated from North Providence High School in 1943. He served in the United States Navy from 1944 – 1946. After graduating from the University of Rhode Island in 1950, Vas obtained a Master’s degree in Social Work from Boston University in 1955. His work history included social work in the Rhode Island public welfare system from 1950 – 1953.

In 1953, Vas began a career as a child welfare worker at the Dr. Patrick O’Rourke Childrens’ Center in Providence, retiring as Director in 1966. In 1966, the family moved to Montpelier, Vt., where Vas became the Director of Family Services in the Vermont Department of Social Welfare. He served the state in several related positions, before retiring as AHS Director of Income Maintenance in January 1991.

In June 1955, Vas married Maria Josephine (Josie) Zito, also of Providence, R. I. They were blessed with two children, David and Victoria. The honeymoon was a 3-month trip across the country by car, visiting major national parks, the Canadian Rockies, northern Mexico, and friends on the West Coast. They attended the opening of the original Disneyland in California. After his retirement, Vas and Josie toured Italy along with several other European countries.

They maintained a small summer home in Narragansett, R. I., which was later replaced with a year around beach house when Vas retired. The beach house was a magnet for the many friends and family who visited all summer long. Vermont friends were introduced to the seashore, and Rhode Island family and friends learned to ski in Vermont. No matter where he was, “Uncle Vas” was loved and cherished by the Bellini and Zito families and by his many friends and colleagues.

Social work was truly Vas’ passion as well as his lifelong occupation. He was well suited for the job, and he made a difference in the lives of many. We remember him as a true gentleman who always made time for others. He lived with dignity, intelligence, and integrity. Family and friends alike benefitted from his wise counsel and generous heart. As one friend said, “Vas was a class act”. He will be dearly missed by all who knew him and whose lives he touched, including his loving nieces and nephews, friends, and colleagues.

Vas was predeceased by his parents, his wife Josie Bellini, his daughter Victoria Bellini Fitzgerald, and his two sisters, Anita Bellini McGuire, and Ilia Bellini Stacy. He is survived by his son David V. Bellini and his partner, Kathy Callaghan, of Montpelier, VT., son-in-law Brian Fitzgerald of South Glens Falls, N.Y. , and many wonderful nieces and nephews in the Bellini and Zito families.

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Evelyn "Grammy" Law - April 10, 1929 - February 03, 2024

Departed: 02/03/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Evelyn "Grammy" Law, beloved matriarch of her family and a cherished member of the community, passed away peacefully on February 3, 2024, at the age of 94 in Northfield, Vermont. Born on April 10, 1929, in Montpelier, VT, Evelyn was the heart

and soul of her family, known for her kind words, warm smiles, and loving nature. Growing up on a farm in Vermont with her 9 siblings, Evelyn inherited a deep love for her home state. She carried this love throughout her life, raising her own four children in a rambling old farmhouse in Riverton, Vermont. Her home was always filled with the delightful aroma of her baking, and she welcomed friends, family, and even strangers with open arms, treating them to her delicious treats, warm coffee, and heartfelt conversations. Evelyn's farmhouse was a hub of activity and laughter, a place where friendships were forged and memories were made. In addition to her love for baking, Evelyn had a passion for gardening, spending hours tending her bountiful vegetable patch. She found solace and joy in reading, sewing, and corresponding with loved ones. Evelyn worked for the State of Vermont Transportation Department in Montpelier and Berlin for over 30 years. After her retirement Evelyn spent her golden years watching her young grandchildren anytime she

could, attending school activities and sporting events or just spending time with them. Evelyn will be deeply missed by her sons, Michael Law and Terence Law, her daughter Charlene Gray, and her many grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She was preceded in death by her husband, Conrad Law, and her dear son, Ritchie

Law. The family would like to extend a heartfelt thank you and appreciation to the staff and administrators at Mayo Healthcare the for wonderful and compassionate care they gave to Evelyn these past few years. A graveside service will be held in the spring, at the Berlin Corner Cemetery, where family and friends may gather to pay their final respects to this remarkable

woman. The Guare and Sons Funeral Home, located in Montpelier, Vermont, is assisting the family with the arrangements.

The family would like to request in lieu of flowers that a donation be made to Mayo Healthcare.

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Emril A. Stockwell - September 20, 1935 - January 29, 2024

Departed: 01/29/2024 (Montpelier)

Obituary Preview: Emril A. Stockwell Montpelier, VT

Emril was born on September 20, 1935 in Montpelier, VT to Allen and Marion (Stockwell) Ambrose.

He was raised by his beloved grandmother, Emily Stockwell in Montpelier and was known to be a quiet fellow, conscientious and friendly.

Elected the "Quietest Boy" in High School, Emril graduated from Montpelier High School on June 17, 1955. He enlisted as a Private in the United States Army and was later honorably discharged. After the Army Emril moved to the Boston area where he worked for Jordan Marsh as a Packer & Shipper from April 1965 until he retired in September 1993.

Emril enjoyed living in Cambridge, MA for many years before he moved to Hale House in Boston in December of 2002. Emril also lived at Wingate Needham in MA.  Emril transitioned to the Life Care Center of Acton in April of 2022 where he then made the journey to heaven on January 29, 2024.

Emril enjoyed long walks, traveling (especially a trip to Israel in 1980), eating out, and his pet cockatiels. Emril was a longtime member of the Boston Baptist Social Union, a Christian fellowship of men promoting love among all people. He joined Tremont Temple Baptist Church in November 1969 and served faithfully as an usher for many years.

Emril will be remembered for his gentle, quiet manner and a smile that warmed your heart.

A spring burial will be held at the West Berlin Cemetery in loving remembrance of Emril A. Stockwell.

Arrangements are in the care of Guare and Sons Funeral Home of Montpelier, VT.  Those wishing to express online condolences may do so at www.guareandsons.com.

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A Family-Owned and Operated Business

One of the things that sets Guare & Sons, Barber & Lanier Funeral Home apart from other funeral homes is its family-owned and operated status. For generations, the Guare family has been dedicated to serving the Montpelier community with dignity and respect. This family's commitment to excellence is evident in every aspect of the funeral home's operations, from the meticulous attention to detail to the compassionate care provided to each and every family.

A Wide Range of Services

Guare & Sons, Barber & Lanier Funeral Home offers a wide range of services designed to meet the unique needs of each family they serve. From traditional funeral services to cremation options, memorial services, and pre-planning arrangements, this funeral home provides families with the flexibility and choices they need to create a meaningful and personalized tribute to their loved one.

A Beautiful Facility

The facility at Guare & Sons, Barber & Lanier Funeral Home is warm, inviting, and designed to provide families with a comfortable and peaceful environment in which to say goodbye to their loved one. With ample parking, spacious visitation rooms, and state-of-the-art audiovisual equipment, this funeral home is equipped to handle services of all sizes and styles.

A Team of Caring Professionals

The team at Guare & Sons, Barber & Lanier Funeral Home is comprised of caring professionals who are dedicated to providing exceptional service to each and every family they serve. From licensed funeral directors to support staff, every member of the team is committed to ensuring that families receive the highest level of care and compassion during their time of need.

Community Involvement

Guare & Sons, Barber & Lanier Funeral Home is deeply committed to giving back to the Montpelier community. Through involvement in local charities, organizations, and events, this funeral home demonstrates its dedication to making a positive impact on the lives of those it serves.

Why Choose Guare & Sons, Barber & Lanier Funeral Home?

When it comes to choosing a funeral home, families have many options. So why choose Guare & Sons, Barber & Lanier Funeral Home? The answer lies in the funeral home's unwavering commitment to excellence, its family-owned and operated status, and its dedication to providing exceptional service to each and every family it serves. Whether you're planning ahead or facing an unexpected loss, Guare & Sons, Barber & Lanier Funeral Home is here to provide you with the care and support you need during your time of need.

Contact Information

If you're looking for more information about Guare & Sons, Barber & Lanier Funeral Home or would like to speak with a member of their team, please don't hesitate to reach out. You can contact them by phone at [insert phone number], by email at [insert email], or by visiting their website at [insert website]. Their physical address is 30 School Street, Montpelier, VT 05602.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online, or in a funeral home's website to inform friends, family, and community of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who knew them. They can help facilitate condolences, funeral arrangements, and memorial services. Additionally, obituaries can provide a sense of closure and allow loved ones to begin the grieving process.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family members or close friends of the deceased write the obituary. However, some funeral homes or online obituary platforms may offer assistance in writing and publishing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include a photo, quotes, or personal anecdotes to make it more personalized.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Generally, it's recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important details. Aim for around 150-200 words for a standard obituary.

Can I include a photo in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include a photo with the obituary. This can be a recent photo or one that captures a special moment from the person's life.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some newspapers may have online submission forms or email addresses where you can send the obituary.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms and websites that allow you to publish an obituary. These platforms often provide templates and guidance to help you create and share the obituary with others.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Newspaper obituaries may charge by the word or line, while online platforms may offer free or paid options with varying features.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

It depends on the publication or platform. Some may allow minor corrections or updates, while others may not permit changes once it's been published. Be sure to proofread carefully before submitting the obituary.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The publication timeline varies depending on the newspaper or platform. Online platforms may publish immediately, while newspapers may take several days or weeks to print.

Can I include humor or lighthearted moments in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary is a celebration of the person's life, so feel free to include humorous anecdotes or personality traits that made them unique.

Should I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, this is a thoughtful way to honor the deceased and support a cause they cared about. Include the charity's name and any relevant details for those who wish to make a donation.

Can I write an obituary for someone who died years ago?

Yes, it's never too late to write an obituary for someone who has passed away. This can be a meaningful way to honor their memory and share their story with others.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites that specialize in collecting historical records. Local libraries or genealogical societies may also have access to old newspapers and records.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter can be effective ways to share the news with friends and family quickly. You can also share links to online obituaries or funeral home websites.

Is it appropriate to include negative information in an obituary?

No, it's generally considered inappropriate to include negative comments or sensitive information about the deceased or their family members. Focus on celebrating their life and accomplishments instead.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, quotes, lyrics, or poems can add a personal touch and provide comfort to those reading the obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person's personality or spirit.

How do I notify friends and acquaintances of someone's passing?

In addition to publishing an obituary, consider reaching out personally to close friends and acquaintances who may not see the notice. You can also use social media or email groups to spread the word.

What is a death notice versus an obituary?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only basic information like name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and accomplishments.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary as part of their end-of-life planning. This can be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on your life and legacy.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an obituary for someone who was young or died suddenly?

Yes, when writing an obituary for someone who died young or suddenly, it's essential to be sensitive to their family's feelings and avoid sensational language. Focus on celebrating their life and accomplishments rather than dwelling on the circumstances of their passing.

Can I include information about memorial services or celebrations of life in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including details about upcoming memorial services or celebrations of life can help ensure that friends and family are aware of these events and can attend if they wish.