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Rev. Terry L Hardt - December 17, 1938 - April 23, 2024

Departed: 04/23/2024 (Putnam)

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N. Grosvenordale – Rev. Terry L. Hardt, 85, of Riverside Dr., died Tuesday afternoon, April 23, 2024, at Wm. W. Backus Hospital. He was the loving husband of 65 years to Dorothy M. (Olson) Hardt. Born in Menomonie, WI, he was the son of the late Gustav and Adelaide (Becker) Hardt.

Rev. Hardt was a minister of the United Pentecostal Church (UPC) for 65 years. Along with his wife, Dorothy, he pastured churches in Idaho, Montana, Wyoming, Massachusetts, and Connecticut. They also founded new churches in Montana, Massachusetts, Connecticut, and Ohio, including Quinebaug Valley UPC (now called Acts II Ministries) in N. Grosvenordale. After pastoring in Euclid, Ohio they retired to N. Grosvenordale where he served as a church elder until his passing.

Terry enjoyed playing his guitar with his neighbors and friends, building muzzle loaders, and was an avid reader, especially of westerns.

He is survived by his wife, his three sons, Nathaniel Hardt and his wife Doniece of N. Grosvenordale, Samuel Hardt of Puyallup, WA, and Daniel Hardt and his wife Pamela of Hampton, GA; his six grandchildren, Ashley, Nathan, Stephen, Emily, Logan, and Caleb, and his great grandson, Jack. He was predeceased by his parents, a brother, Gustav Hardt, his daughters in law, Nancy Hardt and Joyce Hardt, and his two grandchildren, Adam and Rachel.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a memorial service on Saturday, May 4, 2024, at Acts II Ministries, 1366 Riverside Dr., N. Grosvenordale, CT at 10:30AM. Donations given in memory of Rev. Hardt may be given to Acts II Ministries for ministerial education in Eastern Europe. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to the Valade Funeral Home & Crematory, 23 Main St., N. Grosvenordale, CT. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

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Albert L. Zadziejko - October 03, 1943 - April 18, 2024

Departed: 04/18/2024 (Putnam)

Obituary Preview: Albert Lawrence Zadziejko In loving memory October 3, 1943- April 18, 2024

Albert Lawrence Zadziejko of Putnam, CT passed peacefully surrounded by his family. Born in Queens New York he was the son of Adam Zadziejko and Anna Zadziejko (Guertin) who predeceased him.

He will be dearly missed by his loving wife, Lourdes, of 23 years. They were always at each other’s side, constant companions, and best friends.

And sadly missed by his daughter, Dee Gascon. His sons, Gregory and Michael Zadziejko, passed before him. He is survived by two brothers, Charles Guertin (Gayle) and Peter Guertin, three granddaughters, Sarah, Erin, and Angela Gascon, and several nephews and nieces.

Everyone who met Al commented on what a special person he was. Al and Lourdes spent every waking moment together. He was a very caring and devoted husband. Lourdes has lovingly cared for him this past year. He loved his family very much and was a devoted dad to his children. He shared a special bond with his daughter, Dee, that was priceless. That loving bond carried through to his 3 beautiful granddaughters.

Al was hard working and enjoyed staying busy all the time. He worked at Anchor Glass for 30 years. At the end of his career, he worked for 16 years at Nutmeg Container before retiring in 2016. Over the years he attended several churches and faithfully served at each one. Al was always willing to share his faith in Jesus telling those he met “I’ll see you in church!”

The family requests privacy at this time. There will be no public wake or memorial service. Burial will be at the family’s discretion.

Funeral services were entrusted to the Gilman Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Church St., Putnam, CT 06260. For memorial guestbook please visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

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Richard J Schad, Sr. - September 11, 1946 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Putnam)

Obituary Preview: Richard “Dick” James Schad September 11th, 1946 – April 17th, 2024

Richard “Dick” James Schad, 77, of Pomfret, Connecticut embarked on his final road trip on April 17th, 2024. Richard, Son of Leo Charles Schad and Arlene (Kennedy) Schad was born and raised in Hartford, Connecticut.

A graduate of Hartford High School, he did not attend college but led a life defined by an insatiable pursuit of knowledge and new experiences. Always engaged in a book with at least several more patiently waiting in reserve, a deep love and respect for the arts also led him to visit countless museums when he wasn’t expressing himself through his own paintings, and in his later life he took immense joy in sharing his dedication and love for that particular craft with his grandchildren.

His constant desire for new experiences frequently led him out West, where in the late 1990s he discovered a small California desert town that he would go on to fall in love with and live part-time for many years. It was here, just outside Death Valley, that he spent many months taking in the vast desert landscape, hiking, creating art, and soaking in the natural mineral baths of the Mojave Desert. Rather than flying cross-country to California, he always preferred to drive and embrace the spontaneity that road-trips brought, almost always opting for the road-less taken.

A lifelong baseball fan, he would begin actively counting down the days until Spring Training at the conclusion of every MLB season. His travels and minimalist lifestyle often left him without access to internet or television, but that never stopped him from keeping updated on his beloved New York Mets. Even as his health began to fail, he still made sure to watch Opening Day of the team’s 2024 season from the comfort of his hospital bed with a Mets cap proudly atop his head.

While fiercely independent in nature, any mention of Richard would not be complete without his copilot and loyal companion, 14-year-old Chihuahua, Jose, whom he loved dearly. He was first drawn to Jose due to his small size, which would allow them to fly cross country together with ease, making trips out West easier as he aged. However, unsurprisingly to those who knew him, Richard couldn’t bring himself to fly with Jose, partly out of the concern of the stress that it might cause his trusty companion, but primarily because the two of them could never turn down a road trip. The inseparable pair spent countless days on the road together, keeping each other company as they traveled from state to state, looking for their next adventure.

Richard James Schad will be deeply missed by his children, daughter Lisa (Schad) Beaupre and husband Douglas Beaupre, and son Richard Schad Jr. and his partner Kate. He leaves behind six grandchildren, Drew, Austin, Caroline, Will James, Noah and Julia, whom he cherished. He is also survived by his three siblings, brother Timothy Schad and wife Katherine, brother Chuck Schad, and sister Sallie Adams.

A Mass of Christian burial will be held on Saturday, May 11, 2024, at 10:00am at Most Holy Trinity Church, 568 Pomfret Street, Pomfret, CT. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to the Gilman Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Church St., Putnam, CT 06260.

In lieu of sending flowers, please consider making a donation to a favorite local charity in Richard’s name. For memorial guestbook please visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

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Jeannette M. Charland - December 24, 1927 - April 16, 2024

Departed: 04/16/2024 (Putnam)

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Woodstock – Jeannette M. (LaRochelle) Charland, 96, of Pleasant View Dr., died Tuesday, April 16, 2024, at home. Beloved wife of the late Edward J. Charland, Sr. Born in Putnam, she was the daughter of the late Elephege and Viola (Mathurin) LaRochelle.

Mrs. Charland last worked for American Optical in Putnam as an inspector.

Jeannette enjoyed knitting and sewing in her early years after which she enjoyed building puzzles, reading, gardening, swimming, and her time that she spent with her late husband, Edward in Florida.

She is survived by her children, Edward J. Charland, Jr. of Woodstock and Janet Oloff of Stafford Springs; her sister, Rita Watts and her husband Gary of MD; her sister in law, Anne Dery and her husband Ken of Woodstock; her grandchildren, Michael Charland and his companion Holly Lewis, Jeffrey Such and his wife Angie, Amy Kollbeck and her husband Jay, and Keri Egan, and her great grandchildren, Jasmin Charland, Blake, Dominick, and Avery Kollbeck,, Brayden, Kailynn,, and Addison Egan, and Angelina Madirosian. She was predeceased by her husband of 64 years, Edward J. Charland, Sr., her siblings, Theresa Geer, Robert LaRochelle, and Elephege LaRochelle; her son in law, Richard Oloff, and her devoted cat, Zoe.

Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to visit with Jeannette’s family from 10:00AM to 12:00PM on Monday, April 22, 2024, in the Gilman Funeral Home and Crematory, 104 Church St., Putnam, CT 06260, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 12:30PM. in St. Mary Church of the Visitation, 218 Providence St., Putnam, CT. Burial will follow in St. Mary Cemetery. The family of Jeannette would like to express their sincere appreciation and heartfelt thanks to Masonicare and their employees for the care that they showed to Jeannette

Memorial donations may be made to St. Jude Children’s Hospital, Tribute Program, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105 or P.A.W.S. Animal Shelter, P.O. Box 191, Eastford, CT 06242. For memorial guestbook please visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

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Adrianne J. Cassettari - November 23, 1943 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Putnam)

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Putnam – Adrianne J. Cassettari, 80, of Thurber Rd., formerly of Morin Ave., Danielson., died Friday afternoon, April 12, 2024, at Matulaitis Nursing Home. Born in Putnam, she was the daughter of the late Leonello and Norma (Lucchesi) Cassettari.

Mrs. Cassettari worked for the flower shop at the John Dempsey Center and the ARC of Quinebaug Valley. Adrianne was an avid Boston Red Sox fan.

She is survived by her sister, Marian Smat of Pomfret Center; Her nephews and niece, Jeffrey Smat and his wife Karleen of Brunswick, ME, Peter A. Smat and his wife Nicole of Hampton, and Lana Trudo and her husband, Peter of Pomfret Center; her great nieces and nephews, Ryan Smat, Nicholas Smat, Taylor Smat, Hannah Trudo, Sydney Trudo, Alan Smat, Petra Smat, and Cole Smat and her great grandniece Mia Smat. She was predeceased by her parents and her brother-in-law Alan Smat.

A private graveside service was held in St. Mary Cemetery.

Memorial donations in Adrianne’s memory may be made to Opportunity Works CT, 45 West Main St., Vernon, CT 06066 Attn: Horticulture Program/ Danielson.

Funeral arrangements were entrusted to the Gilman Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Church St., Putnam, CT. For memorial guestbook please visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

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Richard Bernard Chenail, II - October 02, 1960 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Putnam)

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Putnam – Richard B. Chenail, II, 63, of Sabin St., died Wednesday, April 10, 2024. Originally from Moosup, he was the son of Richard B. and Marlene (Maggia) Chenail of Brooklyn.

He worked for many years as the supervisor of bingo operations at Foxwoods Resort and Casino. In Richard’s spare time he enjoyed gardening, and was passionate about animals.

He is survived by his parents; his siblings, Donna Arpin and her husband Gary of Moosup, Ann Marie Chenail of Brooklyn, and Gregory Chenail of Los Angeles, CA; two nieces and a nephew.

A private graveside service was held at All Hallows Cemetery in Moosup. Funeral arrangements were entrusted to the Gilman Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Church Street, Putnam CT 06260. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

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Linda R. Lamoureux - March 09, 1954 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Putnam)

Obituary Preview: “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but they will never forget how you made them feel….” Maya Angelou.

Linda went to the arms of her loving Savior surrounded by her family after a long journey with cancer.

Linda’s first love was her family. She devoted much of her time to caring for family members who had become ill themselves, as well as, being a trained Day Kimball Hospital Hospice volunteer. She was born in Putnam, the daughter of Walter L. LeClair Sr. and Aurore (Langevin) LeClair. She married, and is survived by, her husband of 50 years, Michael Lamoureux in 1972 at St. John’s Church in Plainfield. Together they had two sons. Michael Jr. of Gray, ME and Daniel of Webster, MA. She is also survived by a grandson Quinn of Gray, ME and a loving daughter-in-law, Kristi who was like a daughter to her. Her grand-dog Butterscotch also survives her and brought her great joy. Linda and Mike followed their boys as they grew and volunteered in Boy Scouts, Little League, other sports and in their school activities.

Linda’s family extended to her community with involvement in many non-profits and commitments to many groups who benefited by her grant writing abilities. She served on the Town of Putnam’s Ethics Commission and also on the Putnam Commission on Aging for many years. Throughout her life her faith in God sustained her. In her parish community at St. Mary’s Church of the Visitation she served many years as a Eucharistic Minister, Lector, CCD Teacher, RCIA and Visitation Ministry. She volunteered at St. Mary’s School and was a member of the Friends of St. Mary’s. When the Businesses in the town of Putnam created the Putnam Business Association she served as the secretary for the first two years.

After college, she spent the next 32 years of her career working for individuals with disabilities at The Arc Quinebaug Valley in many administrative positions. As Development Director she facilitated many fundraisers for the good of the organization. She appreciated being affectionately known as “The Head Quack” after facilitating The Arc Rubber Duckie Race for 20 of those years. She wrote many State grants which helped the agency acquire transportation vans for those they served. As Director of Business Development Linda worked within the community to create businesses that would enable the agency’s individuals to have valued work experiences where they could learn and grow but, more importantly, be seen as contributing members of their community. These efforts resulted in The Arc Emporium, Redemption Center, Janitorial Crews, Yard Crews and Individual Placements in various businesses in the 10—town area. She served on the Board of Directors for Northeast Opportunities for Wellness or (NOW) helping to raise funds for the many programs offered to area youth. She also served many years on the Board of Directors for the Little River Acres Senior Housing in Putnam and the Quinebaug Valley Senior Center in Brooklyn which served the 10-Town Area of Senior Citizens. Throughout her career she received many accolades for her work. Linda much preferred recognition for the group or team effort however in 1993 she received the Athena Award from the Notheast Chamber of Commerce for Leadership Excellence and in 2014 she was honored as a Paul Harris Fellow, the highest Rotary Honor for her efforts in the community.

When her illness progressed and she retired from The Arc she was offered the position of Director at the Quinebaug Valley Senior Center in Brooklyn. There she was able to continue to serve seniors which was one of her favorite positions. There, she created many new programs and services, raised the level of awareness of the senior center in the community and made many friends with some of the most wonderful people in the area… the seniors. She had to retire due to her illness. In retirement Linda continued doing as much as she could to support those in need including facilitating the Christ Child Giving Appeal at the four parishes that were yoked together. Donations were made to TEEG, Daily Bread, The Diaper Bank and area homeless shelters. She worked for the Boot Drive, Tommy Toy Fund and many other worthy causes.

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Laurie Ann Alimandi - May 27, 1967 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Putnam)

Obituary Preview: Thompson - Laurie A. Alimandi, 56 of Thompson, CT passed away peacefully on Monday, April 8, 2024, at Yale New Haven Hospital, New Haven, CT. Born in Putnam, CT, she was the daughter of Douglas Gilbert and Donna Alimandi.

Laurie had many hobbies and passions in life including artwork, yard sales, thrift shopping, and refurbishing antique furniture. Her most favorite passions were painting with her granddaughter Keeley Rae and cooking. She could often be found in her yard playing music and spending time with her chickens and her dog Gemini. She also had two indoor cats and had a love for flamingos. Anyone who knew Laurie knew that she had a big heart, an amazing sense of humor, and a strong faith.

Laurie is survived by her daughters Kayla Alimandi of Danielson, CT and Chelsea Alimandi of Lebanon, CT; her grandchildren Keeley Rae Alimandi, Kaisyn Kamrin Prentiss, Christian Prentiss, Elizabeth White and Kamdyn White. She leaves her siblings Cheryl Sellers, Kelly Alimandi, Kimberly Yommer, and Dan Alimandi, Jr., and her stepfather Dan Alimandi, Sr., and her friend Donald Bernklow. She was predeceased by her mother, Donna Alimandi, daughter, Chloe Stone, and sister, Jessica Gilbert.

Relatives and friends are invited to visit with Laurie’s family on Thursday, May 2, 2024, from 5pm – 8pm at the Gilman Funeral Home, 104 Church Street, Putnam, CT 06260. Burial will be private at a later date. Donations in Laurie’s honor may be made at https://gofund.me/5b27d729. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanandValade.com.

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Dale Elizabeth Wilson - March 14, 1942 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Putnam)

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N. Grosvenordale – Dale E. (Kelley) Wilson, 82, of Denis Dr., died Saturday morning, April 6, 2024, at home with her family by her side. Born in Webster, MA, she was the daughter of the late John Kelley and Eileen (George) Kokocinski.

Mrs. Wilson worked for many years at United Services in Plainfield as a Case Worker.

Dale enjoyed being outdoors tending to her beautiful gardens.

She is survived by her husband, Henry B. Wilson; her daughters, Amy Wilson of Alexandria, VA and Caterina Gianelli of Topsfield, MA; her sisters, Carol Racicot of Thompson and Susan Horan of RI; and her grandchildren, Erik Larsen, Meaghan Shiffrin, Zoe Atienza, and Xavier Atienza, and her great grandchild, Alana Gianelli. She was predeceased by her daughters, Tracy Wilson and Kelly Anne Wilson.

Funeral services are private and have been entrusted to the Valade Funeral Home and Crematory, 23 Main St., N. Grosvenordale. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

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Robert J Eilerman - December 05, 1936 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Putnam)

Obituary Preview: Dayville - Robert “Bob” J. Eilerman passed away on Friday, April 5, 2024. He was predeceased by his loving wife of 64 years, Dale Irene (O’Donnell) Eilerman; his children Elizabeth and Paul Eilerman, and his sister Margaret (Peg) Brusati.

Born on December 5, 1936 in St. Louis, MO, Bob was the second child of the late John J. Eilerman and Marie (Liebman) Eilerman. He grew up in St. Louis, MO and shortly after graduating from St. Mary’s High School (St. Louis, MO) he served in the United States Army from 1955-1958. While stationed at Ft. Devens he met Dale O’Donnell (his future wife) at the Ayer Train Station when asked by Dale’s mother to carry her daughter’s suitcase. Despite Bob being subsequently assigned to a base in Japan, he and Dale corresponded through letters and audio tapes. After being discharged from the Army, Bob and Dale were married on August 23, 1958 at St. Leo’s Parish in Leominster, MA.

Bob and Dale eventually settled in Fitchburg, MA where they raised three children. Bob got his bachelor’s degree from Clark University and his master’s degree in teaching at Assumption College and became a history teacher for 27 years at Nashoba Regional High School. He was proud of his alma maters St. Mary’s High School (St. Louis), Clark University, and Assumption College and you would often find Bob wearing clothing from his alma maters.

Bob was a family man always active in his children’s various activities. He enjoyed spending time with and assisting relatives. He took great pride in mentoring numerous students over his years, and several can attribute much of their development and success to his guidance and care. He enjoyed spending time with his grandchildren.

Bob and Dale retired to Bluffton, SC where they were each active members of their community and church.

Robert is survived by his son, Damien R. Eilerman, and his wife, Bogusia; his daughter, Mary Ellen (Eilerman) Gorczynski, and her husband, David T.; his daughter, Barbara A. Eilerman; his grandchildren Karl Schlomer, Stefanie Jones, Rachel Eilerman, Joshua Eilerman, David E. Gorczynski, Alexander Gorczynski, and Steven Gorczynski; and six great-grandchildren.

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Kevin John Morrissey - November 25, 1956 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Putnam)

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Southbridge, MA - Kevin J Morrissey, 67, of Charlton, born to the late John “Moe” Morrissey and Dorothy (Hill) Morrissey, died Friday, April 5th at Southbridge Rehabilitation and Care Center. He leaves behind his children William and Rachel Andersen of Worcester. He leaves his brother Brian and his wife Debra of Ruskin, FL. His sister Elena and her husband Kent Beyeler of Lancaster. Along with many nieces and nephews. Kevin was predeceased by his sister Donna.

Kevin served in the USAF and went on to a career in retail sales. Kevin's religious beliefs were very important to him throughout his life, finding his forever church family at Charlton Baptist Church. Kevin's favorite pastime was singing karaoke whenever and wherever possible.

A service for Kevin will be held at Charlton Baptist Church (date to be determined), followed by a celebration of life. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to the Gilman Funeral Home & Crematory. For memorial guestbook and future service information, please visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

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Allan Kenneth Harris - April 24, 1958 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Putnam)

Obituary Preview: Allan K. Harris passed away suddenly, on April 4, 2024, from a brief illness. Born in Attleboro, MA, growing up, first in Plainville, MA, and later in Putnam, CT, he was a graduate from Putnam High School and Worcester State University.

Developing a love for travel, after serving in the US Navy, he lived life to the fullest, enjoying worldwide travel, living abroad in Prague, as a teacher, author, poet and musician. His passion for playing music, saxophone & harmonica, earned him the nickname “Harpo”! To his family and friends, he will be remembered for his sense of humor, stories of adventure, amazing skills on blues harmonica, and beautiful soul as a human being.

Allan is survived by his parents, Robert, Sr. & Lois Harris, Putnam, CT, brothers, Robert Harris, Jr.; Dan Harris, Sr. (Meryl); Don Harris; Randall Harris, (Laurie) and sister, Beverly (Harris)Teague (Don) and many nieces & nephews.

Allan leaves behind many friends from Prague! He will be greatly missed.

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Evelyn M. Champoux - January 31, 1936 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Putnam)

Obituary Preview: Thompson - Evelyn (Krawczyk) Champoux, 88, of Thompson, passed away on Tuesday, March 26, 2024, at Day Kimball Hospital. She was the loving wife of the late Roger J Champoux, Sr. Born in Webster, MA, she was the daughter of the late Edward and Stasia (Strenk) Krawczyk.

Evelyn worked at Allen Candy and Sanitary Dash for many years. In her spare time Evelyn enjoyed reading, doing word searches and could often be seen enjoying a handful of M&M’s. Above all else Evelyn was a big UCONN women’s basketball fan. She watched every game she could and enjoyed the games right up until her passing.

Evelyn is survived by son, Roger Champoux, Jr. of San Antonio, TX; daughter, Donna Russell of Dayville, CT; brother Charles “Kaziu” Krawczyk of Worcester, MA; sister Falicia “Phillis” Manafo of Sturbridge, MA; grandson, John Pepin, Jr.; and many nieces and nephews.

She was predeceased by daughter, Lynn Champoux.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a funeral mass of Christian burial for Evelyn on Tuesday, April 2, 2024, at 11am at St. Joseph Church, 20 Main Street, North Grosvenordale CT. Graveside Service to follow at 12:00 pm in West Thompson Cemetery, 295 Riverside Drive, Thompson, CT. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

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Bradley Shawn "Bungalo" Womack - November 29, 1971 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Putnam)

Obituary Preview: “May the good Lord be with you down every road you roam. And may sunshine and happiness surround you when you’re far from home.” “Forever Young”. -Rod Stewart ____________________________________________________________________________________________

Bradley Shawn “Bungalo” Womack, 52, passed unexpectedly on March 26, 2024. He was born in Alexandria, Indiana on November 29, 1971, to Cheryl Caroll and Larry Womack.

Bradley is survived by his mother Cheryl Caroll, his father Larry Womack, his fiancé Marcia Page, his sons Brenden Womack, Adam Page and his fiancé Caitlin McMenemy, Justin Page, and Oliver Hopkins, his brother Brett Womack, his best friends Shawn Irving and Ed Chartier, his lifelong friend and mother to Brenden, Lauren Heidelberger, Brenden’s grandfather Jody Heidelberger, father and mother in-law, Paul and Norma Pockoski and many extended family members in Connecticut and Indiana. He is predeceased by his brother, Stephen Womack. He made countless friends in his lifetime who were always considered family.

After graduating from Alexandria-Monroe High School in 1991, Bradley enlisted in the United States Navy, where he served on the USS Theodore Roosevelt from 1991-1993. He was very patriotic and always showed pride in his country. Following his service in the Navy, he then became a licensed electrician in South Carolina.

Bradley moved to Connecticut in 2013, where he worked as a jack of all trades, doing construction, as well as bartending at 4G’s Restaurant & Pizza, and then Railside Tavern in Dayville, CT. While working at 4G’s he met Marcia, the love of his life, and they have been inseparable since. Bradley made friends everywhere he went. It didn’t matter if he had known you for 5 years, or 5 minutes, you were always considered family. Many of his customers became family to him as well. Being with his family was all that he ever needed and wanted. So of course he had nicknames for everyone he loved, including: ‘Stinker’, ‘Precious’, ‘Page’, ‘Morsel’, ‘Rooster’, and ‘Edwahd Delaquah’. He was always found making up words for different things in his life, even if they didn’t quite translate.

Bradley lived for sunshine and always wanted to be on the water any chance he got. It didn’t matter if it was the ocean, a lake, or just being poolside. He was often found manning the grill or his smoker at family events, usually in his flip-flops, bathing suit shorts, and one of his favorite hats. There was never a time that Bradley turned down a good “breakfast”. He was always thrifting or finding things on the side of the road that he thought he could repurpose, even if he couldn’t find a purpose for it. Most of the time they just ended up in his man cave.

He was always very particular about his yard. At any time of year, you could find him with a leaf blower either in the garage or in the yard. He had a love for “Ole’ Oscar”, the giant oak tree in the backyard, except when he dropped his leaves or acorns. He could often be found sitting in the shade that “Ole’ Oscar” provided, listening to music. He loved all kinds of music and always had it playing in the background. Bradley had a fantastic memory of songs and artists and could often recognize one within the first few seconds, while singing along to all the words. His love for live music was unmatched. He was always ready to “kick off his wheels” and dance, especially to Rod Stewart with his fiancé, Marcia. However, he usually lost his flip-flops at the many concerts he attended with his family and friends and went home with a mismatched pair from complete strangers.

Amongst all of that, Bradley was an avid sports fan. Some of his favorites being NASCAR and golf. Although anyone who knew him knew that his number one sport was football, and that he loved the Indianapolis Colts. Sundays were football days, and even in the off season, he could often be seen throwing a football with his son, Brenden. Football was something very special to Bradley and Brenden. When he wasn’t donning his Colts gear, he was unknowingly very “fashionable”. He always made sure that everyone knew which shape watch went with each sleeve length.

Bradley loved to help his family and friends with anything that they needed. Even if that meant putting off his own projects, he would always make sure to help someone else complete theirs first. He had the kindest heart and would give the shirt off his back to anyone in need. He will be forever missed, as he was loved by so many.

Services will be private with a celebration of life later this year.

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Alexandra L. Saad - August 08, 2003 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (Putnam)

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“When you wish upon a star….makes no difference who you are….” Allie Saad knew in her heart of hearts that when you wish upon a star dreams really do come true. Allie lived her dreams like the shooting star she was. From the time Allie came into the world, her bright twinkle shone forth the love and laughter, happiness and smiles that she shared with everyone she met. And then, like a shooting star she was, Allie took to the heavens to become part of that eternal mosaic of beauty and brilliance the stars in the night sky show us each time we make that wish. This is Allie’s story….

Alexandra Lucille Saad, 20, of Mapleville, known to everyone as “Allie” passed away on Saturday evening March 23, 2024 surrounded by loving family and friends after a courageous battle with cancer. Allie is survived by her loving parents Steven and Aimee (Dompkowski) Saad of Mapleville; her brothers Steven Saad (Sarah) of Manville and Christopher of Woonsocket; her confidant, cousin and trusted friend Travis Mann of Cumberland; her Aunt Stacy Mann (Donald) of Cumberland, and her “Prince” Wyatt Oakley of Burrillville. Allie was the beloved granddaughter of Alexander (her best friend) and the late Carolyn Dompkowski of Lincoln; Joseph and Linda Saad of Woonsocket; and the late Lucille Belanger of Scituate.

Allie was a 2021 graduate of Beacon Charter School majoring in Theater Arts. It was at Beacon where Allie immersed herself and found her true passion for the preforming arts. She was a member of the International Thespian Society. Allie was employed a receptionist at Anchor Pediatrics and had previously worked for Zales as an Assistant Manager, as well as Hobby Lobby and Yankee Candle.

Allie will forever be remembered for her contagious laughter, quick wit, love of a good conspiracy theory, and her compassion. Allie always believed in the best in everyone and was blessed with the gift of bringing out the best in everyone who was lucky to have Allie in their lives. She had a love of fashion, nails and makeup, never missing the opportunity to learn new techniques and practice them. She loved her annual family Disney trips and going to see Broadway shows with her Mom. Allie had an inseparable bond with her mom Aimee that mere words could never come close to describe ….to the moon and the stars ….and infinity and beyond. Allie was her Dad’s greatest adventure! Together they would seek out unique and challenging experiences. She leaves behind her constant companion and therapy dog Dug, her faithful dog Fred, and her rescue cat Mittens.

Allie’s family would like to extend their sincere thanks to the amazing doctors, nurses and staff at Hope Hospice, Rhode Island Hospital Neurosurgery, and Southern New England Rehabilitation Center for the outstanding care and attention they gave Allie and her family. They truly walked alongside Allie and were in her corner all the way as she fought her battle with her trademark mix of courage, cheerfulness and tenacity. “When you wish up on star your dreams really do come true”…..Allie’s dreams did come true. Allie lived each and every day of her all-too-brief twenty years with love, hope, happiness and music as her guiding forces. This will be Allie’s lasting legacy. Allie managed to pack in more fun and lasting memories in her time with us than some people do in a whole lifetime. So when you look up at the night sky, go ahead and make that wish upon a star. And just know that when a star twinkles back at you Allie’s got your wish….and it will come true! Relatives and friends are invited to honor, remember and celebrate Allie’s life at visiting hours on Wednesday March 27, 2024 from 4:00 to 7:00 pm at Menard-Lacouture Funeral Home, 127 Carrington Ave, Woonsocket. Allie’s funeral service will be held on Thursday March 28, 2024 at 11:00am in the funeral home. Allie will be laid to rest in a private service at the later date. In recognition of Allie’s love for animals and in support of the mission of hospice, Allie’s family suggest that in lieu of flowers memorial donations may be made to the Woonsocket Cat Sanctuary or to Hope Hospice. For online guestbook please visit www.menardfuneralhome.com

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Monica A Dean - October 29, 1922 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (Putnam)

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Pomfret - At home and surrounded by her caring family, Monica A. Dean, 101 years old, died peacefully on Friday, March 22, 2024. Born in Lawrence, MA, on October 29, 1922, she was the daughter of the late Patrick and Irene (Machu) Webb, Monica graduated from St. Mary’s High School there in 1940.

Monica was married to her beloved husband John C. Dean at St. Mary’s Church in Lawrence on August 21, 1943. She spent the first fourteen years of her marriage in Lawrence caring for her family, while John worked at an accounting firm. In 1954 they moved to Detroit, MI where John joined Ford Motor Company. Upon his retirement in 1980, they returned to New England to settle in Pomfret. They became active members of Most Holy Trinity Church, where Monica attended daily mass and was a frequent volunteer.

Monica loved to cook, garden, needlepoint, knit, and root for the Red Sox. She leaves behind many close friends and associates from her church and the greater Pomfret community. She will be missed by everyone whose life she touched. Monica was a dedicated wife, mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. Her favorite times were those when she was surrounded by her loving family. Holiday and other celebrations at her home were some of her happiest moments.

Monica is survived by 3 daughters and 4 sons: Karen Stutz and husband Jack of Seekonk, MA, Jeryl Ann McGuire, predeceased by her husband Tom, of Worcester, MA, Maryann Dean of New York City, John C. Dean, Jr. and wife Susan of Woodside, CA, Mark Dean and wife Renée of Cornwall, VT, Michael Dean of Centerville, MA, and James Dean of Woodstock, CT; her eighteen grandchildren, twenty-seven great-grandchildren, and daughter-in-law Polly Dean of Pomfret. Monica was predeceased by her husband, John, granddaughter, MaryJo Lawson, and sister, Irene Waterman.

Relatives and friends are respectfully invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial on Saturday, April 27, 2024 at 9:30 AM in Most Holy Trinity Church, 568 Pomfret Street, Pomfret, CT 06258. Burial will be private. Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to the Gilman Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Church St., Putnam, CT.

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Robert J. Guillot - June 15, 1936 - March 20, 2024

Departed: 03/20/2024 (Putnam)

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Putnam – It is with great sadness Robert Joseph Guillot, age 87, passed away Wednesday, March 20, 2024 peacefully surrounded by his loving family. He was the beloved husband of Kathleen Donna (O’Brien) Guillot. They were married for 65 wonderful years raising 6 children, three sons and three daughters.

Robert was born in Putnam, the son of the late Joseph and Lucienne (Auger) Guillot. He was a United States Army Veteran serving during the Korean War. After his military service he worked in the furniture business at Risom Design Inc. in Thompson, CT. In 1965 he opened a furniture upholstery business (Bob’s Upholstery & Furniture) and operated the business for 45 successful years.

He was an honorary member of the Knights of Columbus in Putnam and was a devoted catholic. He enjoyed coaching sports and assisting with community charities and events. He lived his life to the fullest sharing his witty sense of humor, laughter, and stories with his family, large circle of friends, the (4-R’s), and everyone he encountered though his travels.

His passion was his family and farming. He owned and operated Twin Brooks Farm, breeding prized cattle for many years wining national honors with his prized bull’s and was President of the American Angus Association for several years. He loved bringing up his grandchildren on his family farm, teaching and having them participate in the daily farming chores. He will be deeply missed by his 12 grandchildren, and 11 great-grandchildren.

He will be lovingly and forever remembered by his sons, David Guillot and his wife Marianne of Danielson, Thomas Guillot and his wife Sandra of Princeton, MA, and James Guillot of Putnam; their daughters, Doreen Schipani and her husband Theodore of Fort Lauderdale, FL, Nancy Moroz and her husband Edward of Millbury, MA., and Michelle Deskus and her husband Russell of Woodstock; his siblings, Paul Guillot and his wife Clarice of North Grosvenordale, Laurent “Larry” Guillot of North Grosvenordale, Edmund Guillot and his wife Claire of Florida, Lorraine Guillot of Putnam, John Guillot and his wife Elaine of Avon, CT, and many loving nieces and nephews.

Relatives and friends are invited to visit with Roberts family on Tuesday, April 2, 2024, from 4:00 pm to 7:00 pm in the Gilman Funeral Home 104 Church St, Putnam, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Wednesday, April 3, 2024, at 10:30 am in Saint Mary Church of the Visitation, 218 Providence Street, Putnam,CT. A private burial will follow. Memorial donations in his memory may be made to Yale New Haven Hospital St. Raphael Campus, 1450 Chapel St. New Haven, CT 06511 (giving@ynhh.org). For memorial guestbook visit www.gilmanandvalade.com.

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Nancy Marjorie Sheldon - April 27, 1938 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Putnam)

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Woodstock – Nancy M. (Aldrich) Sheldon, 85, of Woodstock, CT, passed away peacefully on, Tuesday, March 19, 2024, at home surrounded by her loving family. She was predeceased by her beloved husband of 64 years, Wayland N. Sheldon, Jr. Nancy was born in Putnam, CT, to the late Elizabeth (Wilcox) Aldrich Perry and William Chandler Aldrich.

Nancy was most proud of her large and ever-growing family. She was an enthusiastic member of the Woodstock Garden Club and volunteered at Roseland Cottage as well as the Woodstock Fair. She leaves behind her three daughters, Marjorie S. Roy and her husband Richard of Woodstock, Wendy E. Young and her husband Timothy of Woodstock, and Tamara H. Doyon of FL; her six sons, Mark W. Sheldon and his wife Beth of Eastford, Brian N, Sheldon and his wife Marie of Woodstock, Mathew D. Sheldon of Woodstock, Scott W. Sheldon and his wife Lynn of Mansfield Center, Gary W. Sheldon of Pomfret Center, and Peter T. Sheldon and his wife Susan of Woodstock; her three siblings, Paul C. Aldrich and his long time companion Diane of Putnam and Linda A. Rose of MN and her stepsister, Janice C. Perry of GA; twenty-seven grandchildren and thirty-three great grandchildren. She was predeceased by her daughter, Cindy L. Whitehouse, brother, John W. Aldrich, and stepbrother, Ralph A. Perry

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Pamela Cole Peaslee Hunter - August 30, 1928 - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Putnam)

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Woodstock Valley – Pamela (Cole) Peaslee Hunter, 95, of Reich Rd., died Sunday morning, March 17, 2024, at Day Kimball Hospital after a brief bout with pneumonia. Pamela was the beloved wife of the late Stephen Clark Peaslee of West Hartford, CT and the late J. Samuel Hunter II of Maine. Born in Newport News, VA, she was the daughter of the late George D. and Beatrice “Tiny” (McCalman) Cole. Pam graduated from Newport News High School and Randolph-Macon College in Lynchburg, VA.

Pam’s family was her primary focus: she was a devoted wife and mother to 5 children, and she was active in various venues of community service. In Hartford, she was a long-term member of the Hartford chapter of the Junior League and President from 1965-1967. She also volunteered at the Institute of Living and Connecticut Public Television. After moving to Woodstock Valley, Pam was a docent at Roseland Cottage, and volunteered at the Ruth Wells Center for the Arts in Southbridge, Ma. She was also a member of L’Apres Midi, a local women’s organization. Pam loved traveling, cooking, gardening, golfing, following current events – even a bit of political punditry, doing crossword puzzles, reading in her special ‘hidey-hole’, and, not least, entertaining and spending time with family and friends.

She is survived by her children, Stephen Clark Peaslee Jr., his wife Sherrill Silver of New Paltz, NY; Stuart Davis Peaslee, his wife Ning Chen, her favorite neighbors in Woodstock Valley; Susan Kimball Peaslee, her partner Joanne Sterling of Peaks Island, ME; George Bartlett Peaslee, his wife Chizuko of Honolulu, HI; and Merryl Peaslee Rees of Glastonbury; her grandchildren, Tomie Peaslee, her husband Matthew Martin; George Schulz Peaslee, his wife Lindsey; David Rees; step-grandson, Cameron Franklin Shuck; and her great-grandchild, Reef Schulz Peaslee; her nephew, Russell Davis Cole, and a host of cousins from the Memphis, TN area. She was predeceased by her brother George D. Cole Jr. of Dare, VA. Pam had a rare talent for making friends and being the spark plug of social activities wherever she went. She was the archetype of a Southern Belle; poise, charm, style and grace. She prided herself on her childhood nickname, Mighty Mouse, never letting her diminutive stature slow her down. She left an indelible mark on all she touched; those who knew her were richer for it. She leaves a vacuum behind and will be dearly missed!

Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to the Gilman Funeral Home and Crematory, 104 Church St., Putnam, CT 06260. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.com. The family requests that memorial gifts be made to either a charity of your choice or to Roseland Cottage in Woodstock, CT.

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Gary Russell Gilbert - September 30, 1957 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Putnam)

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Killingly – Gary R. Gilbert, 66, of Upper Maple St., died Thursday, March 14, 2024, at home. He was the loving husband of Lori A. (Peloquin) Gilbert. Born in Clinton, Massachusetts, he was the son of the late Russell and Eleanor (Davis) Gilbert.

On April 30, 2005, he was united in marriage to the former Lori Peloquin at Whipple Chapel.

Mr. Gilbert worked for many years as an Insurance Appraiser for USAA, and Mapfre Insurance. He served for many years as a volunteer fire fighter for the East Thompson Fire Department. He also thoroughly enjoyed his time portraying Santa Clause at various events and establishments.

He enjoyed working on anything that had a motor whether it be a car, tractor, or lawn mower. He especially liked playing darts, riding around on his Harley Davidson Road king, and Barbecuing for his family and friends.

Gary is survived by his wife; his children, Kimberly Tasney and her husband Kenny of Hanson, MA, Michael Gilbert of Webster, MA, and Caitlyn Lumb and her husband Daniel of Spencer, MA; his stepson, Dylan Peloquin of Killingly; his sister, Linda Sullivan and her husband Mark of Easton, MA; His niece and nephew, Kelsey and Connor Sullivan, and his grandchildren, Lexie, Lincoln, Jason, Harper, Emily, Caleb, and Kyle, Jr. He was predeceased by his son, Kyle Gilbert.

A private celebration of life to be held by the family at a later date. Arrangements have been entrusted to the Gilman Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Church Street, Putnam CT 06255. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

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Teresa Mary Hanlon - May 24, 1967 - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Putnam)

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Pomfret Center - After a two-and-a-half-year battle with ampullary cancer, Teresa (McDermott) Hanlon, 56, of Pomfret, CT, passed away on March 8th, 2024. She fought as fiercely as she lived, and spent her final days and moments surrounded with love and family.

Teresa was born May 24th, 1967 to George and Margaret “Rita” (Hearns) McDermott in Dublin, Ireland where she spent her childhood. Teresa’s fiery passion and competitive nature were apparent from a young age, especially as she devoted herself to basketball, becoming captain of both the U15 and U17 Irish National teams. Her basketball talents brought her to the United States through a full-ride scholarship to play for Central Connecticut on their Division I Lady Devils team.

Teresa found her soulmate and best friend in Brian Hanlon; they quickly fell in love before marrying in 1991. Moving to Pomfret in 1999, they built a beautiful life centered around their children and community. Together, they dedicated countless hours to coaching sports, Teresa’s favorite being Pomfret-Eastford “Frog Rock” Basketball, where they were recognized for their work through the 2011 SSG Joseph E. Phaneuf II Memorial Award for Dedication. Her passion for the game and her innate ability to connect with others allowed her to bring out the best in every player. Her dedication to helping others extended into her professional life as well; she worked as a Civil Engineer for the City of Norwich for over 15 years but found additional fulfillment advocating for others as Union President of AFSCME Local 2422.

A truly radiant woman, Teresa illuminated the lives of all who knew her. Her zest for life was contagious, and served as a beacon that drew others to her vibrant energy. A social butterfly, Teresa’s ability to connect with others was extraordinary. She effortlessly created deep friendships that transcended age, time, and distance. Whether it was a heartfelt conversation, shared laugh, handmade gift, or comforting presence, she had a way of making everyone feel valued and loved.

Even after her cancer diagnosis, Teresa’s spirit remained bright and resilient. She viewed life as a celebration to be lived to the fullest, and made the most of every moment she spent with family and friends. In her final years she delighted in time with her grandchildren, quilting, traveling with her husband, and spending her summers swimming in the brisk Irish sea while camping at Morriscastle Strand Holiday Park in Wexford, Ireland. In March 2023, Teresa renewed her vows with her husband Brian in a touching ceremony, surrounded by their family and friends, reaffirming their love and commitment to each other.

Teresa is survived by her devoted husband of 32 years, Brian Hanlon; daughter Aideen Whittaker and husband Justin of Wethersfield, CT, daughter Ciara Hanlon and partner Cameron Saracina of Springfield, MA; and her son, Conor Hanlon of San Diego, CA. She also leaves behind her mother, Rita McDermott; sisters Colette Colley, Monica McDermott, and Clare Browne of Dublin, Ireland; and sister Angela McDermott-Knox and husband John Knox of Rocky River, Ohio, along with many beloved nieces and nephews. Additionally, Teresa is survived by her best friends Mike and Sally Tyler of Eastford, CT, and “fourth child” Henry and wife Rebecca Li of Long Island City, NY. She lives on in the laughter of her grandchildren, Gillian and Colin Whittaker. Teresa is reunited in spirit with her father, George McDermott, who undoubtedly greeted her with a welcoming grin and open arms.

In Teresa’s honor, we welcome anyone who was lucky enough to have shared a laugh with her to join us in celebrating her remarkable life. A visitation will be held at Gilman Funeral Home 104 Church St., Putnam, CT on Friday, March 22nd from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM. Her funeral mass will take place at St. Mary Church of the Visitation, 218 Providence St., Putnam, CT at 11:00 AM on Saturday, March 23rd, followed by a celebration of life at the Mansion at Bald Hill in Woodstock, CT. Your presence and happy stories of Teresa are cherished and welcomed, and we invite you to wear bright colors to the celebration of life, in memory of her shining spirit.

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John Henry Baumgartner - July 30, 1954 - March 07, 2024

Departed: 03/07/2024 (Putnam)

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Thompson – John passed away peacefully at his home surrounded by his loving family on Thursday, March 7, 2024. Born in Worcester, MA, he was the son of the late Walter and Barbara (Berryman) Baumgartner.

John and Debbie were happily married for 46 years. John was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, son, and brother. In his early life, he was a fun-loving young man who played football for four years as an Oxford High School Pirate. He had an incredible ability to build or fix anything. Expert plumber, electrician, carpenter, and mechanic; his talents knew no limits and he built a career using his abilities.

He was the glue of the family, larger than life, an amazing cook who always made sure there was delicious food on the table, whether it be a special occasion or not. Known to his five grandchildren as Papa, he was the maker of swings, pool slides, fixer of bikes, and always up for a game of catch or horse. Launching his grandkids in the pool was also a specialty, eliciting squeals of laughter for hours. He always resisted initially but ended up loving every cat and dog that his three girls brought home more than anyone (and there were a lot over the years).

Papa also gave the gift of camping to his family. Taking everyone to Cape Cod, Florida, Arizona, Maine, and New Hampshire for unforgettable adventures filled with campfires, good food, and laughter.

He loved to be outdoors working on his property from sunup to sundown. He loved the ocean; sailing was his passion and discovering new beaches and places in which to explore and bring his family. But most of all, he loved his wife and his family and devoted his life to ensure their comfort and happiness. He leaves a hole in our hearts that can never be filled.

He leaves behind his wife, Debbie, his daughters and son in law, Lisa, Patrick, and Nicole, and his five grandchildren, Natalie, Lillian, Henry, Autumn, and Jackson. He also leaves behind his brother, Wally and his sister, Louise.

Funeral arrangements are private and have been entrusted to the Valade Funeral Home and Crematory, 23 Main Street, North Grosvenordale CT 06255. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.

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Steven Thomas - April 29, 1960 - March 05, 2024

Departed: 03/05/2024 (Putnam)

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Steven (Steve) K. Thomas, 63, of Thompson, died Tuesday, March 5, 2024, at home. Born in Providence, RI, he was the son of the late George H.C. and Muriel V. (Johnsen) Thomas.

Mr. Thomas worked for many years as an emergency medical technician at Cranston General Hospital in Rhode Island.

He was a member of the National Rifleman Association, an avid supporter of the Wounded Warrior Project and the Veterans of Foreign War, and enjoyed target shooting, carpentry, and working on vehicles as time allowed.

Steven is survived by his two sons, Jarrett Thomas-Rebello and his wife Melissa Thomas-Rebello of Woodstock, Karlin Thomas of Thompson, and his two grandsons, Landin Thomas and Beckett Thomas-Rebello. Steven is also survived by Kimberly Thomas, the mother of his children. He was predeceased by his two brothers, George Thomas and Charles Thomas.

Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to the Valade Funeral Home and Crematory, 23 Main Street, North Grosvenordale CT 06255. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

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Steven M. Heath - March 21, 1958 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (Putnam)

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North Grosvenordale – Steven Michael Heath, age 65, beloved husband of Rose I. (Jodoin) Heath, died Monday, March 4, 2024, at Day Kimball Hospital after a brief illness.

Steve was born in Putnam, on March 21, 1958, son of the late Allard J. “Red” Heath Sr. (1998), the late Alma “Elsie” (Lannaville) Bennett (1997) and the late Harvey E. Bennett (2020). Steve was educated in the Putnam School System. Steve and Rose were united in marriage on July 19, 1997. By trade, Steve was a truck driver. It was his passion, enjoying 23 years over the road, coast to coast and 10 years locally. He drove 18-wheelers, triaxle, box van and dump trailers. Over the years, Rose joined him in “the big” truck, enjoying and visiting every State in the continental United States. He was proud of his safety record! Having never had an accident and safely recorded over 3 million miles. Steve’s last employment was with M & E Transportation of Pomfret. He also spent many years at Trainor Trucking and M & M Trucking, both in Putnam. In years past, Steve was a sports/racing correspondent for WINY radio. Steve and Rose enjoyed going on Carnival cruises, backyard barbecues, sitting by the fire pit, spending time and talking with family and friends. Steve had two favorite words in life, one is not fit for publication and the other was huge, often mispronounced as YUGE!

Steve was an avid sports fan. He and Rose loved all things NASCAR. He has an impressive collection of NASCAR memorabilia, and has traveled to many of the Cup Car tracks, including the Pocono’s, Dover, Daytona, Kentucky, Talladega, Las Vegas, Chicagoland, Atlanta, Kansas, Nashville, Homestead Miami and New Smyrna. In addition, they could regularly be seen at the local tracks, Thompson International Speedway, Stafford Motor Speedway, Waterford Speed Bowl and Seekonk Speedway. Steve was a “fair weather” fan of the New England Sports teams – he liked them when they were winning and disliked them when they were not. He was a long-time fan of the San Francisco 49ers. Steve was also a W.P.T.P Youth Football League Coach many years ago, and coached his team to the “Superbowl”.

In addition to his wife of 26 years, Rose I. (Jodoin) Heath, Steve is survived by his children, Stephanie Branam of Virgina, Matthew Heath of North Grosvenordale, Jason Heath of North Grosvenordale; Earlene Ames of Moosup; his siblings, Joyce Cote and her companion, Hugh McLaughlin III of Putnam, Jamie Heath and his wife Debra of Putnam, Heidi Moore and her husband Wayne of Ashford and Scott Bennett and his wife Misty of Putnam. Steve was also the cherished “Pep” to his grandchildren, Mikaela Andreas, Khloe Demers, Arthur “Wally” Hopkins, Killian Branam, Alliea and Justin Faulk. In addition to his parents, Steve was predeceased by his brothers, Eugene “Huey” Heath (1974), Allard J. “Tyke” Heath Jr. (2014), Curt D. Heath (2018), his sister, Brenda J. Heath (2021), his father and mother-in- law, Earl (1992) and Jeannette Jodoin (2008), his brother-in-law Earl “Butch” Jodoin Jr. (2012), and by his son-in-law, Daniel Branam (2020).

Relatives and friends are invited to attend calling hours for Steve on Sunday, March 10, 2024 from 2:00 pm to 4:00 pm at Valade Funeral Home, 23 Main Street, North Grosvenordale. Gilman-Valade Funeral Homes and Crematory, 23 Main Street, North Grosvenordale is handling arrangements. A memorial guestbook is available at www.gilmanandvalade.com.

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Viola Frances Langevin - April 25, 1943 - March 01, 2024

Departed: 03/01/2024 (Putnam)

Obituary Preview: Woodstock - Viola (Drown) Langevin, 80, of Woodstock, passed away on Friday, March 1, 2024, at Day Kimball Hospital.

Viola is survived by her grandchildren Carol Collins and Toni Eck, her great-grandchildren Anthony and Phoenix. She is predeceased by her son George Whitman and great-granddaughter Charlotte Collins.

Viola loved her family and animals. She was a hard-working woman and worked in factories, and later at the Inn as Woodstock Hill. She was beloved by friends and family and known as a kind and compassionate woman. Her grandchildren and great-grandchildren miss her dearly.

Funeral arrangements for Viola are private and entrusted to Gilman & Valade Funeral Homes and Crematory. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

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Gilman & Valade Funeral Homes offers a wide range of funeral services designed to meet the diverse needs of the families they serve. From traditional funeral services to cremation options, memorial services, and pre-planning, this funeral home provides a comprehensive range of services to help families navigate the difficult process of saying goodbye. Their experienced staff will guide you through every step of the process, ensuring that your loved one is honored with dignity and respect.

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In recent years, cremation has become an increasingly popular option for many families. Gilman & Valade Funeral Homes understands the importance of providing cremation services that are both dignified and respectful. Their cremation options include direct cremation, cremation with a memorial service, and traditional funeral services followed by cremation. Their experienced staff will work closely with you to ensure that your loved one is cared for with the utmost respect and dignity.

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Pre-planning is an important aspect of funeral planning that allows individuals to take control of their final arrangements. By pre-planning with Gilman & Valade Funeral Homes, you can ensure that your wishes are respected and your loved ones are spared the burden of making difficult decisions during a time of grief. Their experienced staff will guide you through the pre-planning process, helping you to make informed decisions about your final arrangements.

The Importance of Memorialization

Mourning the loss of a loved one is a natural part of the grieving process. At Gilman & Valade Funeral Homes, they understand the importance of memorialization in helping families heal and find closure. They offer a range of memorialization options, including traditional headstones, markers, and monuments, as well as more contemporary options such as benches and gardens. Their experienced staff will work closely with you to create a lasting tribute to your loved one.

Community Involvement

Gilman & Valade Funeral Homes is deeply committed to the local community they serve. They believe in giving back to the community through various outreach programs and initiatives. From hosting educational seminars on funeral planning and bereavement support, to participating in local charity events, this funeral home is dedicated to making a positive impact on the lives of those around them.

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If you're in need of funeral services or would like to learn more about pre-planning or cremation options, please don't hesitate to contact Gilman & Valade Funeral Homes. Their experienced staff is available 24/7 to answer your questions and provide guidance during a difficult time. You can reach them by phone at [insert phone number], or visit their website at [insert website URL]. They are located at 104 Church Street, Putnam, CT, 06260.

A Final Word

Gilman & Valade Funeral Homes is more than just a funeral home – it's a symbol of hope, comfort, and support during a difficult time. Their commitment to providing exceptional service, compassion, and care has earned them a reputation as one of the most trusted funeral homes in the region. If you're facing the loss of a loved one or simply want to plan ahead, Gilman & Valade Funeral Homes is here to help.

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Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary as a way to reflect on their life and legacy. This can also be a helpful way to ensure that your wishes are respected and your story is told accurately.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is typically a brief announcement of a person's passing, including their name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed tribute that includes biographical information and other relevant details.

Can I include humor or personality in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should reflect the personality and spirit of the deceased. Including humorous anecdotes or quirky traits can help make the tribute more engaging and memorable.

How do I handle sensitive or difficult information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive or difficult aspects of the deceased's life that you're unsure how to address in the obituary, consider consulting with family members or close friends for guidance. It's essential to be respectful and honest while still conveying the essence of the person's life.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial funds in lieu of flowers. This can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased and continue their legacy.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The time it takes for an obituary to be published varies depending on the publication or platform. Online platforms often publish immediately, while print publications may take several days or weeks.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

Sometimes it's possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after it's been published. Check with the publication or platform for their policies on revisions.

Are there any specific formatting or style guidelines for writing an obituary?

While there's no one "right" way to write an obituary, it's generally recommended to use a clear and concise writing style. Avoid using overly formal language or jargon that might confuse readers.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for a long time?

Yes, even if someone has been deceased for many years, you can still write an obituary as a way to celebrate their life and legacy.

How do I find inspiration for writing an obituary?

Talk to family members and friends who knew the deceased well. Look through photos, mementos, and other memorabilia that showcase their personality and accomplishments. You can also read examples of other obituaries for inspiration.

Is it appropriate to include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Including meaningful quotes or song lyrics can add depth and context to the tribute. Just be sure they're relevant to the deceased's life and personality.

Can I include information about pets in an obituary?

Yes, many people consider their pets to be part of their family. Including information about beloved pets can help paint a fuller picture of the deceased's life.

How do I ensure that my loved one's story is told accurately in their obituary?

Talk to multiple people who knew the deceased well to get a comprehensive understanding of their life. Verify facts and dates whenever possible to ensure accuracy.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed when writing an obituary. Consider enlisting the help of a trusted friend or family member, or taking breaks as needed. Remember that it's okay to ask for support during this difficult time.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Yes! Social media can be a powerful tool for sharing news of a loved one's passing and connecting with others who are grieving. Share a link to the online obituary or post a summary with relevant details.

Are there any specific cultural or religious considerations when writing an obituary?

Yes! Be mindful of cultural and religious traditions when writing an obituary. Consult with family members or spiritual leaders if you're unsure about specific customs or practices.

What if I need help finding resources for writing an obituary?

Contact local funeral homes, mortuaries, or online resources like Legacy.com or ObitTree.com for guidance on writing and publishing an obituary. Many organizations offer templates, examples, and expert advice.