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Lawrence William Riddell - October 13, 1933 - April 03, 2024

Departed: 04/03/2024 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Lawrence William (Bill) Riddell. 1933-2024

Bill Riddell, age 90, Del Rey Oaks, CA, passed away peacefully in his sleep at home on April 3, 2024.

Bill was born in Manteca, CA, and grew up in Pacific Grove where he formed many lifelong friendships. A Korean War veteran, he served in the Navy in the Pacific. He became an early software pioneer, first employed as a computer programmer for Stanley Aviation, and then working in computer hardware sales for NCR in Denver, CO. He founded his own software company, Softpack, in the 1970s in Fort Collins, CO. He would reside in Colorado for many years, later employed in the banking industry, and becoming an avid skier, hunter, fisherman, and outdoorsman. He volunteered with the Colorado Ski Patrol and helped establish PARTNERS, a youth mentoring program in Fort Collins. Earning his private pilot’s license, he delighted in flying Cessna aircraft in the western states and Alaska, honing an expertise in mountain flying. Bill returned to his Monterey peninsula roots in the 1980s and became active in the local chapter of Lions Club International where he once served as president. He also enjoyed playing golf at local courses where he previously caddied as a teenager, including Pebble Beach. Bill loved football, rooting in equal measure for the San Francisco 49ers and the Denver Broncos. With his wife, Donna, he enjoyed traveling with regular visits to their vacation spot in Genoa, Nevada, and trips to Europe and the western states. A storyteller by nature, he liked to find the humor in daily living and leaned toward positive outcomes in life situations. Bill is survived by his loving wife of nearly 25 years, Donna, his son David, and his wife, Lucille, of Punta Gorda, FL, his son, Steven, and his wife, Jan, of Fort Collins, Co, as well as two grandsons, Benjamin and Jonathan, and five great-grandchildren. A memorial service is being planned. He will be interred at California Central Coast Veterans Cemetery near the Fort Ord National Monument

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Grace Marie Kemp - October 20, 1924 - March 09, 2024

Departed: 03/09/2024 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Grace Kemp October 20, 1924–March 9, 2024

Grace Marie Catherine Carpenter Kemp—in her latter decades known as, “Amazing Grace”— passed away on March 9, 2024. She was 99 years old, and indeed, amazing, thanks to a long, active, often adventure-filled life. This was a person focused on moving forward through life tenaciously, and always with a wisecrack. She never really stopped.

Grace was born in Baltimore, Maryland. She, and husband of 53 years, Frank Kemp, met each other when they were in the Navy during World War II. They married in 1946, and soon after she moved to Oakland, California, where Frank lived and was born. In 1954, she gave birth to her first and only child, Christopher F. Kemp.

Grace lived with her family in that same house in Oakland until 1967, at which time they moved to neighboring San Leandro, less than a half mile away. It was their only other home, until Grace moved down to the Monterey Peninsula to be closer to her son in 2018, where she spent her remaining years.

Grace’s husband was a dedicated basketball coach for over a half century, both at the grammar and high school level. Grace was behind him every step of the way. She worked the snack bar, sewed ripped uniforms, waited with players until their parents came—in short, she became a fixture at St. Louis Betrand, Oakland first and then later for decades when Coach Kemp became athletic director at St. Leander, San Leandro. Her support of Frank brought her many admirers and was the first place she made a widespread impression on people, usually a lasting one.

Once Chris came of college age, Grace, husband in tow, started the next major phase of her life: travel. Though in the early days the family road tripped to thirty-five states, driving back east every few years to see Grace’s family, in the 1970’s the scope of her travel grew tremendously. She and Frank made it to over 12 European countries, including Romania, as well as Japan and China. As a solo tourist, Grace boated down the Nile, and went on an African safari when she was in her very late 80’s. It was truly a remarkable run.

If there is one personal characteristic that defines Grace Kemp, it is undoubtedly her sense of humor. She literally couldn’t contain it. Whether you were family, a kid running around a basketball court, a parent, a neighbor, or a travel companion, you could not help but be amused by the constant barrage of quips flowing from her. That was the core of her magnetism. People rarely forgot her after they met her. Her humor was her signature as was, in later years, her impeccably coiffed shock of white hair.

Grace leaves behind her son, Christopher, her daughter-in-law, Linda, granddaughters, Vita McConnell, and Dearna Singer, great-grandchildren, Bethanny and Bishop Singer. She also had a tremendously close relationship with nephew Alan Carpenter, and wife, Roxanne, who she was as close to as a son and daughter.

If you knew Grace and wish to celebrate her life, there will be a remembrance Mass announced at a later date.

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Paul Eugene Johnson - October 04, 1946 - February 21, 2024

Departed: 02/21/2024 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Paul Eugene Johnson ( 10.4.1946 - 2.21.2024) Paul Eugene Johnson, 77, of Carmel, CA died at home in Carmel with his loving partner, Marsha McMahan Zelus, by his side on February 21, 2024 after a long and courageous battle with COPD, cancer, and COVID.

Although born in Hollister, Paul was a true son of Salinas. His parents Robert and Margaret Johnson moved to town shortly after his birth and Paul attended elementary, middle and high school in Salinas and was a proud graduate of the class of 1964. Through these years he forged life long friendships. When asked how he kept his many friends over so many years Paul always said as an only child he was looking for friends who could become family.

Paul’s father managed four farm supply stores in the region and Paul as a youngster often accompanied him on trips to visit the farmers. He also worked in the Salinas store. It was natural he would build a career around the agricultural industry in Monterey County where he specialized in designing drip irrigation systems. His designs were sought worldwide.

Paul attended Hartnell Junior College from 1964 to 1966, Los Angeles Valley College and Camino College. He served in the U.S. Coast Guard Reserve from 1966 until his honorable discharge in 1972. Most of his active service was in Monterey. One of his fondest memories of this time was attending the historic Monterey Pops Festival.

During his years in Carmel he and Marsha, his partner of 25 years, were active participants in the life of the community. They were long time volunteers at Point Lobos and ushers for Pac Rep. They enjoyed their membership in the Monterey Peninsula Yacht Club, the Pebble Beach Sports Car Club and the Monterey Ski and Social Club.

Paul loved talking to people and was always ready with a joke or a story about one of his many adventures from his time as an Assistant Harbor Master in Alaska, to living in a teepee in Aromas, to showing off his Crossfire at car shows; he always said he had an interesting life. He certainly did. His family and friends will miss him greatly.

Paul is survived by daughters Staci Alziebler-Perkins of Monterey and California Spencer of Oregon and sons Sky Johnson and Colt Johnson, also of Oregon, eight grandchildren and two greatgrandchildren. In addition he leaves his partner’s brother and sister-in law Mick and Nicki McMahan of Carmel.

A celebration of his life will be held in October close to his birthday on October 4.

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Joanne D. Smerdon - September 17, 1931 - January 05, 2024

Departed: 01/05/2024 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Joanne Azalea Duck Smerdon (September 17, 1931 - January 5, 2024)

"A leading lady in all that she does," the description of Joanne Azalea Smerdon (nee Duck) in her high school yearbook captures the essence of her life.

Joanne Azalea Duck Smerdon, born in Neosho, Missouri on September 17, 1931, died peacefully in Monterey, California, on January 5, 2024, at the age of 92. She reunited with her beloved husband, Ernest Thomas Smerdon, who died in 2014 after 63 years of a cherished and enduring marriage. Joanne was also preceded in death by her sister, Virginia Duck Bruce, and her parents, Joseph and Inez Bringgold Duck.

As a young woman, Joanne was an accomplished violinist and actress. Later, she became a passionate advocate for early childhood reading and exposure to music and for destigmatizing mental health issues and supporting those affected. She embraced new challenges, including community volunteer work; selling real estate; being the meteorologist for a new television station; and co-founding a business to create a television pilot geared toward the interests of older adults. Joanne was renowned for her not-to-be-missed parties.

Joanne and her husband Ernie shared a passion for travel and adventure, from camping trips to national parks and World’s Fairs with their children to extensive international travel later on. In 1963, before embarking on a trip around the world with her husband, Joanne was featured as a model in McCall’s magazine in an article on travel-friendly yet elegant hairstyles. Their travels also took them extensively through the US and Mexico. and they had fond memories of hiking and rafting in the Grand Canyon. Joanne hiked in and out of the Grand Canyon three times, the last when she was 67.

Joanne faced life's joys and challenges with grace, intelligence, and creativity. She was a devoted wife and loving mother and grandmother. Joanne's influence extended beyond her immediate family, touching the lives of her many nieces, nephews, and a multitude of friends. Her grandchildren especially remember her generosity, kindness, support, and zest for life. They will be forever grateful for Grandma giving them the blueprint on how to live an inspired and impactful life. Joanne was indeed a leading lady in all that she did.

Joanne is survived by her three children and their families: Ernest Thomas Smerdon, Jr. (wife Susan Henricks, previous wife Leigh McGuigan); Katherine Anne Smerdon Myers (husband Tom Myers); and Gary Joe Smerdon (wife Sandra Wheatley Smerdon, previous wife Maureen Keenan Smerdon) and ten grandchildren and spouses and ten great-grandchildren.

A memorial service to celebrate her extraordinary life will be held later this year. For those inclined to do so, the family kindly requests that donations be made to the Ernest and Joanne Smerdon Scholarship at the University of Arizona, which can be made online at http://bit.ly/Smerdon-gift.

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Robert Jaques - June 19, 1978 - December 28, 2023

Departed: 12/28/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Robert Louis Jaques, he liked the nickname “Roberto,” came into this world on June 19, 1978. His birth was a difficult one, and his chances of surviving were very low. But Robert was a strong boy and with much help from the doctors at the Stanford

Neonatal Intensive Care Center he was able to overcome the adversities and grew into the wonderful person that he was. Robert was a dear, dear person ... very loving and caring, respectful, helping others, courteous ... all of the things that a parent would hope for in their son. He brought incredible joy and happiness to his parents, Robert S. Jaques and Helen Jaye, and was loved by

everyone who knew him. He had an inquisitive mind and was interested in a wide variety of things, always asking questions to learn more about them. Because of his father’s work as an engineer in the field of water treatment and recycling, he had an especially strong interest in construction projects and treatment facilities. His father took him on numerous trips to see and learn about these. One trip was at the earlyage of 2, in a backpack,at midnight on the beachin Seaside to inspect a treatment plant ocean outfall that was being repaired by marine divers. And another during construction of the Regional Treatment Plant in which a crane operator asked him if he’d like to come up into the cab with him and help lift a huge piece of equipment. He did, while his father was talking with the project superintendent and unaware of his son’s adventure.

Robert loved to travel and took many, many trips with his parents including to Seattle, Chicago, New York City, Washington D.C., New Orleans, Halifax and Boston. On one of the trips to Chicago he got to meet the cast members of “Chicago Fire” – one of his favorite TV shows. He went with his parents to France at the age of 3, and again with his father as an adult. With his mother he went on many road trips throughout the western United States.

Robert worked for a number of years for Hope Services in Monterey on a janitorial crew at the Naval Postgraduate School. Prior to that he worked as an office assistant, and later did computer e-waste dismantling.

Robert had a great love for movies and music and had an extensive collection of CDs and DVDs. His middle name was in memory of Louis Armstrong, whose home he visited with his father in Queens, New York.

Robert was one of the regulars at Red’s Doughnuts in downtown Monterey, often joining his father there for coffee, sometimes his favorite maple doughnut with peanuts, and the spirited conversations in what is like the “Cheers” of doughnut shops. He was pictured in the SFGATE newspaper’s August 23, 2022 edition in an article about Red’s. He also frequented Rosine’s on Alvarado and the Fisherman’s Grotto on the wharf.

Robert suddenly and unexpectedly passed away at the UCSF Medical Center just before he was scheduled to be discharged following brain surgery in December. His mother and father were with him at his bedside. In spite of all of the medical adversities he faced in his life, he was always upbeat and positive and served as an inspiration to many people.

He is survived by his brother, Evan; his father’s partner, Lynne Semeria; his mother’s husband, Ron Jaye; his uncles, Bill Davies, Xavier Alvarez and Don Jaques; his aunts, Anne Kelly and Barbra Alvarez; and his cousins, David, Alex, Andie, Kevin, Donald, Tracy and Suzanne.

His parents will hold a gathering to honor Robert at a future date.

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Hermina M. Dallas - March 26, 1930 - December 16, 2023

Departed: 12/16/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Carmel mourns the loss of a remarkable soul with the passing of Mitzi Dallas, a cherished and vibrant presence in the community. Renowned at the Planning Department counter, Mitzi leaves a legacy of professional prowess and boundless generosity. Her memory will be cherished not only for her exceptional skills but also for the delightful fried chicken strips, brownies, and cookies she thoughtfully shared with the City staff.

Mitzi, a successful housing developer in Carmel, forged her path after assisting in her family's Pacific Grove motel. Her entrepreneurial spirit led her to flip her first house in Pacific Grove, sparking a prolific career spanning numerous projects across the Monterey Peninsula. Mitzi's dedication to her craft and her emphasis on practicality in design showcased her unique prespective. She has left a lasting mark on the community.

Mitzi Dallas will be dearly missed and remembered for her remarkable contributions. Her feisty spirit will live on through her family, in particular her son former Mayor Steve Dallas.

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Frances Marie Francis - January 10, 1925 - November 03, 2023

Departed: 11/03/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Frances Marie Francis passed away on November 3rd 2023.

Frances is survived by five children, nine grandchildren, and eight great grand children.

Fran was blessed with many friends and family who enjoyed her card play, jokes and quick wit.Frances was very devout in her catholic faith.

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Rosemarie Reifsteck - November 07, 1930 - October 12, 2023

Departed: 10/12/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: On the evening of October 12, 2023, Rosemarie Reifsteck, 92, passed away peacefully at home. She was born November 7, 1930, in Monterey, to Guiseppe and Rosina Trovato. She was a life-long resident of Monterey and was a graduate of Monterey High School. Rosemarie worked at Hovden Cannery, then as an escrow officer with Coast Counties Title Company for 36 years.

Rosemarie is preceded in death by her husband, Don, and her brothers Tom (USS Arizona), Mike and Tony. Rosemarie is survived by her daughter Cynthia Rybkowski of Seaside. She is also survived by one granddaughter, Arianna and a great grandson, Hunter.

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James Christopher Gordon - March 10, 1945 - August 29, 2023

Departed: 08/29/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: James Christopher Gordon passed away on August 29, 2023. He was 78 years old and is survived by his wife, Jane (Okuma) and daughter, Mika; his sister Jane (Wittmann), husband Will and children, Gordon and Emily; his late brother Tim’s widow Donna (Mickleson) and daughter Megan (Gordon -Turner) and husband Travis; his late brother Bill’s widow, Carol and his children Jennifer, late nephew Andy, Kelly and their families.

“Chris” was born in Salinas, California on March 10,1945 to Max and Harriet Gordon of Salinas, CA. He attended Salinas schools where he was on the high school swim, water polo and debate teams and in school plays. He formed a folk trio and played guitar and sang. He graduated Chico State (1967) and UC Davis (1969) where he and fellow swim team members went on to routinely medal in their meets and set school records.

His love of surfing began around the early 60’s where he surfed up and down the California coast and the waters of Mexico. He was a gifted and beloved educator from Washington Union Elementary School in Salinas, followed by teaching ESL in Chinatown, San Francisco and as a lecturer to Stanford’s International Students.

Besides being a passionate surfer, he was an avid reader with an insatiable appetite for history and politics. His love of music, especially Latin Jazz, the Blues, reggae and rock cultivated his pursuit in playing the guitar, conga drums and the piano. He began as a graphic artist but found his true love and talent in painting, especially Day of the Dead surfing scenes and of his beloved ocean. Whether it was on a sandy beach or at a formal attire event, Chris was determined to wear one of his many coveted Hawaiian shirts often with his Scottish newsboy cap.

His love of adventure and travel took him around the world to explore Mexico, Spain, Portugal, Cuba, Costa Rica, Scotland, Ireland, England, France, Italy and Japan as well as hitchhiking across the United States in his wild and crazy days.

Throughout his life, Chris demonstrated kindness, loyalty, enthusiasm, and integrity. He cultivated deep friendships from all walks of life. His love of family and friends were what he valued above all. Most of all, his sense of humor touched everyone. That’s the one quality that all of his friends remember the most and cherish about him.

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Bettye Jean Sollecito - November 20, 1929 - August 28, 2023

Departed: 08/28/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Bettye Sollecito, 93, passed away on August 28, 2023, inher Monterey home surrounded by her loving family. She was born on November 20, 1929, to Othel and Charlotte Smith in Springfeld, MO. She lived in Missouri until she was 22-years-old, where she enjoyed such activities as demolition car racing and attending a screentest for Paramount Studios. Paramount offered to fy herto Hollywood, however, her mother did not want her involved in the unsavory “Hollywood lifestyle.”

In 1951, Bettye relocated to Monterey, CA with hermother. In 1952, she met the love of her life, Joe, at theBlue Ox Restaurant in Monterey. Following a dinner inwhich he inviting himself to dine with her, her carwouldn’t start and he offered her a ride home. A whirlwind romance led to an elopement to Lake Tahoe. Oncethere, she decided to wait to get married and asked to gohome. A fortuitous snowstorm closed the highways backto Monterey and, knowing the scandal that would ensueif she spent the night with Joe without being married,she tied the knot (later renewing their vows at San CarlosChurch). She was happily married to Joe for 53 years, until his passing in 2006.

Bettye spent 25 years as the offce manager for WalterColton Junior High School in Monterey, was very involved in the Italian Catholic Federation, Festa Italia, SanCarlos Church, CHOMP volunteer, Monterey Bay Aquarium supporter, and many other local organizations. Sheacted at the First Theater of Monterey, and was an avidgarage sale customer. In 1960, she and several otherwomen started the “sewing club.” They never sewed astitch. It was simply a way for the ladies to get out of thehouse, have coffee, cake, and gossip together, with theirhusbands none the wiser. In fact, Joe would often giveher socks to mend…which never returned. The ladiesgot together for the next 50 years (yes, the husbandscaught on eventually). In addition to the sewing club,she held many poker parties at her house and loved traveling to Tahoe, Reno and Chukchansi casinos.

Bettye had a wonderful life surrounded by a large family and a larger group of friends. One of her last wisheswas that nobody should mourn her loss, they should instead celebrate her life. Bettye was preceded in death by her parents, her brothers, Bill, Bob and Herb, her husband Joe, and her sonStephen. She is survived by her sons Anthony (Dawn)and Carmelo, her grandchildren Kimberlee, Kristin, Natalie and Nicole, her great-grandchildren Lauren, Ava,and Cash. Services will be held on Wednesday, September 20,2023 at 10:00 AM at San Carlos Cathedral.

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Catarino Sosa-Cornejo - November 25, 1945 - August 27, 2023

Departed: 08/27/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: El Domingo 27 de Agosto, nuestro papá, Catarino Sosa Cornejo, fue llamado a la presencia de Dios Nuestro Señor. Nació un 25 de Noviembre de 1945, en el estado de Guanajuato en México. Sus padres: Basilio Sosa y Maria del Carmen Cornejo. Fue el penúltimo de nueve hijos.

Estudio en el seminario menor de Morelia, Michoacan. Junto con su bachillerato curso 3 años de Teología y Filosofía. "Él siempre bromeaba diciendo: tengo altos estudios "tercer grado de primaria".

Se caso y tuvo nueve hijos.

Enviudó hace 4 años y le sobreviven siete hijos, dos varones y cinco mujeres. Veintidós nietos y cinco bisnietos. De carácter serio pero bromista. Le gustaba vestir muy bien. Le gustaba la música regional mexicana. Le gustaba el "whisky escocés".

Como papá, fue importante hacernos saber que es vital estar en Communion con Dios, recibiendo todos los Sacramentos. Honramos su memoria y le damos las gracias por todo... estarás siempre en nuestros corazones. Con todo nuestro amor: Familia Sosa Vega.

Los invitamos a acompañarnos a los servicios que serán el día 12 de Septiembre, en la Iglesia de San Judas, en 303 Hillcrest Ave. Marina, CA. 93933. Comenzando a las 9:00am con la visitación y Santo Rosario, seguido de La Santa Misa. De ahí partiremos para el cementerio: Queen of Heaven: 18200 Damian Way Salinas, CA. 93907.

Después del sepelio acompañenos al salón de La Iglesia nuevamente para compartir unos Aperitivos. Muchas gracias.

On Sunday, August 27, our father, Catarino Sosa Cornejo, was called to the presence of God Our Lord. He was born on November 25, 1945, in the state of Guanajuato in Mexico. His parents: Basilio Sosa and Maria del Carmen Cornejo. He was the penultimate of nine children. He studied at the minor seminary of Morelia, Michoacan. Along with his 3 years of Theology and Philosophy. "He would always joke around saying that he had a high level of education and would proceed to say "I completed the third grade."

He got married and had nine children.

He was widowed 4 years ago and seven children survive, two boys and five women. Twenty-two grandchildren and five great-grandchildren.

He was a serious man but loved to joke around.

He liked to dress very well. He liked regional Mexican music. And he liked "Scottish whiskey".

As a dad, it was important to let us know that it is vital to be in Communion with God, receiving all the Sacraments. We honor his memory and thank him for everything... you will always be in our hearts. With all our love: Sosa Vega Family.

We invite you to join us for the services that will be on September 12, in the Church of St. Jude, at 303 Hillcrest Ave. Marina, CA. 93933. Starting at 9:00 am with the visitation and Holy Rosary, followed by Holy Mass. From there we will leave for the cemetery: Queen of Heaven: 18200 Damian Way Salinas, CA. 93907.

After the funeral, please accompany us to the church hall again to share some appetizers. Thank you very much.

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Philip John Keuper - December 02, 1933 - July 16, 2023

Departed: 07/16/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Philip J. Keuper, a former Vice President of The New York Stock Exchange, died at his home in Carmel. He was 89. In Mr. Keuper’s days The NYSE Trading floor was located at 11 Wall Street in the heart of downtown, Manhattan.

Mr. Keuper played a key role in the NYSE’s program to increase the number of shareholders. The program, “Own your Share of American Business”, brought millions of new investors to the market.

Mr. Keuper served for two years at The Securities & Exchange Commission in Washington D.C. under William Casey.

An Air Force Veteran, He flew in the 75th fighter interceptor Squadron at Presque Isle, Maine.

Mr. Keuper was a lawyer and a member of the New York Bar. He practiced law at Scadden Arps and then became Managing Director and General Counsel for Adams & Rinehart, Inc. In 1995 he started Keuper Public Relations. Among his clients were NASDAQ, SoftBank, Borden, Bank One, and Hambrecht & Quist, Inc.

While in his fifties Mr. Keuper ran the London Marathon and for several consecutive years The New York Marathon. Throughout his life he enjoyed and excelled in skiing as a downhill ski instructor and cycling with friends along the paths of Pebble Beach, on highway one towards Big Sur and the bucolic roads of Carmel Valley.

He is survived by his wife Carole, his children by a former marriage : Anthony Keuper (Christine) of Reston, Virginia, Hannelore Kaplan (Michael) of Poundridge, New York, and Jane Campbell (Ralph) of Martinsburg, West Virginia. His grandchildren, Leah and Gabrielle Keuper; Casey and Zak Kaplan; Brooke and Connor Campbell. And his recent great granddaughter, Margot Avery Duffy of Richmond, Virginia.

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John Joseph Farrelly - July 08, 1937 - June 07, 2023

Departed: 06/07/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: John Joseph Farrelly, known to his loved ones as "Pappa John," passed away peacefully on June 7, 2023, at the age of 85 in Monterey, California. He was born on July 8,1937, in Newark, New Jersey, to his parents, who have preceded him in death.

John proudly served his country in the US Army from 1954 to 1957. He was also a member of Fort Mason Historical Society.After his militar y service, John worked for the Presidio of San Francisco where he first worked as a landscaper. He then worked for the City of Monterey Cemetery and was awarded many accolades for his dedication and hard work. He loved his job and took pride in his accomplishments as the longest tenured City employee of Monterey.

John had many hobbies, including tennis, collecting coins, art and horticulture.He was known for his green thumb and could often be found tending to his garden.

John is survived by his children, Tracey (Georg) Farrelly-Sims, Mary(John) Grajek, Eric Farrelly (Judy). Grand children Shalae, Thomas, Cameron, Simone, Nicholas,Karli,Richard.

Alexandria, and Anthony as well as great grandchildren.He was preceded in death by his beloved Betty Janicki and his son, Jonathan Farrelly.

A memorial service will be held in honor of John, and updates will follow with further details.

John was a kind and loving man who will be deeply missed by all who knew him. May he rest in peace. Burial 1:00 pm Saturday, August 12, 2023 Monterey City Cemetery

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Marilyn Kay Sperle - March 15, 1955 - May 22, 2023

Departed: 05/22/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Marilyn Kay Sperle was born on March 15,1955, to Michael and Theresa Sperle of Kintyre, North Dakota, the fifth of eight children. Marilyn was an integral part of her loving family and displayed a compassionate heart towards them and her friends alike. She grew up in a small town where she worked with her father on chores of tending cattle and making hay, and displayed skills in the domestic arts, such as sewing within the home. Marilyn excelled in academics and music. She played the clarinet and was selected to the All-State Band. Her love of reading began during those early years. Her siblings recall that she displayed a motherly heart.

After graduating from Napoleon High School in 1973, Marilyn started as a student at Mary College in Bismarck, ND, before transferring to NDSU in Fargo, ND, where she received her B.S. in Pharmacy. She worked as a Registered Pharmacist for 40 years, first as a retail store manager in Portland, OR, then after relocating to the Monterey Peninsula, as a hospital pharmacist at Watsonville Community Hospital, and eventually as an information technology pharmacist at Community Hospital of the Monterey Peninsula where she was employed for over 20 years.

Marilyn was the essence of kindness, compassion, generosity, and gentleness. Her spirit of hospitality reached far and wide. Many benefited from her generosity. She provided a loving abode for her mom, Theresa, for decades. Her easygoing, calm manner and sense of adventure made her the perfect sibling, daughter, aunt, friend, and colleague. Her home was open to all of her family visitors, and she was generous in providing her guests with whatever they needed. Whether it was giving an unexpected gift, offering a ride to the airport, or recommending a good book, Marilyn could always be counted on. She was loyal in her attendance of family weddings and celebrations and enjoyed organizing family reunions and birthday parties. Being in Marilyn’s presence felt comfortable because she exuded a sense of peace and acceptance. Her pleasant and content nature made her easy to be around, for both family and colleagues alike. An avid reader, her home was replete with full bookcases and books on loan from every library in the area.

Upon retirement, Marilyn spent time doing the things she loved: reading and traveling and spending time with her family and friends. She had superb taste in clothing, food, and books, making her a perfect companion for a lunch out, a shopping trip, a vacation, or a good conversation. Throughout her adult life she traveled both domestically and internationally and continued this in her retirement. With an eye for beauty and an appreciation for the world around her, she could equally enjoy a hike in nature, a leisurely stroll around town, or cozying up at home with a good book. She had a penchant for seeing beauty and joy in everyday things.

Marilyn passed away unexpectedly, yet peacefully, on May 22, 2023. She leaves behind an adoring family including her mother, Theresa Sperle of Seaside, CA; five siblings: Glenn (Joanne) Sperle of Bethesda, MD; Steve (Maree) Sperle of Dublin, OH; Carleen (Edwin) Matta of Marina, CA; Karen (Bill Farnham) Sperle of Hockessin, DE; Peggy (Ron) Enabnit of Carmichael, CA; her sister-in-law Elvi Sperle of Lewisville, TX; her dearest friend, Therese Beauclair of Monterey; and many nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews.

Preceding her in death were her infant daughter, Shaheen Rose Massarat (1984), two brothers, George Valentine Sperle (1953) and Curt Patrick Sperle (2022), and her father, Michael Adam Sperle (1972).

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Anthony Joseph Ferrante - June 01, 1935 - April 26, 2023

Departed: 04/26/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Anthony “Tony” Joseph Ferrante June 1, 1935 – April 26, 2023

Anthony Joseph Ferrante, age 87, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, April 26, 2023.

Anthony, also known as Sonny, was born to Joseph and Virginia Ferrante. He grew up in PG, later on Monterey’s historic Spaghetti Hill and was a proud member of the Italian community. He was a member of the ICF, the Compari Club, and the Amici Group.

He attended Monterey High School. After graduation, he enlisted in the US Air Force and was stationed in England. When he returned to Monterey, he attended MPC and Cal Poly Pomona.

Upon his return, Anthony was married and had three children. He worked at the Marina Fire Department from 1962 to 1972 until he accepted a position with the State Fire Marshall’s Office. He worked as a Deputy State Fire Marshal from 1972 until his retirement in 1990. In 1981, Tony walked into Chicago Title and saw his future, Johanna Roccia Sercia. They were married a year later and enjoyed 41 wonderful years of marriage.

Tony was an avid golfer and enjoyed many Wednesdays with his golf buddies. Tony and Johanna enjoyed many years of traveling the world with family and friends and spending time with their children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.

He was preceded in death by his father, Joseph, his mother, Virginia, his sister, Angela Nottenkamper, and his grandson, Vince Sercia.

He is survived by his wife, Johanna, their children, Peter Sercia (Christina Joyce), Joe Ferrante (Mary), Barbara Mitchell (Terry), Brian Ferrante (Jill), Annamarie Bruno, John Sercia (Christina), and many grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Services will be held at San Carlos Cathedral on Thursday, May 11, 2023 at 10:00 a.m.

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Daniel David Herrera - September 13, 1965 - April 21, 2023

Departed: 04/21/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: A BEAUTIFUL LIFE Daniel David Herrera (known as Danny to his family) was born September 13, 1965 in Stockton, California to Michael and Wanda Herrera. He moved to heaven on April 21, 2023 in

Carmel, California while visiting the parents of his lovely, longtime girlfriend Megan Connolly.

He died from an aortic rupture which was sudden and unexpected. Daniel moved to Colorado with his mom and brother at the age of 5 and grew up there where he developed his love of the outdoors in the beauty of the Rocky Mountains. He graduated

from Smokey Hill High School and Fort Lewis College in Durango with his bachelor’s degree. After college Daniel moved to California where he worked a sales representative for Nestle Beverage Company. In 2000 he moved to Oregon where he worked at Albertsons until he changed careers to work as a metal artisan at Archive Designs. He loved his work and found great joy in creating things of beauty. Many of us have art works he created in stain glass

and metal. Daniel was passionate about family, friends, nature, music, and all things creative. He loved to snow ski, hike, bike, rock climb, kayak and anything outdoors. He loved his gardens where

he grew his own vegetables. He also loved music and enjoyed playing his guitar.

His greatest love was for his two children - David and Renee. They were truly a joy to him. He shared a special bond with each of them. He took many family vacations where he enjoyed special time with those who loved him. He had a deep abiding love for his parents and brother and extended family. His passing leaves a hole in their hearts, but also incredible

memories of someone so special. He had a wonderful relationship with his girlfriend Megan and a community of very special and amazing friends with whom he shared many wonderful times with enjoying music, food,

and fun. Daniel is survived by his children, David Michael Herrera of San Luis Obispo, CA and Renee Hannan and husband Phil (and expectant grandchild) of King of Prussia, PA; mother Wanda Sano and stepfather Joel Sano of Leander, TX; brother Michael Herrera and wife Diane of Leander, TX; stepmother Karen Herrera of Coos Bay, OR; stepsister Michelle Adkins and husband Jake of Coos Bay, OR; stepbrother Rob Garcia and wife Nita of Lincoln, CA; and

many aunts, uncles, and cousins. Daniel was preceded in death by his father, Michael Joseph Herrera Sr. of Coos Bay, OR; grandparents Bill and Faye Herrington of Stockton, CA; grandparents Phil and Amalia Herrera

of Stockton, CA. Daniel was kind, loving, caring, fun, and creative. He was rich in the special relationships he had with so many people, both family and friends. He was a wonderful father, son, brother, and friend to so many. He will be missed greatly and remembered by those who love him as a special light in their lives gone too soon… Anyone that wishes to make a donation in his name can give to: Cascadia Wildlands cascwild.org

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Lois Bornemeier Kettel - September 19, 1929 - April 13, 2023

Departed: 04/13/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Friends – Some of you know, the Kettel family has some sad news for the Manor Family. Our mother, Lois, who many of you knew and loved, passed this past Thursday. We have included the obituary below which includes information for family contacts and any memorial donations folks might desire making. We ask that our family be held in prayer for comfort, peace, and the ability to rejoice for each day we had the opportunity to share with our mother. Laura Khan, Linda Kettel, and Michael Kettel

Lois Mary Bornemeier Kettel, 93 years old, Carmel, CA, peacefully passed away on April 13, 2023, surrounded by loved ones, from natural causes.

Lois was born on September 19, 1929, to Walter and Mabel Bornemeier in Coldwater, MI. After Lois graduated from Niles Township High School in the Chicago area in 1947, she finished her degree in Home Economics at Purdue University.

In High School, she met Louis John Kettel. Lois and Lou went on to marry in 1951. They had four children, Linda Louise Kettel, Linda Ann Kress, L. Michael Kettel, and Laura Beth Khan.

After Lou died in 1991, Lois moved to California to live near her sister, Beatrice Case. For twenty years, Lois, Beatrice, and Beatrice’s husband Nelson Case traveled the world and enjoyed daily walks by the ocean in Pebble Beach. In 2012, after both Beatrice and Nelson passed, Lois moved to Carmel Valley Manor in Carmel where she continued to travel to see her children and grandchildren, enjoy her church family at St. Dunstan’s, share with her P.E.O. sisterhood, explore great reads with the ladies of Casa de Abrego, and celebrate the joy of life with her Manor community many of whom she considered her extended family.

Lois is survived by her brother Walter C. (Marylou) Bornemeier, her sister-in-law Jilda Kettel, her children Linda Ann (James) Kress, L. Michael (Faith) Kettel, Laura Beth Khan, nine grandchildren, and many great grandchildren.

Services will be held at St. Dunstan’s Episcopal Church, 28005 Robinson Cyn Rd, Carmel-By-The-Sea, CA 93923 on Sunday, April 30th at 2 P.M. PST. If you are interested in making a donation in memory of Lois, please consider a donation to Canine Companions® (https://www.canine.org/). For notes of condolence, please use the following contacts of your choice: Walter Bornemeier: 315 Shepard Ridge Rd., Farmington, UT 84025 (cell: 801.992.0033) Linda A. Kress: 9785 E. Golden Current Drive, Tucson, AZ 85748 (cell: 520.721.7181) L. Michael Kettel: 409 Loma Larga Drive, Solana Beach, CA 92075-1719 (cell: 858.354.0183) Laura K. Khan: 3260 Bolero Place, Atlanta, GA 30341 (cell: 404.819.2870)

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Katherine Joann Swanson - July 09, 1971 - February 16, 2023

Departed: 02/16/2023 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Katherine Swanson died February 16th, 2023 at the age of 51. She was a powerful, smart, artistic, and compassionate woman who one friend described as, “A bundle of bouncing energy”. She was unafraid to speak her opinion and diligent in her research to discover truth and accuracy. An entomologist by education, she loved nature and was known for her skills at identifying animals of all types, but especially insects, birds and plants.

Katherine JoAnn Swanson (Lublin, by previous marriage. Orbeck by adoption. Jo Kyung Ee before adoption) was born in Seoul, South Korea in 1971. As a small child she was picked up off the street with her sister and placed in an orphanage. In the orphanage, her sister died. Katie believed it was the result of polluted water.

A family from Lemoore, CA adopted her at about the age of 4. The father was Norwegian and the mother Armenian. They had two boys of their own. She was issued a court ordered birth certificate and given the name Katherine JoAnn Orbeck. Her adopted parents picked Katherine JoAnn because they thought it sounded like Jo Kyung Ee. She became a U.S. Citizen when she was a young child.

Growing up in this strange new place was not always easy, but she made the most of it. In high school she was a gymnast and had the privilege to be the school mascot for 2 years. When she graduated, she was Valedictorian of her class. In college, she studied the sciences and earned her degree in Entomology. She graduated Suma Cum Laude from Ohio State University while working full time and paying her own way through college. She even managed to make a trip to Seoul to visit her birthplace. In college she also met and married her first husband.

After college she got a job at the Cleveland Natural History Museum. Under her mentor she helped run a large moth study, published a paper in a scientific journal, transported an active hive of bees in a very small car and developed programs for school children. She was even interviewed on TV and the radio due to her extensive knowledge of insects, and in particular, the cicada. She did so well that when her mentor died, she curated a portion of the museum on her own until a new director was found. When she and her husband divorced, she needed a change of scenery so she came out to Monterey. She had fond memories of the area from school field trips and vacations with her grandmother.

In Monterey, she worked at Spencer's Stationary as well as CTB and Hampton-Brown. She was always known for her eye for detail. After a couple of years here she met Andrew Swanson. They met online through Craigslist and hit it off right away. They were married a year later. In their 18 years together they did a lot of cool things. They hiked and camped everywhere along the West Coast. They got to travel to India, New Zealand and Rome, Italy. In her free time, she was still a scientist. On her own she did a 2 year study of butterflies in Pinnacles and the Santa Lucia Reserve. She also maintained a NatureId Blog, http://natureid.blogspot.com/, for many years. Whenever there was an insect, plant, bird or other animal that she could not identify, she would take a picture of it, research it to figure out what it was and then post about it on her blog. Through her blog she connected to scientists from around the world. Many would ask her questions when they didn't know the answers. Some of her photos have even been printed in nature books. Her most beloved scientific friend is a Professor at UC Davis. He has been studying butterflies for almost 70 years. Even he would ask Katie questions. Her blog is still up, and she continued to update it, but she stopped adding new posts in 2015. At that point she switched to Twitter and NextDoor to post her findings.

Katie began to have health problems a few years ago. It was a rough road, but she continued to ask questions and pursue knowledge throughout the time she had here. She spent her last two months at home under hospice care and was grateful that there were people who respected her final wishes. She was estranged from her parents, but had reconnected with some of her family. She had grown particularly close with one brother and an aunt and uncle. She is survived by her husband, Andrew. If he knows the name of a plant, bird or unusual animal, it is probably because Katie told him. Whenever he is in nature, he knows she'll be with him. I hope you think of her the next time you see an unusual insect or plant.

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Kazuko Matsuyama - February 06, 1945 - December 31, 2022

Departed: 12/31/2022 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Kazuko Matsuyama was born in Tule Lake Internment Camp in Newell, CA to Fujio (Fred) and Tamiye Matsuyama. Her surviving siblings are Jimmie (Fumie), Ruth Aîko, Willie Matsuyama, and

Sister in Law Shirley Matsuyama. Also two nieces and a nephew and cousins and their children.

She was predeceased by brother Sammy, and a nephew. She was also known as Kako to family and friends and during her school years in Seaside and Monterey. Later in her accounting career, many clients knew her as Kaz. In her long career she worked as Comptroller for the local Round Table Pizza Restaurant Franchise, and currently was

doing Payroll and Income Tax Returns for other restaurants, and businesses, and many clients. Kaz was very active in her church, as well as the MP JACL organization, where she held all the officer positions, being only the third female chapter President in over two decades

In her 77 years, Kazuko made many friends and clients who will miss her kind smile and joy.

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Billy Joe Kennedy - May 07, 1933 - December 22, 2022

Departed: 12/22/2022 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Billy Joe Kennedy, longstanding Monterey resident, passed away at the age of 89 on December 22, 2022, at Stanford University Hospital.

He was born May 7, 1933, in Hominy, Oklahoma, to parents Fred and Ruby (Kinnett) Kennedy, making him the youngest of five boys: Jack, Lloyd, Fred Jr., and Howard.

As a teen, Billy and his family uprooted to Monterey, California. He graduated from Monterey High School in 1953 and soon thereafter enlisted in the U.S. Army and was stationed in Alaska.

Upon returning home from his completed military service, he landed a job as a mail carrier, in which he worked 35 years until retirement in 1989. He enjoyed the profession immensely, as it granted him the unique opportunity to meet new people and better learn the peninsula as a whole. He'd routinely evoke a laugh from others and would help those in need in a moment's notice.

His life after the Post Office was filled with many odd jobs and passion projects. He worked as a parking attendant for the City of Monterey, as well as the toll booth for Pebble Beach Company. An avid fan and supporter of seemingly all athletic endeavors, he was a coach, umpire, and referee for youth sports throughout the community. In his later years, he took on the role of courier once more for his daughters' medical billing business. Family members would often hear from those he encountered the smiles and laughter he brought to their lives.

Being a man of simple pleasures, acts such as watching or going to a baseball game with those he loved brought tremendous joy. Family was of utmost importance. He was happiest whenever special events, birthdays, and holidays rolled around. Billy was deeply revered and will be dearly missed by those that had the pleasure of knowing him. Rest in peace to our beloved husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, and friend.

Billy is survived by his wife Eleanor (Ellie) Kennedy. Between the two, their children read: Susan Spear (John), Michael Kennedy (Teresa), Diana (Nina) Rosa (David), Anthony DiBenedetto (Cassandra), Jeffrey DiBenedetto (Kim), and Therese DiBenedetto (Calvin Krebs). Grandchildren include: Christopher, Jason, Matthew, Jonathon, Jennifer Marie, Jennifer Lynn, Jessica, Julia, Caitlin, Taylor, Gabe, and Kourtli. Lastly, great grandchildren: Josselyn, Flynn, Logan, Wyatt, London, Charlotte, Anna Bell Rose, Sawyer, Nevo, Charles (Chip), and Castiel. Funeral services will be held January 11, 2023, at the designated location and times below: Mission Mortuary & Memorial Park 1915 Ord Grove Avenue Seaside, CA 93955 Viewing: 9am-10am Rosary: 10am-11am Burial: 12pm

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Darrell Moon - December 06, 1950 - December 19, 2022

Departed: 12/19/2022 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Darrell Dean Moon, 72 years old, of Marina, CA, passed away on Monday, December 19th, 2022 in his home in the early evening hours.

Darrell was born in Wendel, Idaho to Alma Moon and Gwendolyn Moon on December 6th, 1950. He was the 4th of 9 children. In 1969, he graduated from Seaside High School. He graduated from the University of California at Santa Barbara with a degree in Political Science and received his Juris Doctorate from Monterey College of Law. After receiving his law degree, Darrell was director of operations for fine art galleries for thirteen years before dedicating time and energy to taking and passing the California State bar exam. He was admitted to the California Bar in 1999.

Darrell Moon was a loving son, brother, uncle, and a caring, loyal friend. His quick-witted humor and impressive knowledge of a wide range of topics routinely blended to lift spirits and brightened a day. Darrell was a blessing to his mother and a huge comfort to his brothers and sisters as he spent the last 10 years as her advocate and caregiver. He will be sorely missed.

Darrell is survived by his mother, Gwendolyn Moon of Marina, California, siblings, Alan Moon, Cheryl Jeppson, Melissa Grass, Michael Moon, Melinda Knoll, and 21 nieces and nephews. He is preceded in death by his father, Alma Moon; sister, Glennis Moon; sister, Deborah Tash; and brother, Ronald Moon.

A funeral service in celebration of Darrell’s life will be at San Carlos Cemetery, Monterey on January 11th, 2023 at 11:00am.

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Merry Thelma Stephen - March 16, 1930 - December 17, 2022

Departed: 12/17/2022 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Merry Stephen was born in 1930 in New York City and was named Thelma Grinvalsky. She was raised in Torrington, Connecticut by her Grandparents, along with their 16 “adult” children who were Merry’s aunts and uncles. When she was about 12 years old, Merry entered Convent school and loved to “perform” for the nuns. She had discovered Shakespeare and knew she was going to be a great Shakespearian actress.

After Convent school, at about 17 or 18 years of age, she changed her name to Merry Stephen (Merry, because she liked it, Stephen, after her priest uncle whom she adored). She then moved to New York and attended The American Academy of Dramatic Arts with Grace Kelly. From there, she and Grace went to Hollywood where Merry was chosen to star in a movie. But, she met and married a dashing young actor named Wallace Chadwell, and when the marriage did not last long, Merry returned to the East Coast where her extraordinary son, John Chadwell, was born.

Merry’s son, John, was the light of her life, but sadly passed away in 2001. Of course, that was a very dark day in Merry’s life.

Once back in Connecticut, she had a number of odd jobs. She was the first TV weather girl in the New England States, she appeared with her beautiful smile in toothpaste ads on many billboards, and was a model for designer clothing. Merry raised her son, John, alone until she met and married Arthur Almagar, Hilton’s right-hand man. During the 1960’s, she and Arthur lived in a beautiful villa in Mexico City and Merry hosted a party for Frank Sinatra in their home. During this time, Merry even managed a bull fighter, and in order to do that, she had to “prove herself” by getting into the ring with a bull…and she did!

After a 15-year marriage to Arthur, they went their separate ways. John, her son, had entered military school, and Merry had remained friends with the Hilton family, so she began her long career of being an integral part of opening Hilton and Regent hotels throughout the world. She opened six in the 1970’s for the Shah in Iran, before the revolution began and the Ayatollah came into power. Merry said she escaped Iran by the skin of her teeth.

While in Tehran and Mashhad, Merry, with her heart of gold, found a way to liberate many young women. She went to the orphanages and took 14, 15 and 16-year-old girls, brought them into the hotels and taught them a trade. She taught them how to work in housekeeping, front desk, etc. Many of the young women met American men and left Iran to start a new life in the US. She has made a positive impact on so many lives.

After living in Iran for many years, Merry went on to open Hilton and Regent hotels in New York, Washington, DC, Hong Kong, Panama City, Santiago Chile, Taiwan, and the Hana Ranch on Maui, just to name a few, with her last hotel, the Anasazi in Santa Fe, New Mexico. In her own words, “she was a woman progressing from the 1950’s when women were not held in esteem in the business world.” She achieved what most women could not in that era: Success in a “man’s world”.

Through the years, she met and became friends with many celebrities. I’ve already mentioned Grace Kelly, but there were others like Marilyn Monroe, Rock Hudson, Tony Bennett, Mitch Miller, Michael Jackson, Cher, Paula Abdul, Oprah, and many more, including Fidel Castro during the Freedom Flights from Havana, Cuba. One time she found her 12- year-old son, John, in the kitchen of the hotel having a beer with Fidel. She took John aside and told him not to bother Fidel. John said Fidel had offered him a cigar, too. Shortly after that, revolution broke out in Cuba and Merry and her son returned to the US. She would later jokingly say that it seemed everywhere she went, a revolution would break out and she was starting to get a complex that maybe she had something to do with it. She had quite a sense of humor.

Although her life was surrounded by celebrities, Merry was never star struck. Family was the most important thing to her. Of course, her son, John Chadwell, Granddaughters, Katherine and Merry Chadwell, a Grandson, Mikey Chadwell, who sadly preceded her in death, and her precious Great-Granddaughters, Cloe and Flora. Also, her many cousins, Andy and Joanie Lach and their familes, Paul Grinvalsky, his sisters, Susan and Peggy, and their families, and her newest family members, Aaron Fishman and his wife Debora, and their adorable little sons, Julian and Benjamin, her cousins, Shelly and Al Rashkin, and her inseparable best friend, Jeanne Osio, and Jeanne’s husband, Efrem, and their family.

But, as much as Merry loved her family, she never met a dog, cat, or any animal for that matter, that she didn’t love. She was always surrounded by furry children, at least two, three, four, or more of them at a time. If someone needed a home for a dog or cat, or even a donkey at one time, no matter how old or sick they were, she would take them in and give them the best care and all the love she could give.

There is one more story we have to mention. Merry had never known her father, and she had been searching for him, or for what happened to him, for many years. Her mother and father had never married, and her father had left New York and moved to the L.A. area about a year after Merry was born. He was a saxophone player and started the first jazz band in Hollywood. Through the assistance of Ancestry.com, and with a few crucial facts, we were able to locate Jacob (Jack) Katz, Merry’s father. He had changed his name from Katz to Keane shortly after arriving in Hollywood. Unfortunately, Jack had passed away many years before we found him, but we did find that he had a wonderful Grandson, Merry’s nephew, Aaron Fishman, along with Aaron’s wonderful wife and their two adorable children. We found cousins and other relatives on her father’s side, as well as a sister, Kathryn Fishman, who sadly had passed away, and another sister, Minna Bachrach. A whole new chapter was added to Merry’s already outstanding life. Merry loved this quote and it seems so fitting now: “Life is all memory, except for the one present moment that goes by you so quickly, you hardly catch it going…” Tennessee Williams

Merry was an extraordinary person who touched so many lives. Everyone who had the privilege of knowing her, should feel extremely lucky to have had her in their lives.

Merry’s spirit continues through the sharing of her magnificent experiences by all those who greatly love her. Her unforgettable smile shines through the smiles of her Granddaughters and Great-Granddaughters.

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Macrina Singleterry - June 18, 1926 - December 15, 2022

Departed: 12/15/2022 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Maxine Singleterry, (“Macrina”) former resident of Carmel Valley, passed away at the age of 96. She was born in 1926 in Donna, Texas. She was a grandmother and a homemaker. She enjoyed working with children in early childhood education in the Salinas Valley. She loved to garden, particularly tending to her roses and flowers. She and her family first moved to the Peninsula in 1963 where her husband taught at Bay View School in Pacific Grove.

She is survived by five children, Mario Singleterry (Lori) of Santa Cruz, Sylvia Knowles (Geoff) of Carmel, John Singleterry of Wisconsin, Nelda Getz (Sam) of Seaside and Sandy Lundborg (Steve) of Maui. Sister Martha Lindsey of Santa Barbara and Maura Mendoza of Donna, Texas.

She is preceded in death by her husband Joseph and her son Joseph Jr., five sisters and two brothers. She has 5 grandchildren, James Getz (Laura), Jessica Getz, Naomi Fukuda (Greg), Teresa Fukuda (Matt) and Jordan Knowles (Leah) and 2 great grandchildren. She truly loved Christmas traditions and festivities. She was known for making each Christmas a heartwarming experience. Her family will miss her this and every holiday season.

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Francisco Gomez Jr. - November 02, 1962 - December 15, 2022

Departed: 12/15/2022 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Frank was truly an epic and legendary character in this cartoon of life. Classic Italian New Yorker with a heart of gold. FUNNY. Dapper. Brilliant entrepreneur.

Frank cared about people immensely and brought some endearing Sass to our world. This guy was the real deal and will easily be remembered as his star shines so very bright.

We Love you Frankie, Pizano, Pito, Tony, Little Pacino, New York, The Legend..... and with every nickname you had the Mostestestest.

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Rebecca Danon Hetter - July 29, 1936 - November 22, 2022

Departed: 11/22/2022 (Monterey)

Obituary Preview: Rebecca Danon Hetter passed away in Monterey, California, on November 22, 2022. She was 86.

Becky was born to Samuel and Victoria (Levy) Danon in Pinar del Rio, Cuba, on July 29, 1936, the first of their two children. Her parents, both Sephardic Jews, had immigrated from Turkey, then part of the Ottoman Empire, to Cuba as young adults.

Her father was the accountant for a tobacco trucking company, and she was raised in Pinar del Rio (one end of the trucking line) until age 12. Then her family moved to Havana, which was the other end of the trucking line. She was annoyed at the move, since she had hoped to live in a boarding house for college rather than with her parents.

She started at the University of Havana in 1953. Delayed by the university shutdown in 1957-8, she received a bachelor’s degree from University of Havana in 1959. During that time, she also taught math and physics at "Colegio Hebreo de la Habana" from September 1956 to November 1960. She started her graduate work in mathematics at the university, finishing her course work but not her dissertation by the time she left Cuba for the United States.

She had been required to take piano lessons as a child, and found many friends and a life-long love of classical music as a result. She said later that she was most proud of fundraising that brought a grand piano to the University of Havana.

Becky had a plane ticket for the day the airports were closed down, so she found a ride on a friend’s entertainment boat to Key West, Florida. She had to leave almost everything behind but somehow managed to collect pictures, a diary from her teen years, the poetry of Jose Marti, and “Cocina al Minuto” (the Cuban cooking bible) in the United States. The pictures were sewn into dresses and sent by letter, but it’s a mystery how the diary and cookbook got out.

She joined her cousin Dr. Julio Levy, who was doing a fellowship in Cleveland, Ohio, where she applied her math skills to using fabric as economically as possible in a suit factory. She and the Italian suit makers bonded over bad American coffee and good espresso. Between 1962 and 1965, she took assorted classes in computer languages and psychology at Fenn College, Cleveland College at Case Western Reserve University, and Cuyahoga Community College. She used her math and computer skills working at Case Western Reserve on early versions of large IBM mainframe computers.

In Cleveland, she met her future husband, law student Frederick Hetter, who very slowly helped her with her immigration paperwork while he worked up the courage to ask her out. She also joined the Congress of Racial Equality (CORE) and started investigating slum lords and picketing for civil rights, dressed in her best clothes. She did all this before she had a green card, leading her boyfriend to plead for her to stop until he made her residence permanent. “Hurry up,” she told him.

The couple married in 1965, and they moved to San Diego in 1968 for Fred to finish his law degree. Their daughter Katia was born in 1969. She joined with other parents to create the Yellow Submarine preschool, following the free school movement that was pioneered by A.S. Summerhill in England. She and her daughter both made many lifelong friends through Yellow Sub.

Becky started working at UCSD’s computer lab when the entire university was just three buildings and earned a master’s in clinical psychology at San Diego State University in 1977. She taught psychology, math, physics, statistics, and parent education in the California Community College system in the 1970s, in both Spanish and English, and took great pride in her ability to support adult students working to improve their lives.

After she divorced, she subjected her child to many camping trips (thanks to San Diego State University's single parents group), potlucks, the ballet, Broadway shows that made their way to LA (Cats, Evita, A Chorus Line) and Shakespeare performances at San Diego's Old Globe Theater. Once they saw Mikhail Baryshnikov in rehearsal. She also loved opera (especially in Santa Fe), Bach, classical piano music, and dancing to any salsa or other music that had some semblance of a beat. Friends filled their house for potlucks and casual dinner parties. Katia’s friends came to value movie nights as much for Becky’s psychological counsel as for the entertainment.

Becky started working at the Naval Personnel Research and Development Center in 1978 as a psychometrician, developing computerized adaptive testing (CAT) for the military’s entrance exam, the ASVAB (the Armed Services Vocational Aptitude Battery). It’s now the industry standard for entrance exams. She transferred to the Department of Defense’s Defense Manpower Data Center at Fort Ord near Monterey when the CAT project went operational. She co-authored an algorithm, the Sympson-Hetter method (1985), a method of item-exposure control used in computerized adaptive testing and widely cited in the psychometric literature.

When her daughter came out in 1991, she quickly rallied to learn more through the local PFLAG chapter and started coming out for her daughter everywhere, even the local car wash, which her daughter suggested was not needed. In 2008, when California residents introduced Proposition 8 to ban same-sex marriage, she joined PFLAG’s campaign to fight the proposition, speaking on Spanish language television about how much she loved and supported her LGBTQ relatives and joining campaign rallies in nearby Salinas.

She faced breast cancer in 1999, and she and her family remained grateful to her treatment providers at Community Hospital of the Monterey Peninsula and its breast cancer support group, where she made many lifelong friends and remained the late Dr. Jerry Rubin’s biggest fan. Her core group of friends gathered each year at the hospital celebration of survivors and those lost to breast cancer. She also became the Unitarian Universalist Church of Monterey’s most devoted non-member. “I’m not a joiner,” she told the pastors, even as she donated to the church.

She retired in 2005, asking only for pajamas as gifts to spend her days in retirement. When her grandchild, Simon, was born in 2008, she told her friends she finally understood how big your heart could grow when a grandchild arrived. They held a joint membership at the Monterey Bay Aquarium, where Simon tolerated Grandma Becky’s love of the jellyfish and was delighted by the sea otters, penguins and the Grandma-promised stop at the gift shop at the end of every visit. She taught Simon how to make her signature flan dish – which contrary to popular opinion, was not from Cuba but from Gourmet magazine. (She loved telling people that story.)

She moved to Canterbury Woods retirement community in 2015, enjoying volunteering at the library, discussing how to make black beans with the chefs, learning to love dogs thanks to her friend, the late Connie Hamlin, and advocating for closed captions so anyone hard of hearing could participate in committee work during Covid. She and Simon would make short work of the blintzes in the CW dining room. And she always danced, however fast or slowly her body would allow, to the salsa music that filled her childhood and adult life. Luckily, she had friends at Canterbury who would play the piano for her to dance.

She never stopped learning, never stopped trying to work through problems of any magnitude, and she never stopped enjoying the company of family and friends who she gathered into her community.

She is survived by her daughter, Katia Hetter (Letitia Campbell), her grandchild Simon, her brother Jose Danon, her nephew Samuel Danon (Lucy) and niece Vivette Castro (Jose) and their children, and her cousins Dr. Julio Levy and Rolando Levy (Lourdes) and their children. Another cousin, Simon Levy, and his wife Anita, preceded her in death.

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces the death of a person, typically including their name, age, date of birth and death, and a brief biography. It serves as a way to share the news of a loved one's passing with friends, family, and community.

Why are obituaries important?

Obituaries are important because they provide a way to honor and celebrate the life of the deceased, while also informing others of their passing. They can also serve as a keepsake for family and friends, and can be used to share memories and stories about the person who has passed.

Who writes an obituary?

Typically, an obituary is written by the family of the deceased, often with the assistance of a funeral home or obituary writer. In some cases, a close friend or colleague may also write an obituary.

What information should be included in an obituary?

A typical obituary includes the person's name, age, date of birth and death, place of residence, occupation, education, hobbies, and surviving family members. It may also include information about their accomplishments, interests, and personality traits.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary, but it's generally recommended to keep it concise and focused on the most important details. A good rule of thumb is to aim for 1-2 paragraphs at most.

Can I include photos in an obituary?

Yes, many newspapers and online obituary platforms allow you to include photos with the obituary. This can be a great way to add a personal touch and help readers visualize the person being remembered.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

The process for submitting an obituary to a newspaper varies depending on the publication. You can usually find submission guidelines on the newspaper's website or by contacting their obituary department directly.

Can I write my own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary in advance, either as a way to ensure their story is told accurately or as a therapeutic exercise. This is often referred to as a self-obit or autobit.

How much does it cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the newspaper or online platform. Some publications offer free or low-cost options, while others may charge several hundred dollars or more.

Can I edit an obituary after it's been published?

In some cases, it may be possible to make corrections or edits to an obituary after it's been published. However, this is not always possible, so it's essential to proofread carefully before submission.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is typically a brief announcement of someone's passing, while an obituary provides more detailed information about the person's life. Death notices are often used in situations where a full obituary is not desired or feasible.

Can I include humor in an obituary?

Absolutely! While an obituary should be respectful, it's also okay to inject some humor or personality into the writing. This can help capture the essence of the person being remembered.

How do I find old obituaries?

You can search for old obituaries through online archives, genealogy websites, or local libraries. Many newspapers also maintain archives of past issues that can be searched online or in person.

Can I republish an old obituary?

In most cases, yes. If you have permission from the original author or publisher, you can republish an old obituary on your own website or social media channels.

What is the purpose of an online obituary?

An online obituary serves as a permanent tribute to the person who has passed away. It allows friends and family to share memories and condolences from anywhere in the world.

How long do online obituaries stay up?

This varies depending on the platform or website hosting the obituary. Some online obituaries remain available indefinitely, while others may be removed after a certain period of time.

Can I link to other memorials or tributes from an online obituary?

Yes! Many online obituary platforms allow you to link to other memorials, such as memorial funds or charity pages, making it easy for readers to take action in memory of the deceased.

What if I want to keep my loved one's obituary private?

If you prefer to keep your loved one's obituary private, you can opt for a private or password-protected online memorial. This ensures that only those with permission can view the tribute.

Can I include quotes or lyrics in an obituary?

Absolutely! Quotes, lyrics, or poems can add depth and meaning to an obituary. Choose something that resonates with the person being remembered or their loved ones.

How do I handle errors or inaccuracies in an already-published obituary?

If you discover errors or inaccuracies in an already-published obituary, contact the publication or platform immediately. They will work with you to correct the mistakes as quickly as possible.

What if I want to create a memorial website for my loved one?

You can create a memorial website using various online platforms or tools. This allows you to share more information about your loved one's life and legacy than would fit in a traditional obituary.

Can I include charitable donations in lieu of flowers in an obituary?

Yes! Many families choose to include information about charitable donations in lieu of flowers in the obituary. This allows friends and family to make a meaningful contribution in memory of their loved one.

How do I ensure that my loved one's legacy lives on through their obituary?

To ensure that your loved one's legacy lives on through their obituary, focus on sharing stories and anecdotes that capture their spirit and personality. You can also consider creating a memorial fund or scholarship in their name.

What if I'm struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress?

If you're struggling to write an obituary due to grief or emotional distress, consider reaching out to a trusted friend or family member for support. You can also seek guidance from a funeral home or professional writer.