Farmer Funeral Service Obituaries

Introduction to Farmer Funeral Service

Finding the right funeral home can be a daunting task, especially during a difficult time of loss. At Farmer Funeral Service, located at 109 Second Street, Ayden, NC, 28513, their dedicated team understands the importance of providing compassionate and personalized services to families in need. With a commitment to excellence and a passion for helping others, Farmer Funeral Service has established itself as a trusted and respected funeral home in the community.

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Farmer Funeral Service has a rich history of serving the Ayden community and surrounding areas. Their story began with a simple yet profound mission: to provide exceptional care and support to families during their most difficult times. Over the years, they have remained true to this mission, earning a reputation for their kindness, empathy, and attention to detail.

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Barbara Carol Clark - October 27, 1944 - May 03, 2024

Departed: 05/03/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Carol Clark, 79 years old, passed away peacefully on May 3, 2024.

There will be no funeral or service per Carol’s request.

Carol has resided in Ayden, NC for most of her adult life and will be forever loved and missed by her son, Marty Clark and his wife, Tina Clark, along with her granddaughter Christy Clark, her brother, Wayne Byrd and wife, Kay and a special niece, Janice Harmon. Being around family and friends is what Carol loved most.

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William Herbert (Bill) Springer - December 15, 1941 - April 29, 2024

Departed: 04/29/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: William Herbert Springer, 83, of Winterville, passed away peacefully at his home on Monday, April 29, 2024.

Graveside service, Thursday, May 9, 2024, at 1PM, in Evergreen Memorial Estates, Grifton, North Carolina.  The family will receive friends after the service at the cemetery.

Bill, as he was called by friends and loved ones, was born on December 15, 1941 in Quakertown, PA to the late Herbert and Catherine Skees Springer.

After growing up in Texas, Bill served in the U.S. Navy from 1959-1962 and was a Plane Captain in the western pacific on the air craft carrier USS Ranger. He was very proud of his service to our country as was his family. After his stint in the Navy, Bill met the love of his life, Lucy Carol Wright, in Arkansas and they were wed on April 18, 1965.

Prior to his retirement, Bill worked tirelessly in the garment industry as a pattern maker to provide for his large family of 5 sons and a daughter. Given his specialized vocation, advancing in his trade often meant moving to a new factory in a different town. He moved his growing family several times, including time in 8 different states, before finally settling in Pitt Co., NC. Many lifelong friendships were created along the way. He was a man of many talents and varied interests. He could fix or build just about anything. He raised various livestock from pigs, chickens, goats, rabbits, chinchillas and more. He always had a large garden with plenty of hands to make sure there was a substantial harvest to make it through the entire year with plenty to share with friends and neighbors. Bill also enjoyed hunting, collecting Indian artifacts and fishing - especially for crappie. He loved good stories, cookouts and making memories with family and friends.

Bill is survived by his wife, Lucy; his children David Springer and wife Paula of Ayden, Thomas Springer and wife Nirmala of Chandler, AZ, Richard Springer and wife Celia of Richmond, KY, Susan Jennette and husband Victor of Grifton, and Mark Springer of Greenville; his 18 grandchildren and a great grandson; his sister, Elaine Stankiewicz and husband Bob of Ashley, PA, and brother Leslie Springer and wife June of Sparta, TN.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by a sister, Loretta Swank, and a son, William Hugh Springer.

The family would like to offer a special word of thanks to Gentiva Hospice Care who stepped in and stepped up during Bill's last days.

Memorials may be made to your favorite Veteran's Charity in his honor.

Arrangements by Farmer Funeral Service, Ayden, North Carolina.

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Donald Ray Durham - April 26, 1950 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Donald Ray Durham, 73, passed away at home in Ayden on Sunday, April 14, 2024.

A graveside service will be held on Saturday, April 20, 2024 at 11 AM at the Fort Barnwell Baptist Church Cemetery. The family will receive friends at the cemetery one hour prior to the service to reminisce about his life.

Mr. Durham resided in Ayden for the past few years, but his heart and soul were always with the Fort Barnwell Community, where he was born and raised. He spent most of his life farming, whether it be with family or with other neighbors from the area. He loved to go hunting in his younger years and talked often about fishing. He would tend a beautiful garden and pick up pecans to make his batches of fudge.

Donald was preceded in death by his parents, James and Dorothy Durham; granddaughter, Allyssa Colclough; sister and brother-in-law, Faye and Bobby Meadows; and his beloved dog, Susie.

He is survived by his daughters, Shannon Harper (David) and Michelle Ward (Bryan), both of Ayden; grandchildren, Cynthia Cook (Kaylee), John Baca (Melissa), and Madilynn Ward; siblings, Audrey Davis (Curtis), James Durham (Pinky), Lois Ormond (Ervin), all of the Dover/Fort Barnwell area, Ronald Durham (Barbara) of Ayden, and Bruce Durham of Clarks; and numerous great-grandchildren, nieces, and nephews.

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Sandra Cannon Beddard - May 07, 1954 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Mrs. Sandra Cannon Beddard, 69, passed away on Wednesday, April 10, 2024.

A graveside service will be held on Saturday, April 13, 2024 at 10:30 AM in the St. John’s Episcopal Church Cemetery.

Mrs. Beddard was a native of Ayden and lived in the St. John’s Stokestown Community. She was a graduate of Ayden-Grifton High School. She was employed with DuPont for 26 years. After retiring, she enjoyed spending time with her family and grandchildren. Sandra was a member of St. John’s Episcopal Church.

She is survived by her husband of 41 years, Johnnie Beddard; son Brad Beddard and wife, Alecia, of Marietta, GA; daughter Ashley Cauley and husband, Matt, of Greenville, NC; grandchildren, Olivia, Emily, Madeline, and Grace; and brother, Howard Gene Cannon, of Wendell, NC.

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Richard M. Montford - January 10, 1958 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Richard M. Montford, 66, passed away on Wednesday, April 10, 2024.

A memorial service will be held on Sunday at 4 pm in the Farmer Funeral Chapel in Ayden, NC. The family will receive friends after the service.

Mr. Montford, a native of Duplin County, had lived in the Ayden Community for the past 28 years. A graduate of Wallace-Rose Hill High School where he played football. He was employed with Kroger Company for 20 years and a former member of the Ayden Golf and Country Club. He is survived by his: wife of 28 years, Cheyene Kelly Montford; step-daughters, Amanda Spain and husband, Jason, and

Kimberly Harris; sister, Kristy Fuss and husband, Mark; brothers, William Montford, Jr. and wife, Beth, and Johnny Montford and wife, Camellia.

Memorials may be made to St. Jude Children’s Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.

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Esther Gail Houston - September 17, 1942 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Mrs. Esther (Gail) Brothers Houston, 81, entered her eternal rest with her Lord and Savior on March 24, 2024 at The Service League of Greenville Inpatient Hospice in Pitt County.

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Master Chief Maxie E. Wiley - November 02, 1941 - March 21, 2024

Departed: 03/21/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Master Chief Maxie E. Wiley.

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Robert Lee Curry - November 09, 1948 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Robert Lee Curry of Grifton, 75, passed away on Tuesday, March 19, 2024.

Robert is preceded in death by his parents, Robert Jasper and Fannie Eastwood Curry, and a sister, Kathyrn G. Carrow.

He is survived by a daughter, Robin Campbell of Greenville, grandchildren, Kayla Curry of Greenville, Timothy Campbell, Logan Campbell and Matthew Campbell of Stokes, and sisters, Joann Cox of Ayden and Betty Wood of Greenville.

As per Robert's request, no services will be held.

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Jean Pender Raper - September 30, 1936 - March 02, 2024

Departed: 03/02/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Jean Pender Raper, 87, stepped into the arms of her Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ, on March 2, 2024. To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord. ll Cor. 5:88

Jean is the daughter of the late William Lee (Bill) and Irene Pender of Edgecombe County. She graduated from Tarboro High School. She was a longtime resident of Greenville, NC.

Jean was blessed with three sons: Michael Clark and wife Kimberlee Jo, Bruce Scott and wife Holly, and Kenneth Neil; four grandchildren: Aaron Daniel Raper, Anna Elizabeth Reynolds, Casey Michelle Cady and Dana Leigh and husband Thomas Rusconi; five great-grandchildren, Hugo William, Gianni Michael, Alexander Gene, Emma Grace (Rusconi) and Nova (Cady).

She is preceded in death by an infant son, Edward Ray, both parents and daughter-in-law, Rhonda Bailey Raper.

Jean was a gifted artist and a kind and gentle soul, the epitome of a true Southern lady.

She was a wonderful mama and grandma and was blessed with a long life to be “loved on” by her family and especially her great-grandchildren.

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding. For through wisdom your days will be many and years will be added to your life. Proverbs 9:10-11.

Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints. Psalm 116:15.

She’s finally HOME.

A graveside service will be held at Pinewood Memorial Park in Greenville, NC at 11:00 AM Tuesday, March 5, 2024.

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Linda Stox Weathersby - October 10, 1951 - February 29, 2024

Departed: 02/29/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Linda Stox Weathersby found her eternal peace on February 29, 2024 after a courageous battle with cancer. At the age of 72, she died surrounded by family at the Service League of Greenville Inpatient Hospice.

Linda was born in Ayden, North Carolina on October 10, 1951 to Chester and Bertha Stox.

For 55 years, she has been married to her childhood sweetheart. They were married on March 23, 1969.

Linda worked in banking most of her adult life, serving hometown neighbors and friends. Community was important to her and she served her community in a number of ways over the years through organizations like the FWB Press, Chamber of Commerce and Kiwanis.

She was a faithful member of Winterville Free Will Baptist Church where she served by playing the piano and organ, teaching Sunday school or leading Bible Study. She served as Church Treasurer for a number of years.

Linda was predeceased in death by her parents, Chester and Bertha Stox, and her brother, Gregory Allen Stox.

She is survived by her husband of 55 years, Robert Weathersby of Ayden; son, Mickey Ross and wife Catina, of White House, Tennessee; Brian Weathersby and wife, Lisa, of Ayden; and daughter, Robin Davis and husband Steve, of Wendell; sister, Cathy Russos and husband Harry, of Raleigh; brother, David Stox and wife Paula, of Wilson. Grandchildren, Alexis Davis of Ayden; Haley Davis of Norwalk California, Thomas Davis and Nathan Davis, both of Wendell, and Emory Ross of White House, Tennessee.

A private graveside service is planned.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Service League of Greenville Inpatient Hospice, 920 Wellness Drive, Greenville, NC 27834.

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Nancy Jackson Butts - May 19, 1939 - February 27, 2024

Departed: 02/27/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Nancy Jackson Butts, 84, of Ayden, NC, passed away on February 27, 2024. She was the daughter of the late Darrell and Novella Cannon Jackson.

Nancy was a class of 1957 Ayden High School graduate. She grew up and worked on her family’s farm before starting a family of her own. Nancy spent most of her adult life as a homemaker, where she worked tirelessly as a loving wife and mother. She was more than happy to be a central figure in the lives of her child, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. In her free time, she enjoyed traveling to country music shows and antiquing.

Nancy is survived by her son, Darrell Allen Butts (“Al”); grandchildren, Darrell Butts (wife, Brittany Mann) and Amber Daniels (husband, Spencer); great grandchildren Layla Daniels, Riley Butts, and Wesley Daniels; sister, Joy Buck (husband, Elbert); brother-in-law, Leon Butts; nephews, Todd Buck (wife, Jacklyn), Kendall Howell, and Eddie Butts; niece, Norma Howell Noble (husband, Wayne); great nieces and nephews, Ashton Kern, Elyn Buck, Rilyn Buck, Justin Noble, Matt Noble (wife, Natalie), Tucker Howell, and Carson Howell; and cousins, Sara Clifford (husband, John), and Carol Hart. She is preceded in death by husband of 63 years, Max Butts; sisters-in-law, Joanna Howell and Joyce Butts; cousin/caregiver, Tracey Harris; and niece, Kimberly Buck Kern.

The family will receive friends on March 1st at 1:30 p.m. at Farmer Funeral Service of Ayden with a funeral service to follow at 2:30 p.m.

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Ann Bowen Faulkner - December 17, 1949 - February 27, 2024

Departed: 02/27/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Mrs. Ann Bowen Faulkner, 74, passed away very early on the morning of Tuesday, February 27, 2024 peacefully surrounded by her immediate family.

The funeral service will be held Monday at 2 PM in the Farmer Funeral Chapel in Ayden. Burial will follow in Ayden Cemetery. The family will receive friends Sunday from 6-8 PM at Farmer Funeral Service.

Ann was born in Scuffleton, on the Pitt County side, where her parents ran a country store. She lived there growing up right beside Contentnea Creek until she married her sweetheart, Frank, in 1967. She graduated from Ayden High School in 1968. She then resided in the Ormondsville community of Greene County the rest of her life. She attended some higher education classes at Pitt Community College in various subjects.

Blessed with the gift of motherhood in 1972 and again in 1976, she happily welcomed becoming a stay at home mother who enjoyed caring for her family. She volunteered at times in Ayden Schools when her children were young and was a foster parent in the mid 1980s. She cared several years for her bedridden mother-in-law in the late 1980s-October of 1995. For 20+ years, she operating a licensed in-home daycare business out of her home, helping to raise many of the children in her community. When she retired from daycare, due to her health, “Miss Ann” as the kids called her, said she would “always continue to love and remember them no matter what”.

She accepted the Lord into her life at a young age, and was a member of Saint’s Delight OFWB Church. She also attended Ormondsville FWB Church. When her issues with mobility began, around the same time her oldest daughter passed away at 31 due to surgery complications, her faith did not waiver. It continued to make her find comfort in Jesus and she always wanted to help make sure the ones around her knew Jesus’ love and our promise for an everlasting life by accepting him into our hearts.

She delighted in discussing the Bible, listening to many types of music, crafting, cooking, shopping, keeping in touch with family, collecting dolls, reading, watching movies, taking care of animals but one of her very top interests was spending time with her only grandchild.

Ann was preceded in death by her dedicated husband of 54 years, Franklin “Frank” Roosevelt Faulkner; parents, Glenn Bowen, Sr. and Edith McLawhorn Bowen; oldest daughter, Katina Michelle Faulkner; and 2 siblings, her brother Glenn Bowen, Jr. and older sister Marie Bowen Murphy.

She is survived by her youngest daughter, Lisa Ann Faulkner; her granddaughter, Anna Marina Faulkner-Turnage (who was truly a light in her life); Anna’s father and “adopted son” Michael G Turnage; her very close and loving younger sister, Susan Bowen Moore and husband, Jackie of Winterville and several nieces and nephews and their families that were just as special.

Memorial contributions may be made to Saint’s Delight OFWB Church, 4679 Ormondsville Rd, Ayden, NC 28513.

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Richard Harvey Godwin - August 28, 1944 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Richard Harvey “Dicky” Godwin, 79, of Ayden died on Monday, February 26, 2024.

A Memorial Service will be held on Thursday, February 29, 2024 at 2:00 PM in the Ayden United Methodist Church. Visitation will be held at Farmer Funeral Home, Ayden, on Wednesday from 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM.

Mr. Godwin was born in Compton, California. He was raised in Ernul, NC before making his home in the Ayden community for the last 62 years. He was a graduate of Farm Life High School in Vanceboro, and was a veteran of the United States Army Reserve. Dicky was employed with E.I. Dupont for 35 years. Following his retirement from Dupont, he was employed with The Town of Ayden as an Animal Control Officer. He was a member of the Ayden United Methodist Church.

Dicky was preceded in death by his parents, Joseph Henry and Vida Toler Godwin.

He is survived by his wife of 56 years, Camilla N. Godwin; daughter, Virginia Godwin Allen and husband, Jonathan, of Clinton, NC; and granddaughter, Mary Katherine “Sweet Pea” Allen.

Memorials may be made to the Ayden United Methodist Church Crowe Music Fund, P.O. Box 335, Ayden, NC 28513 of the Ayden Rescue Squad, 4112 West Ave., Ayden, NC 28513.

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Dora (Dink) Tyson - December 05, 1927 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Dora (Dink) Tyson was born on December 5, 1927 and passed away peacefully at her home on February 26, 2024 at the age of 96.

Dink was a native of Pitt County and oldest child of the late Lonnie and Effie Hathaway. Moving many times during her childhood and attending four separate high schools from New Jersey, Virginia and North Carolina, she graduated from Greenville High School in 1946. Dink was most proud of achieving all A’s throughout high school in spite of her constant moves and was quick to point it out to her children! She worked as a bookkeeper for Taft Furniture and was a diehard Greenville Greenies Baseball Fan. She met a young Marine from Cherry Point on a blind date at an East Carolina Teachers College dance. Upon his transfer to California, she traveled to Chicago and boarded the Super Chief Train bound for California to get married. After their marriage at San Juan Capistrano in 1949, they bought their first home in Southern California. With the advent of The Korea War, her husband deployed and, with only having her driver’s license for two weeks, drove cross country along the famous Route 66 to Greenville alone armed with a 1949 Plymouth Club Coupe and only a Texaco Road Map. She was proud that she had one flat tire and only hit one car on that trip! That adventuresome spirit led her to many more travels over the years with her favorite, traveling to Guadalcanal with her husband for the 50th Anniversary of the Guadalcanal Campaign Celebration. Dink enjoyed cruising to Alaska, The Caribbean and New England as long as she had access to the casino! Dink especially enjoyed cruising with her youngest grandson! She enjoyed living in California, Hawaii, Virginia, Georgia, New Jersey and back home to North Carolina with her family.

Dink maintained many friendships throughout the country for many years. She was proud to be (The Last) of her lifelong friends, moving on to forge new friendships with a (younger generation). Dink will be missed by her Bridge Girls, Bingo Girls and Guys and all those who cherished her wit, sharp tongue and spunk!

Dink’s husband of 56 years, William D Tyson, MSGT USMC (RET), the love of her life and her (Rock) predeceased her in 2005. Additionally, Dink was predeceased by her daughter Karen Tyson and a sister Lucille Hathaway Hines.

She is survived by her son, Craig Tyson and wife Pat Swindell Tyson, daughter, Kathy Tyson Harrison and husband Billy, and son Barry Tyson and wife Cora; sisters, Joe Ann Hathaway O'Briant and Judy Hathaway Lockamy and husband, Harold. (Dink) is survived by seven grandchildren and eight great grandchildren. She is also survived by (special friends) Cora Hart Smith and husband, Colonel Dawson Smith that she enjoyed Friday morning phone calls (after Perry Mason) for over ten years.

We would like to extend a special thanks to caregivers Shay Williams of SilverCare and Chastity Dupree for their unwavering and personal care of Mom.

Dink did not like farewells, only hellos. Per her wishes there will be no service. A Celebration of Her Life will be held at a later date. She will be laid to rest with her husband at the Quantico National Cemetery, Quantico, VA.

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Chester Eugene Page - May 01, 1937 - February 19, 2024

Departed: 02/19/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Chester Eugene Page, beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend, passed away on February 19, 2024, in Ayden, North Carolina. He was born on May 1, 1937, in Wilson County to Floyd and Verna Davis Page.

Gene lost both his parents at age two. He and his brother Charles were placed at the Freewill Baptist Orphanage in Middlesex and he resided there for the next 19 years. After graduating from Middlesex High School, he pursued a career in professional baseball, signing with the Baltimore Orioles organization. After an injury, he attended Chowan College on a basketball and baseball scholarship. He also participated in track and field for Chowan, where he obtained his associate degree in printing. He moved to Ayden to work with the Ayden FWB Press, then he joined the army, achieving the rank of Sergeant. He was stationed in California and Germany and was able to travel throughout Europe. After his honorable discharge, he returned to Ayden to his previous position with the FWB press, then worked 27 years for Morgan Printers from which he retired at age 72.

Gene is survived by his loving wife of 57 years, Judy Hall Page; their devoted daughters, Meredith Page Amador and Melody Page Byrum and their spouses, Javier Amador and Linwood Byrum. He leaves behind cherished grandchildren, Diego and Maya Amador and Nathan and Abigail Byrum. Also he is survived by his sister-in-law Mary Hall, brother-in-law Bobby and his wife Carolyn Hall, sister-in-law Linda Page, and their families. He was preceded in death by his brother Rev. Charles Page, brother -in-law Ronnie Hall and parents-in-law Junius and Mirtie Hall. His life was marked by his unwavering commitment to his family and he will be deeply missed by all of them.

Throughout his life, Gene was a gifted athlete and excelled in baseball, softball, basketball, bowling, and track. He generously shared his passion for sports by coaching various teams in his community, leaving a lasting impact on the lives of many young athletes. He was also an avid golfer, spending most days at the Ayden Country Club hanging out with “the boys.” He looked forward to watching his beloved Tar Heels basketball team each year. He loved being outdoors and grew radiant roses and pretty purple petunias.

Gene's character was defined by his humility, wisdom, and hard work. He was known as an exemplary father and husband, a true gentleman who embodied kindness and respect in all aspects of his life. He loved to tell stories about the great adventures of his life and gave sage advice. He lived life fully. His legacy of loyalty and resilience will continue to inspire all who knew him.

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Clifton Earl (Bill) Dail - April 21, 1932 - February 18, 2024

Departed: 02/18/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Clifton Earl (Bill) Dail, 91, passed away at his home in Ayden on Sunday, February 18, 2024.

A Memorial Service will be held Saturday, March 16, 2024 at Evergreen Memorial Estates Mausoleum at 2 pm.

Bill served for 20 years, 1952 to 1972, in the United States Army, where he served two tours in Vietnam. He was a disabled veteran from the Vietnam War, but he did not consider himself disabled. He earned three Purple Heart awards and a Good Conduct medal while in Vietnam. Although Bill was disabled, you couldn’t tell him that, as he mowed his own lawn, washed his own clothes and cooked his own meals. He even built his own wheel chair ramp. He was a very unique, down to earth person who lived a simple lifestyle. Bill was a loyal and generous person and loved helping others. He enjoyed playing cards, especially Spades.

Bill was preceded in death by his parents, Clifton and Estell Dail; wife, Muriel Baker Johnson, wife, Anna Maria, wife Dorothy Marie and wife, Kea Dail; daughter, Sharon Ann Dail; sons, Johnny Earl Dail, and David Wayne Dail and wife, Rosemary; grandson, David Dail; and brother, John Ira (Pete) Dail and wife, Mary Francis.

He is survived by his sons, Robin Lee Dail and wife, Heather and Michael Dail and wife, Missy; stepson, Gene Auxter; brother, Jessie Dail and wife, Robin; and numerous grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces, nephews and friends.

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Carlton Ray Smith - August 19, 1960 - February 05, 2024

Departed: 02/05/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Carlton Ray Smith, 63, died February 5, 2024.

The funeral service will be Thursday, at 2PM at Farmer Funeral Chapel. Burial will follow the service in Winterville Cemetery.

Mr. Smith, a native of Pitt County, was living in Ahoskie, North Carolina. He is a graduate of Ayden-Grifton High School. He was a U.S. Army veteran and was stationed in Germany for three years.

Mr. Smith was a sales representative for Rainbow and WaterMatic vacuum cleaners, and also worked at Proctor & Gamble for four years.

He was active in prison ministries, nursing homes, and campground ministries for a number of years. Mr. Smith was a member of the Christian Motorcycle Club, and the VFW in Ahoskie.

Mr. Smith was a member of the Potecasi Baptist Church where he was leader of the senior group and an assistant Sunday school teacher.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Rev. Frank & Edna Smith; and son, Tim Jernigan. He is survived by his: wife of 20 years, Carolyn Godley Smith; daughters, Cynthia S. Woolard and husband, David, and Amanda S. Bass and husband, Justin; step-children, Winson Barnes and wife, Stacey, and Thomas Jernigan and wife, Nicky; grandchildren, Nick, Natalie Bass, Meagan, Natalie Barnes, Carter, Jordan, Dylan, and Leslie; great-grandchild, Arlene;

brother, Frank Smith, Jr. and wife, Sharon; and faithful companion, Buddy.

The family will receive friends on Thursday, prior to the service from 1-2 PM at Farmer Funeral Home.

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Phyllis Latham - December 15, 1952 - February 04, 2024

Departed: 02/04/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Phyllis Latham, born December 15, 1952 in Perth Amboy, New Jersey, passed way on February 4th 2024.

Phyllis was a loving mother and even better grandmother. She is survived by her daughters, Kelly Keene (39) and Nicole Imbriaco (46); Six granddaughters, Ariana Lucarelli, Addison Lucarelli, Amiya Keene, Jessica Murillo, Hailey Murillo, and Bella Murillo. She had one grandson, Christopher Handy, Jr.

Phyllis Latham was the rock of her family and loved dearly by her daughters and grandchildren.

Her memorial service will be held on Saturday, February 10, 2024 at Reimage Church,  3950 Victory lane, Winterville, NC 28590, from 12:00 pm-1:00pm.

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Jasper Lee Dail - August 17, 1952 - January 22, 2024

Departed: 01/22/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Jasper Lee Dail, 71, of the Grifton community, went home to be with his Lord and Savior, on Monday, January 22, 2024, surrounded by his family.

The funeral service will be held on Thursday, January 25, 2024, at 2:00 pm, at Farmer Funeral Service chapel. A visitation will be held on Wednesday evening from 6 to 8 pm at the funeral home. Burial will follow the service at Evergreen Memorial Estates in Grifton.

Jasper was born in Pitt County and grew up in the Grifton community. He joined the United States Army, proudly serving 23 years before retiring in 1993. During his active duty, he served in Vietnam, Operation Desert Shield, and Desert Storm. Jasper was a loving husband, father, and granddaddy. He enjoyed fishing, traveling, and camping with his grandchildren. He also did various crafts, including candle-making, woodworking, ceramics, and leather works. Jasper was a very kind person who would help anyone. He will be greatly missed by his family and friends.

Mr. Dail, was preceded in death by his wife, Patricia Manning Dail; parents, Roy and Doris Dail of Grifton; and siblings, Robert Dail and Charles Dail.

He is survived by his son, Chris Dail and wife, Brenda, of Grifton; daughter, Amber Dail McClure and husband, Josh, of Greenville; six grandchildren, Victoria Morris, Alex Hamilton, Hunter and Caleb Dail, Justin Hamilton, and Meadow Ham; one sister, Annie Smith of Walstonburg; and several special nieces and nephews. Arrangements by Farmer Funeral Service. Online condolences available at www.wilkersonfuneralhome.com

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Clarence E. Gilland - January 04, 1930 - January 07, 2024

Departed: 01/07/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: No services at this time.

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Linda Walker Hopkins - May 07, 1944 - January 02, 2024

Departed: 01/02/2024 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Mrs. Linda Walker Hopkins, 79, passed away peacefully at Brookdale Assisted Living in Greenville, North Carolina on Tuesday, January 2, 2023. She was the wife of Bob Hopkins and they shared nearly 49 years of marriage together.

A memorial service will be held on Sunday, January 7, 2023 at 2:00 PM at Farmers Funeral Home Chapel, Ayden. Visitation will be held from 1:00 PM – 2:00 PM.

Linda was born in Mount Olive, North Carolina on May 7, 1944 and was the eldest daughter of Boyd and Pat Walker. She graduated from North Duplin High School and enjoyed a life-long career as a legal secretary and administrative assistant.

Linda enjoyed all things in nature and embraced the simple things in life. She loved animals and was an exceptional steward of God’s earth. Her love for the outdoors was evident in her well-tended yard and beautiful garden. She often worked from sun-up to sundown, breaking only for a quick lunch; most notably a banana sandwich and a glass of sweet tea “no ice, no lemon”. She loved music, especially Golden Oldies and playing classical music on the piano. Cheddar-Bo biscuits were her favorite and she enjoyed her daily trips to Bojangles with her husband to visit with friends.

Linda will be remembered for her kind heart and giving spirit. She was a loving wife, mother, daughter and friend. She will be missed by all who knew her.

Linda was preceded in death by her daughter, Betsy; her parents; and siblings, Landis and Lana.

She is survived by her husband, Bob; daughters, Donna and Dottie; son, Charles; grandchildren, Kristan, Ashley, Hayden, Charlie, Lathan, Caroline and Jake; and great grandchildren; Woods, Hudson and Kennedy.

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Judy Marie Evans - December 15, 2023 - December 15, 2023

Departed: 12/15/2023 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Judy Marie Evans, 90, passed away Friday, December 15, 2023. She was born on January 16,1933 in Indian Head Maryland.

A graveside funeral service will be held Friday, December 22, 2023 at 2:30 PM in the Ayden Cemetery. The family will receive friends Friday prior to the service at Farmer Funeral Home from 1:00 until 2:00 PM.

Mrs. Evans was born in Maryland and had made her home in Ayden for more than 60 years. She was a mother, grandmother and great grandmother, who loved her family. She also enjoyed working in her yard, particularly with her roses. She was a people person, who got along well anyone and dearly loved children.

Mrs. Evans was preceded in death by her mother, Dora Swann, and all of her brothers and sisters.

She is survived by daughters, Letha Tyson (Tom Peterson) of Greenville and Mary Dixon of Ayden; a son, Charlie Evans of Ayden; grandchildren, Ann Sanders, Melissa Jones (Marvin), and Jessie Tyson (Neann); 16 great grandchildren and one great grandchildren.

Memorials may be made to Farmer Funeral Service to help the family with funeral expenses.

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Patricia Calhoun Carman - July 04, 1945 - December 14, 2023

Departed: 12/14/2023 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: It is with great sadness that the family announces the passing of Mrs. Patricia Calhoun Carman (Mrs. Pat), 78, of Ayden, on December 14, 2023.

A funeral service in her honor will be held on Saturday, December 16, 2023 in the Farmer Funeral Chapel at 3:00 PM. Visitation will be from 2:00 – 3:00 PM with burial following immediately after the service at Ayden Cemetery.

Mrs. Carman was the owner and operator of Tenderly Teaching Day Care for 20 years. She was a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints and was involved in many areas of the church. She was born on the 4th of July in Washington, DC and always had a strong love for her country.

Mrs. Carman is preceded in death by her husband, Donald (Bud) Carman and son, John Carman.

She is survived by: daughters, Joy Starnes and husband, John, JoAnna Robinson and husband, Christian; daughter in law, Eva Carman; grandchildren, Jack Carman, Allie Carman, Nikki Starnes, Joshua Starnes, Phoebe Starnes, Luke Robinson, Carman Robinson, and Ava Robinson; great grandchildren, Decker Berry and Becklett Berry.

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Johnny Lewis Shackleford - August 03, 1952 - November 18, 2023

Departed: 11/18/2023 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Reverend Johnny L. Shackleford, 71, of Ayden, died November 18, 2023.

Funeral services will be held on Wednesday at 2:30 PM in the Greenville Church of God with burial following in Pinewood Memorial Park. Visitation will be Wednesday from 1:00 PM – 2:15 PM at the church.

Mr. Shackleford was a native of Pitt County and had lived in Greenville most of his life. He was the owner and operator of Shackleford Electric. He became an ordained minister in 2005. Over the years he was a pastor at Fair Haven Church of God, Pink Hill Church of God and Elm City Church of God.

He was preceded in death by his first wife, Paula Cagle Shackleford, daughter, Crystal Patterson and granddaughter, Sophia.

Surviving Mr. Shackleford include: his wife, Mary A. Shackleford; daughters, Christi Dulaney and husband, Jim, Nichole Dilda and husband, Joshua; children he was fondly attached to, Phillip (Bubba) Hall and wife, Jessica; stepson, Jamie Williams; grandchildren, David, Darlene, Hannah and fiancé, David, Patricia Lynn, Colby, Leah, Aubree, Jacob and Justin; great grandchildren, Loki and Raiden; sister, Nora Davenport; and brothers, Charles Shackleford and Al Shackleford. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society, 930-B Wellness Drive, Greenville, NC 27834

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John Fisher Sparrow - July 18, 1946 - November 18, 2023

Departed: 11/18/2023 (Ayden)

Obituary Preview: Mr. John Fisher Sparrow, Jr. 77, died at his home on Saturday, November 18, 2023.

A memorial service will be held on Wednesday at 2 pm at the Grifton Free Will Baptist Church. Visitation will be from 1PM – 2 PM at the church.

Mr. Sparrow, was a native of Beaufort County. He had lived in the Grifton Community for the past 55 years. He was a graduate of John H. Wilkerson High School in Belhaven, where he played football and was selected All-Conference for his school. Mr. Sparrow was a veteran of the United States Army during the Vietnam conflict. He was employed with the United States Postal Service, working in the Grifton Post Office, for 42 years.

Mr. Sparrow is preceded in death by his parents, John F. and Lula Sadler Sparrow. He is survived by his: wife, Toni Sparrow; sons, Todd Sparrow and wife, Angel, of Grifton, Eric Sparrow and wife, Tyra, of Grifton, Jay Sparrow and wife, Amy, of Grifton and Matt Sparrow of South Carolina; daughter, Constance Sparrow of Kinston; grandchildren, Morgn, Tanner, Haley, Cortni, Sydney Sparrow, Braxton, Emalee, JJ, Katelyn, Kentsey, Laster John, and Sydney Roman; great-grandchildren, Reagan and Baby Boy Thomas; sisters, Dottie Lou Smith and husband, Charles;

brother, Lonnie Sparrow, both of Belhaven.

Memorial contributions may be made to SPCA, 2455 Rouse Road Exd, Kinston, NC 28504.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their surviving family members, funeral or memorial services, and any charitable donations in lieu of flowers.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend writes the obituary, although it can also be written by a funeral home or other professional. The writer should have a good understanding of the person's life and relationships to ensure accuracy and sensitivity.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A standard obituary typically includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their accomplishments, awards, or military service.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos or other multimedia in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and some print publications allow you to include photos, videos, or audio clips to enhance the tribute. Check with the specific publication or platform for their guidelines.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Check the website or contact the publication directly for submission guidelines. Some may have online forms or email addresses where you can send the obituary text and any accompanying photos or multimedia.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost varies depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers or online sites may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or free listings. Be sure to check prices before submitting your obituary.

Can I edit or correct an obituary after it's been published?

It depends on the publication or platform. Some may allow corrections or edits within a certain timeframe, while others may not make changes once it's been published. Check with the specific publication or platform for their policy.

How long will an obituary remain online?

The duration varies depending on the platform or publication. Some online obituaries may remain available indefinitely, while others may be archived after a certain period. Check with the specific platform for their archiving policy.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to reflect on their life and legacy. This can also help alleviate the burden on loved ones during a difficult time.

Is it appropriate to include humor or lighthearted anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! An obituary should celebrate the person's life and personality. Including humorous stories or quirky facts can help capture their spirit and make the tribute more engaging.

Should I include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

Yes, if the family prefers donations to a specific charity or cause in lieu of flowers, this information should be included in the obituary. This allows friends and acquaintances to make a meaningful contribution in memory of the deceased.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, quotes, lyrics, or poems that resonate with the person's life or personality can add depth and meaning to the tribute. Just be sure to obtain any necessary permissions or credits.

How do I handle sensitive information or family conflicts when writing an obituary?

Sensitive topics should be approached with care and tact. If there are family conflicts or sensitive issues, it's best to focus on celebrating the person's life rather than airing grievances. Consider consulting with other family members or a mediator if necessary.

Can I include information about pets in an obituary?

Absolutely! Pets are often beloved members of the family, and including them in the obituary can provide comfort to those grieving.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?