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Allan Max Letterman - June 23, 1943 - May 23, 2020

Departed: 05/23/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Allan Max Letterman, 76, of Duncan passed away peacefully on Saturday, May 23, 2020 in Lawton, Oklahoma. Funeral services will be held at 10:00 AM Thursday, May 28 at First Baptist Church in Duncan, Oklahoma with Pastor Bryan Pain with military honors provided by Stephens County Honor Guard. Interment will be at Ft Sill National Cemetery under the direction of Don Grantham Funeral Home. The family will receive friends Wednesday evening from 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM at the funeral home. Allan Max Letterman was born on June 23, 1943 in Palm Springs, California to Max and Ruth (Dilworth) Letterman. After graduating from high school Allan went on to serve his country by joining the United States Air Force in 1961 as a radar technician and reaching the rank of Airman 2nd class before being honorably discharged in 1967. After his service, Allan would work for Xerox Corporation as an Electronic Technician for 32 years before retiring. He would go on to marry the love of his life Vickie Vincent on October 3, 1981 in New Orleans Louisiana. Allan was a member of the First Baptist Church in Duncan; he was a member of the American Legion and the Harley Davidson Club. Allan enjoyed working on electronics and tinkering, he enjoyed riding his Harley and most of all being with his family. Allan is survived by his loving wife 38 years; Vickie Letterman, of Duncan; his children, Michael Letterman, of Fort Worth, Texas, Annette Thomas of Coppell, Texas; Stephanie Marino of Weatherford, Texas; his godchild, C J Ducote of New Orleans, Louisiana his siblings, Donald Kent Letterman, Virginia Hill, Elizabeth DeAngelo; his grandchildren, Jennifer Thomas, Laura Thomas, Lantz Smiddy, Michael Letterman II, Christopher Letterman, Tanner Marino, Carver Marino, Sawyer Marino; and great grandchildren, Alyssa Boren and Samuel Smiddy. Allan is preceded in death by his sister, Patsy Bradley, his grandson, Jarid Letterman and his Parents, Max and Ruth Letterman. Condolences may be left to the family at. www.granthamfuneralhomes.com

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Norman LeRoy Green - May 25, 1965 - May 09, 2020

Departed: 05/09/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Norman Leroy Green was born May 25, 1965 in Lawton, Oklahoma to Patsey A. and Roy A. Green. He passed away May 9th, 2020 at his home in Duncan. He was 54. A memorial service will be held Saturday, June 6th 2020 at 2:00 PM at 3908 East Elk Ave with Jodi Price officiating. Burial arrangements have been entrusted to his daughters. Leroy graduated from Duncan High School in 1983. He raised his two daughters, LeeAnne and Lindsey Green as a single parent. He was self employed as a pilot car driver for 20 years. He was also a volunteer fire fighter, carpenter, and a security guard. He enjoyed crafting and collecting, fishing, hunting, guns, bonfires, and making people laugh were some of his favorite pastimes. He loved concerts with Lindsey and Doctor Who with LeeAnne. Leroy is survived by his mother Patsey Green of Duncan; daughters LeeAnne and Lindsey Green of Duncan; son Ryan Burden; adopted daughters, Stacy Davis of Oklahoma City, Tracy Stroud of Moore, Oklahoma; Tina Moore of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma and Elizabeth Endress of Duncan; two grand children Rikie Anne and Linlee Rose and his brother Robert Lynn Green of Duncan; Aunt Linda of Duncan. He was preceded in death by his father Roy A Green and uncle Aubrey Willingham. The family is not accepting contributions or donations at this time. Condolences may be left for the family at www.granthamfuneralhomes.com

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Harley Dee Rightmire - August 30, 1941 - May 08, 2020

Departed: 05/08/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Harley Dee Rightmire passed away peacefully in his home on Friday, May 8th, at the age of 78.Harley was born to Frank and Dorothy Rightmire on August 30th, 1941 in Duncan, OK. He spent most of his childhood in Duncan before moving to Cedar Hill, NM, where he graduated from Aztec High School in 1960.Growing up, Harley was passionate about music and playing the cornet, the outdoors, boxing, hot rods and aviation. Upon graduating high school, he returned to Duncan, where he worked for Duncan Aviation and later obtained his pilot license. Work would lead him to Henderson, NV where he joined the Carpenters Union. Harley met and married Loraine Cole on May 29th, 1964. Together, Harley and Loraine had two children, Adriane and Laird. They returned to Oklahoma where he built the family home in 1980. Harley used his passion for carpentry and woodworking to provide for his family until he retired from the Union in 2000. Harley and Loraine enjoyed spending time with family, chasing their grandchildren and traveling.Harley had a contagious smile and was loved by all. He was an active member of the Flat Cams car club. If Harley was not at home with his dog Roxie, he could be found at the Boomerang Diner with his brother Wes and fellow car club members.Harley is preceded in death by his parents, his wife Loraine and four siblings; Raymond, Kermit, Troy and Helen.Harley is survived in death by his children; Jackie Lynn and her family of Des Moines, IA, Adriane of Duncan, Laird and wife Kerri of Duncan, grandchildren London and husband John Oberleas of Shelbyville, TN, Luke and wife Jacquelyn of Duncan, Cheyenne and Grant of Oklahoma City, and Seth and wife Jenna of Edmond, OK. Harley leaves behind his brother, Wes Rightmire of Comanche, sister Marion Waldron of Duncan, and numerous great grandchildren, nieces and nephews.Graveside services will be held at Fairlawn Cemetery on Wednesday, May 13th, at 10 A.M. under the direction of Don Grantham Funeral Home. Condolences may be left for the family at www.granthamfuneralhomes.com

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Barbara Gail Barrick - January 17, 1947 - May 06, 2020

Departed: 05/06/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Gail Barrick, 73, of Velma, Oklahoma passed away Wednesday, May 6, 2020 at her home in Velma. Graveside service will be held Saturday, May 9, 2020 at 3:00 PM at Claud Cemetery with Roland Barriack officiating and under the direction of Don Grantham Funeral Home. Barbara Gail Barrick was born on January 17, 1947 in Oakland, California to James and Bessie Elliott. She married the love of her life Jimmy Ray Barrick on May 21, 1965 who preceded her in death just a few weeks earlier. Barbara loved bowling, and to crochet baby blankets for the family. She loved to bake and go camping. She was known for her blueberry pies, biscuits, and cinnamon rolls. Which was a hit when she worked for the old Pioneer restaurant in Velma. Her biggest joy was her grandchildren, spoiling them always brought her the biggest smile. Barbara worked several jobs as a cook, and as a CNA at Hillcrest Medical Center in Tulsa. She is survived by her brother James Darrell Elliott and his wife Terry; her uncle Robert "Bob" Elliott; her sons and their wives, Darrell and Margaret Barrick, Mark and Vivian Barrick, Brian and Elva Barrick; her grandchildren; Justin, Joe, Ashley, Jacqueline, Lonnie, Jimmie, Chandler, Cooper, Beau and Joseph and her great grandchildren, Zoey, Anthony and Riley; and numerous nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. She is preceded by her husband, Jimmy Ray Barrick, her granddaughter Chloe and her parents James and Bessie Elliot. Condolences may be left for the family at www.granthamfuneralhomes.com

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Herman L Hays - October 24, 1931 - May 01, 2020

Departed: 05/01/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Herman L. (Whiz) Hays passed away from this life on April 30,2020. A graveside service will be held on Tuesday, May 5th at 10:00 AM at the Duncan Cemetery, with Pastor Randy Southerland officiating. Services will be under the direction of Don Grantham Funeral Home. Whiz was born to Ada (Anderson) and John (Pete) Hays on October 24,1931, in Corum, Ok. Whiz loved basketball and helped to lead the Addington basketball team to the state championship in 1950. Whiz went on to marry Joy Rose on May 8, 1962 and together they raised five children. Whiz was an avid domino player and was tough to beat. Whiz was the patriarch of his family and had a large circle of friends. He will be loved and missed by all that knew him.Whiz is survived by sons Terry Hays, David Hays and wife Linda, Russell Hays and wife Tracy, daughters; Chrystal Giumentero and husband Steve, Mellany Roach and husband Terrell Page. His large family also includes , 18 grandchildren, 26 great grandchildren , 5 great-great grandchildren, one brother; Carl (Cotton) and wife Mary , and two sisters ; Mary Riley and Hollene and husband Kenneth Powers. He is preceeded in death by his wife Joy, his parents, step mother Lula, granddaughter Stephanie Standridge, two brothers; Delbert and Hershel and one sister; Oleta .

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Bonnie Hyicinth Barker - February 01, 1918 - April 26, 2020

Departed: 04/26/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Bonnie Hyicinth (York) Barker, 102, of Duncan, Oklahoma died Sunday, April 26, 2020 at Country Club Nursing Home in Duncan, Oklahoma. A graveside service will be held on Wednesday, April 29th at 1:00 PM at Resthaven Memorial Gardens in Duncan under the direction of Don Grantham Funeral Home. Her body will be buried beside her husband Raymond at Resthaven Memorial Gardens; her soul is winging its way to heaven where her husband, her parents, siblings and friends will greet her. She cannot wait to see her mother's face!Bonnie Hyicinth (York) Barker was born on February 1, 1918 in Brinkman, Greer Co., Oklahoma to Peyton Estridge York and Lucy Elizabeth Thompson. She was the youngest of eleven children, seven boys, and four girls; Richard Allen York, Verna Madeling York, Essie Vera York, Marvin Bryan York, Clarence Edward "Jack" York, A. B. York and Raymond Herbert "Hub" York. Her mother Lucy (Thompson) York died when Bonnie was only 11 months old leaving Peyton with a house-full of children to raise. Her aunt Henrietta Gertrude (York) Cost, who was the older sister of Peyton York, and her husband James Nathaniel Cost, raised Bonnie. She grew up with their eleven children; John Monroe, Dicey Josephine, William Thomas, Elizabeth Maud, Horace Birdwell, Jesse Lee, Joseph Bailey, Ernest Nathaniel, James Forest, Bernice Lorene, and Percy Loveland Cost. Her father, Peyton E. York later married Bertha (Murray) Travis, a widow with seven children, and they had three children, two sons, Peyton Bertha York, and Erna Lee York, and one daughter, Inez Cheryl York. Bonnie survived all her brothers, sisters, half-brothers, foster-brothers, foster-sisters, stepbrothers and stepsisters.Bonnie married Clarence Raymond Barker in Walters, Oklahoma on December 28, 1937. They had one child; Reba Sue Barker was born in Duncan, Oklahoma. Raymond preceded her in death on January 3, 1990 in Duncan.Bonnie worked for Halliburton Company in the print files for 28 years before retiring in 1977. She had previously worked for Faith Cafe, Wade Hotel, and Hornet Antennae. She was a charter member of New Hope Baptist Church West. Bonnie moved to the Duncan community in 1936. She previously lived in Marlow, and Cache, Oklahoma; and had lived in Oklahoma nearly all her life. She attended schools in Duncan, Cache, and Amarillo, Texas. Bonnie and Raymond were actively involved in the Duncan Senior Citizens until his health began to fail. She remained an active supporter of Duncan Senior Citizens. After retiring Bonnie and Raymond delivered meals on wheels from the Duncan senior citizens lunch program. Bonnie was a member of the Rebecca Lodge. She had been a Sunday school teacher in the Junior Department and later in the Senior Adult Department at Immanuel Baptist Church where she and Raymond were members. They had been members of Parkview Baptist Church for years until their health made it necessary to move to a church closer to home. She was a resident of Chisholm Trial Assisted Living and of Country Club Care at the time of her death. She is survived by her daughter and her husband, Reba Sue and Donnie Calvin Hall of Duncan; her grandson and his wife Scott Alan Hall and Melisa Ann (Bradley) Hall; her granddaughter, Melissa Gay (Hall) Harris all of Duncan, Oklahoma. Three great grandchildren Chase Alan Hall, Paige Nicole Hall, and Tanner Bradely Hall of Duncan. Her husband, Raymond Barker; parents, her aunt and uncle Gertie and Jim Cost; her seven brother and three sisters, eight foster brothers, three foster sisters, two half-brothers, one half-sister, three stepbrothers and four stepsisters, precede Bonnie in death. Condolences may be left for the family at www.granthamfuneralhomes.com

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Gary Dewayne Pollock - October 15, 1945 - April 22, 2020

Departed: 04/22/2020 (Duncan)

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Fredrick Paul Duerr - February 17, 1941 - April 21, 2020

Departed: 04/21/2020 (Duncan)

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Bettie Sharline Crowson - April 26, 1940 - April 19, 2020

Departed: 04/19/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Bettie Sharline Crowson, 79, of Duncan, Oklahoma entered her new home in Gloryland on April 19, 2020 seven days before her 80th birthday. Born in Okmulgee, Oklahoma on April 26, 1940 to Fred and Odessa Crowson. She graduated from Velma-Alma High School in 1958 and raised five children mostly as a single mother in Velma. When she was younger, she played the piano and accordion in church alongside her father. She worked extremely hard at many different positions in and around the Duncan area to provide for her family. She loved her children, but spending time with her grandchildren was the highlight of her life. She enjoyed taking trips with them, and attending sporting events in which they participated. Of course, she thought they were the best and brightest. Time spent at Nanny’s visiting, and eating her brownies or special banana cake was always special. Loved ones that cleared her path to enter the golden gates were her parents and her older brother, Carl Crowson. Loved ones that will miss her so very much are her children, Debbie and Rocky Stricklin, James and Teresa Wiggins, David Wiggins, Eddie Crowson, and Freddie and Leesha Crowson; her grandchildren and great grandchildren, Tina, Nana and Alessandro Dickerson/Sanchez; Cheryl and Chris Woods; BJ, Carrie, Riley, Reese, and Michael Dickerson; Jamie, Wayne, JW and Katie Barton; Derick, Elizabeth and Noah Stricklin; Marissa Crowson, Colby Crowson, Nathan and Kalyee Crowson, Caleb Crowson, Caden Crowson, and Jacob Crowson as well as her sister in law, Margaret Crowson along with her nieces, nephews and many friends.

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Tony Eugene Raney - September 30, 1945 - April 15, 2020

Departed: 04/15/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Tony Eugene Raney, 74, of Duncan, Oklahoma passed away peacefully at his home on Wednesday, April 15, 2020 surrounded by his loving family . Memorial services have been set at a later date. Arrangements are in the care of Don Grantham Funeral Home. Tony was born September 30,1945 to Maria and Wallace Raney in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He graduated from Barnsdall High School in Barnsdall, Oklahoma. Tony was a Vietnam veteran and a member of the Masons.Tony moved his family to Duncan ok in 1975. He worked overseas for Halliburton for 23 years and traveled the world. He and Sylvia owned and operated the Dairy Queen in Duncan for 20 years. He loved riding motorcycles and spending time with his family.Tony is survived by his wife sylvia and two daughters April and husband Dude Sanford and Aimee and husband Jim Torkelson; four grandchildren Rainy, Raven, Brittany and Shane. He is also survived by three siblings; Elaina Moore, Micheal Woods ,Philip Woods and Three nieces; Inta Berry, Deanna Wiebe, and Tomia.Tony is preceded in death by his parents a sister, Sylvia Wiebe and an aunt, Wildo Raney.Condolences may be left for the family at www.granthamfuneralhomes.com

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Honor Lorene Vaughn - March 30, 1937 - April 12, 2020

Departed: 04/12/2020 (Duncan)

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Glenda Marie Dris - October 13, 1954 - April 11, 2020

Departed: 04/11/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Glenda Marie Dris, née Smith, passed away due to complications from her decades-long courageous battle with metastatic ovarian cancer at 65-years-young on Saturday, April 11, 2020 in Duncan, Oklhoma.Born in Key West, Florida to Bobby and Margarita Smith, Glenda grew up in a Naval family that lived all over, including Puerto Rico and Guantanamo Bay during the Cuban Missile Crisis. Her family settled into St. Petersburg, FL in 1970. She graduated from St. Petersburg High School (Go, Green Devils!) in 1973, the year she won the Miss St. Petersburg Beauty Pageant. She attended St. Petersburg Jr. College and then lived in Gainesville, falling in love with UF, “The Swamp,” and meeting lifelong friends (Go, Gators!).Glenda was both industrious and loved helping others; every job she had reflected those qualities. She began working at Maas Bros. Dept. Store and the Bayfront Center, catering to VIPs at nightly concerts and events. During this time, she met Stephen Dris; they wed in August 1982. Next, her dream career -- with the airlines. Starting with Piedmont Airlines in 1985, by 1988 she was one of their Lead Agents. That same year she and Steve welcomed their son, Michael Patrick, to their new home in Fayetteville, NC where she worked with her favorite carrier, American Airlines, until 1993. She looked back on this period as one of the best times of her life.After her divorce, she shifted both her life (to Dunedin, FL) and career (to Travel Consultant). Excelling in her new path, she worked at SATO in conjunction with the military at Ft. Bragg and MacDill, and finally joined BCD Travel as concierge to International VIP clientele.She loved travel, singing, and all animals, especially elephants and green parrots. Her favorite vacations included the Cayman Islands (swimming with stingrays), London (walking 10 miles/day), Bermuda, Lake Louise, Port St. Joe, and L.A. (visiting her son). At the time of her passing, she was working on a children’s book featuring various critters she had grown fond of while living in Oklahoma.Adored mother to Michael Dris (Julia); beloved daughter of Margarita Smith, late Bobby Smith; sister of Laverne Potter (Greg), Robert Smith (Rene); aunt of Bill Potter, Lynlee Davies (Sebastian), Adam Smith (Eva), Amber Smith; and treasured friend of Sue Nicolette.

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Glenn E Gill - September 16, 1932 - April 11, 2020

Departed: 04/11/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Glenn Edwin Gill, loving husband of Nelda Askins-Gill, stepped into Glory as he passed from this life of natural causes on April 11, 2020 at the age of 87. There will be public viewing and Visitation on Tuesday, April 14, 2020 from 1:00PM to 8:00PM at Don Grantham Funeral Home Grave side services will be held Wednesday, April 15,2020 at 2:00PM at the Duncan Cemetery with Brother Randy Southerland officiating . Services will be under the direction of Don Grantham Funeral Home. Glenn was born in Duncan on September 16,1932 to Mina Olivia (Alford) and Claud Richard Gill. He lived in Duncan all of his life and graduated from Duncan High School with the class of 1950. Glenn served in the U.S. Army during the Korean Conflict. He was an electrician by trade beginning his career as a teen working for his dad, and later as co-owner of Gill Electric, Inc. until his retirement. Glenn was an avid weightlifter and a competitive powerlifter, setting and breaking several state and national records. In 1988 he set a world record in the bench press as he hoisted 424 lbs in the 55-59 age division, 165 lb weight class. Glenn was 56 years old at the time and his record stood for many years. Glenn mentored many along the way. Glenn was a member of New Hope Baptist Church West. He was preceded in death by his parents, one brother Kenneth Wayne Gill, Retha L. Gill, Wilma P. Gill Glenn is survived by his wife of the home Nelda, his one daughter LaRetha Spanky Davis and husband Bob, one granddaughter Andi Scifres and husband Scotty, one grandson Brendon Davis ad wife Kim Hee all of Marlow, five great grandchildren, Brenlee and Braxton Scifres, Eliannah, Jin Hee and Jae Hee Davis all of whom he loved dearly.

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Jose Garcia Gomez - January 18, 1957 - April 07, 2020

Departed: 04/07/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Jose Garcia Gomez, 63 of Duncan, went to his heavenly home on Tuesday, April 7, 2020. Limited grave side services will held on Monday April 13, 2020 at 2:00pm at Duncan Cemetery with Father Peter Jandaczek officiating. Services are under the direction of Don Grantham Funeral Home Jose was born on January 18,1957 in Cd. Acuna Coahuila, Mexico to Feliciano and Gregoria Garcia. He was a member of the Assumption Catholic church. He married the love of his life Martina Garcia on April 22, 1978 in Mexico, and were married for 41 years. They had five children and eight grandchildren. He worked for Larry Martin's farm for over 30 years, Nov (Wilco) in Marlow for four years, and was park maintenance technichian with the city of Duncan the last three months of his life. He was a huge sports fan. He was a short stop in the minor league in Mexico. He was a huge Oklahoma Sooners fan and Dallas Cowboys fan. He loved cookouts with family, going to rodeos, dancing, listening to music, and landscaping. He was a devoted Christian and family man. He was great friends with Larry Martin and Mark Crutcher. Chrutchers Western Wear was his favorite place to shop. He loved to dress western in every color and found boots to match. He was a great husband, father, father-in-law, grandpa, and friend Survivors include his wife , Martina Garcia, daughter, Anna Martin and spouse Justin Martin, daughter, Veronica Garcia, daughter, Rosalba Whitt and spouse Dennis Whitt, son, Orlando Garcia, and sister, Maria Garcia de Tovar. Grandchildren: Journey Garcia, Amaya Garcia, Jose Adrian Garcia, Alyssa Martin, Austin Tinney, Abrianna McGee, Dillon Whitt, Haley Martin, and several nieces, nephews, brother and sisters-in-law. He was preceded in death by his parents, Feliciano and Gregoria Garcia, his brother, Tomas Garcia, and his son Jose de Jesus Garcia.

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Billie Jo Tucker - October 27, 1929 - April 06, 2020

Departed: 04/06/2020 (Duncan)

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Elger D McElreath - September 18, 1931 - April 05, 2020

Departed: 04/05/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Elger "Mack" Dow McElreath Jr. , 88 of Duncan, Oklahoma went to his heavenly home on Sunday April 5, 2020 at his lake house in Ardmore. There will be limited viewing avaliable at Don Grantham Funeral Home from 10:00 am Tuesday April 7, 2020 till 12:00 pm on Wednesday April 8, 2020 Graveside services will be held Wednesday April 8, 2020 at 2:00pm at the Duncan Municipal Cemetery, with Pastor Mike McCord officiating. Services are under the direction of Don Grantham Funeral Home. Elger was born on September 18, 1931 in Durant, Oklahoma to Ruth (Gumm) and Elger McElreath. He married the love of his life, Stevanna " Stevie" on August 4, 1951 and made a life together for 68 years until her passing on January 23, 2019. While serving our country in Fairbanks, Alaska at Ladd Airforce Base he had his first daughter, Linda. While in Fairbanks Mack and Stevie were charter members of the First United Methodist Church. Mack and family in tow, moved to Sheppard Airforce Base where they added the next member to their family, daughter, Leigh Anne. After completing his four years of service to his country Mack attended class at Southwestern State College and learned how to be a watch maker, this led to the opening of McElreath Jewelry and Gifts in Ardmore, Oklahoma. Mack and Stevie opened and ran a restaurant (El Palacio) in Duncan, Oklahoma together for 47 years selling it in June 2018. Mack was an avid outdoorsman, and relished any opportunity to enjoy nature, especially to fish for Largemouth bass. He was a driven man, and was often out in his shop working on various projects.Mack was a devoted member of the Ray of Hope Church for many years. The real love in his life was spending time with his wife and children going on several trips to the Bahamas, Alaska, Canada , Mexico and all over the United States. Mack, later in life, took every opportunity to watch his granddaughter, Megan and great grandchildren, Tucker, KK, and Lexi grow up and enjoyed their company. Survivors include his devoted daughters, Linda Westfall of Ardmore, and Leigh Anne Burkhart and spouse John of Ardmore; one sister Lou Falkenstein of Bend, Oregon; one granddaughter Megan Leigh Melendez and spouse Saul of Ardmore; three great grandchildren: Tucker Leon Andrews, Kesleigh Maria Melendez and Lexi Kate Melendez; and several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents ; his beloved wife ; and son in law David Westfall.

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Jimmy Ray Barrick - September 27, 1943 - March 31, 2020

Departed: 03/31/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Jimmy Ray Barrick, 76, of Velma, Oklahoma passed away Tuesday March 31, 2020 in Duncan, Oklahoma.A memorial services will be scheduled at a later date. Services are under the direction of the Don Grantham Funeral Home.Jimmy was born on September 27, 1943 to Jack and Lena Barrick in Pampa, Texas. He graduated from the Velma High School Class of "61". He married the love of his life Barbara Elliott on May 21, 1965 in Carsen City, Nevada. He was a lifelong welder and pipe fitter. He enjoyed hunting and fishing and especially enjoyed spending time with his grandsons and his granddaughters who he called his angels.He is survived by his wife Barbara Barrick; Three sons, Darrell and wife Margaret, Mark and wife Vivian, Brian and wife Elva; nine grandchildren and three great grandchildren.He was preceeded in death by his parents, two brothers, four sisters and one grandchild.Memories and condolences may be sent to the family at www.granthamfuneralhomes.com

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Radonna Kaye Barnard - July 27, 1951 - March 26, 2020

Departed: 03/26/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Radonna K. Barnard passed way on March 26, 2020 in Oklahoma City, OK at the age of 68. There will be a graveside funeral service at 1:00 pm on April 1, 2020. Burial will be in Duncan Cemetery under the direction of Don Grantham Funeral Home.Donna was born July 27, 1951 in Waurika, OK. She attended school at Duncan High School in Duncan, OK, and some college in Oklahoma City. Donna was married to the late James L. Barnard, Jr. for 28 years before his passing in 2007.Donna grew up on skates and later held positions as both a medical transcriptionist and court transcriber. After getting married to James they both became owner/operators of two trucks, and later entered the restaurant business as the owners of J.B.’s Family Restaurant. She gave her all to raising her children and being a good mother. She loved spending time with her family, especially her grandchildren.Survivors include her son, Kelly W. Barnard and grandson Jason Barnard. A daughter, Kerrie L. Armor and her husband Chance Armor and two grandsons Taven and Declan Armor.She was preceded in death by her husband, James L. Barnard, Jr., her parents Prince and Reva Booth, and her brother, Michael Booth.

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James Arthur Roche - March 05, 1941 - March 18, 2020

Departed: 03/18/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Jim Roche passed awayon Wednesday March 18, 2020. He went to be with his beloved wife Betty. He and Betty had children and raiseda family in Duncan, Oklahoma where they brought up their two sons, James Arthur Roche II and Michael Alan Roche. He graduated from Central State University, now University of Central Oklahoma and was the first member of his family to graduate from college. Jim worked at Halliburton as an accountant for many years, but his favorite thing to do was restore old cars. He worked on many cars for friends and finally finished his own wonderful classic 1940 Ford Coupe. At home, Jim loved to cook steaks on the grill and learning about history. While serving on the Duncan School Board, including terms as President, Jim found the time to coach a variety of grade school teams for his children.Jim also loved to spend time with friends and family at the Moose Lodge. He proudly representedthe Moose Lodge in many positions locally and in the state. He achieved the highest degree rank of Pilgrim and wore his gold jacket with pride whenever possible. Jim took great pleasure in playing shuffleboard and cards. He also loved walking at the mall, meeting with friends and passing out candy to children. The family asks that donations be made towww.mooseheart.org orwww.moosehaven.org in lieu of flowers.Jim is survived by his older brother, Thomas Roche and his wife Lynne; son, James Arthur Roche and wife Donna Roche, grand daughtersRebeccah Ann Roche, Claire Marie Roche, Ava Grace Roche and his son Michael Alan Roche.

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Ula Karen Brenneis - August 10, 1953 - March 11, 2020

Departed: 03/11/2020 (Duncan)

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Michael A Boggs - August 02, 1945 - March 09, 2020

Departed: 03/09/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Michael Allen Boggs, 74, former resident of Duncan passed away Monday March 9, 2020 in Mesa, Arizona. Michael was born in Duncan, Oklahoma to John D. Boggs and Betty Ruth Parks on August 2, 1945. He attended school at Duncan High School as well as Costa Mesa High School in California. He was a veteran of the United States Army and served as a medic in West Germany during in the early 1960s. After serving his country he ran his mother’s ambulance company along with his brother Douglas in Fontana, California. From there he tried his hand as a race car driver, an oil field roughneck, a steakhouse owner, and a candy man. He eventually settled in to a long career as an airline pilot, flying for Rio Airways, Braniff Airlines, and Southwest Airlines, among others. He retired in 2004 after 30 years of commercial flying. Michael is survived by his wife Balbina, his sons David, John, and Matthew, his brother Douglas, his sisters Karen and Teresa, his grandchildren Elena, Amanda, Lily, Abigail, and Connor, his cousins Danny and Steve, his nieces Julie, Nancy, Johnna and Krystal, and his nephews Hunter and Robbie. Funeral services will be held 11:00 am Saturday, March 14 at Don Grantham Funeral Home Chapel - 3032 North Highway 81 Duncan, OK. with Matt Chambers officiating. Burial will follow at Duncan Municipal Cemetery - 1910 Cypress Ave, Duncan OK. The Stephens County Honor Guard will be providing Military Honors. Pallbearers will be Douglas Boggs, David Boggs, John Boggs, Matthew Boggs, Jason Egger, and Robbie Treadwell. Memories and condolences may be sent to the family at www.granthamfuneralhomes.com

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Peter A Pemberton - June 04, 1943 - March 07, 2020

Departed: 03/07/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Peter Allen Pemberton, 76, of Duncan, Oklahoma passed away on Saturday March 7, 2020 at OKC Heart Hospital in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. Funeral services will be held at Grantham Funeral Home Chapel in Duncan, Oklahoma at 2pm Thursday, March 12th, with long life friend Leon Fletcher officiating. Followed by internment at Duncan Municipal Cemetery under the direction of Don Grantham Funeral Home. Family will receive friends at Grantham Funeral Home Wednesday evening between 5:00PM and 7:00 PM. Pete was born on June 4, 1943 in Decatur, Texas to Kermit and Coy Pemberton. He graduated from Duncan High School and retired after 35 years of service at Southwestern Bell Telephone Company. Pete is survived by his wife Teresa Pemberton; his brother, Bill and his wife Marty Pemberton and his sisters, Kathy and her husband Buddy Bowles and Patti and her husband David Williams. Pete had two children, Susan and her husband Jeff Sparks, Michael Pemberton and Eric Smith, two-step sons, Scott and his wife Sandra Cates, Jay and his wife Lupe Cates, five grandchildren; Alan and his wife Maira and John and his wife Maggie Sparks, Ceara and Ross Keller, Xaber, Valary, David, and Amberly Taylor, and seven great grandchildren Jude, Nick, CJ, Nico, Mia, Grace, Ladeerian, and one on the way. Pete loved to fish and cook catfish. He loved to gather with friends and family. Pete loved to watch the New Orleans Saints and the OKC Thunder. Pete loved his wife and adored his family. Especially the little ones who he taught to Spit and Cuss and to hunt Wampus Cats and Bigfoot. Condolences may be left for the family at www.granthamfuneralhomes.com

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Gay Nell Willeford - February 24, 1933 - March 04, 2020

Departed: 03/04/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Gay Nell Willeford, 87, of Duncan, Oklahoma has joined many family members in Heaven on Wednesday, March 4, 2020 in Comanche, Oklahoma. A graveside service will be held on Monday, March 9, at 10:00 AM at Duncan City Cemetery with Brother Billy Morgan officiating and under the direction of Don Grantham Funeral Home. The family will receive friends at the funeral home from 5:00 pm to 7:00 pm on Sunday. Born to Lee and Vurlea Mitchell on February 24, 1933. She joined a large family of ten brothers and sisters. She married Charley C. Willeford in June 25, 1969 in Enid, Oklahoma. Gay enjoyed gardening and was a member of the Duncan VFW Women’s Auxiliary. She enjoyed spending time with her family and especially her grandchildren and great grandchildren. Gay was preceded in death by her husband Charlie C Willeford, her parents, and brothers. She is survived by her children Frances Renee Myers of Duncan, Oklahoma, Loreca Billy of Comanche, Oklahoma, Lisa Keck and her husband Richard of Duncan, Oklahoma, Levi Hendrick and his wife Alice of Moore, Oklahoma; her sisters, Angela Mitchell of Duncan, Oklahoma, Judy Perry of McAllen, Texas, Marquitea McCrae of Colorado; eleven grandchildren and numerous great grandchildren, nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. Online condolences and memories can be shared with the family at www.granthamfuneralhomes.com

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Alma Jean Brinegar - April 28, 1931 - March 02, 2020

Departed: 03/02/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Alma Jean Brinegar, 88, of Cookson, Oklahoma and longtime resident of Duncan, Oklahoma passed away peacefully at her home in Cookson, Oklahoma on Monday, March 2, 2020. Funeral services will be held on Friday, March 6 at 1:30 PM at New Hope Baptist Church West with Rev. Randy Southerland officiating. Interment will follow at Fairlawn Cemetery in Comanche, Oklahoma under the care of Don Grantham Funeral Home. The family will receive friends from 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM Thursday at the funeral home. Alma was born April 28, 1931 in Comanche, Oklahoma to Bernard and Jewel Wood. She attended school around and in Duncan area where she lived most of her life. Alma married Perry “Pete’ Brinegar April 28, 1947 and spent their time in the Duncan area. He preceded her in death on October 3, 2008. Alma worked for Montgomery Ward in Duncan for over fifteen years as a sales manager and was co-owner of B&B meat processing. She was very active with the Duncan Fire Department Women’s Auxiliary and the Oklahoma State Firefighters Women’s organization. She was very involved with the Duncan Moose Lodge 2202 and Women of the Moose as Jr. Region Women of the Moose, College of Regents and Academy of Friendship. She loved cooking, sewing, Dancing, Gardening (green thumb), Hunting, Golfing, fishing and was an artist and loved painting pictures. She was preceded in death by parents, her husband of 61 years Perry “Pete” Brinegar, her brother Donald Wood, and her granddaughter Teeniesa Jean Brake. She is survived by her brother Bill “Buck” Wood and his wife Yvonne of Lawton, her daughters, Linda Brinegar of Marlow, Tonya Thompson and her husband David of Cookson, Oklahoma, her son, Perry J. Brinegar Jr and his wife Ronni of Duncan. She is survived by her eight grandchildren, Sammy James Brake, Chad Miller, Lynn Miller, Brent Miller, Chris Thompson, Bucky Thompson, Braylin Arrington, Mindy Howton, twenty one great grandchildren and twelve great-great grandchildren and many nieces, nephews and cousins. She was loved and admired by her family and friends. Pallbearers will be Sammy Brake, Lynn Miller, Shea Howton, Chris Tompson, Heath Wood and Braylin Arrington. Honorary pallbearers will be, Michael Fannie, Jason Quarles, Darrell Wood, Clint Phillips, Scott Hawkins, and Josiah Harwell. Donations can be made in memory of Alma Brinegar to The Breast Cancer Research Foundation 28 West 44th Street, Suite 609, New York, NY 10036 2306 or to the Alzheimer's Association - Southwest Oklahoma Regional Office E Gore Blvd Suite 208, Lawton, OK 73501. Condolences and memories can be shared with the family at www.granthamfuneralhomes.com

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Lorrain Neal McCasland - October 24, 1921 - February 23, 2020

Departed: 02/23/2020 (Duncan)

Obituary Preview: Lorrain Neal McCasland, 98, former resident of Duncan passed away Sunday, February 23, 2020, at his house in Dry Prong, Louisiana.Services will be 10:30AM Monday, March 2 at the Don Grantham Funeral Chapel with Rev. Asa Hallbauer officiating. Interment will follow at the Duncan Municipal Cemetery.On October 24, 1921, Lorrain Neal was born to Earl and Opal McCasland at Yuma, Colorado. As the oldest of nine children, he was his mother's helper as a cook, and enjoyed cooking most of his life. (Homemade egg noodles and cookies as Christmas presents). When his mom had a difficult birth with Coeta, (he at only 12) was given the care of the baby until Mom got on her feet.He attended the Nazarene Church of Yuma and was saved during a revival as a teenager. He sang a special in church when about 12 it wasn't a hymn but an old cowboy song entitled "When It's Lamp Lighting Time In The Valley". Lorrain met his wife Dorothy at church but doesn't remember the first time they met. They dated at church socials throughout high school. After graduation in 1940, they were engaged during the summer. Lorrain always enjoyed telling that since it was leap year, Dorothy had asked him to marry her or they never would have gotten together.When Dorothy was working in Greeley, Colorado, Lorrain decided to visit her after the chores were done on Sunday afternoon. He and his brother, Lyle, made the 90 mile trip and returned in time for evening church service. His parents never learned of this incident until years later.After graduation, Lorrain continued to work for his Dad at 3 cents a bushel for picking corn. At harvest time, he worked for other farmers in the area with the harvest crew. He sure wasn't getting rich!Lorrain and Dorothy were married on November 23, 1941 after the morning service at Yuma Nazarene Church by Rev. J.E. Canaday a former Pastor. Their first home was the bunk house on Dad Dyke's farm. Cecil and Wilbur were born while they lived in the Yuma area.In 1946 the family moved to Hygiene, Colorado in the Longmont area and bought a concrete block business. Lorrain needed a better income to support his growing family. Starting out making blocks, Lorrain soon learned to lay blocks and then began hauling blocks from Denver. Calvin and Dale were born during this time.Eventually Lorrain went into the general contracting business in construction. The family lived in Denver where he worked for the Runyan Brothers for about 16 years building multiple apartment units, doing Urban renewal and some construction jobs of his own, known as McC and Sons. In 1956 Wilma was born.In 1968 and 1969, he built the tabernacle on the Intermountian District Bible Missionary Church in Elizabeth, Colorado. In 1971 they moved from Denver to Elizabeth and started the famous McCasland Lumberyard and greenhouse. Several of the grandchildren helped in the greenhouse during the spring planting time. After living in Colorado all his life he sold out and moved to Duncan, Oklahoma in 1993 and lived there over 25 years. While there, he managed rental property in the area. Lorrain spent this past year in Louisiana with Wilma and Bob, his care givers.The church and its support have been a big part of Lorrain's life. Most of the time he has attended the Bible Missionary Church. Several of his children and grandchildren have been pastors and missionaries. In 1996, he and his wife visited New Guinea where two grandchildren were ministering.He is survived by three siblings: Coeta, Mary Jane and Don; his three sons: Wilbur, Calvin and Dale McCasland; one daughter: Wilma Hallbauer; twenty-seven grandchildren; sixty-two great grandchildren and fifteen great great grandchildren.He was preceeded in death by his parents; his wife of almost seventy years Dorothy; one son Cecil; one granddaughter Lois and five of his siblings (three just one year ago)Online memories and condolences may be sent to the family at www.granthamfuneralhomes.com

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Don Grantham Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the local community and actively participates in various initiatives that promote education, awareness, and support. The funeral home partners with local organizations to host seminars, workshops, and events that focus on topics such as grief counseling, estate planning, and end-of-life care. By engaging with the community in meaningful ways, the funeral home demonstrates its commitment to building strong relationships and fostering a sense of trust.

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For generations, families have placed their trust in Don Grantham Funeral Home to handle their loved ones with dignity and respect. As a testament to its commitment to excellence, the funeral home has built a reputation on integrity, compassion, and exceptional service. Whether you're seeking immediate assistance or planning for the future, Don Grantham Funeral Home stands ready to provide comfort, guidance, and support during life's most challenging moments.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and other biographical information. It may also include details about their life, accomplishments, and surviving family members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to notify friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the person's life.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the obituary is written by the funeral home or a family member, often with the assistance of a professional writer or editor. The writer will gather information from the family and create a respectful and accurate tribute to the deceased.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include funeral service details and charity information.

How long does it take to write an obituary?

The time it takes to write an obituary can vary depending on the complexity of the information and the writer's experience. On average, it can take anywhere from 30 minutes to several hours to craft a well-written obituary.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, you can write your own obituary in advance. This is often referred to as a "self-written" or "pre-written" obituary. Some people choose to do this to ensure that their life story is told accurately and to spare their loved ones from having to do it during a difficult time.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed tribute that provides additional biographical information and celebrates the person's life.

Where are obituaries typically published?

Obituaries are often published in local newspapers, online obituary websites, funeral home websites, and social media platforms. They may also be printed in church bulletins, community newsletters, or other local publications.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication and the length of the notice. Online obituary websites may offer free or low-cost options, while print newspapers may charge by the word or line.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a meaningful way to personalize the tribute and make it more engaging for readers.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

The duration that an online obituary remains available varies depending on the website or platform. Some sites may keep them archived indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period of time.

Can I edit an obituary after it has been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to make corrections or edits to an obituary after it has been published. However, this depends on the publication's policies and procedures.

What if I want to keep my loved one's obituary private?

If you prefer not to share your loved one's obituary publicly, you can request that it be kept private or restricted to specific individuals or groups. This can be especially important for families who wish to maintain privacy during a difficult time.

Can I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes, many families choose to include information about charitable donations in memory of their loved one. This can be a meaningful way to honor their legacy and support a cause that was important to them.

How do I submit an obituary for publication?

The process for submitting an obituary varies depending on the publication. You may need to contact the funeral home, newspaper, or online platform directly to inquire about their submission guidelines and deadlines.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for a long time?

Yes, you can still write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for a long time. This can be a therapeutic way to process your grief and celebrate their life, even if they passed away many years ago.

What if I'm unsure about what to include in an obituary?

If you're unsure about what to include in an obituary, consider consulting with a funeral home director, professional writer, or trusted friend or family member. They can offer guidance and support as you craft a meaningful tribute.

Can I use humor in an obituary?

Yes, humor can be an effective way to celebrate your loved one's personality and spirit in an obituary. However, be sure to use discretion and avoid anything that might be offensive or inappropriate.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an obituary?

If you discover errors or inaccuracies in an obituary, contact the publication or funeral home immediately. They will work with you to correct the mistakes and ensure that the revised version is published promptly.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or lyrics that were meaningful to your loved one can be a beautiful addition to an obituary. They can add depth and personality to the tribute and provide comfort to those who read it.

What if I want to include multiple photos or mementos in an obituary?

Some online platforms allow you to create a memorial page with multiple photos, videos, and mementos. This can be a wonderful way to celebrate your loved one's life and share memories with others.

Can I write an obituary for a pet?

Yes, many people choose to write obituaries for their beloved pets. This can be a meaningful way to acknowledge their importance in your life and provide closure during a difficult time.

How do I find inspiration for writing an obituary?

You can find inspiration for writing an obituary by reflecting on your loved one's life story, accomplishments, and personality traits. You may also consider reading examples of other obituaries or seeking guidance from a professional writer or counselor.

What if I'm struggling emotionally while writing an obituary?

If you're struggling emotionally while writing an obituary, don't hesitate to seek support from friends, family members, or a professional counselor. Writing an obituary can be a challenging task, but it can also be a therapeutic way to process your grief and celebrate your loved one's life.