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Mary Ita Brown - December 20, 1933 - February 29, 2024

Departed: 02/29/2024 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Mary Ita Brown, 90, of St. Paul, died at 9:33 p.m., Thursday, February 29, 2024 in Labette Health in Parsons.

Mary Ita was born December 20, 1933 in Walnut, Kansas, a daughter of Harry and Ellen (Cavanaugh) Little. She grew up near Walnut and graduated from St. Patrick’s High School in Walnut.

Mary Ita married John “J. P.” Phillip Brown on February 12, 1955 in St. Patrick’s Catholic Church in Walnut. John preceded her in death on January 19, 1999.

Mary Ita and John made their home in Junction City from 1955 until 1957 and then they moved to the farm near St. Paul.

Mary Ita worked at the Commercial Bank in Parsons from 1951 until 1955 and she worked as the kitchen coordinator and food service manager for St. Paul Schools from 1971 until retiring in 1999.

She was a member of St. Francis Catholic Church and a lifelong member and past president of the Altar Society in St. Paul. She enjoyed making Rosaries, gardening, canning, mowing, growing flowers, cooking, and she taught her children to cook. Survivors include her sons, Edward Brown of St. Paul, John Brown, and his wife, Loretta, of Livermore, California, Thomas Brown, and his friend, Amy Hoehner, of Sapulpa, Oklahoma, and Michael Brown, and his wife, Renee, of St. Paul; her daughters, Judy Widner, and her husband, Steve, of Girard and Patricia Phelan of Eureka, Kansas; her son-in-law, Doug Maschino, of Pleasanton; her sisters, Loyola Puckett of Pittsburg, Dorothy Van Leeuwen, and her husband, Jerry, of St. Paul, and Betty Call, and her husband, Jack, of Wichita; her grandchildren, Jennifer Brown, Keith Phelan, Sarah Waterson, Jonathan Phelan, Cary Lynn Parlett, Jay Thomas Brown, Jason Widner, and Amy Widner-McCarter; 4 great-grandchildren;

Mary Ita was preceded in death by her parents, her husband, a daughter, Janet Marie Maschino; her brother, Joseph Charles Little; a sister, Patricia Sue Little.

Mass of Christian Burial will be at 10:30 a.m. Monday, March 4, 2024 in St. Francis Catholic Church in St. Paul with Fr. Theodore Khin as Celebrant. Burial will be in St. Francis Cemetery at St. Paul.

The Parish Rosary will be at 6:00 p.m., Sunday at St. Francis Church and the family will receive friends following the Rosary.

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Joseph James "Jay" O'Brien - December 19, 1939 - January 30, 2024

Departed: 01/30/2024 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Joseph James “Jay” O’Brien, 84, of St. Paul, passed away at 5:22 p.m., Tuesday, January 30, 2024, in the Emergency Room at Labette Health in Parsons.

He was born on December 19, 1939, a lifelong resident of St. Paul to Joseph Andrew “Joe” and Mary Cleo (Duling) O’Brien. He grew up near St. Paul and attended the Lone Elm one room country school where his mother taught. Jay went on to graduate from St. Paul High in 1958.

Jay was Co-Owner of O’Brien Rock Company and later O’Brien Ready Mix has been family owned and operating since 1945. Jay helped build the current ranching operation located near Edna, Kansas and the ready-mix expansion into SWMO & Northwest Arkansas. Jay was also past president KRMCA and member of KLA.

Jay was active in and supported his local St. Paul community/schools his adult life. Jay served as mayor in 1977 along with serving on the city council. Jay was one of the founding members of Osage Village, was on the board of directors for Exchange State Bank and currently served on the Prairie Mission Retirement Village board of directors. Dad’s passion in life along with his family included traveling, history and taking his family to Estes Park Colorado yearly. Dad loved his shortcuts when traveling; it took 2,500 miles to arrive in Estes Park. We truly will miss his trips!

He and Mauricia M. Vitt were married on January 9, 1960, at the St. Francis Catholic Church in St. Paul. She preceded him in death on September 3, 2020.

He is survived by his two sons, Michael J. O’Brien, and his wife, Melinda of Kansas City, MO and Dwayne M. O’Brien, and his wife, Tari of Pittsburg; his two daughters, Lisa A. Lalicker, and her husband, Jason of Lawrence and Lynn D. Greenough, and her husband, David of Parsons; 14 grandchildren, Arlie Diederich and husband Ryan Diederich, Jarrett Dauben and wife Whitney, Elizabeth Lalicker, Kathryn Lalicker, Shelby Fisher and her husband Bennett, Landon O’Brien, Sherie Bradley and husband Doug, Brandon Greenough, Sara Greenough, Abbie O’Brien, and Conner O’Brien and his wife Haydn; nine great-grandchildren, Gus Diederich, Patton Diederich, Colt Dauben, Molly Dauben, Case Dauben, Carter Dauben, Caden Greenough, Holden Fisher, Alyssa Bradley, Shay Bradley, Gabe Bradley and Dawson O’Brien; five brothers, Owen O’Brien, Robert O’Brien, Louis O’Brien, Dennis O’Brien and Martin O’Brien; seven sisters, Jolene Born, Margaret O’Toole, Rose Mary Debler, Julia Peter, Ginger Heere, Betty Jean Holt and Lou Ann Fike and numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins. In addition to his wife, Jay was preceded in death by his parents and brothers Felix O’Brien and Eugene O’Brien.

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Paul Christopher O'Brien - March 11, 1946 - May 11, 2023

Departed: 05/11/2023 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Paul Christopher O’Brien, 77, of St. Paul and Girard areas, died at 2:18 p.m., Thursday, May 11, 2023 in the Prairie Mission Retirement Village in St. Paul, Kansas.

Paul was born March 11, 1946 in Great Bend, Kansas, an adopted son of John and Patricia (O’Rourke) O’Brien. He grew up and attended schools in St. Paul.

Paul married Nancy J. Edgar on December 10, 1988 in Grace Tabernacle Church in Topeka, Kansas. Nancy survives in St. Paul.

Paul was a logger, as well as cutting hedge posts and firewood for a great many years.

He had a great knowledge of working in the timber. As a logger he worked for Richard Murphy Enterprises for many years in St. Paul. He owned and operated Buyers of Standing Timbers of Erie/St. Paul in the late 70’s, early 80’s. He also farmed and ranched for others in the rural area. Paul had great horsemanship when it came to working cattle.

In the early 70’s, Paul worked at the Parsons Army Ammunition plant. He and his family then moved to the family farm in Rural St. Paul where he took over O’Brien‘s Greenhouse from his dad John and his late mother Patricia. In the 80’s he was also employed at Greenbush Seed.

Living on a farm, in Rural Girard where he and his wife Nancy made it their home. While working for Josh and Joe Lon Smith caring for Cattle and farm duties. Josh was special to Paul. Paul loved him like a son.

Paul enjoyed cooking and had a great passion for the outdoors. He loved gardening hunting and trapping.

He had a special touch when it came to animals.

He loved them all! Especially horses, cows, goats and chickens. Receiving recognition as “The Cow Whisperer” as announced on KKOW radio on his 70th birthday.

He enjoyed attending Rodeos and Livestock Auctions. Especially the Exotic Animal Auctions. As a hard worker for many years he also had a hobby. Recycling. If it could be recycled he knew about it! Especially aluminum cans!

He was a gentle giant with a heart of gold. He made a great many friends while on this earth. He will be truly missed by his family and friends.

He was a former member of St. Francis Catholic Church in St. Paul before becoming a member of St. Michael Catholic Church in Girard.

Survivors, in addition to his wife, Nancy, of St. Paul, are a son, Kenneth L. “Otis” Knight, and his companion, Cyndi Morlan, of Lyndon, Kansas; his daughters, Paula O’Brien of Overland Park, Kansas, Kristina Chaney of Prosper, Texas, Patrice “Suzie” Calhoun of Parsons; his grandchildren, Leah, Josh, Aja, Gabriel, Sophia, Luke, and Ella; numerous great-grandchildren; special sons, Josh Smith of Girard and Matt Harmon of St. Paul.

Memorial visitation will be from 1:00 until 3:00 p.m. Friday, May 19, 2023 in the Carson-Wall Funeral Home, 403 N Main Street in St. Paul. Fr. Theodore Khin will have prayers at 2:30 p.m., followed by an invitation for family and friends to give their remembrances of Paul. The family requests casual dress and friends may call after 10:00 am Friday at the Carson-Wall Funeral Home in St. Paul.

Memorial services will be at 1:00 p.m., Saturday, June 3, 2023 in the Chapel at Prairie Mission Retirement Village, 242 Carroll Street in St. Paul with Rev. Virgil Lempenau officiating. Following the service, the family will receive friends until 3:00 p.m. and casual dress is requested. Interment will be at a later date in St. Francis Cemetery in St. Paul.

Memorials are suggested to the Paul C. O’Brien Scholarship Fund and these may be left at the visitation, service, or mailed to the Carson-Wall Funeral Home, PO Box 942, Parsons, 66743. Condolences may be sent to www.wallfuneralservices.com

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Tina L. Schoenhofer - August 31, 1959 - March 08, 2023

Departed: 03/08/2023 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Tina L. Schoenhofer, 63, of rural St. Paul, died at 2:40 P.M., Wednesday, March 8, 2023 at Labette Health.

She was born August 31, 1959 at Chanute, a daughter of John Marshall and Claudina Arthula (Tate) McMillan. She was raised at Chanute and attended school there, graduating from the Chanute High School with the Class of 1977.

She was united in marriage to Glen R. Schoenhofer on December 1, 1979 at St. Paul.

She was then employed at Kustom Electronics and then worked at Everbrite, both being of Chanute. She later worked at New Standard Printing at Chanute, was a dental assistant for Dr. Loller at Erie and worked in the billing department at Woodworth Enterprises at Parsons. She was currently helping raise her grandchildren.

She was Catholic. She had served on the Farm Bureau Board of Directors and held the position of Women’s Chair. She had also been a Boy Scouts leader. She was a devoted wife, mother and grandmother and loved her family. She enjoyed online computer gaming with her husband.

Survivors include: her husband – Glen R. Schoenhofer, of the home; two sons – Jason Schoenhofer, of Lawrence, Chris Schoenhofer, and his wife, Gloria, of rural St. Paul; two grandchildren – Marshall and Natalie Schoenhofer, of rural St. Paul; one brother – David McMillan, of Chanute. She was preceded in death by her parents and one brother – Dan McMillan.

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Leonard McAtee - August 09, 1930 - January 10, 2023

Departed: 01/10/2023 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Leonard McAtee, 92, of St. Paul, passed away at 9:01 a.m., Tuesday, January 10, 2023 at Prairie Mission Retirement Village in St. Paul.

He was born on August 9, 1930 in Walnut, Kansas to George and Adele (Brazil) McAtee. Leonard grew up in St. Paul and attended St. Paul schools. He had served in the United States Air Force.

Leonard worked for Northrup King Seed Company as a regional sales manager for 25 years. In his retirement he worked for Greenbush Education Service Center.

He loved reading, grilling, golfing, traveling, playing cards, casinos, whiskey and treasured spending time with his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He was a member of St. Francis Catholic Church in St. Paul.

Survivors include his son, Mike McAtee (Kalissa) of Colorado Springs, CO; two daughters, Janet McAtee (Steve Sweetin) of Overland Park and Jane McAtee of Lenexa; five grandchildren, Kristyn Antonucci (Anthony), Kara Smith (Brian Reif), Halston McAtee (Josh), Victoria Kaufman and Audrey Kaufman; five great-grandchildren, Addalyn, Angelo, Aubryn, Hunter and Lydia and numerous nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by six brothers and three sisters and his beloved wife, Lois Gore McAtee.

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George Wayne McAtee - August 17, 1947 - November 20, 2022

Departed: 11/20/2022 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: George Wayne McAtee, 75, resident of St. Paul, KS, passed away on November 20, 2022 after a short illness.

George was born on August 17, 1947 in Parsons, KS to G.W. “Short” and Eileen (Volmer) McAtee. He is survived by his daughter Ellen Canfield and her son Cooper from his marriage to Deborah Counter at the Assumption Catholic Church in Topeka in 1974. His parents and sister Mary Ann preceded him in death. The oldest of five, he is also survived by his sisters Marcia Smith of Lawrence, Janet Shaw of rural Erie, as well his brother Dale McAtee of Cupertino, CA. He had 3 nephews, Ted, Chris and Greg Smith and nieces Deidra Smith (deceased) and Bailey Shaw.

He was a proud member of the St. Paul High School Class of 1965. He graduated with a degree in biology from Pittsburg State University in 1970.

For over 40 years he worked for the State of Kansas in Topeka, first for the Governor’s Office, then the Kansas Department of Human Resources before retiring from the Kansas Department of Commerce. George took great pride in the work he did – ensuring that those in need of jobs got the training and help required to succeed, as well as ensuring the programs that provided the help were able to get grants and funding to continue. He was a state liaison and consultant for countless programs providing assistance, whether for youths in need, servicemen and families affected by base closures, or farmers requiring assistance after the floods of 1993 to name just a few.

After retirement he returned to St. Paul and continued to help out. A voracious reader all of his life, he gave back by helping with the Graves Memorial Library in various capacities. Christmas was something he enjoyed all year around. A natural storyteller, for years he enriched the lives of many with his portrayal of the big guy from the North Pole. His common hello was the phrase - HoHoHo!

He appreciated folk music in its many incarnations. At times he felt he was a bit too much country for the city, later he wondered if he was a bit too much city for the country. Regardless, he always appreciated the friendships and the kind actions of whichever community he was a part of. I will cherish all the friendship I was fortunate to find, all the love and all the laughter in the place I leave behind. All these good things will go with me. They will make my spirit glow. And that light will shine forever in the next place that I go. - Warren Hanson

The Mass of Christian Burial will be at 10:30 a.m., Monday, November 28, at St. Francis Catholic Church in St. Paul. Burial will follow in the St. Francis Cemetery. The rosary will be prayed at 10 a.m., Monday, at the church.

The family will receive friends from 2 to 4 p.m., Sunday, at the Carson-Wall Funeral Home in St. Paul. Memorials are suggested to the Graves Memorial Library at St. Paul. They may be left at or sent to the Carson-Wall Funeral Home at P. O. Box 272, St. Paul, KS 66771. Online messages may be left at www.wallfuneralservices.com.

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Michael "Mic" L. Frost - September 23, 1966 - September 04, 2022

Departed: 09/04/2022 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Michael “Mic” L. Frost, 55, of Mound Valley, died at 4:15, Sunday morning at his home.

He was born September23, 1966 at Parsons, a son of Elbert Clark and Lucy Sally Bell (Ward) Frost. He was raised at Mound Valley and attended the Mound Valley Grade School and Labette County High School, graduating with the Class of 1985. He worked many years at Prestige Cabinets at Neodesha and later travelled as a fabrication welder. He later was employed at Beachner Grain and Beachner Construction and A & R Custom Fabrication at Parsons. He currently worked at Magnum Research.

He was united in marriage to Angie Johnson. They later divorced. He later married Christine Barnett and they divorced also.

He enjoyed helping people, hunting, fishing and car racing. He also enjoyed his dog, Rudy.

Survivors include: one son – Michael J. Frost, and his companion, Amber Duncan, Parsons, KS; one daughter – Amanda Barnett, Osage Beach, MO;five grandchildren – Johnny Duncan, Parsons, KS, SkyLynn Duncan, Parsons, KS, Kaydence Frost, Parsons, KS, Brody Frost, Parsons, KS, Harley Frost, Parsons, KS; his mother – Lucy Frost, Mound Valley, KS; two brothers – Terry Ward, Pittsburg, KS, David Frost, Parsons, KS; two Sisters – Lucy Thomas, Mound Valley, KS, Alice Abbe, Neodesha, KS. He was preceded in death by two brothers; two sisters, including Debbie Seltzer; and one granddaughter – Ashlynn Boyle.

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Mary Lou Boone - October 29, 1942 - May 27, 2022

Departed: 05/27/2022 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Mary Lou Boone, 79, of St. Paul, died at 7:46 p.m., Friday, May 27, 2022 at the Olathe Medical Center.

She was born October 29, 1942, at St. Paul, to McKinley R. and Marguerite F. (McCall) Boone. She grew up in St. Paul and graduated from St. Paul High School. She received a bachelor’s degree at Washburn University at Topeka and a master’s degree in social work from the University of Kansas at Lawrence.

She was employed for many years in social work in Kansas and Iowa and eventually returned home to St. Paul to care for her mother and father.

Mary Lou was a member of the St. Francis Catholic Church, where she was a sacristan, and of the Daughter’s of Isabella.

Surviving are five sisters, Rita Wilson of Tulsa, Christine Douthit of Atchison, Clara Torchia of Spring Hill, Ellen Rider (Vic) of Kansas City, KS, and Teresa Neff of Kansas City, MO; two brothers, Merle Boone (Debbie) of Chanute and Ralph Boone of Erie; four nieces, eleven nephews and 20 great nieces and great nephews. Preceding her in death were her parents, McKinley and Marguerite Boone, a sister, Jean Ann and a niece, Michelle Torchia.

The Funeral Mass will be at 10:30 a.m., Friday, at St. Francis Catholic Church in St. Paul, with Rev. Theodore Khin officiating. Burial will be in St. Francis Cemetery. The rosary will be prayed at 6 p.m., Thursday at the Carson-Wall Funeral Home in St. Paul. The family will receive friends following the rosary.

Memorials are suggested to St. Francis Catholic Church. They may be left at or sent to the Carson-Wall Funeral Home, P. O. Box 942, Parsons, KS 67357. Online messages may be left at www.wallfuneralservices.com.

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Ronald Dean Rose - June 16, 1943 - January 29, 2022

Departed: 01/29/2022 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Ronald Dean Rose, 78, of St. Paul Kansas met his Lord and Savior on January 29, 2022 at his home surrounded by his family.

Dean was born June 16, 1943 in Pittsburg, Kansas. He grew up on a farm with his four brothers and sister in the St. Paul/McCune area and graduated from McCune High School.

Dean was united in marriage to his beloved, Carol Atkinson, on June 12, 1961.

Dean's first job was working at Strauss Grain Elevator followed by working as a foreman at Princess Homes. He then became an electrician working for Lou Long and continued building homes. His last endeavor was his own business, Wood Heating Systems, which was his true love. His customers were very important to him, and he enjoyed helping people. Dean continued to work up until a few months before his passing and was able to celebrate his 60th wedding anniversary with Carol.

Survivors include his wife of the home, Carol; his son, Jeff Rose, and his wife of Arma, Kansas; daughter, Christy Carter and her husband of Bartlesville, Oklahoma; many grandchildren and great grandchildren; and dog, Bailey, his faithful companion. He was preceded in death by his parents Jack and Winona Rose, brothers Darold, Harry, and Richard Rose, and a 15-month-old great grandson, Cash Campbell.

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Ronald L. "Ron" Smith - February 11, 1952 - November 21, 2021

Departed: 11/21/2021 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Ronald Lee “Ron” Smith, 69, of rural St. Paul, died at his home early Sunday, November 21, 2021. His death was unexpected.

He was born February 11, 1952, in Parsons, to Joseph A. and Mary K. (Vogel) Smith. The family lived in Stark and when he was 10 they moved to Walnut. He attended St. Patrick’s Grade School and graduated from St. Paul High School in 1970. He attended Labette Community College, where he played baseball. In 1974 he graduated from Kansas State University at Manhattan with a degree in Agricultural Education.

Ron was in business with Pat Jacquinot operating the Boots and Saddle Supper Club in Walnut. He was also a field representative for Purina Feed. From 1978 to 2007 he was the Vo-Ag teacher at Marmaton Valley High School. Since 1974 he has been a partner in the family farm operation, RDJ Farm.

He was a long-time member of St. Patrick’s Catholic Church in Walnut and currently was a member of St. Francis Catholic Church in St. Paul. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus.

Surviving are his brothers and sister, Joe Smith of Erie, Don Smith (Mary) of Walnut, Joni Creamean (Carl) of Lenexa; brother-in-law, Gene Tibbetts of Olathe; nephews, Jay Smith, Jamie Smith, Josh Smith, and Dallas Smith; nieces, Tiffany Bohn, Megan Janke, Jennifer Snell, Danielle Mattox and Savannah Robison. Preceding him in death were his parents, Joseph in 1992 and Mary K. in 2007, and sister, Judith Ann Tibbetts in 2006.

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Janet (Brown) Maschino - March 29, 1957 - September 09, 2021

Departed: 09/09/2021 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Janet (Brown) Maschino, 64, of Rural Pleasanton and Parsons, passed away peacefully at 3:13 A.M., Thursday, September 09, 2021 at her daughter’s home in Erie.

Janet’s story starts on March 29, 1957 at Parsons, the second of children of John Paul and Mary Ita (Little) Brown. She spent her early days on the farm and attended schools in St. Paul. After graduating from St. Paul High School she attended the Labette Community College and received an Association Degree in Nursing. Janet was a Registered Nurse and spent over twenty years working at the Labette County Medical Center, where she enjoyed working and caring for her patients.

On February 28, 1992 she and Douglas “Doug” E. Maschino were united in marriage at the former St. Mary’s Catholic Church at Parsons. He survives of the home.

She later moved to Rural Pleasanton with her husband where they purchased a pharmacy. Janet also worked at the Pleasanton Family Practice for ten years while working part-time at the Maschino Family Pharmacy.

While she was growing up, Janet was a member of the St. Francis Catholic Church and was currently a member of the Sacred Heart Catholic Church at Mound City. She enjoyed many hobbies: fishing, planting trees and flowers, shooting and was a member of the National Rifle Association. She also enjoyed working with her skid loader. She was an avid animal lover, and especially loved her European Breed German Shepherds. She also raised three quarter horses from foals. In early years she enjoyed canoeing and camping with family and friend. She especially enjoyed tubing the Guadalupe River, “oh, what a ride!!” She had a love for sports and especially enjoyed volleyball and fast-pitch softball. She enjoyed spending time with her family the most and her daughter, Cary Lynn was her pride and joy. In addition to her husband, survivors include: her daughter – Cary Lynn Parlett, of Erie, KS; her mother – Mary Ita Brown, of Rural Erie, KS; two sisters – Judy Widner, and her husband, Steve, Of Girard, KS, Patricia Phelan, of Eureka, KS; four brothers – Ed Brown, of St. Paul, KS, John Brown, and his wife, Loretta, of Livermore, CA, Tom Brown, of Tulsa, OK, Mike Brown, and his wife, Renee, of rural Erie, KS; nieces and nephews – Jason Widner, of Kansas City, KS, Amy McCarter, and her husband, Landon, of Pleasanton, CA, Keith Phelan, and his son, Quinton, Of Eureka, KS, Dr. Jonathon “Jon” Phelan, and his wife, Dr. Katy, and daughters, Lily and June, Of Minneapolis, MN, Sarah Waterson, and her husband, Ryan, and son, Oscar, of Wichita, KS

Jay Thomas Brown, of Chanute, KS, Jennifer Brown, of Livermore, CA. She was preceded in death by her father, J.P. Brown; her maternal grandparents, Harry and Ellen (Cavanaugh) Little; her paternal grandparents, Raymond and Rosa (Steinbacher) Brown.

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Sr. Julita Paulie - April 24, 2021 - April 24, 2021

Departed: 04/24/2021 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: On April 29, 2021, a Rosary was prayed for Sr. Julita Paulie at the Carson-Wall Funeral Home of St. Paul. Many family and friends were gathered to honor her life and her selfless dedication as a servant to our Lord. Sr. Julita Paulie will be missed but will live forever in the hearts of all those she touched with her love. We thank God for sharing her with us and for the memories that will sustain us as she will live forever in our hearts.

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Charlene E. (Hopkins) Earnest - November 12, 1932 - February 27, 2021

Departed: 02/27/2021 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Charlene M. (Hopkins) Earnest, 88, of Olathe, passed away at 4:15 p.m., Saturday, February 27, 2021 at her home.

She was born on November 12, 1932 in St. Paul, Kansas to Charles and E. Louise (Jordan) Hopkins. She grew up in St. Paul and Coffeyville and graduated from Field Kindley Memorial High School and Coffeyville Junior College. She then received training as an X-ray technician from the University of Kansas Medical Center. In the Kansas City area she had worked for various doctors and at St. Joseph Medical Center. She lived in San Francisco and Santa Monica, CA and her last employment was with Respiratory Consultants from 1974-1988. In 2015 she moved back to Olathe to be close to her cousins.

She and Robert A. Earnest were married on April 30, 1960 in San Francisco, CA. He preceded her in death on December 11, 2014.

Survivors include her cousins, Karen (Hopkins) Steinbacher, of St. Paul and Janet (Hopkins) Moore, and her husband, Dale of Edwardsville, KS and their families.

Per Charlene’s request no services are planned and burial will take place at a later date in Eastlawn Cemetery in Springfield, MO.

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Leroy J. "Bill" Hazen - February 24, 1930 - February 19, 2021

Departed: 02/19/2021 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Leroy J. "Bill" Hazen, 90, of Grove, Oklahoma, formerly of St. Paul, passed away at 7:40 a.m., Friday, February 19, 2021, at the Grand Lake Villa in Grove, Oklahoma.

He was born on February 24, 1930, near Walnut, Kansas to Roy and Gertrude (Panel) Hazen. Leroy grew up near St. Paul and attended Odell Country Schools near St. Paul.

He and Rose (Mullen) Hazen were married on September 6, 1949, at Erie, Kansas. Rose passed away at 1:40 p.m., Friday, February 19, 2021, six hours after Leroy at the Grand Lake Villa in Grove, Oklahoma. They were united in marriage for over 71 years and blessed into the Catholic Church in 1950.

Leroy worked as a heavy equipment operator for many years for Utility Contractors of Tulsa and for Heat and Power in New York. He retired to the Grand Lake Area.

Leroy was a member of the St. Elizabeth Catholic Church in Grove. He was also a member of the Knights of Columbus and a former member of the Elks Club.

He is survived by three sons, James Hazen, and his wife, Connie of Independence, KS, Michael Hazen, and his wife, Pamela of Tahlequah, OK, and Roger Hazen, and his wife, Sharon of Vassar, MI; many grandchildren and great-grandchildren; his brother, Buford Hazen, and his wife Pat of Chanute; and many nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by three brothers, Richard, George, and Warren Hazen; and three sisters, Arlene Thornton, Wilma Ward, and Verda Jean Hazen.

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Rose M. Hazen - February 14, 1931 - February 19, 2021

Departed: 02/19/2021 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Rose M. Hazen, 90, of Grove, Oklahoma, and a former St. Paul resident, passed away at 1:40 p.m., Friday, February 19, 2021, at the Grand Lake Villa in Grove. She was preceded in death by her husband, Leroy "Bill" Hazen who died at the Gran Lake Villa earlier in the same day.

She was born on Valentine’s Day, February 14, 1931, at St. Paul, Kansas to John and Edna (Burnett) Mullen. She grew up at St. Paul and attended St. Paul schools.

Rose later obtained her G.E.D. and attended a technical school where she studied nursing and received her Licensed Practical Nursing Certification. She worked at the Wood Manor Nursing Home in Claremore, Oklahoma, and for over 20 years as a Licensed Practical Nurse.

She and Leroy J. “Bill” Hazen were married on September 6, 1949, at Erie, Kansas. Leroy passed away at7:40 p.m., Friday, February 19, 2021, six hours before Rose at the Grand Lake Villa in Grove, Oklahoma. They were united in marriage for over 71 years and blessed into the Catholic Church in 1950.

She was a member of the St. Elizabeth Catholic Church in Grove and the Altar Society.

Rose is survived by three sons, James Hazen, and his wife, Connie of Independence, KS, Michael Hazen, and his wife, Pamela of Tahlequah, OK, and Roger Hazen, and Sharon of Vassar, MI; many grandchildren and great-grandchildren; and many nieces and nephews. In addition to her husband, she was preceded in death by two brothers, Jim and Robert Mullen, and several sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law.

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Robert L. Yarnell - April 14, 1938 - December 15, 2020

Departed: 12/15/2020 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Robert L. Yarnell, 82, of St. Paul, died at 4:45 p.m., Tuesday, December 15, 2020 at the Prairie Mission Retirement Village in St. Paul.

He was born April 14, 1938, at rural Erie, to Lloyd and Lucille (Wheeler) Yarnell. He grew up on the family farm near Erie and graduated from Erie High School. Following graduation he served in the United States Army.

On June 21, 1958 he and Carlene Harrison were married at the Erie Christian Church. They lived in Erie until moving to St. Paul in 1975. She preceded him in death on June 13, 2014. Throughout his adult life he worked as a truck driver, first for Bush Hog and later for a refinery in Coffeyville.

Survivors include his children, Randy Yarnell (Deana Schultz) living in Alabama, Rodney Yarnell (Patty) of Frontenac, Tammy Shoemaker (Eric) of St. Paul and Brenda Yarnell (Dale Rose) of Parsons; son-in-law Tim Smith of St. Paul; 17 grandchildren, numerous great-grandchildren; sister, Virginia Jacquinot (Bob) of St. Paul; brother-in-law, Leroy Hoppas of Erie; sister-in-law Barbara Crable of White City; brother-in-law John Harrison (Sarly) of Frontenac.

Besides his wife he was preceded in death by his parents, a daughter, Cindy Smith; a granddaughter Stacie Beachner; two great-granddaughters, Brynlee Carlene Lett and Raegan Yarnell; a sister, Lavon Hoppas and a brother-in-law and best friend, Donnie Moses.

The funeral service will be at 1:30 p.m., Saturday, at the Carson-Wall Funeral Home in St. Paul, with Danny Flippo officiating. Burial will follow in the Hope Cemetery at St. Paul. Friends may stop by the funeral home from 1 p.m. to 8 p.m., Friday and after 9 a.m., Saturday to sign the register.

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Edith L. Hileman - May 02, 1940 - October 19, 2020

Departed: 10/19/2020 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Edith Louise Hileman, 80, of Wichita, died at 7:41 a.m., Monday, October 19, 2020 at her home.

She was born May 2, 1940, at Huron, South Dakota, to Ben and Beulah (Vittoe) Tensmeyer. She grew up alongside eight siblings, Skeeter, Eleanor, George, Jim, Cleo, Kenny, Bill and Ray.

Edie married Max Hileman on February 11, 1991at Howard and he preceded her in death on September 14, 2020.

She enjoyed trike riding, fishing, camping and family gatherings. Edie was a member of the motorcycle groups ABATE and Brothers of the Third Wheel. As her health declined she moved to Wichita to be closer to her medical care.

Surviving are her children, Rhonda Scales (Raymond) of McCune, Ruth Scales of Parsons, Rodney Horton of Wichita, Cindy Tarr (Jeff) of Emporia and Curtis Hileman (Julia) of Fort Myers, Florida and Brent Medley of Wichita; 14 grandchildren and 24 great-grandchildren. She loved all of her family and her dog, Simba.

Preceding her in death was her husband, Max, and two sons Randy Schaible and Roger Horton.

The family will receive friends at the Carson-Wall Funeral Home in St. Paul from 1 to 2 p.m., Thursday and the funeral will follow at 2:15 p.m., at the Hope Cemetery in St. Paul, with Rev. Jennifer Dawson officiating. Memorials are suggested to Proud Lovers Animal Shelter (PALS) and may be left at or mailed to the funeral home.

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Richard Eugene Fry - January 29, 1935 - October 16, 2020

Departed: 10/16/2020 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Richard Eugene Fry, 85, of St. Paul, and a former Kansas City, Kansas and Warsaw, Missouri resident passed away at 9:10 a.m., Friday, October 16, 2020 at the Prairie Mission Retirement Village of St. Paul.

He was born in Kansas City, Kansas on January 29, 1935 to Andrew Jay and Nadine Gilbert Fry. He attended Wyandotte and Washington High Schools. As a child, he was afflicted with polio, but he did not let that stop him.

He worked as a volunteer fireman for the Wyandotte Township fire department. During one fire, he was able to save a child from burning in a house fire, an incident he never forgot. In 1957, he married Judy Stratton. They later divorced. Richard then moved to Alamosa, Colorado where he owned and operated a Phillip’s 66 service station. In 1959, he married Rosalyn “Kay” Heck. They returned to Kansas City where he owned and operated the Mobil Service Station at 64th & State Avenue.

Around 1970 he moved to Warsaw, Missouri where he was employed at the Missouri State Parks Dept. A job he thoroughly enjoyed. In 2011 he and Kay moved to Prairie Mission Retirement Village in St. Paul, Kansas. In 2014 Kay passed away while Richard remained there until his death.

Richard cherished his family and especially playing with his son and nieces and nephews. He loved the outdoors, music, and spending time with family. He was very outgoing and never knew a stranger. He leaves many friends and family who will greatly miss him. He was preceded in death by his parents, his wife Kay, adopted son,Thomas Eugene Fry, his brother-in-law, Art Otterman, and sister-in-law Shirley Fry. He leaves his children William and Jodie, sisters Uveda Otterman of Basehor, KS, Marjorie (Larry) Talkin of Kansas City, KS, Barbara (Ron) Cranor of Basehor, KS, and brothers Melvin Fry of Pittsburg, KS and Donald Fry of Erie, KS;

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Mauricia M. O'Brien - March 03, 1939 - September 03, 2020

Departed: 09/03/2020 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Mauricia M. O’Brien, 81, of St. Paul, Kansas died at 10:03 a.m., Thursday, September 3, 2020 at the Brookdale Senior Living Center in Shawnee.

She was born March 3, 1939, at the family farmhouse in rural St. Paul, to Henry William and Mary Leodcadia (Donahue) Vitt. She graduated from St. Francis High School in 1957.

On January 9, 1960 she married her high school sweetheart, Joseph “Jay” O’Brien at St. Francis Catholic Church in St. Paul and they started their family. They celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary this past January.

Mauricia worked at Mercy Hospital in Parsons, Hallmark Cards in Kansas City and finally retiring from the St. Paul school district where she worked as a school cook for many years.

Mauricia loved gardening, raising flowers, decorating for the various seasons, bird watching and traveling, especially to Estes Park, Colorado. Her grandchildren and great-grandchildren were very special to her and loved all the family gatherings.

She was a member of the St. Francis Catholic Church, Daughters of Isabella, Harvest House, the morning prayer breakfast group and was a volunteer at the Prairie Mission Retirement Village.

Surviving are her husband, Jay, of the home; two daughters, Lisa A. Lalicker and her husband, Jason, of Lawrence, Kansas, Lynn D. Greenough and her husband, David, of Parsons, Kansas; two sons, Michael J. O’Brien, and his wife Melinda, of Kansas City, Missouri and Dwayne M. O’Brien, and his wife Tari, of Pittsburg, Kansas; Eleven grandchildren Arlie Diederich, Jarett Dauben, Elizabeth Lalicker, Kathryn Lalicker, Shelby O’Brien, Landon O’Brien, Sherie Greenough, Brandon Greenough, Sara Greenough, Abbie O’Brien and Connor O’Brien. Six great-grandchildren Gus Diederich, Patton Diederich, Colt Dauben, Molly Dauben, Case Dauben and Caden Greenough, along with many nieces and nephews.

Preceding her in death were her parents, a brother, William Vitt and two sisters, Mary Agnes Thompson and Margaret Mary O’Brien.

Due to Covid-19 restrictions, a private rosary will be held at St. Francis Catholic Church in St. Paul, Kansas, Tuesday, September 8, 2020 at 9:30 a.m., followed by a private family funeral mass at 10:00 a.m.

The burial, at St. Francis Cemetery, will follow the mass and the public will be welcome to attend.

The family will receive friends at the Carson-Wall Funeral Home in St. Paul from 6 to 7 p.m., Monday.

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J.B. Smith - October 25, 1949 - February 07, 2020

Departed: 02/07/2020 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: J. B. Smith, 70, of St. Paul, died at 10:25 a.m, Friday, February 7, 2020 at the Prairie Mission Retirement Village in St. Paul.

He was born October 25, 1949, in Parsons, to Henry Miles and Catherine (Maus) Smith. He grew up in St. Paul and attended St. Paul schools, graduating from St. Paul High School in 1968. He attended Kansas State University and earned a degree in Chemical Engineering.

Following college he was employed about 15 years by Phillips Petroleum Co. and spent considerable time in Norway. He returned to K.S.U. to earn a degree in accounting. He became a certified public accountant and was employed as audit manager for the City of Kansas City, Missouri tax office. He retired in 2012.

A few years after his retirement he returned to St. Paul to live. For many years he traveled to Mexico in the winter. He loved to snow ski and take cruises and had gone with nieces and nephews on many of these trips. He loved all sports. He was a member of St. Francis Catholic Church in St. Paul.

Surviving are three brothers, Lon Smith and Miles Smith, both of St. Paul and Jim Smith of Garnett; two sisters, Cathy O’Hara of Topeka and Colleen Vitek of Turlock, CA; and many nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents, two brothers, Larry Smith and Gene Smith and a sister, Clarita Bryant.

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Goldie I. Hershberger - April 30, 1921 - August 21, 2019

Departed: 08/21/2019 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Goldie I. Hershberger, 98, of St. Paul and a former Walnut resident, passed away at 6:47 a.m., Wednesday, August 21, 2019 at the Prairie Mission Retirement Village in St. Paul.

She was born on April 30, 1921 at Attica, Kansas to John and Alta (Martin) Arnold. She grew up at Wichita and Attica and attended schools there.

Goldie moved to Walnut in 1938 and then to St. Paul in 1998. She was a homemaker and worked at the Kansas Ordnance Plant in Parsons during World War II. She also drove a car for senior citizens transportation while living in Walnut.

She enjoyed crocheting, reading, puzzles, making pies, and most of all her grandchildren. She was a member of the United Methodist Church at Walnut and at St. Paul, the American Legion Ladies Auxiliary Post No. 170 in Chanute and Post No. 292 at Walnut. She was also a member of the Order of the Eastern Star Walnut Chapter.

She and Lawrence W. “Shorty” Hershberger were married on July 6, 1937 at Medicine Lodge, Kansas. He preceded her on September 12, 2001.

She is survived by her two daughters, Phyllis Deweese of Chanute and Linda Wilson of Erie; six grandchildren; many great-grandchildren and great-great grandchildren. In addition to her husband she was preceded in death by her brother, Valgene Arnold; her sister, Opal Doolin; a grandson, Larry Deweese; and a son-in-law, Butch Leroy Wilson.

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Adrienne M. Smith - October 17, 1976 - July 08, 2019

Departed: 07/08/2019 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Adrienne Smith, 42, of Chicago, IL and a native of the Stark area, died Monday morning, July 8, 2019 at Northwestern Memorial Hospital in Chicago after a courageous four year battle against sarcoma, an aggressive form of cancer.

She was born October 17, 1976 in Chanute, KS, the daughter of Patrick J. and Judy C. (Greve) Smith. She grew up in Stark, KS, attended Stark Grade School and graduated from Erie, KS High School in 1995. She attended the University of Notre Dame and graduated with a bachelor’s degree in accounting in 1999.

Following graduation she moved to Chicago to begin a career in corporate accounting and in 2000 became a C.P.A. (certified public accountant). She was employed at Waterton Associates for 16 years, most recently as Vice-President of Residential Accounting.

Adrienne made many friendships along the way that she cherished to the end. She was passionate about Notre Dame Athletics, especially football and men’s and women’s basketball, and she had limited tolerance for Michigan athletics. Adrienne loved traveling whether with friends or family and returned from a trip to Washington, D.C. just a few weeks ago.

She was a member of the Old St. Patrick’s Catholic Church in Chicago, the University of Notre Dame Alumni Association, the Illinois CPA society and AICPA. She was the top fundraiser for the American Lung Association’s Fight for Air Climb.

Surviving are her parents, Pat and Judy (Greve) Smith, of Stark; sister Stephanie and brother-in-law Wade LaRue of Erie; nephew Trey and nieces Jenna and Makenzie also of Erie; numerous friends throughout the Chicago area and sprinkled across the United States.

The Funeral Mass will be at 10 a.m., Saturday, at St. Francis Catholic Church in St. Paul, with Fr. Sam Pinkerton officiating. Burial will be in St. Patrick Cemetery at Walnut. The rosary will be prayed at the church at 7 p.m., Friday and following the family will receive friends.

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Claudine Westhoff - December 11, 1926 - March 08, 2019

Departed: 03/08/2019 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Claudine Westhoff, 92, of St. Paul, and formerly of Walnut and Erie passed away at 2:59 p.m., Friday, March 8, 2019 at the Prairie Mission Retirement Village in St. Paul.

Claudine was born on December 11, 1926 in Nevada, Missouri to Samuel Claude and Mary Candacia (Miller) Hiestand. She moved to Girard with her family where she spent most of her childhood. She attended Girard schools and graduated from Girard High School.

She married John Leo Westhoff on August 16, 1955 at St. Michael’s Catholic Church in Girard. He preceded her in death on January 25, 1975. They were blessed with five children, nine grandchildren, and nine great-grandchildren. Claudine in her younger years enjoyed square dancing. In fact Claudine met her husband at a square dance and that is where their story began. Claudine began her life as a wife, mother, and homemaker. She enjoyed sewing, playing pitch 31, checkers, reading, singing, and baking. She loved sharing her baked goods with friends and family. Especially her homemade bread!

She had a special talent for caring for the mentally handicapped. Later in years she used this talent while working at the Living Skills Center. She also worked at Arkhaven Nursing Home in Erie.

Once Claudine chose Prairie Mission Retirement Village as her home you would often see her in the dining room wrapping silverware or visiting with a staff member or another resident. She always felt the need to keep busy and help others. Playing noodle ball always put a smile on her face.

She is survived by her daughter, Mary Jo Little, and her, husband, Bob; her son, Claude Westhoff, and his wife, Kathy all of Walnut; nine grandchildren; nine great-grandchildren; and several nieces and nephews. In addition to her husband Claudine was preceded in death by her sons, Ron Westhoff, Michael Westhoff, and Eric Westhoff; her sister, Ella Mae Horton.

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John "Johnny" Ward - August 14, 1943 - November 11, 2018

Departed: 11/11/2018 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: John “Johnny” Ward, 75, life-long St. Paul resident, died at 2:30 P.M., Sunday, November 11, 2018 at his home in St. Paul.

He was born August 14, 1943 at St. Paul, a son of Carlyle G. and Cordy Bell (Thompson) Ward. He was raised in St. Paul and attended school there. He began working at the Katy Railroad in 1965 and was a machine operator. He was employed there until his retirement in 2002.

On August 31, 1965 he was united in marriage to Rose Marie Williams. She preceded him in death on October 16, 2011.

His hobbies included bowling, animals, gardening and fishing.

Survivors include: his loving companion – Linda Poulson, Stark, KS; two sons – David Hughes, Walnut, KS, James Ward, St. Paul, KS; one daughter – Peggy Riddle, Walnut, KS; twelve grandchildren; eighteen great-grandchildren; one brother – Carlyle Wayne Ward, San Antonio, TX; three sisters – Lucy Frost, Mound Valley, KS, Sara Caswell, St. Paul, KS, Terry Dewey, Neodesha, KS.

In addition to his wife, he was preceded in death by one son – Tommy Ward; one daughter – Davinda Swart; an infant brother – William Ward; five sisters –Pansy and Rose Ward (who died as infants), Sue Chase, Mary Woods and Janet McKinzie.

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Charles E. Gouvion - July 29, 1942 - July 29, 2018

Departed: 07/29/2018 (St Paul)

Obituary Preview: Charles E. Gouvion, 76, of rural St. Paul, unexpectedly passed away at his home on his birthday, early Sunday morning, July 29, 2018.

He was born on July 29, 1942 at Parsons to Ray and Agnes (McKinney) Gouvion He grew up on the family farm near St. Paul and attended Mentor country school till 6th grade and St. Paul School. He graduated from St. Paul High School in 1960.

Charles served in the United States Army Reserves serving as Company Commander of the 1010th Company of Parsons. He was honorably discharged in 1969 as 1st Lieutenant.

Charles worked at the First State Bank in Pittsburg, and then worked at the Girard National Bank from 1964 until his retirement in 2006. Charles served as a Loan Officer and Vice President. He currently served on the Bank Board of Directors at the Girard National Bank. He also was a stock-man and farmer and currently owned and operated the Girard insurance Agency.

He enjoyed square dancing with the Gents and Janes Square Dancing Club of Pittsburg, playing cards, traveling, clerking auctions, gardening, and he especially enjoyed his children and grandchildren. He was a faithful member of St. Francis Catholic Church of St. Paul where he served as Lector, Eucharistic Minister, and Usher.

Charles and Mary Jane Carter were united in marriage on February 20, 1965 at St. Francis Catholic Church at St. Paul. She survives of the home.

In addition to his wife, Charles is survived by his son, Daniel Gouvion of Tulsa, OK; his daughters, Diane Coomes of St. Paul and Denise Elsbernd, and her husband, Wayne of Kansas City, MO; his grandchildren, Jason Coomes, and his wife, Lesli of Merriam, KS, Tyler Coomes of St. Paul, Katie Coomes of St. Paul, Allison Elsbernd of North Lake, TX, Michaela Elsbernd of Kansas City, MO, and Lauren Elsbernd of Kansas City, MO; his brother, Ralph Gouvion, and his wife, Viola of St. Paul; his sister-in-law, Carolyn Gouvion of Parsons; several nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his parents; a brother, Donald Gouvion; and a son-in-law, Scott Coomes.

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Losing a loved one can be overwhelming, but you don't have to face it alone. At Carson-Wall Funeral Home, we're committed to providing ongoing support and resources to help you navigate the grieving process. From counseling services to support groups and online resources, we're here to help you find the comfort and guidance you need during this difficult time.

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At Carson-Wall Funeral Home - St. Paul, we're proud of our reputation for excellence and commitment to providing exceptional care to the families we serve. We're members of various professional organizations, including the National Funeral Directors Association (NFDA) and the Kansas Funeral Directors Association (KFDA), ensuring that our staff stays up-to-date on the latest industry developments and best practices.

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We're honored to be an integral part of the St. Paul community, working closely with local churches, charities, and organizations to support those in need. Whether it's participating in community events or providing educational resources on end-of-life care, we're dedicated to making a positive impact on the lives of those around us.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It serves as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries play a significant role in honoring the deceased, providing closure for those who are grieving, and serving as a historical record of a person's life. They also give friends and family an opportunity to pay tribute to their loved one and share memories.

What information is typically included in an obituary?

A standard obituary usually includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include a photo, funeral or memorial service details, and charitable donation information.

Who writes an obituary?

In most cases, the family of the deceased writes the obituary, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. The writer should be someone who knew the person well and can provide accurate and meaningful information.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words. Longer obituaries may be more suitable for online memorials or personal websites.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed and personalized tribute that celebrates the person's life.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, it is becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries before they pass away. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your story is told in your own words.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Check with the specific publication or platform for their submission guidelines and deadlines. You may need to provide the obituary text, photo, and payment information. Some funeral homes also offer obituary writing and submission services.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost varies depending on the publication or platform. Newspapers often charge by the word or line, while online platforms may offer free or paid options. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to several hundred dollars.

Can I make changes to an obituary after it's been published?

It may be possible to make corrections or updates to an obituary after publication, but this depends on the publication's policies. Be sure to proofread carefully before submission to avoid errors.

What if I want to keep the obituary private?

If you prefer not to publicly announce the death, you can opt for a private obituary or create a password-protected online memorial. This allows you to share the news with select individuals while maintaining privacy.

Can I include photos or other media in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include photos, videos, or other multimedia elements in an obituary. This can help bring the person's story to life and make the tribute more personal.

How long will an online obituary remain available?

This varies depending on the platform or website. Some online obituaries may remain available indefinitely, while others may be archived after a certain period. Be sure to check the website's policies before submitting.

Can I republish an obituary in multiple places?

Yes, you can republish an obituary in multiple newspapers, online platforms, or social media sites. This helps ensure that all friends and family are notified and can pay their respects.

What if I'm not satisfied with the published obituary?

If you're unhappy with the final product, contact the publication or platform directly to express your concerns. They may be able to make corrections or adjustments to improve your satisfaction.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media platforms like Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn can be effective ways to share an obituary with a wider audience. You can also create a memorial page or group to collect condolences and memories.

Is it appropriate to include humor in an obituary?

Yes! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate a person's personality and spirit. Just be sure to keep it respectful and tasteful.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person's values or personality.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary?

If you're finding it difficult to write an obituary, consider seeking help from a friend, family member, or professional writer. You can also find inspiration in online resources or templates.

Can I create an online memorial instead of publishing an obituary?

Yes! Online memorials offer a unique way to honor a loved one and collect memories from friends and family. They can be especially helpful for those who prefer not to publish a traditional obituary.

How do I handle condolences and messages from strangers?

If you're receiving condolences from people you don't know, you can respond with a simple thank you or ignore them altogether. Remember that these messages are often sent with kind intentions.

What if I need additional support during this time?

DON'T hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or professional counselors for emotional support during this difficult time. You can also seek guidance from bereavement groups or online resources.

Can I reuse an existing obituary template?

Yes! You can use existing templates as a starting point for writing your own obituary. Just be sure to customize it to fit your loved one's unique story and personality.

Are there any specific guidelines for writing an LGBTQ+-inclusive obituary?

Yes! When writing an LGBTQ+-inclusive obituary, prioritize respectfulness and accuracy when sharing information about gender identity, sexual orientation, and relationships.

How do I preserve an online obituary for future generations?

You can save a copy of the online obituary as a PDF or screenshot it for future reference. You may also consider creating a physical scrapbook or memory box with printed copies of the obituary.