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Richard Elmer Zabriskie - Unknown - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Richard “Dick” Zabriskie was promoted to the Church Triumphant on April 17, 2024. He passed peacefully after a brief illness, only 13 days after Karen, his wife of 68 years. Born August 1929 to Elmer and Mildred Zabriskie, he lived in his hometown of Englewood, New Jersey, until college. He earned a scholarship to Princeton University where he obtained a Bachelor’s Degree in History. He soon found his true calling in the Ministry. He attended McCormick Theological Seminary in Chicago, earning a Master’s in Divinity, and was ordained to the Ministry in June 1954. He later earned his second Master’s Degree in Counseling and Guidance from the University of North Dakota.
Dick met Karen Lea Benson, a nurse, while ministering to patients at Augustana Hospital in Chicago. They were married in August 1955. He served his first congregation as Assistant Pastor at Immanuel Presbyterian Church, quickly followed by being Pastor for both Faith and Berean Presbyterian Churches in Milwaukee. In 1962, he was called to be the Pastor at Faith Presbyterian Church in Franklin, Wisconsin. Dick and Karen had three sons and a daughter.
Dick was called to First Presbyterian Church in Grand Forks, North Dakota, in 1970, before being called to his last official ministry in Sun City, Arizona, at First Presbyterian Church in 1986 where he eventually retired in 1994. He remained active in retirement though and was often asked to guest preach at campground/RV parks and area churches, which he thoroughly enjoyed. Highlights of his career included an exchange with another pastor and his family in England, and baptizing, marrying, and laying to rest countless people. Five of his grandchildren were honored to have him officiate their weddings.
Dick’s hobbies included handball, tennis, playing cards and games with friends and family, singing in the Arizona Masterworks Chorale for years, and traveling with Karen to many countries and across the U.S. They especially enjoyed spending summers along the Oregon/Washington coastline in their RV. At 65 years old, he hiked rim-to-rim in the Grand Canyon with his son, Steve.
Dick and Karen hosted several tours for congregation members to the Holy Lands through Educational Opportunities Tours, and he was a member of a Presbyterian Study Seminar to the Middle East in 1989, where he reported gaining insight into the Israeli/ Palestinian relations, and grappled with possible solutions. Dick proudly participated in a Civil Rights March in Montgomery, Alabama, in 1965. His service activities included being a member of the Northwest Maricopa County United Nations Association, volunteering at the Food Bank, giving blood regularly, and being a member of the "Ready Team" for the United Blood Bank.
One thing family looked forward to was reunions, specifically evenings around the campfire, where Dick would lead everyone, including eight grandchildren, in spirited songs with his guitar and joyful singing voice.
He is survived by three sons, Mark (Michelle) Zabriskie, Steven (Amber) Zabriskie, and Scott (Cindy) Zabriskie; and daughter, Kristine Zabriskie (Steve) Olson; grandchildren, Alex, Rachel (Ben), Kelli (Ryan), Aaron (Caleigh), Isaac, Luke (Kaylee), Christopher (special step-grandson), Annalise, and Peter; five great-grandchildren, Cooper, Finn, Lucy, Jude, and Gus. Dick was preceded in death by his wife, Karen Zabriskie; parents, Elmer and Mildred Zabriskie; and sister, Marion Wendover.
You’re invited to celebrate the lives of Dick and Karen in a joint Celebration of Life on Saturday, June 15, 2024, 11:00 a.m. at First Presbyterian Church, 12225 N 103rd Ave., Sun City, AZ 85351.
The family encourages gifts given in memory of Dick and Karen be made to Habitat for Humanity, Central Arizona, habitatcaz.org, to help build a West Valley home for those in need, an activity for which they volunteered and proudly supported. Loving Remembrances of Dad - Richard Zabriskie ~by daughter, Kris Zabriskie Olson
“He's such a nice man!” and “I love your father!” are some of the kind remarks I often heard when I met someone who knew Dad. That’s enough to make a child feel great about their parent, but there’s so much more to be thankful for. Dad was a man who truly loved life and genuinely cared about others. Although he was a minister in the Presbyterian faith and believed in that theology and the methods of governance propounded by the Presbyterian Church USA, he was accepting and respectful of others and their beliefs and choices. He believed in equality and respect for all people. One of the times that that was particularly evident was when he joined some other pastors who risked their own well-being and drove to Montgomery, Alabama, from Milwaukee, Wisconsin, to join the marches for equality inspired by Martin Luther King in 1965.
Dad encouraged and promoted peaceful approaches to conflict at home and abroad, once participating in a Presbyterian study seminar to the Middle East in 1989, where he reported he gained insight into Israeli/Palestinian relations and worked on possible solutions. He was deeply burdened by war and he often vocalized his grief over the casualties.
Besides this more serious side, Dad had a light, “punny” side. I recall Dad driving our old station wagon full of my mother and three brothers on vacation and randomly shouting, “There’s a pink elephant!” or “There’s a polka dot penguin!” to which he got a quizzical response and would then laugh and proceed to point out just how beautiful the clouds were or how interesting the landscape was. When he played cards or games with family, he would often break into uncontrollable laughter that still rings through our hearts and brings great joy. He loved eating out and always valued it as a real treat. When he received a gift, he would recall and mention often how he appreciated it. He attended occasions that were special to us and never hesitated to tell us he was proud of our accomplishments. Dad loved playing tennis into his 70s and kept a regular walking schedule into his 90s. He loved travel and helped to arrange some educational tours with Mom around the globe. I learned to turn around on trick skis because he was patient enough to turn the boat around at least 20 times to pick me up and pull me repeatedly one summer afternoon while camping near Cass Lake, Minnesota. He loved to sing and sang with the Princeton University Chapel Choir and the Masterworks Chorale in Arizona. He sang solos and duets in church and perhaps best of all, sang robust campfire and folk songs with family and friends. He even acted in a community theatre production in New Jersey in his youth that was directed by John Travolta’s mother!
Besides being proud that he was such a “nice guy,” one of the qualities I admired most was the empathy he showed to other people. He never hesitated to educate himself on issues or events so that he could understand people and their positions and encourage peaceful respect for others. I’ll keep striving to be more like you Dad. You did good! Love you! A Poem of Remembrance for Richard Zabriskie ~by son, Scott Zabriskie April 2024 Dad, I remember … Your strong clear voice and your spirit-filled presence, Leading your church on Sundays with conviction and reverence, The sureness of your words testifying of the Truth that is His,
With logic and passion about all that He gives. I felt … Your inspired joy at every God-breathed scene of natural beauty In rocky shorelines, color-streaked sunsets, and mountains of the Almighty You worshiped His making with deep respect and admiration,
And fully appreciated living, surrounded by the wonder of all creation. I wondered … At your elegant capacity to comfort and befriend everyone in your path,
Never hesitating to share kind words, a smile or a laugh. And with your family, never judgement or rebuke, but always encouragement, compassion, and a caring outlook I envied …
How in every situation your were always honest to the core.
There is no one whose word I could ever trust more.
To be like you is the worthiest and highest aim.
That’s why we all agree, you were the best at this game. I recall … Being little with you more than once on Christmas Eve, After the candlelight service and the late holiday party we’d leave,
You’d carry me in from the car and put me to bed.
I wasn’t really asleep in your arms, just enjoying your heart close to my head. I relish … The memory of your untamed and explosively quiet laughter,
Like on that Christmas night 1973 when you kept crashing my new whirly-bird toy helicopter.
Over and over you piloted it poorly into the side of the ship.
We were howling so hard, tears of joy … quite lost our grip. I marveled … As you commanded the courts of handball and tennis,
With the wing span of a pterodactyl, like a soaring menace. You gracefully danced side to side and back to front,
with the unflappable patience of a wise and seasoned elephant. I loved … That you always loved us, supporting everything we did,
From sports and academics, to career, our faith and our kids. That love always grounded us, yet empowered us to sail free,
Unafraid of the world and better able to see. I honor …
A humble but incredible and monumental man.
A genuinely good soul, who understood God’s plan. It’s because of your teaching about Him transcending all space and time
That I’ll always feel connected to your love and you’ll always have mine. I pledge … As you leave us, that wherever I go, in His grand sunsets I WILL still see you,
And whenever His proclamations are spoken, I’ll hear YOUR voice echo and ring true.
I’ll feel your heart louder each Christmas and watch your legacy live on in our kids.
I’ll picture you adventuring with Mom in the eternal kingdom where we’ll all one day live.
Be at peace, my beloved Dad, and enjoy your new life until we meet again. DAD ~by son, Mark Zabriskie My soul was truly blessed When you taught me oh so young With character and justice See the good in everyone With reverence and grace You always helped the meek You marched and were assaulted But you turned the other cheek Gave your money and your time To the church and Habitat Wore your members only jacket Donned your treasured fishing hat You traveled and you camped Strummed a cowboy melody Sang for family, friends and church Majestic and heavenly You were ethical and honest Trusting others be the same Your printer and computer Well, the scammers were to blame Loved your peanuts and ice cream Got the pit in Cherry pies Had a joyous funny bone Laughed ‘til tears were in your eyes You’re loved by many people For your kindness and your grace Your impact was substantial And the world’s a better place Now your days are finally over You can lie down, you can rest You served the Lord with gladness You gave us all the BEST
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James Reginald Martin - January 15, 1938 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: James Reginald Martin January 15, 1938 - April 15, 2024
James Reginald “Jim” Martin was born January 15, 1938, at home in Bluff City, Arkansas. He was the firstborn child of Hardwick and Lois (Weaver) Martin. Three siblings would follow: Mary Lou, Glenda, and John.
Jim graduated from Prescott High School, lettering in football all four years as an offensive lineman for the Curly Wolves. He held his first job at 15 with the Arkansas State Forestry Department. From that time, he was never without a job for more than a few months until he retired in 2002.
He earned a BS in Business at Arkansas State University and an MBA from Henderson State University. He met Marilyn Mobley at South Texarkana Methodist Church and they married in 1958, the year he joined the U.S. Army.
Son, Michael, was born in 1960 and daughter, Jill, in 1965. The family travelled for the next 20 years as Jim’s Army career took them all over the world. Jim attained the rank of Staff Sergeant before completing Officer’s Candidate School, retiring at the rank of Major. His primary specializations were nuclear weapons, maintenance, and materials. Duty stations included Germany, Vietnam, Okinawa, and ten U.S states.
The many years of military service and travel provided no shortage of new and exciting experiences for Jim’s family. Daughter Jill, a sailing enthusiast, remembers her introduction to the ocean while living on Okinawa. “Dad scooped me up and walked straight into the waves. I was hooked.” Son Michael’s love of history developed early with a visit to the Imperial Palace in Kyoto. Jim received many military awards, including the Bronze Star, the Meritorious Service Medal, and the Army Commendation Medal. His most treasured award, however, is an American flag presented to him by Leading Chief Petty Officer, James Ryan Martin, Jim’s grandson and namesake, in 2019 aboard the Navy destroyer USS Spruance during Seattle’s Seafair celebration. The accompanying citation reads: “This flag was flown aboard USS Spruance while underway from San Diego, CA to Everett, WA. It is presented to James Martin, Major, U.S. Army (RET.) in recognition of your honorable and faithful service to our Country.”
Building on his military experience and business education, Jim held managerial positions in maintenance, materials and purchasing at companies in Washington, Arkansas, and New Jersey. In 2004, Jim and Marilyn moved to Panorama, a retirement community in Lacey, Washington. They continued to travel, making three trips to Europe, and numerous destinations in the U.S. Among their favorites were Savannah, New Orleans, and the Finger Lakes region in New York state, their first home as newlyweds. In retirement, Jim found more time for one of his favorite hobbies: cooking. Among the highlights of his eclectic repertoire were lasagna, French onion soup, beef fondue, escargot, and the best BBQ ribs in the world. He loved to eat. Even more, he loved it when others enjoyed his creations. Son Michael called cooking “Dad’s Love Language.” Jim was a maverick for his time in advocating for women. It was not uncommon, even as the breadwinner, to find Jim retrieving kids from school, tending to cuts and scrapes, cooking dinner, or any other myriad of child rearing tasks, while wife Marilyn spent long hours in pursuit of her own academic and career goals. These demonstrative acts did not go unnoticed and greatly impacted his daughter Jill. “Such unwavering dedication to the advancement of the women in our family always stuck with me, particularly as I navigated my own career.”
Grandson, Casey, fondly remembers Jim’s stories about the “olden” times when he listened to the Green Hornet, and the Lone Ranger on the radio, a medium far superior to television, according to Grandpa. Both Casey and Ryan remember the unique stern, disapproving look Jim could deliver when needed. Laughing when Jim dropped his Cinnabon (icing side down of course) on his shirt while driving, earned them that look.
Jim is survived by his wife, Marilyn Martin; son, Michael Martin; daughter and son-in-law, Jill and Darrick Michaels-Oliver; grandchildren, Casey Hinis and Ryan and wife Ashley Martin; great-grandchildren, Hal’e and Makaelyn Martin; and sister, Glenda Huffman. Jim was preceded in death by brother, John Martin; and sister, Mary Lou Butler.
Private services will be held at Tahoma National Cemetery.
The family asks that any remembrances be made in the form of a donation to the Vietnam Veterans Memorial Fund. Donations can be made online or by mail.
In Memory of: James R. Martin, Major, U.S. Army (RET). Notification: marmartin1@comcast.net Website: Give to VVMF - Vietnam Veterans Memorial Fund www.vvmf.org/give-to-vvmf By Mail: Vietnam Veterans Memorial Fund 3303 Wilson Blvd, Suite 300 Arlington, VA 22201
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Rudolph Ponton - May 07, 1951 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Rudolph “Rudy” Ponton passed away April 15, 2024, in Olympia, Washington. He was born May 7, 1951, in El Paso Texas.
Rudy married Bertha “Bert” Van Leeuwen on August 29, 1980, in Montesano, Washington. He was a kind-hearted and loving husband, father, papa, uncle and bother. Rudy had an amazing sense of humor. He loved spending time with friends and family, especially his grandchildren. He enjoyed traveling, drawing, singing, and watching history and science channels on TV. Professionally, he worked and retired from Simpson Timber Company.
Rudy is survived by his wife, Bert; daughters, Tracy (Jacob) Williams and Rachael (Ron) Erickson; grandchildren, Zachary Erickson, Zoie Erickson, Nicholas Williams, Kyla Williams; brother, Ruben Ponton; and sisters, Bertha West and Sally Ponton. He is predeceased by his father, Rafael; mother, Felicitas; brothers, Ralph, Richard and Robert; and sister, Elvira.
A private family gathering will held at a later date.
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Mark Leland Bunda - October 02, 1957 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Mark Leland Bunda, our beloved husband, father, papa, and friend, passed away peacefully at home on April 15, 2024. He was 66 years old.
Mark was born on October 2, 1957, the fourth of six children to Santiago Bunda Sr. and Esther Miguel Bunda in Wahiawa, Hawaii. Growing up, Mark enjoyed the beaches of Oahu and, in second grade, moved to Germany for one and a half years as part of his father’s military duties before returning home to Hawaii. After graduating from Leilehua High school in 1975, Mark went on to study at Leeward Community College while also performing in the evenings at Benihana restaurant.
In 1977, Mark chose to follow his true passion, music, and joined the Up With People youth empowerment performing group. Over the course of his four years as part of UWP, Mark was both a performer and a vocal coach. Through UWP, Mark had the opportunity to see the world, something he was both grateful for and very proud of. He loved regaling friends and family with tales from his travels and had an incredible memory for the many friends and hosts he met along the way. One of Mark’s proudest musical moments was his opportunity to perform with UWP at the Superbowl.
Through Up With People, Mark met his first wife and, after 4 years on the road, and a year in Hawaii, they settled in her hometown of Olympia, Washington. In 1987, the couple adopted an eight-month-old little boy, Kalani David.
After settling in Olympia, Mark began a career at Twin County Credit Union, a place where he formed lifelong friendships and had the opportunity to serve his community. Mark eventually transitioned to work with Aflac Insurance. He enjoyed the flexibility of his work, which gave him more time with family. He retired in January of 2023.
An incredibly talented musician, Mark chose to share his gift with the world through worship and church leadership. Mark was a vital member and leader of the worship team at First United Methodist Church of Olympia for more than 35 years. His beautiful voice, guitar melodies and kind smile will be deeply missed on Sunday mornings.
In 1993, Mark met the love of his life, Kristi. Mark and Kristi met through mutual friends as part of the Celebration Singers at church and immediately bonded over their love for music. On August 10, 1996, Mark and Kristi married in the presence of friends and family. In marriage, they joined their young families and together raised their three children, Kalani (Kelsey), Brea (Nathan) and Trenton (Hannah). They traveled, played, built a beautiful community, and made music together, but mostly they just enjoyed each other’s company. Mark was always Kristi’s greatest fan, and she his.
Mark was the ultimate cheerleader, always supportive of any activity that interested his wife, children, and grandchildren. He spent countless weekend mornings watching soccer, volleyball, basketball, and baseball games, and attended many (surely sub-par) musical concerts and recitals. If Kristi wanted to watch a chick-flick on a Saturday night, he was the first to cuddle up on the couch. He loved nothing more than an evening spent around the table playing scrabble, cribbage, or Yahtzee with his family.
Mark was an avid and talented golfer, but his golf partners remember him for his humility, positivity, and constant encouragement. In his first year of retirement, Mark proudly golfed more than 100 days, mostly at the Tumwater Valley Golf Course with a golf community he loved dearly. In 2011, Mark proudly volunteered with the rest of his siblings at the Sony Open golf tournament in Hawaii, and on Sunday had the privilege of marshaling and walking alongside the players.
Ohana means family in Hawaiian, and to Mark, Ohana was everything. One of six children, he thoughtfully fostered relationships with all his siblings. He cherished days spent with his brothers and sisters, as well as his many cousins, aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews.
Of all his titles, Mark was most proud to be called Papa. His grandchildren were truly his life’s greatest joy. Mark was a playful, kind, silly and engaged grandfather to his grandchildren. He would gladly jump at the opportunity to babysit and would sit on facetime for hours just to talk to the kids and be part of their day. He enjoyed making up games, playing the ukulele, riding bikes and flying kites with Ryan, Nora, Petey and Avery and was anxiously awaiting the arrival of his newest granddaughter in June. His grandchildren will know without a doubt that they were his favorite people on earth.
Mark was preceded in death by his parents, Santiago Bunda Sr., and Esther Miguel Bunda, and his grandparents Maruicio and Restituto Bunda and Matias and Lorraine Miguel.
His memory and music will live on in his beloved wife, Kristi Bunda; his sons, Kalani David Bunda (Kelsey) and Trenton Fluetsch (Hannah); his daughter, Brea Seaburg (Nathan); his grandchildren, Ryan, Nora, Petey and Avery; his brothers, Robert Bunda (Gail), Santiago Bunda Jr. (Sue), and Paul Matias Bunda (Joyce); his sisters, Tonilyn Nalani Bunda and SandiLee Momi Minimishin (George); as well as countless loved and cherished aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, and nephews.
Gone far too soon, we are comforted knowing he spent his last day on earth doing the things he loved most, spending time with Ohana, enjoying golf and good food, and sharing the gift of music. He never missed an opportunity to tell others he loved them and valued their time together. We can all learn from how freely he shared his love, remembering that each day is a gift. Mark will be deeply missed by his family, friends, church family, and all those who ever had the pleasure of hearing his voice.
A celebration of life will be held at the First United Methodist Church of Olympia on Saturday April 27, 2024, at 2:00 pm.
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Kenneth Yeo - Unknown - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Kenneth “Ken” Yeo, resident of Olympia, Washington, died April 14, 2024, after a short but ravaging illness.
He was born in Auckland, New Zealand, in1937, the elder child of Frank and Kathleen Yeo. He grew up on the edge of the sea and learned early to love sailing – a love that he sustained all his life.
At age 16, Ken joined the Royal New Zealand Air Force as a Boy Entrant; then he spent the next few years completing his education and technical training as an aircraft mechanic and sheetmetal worker. For more than two decades, he served as a senior NCO at air bases in New Zealand and around the Pacific, including Singapore and Fiji.
In 1973, while on a joint New Zealand-American military exercise in Hawaii, Ken met his future wife, Ann Friel, who was a U.S. Army nurse based in Honolulu. After Ken returned to New Zealand, they courted mostly long distance, finally wed in Honolulu in 1974, then returned together to Wellington, New Zealand, where Ken served the last few years of his military career.
In 1977, he retired from the New Zealand military and returned with Ann to the States, where she resumed her career in the U.S. Army. During those years, they lived in Colorado, Kentucky, Texas, and Germany. When she retired from the Army, they agreed that Ken would decide where they moved next. As Ann told it, Ken – the avid sailor – opened one of his sailing magazines and said, “This Puget Sound area looks good.” The area had jobs for them both, so they moved to Olympia, Washington, in 1991; both promptly fell in love with the Pacific Northwest. After living in this country for 18 years, Ken finally, proudly went through the process of naturalization, and became a U.S. citizen in 2005. (He retained his New Zealand citizenship as well.) For several decades after he left his military career, Ken continued to work in aviation, mostly at U.S. Army bases, working with helicopters. He finally retired in 2014. In his retirement years, he fully indulged his life-long passion of sailing – plying the waters of Puget Sound on his beloved sailboat, Blind Faith. Ken and Ann both acknowledged that sailing was more his love than hers, but she learned how to help him with the boat, and she mastered the galley so as to feed him well when they were underway!
In 2011, Ken joined the Olympia Unitarian Universalist Congregation (which Ann had joined a decade earlier). The strong community, the good works, and the rational theology kept him there.
Ken was preceded in death by his parents in New Zealand, several decades earlier; also by his younger sister, Sally, in Australia in 2023.
He is survived by his wife Ann of Olympia; his sister’s sons in Australia; several generations of Yeo cousins in New Zealand and Australia; and some of his wife’s family in Virginia and Arizona.
On Sunday June 2, 2024, at 2:30 p.m., there will be a memorial service at Olympia Unitarian Universalist Congregation, 2306 East End St. NW, Olympia, WA 98502. The service will be accessible via Zoom at the church’s website, ouuc.org.
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Barbara Frances Perez - September 10, 1932 - April 12, 2024

Departed: 04/12/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Barbara Frances “Barb” Perez passed away peacefully on Friday, April 12, 2024, at her home surrounded by her loved ones. She was born on September 10, 1932, to Harold and Mildred Greenhalgh in Providence, Rhode Island.
Barbara and her family moved from Providence in December 1944 and made their way across the country by train to Tacoma, Washington, where her father took a position as an Armorer at the Mt. Rainier Ordinance Depot. She graduated from Lincoln High School in 1950. She met her future husband, Greg, at the Crescent Ballroom in Tacoma. They married a short time later on November 12, 1954, and raised their three children, all graduating from her alumni! They then moved to their home in Puyallup in 1978, where they resided for 43+ years. Barb belonged to several local clubs, her favorites being dance club and garden club! They moved in May 2021 to Bonaventure Senior Assisted Living.
Barbara is survived by her husband of nearly 70 years, Gregorio “Greg,” her daughter, Maureen Westgard; her sons, Glen Perez (Susan Evans), Gary (Jodi) Perez; four grandchildren; and three great-grandchildren. She is predeceased by her father and mother, Harold and Mildred Greenhalgh; and her brothers, Hudson “Huddy” Greenhalgh and Robert “Bob” Greenhalgh.
A private memorial service will be held April 30, 2024, at Tahoma National Cemetery in Kent, Washington. The family would like to thank Bonaventure Senior Assisted Living and their entire staff who they consider to be their extended family; MultiCare Home Health Hospice, “Stefani” you will always be a part of the Perez family; Visiting Angels “Maria” and “Lucy,” who helped the family navigate through it all! “We will be forever grateful. Barbara loved every one of you!”
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Barbara M. Eliason - November 21, 1937 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Barbara M. Eliason passed away of leukemia and age on April 6, 2024, in Olympia, Washington, her home since 1968. She was born November 21, 1937, to Phillip and Florence Johnson in Everett, Washington.
Barbara graduated from Everett High School and earned a BA and MA in elementary education from Pacific Lutheran University in Tacoma, Washington. Professionally, she was an elementary educator and principal throughout the Olympia School District and beyond.
Barbara married Leo E. Eliason on August 20, 1960. She loved kids, albums, and church activities. She was a member of Spanaway Lutheran Church (1960-1968) and Good Shepherd Lutheran Church (1968-2024).
She is survived by her husband, Leo E. Eliason; son, Stephen I. Eliason; daughter, Darcy K. Eliason; five grandchildren; and three great-grandchildren. She was predeceased by her grandparents, Pa and Ma Harstad; and parents, Phil and Florence Johnson.
Memorial donations may be made to Lutheran World Relief online by clicking HERE; Pacific Lutheran University online by clicking HERE; Good Shepherd Lutheran Church, 1601 North St. SE, Olympia, WA 98501; or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital by clicking HERE.
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Buddy Brian Hughes - July 02, 1937 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Buddy Brian Hughes passed away of natural causes on April 6, 2024, in Olympia, Washington. He was born July 2, 1937, to James Hughes and Elsie Louise (Teitzel) Hughes in Mineral,
Washington. As a young man, Buddy resided in Washington, Oregon, and California. He lived in Rouses Point, New York (1985-1991) and Centralia, Washington (1991-2022) before moving to Olympia 18 months ago. Buddy graduated from Centralia High School in 1956. He was married to his first wife, Janice
(Adams) Hughes, for 15 years, and then married Nellie (Chance) Jordan in 1976. They were married until her passing in 2006. Buddy was funny, charming, and easy to love. He collected HO-scale trucks, stamps, and baseball cards. He loved to play cribbage and the dice game, Farkle. He also loved country music. Buddy was a member of the Centralia Eagles for many years and served as president for a
year. He is survived by his sons, Curtis Hughes, and Matthew Hughes; daughters, Cindy (Hughes) Pedersen, Kimberly (Hughes) Sanchez, and Debbie (Jordan) Adair; 16 grandchildren; and six great-grandchildren. He was predeceased by his wives; sons, Brian Hughes, and Edward Jordan;
and grandson, Cody Hughes-Miranda. A Celebration of Life will be held May 4, 2024, from noon to 3:00 p.m. at 10131 Coachman
Lane SE, Olympia, WA 98501.
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Eleanor L. Sheldon - April 29, 1929 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Eleanor L. Sheldon passed away of natural causes on April 6, 2024, in Olympia, Washington. Over the years, she also resided in Beaverton and Eugene, Oregon; Albuquerque, New Mexico; Tumbling Shoals, Arkansas; Philadelphia and Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania; Laurel Springs, New Jersey; and Chicago, Illinois.
She was born April 29, 1929, to Charles and Anna Owen in Chicago, where she graduated from high school and married William H. Sheldon on June 28, 1947.
In addition to being a loving wife and mother, Eleanor worked in a variety of jobs, including keypunch operator, computer operator, waitress, salesclerk, hostess, mail clerk, press operator, and ballpoint pen assembler.
She had a great sense of humor and infectious laugh that could fill a room. She loved taking walks, watching sunsets on the beach, traveling both abroad and in the U.S. (having visited every state), and flying with her husband in small private planes. One of their favorite outings was to fly to a nearby town and have breakfast before returning home.
Eleanor loved playing slot machines, which she always won! She coached her daughter’s volleyball team, took home bowling trophies, knitted and crocheted, loved singing and dancing, made her own greeting cards, and enjoyed working on puzzles. She also kept books for their flying club and local fire department, volunteered at the USO during World War II, and was an active member of TOPS when she was in Arkansas.
Eleanor lived a full life and will be greatly missed and lovingly remembered by her family and friends.
She is survived by her husband, William H. Sheldon of Olympia; sons, Thomas A. Sheldon of Lancaster, Kentucky, and Robert H. Sheldon of Olympia; daughter, Jean A. Sheldon of Springfield, Illinois; two grandchildren; and one great-grandchild. She was predeceased by her parents; sisters, Marie Day and Kay Albensi; and son, William C. Sheldon, who was killed in the Vietnam War in 1968.
Memorial donations may be made to PAWS through the mail at P.O. Box 3771, Seattle, WA 98124-3771; by phone at 425-412-4041; or online by clicking HERE.
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Karen Lea Zabriskie - Unknown - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Loving Tribute to Karen Lea Zabriskie by daughter, Kris Z. Olson
As I write this, I am still grieving the loss of Mom as I’m watching Dad’s rapid decline. Besides his own health issues, I believe his rapid decline may be attributable to a broken heart in the loss of his caring wife of 68 years.
I share my treasured brothers’ inspiring memories about Mom’s many good qualities and strengths shared in their letters and poems below. One of the wonderful repercussions of us having to come together to manage Mom’s and Dad’s health issues and living arrangements together these last few months has been that we've established a much closer bond in our later years. I am so thankful for that and look forward to more time with my extended family.
In the following obituary, I shared one of the parts of mom that gives me the most joy and the visual picture clearly lives on in my heart…Mom and her sand dollars. Since Mom and Dad spent many summer months on the Washington Coast, I had the privilege of going to the beach with her often. Not much could match her delight in taking off her shoes and combing the beach for sand dollars. She would bring some back to Arizona where she would share them with the school children and people in Sierra Winds where they lived. She set up an inspirational display of the sand dollar broken in half with the doves of peace emerging, signifying the spreading of God’s goodwill and peace. I will hold her in my heart as someone who made it her goal to spread goodwill and peace.
Thank you, Mom. You will always be in our hearts. Obituary of Karen Lea Zabriskie
Karen Lea Zabriskie passed into the peace and promise of the Lord’s grace on April 4, 2024. She was comforted by family love and song during her difficult health journey home in the final months. She had a long, happy, meaningful life, providing care and service as a registered nurse and pastor’s wife. Born August 1935 in Chicago, Illinois, to Mabel and Adolf Benson, she is survived by her husband, Richard; three sons, Mark (Michelle) Zabriskie, Steven (Amber) Zabriskie, and Scott (Cindy) Zabriskie; and a daughter, Kristine Zabriskie (Steve) Olson; eight grandchildren, Alex, Rachel (Ben), Kelli (Ryan), Aaron (Caleigh), Isaac, Luke (Kaylee), Christopher (special step-grandson), Annalise, and Peter; five great-grandchildren, Cooper, Finn, Lucy, Jude, and Gus; and sister, Marion Snow.
Karen met her husband, Richard Zabriskie, while she was attending nursing school at Augustana Hospital in Chicago and he was attending McCormick Theological Seminary there, making calls on the sick at the hospital. During their 68 years of marriage, she filled her role as a pastor’s wife in an exceptional way by loving and caring for those in the congregation and beyond. She took her nursing profession seriously and her patients and friends reported that they experienced great comfort under her competent care. She enjoyed and organized travel for herself and groups, knit Christmas stockings for her family, loved camping and RVing, and regularly visiting her family around the country, rarely missing a special event for her children and grandchildren. She was astute at handling finances and beating everyone at card games like pinochle and Nerts.
One of her favorite activities later in life was walking the Oregon and Washington beaches in the summer, collecting sand dollars. She would bring them back to Arizona where she would share them with the school children and people in the retirement facility where she lived, setting up an inspirational display of a sand dollar broken in half with the doves of peace emerging, signifying the spreading of God’s goodwill and peace and that is how she lived her life.
The family would encourage any gifts given in her memory to be made to Habitat for Humanity, Central Arizona, habitatcaz.org, to help build a West Valley home for those in need, an activity that she and Richard volunteered for and proudly supported. Tribute from son, Scott Zabriskie
Our Mom, Karen, was a champion of behind-the-scenes action, with a natural aptitude for hard work and a true servant heart. She naturally and masterfully offered the most challenging kind of professional care as a registered nurse at hospitals in three different locations throughout her career. Karen had a “no-bones” attitude and a standout reputation for getting the job done. She made her start in Chicago, where she crossed paths on the job with Dad, the Rev. Richard Zabriskie, while he was making his calls. They fell in love and were married on a 1955 summer day in Chicago. They moved to Milwaukee and settled there to begin a lifetime of dedicated ministry in the church. Three sons and a daughter were born to her there and were forever blessed to call her Mother.
In 1970, Karen and Richard followed the Lord’s call to Grand Forks, North Dakota, where Karen’s exemplary nursing care continued amidst the ministry and family life that included fully supporting all four kids through college. Karen demonstrated unmatched skill, love and dedication for her patients, as she tackled every difficult situation with fearless tenacity, and never hesitated to get her hands dirty. At church, serving the people was always her special purpose, whether a pancake breakfast for 200, a dinner party for a dozen, or Meals on Wheels for those in need.
At home, she made raising a family seem easy, and never failed to deliver a hearty and tasty meal. Frequent overdoses of her trademark Swedish pancakes and perfect homemade birthday pies always garnered repeated praise. Later on, the grandkids couldn’t ever get enough of her uncomplicatedly yummy grilled-cheese sandwiches.
Karen hand-knit well over 20 artful Christmas stockings for every member of her extended family while her fingers would still allow it. Family birthdays were always marked with a surprise phone call birthday song serenade and a $2 dollar bill with a birthday card. Somehow, she magically kept house and managed daily affairs too, all of this graciously, without any complaint. She loved to camp with her family and friends in the summertime and could often be found in a beach chair with a pretty hat and a good book, water skiing with the gang, or playing late night cards by lantern light after the ritual of evening folk songs, accompanied by Richard’s rousing guitar strumming campfire favorites and fireside smores.
In 1985, Karen and Richard answered another call and relocated to Sun City, Arizona, for the final sequel of their ministry in the Presbyterian Church. Karen traveled with Richard to many beautiful places, including three tours of the Holy Land, much of Europe, and Australia. She walked countless beaches barefoot in search of sand dollars that held symbols of God’s promised love for his people. She enjoyed golden years of fellowship with Richard and their many friends and family at their modest but comfortable desert home. She loved photos of family visits marked by the ever-growing palms and cacti in the yard and picking fresh oranges and grapefruits from their own trees and making the freshest squeezed juice to share. She knew how to enjoy the good times, but always came straight back to the Lord’s work. To know her is to realize that if everyone could follow her ethic, no one would ever be neglected or go hungry.
Undoubtedly, the Lord is well pleased with her, and warmly invites her to a seat at His eternal banquet feast. She surely will find her way behind the scenes there once again to continue to humbly serve and honor Him. The image of our devoted and extraordinary loving mother is indelibly printed on my heart. Her love for life lives on in us and we’ll treasure her in our memories until we are one day all at the same table together again. Until then, Mom, we will hold dearly to your love, and picture you strolling heaven’s finest beaches with our Lord and His sand dollar doves that welcome you home. We forever love you! Poem written by son, Mark Zabriskie Mom I live a precious life From your nurture, from your care I learned to be considerate, Compassionate, and fair You hauled me off to church And praised the lord with song You guided and prepared I learned my right from wrong You worked and managed home And healed with nursing skills Entertained and hosted friends And even paid the bills I know you’re now at peace Playing Pinochle and Nerts I’ll miss you and I love you Without you really hurts Rest in Peace
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June Fay Olson - January 04, 1923 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: June, beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend died April 4, 2024, after complications from a fall. She was born on January 4, 1923, to Fred and Clara Schott in Snohomish, Washington. June and her twin sister, Carol May (The Schott Twins) were the last surviving children. The family was a large one; it was a family brought up in the love of their Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. June knew from a very young age that faith and love were the foundation of the home. When the twins were only eight years old, their father died, leaving the family without an income. Even though the future was uncertain, June’s mother reassured the children that their faith and hard work would see them through this difficult time.
The twins attended parochial school and went on to graduate from Snohomish High School. While in school, June fell in love with Gil Olson and became engaged at 18. Their marriage was delayed many years; Gil left the university to join the armed forces in service to his country during World War II. June helped to maintain her mother’s home and drove the largest forklift loading ships in Seattle. She prayed Gil would return safely home; Gil was wounded terribly and the men with him didn’t survive. After a lengthy hospital stay, Gil was restored to health. They were married shortly after he returned home. The newlyweds settled upstairs at Mother Schott’s home on Avenue C in Snohomish. Three children were born and the fourth was on the way when Gil was called up again to serve his country. June was able to get a hardship discharge; the last child was born after he got back.
Work took the family and Mother Schott to Bremerton for three years; they were members of the Memorial Lutheran Church. In 1958, the family settled in Lacey, where June spent the remainder of her years. They joined Trinity Lutheran Church in Olympia and were faithful attendees. This move proved challenging because Gil’s business plans did not happen. Not knowing how this would all sort itself out but trusting that it would, once again through prayer and hard work, they made it. Their home was busy and orderly with so much activity and was open to relatives to come and stay when they had nowhere else to live. Their belief in helping one another was as natural as breathing air.
Over the years, June made it a point to stay in touch with both sides of the family and her many friends, visiting in person to let them know she cared about them. She looked for ways to do something special when important dates came up in their lives.
When the family started their own business, which required extensive daily travel, they had a second home in Vancouver, Washington, and attended Grace Lutheran Church. From time to time, they stayed in Lacey if their business was further north. For 20 years, June continued to make frequent trips to Lacey to visit and see her church family; June and Gil were charter members of Faith Lutheran Church.
When her oldest sister needed help and could no longer live by herself, June would drive back and forth every weekend from Vancouver to Seattle. After a time, it was necessary to move her sister to Vancouver where June could more readily see to her needs.
June was very present in the grandchildren’s lives, taking them to fun places and on short trips. For a period of time, she and sometimes Gil were daily caretakers of the two youngest grandchildren, taking them on walks to the park as toddlers and later to and from school. The teachers and staff knew June and her red van. June would sometimes take the children to what she referred to as a “picnic breakfast” at McDonald’s; they would eat in the van before going to school.
The family dissolved the business; June and Gil returned in 1999 to live in their Lacey home. June would drive to Vancouver to see her children and grandchildren and to Spokane where some of the family had moved. June was a devoted Bible student and began and ended each day in prayer and thanksgiving. She wished her family and friends God’s blessings.
When June became older and needed a little help getting around, she didn’t hesitate to use a cane and later a walker. If it was a beautiful day, you might catch sight of her in her red van getting coffee or out for a drive in the countryside. She had weekly what she called “drive-bys” where she didn’t get out of her vehicle but drove to see her niece, Roxanne, and others. She never tired of this activity. When longer drives to see family and friends were no longer possible, she would ride shotgun with a family member. She wrote cards and phoned often to keep in touch with family and friends. Her neighbor of many years in Vancouver, Naoto Ilzuka (her Japanese son) of Tokyo was still in communication with her on her 101st birthday in January.
Gil passed in December 2010; Jeffrey passed in May 2011. June leaves behind grandson, Christopher Olson of Vancouver; granddaughter, Tracy Olson Bevilacqua (Tony) of Vancouver; along with great-granddaughters, Jessica and Hanna Bevilacqua. She is survived by her three daughters, Cheryle May Finnigan of Olympia, Stephanie June Olson of Vancouver, and Dian Lynn Olson Cogdill of Spokane; her granddaughter, Austin Lynn Mongan (Kyle), and great-granddaughter, Olivia June; and grandson, Gary R. Cogdill, also living in Spokane. Though we grieve her, we know she is at peace and with her loved ones who have gone before her.
June had a special place in her heart for children. She often said, “little people were so very interesting.” Please feel free to express your heartfelt condolences should you wish to do so by donating to Faith Lutheran School or to the charity of your choosing that represents your remembrance of her.
The family wants to thank the many family members and friends who were able to see her before she died and for the cards and calls supporting her hope for recovery. June enjoyed all of it. We would also like to thank the health-care professionals at Panorama C & R who cared for June during her final days. They took such great care of her.
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Ronald Hubert Secrist - January 10, 1936 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Ronald Hubert Secrist passed away of Pulmonary Fibrosis on April 3, 2024, in Olympia, Washington, his home of 50 years. He was born January 10, 1936, to Hubert and Lilliebell Secrist in Olympia. Over the years, he also resided in Kirkland, Washington, San Mateo, California, Tarzana, California, Morristown, New Jersey, and Marietta, Georgia.
Ron was the 3rd generation of his family to be born in the Schneider family home on West Bay Drive. He told endless stories of his adventures fishing, walking on the log boom (even though he couldn’t swim), rowing his boat, and soaring down the hill in his wagon - all of it accompanied by his beloved dog, Chow. He grew up helping his father, Hubert Secrist, build numerous homes and churches in the Olympia area. As a teen, he worked at the Richfield service station on 4th Avenue for $0.75 per hour. While there, a brief conversation with a customer, who encouraged him to attend college, changed the trajectory of his life.
Ron graduated from Olympia High School in the Class of 1954 and earned a BA in Business Administration from the University of Washington in 1959.
He married Marilyn Ruth Brincken on June 14, 1958, in Seattle, Washington.
Ron had a career in Life Insurance spanning 20 years with Safeco Pacific Standard (Assistant VP), Equity Funding Inc. (Assistant VP), Banker’s Life Insurance (VP), and American Agency Life (VP and Assistant to the president). He was also responsible for discovering and reporting the greatest insurance scandal in the history of the USA (Equity Funding Inc.) in 1973. Multiple people were jailed as a result of his act of integrity and sacrifice. His selfless acts culminated in an SEC investigation that shut down Equity Funding.
Thereafter, he and his wife opened a retail and wholesale lighting fixture business, Capital Lighting, and antique importing business, Abbey Antiques, in Olympia. Ron finished his career with the Washington State Dept. of Labor & Industries and retired in 2005. Ron’s hobbies and interests were many and varied! They included teaching Bible classes, oil painting, clock repair, gardening, butterfly collecting, antique restoration, woodworking, writing, ocean cruises, and watching Dr. Pol. His was a founding family of Evergreen Christian Center
Ron is survived by his wife, Marilyn Ruth Secrist; son, Steve Secrist, and his wife, Julie; daughter, Wanda Stewart, and her husband, John; daughter, Julie Vavrinec, and husband, Dan; 11 grandchildren; 17 great-grandchildren; and brother, Daniel Secrist.
He was predeceased by his sister, Patricia Sanford; parents, Hubert and Lilliebell Secrist; grandparents, Jacob and Gertrude Secrist and Albert and Hattie Schneider.
Services will be held Saturday, April 27, 2024, 2:00 p.m. at Evergreen Christian Community, 1000 Blake Lake Blvd SW Olympia, WA 98502.
“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day—and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing.” --2 Timothy 4:7-8
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Ann E. Miller - January 06, 1947 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Ann E. Miller passed away of heart and kidney failure on April 2, 2024, in Olympia, Washington. She had been living at The Firs Independent Living Residence the past seven and a half years. She was born January 6, 1947, to William D. and Elizabeth (Conlin) Baird at Maxwell AFB, Alabama.
Ann finished her GED and earned a BA in Social Services from Clover Park Technical College. Professionally, she worked for Washington DSHS for 10 years and was Admin Staffer with the State of Washington for five years, until injured on the job. She also was a real estate salesperson with several companies.
Ann loved to sing and performed with the “Sweet Adelines” for six years in the ‘70s and ‘80s as the lead singer. She loved traveling; favorite trips include Alaska and Mexico with her significant other, James Armstrong, former U.S. Marine and IT Tech with the Washington State Attorney General’s office. In addition, Ann loved being “on the water,” whether Hood Canal, Ocean Shores, Seaside or Acapulco, Mexico. She was a “seafood fanatic.” She also loved going to casinos. In her youth, she belonged to the Girl Scouts in Tacoma, Washington.
Ann is survived by her brothers, L.J. Michael Baird of Colorado and William Patrick Baird of Olympia; and sister, Dawn K. Chastain of Olympia. She was predeceased by father, William D. Baird (August 1953) and mother, Elizabeth Ann (Conlin) Baird (September 1974).
No services were held. Ann’s ashes were spread over the water in Brinnon, Washington.
Memorial donations may be made to her favorite organizations, Wounded Warriors and ASPCA.
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Joseph Michael Trumble - August 03, 1958 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Joseph Michael Trumble, 65, passed away March 28, 2024, in Olympia, Washington. He was born August 3, 1958, in Watseka, Illinois, to Arthur and Mardelle Trumble. Joseph resided in Watseka until 1978, when he moved with his parents and immediate family to Rochester, Washington.
Joseph loved the outdoors and enjoyed hunting and fishing with his family. He loved watching westerns and WWE wrestling.
He is survived by his brothers, Walter (Carol) Trumble of Morton Washington, Artie (Pam) Trumble of Rochester; sister-in-law, Kim Trumble of Rochester; and special family friend, Violet Tretiak of Morton; as well as several nieces and nephews; and his beloved yellow labrador, Bear.
He was preceded in passing by his father, Arthur Trumble Sr.; mother, Mardelle (Meyer) Trumble; brother, Terry Trumble; infant brother, Steven; and stepbrothers, Patrick Trumble and Charles Trumble.
Memorial services and burial will be held at a later date in Watseka, Illinois.
Memorial donations may be made to The ARC of Iroquois County, 700 East Elm St., Watseka, IL 60970.
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George Vincent Somnis - July 11, 1937 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: George Vincent Somnis passed away peacefully on March 28, 2024, at St. Peter Hospital in Olympia, Washington, surrounded by his wife and three children. After a battle with Alzheimer’s disease, he is now at peace.
He was born on July 11, 1937, to George and Margaret Somnis in Lacey, Washington. He grew up with his cherished older sister, Patsy, by his side. It was a carefree childhood filled with love and laughter. He was a wonderful son and took the best care of his dad and mom as they aged right to the end.
George will be remembered by many as an All-American football star at Olympia High School (graduated in 1956); as a multiple year two-way starter at Washington State University (graduated in 1960); as a teacher and coach (football and wrestling) in Mabton, Washington, and then doing the same at Timberline High School in Lacey, Washington, for the next 40+ years. He was a mentor to countless students and athletes over the years and always led by example.
George enjoyed his life very much and was a true blessing to those who knew him well. He loved to hunt, fish, and watch his sons compete in sports throughout the years. Most of all, he loved his family deeply. He was always present, engaged, and consistent with his wife and children. He was the essence of fatherhood.
George’s memory will continue to live on in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing him.
He is survived by his loving wife, Mary Jane Somnis; three sons, Michael, Mark and Matthew; five grandchildren, Nicole, Annaliese, Clay, Cooper, and Cal; older sister, Patsy Sundene; as well as many other extended family members whom he loved so much.
The family extends their deepest gratitude for the outpouring of love, support, and condolences they have received during this difficult time. Your kindness and presence have been a source of comfort to them all.
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Elaine Zanghi Bowden - August 15, 1942 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Elaine Zanghi Bowden passed away March 26, 2024, in Seattle, Washington. She was born August 15, 1942, to Joseph Zanghi and Grace Hontz in Angola, New York. She lived in Elma, Washington, the past four years and also resided in Gowanda, New York, and Silver Creek, New York.
She graduated from Angola High School in 1960 and was a professional genealogist, researcher, and master gardener. She also loved teaching and cooking; she always had a place for anyone who was hungry or sad at her table. She was a member of the Elma Eagles, Sons of Italy/Tacoma, and A.A.
Elaine was witty, crafty, and spiritual. Being Scilian, she loved sharing the stories of old ancestors and their antics. She especially loved sharing the stories with the next generation.
She is survived by her son, Brian Hudak; daughters, Sandra Kozlowski and Christine Giese; eight grandchildren; seven great-grandchildren; and brother, Gary Zanghi. She was preceded in death by her parents; and husband, Daryl Bowden.
A reception will be held Friday, April 26, 2024, from 2:00 p.m. to 5:00 p.m. at South Sound Manor, 455 North St. SE, Olympia, WA 98501. This will be a potluck where we will share gifts from Elaine and memories.
Memorial donations may be made to the AA Central Service Office, P.O. Box 2407, James A. Farley Station, New York, NY 10116-2407 (make checks payable to AA General Service Board) or online by clicking HERE; or to the Elma Senior Citizen Center, 100 W. Main St., Elma, WA 98541.
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Edna (Perlinger) Kilmer Thomas - June 25, 1932 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Edna Theresa (Perlinger) Kilmer Thomas, age 91, died on March 25, 2024, in Olympia, Washington, after several years living peacefully with Alzheimer’s disease in the care of her children. She was born in Elsie, Nebraska, on June 25, 1932, the daughter of Mary (Fellner) and Paul Perlinger III. She grew up on the family wheat farm in Elsie. Her father and three of his brothers settled neighboring homesteads so Edna had 28 first cousins nearby as well as six siblings. She remembered many hours of milking cows and pulling weeds, largely to avoid the indoor work. Edna attended St. Patrick’s High School in North Platte and graduated from Paxton High School. With her first husband, James Kilmer, she lived in New York, California, Rhode Island, and Kitsap County, Washington, before moving to Arlington, Washington, in 1965.
Committed to her faith, Edna was a member of Immaculate Conception Catholic Church in Arlington, serving on the parish council and in many other roles. She worked at Cascade District Court for 22 years. After retirement, she became the director of the Arlington Community Food Bank, where she had volunteered for many years.
Along with raising eight children, Edna had many interests and was usually willing to try something new. At home, she was known for her prowess with jigsaw puzzles, knitting, and gardening. She loved the natural beauty of the Pacific Northwest and enjoyed camping, hiking, coaching softball, and watching several generations of children’s sports. In the 1960s, she won the Washington State women’s archery championship. She took up running on her 50th birthday, eventually winning many races in her age group and completing marathons in Seattle, Olympia and Hawaii. She loved travel and adventure, taking many road trips across the U.S. and Canada and visiting Japan, Israel, Switzerland, Austria, and other European countries. Edna married Myron Thomas in 1999 and enjoyed exploring the Southwest in their RV, camping with their large families, and cruising to Alaska.
Edna is survived by her children, Toni (Brian), Sonnie (Ted), Joyce (Stephen), Dan (Patty), Amy (Mike), Pat (Marty); many grandchildren and great grandchildren; and her sister, Clara Wamsley. She was predeceased by her husbands, Myron Thomas and James Jay Kilmer, Sr.; her sons, Keith Allen Kilmer (Tiffanie) and James Jay Kilmer, Jr.; her parents; and her siblings, Marian, Paul IV, Bill, Lucille, and Martha.
A graveside service will be held Saturday, April 27, 2024, at 1:00 p.m. at the Arlington Municipal Cemetery, with reception immediately following.
In remembrance of Edna’s life, the family asks that any charitable donations in her honor be made to the Arlington Community Food Bank, 19118 63rd Avenue NE, Arlington, WA 98223.
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Marilyn J. (Gibbons) Dumbleton - Unknown - March 17, 2024

Departed: 03/17/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Marilyn J. (Gibbons) Dumbleton, 93, of Lacey, Washington, and formerly of West End, North Carolina, and Geneva, New York, passed away peacefully in her sleep at Panorama Convalescent & Rehabilitation Center in Lacey on Sunday, March 17, 2024. Marilyn was the daughter of the late Lester and Mabel Jackson of Geneva, New York.
Marilyn was a graduate of Geneva High School and Potsdam University, where she received her Bachelor’s Degree in Music. She taught music at Geneva Junior High until she received her Teaching Certification at SUNY Geneseo to teach grades kindergarten through sixth grade. She taught fourth grade at Prospect Avenue Elementary School in Geneva until she and her husband, Jack, retired to move to West End, North Carolina.
Marilyn was an avid golfer and loved to work in her garden. She also sang in the church choir along with a women’s barbershop quartet. She served the homeless population through West End Presbyterian Church in West End, North Carolina, and also tutored the children of migrant families after school at the church.
She is survived by a son, James (Mary) Gibbons of Olympia; a daughter, Cheryl Gibbons Woodington of Olympia; and three grandchildren, Katie, Lucas and Ian Gibbons; along with several nieces and nephews. She was the sister of the late Barbara Young and Helen Lovley.
She is now reunited with her husband, Jack, and their beloved dog, Polly. She will be missed.
Her family held a Celebration of Life for both Marilyn and Jack when their ashes were placed together at Masonic Memorial Park in Tumwater, Washington.
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Robert William Turner - June 14, 1954 - March 15, 2024

Departed: 03/15/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Robert William “Bill” Turner passed away of cancer on March 15, 2024, in Olympia, Washington, his home of 67 years. He was born June 14, 1954, to William and Wava Berg Turner in Centralia, Washington.
Bill graduated from Tumwater High School in 1972 and attended South Puget Sound Community College. He married Sheryl Feldmeier on June 22, 1973, in Olympia. He worked for Setina Mfg. Co. from 1973 to 2018.
Bill loved motorcycles, camping, trains, his river property, the ocean, geography, and reading. He also loved “Jeopardy” and rarely missed a question. He was Road Captain for the Warrior BEARS (Bikers Ending Abuse Repression Shame).
He is survived by his wife, Sheryl Turner of Olympia; son, Bill (Tanya) Turner of Rochester, Washington; grandchildren, Skyler and Haden; brother, Sam Turner of Olympia; brother-in-law, Jerry (Deanna) Feldmeier of Olympia; sister, Karen Bland of Elma, Washington; sister-in-law, Sandi Haerling of Raymond, Washington; and numerous nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents; and sister, Kathy (Lee) Cox.
Services will be held Saturday, April 13, 2024, 3:30 p.m. at the Olympia Elks Lodge, 1818 4th Ave. East, Olympia, WA 98506.
Memorial donations may be made to the Warrior BEARS, PO Box 704, Olympia, WA 98507, email: info@thewarriorbears.com.
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James Holbrook Reynolds - October 06, 1924 - March 13, 2024

Departed: 03/13/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: James Holbrook “Jim” Reynolds passed away on March 13, 2024, at Panorama in Lacey, Washington. Born October 6, 1924, he grew up in Aberdeen, Washington, and graduated from Weatherwax High School in 1942.
Following a short time at Whitman College in Walla Walla, Washington, he joined the U.S. Army in 1943 and saw combat duty as an infantryman in the European Theater of Operations. He was taken prisoner of war during the Battle of the Bulge in December 1944, and endured captivity at Stammlager XIII-C, Hammelburg, Bavaria, Germany. Liberated in late April 1945, and following his December 1945 Army discharge, he returned to the U.S.A. and re-enrolled at Whitman College, graduating in the Class of 1950 with a bachelor’s degree in business. Like so many of his generation, he almost never spoke of his wartime experience.
Moving back to his hometown of Aberdeen, he found employment at the West Coast Plywood Company, and on January 26, 1952, married Elizabeth Ann “Betty Ann” (Hoagland) Hansen. That union included two young children, Ann Elizabeth and Richard VanFleet. Jim and Betty Ann added daughters Barbara Lee, Susan Allyn, and Nancy Jane. In 1963, he went to work as a data manager for Mayr Brothers Logging Company in Hoquiam, Washington, working there until his 1986 retirement.
After Betty Ann passed away in June 1967, he wed Elsie Lane Barr a year later. Elsie’s son Eric Werner and daughter Sally Lane joined the family. Sharing a strong interest in historic homes and antique furnishings, Jim and Elsie in 1972 purchased the Lytle House, one of two large Victorian mansions in Hoquiam, Washington. Filling it with period furniture and other collections, they opened the home as a bed and breakfast, and enjoyed many years delivering hospitality to guests from the world over. That warm hospitality—highlighted by spectacular buttermilk hotcake breakfasts—earned the Lytle House a top rating in a popular guide to the best places on the West Coast and a tribute in the Los Angeles Times.
Following several years living in Holiday Valley near Olympia, Washington, in 1997 they moved into a custom home built on the site of a small rustic family cabin on the shore of Puget Sound’s Youngs Cove. Twenty years of quiet waterfront living followed, with all the blessings of family, neighbors and other friends, gardening, woodworking projects, and much more.
An injury sustained in an unfortunate 2017 mishap resulted in a move to Panorama, where Elsie, after 53 years together, passed away in December 2019. Over his years at Panorama, Jim Reynolds won the universal affection and respect of staff and fellow residents alike. First and foremost, Jim Reynolds was a good husband and father. He was also a friend to most everyone he encountered, and was considered a “doer.” He reveled in his large family and was a dedicated keeper of the rich history of the Reynolds and Kirkman families, from the earliest days of their role in the Washington Territory. There was almost no project he would not undertake, from home maintenance and repair, to handmade children’s toys that could be found under the Christmas tree, to production of small watercraft that saw duty on Youngs Cove. A stream of intricate cabinetry, gorgeous model boats, yard benches and much more flowed from his workshop, nearly always as gifts to family and friends. His well-developed sense of humor and quick wit were ever present, and he laughed loudly and often. He reliably dispatched birthday and Valentines Day cards, always signing “Love, DA.”
His quiet humility masked an intense pride in his large family, but he simply never spoke a word of his own accomplishments. The phrase “I did that” was just not in his vocabulary. His passing leaves a vast empty space in the many hearts that his life touched. He is survived by his children and extended family, Ann Reynolds, Dick (Joani) Reynolds, Barb (Jim) Dickinson, Susan (Dean) Hartman, Nancy (Paul) Hoffman, and Sally (Stephen) Riddle. Twelve grandchildren and fifteen great grandchildren are his legacy and hope for the future.
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Kenny Reid Jenson - August 20, 1932 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Kenny Reid Jenson passed away peacefully in his home, surrounded by family, on March 12, 2024, at the age of 91.
Kenny is survived by his wife of over 68 years, Marilyn; their three children, Tim Jenson, Lori Kent (Mark Kent) and Kathy Gardner (Paul Gardner); along with four wonderful grandchildren, Christopher Hall, Kenny Lockwood, Lydia Gardner and Joseph Gardner. He is also survived by his younger brother, Larry Jenson, and many nieces and nephews. He was an amazing husband, father, and grandfather. He loved every one of us deeply. His family was everything to him.
Preceding Kenny in death were his parents, Hank and Wanda Jenson; his sister, Vivian, and her husband, Ted; his brother, Ronnie; and his oldest brother and lifelong best friend, Gale.
Kenny was born on August 20, 1932, in Boise, Idaho. In 1943, his family moved to Tumwater, Washington, where his father, Henry “Hank” Jenson, purchased a little country store. It was at the corner of Israel Road and Littlerock Road in Tumwater, affectionately known as Hank’s Corner. Kenny graduated from Olympia High School in 1951. Kenny and Gale met Walt Willows and Marty Wicklund in high school and became fast friends. The four were inseparable for many years and remained lifelong friends. Unfortunately, Walt passed away more than 20 years ago.
Kenny joined the Air Force soon after he graduated from high school. During his enlistment in the USAF, he spent time at Clark Air Force Base in the Philippines, where he worked on communication lines. He was later stationed at Naselle Air Force Station (Radar Ridge) in Naselle, Washington. He met the love of his life, Marilyn Jean Wilson, at Mary’s, which was her brother Ralph's restaurant in Long Beach, while he was working on Mary’s car. He asked to drive Marilyn home but her father insisted that her brother drive them both instead.
Kenny was injured in an accident one night in February 1955, when he drove off an embankment while on his way to visit Marilyn in Ilwaco, Washington. He managed to climb out of the car and then crawl up the embankment to the road, before realizing that he hadn’t turned the headlights on so that someone driving by would see them. He crawled back down the embankment to the car, turning on the lights before crawling to the road once again-all with a broken back! He was fortunate that a nurse happened to be the first person to spot the wreckage. She stayed and cared for him until help arrived. He and Marilyn grew closer while he was recuperating in the hospital in a body cast. The rest, as they say, is history. They were married in Ilwaco, Washington, on June 25, 1955. After they married, Marilyn became close friends with Walt and Phyllis Willows and Marty and Marlene Wicklund, and spent time together frequently over the years.
From 1959 to 1986, Kenny, Hank and Gale started a family business called Capitol Auto Parts. The auto parts/salvage yard was successful and they all worked well together. Each of Kenny's children had a car rebuilt for them as soon as they were old enough to drive. He retired before he turned 50 and spent many years just being a great husband and father full time. After he retired, he continued to rebuild cars in his home shop.
For many years, Capitol Auto Parts sponsored a bowling team. Kenny would spend many Tuesday evenings bowling and drinking beer with Hank, Gale and Larry, along with his friends Walt Willows and Marty (Elmer) Wicklund. As time went by, the team members changed but they continued sponsoring the team for many years. They also sponsored a basketball team for several years.
Kenny and Marilyn would celebrate every anniversary by going to Reno, starting in 1966. They also loved going to Spirit Mountain Casino, Chinook Winds Casino Resort, and Quinault Beach Resort and Casino. After he could no longer drive long distances, he and Marilyn would go to the local casinos for lunch or breakfast every week with family and friends.
Kenny’s hobbies and interests were, first and foremost, being with his family. He built a camper, and the whole family enjoyed going camping, salmon fishing, and hunting with him. He passed along his love of the outdoors to his family. He loved hunting deer and elk, as well as pheasant and duck. He loved going crabbing with his nephew, Terry Adams, and his family. He especially enjoyed taking his grandkids. After crabbing, everyone would go over to his sister Vivian’s house to cook all the crab before they were taken home for dinner. When the weather was nice enough, he and his brothers would go golfing in the morning before they went to work. Another one of Kenny's favorite pastimes was watching Seattle Mariners games. There would be lots of cheering phone calls and commiserating during each and every game. Kenny had a wonderful sense of humor and always had family and friends cracking up. He loved making up his own words to whatever song was playing at the time. Of course, his lyrics were usually not appropriate for the public!
Kenny was known as a jokester and a goofball, but he was also a great listener. He always wanted to hear what was going on in your life. You could tell that you really mattered to him. He was very supportive and genuine with his grandkids. He treated everyone as his peer, regardless of their age. It was nice to be listened to in that way; he made you feel like he really cared about what you had to say.
He was a wonderful friend as well. He had one friend who was arrested for drunk driving on multiple occasions, and he would call Kenny in the middle of the night to bail him out. Kenny always did.
Kenny could figure out how to build anything. In the late ‘70s, he and Marilyn, with the help of family and friends, built their own home. They would spend 45 years together in that house. He taught his children how to be self-sufficient and to be able to work on their own homes and cars. His guidance and support will be missed.
Thanks to all the family and friends who helped out while Kenny’s health was declining. Kenny’s niece, Tammy Danmeyer, and her husband, Bill, were an amazing help and can’t be thanked enough. There were some part time caregivers but most of the care was done by Marilyn, with the help of Tim, Kathy, Paul, Lori, and Mark, as well as Tammy and Bill. Assured Hospice was an invaluable resource. While they were only with Kenny for a short time, they had a great impact. Everyone that came to the house from hospice was caring, respectful, and knowledgeable. They were a huge help to Kenny as well as the rest of the family.
Kenny was a wonderful man. His family and friends feel so blessed to have had him in their lives for so long.
If you would like to make a donation in Kenny’s honor, Senior Services for South Sound was a great help to both Kenny and Marilyn. You may donate online by clicking HERE, or checks may be mailed to Senior Services for South Sound, 222 Columbia St. NW, 2nd Floor, Olympia, WA 98501.
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Avette Ann (O'Neill) Block - September 06, 1947 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Avette Ann “Betsy” (O'Neill) Block of Tumwater, Washington, passed away on March 12, 2024, at the age of 76. Avette, also known as Betsy to many, was born on September 6, 1947, daughter to Eugene and Edna (Miller) O’Neill in Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan. She was a graduate of Loretto Central High School, where she met her friend of 58 years, Mary Kate Colton. She married Coast Guard CWO Dallas Paul Block in 1968 and enjoyed moving with his career opportunities to eight states along the East Coast and Hawaii twice before settling in the Yelm, Washington, area of the Pacific Northwest in 1989, where she built lifelong friendships with ease.
First working for local Yelm businesses, Avette eventually became best known as Operations Manager at First Community/Venture/First Citizens Bank, where she worked for over 20 years. It was there that she met her dear friends, nicknamed “The Bright Spots,” and made many wonderful memories. Betsy was a local character and always played an active part in her community.
Before the pandemic, Avette became a loyal volunteer and advocate for the non-profit group, National Alliance on Mental Illness, or NAMI. Avette had a lifelong love of the beach and to be wherever there was water, whether swimming or sailing. She enjoyed reading books and playing cards, doing her daily jumble puzzle, and cherished her weekend “coffee chat” phone calls with her sisters. She knitted beautiful Afghan blankets and could make just about anything on her sewing machine (not without cussing like a sailor to get the job done). She disliked cooking, loved eating out, and was known for making the BEST Chex Mix, baked beans, and deviled eggs. She enjoyed a good martini or margarita. Her motto was “What’s money but if not to spend it!” Avette is survived and will be greatly missed by her two daughters, Allison (David Kawika) Barnett of Oahu, Hawaii, and Natalie (David) Fillippone of Tumwater, Washington; siblings, James O’Neill (Joni Huyser) of Zeeland, Michigan, Mary (Christopher) Hayes of Mesa, Arizona, Kelly (Steve) Pietrangelo of Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan, Michael (Sue) O’Neill of Apopka, Florida, and Kara (Mike) Snopek of Sault Ste. Marie, Michigan; and five grandchildren, Skylar and Landen (who fondly remember her as “Grammy Gram-Gram”) and Madeline, Spencer and Charles (who lovingly remember her as “Mimi”). She also is survived by many nieces and nephews!
Avette is preceded in death by her parents, Eugene and Edna O’Neill; sister, Jeanna Ver Strat; and friend/former husband, Dallas Paul Block. An open-house style Celebration of Life for this adored lady will be held Saturday, May 18, 2024, from 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. at The Olympia Center, 222 Columbia Street NW, Olympia, WA 98501. Bring your best story/memory to share!
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Dee Knutson - July 07, 1950 - March 11, 2024

Departed: 03/11/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Dee Knutson passed away March 11, 2024, in Olympia, Washington, after three years of battling lung cancer. She was born July 7, 1950, to William Harvey and Alma Faye (Post) Parshall in Aberdeen, Washington. Over the years, she also lived in the Washington cities of Hoquiam, Cosmopolis, McCleary, Tumwater, Olympia, Raymond, and for the last seven years in South Bend.
Dee attended Aberdeen’s Weatherwax High in the early 1970s. She worked for Ralf and Ila Burgess in Aberdeen and Hoquiam for 20 years in the mid-1970s and 1980s; Suzans Café in McCleary during the 1990s; the Iron Skillet in Tumwater in the 2000s; and at various convenience stores, the last one being in Hoquiam at Fairway Grocery, from which she retired. She also worked at Colonial West Restaurant and Bar, Burgess Motel, Doc Holidays, and Sydney’s Restaurant and Bar (manager).
She married Clifford Knutson on June 30, 2013, at Alder Grove First Baptist Church.
Dee was a free spirit. She loved life in general and being around people made her happy. She was loving, very protective, and spoke her mind. She was a very spiritual Christian who was strong in her faith.
She loved visiting Disneyland, traveling, playing bingo, working in her yard, and spending time with her family, especially her children and grandchildren.
Dee is survived by her husband, Clifford Knutson; daughters, Patricia Clark, Lisa (Corey) Jones of Indiana, Danielle (Steven) Hart of Olympia, and Angel (Mikheela) Hutchins-Garcia of Olympia; brother, Harvey Jack Parshall Sr.; sister, Rev. Liz Marie Miller; 12 grandchildren; and 16 great-grandchildren. She also had five stepchildren and 10 step-grandchildren with Clifford.
She was predeceased by her parents; grandparents, George and Mae Post, and Gilbert and Patricia Parshall; and sister, Fay Ann.
Private family services were held.
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Sandra Jean LeMaster - November 20, 1947 - March 11, 2024

Departed: 03/11/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Sandra Jean LeMaster passed away March 11, 2024, in Olympia, Washington, her home of 76 years. She was born November 20, 1947, to Charles and Alice Lee in Olympia.
Sandra graduated from Olympia High School with the Class of 1966. She married Larry Wayne LeMaster on July 1, 1967, in Olympia, and enjoyed being a homemaker.
She was light-hearted yet strong with a sweet nature and good sense of humor. An accomplished equestrian, Sandra loved anything related to horses. She also was an avid gardener and enjoyed camping and sewing. Above all, she loved spending time with friends and family, especially her grandchildren. She was a Sunset Riders 4-H leader and member of Cascade Carousel Drill Team.
Sandra is survived by her husband; daughter, April Lynn Swannack; grandchildren, Paige and Logan; and sister, Virginia Anne Johnson. She was predeceased by her parents; sister, Alice Marlene Misura; and son, Brian Wayne LeMaster.
A celebration of life will be held May 5, 2024, from 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. at VFW Post 318, 2902 Martin Way East, Olympia, WA 98506.
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Karen Elizabeth Belsheim Olney - Unknown - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (Tumwater)
Obituary Preview: Karen Elizabeth Belsheim Olney was born in October 1940 to Elizabeth and Edmund Belsheim; she died March 10, 2024, in the loving care of her family.
Karen taught 7th and 9th grade science and health at Huntington Junior High/Middle School from 1976 until her retirement. Her love of science enriched the lives of generations of Kelso students, and there was never a committee for which she didn’t volunteer. In retirement, she loved spending time with her daughters and grandchildren, and taking trips to the Canadian Rockies and the Oregon coast.
Karen graduated with a bachelor’s degree from Vassar College, and a master’s degree from the University of Nebraska. She was a member of St. Rose Catholic Church during her 47 years in Longview, Washington.
She is survived by daughter, Margaret Olney, and granddaughter, Elizabeth Olney; daughter, Katherine Olney Lloyd, and grandsons, Thomas Lloyd and Ryan Lloyd; brother, Ed Belsheim, and sister-in-law, Lisa Ravenholt; niece, Sophia Belsheim; and partner, Larry McDonald.
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What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and funeral or memorial service arrangements.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who typically writes an obituary?

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A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life.

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Including a photo in an obituary helps to personalize the tribute and makes it easier for readers to connect with the person who has passed away.

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The submission process varies depending on the publication or platform. Typically, you will need to provide the written obituary and any accompanying photos or documents to the publication or platform's designated contact person or through their online submission portal.

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In most cases, changes cannot be made to an obituary once it has been published. It is essential to proofread carefully before submitting the obituary to avoid errors.

What is the etiquette for writing an obituary for someone who has died under difficult circumstances?

When writing an obituary for someone who has died under difficult circumstances, such as suicide or addiction-related deaths, it is essential to approach the situation with sensitivity and compassion. Focus on celebrating their life and avoiding language that may be hurtful or stigmatizing.

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Yes, including humor or anecdotes can help to capture the personality and spirit of the deceased and make the obituary more engaging and relatable.

How do I handle writing an obituary for someone with a complex or troubled past?

When writing an obituary for someone with a complex or troubled past, focus on highlighting their positive qualities and achievements while being honest about their struggles. Avoid sensationalism or gratuitous details that may be hurtful to their loved ones.

What is the role of an obituary in the grieving process?

An obituary serves as a way to acknowledge and validate the loss, providing a sense of closure and helping loved ones to begin the grieving process.

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Yes, including quotes or lyrics that were meaningful to the deceased can add depth and personalization to the obituary.

What is the significance of including funeral or memorial service arrangements in an obituary?

Including funeral or memorial service arrangements in an obituary allows friends and family members to attend and pay their respects to the deceased.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for some time?

Yes, it is possible to write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for some time. This can be a therapeutic exercise for loved ones who may have missed the opportunity to write one at the time of their passing.

How do I handle writing an obituary for someone who was not well-known or did not have many friends?

Even if the deceased did not have many friends or acquaintances, an obituary can still serve as a way to honor their memory and provide closure for loved ones. Focus on celebrating their life and achievements.

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