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Michael R. Norris - June 06, 1952 - April 22, 2022

Departed: 04/22/2022 (Grundy Center)

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Kayleen K. Rouse - December 25, 1938 - April 20, 2022

Departed: 04/20/2022 (Grundy Center)

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Deborah E. McIntyre - February 20, 1952 - April 18, 2022

Departed: 04/18/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Deborah E. McIntyre, 70, of Grundy Center, IA, unexpectedly passed away late April 17, 2022, from an abdominal aortic aneurysm.

Debbie was born February 20, 1952, to Wayne and Doris Shaffer in Grinnell, IA. She graduated from Hudson High School in 1970, and later went on to cosmetology college.

In 1969, she met Jerry McIntyre at a teen dance in Dysart. They married in 1971. They had three wonderful children, Melanie, Melissa, and Cory.

Debbie spent her time sewing, gardening, following her husband to music festivals, attending her grandchildren’s events, and spending as much time as possible with her beloved family.

Debbie is predeceased by her father, Wayne. She is survived by her mother Doris, her husband Jerry, her three children Melanie Greenlee, Melissa (Wade) Miller, and Cory McIntyre, and her six grandchildren, Robert, Jerran, Audrey, Logan, Breena, and Geneva.

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Delmar Dale Cole - September 17, 1942 - April 14, 2022

Departed: 04/14/2022 (Grundy Center)

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James E. Miller - September 09, 1930 - April 08, 2022

Departed: 04/08/2022 (Grundy Center)

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Sharon Abbas - September 18, 1937 - April 06, 2022

Departed: 04/06/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Sharon Kay Abbas, 84, of Grundy Center, formerly of Dike and Cedar Falls, Iowa; passed away on Wednesday, April 6, 2022, at Arlington Place in Grundy Center, while under the care of Cedar Valley Hospice. A memorial visitation will be held on Monday, April 11, 2022, from 10:00 a.m. until time of memorial service 11:00 a.m. at the Union Congregational United Church of Christ in Reinbeck, Iowa. Inurnment will be held privately by the family at later date at New Hampton City Cemetery. Memorials may be directed to the family.

Sharon was born on September 18, 1937, to her parents Kenneth and Cleo (Stock) Poling. She was raised in State Center and attended State Center High School. She was married to Dale Abbas and the couple welcomed five children into their family. They later divorced. Sharon worked at Viking Pump in Cedar Falls, Iowa for many years as a pump assembler and retired in 2000.

Sharon attended the Union Congregational United Church of Christ in Reinbeck and enjoyed being apart of the Prayer Shawl Group, where she knitted hats. She was a highly creative person and loved sharing her talent. Whether it was woodworking, painting or any other crafts, Sharon was always busy creating. She also loved doing puzzles gardening and fishing, however her true joy in life came from spending time with her family and friends.

Sharon is survived by her daughters Diana Kruger (Rick Reinicke), Lucinda “Cindy” (Jay) Huberg, Shawna (Bob) Jones, and Dalette (Steve) Habenicht; 15 grandchildren and 26 great-grandchildren; brothers Allyn Poling and Kenneth “Butch” (Penny) Poling, Jr.; sisters Carol (Dennis) Volker and LeaAnn Hitchings; sisters-in-law Lois Poling, Norma Jean (Virgil) Meyer, Vickie Stancati, and Dixie Abbas; and many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents; son Dale Wayne Abbas in infancy; son-in-law Delroy Kruger; brothers Larry, Jerry, and Rick Poling; and sisters-in-law Jeanette Poling and Patty Pipho.

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Timothy L. Bonk - April 27, 1958 - April 06, 2022

Departed: 04/06/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Timothy L. Bonk, 63, of Waterloo, Iowa, passed away suddenly on Wednesday, April 6, 2022, at UnityPoint Allen Hospital in Waterloo. A private graveside service will be held at a later date. Memorials may be directed to the family.

Tim was born on April 27, 1958, to his parents Donald and Janet (Jeffries) Bonk. He was raised in Holland and Grundy Center and attended Grundy Center High School. After high school, Tim enlisted in the United States Army and upon serving his country and receiving an honorable discharge, he moved to Beaufort, South Carolina for many years. There he was employed at a water reclamation plant and as an electrician. Tim loved to cook, and he was very good at it. He also enjoyed the outdoors, whether it was fishing, boating, or camping, Tim loved to be outdoors enjoying nature. However, his true joy in life came from spending time with his family, especially his kids and grandkids.

Tim is survived by his children Debbie (Jason) Redix, Chris (Christina) Bonk, Theresa Hendryx, Timothy “Brian” Bonk and Brandy (Kenneth) Williams; 16 grandchildren; 3 great-grandchildren and one on the way; sister Kathy Griffen; brother Matthew Bonk; sister-in-law Valerie Bonk and many extended family members. He was preceded in death by his parents; brothers Kenneth “Casey” Bonk and Scott Bonk; and sister Lisa Sue Bonk in infancy.

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Eugene "Gene" Allen Colson - December 22, 1939 - March 29, 2022

Departed: 03/29/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Eugene “Gene” Allen Colson, 82, of Grundy Center, Iowa, passed away peacefully at his home in Grundy Center on Tuesday, March 29, 2022. Memorial visitation will be held on Sunday, April 3, 2022, from 1:00 p.m. until time of memorial service at 2:00 p.m. at the Abels Funeral and Cremation Service, Engelkes Chapel in Grundy Center. Inurnment will follow at Rose Hill Cemetery in Grundy Center with military honors conducted by the Grundy Center American Legion Post # 349 and AMVETS 17. Memorials may be directed to the Grundy Center Lions Club.

Gene was born on December 22, 1939, in Bloomington, Wisconsin to his parents George and Emma (Burr) Colson. He was raised in Fennimore, Wisconsin and graduated from Fennimore High School. After high school he enlisted in the United States Navy. After serving his country and being honorably discharged, Gene was united in marriage to Marcia Kay Foster. Together they welcomed four children into their family. In 1981 the family relocated to Grundy Center where Gene was employed at Bacon Veneer until his retirement.

Gene was an active member of the Grundy Center Lions Club, the Center Theatre, and the Senior Center. He was an avid Green Bay Packers fan and loved to take walks on the Pioneer Trial. However, Gene’s true joy in life came from spending time with his family especially his grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Gene is survived by his children Richard Colson of Grundy Center, Ron Colson (Julie Mitchell) of Cedar Falls, Tammy (Lee) Koch of Grundy Center, Terri (Ryan) Gordon of Reinbeck; 16 grandchildren; 2 step-grandchildren; and 17 great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents; wife Marcia; and 2 brothers.

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John Huck, Jr. - July 20, 1938 - March 22, 2022

Departed: 03/22/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: John Huck, Jr., 83, of Waterloo, Iowa, passed away on Tuesday, March 22, 2022, at his home in Waterloo while under the care of Unity Point Hospice. A visitation will be held on Monday, March 28, 2022, from 10 a.m. until time of funeral service at 12:00 p.m. at the Abels Funeral and Cremation Service, Engelkes Chapel in Grundy Center. Burial will follow at the Holland Cemetery. Memorials may be directed to the Alzheimer’s Association.

John was born on July 20, 1938, in Lincoln, Nebraska to his parents John Allen Huck Sr., and Ruth (Scharton) Huck. He was raised in Lincoln and attended high school there until he enlisted into the United States Marine Corps. He served his country for 3 years and upon his honorable discharge he moved to Waterloo, Iowa and began working for his best friend at Waterloo Paint and Body. John then had several jobs around the Waterloo area working as a tradesman. On January 20, 1962, John was united in marriage to Mardell Finke in Waterloo. They welcomed two children into their family. When John was not working or spending time with his family, he enjoyed going to car shows and loved classic cars.

John is survived by his son Jonn “Budd” (Tami) Huck, Sr. of Brunswick, GA; daughter Jill Peterson of Waterloo, IA; grandchildren Jonn Brian Huck, Jr., Devin Singleton, Kali (Payton) Mobayyeni, Brandon (Amanda) Peterson, and Breanna (Christian) Gaffy; great-grandchildren Kaegen Singleton, Jordan Gaffy, Connor Peterson, Finnegan Gaffy, Charlotte Gaffy, Cassidy Peterson and Dryden Gaffy; brother Dale Huck; sisters Nancy Huck and Barb Blackstock; and many nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents; wife Mardell; sister Irene Thompson; and brother Richard  Huck.

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Ruth E. Ware - January 01, 1932 - March 22, 2022

Departed: 03/22/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Ruth Ellen Ware, 90, recently of Clive and a long-time resident of Grundy Center, died March 22, 2022 at the UnityPoint Taylor House Hospice in Des Moines. She was born on a farm near Fern in Grundy County, Iowa on January 1, 1932, the adored third child of J. Frederick and Lena (Smit) Abels.

After her father died when Ruth was three years old, her family moved to Grundy Center. A child of the Great Depression, she knew frugality. As a teenager she earned her own spending money after school, on weekends and during the summer at Manly Drug Store. After high school graduation in 1950, she worked as a bookkeeper and teller at Farmers Savings Bank in Grundy Center.

On July 1, 1952, she married Charles Lincoln Ware in the F.E. Warren Air Force Base chapel in Cheyenne, Wyoming. While in Cheyenne, she kept books for Stockgrowers National Bank until the birth of her first child. In 1954, the young family returned to Iowa, building their life on a new farmstead south of Grundy Center where they lived for 65 years.

In addition to raising four children, keeping a productive garden where nothing went to waste, and sharing in the farm operation, she loved to read and worked at the Grundy Center Community Library and the Beaman public library. For three decades she kept alumni addresses for the Grundy Center Community School District Foundation.

A cancer survivor several times over, she chaired the Grundy County chapter of the American Cancer Society. She also served in different capacities for churches where she was a member, as Sunday School and catechism teacher, elder, treasurer and women’s group leader. She enjoyed worshipping her Lord at Bethany Presbyterian Church in Grundy Center, Alice Church of God in Conrad, and Salem Church of Lincoln.

Ruth and Charles enjoyed traveling and being outdoors, whether it was as Winter Texans in Alamo, Texas or camping with family in the Rockies, Ozarks, Pike’s Peak State Park, and other picturesque parts of northeast Iowa. They celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary by driving to Alaska. Ruth was an accomplished but humble cook, stitched most of the clothes her daughters wore until they made their own, and created patchwork quilts for numerous family members.

She is preceded in death by brother Virgil Abels and sister Doris (Abels) Beuttler.

Survivors include husband Charles Ware of Clive; four children Laura (Dave) Miller of Ames, Nancy (Joe) Wauters of Windsor Heights, Dr. Lowell (Nancy) Ware of Smiths Grove, Kentucky, and Eric (Amanda) Ware of Windsor Heights; six grandchildren and eight great-grandchildren.

The funeral will be 10:30 a.m. on Saturday, April 2 at Bethany Presbyterian Church in Grundy Center, with burial at Rose Hill Cemetery, followed by a meal at the church. Visitation will be 4-6 p.m. on Friday, April 1 at Abels Funeral and Cremation Service Engelkes Chapel in Grundy Center.

The family wishes to thank the nurses and staff at Taylor House for their loving care.

Flowers are welcome; contributions may be sent to the Ruth Ware Memorial Fund, Maroon & White, Inc., 703 F Avenue, Suite 2, Grundy Center, IA 50638.

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Shyrell Lynn Eccles - July 17, 1949 - March 22, 2022

Departed: 03/22/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Shyrell Lynn Eccles, 72, of Ackley, IA, passed away on March 22, 2022, in Des Moines at Mercy One Hospital. There will not be a visitation as it was Shyrell's wishes to be cremated with her remains to be buried at a later date. The family will be planning a Memorial Service to be held later in May or early June where everyone will be able to come & say their goodbyes & pay their respects. Memorials may be directed to the family.

Shyrell was born on July 17th, 1949, in Hampton, IA, to her parents Roy & Dorthy (Glaze)Kreimeyer. She was raised in Ackley & graduated from Ackley High School in 1967. She had also taken some secretary courses at Elsworth College in Iowa Falls.

Shyrell worked at Norwesco/Plastronics/NCM for nearly 40 years before the company closed down. She also had 3 daughters from her first marriage & another daughter from her second marriage before meeting her husband Robert Eccles. Her & Robert were married on June 16, 2002 & they first resided together in Holland, IA where Shyrell enjoyed sewing, quilting, embroidery, being a huge help to her church, community & everyone she met. Her & her husband also really enjoyed playing cards with friends & family whenever possible.

Shyrell's faith in God was infectious & her love for the Lord was always radiating off of her no matter how she was feeling or what was going on in her life. Shyrell was a light to all who knew & loved her. She truly never met a stranger without quickly knowing them by name & calling them her friend. Shyrell was the most outgoing, loving, caring, helpful peaceful person you'd ever meet. She loved to meet & socialize, enjoying the company of everyone around her, no matter if you were family or a friend.

Shyrell & Bob were members of Pleasant Valley Church (Fern) & she was in a group called the "Bible Babes". One of her biggest passions in life, besides collecting so many different things like angels & crosses, was her love for the Lord. She prayed for everyone, no matter how big or small your need for prayers. Her heart had no bounds when it came to her love for everyone. Especially for her husband, children, grandchildren & great-grandchildren. She would push everything aside to always be there for every one of her daughters & their families.

Shyrell is survived by her husband Robert Eccles of Ackley, IA, her 4 daughters Faith White of Grundy Center, IA, Jerilyn (Garnet) Olsowski-Livingstone of PEI, Canada, Dorthy (Jeff) McGrane of Wellsburg, IA & Brittany (Theodore) Burt of Holland, IA, her brother Dick (Wilma) Boger of Aplington, IA. She's also survived by 16 grandchildren & 7 great-grandchildren of whom she loved & adored.

She was preceded in death by her parents Roy & Dorthy (Glaze) Kreimeyer, her stepmother Hazel (Boger) Kreimeyer, her brothers Rod (Jean) Kreimeyer, Don (Dee) Boger & Myron (Georgia) Boger, a child lost during pregnancy, her first husband Richard Olsowski & her second husband Roger Henricks.

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Pauline Mae Arends - July 09, 1933 - March 19, 2022

Departed: 03/19/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Pauline Mae Arends, 88, of Grundy Center, Iowa, passed away on March 19, 2022, at Creekside Living in Grundy Center. Visitation will be held from 12:30 p.m. until time of funeral service at 1:30 p.m. on Friday, March 25, 2022, at the Colfax Center Presbyterian Church in Rural Holland. Burial will follow at the church cemetery. Memorials may be directed to the family.

Pauline was born on July 9, 1933, in rural Grundy County, Iowa to her parents Sicko and Ella (Hippen) Luchtenburg. She was raised in Grundy County and graduated from Grundy Center High School. Later in life she went to Hawkeye Community College and earned her Nursing Assistant Degree.

Pauline was united in marriage to the love of her life Virgil Lee Arends on October 30, 1951, at the Colfax Center Presbyterian Church. They made their home on their farm in rural Parkersburg for 50 years and welcomed five children into their family. They later moved to Grundy Center.

Pauline began work at the Farm Bureau as a secretary. She then worked at Grundy County Memorial Hospital as a Nursing Assistant on the OB floor. Later in life, after receiving her certification from Hawkeye Community College, she worked at the Long-Term Care Unit of the hospital. Lee and Pauline were also the owners of the Fern Dairy and Cheese Store. She then worked as a salesperson for Gourmet Express. She was a proud mother and helped Lee on their farm.

Pauline was a long-time member of Colfax Center Presbyterian Church, where she served the church as a Church Youth Group Leader, taught Catechism classes and was a part of the ladies serving group. She loved fishing at Judd’s Resort, sewing, gardening, and playing cards. However, her true joy in life came from spending time with her family, especially her grandchildren.

Pauline is survived by her children Patti (Mike) Norris of Grundy Center, IA, Sheryl (Leon) Johnson of Parkersburg, IA, Joel (Jeanne) Arends of Clear Lake, IA, Jane (Brian) Schissel of Olathe, KS and Cinda Pankratz (Jason Winters) of Clear Lake, IA; 15 grandchildren, 25 great-grandchildren and many nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents; husband Virgil; grandson Cory Norris; sister Lillian Flater; brothers Frank and Don Luchtenburg; and son-in-law Tom Morris.

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Edwin "Ted" Gerald Clark - December 04, 1934 - March 14, 2022

Departed: 03/14/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Edwin “Ted” Gerald Clark, 87, of Independence, Iowa, passed away on Monday, March 14, 2022, at his home in Independence. A memorial service will be held at 12 noon on Saturday, March 19, 2022, at the Abels Funeral and Cremation Service, Engelkes Chapel in Grundy Center. Inurnment will follow at Rose Hill Cemetery in Grundy Center. Memorials may be directed to Cedar Valley Hospice.

Ted was born on December 4, 1934, in Grundy Center, Iowa, to his parents Delbert and Vivian (Boren) Clark. He was raised in Grundy Center and graduated from Grundy Center High School in the class of 1953. He then enlisted in the United States Navy and served 4 years. Upon his honorable discharge he returned to Iowa and was united in marriage to Lois Smith on September 14, 1958. Together they made their home in Cedar Falls and welcomed 2 daughters into their family.

Ted worked as a printer at John Deere from 1964 until his retirement in 1993. All the while though, he ran his own printing company from his basement beginning in 1974; and continuing through 1981 when he bought the Clark Printing Shop until he sold the shop in 2014. During that time, he also worked construction in his afterhours, doing concrete and landscaping work.

Ted loved to fish, play cards, and travel to Florida to visit family. He was a member of a bowling team and even sponsored the team for league play.

Ted is survived by his daughters Kim Bruhn of Cedar Falls, Iowa and Kristi (Bob) Erck of Ft. Wayne, Indiana; grandchildren Matthew, Conrad, and Riley; 4 sisters-in-law; 2 brothers-in-law, many nieces and nephews; loving companion Jean Taylor; and extended family Lorry (Ward) Richards and Jeanne Taylor.  He was preceded in death by his parents, wife Lois Clark; brothers Bob Clark, Bill Clark; and nephews Tim Clark and Jeff Smith.

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Donavan Charles Ash, Sr. - January 20, 1942 - March 12, 2022

Departed: 03/12/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Donavan Charles Ash, Sr., 80, of Grundy Center, Iowa, passed away on Saturday, March 12, 2022, at UnityPoint Allen Hospital in Waterloo, Iowa. A visitation will be held on Wednesday, March 16, 2022, from 4:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. at Abels Funeral and Cremation Service Engelkes Chapel. A celebration of life will be held at a later date and Donavan will be laid to rest with his beloved dog Molly at a future date as well.  Memorials may be directed to the family.

Don was born on January 20, 1942, in Iowa City, Iowa to his parents Erwin and Kathryn (Groenewald) Ash. He was employed by Viking Pumps from July 12, 1965, until his retirement on February 1, 2004. He loved hunting, fishing, his collection John Deere tractors and mini banks, the Iowa Hawkeyes, and the Green Bay Packers. He enjoyed his morning coffee at Scotty’s with friends and playing cards. Don also enjoyed chopping his own wood for his wood burning stove, He was a stubborn and quiet man but with a soft heart especially for his family and his beloved dogs. Don is survived by his daughter Patricia (Ronald) Rose of Maxwell, Iowa; sons Donavan C. Ash, Jr. of Ackley, Iowa, and Robert Ash of Grundy Center, Iowa; granddaughters Vanessa, Elizabeth, and Mary; grandsons Ryan and Joshua; and great-grandson Avery; sisters Barbara Becker of Grundy Center, Iowa and Carol Hogan (Earl Varnadore) Eufaula, Alabama; brothers Kay (Pauline) Ash of Parkersburg, Iowa and Kevin (Mona) Ash of Grundy Center, Iowa; and sisters-in-law Liz Ash and Roxane Ash,

He was preceded in death by his parents; sisters Jeanette and Edith; and brothers Ronald, Edwin, and Paul.

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Kenneth "Ken" Earl Showers - March 21, 1938 - February 08, 2022

Departed: 02/08/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Kenneth “Ken” Earl Showers, 83, of Grundy Center, Iowa, passed away on Tuesday, February 8, 2022, in the comfort of his own home.

Following Ken’s wishes, cremation rites have been accorded and there will be no public services held at this time.  The family is planning a celebration of life held at a later date.  Ken will be laid to rest in Aurora, Iowa Memorial contributions may be directed in Ken’s name to his family which will be later designated elsewhere.  For further information or to leave an online condolence please visit www.abelsfuneralhomes.com.  Engelkes Abels Funeral Home is caring for Ken and his family.

Kenneth Earl Showers was born on March 21st, 1938, in Waterloo, Iowa.  He was raised by his mother, Alice Iola Crow.  He was raised and educated in the Waterloo school district, where he attended and graduated from Waterloo East High School.  Following graduation, Ken went on to UCLA and studied engineering.  After his studies he eventually returned to his home community to work as a plumber for a few different local companies in the Waterloo area.  On July 22, 2000, Ken was united in marriage to Carol L. Christensen in Waterloo, Iowa.   Ken loved collecting classic cars, riding motorcycles, and working on his vehicles.  He loved to tell stories about his various adventures with the classic cars and motorcycles.  Ken and his wife, Carol Showers- Christensen loved to go out to dinner and dancing in their younger years.  As they aged, he cared for her until was physically unable.

Left to cherish his memory is his wife, Carol L. Showers-Christensen of North Liberty, IA ; his 5th wife Joyce Sue Potter of Waterloo, IA; sister Nancy L. (Orville) McRobie; daughters Anna Marie Beeh and Tamara Tomkins; 5 grandchildren and several great-grandchildren; nieces and nephews, Steven (DeAnn) McRobie, Pamela (John) Holscher, Michael (Becky) McRobie, Kathleen (Duane) Bishop, Ronald (Jodie) Watson, Debra Watson (Dana) Grannos, Francine Watson; and brother-in-law Norman Watson. Ken is preceded in death by his parents George C. and Alice Showers; and sister Winetta Watson.

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Mary Lou Meester - September 19, 1940 - February 06, 2022

Departed: 02/06/2022 (Grundy Center)

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Tina Marie Sager - November 20, 1984 - February 04, 2022

Departed: 02/04/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Tina Marie Sager passed away suddenly on February 4th, 2022. A celebration of life service

will be held on Thursday, February 10th, 2022, at 11 am at New Life Church in Reinbeck, Iowa.

Family will receive friends from 10:30 am to 11 am prior to the service. Memorials may be directed to the family.

Memorials can also be directed to Veridian Credit Union, where a benefit account has been set up in Tina's name.

Additionally, a GoFundMe campaign has been started at: GoFundMe.com/f/Tina-Marie-Sager-memorial. Tina Marie Sager was born on November 20th, 1984, in Indiana to Ernest Cogswell and Penny Bolyv. She later moved with her adoptive family to Sandy, Utah. Later, she moved to Grundy County, Iowa, where she established her roots, graduating from Grundy Center High School in

2004. She held a few jobs in the area, making many friends along the way. Tina married Adam Sager in 2005 and had two children (Wyatt & Alexis). The couple later divorced, and Tina met Erik Davenport, and they were engaged on Christmas 2015. Tina and

Erik had a son (Byron). Tina was a friend to everyone, especially people she didn’t know yet. Always quick to a joke, she’d often find they would get funnier with time. Tina was also an avid photographer, finding a way to capture life’s precious moments whenever possible. Family was number one to Tina, finding time to visit everyone in her found family whenever possible, including Larry Sager, great

grandfather to Wyatt & Lexie. She is survived by her three children, Wyatt, Alexis (Lexi), and Byron, her long-time partner in crime, fiancé Erik Davenport, close friends Danielle Husmann and Laura Lawton, her extensive found family including a Ma (Ann) & Pa (Jon), foster parents and siblings (Doug/Linda Peck & Megahn Peck), as well as her family at large, (including, but not limited to) Toni/Larry Gobble, Stephanie Tjelmeland, Ernest Cogswell, and many, many friends. She was preceded in death

by an infant son, Bentley, grandmother JoAnn Sager, and a paternal grandmother.

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Mary Lou Peterson - January 09, 1938 - February 02, 2022

Departed: 02/02/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Mary Lou Peterson, 84, of Grundy Center, Iowa, passed away peacefully in her home on February 2, 2022, while under the care of Cedar Valley Hospice.

Mary Lou was born on January 9, 1938, in Lanesboro, Minnesota, the daughter of Melvin and Nora (Torkelson) Gillund. She was always a hard worker and spent almost 40 years at NCM, where she gained many friendships. Mary Lou enjoyed gardening, baking, and spending time with family and friends.

Mary Lou is survived by children Steve Peterson of Reinbeck, Bob (Judy) Peterson of Beaman, Jim (Donna) Peterson of Gladbrook, Shelly (Randy) Johnson of Grundy Center, and Cindy (Jeff) Curren of Holland; 11 grandchildren; 15 great-grandchildren and brother Duane Gillund of Harmony, Minnesota. She was preceded in death by her parents and her brother Donald Gillund.

Per her wishes, there will be a private family memorial service. Memorials may be directed to the family.

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Donna Jean Ralston - May 16, 1932 - January 28, 2022

Departed: 01/28/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Donna Ralston, age 89, of Grundy Center, IA peacefully passed away on Friday, January 28, 2022, at Arlington Place in Grundy Center.

She was born to parents Tieman “Tim” and Lisetta “Dot” Graves Dudden on May 16, 1932, in Grundy Center and graduated from Grundy Center Community High School in 1950. Donna and Leonard Ralston were married on September 9, 1951; they lived in Grundy Center except while Leonard was stationed in Cheyenne, WY serving in the U.S. Air Force in 1952-1955.

Donna’s employment history included the Grundy Café, Soil Conservation Office, Spokesman Press, Collectors News and Dudden’s Men’s/Boys Clothing Store.  Leonard and Donna retired in 1991.  She later worked at the Abels Engelkes Funeral Home, and enjoyed numerous church activities, volunteering at the Grundy Center County Hospital, and reading.

Donna was a lifelong member of the Bethany Presbyterian Church and a member of Mariners and Woman’s Club of Grundy Center.  While her first love was her husband and family, she thoroughly enjoyed music- playing the piano, singing in the church choir, and frequently singing for weddings and funerals.  She and Leonard also belonged to the Town and County Golf Course.

Donna is preceded in death by her husband, Leonard, parents: Tieman and Lisetta Dudden; one son, Timothy, brother, and sister-in-law Roland and LaVine Dudden, nephew Jeffrey Dudden, Parents-in-law Elon and Alberta Ralston, sisters-in-law Darleen Haren and Susan Cosford. Brothers-in-law Kay Reynolds, Richard Shaw, Barry Cosford, Robert Berger, and Carroll Haren.

She is survived by her children: Debra Ralston of Elkhorn, NE, David (Janet) Ralston of Scottsdale, AZ, Patricia Ralston of Perrysburg, OH and daughter-in-law, Coleen Ralston of Grundy Center, IA; grandchildren: T.J. (Lacy) Ralston of Jefferson City, MO, Nick Dean of Las Vegas, NV, Eric (Heather) Ralston of Owasso, OK, Emily Dean of Omaha, NE and Emmy Ralston of Tulsa, OK; great-grandchildren: Brenden, Brock and Landon Ralston and Garrett, Makenzie, and Beau Ralston; brother-in-law: Marvin (Rosie) Ralston and sisters-in-law Margie Reynolds and Cheryl Berger, and numerous nieces and nephews.

A service will be held at a later date.  Memorials may be directed to 2815 N. 202 Street, Elkhorn, NE 68022 which will be designated by the family at that time.  For further information or to leave an online condolence please visit www.abelsfuenralhomes.com.

The family is very grateful and blessed by the many relatives and friends who supported her, especially during the past several months.

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Tamara "Tammy" Kay Garwood - November 12, 1957 - January 27, 2022

Departed: 01/27/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Tamara “Tammy” Kay Garwood, 64, of Grundy Center, IA passed away unexpectedly on Thursday, January 27, 2022, in the comfort of her own home.

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Harriet Ann Onnen - April 06, 1938 - January 13, 2022

Departed: 01/13/2022 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Harriet Ann Onnen, 83, of Gundy Center, Iowa, passed away peacefully on the morning of Thursday, January 13, 2022, at Grundy Care Center in Grundy Center, Iowa surrounded by her loving family.

Following Harriet’s wishes, cremation rites have been accorded and there will be a public memorial service held at 12:00 pm on Tuesday, January 18, 2022, at the Engelkes Abels Funeral Home located at 509 4th Street, Grundy Center, IA 50638.  There will be a public visitation held one hour prior to the service.  Pastor Luther Thoresen will be officiating the service for Harriet.  Memorial contributions may be directed in Harriet’s name to her family which will be later designated elsewhere.  For further information or to leave an online condolence please visit: www.abelsfuneralhomes.com.  Engelkes Abels Funeral Home is caring for Harriet and her family.

Harriet Ann Vander Holt was born on April 6, 1938, in Buckgrove, Iowa the daughter of Harm and Fannie (Engelkes) Vander Holt.  She attended school up until the 8th grade before beginning her working life.  Harriet was a woman who had a heart of Gold and work ethic that shined just as bright.  She was a woman who absolutely loved serving others. Harriet worked many years as a waitress and was remembered for always serving her customers with a beautiful smile.  She also dedicated many years to babysitting and loved every minute spent with all those kids she watched.

Harriet had a passion for bowling, racing (multiple trophies for demos), attending Country concerts, watching, and attending sporting events, traveling (especially Las Vegas) and anything that had to do with spending time with her grandkids.  The main passion she held onto was her love for her family and the memories that she was blessed to be a part of.  She was a beautiful woman and will be deeply missed.

Left to cherish her memory are her children: Nancy (Jeff), Todd (Janelle), Rod Onnen and Rob (Jill); grandchildren: Danielle, Melanie (Dylan), Jayme (Tyler), Nichole (Kory), Melody (Steve) Jocilyn and Brooke; great-grandchildren: Noah, Eli, Emersyn, Breleigh, Kashton, McKenna, Ryleigh, Kasen, Katch and Alice.

She is preceded in death by her parents, Harm and Fannie Vander Holt as well as her siblings: Willard, Agnes, Willie, and Johnny.

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Merle Dean Lynch - March 04, 1939 - January 05, 2022

Departed: 01/05/2022 (Grundy Center)

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Paul Arthur Rouse - October 04, 1939 - December 22, 2021

Departed: 12/22/2021 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Paul Arthur Rouse passed away at home on December 22, 2021, after 13 years with Angioimmunoblastic T-cell Lymphoma. He was 82 years old. A memorial visitation will be held on Monday, January 3, 2022 from 4:00 p.m. until 7:00 p.m. at Abels Funeral and Cremation Service, Engelkes Chapel in Grundy Center. Inurnment will be held privately by the family at Rose Hill Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be directed to the church, hospital or school in loving memory of Paul.

Paul was born on October 4, 1939, in Marshalltown, Iowa, the second of two sons of Floyd and Ireine Bockes Rouse who lived at 813 G. Avenue in Grundy Center.

Paul was baptized at the First Presbyterian Church in Grundy Center. He graduated from Grundy Center High School in 1957. After graduation he worked with his dad and brother at Rouse Motor Chrysler Plymouth.

In January of 1963, Paul was drafted into the army. After his basic training at Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri he was assigned to Fort Gordon, Georgia where he learned Morris Code, Teletyping and Voice and Encryption. Later he was assigned to Ft. Hood, Texas where he was a driver for the 141st Signal Battalion Commander.

Paul served in the army from January of 1963 to January of 1965. After his discharge he returned to Rouse Motor and worked there until his retirement on December 31, 2002.

On August 14, 1965, Paul married Joan Weltha, an elementary school teacher in Grundy Center. They have two children. Their son, Lee (Jody) and two sons, Dalton and Wyatt, live in Des Moines. Their daughter, Dr. Ann Lebo, (Andy) and three children, Ella, Lucy and Pete live in Grundy Center.

Paul was a member of the First Presbyterian Church in Grundy Center and a past Trustee and Elder. He was a witty and fun person who always made great decisions. He enjoyed his family, golfing, family vacations at the Lake of the Ozarks and trips to Branson, Missouri. He will be dearly missed.

Paul is survived by his beloved wife, two children and five grandchildren, his brother, Don (Kayleen) and their son, Marty (Marci) of Grundy Center. Paul was preceded in death by his dad in 1992; his mother in 2001; and his niece, Beth in 2001.

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Lavonne "Bonnie" Kathleen Rust - January 14, 1932 - December 15, 2021

Departed: 12/15/2021 (Grundy Center)

Obituary Preview: Lavonne “Bonnie” Kathleen Rust, 89, of Grundy Center, Iowa, passed away peacefully on the evening of Wednesday, December 15, 2021 at the Grundy County Memorial Hospital.

Memorial services for Bonnie will be held at 2:00 p.m. on Monday, December 27, 2021 at the First Baptist Church located at 310 I Ave E, Grundy Center, IA 50638. Pastor Nathan Barkley will be officiating the service. For the safety of all those attending, the family has asked for all those who attend the funeral to please wear a mask. Memorial contributions may be directed in Bonnie’s name to her family which will later be designated elsewhere. For further information or to leave an online condolence please visit www.abelsfuneralhomes.com. Engelkes-Abels Funeral Home is caring for Bonnie and her family.

Lavonne Kathleen Cuffel was born on January 14, 1932 in Shell Rock, Iowa, the daughter of Howard H. and Vera Mabel (Hanawalt) Cuffel. Bonnie’s family moved to Conrad, Iowa where she was raised and educated in the Conrad school district and graduated from Conrad with the class of 1950. Bonnie was united in marriage to Harlan Gene Rust on August 11, 1950 in Iowa Falls, Iowa. From this union the couple were blessed with two children: Darrell and Patricia.

Bonnie was a hard-working woman, dedicating 16 years at Ritchie Industries in Conrad, Iowa as well as operating a day care for many years and raising her own family. Bonnie was a member of Bethany Presbyterian Church in Grundy Center.  In her younger years, she enjoyed spending time baking all sorts of goodies or in her garden. The last four years of her life, Bonnie lived at Arlington Place in Grundy Center, and she loved all the different card games and board games they played together. However, Bonnie was a little bit competitive when it came to her games and didn’t lose often. As much as she loved the time spent baking as a young woman or playing cards in her elder years, the number one thing that Bonnie cherished the most was her love for her Savior Jesus Christ and the time spent making memories with her family and friends..

Left to cherish Bonnie’s memory are her children: Darrell (Melanie) Rust of Bloomington, IL and Pat (Gordon) Bloxham of Grundy Center, IA; grandchildren: Erika (Joshua) Zilm, Michael Rust, Brian (Michelle) Rust, Kyle Reiter, Julia (Joseph) Jelinek and Lottie Bloxham; great-grandchildren: Ava, Ella, Savannah, Evelyn, Anthony, Clara, Elliette, Greyson and Audrey; brother: Jerry (Jan) Cuffel; brother-in-law: Donovan Schmoll and many nieces and nephews.

She is preceded in death by her loving husband, Harlan Rust, parents: Howard and Vera Cuffel; siblings: Howard (Phyllis) Cuffel, Lorraine (Hank) Nederhoff, Marjorie Schmoll, infant brother Harold and Sharon (Laurence) Graves.

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Barbara Jean Wical-Huntley - January 26, 1937 - December 09, 2021

Departed: 12/09/2021 (Grundy Center)

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A Team of Dedicated Professionals

The team at Engelkes-Abels Funeral Home is comprised of experienced and compassionate professionals who understand the importance of providing exceptional care during a difficult time. From funeral directors to support staff, every member of the team is committed to ensuring that each family receives the highest level of service and attention to detail. With years of experience and a deep understanding of the funeral industry, the team at Engelkes-Abels Funeral Home is equipped to handle even the most complex arrangements with ease and precision.

Personalized Funeral Services

At Engelkes-Abels Funeral Home, every funeral service is tailored to meet the unique needs and preferences of the family. Whether you're planning a traditional funeral, a memorial service, or a celebration of life, the team will work closely with you to ensure that every detail is taken care of. From selecting music and flowers to choosing a casket or urn, Engelkes-Abels Funeral Home offers a wide range of options to help you create a meaningful and memorable tribute to your loved one.

Cremation Options

In addition to traditional funeral services, Engelkes-Abels Funeral Home also offers a range of cremation options for families who prefer this type of disposition. From direct cremation to cremation with a memorial service, the team will guide you through the process and help you make informed decisions about your loved one's final wishes. With state-of-the-art cremation facilities and a commitment to dignity and respect, Engelkes-Abels Funeral Home ensures that every cremation is carried out with the utmost care and attention to detail.

Pre-Planning Services

While it may be difficult to think about planning for our own passing, pre-planning can provide peace of mind for both you and your loved ones. At Engelkes-Abels Funeral Home, their experienced team can help you make informed decisions about your final wishes, including selecting a casket or urn, choosing a burial plot or cremation option, and even planning the details of your funeral service. By pre-planning, you can ensure that your wishes are respected and that your family is spared from making difficult decisions during an already emotional time.

Community Involvement

Engelkes-Abels Funeral Home is deeply committed to giving back to the community they serve. Through various outreach programs and charitable initiatives, the funeral home demonstrates its dedication to supporting local families and organizations. From hosting grief support groups to participating in community events, Engelkes-Abels Funeral Home is proud to be an active member of the Grundy Center community.

A Commitment to Excellence

At Engelkes-Abels Funeral Home, excellence is not just a goal – it's a standard. From the moment you walk through their doors, you'll experience a level of care and compassion that is unparalleled in the industry. With a commitment to continuous improvement and a passion for serving others, Engelkes-Abels Funeral Home sets the bar high for funeral homes everywhere. Whether you're planning ahead or facing an unexpected loss, you can trust that this dedicated team will be there to support you every step of the way.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It is usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who knew them. They can help to notify people of the passing, share details about the funeral or memorial service, and provide a sense of closure for loved ones.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, an obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased. Funeral homes or online obituary platforms may also offer assistance in writing an obituary. In some cases, a professional writer or journalist may be hired to write the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include details about the funeral or memorial service, charitable donations in lieu of flowers, and other relevant information.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Typically, it ranges from a few sentences to several paragraphs. Online obituaries often have more flexibility in terms of length and content.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful to readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and deadlines. You may need to provide the written obituary, along with any photos or other materials, and pay a fee for publication.

What is the cost of publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication, location, and length of the obituary. Some newspapers offer free or low-cost options for basic listings, while others charge by the word or line.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes, there are many online platforms that allow you to publish an obituary for free or at a low cost. These platforms often offer additional features such as guest books, photo galleries, and donation links.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Newspapers typically have deadlines for submission and publication, while online platforms may publish immediately or within a few hours.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

Sometimes, corrections or updates can be made to an obituary after publication. However, this may depend on the publication's policies and deadlines. Online platforms may offer more flexibility in making changes.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer to keep the obituary private, you can opt for a private listing on some online platforms or choose not to publish it publicly at all. You can also limit access to certain individuals or groups.

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include favorite quotes, poems, or lyrics in an obituary as a way to personalize the tribute and reflect the person's personality or interests.

How do I notify people about the passing?

In addition to publishing an obituary, you can notify people about the passing through social media, email, phone calls, or personal visits. You may also want to reach out to employers, schools, clubs, or other organizations where the person was involved.

What if I'm unsure about what to say in an obituary?

If you're struggling to write an obituary or unsure about what to say, consider seeking guidance from a funeral home director, online resources, or a professional writer. You can also ask friends or family members for input and ideas.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to honor the person's memory and support a cause they cared about.

How do I handle condolences and messages from others?

You can respond to condolences and messages personally or delegate this task to another family member or friend. Consider setting up a memorial page or guest book where people can leave messages and share memories.

What if I need help with funeral arrangements?

Funeral homes and directors can provide guidance and support with funeral arrangements. You can also seek help from online resources, clergy members, or other trusted advisors.

Can I create a memorial page or website?

Yes, many online platforms offer tools and resources for creating memorial pages or websites. These can be a lasting tribute to the person who has passed away and provide a space for sharing memories and condolences.

How do I cope with grief after losing a loved one?

Grief is a natural response to loss. Consider reaching out to friends, family members, support groups, or mental health professionals for guidance and support during this difficult time.

Are there any specific regulations or guidelines for writing an obituary?

While there are no strict regulations for writing an obituary, it's generally considered respectful to focus on celebrating the person's life rather than dwelling on their death. Avoid including sensitive or controversial information that might offend others.

Can I republish an old obituary from years ago?

If you want to republish an old obituary from years ago, you may need permission from the original publication or copyright holder. Online platforms may have archives of past obituaries that you can access and share again.

How do I ensure accuracy when writing an obituary?

To ensure accuracy when writing an obituary, double-check facts such as dates, names, and spellings. Verify information with multiple sources whenever possible.

What if I need help with proofreading or editing an obituary?

Funeral homes, online platforms, or professional writers may offer proofreading and editing services for your obituary. You can also ask friends or family members with strong writing skills for assistance.

Can I include humor or lighthearted moments in an obituary?

Yes! Including humor or lighthearted moments in an obituary can help celebrate the person's personality and make the tribute more relatable and engaging.