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Alfred J. Law - January 02, 1935 - March 21, 2024

Departed: 03/21/2024 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Alfred John, III. Alfred John Law, III, died on March 21 in Rhinebeck, NY, after a long scuffle. He was 89. The cause of death was pernicious perplexity, according to his Jungian analyst. Medical experts blame complications of Parkinson's Disease.A resident of the Hudson Valley since 2000, Law had a multifarious career. He regarded himself as the ultimate dilettante, dabbling in a variety of activities and interests without committing to any one. Pointed in his youth toward the Episcopal ministry by a religious family, Law used Princeton (BA 1957) as a stepping stone to careers in journalism and, later, the law.Law's interest in journalism was fueled by his membership in the University Press Club, an organization of Princeton "stringer correspondents" for major news organizations. His seven-minute world "scoop" for the Associated Press of Albert Einstein's death earned him lasting renown. Law worked full-time for the AP, then the Wall Street Journal, while earning a master's in history (Columbia 1963) and a J.D. (NYU 1967). Honoring academic seriousness, his Master's Essay focused on The Veterans of Future Wars, a 1935 Princeton student prank. Law spent 20 years with Skadden, Arps, Slate, Meagher & Flom, seeing it grow from 17 to 500+ lawyers. He worked closely with his mentor, Joseph H. Flom (who pioneered the firm's mergers and acquisitions practice), then later headed the firm's Washington office. Law particularly enjoyed the collegiality of the early days and became known for gentle pranks that humanized the otherwise staid environment. He retired from practice in 1988 intent on "finding the meaning of life," particularly through the teachings of Carl G. Jung.Law was an avid sailor, photographer, and lifelong lover of classical music. He served on the Boards of the Washington Opera, Waverly Consort, Washington Performing Arts Society, and Hudson Valley Chamber Music Circle, and was Board Chairman of New York's Musica Sacra. Watching his young daughters take an interest in a televised performance of Mozart's Marriage of Figaro, Law attributed their enthusiasm to the use of English translation "surtitles." He persuaded a skeptical Washington Opera management team to try them by personally underwriting a surtitled test performance. They have used surtitles ever since.Law grew up in Chattanooga, TN, the son of Alfred J. Law Jr. and Mary Turner Law. He is survived by his wife, Glenda Fowler Law; daughters, Eliza Garcia of San Antonio, TX; Anna (Alan) Rast of American Fork, UT; and Margaret (Ritu) Law of San Francisco, CA; and grandchildren Kirsten and Kevin Rast, and Albert and Katharine Garcia. He is also survived by siblings Christian H. Law of Black Mountain, NC, and Mary M. Law of Berkeley, CA. His first two marriages ended in divorce. He was predeceased by his first wife, Katharine S. J. Law.If you wish to make a memorial contribution, please see the list below of dedicated places. A Choral Evensong in memory of Alfred J Law on Friday April 26,2024 at 4PM at Church of the Messiah in Rhinebeck

Alfred John, III. Alfred John Law, III, died on March 21 in Rhinebeck, NY, after a long scuffle. He was 89. The cause of death was pernicious perplexity, according to his Jungian analyst. Medical experts blame complications of Parkinson's Disease.

A resident of the Hudson Valley since 2000, Law had a multifarious career. He regarded himself as the ultimate dilettante, dabbling in a variety of activities and interests without committing to any one. Pointed in his youth toward the Episcopal ministry by a religious family, Law used Princeton (BA 1957) as a stepping stone to careers in journalism and, later, the law.

Law's interest in journalism was fueled by his membership in the University Press Club, an organization of Princeton "stringer correspondents" for major news organizations. His seven-minute world "scoop" for the Associated Press of Albert Einstein's death earned him lasting renown. Law worked full-time for the AP, then the Wall Street Journal, while earning a master's in history (Columbia 1963) and a J.D. (NYU 1967). Honoring academic seriousness, his Master's Essay focused on The Veterans of Future Wars, a 1935 Princeton student prank. Law spent 20 years with Skadden, Arps, Slate, Meagher & Flom, seeing it grow from 17 to 500+ lawyers. He worked closely with his mentor, Joseph H. Flom (who pioneered the firm's mergers and acquisitions practice), then later headed the firm's Washington office. Law particularly enjoyed the collegiality of the early days and became known for gentle pranks that humanized the otherwise staid environment. He retired from practice in 1988 intent on "finding the meaning of life," particularly through the teachings of Carl G. Jung.

Law was an avid sailor, photographer, and lifelong lover of classical music. He served on the Boards of the Washington Opera, Waverly Consort, Washington Performing Arts Society, and Hudson Valley Chamber Music Circle, and was Board Chairman of New York's Musica Sacra. Watching his young daughters take an interest in a televised performance of Mozart's Marriage of Figaro, Law attributed their enthusiasm to the use of English translation "surtitles." He persuaded a skeptical Washington Opera management team to try them by personally underwriting a surtitled test performance. They have used surtitles ever since.

Law grew up in Chattanooga, TN, the son of Alfred J. Law Jr. and Mary Turner Law. He is survived by his wife, Glenda Fowler Law; daughters, Eliza Garcia of San Antonio, TX; Anna (Alan) Rast of American Fork, UT; and Margaret (Ritu) Law of San Francisco, CA; and grandchildren Kirsten and Kevin Rast, and Albert and Katharine Garcia. He is also survived by siblings Christian H. Law of Black Mountain, NC, and Mary M. Law of Berkeley, CA. His first two marriages ended in divorce. He was predeceased by his first wife, Katharine S. J. Law.

If you wish to make a memorial contribution, please see the list below of dedicated places. A Choral Evensong in memory of Alfred J Law on Friday April 26,2024 at 4PM at Church of the Messiah in Rhinebeck

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Helen L. Scott - November 05, 1962 - January 29, 2024

Departed: 01/29/2024 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Helen L. Scott, passed away peacefully on January 29, 2024, at her daughter's home in Olivebridge, NY, after a valiant battle with cancer.Born on November 5, 1962, in Valhalla, NY, to the late Donald and Marissa (Smith) Scott, Helen's zest for life and her kind spirit touched everyone she met. Helen spent much of her life in the Hudson Valley.An avid lover of animals, Helen found joy in the simple pleasures of life. She found great comfort from her dogs and her grand puppies. The songs of birds brought a smile to her face and peace to her heart. Her passion for animals was a reflection of her own free spirit and her ability to find beauty in the world around her.Helen's journey through life was marked by her unwavering kindness and the love she shared with her family and friends. Her longtime companion, Mark Verderber, predeceased her just a few short weeks ago, leaving a legacy of cherished memories. She was a devoted mother to her children, Brandi (Jay) Abbondanza, Nolan Verderber, Ryan Verderber, and Justin Verderber, who will carry forward her strength and compassion. She was also a grandmother to one, Keith Tracy Verderber.Her brothers, Daniel Scott, Donald Scott, and Anthony DiMarco, will remember Helen for her loving nature. Helen's life was a testament to her courage, as she faced every challenge with grace and determination.In addition to her parents and Mark, Helen is predeceased by a brother, William Scott.Memorial donations may be made in Helen's memory to https://give.feedingamerica.org/a/donate because to Helen, food was love.Friends may call at the Burnett & White Funeral Homes, Rhinebeck, on Friday, February 9th, from 11 to 1PM. A memorial service will begin at 1PM. Immediately following, burial of ashes will take place at Crum Elbow Cemetery.Following services all are invited back to Coppola's Restaurant in Hyde Park for continued celebration of Helen's Life. Arrangements are under the care of Burnett & White Funeral Homes, 91 E. Market St. Rhinebeck, NY 12572.

Helen L. Scott, passed away peacefully on January 29, 2024, at her daughter's home in Olivebridge, NY, after a valiant battle with cancer.

Born on November 5, 1962, in Valhalla, NY, to the late Donald and Marissa (Smith) Scott, Helen's zest for life and her kind spirit touched everyone she met. Helen spent much of her life in the Hudson Valley.

An avid lover of animals, Helen found joy in the simple pleasures of life. She found great comfort from her dogs and her grand puppies. The songs of birds brought a smile to her face and peace to her heart. Her passion for animals was a reflection of her own free spirit and her ability to find beauty in the world around her.

Helen's journey through life was marked by her unwavering kindness and the love she shared with her family and friends. Her longtime companion, Mark Verderber, predeceased her just a few short weeks ago, leaving a legacy of cherished memories. She was a devoted mother to her children, Brandi (Jay) Abbondanza, Nolan Verderber, Ryan Verderber, and Justin Verderber, who will carry forward her strength and compassion. She was also a grandmother to one, Keith Tracy Verderber.

Her brothers, Daniel Scott, Donald Scott, and Anthony DiMarco, will remember Helen for her loving nature. Helen's life was a testament to her courage, as she faced every challenge with grace and determination.

In addition to her parents and Mark, Helen is predeceased by a brother, William Scott.

Memorial donations may be made in Helen's memory to https://give.feedingamerica.org/a/donate because to Helen, food was love.

Friends may call at the Burnett & White Funeral Homes, Rhinebeck, on Friday, February 9th, from 11 to 1PM. A memorial service will begin at 1PM. Immediately following, burial of ashes will take place at Crum Elbow Cemetery.

Following services all are invited back to Coppola's Restaurant in Hyde Park for continued celebration of Helen's Life.

Arrangements are under the care of Burnett & White Funeral Homes, 91 E. Market St. Rhinebeck, NY 12572.

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Mary Kathleen Fagan - November 09, 1965 - January 23, 2024

Departed: 01/23/2024 (Rhinebeck)

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Elaine J. Silvernail - November 08, 1941 - January 01, 2024

Departed: 01/01/2024 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: On January 1, 2024 as the New Year began, Elaine J. Silvernail of Rhinebeck, New York, passed into Life Eternal with our Lord Jesus Christ. Elaine was born on November 8, 1941, Elaine Barbara Johannsen, in Lynbrook , NY , the daughter of Ludwig Maas and Catherine “Kitty” Zazworsky Johannsen. Following a number of years on their family’s 200+ acre farm in Acra, NY, she along with her sister Claire, were raised primarily on Long Island, in Lynbrook. Elaine’s priorities were always her family, her faith, and her church. She was a daughter, a sister, a wife, a mother, and a teacher – something which embraced everything she was and everything she did in her life. Nothing less than excellent was acceptable. She was passionate about gardening and loved the arts – encouraging her children and grandchildren’s participation in music, dance, and visual art ; she knew how to organize and work hard. Giving up was never an option.Elaine earned her Bachelor’s Degree in Elementary Education from Oneonta State University. It was there that she met her soon-to-be husband of 59 years, Neal Silvernail. They married the morning of Elaine’s college graduation, on June 9, 1963. As a young, newly married wife and mother, Elaine took a break from teaching and dedicated her life to being a mother, raising her two children, and running the household as a wife to her husband, Neal. Even though she hated cooking, meals were always prepared at home. Eating out was far too expensive and therefore not an option.Elaine was a dedicated and creative educator who began her teaching career in 1963, teaching one year in Saugerties and one year in Richfield Springs before she and her husband, Neal rejoiced with the birth of their first-born daughter, Cara in 1965 and again with their second-born daughter, Kristin, in 1969. She and Neal settled in the Rhinebeck area in 1965, for her husband Neal’s new position in the Rhinebeck Central School District. She resumed her teaching career in the Rhinebeck Central School District a number of years following the birth of their second daughter, Kristin and then in 1982 accepted a position in the Pine Plains Central School District, until her retirement in the early 2000s. Elaine’s faith was a cardinal aspect of her life. As a member of Third Evangelical Lutheran Church in Rhinebeck, she served as Sunday School Superintendent and teacher for over 15 years. She shared the responsibilities as Couples’ Club director with her husband, Neal. She was the Chair of the Worship & Music Committee, and in charge of the Altar Guild and Fellowship Committees for many years. Elaine was always there for everyone in the family. She attended every dance, music, and gymnastic lesson for each of her children. It enabled her to be an incredible private coach at home during practice time, having received the detailed information shared during each lesson directly from the teacher. Even though she never learned to swim herself, she learned the proper form of each stroke from the coach and made sure that her girls were proficient swimmers! That same enthusiasm continued with her grandchildren as she attended every swim meet, every horse show, every basketball and baseball game, every concert, and every ceremony in which they participated. There was no part of her family’s life that she missed. She was always there to cheer them on, offer support, and advise how to do it even better the next time. Elaine impacted everyone she met and she will continue to live on in our hearts forever through the many priceless memories we have of her.Elaine is survived by her daughters Cara Silvernail-Thomson (Richard), Kristin O’Connor (Robert), as well as grandchildren Jordan S. Thomson Zietz (John), Dylan S. Thomson (Caroline “Killian” Carr), Aiden S. Thomson, Abigail and David O’Connor and Ilysa Genden (Tyler) and great-grandson, Theodore Thomson Zietz. Surviving also is sister Claire Gentile (John, deceased) of Eagle River, Alaska and many nieces, nephews and great nieces and nephews.In addition to her parents, Elaine is predeceased by her husband, Neal B. Silvernail, who passed on to Life Eternal on July 10, 2022.Memorial services will be held on Saturday, January 13, 2024 at 11:00am at the Third Evangelical Lutheran Church at 31 Livingston Street in Rhinebeck, NY 12572. A reception for family and friends will immediately follow the service in the Fellowship Hall.Memorial donations may be made in Elaine’s name to the Third Evangelical Lutheran Church at 31 Livingston Street, Rhinebeck, NY 12572 or Dutchess County Hudson Valley Hospice at 374 Violet Avenue, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601.Arrangements are under the direction of Burnett and White Funeral Home, 91 E. Market Street, Rhinebeck, NY 12572.To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Elaine, please visit our Tree Store. On January 1, 2024 as the New Year began, Elaine J. Silvernail of Rhinebeck, New York, passed into Life Eternal with our Lord Jesus Christ. Elaine was born on November 8, 1941,

Elaine Barbara Johannsen, in Lynbrook , NY , the daughter of Ludwig Maas and Catherine “Kitty” Zazworsky Johannsen. Following a number of years on their family’s 200+ acre farm in Acra, NY, she along with her sister Claire, were raised primarily on Long Island, in Lynbrook.

Elaine’s priorities were always her family, her faith, and her church. She was a daughter, a sister, a wife, a mother, and a teacher – something which embraced everything she was and everything she did in her life. Nothing less than excellent was acceptable. She was passionate about gardening and loved the arts – encouraging her children and grandchildren’s participation in music, dance, and visual art ; she knew how to organize and work hard. Giving up was never an option.

Elaine earned her Bachelor’s Degree in Elementary Education from Oneonta State University. It was there that she met her soon-to-be husband of 59 years, Neal Silvernail. They married the morning of Elaine’s college graduation, on June 9, 1963.

As a young, newly married wife and mother, Elaine took a break from teaching and dedicated her life to being a mother, raising her two children, and running the household as a wife to her husband, Neal. Even though she hated cooking, meals were always prepared at home. Eating out was far too expensive and therefore not an option.

Elaine was a dedicated and creative educator who began her teaching career in 1963, teaching one year in Saugerties and one year in Richfield Springs before she and her husband, Neal rejoiced with the birth of their first-born daughter, Cara in 1965 and again with their second-born daughter, Kristin, in 1969.

She and Neal settled in the Rhinebeck area in 1965, for her husband Neal’s new position in the Rhinebeck Central School District. She resumed her teaching career in the Rhinebeck Central School District a number of years following the birth of their second daughter, Kristin and then in 1982 accepted a position in the Pine Plains Central School District, until her retirement in the early 2000s.

Elaine’s faith was a cardinal aspect of her life. As a member of Third Evangelical Lutheran Church in Rhinebeck, she served as Sunday School Superintendent and teacher for over 15 years. She shared the responsibilities as Couples’ Club director with her husband, Neal. She was the Chair of the Worship & Music Committee, and in charge of the Altar Guild and Fellowship Committees for many years.

Elaine was always there for everyone in the family. She attended every dance, music, and gymnastic lesson for each of her children. It enabled her to be an incredible private coach at home during practice time, having received the detailed information shared during each lesson directly from the teacher. Even though she never learned to swim herself, she learned the proper form of each stroke from the coach and made sure that her girls were proficient swimmers! That same enthusiasm continued with her grandchildren as she attended every swim meet, every horse show, every basketball and baseball game, every concert, and every ceremony in which they participated. There was no part of her family’s life that she missed. She was always there to cheer them on, offer support, and advise how to do it even better the next time. Elaine impacted everyone she met and she will continue to live on in our hearts forever through the many priceless memories we have of her.

Elaine is survived by her daughters Cara Silvernail-Thomson (Richard), Kristin O’Connor (Robert), as well as grandchildren Jordan S. Thomson Zietz (John), Dylan S. Thomson (Caroline “Killian” Carr), Aiden S. Thomson, Abigail and David O’Connor and Ilysa Genden (Tyler) and great-grandson, Theodore Thomson Zietz. Surviving also is sister Claire Gentile (John, deceased) of Eagle River, Alaska and many nieces, nephews and great nieces and nephews.

In addition to her parents, Elaine is predeceased by her husband, Neal B. Silvernail, who passed on to Life Eternal on July 10, 2022.

Memorial services will be held on Saturday, January 13, 2024 at 11:00am at the Third Evangelical Lutheran Church at 31 Livingston Street in Rhinebeck, NY 12572. A reception for family and friends will immediately follow the service in the Fellowship Hall.

Memorial donations may be made in Elaine’s name to the Third Evangelical Lutheran Church at 31 Livingston Street, Rhinebeck, NY 12572 or Dutchess County Hudson Valley Hospice at 374 Violet Avenue, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601.

Arrangements are under the direction of Burnett and White Funeral Home, 91 E. Market Street, Rhinebeck, NY 12572.

To plant a beautiful memorial tree in memory of Elaine, please visit our Tree Store.

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Aileen W. Boal - December 22, 1932 - December 16, 2023

Departed: 12/16/2023 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Aileen Van Bibber Boal, “Mimsey,” 90, of Woodstock, NY, passed away on Saturday, December 16, 2023 at the Northern Dutchess Hospital in Rhinebeck, NY., after a brief illness. Born on December 22, 1932, in Piqua, OH, she was the daughter of the late William Boal and Francis Elizabeth (Ottley) Wood. Aileen grew up in Piqua, Ohio and Aiken, South Carolina. Aileen graduated from Foxcroft School in Middleburg, VA. where she was a renowned equestrian and lover of nature on Foxcroft’s beautiful 500 acre campus. Aileen was geographically experienced. She lived at Arrowston, Piqua, OH., Green Boundary, Aiken, SC., Sutton Place in New York City, Yelverton in South Devon, England, Charlottesville, VA., and Woodstock, NY.Aileen was a homemaker. Above all, she was a wonderful mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and a lover of animals, big and small. She is survived by five of her six children and in-laws as follows: William F. Peck (Anne N. Peck), Cockeysville, MD., Barbara V. Peck (Deceased), David T. Peck (Jane A. Peck), Piqua, Ohio, Sarah Peck Tieger (Herbert Tieger), Pebble Beach, CA., Greta T. Nicholas, Woodstock, NY., and Dimitri M. Nicholas, Palm Beach, FL. Aileen is also survived by 12 grandchildren and 8 great-grandchildren. She was previously married to David F. Peck in 1955 (deceased), Dimitri P. Nicholas in 1966 (deceased), and John Hillier in 1984. Memorial donations may be made in Aileen’s memory to Ulster County SPCA, 20 Wiedy Road Kingston, NY 12401 or Family of Woodstock, Inc, P.O. Box 3516, Kingston, NY 12402. A springtime memorial service is being planned for family and close friends. Arrangements are under the direction of Burnett & White Funeral Homes 91 E. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY.

Aileen Van Bibber Boal, “Mimsey,” 90, of Woodstock, NY, passed away on Saturday, December 16, 2023 at the Northern Dutchess Hospital in Rhinebeck, NY., after a brief illness.

Born on December 22, 1932, in Piqua, OH, she was the daughter of the late William Boal and Francis Elizabeth (Ottley) Wood. Aileen grew up in Piqua, Ohio and Aiken, South Carolina. Aileen graduated from Foxcroft School in Middleburg, VA. where she was a renowned equestrian and lover of nature on Foxcroft’s beautiful 500 acre campus.

Aileen was geographically experienced. She lived at Arrowston, Piqua, OH., Green Boundary, Aiken, SC., Sutton Place in New York City, Yelverton in South Devon, England, Charlottesville, VA., and Woodstock, NY.

Aileen was a homemaker. Above all, she was a wonderful mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and a lover of animals, big and small. She is survived by five of her six children and in-laws as follows: William F. Peck (Anne N. Peck), Cockeysville, MD., Barbara V. Peck (Deceased), David T. Peck (Jane A. Peck), Piqua, Ohio, Sarah Peck Tieger (Herbert Tieger), Pebble Beach, CA., Greta T. Nicholas, Woodstock, NY., and Dimitri M. Nicholas, Palm Beach, FL. Aileen is also survived by 12 grandchildren and 8 great-grandchildren.

She was previously married to David F. Peck in 1955 (deceased), Dimitri P. Nicholas in 1966 (deceased), and John Hillier in 1984.

Memorial donations may be made in Aileen’s memory to Ulster County SPCA, 20 Wiedy Road Kingston, NY 12401 or Family of Woodstock, Inc, P.O. Box 3516, Kingston, NY 12402.

A springtime memorial service is being planned for family and close friends.

Arrangements are under the direction of Burnett & White Funeral Homes 91 E. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY.

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M. George Mielich - May 06, 1937 - December 08, 2023

Departed: 12/08/2023 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: (Martin) George Mielich, 86, a longtime resident of Rhinebeck and current resident of Clayton, NC, died Friday, December 8th, 2023 at the Transitions Lifecare Hospice in Raleigh, NC.Born on May 6, 1937, in Rhinebeck, NY, he was the son of the late Max and Kathleen (Jennings) Mielich. George married Carol White on April 30, 1960 at Good Shepherd Church in Rhinebeck, NY. Carol predeceased him on April 27, 2019.Upon graduating high school, George worked at IBM in Kingston, Poughkeepsie, & Fishkill until he retired in 1992. He was also a member of their Quarter Century Club. Following his retirement, he and Carol were the owners and operators of F & M Printing in Red Hook, NY. After moving to North Carolina, he also worked for Johnston County Schools in many capacities. He retired from the school system in 2019.Active in fire service, George was a life member of Rhinebeck Fire Department where he served in many capacities including Chief, President, and Financial Secretary. He was also a member of the New England Veterans Fireman’s League where he served as President.George loved growing orchids and was a member of the Mid-Hudson Orchid Society. In his spare time, he enjoyed a good round of golf.He was a former communicant of Good Shepherd church in Rhinebeck and St. Anne’s church in Clayton, NC.He is survived by his daughters, Dee Fingar, Pat Stroka, and Mary Mielich all of Clayton, NC; his brothers, Max Mielich of Rhinecliff, NY, and Larry (Janice) Mielich of Hyde Park, NY; his grandchildren, Chris Fingar, Bryon (Nina) Fingar, Matt (Orlena) Fingar, Erik Stroka, and Bekky (Adam) Johnson; seven great grandchildren; along with extended family, friends, and colleagues in the fire services.In addition to his wife, a sister, Barbara Gannon, and his son in law, William Stroka predeceased him.Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, December 16, 2023 at 11 am at Church of the Good Shepherd, Rhinebeck, NY. Burial will be at Rhinebeck Cemetery, Rhinebeck, NY.Friends may call at the Burnett & White Funeral Home in Rhinebeck on Friday, December 15, 2023 from 4 to 7 pm. Rhinebeck Fire Department will be conducting services at 5:00 pm.Memorial donations may be made in George’s memory to the American Heart Association in honor of several great grandchildren, and Transitions Lifecare Hospice in Raleigh, NC.Arrangements are under the direction of Burnett & White Funeral Homes 91 E. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY.

(Martin) George Mielich, 86, a longtime resident of Rhinebeck and current resident of Clayton, NC, died Friday, December 8th, 2023 at the Transitions Lifecare Hospice in Raleigh, NC.

Born on May 6, 1937, in Rhinebeck, NY, he was the son of the late Max and Kathleen (Jennings) Mielich. George married Carol White on April 30, 1960 at Good Shepherd Church in Rhinebeck, NY. Carol predeceased him on April 27, 2019.

Upon graduating high school, George worked at IBM in Kingston, Poughkeepsie, & Fishkill until he retired in 1992. He was also a member of their Quarter Century Club. Following his retirement, he and Carol were the owners and operators of F & M Printing in Red Hook, NY. After moving to North Carolina, he also worked for Johnston County Schools in many capacities. He retired from the school system in 2019.

Active in fire service, George was a life member of Rhinebeck Fire Department where he served in many capacities including Chief, President, and Financial Secretary. He was also a member of the New England Veterans Fireman’s League where he served as President.

George loved growing orchids and was a member of the Mid-Hudson Orchid Society. In his spare time, he enjoyed a good round of golf.

He was a former communicant of Good Shepherd church in Rhinebeck and St. Anne’s church in Clayton, NC.

He is survived by his daughters, Dee Fingar, Pat Stroka, and Mary Mielich all of Clayton, NC; his brothers, Max Mielich of Rhinecliff, NY, and Larry (Janice) Mielich of Hyde Park, NY; his grandchildren, Chris Fingar, Bryon (Nina) Fingar, Matt (Orlena) Fingar, Erik Stroka, and Bekky (Adam) Johnson; seven great grandchildren; along with extended family, friends, and colleagues in the fire services.

In addition to his wife, a sister, Barbara Gannon, and his son in law, William Stroka predeceased him.

Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Saturday, December 16, 2023 at 11 am at Church of the Good Shepherd, Rhinebeck, NY. Burial will be at Rhinebeck Cemetery, Rhinebeck, NY.

Friends may call at the Burnett & White Funeral Home in Rhinebeck on Friday, December 15, 2023 from 4 to 7 pm. Rhinebeck Fire Department will be conducting services at 5:00 pm.

Memorial donations may be made in George’s memory to the American Heart Association in honor of several great grandchildren, and Transitions Lifecare Hospice in Raleigh, NC.

Arrangements are under the direction of Burnett & White Funeral Homes 91 E. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY.

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Muriel Karagianis - March 03, 1926 - December 02, 2023

Departed: 12/02/2023 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Muriel was a force. She lived her life with an open mind, but a strong opinion. Although she experienced great hardship, Muriel met every challenge head on and always persevered. Her generosity towards family, friends, and even strangers always prevailed. This was ever apparent during her 30 year tenure as a volunteer at Northern Dutchess Hospital.Born on March 3rd, 1926 in Englewood, NJ and then residing in Bronx, NY, Muriel attended high school and later went on to work as a secretary at an ad agency on Madison Avenue in Manhattan. In 1948 she married her one and only, John Karagianis (d.1996), who had lived mere blocks from her prior to their meeting. John and Muriel soon started a family, including two sons; John Karagianis (d.2008) and Steven Karagianis (d.1976), along with their beloved dogs. Together, John and Muriel restored a beautiful home in Yonkers which they enjoyed with their extended family for many joyful years before retiring in Milan, NY.Throughout her life, Muriel was passionate about many things; the Yankees, Mahjong, gardening, Jeopardy, her Greek heritage, and most of all, her family.She has always been the heart and head of the family and acted as the record keeper. She was the only one with deep knowledge of every branch of the large family tree. She spent her last days surrounded by her family, all of whom she repeatedly told to tidy up her room and go home –which really meant, “I love you.”Muriel will forever hold a special place in so many hearts. Her memory will continue to bring everyone together, just as she did all her life, even in the end.Most recently, Muriel was a resident of Rhinebeck, New York. She was 97 years old when she passed on peacefully on December 2, 2023.She is survived by her granddaughter Lauren Karagianis, brother Zenith Valmas (Elaine Valmas), sister Chrysanthe Tsapekou, along with many other beloved family members.Memorial donations may be made in Muriel's memory to the Northern Dutchess Hospital, https://www.nuvancehealth.org/giving/support-your-community-hospital.All are welcome to attend the services. A wake will be held on Tuesday, December 12, 2023 from 4 to 7PM at Burnett & White Funeral Home, 91 E Market St, Rhinebeck, NY 12572. Interment will be held on Wednesday, December 13, 2023 at 11:30AM at Hillside Cemetery, 1033 Oregon Rd, Cortlandt, NY 10567.Arrangements are under the care of Burnett & White Funeral Homes, 91 E. Market St. Rhinebeck, NY 12572.

Muriel was a force. She lived her life with an open mind, but a strong opinion. Although she experienced great hardship, Muriel met every challenge head on and always persevered. Her generosity towards family, friends, and even strangers always prevailed. This was ever apparent during her 30 year tenure as a volunteer at Northern Dutchess Hospital.

Born on March 3rd, 1926 in Englewood, NJ and then residing in Bronx, NY, Muriel attended high school and later went on to work as a secretary at an ad agency on Madison Avenue in Manhattan. In 1948 she married her one and only, John Karagianis (d.1996), who had lived mere blocks from her prior to their meeting. John and Muriel soon started a family, including two sons; John Karagianis (d.2008) and Steven Karagianis (d.1976), along with their beloved dogs. Together, John and Muriel restored a beautiful home in Yonkers which they enjoyed with their extended family for many joyful years before retiring in Milan, NY.

Throughout her life, Muriel was passionate about many things; the Yankees, Mahjong, gardening, Jeopardy, her Greek heritage, and most of all, her family. She has always been the heart and head of the family and acted as the record keeper. She was the only one with deep knowledge of every branch of the large family tree. She spent her last days surrounded by her family, all of whom she repeatedly told to tidy up her room and go home – which really meant, “I love you.”

Muriel will forever hold a special place in so many hearts. Her memory will continue to bring everyone together, just as she did all her life, even in the end.

Most recently, Muriel was a resident of Rhinebeck, New York. She was 97 years old when she passed on peacefully on December 2, 2023.

She is survived by her granddaughter Lauren Karagianis, brother Zenith Valmas (Elaine Valmas), sister Chrysanthe Tsapekou, along with many other beloved family members.

Memorial donations may be made in Muriel's memory to the Northern Dutchess Hospital, https://www.nuvancehealth.org/giving/support-your-community-hospital.

All are welcome to attend the services. A wake will be held on Tuesday, December 12, 2023 from 4 to 7PM at Burnett & White Funeral Home, 91 E Market St, Rhinebeck, NY 12572. Interment will be held on Wednesday, December 13, 2023 at 11:30AM at Hillside Cemetery, 1033 Oregon Rd, Cortlandt, NY 10567.

Arrangements are under the care of Burnett & White Funeral Homes, 91 E. Market St. Rhinebeck, NY 12572.

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Mary Esther Tumasian - January 21, 1939 - November 25, 2023

Departed: 11/25/2023 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Mary Esther Tumasian, 84, a longtime Olivebridge resident, passed away on Saturday, November 25, 2023 at the Ferncliff Nursing Home in Rhinebeck, NY.Born on January 21, 1939, in Godeffroy, NY, she was the daughter of the late Henry and Janie (Aber) Nielson.Mary married Joseph J. Tumasian on May 25, 1957 in Port Jervis, NY. Joe predeceased her in July 2021. Together they shared a beautiful 64 years hand in hand. Wherever Joe could be found, Mary stood gracefully by his side with a warm smile and a kind word for all.With a heart woven from love and laughter, she seamlessly blended into the fabric of her family and friends’ existence, becoming the very soul of their collective story. Her days were a tapestry of shared moments, marked by the joyous echoes of children’s laughter as she gently pulled her grandkids in a wagon for miles. They will cherish those memories for time to come.Mary is survived by her daughters, Deborah (Paul) Christiana of Florida, and Angelina (Ross) Singer of Port Ewen, NY; her grandchildren, Joseph (Alexandra) and Matthew; her great granddaughter, Angelina; her siblings, Shirley Swartwood, Frank (Carol) Nielson, and Henry Nielson; her many nieces and nephews of whom she adored; in addition to extended family and friends.In addition to her husband, Mary is predeceased by her brother in law, Bun Swartwood, and sister in law, Gail Nielson.A special note of gratitude to Susan Leighty and Joann Grazier, whom were a source of grace and guidance through Mary's life.Memorial donations may be made in Mary’s memory to the Hudson Valley Hospice-Foundation, 80 Washington Ave., Suite 204, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601 .Services will take place on Saturday, December 2, 2023 at Burnett & White Funeral Homes, Rhinebeck. The family will welcome guests from 10 am to 12 pm. A brief memorial service will begin at 10:30 am.Arrangements are under the direction of Burnett & White Funeral Homes, 91 E. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY.For directions, or to sign the online guest book, please visit www.Burnett-White.com.

Mary Esther Tumasian, 84, a longtime Olivebridge resident, passed away on Saturday, November 25, 2023 at the Ferncliff Nursing Home in Rhinebeck, NY.

Born on January 21, 1939, in Godeffroy, NY, she was the daughter of the late Henry and Janie (Aber) Nielson.

Mary married Joseph J. Tumasian on May 25, 1957 in Port Jervis, NY. Joe predeceased her in July 2021. Together they shared a beautiful 64 years hand in hand. Wherever Joe could be found, Mary stood gracefully by his side with a warm smile and a kind word for all.

With a heart woven from love and laughter, she seamlessly blended into the fabric of her family and friends’ existence, becoming the very soul of their collective story. Her days were a tapestry of shared moments, marked by the joyous echoes of children’s laughter as she gently pulled her grandkids in a wagon for miles. They will cherish those memories for time to come.

Mary is survived by her daughters, Deborah (Paul) Christiana of Florida, and Angelina (Ross) Singer of Port Ewen, NY; her grandchildren, Joseph (Alexandra) and Matthew; her great granddaughter, Angelina; her siblings, Shirley Swartwood, Frank (Carol) Nielson, and Henry Nielson; her many nieces and nephews of whom she adored; in addition to extended family and friends.

In addition to her husband, Mary is predeceased by her brother in law, Bun Swartwood, and sister in law, Gail Nielson.

A special note of gratitude to Susan Leighty and Joann Grazier, whom were a source of grace and guidance through Mary's life.

Memorial donations may be made in Mary’s memory to the Hudson Valley Hospice-Foundation, 80 Washington Ave., Suite 204, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601 .

Services will take place on Saturday, December 2, 2023 at Burnett & White Funeral Homes, Rhinebeck. The family will welcome guests from 10 am to 12 pm. A brief memorial service will begin at 10:30 am.

Arrangements are under the direction of Burnett & White Funeral Homes, 91 E. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY.

For directions, or to sign the online guest book, please visit www.Burnett-White.com.

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Ubaldo G. Antolini - July 19, 1933 - November 17, 2023

Departed: 11/17/2023 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Ubaldo G. Antolini, 90, a longtime Rhinebeck resident, passed away on Friday, November 17, 2023 surrounded by his loving family.Born July 19, 1933, in Lozzola di Berceto, Province of Parma, Italy. He was the son of the late Giovanni and Rosina (Racasi) Antolini. Ubaldo moved to America in the early 1960’s.Ubaldo married Josee Pezzini in 1970 at St. Silvia’s Church in Tivoli, NY. They were married for 53 years. She survives at their home. Together they built a life in the Rhinebeck community.Trained as a cabinet maker in Italy. He worked at the Hudson River Psychiatric Center in Poughkeepsie for 26 years as a carpenter.A devout Catholic, he was a longtime parishioner at Good Shepherd Church. In his free time, he enjoyed planting and tending to his vegetable garden which was admired by many. As a talented carpenter he built many types of custom furniture over the years.In addition to his wife, Ubaldo is survived by his daughter, Carol, and her husband Chris of Stamford, CT; his siblings, his brother Sergio Antolini of Italy, his brother and sister-in-law Vincenzo and Anna Antolini of Italy and sister Adele Grilli of Italy; as well as many cousins and nieces and nephews. Ubaldo was predeceased by his sister Lina Forni of Italy.Friends may call at the Burnett & White Funeral Home, 91 E. Market St., Rhinebeck on Monday, November 27, 2023 from 4 to 7 PM.A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, November 28, 2023 at 11 AM at Good Shepherd Church, Rhinebeck. Interment will be private.The family would like to thank Hudson Valley Hospice, especially Nancy and Corrine, and the staff who provided companionship and comfort.Memorial donations may be made in Ubaldo’s memory to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center Attn: Community Fundraising Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, Office of Development, PO Box 27106 New York, NY 10087 or Hudson Valley Hospice Foundation, 80 Washington Street, Suite 204, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601.Arrangements are under the direction of Burnett & White Funeral Homes, 91 E. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY 12572.

Ubaldo G. Antolini, 90, a longtime Rhinebeck resident, passed away on Friday, November 17, 2023 surrounded by his loving family.

Born July 19, 1933, in Lozzola di Berceto, Province of Parma, Italy. He was the son of the late Giovanni and Rosina (Racasi) Antolini. Ubaldo moved to America in the early 1960’s.

Ubaldo married Josee Pezzini in 1970 at St. Silvia’s Church in Tivoli, NY. They were married for 53 years. She survives at their home. Together they built a life in the Rhinebeck community.

Trained as a cabinet maker in Italy. He worked at the Hudson River Psychiatric Center in Poughkeepsie for 26 years as a carpenter.

A devout Catholic, he was a longtime parishioner at Good Shepherd Church. In his free time, he enjoyed planting and tending to his vegetable garden which was admired by many. As a talented carpenter he built many types of custom furniture over the years.

In addition to his wife, Ubaldo is survived by his daughter, Carol, and her husband Chris of Stamford, CT; his siblings, his brother Sergio Antolini of Italy, his brother and sister-in-law Vincenzo and Anna Antolini of Italy and sister Adele Grilli of Italy; as well as many cousins and nieces and nephews. Ubaldo was predeceased by his sister Lina Forni of Italy.

Friends may call at the Burnett & White Funeral Home, 91 E. Market St., Rhinebeck on Monday, November 27, 2023 from 4 to 7 PM.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, November 28, 2023 at 11 AM at Good Shepherd Church, Rhinebeck. Interment will be private.

The family would like to thank Hudson Valley Hospice, especially Nancy and Corrine, and the staff who provided companionship and comfort.

Memorial donations may be made in Ubaldo’s memory to Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center Attn: Community Fundraising Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, Office of Development, PO Box 27106 New York, NY 10087 or Hudson Valley Hospice Foundation, 80 Washington Street, Suite 204, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601.

Arrangements are under the direction of Burnett & White Funeral Homes, 91 E. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY 12572.

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Barbara Grace Montoya - November 04, 1959 - November 09, 2023

Departed: 11/09/2023 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Grace Montoya, 64, a longtime Rhinebeck resident, passed away on Thursday, November 9, 2023, surrounded by her loving family.

Born on November 4, 1959, in Szczecin, Poland, she was the daughter of the late George and Urszula (Szybowicz) Holtz. In November 1973, George, Urszula, Barbara and older sister, Irena emigrated from Szczecin to the United States to give their daughters greater opportunities. They settled in Poughkeepsie, New York, and Barbara attended Poughkeepsie High School, where she was very social and had many adoring friends, even as she was learning English. Barbara worked in several roles as a young woman, including as a phlebotomist and bank teller.

Ralph Montoya fell in love with Barbara when he met her at her work in 1992. They married on November 13, 1993, in Poughkeepsie, NY, and gave birth to the light of their lives, their beautiful daughter Marci Maria Montoya, in June of 1995. Barbara and Ralph made countless memories on vacations to Florida and Maine, raising Marci and later visiting her in Los Angeles, spending time with Barbara’s parents in Poughkeepsie, and enjoying each other’s company.

She dedicated her life to creating a warm and loving home for her family, embracing her role as a homemaker with unwavering devotion. Barbara found joy in life’s simple pleasures, relishing shopping excursions, gardening, sun-kissed days at the beach or at the pool, and her lunches out with friends. Above all, her greatest passion was spending cherished moments with her family, and her love for her daughter Marci was immeasurable. Marci was the greatest joy of her life. She leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and the memories she created with all of those who were fortunate enough to share her life.

In addition to her loving husband Ralph of 30 years, Barbara is survived by her only daughter Marci Montoya, her sister Irena Holtz Black, and niece Holly Black. In addition, she is survived by her stepchildren Lexie Montoya, Kimberly Russell, and Paul Montoya; her cousins, Roza Dosia, Marion Holtz, Regina Abadsidis, Gabriela Holtz, and her very dear friends, Theresa Seymour, Melinda Lorne, and Joanne Engle.

Friends may call at the Burnett & White Funeral Homes, Red Hook, on Sunday, November 12, 2023 from 11 to 1 PM. A memorial service will begin at 1PM. In lieu of condolences, the family kindly requests that those wishing to express their sympathy through flowers consider sending tulips, as they held a special place in Barbara's heart and beautifully reflect the cherished memories she leaves behind

Arrangements are under the direction of Burnett & White Funeral Homes 7461 S. Broadway, Red Hook, NY 12571.

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Raymond Heady Jr. - January 20, 1939 - October 13, 2023

Departed: 10/13/2023 (Rhinebeck)

Obituary Preview: Raymond Heady, Jr, 84, of Rhinebeck, NY and previously of Germantown and Brick, NJ, passed away on Friday, October 13, 2023 at the Ferncliff Nursing Home in Rhinebeck, NY with his loving wife by his side.

Born on January 20, 1939, in Poughkeepsie, NY he was the son of the late Raymond and Marie (Mower) Heady, Sr. Ray married Rose Marie Contarino on December 27, 1959 in St. Stanislas Church in Pleasant Valley, NY.

Ray proudly served in the United States Army from 1960 to 1962 in Germany.

For much of his career, Ray was a Sheet Metal Fabricator with EAI Corporation in Long Branch, NJ. He also spent time working in Heating & AC at AAA Heating and Cooling and in his later years, after retirement he worked as a security guard at Vassar Hospital in Poughkeepsie.

Ray, a devoted Catholic, had been a dedicated member of the Good Shepherd Church in Rhinebeck for many years and had previously been part of the congregation at St. Mary’s in Hudson. In his leisure time, he held NRA membership, expressing a deep passion for firearms, hunting and fishing. Additionally, he developed a strong fascination for shortwave radio. While residing in New Jersey, Ray relished exploring flea markets, engaging in the buying and selling of various items. During what his family fondly recalls as his “last adventure,” Ray discovered his wild side, thoroughly enjoying motorcycle rides and proudly displaying his Betty Boop tattoo.

Ray is survived by his loving wife, Rose Marie Heady of Rhinebeck, NY; his daughter, Lisa (Craig) Stellman of Florida; his granddaughter, Crystal (Kitch) Hines of North Carolina; his great grandchildren, Brecken and Harper Hines; his step grandchildren and great grandchildren; his siblings, Ken (Evelyn) Heady of Poughquaq, NY, Christine (Marvin) Clina of Pleasant Valley, NY, and Mary (Roger) Dalton of Stanfordville, NY; in addition to extended family and friends.

His son, Raymond James Heady, and his siblings, Barbara Knickerbocker and Leo Heady predecease him.

A Mass of Christina Burial will be held at 11AM on Friday, October 20, 2023 at Church of the Good Shepherd, Rhinebeck, NY. The Fr. Jeffrey Maurer will officiate. Burial will follow at St. Peters Cemetery, Poughkeepsie.

Friends may call at the Burnett & White Funeral Homes, Rhinebeck on Thursday, October 19, 2033 from 4PM to 7PM.

Memorial donations may be made in Raymond’s memory to The Church of the Good Shepherd, 3 Mulberry St. Rhinebeck, NY 12572.

Arrangements are under the direction of Burnett & White Funeral Homes 91 E. Market St., Rhinebeck, NY.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It's often used to share information about the deceased with family, friends, and community members.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who knew them. They can help facilitate the grieving process, provide closure, and create a sense of community among those who are mourning.

Who typically writes an obituary?

In most cases, the obituary is written by a family member or close friend of the deceased. However, funeral homes or crematories may also offer assistance with writing and publishing obituaries as part of their services.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the deceased person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral or memorial services, charitable donations, or other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary greatly, but it's generally recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important information. Aim for a length of around 150-250 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and newspapers allow you to include one or more photos of the deceased. This can help make the obituary more personal and meaningful.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some newspapers may have online submission forms, while others may require you to email or fax the obituary.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance as a way to control how they're remembered and to spare their loved ones from having to do it after they're gone. This is often referred to as a self-written obituary.

What's the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of someone's passing, usually including only the most basic information. An obituary, on the other hand, provides more detailed information about the deceased person's life and legacy.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! While an obituary should be respectful, it's also okay to inject some humor or personality into the writing. This can help capture the essence of the deceased person's spirit and make the obituary more engaging.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the newspaper, online platform, or funeral home involved. Expect to pay anywhere from $50 to several hundred dollars.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

This depends on the publication or platform where the obituary was published. Some may allow edits or corrections, while others may not. Be sure to proofread carefully before submitting the obituary.

How long does it take for an obituary to be published?

The timeframe for publishing an obituary can vary from same-day publication online to several days or even weeks for print newspapers. Be sure to check with the publication for their specific deadlines and timelines.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add meaning and context to an obituary. Just be sure to obtain any necessary permissions or credits for copyrighted material.

What if I need to make changes to an existing obituary?

Contact the publication or platform where the obituary was published and ask about their process for making changes or corrections. They may be able to assist you with updates or revisions.

Can I write an obituary for someone who died years ago?

Yes, it's never too late to write an obituary for someone who has passed away. This can be a meaningful way to honor their memory and share their story with others.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites. Local libraries or historical societies may also have access to old newspapers or records that can help you find what you're looking for.

Can I use social media to share an obituary?

Absolutely! Social media can be a powerful tool for sharing news of a loved one's passing and connecting with others who are grieving. You can share a link to the online obituary or post a summary of the information on your social media profiles.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary?

If you're having trouble writing an obituary, consider asking a friend or family member for help. You can also seek guidance from a funeral home or crematory staff member. Remember that it's okay to take your time and don't be afraid to ask for support during this difficult process.

Can I include information about charitable donations in an obituary?

Yes! Including information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers can be a meaningful way to honor the deceased person's legacy and continue their impact beyond their lifetime.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an already-published obituary?

Contact the publication or platform where the obituary was published as soon as possible. They may be able to correct the error or issue a retraction. Be prepared to provide documentation or evidence supporting the correction.

Can I use an online template to write an obituary?

Yes! There are many online resources available that provide templates and guidance for writing an obituary. These can be especially helpful if you're struggling to get started or need some inspiration.

What's the best way to share news of a loved one's passing with others?

This will depend on your personal preferences and relationships. You may want to start by sharing the news with close family members and friends before posting publicly on social media or sharing through other channels.