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Ima Gean Larison - January 15, 1938 - April 26, 2024

Departed: 04/26/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Ima Gean Larison (January 15th, 1938-April 26th, 2024) Baxter Springs, Kansas

She was known to many as “Aunt Jean”, “Grandma Jean” or “Miss Jean” and accepted everyone in as one of her own. She spent the majority of her life being a caretaker. Whether it be taking relatives in, cleaning houses for people in the community, working at one of the many local doctors offices or hospitals, and even doing home health care as a CNA for many years. She was always one to care for others. Putting everyone else’s needs above her own. She loved listening to country style hymns, reading Christian based novels and watching old westerns on TV. She was a very active lady, spending most of her time taking walks around the town, to work, the store and just strolling through the parks, cemeteries and library walking trails. She spent many days at ball fields supporting grandkids and great grandkids in their sporting events or making sure she was active in all the church gatherings from Macedonia Baptist, to her later church home of First Baptist in Riverton. She loved her church family and friends and loved cooking nice big meals for both them and her immediate family to gather around. She had been through so much in her lifetime, including many medical scares that she would always resiliently overcome. She was one of the strongest women we’ve ever known. She was bright, funny and had a heart of gold. Anyone who had the pleasure of knowing her, would say the same.

Ima Gean was preceded in death by both her late husband of 21 years (Howard Newcomb of Oklahoma) and (Jim Larison of Kansas), her parents Chester and Rosa Lee Allen, along with her brothers James, Charles and Robert Allen of Kentucky.

She is survived by her sister, Ann Stoker of Kentucky, children Sheri Hautala and her husband Ron, Tony Robertson and his wife Deborah, Terry Newcomb and his wife Mary Jo, Jacque Newcomb, Danny Newcomb and his wife Amy. Her grandchildren, Aaron Gilmore, Kayla Kirk, Samantha Morgan, Robbie Newcomb, Natalie Burton, Jesse Newcomb, Shelbye Crum, Travis Seitz, Nate Newcomb and Alaina Newcomb. Along with many great-grandchildren, nieces and nephews who she loved dearly.

Funeral services will be held at 10:00 a.m., Thursday, May 2, 2024 at Derfelt’s Baxter Chapel. Pastor Neil Anderson will officiate. Burial will be in the Baxter Springs Cemetery. Family will receive friends from 6:00 – 7:00 p.m., Wednesday, May 1, 2024 at Derfelt’s Baxter Chapel. Pallbearers for the service are; Nate Newcomb, Robbie Newcomb, Jesse Newcomb, Travis Seitz, Steven Burton, Mason Morgan, and Aaron Gilmore. Memorial donations may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project, P.O. Box 758516, Topeka, Kansas 66675-8516 or in care of the funeral home. Online condolences maybe expressed at www.derfeltfuneralhomes.com.

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Joseph Wayne Bilke - October 10, 1974 - April 19, 2024

Departed: 04/19/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Joseph Wayne Bilke, 49 of Baxter Springs, KS passed from this life on March 19, 2024 at his home in Baxter Springs, KS.

Joseph was born March 10, 1974. Joe loved his friends, family and his dog. He loved working as a CDL driver and telling his parents about all the sights. Joe was also a gun enthusiast, a hobby he shared with his dad.

Joe is preceded in death by twin sister, Leslie Dawn Bilke; father, Donald Wayne Bilke; paternal grandparents, Esther and Wayne Bilke; uncle Randy Bilke.

Joe is survived by step-mother, Annie Belin-Bilke; step-sister, Lacy; step-brother, Shawn; nephew, Blake. Joe has been entrusted to Derfelt’s Baxter Chapel for cremation. No services are planned at this time.

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JD Fuerst - June 22, 1935 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Today is that day. The day Superman hangs up his cape to a ‘Well done good and faithful servant’. It’s the day our rudder gets removed from the boat. It’s the day the kindest, most hardworking, patient, soft-spoken, good to others, generous to a fault which he would have said wasn’t possible, hero with a heart of gold breaths his last. Today, we grieve together, family, the Dad and Papa that never had a bad day, because ‘you just have to get glad in the pants you got mad in’, never said an unkind word to anyone for any reason, and never worried needlessly because ‘if money can fix a problem, it isn’t a problem’. What a life he’s lived and what a legacy he leaves. He was a good and upright man.

There are few people in this world like JD Fuerst. He was born in Salina, Kansas to Ed and Lucille Fuerst the youngest of 4. The family soon settled in Clarinda, Iowa. Clarinda would become home and the place he came back to time and time again. He enlisted in the military from Clarida, started a family and came back to Clarinda later in life to live near lifelong friends. His friends were like family and he enjoyed countless happy hours, morning coffees on the square, and weekend breakfasts with them. He was a good son, brother, and great friend.

Dad was “The Old Guard” Army. As part of the 3rd U.S. Infantry Regiment he served as a Sentinels at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier in DC for 2 tours. Which is rare, usually soldiers are only invited for 1 tour. Dad’s honesty, integrity, duty, dedication, and honor caused a second invitation to serve. He escorted Miss America during that time and served on funeral duty in the Capital for US dignitaries lying in state in the Capital rotunda. One of his fondest memories was taking his sons to one of the Tomb Guard Reunions and sharing that part of his life with them. He was a patriot.

He was a farmer and truck driver for most of his life after that. There wasn’t a road or town he hadn’t been to in the country. Traveling with him was always fun. He had a story for every location we went by or to. Whenever anyone went anywhere, the first call was always to Dad ‘The Human Atlas’ for directions and recommendations on the best places to get onion rings and milkshakes. He was the salt of the earth.

He loved his family fiercely leaving a legacy in 3 kids John, Mike, and DeeAnn, 8 grandchildren, Candace, Tyler, Samantha, Shelby, Jeffery, Garett, Taylor, and Abigail 11 great-grandchildren, Alexis, Sydnie, Orlando, Ryan, Greyson, Skylar, Clayton, Asher, Barrett, Jocelyn, and Harper and 4 great great grandchildren Adelyn, Hadley, Maddyn, and Giovanni.

His family was on his mind always, and where he wanted to be. Later in life he would ‘make the rounds’ between John and his family in Arkansas, DeeAnn and her family in Dallas, and Mike and his family in Houston. From family Christmas Cruises to Cozumel, Mexico, to walking around our neighborhoods for exercise to find the grandkids, Papa was here for it all. His eyes twinkled as he watched all the grandkids play. His stories, big booming laugh with accompanying knock on the table, and brilliant smile will be missed beyond measure. He was a good Dad and a great man.

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Phyllis June Turner - February 24, 1946 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Phyllis June Turner, 78, of Quapaw, OK passed from this life on Saturday, April 6, 2024, at Higher Call Nursing Home, Quapaw, OK.

Phyllis was born on February 24, 1946, in Baxter Springs, KS. She was raised by her mother, Billie June (Crane) Morgan. She was married to Bruce Turner in 1987. Phyllis enjoyed puzzle books, reading mystery novels and wood carving when her health allowed.

Phyllis is preceded in death by her mother, Billie June Morgan; husband, Bruce Turner; sister, Susie Hutchings; brother, J.D. Hutchings.

Phyllis is survived by one son, Billy Lawellin of Quapaw, OK; sister, Cindy Lynch and husband Chris of Webb City, MO; along with nieces, nephews, and cousins.

Phyllis has been entrusted to Derfelt’s Baxter Chapel for cremation. The family will plan services at a later date.

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Gaye M'lle Sias - September 15, 1944 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Gaye M’lle Sias was called to be with our Lord and Savior on Friday, April 5th at 3:14 pm in Joplin, Missouri. She was surrounded lovingly by her family, including all of her grandkids and great-grandkids. As one of the strongest people, Gaye worked hard for every single thing she had and gave to many. Giving to others, especially her grandchildren, was part of her nature. Over almost 3 decades of raising children, she often made personal sacrifices to make sure her grandchildren were well taken care of, and she was very involved in their educations and activities. They were her world, and she was always there for them no matter what. Her dedicated work ethic, stubbornness, and personal strength will live on in them and be passed on to her great-grandchildren.

Gaye was born to Wilburn Jones and Helen Hibler Jones on September 15, 1944, in Lowell, KS. Her parents and her brothers Marion John Jones and Ray Lee Jones preceded her in death. She graduated from Riverton High School in 1962. She lived in this area her entire life. She successfully owned her own house cleaning business for 45 years before retiring due to health issues. Gaye always tried to go above and beyond in her job and was loyal to all of her families.

Those left to mourn her are her daughter Lori Sias and grandchildren: Taegen Curry, Terron Allen, and Taylor Brewer as well as her great-grandchildren: Paisley Curry, Tayden Allen, and Treyson Tygart.

She was much more than a grandmother and touched so many lives. She will be greatly missed and always cherished in our hearts. There will be a celebration of her life held on Sunday, April 21, 2024, at the Johnston Public Library in Baxter Springs, Kansas, at 3:00 pm. Click this link to view additional details about Gaye's Services, including any available live streams: https://my.gather.app/remember/gaye-sias

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Diane "Dicee" E. Derryberry - September 05, 1962 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: We’re heartbroken to announce the untimely passing of Diane (Dicee) Derryberry on April 1st, 2024 at the age of 61. She leaves behind a legacy of laughter, wit and irreverence that belied a very tender and loving soul. Her life’s trail is scattered with priceless memories that will be forever treasured by everyone who spent any amount of time with her.

Dicee was born in Baxter Springs, Kansas in 1962 to Dean and Susie Derryberry, as the baby of this very young family, and one who could have won any beautiful baby contest world over! She graduated from Baxter Springs High School in 1980 with a close circle of friends that would be with her throughout her lifetime. After high school, she enrolled at the University of Kansas, later venturing off to join her siblings and friends in Dallas, Texas where she made her home for over 30 years. In Dallas, Dicee’s quick mind and infectious spirit allowed her to flourish in the corporate world at Mary Kay and Dean Foods. In 2001 she brought her son, Alec Julian, into the world. There has never been a fiercer adoration or a greater dedication than that she has had for Alec. With Alec as the new focal point of her life, she continued her corporate work but being a mom became her real career.

In 2020, during the pandemic and after losing their dearly loved father, Dicee along with her older sister, Lesli, came back home to Baxter. Together they put down new roots and deepened their bonds both with their hometown and with each other. Dicee started working at Wolkar Drug where she found an amazing community of Baxterites and coworkers that quickly became her extended family. Her magnetic personality, humor, and quick wit brought joy to everyday life at the pharmacy and kept customers coming back.

Dicee was well known around Baxter for her beauty, her trademark rock n’ roll style, and her characteristic heels and lipstick. She had strong opinions and didn’t mince her words, but her love ran as deep as her convictions were strong. Dicee cared deeply for others - just as much for her neighbors as for her community and the world at large. She believed that everyone deserved a fair chance, and her actions and community involvement are a testament to that.

Dicee is preceded in death by her parents, Susie and Dean Derryberry, and her brother, Mike Derryberry. She leaves behind her son, Alec Ortega, sister, Lesli Derryberry (Saifi Ahmad), nieces Mel Ahmad (Elliott Shawd) and Alina Ahmad (Ariel Borensztein), and adored great niece Samara Shawd, as well as her loving cousins, aunts, and the extended Derryberry clan - many dear friends, both lifelong and newfound, and her precious pets. The family would like to extend a special thanks to Lindsay Ashe for adopting Pony, Dicee’s beloved dog and constant companion. Dicee was loved profoundly and was a shining light for all of us. Her absence will leave a deep void in our lives, one that will always remain impossible to fill.

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Joseph Daniel Columbia Sr. - September 20, 1941 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Joseph Daniel Columbia Sr., 82, of Baxter Springs, KS passed from this life on Saturday, March 30, 2024 at his home surrounded by family.

Joseph was born September 20, 1941 in Labette County, KS.

Joseph has been entrusted to Derfelt's Baxter Chapel for cremation. No services are planned at this time.

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Susan Kay Pruitt - February 08, 1961 - March 26, 2024

Departed: 03/26/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Baxter Springs, Kansas: Susan Kay Pruitt, age 63 of Baxter Springs, Kansas, passed away after battling a long illness at 08:35 AM on Tuesday, March 26, 2024 at Quaker Hill Manor of Baxter Springs, Kansas.

Susan was born on February 08, 1961, in Joplin, Missouri. Her parents, George Adams and Sarah Radford, adopted her at birth. Her biological mom was Pat Anderson, of Wichita, Kansas.

She graduated from Baxter Springs High School with the class of 1979. She loved playing golf and baseball. Susan last worked for the Washington Regional Medical Center before her illness. Prior to the Washington Hospital, she spent time detailing vehicles in Fayetteville, Arkansas.

She is survived by her aunt, Syble Fry (husband, Jesse); one nephew, Shawn Garrison; along with extended family and friends.

She was preceded in death by her parents.

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Tony L. Murray - September 11, 1943 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Tony L. Murray, 80, of Baxter Springs, KS passed from this life on Sunday, March 24, 2024, at his home with his family at his side.

Tony was born September 11, 1943, in Picher, OK to Floyd Leroy and Margarette Ann (Evans) Murray. Tony graduated from Picher High School with the class of 1962. Like Tony said, “Once a Gorilla, always a Gorilla”. He took great pride in his Picher heritage.

Tony was united in marriage to his high school sweetheart, Fern E. (Wichman) Murray on April 11, 1964, in Ft. Scott, Kansas. Tony started his career as a master carpenter, he would later go to work for Yellow Freight in Baxter Springs working in parts, body repair, transmission repair, and retired as mechanic in 1997, after 30 years of service. He volunteered his time with the local Meals on Wheels delivering meals around the area. He had his own home business sharpening saw blades and doing various repairs. He enjoyed doing yard work and spending time in his garden. He and Fern gave away large amounts of produce to people over the years. He enjoyed his fishing trips with his buddies and his normal coffee group that you could often find at McDonald’s, Casey’s, or the local Weston’s restaurant in town. He was an avid fan of the OU Sooners and Green Bay Packers. His greatest enjoyment was following his grandsons around to music and sporting events.

Tony is preceded in death by his parents, Floyd and Margarette Murray, brother-in-law Barney Zeigler, and cousin Larry Evans.

Tony is survived by his wife Fern of the home; son, Kipp Murray of Joplin, MO; daughter, Beth Shockley and husband Rick of Baxter Springs, KS; sister, Linda Zeigler of Pryor, OK; niece, Sherri Wisdom of Pryor, OK; cousin, Debbie Evans of Pryor, OK; three grandsons, Aaron Shockley and wife Morgan of Frontenac, KS, Colten Shockley of Baxter Springs, KS, and Carson Shockley of Baxter Springs, KS; one great grandson, Otto Shockley; Along with many cousins and numerous life long friends.

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Willard Wayne Carver - April 05, 1946 - March 15, 2024

Departed: 03/15/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Willard W. Carver

Baxter Springs, KS: Willard W. Carver, age 77 of Baxter Springs, KS, passed away at 11:07 PM on Friday, March 15, 2024 at Mercy Hospital of Joplin, MO.

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Bobby Dean Myers - April 05, 1936 - March 05, 2024

Departed: 03/05/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Bobby Myers, 87 of Baxter Springs, KS passed from this life on March 5, 2024, at Quaker Hill Skilled Nursing Home.

Bob was born On April 5, 1936, in Galena, KS to the union of Harry and Mary (Mishler) Myers. Bob graduated from Riverton High School with the class of 1954. Bob owned and operated Baxter Pick-Up Service for over 40 years. He was also an agent for Mistletoe Express, Manley Freight, and Railway Express in Baxter Springs for many years. Bob also owned and operated the Columbus Bowling Alley during the 1960’s.

Bob is preceded in death by his parents and one son, Bart Myers.

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James Edwards - April 09, 1944 - March 01, 2024

Departed: 03/01/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: James Alvin Edwards age 79 of Baxter Springs, Kansas passed away on March 1, 2024 at Mercy Hospital in Joplin Missouri after a long illness. He was born to the late Roma and Dolly Ivon Edwards (Shockley) on April 9, 1944 in French Camp, California. James Married Stella Edwards (Myers) in Galena, Kansas on July 7, 1964. She survives of the home.

He had several jobs throughout the years working as a mechanic, an employee at Baxter Springs Walmart, and as a police officer with the Baxter Springs, Kansas Police Department. He was enlisted in the U.S Navy for 2 years and spent time overseas. James enjoyed fishing, camping, and spending time with his family.

He is survived by his son, James Edwards (and wife, Lashel) of Miami, Oklahoma; son, John Edwards of Baxter Springs, Kansas; son, Terry Edwards of Columbus, Kansas; daughter, Brenda Edwards Coleman of Liberty, Missouri; daughter, Ruth Anne Barnett (and husband, Newley Barnett) of Riverton Kansas; 11 grandkids and several great grandchildren, along with many nieces and nephews he considered to be like his own children.

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Teresa Irene Sisney - March 11, 1963 - February 27, 2024

Departed: 02/27/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Teresa Irene Sisney born March 11,1963 In Chicago, Illinois to Carol Marie Morgan (Green), and Wilson Le-Roy Morgan.

She attended Eureka Springs High School in Arkansas. She worked in the family Restaurant/ Hotel for many years before becoming a full-time housekeeper. She married Greg Sisney in May of 1998, shortly after they married she became a stay at home wife, mother and homemaker. She loved to play piano and often travel like she did as a young girl, she loved going to the races, and taking care of her humming birds; She was also a very devoted grandma.

She is preceded in death by her parents Carol and Wilson, her brother William “Billy” Morgan and her nephew Bradley Camp.

She is survived by her husband Greg Sisney, and her four children; Danielle Bartmess, Austin Bartmess and his wife Tess Faucett, Matthew Sisney and his partner Ashley Wolf, and Elizabeth Tucker; six grandchildren, William, Gage, Everli, Anna Mae, Ariya and Tripp. Her sister Gracie Hensley (Morgan), Nephew Brian Camp and wife Roseanne Camp.

Her two best friends Paula and Steve Pippin, Susan and David Majors.

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Jesse William Larison - June 14, 1951 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Jesse William Larison, age 72, passed from this life peacefully in his rural home on February 26, 2024. Jess was born June 14, 1951 in Columbus, Ks to Jesse William Larison, Sr. and Icie Lee Grazier Larison. He was preceded in death by both parents and his sister, Virginia Larison Kirkpatrick. He is survived by his wife of 40 years, Marla Larison, one daughter Rebecca Woodward, two sons, Jason Larison (wife Jennifer), and Jacob Larison (wife Tammy), nine grandchildren: Jessi Palmer, Madison Woodward, Tyler Larison, Derek Larison, Emaleigh Clark, Alexandra Clark, Joshua Clark, Lora Larison and Clara Larison, and two great-grandchildren: Coraline Copenhaver and Samson Copenhaver.

Before the age of 10, Jess started selling anything he could find from fireworks, to fruits and vegetables. After that, he did any job that would bring in money from picking up trash, working in a gas station, and building cars. In February of 1972, Jess joined the Army as a PMOS Military Police. He was also a company clerk, PSNCO and Battalion Mail Clerk. After he left the army in May of 1975, he worked for Continental Telephone Company as the central office technician. He thought he would work there until retirement, and then along came the deregulation of the communication industry and had to find something else to do. At age 30, he started buying rental houses and had up to 31 rental homes at one time. His life experiences were diverse. During his employment at Eagle Picher, he helped construct the enclosures to ship the batteries for the Hubble Space Telescope and was present for the space shuttle launch, taking the telescope into space. Eventually, he went into business for himself owning a salvage yard, selling used cars and running Larison Towing. At 62, he decided to retire from his own business. Since retirement he has enjoyed fixing up classic cars, riding his motorcycle and going to swap meets. Jesse was a member of the Lowell Friends Church and enjoyed the many relationships he formed there.

Jesse was a past member of BACA (Bikers Against Child Abuse) and current member of Lion’s Club International, where he served as a District Governor and Kansas State Council Chair. Additionally, he served the community as a member of the Patriot Guard and the American Legion Post 206 where he was currently serving as treasurer, and was an organizing member of the Legion’s Honor Guard. He was also a member of the Rt. 66 Vintage Motorcycle Association and the Midwest 66 Cruisers Car Club.

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Gayla Ann Keller - May 18, 1951 - February 25, 2024

Departed: 02/25/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Gayla Ann Keller, age 72, of Pittsburg, Kansas, passed away at her home, on Sunday, February 25, 2024.

Gayla was born May 18, 1951 to the late Gail and Maxine (Myer) Murry in Joplin, Missouri.

She married James F. Keller on October 14, 1972 in Pittsburg, Kansas. He survives of the home. Prior to working as a paraprofessional for USD 250, she retired from the Pittsburg Morning Sun.

Also preceding her in death was a sister, Judy Souza, and nieces Jan Elizabeth Greenfeather and Diane Belante.

Gayla was adored and loved by all who knew her. She loved Elvis, picnics in the park, going for long Sunday drives, enjoying a cherry coke, or a slice of coconut cream pie.

Above all, she treasured her time with her grandkids, kids and family. They were her deepest joy and greatest Blessings.

Surviving Gayla include her son Jordan Fredrick Keller (wife Carrie) of Pittsburg, KS; her daughter Kari Ann Poznich (husband Thomas Jr.) of Gardner, KS; grandchildren: Treycin Kee, Jayden Keller, Gage Keller, Korbin Poznich, Jackson Poznich, Grant Poznich, Kennedy Poznich, and Luke Poznich; brothers: John Murry (wife Cathy) of Baxter Springs, KS, and Jerry Murry (wife Marcia) of Riverton, KS and their daughters, Brandi Martin and Morgan Smith; sister: Barbara Green of Baxter Springs, KS and her daughters Sara Roy and Kendal Higginbotham brother-in-law: Tony Keller (wife Marilyn) of Pittsburg, KS and their children Tim, Kimberly, Jennifer, Jeff ; sister-in-law JaneAnn Turigliatto (husband Art) of Astoria, OR; and their children Corey, Adam and Alicia Marie. Nieces, Angela Vera and Amy Mashburn of Texas, and many extended nieces, nephews, “Nettles Kids”, and treasured friends.

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Joseph "Joe" Phillip Fry - March 09, 1933 - February 20, 2024

Departed: 02/20/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Joseph (Joe) Philip Fry, age 90, of Baxter Springs, KS, formerly of Melrose, KS, entered his heavenly home on Tuesday, February 20, 2024, surrounded by his loving family.

Joe was born at home near Keelville, KS on March 9, 1933, the youngest of five children born to the union of John Galieo Fry and Minnie Francis Young. He was married to Donna M. Vanatta on February 20, 1952. To this union were born three children, Joe Don, Vicki, and Michael. In August 2001, he was preceded in death by his wife, Donna. In 2002, Joe was married to Betty Sue Hart, she preceded him in death in September 2004. In August 2008, he was married to Laura Alline Mead, she survives of the home. Other survivors include his daughter, Vicki Bradley (Rod Campbell) of Athol, Idaho, son, Michael Fry (Barbara) of Baton Rouge, LA, daughter-in-law, Pat Fry of Webb City, MO; step-children Roy Dean Hart (Marla) of Chetopa, KS, Nancy Nading (Kelly) of Chetopa, KS, Rex Hart of Grove OK, Lourie Mead-Fry, of Oronogo, MO, Lisa Shireman (Tom) of Riverton, KS, and Amber Mead of Melrose, KS. Six grandchildren, Levi Fry (Stephanie) of Albertville, MN, Toby Fry (Jennifer) of Quapaw, OK, Sara Stuck (Greg) of Webb City, MO, Heath Bradley of Melrose, KS, Brian Fry (Nicole) of Rockledge, FL and Katriel Fry of Nashville, TN. Step grandchildren, Amy Comer (Rick), Baxter Springs, James Hart, Chicago, IL, Jennifer Lawson, Chetopa KS, Cliff Davis, Wichita, Tucker Hart, (Brikklyn), Elizabeth Hart, Colton (Jamie) Hart, Garrett Mead, Oronogo, MO, Delaynee Tynon (Jarrod) of Welch, OK, Haylyn Neal of Welch OK, Zayne Shireman of Welch OK, Chase Mead (Jessica) of Baxter Springs, KS, Dalton Mead. (Shawna) of Melrose, KS and Bayleigh Mead of Melrose KS, Nine great grandchildren, two great-great grandchildren, and seventeen step great grandchildren.

He was preceded in death by his parents, two brothers Jim and John Fry, two sisters, June Johnson, Julia Jarrett, his wife, Donna, wife Betty Sue, and son, Joe Don Fry in 2016.

Joe was a farmer, rancher and retired in 1994 as a truck driver for Yellow Freight Lines after a 40-year career. In 1993, Joe was named the Kansas Driver of the Year by the Kansas Motor Carrier Assoc, He received numerous safety and driving awards, which included 5 million accident-free miles driven.

If you knew Joe, you knew he was a man of faith and was not shy about sharing what God had done for him in his life. He taught Sunday School, served as Sunday School Superintendent and was an elder of Keelville Church, rural Baxter Springs. He was known by many as a Bible Scholar and he loved to teach on the book of Revelation.

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Miles "Andy" Andrew Kress - April 21, 1961 - February 17, 2024

Departed: 02/17/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Miles (“Andy”) Andrew Kress of Baxter Springs, KS, passed away from this life on February 17, 2024, due to a long illness. He was born in Baxter Springs, KS on April 21, 1961 to the union of Harry Wesley and Loretta Mae (Baker) Kress.

Andy owned and operated Andy’s Home Improvements as a carpenter, until he fell ill with heart complications in the late 90’s. He continued working in the construction industry on and off. Andy enjoyed staying busy, working on cars and various projects. One of his many talents was the ability of creating unique furniture pieces out of just about anything.

Andy never met a stranger. He was known for his jokes, humor, and his onery behavior. Up until the day he passed, he was sharing the most absurd stories making everyone in the room laugh. He found healing in poetry and art and shared that gift with everyone too.

Andy’s heart was enormous, full of love, and people were drawn to it. Through his struggles, one thing remained; he loved everyone genuinely. He especially cherished his daughters. He enjoyed spending quality time with them and fishing with his grandkids. He had a special bond with everyone in his family and he made his time with each of them special, especially in his last years.

Andy is preceded in death by both of his parents; a sister, Janice Nellums; and two brothers, Eric “Teddy” Kress, and Ronald Kress.

Survivors include 6 daughters: Becky (Morris) Williams of Miami, OK; ReGenia Brown of Joplin, MO; Lorraine (Jeffery) Sargent of Baxter Springs, KS; Adrienne’ (Cody) Marney of Webb City, MO; Meryl (Tyrell) Brown of Carl Junction, MO; and Megan Kress of Baxter Springs, KS; two sisters, Pam (Tom) Faneole, and Barbara Kress; 4 brothers, John (Genii) Kress, Wesley (Linda) Kress, Terryl Kress, and Steven Kress; one ex wife, Kathleen (Ferron) Krokroskia; 11 grandchildren, Garrett, Adrienne’, Keely, Miley, Christianna, Sawyer, William, Bennett, Christian, Baker, & Conner; and many nieces, nephews, and cousins.

A celebration of life will be on Wednesday, February 21, 2024 at 10:00 am at Father’s House Church in Miami, OK. Pastor Joe Walden and Pastor Kristy Bauer will officiate. The family will welcome guests for dinner following the service. Click this link to view additional details about Miles's Services, including any available live streams: https://my.gather.app/remember/miles-kress

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Jerry Norman - December 19, 1934 - February 17, 2024

Departed: 02/17/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Jerry Norman, 89 of Baxter Springs, KS passed from this life on Saturday, February 17, 2024 at Freeman Hospital, Joplin, MO.

Jerry was born December 19, 1934 to John Norman and Faye (Norman) Moore. Jerry was united in marriage to Glenda (Hewkin) Norman. Before moving to Baxter Springs, they had lived in Laughlin, NV, Fairfield, CA, Las Vegas, NV, and Corpus Christi, TX. Jerry retired after serving in the United States Air Force for twenty years. While in the Air Force he served during Korea and Vietnam. He then worked for a short time in civil service. Jerry enjoyed airplanes, guns, thrift shopping and traveling to name a few.

Jerry is preceded in death by his parents; wife, Glenda Norman; along with his brothers.

Jerry is survived by three daughters, Paula Sue Doran (Shawn) of Fairfield, CA, Lisa Norman of Sacramento, CA, and Julia Brackfield of Vacaville, CA; son, Jerry Norman Jr. (Julie) of Moville, IA; brother, Dave Norman; six grandchildren and eight great grandchildren.

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Edwin Eugene Thomas - September 12, 1944 - February 13, 2024

Departed: 02/13/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Edwin Eugene Thomas, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, passed away on February 13th, 2024 in Baxter Springs, Kansas. He was born on September 12th, 1944 in Miami, Oklahoma to loving parents who instilled in him the values of hard work and selflessness.

After serving his country with honor and dedication for six years in the United States Army, Edwin went on to become a pillar of his community as the founder of World Mission Builders. His passion for service and devotion to helping others knew no bounds. He dedicated his life to spreading the word of God and God’s love through his mission work, building over 367 churches, orphanages, bible colleges, etc. Baptizing over 307,000 people in over 50 countries through the years. Preformed over 100 marriages.

Edwin's impact extended far beyond his professional endeavors. He was a devoted family man who cherished every moment spent with those he held dear. His wife Pat stood by his side through thick and thin; their bond was unbreakable. Together they raised three wonderful children: Becky Brown, Susan Womack, and Tommy Thomas.

His son-in-law Bobby Womack became like a son to him over the years while Jennifer Thomas became an integral part of their family when she married into it. Edwin adored each one of them as if they were his own flesh and blood.

The light of Edwin's life shone brightly through the eyes of his grandchildren: Kyleigh Brock, Nicole Thomas, Raygun Buzzard; as well as great-grandchildren Leighton Brock and Everleigh Brock - all whom he loved dearly.

Edwin will be remembered not only for what he accomplished but also for how he lived - always putting others before himself without expecting anything in return. His unwavering faith guided him throughout every trial that came his way.

Funeral services will be held at Derfelt Funeral Homes in Baxter Springs on Monday February 19th at 10:00 am where friends and family can gather together to celebrate Edwin's remarkable life while finding solace in each other during this difficult time.

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Frank Schmidt - January 24, 1951 - February 08, 2024

Departed: 02/08/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Frank Richard Schmidt, age 83, of Webb City, Missouri passed away Thursday, February 8, 2024.

Frank was born January 24, 1941, to the late Frank Charles, SR. and Helen (Majdanewski) Schmidt in Chicago, Illinois. He married Beverley Lou (Gregory) Brannon in Bridgeview, Illinois on December 24, 1992. He worked as an Operations Supervisor for Yellow Freight in Chicago Ridge, IL retiring in August of 1999. After retiring Frank and Beverley moved to Joplin, MO where Frank later went to work for and retired from Wal Mart. Frank was a Korean War veteran serving in the United States Army.

Survivors include his wife, Beverley; one son: Frankie Schmidt (wife Leeann) of Pingree Grove, Illinois; stepsons: Gregory Simpson (wife Lisa) of Quapaw, Oklahoma, and Clayton Simpson (wife Shelley) of Benton, Arkansas; two daughters: Laurie Lee of Fairfield, Iowa, and Jennifer Wofford of Miami, Oklahoma; eight grandchildren; and three great grandchildren.

He was preceded in death by four brothers; and one sister.

A memorial service is scheduled for 2:00 PM Tuesday, February 13, 2024, in the Derfelt’s Baxter Chapel. Burial will follow in the Lowell Cemetery; Baxter Springs American Legion will provide Military Honors. Cremation arrangements are under the direction of the Derfelt Funeral Home, Baxter Springs, Kansas

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Richard Eugene Rawlings - May 04, 1951 - February 07, 2024

Departed: 02/07/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Richard Eugene Rawlings, 72 of Fairland, Oklahoma passed from this life on Wednesday, February 7, 2024 at his home surrounded by family.

Richard was born May 4, 1951 in Pittsburg, Kansas to the union of Wilmer and Josephine (Fraley) Rawlings. Richard graduated high school in Liberal, Missouri. He was owner-operator of Trees’ N More and was a landscaper for over 30 years, retiring in 2015. Richard had several hobbies that he enjoyed from Car Clubs to classic car show, drag racing, deer hunting, gardening, traveling, cooking and BBQing, but most of all spending time with his friends and family.

Richard was united in marriage to Martha (Mitchell) Rawlings on September 23, 2013, in Jamaica, she survives of the home. Additional survivors include, two sons, Jamey Rawlings of Covina, CA, and Clint Rawlings of Miami, OK; daughter, Jessica Mullin of Miami, OK; stepson, Jared Tunnell of Webb City, MO; two stepdaughters, Natalie Zanatta (John) of Baxter Springs, KS, and Lacey Myers of Columbus, GA; three grandchildren, Arlo, Corbin, and Jake; four step grandchildren, Dylan, Cassie, Hunter, Elliott.

Richard is preceded in death by his parents, Wilmer and Josephine Rawlings.

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Janet L Pickrell - September 05, 1940 - January 25, 2024

Departed: 01/25/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: Baxter Springs, KS: Janet Lynn Pickrell, age 83 of Baxter Springs, passed away at 11:25 AM on Thursday, January 25, 2024 in Joplin, MO.

Janet was born on September 05, 1940 to Alton A. Willard and Crystal J. Willard. She graduated from Baxter High School in 1958. Janet was a lifetime resident of Baxter Springs.

She earned an associate degree in Nursing and was a licensed practical nurse. She worked at Baxter Memorial Hospital for many years. She then began working for Dr. L C Pickrell, and retired from Dr. Eaton’s office in Baxter Springs.

She was a member of First Presbyterian Church in Baxter Springs, and enjoyed working crosswords, making crafts, painting, horses, taking care of her dogs, and working outside in the yard. She enjoyed flowers, and volunteering at the local Museum.

Janet was first married to Herbert Weaver in 1960. He passed away in 2005. She later married Dr. L C Pickrell in December of 1994. He passed away in 1995. Also preceded in death by her parents; 2 grandkids, Jorianna Weaver and Joeligh Weaver; and one sister, Jackie Miner.

She is survived by three sons, Hal Weaver (wife, Shawnda) of Riverton, Stanley Weaver (wife, Helen) of Galena, and Bruce Weaver (wife, Kathy) of Baxter Springs; one brother, Mike Willard of Miami, OK; 6 grandchildren, Dru Weaver, Hallie Weaver, Skyler Wilkinson, Casey Jacob, Jesse Weaver, and Neali Weaver; and several great-grandchildren.

Funeral Services will be 10:30 AM, Tuesday January 30, 2024 at the First Presbyterian Church in Baxter Springs, KS. Larry Gant and Christine Iannucilli will officiate. A private burial will be in Lowell Cemetery.

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John Lee Sterbenz - August 09, 1945 - January 17, 2024

Departed: 01/17/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: John Lee Sterbenz, 78 of Baxter Springs, KS passed from this life on Wednesday, January 17, 2024 at Quaker Hill Skilled Nursing Facility.

John has been entrusted to Derfelt's Baxter Chapel for cremation. No services are planned at this time.

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William "Bill" Wayne Wilson - April 10, 1938 - January 17, 2024

Departed: 01/17/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: William “Bill” W. Wilson, 85, passed from this life on Wednesday, January 17, 2024 in Baxter Springs.

Bill was born April 10, 1938 in rural Riverton, KS to the union of William A. and Lula Mae (Smith) Wilson. Bill was a longtime resident of Baxter Springs, KS.

Bill was united in marriage to Mary A. (Kane) Wilson on November 6, 1960 in Lawrence, KS. This past year they celebrated 63 years together.

Bill is survived by his wife Mary of the home; two daughters, LuAnne Hebert (Jim) of Joplin, MO, Teri Mitchell of Mannford, OK; son, William W. Wilson Jr. (Cindy) of Joplin, MO; 16 grandchildren, and 14 great grandchildren.

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Bessie Norman - October 07, 1936 - January 15, 2024

Departed: 01/15/2024 (Baxter Springs)

Obituary Preview: The following obituary was lovingly composed by Bessie's family:

Our beloved mother, Bessie A. Norman of Baxter Springs, Kansas, entered the arms of Jesus on Jan.15th 2024.

Bessie was born Oct.7th 1936 to Vern N Davis and Alta F. Lathrope Davis. Bessie is preceded in death by her parents, sisters Betty and Judy, and brothers Bill and Ron. One sister survives, Verna Lee of California.

Bessie was a homemaker and enjoyed cooking, ceramics, and raising her kids and grandchildren. Bessie was a very long charter member of the First Church of the Nazarene in Baxter Springs, which she enjoyed many roles within the church. Bessie believed in planting the seed about Jesus in her children, and grandchildren, and many other children that she got the opportunity to share about Jesus. Bessie loved Bible school and looked forward to this every summer. Bessie attended Lebanon schools and graduated from Lebanon High with the class of 1954.

Bessie met the love of her life at the "ice cream parlor" that she worked at in Lebanon and often reminisced on giving "Jimmie" two scoops for a nickel! Jimmie Dwayne Norman and Bessie Ailene Davis were united in marriage on Jan 9, 1955. Unto this union was born Dwayna Lynn Norman of Kansas City MO, Kenneth Brian Norman, John Douglas Norman, Delora Beth Oliver, (Lori), Miami, OK, Leigh Ann Smith and Barry of Baxter Springs, KS, and Steven Dwayne Norman and Brandi of Joplin, MO. Bessie and Jimmie lovingly raised Charles Noble Davis of Baxter Springs, KS (son of Ron Davis, Bessie's brother).

Bessie is preceded in death by her loving husband Jimmie, and sons Kenneth and John Norman.

Bessie and Jimmie have 15 grandchildren and 23 great-grandchildren in Kansas, Missouri, Oklahoma, California, Colorado, and Texas. Bessie's legacy will live on in the hearts of these many children and they will fondly remember her and the lifetime of memories she has given them.

Our hearts will always be sad with your passing "momma", but we will take comfort and find peace in knowing that you are resting in the arms of Jesus and are once again reunited with your one and only true love our daddy Jimmie Dwayne and our brothers. We will love you forever mom, better than "Gold or Sunshine". Death is never final if you have accepted Jesus Christ into your heart as your Lord and Savior and with knowing this about you momma.... We will see you again. 😇

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A Team of Caring Professionals

The team at Derfelt Funeral Home is comprised of experienced and dedicated professionals who are passionate about providing exceptional care and support to families. From funeral directors to support staff, each member of the team is trained to provide compassionate and personalized service, ensuring that every family receives the attention and care they deserve. With a deep understanding of the grieving process, the team at Derfelt Funeral Home is equipped to guide families through the funeral planning process with sensitivity and expertise.

Personalized Funeral Services

At Derfelt Funeral Home, every family is unique, and every funeral service is tailored to reflect the personality, interests, and preferences of the loved one being honored. From traditional funeral services to cremation ceremonies, memorial gatherings, and celebrations of life, the team at Derfelt Funeral Home works closely with families to create meaningful and memorable experiences that pay tribute to their loved one. With a focus on personalization, this funeral home offers a range of options, including customized caskets, urns, and memorial products, as well as specialized services such as veteran's tributes and themed funerals.

Facilities and Amenities

The facilities at Derfelt Funeral Home are designed to provide families with a comfortable and welcoming environment in which to gather, share memories, and celebrate the life of their loved one. The funeral home features spacious chapels, visitation rooms, and gathering areas, as well as ample parking and convenient accessibility. In addition, Derfelt Funeral Home offers a range of amenities, including audio-visual equipment, catering services, and online obituaries and condolences.

Community Involvement

Derfelt Funeral Home is deeply rooted in the Baxter Springs community and is committed to giving back through various outreach programs and initiatives. From supporting local charities and organizations to participating in community events and sponsoring educational seminars, this funeral home is dedicated to making a positive impact on the lives of those they serve. By fostering strong relationships with local businesses, churches, and civic groups, Derfelt Funeral Home remains an integral part of the fabric of the community.

Pre-Planning and Aftercare Services

In addition to providing exceptional funeral services, Derfelt Funeral Home also offers pre-planning and aftercare services designed to support families before, during, and after the funeral process. Through their pre-planning program, individuals can take control of their final arrangements, ensuring that their wishes are respected and their loved ones are protected from unnecessary burden. Following the funeral service, Derfelt Funeral Home provides ongoing support through their aftercare program, which includes grief counseling resources, memorialization options, and commemorative events.

A Commitment to Excellence

At Derfelt Funeral Home, excellence is not just a goal – it's a standard. This funeral home is committed to providing exceptional service quality, ensuring that every family receives the highest level of care and attention. Through continuous training, education, and improvement initiatives, the team at Derfelt Funeral Home strives to stay ahead of industry trends and best practices, guaranteeing that families receive the very best support during their time of need.

A Message from Derfelt Funeral Home

"At Derfelt Funeral Home, we understand that losing a loved one is one of life's most difficult challenges. That's why we're here – to provide comfort, support, and guidance during your time of need. Our team is dedicated to creating meaningful experiences that honor your loved one's memory while providing you with peace of mind. Trust us to take care of you – we'll be there every step of the way."

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and any notable achievements.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to inform friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, a family member or close friend writes an obituary, although it can also be written by a funeral home or other authorized party. The writer should have personal knowledge of the deceased and be able to provide accurate and meaningful information.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service (if applicable), hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their personality, accomplishments, and any notable achievements.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words. Longer obituaries may be more suitable for online platforms or memorial websites.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can help to personalize the tribute and make it more engaging for readers.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Be prepared to provide the necessary information and payment (if required) for publication.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can ensure that your life story is told accurately and in your own words.

What is a self-written obituary called?

A self-written obituary is often referred to as a "self-obit" or "autobit."

How far in advance can I write my own obituary?

You can write your own obituary at any time, but it's recommended to do so when you're still in good health and have a clear mind. Some people choose to write theirs in their 50s or 60s, while others may wait until later in life.

What are some tips for writing a great obituary?

To write a great obituary, focus on telling a story that captures the person's personality, achievements, and spirit. Use specific anecdotes and details to bring the person to life, and avoid clichés or generic phrases.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, humor can be an effective way to celebrate the person's life and personality. However, be sure to use discretion and avoid offending anyone who may be grieving.

How do I handle sensitive or private information in an obituary?

If there's sensitive or private information you'd like to share about the person, consider consulting with family members or close friends before including it in the obituary. Remember that the goal is to honor the person's memory, not cause unnecessary distress.

Can I include charitable donations or memorial information in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to include information about charitable donations or memorial services in the obituary. This can help to continue the person's legacy and support a worthy cause.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or online platform. Typically, it takes anywhere from a few hours to several days for an obituary to appear in print or online.

Can I edit or revise an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, revisions can be made before publication. However, once an obituary has been published, changes may be difficult or impossible to make. Be sure to proofread carefully before submitting the final version.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is typically a brief announcement of someone's passing, whereas an obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

Can I publish an obituary online only?

Yes, many online platforms and memorial websites allow you to publish an obituary without printing it in a physical newspaper. This can be a cost-effective and environmentally friendly option.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, word count, and other factors. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to $1,000 or more for publication in a newspaper or online platform.

Can I reuse an existing obituary template?

Yes, you can use an existing template as a starting point for writing your own obituary. However, be sure to customize it thoroughly to reflect the unique personality and story of the deceased.

What are some common mistakes to avoid when writing an obituary?

Can I include quotes or poems in an obituary?

Yes, quotes or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person's personality or spirit.

How do I handle multiple marriages or complicated family relationships in an obituary?

Can I include pets in an obituary?

Yes, many people choose to acknowledge their beloved pets as part of their family in the obituary. This can be a touching way to celebrate their importance in the person's life.

What happens if there are errors or inaccuracies in an already-published obituary?

If you discover errors or inaccuracies after publication, contact the publication or online platform immediately. They may be able to correct the mistake or issue a correction notice.