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Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service & Crematory is a trusted and compassionate funeral home located at 13307 South Memorial Drive, Bixby, OK, 74008. For years, they have been providing exceptional funeral services to families in Bixby and surrounding areas, helping them navigate the difficult time of losing a loved one. In this article, we will delve into the services and amenities offered by Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service & Crematory, as well as their commitment to providing personalized care and support to each family they serve.

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Geoffrey Thomas Jenson - July 25, 1989 - April 22, 2024

Departed: 04/22/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Geoff was a wonderful child. He was full of life and love. As he grew older he demonstrated a keen intellect and was very well read. His interests spanned a variety of subjects. He was a joy to have heart felt discussions with. He had a passion for what is right and just. He graduated from Holland Hall and held a variety of jobs. He joined the U. S. Navy and was an Aviation Electronics Specialist. He will always be our good son and brother. He was called to his heavenly home on April 22nd 2024. He will dwell in our hearts until we join him in heaven. He rests now in the arms of the Lord.

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Rebecca Gloria Youngblood - April 13, 1968 - April 17, 2024

Departed: 04/17/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Rebecca Gloria Ortiz Youngblood, beloved wife, devoted mother, and cherished member of the community, passed away peacefully on April 17, 2024, at the age of 56. Rebecca, known affectionately as Becky, was born in Los Angeles on April 13, 1968. She spent her formative years in Tulsa, Oklahoma, attending Wilson Jr High, Rogers High School, and graduating from Edison High School in 1986. During her time at Edison High School, Becky was an active member of the Future Leaders of America and received numerous Academic Excellence Awards. She furthered her education at Tulsa Vo-Tech, studying Early Childhood Development, although she ultimately chose a different career path. Becky began her journey at McDonald's, where she served as the Hostess overseeing birthday parties in the Big Red Caboose Train. It was here that she met the love of her life, Tim Youngblood, with whom she shared a devoted relationship spanning over 37 years. They officially began their life together on December 1, 1986, in a quaint church in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. Together, they embarked on various adventures, including a sojourn in Seattle before returning to their beloved Oklahoma. Becky dedicated over two decades of her professional life as a Paralegal before transitioning to a role as a secretary at a local insurance company. However, her most cherished role was that of a dedicated mother and wife. She was actively involved in her children's school activities, earning the title of "Locker Mom" for the Sand Springs Football Moms Decorating Committee. Becky's love for her family knew no bounds, as she ensured that no birthday, anniversary, or special occasion went unnoticed. An accomplished cake maker, Becky's talent extended to crafting beautiful creations for birthdays, graduations, and special gatherings. She found joy in scrapbooking, photography, wreath making, and home gardening, hobbies that reflected her creative spirit and love for her family. Becky was preceded in death by her nephew Stacy Hill and niece Ashley Ortiz. She is survived by her devoted husband Tim Youngblood, loving mother Tamie Barnard, adoring children Kristina Barrios (Angelo), Tim Jr., and Zack (Kayla), along with her 4 brothers and 6 sisters. Her legacy continues through her cherished grandchildren, Elizabeth Boatner, Jakob Boatner, Jr. Barrios, Teigan Youngblood, and Tataum Youngblood. Becky will be remembered for her unwavering love, boundless kindness, and selfless devotion to her family and community. She leaves behind a legacy of love and laughter that will be cherished by all who were fortunate enough to know her.

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Emmett LeRoy Haney - February 07, 1936 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Bixby)

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James Dale Havener - April 04, 1958 - April 14, 2024

Departed: 04/14/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: James "Jim" Dale Havener passed away Sunday, April 14, 2024 at his home in Beggs, Oklahoma. He was 66 years old. Jim will be laid to rest in the Bixby Cemetery. Born April 4, 1958 in Little Rock, Arkansas, Jim was the son of Louis and Ellen Jane (Harkey) Havener. Surviving family include his children, Jonathan Havener and his wife, Amy of Lexington, TN, Brandy Wingo and her husband, Travis of Oklahoma City, Jessie Havener of Elmore City, OK, and Wesley Havener and his wife, Brittany of Coweta, OK; his siblings, Maggie Plyler and husband, Dennis of Bluff City, AR, brother, Butch (Robert) Havener and his wife, Mary Lou of Stonebluff, OK, Carol Edmonson and her husband, Mike of Leonard, OK, and Mary Case and her husband, Jeffrey of Tulsa, OK; his grandchildren, Lillian W, Lexi, Lillian H, Vance, Layla, Clara, Icely, and Maily. Jim was preceded in death by his parents, Rev. Louis P. Havener and Ellen Jane Havener.

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Johnnie Lee Bittle - December 16, 1938 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Johnnie Lee Bittle (J.B.) was born on December 16, 1938 in Mounds, Oklahoma to John Carlos Bittle and Ommie Lee (Baker) Bittle. He departed this life on April 10, 2024 in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 85 years, 3 months and 25 days. Johnnie was a true "Jack of All Trades." He began working at a young age in the Texas Panhandle Oil Field with his Father. He moved back to Oklahoma and attended Liberty Mounds School where he met, and later married, his high school sweetheart Dorothy (Dot) Jean Morris. They were married on July 31, 1959 and shared over 60 years together before her death in June 2020. In 1960 they became parents to Brenda Kay and in 1963 to twins Regina Lynne and Ricky Glen. Johnnie was mechanically inclined. When Johnnie was a young boy he received a little wagon for Christmas. He wanted to know how it worked so he took it apart piece by piece and then put back together perfectly. He was a good car mechanic; he could listen to the motor running and could determine what was wrong by how the motor sounded. He worked for Jarbo Sales Liquor Distribution, delivering products to Local Liquor Stores in the Tulsa area; Carnation Milk Company, making all of their products; and was a code welder for Word Industries. Due to his growing family of three children, he moved to Abbot Heat Exchanger where he mastered a very unique automatic welding machine. This machine was transferred to the country of Panama, and not long after the transfer they were having problems with the machine and Mr. Abbot sent Johnnie to fix the issue and train new operators. When he returned from Panama, Mr. Abbot promoted Johnnie to the Material Estimation Office. In the early 1970s he was hired as the welding Forman at H.B. Zachry Company, building boiler #5 and #6 of the O.G.&E. Power Plant in Muskogee, OK. During this time, Johnnie started his own Oilfield Service Business in 1978 working on the weekends. When enough demand for his services occurred, he operated J.B.'s Portable Steam and Test Company full time, and in 1983 incorporated as J.B.'s Hot Oil and Steam Company. He heated tanks of oil to separate the salt water and paraffin out of the crude oil so that the oil companies could purchase the oil products. It was a profitable and successful business. The company remained in operation for over 45 years.In 2005, Johnnie retired, and he and Dot traveled across America in their motor home or motorcycle. Johnnie purchased his first red Honda Goldwing Motorcycle in the early 1990s and enjoyed being members of the Goldwing Motorcycle Club where each was given a CB Radio Handle. They enjoyed bike rides traveling to iconic restaurant's all over Oklahoma and some out of state with many of its members becoming lifelong friends. He eventually bought a second "candy apple red" Goldwing which was his favorite color and was absolutely beautiful. After being a Motorcycle enthusiast for many years, he had a scare when one day the bike tipped over with him and Mom. It scared him enough that he gave up riding. He moved on to the 4-wheeler craze that was a new and exciting sport which was of course a Red Honda one. He enjoyed traveling with his church friends and family members to Mena, Arkansas to ride the Trails in Queen Wilhelmina Park in the spring and fall. After a few years he purchased a larger Polaris 4-wheeler which he still owns. He learned how to snow ski in Colorado for the first time in 1984. He could ski the Black slopes like no one else. He had NO fear coming down the steep winding slopes. He led a very active life. He loved being outside whether it was fishing in south Texas or taking a walk on Harvard Avenue near his home. Johnnie served as a Deacon for over 50 years at the Bixby Free Will Baptist Church. He was a very loving, devoted and cherished son, brother, husband, father and business man. He will be truly missed and dearly remembered. Johnnie was preceded in death by his Grandparents Jacob Bittle Jr. and Arminda (Oswalt) Bittle; Forrest Baker and Tressie (Stone) Baker; both of his parents, John Carlos Bittle and Ommie Lee (Baker) Bittle; one baby brother, sisters Patty Sue Bittle and Wylene Patrick; Nephews Clyde Patrick, Jr., Lowry Morris, Davie Morris and Dusty Morris. His in-laws Lowry Morris and Ila. E. (Martin) Morris as well as his beloved wife of over 60 years Dorothy J. (Morris) Bittle. He is survived by his sister, Florence James and husband Dale of Porum, OK; brother James Bittle and wife Becki of Ochelata, OK; daughters, Brenda Evans and husband Dale of Mounds, OK, and Regina Osburn and husband Larry of Mounds, OK; son, Ricky Bittle and wife Brenda Lee of Bixby, OK; brother-in-laws, Ed Morris and wife Donna of Bixby, OK and David Morris and wife Sharon of Bixby, OK; grandchildren, TJ Evans and wife Trina (children Chayce and Kayden Evans), Chris Evans and wife Jennifer (children Ally and Peaches Evans), Amanda Bittle, Amy (Bittle) White and husband James (children Jay and Amiyah White), Austin Osburn, Kristen (Osburn) Cox and husband Eric (children Kahrson, Barrett and Gunner Cox). Bonus grandchildren - Pashey (Harris) Willhite and husband Jaime (Payton and Brooklyn Willhite), Jamie (Ellefson) Keller and husband Matt (children Malachi, Julianna, Felecity and Levi Keller). Johnnie also had a very special cousin Sandi and husband Frank DuVall of Palmdale, California Several cousins as well as nieces and nephews and their families. He had special lifelong friends who he considered family, Trudy and Richard Moore, Bob and Barbara Ann Kirk, Joe and MaryJane Kirk, John Kirk and Marilyn Kirk as well as their parents Robert and Madeline Kirk who he loved his entire life until their passing. He made some great friends throughout his life and enjoyed spending time with each of them including Larry Wilson of Bixby who he met at McDonalds on 121st Memorial Drive in Bixby, and they became fast friends who would meet for breakfast seven days a week. John Reeder of Bixby a longtime friend he met at church many years ago. Ray and Twilia Tate of Bixby, who he met at church over fifty years ago and considered them to be family. Dick Moore of Missouri was a member of the Honda Goldwing Club. Gary and Paula Henrickson of Destin, Florida, formerly Bixby residents, were very dear friends and met through the Honda Goldwing club. Johnnie Lee Bittle will be greatly missed. "Fly High Dad" and go give Mom a hug and kiss. Until we meet again. Love you always and forever.

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Dolores E Debenning - November 01, 1930 - April 04, 2024

Departed: 04/04/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Dolores Elizabeth (Hains) DeBenning passed away April 4, 2024, in Bixby, Oklahoma. She was born November 1, 1930, in Weatherford, Oklahoma. Parents were Reo Ray Hains and Haze Anna (Hansen) Hains, both preceded her in death, as well as a sister Juanita Francis (Hains) Cunningham and husband Merrill Jefferson DeBenning.Dolores leaves behind a legacy of love and family devotion, 1 son Thomas Hains DeBenning and two grandchildren Price DeBenning and Tarron DeBenning. Sister Patricia Carol McDonald and spouse Tommy Wayne McDonald; Brother, Darrell Ray Hains, and companion Chris Spears. Devoted companion Robert Teeter, many nieces and nephews who all called her "Aunt DoDo".Dolores was a people person, who loved God, gardening, flowers, writing poetry and life to the fullest. During the time Dolores lived in Stillwater, OK she cared for her pecan and famous Dogwood trees on West 9th. She will be greatly missed.Memorial Service to be held later.

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Teresa C. Shaddox - July 15, 1956 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Teresa C. Shaddox was born on Sunday, July 15, 1956 in Tulsa to Glenn and Betty Shaddox. Teresa went home to be with her Lord and Savior on Wednesday, April 3, 2024 at the age of 67 years. Teresa was the older sister of Randy and Jamie. The Shaddox kids grew up Red Fork but spent most of their weekends and summers in Berryhill with their grandparents. Glenn and Betty raised their family at Red Fork Baptist Church and it was there that she accepted Jesus Christ as her personal Lord and Savior. Teresa graduated from Daniel Webster High School in 1974 and started working for Southwestern Bell Telephone. She started as an operator, then became the first female lineman in Oklahoma and later became a manager for ATT's Smart Moves Program in Arkansas and Oklahoma. She retired after 30 years. In 1984, Teresa found her true calling in life - she became Aunt TC. Casey, Meagan and Hailey could not have asked for a better aunt. She loved to cook and host friends and family. Her summer pool parties will always be remembered by her loved ones. Teresa was an avid sports fan. She loved tennis, golf, baseball, and football. She really disliked Tony Romo especially when he called Chiefs games. Teresa loved to travel. She especially loved going to the beach and many family vacations were spent in Destin. Teresa loved animals. Abby and later Teddi were her faithful companions and brought her much joy. Teresa was diagnosed with leukemia around 2000. For 24 years, she bravely battled cancer until a stroke in December 2023 sidelined her. During the time Teresa was fighting leukemia she also helped take care of her father and moved in to take care of her mother after her mother had a stroke. Teresa was met in heaven by her parents: Glenn and Betty Shaddox, her sister: Jamie Ferguson, her dear friend: Nancy Reynolds Teresa is survived by: her brother: Randy Shaddox and his wife, Liz, of Tulsa; her nieces: Casey Ferguson and her husband, Jesse, of Garland, Texas; Meagan Ferguson of Tulsa; Hailey Ferguson of Tulsa; her great nephews: Wyatt Drury and Beckett Drury; her brother-in-love: Mark Ferguson of Tulsa; her aunt: Gloria Cochran of Tulsa; numerous cousins and other relatives; her constant companion Teddi; and a number of good friends who were so faithful to help with Teresa during the three months since her stroke.

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Daniel Kelly Brown - July 23, 1939 - April 02, 2024

Departed: 04/02/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Daniel Kelly Brown, a dedicated public servant and cherished member of his community, was born on July 23, 1939, in Muskogee, Oklahoma, to Richard Blackstone Brown and Julia Cary (Carson) Brown. He was raised and educated in Muskogee, Oklahoma, graduating from Muskogee High School. Daniel pursued higher education and obtained his Bachelor of Arts degree in Government and History from Northeastern State University.Daniel proudly served his country in the United States Army, demonstrating his unwavering commitment to duty and honor.Throughout his career, Daniel served with distinction in the Federal Government Department of Labor, where he dedicated himself to public service. His commitment and hard work led him to retire as a District Director after 30 years of service.On April 2, 2024, Daniel Kelly Brown passed away in Tulsa, Oklahoma, at the age of 84. He leaves behind a legacy of integrity, kindness, and devotion to his work.Daniel was preceded in death by his loving parents, Richard and Julia Brown. He will be dearly missed by all who knew him.Those he leaves to cherish his memory are sons, Randall Brown and David Brown, daughter-in-law Jody Brown, and grandchildren Taylor Brown, Ashleigh Brown, and Alyssa Brown.A service to honor and celebrate Daniel's life will be held on Friday, April 26, 2024, at Greenhill Cemetery, Muskogee. Though Daniel has departed from this world, his memory will forever remain in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to know him. May he rest in peace.

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Wilma Jean McKee - September 03, 1929 - April 01, 2024

Departed: 04/01/2024 (Bixby)

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Billie Lewis Ross - January 14, 1939 - March 31, 2024

Departed: 03/31/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Billie Lewis Ross was born on January 14, 1939, in Tahlequah, Oklahoma, to Frank and Gretchen Ross. It was in Muskogee that he met his beloved wife, Twyla "Charlene." The couple married December 29, 1955. Later, Billie moved to the Tulsa area, where he found employment at Frito Lay. In 1966, he built a home in Southtown, Bixby, and raised his children, Donnie and Ronnie, who attended Bixby Schools. He developed a passion for woodworking and fishing. Billie's career included notable roles at Saint Francis Hospital and St. John, where his engineering prowess and dedication were evident. He was known for his ability to tackle any challenge with a determined spirit. In later years, Billie accepted Jesus Christ as his savior and found solace in his faith. He cherished time spent with his family, including his sons, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren. Billie was preceded in death by his parents, his wife of 55 years, his brother Carl, and his sisters, Wanda Lee and Louella. He is survived by his sons Donnie and Ronnie and his wife, Joan, and his grandchildren, Rachelle Hopper and her husband Brian, Kenzie Dawn Ross, Brad Ross and wife, Jessica, Christopher Ross and wife, Jessica; great grandchildren: Reagan Hopper, Gibson, Harrison, Amelia, Addison and Harvey. A funeral ceremony honoring Billie will take place 1:30 PM Friday, April 5 at the Memorial Park Cemetery Mausoleum Chapel in Muskogee. Billie will lie in state from 11 AM - 6 PM Thursday in the Parlor of Bixby- South Tulsa Funeral Service.

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Deloris Marjorie Chowning - August 05, 1934 - March 30, 2024

Departed: 03/30/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Deloris Marjorie Gabel-Embrey- Chowning, fell asleep in death on March 30, 2024, at Clarehouse in Tulsa, at the age of 89. Deloris, born on August 5, 1934, in Bartlesville, daughter of William and Ethel (Potts) Gabel. She was one of 11 children. In the 1950s, Deloris met her first husband, Eugene Embrey, with whom she shared a passion for dancing. Together, they raised 5 children. After Gene's passing in 1995, Deloris found love again and married Walter Chowning. Together they spent seven years in the full-time ministry, serving in Washington State and a short time in Mexico and South Dakota. In recent years Deloris wrote encouraging letters to those in the community to share a positive hope for the future. She was known in Okmulgee for being part owner of the flea market on 6th St. She also worked for a short time at Highland Park Nursing Home. She is survived by her children: Danny Embrey and wife, Kymberly, Tina Tilton and husband, Fred, Peggy Thomas, Jeff Chowning and wife, Linda; numerous grandchildren, nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents, both husbands, her children Donald, Judy, and David Embrey, Kathy Weinrick and her husband, Michael, and her granddaughter, Cati Thomas, All of Deloris' siblings preceded her in death. A Memorial Service celebrating Deloris's life will be held at 3 PM on Saturday at the Okmulgee Kingdom Hall, located at 1229 E. 6th Street in Okmulgee. Her family eagerly awaits her return in the resurrection (John 5:28,29).

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Ida Kay Row - September 13, 1944 - March 29, 2024

Departed: 03/29/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Ida Kay Row, born September 13, 1944, was the beloved daughter of Harold and Virgie Peters. A proud graduate of Bixby High School, Ida Kay pursued her passion for learning, eventually excelling as a purchasing agent in both the aerospace and oil & gas industries. Her career took her on a fulfilling journey, marked by her dedicated service at Aeromet Tulsa and Lee Supply & Co. Following the tragic loss of her husband, Ronnie Lee, in 1971, Ida Kay courageously navigated single parenthood, raising her three cherished sons: Kenneth Carl, Harold Leon, and Russell Lee. She poured her heart and soul into nurturing her boys, never faltering in her commitment to their well-being. In later years, Ida Kay embraced the endearing title of "Mimi," finding boundless joy in the company of her grandchildren. Family held an unparalleled significance in her life, and she eagerly anticipated reunions and gatherings, especially treasured trips to Arkansas to reconnect with loved ones. Beyond her devotion to family, Ida Kay found solace and pleasure in her hobbies. She reveled in the art of sewing, found refuge in the pages of her favorite books, and delighted in curating a vibrant collection of decorations for every occasion. Her home radiated warmth and festivity, a testament to her festive spirit and unwavering love for celebrations. Ida Kay peacefully departed this life on March 29, 2024, in Tulsa, at the age of 79. She leaves behind a legacy of love and resilience, survived by her devoted sons: Kenneth Carl Row, Harold Leon Row, and Russell Lee Row and his wife, Debbie; her cherished daughter-in-law, Angie Row; adored grandchildren: Carl Lee Row, Hannah Grace (Row) Bender and her husband, Patrick, Colton Leon Row, Tucker Lee Row, Arden Faith Row, and Linden Hope Row. She is also survived by her dear sister, Janet Sample; brother, Wilson Peters, and a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. Ida Kay will be deeply missed but fondly remembered for her unwavering love, her zest for life, and her enduring devotion to those she held dear. A ceremony to celebrate Ida Kay will be 3:00 p.m. Monday, April 8, 2024 in the Rivercrest Chapel & Event Center, Bixby. Arrangements are under the direction of Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service & Crematory.

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Helen Louise Carlyle - September 03, 1944 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: "Helen Louise Carlyle, born Helen Louise Dabulski on September 4, 1944, in Berrien Springs, Michigan, peacefully passed away in her sleep on March 28, 2024, at the age of 79 in Sapulpa, Oklahoma. She was a beloved mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend.Helen was known for her kind, gentle, child-like nature, always wearing a smile that brightened the room. She found joy in arts and crafts, especially painting and coloring, and cherished playing games with her loved ones. Family gatherings, holidays, and picnics held a special place in her heart. Helen had a strong faith and was a long time member of Osage Hills Christian Church in Tulsa, OK.As a dedicated homemaker, Helen poured her love and care into her family. She enjoyed watching her grandchildren run, play, and grow up, and meeting her first 6 great-grandchildren. She found solace in reading during her free time and treasured celebrating holidays, with the 4th of July being a particular favorite.Helen is survived by her children: Helen L Phillips of Tulsa, OK, J Elsie Perigo & husband Paul of Sand Springs, OK, Thomas K F & wife Mandy of Germany, and M Jill Jordan & husband George of Columbia, MO. She is also survived by 7 grandchildren: Samantha & husband Austin, Nikki & husband Jason, JD & wife Kayla, Johnny & wife Lainey, Summer, Karl, Isaiah, and Adreonna and 6 great-grandchildren: Charlie, Chassis, Rosie, Layla, Logan, and Gunner who each hold a very special place in her heart. Helen was preceded in death by her husband, Thomas S Carlyle, daughter Mary Lou Carlyle, mother Josephine M Brosius-Dabulski, father Bruno G Dabulski, sister Mamie M Dabulski-Sempert, and brother Raymond F Dabulski.A memorial service to honor and celebrate Helen's life will be held at a future date in Sapulpa at Arbor Village Nursing and Rehabilitation, her residence for the past 12 years. In the meantime, condolences and tributes can be sent to Elsie Perigo at 21803 W Coyote Trail, Sand Springs, OK 74063. For those who wish to send flowers, cards, or other tokens of remembrance, please address them to Elsie Perigo or call/text (918) 948-3917.Bixby Funeral Service (918-369-1700) located at 13307 S. Memorial Dr. Bixby, OK 74008, is assisting the family with the funeral arrangements. Helen will be dearly missed by all who knew her, but her memory will forever live on in the hearts of those she touched."

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Cynthia Imel Kreymer - August 14, 1952 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: In no particular order, there were about five things that Cindy Kreymer wanted out of her life. She wanted to live independent of the rules or conventions of others, to love and be loved deeply, to be admired, to be outdoors, and... to ideally be within a 20-foot-radius of an equine or canine companion. Cindy (don't ever get caught calling her "Cynthia," unless you want to be haunted from the great beyond...) lived by her own rules. It is one of the things that caused her husband of more than thirty years, Jerry Kreymer, to fall deeply in love with her. "Societal convention" might as well have been a four letter word in her world. She was ruled instead by intelligence, faith, and a wicked sense of humor. Cindy was born in Tulsa Oklahoma to Charlotte Frichot and Arthur Blaine Imel on August 14, 1952. This was just 19 months after her sister Deborah was born and they were close friends and mischief makers! She was an exceptional beauty, with big hazel eyes and thick dark hair. Cindy was always very close to her father, Blaine Imel, who affectionately referred to her as "Cyndifer," a phrase coined at least in part due to her wicked sense of humor. They shared a love of gardening and bonsai plants. They also shared a love of animals - Blaine preferred larger dogs as did Cindy. Blaine flew small planes for fun and was always willing to take his daughters buzzing around - even having to buzz the Cushing airport to get someone to wave them in! After she married Jerry, she spent many hours listening to the two of them talk about flying and books they had read. Cindy graduated from the University of Tulsa with her RN degree. Cindy then served the Tulsa community as a Nurse Practitioner, showing great courage and moral conviction serving the HIV population in the 1980s and 1990s as the head of a Ryan White HIV clinic in the Tulsa area. Cindy was one of those people who was there if you needed her. When her mother had a serious operation, Cindy moved her out to Beggs and took care of her while she recovered. When her father needed to have more care than he was getting at home, she was pivotal in helping select the right place for him, and she spent many hours making sure he was getting the care he needed. Cindy married Jerry Kreymer, her soulmate and partner in crime, on November 30, 1991, in Eureka Springs, Arkansas in the presence of their friends and family. Cindy adored little babies. When she moved to Beggs, Oklahoma, with her husband Jerry in 1990, she worked at the Okmulgee hospital and delivered many babies. She even gave her personal phone number out to new mothers so that they could call her on the weekends with questions about their young ones. Cindy also enjoyed having family around. She hosted a family reunion for all the Frichot family when one of our relatives was visiting here from France. It was a large gathering and everyone loved being together. Cindy was an excellent mother; she gave birth to her only child, Monica Paige Kreymer (now Monica Lamphere) on September 15, 1992. Having prayed for a child for many years, she now turned her nursing skills, her wisdom, her kindness, and her love to the trials and tribulations of motherhood. Cindy raised Monica on the Beggs farm surrounded by animals of almost every variety. Cindy was a skilled equestrian, and horses were a large part of her life for many years. Her loves besides her family and friends were her horses Roxanne, Sonny, and Chuck. Cindy also deeply loved her German Shepherd guard dog (who guarded against everyone except for one Jerry Kreymer), Rex. Cindy will be deeply mourned, missed, and held in our hearts forever. To honor her memory, please consider a donation to Bailing out Benji, a 501(c)3, that is dedicated to ending puppy mill cruelty through research, education, and advocacy.

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Judith Mae Humphries - May 22, 1940 - March 25, 2024

Departed: 03/25/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Judith Mae Humphries, born May 22, 1940, in Hartley, Iowa, to Everett Heuer and Freda Heuer, passed away peacefully on March 25, 2024, at the age of 83. She was raised and educated in Hartley, graduating from Hartley High School in 1959. In 1960, Judy married the love of her life, David Humphries, in Denver, Colorado, after a four-month, whirlwind romance that began while pursuing higher education. Together, they embarked on a journey that took them across the United States as David served in the Army. Their adventures led them to Vashon Island, Washington, and Fairbanks, Alaska, before settling in Grand Junction, Colorado, where they raised their daughters, Jennifer and Kathleen. Judy was not only a devoted wife and mother but also a talented artist, specializing in oil and watercolor. Her artistic talents garnered recognition throughout Western Colorado, with numerous awards from various art shows. She shared her passion by teaching art lessons at the Grand Junction Art Center and displaying her work at the Main Street Gallery in Cedaredge, Colorado. After David's retirement in 1998, Judy and David embarked on a new adventure, traveling extensively in their RV. They spent much of their time visiting their daughters in Texas and Arizona before settling in Oklahoma in 2008. Together, they cultivated a beautiful garden and were active in their neighborhood, always willing to lend a helping hand. Judy's faith was a cornerstone of her life. Her greatest joy came from spending time with her family, whom she cherished dearly. Judy will be remembered for her encouraging spirit, unwavering support, and positive outlook on life. Among her simple pleasures, Judy enjoyed her morning Starbucks coffee, a ritual that brought her joy. A celebration of Judy's life is being planned by her family, with details of the Colorado service to be announced. She will be deeply missed by all who knew her, but her legacy of love and kindness will live on in the hearts of those she touched. Those she leaves to cherish her memory are her daughters, Jennifer Nordhausen and husband, Craig, and Kathy Fronczak and husband, John; grandchildren, Tyler Nordhausen and wife, Kristin, Gage Fronczak and wife, Vanessa, Alex Nordhausen and wife, Joy, Payton Fronczak and fiancé, Daniel, Macie Nordhausen, Brock Fronczak, and Chloe Nordhausen; great grandchildren, Milo, Cassius and a great granddaughter on the way. She is also survived by her sisters, Barbara Heetland and Beverly Skinner. Judy was preceded in death by her parents, Everett and Freda Heuer; husband, David Humphries; and sister, Irene Polson.

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Michael Mankiller - Unknown - March 22, 2024

Departed: 03/22/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Michael "Mike" Charles Mankiller, born on November 2, 1965, in San Fernando, CA,peacefully departed from this world on February 20, 2024. He was the cherished son ofJanice Marie (Schomerus) and the late Joseph Michael Mankiller. Born and raised in San Fernando, Mike graduated from James Monroe High School in1983, after which he bravely enlisted in the US Navy, Following an honorable discharge, Mike sought a new beginning and moved to Oklahoma, where he married Melissa Prince. Together, they welcomed their beloved children, Amanda and Clinton, and established their family home in Tulsa, OK After divorcing in 1998, Mike moved to Turley, Oklahoma where he made his home for 25 years during that time. Mike's professional journey led him to become a skilled welder and machinist. His dedication was evident during his tenure at Flo-Bend and later at OK Machine, where he worked for a decade before retiring due to health complications. Outside of work, Mike embraced life's joys, finding passion in midnight drags, horse races, bowling, golfing, working on cars and boxing and his love for his tv shows such as, The 5 and Hannity (boy, that would get him yelling.) He lived his life in the fast lane and was always running on "Indian time". However, his greatest joy came from spending quality time with his family, especially his adored grandchildren - Olivia his oldest baby angel. Brylie his angel- his Brylie girl. Kayella his baby angel- his little chunk, Justin- his little dude and Adellayah. Known for his strong work ethic, stubborn determination, and intelligence. Mike is survived by his loving children," In Mike's words- his saving grace, his shorty (Daughter) Amanda Dutton and husband (Justin) and son, "Meatball" Clinton Mankiller. He is also survived by his devoted mother, Janice Mankiller, brother Shane Mankiller, and lifelong partner Catherine Brown. In addition to his father, Joseph Michael Mankiller, Mike was preceded in death by his brother, Brian Mankiller. A celebration of Mike's life will take place on March 22, 2024, Friday at 1 pm at Rivercrest Chapel. The family invites friends, colleagues, and acquaintances to join them in honoring the memory of a beloved father, grandfather, partner, and friend. May he rest in eternal peace.

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Lea Rea Qualls - August 25, 1938 - March 14, 2024

Departed: 03/14/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Lea Rae Qualls, beloved mother, grandmother, and accomplished Certified Public Accountant, passed away peacefully on Thursday morning, March 14, 2024, in Broken Arrow at the age of 85. Her life will be honored and celebrated in a graveside ceremony at 1 PM on Monday in Memorial Park Cemetery, where Chaplain Roger Miller will officiate. Born on August 25, 1938, in Tipton, Iowa, Lea was the daughter of F.A. and Edith Eilieen (Raymond) Smith. She spent her childhood moving back and forth between Iowa and Checotah, Oklahoma. Lea graduated from high school with the Class of 1956, embarking on a journey marked by dedication and perseverance. She pursued her passion for numbers, becoming a Certified Public Accountant, a career path that would become her calling. Lea is survived by her daughters, Teresa Cummings and her husband, Norman, and Carmen Snelson and her husband, John, who will forever cherish her memory and carry her legacy forward. Additionally, she leaves behind her beloved granddaughter, Chelsea Cornett, who brought immense joy to her life. In the tender embrace of memory, Lea is reunited with her youngest daughter, Bonnie Qualls, who preceded her in death. As we gather to bid farewell, let us find solace in the beautiful memories we shared with Lea and take comfort in knowing that her spirit will forever reside in our hearts.

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Trey Hailey Jones - June 27, 1997 - March 12, 2024

Departed: 03/12/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Trey Hailey Jones, a beloved husband, devoted father, cherished son, and esteemed member of the community, passed away on Tuesday, March 12, 2024, surrounded by his loving family. He was 26 years old. Services are pending......

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Glenice Kay Dame - November 15, 1940 - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Glenice Kay Dame passed away on Sunday, March 10, 2024 in Tulsa at the age of 83. Born on November 15, 1940, to Walter Glen and Marna Mae (Mark) Staats, Glenice grew up on a farm in the close-knit rural community of Sylvia. She was an older sister to her brother Pat and had a large family of cousins in the area. Glenice's childhood in Sylvia was marked by her vibrant involvement in the community. She held the prestigious position of drum major in the high school band at Sylvia High School, where she also served as head cheerleader and salutatorian. An accomplished saxophonist, Glenice's musical talents added to the charm of Sylvia's small but tightly woven community. Family played a central role in Glenice's life. Raised in a large extended family, she cherished the bonds she shared with her cousins, who remained best friends throughout their lifetimes. Family reunions, characterized by warmth and togetherness, continued to be a strong tradition, reminiscent of a Norman Rockwell painting. After attending Hutchison Junior College and Kansas State in Manhattan, KS, Glenice married her high school sweetheart, James Rex Dame. Together, they built a life that included two children, Jeffrey and Annette. Rex's successful career brought the family to Tulsa in 1973, where he pursued numerous business ventures. Glenice dedicated many years of service to Thermo Tech Technologies and RW Holland, where she played a crucial role as an executive secretary, managing overseas shipping, billing, and all human resource-related matters. Her organizational skills and dedication held the workplace together until her retirement at the age of 75. Outside of work, Glenice was a devoted mother who enjoyed weekends boating with her family at Ft. Gibson and Tenkiller lakes. Known for her meticulous nature, she instilled the value of organization in her children, maintaining an impeccably organized pantry and household. A lover of music, Glenice was a dedicated Elvis Presley fan. She passed on her passion for sewing to her daughter Annette, showcasing her skills as a talented seamstress who created various garments for her children. Glenice also had a green thumb, tending to a beautiful and colorful flower garden and surrounding her home with thriving plants. In the 90s, Glenice found companionship with Jim Coleman, and they shared many joyous years together until his passing in 2017. In retirement, she cherished moments spent with her grandchildren, leaving behind a legacy of love and care. Glenice is survived by her children Jeffrey Dame and wife, Carla; Annette Barker and husband, Ed; grandchildren, Jessica, Ryan, Trevor, Samantha Jo, Matthew, Sean, and Luke; and 20 great-grandchildren and 1 great-great-grandchild. She is also survived by the father of her children, James Rex Dame. Glenice is preceded in death by her parents, her brother Pat, and life partner, Jim Coleman. A funeral ceremony to honor Glenice Kay Dame will be held at 11 AM on Thursday, March 14, 2024, in the Rivercrest Chapel, followed by interment in the Prague Cemetery. The family will receive visitors on Wednesday from 6-8 PM. Glenice will be remembered for her kindness, her unwavering presence, and the love she shared with those fortunate enough to be a part of her life.

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Barbara Ann Ingle - November 14, 1949 - March 10, 2024

Departed: 03/10/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Barbara Ann (Morgan) Ingle was born November 14, 1949, in Tulsa, Oklahoma, to Raymond Morgan and Blanche (Bergstresser) Morgan. Barbara graduated from Memorial High School in Tulsa, Oklahoma and completed her bachelor's degree at University of Tulsa.For just under a decade, Barbara taught 4th grade at Sand Springs Public Schools. She used her love of learning, caring heart and boundless energy to inspire her students, creating memories and relationships that she would recall fondly for the rest of her life. Along with teaching, she became involved in many charity organizations around midtown Tulsa and was an avid member of the Junior League of Tulsa. Barbara served as the receptionist at Montessori Christian Academy while her two children, Andrew and Jeffrey, attended. Later, she was a fixture of parental support, clocking in countless volunteer hours at Grace Fellowship Christian School for nearly 12 years. Whether employed or volunteering, Barbara devoted her time and passion to the things that were important to her, especially her family and friends.Barbara was a devoted Christian who loved Jesus and enjoyed attending church. She found strength in reading the Bible and hoped to be a source of encouragement to all she met. Her true ministry was as a beacon of joy emblematized by her colorful attire and bubbly personality. In her later years, Barbara and Steve attended Life Church South Tulsa.Barbara loved people and could strike up a conversation with anyone she met, quickly turning a stranger into a friend. She was very proud of her city and enjoyed supporting local businesses. Barbara loved dogs, Midtown Tulsa, party planning, celebrities, the Hallmark channel, and colorful hair bows. However, Barbara's main interest was with her family and friends. She lovingly supported her husband through 50 years of marriage, was a fiercely caring and supportive mother, and a proud grandmother.Barbara passed away on March 10, 2024, at her Bixby home. She was 74.

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Doyle Davis - Unknown - March 08, 2024

Departed: 03/08/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Services to honor and celebrate the life of Doyle Davis will be 11:00 a.m. Friday, March 15, 2024 at Riverview Baptist Church, Bixby. Doyle passed away on Friday, March 8, 2024 at home. He was 80.

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Gloria Sue Wolcott - March 04, 1936 - March 07, 2024

Departed: 03/07/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Gloria Sue Wolcott, beloved mother, grandmother, and cherished member of the Tulsa community, peacefully passed away on the morning of March 7, 2024, at the age of 88. She will be laid to rest in Calvary Cemetery, and a private service will be held in her honor. Born on March 4, 1936, in Ponca City, Gloria was the daughter of Willard and Georgia Showalter Cross. She spent her formative years in the San Francisco area of California and later moved to Tulsa, where she primarily raised her three sons. Gloria's life journey included travels to various destinations, following her husband's military assignments. Gloria attended high school in Balboa, California, where she discovered her passion for music and played in the marching band. As a devoted mother, she had her hands full with her three boys, instilling in them the values of love, resilience, and kindness. Gloria was known for her incredible culinary skills, and she delighted in preparing fantastic, healthy cuisine for her family. A member of the Tulsa Orchid Club, Gloria had a green thumb and took great pleasure in gardening. She also had a deep appreciation for bungalow-style houses and enjoyed antiquing. Her love for sewing reflected her creative spirit, which was evident in the meticulous craftsmanship of each piece she created, reflecting her keen eye for detail and dedication to perfection. Gloria's talent extended to the world of stained glass art, where she demonstrated a remarkable ability to transform ordinary pieces of glass into stunning works of beauty. Through her creative endeavors, she brought joy to those around her and left behind a legacy of artistry that will be cherished. Gloria found joy in traveling and had a special affinity for visiting the ocean, where the sound of the waves brought her peace and tranquility. She made friends easily with her warm and welcoming demeanor. Her zest for life and adventurous spirit left an indelible mark on those fortunate enough to know her. Gloria Sue Wolcott is survived by her three sons, Daniel Cota, Roger Wolcott and his wife, Juliette, and Guy Wolcott; and her cherished grandchildren, Natalie and Rebecca. She will be dearly missed by all who had the privilege of sharing in her love, laughter, and warmth.

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Jack H. Norris - September 20, 1952 - March 04, 2024

Departed: 03/04/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Jack H. Norris was born in 1952, and passed away on March 4, 2024, at the age of 71 in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He grew up in Tulsa and attended Will Rogers High School, where he ran track and field. Upon graduation, he attended NEO, where he met his future wife, Pamela Sue Bonar. They married in the summer of 1972 (51 years). Together, they transferred to the University of Oklahoma (Go Sooners!), where Jack received his degree in Political Science. He would later go back to school and receive certification in hostage negotiation. In 1977, Jack and Sue gave birth to their eldest son, Shon Ryan Norris (wife, Tara Zoebelein). In 1983, they gave birth to their second son, Kyle Remington Norris (partner, Jaime Leonardelli). In 2014 and 2019, he became a grandfather to Jackson and Jordan (children of Shon and Tara). Jack spent more than 30 years working with Tulsa's Troop B Highway Patrol, working his way up to Captain of Communication. During the Oklahoma City bombing in 1995, Jack helped lead the portable command station to assist in the bombing recovery. He also taught hostage negotiation classes across the country. Jack Norris was a loving son, husband, father, grandfather, teacher, and mentor. He loved the ocean and visiting new places. He was a reader of books and a fan of spy movies and westerns. The Beach Boys were one of his favorite bands. As an anchor of the Norris family, Jack will be missed dearly by all. A celebration of life will be April 6, 2024. More details to come. If you would like to send flowers, Pamela Sue Norris is building a memory garden for Jack in their backyard. Donations can also be given on behalf of Jack H. Norris to the following foundations: Foundation for Tulsa Schools (Donations will be directed to Will Rogers High School for scholarship funding and track and field equipment, where Jack was an alumni): Donate - Foundation for Tulsa Schools Donations can also be mailed to: Foundation for Tulsa Schools 3027 South New Haven Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 Checks should be made payable to Foundation for Tulsa Schools with "In Memory of Jack H. Norris" in the memo line. National Association of State Foresters Foundation: Donation NASF Foundation - National Association of State Foresters

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Bertha Cornel Glasco - June 13, 1947 - March 03, 2024

Departed: 03/03/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: Bertha Cornel Glasco, affectionately known as Cornel, was born on June 13, 1947, in the picturesque town of Collinsville, Oklahoma, to Cornelius Chester and Doris Maxine (Shadrick) Hearn. She peacefully departed this world on Sunday evening, March 3, 2024, in Tulsa, at the age of 76.

Cornel had four siblings, Chuck, Paul, Dub, and Ellen. She grew up in Collinsville with a unique companion – a spider monkey. She attended school in Collinsville and built lifelong connections in the community.

During her junior high years, Cornel met the love of her life, and from that moment, they became an inseparable pair. They ventured to Tulsa, where they laid the foundation for a beautiful family. Cornel's life was marked by a deep appreciation for the simple joys – the gentle melody of windchimes in the breeze and the peaceful pastime of birdwatching.

Professionally, Cornel served as a compassionate nurses aid in various institutions, including the Tulsa Nursing Center, Colonial Manor, and the MTTA Bus Lines. Her meticulous organizational skills and dedication to her work made her an invaluable asset.

Cornel had a passion for country music, with a particular fondness for Garth Brooks. Her favorite song, "Dirty Laundry," echoed the rhythm of her heart. In her leisure time, she enjoyed playing cards, especially indulging in a game of gin rummy, and trying her luck at bingo.

Cornel is survived by her four loving daughters: Mary Glasco Weaver and wife Ree, Rachel Miller, Tricha Burr and husband Glen, and Jerrie Glasco.  She is also survived by her siblings, Paul, Dub, and Ellen. Her legacy also lives on through her cherished grandchildren, Christina and husband Marc, Casandra and husband Rob, Benny and wife Jessica, Christopher, Mary, Bobbie, Tamera, Jeffrey, Brandy, Jerrod, Chelsea, Harley, Morgan, James, and Joseph, along with 35 great-grandchildren.

She is reunited in eternity with her parents, Cornelius and Maxine, her husband Jerry, and her brother Chuck. Cornel is also preceded by her brother-in-law, William Doyle Glasco, and his wife, Sue Glasco.

A funeral ceremony to honor Bertha Cornel Glasco's life will take place at 10:30 AM on Thursday, March 7, in the Rivercrest Chapel of Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service.  Interment will follow in the Sand Ridge Cemetery near Collinsville. Friends and family are invited to pay their respects as Cornel lies in state from 10 AM to 8 PM, also in the Rivercrest Chapel.  As we bid farewell to Cornel, may we find solace in the memories of her vibrant spirit and the love she shared with all who were fortunate enough to know her.

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Norma Lee Glover - November 19, 1928 - March 02, 2024

Departed: 03/02/2024 (Bixby)

Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Norma Lee Glover.

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The staff at Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service & Crematory are dedicated professionals who possess a deep understanding of the funeral industry. Their funeral directors are licensed and experienced, with a passion for providing exceptional care and support to each family they serve. They take pride in their attention to detail, ensuring that every aspect of the funeral service is meticulously planned and executed.

Community Involvement

Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service & Crematory is deeply committed to serving their community. They participate in local events and organizations, demonstrating their dedication to giving back to the community that has supported them. By building strong relationships with local businesses, charities, and organizations, they are able to provide additional resources and support to families in need.

Online Resources and Support

In addition to their physical location, Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service & Crematory offers online resources and support to help families navigate the grieving process. Their website provides access to obituaries, online condolences, and funeral planning tools. They also offer grief support groups and counseling services, recognizing that the journey of healing is often long-term.

A Commitment to Excellence

Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service & Crematory is committed to excellence in all aspects of their business. They strive to exceed expectations by providing unparalleled service, compassion, and support to each family they serve. By focusing on the unique needs of each individual, they create meaningful tributes that celebrate life and bring comfort to those who are grieving.

In conclusion, Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service & Crematory is a trusted partner for families in Bixby and surrounding areas. Their commitment to personalized care, exceptional service, and community involvement makes them an outstanding choice for those seeking funeral services. If you're looking for a compassionate and professional funeral home that will help you navigate the difficult time of losing a loved one, consider reaching out to Bixby-South Tulsa Funeral Service & Crematory.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It may also include information about their family, accomplishments, and any notable achievements.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries serve as a way to notify friends, family, and community members of a person's passing, allowing them to pay their respects and offer condolences. They also provide a sense of closure and help to celebrate the life of the deceased.

Who typically writes an obituary?

The responsibility of writing an obituary usually falls on the family members or close friends of the deceased. In some cases, a funeral home or crematorium may offer assistance with writing the obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's full name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, military service, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about memorial services, donations, or other relevant details.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary depending on the publication or online platform. Generally, it should be concise and to the point, ranging from 100 to 500 words.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many publications and online platforms allow you to include one or more photos with the obituary. This can help to personalize the tribute and make it more meaningful.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a brief announcement of a person's passing, usually including only basic information such as name, age, and date of death. An obituary is a more detailed tribute that provides additional information about the person's life.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or online platform?

Contact the newspaper or online platform directly to inquire about their submission process and guidelines. Some may require you to fill out a form or email the obituary text and photo(s) to a specific address.

Is there a cost associated with publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the publication or online platform. Some may charge by the word or line, while others may offer package deals or free listings.

Can I write my own obituary in advance?

Yes, it is possible to write your own obituary in advance. This can be a therapeutic exercise and ensure that your life story is told in the way you want it to be remembered.

How do I find an old obituary?

You can try searching online archives of newspapers or genealogy websites. Local libraries or historical societies may also have copies of old newspapers or records that can be searched.

What is the purpose of an obituary archive?

An obituary archive is a collection of past obituaries that can be searched for genealogical research, historical purposes, or simply to remember loved ones who have passed away.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! Humor can be a great way to celebrate the personality and spirit of the deceased. Just be sure to keep it respectful and tasteful.

How do I handle sensitive information in an obituary?

If there are sensitive details about the deceased's life that you're unsure about sharing, it's best to err on the side of caution and omit them or discuss them with family members beforehand.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Yes! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the deceased's personality or interests.

What is the difference between a traditional obituary and a modern online memorial?

A traditional obituary is typically published in print media, while a modern online memorial is hosted on a website or social media platform. Online memorials often allow for more flexibility in terms of content and interactivity.

How do I create an online memorial?

You can create an online memorial through websites specifically designed for this purpose or by setting up a Facebook page or other social media group dedicated to the deceased.

Can I update an online memorial over time?

Yes! Online memorials can be updated with new photos, stories, and memories as desired. This allows friends and family to continue celebrating the life of the deceased over time.

Are online memorials permanent?

This depends on the website or platform hosting the memorial. Some sites guarantee permanent archiving, while others may have limitations or restrictions on how long the memorial will remain active.

Can I share an online memorial on social media?

Absolutely! Sharing an online memorial on social media can help spread the word and encourage others to visit and pay their respects.

How do I ensure that an online memorial remains respectful?

Moderate comments and contributions carefully to ensure that they are respectful and appropriate. You may also want to set guidelines for what types of content are allowed.

Can I use an online memorial as part of a funeral service?

Yes! Online memorials can be displayed during funeral services or viewed by guests as part of a celebration of life ceremony.

How do I cope with reading multiple obituaries in a short period of time?

Losing multiple loved ones in a short period can be overwhelming. Take time to process your emotions, seek support from friends and family, and prioritize self-care during this difficult time.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief?

Drawing up an obituary can be emotionally challenging. Consider enlisting the help of a friend or family member, taking breaks when needed, and focusing on celebrating the life of your loved one rather than dwelling on your own grief.