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Lisa Jaylene Veach - December 11, 1977 - April 20, 2024

Departed: 04/20/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Lisa Jaylene Veach, 46-year-old Vinita resident, passed away late Saturday, April 20, 2024, at her home in Vinita. She was born on December 11, 1977, in Jay, Oklahoma. Jaylene lived in Vinita and went to Vinita schools, she also lived for a time in California. She enjoyed going to the lake, her kids’ ball games, giving her family a hard time, going to the watch the race cars with her grandfather Sammy, and being the center of attention.

She was preceded in death by her grandfather Joe Veach, a son, Skylar Reed in 2011, and the father who raised her, Dennis Wallis in 1988, stepfather Tim Reed.

The family includes her sons, Kyle Veach and Nathan Veach both of Arkansas, her mother, Darla K. Reed of Vinita, grandparents Sammy and Colene Geyer of Vinita, brothers, Christopher Wallis, and Dennis Wallis, Jr., sister, Trisha Ann Buckallew and husband Frank of Vinita, special niece and nephew, Peyton and Bryson Wallis, numerous other aunts, uncles, and cousins.

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Roy R. Allensworth - January 21, 1965 - April 15, 2024

Departed: 04/15/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Roy Robert Allensworth, 59-year-old well known Vinita resident, passed away early Monday, April 15, 2024. He was born on January 21, 1965, in Vinita to Dr. Edward Wayne Allensworth and Reba Rosella (Cash) Allensworth. Roy was a 1983 graduate of Vinita High School, where he was an outstanding athlete, participating in wrestling, baseball, track, and football. After high school Roy attended college at NEO A&M, NSU, Phillips University, and Oklahoma State University. He worked in sales for a time including Express Personnel, and a Hazardous Waste Disposal Company, he also worked various other jobs, but he loved ranching and raising cattle. He enjoyed shooting, hunting, fishing, and socializing with his many friends.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Dr. E. W. Allensworth, and Reba Allensworth.

His family includes, his daughter, Madeline Palmer Allensworth of Arvada, Colorado, his brother Eddy Allensworth and wife Shelly of Vinita, nephews, Dr. Nicholas Cash Allensworth of Edmond, Andrew Allensworth of Nashville, Tennessee, niece, Elizabeth Adele O’Rear and husband Michael of Stillwater, two great nieces, one great nephew, and numerous other relatives and many friends.

The family will receive friends from 6-8 p.m. on Friday, April 19, 2024, at the Burckhalter-Highsmith Chapel in Vinita. The graveside service will be held on Saturday, April 20, 2024, at 10:00 a.m. at the Fairview Cemetery in Vinita, Greg Highsmith will officiate. Online condolences can be made at www.highsmithfh.com or on the funeral home Facebook page. Arrangements are in the care of the Burckhalter-Highsmith Funeral and Cremation Services of Vinita. “Vinita’s only locally owned and operated funeral home.”

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Geraldine V. (Lindsey) Epperson - September 24, 1930 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Geraldine V. Epperson, 93-year-old former resident of Disney, currently of Jones, Oklahoma, passed away early Sunday, April 14, 2024, at her home in Jones. She was born on September 24, 1930, in Newkirk, Oklahoma to David O. and Jerlean V. (Horn) Lindsey. Geraldine married the love of her life, Clarence C. Epperson on September 24, 1948, in Vinita. They lived in Denver, Colorado for many years before moving to Disney in 1989. Geraldine had worked for Rocky Flat Arsenal, Continental Airlines, and Russell Stover Candies before retiring and moving back to Oklahoma.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Clarence Carl Epperson on October 20, 2014, sons, Bruce A. Epperson and Karry C. Epperson, sister, Ann A. Whitesell, brothers, Dan O. Lindsey, David N. Lindsey and one great grandson.

The surviving family includes her daughter, Lorna C. Vinyard of Jones, Oklahoma, son, Harry L. Epperson of Oklahoma City, nine grandchildren, and nine great-grandchildren, and one great-great-grandchild, numerous nieces, nephews, other relatives, and friends.

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Linda Sue Teel - February 23, 1957 - April 13, 2024

Departed: 04/13/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Linda Sue (Brown) Teel, age 67, of Big Cabin, Oklahoma, went to be with the Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, on Saturday, April 13, 2024.

She was born on February 23, 1957, in Niles, Michigan to Earl L. and Jeanette M. (McGowan) Brown.

Linda spent her childhood in Michigan and Oklahoma, where she graduated from Poteau High School in 1975.

After High School, she continued her education and received a Bachelor of Arts degree in Vocal Music Education from Southeastern Oklahoma State University in Durant, Oklahoma.

While at Southeastern State, she met Thomas Teel and they were married on May 20, 1978, in Durant, Oklahoma.

Linda was a homemaker who taught private voice/piano lessons and judged various music competitions professionally. She and her husband Tom homeschooled their six children.

Linda was a born-again Christian who was an active member of the local Southern Baptist Church from her elementary school years, on. She served in various capacities in the church and local Baptist Association to include youth Sunday school teacher, youth leader, church and associational VBS Director, choir member, soloist, piano/keyboard instrumentalist, children’s choir Director, W.M.U. leader, G.A. leader, Falls Creek cook/sponsor/director, and Children’s camp sponsor/director.

She was also an active member of the Singing Churchwomen of Oklahoma for many years, where she served in various leadership roles, including President of the East group.

Linda had many hobbies and loves in this life, including sports. She was an avid fan of the Chicago Cubs and the Oklahoma Sooners and any team her grandkids were playing on. Linda loved swimming and was a lifeguard as well as a certified water safety instructor. She loved writing and had one published children’s book: “The Priceless Cup.” She enjoyed singing and music, traveling, the ocean, flamingos, sunsets at the lake, and being on mission for God. Her greatest loves were her Savior and her family, and she faithfully served them both.

Linda was preceded in death by her parents, Earl and Jeanette Brown.

She is survived by her children.

Son, Todd Teel and wife, Jenny of Tulsa, Oklahoma. Daughter, Christy Taylor and husband, Jason of Webb City, Missouri. Son, Phillip Teel of Russellville, Arkansas. Son, Patrick Teel, of Hinton, Oklahoma. Son Timothy Teel, of Big Cabin, Oklahoma. Son, Benjamin Teel and wife, Ariel of Tulsa, Oklahoma.

Daughters-in-love, Tiffany Teel of Tulsa, Oklahoma and Chrysta Teel of Haskell, Oklahoma.

Fourteen Grandchildren, Taylor and Husband, Hudson; Tyra, Trevor, Trysta, Alexa, Abbye, Ainsley, Addy, Adlee, Avery, Axton, Maddux, and Thiessen.

Sister, Janice Furr and husband, Dan of Fort Smith, Arkansas. Sister, Kathy Fesperman and husband Jim, of Poteau, Oklahoma. Brother, David Brown, and wife Sandy of Benton Harbor, Michigan.

Several nieces, nephews, and other family, including her Pickard family, and a multitude of friends.

Visitation will be held Wednesday, April 17 and Thursday, April 18, 2024, from 1:00 to 8:00 PM at the Burckhalter-Highsmith Funeral Home Chapel.

A Celebration of Life service will be held on Saturday, April 20, 2024, 2:00pm at Skelly Drive Baptist Church in Tulsa, Oklahoma.

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Steve Schulte - June 12, 1971 - April 13, 2024

Departed: 04/13/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Steve Schulte, 52-year-old rural Vinita resident, passed away Saturday evening April 13, 2024, at St. Francis Vinita Hospital. He was born on June 12, 1971, in Afton to Leroy Henry Schulte and Patricia Ann (Quackenbush) Schulte. Steve was a 1989 graduate of Afton High School. He was the owner/operator of Ryano Dock Rollers and Ryano Dock Construction Companies on Grand Lake. Steve was an avid motorcycle rider, he and many of his friends rode many miles together, he also enjoyed fishing, traveling, working, and rebuilding trucks.

He was preceded in death by his parents.

The family includes, his children, Bradley Schulte of Afton, Mercedes Burkholder and husband Hunter of Ketchum, Skylar Gray of Ketchum, Blazie Schulte of Welch, Kyana Schulte of Ketchum, Gracie Schulte of Ketchum, a very special aunt, JoAnn Pinkerton of Vinita, his siblings, Chris Schulte and wife Rom of Afton, Mike Schulte and wife Angie of Afton, James Schulte and wife Julie of Afton, Michel Heatley and husband Greg of Jay, Christine Crossley and husband Brian of Gilbert, AZ, Stephanie Sweeten and husband Gregg of Pineville, MO, Julie Kleinknight of Afton, seven grandchildren, Bentley, Laiken, Averi, Vada, Dannakin, Nakoda, and Wrenley, numerous nieces, nephews, and other relatives.

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Carol Joan Green - May 23, 1941 - April 11, 2024

Departed: 04/11/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Carol Joan Green, 82-year-old Tulsa resident, passed away on Thursday, April 11, 2024, at the Highlands in Owasso. She was born on May 23, 1941, in St. Louis, Missouri to Raymond and Doral (Johnston) Hopmann. Carol grew up in St. Louis and graduated high school there. She served our country in the United States Army. Carol married Robert Howard Green, he preceded her in death in 2005.

She was preceded in death by her parents.

Carol is survived by a brother, James Hopmann of St. Louis, numerous nieces, nephews, and other relatives.

A graveside service will be held at the Welch Cemetery on Wednesday, April 17, 2024, at 2:00 p.m. Arrangements are in the care of the Burckhalter-Highsmith Funeral and Cremation Services of Vinita. Vinita’s Only locally owned and operated funeral home.

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Rosemary Clark - May 24, 1949 - April 05, 2024

Departed: 04/05/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Rosemary Clark, our adored lady of leisure, died on Friday, April 5, in Tulsa, Oklahoma, at the age of 74. From the plains of Kansas to the rolling hills of southwest Missouri and the lake life of northeast Oklahoma, Rosemary lived a life full of family.

On May 24th, 1949, in Great Bend, Kansas, Rosemary was born fifth of the six children to Richard and Mary Gunn. Deeply rooted in American history, the Gunn value of family loyalty shaped Rose’s early years. She is now rejoined with her parents, her beloved brother, Joe, and leaves behind her remaining sister, Kathy and her family, and her brothers, Bill, Bob, and Lyle and their families.

As a young adult, Rosemary attended Kanas State Teacher’s College and received her diploma to be a schoolteacher. It was there she met her lifelong mate, John Chris Clark of Augusta, Kansas.

Married for 51 years, Rosemary and Chris walked hand-in-hand through life’s ups and downs. Chris will continue to walk with Rose in his heart, cherishing all the years he had her by his side.

The couple started their newlywed life in Augusta. Rosemary was welcomed into the comfort of the numerous members of her new Clark family, and she touched so many with her generous nature. All her remaining in-laws, cousins, nieces and nephews hold Rose’s light as a beacon of remembrance, especially Phyllis and Loren Roberts, Chris’s aunt and uncle who Rose adored as her own.

Surrounded by the extended Clark clan, Rosemary and Chris brought three boisterous boys into the world, Dr. Christian Dietrich Clark, MD, Dr. Joseph Crawford Clark, DC, and Bryan Bendel Clark, MBA. Rosemary was unwaveringly dedicated to raising her boys. After moving their family to Neosho, Missouri, Rosemary could always be found cheering on her boys from the stands, tutoring them through their academic successes, or hosting their wild Spring Break parties. Each now a success in their own right, her boys were and will always be the central light of Rosemary’s life.

After the boys grew, Rosemary and Chris moved to Hays, Kansas. It was during these years, Rosemary and Chris’s family grew to include their daughters-in-law, Dr. Jennifer MacDonald Clark and Joy Hubele Clark. With the welcoming of her grandchildren, Elyse Rosemarie Clark and Cian Dietrich Clark, Rosemary’s love bloomed. From the most spectacular Christmas mornings to the cheekiest of smiles, Rosemary’s expansive grandmotherly love will forever envelope those most dear to her.

Rosemary and Chris finally settled into their retirement life on the Grand Lake O’the Cherokees. From the perch of her favorite lounger, Rose conducted countless family gatherings full of barbecue, beer, and belly laughs. Though no longer here to partake in the festivities, Rose, now in spirit, will be heard in the stories, felt in the giggles, and endured in our memories.

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Patsy Louise Kidwell - March 09, 1951 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Patsy Louise (Dawson) Kidwell, 73-year-old Spavinaw resident, passed away early Wednesday, April 3, 2024, at the Clarehouse in Tulsa. She was born on March 9, 1951, in Hobart, Oklahoma to Felix Everett Dawson and Mildred Louies (Hill) Dawson. Patsy graduated from Bixby High School and the Tulsa Beauty College. On July 18, 1974, she married the love of her life Jack Kidwell in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Patsy owned and operated Patsy’s Beauty Salon in Langley for many years, she also helped Jack with his businesses as well. Patsy was a member of the Spavinaw First Baptist Church, where she taught Sunday School and played in the worship band. She loved to play the bass fiddle, helping others, and spending time with her family, especially her children and grandchildren.

She was preceded in death by her parents, two sisters, Terry Eddy and Peggy Hines.

She is survived by her husband Jack of the home, children, Patty Kidwell of the Woodlands, Texas, Johnny Jack Kidwell and wife Charybel of Tulsa, Joe Kidwell and wife April of Owasso, a brother, Daniel Dawson and wife Nancy of Meeker, grandchildren, Tyler, Cianna, Alexandria, Ella, Jack, Jonathan, Joseph, and Simeon, and one great-grandchild, Emery.

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Eddie Ward - May 23, 1951 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Eddie Ward, a dear husband, father, and papa, stepped into Heaven’s gates on March 31, 2024, in Tulsa surrounded by his family. He was born in Vinita, Oklahoma on May 23, 1951, to Harold and Ida Ward. Eddie spent most of his time growing up in Big Cabin, Oklahoma enjoying the outdoors with his brother and sisters (you would often find them mowing lawns around town), playing basketball, and he was also known to race Ralph Loveless in between Vinita and Big Cabin. Eddie and Lequetta Ward were united in marriage on August 29, 1980, in Vinita, Oklahoma. They would have celebrated 44 years of marriage together this year. Together they raised one daughter, Ranie. Eddie was a dedicated employee and worked for UPS for around 35 years. Eddie was one of the most amazing and kind men there was. He enjoyed playing golf, cutting wood, mowing his lawn which was one of his pride and joys, sitting in his La-Z-Boy watching sports while eating a Ding Dong, doing odd jobs with Bobby, Randy, and ET, and washing cars and having super-duper ice cream sundaes with his grandkids. Most of all he enjoyed being with his family. Eddie loved his family dearly, and they loved him. He is preceded in death by his parents Harold and Ida Ward, and his sister Lynn Gay. Eddie is survived by his loving wife Lequetta Ward of the home; brother Mickey Ward and wife Pam of Mount Vernon, IL; sister Darlene James of Dewey, OK; daughter Ranie Kirk and fiancé Todd Hacker of Harrah, OK; grandchildren Tatyn Fee and fiancé Bre Brown of Haskell, OK; Dominique Nicodin and husband Morgan of Muskogee, OK; McKinley and Kasin Kirk of Harrah, OK; one great-granddaughter Acelynn of Muskogee, OK; and three great-grandsons Cooper, Houston, and Colton of Haskell, OK. He also had many nieces and nephews who he loved dearly. Words cannot express how much he will be missed or how he was the best papa to so many, but we know we will see his smiling, goofy self again one day.

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Gail D. Curley - October 27, 1947 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Gail Diane Curley, age 77, passed away peacefully in her sleep on March 30, 2024, in Grove, Oklahoma. Raised in Ponca City, Oklahoma, Gail later moved to Junction City, Kansas. She graduated from Junction City High School and pursued higher education at Kansas State University in Manhattan, Kansas.

Gail’s life was a tapestry of adventure and exploration. After an early marriage, she embarked on a remarkable thirty-year journey alongside her husband, Albert Curley II, a foreign service diplomat. They lived in nine countries across five continents where Gail embraced novel experiences, people, and cultures, and began a lifetime passion for treasure hunting and collecting objects that appealed to her discerning eye.

In 1998, Gail began a new chapter of her life when she moved to Vinita, immersing herself in the pleasures of a small-town community life. She reveled in the annual parades, rodeos, calf-fries, and Oktoberfest, contributing creatively to their spirit. Notably, for one Martin Luther King Day parade, Gail crafted a prize-winning, life-sized paper-mache rendition of the Statue of Liberty and a larger-than-life cowboy for the Rodeo Parade. She dedicated herself to community service as a Vinita town librarian, as a Legacy Hospice volunteer, and as a relentlessly generous aide to those in need.

Gail’s vibrant mind was fueled by her many hobbies and interests. A master problem solver and game player, she excelled at crossword puzzles, Sudoku, jigsaw puzzles, dominos, and bridge. A prolific collector, her recent interests and expertise centered on early American pattern glass, coins, and myriad collectibles, which she often sold locally and online.

Throughout significant health challenges in recent years, Gail exhibited remarkable resilience and unwavering faith. As her health declined, she met obstacles and setbacks with steadfast courage and grace. Following one year of residence at Hearts worth House in Vinita, Gail had very recently moved to Grandwood in Grove. Although eager to embrace the myriad activities and adventures that lie ahead, her body was unable to surmount the many physical challenges present.

Gail is survived by her loving sister Carol Castor of Vinita, Oklahoma, and her loving children, including her daughter, Christine and husband Richard Weaver of New York, NY, her son J.R. Curley and wife Nicole of Manhattan Beach, CA, and her son Alex Curley and wife Jessica of Katy, TX. She is also survived by eight grandchildren: Katherine and Emily Weaver; Ava and Eve Curley; Hugo, Alexa, Connor, and Jack Curley.

A viewing and rosary will be held at Highsmith Funeral Home in Vinita, OK at 6 pm on Wednesday, April 3rd. A Mass at Holy Ghost Catholic Church will follow on Thursday, April 4th at 10 am.

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Harry Eugene Sawyer - March 05, 1936 - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Harry Eugene Sawyer (Gene), 88, passed away Friday, March 29, 2024, at 7PM at Grove Nursing Center.

Gene was born to William Harry and Lela Neal Sawyer on March 5, 1936, in Winfield, KS. He attended Winfield High School and in 1954 enlisted in the US Air Force. His basic training was in California and his first assignment was to Biloxi, MS. It was there he married his high school sweetheart, Shirley Taylor.

Gene was a teletype/cryptographer for classified material sent all over the world. His first overseas assignment was without his family for 1 ½ years to Okinawa, Japan. He returned to the US and he and his family moved to the AF Training Center in Alpena, MI and then on to Kansas City, MO. His next overseas assignment was to Gioia-Del-Colle, Italy, with his family that had grown with 3 sons. Their return assignment was to Alamogordo, NM. Gene retired from the Air Force in 1964 after 10 years of duty.

The family returned to Winfield, KS, where Gene worked for the Pomona Tiling Company. He was hired at Cessna in Wichita in 1966 as a line assembler. During this period, he took classes in mechanics and for flying. He received his mechanic’s license and his pilot’s license in 1968 and became a Quality Assurance pilot for Cessna. He worked for Cessna for 20 years.

When a manager’s position became available at Rice County Airport at Lyons, KS, he took the job and started training for his flight instructor’s license. There he gave flying lessons and piloted sky diving sessions. And weekly he flew a route as an oil pipeline inspector for Phillips Oil Company.

Grand Lake had become the family get away vacation spot. They bought a cabin there and retired after 13yrs at Lyons airport. Shirley passed away in 2011.

Gene and Thelma Lane (widow of 3 years) met while serving over 20 years as Volunteers in Police Service for Grove Police Department. They married on September 17, 2011.

Gene is preceded by his parents, siblings, Richard, Jim, and Linda and newborn twin sons, Kirk and Kevin.

Survivors include wife, Thelma Sawyer; children, Don (Kim) of Hutchinson, KS, Greg (Laurie) of Colony, TX, Jeff (Deena) Wichita, KS; stepchildren, Bonnie Lane, Gary (Laquita) Lane of Grove, OK, Ronnie (Shirley) Lane of Fairland, OK; sister Deloris "Dee" Ledy (Mike) Winfield, KS along with many grandchildren, great grandchildren, nieces, and nephews.

A visitation will be held from 12:30 to 1:30 PM Thursday, April 4, 2024, at the Vinita Church of Christ. Services will follow at 2:00 PM at the Vinita Church of Christ as friends and family gather to honor and remember Gene’s remarkable life. His memory will forever be etched on their hearts. Interment will be held on Friday, April 5, 2024, at 2:30 p.m. at the Highland Cemetery in Winfield, Kansas.

The family ask that in lieu of flowers please send donations in Gene’s honor to Grove Church of Christ 1001 S Grand, Grove, OK 76344.

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Zoephie Mae Arrington - June 19, 1935 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Zoephie Mae (Berry) Arrington, 88-year-old lifelong Vinita resident, passed away late Monday, March 25, 2024, at her home surrounded by her loving children. She was born on June 19, 1935, near White Oak to Calvin and Sallie Bell (Benson) Berry. Zoephie was a graduate of the Miami Beauty College and was a master instructor, she worked at Eastern State Hospital for 35 years, and had her own shop at her home “Zoe’s Beauty Shop” as well. She had originally opened a beauty shop downtown Vinita, before going to work at Eastern State Hospital. Zoephie was also a master instructor at the Northeast Area Vo-Tech School. Never one to back down from a challenge, Zoephie took a masonry class at Vo- so she could make a foundation at her home. She loved to crochet, go fishing, cooking, taking care of her succulents, making bread, dancing, and most of all her family. Zoephie was a member of the Vinita Church of Christ, she went on numerous mission trips to Honduras as well.

She was preceded in death by her parents, a daughter, Tonya Arrington in 2004, siblings, Wanda Riley, Ada Griggs, Maynard Benson, Calvin Berry, Jr., George Tech Berry, Sr., Vivian Jackson, and Bertha May Berry.

The family includes her daughters, Evila French and husband James of Tulsa, Nathela Arrington of Tulsa, Anita Arrington of Vinita, Annette Arrington of San Antonio, Texas, Deidre Chancey of Vinita, Sallie Arrington of Vinita, Vanessa Arrington of Chicago, Illinois, her son’s, Melvin Arrington and wife Rena, David Arrington and wife LaVonna all of Vinita, her sister, Marzetta Hicks of Wichita, Kansas, eighteen grandchildren, twenty-seven great-grandchildren, and four great-great-grandchildren, with another on the way, numerous other relatives, and many friends.

The family will receive friends from 6-8 p.m. on Monday, April 1, 2024, at the Burckhalter-Highsmith Chapel in Vinita.

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Bonnie Louise Neal - October 22, 1928 - March 24, 2024

Departed: 03/24/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Bonnie Louis Neal, 95-year-old resident of Vinita, passed away early Sunday, March 24, 2024, at the Saint Francis Vinita Hospital. She was born in Vinita to Obe and Lula Bell (Jenkins) Hayes. Bonnie was united in marriage to Harold C. Neal on May 26, 1946, in Miami at the 2nd Baptist Church. Harold was a well-known area Baptist Minister, and Bonnie was the ultimate pastor’s wife. They ministered at many churches in northeast Oklahoma and as well as in Seneca, Missouri. Harold preceded her in death in 2012. Bonnie was currently a member of the Calvary Baptist Church in Vinita. She enjoyed her flowers, gardening, reading, genealogy, and was immensely proud of her native American heritage.

Bonnie was preceded in death by her parents, husband Harold, a son, Harold Cletus “Clete” Neal in 2016, granddaughter, Stacy Dawn Neal Wade, three brothers, Ruford, Oren, and Jimmie “JD” Hayes, sister, Virginia Juanita Henley, nieces, Dana Aldridge, Ollie Rutherford, Eva Scofield, and a nephew, John Rhoten.

The family includes her children, Teresa Jeanen Huen and husband Marvan of Claremore, Gralena Jane Neal of the home, Dean Evert Neal and wife Shirley of Neosho, Curtis Narvin Neal and wife Brenda of Vinita, daughter in law, Patsy Neal of Claremore, grandchildren, Brandon Neal of Seneca, MO, Nathen Neal of Vinita, Kelly Reavis of Allen, TX, Isaac Duncan of Joplin, MO, great-grandchildren, Dylan and Dallas Rogers of Coffeyville, KS, Nevaeh Neal of Seneca, Eian and Bayley Neal of Vinita, Logan and Lakin Duncan of Joplin, MO, nieces, Laveta Rakes of Seneca, MO, Donna Anderson of Bradenton, FL, Jana Stevens of Joplin, MO, Susie Krusemark of Seneca, MO, Jacci Hayes, nephews, Michael Hayes and Jerry Hayes, numerous other relatives and friends.

The family will receive friends from 5-7 p.m. on Tuesday, March 26, 2024, at the Burckhalter-Highsmith Chapel in Vinita.

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Sonny Wilkins - September 27, 1959 - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Sonny Wilkins, 64-year-old Big Cabin resident, passed away suddenly on Friday, March 22, 2024, at the St. Francis South Hospital in Tulsa, his son Matt, and sister Teri Nel were at his side when he passed quietly from heart failure. He was born on September 27, 1959, in Shreveport, Louisiana to Marvin and Shirley (Moreland) Wilkins, they preceded him in death.

He is survived by his son Matt Wilkins of St. Louis, Missouri, and a sister, Teri Nel of White Oak.

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Djuana Mary Hayes - May 19, 1964 - March 19, 2024

Departed: 03/19/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Djuana Mary Hayes, age 59, of White Oak, Oklahoma passed away peacefully on March 19, surrounded by her loving family. She was born on May 19, 1964, to Dorothy Lou Neighbors.

Djuana was known for her baked goods, especially her pies, and her presence lit up the lives of all who knew her. She had a deep love for spending time with grandchildren, cooking, and her passion to always be there for anyone that needed help touched countless hearts throughout her lifetime.

Djuana will be greatly missed but remembered fondly for her way of bringing family together. In her spare time, she enjoyed spending time with family and going through photos. She would often share them with friends and family.

Preceding in death are her parents; brothers, Floyd Dee Taylor, Marvin Glynn “Sonny” Taylor; sister, Sharon Kaye Dixon.

She leaves behind her husband Kressley Martin Hayes; son, Shaun Allen Landers; son, Zackary Ryan Hayes; sisters, Fonda Docherty (Shawn), Joy Crumley (Billy); brothers, Randy Taylor, Bobby Taylor; 12 grandchildren who will forever cherish her memory.

Djuana’s legacy of love and faith will continue to inspire all who knew her.

Services will take place at White Oak Cemetery Saturday, April 20, 2024, at 11:00 a.m. with Leland Bartlett officiating.

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Leon Landrum - January 31, 1939 - March 13, 2024

Departed: 03/13/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Everett Leon Landrum of Cleora, Oklahoma passed away peacefully at his home, surrounded by his loving family, on March 13, 2024, at the age of 85. Leon was born on January 31, 1939, in Big Cabin to Clifton L. “Laurence” Landrum and Edna Mayme (Dixon) Landrum. He attended Longview School and then Big Cabin School, where he graduated in 1956. Leon married his sweetheart Bonnie Ellen Krueger on November 15, 1958, in Wichita, Kansas. He worked for Gas Service Company in Wichita and then transferred to Miami, OK in 1968. On August 17, 1975, he was ordained to the gospel ministry by the Big Cabin Baptist Church. Leon was a pastor, but also through his passion to help young people, He and Bonnie served several years as house parents for the Oklahoma Baptist Homes for Children. They also welcomed many young people into their life and home throughout his 50-year ministry. Leon was adventurous and loved to travel which included numerous mission trips. Through his mission work, pastoring, and evangelism he mentored and touched the lives of many people. Leon was an avid outdoorsman and loved hunting and fishing, especially pheasant hunting. He also loved good horses and participated in roping and rodeos throughout his life, including the Cheyenne Frontier Days. Aviation was also a love of Leon’s, and he owned and piloted his own airplanes.

Leon was preceded in death by his parents, Clifton “Laurence” and Edna Landrum, brother, Edward J. “Jack” Landrum, infant brother, Clifton L. Landrum, and a sister, Lila Ruth Walker.

Leon is survived by his wife Bonnie, son Craig Landrum and wife Debbie of rural Langley, OK, daughter, Deanne Morgan and husband Arthur of Afton, OK, four grandchildren, Brett Landrum and wife Gina of Owasso, OK, Clint Landrum and wife Kylie of Bentonville, AR, Brad Morgan and wife Cody of Afton, OK, Keri Ramsey and husband Chey of Fairland, OK. Ten great-grandchildren, Logan and Rylee Landrum, Leyton and Asher Luginbill, Luke and Emma Landrum, Garret Morgan, Mesa Ramsey, Carter, and Dawson Ramsey, along with a host of other relatives and friends.

The family will receive friends from 5-7 p.m. on Saturday, March 16, 2024, at the Burckhalter-Highsmith Chapel.

The celebration of life will be held at 3:00 p.m. on Sunday, March 17, 2024, at the Cleora Baptist Church, Pastor Scott Dickerson and Jesse Kincade will officiate, Bob Whitchurch will lead the music.

Friends may give to the Oklahoma Baptist Homes for Children, 3800 N May Ave, Oklahoma City, OK 73112 or by phone 405-942-3800, in Memory of Leon Landrum.

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Cynthia Diane "Cindy" Greenwood - October 31, 1957 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Cynthia Diane “Cindy” Greenwood, 66-year-old Big Cabin resident, passed away early Tuesday, March 12, 2024, at the Saint Francis Vinita Hospital. She was born on October 31, 1957, in Vinita to Dallas Eugene and Clara LaRaine (Heater) Hickman. Cindy grew up and graduated from Afton High School in 1975. She married the love of her life Gary Greenwood on November 1, 1975, at the Holy Ghost Catholic Church in Vinita. Cindy loved to paint, garden, cooking, taking care of baby animals, horses, and going to the Farmers Market in Tulsa. She and Gary set their stand up at the Farmers Market selling meats and pies. Cindy was a member of the Holy Ghost Catholic Church in Vinita.

She was preceded in death by her parents.

The family includes her husband Gary of the home, two sons, Dallas Greenwood and wife Anna of Big Cabin, Trapper Greenwood and wife Amanda of Pryor, grandchildren, Hunter, Timberly, Jonah, Samuel, and Shellby Greenwood.

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Billy Eugene McKee - May 05, 1937 - March 03, 2024

Departed: 03/03/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Billy Eugene McKee, 86-year-old Vinita resident, passed away on Sunday, March 3, 2024, at his home, surrounded by his loving family. He was born on May 5, 1937, in Phoenix, Arizona to Cecil Bryant McKee and Lillie Mae (Olinger) McKee. Billy was united in marriage to the love of his life Goldie Marie Crisler McKee on July 7, 1962, in Arvin California. He served his country from 1955 to 1959, in the United States Air Force in Korea. Billy was a truck driver and retired from Air Products out of Pryor. He was a member of the Dale Peace Post #40 American Legion in Vinita. Billy was a member of the Big Cabin Baptist Church, where he served as the Sunday School Director for several years. He loved to go golfing, gardening, fishing, watching football, NASCAR racing (Kyle Busch was his Favorite), and mowing the yard. Billy loved his children and grandchildren; above all he loved his Lord and Savior.

Preceding him in death were his parents, a son Danielle Eugene McKee on September 26, 2022, brothers, James Doyle McKee on May 19, 2004, Douglas Ray McKee March 13, 2017, Louie Dee McKee, and Eula Alfred McKee.

The family includes his wife Goldie Marie McKee of the home, son, David Bryant McKee, daughter, Terry Jean (McKee) King, sisters, Berniece Laura Arnold, Evon Elaine Powers, grandchildren, Jennifer Rutherford, Becky Hobbs, Billy Brown, Russell Brown, Brandon Brown, Amanda McKee, Dylan McKee, Brianna Rowley, Morgan Schmidt, Kaley McKee, Heather, Kyle, Kylie, Danielle, Kevin McKee, and 17 great grandchildren.

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Waydene Moore - September 22, 1943 - February 25, 2024

Departed: 02/25/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Loretta Waydene Moore,

In the early hours of Sunday, February 25, 2024, time stood still in the Kingdom of Heaven as Loretta Waydene Moore walked in the arms of our Lord and Savior.

On September 22, 1943, Waydene was born to Wayne and Geraldine Taylor. As her father served overseas in World War Two, Waydene and her mother lived on Timber Hill on her grandparents’ farm. When their small family reunited, they stayed in Timber Hill area where Waydene attended her first 8 years of School and continued her education in Bluejacket.

She was raised with her two brothers, Jerry, and Darrell. With the age difference of 6 and 9 years apart from Waydene, to this day stories are told about the girl and the two ornery little boys. While in high school, Waydene met the love of her life and wed Jesse Moore in the presence of two witnesses at the justice of the peace in Miami, Oklahoma. Their marriage has been an absolute testament to all who knows them by honoring their vows of “in sickness and in health” at Waydene’s passing, they were only two months short of 65 years of marriage. In 1961 Jess and Waydene brought Sherry, their daughter, into their lives, and soon after made it a family of four by welcoming Ronda.

In 1962 Jess introduced Waydene to the ranching life, which was far different than her grandfather’s farming. Whether it be nursing a baby calf back to health in her kitchen or feeding 20 hungry cowboys at her table, she fell right into the ranching lifestyle. Waydene enjoyed her flower gardens, and she was and excellent seamstress and made many western shirts and frilly dresses for her young girls. She was known for her coconut cream and chocolate pies and took her talent with her when she and her sister-in-law Anita opened the Welch Sale Barn Cafe. With 10 years at the café and many years of cooking for cowboys and family, Waydene’s cooking was well known, and “tasted” by many.

As she made their home in Centralia, Waydene left a legacy to Sherry and Ronda and granddaughters Jessica and Kelsey by showing her love of family and extended family with her whole heart and she cherished the times they were all together.

Waydene was preceded in death by her mother and father, sister in law Aliene Taylor, brother in law John Moore, sister in law Mickey Myers, Niece Gena Lankford, and two great nieces, Payton Taylor, and Avery Page.

She is survived by her husband Jess of their home in Centralia, her daughter Sherry Hall and son in law Brad of Lenapah, daughter Ronda of Ramona, OK. She leaves behind a grandson Matthew Hall and wife Amanda, granddaughter Jessica Upshaw and husband Aaron, granddaughter Kelsey Tom and husband Dace. Missing their Grandma Dene are great grandchildren Nash and Jade Upshaw, Clara Tom, Rion and Madelyn Hall, and Brennan Longacre. She will be greatly missed by her brothers Jerry Taylor and Darrell Taylor and sister in law Anita, and her sister in law Carol Monfort, numerous nieces, nephews, and friends.

The family will receive friends on Wednesday, February 28, 2024, from 5-7 p.m. at the Burckhalter-Highsmith Chapel in Vinita.

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Joshua Shane Grass - August 12, 1980 - February 24, 2024

Departed: 02/24/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Joshua Shane Grass, 43-year-old Vinita resident, passed away on Saturday, February 24, 2024, in Vinita. He was born on August 12, 1980, in Tahlequah to Roger Jumper and Mary Sue Grass. He worked at a tree and shrub nursery near Tahlequah until his health forced him to retire. Josh enjoyed going to Pow Wows, eating tasty food, and spending time with his children and grandchildren.

He was preceded in death by his parents, a son, Malachi Luethje, and a sister, Ashley Eaton.

The family includes his step father James Eaton of Vinita, children, Jaleel Downing of Vinita, Jolani Grass of Muskogee, Alyssa Robbins of Tahlequah, Jaylynn Grass of Tahlequah, siblings, Trenton Grass of Vinita, Donovan Jumper of Pryor, Willie Jumper of Spavinaw, Reggie and Lyndon Mouse of Jay, Denise Grass of Vinita, Brittany Jumper of Eucha, Tiffany Jumper of Eucha, Whitney Jumper of Jay, Shelby and Sabrina Mouse of Jay, Tandy Mouse of Jay, Destiny Jumper of Spavinaw, and a granddaughter Brittany Kay Downing.

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Jack D. Melton - November 04, 1933 - February 21, 2024

Departed: 02/21/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Jack D. Melton, a 90-year-old well known Vinita resident, passed away on Wednesday, February 21, 2024, at his home surrounded by his loving family. He was born on November 4, 1933, in Dearing, Kansas to William Clell and Dorothy Dean (Pennell) Melton. Jack bravely served his country for 10 years, serving in the Army, Army National Guard, and the Navy from 1950-1962. At 15 ½ he was in Korea, serving on the front lines before they realized his age and sent him home to finish his service as a National Guardsman. He returned to Vinita and became a career firefighter, serving as Captain, Assistant Chief, and was the Fire Chief for 5 years, retiring in 1985. He later went to work at Eastern State Hospital in 1987 and worked there approximately 10 years in the drug and alcohol division. Jack loved the outdoors, hunting, fishing, taking care of his yard, feeding the birds and squirrels, reading, cheering on the Oklahoma Sooners, and his daughters when they were in athletics in Vinita. Jack was a wonderful husband and father and had a special place in his heart for his grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. He was cut from a strong cloth, was always available to help a friend, neighbor, or family member, serving them humbly, and quietly, without fanfare or accolades. He was a kind and gentle soul.

He was preceded in death by his parents, siblings, Carl Melton, Carrel D. “Deek” Melton, Bill Melton, Keith Melton, Jolene Hicks, Linda Bassett, and a bonus son, Park Carter.

The family includes his wife of nearly 63 years, Willa E. Melton of the home, daughters, Sherry Morse and husband Keith of Eufaula, Donna Eastin and husband Steve Brown of Vinita, brother, Terry “Whitey” Melton and wife Sue of Vinita, sister, Joyce Mayo and husband Gilbert of Muskogee, sister in law, Loretta Melton of Tulsa, grandchildren, Josh Eastin and wife Sabrina, Jake Eastin, Matthew McSpadden and wife Phuong, Aaron McSpadden and wife Josselyn, Taylor Brunk and husband Tyler, Callie Morse, bonus son, Timmy Carter, bonus daughter, Dena Olson-Pitts, great-grandchildren, Jaxon Eastin, Jaela, Ace, Rian, Elle, Jensen, Jett, Kate, Alice, Mara, Finn, Storybrooke, Style, and numerous nieces, nephews, and other relatives.

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Wesley Sufficool - August 26, 1938 - February 20, 2024

Departed: 02/20/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Wesley Lloyd Sufficool, Sr. was born in Walla Walla, Washington on August 26, 1938, to Vance E. Sufficool and Augusta E. Sufficool. Wesley passed away on February 20, 2024, in Tulsa, OK after an extended illness.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Neta Garside (sister), Evert Sufficool (brother), Levi Dixon (grandson), and Jason Hughes (honorary grandson).

He leaves behind three children and their spouses: Wesley L. Sufficool, Jr. and Tessa of Rapid City, SD; Debi Sufficool Dixon and Jeffrey of Edmond, OK; and Donna Sufficool Arciniega and Drew of Las Vegas, NV. He is also survived by a grandson (who he had a hand in raising) Ryan Baker, Ryan’s spouse Nora, and their daughters Sloane and Finley; Ina Lee (sister) of Sweet Home, OR; long-time companion Betty Sufficool, and numerous grandchildren.

Wes was raised in southern California where he seemed to make it his mission to get kicked out of every Seventh Day Adventist Academy in the state. He enjoyed fighting and pushing the rules. He managed to get kicked out a couple months shy of graduation, so he never finished high school. That didn’t diminish his work ethic, which always allowed him to provide for himself, his family, and others that were in need. While he may have had a rough and gruff attitude and did enjoy a good fight, he always had a soft heart. He believed it was his duty to take care of people that were less fortunate than he was, and he took that very seriously. We will never know the full extent of his generosity and everything he did to help others. When asked, he would characterize this with “Well I guess they needed it more than I did”.

After moving from California in the early 1960’s, Wes acquired property in the Ketchum area and started raising cattle and crops but still found he needed a steady paycheck. He was never afraid of hard work and started painting in the Vinita area. He ended up becoming an industrial painter when he went to work for John Byrd and continued working for John’s companies throughout his painting career. Wes and his crew would travel throughout the region trouble shooting for the company. They were frequently sent to jobs that were challenging, or as Wes put it, “where someone else had already f*&%d things up”. He was highly respected in his profession. He retired from Specialized Industrial Services. During those years as a painter, he spent lots of time on the road and developed close relationships with many on his painting crew. Special friendships were formed through those years with Dean and Debra Hughes and Cy and Cathy Austin. The people on his crew were extended family, and he remained close with many of them until his death. Also, after Wes’s retirement, Ryan came to live with him. He and Ryan were bachelors together and formed a special bond during that time.

While Wes was on the road, the farm had to be cared for, so he taught his children what needed to be done. As the oldest, Wes Jr. was responsible for taking care of the cows with Donna tagging along. As the two of them remember it, Debi spent more time reading than helping. When Wes Jr. was a freshman in high school, he began traveling with Wes on the painting crew. This meant the cattle were sold and a completely different educational experience began for Wes Jr.

After retirement he began to build his herd back and enjoyed many years of caring for his cattle and land. He always loved working his property, keeping it in tip top shape, spraying weeds, baling hay and bulldozing to clear trees. The bulldozer may not have been his best idea. Just getting it delivered caused a lot of drama since he had his first stroke while waiting for it to be delivered. He refused to go to the hospital until the bulldozer arrived and even threatened Betty that if she called an ambulance, he would just go out and hide from them somewhere in the pasture. Debi finally convinced him to go to the hospital, but he wasn’t happy about it! He never really was good with that bulldozer. He even ran over his four-wheeler with it and had to walk all the way back to the house from the back pasture. Wes finally had to hire someone to help with the farm, and it bothered him that he couldn’t be out with his cattle. Even while in the hospital, he looked forward to getting back out to the pastures on his four-wheeler to check his cattle. Besides the cattle and other animals (the Emus!) that Wes raised, he loved his dogs and had several special ones throughout his life. He treated them like family, letting them sleep with him and sharing food from his plate with them.

In the last few years, Wes had decided to restore a 1940 Chevy Special Deluxe and a 1978 Ford F-150. These two projects may have cost him a little more than they should have. In his desire to save a dime here and there, he ended up spending more than he might have had to. He was able to take the F-150 for a spin shortly before his last hospitalization. Wes led a full and productive life filled with many friends, projects, and hard work. At the end, his greatest pride was that he had raised his children to be strong and self-sufficient because of the work ethic he instilled in them. As a good friend put it, “There is, was and will only ever be one Wes.”

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Donna Sue White - December 08, 1958 - February 17, 2024

Departed: 02/17/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Donna Sue (Mobley) White, 65-year-old well known Vinita resident, went to be with her Lord and Savior, on Saturday, February 17, 2024. She was born on December 8, 1958, in Wichita, Kansas to Robert E. and Charlotte F. (Heltzel) Mobley. Donna was a 1978 graduate of Vinita High School, then attended NEO A&M College, and Rogers State College. She married Randy White on March 9, 1981, in Miami. Donna worked over the years for DANA, Eastern State Hospital, Quik Trip, B & L Cleaners, and her in home daycare. She had served on the Johnson O’Malley committee for Vinita Public Schools, volunteered for games that her children and grandchildren engaged in, including FFA, Rodeos, and numerous other activities.

She was preceded in death by her father, stepfather Vernon “Pops” Woolman, aunts, Annie Jones, Ellen Heltzel, Virgia Payton, Eva Bethel, and Emma Harp, uncles, Ted Dixon, Harvey Jones, Alvi Heltzel, Bob Payton, John and Joe Heltzel, Dale Heltzel, and Leon Harp.

The family includes her husband Randy White of the home, mother, Charlotte Woolman of Newcastle, son Jay White and wife Laura of Pryor, Jennifer Cates and husband Kevin of Vinita, brother, Eddie Mobley and fiancé` Jessica of Fayetteville, Arkansas, sister, Debbie Littlejohn and husband Mike of Newcastle, three grandchildren, Cody Nichols, Adriana and Korbin Cates, numerous bonus grandchildren and bonus daughters and sons, host of sister in-laws, brother in-laws, aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews. She was also a sister and grandma to many of her native family as well.

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Jolene Melton Hicks - May 29, 1935 - February 16, 2024

Departed: 02/16/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Jolene Melton Hicks, 88-year-old lifetime Vinita resident, passed away on Friday, February 16, 2024, at her home surrounded by her loving family. She was born on May 29, 1935, in Dearing, Kansas to William Clell and Dorothy Dean (Pennell) Melton. Jolene was a 1953 graduate of Vinita High School. She taught at the Northeast Oklahoma Community Action HeadStart School. Jolene loved to cook, sing while cooking, word games, going to church, traveling, loving her grandchildren, and family gatherings. She always had her traditional new years day meal of black eyed peas for the family to enjoy. Jolene was a member of Cowboy Junction Church. She was the matriarchy of the family, enjoyed walking, even a few miles at a time, reading cookbooks front to back, trying out new recipes, drinking a diet coke out of her over 30 year old Shout and Sack mug, going shopping, and roaming around stores, Facetiming her great-grandson, listening to music, it was a great comfort to her. To know her was to love her. Jolene always prayed for protection, guidance, and the blood of Christ over all her loved ones. She even prayed with and saw God touching the hospital staff inside her room. She praised him until the very end.

She was preceded in death by her parents, father of her children, James Leroy Hicks, siblings, Carl Melton, Carrel D. “Deek” Melton, Bill Melton, Keith Melton, and Linda Bassett.

The family includes her children, Teresa Hicks of Vinita, Tracey Allen of Oklahoma, siblings, Jack Melton and wife Willa of Vinita, Terry “Whitey” Melton and wife Sue of Vinita, Joyce Mayo and husband Gilbert of Muskogee, sisters in law Dena Osborn of Muskogee, Loretta Melton of Tulsa, Annie Opal Evans of Spavinaw, grandchildren, Austin Hicks of Weleetka, Anna Bowzer and husband Brooks of Knob Noster, Missouri, great-grandson Deacon Brooks Bowzer, also of Knob Noster, Missouri, numerous other nieces, nephews, other relatives, and friends.

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Willard A. Beisley - January 07, 1931 - February 14, 2024

Departed: 02/14/2024 (Vinita)

Obituary Preview: Willard Albert Beisley, son of Walter Raymond and Pearl Carmel (Arms) Beisley, was born on January 7, 1931, in Estella, Craig County, Oklahoma. He went to be with his Lord and Savior on Wednesday, February 14, 2024, at his home surrounded by his loving family. Willard attended Craig County Public Schools, and resided on the land that was part of his parent’s farm in the Wolfe Community. On April 14, 1951, Willard and Maxine E. Walker were united in marriage in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. In his early teens he followed his father’s footsteps, working on the farm. He later joined the Teamsters Union and worked eight years for Elliott Truck Line in Vinita, then for Yellow Freight in Baxter Springs, Kansas, until his retirement in February of 1989. Willard’s most cherished moments in retirement were related to children while driving Public School Busses. Willard was a retired member of the International Brotherhood of Teamsters, Chauffeurs, Warehousemen, and Helpers of America. He was also a member of the Trinity Baptist Church and was a spousal member of the National Association of Retired Federal Employees.

Willard was preceded in death by his parents, sister, Emma Louise Wiggins, and a brother, Raymond Ernest Beisley.

The family includes his wife of nearly 73 years, Maxine of the home, sister, Linda Nail of Colleyville, Texas, brothers, Marvin Beisley of Ketchum, Robert A. Beisley of Nowata, nephews, Richard “Rick” Beisley, and Rodger Beisley both of Vinita, along with numerous other nieces, nephews, other relatives, and many friends.

The family will receive friends from 6-8 p.m. on Thursday, February 15, 2024, at the Burckhalter-Highsmith Chapel.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It is usually published in a newspaper, online obituary platform, or funeral home website to inform friends, family, and community members of the person's passing.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also providing important information to those who need to know about the funeral arrangements, memorial services, and other details. They also help to notify people who may not have been aware of the person's passing.

Who writes an obituary?

The responsibility of writing an obituary often falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. Funeral homes and obituary writers can also assist in crafting an obituary. In some cases, the deceased may have written their own obituary in advance.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, achievements, and surviving family members. It may also include information about funeral services, memorial donations, and other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or platform. Traditional newspaper obituaries are usually shorter, ranging from 100 to 200 words. Online obituaries can be longer and more detailed, often up to 500 words or more.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many online obituary platforms and funeral home websites allow you to upload photos of the deceased. Some newspapers may also accept photos for print publication. Photos can help personalize the obituary and make it more engaging.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Contact the newspaper's obituary department directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. They may require you to fill out a form or provide the information via email or phone.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it's becoming increasingly popular for people to write their own obituaries in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life story is told the way you want it to be remembered.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication, word count, and features included. Online obituary platforms may offer free or low-cost options, while traditional newspapers may charge by the word or line.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

It's possible to make corrections or updates to an online obituary, but changes to printed newspaper obituaries are usually not feasible due to production timelines. Be sure to proofread carefully before submitting the obituary for publication.

What is a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, typically including only essential information such as name, age, date of death, and funeral service details. It's often used when a full obituary is not desired or cannot be published due to time constraints.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes, quotes, lyrics, or poems can be a meaningful way to personalize an obituary and reflect the personality or interests of the deceased. Just be sure to obtain any necessary permissions or credits.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites that specialize in historical records. Local libraries or genealogical societies may also have access to archived newspapers and other resources.

Can I write an anonymous obituary?

In general, it's not recommended to write an anonymous obituary as it can cause confusion and make it difficult for friends and family to find the correct information. Obituaries are typically written by those closest to the deceased.

What is a memorial tribute?

A memorial tribute is a personalized message or condolence expression that honors the memory of the deceased. It can take many forms, including online guestbooks, memorial candles, or charitable donations in lieu of flowers.

How do I announce a private funeral service?

If you prefer not to publicly announce the funeral service details, you can indicate this in the obituary by stating private funeral or family service. You may also choose to share this information with close friends and family through personal notifications.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a wonderful way to celebrate the personality and spirit of the deceased. Just be sure to use discretion and consider the audience who will be reading the obituary.

What is a eulogy?

A eulogy is a speech or written tribute that praises and celebrates the life of the deceased. It's often delivered during a funeral or memorial service by someone close to the person who has passed away.

How do I write a condolence message?

A condolence message should express sympathy and support for those grieving. Keep it simple and sincere, offering words of comfort and sharing fond memories of the deceased if applicable.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers?

Yes! Many families opt to suggest charitable donations in lieu of flowers as a way to honor their loved one's memory and support a meaningful cause.

What is a celebration of life?

A celebration of life is a gathering that focuses on honoring and celebrating the life of the deceased rather than mourning their passing. It can take many forms, from casual gatherings to formal events.

How do I plan a memorial service?

A memorial service can be planned with the help of a funeral home, event planner, or by working directly with family and friends. Consider the preferences and personality of the deceased when choosing music, speakers, and other elements.

Can I create an online memorial?

Yes! Online memorials can be created on various platforms, allowing friends and family to share memories, photos, and condolences in one place. These memorials can remain active for years to come.

What is a funeral home's role in creating an obituary?

Funeral homes often assist families in writing and submitting obituaries as part of their services. They may also provide guidance on what information to include and how to structure the content.

Can I update an online obituary after it's been published?

Yes! Most online obituary platforms allow you to make updates or corrections after publication. This can be useful if new information becomes available or if errors need to be corrected.