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Funeral Alternatives of Washington - Lacey is a reputable funeral home located at 2830 Willamette Drive NE, Lacey, WA, 98516. The funeral home has established itself as a trusted provider of funeral services in the community, offering a range of options to families who have lost a loved one. In this article, we will delve into the services and amenities offered by Funeral Alternatives of Washington - Lacey, providing you with a comprehensive understanding of what they can do to support you during a difficult time.

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Lucas Leroy Padilla - June 22, 1972 - April 21, 2024

Departed: 04/21/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Lucas Leroy Padilla passed away unexpectedly on April 21, 2024, in Olympia, Washington. He was 51 years young. He was born on June 22, 1972, to Ramona Diane and Juan Leroy Padilla in Olympia.

Lucas attended Tenino High School with the Class of 1990 and married his high school sweetheart, Ruthie May; they had two daughters. They later divorced but gained three beautiful grandchildren, with one on the way. Lucas worked as a residential painter and handyman most of his life.

He spent many years living in Helena, Montana, where he was able to enjoy the great outdoors. He moved to Ocean Shores, Washington, around 2014 and spent his days near the beach. He loved hunting, fishing, snowboarding, music festivals and was always up for a game of horseshoes. Time spent with family and friends was time well spent to Lucas.

Lucas is survived by his daughters, Haylee Ferguson and Ashlynn Padilla; grandchildren, Kyran, Callie, and Delilah; mother and stepfather, Diane and Dana DeTray; father and stepmother, Leroy and Joann Padilla; siblings, Angela Woods (Patrick), Steven Hess (Kimy), John Padilla, and Lela Padilla; and numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins.

A Celebration of Life will be held from 12:00 - 2:30 p.m. on Sunday, May 5, 2024, at Colonial Estates, 3700 14th Ave. S, Olympia, WA 98501.

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Robert R. Freeman - February 05, 1945 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Robert R. “Bob” Freeman passed away of cancer on April 19, 2024, in Olympia, Washington, his home for over 35 years. He was born February 5, 1945, to Howard J. and Anna Marie Freeman in Wanamassa, New Jersey.

Bob graduated from New Jersey’s Asbury Park High School and served in the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War. He was a proud veteran. He married the late Mary Lou Pyott in 1967 in Wanamassa, and later married Tina Edwards in Olympia (1989-2001).

Professionally, he was a Correctional Sargent for the Washington Department of Corrections at McNeil Island Corrections Center. He retired in 2007, after 30 years of service.

Bob was a great storyteller and had a quick wit. He was always willing to lend a helping hand. Among his hobbies and interests were horseback riding, cruising on his Harley Davidson Road King motorcycle, and spending time with family and friends. He also loved his dogs and cats and attending Native American pow wows.

Bob is survived by his former wife, Tina Edwards; sons, Robert R. Freeman Jr. and James J. Freeman; stepson, Matthew Muth; stepdaughters, Tammi Clawson, Kyle Moore, and Jessica Muth; and four grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents, and brother, Howard J. Freeman.

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Boyd Raymond North - July 11, 1936 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Boyd Raymond "Ray" North passed away peacefully on April 10, 2024, at Providence St. Peter Hospital in Olympia, Washington, surrounded by his wife and children.

Ray was born on July 11, 1936, to Arthur and Lorene North in Tonkawa, Oklahoma. He was the oldest of five children and is survived by his youngest sister, Linda Tachell. He was preceded in death by his three brothers, Tom North (Betty), Jerry North (Joyce), and Alvin North.

Ray moved to Rainier, Washington, from Oklahoma when he was 10 years old. In high school, he was very active in sports (basketball, baseball and football), and he remained passionate about sports throughout his lifetime. Ray enlisted in the Naval Reserves in 1953 and proudly served his country for eight years. He graduated from Rainier High School in 1954. While in high school, he met the love of his life, Donna, and they married in 1956.

Ray and Donna moved to Vail, Washington, a company logging town, where he began his career and family. They eventually moved to a 10-acre farm in Rainier where he lived the good life, enjoying his family, raising animals, gardening and growing dahlias.

He worked 43 years for the Weyerhaeuser Company and did everything from planting trees to becoming a Grapple Operator. When he retired, he and Donna lived the RV lifestyle and travelled the US for many years. They eventually became Snowbirds, splitting their time between their homes in Yuma, Arizona, and Yelm, Washington.

Ray enjoyed his life very much and was a true blessing to those who knew him well. He enjoyed being surrounded by family and friends, camping, bowling, golfing, watching sports, playing the dobro, and listening to country music.

He is survived by his loving wife, Donna; two daughters, Judy Reid (Tom), Sandy Babcock (David); and three sons, Steve North (CJ), David North and Rick North (Tonya); eight grandchildren, Carson (Rae) and Logan Reid, Ariel and Austin (Ty) Babcock, Kindsey Gattman (Alex), and Cody, DJ and Kyle North; and two great-grandchildren, Myla and Owen Gattman.

Ray will always be remembered as the very best husband, father and grandfather.

Our family extends our deepest gratitude for the outpouring of love, support, and condolences we have received during this difficult time. Your kindness has been a source of comfort to all of us.

A funeral mass service will be held Friday, May 3, 2024, 10:00 a.m. at Saint Columban Parish in Yelm, where friends and family will gather to honor Ray’s remarkable life.

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Emily Jean Belenski - July 17, 2002 - April 09, 2024

Departed: 04/09/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Emily Jean Belenski passed away of respiratory failure on April 9, 2024, in Olympia, Washington, her home of eight years. She struggled from Acute Asthma Exacerbation. Emily was born July 17, 2002, to Stacie Jean Belenski in Olympia, and Gregory Lee Zimmerman, Jr. Over the years, she also lived in Tumwater, Washington; Kentucky; Tennessee; Arizona; and Germany.

Emily received her diploma in 2020 from South Sound High School. She attended Centralia Community College in 2023 and was getting ready to sign up for more classes. Emily’s artistic talents shone in her interests as a self-employed artist, poet, and photographer. She attended a Nature Journaling Group and hoped to study similar classes in college. Professionally, she worked as a server, clothing merchandiser, barista, and in fast food.

Emily had a beautiful soul and was full of love. She was free-spirited, spunky, fierce, hilarious, adventurous, smart, kind, and loyal. She was beautiful inside and out, and a great friend.

Emily is survived by her mother, Stacie Jean Belenski; father, Gregory Lee Zimmerman Jr.; stepfathers, Christopher Philippi, and Sean Gould; grandparents, Judy Belenski, Carol Belenski of Anchorage, Alaska, Gregory Lee Zimmerman Sr., Robert and Maria Shaffer; and great-grandmother, Phyllis Dahlquist. Also surviving are her sisters, Katherine Philippi and Margaret Philippi; half-sisters, Tayler Bradley and Olivia Pate; stepsister, Kayely Gould; stepbrother, Dyllan Gould; and half-brothers, Tyler Bradley (Athalbrander Wolfenstein), Kristian Bradley, Matthew Bradley, and Rylan Hampton. In addition, she is survived by aunts and uncle, Christine and Brian Dollerhide, and Alisha Zimmerman; great-aunts and great-uncles, Ron Belenski, Don and Sherri Belenski, Laurie Fisk, and Pamela Murdoch; and cousins, Olivia Dollerhide, Emerson Dollerhide, Willy Raymond, Makayla Ritchie, Austin Ritchie, Sophia Johnson, Adrie John-Baptiste, Makayla John-Baptiste, Lindsey Dahlquist, April Root, Ben Root, Emma Duff, Lilly Duff, Kevin Duff, Nichol Duff, Graysen Duff, Aiden Root, Marissa Root, Clair Root, Hannah Fredrickson, Elliott Drake, Juniper Ray, Willow Ray, Stephen Jones, Cai Fackler, Eisa Fackler, Abhaya Fackler, Jack Duff, and Bella Duff.

Emily was predeceased by her grandfather, William “Popi” Belenski; grandmother, Tamela Fackler; great-aunt, Patricia Baldwin; and great-grandparents, Harvey and Jean Belenski and William and Anne Fowler.

Services will be held Sunday, April 28, 2024, 2:00 p.m. at South Sound Manor, 455 North Street SE, Tumwater, WA 98501.

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Timothy Rarick - October 02, 1952 - April 08, 2024

Departed: 04/08/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Timothy Rarick passed away of heart failure on April 8, 2024, in Yelm, Washington, his home for 30 years. He was born October 2, 1952, to Howard and Elleen Rarick in Nuremburg, Germany. Over the years, he also lived in Lakewood, Washington; Tacoma, Washington; Eagle River, Alaska; Ada, Oklahoma; Fort Benning, Georgia; and the Virgin Islands.

Tim graduated from Lakewood’s Lakes High School and attended Pierce College-Steilacoom. He served in the U.S. Army and married Pamela Sue Gann on June 2, 1979, in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Professionally, he was Manager of the City of Yelm Water District. He loved reading, history, collecting war artifacts, hiking, spending time with family, being in nature, and studying Bible history. He was a member of Heritage Baptist Church in Tenino, Washington.

He is survived by his wife, Pamela Rarick; son, Timothy Rarick (his wife, Jania); daughter, Heather Simatic (her husband, Jared); six grandchildren; brother, Mike Rarick; and sisters, Kate Fukiyama and Penny Mueller. He was predeceased by his parents; brother, Kevin Rarick; and sister, Susan Rarick.

Services will be held Saturday, April 20, 2024, 2:00 p.m. at Heritage Baptist Church, 1315 Sussex Ave. East, Tenino, WA 98589.

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Duke L. Martini - February 15, 1948 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Duke L. Martini took his final flight at Providence St. Peter Hospital in Olympia, Washington on April 1, 2024. He was born on February 15, 1948, to Ira and Miriam Cow in Tucson, Arizona.

After graduating from Rainier Beach High School in Renton, Washington, Duke enlisted in the United States Army, graduated flight school, then went on to serve in the Vietnam War from 1969 to1970 with D-Troop 1-10 CAV. Known by his fellow troop members as "Shamrock 16," he was a helicopter pilot who flew various types of helicopters, including the OH-6 and the Huey.

Upon returning from the war, he enlisted in the Washington Army National Guard (WAARNG) and served as an instructor helicopter pilot as well as a pilot on the C-12 and C-23 aircrafts.

Duke had a valiant and distinguished career as a civil servant of the United States of America, with over 37 years of meritorious service to the United States Army and Washington Army National Guard and was a decorated war veteran who received various military honors, including the National Defense Service Medal, Service Medal, the Army Commendation Medal, Air Medal and the Bronze Star. He was also a lifelong member of the Vietnam Helicopter Pilot Association.

Duke was a loving husband and father. He is survived by his wife, Aena Martini; daughter, Dana Martini; brother, Patrick Martini; and sister, Peggy Wiltse. He was a kind, loving and generous man who was always willing to lend a helping hand. He had a keen sense of humor when he didn't have his nose stuck in some book!

Duke will be dearly missed by all who knew him.

A funeral service with full military honors will be held Thursday, April 25, 2024, at 11:30 a.m. at Tahoma National Cemetery, 18600 SE 240th St., Kent, WA 98042.

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Kenneth R. Remine - July 18, 1938 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Ken was born July 18, 1938, in Elizabeth, New Jersey, to mother, Mabel Walker Remine, and Gilbert R. Remine (both deceased). He died on March 30, 2024, at Alpine Way Continuing Care Community in Shelton, Washington. He was raised in New Jersey and attended Westfield Senior High School (1956) and then Rutgers University, where he earned a B.A. in Economics (1960) and a Master of Business Administration (1973). In June 1964, he married his sweetheart, Patricia, and they lived in Westfield, New Jersey, where they had their first two children. They moved to Palos Verdes near Los Angeles, California, in 1971 and had their third child the following year. In 1976, the family moved to Mercer Island, Washington, where they lived until Ken and Pat retired.

Ken worked from 1960 to 2004 as an insurance agent and broker in Manhattan, New York; Los Angeles, California, and then Bellevue, Washington. In his early career, he worked for AFA Protective Systems, Inc. (a fire protection systems company) in Manhattan, where he was involved in office and personnel management, including advocating for diversity in hiring. He worked for Allendale Mutual Insurance Company from 1970 to 1980 when he went on to co-found and co-own an independent insurance agency in Kirkland, Washington.

Ken’s passions in early adulthood revolved around sailing and being on the water, whether enjoying a moonlit sail across Barnegat Bay, New Jersey, with Pat; cramming the young family into a Cal 25 sailboat for the six-hour sail from LA to Catalina Island in California; or racing Snipes on Lake Washington in Seattle.

In 1980, the Remines purchased property on Harstine Island in the south Puget Sound, which has become a treasured family haven. The family camped there during summers for the first 15 years before building a house, which became Ken’s and Pat’s retirement home. Ken valued the community of friends there almost as much as he loved the clams, oysters, and crabs that he nurtured, harvested, and cooked there.

Later in life, Ken loved traveling (mostly to enjoy delicious foods from around the world) and adventured with Pat to England, France, Italy, Spain, Portugal, Turkey, Greece, Trinidad and Tobago and other parts of the Caribbean and around the US. But his favorite place of all was the Inn at Manzanillo Bay in Troncones, Mexico, where he and Pat spent several wonderful vacations.

Ken was an early adopter of all types of technology and always had the latest laptop, tablet, and cooking gadgets on hand. Ken loved researching and then carefully crafting delicious meals to share with family and friends (which were often served quite a bit later than promised!) He especially loved his grills and smokers and spent many summer evenings cooking outside on the deck.

Ken is survived by his dear wife of nearly 60 years, Patricia R. Remine; sister-in-law, Hedwig (Ackermann) Remine; sons, Peter R. Remine and Matthew W. Remine; and daughter, Kathryn R. Remine, and her husband, Jonathan Dent. He was preceded in death by his birth mother, Mabel Walker Remine; his father, Gilbert R. Remine; step-mother, Hazel Ward Remine; and beloved brother, Donald G. Remine. Most of all, Ken found great happiness in thinking about logistics and planning for the future to ensure that his wife and children could live their best lives. “We treasure his memory and follow in his footsteps. Thanks, Dad!!”

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Myrtle Alice Anderson - Unknown - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Myrtle Alice Anderson was received in heaven on March 29, 2024, at the age of 84.

She is survived by her husband of 55 loving years, William L. Anderson; five children, Judy Mitchell, Janet Vasquez, Sandra Van Boven, David Anderson, and Lisa Pollard; 23 beautiful grandchildren; 48 great-grandchildren; and five greaat-great-grandchildren.

She was greatly loved by all, and she will be missed beyond measure.

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Heather Highmiller - September 01, 1946 - March 21, 2024

Departed: 03/21/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Heather Highmiller passed away March 21, 2024, in Olympia, Washington. She was born September 1, 1946, to Ralph and Alice Highmiller in Olympia. A lifetime resident of Olympia, she lived in the Scott Lake (1983-2024), Boston Harbor (1963-83), and West Olympia (1946-63) neighborhoods.

Heather graduated from Olympia High School in 1964, attended the University of Washington, and earned a BA in Education from Western Washington University in 1969. Professionally, she was a Correctional Educator at Green Hill in Chehalis, Washington, from 1983 to retirement in 2013. She was a life member of NEA, as well as a member of the Chinook Retired Teachers group.

Heather was energetic and had interests ranging from owning standard poodles, to bird hunting, and tennis. She was past grill master of Demoburger, where she grilled over 50,000 burgers. She was elected Precinct Committee Officer of Scott Lake Democrats and served on the Scott Lake Community Board, including as president and past president. She belonged to Tyee Huskies (since 1980) and was a longtime member and Deacon of the United Churches of Olympia.

She was predeceased by her parents, and brothers, Curt Highmiller and Ralph Highmiller.

Services will be held at a later date at the United Churches of Olympia.

Memorial donations may be made to the Joint Animal Services of Thurston County, and the United Churches of Olympia.

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Mary Lee Daeley - November 09, 1939 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Mary Lee Daeley passed away on March 19, 2024, after a long struggle with Parkinson's disease. She was born on November 9, 1939, in Jamestown, North Dakota, to Robert and Genevieve Moffitt.

She graduated from Jamestown High School in 1957, where she won the Betty Crocker Future Homemaker of the Year award two years in a row. She headed to North Dakota State University, where she joined Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority, majored in Home Economics, and met Vern Daeley, who she married on June 28, 1959. Mary Lee and Vern came to Seattle and ultimately settled in Shoreline.

While Vern delivered milk for Smith Brothers Farms, Mary Lee was a superior homemaker and mom. She was a room mother, Brownie and Girl Scout troop leader, and dedicated attendee of Richmond Little League games for many years.

She returned to school at Shoreline Community College, trained as a medical records technician, and worked at Community Home Health Care. Later Vern and Mary Lee moved to Lake Roosevelt, where they lived for many years and she worked in the medical records department and as a transcriptionist at the hospital in Colville.

She was an excellent seamstress and made Halloween costumes, party dresses, and drum major uniforms; baked too many dozens of cookies and bought and wrapped an excess of presents for Christmas; and made birthday cakes and holiday dinners galore. She had a wicked sense of humor and loved bad movies, books and words, Scrabble, trivia, dogs, and spoiling her grandchildren.

Mary Lee is survived by her husband of 64 years, Vern; her children, Jim, Jon and his wife Mindy, Lisa and her husband Jim; her grandkids, Jenna and her husband Alex, Kyle and his wife Autumn, Sami and her husband Nick, Malcolm and Eleanor; and great-grandkids, Kamdyn, Hazel Grace, and Lincoln.

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Frederick Ralph Reece Jr. - July 18, 1947 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Frederick Ralph Reece Jr. passed away March 19, 2024, in Vancouver, Washington, his home of 20+ years. He was born July 18, 1947, to Frederick Ralph Reece Sr. and Lessie Mae Hunt in Big Spring, Texas. Over the years, he also lived in Los Angeles, California, and Portland, Oregon.

Frederick served in the U.S. Marine Corps during the Vietnam War and was a proud veteran. Professionally, he was a painter and sandblaster. He enjoyed reading, gardening, traveling, casinos, cars, and sports.

He is lovingly remembered by his surviving stepdaughter, Angela M. Ballard; brothers, Allen Howard Reece Sr. of Olympia, Washington, Michael Way of Albuquerque, New Mexico, Morris Adam Way of Albuquerque, and Herschell Reece of Albuquerque; and sisters, Patricia (Reece) Hall and Marsha Way, both of Albuquerque, and Barbara Davidson and Jackie Way, both of Texas. He is also remembered by his godchildren, James E. Ballard Jr., Jayma A. Ballard, and Jalen E. Ballard; and a host of nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, and many friends too numerous to mention. He was predeceased by his parents; sisters, Sandra Way and Etta Fay Cherry; and brothers, Timothy L. Reece, Earlis Way, and Robert Samuel Reece.

Services will be held Friday, April 12, 2024, 11:00 a.m. at Funeral Alternatives of Washington, 2830 Willamette Dr. NE, Lacey, WA 98516.

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Robert Ernest Meyer - May 31, 1944 - March 18, 2024

Departed: 03/18/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Robert Ernest Meyer passed away of glioblastoma brain cancer on March 18, 2024, in Olympia, Washington, his home of eight years. He was born May 31, 1944, in Oakland, California, and raised by adoptive parents, Harry and Lois (Munday) Meyer. Over the years, he also lived in Grays Harbor County (1997-2016), Hood River, Oregon, and the Los Angeles area of California.

Bob graduated from Harry Ells High School in Richmond, California, in June 1961, and attended the College of Idaho in Caldwell. He served in the U.S. Air Force during the Vietnam War and was honorably discharged after four years (April 13, 1964-April 12, 1968).

He married Janice Mandich on August 11, 2001, on Baby Beach, Lahaina, in Maui, Hawaii. Professionally, Bob was a commercial pilot. In his last job, he flew as captain for Netjets. He also was owner/operator of the Hood River Airport and owner of Grays Harbor Flight.

Bob had a dry sense of humor and was a good storyteller. Fly fishing was his favorite hobby. He spent a lot of time on rivers through his travels, as well as his local favorites with his male friends. He also loved fishing with tour guides. Bob enjoyed Ancestory.com and was proud of his discovery of several relatives he had never known, as well as finding his birth parents, who were both deceased at the time of discovery. Bob loved traveling. When he and Janice retired, they traveled extensively and also purchased a motor home for travel in the United States.

He is survived by his wife, Janice Meyer of Olympia; daughter, Kimberly Feder of Carbondale, Colorado; stepdaughter, Angalena Beeson of Wenatchee, Washington; two stepsons, Jason Olsen of Elma, Washington, and Aaron Olsen of Warner, New Hampshire; five grandchildren; and two great-grandchildren.

Because Bob had a great love for dogs, he and Janice adopted several dogs over the years and cared for them like they were children. If you are inclined to make a donation in Bob’s honor, please consider your local PAW’s Chapter or animal shelter.

A Celebration of Life for Bob will be planned for a future date and announced later.

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John Copeland - September 22, 1948 - March 16, 2024

Departed: 03/16/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: John Copeland passed away of cancer on March 16, 2024, in Olympia, Washington. He was born September 22, 1948, to John and Addie Copeland in Seattle, Washington, and was a 50-year resident of Yelm, Washington.

John served in the U.S. Navy and was a proud Vietnam Veteran. He married Julie Aschenbrenner in 1969 in Yelm. He was a family-oriented man and enjoyed spending time with his family and watching sports. He will be remembered for being strong and easy-going.

He is lovingly remembered by his surviving wife, Julie Copeland; sons, Jeff (Susan) Copeland and Josh (Claudia) Copeland; grandchildren, Cutter and Kat Copeland; and brother, Randy Copeland. His parents predeceased him.

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JoAnne Vearle Brotherton Tobin - March 02, 1930 - March 13, 2024

Departed: 03/13/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Surrounded by her loving family, JoAnne Tobin passed peacefully on March 13, 2024. Born March 2, 1930, in Everett, Washington, to Joseph Francis Brotherton and Vearle Stroud Brotherton, Mom grew up in West Seattle, attended Gatewood Elementary and Holy Rosary, then moved to Capitol Hill, where she went on to Holy Names Academy and the University of Washington.

In the summer of 1950, she met her perfect match, Richard Eugene Tobin. They married on May 17, 1952, and raised eight children who honor their mother for her many sacrifices, loving heart, enduring Catholic faith, and generous nature. She was well known and well loved for her expertise in the kitchen, her green thumb, and for her devotion to family and to her many lifelong friendships. Her loving ways will long be celebrated.

JoAnne worked as an elevator operator, dental assistant, and then managed the UW's Dept. of Family Medicine before retiring in 1989. As she raised her family, she opened her home to as many as 12 daycare children at a time. She enjoyed golf, hiking, gardening, and cooking for the masses. You never left her home hungry or empty-handed.

In 1996, Mom and Dad built their dream home at Copalis Beach, where they spent their golden years welcoming family and friends from around the world. She is survived by her adoring children, Mark (Marie-France), Tim, Todd, Leanne Ferrante, Melinda Bouillon (Linc), Mary Meulblok (Dirk), Matt, Barbie White; 21 grandchildren and 12 great-grandchildren; many caring nieces and nephews; and by her beloved sister-in-law, Joyce Baldwin.

She was predeceased by her loving husband, Richard; newborn twin sons, Edward and Eugene; her beloved sister, Janet Capeloto, and her husband, Jack; daughter-in-law, Lynn; and grandson, Houston.

A Funeral Mass will be held at 12:45 p.m. on May 17, 2024, at Saint Michael Parish, 1208 11th Ave. SE, Olympia, WA 98501. A Life Celebration will be held the same day at 3 p.m. at the Lacey Community Center, 6729 Pacific Ave. S.E., Lacey, WA 98503.

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Genevieve Clift - January 06, 1944 - March 07, 2024

Departed: 03/07/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Gum Ying, or as she was known, Genevieve, passed away suddenly on March 7, 2024. Born January 6, 1944, in Vancouver, Canada, Genny was the youngest of Bing Dot Chong and Lin Tai Lim’s seven children. When she married Donald, the love of her life, they knew Olympia, Washington, would be their home and happy place.

Genny was predeceased by her parents; husband, Don; and siblings, Dick, Fay, May and Beverly. She is survived by her brother, Henry (Christine); and sister, Shirley. Genny had no children but cherished her stuffed Teddy Bear family.

For the last 11 years, Genny’s beloved Doodle, Mollie, was her rock and stayed by her side until her last breath. When Genny turned 80, she wanted to experience one last RV road trip to her favorite parts of the USA. Sadly, she never made that trip, but she’s now in her ultimate happy place, reunited with Don and Mollie.

Genny requested no service but donations in her honor may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.

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Wendy Mann Mortensen - September 19, 1952 - February 25, 2024

Departed: 02/25/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Wendy Mann Mortensen, wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother and member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, peacefully passed away in her home on February 25, 2024, at the age of 71, surrounded by her family.

Wendy is survived by her husband, Mark; son, Joshua William (Mary) of Puyallup, Washington; son, Eric Neal (Melanie) of Pocatello, Idaho; son, Matthew Wayne (Sarah) of Colfax, Washington; daughter, Stacy Ann of Olympia, Washington; son, Aaron Jordan of the Pacific Northwest; and daughter, Whitney Megan Forsythe (Michael) of University Place, Washington.

Wendy was born on September 19, 1952, at the LDS Hospital in Salt Lake City, Utah. Her parents took her home to Kearns, Utah, where she spent the first 19 years of her life, except for nine months in Reno, Nevada. She graduated from Kearns High School in 1971 and Utah Technical College as an LPN nurse in 1972.

On December 17, 1971, Wendy was sealed to the love of her life and eternal companion, Mark W. Mortensen in the Salt Lake City, LDS temple. They joined the military life and traveled through the world.

Wendy loved to sew and create things for others, such as curtains, dolls, hanging kitchen towels, and clothing such as dresses for her granddaughters. Her love of reading came from her father. She also really enjoyed a variety of music and loved to sing. She had a beautiful voice. She loved her children and found joy in raising them. She enjoyed traveling, of course from her military life, but especially loved going to Alaska. She always said she wanted to die in winter, where she would be covered by a white blanket of purity as snow was her favorite. But most of all, Wendy loved the Lord. She served in the LDS Church in many areas, including Primary teacher and President, Young Women’s President, Relief Society President, and Seminary Teacher. She and Mark served as temple workers in the Seattle Temple for three years and found joy even when there weren’t many patrons, as that meant Wendy could serve as the patron. But of all her callings, she loved Visiting Teaching the most. She had a remarkable experience in 1980 that taught her that it was through that program, lives were changed, especially hers.

Funeral services will be held on Monday, March 4, 2024, 11:00 a.m. at the LDS Stake Center, 1602 Ruddell Road SE, Lacey, WA 98503, with a viewing prior from 9:00 a.m. to 10:30 a.m.

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Roger Arthur Koskela - July 09, 1938 - February 24, 2024

Departed: 02/24/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: After several months of declining health, Roger Arthur Koskela took his last breath at home on February 24, 2024, with his wife and sons by his side. His family is grateful he is no longer in pain, and trust in the hope that he and we share in Christ.

Born in Chicago, Illinois, on July 9, 1938, he was the only child of Hugo and Helen Koskela. Their Finnish heritage was something Roger was proud of his whole life long. While he often claimed the Finnish word sisu (meaning stoic determination, grit, and resilience), his family saw in him a characteristic optimism that helped him see and name the best in people, particularly those in his family.

His lifelong love of baseball began as he grew up playing on sandlots in Chicago—and as a fan of both the Cubs and the New York Giants. Fishing for pike and muskies on Lake Michigan as a child grew into countless hours fishing throughout his life, especially for trout, steelhead, and salmon.

During his growing up years, the Koskelas shared a two-unit house with the Narvas. Uncle Ed, Aunt Lina, and cousins, Jim and Joel, were just like immediate family. When doctors recommended a warmer climate for Roger’s mom, Helen, the Koskelas and Narvas packed up their lives in Chicago and started driving, final destination unknown. They looked for jobs all over the southwest United States before settling in houses next door to each other in Walnut Creek, California, midway through Roger’s high school years. Five years later, his beloved Giants would follow him west to become the San Francisco Giants.

The early death of Roger’s mom while he was in college was a profound loss. He transferred from Westmont College to San Jose State University, getting an apartment with men who would prove to be lifelong friends. Ralph Higgins, Jerry Horton, Dwight Klassen, Joe Medal, Bob Rodde, and Roger called themselves “The Baggers” and remained close their whole lives.

He was active at First Baptist Church in San Jose, California, first as the college group leader and then hired on staff in Public Relations. That church is where he met Kay Lynne Keethler, getting to know her while they were in a play where he played the role of her older brother. They were married on March 27, 1965.

Roger spent time in the Air Force Reserves and the Air National Guard, and worked in many different facets of public relations and advertising, including starting his own business in the 1970s. He always wanted to use his writing and creative skills to support Christian work. Some of the work he was most proud of came with Merrill Womach and National Music in Spokane, Washington (at two different points in his life), with Billy Zeoli and Gospel Films, writing articles for Christianity Today Magazine, and doing promotional work for Francis Shaeffer’s “How Shall We Then Live?” and “Whatever Happened to the Human Race?” conferences. He was honest with his questions about faith, but he stayed committed to Christ.

Family was most important to him. Sons Gregg and Doug came along in 1968 and 1972, but he deeply cared for all his extended family: cousins, nieces and nephews, and eventually his five grandchildren, Natalie, Hayley, Aubrey, Nathan, and Ally. He loved supporting their sports and other extracurricular activities.

Moves to Oregon, back to California, and then to Washington for their retirement years led friends to tease that the Koskelas always remained in pencil in their address book. He loved lakes and water and the beauty of the Pacific Northwest. And he enjoyed good cooking and good food: his mom’s pies, a good breakfast at a “greasy spoon,” an excellent chile relleno, and Baskin Robbins’ “Baseball Nut” ice cream were a few of the things he loved most.

Roger was preceded in death by his mother, Helen; his father, Hugo; and his step-mother, Dollie Larson. He is survived by his wife of almost 59 years, Kay Lynne; son, Gregg and Elaine Koskela and their children, Natalie and Nolan Koskela-Staples, Hayley Koskela, and Aubrey Koskela; and son, Doug and Jamie Koskela and their children, Nathan Koskela and Ally Koskela.

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Kayla Ennis - December 13, 1988 - February 24, 2024

Departed: 02/24/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: A light has been lifted from our world with the life of Kayla Ennis, tragically taken from us at the young age of 35 on February 24, 2024. She was born December 23, 1988, in Bellevue, Washington. The eldest daughter of Donna and Stephen Ennis, she spent her early years bouncing around Western Washington in Olympia, Bellevue, and Everett, eventually landing in Spokane in 1996, where she spent the majority of her life.

Throughout her early years, nearly everyone recounts her as whip-smart and endlessly creative. She could pick up just about any instrument, contributing to a band or two in her day. A musician, a painter, a writer, Kayla developed a multitude of talents and shared them freely, touching everyone throughout her all-too-short life. She had a great sense of humor and always had a joke to crack, even in the hardest of times. Her wicked sense of humor helped her cope and have the insight to recognize and help those in need.

Kayla went to Ferris High School and glided through classes. She graduated in 2007. At 21, Kayla got pregnant with Kinsley Lynn Slocum, the pride and joy of her life. To say Kinsley was the light of her life is an understatement; you could see the love and purpose in her eyes the moment Kinsley was born. That purpose pushed Kayla to work. A bold, courageous, dedicated worker day and night, she used her quick wit to juggle multiple jobs, doing what she could to provide for Kinsley.

And it wasn't always just Kinsley. Kayla always held an affinity for animals. Very rarely did Kayla live without a pet dog in her home. If not a dog or cats, she had pet rats or any little critter that may have needed a home. When she died, she was caring for a dog and two cats. Later in life, Kayla learned to love crows. She would joke that she could command them, but she truly made a bond with the murder in her neighborhood. The birds would bring her little trinkets that she kept in a small tin.

In 2018, Kayla moved back to what she saw as her true home, Olympia. She was surrounded by support from her aunts, uncle, cousin, and grandmother. She was enveloped by unwavering support at home and work.

Kayla worked at Public Storage for the past four years. She became one of the best in the game; her’s is a name worth remembering when visiting Public Storage anywhere in the South Sound. Her coworkers shared nothing but glowing stories about how she was a hard worker, always armed with a good joke.

If you were reading this story anywhere else, you'd assume there would be a lot more to read. But you, dear reader, know this is an obituary. Kayla's life came to a tragic close from a pulmonary embolism on February 24, 2024, in her own home. It was sudden, quick, and left nothing but grief and heartbreak in its wake.

Kayla leaves behind her only daughter, Kinsley Lynn; her parents, Donna and Quinn Ennis; her younger sisters, Allison and Delaney; her aunts, Kim Holm, Stephanie Ennis, Rosalie Ennis, Barbara Stephens, Patty Lynch, and Helen Lynch; her uncles, Matt Ennis, Russ Holm, and Don Lynch; her paternal grandmother, Sharon; extended family from Oregon, Utah, and Colorado; and many, many dear friends. She was preceded in death by her maternal grandmother, Carolyn; and paternal grandfather, Thomas.

A ceremony to celebrate and remember Kayla's life will be held Saturday, April 13, 2024, 2:00 p.m. at The Lord Mansion, 211 21st Ave. SW, Olympia, WA 98501.

Instead of flowers, please consider donating to your local no-kill pet shelter, or Oly Camp Kitties, the organization that helped rehome Kayla’s two cats, by clicking HERE.

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Matthew Richard Lawrence - June 23, 1987 - February 23, 2024

Departed: 02/23/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Matthew Richard Lawrence passed away peacefully on February 23, 2024, in Seattle, Washington, surrounded by his family and friends. Born June 23, 1987, to Douglas Lawrence and Olivia Davis in Tacoma, Washington, Matthew lived an adventurous 36 years of life and will always be remembered for his fun-loving, carefree and mischievous personality. He was very well known in his community as a kind and compassionate friend, willing to drop whatever he was doing to help a friend in need.

Matthew was resilient, resourceful, a hard worker and an incredible listener. He was someone who genuinely cared, understood without judgement, and made others feel heard and valued in their presence. In his younger days, he enjoyed video games, riding quads at the sand dunes, was a baseball catcher, did Tae Kwon Do, loved running around in the woods, campfires and fireworks. In addition to his love of reading, Matthew was passionate about history and was a firearm enthusiast. He had a deep appreciation for the historical significance and craftsmanship of antique guns.

Matthew selflessly made the decision to be an organ donor and because of this, he has given the incomparable gift of life to four individuals. This will be his legacy; Matthew is our hero. He is deeply loved by his family and will be missed beyond words.

He is survived by his daughter, Brianna; father, Douglas Lawrence (Lisa); mother, Olivia Davis (Mark); brothers, Dave (Rickie), Joshua, and Zachary; sisters, Justine (Shane) and Natalie, nephews; Tyler and Davis and nieces; Olivia, Kaylee and Elizabeth; along with extended family in Georgia and Washington.

A Celebration of Life will be held May 11, 2024, 1:00 p.m. at GraceWorks Church, 7945 Steilacoom Road SE, Lacey, WA 98503.

Please consider registering to be an organ donor at LifeCenter Northwest by clicking HERE.

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Ann Christine Essko - October 10, 1955 - February 22, 2024

Departed: 02/22/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Ann Christine Essko passed away on February 22, 2024, in Olympia, Washington, after a two-year battle with ovarian cancer. Ann was born in Barstow, California, on October 10, 1955, to Charles Edward Essko and Olga Tonia (Carollo) Essko. Her family moved to Washington when she was a child. Ann graduated from Tyee High School in SeaTac in 1973, and from Washington State University in 1977 with a Bachelor of Science in Horticulture. She went on to law school at the University of Puget Sound, graduating in 1985.

Ann spent most of her career as an assistant attorney general, representing a number of state agencies, including the Department of Natural Resources, the Department of Ecology, the Department of Social and Health Services, and the Energy Facility Site Evaluation Council. During the 1990s, she was the Assistant Division Manager for the Aquatic Resources Division at DNR, then returned to the Attorney General’s Office. She retired in 2019 after 33 years of public service.

Ann was a meticulous attorney with a bright intellect and an equally bright sense of humor. She received numerous awards for her service to the Attorney General’s Office.

Ann was deeply committed to helping the less fortunate. She and her long-time partner, Stu Smith, were known for extraordinary generosity in helping those in need, including homeless persons, survivors of natural disasters, and domestic violence victims. Her generosity extended to animals, as well. She and Stu adopted several dogs and cats that had suffered abuse and neglect.

Ann was an insatiable reader. Among her favorite authors were C.S. Lewis, P.G. Wodehouse, Richard Rohr, Anne Lamott, and Mary Oliver. She also had a lifelong interest in Christian theology. In 2022, Ann was confirmed as a Catholic at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Lacey.

Ann also had a passion for photography and attracted a large following on social media. She focused her lenses on rural landscapes in the Pacific Northwest, including lone structures long abandoned, still standing.

Ann’s biological family predeceased her, but a large group of friends survive her, including her former partner, Stu; and her partner during the last few years of her life, Nick B. Schubert. A funeral mass will be held at St. Michael Catholic Church in Olympia in the coming months, with a reception to follow.

Donations in memory of Ann may be made to her favorite charities: Doctors Without Borders; Partners in Health; Northwest Immigrants Rights Project; Olddog Haven; St. Michael Parish; and Catholic Community Services.

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Nancy Joan Fisk Maze - Unknown - February 20, 2024

Departed: 02/20/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Nancy Joan Fisk Maze passed away February 20, 2024, in Rainier, Washington, with her loved ones surrounding her with love in the Turbeville residence. She succumbed to cholangiocarcinoma, a rare bile duct cancer that is aggressive. She was 71 years young.

Nancy was born to Francis Wayland Fisk and Barbara Bernice Stapleton Fisk in Utica, New York. At the age of three-and-a-half, she and her family moved to Oxnard, California. She also lived in Marysville, California; Kwajalein Atoll, Marshall Islands; Yuba City, California; Chico, California; Oroville, California; and El Mirage, Arizona. She graduated from Marysville High School with the Class of 1970 and earned a Bachelor of Arts degree from Chico State University.

She had many interests and passions. Her favorite one was being a mother and grandmother. Nancy absolutely loved bragging about her three daughters and seven grandchildren to anyone who would listen. Any time she saw them, she beamed with joy and happiness. Nancy was always spoiling them with candy or gifts. She also had many friends and was well loved at her job at Kohls, which brought her so many friends. Nancy was kind, loving, caring, funny and nurturing.

Nancy’s passion was painting. Any type of art Nancy did, people just loved. She added buttons and such to all her paintings and even painted on windows and walls for people. She spent many of her years creating and making art. She loved teaching people how to paint. Genealogy was another big part of her life. Any family she was around, she would always tell us some sort of genealogy about our family line. She would love for whomever is reading this to get out there and paint. She loved going antiquing with her friends and family.

Nancy will be deeply missed and dearly remembered by those she leaves behind. She is survived by her daughters, Carissa Ann Baker, Julie Marie Turbeville, and Sarah Beth Barrera; grandchildren, Mikayla Harrington, Hayden Barrera, Emily Turbeville, Amber Barrera, Ian Barrera, Jimmy Turbeville Jr., Garrett Barrera; brother, James Eric Fisk; and sister, Patricia Ann Fisk. “Grief is like the ocean; it comes in waves ebbing and flowing. Sometimes the water is calm, and sometimes it is overwhelming. All we can do is learn to swim.” -Vicki Harrison

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Woody Taylor - June 20, 1949 - February 19, 2024

Departed: 02/19/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Our father, grandfather and friend, Woody Taylor, age 74, passed peacefully February 19, 2024. Born in St. Louis, Missouri, June 20, 1949, he grew up with his mother, Leta Cooper, his father, Robert “Bob” Rawson, and his three brothers, Jerry Taylor, Larry Breeding, and Kenneth Breeding.

He and his future wife, Jeannette “Jenny” Ayers, met as teenagers. They married April 1,1970, while he was on a short leave between tours in Vietnam. Woody and Jenny came to a saving faith in Jesus during the “Jesus Movement” of the 1970s. They had four children, Sherry Taylor (1971), Jonathan “John” Taylor (1973), Eric Taylor (1975), and Robert “Bob” Taylor (1979-1997). Woody worked as an auto mechanic for many years, after which he and Jenny worked a series of jobs together until their retirement. In 1997, their youngest son, Bob, died tragically and, in 2018, his beloved wife passed. Afterward, he was often heard quoting 2 Corinthians 5:8b, “To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord” and would add, “There is no better place for mom and Bob to be than in His presence.”

Even as Woody left behind so many who love him, we are confident he is fully at peace, welcomed by his Lord, his wife, and his son, in a joyful reunion.

Woody is survived by his daughter, Sherry Whittaker; and his two sons, John Taylor and Eric Taylor; as well as five grandchildren, Andrew Whittaker, Aaron Whittaker, Isaac Taylor, Emily Whittaker, and Elizabeth Taylor-Torres. Woody has also left behind his son-in law, Steve Whittaker; and his sister-in-law, Patty Taylor. He is also missed by many others he loved and served over the years.

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Donna Kay Harper Wilson - August 11, 1963 - February 18, 2024

Departed: 02/18/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Donna Kay Harper Wilson was born on August 11, 1963, to Charles Edward Harper and Ida Mae Dillard Harper in Columbus, Georgia. She passed away February 18, 2024, in Lacey, Washington.

Donna attended Lydia Hawk Elementary, Nisqually Middle School, and graduated from Timberline High School in 1981 in Lacey. She went on to earn an AA Degree from Macomb Community College in Warren, Michigan.

On April 16, 1988, she married Jack Wilson and together raised their two sons, Jacob and Joshua. While Jack served in the military, the family lived for several years in North Carolina, Hawaii, Michigan, and ultimately back to Washington. During that time, Donna had several careers, none of which she enjoyed more than the years she spent at the Washington State Department of Retirement Systems.

Donna lived a life of faith, charity, and family, always putting the interests of others above her own. As a young woman in school, Donna joined The International Order of the Rainbow for Girls and took an oath to “respect our parents, become involved with the church of our choice, be a true friend, be patriotic, and be of service to others.” She lived those words every day of her life, working relentlessly for the betterment of her family, church, community, and society in general. One project was particularly dear to her heart. She and her church participated in Operation Christmas Child, a project of Samaritan’s Purse, that has delivered millions of gift-filled shoeboxes to boys and girls around the world. Donna’s family requests donations honoring Donna to be gifted to her church so this wonderful tradition can continue in her memory.

Donna loved the simplest things in life. She loved nature walks and having her National Parks Passport filled with stamps. She loved music and dance, yellow flowers, and The Bay City Rollers. She loved her Seahawks, Spooner Farms strawberries, cheesecake, and Jane Austen books. She loved travel, museums, Italian food, Sean of the South, the beach, and her dog, Marble. She was hard working, honest, honorable, and held herself to the highest of standards. She made life better for those around her and everyone who knew her is better off for that experience.

Donna is loved and greatly missed by her family and friends. She is survived by her mother, Ida Harper; husband, Jack Wilson; sons, Jacob and Joshua Wilson; and sisters, Debra F. Harper Lazara (Ron) and Dora M. Harper Duval (Randy). She is blessed to have aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews who will remember her fondly.

Donations in Donna’s honor may be made to First Baptist Church of Lacey, 4705 22nd Ave. SE, Lacey, WA 98503.

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Marjorie (Martz) Hicks - October 21, 1938 - February 15, 2024

Departed: 02/15/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Marjorie (Martz) Hicks passed away peacefully on February 15, 2024, surrounded by her family in Olympia, Washington. She was born on October 21, 1938, in an Olympia police car as the officer raced her mother to St. Peter Hospital.

Margie was married to Percy “Bill” Hicks on June 11, 1966. They were always on the go, camping, thrifting or just finding new things to do and enjoying their life during their 58 years together.

Margie was a devoted wife, mother, and grandmother, always supporting those around her and willing to go on any adventure when the opportunity arose. You could say the best things come in small packages when describing Margie. Kind, warm and welcoming to everyone, Margie earned her role as everyone's grandma in the hearts of people who were blessed to have her in their lives. She proved that family is not limited to the people you are related to but includes the people in your life that you care for.

Margie is survived by her husband, Percy “Bill” Hicks; daughter, Theresa (Brad) Reid; grandchildren, Kevin (Julia) Andrews, Jessica (Justin) West, Alex (Jessica) Lord, Lucas Reid; and two great-grandchildren, Raymond and Isabella. She was preceded in death by grandson, Zachary Reid.

Margie was deeply loved and will be greatly missed.

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Jerry Walter Collins Jr. - August 07, 1962 - February 10, 2024

Departed: 02/10/2024 (Lacey)

Obituary Preview: Jerry was born August 7, 1962, in Jacksonville, Florida, to Jerry W. Collins Sr. and Mary K. (Kristof) Collins. His father served in the U.S. Navy for 30 years, so he traveled the world with his family wherever they were stationed. He went to high school in Subic Bay, Philippines, and graduated from George Dewey High School in 1980.

Following high school, Jerry joined the U.S. Navy and proudly served as a Navy Corpsman from 1981 to 1995, when he was honorably discharged. He married his high school sweetheart, Barbara (Bowman) Collins, in 1982. They were divorced in 1989. He then met the love of his life, Tammy Lunsford and they were married for almost 35 years (1989-2024). They had a son in 1989 and a daughter in 1996. After his military retirement, Jerry attended and graduated from Chemeketa Community College with an associates degree (1995-1997). He then worked for the Oregon Department of Human Services for 10 years (1996-2006), and the Social Security Administration for a couple of years (2006-2008), and then for the Veterans Administration (2008-2024), totaling 10 years state service and over 30 years of federal service!

Jerry was very proud of his military service and being able to help veterans get the compensation that they deserved. He was beloved by so many due to his positive, friendly character and his special ability to be a peacemaker in most situations. Jerry loved God, music, and singing (especially Jimmy Buffet songs). He had a loud booming voice and a great sense of humor. He was very intelligent and great at trivia. He was adventurous (running Iron Man competitions, traveling the world) and enjoyed scuba diving in his youth. His real passion in life though was his family, who he protected fiercely, loved deeply, and would do anything for!

Jerry passed away February 10, 2024, in Olympia, Washington. He was survived by his wife, Tammy; son, Christopher; daughter, Meghan; sister, Carol; and his two granddaughters (the lights of his life), Penelope and Charlotte. HE WILL BE FOREVER MISSED AND IN OUR HEARTS!! His funeral service will be held on Wednesday, February 28, 2024, 2:00 p.m. at Tahoma National Cemetery 18600 240th St., Kent, WA 98042

There will be a Celebration of life on Saturday, March 16, 2024, 11:00 a.m. at Cornerstone Church of God, 4395 Independence Hwy, OR 97351.

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Funeral Services Offered

Funeral Alternatives of Washington - Lacey offers a wide range of funeral services to cater to the diverse needs of families. These services include traditional funerals, cremations, memorial services, and celebrations of life. Their experienced staff will work closely with you to create a personalized service that honors your loved one's memory and meets your family's unique needs.

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Funeral Alternatives of Washington - Lacey also provides cremation services for families who prefer this option. They offer direct cremation, which involves cremating the body without a formal funeral service. They also provide cremation with a memorial service, where the ashes are present during the service. Additionally, they offer scattering services for those who wish to scatter their loved one's ashes in a special location.

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The funeral home is located in a beautiful facility that provides a peaceful and comforting atmosphere for families. The chapel is spacious and can accommodate large gatherings, making it an ideal venue for funeral services and memorial ceremonies. They also have a private viewing room where families can spend time with their loved one before the service.

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The staff at Funeral Alternatives of Washington - Lacey are experienced professionals who are dedicated to providing exceptional care and support to families. They have extensive knowledge of the funeral industry and are skilled in creating personalized services that meet each family's unique needs. From pre-planning to aftercare, their staff is committed to helping you every step of the way.

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Funeral Alternatives of Washington - Lacey understands that planning a funeral can be overwhelming, which is why they offer pre-planning services to help families prepare for the future. Their staff will guide you through the process, ensuring that your wishes are respected and your family is protected from unnecessary stress. They also provide aftercare services, including grief counseling and support groups, to help you navigate the grieving process.

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Funeral Alternatives of Washington - Lacey is deeply committed to giving back to the community. They participate in local events and charities, supporting organizations that make a positive impact on people's lives. By choosing Funeral Alternatives of Washington - Lacey, you are not only receiving exceptional funeral services but also supporting a business that cares about its community.

In conclusion, Funeral Alternatives of Washington - Lacey is a trusted funeral home that provides compassionate and professional services to families in need. With their range of services, facilities, and experienced staff, they are well-equipped to support you during a difficult time. Whether you are planning ahead or need immediate assistance, Funeral Alternatives of Washington - Lacey is here to help you honor your loved one's memory with dignity and respect.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including biographical information, achievements, and surviving family members. It serves as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and the community.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries are important because they provide a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also serving as a notification to those who knew them. They can also be a valuable resource for genealogists and historians.

What information is typically included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include a brief biography, accomplishments, and any notable achievements.

Who writes an obituary?

The task of writing an obituary usually falls to the family members or close friends of the deceased. Funeral homes or obituary writers may also assist in crafting the obituary.

How long does it take to write an obituary?

The time it takes to write an obituary can vary depending on the complexity and detail desired. On average, it can take anywhere from 30 minutes to several hours to craft a well-written obituary.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it is possible to write your own obituary. In fact, some people choose to do so as a way to have control over how they are remembered. This is often referred to as a "self-written" or "pre-written" obituary.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only the most basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

To submit an obituary to a newspaper, you can usually contact the paper's obituary department directly or use their online submission form. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment for publication.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, many online platforms and websites allow you to publish an obituary. These may include funeral home websites, online memorial sites, and social media platforms.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Newspaper prices can range from $50 to $500 or more, while online platforms may offer free or low-cost options.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can help make the tribute more personal and meaningful.

What is the purpose of an obituary photo?

The primary purpose of an obituary photo is to provide a visual representation of the person being honored. It can also serve as a way to showcase their personality or highlight a significant aspect of their life.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or poems can be included in an obituary as a way to add personal touches and make the tribute more meaningful. Choose words that resonate with the person's spirit and legacy.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Generally, it's best to aim for a length of around 200-500 words.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate someone's life and personality. Just be sure to keep it respectful and tasteful.

What if I need to make corrections to an already-published obituary?

If you need to make corrections to an already-published obituary, contact the publication or platform where it was published as soon as possible. They will guide you through the process of making corrections.

Can I reuse an obituary for multiple publications?

Yes, you can reuse an obituary for multiple publications. However, be sure to check with each publication for their specific requirements and formatting guidelines.

How long does it take for an online obituary to be published?

The time it takes for an online obituary to be published varies depending on the platform. Some may publish immediately, while others may take several hours or days.

Can I create a memorial website in addition to publishing an obituary?

Absolutely! Memorial websites can serve as a lasting tribute to your loved one and provide a space for sharing memories, photos, and stories.

What if I'm unsure about what information to include in an obituary?

If you're unsure about what information to include in an obituary, consider consulting with family members or friends who knew the person well. You can also seek guidance from funeral home staff or professional obituary writers.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to honor their loved one's memory.

How do I ensure that my loved one's legacy lives on through their obituary?

To ensure that your loved one's legacy lives on through their obituary, focus on capturing their spirit, personality, and accomplishments in the writing. Also, consider creating a memorial website or sharing stories and memories with others.

What if I need help writing an obituary due to emotional distress?

If you're struggling emotionally and need help writing an obituary, consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for support. You can also seek guidance from funeral home staff or professional writers who specialize in crafting compassionate tributes.

Can I update an existing online obituary with new information?

Yes, many online platforms allow you to update existing obituaries with new information. This can be useful for adding additional photos, stories, or updates about memorial services or charitable donations.

How do I ensure that my loved one's story is told accurately in their obituary?

To ensure that your loved one's story is told accurately in their obituary, gather information from multiple sources, including family members, friends, and documents such as resumes or awards. Verify facts carefully before publishing.