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Mechtilde "Tillie" (Eisgruber) Moody - May 10, 1930 - June 15, 2023

Departed: 06/15/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Mechtilde “Tillie” (Eisgruber) Moody, 93, of Cattaraugus, NY, passed away peacefully on the morning of June 15, 2023. Tillie was born during the height of prohibition in Buffalo on May 16, 1930, to the late Josef and Mechtilde (Wimmer) Eisgruber in a small apartment located on Frederick Place, which was known locally as “Schnapps Alley” due to the abundance of speakeasies. A first-generation American, she took great pride in her German heritage. She grew up above her parents' thriving business, Eisgruber's Restaurant & Tavern (formerly one of those aforementioned speakeasies), on Genesee Street on Buffalo's East Side. At 14 years old, her family moved to Maple Drive, Bowmansville, NY, where she graduated from Lancaster High School in 1948. It was in Bowmansville that she met and married the love of her life, Bruce R. Moody, on October 10, 1949. Tillie’s parents moved back to Buffalo to be closer to their business, so Bruce and Tillie bought their house and began their loving life together. A skilled gardener, Tillie was an active member and past president of the Bowmansville Garden Club and enjoyed showing her floral creations in the Erie County Fair. Alongside Bruce, she raised their three children, Bruce Jr., Heide, and Bart, in Bowmansville until 1975 when they moved their family to Cattaraugus, NY. Embracing her new country home, Tillie became an active member of the Cattaraugus United Methodist Church, the Civic League, and later, the Let's Travel Club. Tillie shared her floral artistry and green thumb working at Colonial Florist in Gowanda and Burdick's Blueberries for several seasons. In addition to her love for gardening, she enjoyed making crafts and cherished spending time with her family and friends. Tillie's warm hospitality and delicious cooking made every gathering she hosted truly special. Tillie (Tomato) is survived by her devoted husband, Bruce R. Moody, Sr.; her beloved sons, Bruce Jr. (Leslie) Moody and Bart (Kate) Moody; her son-in-law Brian (Heide) Fischer; her six grandchildren, Roy (Katie), Katie, and Liza Fischer, and Lauren, Tyler, and Adam Moody; and her great-grandchild, Wyatt Fischer. She is also survived by her brother, Richard (Anni) Eisgruber, along with two nephews Mark (Kym) Eisgruber, Kurt (Sidney) Eisgruber and a niece Kerri (Keith) Watson. Tillie was preceded in death by her parents, her brother Josef, and her cherished daughter, Heide (Brian) Fischer. Relatives and friends are invited to visit at Roberts Memorial Free Methodist Church on Saturday, June 24, from 6 PM to 9 PM. A celebration of life service will be held on Sunday, June 25, at 4 PM, also at Roberts Memorial FMC, with Pastor Mike Trenchard officiating. Reception to follow. Memorial gifts may be made to St. John’s Church, 28 Ellicott Street, Cattaraugus, NY.

Interment will be in Snyder Hill Cemetery.

Arrangements entrusted to DiStasio Funeral Home Inc.

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Stanley M Dybka - December 20, 1955 - June 13, 2023

Departed: 06/13/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Stanley M. Dybka,67, known affectionately as Stan, passed suddenly and unexpectedly on June 13, 2023 due to cardiovascular issues at home in Cherry Creek, NY. Born on December 20, 1955, in Silver Creek, NY, Stan was a loving husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother, and friend to many.

Stan is survived by his devoted wife, Jacolyn Scott, and their four sons: Matthew (Traci), Christopher (Erica), Andrew (Becca), and Michael (Bethany). He was a proud grandfather to Raven, Colton, Austin, Amelia, Madisyn, Braelynn, Aryana, Reece, Lexington, Camden, Tenley, Autumn, Gage, Lainey, and Deegan, and a great-grandfather to Watson. He is also survived by his sisters, Marianne (Dwayne) Serio and Theresa (David) Pacos. Stan was predeceased by his brother Joey, his parents Martha and Joseph Dybka, and his Uncle John Dybka. Also survived by many nieces, nephews and cousins.

Stan attended Pine Valley Central Schools before continuing his education at Alfred State and Jamestown Community College. Throughout his life, he was dedicated to his work and was involved in various businesses and associations. His career began at Dybka Farms, later Agway followed by S & J Dairy. He was the co-owner of Cherry Creek Livestock and worked for Growmark FS LLC in Kennedy, NY, for the past 30 plus years.

Stan was an active member of his community and was involved in numerous clubs and organizations. He was a member of the Randolph Grand Lodge, Mason's #359 Randolph, Cherry Creek SnoGoer's Inc., National Auctioneers Association, Chautauqua County 4H, Chautauqua County Sheriff's Mounted Division, Villenova Grange, St. Joseph's Church in Fredonia, NY (formerly of St. John Fisher in South Dayton, NY), Kosciuszko Club, and VFW in Randolph and Cherry Creek.

In his free time, Stan enjoyed hunting, farming, restoring farm equipment. He cherished spending time with his family and friends, especially during the holidays. Stan was known for his loving, friendly, and kind nature, which endeared him to all who knew him.

Stan's life was a testament to his dedication to his family, work, and community. He will be deeply missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him.

Relatives and Friends may visit DiStasio Funeral Home 478 Route 83 at Balcom Corners South Dayton, NY Friday June 16, 2023 from 1PM to 4PM and 6PM to 8PM. A mass of Christian burial will be held Saturday June 17, 2023 at St. Joseph’s Church 145 East Main Street Fredonia, NY 10AM. Please meet at church. Interment will be in Forestville Cemetery

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Roland W Tobler - August 11, 1951 - May 22, 2023

Departed: 05/22/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Roland W. Tobler, a loving husband, father, grandfather, and brother, 71 of Eldred, PA passed away peacefully on May 22, 2023, in Buffalo, NY. Born on August 11, 1951, in St.Gallen, Switzerland, he was the son of the late Roland R. Tobler and Gladys Williams Tobler.

Roland is survived by his devoted wife of 41 years, Mary (Kamery) Tobler; his children, Dana (Jay) Tobler, Chris (Colette) Tobler, Kim (Tony) Aguirre, Abigail (Ronnie) Fitch, and Roland (Alyona) Tobler and his four legged child Douglas; his grandchildren, Devon, Cole, Antonio, Garrett, Leilah, and Oliver; and his brother, Kenneth (Missy) Tobler; also many nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents, Roland R. Tobler and Gladys Williams Tobler; and Linda (Joe) Borello, former wife and mother of children Dana, Chris, and Kim.

He received his education at St. Luke's School for Boys in New Canaan, Connecticut, where he developed a solid foundation for his future endeavors. Following his graduation, Roland worked for Swiss Silk Bolting Cloth(now Sefar,AG headquartered in Thal,Switzerland) for 17 years spending time working in Elmsford and Depew NY,during his time with Swiss Silk Bolting Cloth he worked in various departments which included sales,fabrication and design. After his career with Swiss Silk Bolting Cloth, Roland went on to become a successful entrepreneur. He was the proud owner of Tobler Tonneau and Canvas in Eldred, PA, for 25 years. Through his dedication and hard work, he was able to build a thriving business that supported his family and contributed to the local community.

Roland was a man of many interests and passions. He had a deep appreciation for music and art, attending concerts and gallery openings with his family. His love for creativity extended to his work, where he was known for his innovative designs and attention to detail. He was also one of Jehovah's Witnesses, finding great comfort and joy in his faith throughout his life.

Those who knew Roland will remember him as a loving, generous, and creative individual. He was always willing to lend a helping hand or offer a word of encouragement to those in need. His warm and welcoming nature made him a beloved figure in his community, and his presence will be deeply missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him.

In honor of Roland's memory, his family will cherish the many happy moments they shared with him. His love for his wife, children, and grandchildren will live on in their hearts, and they will strive to carry on his legacy of kindness and generosity.

A Memorial for Roland W Tobler will be held June 9, 2023, at 1:00PM at the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah’s Witnesses, located at 4258 NY-16, Hinsdale NY 14743. Arrangements entrusted to DiStasio Funeral Home Inc. South Dayton, NY

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Frederick G Weaver Jr. - September 08, 1936 - May 09, 2023

Departed: 05/09/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Frederick G Weaver Jr., 86 of Leon, NY entered into rest May 9, 2023

He was born September 8, 1936 in Cherry Creek, NY to the late Glenn and Bertha Weaver.

Frederick graduated from Pine Valley Central Schools in 1954. He was considered a jack of all trades working for Olsen Builders for over twenty years.

Frederick enjoyed all Trains from traveling to model trains, sports (Yankees, Bills and Sabres), also spending time with family and friends.

He is survived by his children Cheryl (Guy) Crane, Timothy Weaver, Brian (Dawn) Weaver and Jeffrey (Janelle) Weaver, 11 grandchildren and 10 great grandchildren; his siblings Tom (Gary) Weaver, Jack (Judy) Weaver, Skip (Cindy) Weaver and Doug (Candy) Weaver.

Besides his parents he was predeceased by his brothers Ed Weaver and Butch Weaver.

A private family memorial will be held at the convenience of the family. Interment will be in Cherry Creek Central Cemetery

Arrangements entrusted to DiStasio Funeral Home Inc.

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Alice A Reynolds - September 27, 1932 - May 05, 2023

Departed: 05/05/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Alice A. Reynolds, 90, of Little Valley, NY and formally of South Dayton, NY entered into rest May 5, 2023.

She was born on September 27, 1932 in Clifton Forge, VA to the late Lawrence and Edith Bradley.

Alice was married to the late Ernest Reynolds Jr.

She enjoyed bingo, crocheting, gardening and traveling with her family.

Alice is survived by her loving children Linda (Jeff) Cardot, Earlene Case, Gary Reynolds, Jerry Reynolds and Wilma Case; 14 grandchildren and 24 great grandchildren.

Besides her parents she was predeceased by her husband Ernest Reynolds Jr, her son Larry Reynolds, her grandson Jeffrey Cardot, her great grandchildren Justin and Zack VanArsdale and Michael Green Jr. Also, her two sisters and two brothers.

Private services will be held by the family. Interment will be in Burnam Hollow Cemetery, Arkwright, NY Arrangements entrusted to DiStasio Funeral Home, South Dayton, NY

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Jeannie M Pagett - August 29, 1947 - April 28, 2023

Departed: 04/28/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Jeannie M. Pagett, 75 of Cattaraugus, NY was promoted to heaven in the early morning hours of April 28, 2023.

She was born in Buffalo on August 29, 1947, to the late George and Betty (Peckham) Gardiner.

Jeannie grew up in Otto, NY and graduated from Cattaraugus Central where she enjoyed playing the French Horn. She then attended SUNY Fredonia, graduated with a degree in Early Childhood Education and met and married the love of her life, Joe. Together they worked long hours on the farm they built and raised four children. Jeannie was a true educator at heart. While raising her own children she volunteered and led La Leche League meetings to encourage and support other mothers in breastfeeding. After all, 4 kids started school, Jeannie decided to follow her passion and returned to the classroom. She spent many years teaching and guiding not only students, but also other teachers and educators. When she wasn’t teaching or farming, she enjoyed gardening, canning and spending time with family and friends. Jeannie was a member of Roberts Memorial Church and co-owner of Heavenly Treasures in Cattaraugus.

Jeannie is survived by her cherished children Jefferson (Jennifer) Pagett, Jolisa Pagett, Joel Trevor Pagett and Jodi (Timothy) Spacek; 11 grandchildren and six great grandchildren; her brothers Charlie (Mary) Gardiner and George (Pam) Gardiner. Also survived by many nieces nephews and cousins.

Besides her parents she was predeceased by her husband Joe.

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N. Margaret (Sischo) Millspaw - July 19, 1922 - April 12, 2023

Departed: 04/12/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: N. Margaret (Sischo) Millspaw, 100 of Canandaigua, NY entered into rest April 12, 2023 Margaret was born July 19 1922 in Cherry Creek, NY to the late Claud and Lelia (Wightman) Sischo

She married Ralph B. Millspaw on October 17, 1941 in Cherry Creek, NY.

Margaret was a homemaker and owned a child care center for many years.

She enjoyed reading, painting, childcare and spending time with family and friends.

Margaret is survived by her children Wayne Millspaw, Carol Finch, Russell (Linda) Millspaw, Linda Janto, David Millspaw, Barbara Millspaw and Jim (Kathi) Millspaw; six grandchildren, six great grandchildren and six great great grandchildren. Also survived by many nieces’ nephews and cousins.

Besides her parents she was predeceased by her husband Ralph in 1999, her daughter Susan Polakiewicz and two brothers Malcom and Keith.

Relatives and friends may visit Cherry Creek Leon United Methodist Church 6813 Main Street Cherry Creek, NY Monday April 17,2023 from 11AM to 1PM where a funeral service will immediately follow with Pastor John Dedloff officiating. Interment will follow in Cherry Creek Central Cemetery Arrangements entrusted to DiStasio Funeral Home South Dayton, NY

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Anna M Simmons - February 02, 1961 - April 06, 2023

Departed: 04/06/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Anna M. (Shaffer) Simmons, 62, of Olean, NY formally of South Dayton NY entered into rest April 6 2023

She was born on February 2, 1961 to the late Ernest L. and Phyllis (Covert) Shaffer.

Anna graduated from the Salamanca Central Schools and earned her LPN thru the Ellicottville BOCES program.

She worked for the WNDDSO retiring after 34 years of service. After retirement she worked per diem for The Pines Nursing home in Olean. Anna enjoyed motorcycles, the beach, kayaking and spending time with family and friends

She married the love of her life James Simmons June 27, 1992.

Anna is survived by her children David Woodarek, Jeffery (Dawn) Zink, James and Jason Simmons; 10 grandchildren and three great grandchildren; her siblings Charles (Debbie) Shaffer, Michael (Kathy) Shaffer, Betty Brown and Terry (Shana) Shaffer. Also survived by many nieces, nephews and cousins.

Besides her parents she was predeceased by her husband James, two brothers Ernest L, Robert P and a nephew Robert P Jr.

Relatives and friends may visit DiStasio Funeral Home 478 route 83 at Balcom Corners S. Dayton Monday April 10 from 2PM to 4PM and 6PM to 8PM. Where a funeral service will be held Tuesday April 11, 2023 at 11AM. Interment will be in Valley View Cemetery Ellington, NY

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Dorothy Shattuck - January 12, 1924 - March 31, 2023

Departed: 03/31/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Dorothy Shattuck, 99, of Perrysburg, NY entered into rest March 31, 2023.

She was born January 12, 1924 to the late Edward and Anna (Gillespie) Mosher. Dorothy was predeceased by her husband Harold on August 27, 1999 She is survived by all her loving family at the WNYDDSO Funeral Services will be held at DiStasio Funeral Home 478 Route 83 at Balcom Corners  South Dayton on Wednesday April 5, 2023 at 3:30PM Interment will be in Jolls Cemetery

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Emily I (Hillebert) Fisher - January 01, 1923 - March 30, 2023

Departed: 03/30/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Emily I. Fisher (nee Hillebert) age 100, formally of Forestville, NY passed away peacefully at the Chautauqua County Nursing and Rehabilitation Center in Dunkirk surrounded by

her family on March 30, 2023.

Born in Wesley, NY on January 1, 1923, the daughter of William and Olive (Rich) Hillebert. Predeceased by Roy Fisher, her loving husband of 63 years. Her son Ronald Fisher in 1980.

Lovingly remembered by her family: daughters - Yvonne (Jerry) Park, Forestville, Wendy (Rob) Frost, Cherry Creek, and son, Don Fisher of Granite Falls, NC. Also, seven grandchildren, 12 great grandchildren an 5 great - great grandchildren.

Emily and her husband spent winters in Texas and Florida, and she was a member of the Hamlet United Methodist Church.

Emily worked as a dietitian aid with the Gowanda Psychiatric Center for 25 years retiring in 1982. After retirement Emily was also an accomplished seamstress working for Martha's Quilt Barn working on any and all custom orders including quilts, draperies and etc.

Later in life Emily worked with local material donations sewing girls' dresses and boys' shorts to be distributed through the organization Into The World Ministries. Overall, a total of over 3,000 dresses and shorts were sewn.

Lastly, Emily was busy knitting baby hats to be distributed to local hospitals for their new born babies. Relatives and friends may visit DiStasio Funeral Home, 478 Rt. 83, South Dayton, NY 14138

Sunday, April 2, 2023 from Noon to 2:00 PM a funeral service will immediately follow at 2 PM with her grandson, Greg Park officiating.

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Mendle J Johnson - November 13, 1946 - March 30, 2023

Departed: 03/30/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Mendle J Johnson,76, of Cherry Creek, NY entered into rest March 30,2023.

He was born November 13, 1946 in Cory, PA to the late Merton and June (Girtch) Johnson. Mendle graduated from Youngsville High School, Youngsville, PA in 1965

He was married to the love of his life Sharon M. Abbey on September 10, 1966.

Mendle served in the US Army for two years and was honorably discharged in 1968.

Mendle and Sharon ran their business Mendles Crossroads Grocery for 35 years in Cherry Creek, NY. He was an active member in the Cherry Creek Businessman Association, the

Cherry Creek Fire Auxiliary,  the Masons, A member and trustee of the Cherry Creek Leon United Methodist Church and was a loving member of the community.

Mendle is survived by his children Amy (Walter) Eaton, Vicki Gould and Brian (Belinda) Johnson; his grandchildren Michael (Brittany),Peter Ashby, DJ (Ashley), Ben (Hayley), Athena (Zach), Zackary, Dominick, Cassandra, Jenna, AJ and Sam; great grandchildren Raygan, Gavyn, Brooklyn, Kynzee, Hartlee, Maverick, Whitlee, Abbey, Eliza, Vanessa, Lennox, Emmitt and Ethan; his sisters Sue and Judith. Also survived by many nieces nephews, cousins and friends.

Besides his parents he was predeceased by his wife of 53 years Sharon, his granddaughter Jennifer, his great grandchild Barrett, his sisters Laura and Cindy.

Relatives and friends may visit DiStasio Funeral Home 478 Route 83 at Balcom Corners South Dayton be held Thursday April 6, 2023 from 3PM to 5PM where a funeral service will immediately follow. In lieu flowers donations may be made to Hospice of Chautauqua County 20 W. Farmount Ave, Lakewood, NY 14750

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Patricia A Bailey - July 05, 1952 - March 05, 2023

Departed: 03/05/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Patricia A. Bailey, 70, of Cherry Creek, NY entered into rest March 5, 2023.

She was born July 5, 1952 in Erie, PA to the late Charles and Ruth Bartlebaugh. Pat was a CNA for 17 years retiring in 2012 from Heritage Village Nursing Home in Gerry,NY

She enjoyed going to the Casino, gardening, her dogs and spending time with family and friends.

She is survived by her cherished children Harry Jr. (Tricia), Larry(Tracilynn), and Steve (Jennysue); 10 grandchildren and 10 great grandchildren; her sister Sandy (Clark) Smith also survived by many nieces , nephews and cousins.

Besides her parents she was predeceased by her husband of 50 years Harry W Bailey Sr. and her grandson Brandon Bailey.

Relatives and friends may visit DiStasio Funeral Home 478 Route 83 at Balcom Corners Saturday March 11, 2023 from 11AM to 1PM where a funeral service will immediately follow.

Interment will be in Cherry Creek Central Cemetery.

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Dew Ann O'Mahen - April 29, 1955 - February 26, 2023

Departed: 02/26/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Dew Ann O’Mahen (nee Moore) aptly described as a firecracker, of Hamburg NY formerly of Dunkirk, and Cherry Creek NY joined her parents in heaven; Arnold and Betty Moore (nee Sheldon) this past Sunday February 26th

Dew Ann was a retiree of NYS, she loved her work with the disabled population at dayhab in Fredonia NY.

Dew Ann leaves behind a son Bruce (Rebecca) O’Mahen, 3 grandchildren Meghan (Richard) Gerst, Lilly Gleason and Gavin OMahen, Dew Ann’s sibling’s Dawn (Dowe) Parsons of Michigan, Miste Scazafavo of North Carolina, Arnold (Tara) Moore of Florida and Darryl (Cherish) Moore of Tennessee will also be mourning her loss. Her nieces, nephews, great nieces, and nephews will mourn her loss as well.

A celebration of life will be held on March 25th 2023 at DiStasio Funeral Home 478 Route 83 South Dayton, NY 14138 Saturday March 25th from 11AM to 1PM where a prayer service will immediately follow. Interment will be in Lower New Albion Cemetery

Her family would like to thank all in advance for condolences.

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Gene Marie Scott Morey - February 08, 1943 - February 25, 2023

Departed: 02/25/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Gene Marie-Scott Morey of South Dayton passed away unexpectedly at 80 years of age, on Saturday, February25,2023 at Bertrand-Chaffee Hospital, Springville, New York. Born Gene Marie Scott February 8, 1943 in Jamestown NY. The daughter of the late Warren W. and Hellen

M.(Hale) Scott of South Dayton, New York. Gene has three siblings, Brothers Glenn (Janice) Scott, Arthur (Delores) Scott and late sister Lois (Scott) McSweeney.

Gene devoted 60 years to Horace Erwin Morey, marrying on August 24, 1963 at the Hamlet Methodist Church. They raised three sons: Ryan (Julie) Morey, Stacey Morey, and Hartand (Jennifer) Morey. Grandchildren included Thomas, Kyle, Allissa, Carter, Allyson, and Amelia. Many nieces and nephews also survive.

Gene was raised on the family dairy farm located near Hamlet NY for her first 20 years and continued to enjoy the country life with her husband while managing their own dairy farm for another 60 years. Gene was proud of the work ethic she learned from her parents, a trait she passed on to her children and grandchildren. Gene dedicated her life to those around her. Unselfishly giving her time and energy to support others and volunteer to the community she loved. Gene belonged to many clubs, and organizations. She was proud to be a 4H member and Villenova Grange #604 member most of her life. She was a life member of the South Dayton Fire Belles, and Hamlet Methodist Church. She enjoyed extracurricular activities including sports, music, and drama. She was a lifeguard at the school pool and enjoyed swimming, volleyball, softball, and bowling. She never passed up a chance to play a hand of cards, play BINGO, toss a round of horseshoes, or play a game of cornhole with the grandchildren.

Gene graduated from Pine Valley Central School in 1960. She went on to obtain a degree in Education at Fredonia State College and later pursued a degree In nursing at Jamestown Community College. She worked 20 years as a teacher at Pine Valley and Cattaraugus Schools. Gene and Erwin purchased a dairy farm in 1967 where they lived together until her passing. Together, they managed the family farm for close to40 years. In 1976 Gene began working In Perrysburg NY at JN Adams OPWDDSO as a therapy aid for 25 years.

After retiring from the state, Gene continued to work with Erwin on the family farm and assisting her children anyway she could with raising her grandchildren. Several years later they sold the dairy herd.

Gene and Erwin filled their days at home with gardening, canning, baking, sewing, etc.

Gene dedicated her entire life to the care of others. She loved watching the children grow and develop their talents. She provided dally care for her grandchildren prior to and during their time in elementary school. Gene cherished this time spent with her grandchildren and was always up for a hike in the woods or a quiet stroll on the beach with them as often as she could. Throughout her life, she cared for her grandparents, parents, her family, and her grandchildren. Gene always put others first in her private and public life without hesitation.

Gene considered herself a bit of a tomboy. Gene often reminisced of her early days on the farm and in school. Sharing fond memories of living on the farm, playing sports, being part of the band, and the work Involved. Telling stories of how things were and how things changed. The pride of accomplishment after putting in a long day bailing hay, cutting firewood, gardening, canning, teaching a class, or caring for the mentally and physically challenged. She would tell of riding her favorite horse or the team of horses used to cultivate a field, or rake hay. Or hearing the local farms calling the herds into the barn for morning milking. She displayed a love for God's creatures indicative of the kindness within. Whether it be on the farm, in nature, or with her pets.

In most recent days she enjoyed the company of her husband, her loyal dog Roger, visiting with family, and playing cards with friends. Nothing made her happier than being with her family for a simple picnic or hosting a large meal to celebrate a special occasion with the extended family. She will be missed.

The deepest appreciation to all who have been supportive and part of the grieving process. A Celebration of Life date is to be determined in the following weeks. Arrangements entrusted to DIStasio Funeral Home South Dayton, New York

GOD BLESS A LIFE WELLLIVED.

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Jeffrey C Bender - September 21, 1995 - February 23, 2023

Departed: 02/23/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Jeffrey C. Bender, 27, of Niagara Falls, formally of South Dayton, NY entered into rest February 23, 2023.

He was born September 21, 1995 in Buffalo, NY to Thomas Bender and Aimee Lachut.

Jeffrey attended Lockport City Schools and went on to work for Beauty Pools and ending up at Ivy lea Construction the last few years.

He was an avid Buffalo Bills and Sabres fan. Jeff enjoyed playing darts, golfing, video games, working outdoors, his family dogs and spending time with family and friends.

Jeff was affectionately known as Brother Big.

He is survived by his son Jameson, his parents Thomas (Judy) Bender and Aimee (Brent) Lachut, his siblings Katie, Cole, Bella, Brody, Wes, Chloe, Zack, Tyler and Anthony: his niece Evolet, his nephews Lucas and Atlas; his grandmother Terry Brown. Also survived by many Aunts, Uncles and Cousins.

Jeff was pre deceased by his grandparents Dan Brown, Robert and Esther Bender.

Relatives and friends may visit DiStasio Funeral Home Inc. 478 Route 83 at Balcom Corners South Dayton Tuesday February 28, 2023 from 4PM to 7PM where a funeral service will be held Wednesday March 1, 2023 at 11AM with Brad Ringer officiating.

Interment will be in Villenova Cemetery.

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Carl D Smallback - August 20, 1940 - February 05, 2023

Departed: 02/05/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Carl D. Smallback, 82 of Cherry Creek, NY entered into rest February 5, 2023 at home with family by his side.

He was born August 20, 1940 in Salamanca, NY to the late William and late June (Bergmark) Smallback.

Carl graduated from Randolph Central Schools in 1958. After high school he worked on his family farm, The Quaker Farm in Quaker Bridge, NY. until July of 1964 when the family was forced out by eminent domain for the building of the Kinzua Bridge. Carl then worked for Rhodes Construction for three years before buying his own farm, Pine Valley Farm in Cherry Creek, NY. He married the love of his life Carolyn Davis July 9, 1966 in Frewsburg, NY

Carl enjoyed collecting model trains, snowmobiling, working on the farm, watching his grandchildren’s sporting events and spending time with family and friends.

He was very civic minded, he was a Pine Valley School board member, a board member of the Chautauqua County Cornell Cooperative extension, a Town of Cherry Creek Councilman, Assessor, and a Grievance Board Member. Carl was also the chairman for the Cherry Creek Democratic Party and a member of the Conewango Watershed Commission, he was also a member of the Alleghany State Park Historical Society, friends of Alleghany, Cherry Creek Sno – Goers, the NY snowmobile association, the toy train collector’s society, The Farm Bureau, Upstate Milk Cooperative, Dairy Lea Milk Cooperative, Regional Cooperative Marketing Association and he was vice president of the Corydon Township Reunion.

Carl is survived by his wife of 56 years Carolyn, his children Thomas Smallback, Amy (Malcolm) Cully, his grandchildren Mark, Luke, Ella and Natalie. His siblings Rhea Peterson and Sally (late Mark) Frey. He was also survived many nieces’ nephews and cousins.

Relatives and friends may visit DiStasio Funeral Home Inc. 478 Route 83 at Balcom Corners on Thursday February 9, 2023 from 5PM to 7PM. and Friday February 10, 2023 from 11AM to 12PM where a funeral service will immediately follow with Pastor Kenneth Pratt officiating.

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Harriet M. (Patt) Howard - April 01, 1924 - January 22, 2023

Departed: 01/22/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Harriet M. (Patt) Howard (98) of South Dayton, NY passed away peacefully at her home on January 22, 2023.

Patt attended several Catholic Boarding schools throughout her childhood and graduated from Villa Maria Academy in Erie, PA. She went on to attend the University of Richmond, VA and then Katherine Gibbs Secretarial School where upon completion, was employed at 30 Rockefeller Plaza in NYC. Patt went on to become the Secretary to the Dean of Agriculture at Cornell University and that is where she met her future husband, Lester C. Howard (Let), who was attending Cornell College of Agriculture on the GI Bill. They married in 1950 and moved to the area where they bought the family farm on Ruckh Hill Road.

Over the years while raising five children, Patt held various secretarial positions including J.N. Adams Memorial Hospital, Richard Dirkx, Esq. Attorney at Law and her favorite, secretary to the guidance counselor at Pine Valley Central High School where many of the students affectionately referred to her as “Mom”. She was involved in many organizations including the Order of the Eastern Star and the American Legion Auxiliary.

Patt had a great sense of humor and loved to laugh; the Golden Girls was one of her favorite shows! She was an avid reader, a wonderful conversationalist and a good listener, an animal lover and a bird watcher in her later years.

Patt was preceded in death by her father Ambrose Faulkner and her mother and stepfather, Irene and Roger Roberts, her husband Lester C. Howard, her son Kevin Howard and her grandson, Matthew Neitzel. She is survived by her son Craig W. Howard, daughter Kristen H. Griffin (Mark), daughter Lisa Howard (Mike Donner), son Charles W. Howard (Karen) her granddaughters, Courtney Lynn Storms (Matt) Charlotte A. Neitzel, great granddaughter, Haylee Storms and her caretaker, Patty Harris, who became a member of the family over the last several years.

Family will receive friends and relatives for visitation on Friday, January 27, 2023 from 1:00 PM –4:00 pm at DiStasio Funeral Home, 478 Route 83, South Dayton, NY.

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Connie L White - May 23, 1970 - January 21, 2023

Departed: 01/21/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: On Saturday, January 21st , Connie L. White, a loving and caring mother, passed away. She was the young age of fifty-two. She was born and raised in South Dayton, NY. Connie loved playing Bingo, many card games and dice, watching her Soaps on TV and talking about them with her mother, along with gameshows. Connie was known to be very loving to children and could help calm any upset child. She always had the wildest stories to share from her past and many jokes to pass around. She was always there to console her daughters through any hardships, and they always returned the love and care back

to her. Connie is survived by her mother Susan Saye-Johnson (Eric), her four daughters Chantal Eddy, Chanel Eddy, Kirsten Prebble (Derek) and Chandra Nagel; her two grandchildren (Alex and Chayse) along with two bonus grandchildren(Michaelyn and Madalyn); her two fur babies Princess and Ivy. Her two eldest sisters Colleen (Mark) and Christine (Mark) and many aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews. As a special mention she was very close to her nephew Jonathon (Tanya), he was like a son to her. She was greatly loved by her late father Dale White. Connie was loved by so many of her family

and friends. Relatives and friends may visit DiStasio Funeral Home 478 Route 83 at Balcom Corners South Dayton

on Saturday January 28th, 2023 from 1pm-3pm. Where a service in memory of Connie will be held at 2:30pm with Pastor Wes Tessey officiating. Afterwards a small celebration of life for Connie will be held at the South Dayton Legion located

at 4 Mill St. South Dayton NY, 14138. Flowers may be sent to the funeral home.

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Kenneth E Walters - December 15, 1949 - January 11, 2023

Departed: 01/11/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Kenneth E. Walters, 73, of South Dayton, NY entered into rest January 11,2023

He was born in Gowanda, NY December 15, 1949 to the late Justin and Alene (Moore) Walters. Kenneth was a supervisor at Crawford Furniture in Jamestown, NY. for 38 years

He loved hunting, NASCAR, family cookouts and driving.

He is survived by his life partner Shirley Adams, his children Maynard, Debbie, Kevin, Amanda and Melissa; his 20 grandchildren;his siblings Connie Chesebro of Franklinville, NY, Ronald (Sue) Walters of Great Valley and Cathy (Dwayne) Emke of Forestville; his previous wives Alice Schumaker and Marlene Harwood.

Besides his parents he was predeceased by his brother Larry Walters.

Private services will be held at the convenience of the family.

Arrangements entrusted to DiStasio Funeral Home Inc.

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Esther A Wilcox - March 22, 1932 - January 10, 2023

Departed: 01/10/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Esther A. (Warner) Wilcox, 90, of Cattaraugus, NY entered into rest January 10, 2023.

She was born March 22, 1932 in N. Chili, NY to the late Asa and Marian (Manning) Warner.

Esther was a stay at home Mom taking care of her six boys. She was a member of Roberts Memorial Free Methodist Church, Womans Missionary Society, Sunday school and The Christian Youth Crusaders

Esther enjoyed knitting, reading the bible, photography listening and watching Gene Autry, Roy Rodgers, Shirley Temple and Christian Music.

She is survived by her loving children Jeffery (Brenda), Duane (Dawn),Terry (Pamela), Robin (Patti) And James (Cathy) Wilcox; grandmother to 16, great grandmother to 29 and great great grandmother to 3; her siblings Evelyn Hooker of S. Dayton wife of the late Lawrence Hooker, Jane Warner of Georgia wife of the late Ron Warner, Jim (Linda) Warner of Georgia and Carol Paddock of Batavia. Also survived by many nieces, nephews and cousins.

Besides her parents she was pre deceased by her loving husband of 68 years Wendell Wilcox; her son Kenneth Wilcox; her brother Ron Warner and her sister Sylvia Maitland.

Relatives and friends may visit Roberts Memorial Free Methodist Church 101 South St. Cattaraugus, NY Tuesday January 17, 2023 from 1PM to 3PM where a funeral service will follow with Pastor Mike Jones officiating.

Arrangements entrusted to DiStasio Funeral Home Inc. Interment will be in Liberty Park Cemetery

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Milly M Blair - October 21, 1951 - January 08, 2023

Departed: 01/08/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Milly M. (Killock) Blair, 71, of Forestville, NY entered into rest January 8, 2023 at Brooks Hospital with family by her side.

She was born October 21, 1951 in Silver Creek, NY to the late Arthur and Rose (Marts) Killock.

Milly was a Nurses Aid for Heritage Park Nursing and Rehabilitation Center for many years. She also spent time helping he husband Richard on their family farm.

She enjoyed riding and showing her horses, bird watching and spending time with family and friends.

Milly is survived by her loving husband of 52 years Richard Blair; her cherished children Richard (Heidi) and Scott Blair; her grandchildren Shadoe (Brandon), Kylen (Syavanna) and Jacob (Jessica). Her step grandchildren Samantha (Taige), Anthony, Dana (Skyler) and Jesse; her great grandchildren Ella, Zoey, Jensen, Tobias, Grace and Brayden; her siblings Peggy Sheldon and Art Killock. Also survived by many nieces,nephews and cousins.

Besides her parents she was pre deceased by her sister Shirley Tyma.

Relatives and friends may visit DiStasio Funeral Home 478 Route 83 at Balcom Corners South Dayton Friday from 2PM to 5PM.

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Frank R. Scienza - October 30, 1940 - January 06, 2023

Departed: 01/06/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Frank R. Scienza, age 82, passed away on January 6, 2023. He resided with his eldest son Rick and daughter-in-law, MaryJo, in Forestville, New York for his final two years of life.

He was born in Los Angeles, California, the son of William and Iole Scienza. He loved his whole family and was always smiling and full of joy when they would spend time together.

Frank had an excellent work ethic. At 17, he became a supervisor for a newspaper printing company before graduating from San Pedro high school; the youngest the company had at the time and a fact he was very proud of. He became a longshoreman before moving to Frankfort, New York where he married and had three sons. He worked and retired from Remington Arms in Ilion, NY after nearly 40 years.

Frank served in his local church for many years as an usher, board member, and choir member. Yet his greatest passion was serving as senior commander for Royal Rangers (A faith based boys group that teaches Christian faith and valuable life skills).

Frank was a man of faith who loved unconditionally. His greatest desire was that others would call upon the Lord Jesus Christ to be saved.

He enjoyed church activities, lighthouses, ballroom dancing and spending time fishing and doing puzzles with family and friends.

In addition to his parents he is predeceased by his brother, Raymond Scienza. He is survived by his sisters Yvonne Moon and Germaine Craine and his brother, William Scienza Jr. He is also survived by his sons Rick Scienza and his wife, Mary Jo; James Scienza and his wife, Lori; Jay Scienza and his wife, Nicole. Also his grandchildren Miranda Christopher and her husband Julian, Vincent Scienza and his wife Sarah, Corey Scienza and his wife Akshada, Ashleigh Gurd and her husband Josh, David Scienza , and Carson Scienza. As well as his great grandchildren Mikayla, Joey, Landon, and Leighton along with many nieces and nephews. A celebration of life will be held in March in Forestville, New York for the immediate family. Arrangements entrusted to DiStasio Funeral Home South Dayton,NY

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Cory S Thompson - June 06, 1986 - January 05, 2023

Departed: 01/05/2023 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Cory Thompson, 36, of Randolph, New York, passed away, unexpectedly, on January 4, 2023.

Cory was born June 6, 1986, to Randall and Ann (Mansfield) Thompson. He graduated from Randolph Central School in 2005 and then received an Associate Degree in Applied Science from Jamestown Community

College. He then went on to receive a Radiology Technician Degree from WCA Radiology. Throughout his college years, he worked as a CNA at Lutheran Social Services. He eventually moved to Ellenton,

Florida and worked as a Social Worker Assistant for Sarasota Point.

Upon returning to New York, Cory worked as a personal shopper for various shopping platforms, such as Instacart. He found happiness in living at “The Landing” in Cherry Creek. He had an uncanny wit and a beautiful smile. Cory had lots of hobbies including photography (especially nature scenes), restoration of objects made from wood and furniture, collecting old coins, making walking sticks, and working on his car by learning through YouTube videos. Cory loved to travel and be outdoors, and enjoyed looking for shells and sharks teeth by the ocean. Cory was always eager to help his friends and family, by cleaning their homes, detailing their cars, solving their technology problems, fixing anything that was broken. He was the best friend

you could have. He was predeceased by his grandparents, Frank (Janet) Mansfield, Mary Jane Nobles and Melvin

Thompson. He is survived by his mother, Ann Thompson (Phil Harrington) of Randolph New York and father, Randall Thompson (Karen Dolce) of Jamestown, New York; a brother Brett Thompson of Randolph, New York and Joe Harrington of Jamestown, New York; his Grandmother Kay (Albert) Hitchcock, of Conewango Valley, many loving aunts, uncles and cousins, and his lifelong, best friend, Katie

(Quattrone) Jordan. Family will receive friends and relatives for visitation on Saturday, January 14th from 11:30-1:30

at DiStasio Funeral Home, 478 Route 83, South Dayton, New York.

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Lynette Besse - February 27, 1958 - December 31, 2022

Departed: 12/31/2022 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Lynette “Nettie” Besse, 64, passed away on Saturday, December 31, 2022, ending her long struggle with Huntington’s Disease.

Nettie Mansfield was born in Cherry Creek, NY, to the late Frank and Mary Jane (Nobles) Mansfield. She cherished growing up in a small town with a large family, spending time with friends, and working in the family business, Mansfield’s Store. She graduated from Pine Valley Central School in 1976 and earned a bachelor’s degree in Education at SUNY Oswego. She taught English in Virginia and was a substitute teacher at Pine Valley. Over the years, she worked at Cockaigne, Moonbrook Country Club, was Cherry Creek Town Clerk, and was co-owner of Smith’s Bar in Conewango Valley.

In addition to her parents, Nettie was preceded in death by her siblings Sue Rayl (Bob) and Zack Mansfield, as well as her stepmother Janet Mansfield.

She is survived by her son Frank (Ginger) Besse; siblings Steve (Melodee) Mansfield, Lisa Mansfield, Ann (Phil Harington) Thompson, Jeff Condon, Jennifer (Keith) Wadsworth, and Jack (Amber) Condon; and grandchildren Salvatore and Mabel Besse.

Nettie loved crafts and reading. She was warm and friendly to all she met. She will be remembered, above all else, for her kindness. As her father would say, “she’s the good one”.

A burial at Cherry Creek Cemetery and memorial will occur at a later date.

Condolences and memories may be shared at https://www.distasiofuneralhome.com/.

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Cynthia A Shearer - August 24, 1958 - December 30, 2022

Departed: 12/30/2022 (South Dayton)

Obituary Preview: Cynthia J. Shearer,64, a longtime resident of Dunkirk / Fredonia area passed away December 30,2022 at Sisters of Charity Hospital in Buffalo, NY after a brief illness. She worked at M. Wile Co. in Dunkirk, before she was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis. She enjoyed time with her family and friends

. Cindy is survived by her husband Timothy Shearer, two sons, Timothy Jr. and Joseph Shearer, two grandsons, Nicholas and Ethan Shearer, one brother, Brian (Stephanie) Halpainy, and several cousins.

She was preceded in death by her daughter, Marsha Lee Shearer, her parents, Marshall and Patricia (Cobb) Halpainy, and her three siblings, Priscilla, Richard and Koren Halpainy.

Family and friends are welcome to call at the DiStasio Funeral Home, 478 Route 83, South Dayton, NY, on Wednesday, January 4th from 2 to 4pm.

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A Team of Caring Professionals

The team at DiStasio Funeral Home is comprised of experienced and dedicated professionals who understand the importance of providing personalized care to each family they serve. From funeral directors to support staff, every member of the team is committed to ensuring that every detail is taken care of, from the initial consultation to the final farewell. With a deep understanding of the grieving process, the team at DiStasio Funeral Home provides emotional support and guidance every step of the way.

Funeral Services Tailored to Your Needs

At DiStasio Funeral Home, no two funerals are alike. The team recognizes that every individual is unique, and therefore, every funeral service should be tailored to reflect their personality, interests, and values. From traditional funeral services to cremation ceremonies, memorial services, and celebrations of life, DiStasio Funeral Home offers a range of options to suit every family's needs. Whether you're planning ahead or dealing with a sudden loss, the team will work closely with you to create a meaningful and memorable tribute to your loved one.

A Comforting Facility

The facilities at DiStasio Funeral Home are designed to provide a warm and welcoming atmosphere for families and friends to gather and pay their respects. The spacious chapel can accommodate large crowds, while the intimate reception area offers a comfortable setting for sharing stories and memories. The funeral home's state-of-the-art technology ensures that every service is conducted with dignity and respect, whether it's a traditional funeral or a modern celebration of life.

Premium Amenities and Services

DiStasio Funeral Home offers a range of premium amenities and services designed to make the funeral planning process as smooth as possible. From online obituaries and condolences to grief support resources and aftercare programs, the team is committed to providing ongoing support long after the funeral service has ended. Additionally, the funeral home offers a range of merchandise options, including caskets, urns, and memorial items, allowing families to personalize their loved one's tribute.

Community Involvement

DiStasio Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the South Dayton community and is committed to giving back through various charitable initiatives and sponsorships. The funeral home regularly participates in local events and fundraisers, supporting organizations that benefit families and individuals in need. By doing so, DiStasio Funeral Home demonstrates its dedication to building stronger communities and fostering a sense of connection among its neighbors.

A Commitment to Excellence

DiStasio Funeral Home is proud to be a member of various professional associations, including the National Funeral Directors Association (NFDA) and the New York State Funeral Directors Association (NYSFDA). These affiliations ensure that the funeral home adheres to the highest standards of excellence in funeral service, staying up-to-date with industry developments and best practices. By committing to excellence in all aspects of funeral service, DiStasio Funeral Home continues to earn the trust and confidence of families in South Dayton and beyond.

Contact Us

If you're seeking compassionate and personalized funeral services in South Dayton, look no further than DiStasio Funeral Home. Located at 478 NY-83, South Dayton, NY 14138, our doors are always open to those who need us. Contact us today to learn more about our services or to schedule a consultation with one of our caring professionals.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including biographical information, funeral or memorial service details, and surviving family members. It serves as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and the community.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries are important because they provide a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also informing others of their passing. They can also serve as a historical record of a person's life and achievements.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family of the deceased or a close friend writes the obituary. In some cases, a funeral home or crematorium may assist with writing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the deceased person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include funeral or memorial service details and any charitable donations or tributes in lieu of flowers.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary, but it's generally recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important details. A good rule of thumb is to aim for 1-2 paragraphs at most.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many newspapers and online obituary platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can help make the tribute more personal and meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper directly to inquire about their submission process and deadlines. Some newspapers may have online forms or email addresses where you can submit the obituary.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to control how they want to be remembered. This can also be a therapeutic exercise in reflecting on one's life and accomplishments.

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

An obituary is a written notice announcing a person's death, while a eulogy is a speech or written tribute delivered at a funeral or memorial service to celebrate the person's life.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, humor can be an appropriate way to celebrate someone's life and personality in an obituary. However, be mindful of the tone and audience when deciding what to include.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers, genealogy websites, or visit local libraries or historical societies to find old obituaries.

Can I edit an obituary after it has been published?

This may depend on the publication or platform where the obituary was published. Check with them directly to see if corrections or changes can be made.

What is the cost of publishing an obituary?

The cost varies depending on the publication or platform. Some newspapers charge by the word or line, while others offer package deals or free listings.

Can I publish an obituary online only?

Yes, there are many online platforms that allow you to publish an obituary without printing it in a physical newspaper. These platforms often offer additional features such as guest books and photo galleries.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe varies depending on the publication or platform. Some may publish immediately, while others may have a delay of several days or weeks.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, including meaningful quotes or song lyrics can add depth and personality to an obituary.

What is the purpose of an online guest book?

An online guest book allows friends and family to leave condolences, share memories, and pay tribute to the deceased in a digital format.

Can I create a memorial website for my loved one?

Yes, there are many platforms that allow you to create a memorial website where you can share photos, stories, and memories of your loved one.

How do I notify social media platforms about a death?