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John Robert "Bobby" Koefer - August 28, 1928 - March 16, 2024

Departed: 03/16/2024 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Bobby Koefer, 95, legendary steel guitarist, has passed away.

John Robert (Bobby) Koefer passed away March 16th at St. Charles Hospital, Bend, OR after a recent illness. He was born August 18, 1928 in Clay Center, KS.

He took an interest in music, at an early age, listening to “Hawaii Calls” on the radio and later discovered Bob Wills and His Texas Playboys.

In the late 30’s he bought a steel guitar via mail order. It came with no instruction guide, steel bar or picks and no-one around to help. He relied on his own instincts and made up his own tunings and chords and began playings his own solos. He created his own unorthodox, unique and original approach to playing. To this day, few have been able to duplicate or replicate his style.

In 1947 he made his first recordings and did radio programs in Dallas, TX with Homer Clemons, Bill Boyd and Jim Boyd. In 1950 he went to Indiana playing for Tex Justice. Then he went on to work for Bob Wills, with whom he made recordings with MGM and Snader's Telescriptions and did many radio programs in the southwest.

In 1950 he joined Pee Wee King. They were regulars on the Grand Old Opry, recorded for RCA and King Records. During this time Bobby wrote a steel guitar instrumental “Curtain Call”, which today is still well known by steel guitarists around the world and is a standard in the industry. He later went on to play with Billy Gray.

In 1956 he led his own band, 'Hi Ho Four’ in Wichita, KS. They played 6 nights a week for 5 years until music styles began changing.

In 1961 Bobby moved to Alaska working in the construction business for the next 25 years. He stopped playing music and rumor had it he buried his steel, had a funeral and vowed to never play again. He and his steel survived the 9.2 Great Alaskan Earthquake and post quake Tsunami of March 1964. During the winter months he traveled to remote countries and spent 5 winters with the Inuit people on Little Diomede Island on the Bering Strait, 2 miles from Russia.

In 1989 Bobby retired and moved to Bend, OR and resumed his music career. His music abilities and talent were better than ever. For the next 25 years he recorded and played with Leon Rausch and the Texas Playboys, Truitt Cunningham, Tom Morrell, Tommy Allsup, Eldon Shamblin and Johnny Gimble. He played many concerts, events and dances including Lincoln Center, NY and the 2009 Presidential Inauguration. Among his many awards, he is in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame.

Bobby is well known for his positive attitude, high energy, sharp wit and friendliness. He was a mentor and teacher and help guide many up and coming musicians. He is well known for saying “You don’t have to be good, you just have to SELL IT”.

He is survived by his loving wife of 24 years, Judy of Bend, OR. A son, Gregg Koefer (wife Sandy) of Midlothian, TX. A daughter, Tracey Hartgrave (husband Cliff) of Terrell, TX as well as 7 grandchildren and 8 great grandchildren.

No memorial services are planned.

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R. Carroll Cleaver - February 16, 1936 - February 01, 2024

Departed: 02/01/2024 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Beloved mother and grandmother R. Carroll Cleaver passed away February 1, 2024, in Bend, Oregon just two weeks shy of her 88th birthday and entered into joy everlasting.

Carroll was born in Seattle, Washington to Michael and Ruth Mingo on February 16, 1936. Carroll grew up in Tacoma, Washington with her older brother, Michael. The two were close throughout their lives. Sadly, Carroll lost her father at age nine and her mother at age fourteen. After her Aunt Mary passed away when Carroll was eighteen, Gonzaga University became her family, along with her brother, Michael. She stayed at the dorms for the spring semester, not taking classes, but enjoying what would become lifelong friendships and the spring dances. She met her future husband, Bill, on a blind date. She would recall later that Bill was one of the better dancers. They married at St. Aloysius Church in Spokane, Washington in 1957. Carroll was student teaching at the time but put that on hold when the couple welcomed their first daughter, Elizabeth. Bill and Carroll moved to southern California to be near family, and Bill began his career as a teacher in Anaheim. During this time, Carroll put her heart into her primary vocation as loving mother and busy homemaker as the couple welcomed six more children into their lives. Carroll did much to create a happy childhood for their children with individual birthday outings, ice cream floats at report card times and Big Bear trips for Christmas—taking pictures of all of it! Her children appreciated her good humor, light heart and simple but wise sayings. Being dropped off at school, they would hear on a regular basis: “Be good! Learn something!”

As the children grew, Carroll took on work outside the home. She worked as an ER clerk at West Anaheim Community Hospital for ten years and later as a clerk for the Orange Police Department for four years. Carroll loved playing on the hospital bowling team and having lunch with her friends. She also enjoyed being an active member of the Mothers of Twins Club for years, serving as club president for multiple terms. Bill and Carroll kept in touch with their Gonzaga friends and always rooted for their Bulldogs during March Madness. In the early eighties, Carroll found out that she was just a few units short of her degree at Gonzaga. She took a couple of classes at Fullerton College and earned her diploma and tassel at last!

In her early fifties, Carroll was blessed with the opportunity to connect with her birthmother, Agnes, as well as her half-sister, Susan, and her half-brothers, Phil and Ted. This additional family brought Carroll years of love and joy.

Carroll was overjoyed to enter the grandmother years. She cherished each new grandchild that she held and enjoyed nothing more than spending time with them and being an enthusiastic and loving presence for outings, plays, concerts, graduations, and weddings.

Bill and Carroll faithfully attended St. Justin Martyr Church for fifty years in Anaheim. In 2012, they moved to Bend, Oregon to live with their daughter, Elizabeth, and her husband, Richard. There they attended St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church and Calvary Chapel of Bend.

Carroll lost her beloved husband, Bill, in July 2020. She is also pre-deceased by her parents and brother, Michael. She is survived by her children: Elizabeth (Richard), Colleen (Dave), Joyce (Tom), Bill (Billy), Mike (Julie), Patrick (Debbie) and Theresa (Mitch).

Carroll is also survived by her grandchildren: Jennifer Fox Metcalf and Janette Barber-St. Jean, Michael and James Bacon, Benjamin and Joseph Dillon, Danielle and Jenna Cleaver, Dakota, Tyler, Eric and Jessica Johnson. She had several great grandchildren.

A funeral Mass will be held at St. Francis Catholic Church in Bend, Oregon on February 24, 11:00 a.m. with graveside service to follow at Deschutes Memorial Chapel and Gardens.

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Marie Walsh - January 20, 1928 - January 08, 2024

Departed: 01/08/2024 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Marie Walsh, of Bend, died of natural causes in January. Her funeral mass will be held at St. Francis of Assisi in Bend located at 2450 NE 27th St., on April 13, 2024 at

11:00 a.m. with a reception to follow. The rosary ceremony will be at 10:30 a.m. Marie was born in South Milwaukee, Wisconsin. Her parents moved to California where she met and married Loyd Walsh. They raised two kids in Merrill, Oregon and

were married for 25 years. She found her home in Bend, Oregon in 1984. Marie was an optimist with a wonderful sense of humor. She lit up the room with her infectious smile. If you knew her then you most likely played at least

one game of cribbage. She enjoyed teaching her two kids and many grandchildren how to play this family honored game. She loved to bake, especially bread. She told me one time that her greatest achievement in baking was a braided bread that was the size of the dinner table. It had taken her all day to prepare. I asked her, “Why did you make it? Was it for a party?” She casually replied, “No, just to see if I could do it. It was a great dinner.”

In 2005, she was awarded the President’s Volunteer Service award. At that point she was also recognized for being the longest-serving Deschutes County volunteer, with her start being in 1996. She volunteered at the Deschutes County Health Department, mainly helping with the Maternal Child Health Program. During this time she also helped with projects like WIC, School-Based Health Centers, and the Immunization program. She also served at St. Francis of Assisi in Bend. One most likely met her in the front office.

Other favorite pastimes included bowling, traveling, taking pictures of flowers, birdwatching, and enjoying time with people.

Survivors include a son, Alan Walsh, a daughter, Debbie Purdom. She was preceded in death by her parents, John and Anne Beckman, and a sister, Lucille Ortis. She will be laid to rest at the Deschutes Memorial Chapel and Gardens, although no service will take place there. If you would like to send flowers or need further information, please call St. Francis of Assisi in Bend.

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John Frederick Hartman - July 15, 1928 - December 05, 2023

Departed: 12/05/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: John Frederick Hartman, 95, of Redmond, Oregon passed away December 5, 2023 at St. Charles Hospital, Redmond. He was born July 15, 1928 in Aurora, Illinois, the son of John C. and Susan J. (Frisch) Hartman. He had two older half-brothers, John J. and

Raymond Augsburg and one younger sister, Cornelia Rose. John, who was known as “Jack” in his early years, married Theresa “Terry” Baer in 1954 in Aurora, Illinois. They were married for 35 years until she succumbed to Alzheimer’s disease. He married Mary Margaret “Mimi” (Cease) in Covina, California in 1990. Mimi and John lived happily together in Bend and later Redmond, Oregon until

she passed away in 2016. He always said he was “twice blessed”. John grew up in Illinois, graduating from East Aurora High School in 1946. One of the early jobs he held was working as a tool and die designer for Austin-Western Road Machinery Company. In 1954, John enlisted in the US Army and his two-year service took him to California. He worked with Lith-O-Roll Corporation in El Monte for the next 30 years as Vice-President and Chief Engineer, and said it was a “very satisfying” career. John loved reading, woodworking, golf, and collecting crystal paperweights. He and Mimi took several road trips in their motorhome across the US and Canada during

their time together. John loved his community and he was a devoted parishioner of St.

Thomas Catholic Church. John is survived by his children Janine (Bob) Proulx, John R. Hartman, Mary Slagle and

Darlene (Mick) McGrady and his eight grandchildren.

He was a loving, caring dad, grandpa and husband and he will be greatly missed. Funeral services will be held on Friday, January 5, 2024 at St. Thomas Catholic Church

in Redmond. Rosary will be at 10:00 am with Mass to follow at 10:30 am.

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Jack Bradley Owen - November 23, 1945 - October 31, 2023

Departed: 10/31/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Jack B Owen, age 77, passed away October 31, 2023. He was born November 23, 1945 in Oregon City, Oregon to Elmer & Mamie Owen.

Jack’s childhood was blessed by growing up in Seaside Oregon, where he had childhood friends that lasted his lifetime. Jack graduated from Oregon State University in 1968, and was enrolled in the ROTC program. Shortly thereafter, he went to Viet Nam as an Army 1st Lieutenant, and received 3 Bronze Stars during his service. Upon returning home to Oregon he followed in his father’s footsteps with a career as an automotive dealer in Hood River. He then went on to purchase Wilson Ford in Seattle, Washington.

Jack had a passion for Pacific Ocean fishing, from the tip of Baja Mexico to the challenging waters off Alaska and everywhere in between. He spent endless days boating in the San Juan Islands & Vancouver Island, BC with family & friends. He also was an avid game/upland bird hunter which began as a small boy with his father and then with his son. It concluded with his German Shorthair Pointers hunting in Central Oregon or traveling to many bird hunts in Montana, North Dakota and Arizona.

Jack was the ultimate “car guy” by attending the annual Barrett Jackson in Scottsdale, NASCAR races, possessed one of the largest Hot Rod magazine collections and working on his prized 1964 Ford Shelby Cobra. He was prolific reader of Viet Nam and World War II non-fiction books. He also enjoyed skiing, golf vacations, wild tuna fishing trips, his grandchildren visits from Zurich, Switzerland, being at the Oregon Coast catching Dungeness crab, college football games, sitting by the pool in Arizona & the Deschutes River in Bend and going to Veteran’s Day parades.

Jack is survived by Marianne Martin (spouse 27 years); his daughter Brenna Owen (New Castle, CO); his son Justin (Galena) Owen; his grandchildren Alec & Elena (Zurich, CH); his sister Judy Owen (San Jose, CA); his German Shorthair Pointer puppy “Bonnie”. A private family service will be held at Willamette National Cemetery in Portland, Oregon. A

Celebration of Life will be scheduled in the summer of 2024 in Bend, Oregon.

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Dwight (Dee) Orman Reynolds - October 02, 1930 - October 30, 2023

Departed: 10/30/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Raised in Meeker, CO., he joined the Navy at the age of 18. As a career medical corpsman, he served in Korea and Vietnam, traveling much of the world.

Following Navy retirement he was the General Manager of the historic Park Vista Cooperative in Portland, Oregon. His final retirement brought him back to Bend where he lived out his “golden years” near family.

Dee was preceded in death by his wife and love of his life for 39 years, Donna Lee Reynolds. He is also survived by 4 children: Bruce Reynolds, Bob Reynolds, Cherie Mitchell, Robin Reynolds and 2 step-children Mike Fassett (Bend,OR) and Sharon Fassett (Scottsdale, AZ). Surviving grandchildren include: Darci Cronen, David Fassett (Bend, OR), Shelley Fassett (Scottsdale, AZ) and numerous great-grandchildren.

A graveside service will be held at Deschutes Memorial Gardens on Tuesday, November 7 at 1pm.

The Fassett family wishes to express their sincere appreciation to the staff at Countryside Living and Redmond Partners in Care for the compassionate care they provided Dee at the end of his life.

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George Sylvester Kastel - August 11, 1925 - September 30, 2023

Departed: 09/30/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: George Sylvester “Papa” Kastel, age 98 of Sunriver, Oregon, passed away peacefully on September 30th in Greeley, Colorado, surrounded by his children and under the light of the harvest moon. During his closing three years under the care of his daughter, Gina, Papa enjoyed watching any kind of sports game, news, binge watching Netflix shows with Gina and her family, and, of course, taking lots of well-deserved naps. He had a gentle spirit and continued to pray daily before his favorite meal of the day - breakfast - and enjoyed lots of Neapolitan ice cream as well! Chapel burial service with veteran honors will be held on Friday November 24th beginning at 1:30 p.m. at: Deschutes Memorial Gardens 63875 North Highway 97 Bend, Oregon Following the burial service there will be a celebration of life reception between 6-9 p.m. at: McMenamins Old St. Francis School

700 Northwest Bond St. Bend, Oregon

George was born in Stanley, Wisconsin, on August 11, 1925 to Margaret (Simon) and George Kastel. He was the ninth child of ten born, including Raymond, Herman, Irene (Geissler), Anita (Madl), Carl, Leonard, Monica (Witt), Melvin, and Bob. Papa visited his siblings and nieces and nephews regularly until he quit driving at the age of 88.

George was drafted by the US Navy right out of high school in 1941 and was stationed in New Jersey, where he spent three years making military ammunition. After serving his country he hitchhiked from Wisconsin to Washington state where he began his career working for the Burlington Northern Railroad in 1947. He was a bachelor for many years and enjoyed horse racing, golf, baseball games and visiting family.

In 1963 his tracks crossed with those of the lovey Pearl Vizenor and they married in the Tri-Cities area of Washington. They relocated to Bend, Oregon, shortly after their marriage and grew their family. Sadly, they derailed by 1970. George proudly raised their four children by himself and managed to send them all to Saint Francis School for their education. He continued to attend Catholic church every Sunday until he wasn’t able to drive.

George continued to work for Burlington Northern Railroad until he retired at the age of 58. He moved to Sunriver in 1991.

Papa is survived by his four children, Gina Kastel Farley (Larry), George Kastel Jr., Tim Kastel (Canda), and Greg Kastel; his grandchildren, Shawn, Elena, Ryan, Geoff, Olijawan and Obsidian; and many nieces and nephews.

Papa will be remembered for his love of family innuendos and for being a great father. He was loved by everyone and was a simple, gracious man right up to the end. Hang Loose 🤙

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"Brick" Catherine Grace Brogan Logan - June 13, 1934 - September 04, 2023

Departed: 09/04/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Brick Logan died in her home September 4 , 2023 of natural causes, surrounded by her six surviving children. She was utterly devoted to her faith, her large family, and her many friends. True to her name, Brick possessed quiet, incredible strength. She survived many great adversities, always carrying herself with amazing grace. Brick was a devout Catholic. She surely earned a fast track to heaven just by the fact that she parented actively everyday for 65 years, until the death of her special son Danny in 2020. She has cared for and been a steadfast blessing to all in her large family, her many circles of friends, and to others beyond.

Brick was a quiet bright light, often called Saint Brick, a title she rejected. She was traditional, faithful, and evolving beyond lesser ideas in the culture, motivated by love to listen, learn, and grow in accepting difference and supporting more of those on the margins; she lived the values of her faith. Her own hardships led her to greater service of others. Brick and Byron were at the vanguard of parents keeping children with Down’s Syndrome at home rather than in institutions, their decision impacting lives and the culture well beyond our family.

Brick always said she didn’t want to leave her home “until you have to carry me out.” That wish came true. Twice.

In 2013, her children joyfully carried her out of her old home, to allow a new house to be built which would allow Brick and Danny to age in place alongside their same beloved neighbors.

And on Labor Day 2023, her children tearfully carried Brick out of her new home, after perhaps the hardest of her life’s many labors concluded her journey here. In her last weeks, when her body was failing and she was seeing things the rest of us couldn’t, her restless arms, heart, and mind wanted to continue praying, preparing food, giving service, and caring for children, loved ones, and strangers.

Brick is survived by her children: Elayne (Robert) Currie, Gregory (Terri) Logan, James Logan, Beverly Logan, Robert (Roxane) Logan, and Rose (Mike) Surgeon; also by 14 grandchildren and 13 great grandchildren, with three more in the hopper. She is survived also by her sister, Josephine (Frank) McNamee, and sister-in-law, Sr. Joanne Logan. She was preceded in death by her husband of 55 years, Byron Logan, their children, Francis, Daniel, baby Thomas, and Baby Girl; also by her parents John and Lelia Brogan, her brothers Thomas Brogan, Francis (Kay) Brogan, James (Arlien) Brogan, and sisters Agnes (Cletus) Annen, Margaret Brogan, Cecilia (Joseph) McNamee, and Bernadette (Harold) Brown.

September 23, 2023 services will honor this beloved woman: 9:30am Rosary and 10:00am funeral at St. Francis Church, followed by luncheon, all at 2450 NE 27th St, Bend OR 97701; 2:00pm Burial at Deschutes Memorial Garden. Donations in Brick’s honor can be made to Opportunity Foundation of Central Oregon, Special Olympics, St. Vincent DePaul, or Partners in Care.

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Bonnie June Snyder - January 19, 1950 - August 17, 2023

Departed: 08/17/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: A devoted wife, loving mother and beloved grandmother, Bonnie June Snyder, 73, passed away on August 17th, 2023, at St. Charles Hospital in Bend, Oregon after suffering a severe stroke. Bonnie was born on January 19th, 1950 in Portland, Oregon to Lloyd Lee Cannaday and June Isabell (nee Vaughan) Cannaday, but moved to Newberg, Oregon in 1959, where she and her siblings grew up on a 9 acre farm. She had fond memories of raising chickens and rabbits, and milking the family cow. But she really loved Old Dan, a brown work horse the neighbors had given the family when they moved to Newberg. Bonnie used to ride him bareback, and everyone agreed he belonged to her. Bonnie loved animals, “more” she would say “than most people!”

Bonnie was 19 when she met Roy, the love of her life. They dated for a period of time, but in the end, separated and married other people. It wasn’t until a chance encounter in 1987, that they reunited and forged a union that would last the rest of her life.

Bonnie and Roy lived together in Oregon until 1991 when they moved to Colorado Springs, Colorado. Roy had lived in the area briefly and when he described it to Bonnie, they both agreed to give it a try. After only a few months, they decided that Colorado wasn’t for them, and they moved back to Oregon where they rented an apartment in Tigard until they married on February 9th, 1993 and bought a house in Newberg.

In the fall of 1996 they once again quit their jobs and decided to relocate, this time moving to Bend, Oregon where Roy worked for Chapman-Huffman Incorporated, and Bonnie worked for Fuqua Homes. In January 1998 Bonnie joined Roy at Chapman-Huffman and they both worked there until retiring in December 2019.

Bonnie was a loving mother and proud of her three daughters, Holly, Donna, and Laura. She was selfless in the sacrifices she made to ensure their needs were met and enrolled them in swim lessons from an early age. She watched them progress from swim lessons, to swim team, to water polo players, and she was always there with her support and to cheer them on.

Bonnie didn’t have many hobbies, but enjoyed RV camping, which was something she did for most of her adult life.

Bonnie is survived by husband, Roy Snyder of Bend, daughters: Holly (Alan) Charleboix of La Pine, Donna (John) Hoffman of Depoe Bay, and Laura Avery of Newberg. She is also survived by siblings: Opal Hunt of Rogue River, Herbietta Jane (Rusty) Heater of Newberg, Evelyn Parlette of Newberg, Lloyd (Margaret) Cannaday of Roseburg, Ray (Rhonda) Cannaday of Boring, Wayne (Beckie) Cannaday of Newberg, Terry Cannaday of Newberg, Jeannine Cannaday of Newberg, and Martha (Jim) Brown of Bend and five grandchildren: Abigail Tanneberg of Coulee City, Washington, Jason Avery of Depoe Bay, Sean and Shelby Charleboix of La Pine, and Jacob Hoffman of Depoe Bay.

She was preceded in death by her mother and father, as well as siblings Fern Roady and Richard [Dick] Cannaday.

As per Bonnie’s wishes, no funeral or memorial service will be held.

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Martin E. Thompson - January 11, 1980 - August 16, 2023

Departed: 08/16/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Martin E. Thompson ("Martin") grew up in Harney County, Oregon. After Martin completed high school, he moved away from Harney County to pursue an undergraduate degree and expand his horizons. Martin successfully obtained his undergraduate degree, and then put himself through law school and an LLM Program.

After completing his legal education, Martin relocated back to Harney County and opened his first law firm. Martin enjoyed personal success in that venture: it was where he met the love of his life, Leslie.

Martin and Leslie's journey took them to Deschutes County, Oregon.

In Deschutes County, Martin found a large community of friends, peers, and clients, all of whom were impacted by Martin's vivacious personality, his incredible sense of humor, and his love for those around him. Martin's passion for representing his clients and advocating for causes that he believed in was infectious and was one of his driving forces.

However, there was nothing that Martin loved more than his lovely wife, Leslie, and his three children, Dalton (age 9), Sophia "Sophie" (age 7), Dillinger "Dilly" (age 5). Sadly, Martin will not have the opportunity to meet his fourth child, whom Leslie is expecting to welcome into this world later this year.

A "Go Fund Me" has been set up to help fund an appropriate memorial service for Martin. All donations will be provided to Martin's family. https://www.gofundme.com/f/martin-e-thompson

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Luella Mae Caudell (Ellingson) - April 07, 1930 - August 07, 2023

Departed: 08/07/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Luella passed away August 7, 2023 of natural causes. A lifelong resident of Central Oregon Luella is survived by brothers, Lester Ellingson and Danny Stucky in Springfield, Oregon. Also daughter, Doris Gibson (Clyde); sons, Ken Caudell (Denise) and Ron Caudell (Cloydette); 9 grandchildren and 14 great grandchildren. Luella was proceeded in death by husband Roy, brother Louis, sister Dean and both parents. At her request no immediate services are planned, the family may have a celebration of life at a later date. Arrangements are being made through Deschutes Memorial Garden in Bend Oregon.

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Marc Carpenter - April 15, 1949 - August 05, 2023

Departed: 08/05/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Marc Carpenter "Carp" passed away August 5, 2023.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Gilbert and Faye Carpenter. He is survived by his son, Eric Carpenter; His brother and sister-in-law, Richard and Kathleen Carpenter (Danville, CA), and sister and brother-in-law, Kristine and Ricke Branum (Bend, OR).

Marc was a retired firefighter from Concord Naval Weapons. He also bartended and provided security for hotels in sparks and Reno, NV. He enjoyed riding is Harley Davidson motorcycle.

He was born in Oakland, CA and a graduate of Las Lomas High School in Walnut Creek, CA (class of 1967) where he also grew up.

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Jeanne Marie Yackley - Maule - December 23, 1954 - July 08, 2023

Departed: 07/08/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Jeanne Marie Yackley - Maule, age 68, of La Pine, Oregon passed away on July 8, 2023.

She was born in Los Angeles on December 23, 1954. Jeanne went to Granada Hills High School for 1 year, and graduated from Saint Mary’s Catholic School in Illinois, 1972.

Jeanne’s many passions included a love for art, poetry, music, and dance. She was a published writer and a dedicated Grateful Dead enthusiast. Her favorite musicians were The Beach Boys – especially Brian Wilson, George Harrison, and Jerry Garcia.

Jeanne is survived by her husband, Donald Maule, fur babies, Jingles and Rebel, and by four of her five siblings and their spouses; Peter Yackley (Jean), Terri Drumm (Martin), John Yackley (Reba), and Mary Cunningham (David). She was preceded in death by her parents, Edward Charles and Barbara Jane Yackley (Adlfinger), one brother, Patrick Andrew Yackley, and her only son, Kayhon Edward Ahankoob.

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Michael Scott Jones - December 14, 1978 - April 08, 2023

Departed: 04/08/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Michael was a proud father, a beloved brother and a cherished nephew, who loved working with his hands, laughing and having a good time. He was a tradesman in the automotive body and paint industry where he built beautiful pieces with his best friends and mentors. He loved the art of creating and tinkering anything with a motor. He knew he had a talent but was humble in all he did. In 1996, he became a Father to Madeline Jones, in 2006 Tilly Jones and in 2008 MyKayla Jones. He was married to Erica Silvernale (2006-2009). He loved his children and family the best he could. He loved spending a great deal of his time in the outdoors. With that passion, he began the journey of wild land fire fighting as a Sawyer and loved every moment of it. Mike didn’t know a stranger; he was always helpful and kind. He lived his life to the fullest. When Mike wasn’t working, you could find him hiking, biking, camping, fishing or boating. Michael will be remembered for his goodness and his very large heart above all else. Michael was born a Twin to Brother, Mathew Ellis Jones who precedes him in death, 7/24/2018. He leaves behind his Daughters, Madeline Jones of Seattle, WA; Tilly and MyKayla Jones of Prescott, AZ. Sister, Jamie of, MT;

Uncle Denny and Aunt Julie Morgan of Bend, OR. Celebration of life will be held at The Morgan Residence on April 29, 2023,

6-9pm further information contact (541) 420-0194. Food and non alcoholic beverages will be available (BYOB)

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Bernis D. Lee - September 27, 1934 - March 15, 2023

Departed: 03/15/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Bernis “Bernie” D. Lee passed away on March 15, 2023, at the age of 88. A lifelong resident of Central Oregon, Bernie was born in Bend on September 27, 1934, to parents Edith and Ira McCuen. She graduated from Bend Senior High in 1952. Shortly after graduation, Bernie married Robert E. Lee on June 27, 1952. They had two children, Shawn R. Lee, and Kimberly

D. Carter. Bernie and Robert built and operated a Dairy Queen in Idaho and often talked about the horse that would walk to the restaurant alone for a bite of ice cream. Bernie loved to travel, especially enjoying her trips on cruises to warm weather. She was a member of Berean Bible Church. She graduated from the nursing program at COCC in 1962 which became an enduring passion of caring for others, in fact after her retirement she spent many of her days caring for other people's pets. She spent most of her career at Central Oregon District Hospital as well as

Madras Hospital.

She is survived by her two children, Shawn and Kimberly, and five grandchildren, Nickie M. Carter, Bradley P. Carter, Alec R. Carter, Christopher Lee, and Matthew Lee, and two great Grandchildren, Austin J. Carter and Andreyah P. Johnson. She was preceded in death by her

parents and her brother, Irwin McCuen.

There will be a memorial service on May 15, 2023 at 2:00 pm at Berean Bible Church, 2378 SW Glacier Place, Redmond, OR 97756.

Deschutes Memorial Gardens is in charge of arrangements.

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Norma Jean Wood - September 01, 1937 - February 27, 2023

Departed: 02/27/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Norma was born September 1, 1937 in Rome, NY to Marion Farrell and James Farrell. She died suddenly on February 27, 2023 in Bend, Oregon from natural causes.

Norma was raised in Ithaca, NY where she attended local elementary, secondary, and high schools. Norma met Robert “Bob” Wood, of Binghampton, who at the time was in the United States Air Force, on a blind date in 1955. After a brief courtship they were married on April 7, 1956 and were stationed at Nellis Air Force Base in Las Vegas, Nevada. The Wood’s were blessed with four sons, Robert (Reno, Nevada), Michael (Bend, Oregon), Jeffrey (Colorado Springs, Colorado), and Patrick (Sparks, Nevada). As an Air Force wife, Norma and her children, traveled throughout the world and the U.S.A. and were stationed in Lakenheath, England; Bitburg AFB, Germany; Davis-Monthan AFB, Tucson, Arizona; Travis AFB, Fairfield, California; and Luke AFB, Arizona.

Norma was a busy homemaker and mother all the while working as a school bus driver with the Fairfield-Suisun Unified School District in California, and as a home health aide. Following their retirement, Norma and Bob moved to Mt. Shasta, California in 1996, until 2017. They then settled in Sparks, Nevada to be closer to family. Following Bob’s death in 2020, Norma moved to Bend, Oregon where she lived for the remainder of her life.

Norma is survived by her sons, Robert (Beverly), Michael (Judy), Jeffrey (Lorelei), and Patrick (Melonie). Norma is also survived by seven grandchildren, Sean, Morgan, Alyssa, Corey, Conner, Christopher, and Owen; and three great grandchildren, Abigail Claire, Brantley Cole, and Brooke.

Norma is also survived by five of her 7 siblings, Bill Farrell (Ithaca, NY), Betty Farrell (Norfolk, VA), Walt (Tempe, Az), Jim Farrell (Cleveland, Ohio), and Marylou (Clinton, NY). Norma was preceded in death by her husband of 64 years, Bob; her parents Marion and James Farrell, and her brothers Bob Farrell and John Farrell.

Norma has numerous nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends who will also will miss her wonderful gregarious personality, her smile, her infectious giggle, and her humor. At the end of her life, Norma was living at the Stone Lodge Independent Living community in Bend, Oregon where she spent her days with friends there, playing cards, and staying busy with her self-imposed and highly sought-after “Florence Nightingale” duties at the Stone Lodge, helping to care for some of the residents basic needs.

The Deschutes Memorial Gardens and Chapel in Bend, Oregon is handling her final arrangements. There will not be any graveside or inurnment services, but a Celebration of Life with friends and family in Bend, Oregon is scheduled for June 17th, 2023.

In honor of Norma, in lieu of donations or flowers, the family asks that friends loved ones purchase a replacement American flag for themselves or for someone in need of a new flag.

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David C. Keyser - November 23, 1938 - February 17, 2023

Departed: 02/17/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: David C. Keyser, 84, passed away Friday, February 17 quickly and quietly at home in Bend, Oregon. Born November 23, 1938 in Salt Lake City, he built upon the legacy of his parents Malcom A (Bud) and Virginia Keyser. David grew up with his surviving brother John M. Keyser in Holladay, where down the lane, David met the sweetheart of his dreams - his surviving wife Mary Anne Hoagland. They were married for 61 years.

David attended Olympus High School followed by an enlistment to the United States Coast Guard. He sailed aboard the USS Taney and developed a love for the sea and built unbreakable friendships around sailing that endured a lifetime.

David graduated from Westminster College and quickly became an officer of Walker Bank & Trust Company. His tenacity to understand the human element in banking won him many promotions and accolades across the West. Because his integrity never wavered and his customer’s commitments always delivered, he became an icon and retired that way after 40 years in banking.

His desire to move closer to the sea came to reality in 1980 when he moved his family to the Pacific Northwest. With the wind on his back and the sun on his face, David captained his sailboat throughout the archipelago of the San Juan Islands discovering many treasured places of the inside passage. Aboard his S/V Wayward, crew became loving friends, confidants, and “The Mighty Men of the Wayward”. His appreciation for the history and art of sailing led him to be a lifelong supporter for the Center of Wooden Boats in Seattle.

David is survived by his wife Mary Anne, and children Christopher (Steven Casteele), Tony (Jill Keyser), Elizabeth (Matthew DeBlare), and three grandchildren Simon Keyser, Carson Mullan, and Isabella Mullan. Besides many family members and friends (and if you knew Dave, you were his friend!), other survivors include his Airstream “Silvertip” and the truck “Big Red”, many files and notes, pocket watches and knives, and a collection of car washing equipment.

Friends and family are invited to David’s celebration of life on Saturday, February 25th at Tetherow Resort Pavilion in Bend, Oregon at 1:00pm.

To honor his legacy of helping others, memorial gifts can be sent to the Keyser-Hoagland Family Scholarship at Westminster College, 1840 South, 1300 East, Salt Lake City, UT 84105.

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Mary "Jane" Eaton - January 07, 1942 - February 11, 2023

Departed: 02/11/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Mary Jane Eaton, after a lengthy illness, passed away at the age of 81 on February 11, 2023, in Bend, Oregon, in the presence of family members.

She was preceded in death by her parents, V. Reynold and Grace E. Conklin; her aunt and uncle, Zilla and William "Cricket" Smith, who helped raise her; Cousin, Charles "Chuck" Smith (Ann); her first husband, Eugene Ott, and an infant son, John.

Surviving are her husband, James P. Eaton; a daughter, Roslyn Eaton; a grandson, Ashton Eaton (Brianne), two great-grandchildren, Ander and Ellion, all in Oregon; Rebecca (Goettle) god-daughter, of California; and two sisters, Ruth A. McCario, in Plymouth, Indiana; and Kathryn A. Conklin, in British Columbia, Canada. Others include nieces and nephews, Rey Brandt (Terri); Dawn Cox (David); Don Brandt (Kimberly), all of Indiana; Mark Smith (Debbie), in Washington; Vickie Whitham (Jim); and Matt Smith (Lori) in Idaho.

Jane graduated from high school in Alma, Michigan with Valedictorian honors. She completed studies at Albion College, in Michigan, earning a Bachelor of Science degree and was again named Valedictorian of her graduating class.

After the death of her first husband, Eugene Ott, Jane enrolled in Davis University in Sacramento, California and earned a Masters Degree. She continued additional studies toward a Doctorate. She later married James P. Eaton on August 1, 1974 and, in several years of their marriage, worked as a lab assistant at Stanford University in the area of science research and special studies in MS.

A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date.

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William Hurd DuBois - July 16, 1943 - February 09, 2023

Departed: 02/09/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: William Hurd “Bill” DuBois passed away on Thursday, February 9, 2023, at the St. Charles Medical Center in Bend, Oregon. He was 79.

Bill was born in Newport, Rhode Island, the first child of Clifford DuBois and Phyllis DuBois (nee Cady). When he was a toddler, the family moved to Oakland, California, where Bill would spend most of his life.

He grew up in the Rockridge district of Oakland, California and attended Chabot Elementary, Claremont Middle School, and Oakland Technical High School. Bill graduated from Oakland Tech in 1960 at the age of 16. After receiving a bachelor’s degree from the University of Oregon, Bill returned to the San Francisco Bay area to attend law school. He received his law degree from UC Hastings College of the Law. Bill began his legal career as a prosecutor in the Alameda County District Attorney’s office. He would later go into private practice, spending the majority of his career as a criminal defense attorney. A talented criminal litigator, Bill was at home in the courtroom. Those who knew him well knew that he was at his best when arguing before a jury. Throughout a legal career which lasted over 40 years, Bill participated in a number of high-profile trials, some of which received national media attention. His involvement in two such cases were poignantly reported in the books “The 57 Bus” and “Presumed Dead.”

In 2000 Bill began dating Linda Shaffer. The two would eventually live together in Clayton, and later in Danville. In 2017 Bill and Linda moved to Bend, Oregon. They loved to travel, enjoying visiting Hawaii many times, and bowling.

Bill is survived by his partner of 23 years, Linda Shaffer, his two sons (Emerson and Geer), grandson (Robert), brother (Peter), sister (Claire Schwarzbach, nee DuBois), stepbrothers (Ken Sutherland and Bruce Sutherland), stepsisters (Carla Dodge and Yvonne Lienau), many beloved nieces and nephews, and a grandniece and grandnephew.

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Mary Ellen Rushton - May 19, 1954 - January 15, 2023

Departed: 01/15/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Mary Ellen Rushton (Jackson) was born to Don and Barbara Jackson in Macon, Georgia, May 19th, 1954. Mary passed into the mystic on January 15, 2023, in Bend, Oregon in the presence of her sons and daughters-in-law. A modest, casual family ceremony and outdoor celebration of life will be scheduled this summer in McCall, Idaho at Louie Lake where she can join her mom and beloved granddaughter. Her ashes will be spread amongst Idaho’s breathtaking mountain grandeur, where she enjoyed being outdoors with her grandkids Hudson (20) and Sailor (18). Mary is preceded in death by grandparents, Mary and Fred Hatchett, parents Don and Barbara Jackson, and granddaughter Piper Van Middendorp. She continues to be adored by her husband Steve, sons Freddie and Tyler and their spouse Jamie and Linda, her precious grandkids Hudson and Sailor (Freddie and Jamie), and Johann (Tyler), and siblings Ken, Ann, Donnie, and Elsie. A legion of family and friends who cherished Mary make a list too long to detail.

Some of the most powerful things in this world are family, a mother’s love, and music. The passing of this beautiful, fun-loving soul has left a void in our family but hearts full of love and music. In the days preceding her death, Mary’s favorite songs were played and sung by her family and friends as they came to say their goodbyes. Aunt Mary was a favorite of all the nieces and nephews growing up with her silliness, dance parties, movie nights, and junk food. She enjoyed international travel, especially exploring her family roots in Panama. Mary and Steve spent three weeks with her boys, grandkids, and niece, Jodi, in Costa Rica. Janna, one of her lifelong friends and closest travel companions, passed away from cancer recently, not long after the two spent time exploring Central America. The two troublemakers are doubtlessly adventuring through Heaven, leaving a wake of smiles and laughter behind them. Mary cherished her lifelong friendships with all the “Bozettes,” her childhood gang from school in the Bay area of California (you know who you are). Mary was endlessly charismatic. She commanded every social setting with personality, with a dazzling smile (and diastema- a sign of high intelligence she would always say), with jokes, with song and dance, and with caring. Endlessly the entertainer, she was a gifted cook, vocalist, and comedian. All her talents were fostered by a heart that felt deeply, loved to the fullest, and lived without reservation. It seemed her ability to give was infinite, though sadly, she never reserved enough space in her heart to love and care for herself.

Mary loved her sons fiercely and ensured that above all, they felt loved. She had a playful relationship with her boys even through life’s challenges. She could con a conman and could’ve been a star on Broadway. She would prank Freddie and Tyler then exclaim with a grand Shakespearian hand gesture “I was ACTING!” She would then give a brief award speech thanking the academy. Mary insisted to the boys that Anne Ramsey, Ma Fratelli in the Goonies and Mrs. Momma in Throw Mama from the Train, was their real mother. She was convincing enough that the boys lamented Ramsey’s death in 1988 and still feel a longing for Ma Fratelli’s hugs when they watch the Goonies. She led perfectly harmonized ballads with her mom and sisters at every family reunion and even recorded a studio album with Ann and Elsie. Her life was full of her fans. People she didn’t know were simply friends she hadn’t met yet.

Mary graduated from Homestead High School in Sunnyvale, California. She married fellow Homesteader, Roger Van Middendorp, and had a son, Freddie, in 1975. They moved to Meridian, Idaho weeks later beginning her life in the Gem State. Son, Tyler, arrived in 1978. Mary and Roger divorced three years later. Both parents remained in Idaho. Mary worked in medical and dental offices during her early years of marriage. Later career moves took her into the insurance industry and Hewlett Packard, following in her father’s footsteps. Mary met her kind and gentle, eventual husband, Steve Rushton in Boise, Idaho through connections in the sobriety community. Mary and Steve moved to Corvallis, Oregon with Steve’s transfer in his position at HP. Freddie and Tyler relocated with the Rushtons, attending middle and high school in Oregon. Mary finally found her calling as an emergency dispatcher and station manager for the Oregon State Police campus location at Oregon State University. After retirement, Mary and Steve left the rainy, grey side of the Cascade Mountains and settled in Bend, Oregon. Steve and Mary both experienced medical emergencies the same day, finding both transported by ambulance to St. Charles’ ICU for critical treatment. Steve improved while, unfortunately, Mary passed away from organ failure. Steve was able to spend time at Mary’s side with family during her final days. Steve is living in temporary housing in central Oregon and is adapting to this new chapter of life with the help of his stepsons, family, and friends.

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Beverly "Jean" Akins - June 11, 1927 - January 09, 2023

Departed: 01/09/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Beverly “Jean” Akins Lovingly known as GRANNY

Our mother, Beverly “Jean” Akins, went to Heaven this week at the age of 95. She is the last of a generation, and is now singing with the Angels, and having a wonderful reunion with those who have gone before her.

She raised six children, and was instrumental in the care, love, and nurturing of a mass of grand, and great grandchildren.

Jean was born June 11, 1927 in Coquille, Oregon, to Ray and Florence Brown. She died January 9th, 2023 in her home of 45 years in Bend, Oregon.

In addition to her husband Fred, Jean is preceded in death by 4 Grandchildren and 1 Great Grandchild.

Jean played the organ and piano, serving as organist for her church for many years. She also had the most beautiful soprano voice, and listening to her sing The Lord’s Prayer for her church family was a special treat.

We remember her having knitting needles in her hands all the time, and gifted her creations to the people she loved. She was a seamstress, and loved making stuffed animals for her grandchildren and her hallmark sweatshirts that she wore until they were threadbare.

After never being sick a day in her life, Granny was diagnosed with cancer in 2012, at the age of 85. Because of the loving care and devotion of her daughter Deena, who dropped everything to move in with her and be her caretaker for her remaining years, Mom overcame several months of chemo and radiation treatments, and blessed us all with another 10 years of hugs and laughter. We will always be grateful to Deena for helping Mom to enjoy her final years surrounded by love and children.

Granny is survived by six children: Sheryl McQuig (Paul); Roseanna Juhola (Glenn Wright); Marvin Akins (Connie); Gifford Akins (Tiffany); Deena Perrine, and Brenda Shaw (Bill Smith). She will be missed by 15 Grandchildren, 32 great Grandchildren, and 2 great great Grandchildren, along with many nieces and nephews. We will forever be in her debt for her unconditional love and generous spirit.

Jean is also survived by the BEST best friend of all time, and her “Partner in Crime”, Dorothy Williams.

Jean’s earthly body will be laid to rest in Deschutes Memorial Gardens, next to her devoted husband, Fred Akins Jr., who preceded her in death on February 3, 2001. A Celebration of Jean’s life will be held in the early summer, so that all of her distant family can gather once more to celebrate the wonderful lifetime of love she gave us.

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Jason Q. Moore - June 07, 1969 - January 05, 2023

Departed: 01/05/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Jason Q. Moore was born on June 7, 1969, in Salt Lake City, Utah and passed away at the young age of 53 years old on January 5, 2023, in Bend, Oregon.

Jason grew up in Sandy, Utah and was raised by his grandparents Victor and Lucille Moore. He attended Hillcrest High School and excelled in academics, swimming, and football. Jason loved The Utah Utes, poker, cruises, corvettes, and big trucks. He also enjoyed travelling with his family. Annually, he went on several cruises visiting most of the islands in the Caribbean, Hawaii, and Alaska. Ultimately, his favorite vacation spot was Mexico.

Jason looked forward to boating and fishing on the lake, all the while singing Nitty Gritty Dirt Band’s “Fishing in the Dark”. You would also find him at any karaoke bar that he could find, entertaining the audience with all the old classics.

He was also someone who could go into a room full of people, not knowing anyone, then leave with 10 new friends. He was personable, outgoing, and easy to get along with. Because of this, many people were attracted to him.

He was also a jokester and young at heart. He loved to play tricks on people, especially his loved ones. You always knew Jason was up to something when you could hear his distinct and contagious “jokester” laugh. His niece (Brynn) and nephews (Jaxton, Parker, and Zaiden) were usually on the receiving end of his mischievous and playful behavior.

Additionally, Jason was extremely hardworking. Because of his competitive nature, he always wanted to be number one and the top in sales. He was constantly striving for success.

Jason is survived by his wife Nikki, his children Ashton and Zachary, his 4 stepchildren Anthony, Destinee, Alexis and Mersadeez, and his boxer Roxee. He was “Papa” to 6 grandchildren Kaytlynn, Ryker, Kenzie, Brightynn, Kaden, and Waylon. Jason’s biggest life dream was to have a big family. That dream became a reality when he married Nikki. He took her children in as his own, and although he didn’t have any siblings growing up, he gained 4 brothers. JR, JP, Taylor, and Jake welcomed Jason with open arms as their “new brother”- instantly the shenanigans began! Jason is also survived by his Mother and Father-in-law Banya and Mark Letham, and his Mother Sandra Buchmann. Jason was preceded in death by his grandparents, Victor and Lucille Moore, Father Greg Moore, Father-in-law Randy O’Reilly, Brother-in-law J.R. O’Reilly, and boxer Tazia. As per Jason’s request, there will be no services held. We love and miss him greatly. Party hard with JR, Randy, and Greg!

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Kurt Lynne Ashton - May 04, 1970 - January 03, 2023

Departed: 01/03/2023 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Kurt Lynne Ashton born May 4, 1970, died January 3, 2023. He was born in Bend, Oregon. Loved most of his life in Prineville, Oregon. Worked for the youth core when he was 15 for 2 years. He worked for the Prineville rodeo and the Flying U rodeo in California. He participated in Redmond, Spray, Topiinish, Tri-Cities, Albany, Sweet Home, La Grande, Reno, Sisters and St. Paul Rodeos in Wild Horse Racing and Bare Back Bronk rising. He worked at The Gallery Restaurant & Bar in Sisters, Oregon washing dishes, and also at Suttle Lake Restaurant. Started logging at the age  of 18. Went to work at Davis Insulation when the logging fell through. He loved to fish, hunt and camp. He is survived by his mother, Joyce Waibel; Daughter, Katrina Benzkofer; Two Brothers: Wayne Ashton and Allen Ashton. He was proceeded in death by his dad, Gerald Ashton.

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Janet E. Emerson - May 30, 1936 - December 15, 2022

Departed: 12/15/2022 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Janet Emerson, 86 was born to Raymond and Dorothy (Crocket) Stacy in Klickitat, Washington, on May 30th, 1936. The family moved to Portland and later settled in Bend.

Janet graduated from Bend Senior High School in 1954 where she was an active student with many friends. She was a member of the High School Pep Club all four years. She was well liked and crowned Prom Queen her senior year. She was also a Princess in the Bend Water Pageant where she and the court floated down Mirror Pond on a swan float.

Janet married her high school sweetheart, Ralph Emerson on November 23, 1955. They moved to Philomath, Oregon where they made their first home and had three children, Tamela, Deborah, and Rodney. This year would have been their 67th wedding anniversary.

We were fortunate to have had a mom who was at home for most of our upbringing. In fact, our family was sometimes compared to the "Leave it to Beaver" show. Janet took pride in her home, both inside and out, and loved working in her yard. She was an avid seamstress who made numerous outfits for her family and beautiful western shirts for her husband.

After her children were a little older, she worked for Volume Shoe Source in Corvallis. She later volunteered as a Candy Striper at Good Samaritan Hospital and served as Auxiliary President of the Benton County Sheriff's Posse where she spearheaded many new, fun ideas. Janet also served as the Auxiliary reporter who wrote for "Beaver Banter from Benton County". She was creative.

After the family moved back to Bend in 1975, she substituted within the Bend School District and was hired full time a year later as a Teacher's Aide at Young, Kenwood, and Kingston Elementary Schools. Her years working at the school district were all chronicled in photo albums we still have to this day. Then, after nearly 20 years, both she and Ralph retired and enjoyed a quiet life at their beautiful ranch in Bend.

As a Grandmother, Janet was the driving force behind our annual trips to Seaside which we enjoyed as a family for many years. The grandchildren guessed at how much was in the "money jar", received prizes for "first and last to turn in their answers", and participated in annual spelling bees and trivia contests. We all looked forward to her homemade ice cream and M&Ms. In addition, she created our treasured family photos calendar which she distributed each Christmas along with new mittens.

Janet is survived by her three children, Tammy Wibel (Dennis), Debbie Salladay (John), and Rod Emerson (Debe), six grandchildren, Devin and Meagan Wibel, Brittany Brunke (Will), Mackenzie Wood (Diane), Nicole Stodghill (Dom), and Tyler Emerson. In addition, she leaves six great grandchildren, Preston and Rylynn, Greyson and Kyah, and Daxtyn and Asher. She was preceded in death by her husband, Ralph earlier this year, both parents, and her sister, Shirley.

Janet was a loving wife, mom, Grammy, sister, aunt, mother-in-law, and friend. She loved her family very much and we all loved her. As a family, we would like to thank her caregiver, Lisa who was a wonderful friend to Janet this past year and to all of us. No public service will be held. A public viewing is scheduled for Saturday, December 31st from 10:00 am – 2:00 pm. Deschutes Memorial Chapel & Gardens are in charge of arrangements. https://www.bendfuneralhomes.com/

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Carol Jean Harley - July 28, 1934 - December 04, 2022

Departed: 12/04/2022 (Bend)

Obituary Preview: Carol peacefully entered the Kingdom of Heaven on December 4th, 2022 at the age of 88 years old. She was undoubtedly welcomed into the arms of our Lord while surrounded by many family members who awaited her arrival.

Carol was born to Clair and Mildred Key in Nashwauk, Minnesota on July 28, 1934. In her early years, Carol worked as a real estate secretary in the Bend area and went on to obtain a real estate brokers license. Carol and her husband Vern spent many summers in Alaska salmon fishing, and she spent many years a member of the local Lutheran church choir. Carol was a cancer survivor who loved spending time with her daughters and grandchildren, traveling to the Oregon coast, shopping, and playing board games. Carol was also a talented seamstress, pianist and organist in her free time.

She is proceeded in death by her Mother and Father- Clair and Mildred Key, Her Brother-John Key, Her Husband-Vern Harley, Her Daughter- Jeneane Warner, Her Grandson- Kelly Thomas, and her beloved pets Katie and Munchie. Carol is survived by her three daughters- Stephanie Mcgolrick, Christine Thomas, and Connie Hottinger, 8 grandchildren, and 15 great grandchildren. Her kind heart, warm hugs and her sweet sense of humor will be missed forever.

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At Deschutes Memorial Chapel, every funeral service is tailored to honor the unique life and legacy of the deceased. The funeral home's experienced staff will work closely with families to create a personalized ceremony that reflects the personality, interests, and achievements of their loved one. From music selection to flower arrangements, every detail is carefully considered to ensure a meaningful and memorable tribute.

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Losing a loved one can be a devastating experience, and the grieving process can be long and difficult. At Deschutes Memorial Chapel, the team understands the importance of providing ongoing support and care to families during this challenging time. The funeral home offers grief support groups, counseling services, and other resources to help families navigate their emotions and find healing.

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Pre-planning a funeral may seem like a daunting task, but it can be a thoughtful and considerate gift to your loved ones. By making arrangements in advance, you can spare your family from having to make difficult decisions during a time of emotional distress. At Deschutes Memorial Chapel, the team can guide you through the pre-planning process, helping you to make informed decisions about your final wishes.

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Deschutes Memorial Chapel is committed to excellence in all aspects of its operations. From maintaining high standards of quality and professionalism to engaging in community outreach programs, the funeral home is dedicated to making a positive impact on the lives of those it serves. Whether through charity events or educational seminars, Deschutes Memorial Chapel is an active participant in the local community.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing essential information to those who want to pay their respects. They help to notify people of the passing, share details about the funeral or memorial service, and provide an opportunity for loved ones to express their condolences.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the obituary is written by the family members or close friends of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include details about the funeral or memorial service, charitable donations, and other relevant information.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words. Longer obituaries may be more suitable for online platforms or personal websites.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or multiple photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to personalize the tribute and make it more engaging.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. They may require specific formatting, word count, and deadlines for publication.

Can I write my own obituary?

Absolutely! Writing your own obituary can be a therapeutic exercise that allows you to reflect on your life and legacy. You can include your accomplishments, values, and personality traits to create a unique and personalized tribute.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed tribute that provides additional information about the person's life and legacy.

Can I publish an obituary online?

Yes! Online obituary platforms and funeral home websites offer a convenient way to publish an obituary and share it with a wider audience. This can be especially helpful for those who live far away or have limited access to local newspapers.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The publication timeline varies depending on the newspaper or online platform. Some may publish immediately, while others may take several days or even weeks. Be sure to check with the publication for their specific deadlines and guidelines.

Can I edit or update an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, it's possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after publication. However, this may depend on the publication's policies and procedures. Contact them directly to inquire about their editing process.

What is the cost of publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, word count, and additional features such as photos or videos. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to $1,000 or more for print publications, while online platforms may offer free or low-cost options.

Can I include humor or anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Obituaries don't have to be somber or serious. Including humorous stories or anecdotes can help capture the personality and spirit of the deceased.

Should I include charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes! Including information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased and support their favorite causes.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search online archives of newspapers, genealogy websites, or libraries that maintain historical records. Many online platforms also offer archives of past obituaries that can be searched by name or date.

Can I write an obituary for someone who has been deceased for a long time?

Absolutely! Even if someone passed away years ago, writing an obituary can still be a meaningful way to honor their memory and share their story with others.

What is the purpose of an online guestbook?

An online guestbook allows friends and family to leave condolences, share memories, and pay their respects to the deceased. It provides a digital space for people to connect and celebrate the person's life.

How long does an online obituary remain available?

The duration varies depending on the platform or website. Some may keep online obituaries available indefinitely, while others may remove them after a certain period. Be sure to check with the platform for their archiving policies.

Can I share an obituary on social media?

Yes! Sharing an obituary on social media can help spread the word quickly and reach a wider audience. Many online platforms provide easy sharing options for popular social media channels.

What is the role of an obituary writer?

An obituary writer helps families craft a well-written and meaningful tribute that captures the essence of their loved one. They may assist with research, interviewing family members, and writing the final piece.

How do I choose an online obituary platform?

Research different platforms to find one that meets your needs and budget. Consider factors such as ease of use, customization options, guestbook features, and archiving policies when making your decision.

Can I include videos or audio recordings in an online obituary?

Yes! Many online platforms allow you to add multimedia elements such as videos, audio recordings, or slideshows to enhance the tribute and make it more engaging.

What is the significance of including survivors in an obituary?

Including survivors in an obituary acknowledges their relationship with the deceased and provides important context about their family dynamics. It also serves as a way to notify friends and acquaintances about who is affected by the loss.

Can I write an anonymous condolence message in an online guestbook?

No! While it's understandable that you might want to remain anonymous, most online platforms require users to provide some form of identification or authentication before leaving a condolence message. This helps ensure that messages are genuine and respectful.