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Introduction to Funeral Alternatives of Washington

Funeral Alternatives of Washington is a trusted and compassionate funeral home located in Tumwater, Washington. With a commitment to providing personalized and affordable funeral services, they have been serving the local community for many years. In this article, we will delve into the history, services, and unique features of Funeral Alternatives of Washington, helping you make informed decisions during a difficult time.

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Founded on the principles of compassion, respect, and dignity, Funeral Alternatives of Washington has been a pillar of the Tumwater community since its inception. The funeral home's story is one of dedication to providing families with a peaceful and comforting environment to say goodbye to their loved ones. Over the years, they have built a reputation for excellence, earning the trust of families from all walks of life.

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Patria Naomi Robinson-Martin - December 01, 1943 - August 06, 2021

Departed: 08/06/2021 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Patria Naomi Robinson-Martin was born December 1, 1943, in St. Thomas, and departed this life on August 6, 2021, at 2:50 p.m. in Olympia, Washington.

She was preceded in death by her dearly loved husband of 28 years, Gerald H. Martin; her parents, Henry and Virginia Robinson; sister, Ruth Simmons; and brothers, Morris Robinson, Federico Robinson, and Max Alphonso Robinson.

She leaves behind her cherished daughter, Fadhila “Fa” Niemi; son-in-law, Gary Niemi; grandchildren, Virginia “Ginny” Niemi and Henry “Hank” Niemi; brother, Lorenzo Robinson (Debra); sisters, Henrietta White (Rupert), Carmen Josey (Leroy), and Delicia Robinson; as well as a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and special friends.

Patria earned an MA degree in sociology and psychology from the University of Washington, and dedicated her life to public service and equal rights. She was President of the Seattle-King County chapter of the National Organization for Women, served on numerous boards, and was a tireless supporter of the Equal Rights Amendment, which Washington State proudly ratified on March 22, 1973. Over her 30-year career, she worked first in Seattle City government, as the Acting Director, Executive Office for Women’s Rights. Then she went onto work in Washington State government, first as a Research and Policy Analyst and later as Director of Government Relations and Constituent Affairs. She retired in 2006 as the Chief of Staff for Washington State Department of Corrections.

Patria will be remembered for her kindness, loyalty, intellect, and dedication to family and friends. She lived her values and modelled for all of us what stamina, purpose, and commitment look like.

We will celebrate Patria's life in the future when it is safe to do so (pending COVID restrictions and the re-opening of the New Zealand border so her closest relatives can join in person).

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John Henry D'Alelio - Unknown - April 02, 2021

Departed: 04/02/2021 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: John Henry D’Alelio, 42, passed away suddenly on April 2, 2021, in Tumwater, Washington.

He attended St. Martin’s University, where he met his wife Allison Grimberg, and was a graduate of Corban University with a BS in Psychology. John loved spending quality time with his wife and children, and he and his family were active members of New Bridge Community Church.

He was an avid outdoorsman who loved his time in the forest searching for and gathering mushrooms. This hobby led to the founding of his company, Mountain Stream Mushrooms, LLC. He also was a youth group leader who loved to serve his community, mentoring young men.

John was a beloved husband, father, son, uncle and talented entrepreneur. He was preceded in death by his mother-in-law, Michaelene Grimberg. He is survived by his wife of 16 years, Allison; daughter, Kylie Marie; son, Matthew Henry; daughter, Samantha Grace; mother, Francis Clare Driedger; father, Henry William D’Alelio; father-in-law, Donald Christopher Grimberg; three brothers, seven sisters and numerous nieces and nephews.

Funeral services will be held at New Bridge Community Church in Olympia on April 11, 2021, at 2:00 p.m. The family will receive friends immediately after the funeral service at the church.

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Lawrence Allen - June 30, 1936 - September 22, 2018

Departed: 09/22/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Lawrence Allen.

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David Allen - June 14, 1929 - April 30, 2018

Departed: 04/30/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: David was born in Spokane and graduated from North Central High School in 1947. He attended Gonzaga University, graduating in 1955 with a degree in Chemical Engineering. During his college years, he joined the Naval Reserves. After graduating from Gonzaga, he worked at Bovay Engineering and then the Bremerton Naval Shipyard.

Dave met the love of his life, Mary Norine, at a Catholic Alumni function at the Washington Athletic Club in Seattle in October of 1960. He was so interested that he took the ferry boat from Bremerton to Seattle every night to meet Norine. They were married at St. Monica’s Catholic Church on Mercer Island on April 8, 1961.

The happy couple moved to California, where they lived for 12 years, with Dave continuing to work as an engineer at the General Services Administration in San Francisco, followed by Point Mugu Naval Air Station, and Port Hueneme. During this time, they had two children, Clyde and Theresa, and Mary stayed home to care for them. When they were in elementary school, Mary returned to nursing.

Following the years in California, the Allens returned to wonderful western Washington, settling in Olympia. Dave worked in real estate and engineering at Tacoma Boat before his retirement.

Dave’s parents instilled a love of the outdoors that carried into his adult life, camping, fishing and exploring the great outdoors. Fishing provided the thrill of the hunt, and camping allowed him to satisfy his curiosity to see new places and experience the sweeping views that each twist and turn had to offer. For Dave, the trip was always about the exploration and journey, far more than the destination.

Dave’s mom, Margaret, was an avid card player, hosting a regular group of her friends to play the game of Bridge. At the tender age of 10, she and her friends realized that he could fill out the foursome, if only he knew the game. Over the years, the game of Bridge was a social venue for Dave, while also presenting a great game of strategy, which helped keep his mind sharp.

Dave was a lifelong learner with a particular interest in all things scientific but with a special interest in global climatology, space weather and volcanoes. In 1979, he took his family to see the total eclipse of the sun, visible in totality in Eastern Washington. They camped in Goldendale along with other eclipse-watchers and the dog. The highlight for Dave was to see the phenomena known as “Bailey’s Beads” and to see the shadow of the moon rushing across the fields.

In keeping with his interest in spectacular natural events, when Mt. St. Helens rumbled to life, he immersed himself in the science of vulcanology. On the day of the big eruption in 1980, he took his children to the Winlock interchange on I-5 so they could view the event from a safe distance and he took many photos. His fascination with the mountain continued and he visited many times over the years as the area recovered. Along the way, he kept every newspaper article he could find about it and developed a small collection of books on the topic.

Dave was a member of the Benevolent Protective Order of the Elks (aka B.P.O.E. or the Elks). He joined the Elks in 1955 and was a continuously active member for 63 years until his passing. The Elks provided an avenue for Dave to support the many charitable causes and good works that he passionately believed in. Since moving to Olympia, he has been a member of the local Elks Lodge 186, and most recently served as Treasurer.

Dave is survived by his wife of 57 years, Mary Norine, his children Clyde (Maryann) and Theresa, and grandchildren Jeffrey (Roshni), Christopher, and Laura. He was preceded in death by his parents Clyde Burton and Margaret Allen.

The Allen family is grateful for all of the expressions of love and support.

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William Woodard - February 16, 1953 - April 29, 2018

Departed: 04/29/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: William Owen “Billy” Woodard, 65, passed away April 29, 2018, in Olympia, Washington. He was born February 16, 1953, to Frances Roberts in Lubbock, Texas. Over the years, Billy also lived in the Texas cities of Dallas, Paris, and Killeen, where he was a member of the New Sunset Church.

Billy served in the U.S. Army from May 29, 1972 to October 22, 1977, during which time he received a sharp shooter decoration. Professionally, he was a maintenance supervisor.

Billy married Heidi Burdge on January 20, 2007 in Dallas. He loved spending time with family, collecting all things Eagles, and cheering for the Dallas Cowboys.

He is survived by his wife, Heidi Burdge Woodard of Olympia; sons, William Sellers of Dallas and Brian Burdge of Killeen; daughters, Delena Hines and wife Salisha of Murphy, Texas, Trisha Woodard of Paris, Texas, Nichoel Burdge of Olympia, Kerri Burdge of Killeen, and Lourene Koetz of Houston, Texas; eight grandchildren; brother, Mark Roberts of Dallas; and sisters, Dianna Brewer of Dallas, Sandra Prado of Lubbock, and Debbie Kepler of Amarillo, Texas. He was predeceased by his mother, Frances Roberts; and brother Paul Roberts.

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Robert Bland - May 05, 1935 - April 26, 2018

Departed: 04/26/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Robert G. Bland passed away surrounded by his loving family on April 26, 2018, at his home in Tumwater, WA, after an extended illness. He was 82 years old. Bob was born on May 5, 1935, in Aberdeen, Washington, to Earle and Wanda Bland.

Bob graduated from Elma High School in 1953, and attended WSU for one year. He was in the Naval Reserve and was honorably discharged after 20 years. Bob married Ruth Marie Schoonover on March 23, 1956, in Elma, Washington.

Bob’s favorite past-times were going to the car races in Tenino, Tuesday lunches with his buddies at the Little Creek Casino, and trips to the LeMay Car Museum. In retirement, Bob and Ruth purchased a motorhome and enjoyed being snowbirds. For several years, they traveled with friends to Arizona, Nevada, and California. Bob especially enjoyed their trips to Hot August Nights in Nevada.

He is survived by his wife of 62 years, Ruth; daughters, Nancy Salsman (Rod) of Tumwater, Katherine Roush of Lacey, Bobbie Ziemek of Tumwater; five grandchildren, Michele Gillis (Frank), Heather Roush, Tyler Ziemek, Alyssa Ziemek, and Tracie Bode (Bill) Olympia; five great-grandchildren, Gunner, Ashley, Ava, Claire, and Grace; and his sister, Barbara Montermini (Ed). He will be missed by his beloved dog, Beau.

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Ralph Burr - August 22, 1965 - April 26, 2018

Departed: 04/26/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Ralph Newton “Butch” Burr Jr., 52, passed away April 26, 2018 in Centralia, Washington, his home of 36 years. He was born August 22, 1965 to Ralph N. Burr Sr. and Beryl H. “Birdie” Burr in Oakland, California. He lived in Hayward, California, from 1965 through 1981.

Butch married Charmaine Harrin on July 1, 2000, in Centralia. Professionally, he worked for Xcel Cooling Tower Company from 1996 to 2013. He enjoyed collecting coins and putting together wood puzzles.

He is survived by his wife, Charmaine Burr; and sisters, Jenny Orr and Annette Harris. His parents predeceased him.

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Curtis Koukal - April 28, 1944 - April 25, 2018

Departed: 04/25/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Curtis A. Koukal passed away April 25, 2018, in Lacey, Washington. He was born April 28, 1944, to Thomas and Florence (Peterson) Koukal in Richmond, California. A graduate of Everett High School, Curtis served 20 years in the U.S. Air Force, ten years as a medical recruiter. After retiring from the military, he had various jobs, including working as a USDA chicken/egg inspector, at Sprint, and as a truck driver. He married Linda Bishop on April 24, 1995, in San Antonio, Texas.

Curtis had an inquisitive mind, great sense of humor and smile, and was sweet and fun-loving. He enjoyed skiing, golf, bicycle riding, reading non-fiction books on a variety of subjects, and RV-ing around the Pacific Northwest.

Curtis is survived by his wife, Linda Bishop; sons, Ron Koukal and Randy Koukal; daughter, Rhonda Benton; eight grandchildren; two great grandchildren; and sisters, Kathy Addair and Margie Fitch.

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Andrea Parker - October 05, 1967 - April 25, 2018

Departed: 04/25/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Andrea Jane Parker, 50, passed away of pneumonia on April 25, 2018, in Olympia, Washington, where she was born October 5, 1967, to Sue Carroll Brown and Stephen Andrew Parker. She graduated from North Thurston High School and worked for the Washington State Department of Revenue.

Andrea had an unimaginable amount of strength and courage. She was extremely understanding of others, a loyal friend, and positively optimistic. She loved cooking, canning, garage sales, NASCAR, holding on to family keepsakes, and spending time with her friends and family. Andrea had an incredible ability to connect with others through her contagious smile. She loved to laugh and found humor in the toughest of times.

Andrea is survived by her partner, Jerry “Butch” Wells; son, Brock; daughter, Brandy; mother, Sue Carroll Brown; brother, Ryan Kory Young; sister-in-law, Jori Young; nephews, Owen Young and Brody Hake; niece, Madelyn Hake; and five grandchildren.

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Johnny Johnson - May 07, 1953 - April 24, 2018

Departed: 04/24/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Johnny was born on May 7, 1953, in Chehalis, Washington, to Herchel and Pearl Johnson and grew up on their farmland, in the country, just off Hwy 12.

Johnny graduated from Napavine High School, went on to get his associate’s degree from Centralia Community College, and then went to the University of Washington for a year. Later, he went to The Evergreen State College and earned his bachelor’s degree.

At 16, Johnny began working with his father doing local and distance moving jobs for Mayflower Moving and Storage. He worked for a couple of years for Capital Beverage, delivering beer and wine, but finally settled in with Yellow Freight, where he worked until he retired. Intermittently, he owned several small businesses and built a sizable Amway Distributorship. He was a hard worker.

Johnny played basketball in high school and always loved the sport, and was a huge Supersonics fan when the franchise was in Seattle. When his father was alive, he would play golf and was a Mariners fan. He also was a huge Seahawks fan and a Huskies Fan.

Over the years he enjoyed fishing and duck hunting. He was an accomplished poker player, an avid reader, and was quite good at writing. He especially loved to travel and explore new places. He loved the water and the beach.

He loved dogs, especially his recent dog, Chappy, a little black miniature schnauzer, and his “grandpuppy,” Theo, a German shepherd/rottweiler mix.

Johnny was a people person – never met a stranger. He loved to talk but was a great listener. He always “rooted for the underdog.” He was a prankster and very creative at it. He enjoyed all of his friendships, and there have been many. If you talked with Johnny, Tali his daughter, who he loved and was very proud of, or Katie, “the love of his life” (as he would put it), would almost always come up in the conversation.

Johnny was a man of faith and God, prayed a lot, and loved to serve and help people. He had a huge heart. We are comforted knowing he is resting in God’s care now. He has not “passed away,” rather he has “passed on” to a place where we will all see him again, in God’s perfect timing. He was blessed with a full life and will be missed. The following information was published in The Chronicle on Saturday, May 5, 2018, and The Olympian on Sunday, May 6, 2018:

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Anna Lively - November 30, 1958 - April 24, 2018

Departed: 04/24/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Anna Louise (Campbell) Lively passed away at age 59 on April 24, 2018, in Kansas City, Missouri. She was born November 30, 1958, to Rolland and Myra Campbell in Lynnwood, Washington, and graduated with the Class of 1977 from Mountlake Terrace High School. As a child, she was given the nickname “Daisy”, which she was known by for nearly 30 years. Anna was married to Thaddeus William Callaghan (1978-1995), and Carlos Dale Lively (1997-present).

Anna was predeceased by her father, Rolland R. Campbell; and brother, Robert Dale Campbell. She is survived by former husband, Thaddeus Callaghan; their daughters, Jennifer Lynn Campbell, Cynthia Louise Bates, Rebecca LeeAnn Kamerer, and Amy Lorraine Nielsen; and son, Timothy James Lively. Anna also is survived by husband, Carlos Lively; their sons, Carlos Andrew Lively and Kevin Dale Lively; and stepchildren, Floyd, Vanessa, Melissa, Rebecca, Teressa, and Deborra. Also surviving are her mother, Myra Campbell; brothers, Darrell Campbell and Douglas Campbell; sisters, Christy Solorio and Cathy Gillman; and numerous grandchildren, one of whom, Jessica Roosa, was being raised by Anna.

Anna loved her native Pacific Northwest. She appreciated nature and noticed the beauty in the world around her. She enjoyed gathering her family around the campfire and singing together. Fond of animals, she had dogs, cats, rabbits, chickens, and goats as pets. Occasionally she would create a mini petting zoo for children to enjoy.

Anna will be remembered as a gifted cake decorator who made lovely wedding and birthday cakes for generations of family and friends. She passed along her talents in the kitchen to several of her children. Anna cherished her large family and never missed an opportunity to talk about the dozens of grandchildren she adored so much. She was a mother-figure to many, and a dear friend to everyone she met.

Anna was a true disciple of Christ. She loved her Savior and strove to treat others the way she believed He would. She had a giving heart and was always willing to contribute her time and resources to help others. Her unceasing faith in the Savior sustained her through many trials. Anna’s dedication to the restored gospel of Jesus Christ will stand as her crowning legacy.

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Glenn Hamann - November 30, 1928 - April 23, 2018

Departed: 04/23/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Longtime Tacoma resident, Glenn E. Hamann, 89, passed away Monday, April 23, 2018 at home surrounded by those he loved.

Glenn was born on November 30, 1928, in Alvord, Iowa, to his parents, Harry Hamann and Matilda Mundt. Glenn moved to Tacoma as a young boy, where he attended school, including Clover Park High School. For a brief time following high school, Glenn served in the Naval Reserves, as well as the Army Transport Services.

Glenn was an artist with wood. His skill served him well in his occupation as a finish carpenter, doing home remodeling, construction, and furniture building. He loved building special and unique pieces for his church and family. Glenn enjoyed fishing for trout, playing cards with family and friends, gardening, and loved his family. His family appreciated his sense of humor and love of laughter. He was an avid reader of history and could answer most of the history questions on Jeopardy. He was a worthy opponent in Pinochle and other card games shared with family and friends.

Glenn was a member of Tacoma’s Faith Lutheran Church for almost 60 years. His faith in Christ was the foundation of his life.

Glenn is survived by his wife, Lois Hamann; daughter, Kathleen and Don Rabe; sons, Glenn and Sandy Hamann, Greg and Cindy Boushack; grandchildren, Matthew, Jessica and Emily; stepsons, Terry and Sharon Tomt, Aaron and Tandi Tomt; and adopted grandpa to Sarah, Chris, Josh, Justin, Kacey, and Matthew.

He was preceded in death by his parents; four brothers; four sisters; infant son, David; and his first wife, Mary.

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Raquel Salinas - August 14, 1969 - April 23, 2018

Departed: 04/23/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Raquel Salinas, 48, passed away due to complications of surgery on April 23, 2018, in Olympia, Washington. She was born August 14, 1969, to Jose and Ester Salinas in Edenburg, Texas.

In 1987, Raquel graduated from Kent Meridian High School in Kent, Washington, and earned a BA in 1991 from The Evergreen State College, followed by a Master’s Degree in Teaching in 1994. She married Jeff Freels on October 31, 1995 in Tumwater, Washington.

Raquel was gentle and continually worked to help others find their personal power. She had an infectiously joyful spirit and powerful grace. She worked as a counselor and coordinator of First Peoples’ Advising Services at The Evergreen State College in Olympia. She enjoyed being involved in social justice work, singing, painting, drawing, beading, cooking, dancing, and rescuing/ revitalizing dolls.

She is survived by her husband, Jeff Freels; mother, Ester Salinas; brothers, Roberto, Fabian and Raul Salinas; and sister, Elvira Salinas. She was predeceased by her father, Jose Salinas. THOUGHTS FROM JEFF: “Things are difficult now as we feel the loss of our Champion. Raquel was always a shining example of the principles she believed in. Always warm, patient, insightful, clever with a sense of delightful silliness, and strong, she inspired others and helped us find our own strength and power to know that we can make differences for the betterment of our world. She never faltered. Always thinking of others, Raquel took great efforts to conceal her own chronic pain, believing it would be distracting to those she worked to help with their own issues. She was selfless, she was True, she was there for all of us always and in all ways. I take comfort in hearing that those who knew Raquel are coming together to share memories of her, and to honor her spirit. Our Raquel was Love; she loved us all and inspired and nurtured love wherever she was. Love grows and brightens the darkness. As Raquel spread her light, others found their own light and added to the brilliance. I want to offer my sincerest thanks to those of you who gave your Love and Friendship to Raquel, making her life’s struggles a bit lighter. There are no ‘right words’ for this kind of thing. We can only take our faltering and lacking words and share them, for it is by doing this that the truth and love behind the words can be felt and heal and carry us forward to make our world a better place. Thank you, Raquel, you will be with us always.”

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Madeline Taylor - January 01, 1911 - April 22, 2018

Departed: 04/22/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Madeline Rowe Taylor, born in 1911 in Seattle to Grover and Myrtle Rowe, passed away in Tumwater, Washington, on April 22, 2018, at the age of 107.

Madeline graduated from Ballard High School in Seattle in 1929. She told of having to take an old trolley car a couple of miles to school each day (somewhat different than today where students are picked up in front of their homes). After graduating, she went to work in the office of Oak Lake School in Seattle. A short time later, her family moved to Houghton where she met her husband, Richard A. “Dick” Taylor. They were married in 1932 at Mount Vernon, Washington. She then joined her husband working at Lake Washington Shipyard in Houghton, where they worked until the shipyard closed following World War II. She was the first and only woman employee there until the start of the war.

During this time, they built a house at Yarrow Point on Lake Washington where they lived for 40 years. Madeline, her husband Dick Sr., and son, Dick Taylor, Jr. of Olympia, shared many adventures over the years. These adventures started with a three-month cruise through the Inside Passage to Alaska on the 32-foot cabin cruiser that her husband had built in the front yard of their lakefront home. This voyage was featured in the June 1947 issue of The National Geographic magazine. Summers were spent cruising the San Juan Islands, Puget Sound and both sides of Vancouver Island.

Madeline was first introduced to the Methow Valley during the family’s annual fall camping/hunting trips where she enjoyed the hiking and horseback riding in the mountains. These trips are what lead to their eventually retiring to a 20-acre “ranch” on the banks of Gold Creek in the Methow River Valley. The ranch began as a small cabin with an outhouse and progressed to a three-bedroom home with a ballroom-sized living room and two barns. While Madeline enjoyed viewing the wildlife from a distance, she never was too excited about looking out her second-story bedroom window in the mornings, eyeball-to-eyeball, with a bear that liked to climb an apple tree. One of their more exciting experiences was when a bobcat came down the chimney into the living room…quite a surprise! Madeline enjoyed traveling, which they did extensively after retirement. They toured the Great Wall of China, a cruise through the Panama Canal, traveled across Canada and through Europe by rail, and visited Japan. But Madeline’s favorite trip was their annual visit to Maui for a few weeks every winter for some wonderful sunshine and to thaw out from the “Methow Winters.”

Finally, when they could no longer navigate the winter roads in Eastern Washington, they moved to a home in Lacey that her son had built for them. After her husband passed away four years later (2001), she moved into The Firs in Olympia where she met many new friends and came to enjoy apartment living.

Madeline was always a great baseball fan and really enjoyed the Mariners when she moved to Lacey. She watched every game with great enthusiasm, even though, due to Macular Degeneration, she could only see shadows. She enjoyed baseball so much in the early 1950s that she would take Dick Jr. out of school to go to opening day games of the Seattle Rainier’s. She also was a very competitive card player. There were times when she was cruising with her family that she and her son would be making so much noise yelling while playing cards that her husband would go up on the bridge of the boat to get some peace and quiet. She also enjoyed bowling while living in Bellevue, and has many trophies to show for her efforts.

Of all the activities that Madeline enjoyed, probably the one that gave her the most enjoyment was the monthly ballroom dances with her husband as part of a group in Seattle known as “The Starlighters.” They were very accomplished dancers.

After recovering from broken hip surgery in 2013, she spent her final five years at “A Place Called Home” in Tumwater. Madeline is survived by her loving son, Dick, Jr., one granddaughter, Deb Taylor-Hough, and three great grandchildren. Madeline’s life is truly remarkable, which began in the days when the milkman delivered dairy products by horse and wagon and Bellevue was way out in “the sticks.” Her life truly spanned over a century of unbelievable changes. She had a very interesting, full and good life. She enjoyed living!

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Kyra Kester - July 06, 1950 - April 21, 2018

Departed: 04/21/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Kyra Kester was born July 6, 1950, in Chicago, Illinois, and died April 21, 2018, in Olympia, Washington, at the home of friends. Kyra’s parents were William Kester and Jhonny Ray Kester. Kyra was the widow of Loren Johnson, who passed away in 2005. In 1970, Kyra arrived in the Northwest from St. Louis as a VISTA Volunteer in Port Angeles, Washington. She obtained her undergraduate education at Washington University in St. Louis and The Evergreen State College. In 1986, she received a Master of Arts degree in History from Western Washington University and, in 1992, her Doctor of Philosophy in History from University of Washington. Her dissertation was entitled, “Shadows of War: The Historical Dimensions and Social Implications of Military Psychology and Veteran Counseling in the United States, 1860-1989.”

From 1992 to 1998, Kyra taught history at several colleges and universities in the Northwest. From 1998 to 2007, she worked for The Washington State Office of Superintendent of Public Instruction. She was the Director of Secondary Education and Career Preparation, and later, Assistant Superintendent of Government Relations. In 2007, she moved to WSU as a Senior Research Associate for the Washington State University Social and Economic Sciences Research Center. She retired in 2014.

Kyra loved history, travel and sharing culinary adventures with family and friends. She had very eclectic talents and was often ahead of her times. In the early 1970s, with a partner, she opened one of the first businesses selling supplies for making homemade beer and wine. This business was located on East Lake Union in Seattle. She also wrote music for “The No Toy Boys,” a local Olympia band. Her most famous collaborative composition was “Old Mr. Boston,” recorded in 1978.

She is survived by her sister, Nancy Quaethem and her children, stepson Noel Johnson (Chris Matter), step-daughter, Katie Bang (Josh Bang), and grandchildren, Raine Johnson, Beckett, Stella and Sawyer Rinehard, Reagan and Loren Bang; as well as too many friends, family and friends who are family to count. She will be missed by all.

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Marilyn Ruby Slotvig - August 05, 1928 - April 21, 2018

Departed: 04/21/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Marilyn Joyce Ruby Slotvig was born August 5, 1928, in Hoquiam, Washington, to Lillian and Carl Ruby. She died at home in Olympia, Washington, on April 21, 2018.

Marilyn grew up on the family farm on the Clearwater River in the Olympic Peninsula, 80 miles from town. She truly lived the life of “walking five miles to school in the snow.” There was also a river to be crossed, which she did in a canoe with her beloved brother, Robert, who was five years older.

After graduation, Marilyn ventured to the big city, Seattle, and graduated from Edison Tech as a photographer. It was here that she met and married her lifelong sweetheart, Bryce Slotvig, in 1948. They operated their own photography studio, and eventually worked for Boeing, she in the photo-template unit. Marilyn and Bryce celebrated 56 years together before he passed in 2005.

Marilyn was a wonderful mother, homemaker, and gardener. She will be missed for her terrific sense of humor, her kindness, generosity of spirit and loving ways. Her daughters will especially miss the daily, long conversations that were lively and interesting, full of curiousness and humor.

She is survived by daughters, Virignia Hardie and Kris Holliman; grandchildren, Kate and William Thompson; great grandbabes, Atira, Anja and Atreyu, who were the delight of her life. She also left behind granddoggy, Kiley, whom she loved most, and Kitten, who loved to torment her daily.

The family thanks the most wonderful team at Assured Hospice. Their care was remarkable and will never be forgotten.

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Thomas Hinchcliffe - February 13, 1922 - April 19, 2018

Departed: 04/19/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Surrounded by his loved ones, Thomas Wesley “Wes” Hinchcliffe, age 96, returned to be with his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on Thursday, April 19, 2018, from his home in Olympia, Washington. He was born February 13, 1922, to Harold Hinchcliffe and Ada Akehurst in Olympia.

Wes graduated from Olympia High School in 1941; served in the U.S. Navy during World War II from 1942 to 1945; and married Edna May Stewart on October 11, 1947. Edna passed away in 1978. Professionally, Wes retired from the State of Washington.

Wes lived a very full life filled with love, family, friends, bowling, volleyball and softball. His love for the game of softball kept him very active and spry well into his early 90s! He was a very kind, loving, and devoted family man and friend.

Wes is survived by his brother, Richard Hinchcliffe (Jackie); his five children, Kay LaNeece Rodriguez (Bob), Thomas Stewart Hinchcliffe (Nancy), Marsha Bayness (William), Christy White, Dawn Hinchcliffe; 22 grandchildren; 26 great grandchildren; and three great-great grandchildren. He is preceded in death by his wife, Edna May Stewart; sister, Velma Haney; and parents, Harold Hinchcliffe and Ada Akehurst.

He will be forever missed and never forgotten. Rest in peace dear Dad, Grandpa, Great Grandpa, Great-Great Grandpa, Brother, Uncle and Friend.

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James Christensen - December 24, 1973 - April 16, 2018

Departed: 04/16/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: James G. Christensen Jr., 44, passed away April 16, 2018, in Lacey, Washington. He was born December 24, 1973 in Hollywood, California, to James and Debi Christensen. James moved to Olympia in 1989 with his family, and graduated with the Class of 1992 at Capital High. James was a very kind soul who loved to help people. He recently started a job at the Interfaith Works Overnight Emergency Shelter. James loved his music and, in his free time, could be found playing is guitar.

James is survived by his brothers, Jason A. Christensen and Jeremy P. Christensen; and sisters, Sara N. Lee, Lori M. Kratina, and Renee A. Christensen.

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Diane Harris - March 22, 1944 - April 16, 2018

Departed: 04/16/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Diane Marie Harris, 74, passed away April 16, 2018 at home in Lacey, Washington. She was born March 22, 1944, to Laurence Clare and Florence Helen (Ingram) Stephens in Oxnard, California. Over the years, she also lived in the Washington cities of Rochester (2002-2012), Port Angeles (1999-2002), and Belfair (1971-1999).

Diane graduated from Ventura High School in Ventura, California, and earned a B.S. in Education/Human Resources from Southern Illinois University. She worked as a Human Resources Representative for Lockheed Martin at Submarine Base Bangor (1976-2000).

She married Neil H. Harris on January 7, 2002, in Reno, Nevada. Diane loved hiking, swimming, traveling, reading, and playing the piano. She was a member of The Mayflower Society, Jamestown Society, Daughters of the American Revolution, and the Magna Carta National Society.

Diane is survived by her husband, Neil Harris of Lacey; son, Steven Blowers of Littlerock, Washington; daughter, Kristi Blowers of Burien, Washington; two grandchildren; and two great grandchildren.

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Robert Williams - August 27, 1931 - April 16, 2018

Departed: 04/16/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Dr. Robert A. Williams, 86, passed away April 16, 2018, in Olympia, Washington, his home of 45 years. He was born August 27, 1931 to Archie H. and Edith (Forrer) Williams in Aurora, Illinois. He graduated from Big Rock, Illinois, High School in 1949, and earned a Doctor of Veterinary Medicine from the University of Minnesota in June 1960. He had practices in Minnesota, Illinois, Vermont, Colorado Springs, and Olympia. He also was a USDA Federal Veterinary Medical Officer in charge of shipping animals around the world from SeaTac and sea ports.

Robert served in the U.S. Air Force during the Korean Conflict (1950-1954). He was stationed in Texas and Louisiana before being sent to Guam where he also was a member of the U.S. Air Force Band. He met Georgia Mae Mathews on Guam in 1953 and they were married April 10, 1954, in Minneapolis, Minnesota. After their marriage, Robert was transferred to Billy Mitchell AFB, Long Island, New York, where he served from May to October 1954.

A great optimist, Robert was a caring, loving, and giving man who enjoyed talking to strangers everywhere. Music was one of his passions. He was an outstanding musician on saxophone and voice, and performed and recorded many songs. He is known locally for his saxophone performances with Wrinkles of Washington, a senior song and dance troupe. A member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, he was a church choir director and music chairman. Robert also had a passion for education and was a lifelong learner. He researched everything, even his own prostate and skin cancers.

Robert’s greatest passion was his family. He was a loving husband, father, grandfather and great grandfather, and enjoyed spending time with relatives near and far. One memorable adventure was traveling Europe with his daughter, son-in-law, and grandchildren. He was always a good and generous provider of his time and funds. At home, he enjoyed gardening.

He is survived by his wife of 64 years, Georgia Mae Mathews Williams; sons, Dr. Bradley A. Williams of Connecticut, and Scott E. Williams of Puyallup, Washington; daughters, Sheila M. Fellows of Stafford, Virginia, and Meridee J. Williams Mathews Baker of Tacoma, Washington; 10 grandchildren; seven great grandchildren. He was predeceased by his parents, Archie H. Williams Sr. and Edith Louise Forrer Williams; and brother, Archie H. Williams Jr.

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Michael Crowe - August 09, 1951 - April 15, 2018

Departed: 04/15/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Michael J. Crowe passed away April 15, 2018, in Olympia, Washington. He was born August 9, 1951, to Carl and Vida Crowe in Portland, Oregon. He graduated from Washougal High School, and attended Portland’s Lewis and Clark College and Pacific Lutheran University (PLU) in Tacoma, Washington. He earned a master’s degree from Eastern Washington University in Cheney, Washington.

Mike served in the U.S. Army and was stationed in Germany during the Cold War. He married Kathleen Dooms on May 10, 1987, in Gig Harbor, Washington. He worked 30 with the Washington Department of Social and Health Services, and the last 24 years as an Area Manager with Children’s Services.

Mike was generous, thoughtful, very witty, and had a great sense of humor. He loved traveling, reading, and antiquing. He was a Mariners fan, volkswalker, and volunteer at the Olympia-Lacey Amtrak Station.

He is survived by his wife, Kathleen M. Crowe, and was predeceased by his parents, Carl R. Crowe and Vida M. (Cooper) Crowe.

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Carol Cole - July 22, 1996 - April 14, 2018

Departed: 04/14/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Carol Jean “Peanut” Cole, 21, passed away April 14, 2018, in Olympia, Washington. She was born July 22, 1996, to Jim and Donna Cole in Moses Lake, Washington.

Carol had a bursting personality and was a spunky spitfire. She also was a supportive mom and person who was always there for anyone who needed help. She enjoyed music, loved snakes, and will be remembered for her colored hair and piercings. She worked at Jack-in-the-Box.

Carol is survived by her son, Travis James; daughter, Sophia Cole, parents, Jim and Donna Cole; brother, Christopher “CJ” Cole (Tarryn); nephew, Hunter Cole; grandfather, Mike Howe; grandparents, Carol and Ron Foreman; aunts, Machael Scribner (Scott), Melanie Williams (Kyle), Brenda Norwood, Sonya Goss (Blaine), and Dawn (Sissy); uncles, Jeremy Haugness and Joseph Duncan; and cousins, Weslee, Leila, Michael, Chevonne, Jasmine, Leon, Bryce, Mariyah, Destany, Janessah, Travis, Drew, Jordan, Warren, Rycker, Amanda, Dylan, Ryanne, Lylah, Drew, Kylie; and many more.

She was predeceased by her grandmother, Jeanie Howe; uncles, Daniel Ryckman and Frankie Root; and grandfather, Don Rychman.

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Ryan Coty - February 10, 1974 - April 14, 2018

Departed: 04/14/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Ryan Joseph Coty died Saturday, April 14, 2018, at his home in Tenino, Washington, following an exhaustive battle with cancer. Although the battle here is over, victory is found in the fact that he had a great love for Jesus Christ. Ryan was a remarkable man throughout his entire life. He was a friend to everyone he met and often became like a brother or son. Ryan’s tremendous kindness will be greatly missed.

Ryan was born February 10, 1974, to Clyde and Terryl Coty of Raymond, Washington. He graduated from Willapa Valley High School in 1992, and went on to obtain a degree in AutoCAD and drafting from ITT in 1993.

In 1996, Ryan began his long career at Jesse Engineering in Tacoma, Washington. As an ironworker, known as “Tank” to his friends, Ryan took great pride in the work that he accomplished during his 21+ years at Jesse. He was everyone’s right hand man and his strength knew no bounds. Ryan was a great man who truly loved the work that he did every day. He also greatly enjoyed being with the people he worked with as he considered them all family.

Ryan’s greatest accomplishment and what he saw as his biggest responsibility were “his girls.” He shared a deep love with his wife, Holly, whom he married in 2003. Together they had two daughters, Abby and Joey (Jojo). These three were “his girls” and his greatest joys. He loved spending time with his little family, traveling to look for adventures, explaining the world, and introducing them all to monster trucks, superheroes, and the specs of construction equipment. He also took the time to instill in his children an understanding of who God is and how God had shaped his own life throughout the years.

Ryan is survived by his wife, Holly Coty; and his daughters, Abby Coty and Joey Coty, all of Tenino. He is also survived by his father, Clyde Coty of Raymond; and his in-laws, Stan and Debbie Smith of Menlo; his siblings, Stacey Coty of Raymond, Scott and Shannon Coty of Raymond, Paul Coty and Kaci of Lebam, Heather and Ted Ryan of Spanaway, Renelle and Stanley Smith of Rochester, Aaron and Sam Coty of Elma, Hillary and James Hawthorne of Silverdale; his grandmother, Pat Noyes; and his many uncles, aunts and cousins. “Uncle Ryan” is also survived by his many nephews and nieces that he loved as if they were his own. He is preceded in death by his mother, Terryl Coty; and his grandparents, Jack Coty, Eileen Coty, Milton Noyes and Jean Homan.

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Diane Rivera Fetters - November 26, 1952 - April 13, 2018

Departed: 04/13/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Diane Louise Rivera Fetters, 65, passed away April 13, 2018 in Olympia, WA. She was born November 26, 1952, to Mike and Louise Dons (Curtit) Aschenbrenner in Olympia. Diane graduated from Tumwater High School, Washington, in 1972; married John Arthur Fetters on September 12, 1989; and was manager of Eastside Big Toms (1980-1993) and front end cashier at Costco (1994-2018). She lived in East Olympia the past 23 years.

Diane was loving, devoted, hard-working and ambitious. She loved spending time with family and friends, and will be remembered for her many self-sacrifices. She loved Duke men’s basketball, and was a diehard Oakland Raiders fan. She also loved to travel, and enjoyed sunshine and beaches.

Diane is survived by her husband, John; sons, Julio James Rivera and Jeremy David Rivera; three grandchildren; one great grandchild; brothers Mike, Bob, Arron and Scott Aschenbrenner; and sister, Debbie Christofferson.

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Robert Russell - December 14, 1925 - April 11, 2018

Departed: 04/11/2018 (Tumwater)

Obituary Preview: Bobby Ray Russell, later known as Robert Ray Russell, was born December 14, 1925, in Greenville, Hunt County, Texas, to Roy Logan Russell and Lucille Estelle (McCoy) Russell. Bob died at his home in Lacey, Washington, on April 11, 2018.

When Bobby Ray was a child, he moved with his family to Monroe, Louisiana. He spent his childhood and teen years roaming the swamps and bayous of the Ouachita River. The bayous and creeks were a great escape from the hot, humid, Depression Era South. He hunted, fished, and found adventures everywhere he went and, if you had two minutes, he would tell you the story of catching the six-foot alligator gar when he was 12. He attended school at Ouachita Parish High School, and worked at the skating rink where he got paid five cents to lace up and tie skates. Because of this job, he learned to skate like a pro. He also delivered ice door-to-door in the days before refrigeration. At 14, he did a man’s job, working at the newspaper and grocery store because all the able-bodied men were serving in the war. Bob never forgot the freedom and independence of his youth in Monroe.

On July 28, 1943, Bob joined the U.S. Navy, where he served until April 2, 1946. During his service in WWII, he was in the South Pacific, Philippine Liberation – American area, Tinian-Saipan and in the battle of Okinawa, aboard his ship LST 461. He was the Chief of Communications and was thrilled the Navy would place him, “a kid from Monroe, Louisiana,” in such a position. The Navy gave him a sense of purpose, which he felt had been lacking in his life, and he was extremely proud to do his duty and serve his country. Here again, if you had a couple of minutes, he would regale you with his war stories.

While his ship was docked in Seattle during the war, Bob met Geneva Ann Halligan, who was also in the Navy and stationed in Seattle as a WAVE. They met on a blind date, he decided she was the only one for him, and he proposed, promising to return for her after the war.

Upon his discharge from the Navy, Bob renewed their courtship and went to Ginny’s hometown of Bryant, South Dakota, to convince her to marry him – it worked! They were married in Bryant on October 10, 1946, the beginning of their 71 years together. To this union were born three children, David Michael, Roberta Ann “Robin” and John Paul.

After their marriage, Bob and Ginny lived in Jackson, Mississippi, where they owned a restaurant and bar: restaurant by day, bar by night. They owned several restaurants and drive-ins in Jackson during their time there.

In 1951, they moved to Culver City, California, where Bob had an aunt and uncle. Bob got a job as a car salesman at a Nash Rambler dealership in Hollywood. There he worked with Dick Smith, who led Bob to the Lord. Meeting Dick had a profound effect on the remainder of his life and the lives of thousands of others.

In 1952, in the Los Angeles 1st Church of the Nazarene, Bob was saved and remained a member of the Nazarene Church for the rest of his life. After finding the Lord, Bob felt that he could not do God’s work while working at the car dealership; he was able to get a job as the janitor at the Los Angeles Church of the Nazarene. In his spare time, he went door to door in his neighborhood, talking to anyone who would listen about the Lord – and many listened!

In 1954, Bob and Ginny bought their first home in Anaheim, California. In the same year, he opened his auto body and paint business in Santa Ana, California, which he operated until they moved to Ritzville, Washington, in 1974. In 1974, Bob and Ginny, and their daughter Robin and her family went to Ritzville to see their son David who had moved there two years earlier, and to attend EXPO74, in Spokane, Washington. After returning home to Anaheim, Robin and Freddy and their young son, Joshua, decided to leave California and move north to Ritzville. Ginny could not be separated from her grand baby, so Bob sold his auto body business and their home. In September of the same year, they all left California for Washington State looking like the “Grapes of Wrath!”

In Ritzville, Bob started another auto body and paint shop and a wholesale car business, and Ginny lovingly restored a beautiful Victorian home.

In 1992, Bob and Ginny moved to Yakima, where their son-in-law, Freddy, was a State Trooper. There they began their semi-retirement. In 1996, they moved to their present home in Lacey, where Bob continued to work on cars, and souls, for the rest of his life.

During his long lifetime, Bob has had numerous jobs, served his country in the Navy during WWII, worked in the restaurant business, worked as a new car salesman, a janitor, and owned and operated his paint and auto body and car dealership businesses.

While working at his regular jobs, he was always, first and foremost, working for the Lord. After working all day at the body shop, Bob worked at the Peniel Mission in Los Angeles from 1953 to 1968, was a lay missionary to Mexico from 1953 to 1974 and a lay pastor in Benge, Endicott, and Lacrosse in Eastern Washington from 1975 to 1992.

After moving to Lacey, he continued to work on cars in his garage, where he would witness to the neighbors, the garbage man, anyone who stopped by to visit; and Ginny was always beside him with cookies or a piece of pie and coffee.

Bob has brought countless people to Christ through his generosity and sharing his Faith with all the people he encountered in his long life.

He accepted the trials of old age with the same grace, optimism and charm he had throughout his life, and left this world satisfied with his experience and eager to be with the Lord.

Bob is survived by his wife, Ginny; his son, David; his daughter, Robin and her husband Freddy; his son, John and his wife Kelly; seven grandchildren and their spouses; and 15 great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents; his sister, Roi Fay; and his brother, Charles. Bob was loved by all who knew him but most of all by his family. We will miss him terribly, all the while rejoicing that he has finally reached his Heavenly Home.

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Services Offered by Funeral Alternatives of Washington

Funeral Alternatives of Washington understands that every family is unique, and therefore, they offer a range of services to cater to individual needs and preferences. From traditional funeral services to cremation options, memorial ceremonies, and celebrations of life, their experienced team will guide you through the process with care and sensitivity. They also provide support with obituaries, death certificates, and other necessary paperwork.

The Facility and Its Amenities

Nestled at 455 North St. SE, Tumwater, WA 98501, the funeral home's facility is designed to provide a serene and comforting atmosphere for families. The spacious chapel can accommodate large gatherings, while the cozy reception area offers a warm setting for sharing memories and condolences. Ample parking and wheelchair accessibility ensure that all guests feel welcome and accommodated.

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In response to growing environmental concerns, Funeral Alternatives of Washington offers green burial options for eco-conscious families. This sustainable approach to funeral planning prioritizes biodegradable materials, natural burial sites, and minimal environmental impact. By choosing a green burial, you can ensure that your loved one's final farewell is not only dignified but also environmentally responsible.

Pre-Planning Services at Funeral Alternatives of Washington

Funeral Alternatives of Washington understands that pre-planning can be a thoughtful gesture for your loved ones. By making arrangements in advance, you can spare your family from having to make difficult decisions during a time of grief. Their experienced staff will guide you through the pre-planning process, ensuring that your wishes are respected and your budget is honored.

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Funeral Alternatives of Washington is deeply committed to giving back to the Tumwater community. They regularly participate in local events, sponsor charitable organizations, and provide educational resources on funeral planning and bereavement support. By engaging with the community, they aim to build lasting relationships and provide comfort beyond the funeral service itself.

Funeral Alternatives of Washington is more than just a funeral home – it's a beacon of hope and comfort during life's most challenging moments. With their commitment to personalized service, affordable options, and community involvement, they have earned a reputation as one of Tumwater's most trusted funeral homes. Whether you're planning ahead or need immediate assistance, Funeral Alternatives of Washington is here to support you every step of the way.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It serves as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries play a significant role in honoring the life of the deceased, providing closure for those who are grieving, and serving as a historical record of the person's life. They also help to notify others of the passing and provide details about funeral services or memorial events.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend writes an obituary, but it can also be written by a funeral home or a professional obituary writer. The writer should have a good understanding of the person's life and be able to convey their personality, accomplishments, and relationships.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A standard obituary should include the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), hobbies, interests, and surviving family members. You may also want to include a brief biography, achievements, or notable accomplishments.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Typically, it should be between 100-500 words. Keep in mind that some publications may charge by the word or line, so it's essential to check their guidelines beforehand.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or multiple photos with the obituary. This can help personalize the tribute and make it more engaging for readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Contact the publication or platform directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some may accept submissions online, while others may require email or phone submissions. Be prepared to provide the written obituary and any accompanying photos.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost varies depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or discounts for online-only publications. Online platforms may offer free or paid options with varying levels of features.

Can I write an obituary before someone passes away?

Yes, it's possible to write an obituary in advance. This can be especially helpful for individuals who want to have control over how they are remembered or want to spare their loved ones from having to write it during a difficult time.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites. Many libraries also maintain archives of local newspapers that can be searched in person. Additionally, you can contact the funeral home that handled the arrangements to see if they have a copy of the obituary.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's not possible to make changes to an obituary once it's been published. However, if there's a significant error or inaccuracy, you may be able to request a correction from the publication or platform.

What is a living obituary?

A living obituary is a self-written tribute that celebrates one's own life while they are still alive. It can serve as a way to reflect on accomplishments and experiences, as well as provide guidance for those who will eventually write their traditional obituary.

How do I write a good obituary?

A good obituary should be honest, respectful, and informative. Focus on capturing the person's personality, highlighting their achievements and passions, and including meaningful anecdotes or quotes.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes! Humor can be an effective way to celebrate someone's life and personality. Just be sure to use discretion and avoid anything that might offend or upset readers.

What is the purpose of an obituary headline?

An obituary headline serves as a title for the tribute and should accurately reflect the content of the obituary. It's usually centered above the main text and can include the person's name, age, and/or a brief description of their life.

Can I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes! Many people choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in their loved one's memory. This can be a meaningful way to continue their legacy and support causes they cared about.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive topics or controversies surrounding the person's life or death, it's essential to approach them with tact and respect. Consider consulting with family members or friends before including potentially sensitive information.

Can I write an obituary for someone who didn't want one?

If someone explicitly stated they didn't want an obituary, it's generally best to respect their wishes. However, if you feel that writing an obituary would be beneficial for those who are grieving or would like to honor their memory, consider discussing it with other family members or friends first.

How long does it take for an online obituary to be published?

The publication timeline varies depending on the platform or website. Some may publish immediately upon submission, while others may take several hours or days for review and approval.

Can I share an obituary on social media?

Yes! Sharing an obituary on social media can help spread the news quickly and reach a wider audience. Many online platforms provide easy sharing options for Facebook, Twitter, and other popular social media sites.

What happens if there are errors in an online obituary?

If you notice errors in an online obituary, contact the platform or website directly to report the issue. They should be able to correct the mistakes promptly.

Can I create a memorial website instead of publishing an obituary?

Yes! Memorial websites offer a more personalized way to celebrate someone's life and legacy. They often include photos, stories, videos, and other multimedia elements that can be shared with friends and family.

How do I deal with grief when writing an obituary?

Writing an obituary can be a challenging task while grieving. Take your time, gather your thoughts, and consider seeking support from friends, family, or a professional counselor if needed.

Can I reuse an existing obituary template?

Yes! You can use existing templates as a guide to help structure your writing. However, be sure to customize it to fit your loved one's unique personality and story.

What is the significance of including survivors in an obituary?

Including survivors (family members who are still alive) helps acknowledge their relationship with the deceased and provides comfort during a difficult time. It also serves as a way to recognize their loss and connection to the person who has passed away.

Can I write multiple versions of an obituary?

Yes! You may want to write different versions for various publications or platforms. For example, you might write a longer version for online platforms and shorter versions for print newspapers.