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Darlene Louise Reid - March 06, 1956 - April 30, 2024

Departed: 04/30/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Darlene Louise Reid.

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Cattina Uneek Thomas - July 23, 1975 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: On Tuesday April 29, 2024, Cattina Uneek Thomas was called Home with her mother by her side.

She was born July 23, 1975 in Augusta Georgia and was raised in Virginia Beach, Virginia.

She is survived by her Mother Lenora Thomas, Brother Daemion Thomas, Her 3 nieces Aliyah and Alexis Hamer, Autumn Thomas as well as 2 nephews Jalen Hamer and Nasir Thomas. And many aunts, uncles, and cousins.

She was Compassionate with a Giving Soul. She touched many lives, especially doing what she loved to do at The Boys and Girls Club as their Director. As she use to say “I Love My Kids” and all of them from the young to the older ones were her babies. Cattina loved to be surrounded by family and thanks to her family she can spend her last moments surrounded by many family and friends with Cries, Laughter, and Love for her final Goodbye

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Elmer Leevon Cabarrus - March 05, 1956 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (NORFOLK)

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Elmer Levon Cabarrus, born on March 5, 1956 in Virginia Beach, VA, lived a life filled with love, laughter, joy, and unwavering faith. He was the beloved son of Mother Mildred Cabarrus and brought joy to the lives of his six siblings and over 20 nieces and nephews.

Elmer was a hard worker- he was a custodian for several barbershops, salons and food services throughout his life. Elmer’s roots spread from Virginia, to New Jersey, and Pennsylvania- he was even known throughout the world for his laughter and joy.

Elmer actively participated in the Worship & Praise Outreach Christian Center in the Poconos (PA), where he found community and spiritual nourishment. He embraced his Tidewater (VA) roots and cherished the time spent with his family, understanding the importance of love and unity. Elmer's love for his family was a reflection of the love of Christ within him.

Elmer loved going to visit several churches in the Tidewater (VA) area and anywhere else that didn’t mind him dancing for the Lord and having a few words of encouragement and faith to spread. He was also a member of Jesus Church Of Deliverance (Chesapeake, VA).

He is preceded in death by his father & mother, George Cabarrus & Mildred Cabarrus, a beloved brother, James Cabarrus (Bernetta), and a beloved sister, Vickie Moore (John).

He is survived by his siblings, George Cabarrus Sr. (Jennifer), Calvin Cabarrus Sr. (Mary), Kenneth Cabarrus (Karen), and Regina Forester; along with a host of nieces and nephews, cousins and beloved friends. As we celebrate the beautiful life that Elmer lived, may his legacy continue to shine brightly, reminding us of the power of faith

And the everlasting love of our Savior.

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Diane Grier - August 29, 1960 - April 28, 2024

Departed: 04/28/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Diane Grier.

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Harley Keith Hooper - March 25, 1948 - April 28, 2024

Departed: 04/28/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: Chief Petty Officer Harley Keith Hooper went to be with The Lord on April 28,2024. He was born in Buffalo where he was later adopted by Harley and Pauline Hooper. He served his country proudly for over twenty two years. This is where he met and fell in love with the love of his life Arline.

He leaves to cherish his memory his children Eric S Hooper (Mary), Scott R Hooper (Trish), Valerie R Hooper (Anthony) and Aylssa D Hooper. His niece who he considered a daughter, Kimberly McCullough (James) and their children Tamara and Dillian. He leaves behind 9 beautiful grandchildren: Shakyia, Shamonn, Shamarion, Amyia, Jaelyn, Kaila Adrianna, Brianna, and Abigayle. He also leaves behind one great grandchild Elizabeth Ann. He had some special friends Ms. Serena, Scott, June, Kathy and his most cherished neighbors that turned into family over the last 30 years. He had a very great friend he loved and cherished and called his daughter in Florida, Juliana (Roy), whom he loved and adored along with her five children: Vicky, Joshua, Eli, Joel, and Rebecca. Along with many other extended family and friends.

He was preceded in death by his wife of 47 years, Arline Hooper and his parents, Harley and Pauline Hooper.

His life lead him to join the United States Navy in June of 1971. His first duty station was in Panama City, Florida. This is where he met and fell in love with the love of his life Arline. They were married in Panama City on March 12,1977. This is where they had their Eric S Hooper in December of 1977. He was then stationed at Portsmouth, Virginia where they had their second son Scott R Hooper in December of 1979 and their eldest daughter Valerie R Hooper in February of 1985. He retired in August of 1992. Upon his retirement he and his wife had their last daughter Aylssa D Hooper in July of 1990.

He served on the USS Brinkley Bass, USS Independence USS Dwight D Eisenhower, and the USS Saipan. He also served during Vietnam. During his time he received a number of awards including Five Good Conduct Awards, Vietnam Service Medal, Vietnam Campaign and Navy Expeditionary Medal. Once he retired he fell in love with over the road truck driving which he did for over ten years. In his spare time he enjoyed sitting out front enjoying time with his grandkids and his neighbors. When he was still able he enjoyed bowling on leagues with his wife. Harley never met a stranger and was always there to make someone laugh. He was truly loved and will forever be missed!

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Rosaland Callie Crawford - October 18, 1959 - April 25, 2024

Departed: 04/25/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: October 18, 1958 in Tampa Florida, Robert Little and Parthenia Times gave birth to a beautiful baby girl named Rosaland Crawford. She was the middle child of an older sister Parthy Smith and a younger brother Rodney Little.

Rosaland leaves behind three men that she loved ever so dearly; two being her sons Deaukuin B. Crawford and Jordan B. Crawford; the other is David Rosser, a man who stood by her side for 35 years to love care and provide for her even in the most difficult days and times. He was her rock, they were unbreakable.

Rosaland enjoyed listening to music, laughing, joking, and being around her family. Her compliments and uplifting words will truly be missed.

Also left to cherish her beautiful memories are grandchildren, Ashanti Crawford, Nahiem Crawford, Zyaire Crawford, Alianna Crawford; great grandchildren, Kingston Crawford and Amiyah Crawford; nieces and nephews, Tanisha Little-Medows, Tamika Little-Coleman, Daniel Little, Agerrion Little.

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Shirley Mae Eason - July 05, 1944 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: Shirley M. Eason, a native of Norfolk, VA, and the widow of the late James H. Eason, departed this walk of life peacefully on Wednesday, April 24, 2024 in her home surrounded by her family. She was the daughter of the late James R. Chambers and Annie M. Chambers. In addition to her parents, Ms. Eason was preceded in death by her grandson, Rodney L. Bibbins.

She is survived by her five children: Joyce Chambers, Pamela Chambers, Roosevelt (Cynthia) Chambers, Vicky (Ernest) Wilson, and Rosalind Logan, her seven grandchildren, and five great-grandchildren.

The home going services for Ms. Eason will be held at: Union United Church of Christ, Norfolk, VA 23504 on Wednesday, May 1, 2024 at 1pm. The family will receive friends and family immediately following the service.

Funeral arrangements are being handled by Graves Funeral Home.

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Viola Tilman Wyche - December 10, 1923 - April 24, 2024

Departed: 04/24/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Viola Tilman Wyche.

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Rev. Dr. George Herman Spicer - February 12, 1942 - April 23, 2024

Departed: 04/23/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: Obituary Reverend Dr. George H. Spicer

His Story . . .

On April 23, 2024, while surrounded by his loving wife Gloria and his family, Reverend Dr. George Herman Spicer quietly and peacefully bade farewell to us and entered the portal of life eternal with who loved him more, Jesus Christ.

Reverend Spicer was the youngest of ten children (Manfield Spicer, Sr., Blondelia Morris, Naomi Martin, Christine Williams, Mary Spicer, James Spicer, Harry Lee Garland, Rosalie Joyner, and Garvis Garland). He was born on February 12, 1942, in Portsmouth, Virginia to the late Reverend George W. Spicer and Mrs. Lannie G. Spicer. He graduated from I.C. Norcom High School, Portsmouth, Virginia. He later matriculated at Norfolk State College (presently Norfolk State University) Norfolk, Virginia, earning the Bachelor of Science degree in Business Administration. He continued his studies at the Samuel Dewitt Proctor School of Theology, Richmond, Virginia earning a Master of Divinity Degree, and at the United Theological Seminary, Dayton Ohio, earning the Doctor of Ministry Degree. He was a member of the Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, a lifetime member of the NAACP, a member of Christians United for Israel, a donor to the Dr. Martin Luther King Monument Fund and the Blessing of the Poor Ministry. Reverend Spicer was a United States Army Veteran. He retired after 37 years of Federal Government service. His last position was as a Manager in the Quality Assurance Department at SUPSHIP Portsmouth (Norfolk Naval Shipyard) in Portsmouth, Virginia. Reverend Spicer married the love of his life, the former Gloria Hasket, in 1964. God blessed them with one son, George “Jerome” Spicer that went to be with Jesus on March 24, 2020.

His Spiritual Journey . . . Reverend Spicer was licensed and ordained to preach the Gospel of Jesus Christ in 1984. He loved people and looked for opportunities to demonstrate the love of God. He previously served as the Pastor of Christian Union United Church of Christ, Newport News, Virginia from January 1995 until January 1999. He served as the Pastor of First Baptist Church, Logan Park, Norfolk, Virginia from February 1999 until December 2009. From June 2010 until January 2013, he served as Associate Minister/Assistant to the Pastor Reverend Jake Manley, Sr. at Bethany Baptist Church, Chesapeake, Virginia. Afterwards he served as the Interim Pastor at Bethany Baptist Church from April 2013 until November 2016. He served as the Interim Pastor at Christian Union Church from June 2017 until March 2018, when Christian Union Church Congregation unanimously selected him to be their permanent Pastor. Reverend Spicer’s used the scripture from Romans 8:28 when appointed the permanent pastor: “All things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to his purpose.”

His Eternal Story . . .

The Holy Angels carried our beloved, Reverend Dr. George Herman Spicer into the arms of his precious Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, just as the angels carried Lazarus into Abraham’s bosom in Luke 16:22. Besides his wife, Gloria, he is survived by his son Jerome’s widow, Marilyn, two granddaughters, Arnae and Makia, and one great grandson, Mahki, a host of nieces, nephews, godchildren, and other relatives and friends. Family meant everything to him. Reverend Spicer lived, and followed the example of Christ, and in turn became a powerful example of what God can do through a life yield to him. If he were able to share words with us once again, Reverend Spicer would remind us “only one life, so soon it will pass, and only what’s done for Christ will last.” Note: The Homegoing Service will be live streamed at: New Bethel Baptist Church https://newbethel:info www.zoom.us Join – MEETING ID: 896 419 4029 and Graves Funeral Home's Website gravesfuneralhomeinc.com

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Barbara Laverne Cooper - August 24, 1933 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: Obituary of Barbara Goode Cooper August 24, 1933 – April 21, 2024

On August 24, 1933, Barbara Lavern Goode was the last of five children born to Junious and Bettie Goode in the sawmill town of Waverly, Virginia.

Barbara would tell stories about being the favorite child, pampered by her mother Bettie and doted upon by her older sisters. But when she was in third grade, her father contracted tuberculosis. The county health department quarantined him in a portable shelter in his own backyard. The humiliation and isolation from everyone--including his wife and children--was too much for him to bear. He committed suicide in 1942. It was 9-year-old Barbara and her brother Rudolph who came home from school to find their father dead.

Haunted by Junious’s death, the family struggled to find its footing. The house seemed to rumble with his restless spirit. Feeling lost, Barbara sought refuge with her friends who became her surrogate family. One of them was Willie Curtis Cooper, a boy she’d known since she was six, and who would later become her husband. Barbara received her high school diploma from the segregated Sussex County Training School in 1952, and her sisters Mamie and Lucy carted her off to Virginia State University. They were determined that their youngest sister would have the best chance in life. They even bought her set of suitcases monogrammed with her initials in gold, “BLG.”

Popular and social, Barbara proved to be a lackluster student. After two years in college, she switched gears to attend the Smith-Madden School of Business in Richmond, Virginia. She did fine with her grades, but once again, her personality trumped academics. In 1954, she became president of the first student council at the school.

During this time, she also reconnected with her high school sweetheart, Willie Cooper, who’d left Waverly after graduation to play football at North Carolina A & T. When the couple married in Stamford, Connecticut on November 27, 1954, Willie had just enlisted in the United States Air Force after losing his football scholarship. Not long after they married, Willie received orders to Itazuke Air Force Base in Southern Japan! Imagine the newlyweds, raised in the rural South, starting their lives overseas.

Their first child, Desiree, was born in Japan in 1960. Their second child, Willie Jr., was born in San Antonio 18 months later. Although it was stressful to raise her family so far away from home, Barbara loved military life. She made lifelong friends, including Helen Jennings, who she met during their first station in Japan. They were friends for nearly 65 years.

For Barbara, motherhood was not only an aspiration but an avocation. Given her own rocky childhood, she saw “homemaking” as a commitment, and childhood stability as a principle. She was a great cook who carefully guarded family time (especially dinnertime and Sundays). She cooked every day and always prepared a traditional, Southern Sunday dinner.

As a military wife, she also took up many hobbies, including Japanese flower arranging and embroidery. She became a gifted cake decorator, knitter, and seamstress.

She was intimately involved in her children’s lives, taking on the role of team mother, homeroom mother, and PTA member. Her career as a scout leader began in 1965, when in first grade, no white members of her daughter’s Brownie troop would come to their home for meetings.

When Willie was stationed to Thailand in 1966 during the Vietnam War, Barbara and the children moved back to Waverly to live with her mother-in-law. During the year of her husband’s absence, she started her first business: a day care for a half-dozen rural children. One of her lifelong passions: preschool education.

When Willie retired from the military in 1974, the family moved to Chesapeake, Virginia four doors down from Barbara’s oldest sister, Mamie Gay. Finally, she was back within driving distance of her mother and her remaining siblings, Mamie, Lucy Harris, and James Goode.

While she was very close to her mother and sisters, Barbara was beloved by her husband’s family as well. She adored her in-laws, nieces, and nephews, and was front-and-center at Cooper family reunions for more than 35 years.

As her own children aged, she worked outside of the home as a nursery schoolteacher. She received her Child Development Associate credential in 1979 and became the director of New Calvary Baptist Church’s Kiddie College in Norfolk, Virginia.

In the mid-1980s, she became an eligibility worker for Norfolk Social Services. When Mamie’s husband died suddenly, Willie and Barbara took on his used car business. Barbara managed the office for several years until her husband retired from his day job.

Barbara’s love of life showed in her passions. She filled her life with flowers, and loved animals, especially dogs. In the 1980s, she joined the Order of the Eastern Star. She became a Stephen Minister for the Methodist Church in 2004, and for years she performed line dances in the community with the “Jammin’ Seniors.” But mostly, she loved tending to her home and her yard, where she had even befriended the squirrels and birds.

Barbara is predeceased by her husband, Willie C. Cooper, Sr., to whom she was married 66 years; and her siblings Mamie Gay, Lucy Harris, James Goode, and Rudolph Goode. Surviving to cherish her memory are her children Desiree Cooper, and Willie Cooper, Jr. (Maria Cooper), her grandchildren Melvin Hollowell, III, and Desiree Montgomery; her great grandchildren, Jackson, Aaliyah and Jordan Montgomery; and a multitude of nieces and nephews.

She will be remembered by her children as a loving, giving mother, full of creativity and joy. The last decade of her life was ravaged by Alzheimer’s, during which her daughter was her primary caregiver, along with the support of superb caregivers, Yuanita Taylor, Monique Sharpe, and Brenda Browder. One of her lasting joys was every weekend when her son Willie came to visit, and holding her great-grandson as he played in her lap. https://youtu.be/32nOvRarJl0 Video Tribute Link

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Angela Newby Gamell - May 18, 1936 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Angela Newby Gamell.

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Marjorie Antoinette Webb - Henry - February 20, 1937 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: MARJORIE ANTOINETTE COLES WEBB HENRY “TONI”

On February 20, 1937, Marjorie Coles-Webb-Herny, also known as Toni, was born to the late William and Virginia Coles of Norfolk, Virginia. Toni received her formal education from the Norfolk, Virginia Public School system. Toni was a graduate of Booker T. Washington High School, class of 1954. From there, Toni attended “Little State College” and was a part of the first class to enter what is now known as Norfolk State University, where there was only one building on campus, Brown Hall. Toni was employed at the International Longshoremen’s Association where she worked as an insurance specialist until she retired in 1983.

Toni credits a lot of her upbringing to her grandmother and two aunts who showed and taught her love, respect and right from wrong. At an early age, Toni was baptized at Mount Olive Baptist Church, Norfolk, Virginia; this was the beginning of her love for God. On July 5, 1958, she married the late Oliver D. Webb Jr. and out of that union came two sons, Oliver D. Webb III, and Michael S. Webb Sr. While living in Portsmouth, Virginia, Toni joined New Bethel Baptist Church under the leadership and guidance of the late Bishop James M. Whitaker. Toni was very active at New Bethel, participating in church school, the Usher Board II, Chirstian Education, the Women’s Day Ministry, CDI, the Lousie Spruill Missionary Ministry, and the Repairing Bethel Committee. On November 2, 2008, under the leadership of Rev. Dr. Mark M. Whitaker, Toni was ordained as a Deacon.

After the death of Oliver Jr., Toni remarried the late Rev. George E. Henry in November 1984, and from that union, she inherited two children, Carlton Henry Sr., and Dr. Jocelyn Henry-Whitehead. The marriage lasted twenty-one years until Rev. Henry’s transition in 2005.

Toni loved her family more than anything. She was proud of their accomplishments and prayed daily for their safe travels, and mercy. Toni leaves to mourn three sons, Oliver III, (Barbara), Michael Sr., (Shenita), Carlton Sr., one daughter, Dr. Jocelyn Henry-Whitehead, (Rev. Robert), eight grandchildren, Oliver Webb IV, Michael Webb Jr., Lailah Webb, Carlton Henry Jr., George Henry, Susan Henry-Matthew, Robert Whitehead Jr., and Matthew Whitehead; seven great grandchildren, two lifelong friends, Barbara Luckett, and Harriette Mickle, and a host of other family and friends.

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William Herbert Beck - July 06, 1931 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: William Herbert Beck, affectionately known as "Billy" to his family and friends, passed away peacefully on April 18, 2024. He was born on July 6, 1931, in Norfolk, Virginia to the late William A. and Louise Beck.

William attended Booker T. Washington High School, where his musical talents shone bright. As a piano player and sousaphone musician, he enchanted audiences with his melodies as a member of the high school band. After graduating, he pursued his passion for learning, earning a bachelor's degree in Zoology from Howard University, following studies at Norfolk State College (currently Norfolk State University).

Driven by a sense of duty and patriotism, William joined the Air Force and served honorably as an Air Force navigator during the Korean War era. He eventually rose to the rank of Captain, serving his country with honor and distinction. Following his military service, he embarked on a career with the United States Postal Service, eventually rising to the esteemed position of Postmaster.

Beyond his professional accomplishments, William was deeply involved in his community and rooted in his faith as a dedicated member of Queen Street Baptist Church for 82 years. He served in various capacities, including deacon, church treasurer, superintendent of Sunday school, and a volunteer with Helping Hands, where he extended compassion to those in need by serving meals to the community. William was also a member of Omega Psi Phi Fraternity and an active member of the Norfolk New Light Lodge Prince Hall #196.

In addition to his contributions to his church and community, William cherished his role as a husband, father, and family man. He is survived by his loving wife of 15 years, Gloria; his daughter Sherida (Kenneth) Gipson and Terence (Joanne) Beck; his sister Jean (Melvin) Bowdan; two step daughters, Valda Chauncey and Gail Chauncey; as well as a host of grandchildren, great-grandchildren, friends, and loved ones.

William's legacy of service, kindness, and love will continue to inspire all who had the privilege of knowing him. He will be deeply missed and fondly remembered by all whose lives he touched.

A memorial service to celebrate William's life will be held at Queen Street Baptist Church, 413 E. Brambleton Avenue Norfolk, Virginia on Wednesday, May 1, 2024 at 12:00p.m.

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Katrina Eliza Hodges - March 11, 1985 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: Katrina Eliza Hodges, affectionately known as Trina, passed away on April 17, 2024, leaving behind a legacy of faith, humor, kindness, creativity, and a profound love for serving her community.

Born in Chesapeake, VA on March 11, 1985, to Kenneth and Katherine Hodges, Katrina was a source of joy from her earliest days. Growing up alongside her younger brother, Kenneth (Little Kenny), she embraced life with laughter and a vibrant spirit.

After graduating with Honors from Indian River High School in 2003, Katrina attended Old Dominion University (ODU) where she studied communications and media, served on the Yearbook committee, and was inducted into the National Honors Society. She continued her studies at Light University where she received her certification in mental health counseling.

For over 13 years, Katrina worked for Community Choice Financial in various roles, ultimately becoming a Manager. In 2023, she became a Universal Banker at Truist Bank.

Katrina loved music, movies, memes, trying new foods, going to the beach, and spending time with her friends and family. After being baptized in 2017, Katrina’s faith was evident to those around her. In 2021, Katrina helped co-found Whole Way Ministries, an organization helping others discover their Christian identity. She was a Deacon-in-training at Faith Impact Church. Katrina spent countless hours feeding the unhoused, ministering to bring non-believers to Christ, and volunteering with her church and community. Katrina’s heart was for those who felt unseen to be seen, unheard to be heard, and led above all with authentic unconditional love.

Sadly, Katrina’s journey was cut short, and she is now reunited with her maternal and paternal grandparents, and her mother, Katherine, who predeceased her.

Katrina is survived by her father, Kenneth Hodges. Her brother, Kenneth Hodges (Brittani). Her beloved nephew, Kingston Hodges, and his mother Kiala. Her Hodges Family: Geraldine Goings (Marvin), Barbara Johnson (Robert), Martha Gritter (Kenneth), Charles Hodges (Mary), Carolyn Hodges (John), and Ronnie Hodges (Shelly). Her Cross Family: Vanessa Hicks (Willie), James Cross (Cindy- predeceased), Jeffery Cross (Mabel-predeceased), Tennile Cross, Derek Cross, Robert Cross, and Timothy Cross (Yashika). Her Classy Cuzo Quartet: Stacha Ashburn (Ralph), Kristina Spurgat (Tom), and Chrystal Neely (Eric). In addition to a wide circle of extended family and friends who deeply mourn her passing.

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Wayne Richard Ziegler - September 15, 1954 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: Wayne Ziegler passed away in Virginia Beach, VA on Monday April 15, 2024. He was a loved and loving husband, father and friend. He was born in Jersey City, NJ on September 15, 1954. Wayne grew up enjoying the water with his sister and parents on the Jersey shore, on their power boat and as a surfer.

After graduating from Roger Williams University in Rhode Island where he was on the competitive tennis team, he went to work for North American Film Enterprises based in Eugene, Oregon. He traveled all over the country, managing the four wall theater distribution of the movie “Sasquatch, the Legend of Bigfoot,” placing “starts in two days” TV advertising, chartering a plane in a snowstorm to get heavy film cans delivered.

He surfed the Pacific with the seals and moved up to Seattle starting a sales career with the dawn of business computer software. With fabulous mountains around him, he discovered a new sport, became an outstanding downhill skier. In summer he rode the rapids of rivers, hiked the rain forest and climbed the giant downed trees of La Push.

Returning to New Jersey in the late 70s, he went to work for Mincron Computer company selling state-of-the-art software programs in New York City with clients in Lincoln Center and major Museums. He moved into a condominium complex called Twin Lights in Highlands on the Jersey Shore. There he met Judy in August 1982 and the attraction was instant. He surfed the shore and she snorkeled next to him. She was in corporate advertising and PR and he was starting work for Carabiner a multimedia company for corporations. They commuted to NYC together. At one point, Judy became his client and they rented Yankee Stadium and had a custom Jim Henson puppet made.

He proposed on New Year's eve. They were married May 14, 1983 on a motor yacht cruising on the East River until the motor stopped… but the band played on. She introduced him to scuba diving and they honeymooned diving in Bonaire. And so began 40 years of love, partnership and joy.

When Judy received a job offer from General Electric in Portsmouth, Virginia, they checked it out. Loving the water and the weather and finding it a great place to start a family, they moved to Virginia. Wayne started his own video production company.

On September 13, 1984, William “Ryan” Ziegler entered the world to make Wayne a proud father. And everyone who knew Wayne for the next 40 years heard how proud he was of his son. When GE closed, they incorporated the video business as Z-COM video and Judy joined the firm. Wayne taught her to edit video. She did the writing and editing and he did the sales and camera work. They moved the business to Virginia Beach and bought their dream home on Chic’s beach. It became the center of their lives in the summers. Wayne learned windsurfing and became a great teacher of the sport. He and his best friend sailed a little old catamaran that they named the Moron 2. A beach volleyball net was up and it was open house on the beach every weekend. Wayne could be seen tossing the ball in the water for his favorite lab, Sami.

In the winter, the family sport was skiing. Wayne taught Judy to ski and was teaching Ryan by age 4 so that by Ryan’s teen years, he and Wayne skied all the double black diamonds and the runs through the trees together. With Z-Com, they traveled all over the country producing video for chiropractors, medical specialists and medical equipment companies, with Wayne videotaping everything from Cloris Leachman in her Hollywood home to running a micro camera in the operating room during surgery on children for Operation Smile. , Ryan often traveled with them. For 5 summers, they went to Orlando to a convention then stayed to visit Disney World and Sea World and one year also took a trip down to the Keys where Ryan snorkeled with Wayne. Years later they scuba dived as a family in Cozumel. They earned the nickname “the Action Kids”

In 2003, Wayne went to work as an Account Executive for WGNT-TV and then later for both channel 3 and 27, becoming recognized as the top new business salesman for his rare combination of salesmanship and knowledge of video production.

He got back into tennis playing with a mixed double partner, both leftys and hard to beat. The two couples enjoyed kayaking together and many hours on the beach. Wayne loved playing pool. Playing on a local winning team he earned a trip to Las Vegas for a spot in a national competition. Most of all, he was well known for his great sense of humor, getting a smile out of everyone even in the darkest situations. Wayne is survived by his wife, Judy Ziegler, and his son, Ryan Ziegler.

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Mildred Britt Smith - February 19, 1944 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: On Thursday, April 11, 2024, God in His infinite wisdom called Mother Mildred Britt Smith from her temporary house to her heavenly home. Mother Smith was born February 19, 1944, in Princess Anne County, where she spent her formative years. She graduated from Booker T. Washington High School in Norfolk and attended Norfolk State University majoring in Business Management. She worked at the Teagle & Little Company from which she retired after 24 years. Mother Smith met the fine gentleman who would become the love of her life in a movie theatre and in March 1967, she and Supt. Joshua Smith were united in holy matrimony. Mother Smith was a devoted wife, mother, sister, and friend. She loved spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, sharing testimonials and stories. Mother Smith often watched the Lifetime Movie Network, Soap Operas and Texas Ranger TV shows.In her free time, she enjoyed shopping for beautiful hats, suits, dresses, and shoes. Mother Smith was featured in the Virginian Pilot for her beautiful hats. She was a member of the Red Hat Society, and she was active in the Booker T. Washington Alumni Association. She also volunteered for various worthwhile causes and community organizations.Mother Smith was already born again when she joined the Good News Family Worship Center around 1995. She was a missionary who wasn’t focused on her title but lived the life of a prayer warrior. Mother was a faithful and humble servant of the Lord who helped whenever and wherever she could. When her husband was called into ministry, it was no problem for her to accept her role as a preacher’s wife. She was an inwardly and outwardly beautifully adorned saint whose sweet smile and welcoming character was a model for other ministers’ wives. Her

exuberant praise lifted the service whether she was worshipping in the local, district, or jurisdictional setting. As Superintendent Smith was elevated, so was Mother Smith. She was not only his spouse and ministry partner, but she was the First Lady of Holy Jerusalem C.O.G.I.C. and the First Lady of the Tidewater District in the Virginia Third Ecclesiastical Jurisdiction of the Church of God in Christ. First Lady Smith came to be affectionately known by many as a spiritual Mother. She was always there to offer guidance, support, and encouragement, no matter what challenges were faced, and she never met a stranger. She was always eager to share her knowledge and enthusiasm with others. She really loved all God's children.We will dearly miss Mother Smith singing her favorite songs: ‘He Put Laughter in My Heart’, ‘Let It Rain’, and ‘Trouble of The World’.Most of all, we will miss hearing her favorite greeting, “Hey Hun!"Lady Smith was predeceased by parents, Jimmie Britt and Rosa Austin, as well as siblings: Pastor Thelma Sumners, Bernice Brown, Evelyn Britt, Minnie Keys, Dorothy Santana, Bennie Britt (Bernice), and Edward Britt (Pear).Mother Smith leaves to cherish her memory a loving devoted husband of 57 years, Superintendent Joshua Smith, Jr.; three children: Elder Marcus Smith (Catina), Sis. Cindy Williams (Eddie), and Elder Felicia Smith; seven grandchildren: Dontreal Smith (Boo-Boo), Alexia Lima, Gabriel Horton, Joshua Horton, Makayla Horton, Bria Horton, and Aleena Williams; eight great-grandchildren: Saniya Horton, Gabriel Horton, Jr., Emmanuel Horton, Kailiah Lima, Leo Lima, Alaya Lima, Eden Lima, and Nyema Lima. She is also survived by four siblings: Ruby Anderson, Lucille Pendelton, James Britt (Lillie), and Helen Smith.Also to cherish her memories are Deloris White from High School, Patricia Speller from Teagle & Little, a host of nieces, nephews, her church family, and all who knew her. Proverbs 31:10-31: "Who can nd a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. She seeketh wool, and ax, and worketh willingly with her hands. She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. She considereth a eld, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the dista$. She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. She maketh ne linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.”

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Cassius DaAnberkev Sutton - August 17, 1990 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Cassius DaAnberkev Sutton.

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Codjoe Elias Lucas - April 09, 1945 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Codjoe Elias Lucas entered eternal rest on Monday, April 8, 2024. He was born April 9, 1945, in Accra, Ghana to the parents of Adjoa Nutsugah and Komi Sodjati.

Codjoe graduated from Pope John Secondary School in Accra, Ghana. He studied at the University of Cape Coast, University of Ghana, obtaining a degree in economics with a minor in French. He later became a United States citizen in 1980 and began driving tractor trailers for JB Hunt Trucking Company. It was there that he gained an interest in Real Estate. He started selling properties for Century 21 Real Estate in the late 80s before establishing his own name as a realtor and stockbroker. He eventually started his own company titled Wilson and Lucas Real Estate. During this time, he met the love of his life Lillie Hamlin. The two dated for years before welcoming a daughter (Bridgette). They later settled down and were married on April 19, 1999. He later became a dedicated employee of Suffolk Public Schools and loved his co-workers and students.

In addition, Codjoe had many hobbies and accomplishments. He loved airplanes so much that he successfully completed training that gave him the skills to fly private aircraft. He enjoyed reading books, listening to classical music, traveling, watching CNN, and playing with electronic devices. He was a huge fan of futbol and tennis and would often watch matches with his daughter. Serena Williams was his favorite tennis player.

Also, family was important to Codjoe. He would enjoy playing with all three of his granddaughters. He loved his St. Mary's Catholic Family. Codjoe would attend mass every Sunday with his wife until his health started to decline.

He leaves to cherish his wonderful memories a loving wife (Lillie), his only daughter (Bridgette), a son, one step-son (Dialo), three beautiful granddaughters (Amiya, Akira, and Khazana), one brother (Kofi Koudama), two brother in-laws (William Hamlin, Edward Everette), two sister in-laws (Carolyn Everette & Celeste Hamlin), and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends.

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Valerie Yvonne Brickhouse - March 17, 1962 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: Our loving matriarch, Valerie Y. Brickhouse aka Val, departed this physical world on April 5th, 2024 to gracefully reunite with her heavenly family.

Valerie was born in Norfolk, VA to Romeo Williams and Viola Alston aka Bigma on 3/17/1962 as the youngest of 5 children. She was an alumna of Maury High School located in Norfolk, VA and retired from the Department of Defense after dedicating over 25 years of servant leadership to her community and work.

Valerie is predeceased by her parents, Romeo Williams and Viola Alston; her siblings Vanessa Williams and Raymond Williams; adopted brother James Sykes; as well as her niece and nephew Jamila and Jarsee Williams.

She is survived by her life partner Jerome Owens; 3 children Travis Brickhouse (Krisna and Arionna), Cheria Brickhouse, and Chenese Brickhouse; granddaughter Abria Brickhouse; two brothers Maurice Williams (Gail) and Luis Williams; and a host of in-laws, nieces, and nephews who share cherished memories with her.

Valerie served as a vessel of love to everyone whom she crossed paths with in her lifetime. She was a special, one-of-a-kind gem and her infectious energy, words of wisdom, and iconic dance moves will forever be missed and cherished in our hearts.

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Mary Elizabeth Morris - December 18, 1934 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: Mary Elizabeth Morris, 89, born on December 18, 1934, third child of Horace and Essie Chappell, passed away on April 3, 2024 in the presence of her loving family in Norfolk, Virginia.

Mary is survived by three sons, Bobby Morris and Tracy Morris of Maryland and Ronnie Morris of Georgia; grandson Marcus Morris of Georgia; sister-in-laws, Frances Wilson of Norfolk and Carolyn Morris of Indianapolis, Indiana; eight nieces; ten nephews as well as a host of great nieces and nephews.

Mary was predeceased by her husband, Vincent Morris, her son, Mallory Morris, her parents, Horace and Essie Chappell, her brother, Dewey Chappell and sisters, Geneva McMurren and Thelma Jackson.

Mary was a devoted member of New Hope Church of God in Christ, 3232 Brest Avenue, Norfolk, Virginia 23509, for decades and served on the Usher Board for many years.

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Pauline Elizabeth Coston - December 06, 1934 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Pauline Elizabeth Coston.

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Rudolph Spivey - August 29, 1933 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Rudolph Spivey.

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Edward Joseph Copeland - May 01, 1969 - March 27, 2024

Departed: 03/27/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: On March 27th, 2024 the lord called his son Edward Joseph Copeland Jr. home. He was a beloved father, son, brother, uncle, cousin and friend to many.

Edward was born on May 1st, 1969 in Norfolk, VA to Edward Joseph Copeland Sr. and Lillian Virginia Copeland. He was educated in the Norfolk public school system and graduated from Lake Taylor High school. He attended Norfolk State University to further his education. Edward worked really hard and enjoyed his job as a driver for Hampton Roads Transit.

In his spare time he enjoyed watching the Chicago Bears and country western movies. Being the devoted father and grandfather that he was, he enjoyed spending copious amounts of time with his family. On weekends he enjoyed fishing and spending time with his friends.

Edward was truly special to all who knew him. Whether you met him as Edward, Junie, Jr., Bee-Bop, Bop or any of his other wonderful nicknames, he was sure to leave an unforgettable impression on your life. He touched lives in many ways and his memory is forever embedded in our hearts and minds.

He leaves to cherish his precious memories four children: Lorraine Jewel Rene Kennedy of Norfolk, VA, Julius Jay Copeland II of Lexington Park, Maryland, Bridgett Yvette Copeland of Norfolk, VA and Edward Joseph Copeland III (Johanna Copeland) of Columbia, South Carolina; eight grandchildren TayShawn Branche, Promyse Branche, Aniyah Copeland, JayCeon Branche, Paris Branche, Juelz Copeland, King Edward Copeland, and Cairo Copeland; one older brother David Woods, one older sister Charline Kindred (Nat Dew) of Norfolk, VA. He was predeceased by his parents Edward Joseph Copeland Sr. and Lillian Virginia Copeland of Norfolk, VA, and his younger brother Julius Jay Copeland of Norfolk, VA. He also leaves a host of nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins and friends to cherish his legacy.

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Mildred Denice Drew - July 02, 1958 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (NORFOLK)

Obituary Preview: Mildred, known to many as Denice, survived by her husband Fred Hickling, youngest son Cory Drew, her many grandchildren, nieces and nephews, siblings, cousins and many many dear friends. Denice was retired from the City of Norfolk after over 20 years of service. We all know her as the life of the party, our Queen who loved to plan the annual Jamaica trip to get family and friends together as “one love”. Her home was always open to everyone for a hot meal and a place to lay your head when you needed. Her heart, full of love light and laughter.. From her husband’s Friday night friend’s impromptu dominoes games and Denice playing her music and dancing the night away was a fond memory for many. Food always on the stove and open arms to anyone coming by. She loved her family, supported and always helped how she could. And her friends were here family and loved everyone unconditionally. Denice’s memories will always be close to our hearts, her smile that warmed our hearts will never be forgotten. We know you are now at peace. Rest well in the arms of your loving heavenly Father, and join the many that have gone before you. We rest assured knowing you are our angel to keep watch over your loved one. Love your family, we will miss you dearly Denice ♥️

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Sophia Monique Bell - January 31, 1983 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (NORFOLK)

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Sophia Monique Bell , 41, passed away on March 23, 2024.

Born in Oakland, California on January 31,1983, she was the daughter of James Tyler Bell and Sabriina Kim Vaughn. Left to cherish her memory are her mother, Sabrina Lett; daughters, Shanice and Jada McFrazier; three brothers, Jacary Bell, David Bell, and Darrell Bell; four sisters, Alesha Bell, Mariah Bell, Christina Bell and Tylena Bell; and a host of aunts, uncles, cousins, nephews, and friends. She was predeceased by her father, James Bell, brother Tyran Bell, maternal

grandmother, Rosalie Vaughn, and paternal grandparents, David T. and Janie Bell.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, achievements, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to notify friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend of the deceased writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or mortuary may assist with writing the obituary or provide a template for the family to fill out.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include details about their life story, personality, and accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from a few sentences to a short paragraph.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the tribute and help people remember the deceased.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

The process for submitting an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. You can usually find submission guidelines on their website or by contacting them directly.

Is there a cost associated with publishing an obituary?

In many cases, yes. Newspapers and online platforms may charge a fee for publishing an obituary, which can vary depending on the length and complexity of the notice.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance, often as part of their estate planning or as a way to ensure that their life story is told accurately.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Can I include humor or personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries can be a great opportunity to share funny stories or memorable moments that capture the personality and spirit of the deceased.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

It's essential to be respectful and considerate when sharing information about the deceased. If you're unsure about including certain details, it's best to err on the side of caution and omit them or consult with other family members.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial services in the obituary as a way to honor their loved one's memory.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Online platforms may publish immediately, while newspapers may have a delay of several days or weeks.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, yes. If you need to make corrections or updates to an obituary, contact the publication or platform directly to see if they can accommodate your request.

What if I want to keep the obituary private or only share it with certain people?

Some online platforms offer options for private or restricted access to obituaries. You can also choose to share the obituary only with specific individuals or groups through email or social media.

Can I republish an obituary at a later date?

Yes, you can republish an obituary on anniversaries or special occasions as a way to continue celebrating the life of your loved one.

Are there any specific formatting or style guidelines for writing an obituary?