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Paul Myers - Unknown - July 11, 2022

Departed: 07/11/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Paul Myers, 96, of Milford, beloved husband of the late Virginia Myers, passed away peacefully on July 11, 2022 in his home with his family by his side. Paul was born on March 9, 1926 in Milford.

Paul is survived by his step-children, Victoria, Eileen, and James Longo; grandchildren, Christopher (Karrey) Marron, Kevin (Samantha) Marron, and Daniel Marron; great-grandchildren, Nicholas, K.C., and Alexandria Marron; and extended family and friends.

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James Glass Turnbull - August 06, 1953 - July 09, 2022

Departed: 07/09/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: James Glass Turnbull, 68, of Milford, beloved husband of Melissa (Hopkins) Turnbull, passed away on July 9, 2022. Born on August 6, 1953 in New Rochelle, NY, he was the son of James Glass Turnbull, Sr. and the late Jo Golliday Turnbull.

In addition to his father and his wife, James is survived by his children, Jamie (Roxy) Turnbull, Kate (Sean & Winnie) Fisher, and Alexandra (Matthew Jurczyk & Harry) Turnbull.

To all, James was known as the life of the party, someone you could talk to about anything, and of course, the most amazing chef. He was a friend to all, whether you were close to him, or checking out his groceries. He knew everyone's name & life story because he was genuinely interested. He had a super power of making you feel special in a way no one else could. James was an avid reader & writer and always used his personal experiences to tell a story. His sense of humor brightened every room and to most, an uncontrollable laughter to follow. He loved his children more than anything in the world and will be deeply missed. Papa, Mr. T, JG, you will be loved always.

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Philomena Birch - April 14, 1942 - July 09, 2022

Departed: 07/09/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Philomena Mary Baldino Birch entered into eternal rest at her home on July 9, 2022 with her children by her side. Philomena was born on April 14, 1942 in Bridgeport, and was the wife of the late John R. Birch, Sr. and the daughter of the late Pasquale and Jennie Baldino.

Philomena is survived by her children, John R. Birch, Jr. and his wife Jan of West Haven, Marie Brackett of Milford and Christopher Birch of Milford; grandchildren, John R. Birch, III, Michael John Brackett and Shaina Birch; grand-dog, Pierre; sisters-in-law, Ginny Baldino, Joyce Birch, and Janis Scharn; brother-in-law, Major Birch; her caregiver and cousin, Liz Wiliston; and many special nieces, nephews, cousins, relatives and friends. Philomena was also predeceased by her sister, Jean Riccio and brother-in-law, Bob; and her brothers, Dominic Baldino, and Pasquale Baldino and sister-in-law, Ann Mary.

Philomena lost her battle with cancer but always had a positive outlook and enjoyed her last months with many visits from her nieces, cousins and friends. Philomena took pride in her home and enjoyed her yardwork and flowers, she loved to read and spend time with her family. Philomena was that second mom to everyone- she worked in the kitchen at Live Oaks School in Milford for many years and spread her cheerfulness to co-workers as well as students.

Friends and family may gather on Wednesday, July 13, 2022 from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME 107 Broad St., Milford, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. on Thursday, July 14, 2022 at Saint Gabriel Church (Saint Raphael Parish) 26 Broadway, Milford, CT 06460. Interment will follow at Saint Michael Cemetery 2205 Stratford Ave., Stratford, CT 06615.

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Chance Dian Thompson - May 24, 2003 - July 09, 2022

Departed: 07/09/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Chance Dian Thompson, 19, of Orange, beloved daughter of Misty Thompson, passed away on July 9, 2022. She was born on May 24, 2003 in Phoenix, Arizona.

Chance was an honors graduate of The Sound School and currently enrolled as a sophomore at Eastern Connecticut State University where she was majoring in history and minoring in anthropology.  Chance had many passions in life from reading, volunteering at the Orange Historical Society, watching anime with her best friend Emma, planning her future or just hanging out with her many friends to name a few.

Her love for reading was immense.  She would visit a bookstore and always walk out with more than 1 book.

In addition to reading, Chance loved history, especially European history for which her college major was focused on.  She planned to visit Italy during her senior year of high school, but was unable due to COVID.  That didn’t deter her as she was planning not only to visit Italy, but other areas of Europe as well in the coming year.

Chance was one of the youngest elected board members of the Orange Historical Society where she volunteered often.

Most importantly Chance cared more about others than herself.  If she wasn’t helping someone with homework, offering her shoulder to cry on, encouraging others to preserver no matter what the odds were or just helping a complete stranger.  Chance impacted the lives of so many people in such a positive way that can’t be measured.

Along with her mom, Chance leaves behind her brother, Bryant Vanderlei; grandfather, Glen “Poppy” Ritzman; aunts and uncle, Kristy and Will Yocum, Jennifer Kline, and Jennifer Van Etten; cousins, Amanda, Jonathan, Marissa, Aaliyah, and Tavion; great uncle, Eugene Ries; godparents Lisa and Chris Dunn; father figure Allan Cox Jr., and many pets and good friends. She was predeceased by her grandmother, Sherrie Ritzman and great grandparents, Dian and Harlan Ries.

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Joseph J. Rackiewicz, Jr. - January 16, 1941 - July 07, 2022

Departed: 07/07/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Joseph J. Rackiewicz Jr. (Jay), 81, of Milford, beloved husband of the late Sharon Rackiewicz, passed away peacefully at home on July 7, 2022, after a brief battle with cancer. Born on January 16, 1941 in Bridgeport, he was the son of the late Sophia and Joseph J. Rackiewicz Sr.  Joe was a 1958 graduate of Fairfield Prep and attended Fairfield University from 1958-1961, ultimately achieving his B.S. in Mechanical Engineering from Bridgeport Engineering Institute (B.E.I.) in 1971.  Joe’s incredible work ethic allowed him to simultaneously earn his degree, work in his field and raise a family. From 1963 to 1969, he served in the Army National Guard, 242nd Engineering Battalion in Stratford. He had a 51-year career in the field of engineering most notably with Sikorsky Aircraft/United Technologies as a Materials Engineer. What family, friends and strangers will remember most however is his deep love and lifelong passion for bass fishing. For over 30 years, he was a member of the CT Yankee Bassmasters, serving many years as Treasurer. He was also a member and Youth Director of The Bass Federation of Connecticut. Over the years, he mentored many young anglers to help foster a love for the sport of bass fishing. Most recently, he was a member of the Bio Bass Anglers, an affiliated club of TBF of CT.

Joseph leaves behind his loving children, John Rackiewicz, James (Laura) Rackiewicz, and Christina (Buddy) Prete; grandchildren, Thomas and Alan Rackiewicz and Makenna and Matthew Prete; as well as a sister, sister-in-law Marion Clare, nephew Jeff Clare and his wife Jennifer, niece Alison Clare, and friends.

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Cynthia Pepe - September 14, 1973 - July 05, 2022

Departed: 07/05/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Cynthia L. Pepe, 48, of Milford, passed away on July 5, 2022. Born on September 14, 1973 in Milford, CT, she is the beloved daughter of Ernest and Elaine (Sebas) Pepe.

From the earliest years of Cindy's childhood, she was always a force to be reckoned with, in all the best ways. Her kindness was limitless, her giving nature was unparalleled, & her passion for the things she loved pushed her to always go above and beyond.

Cindy grew up on the football fields, with a whistle in her mouth, admiring her father as he coached teams to victory. Like him, she became quite the athlete in high school, as well as sharing her beautiful voice and pursuing her love of music in the school choir. It was also in school, that she met Theodore, or T.J. Stanko, who she would someday marry. Together, Cindy and T.J. had two children, and Cindy always said that was the most beautiful thing he ever gave her. Out of all the accomplishments Cindy achieved in her life, she undoubtedly was made to be a Mom. She supported, loved-on, and was the biggest cheerleader in Samantha & Tyler’s lives, and she tried her best not to miss a single moment.

Selfless; Cindy was the embodiment of acts of service. She never had much, but she behaved as though she had the world to give. The shirt on her back was yours, even if it was her last one, if only it could make someone happy.

Whether it was buying a homeless person a hotel room on a cold night, or throwing endless fundraisers/benefit concerts for a recent tragedy, Cindy just wanted to do her part to make the world better & kinder.

At the Boy Scouts of America, she spent many years as the Program Assistant, but Cindy often well exceeded her job description. One of her projects she was most proud of was her active role in making Cub Scout Day Camp a success for all kids. For two years, she even worked as a team with her daughter to put on a program they designed side by side.

It was later in her life, however, that during a pandemic, Cindy and her daughter decided they wanted to impact a community with the gift of health, wellness, & Good Vibes. With the help of family and friends, they opened up Good Vibes Nutrition, in the small town of North Branford, CT. It was Cindy who came up with their mission statement; For every person who walked through their doors to leave feeling better than when they first came in, & know that all people were welcome if only they upheld two simple words: Be Kind.

Customers quickly became friends, and those friends quickly became family, and with the help of an amazing group affectionately coined, the ‘Good Vibes Girls’, the space transformed into Cindy’s happy place. Cindy loved to sit on the couch with a tea in hand & friends at her side; greeting every person, kiddo, or fur-baby, that stopped by. Sometimes her boy would stop by for a shake, while they handed out handwritten tags, known as ‘Extra Good Vibes’, written by her Mama to make someone’s day a little brighter.

Cindy’s proudest moments were often through a mother’s eyes; working a business she loved with her daughter Samantha, & watching her son Tyler graduate as a New Haven Fire Fighter.

She loved to goof around, go on long drives without a particular destination, and sing her heart out like no one was watching, even if it was just to her dog Tessa. Her legacy can be summed up with this quote: “The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.” ~ Pablo Picasso

In addition to her parents, Cindy is survived by her daughter, Samantha (Bryan Creevy) Pepe; son, Tyler Stanko; and her favorite children, Klausy Poo and Tessa Gray. She is also survived by her close friends, Jennifer O’Connor Condriet, Linda Creevy, Jeff Garrand, Diana Knapp, and Tiffany Arsenault; honorary daughter Ruth Collier, her ‘Good Vibes Girls’, and many extended family members. Cindy was predeceased by one of her best friends, Herb Kemp ‘Kempy’.

A gathering of friends and family will take place on Wednesday, July 13, 2022 from 4 p.m. to 8 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME 107 Broad St., Milford, CT 06460. Interment will be private. In honor of Cindy, you are welcome to send flowers in her loving memory, or make a donation to a cause she was passionate about: the Dan Cosgroves Animal Shelter, in Branford, CT. Cindy believed that every fur-baby(animal) deserves a good home, & if she could she wished she could take them all in herself.

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Annabelle Lanci - July 10, 1928 - July 03, 2022

Departed: 07/03/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Annabelle Lanci, 93, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Patrick Lanci, passed away peacefully surrounded by her family on July 3, 2022 at her home. Born on July 10, 1928 in Bronx, NY she was the daughter of the late Frederick and Anna Cipolli.

Annabelle was extremely family oriented and loved spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. She enjoyed many years of traveling around the world with her husband Patrick. Annabelle was best known for her amazing cooking and her annual Fourth of July parties.

Annabelle is survived by her loving children, Patricia (Richard) Fausel, Robert (Joan) Lanci, Maureen (Colin) Lawless, and Ann-Marie (Matthew) Lee; cherished grandchildren, Deborah, Sandra (Brad), Kristin (Sam), Lori (Christopher), Wendi (Alex), Sean, Alyssa, and Nicholas; adoring great grandchildren, Noah, Carter, Jayden, Gianna, Kamden, Liliana, Dominic, and Madelyn “Dolly”, the past 3 years her little Dolly is what kept her happiness and joy going; siblings, Richard Cipolli and Joanne Uvenio; sister-in-law, Doris Mariano; and many extended family and friends. She was predeceased by her sister, Ida Schaney.

The family gives special thanks to Annabelle’s caregivers: Wendi, Alyssa, Erika, Vicki, and Cassandra for their compassion and care.

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Roger D. Ames - November 06, 1941 - July 02, 2022

Departed: 07/02/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Roger D. Ames, Sr., 80, of Milford, beloved husband of Joyce M. (Penny) Ames, entered into eternal rest on July 2, 2022.  Born on November 6, 1940 in Bridgeport, he was the son of the late Albert Ames and Bertha (Raugh) Ames.

Roger was a U.S. Navy veteran, and very active in his childrens’ lives, be that in church activities, school and scout groups, and their time in drum and bugle corps, when he would often leave with them for rehearsal early to transport multiple other corps members, as well as chaperoning the group on multi-state tours. He was also an avid hunter through the years, enjoyed tending to his garden, and was a voracious reader.

In addition to his wife of fifty-seven years, Roger is survived by his son Roger, Jr., and his wife Dawn, of Seymour; his son Bryan and his wife Stephanie, of Northford; his daughter Dawn, of Milford; and Linda (Beers) Ames, of Milford; as well as three grandchildren, Dylan Ames of Milford, and Eden and Elora Ames, of Northford.

The family asks that you join them on Monday, July 11, between 4:00 p.m. and 6:00 p.m. to remember and celebrate Roger, at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad St., Milford CT, where a memorial service will be held at 5:30 p.m.

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Dina Marie Parlato - August 09, 1972 - July 02, 2022

Departed: 07/02/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Dina Marie Parlato, Age 49, of Shelton, beloved daughter of  Linda and Dick Parlato , passed away peacefully with her family by her side in hospice on July 2nd. Dina was born on August 9, 1972 in New Haven. She leaves behind her brother and protector Christopher (Amy) Parlato, her loving niece Olivia and nephew Oliver of Cheshire. Dina was always happy and the life of the party. Dina’s outgoing personality, kindness and sense of humor touched everyone who knew her. The lives of many are better because of Dina.

Dina will be missed by many aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. Dina participated in the Special Olympics for over forty years and loved bowling, swimming, tennis, and basketball. She worked at St. Vincent’s special needs day program where she touched many people and brought joy and laughter to clients and staff. Dina enjoyed spending summers in Sound Beach swimming in the ocean surrounded by family.

She resided at Cloverdale Group Home in Shelton where she was loved and cared for around the clock.

Thank you to the staff at Cloverdale, Hospice of Branford and her nurses at Bridgeport Hospital especially Agatha and Kayann.

Her family would like her to know that she is “loved dearly”.

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William "Bo" Edward Hyatt - January 26, 1954 - July 01, 2022

Departed: 07/01/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: William Edward Hyatt, known to his friends and family as “Bo”, 68, of Milford, passed away on July 1, 2022. Born on January 26, 1954 he was the son of the late Harry and Jean Hyatt.

Bo was a Milford resident his whole life. He was a Milford Fireman for over 30 years and retired as a Battalion Chief. He was very involved with the city of Milford even after retirement. Whether it was dispatching, boating, volunteering with retired colleagues, or having his scanner on 24/7, his love for the city of Milford, and especially the people, was strong.

Bo loved NASCAR, traveling, and spending time with family and loved ones; especially his granddaughters Kayla and Reylynn. He enjoyed spending time with his dog Blaze, to the point everyone in the center of town knew them as a pair together. He enjoyed cruising to Fort Trumbull Beach and loved the calmness of the water and the views of Charles Island.

Bo is survived by his daughter Jennifer and his son in law Ryan, along with his two granddaughters, Kayla and Reylynn. He is also survived by Donna Hyatt, Jennifer’s mother; brother Jack and wife Carol Hyatt, brother Tim and wife Dawn Hyatt, brother Bobby and wife Sandy Hyatt and sister Mary and husband Sam B; long time companion Susan Holms, along with many cousins. “UB” is also survived by many niece’s, nephews and great niece’s and nephews.

“You have two choices in life, you can choose to laugh or choose to cry; I choose to laugh”-Dad, Bo, Pop, UB, friend, you will be missed.

A Mass of Christian Burial will take place on Saturday, July 9, 2022 at 10:30 a.m. at Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish), 70 Gulf Street, Milford. MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH. The family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460.

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Jack Joseph Pargen - March 21, 2009 - June 30, 2022

Departed: 06/30/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Jack Joseph Pargen, 13, of Milford, passed away peacefully into eternal rest on June 30, 2022. Born on March 21, 2009 in New Haven, he was the son of Johnny and Pamela Pargen.

Jack blessed everyone he touched. He was a country and blues lover, as music made him smile with his infamous “ahhh”. Traveling was Jack’s jam. At the beach Jack was happiest with his toes in the sand, wind in his hair, hanging in his chair. As much as he enjoyed the beach, lake time was cherished family time, hanging on “Jacks dock”, taking afternoon boat rides and hiking with dad in his backpack.

Jack had the best time with all of his friends. They danced with him, read with him and lovingly cared for him.

Home life was all about snuggling with dad, napping with Brady and kisses from mom.

Along with his parents, Jack leaves behind Brady, his aunts and uncles, Gerhard (Evelyn) Pargen, Jeanne Bodine Pritchard, Barbara (Edward) Winkler, Deborah (Dominic) Mittelholzer, and Wayne Schrimp; cousins, Arianna Pargen, Barrett Pritchard, Nash Pritchard, Daniel Cerretelli, Christopher Cerretelli, Mariah Medina, and Olivia Mittelholzer; grandmother, Erna Pargen; and many more cousins, extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his maternal grandparents and paternal grandfather.

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Robert Earl LaBelle - August 20, 1927 - June 30, 2022

Departed: 06/30/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Robert Earle LaBelle, 95, beloved husband of the late Catherine Ann LaBelle, passed away peacefully on June 30, 2022. Born on August 20, 1927 in Montgomery, VT, he was the son of the late Clarence and Iva LaBelle. Robert enjoyed many years of traveling. He was an avid golfer as well, even building his dream home on a golf course.

Robert leaves behind his children, Richard LaBelle, Barbara Walters, and Carol Larson; seven grandchildren; and seven great-grandchildren. He was predeceased by his son, Robert LaBelle.

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Peter M. Rembetsy Jr. - November 23, 1945 - June 29, 2022

Departed: 06/29/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Peter M. Rembetsy, Jr, of Fairfield, Connecticut, beloved husband of Rosemary, passed away peacefully in the company of his family on June 29, 2022.  Born in Boston, Massachusetts, he was the son of Peter M. Rembetsy Sr. and the late Margaret Walsh Rembetsy. Because he knew how to do almost everything, he was a true renaissance man.  He loved all things outdoors and enjoyed sharing his knowledge with his children and grandchildren.  His passion for the arts was exceeded only by his love for his family.

Peter is survived by his wife, Rosemary and his father, Peter M. Rembetsy, Sr.; his two sons, Michael (Susan) of Berkeley Heights NJ, and Jon (Annie) Rembetsy of Whispering Pines N.C.; and his seven grandchildren, Christopher, Bear, Tyler, Lily, Piper, Rowan and Stephen.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Tuesday, July 5, 2022 from 9:00 am to 11:00 am at the Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460.  A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Tuesday, July 5, 2022 at 11:30 am at Saint Mary’s Church, 70 Gulf Street, Milford CT, followed by an interment at St Mary’s Cemetery on Buckingham Ave, Milford CT.

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Katherine Macsata - April 24, 1932 - June 29, 2022

Departed: 06/29/2022 (Milford)

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All services will be private.

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RuthAnn Durgy - October 04, 1929 - June 26, 2022

Departed: 06/26/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: RuthAnn Ferris Durgy, 92, of Derby, CT, beloved wife of 57 years to the late Francis Merritt Durgy, passed away into the presence of the Lord on Sunday, June 26, 2022 at Bishop Wicke Health Center. She was the daughter of the late Franklyn and Ethel Ferris.

After graduation from Norwalk High School where she played clarinet in the band, she worked as a telephone operator. Later, she worked many years as a registered medical secretary, and following that served as administrator of a hospital emergency room. She enjoyed music, swimming, boating, and reading. She loved pets—especially dogs. A lifelong Methodist whose faith in Jesus Christ guided her life, she was known for uplifting others by her prayers, encouragement, and acts of kindness. She will be greatly missed by both family and friends.

RuthAnn is survived by one daughter, Lynn Durgy Maletick and her husband Michael of Manassas, VA; one son, Sterling Merritt Durgy and his wife Dorothy of Milford, CT; four grandchildren; and six great-grandchildren. She is predeceased by a half-brother, Charles Hlavac.

The family is being compassionately cared for by the staff at Cody-White Funeral Home, 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. Interment will be private. A Celebration of Life memorial service will be held at a time and place yet to be determined.

Memorial donations may be made to Bishop Wicke Health Center, 584 Long Hill Ave, Shelton, CT 06484 or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.

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Dorothy L. Marino - November 27, 1942 - June 25, 2022

Departed: 06/25/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Dorothy Marino, 79, of Milford, beloved wife to James Marino for 59 years, passed away on June 25, 2022. Born on November 27, 1942 in Bridgeport, CT, she was the daughter of the late Charles and Elsie (Carlson) Middlebrook.

In addition to her loving husband, Dorothy is survived by her children, Monica (Frank) Granito, Sandy (Brad) Conlan, James Marino, Toni-Anne (Michael) Weaver, and Robert Marino; her grandchildren, Frank, Jimmy Joe, Jake, Catherine, and Gunnar Granito, Wade and Aedan Conlan, Jimmy and Dylan Marino, Ashley Taber, Nickole (Alex) Duggan, and Elsa and Olivia Marino; sister-in-law, Lucille Ceresa; and nieces and nephew, Sonny and Kathy Twigg, Heather and Amber Middlebrook, and Katherine Giordano. Dorothy was predeceased by her brother, Charles Middlebrook and her granddaughter, Jackson Michaela Weaver.

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Howard Alan Harris - August 22, 1939 - June 24, 2022

Departed: 06/24/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Dr Howard Alan Harris, 82, of Orange, Connecticut, beloved husband of Carolyn Sher Harris, passed away peacefully on June 24, 2022.  Born on August 22, 1939 in Cleveland, Ohio, he was the son of the late Ben and Mary Bauman Harris.   In addition to his wife  Carolyn, he is survived by his daughter Lauren Harris Pitrak, son-in-law Jeffery Pitrak, as well as  three grandchildren Hunter, Trevor, and Dylan.

Howard earned a PhD in Organic Chemistry from Yale University and a JD from St Louis University School of Law.  The professional positions he held  include being a research chemist for Shell, Director of the New York City Crime Lab, Director of the Monroe County Public Safety Lab, and a Professor of Forensic Science at University of New Haven where he retired as a Professor Emeritus.  In his capacity as a Research Chemist and Forensic Scientist he co-authored three books and received five patents for his research.

All services will be private.

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Nellie Fraser - February 08, 1937 - June 22, 2022

Departed: 06/22/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Nellie Fraser, 85, of Milford, beloved wife of the late Jerry Fraser, Sr., passed away peacefully at her home on June 22, 2022. Born on February 8, 1937 in Costigan, Maine, she was the daughter of the late Ralph and Haddie Shriland.

Nellie leaves behind her children, Christine (Brian) Benway and Jerry (Kristin) Fraser, Jr.; grandchildren, Brian (Lauren) Benway, Jr., David (Lindsey) Benway, Michael (Taylor) Fraser, Austin Fraser, Christopher Fraser, and Samantha Fraser; great grandchildren, Matthew, Eric, Brody, Presley, and Tomas ( T.J.); her four legged babies, Emma and Max; and extended family and friends.

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Peter A. DiLeo - December 09, 1955 - June 22, 2022

Departed: 06/22/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Peter DiLeo, 66, of Milford, beloved husband of Eileen DiLeo, passed away peacefully at home on June 22, 2022 from complications due to Multiple Systems Atrophy (MSA). Born on December 9, 1955 in Bridgeport, he was the son of the late Louise and Peter DiLeo, Sr.

He was fortunate to have many life-long friends from his time growing up in Norwalk, studying at St. Bonaventure, living in Milford, and working at Reed Exhibitions and later The Job Shop Company. Together with his family, they enjoyed many years of sports, golf, and travel.

Along with his wife, Peter is survived by his son, Michael DiLeo; brother, Robert (Cynthia) DiLeo; father in-law Gene (Alice) Harrington; siblings-in-law, Maureen (Steven) Morris and John (Patricia) Harrington; nieces and nephews, Connor, Christopher (Carolyn), Natalie, Andrew, and Katelyn; and extended family.

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William Piazza - October 14, 1961 - June 19, 2022

Departed: 06/19/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: William John Piazza, 60, of Bridgeport passed away on June 19, 2022 after a yearlong battle with Cancer. Born on October 14, 1961 in Bridgeport, CT, he was the son of Betty (Mills) Piazza and the late John Piazza.

Billy was born and raised in Bridgeport, CT. In 1979 he joined the Marine Corp and spent 6 years (1979-1985) proudly serving his country. He lived on base at Camp Pendleton, California and spent time stationed in places such as the Philippines and Okinawa, Japan. During his time in the service he was a rifle sharp shooter and received a C service deployment ribbon.  He was a lover of technology and all things artistic but music was his lifelong passion. Some of his greatest moments were spent with a guitar in his hands.

Billy is survived by his mother and best friend Betty Joan Piazza of New York City, 4 sons: Joseph Buchanan (Caitlin), John Piazza, Michael Piazza, Daniel Piazza, 1 grandson Benji, and the mother of his children Katherine Buchanan all of California. He is also survived by his sister Beth Ann Piazza of Bridgeport and his brother James Piazza Sr. (Monique) of Hawaii as well as nieces, nephews, and great nephews. He was predeceased by his father John Piazza. “Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, Love leaves a memory no one can steal.”

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Ruth Vaglivelo - April 14, 1928 - June 18, 2022

Departed: 06/18/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Ruth Vaglivelo, 94, of Monroe, Connecticut, passed away peacefully into eternal rest on Saturday June 18, 2022.  Born on April 14th, 1928, in Scranton Pennsylvania, she was the daughter of the late Madge and Edwin Coleman.

Ruth is survived by her children, Susan (George) Baron, Lynn (Tom) Giulietti, Alan (Debra) Vaglivelo; her grandchildren, David (Danielle) Baron, Kelly Usanis, Caitlin (Ryan) Moreau, John (Elisha) Giulietti, Jordan Vaglivelo, Tyler Vaglivelo; her great grandchildren, Makenzie and Hayden Baron, Brooke Usanis, Paige, Connor and Patrick Moreau, Collin and Sean Giulietti. Ruth is survived by one brother, Joseph (Marie) Coleman. Ruth is also predeceased by her brother, Ed Coleman.

All services for Ruth will be private.

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Margaret "Marge" Bagley - June 05, 1951 - June 18, 2022

Departed: 06/18/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Margaret “Marge” Anne Bagley, 71, of Stratford, CT, beloved mom and grandmother passed away peacefully on June 18, 2022. Born on June 6, 1951, in Port Chester, NY, she was the daughter of the late Patrick Pennatto and Gloria Sabia Pennatto of Stamford, CT.

Marge worked for the Purchasing Department for the City of Milford, CT for 20 years and retired in 2019. Previously, she worked for 15 years at Pitney Bowes Corporate Office. She was a member of the MEA Union for the City of Milford, CT and held the positions of Treasurer, Sunshine Chairperson, and Second Vice President. An avid volunteer, she was a member of the Irish Heritage Society, the Sons of Italy-Norwalk Chapter, a volunteer with the Milford Oyster Festival, as well as annual City of Milford Blood Drives and Wellness Health Fairs. She served many years as the Team Leader for the Safety and Emergency Evacuation for her unit at the Parsons Government Complex.

Marge played ‘host mother’ to students from Italy and Spain through the Education First (EF) Program, and loved to read, travel to Europe, dance, and enjoyed the theater, all genres of music and classic movies and musicals.

She is survived by her only daughter, Christine Renee Bagley, son-in-law Jorge Fritz, and granddaughter, Teagan Lunajoy Fritz, all of Burke, VA.

Friends and family may gather on Wednesday, June 29, 2022 from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at the CODY-WHITE FUNERAL HOME, 107 BROAD STREET, MILFORD, CT 06460.

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Bruce Carle Day - July 04, 1935 - June 18, 2022

Departed: 06/18/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Bruce Carle Day, 86, of Milford, beloved husband of 26 years to Helen Day, passed away peacefully at home on June 18, 2022. Born on July 4, 1935 in Cheektowaga, NY, he was the son of the late Carle and Harriet Day.

When he was a teenager, Bruce and his family moved to Emporium, PA, where he graduated from Emporium High School in 1953. Following high school, Bruce joined the Navy and served our country between 1954 and 1962; three years of which he was aboard the USS Taconic AGC-17 in the Mediterranean. After his honorable discharge, Bruce continued his education in business management and relocated to NY where he worked in the insurance industry for 18 years before ultimately relocating to Connecticut where he worked as the Assistant Facilities Manager at MBI, Inc. in Norwalk, CT, for 25 years until his retirement in 2010.

Bruce always had a lifelong passion for woodworking and carpentry; he was quite accomplished in remodeling most of the interior of his and Helen’s home. He loved to travel, most especially to Maine where he found much peace & joy being close to the ocean. He also adored his cat Ginger who already misses him dearly.

Along with his wife, Bruce is survived by his children, Melissa (Mark) Hanus, Bernard “BJ” (Mary Ann) Burns, Kristen (William) Conley, and Michael (Kelly) Burns; grandchildren, Kaige Hanus, Garrett and Malcom Burns, Phaeton Conley, and Will and Brendan Burns along with their mom, Mary Lisa Sassano; brother, Forster (Helen) Day; nephews, Nathan and John Day; niece, Sharon Yacob; and many extended family and friends. He was predeceased by his daughters, Debbie Day and Brenda Day.

The family would like to thank the VA Hospital in West Haven, the Stratford VNA and Milford Transit for the exceptional care given to Bruce.

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Judith "Judy" Ann Redmann - July 04, 1955 - June 18, 2022

Departed: 06/18/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: Judith Soule Redmann, 66, of Branford, beloved wife of Robert H. Redmann, passed away peacefully June 18, 2022 at Yale New Haven Hospital surrounded by her family. Judith was born and raised in Milford, the daughter of the late Charles and Jean Soule.

She was the adoring mother and mother-in-law of Charlene Wray and Jon Handy, Cheryl and Todd Tompkins and Robert C. Redmann. Proud grandmother to Jessie Tompkins, Todd Tompkins, Daniel Tompkins, Kyle Tompkins, Dana Wray, Trevor Tompkins, Michelle Tompkins, Denise Wray and Laycee White. Loving sister of Cindy and JohnYoung and Carol White. Judith was further survived by her nieces, nephews and other relatives and friends.

Judith was a part of the Milford Volunteers Ancient Fife and Drum Corps for many years. She also had a successful career at Kissel, Kneale and Tobin of Guilford, where she enjoyed working with a tight knit group of co-workers and friends for over 30 years. She was a devoted wife, mother and grandmother who enjoyed spending time with her family and friends.

Family and friends are invited to gather on Tuesday, June 28, 2022 from 4:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Cody-White Funeral Home 107 Broad Street, Milford, CT 06460. A Memorial Service will begin at 7:30 p.m. that evening. Burial will be private.

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August R. Bebon - February 17, 1931 - June 18, 2022

Departed: 06/18/2022 (Milford)

Obituary Preview: August Ronald Bebon, 91, of Milford, Connecticut passed away peacefully on Saturday, June 18, 2022. Beloved father, grandfather, great grandfather, uncle, and friend, he was loved by all and will be missed dearly. Born on February 17, 1931 in Queens, New York, he was the son of the late John Bebon and Caroline Ridder Bebon.

Augie served his country while in the Navy during the Korean War from 1951 to 1955 on the USS LSMR 517. He then worked as a foreman in the gear room at Sikorsky Aircraft in Stratford, Connecticut until he retired.

With his outgoing personality, Augie shared his love of dancing, music, and boating with everyone he met. In the winters, he could be found at his cabin in Vermont, hunting or snowmobiling. Summers found him at “D” dock, partying with friends or in the bilge of his boat, the “Last Dollar”.

Augie is survived by his children, Laura Razowski of Woodbury, Connecticut, Robert Bebon of Tybee Island, Georgia, Donna Kostenko of Milford, Connecticut, and Arthur Bebon of Richmond Hill, Georgia. He is also survived by his 8 grandchildren, 17 great grandchildren and several nieces and nephews. Augie was predeceased by his brother, John Bebon of Florida and great grandson, Dominic Ceravone of Connecticut.

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Cody-White Funeral Home offers a wide range of funeral services to meet the unique needs of each family. These services include traditional funerals, cremations, memorial services, and graveside ceremonies. The funeral home also provides pre-planning services, allowing individuals to make their own arrangements in advance and ensure that their wishes are respected.

Facilities and Amenities

The funeral home's facilities are designed to provide a comfortable and welcoming environment for families and friends to gather and pay their respects. The spacious chapel can accommodate large crowds, while the visitation rooms offer a more intimate setting for smaller gatherings. Additional amenities include ample parking, wheelchair accessibility, and a state-of-the-art sound system.

Staff and Leadership

The team at Cody-White Funeral Home is led by experienced and licensed funeral directors who are dedicated to providing exceptional service and care. Each member of the staff is trained to handle every aspect of the funeral process with dignity and respect, from preparing the deceased for viewing to coordinating logistics with churches, cemeteries, and other vendors.

Community Involvement

Cody-White Funeral Home is deeply committed to giving back to the community it serves. The funeral home participates in local charity events, sponsors community organizations, and provides educational resources on topics related to grief support and funeral planning. By investing in the community, Cody-White Funeral Home demonstrates its commitment to building strong relationships with the families it serves.

Grief Support and Resources

Losing a loved one can be an overwhelming experience, but it doesn't have to be faced alone. Cody-White Funeral Home offers a range of grief support resources, including counseling services, support groups, and online resources. The funeral home also partners with local bereavement organizations to provide additional support and guidance during the grieving process.

Contact Information and Hours of Operation

If you're in need of funeral services or would like to learn more about Cody-White Funeral Home, please don't hesitate to reach out. The funeral home can be contacted by phone at [phone number] or by email at [email address]. The office is open Monday through Friday from 9:00 am to 5:00 pm, with extended hours available by appointment. Visitation hours are flexible and can be arranged according to your family's needs.

In times of sorrow, it's comforting to know that there are professionals who care. At Cody-White Funeral Home, the staff is dedicated to providing compassionate and personalized service to each family they serve. Whether you're planning ahead or facing an unexpected loss, Cody-White Funeral Home is here to guide you through the funeral process with dignity, respect, and compassion.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and acquaintances of the deceased person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and remember the deceased, while also providing essential information to those who need to know about the passing. They help to notify people of the funeral or memorial service arrangements, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences to the family.

What information is typically included in an obituary?

A standard obituary usually includes the deceased person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also mention any notable accomplishments, military service, or charitable work.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, the family of the deceased person writes the obituary, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, a close friend or colleague may be asked to contribute to the writing process.

How long does it take to write an obituary?

The time it takes to write an obituary can vary depending on the complexity and length of the piece. On average, it can take anywhere from 30 minutes to several hours to craft a well-written and informative obituary.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, you can write your own obituary. In fact, many people choose to do so as a way to control how they want to be remembered and to spare their loved ones from having to write it during a difficult time.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only the basic facts such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the person's life and legacy.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or platform. Newspaper obituaries can range from $50 to $500 or more, while online obituary platforms may offer free or low-cost options.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can be a nice way to personalize the tribute and help readers connect with the deceased person.

How long should an obituary be?

The ideal length of an obituary depends on the publication or platform. Generally, it's best to aim for a length of around 150-250 words. However, some online platforms may allow for longer or shorter pieces.

What tone should I use when writing an obituary?

The tone of an obituary should be respectful, sincere, and celebratory. Aim to capture the personality and spirit of the deceased person while avoiding overly sentimental or negative language.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Yes, humor can be an appropriate way to celebrate someone's life and personality in an obituary. Just be sure to keep it tasteful and respectful.

How do I submit an obituary for publication?

The submission process varies depending on the publication or platform. You may need to email or fax the obituary text and any accompanying photos to the publication, or submit it through an online portal.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publication can vary depending on the publication's schedule and deadlines. Typically, it takes anywhere from a few hours to several days for an obituary to appear in print or online.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

In most cases, making changes to a published obituary is not possible. However, if there's an error or inaccuracy in the original piece, you may be able to request a correction or revision.

What is an online obituary?

An online obituary is a digital version of a traditional printed obituary. It's typically published on a website or social media platform and can include additional features such as photos, videos, and guestbooks for condolences.

Are online obituaries permanent?

Yes, online obituaries are usually permanent records that remain accessible for years to come. They provide a lasting tribute to the deceased person and allow friends and family to visit and pay their respects at any time.

Can I share an online obituary on social media?

Yes, most online obituary platforms allow you to share the link on social media sites like Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn. This makes it easy to notify friends and acquaintances of the passing.

What is a guestbook in an online obituary?

A guestbook is a feature within an online obituary that allows visitors to leave messages of condolence, share memories, and pay their respects. It provides a meaningful way for friends and family to connect with each other during a difficult time.

Can I add photos or videos to an online guestbook?

Yes, many online guestbooks allow you to upload photos or videos along with your message of condolence. This adds a personal touch and helps create a lasting tribute.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites like Ancestry.com or Newspapers.com. Local libraries or historical societies may also have archives of old newspapers that you can access.

Can I republish an old obituary?

If you have permission from the original publisher or copyright holder, you may be able to republish an old obituary. Be sure to check copyright laws and regulations before doing so.

Is it okay to include personal anecdotes in an obituary?

Absolutely! Personal anecdotes can help bring the deceased person's story to life and make the obituary more engaging and relatable.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary?

Yes! Many families choose to include this information in the obituary as a way to honor their loved one's memory and support a worthy cause.

What is the purpose of an obiturary archive?

An obiturary archive serves as a permanent record of obituaries published over time. It allows users to search for and access obituaries from past years, providing valuable information for genealogists, researchers, and those seeking information about deceased individuals.