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Gloria E. Bohen - April 23, 1931 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: Gloria E (Jones) Bohen, 92, passed away at home April 10, 2024, just shy of her 93rd birthday. She was born in Brooklyn, NY, April 23, 1931 to Mary (Schwarz)& Frederick Jones. She was predeceased by 10 of her 11 siblings and, in 2014, by her husband Alexander J Bohen and her son, Stephen.

She is survived by her daughter Deborah Bohen of Horseheads, NY and her sister, Lillian Dooley of Lower Saucon Twp, Pa. & many nieces & nephews.

She met her husband working at the A & P Manufacturing Plant in Brooklyn. After marrying in 1950 she left there and had 2 children. When her children were old enough she went back to work at night for Chase Manhattan Bank. Before moving she enjoyed spending her summers with extended family at the Breezy Point Beach Club. The family moved to Horseheads, NY in 1965 when her husband was transferred to the A & P Manufacturing Plant located there. She then got her old job back as a cost accountant. After the plant closed in 1982 she went to work for a family friend who owned the parts business for Corning Glass Works.

Gloria was a loving mother, loyal friend, hard working, determined woman who always wanted the best for her family. Gloria was a beautiful woman who replaced a model who didn't show up for a Chase Bank photo shoot. She loved animals more than most people! She was humble, kind, and generous to her family but never spent much on herself. She was a fantastic cook who always had a big Sunday dinner ready even though she didn't enjoy cooking. She excelled at everything she did. Her fear of the water did not stop her from learning to swim and scuba dive. Her goal every summer was to reach 100 laps in the pool which she always accomplished. She once spent a couple of years crocheting a queen size afghan for her daughter. She enjoyed square dancing and round dancing with her husband. For many years she would be on the golf course at 6am. This past year was hard on her because she could not use her zero turn mower after she broke her femur. She was also much handier around the house than her husband. The look on her face when you gave her a lollipop was priceless. Her last meal was ice cream which next to chocolate candy was her favorite food! Gloria was a complicated and serious person and perhaps a little stubborn. But she combined it all with an unexpected sense of humor.

Per her request there will be no services. She will be laid to rest in St. Mary Our Mother cemetery in Horseheads, NY.

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Lynn E Evans - November 01, 1951 - April 10, 2024

Departed: 04/10/2024 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: Lynn E. Evans age 72 of Odessa NY was surrounded by his family when he left to go meet his Lord and loved ones who have passed before him on April 10th, 2024 at 5:40pm. Lynn is predeceased by his parents Delbert and Agnes Evans; little sister Cindy Vlajnic, mother-in-

law Helen Brokaw; sons-in-law Floyd Arnold and Richard Clugstone; and his first-born daughter Diana Clugstone.

Lynn was a graduate of Horseheads Central School District. He worked at many places in his lifetime, including Nichols Discount City, National Auto, National Homes, Ward LaFrance, Hardinge Brother's, Thatcher Glass, Shepard Niles, Hillard, and he retired from driving truck at Central Recycling. Lynn also had his side job playing in his bands (Posted and Hardway) at many different places including Fred's Woodshed, where he opened for country singer Chely Wright of Hardway. Lynn was the lead singer and lead guitarist. Some of his longtime friends that were in his band included Vern Andrews (brother in-law), Richard Stackhouse, Ron Just, Joe Couch, Mike Cole, Pam Kelly, Brad Eisenhart, Bill Henderson, and Dave Beach. Lynn's family and all his "kids" (as he would say) including all his grands and great grands were always the most important to him. Lynn was always cracking jokes and being silly; he loved to make people smile. He always had that "twinkle" in his eyes that would just make you smile. Lynn was always a #1 fan of his grandsons, watching them play ball. He almost never missed a practice or a game with them; he would support any event and he was so incredibly proud of all his kids. He loved going fishing with his brother Joel, his wife and grandkids. He loved his fishing shows with his one little buddy Evan

after school. We can't forget his wrestling; he loved watching WWE. In 2015 Lynn met the love of his life and his rock Sharon and married her June of 2017 making our family larger and stronger. Lynn loved going to the Blue Ribbon Diner where he got to see his favorite waitress Suzy/Suzanne (Beers/Mayo) a long-time best friend of his daughter, as well as Kellie White, his

oldest daughter's best friend; they were like his own kids.

Lynn is survived by his wife Sharon Evans; daughter Samantha Evans; brother Joel (Theresa) Evans; brother-in-law Milorad Vlajinc; His bonus children Nick (Angela) Sheeley, Felicia (Ryan) Palmer; grandkids Zach Arnold, Cassie Povero, Ben Arnold, Macala and Brandon Lalonde, Tisha Fazenbaker, Chase Gray-Foster, Mya Gray-Foster, Caitlin and Dallas Hatch, Evan Morrell, Alex (Kelly) Niyah, Nater, Aiden, Desmond, Olivia, Breanne; great grandkids Jaidyn, Noah, Graven, Damion, Travis, Alanna, Joz, Addilynn, Elianna, Sawyer, Alger, Jackson, Ricky, Alger, and Julia; and many many cousins and extended family and friends.

A Memorial Service for Lynn will be held at the family's convince, where the family has promised he will be late.

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Hazel Everett - April 21, 1927 - April 06, 2024

Departed: 04/06/2024 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: Hazel Elizabeth Everett, went home to join her King at 96 years of age on April 6, 2024, having been lovingly cared for in her own home in Horseheads, New York.

Hazel was born and raised in Elmira Heights, New York, and attended two years at Mansfield University. She married, moved to Gang Mills, then South Corning, and eventually took up residence on Country Estates of Horseheads, New York, where she remained since 1957.

Although she had a number of jobs throughout the years, she would no doubt agree that her biggest accomplishment was raising her eight children and seeing both grandchildren and great-grandchildren come into the world. Her home was the hub of every family gathering, and she was the glue that held her large family together. Family picnics and pool parties, holiday meals and celebrations, birthdays and showers all centered around her home, and she always seemed most happy when she was feeding her family. Indeed, it could be said that food was her "love language," and her brownies, pies, and half-moon cookies were especially coveted by the family at these occasions. She made it her business to keep her freezer always well-stocked with popsicles, fudgies, and ice cream for the family.

She was the second youngest of 8 children, all of whom have predeceased her. She is also predeceased by her husband George, her granddaughter Shontae, and her great-grandson Jaromil (Kevin and Hannah) Patrick.

She is survived by Sandra (Henry) Arevalo, Candace Stull, Donald (Sandra) Patrick, Diane (Gene) Thomas, Sheryl Patrick, Gary Patrick, Barbara (Steve) Broutman, Nancy McLaurin, 69 grandchildren and great-grandchildren, and several devoted nieces and nephews.

Hazel was a woman of faith, whose lifelong desire was to see her children and their offspring follow the Lord and attend church faithfully. She attended faithfully herself, most recently calling Breesport Baptist her church home. She enjoyed listening to messages on television and participated in ladies Bible studies. She found great joy and comfort in the old hymns of the faith.

An open service celebrating her amazing life and the legacy she left will be held on May 4, 2024 at Breesport Baptist Church, 1799 N. Chemung Road, Breesport, New York. The family will begin receiving guests at 12:00 noon and the service will follow beginning at 1:00pm. The service will be live-streamed for those who cannot attend. Please reach out to the family to obtain the livestream link.

In addition, all are invited to attend a graveside service in her memory on May 20 at 1:00 at Rural Home Cemetery in Big Flats, New York.

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Elmae Ruger - May 17, 1935 - March 28, 2024

Departed: 03/28/2024 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: Elmae Ruth Adams Ruger

Cherished mother, grandmother, sister and friend has passed away on March 28, 2024 at the age of 88. She was the daughter of the late Arthur Adams and Ruth Austin Adams.

In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her sons Thomas, Timothy and Theodore. She is survived by her beloved son Terry (Barbara) Ruger; foster son Thomas (Mary) Heck; sister Linda Estabrook; her cherished grandchildren Jennifer, Michael, Michelle, Alexis, Katrina, Michael, Jessica, Steven, Christopher, Courtney, Shane, and Matthew along with several great grandchildren; niece Lezlie (Robert) Morse, and daughters-in-law Dona Miller Ruger and Misty Keyser Ruger. She loved her grandchildren with all her heart and gave the biggest loving hugs! She always found the time to play a game of UNO or Skip-Bo (her favorite card games!), puzzles or a book to read. Attending their many after-school sporting events, rain or shine, was one of the many highlights of her day. "Mothers, grandmothers and roses are much the same. Each is a God's masterpiece with different names."

She worked for many years at Cayuga Medical as a telephone operator before retiring. It was second nature for Elmae to help others, and she especially enjoyed being in the company of those that loved her.

There will be no services or calling hours. A private celebration of her life and burial will take place at the convenience of the family at Maple Grove Cemetery in Horseheads, NY. The family would like to extend their sincere gratitude for the exceptional care and love provided by the staff at Bethany Village Skilled Nursing & Rehabilitation.

Those wishing may make donations in Elmae's honor to Bethany Village, 3005 Watkins Road, Horseheads, NY 14845.

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Clyde William Gray - March 10, 1939 - March 23, 2024

Departed: 03/23/2024 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: C. William "Bill" Gray, 84, of Elmira, NY, passed away on May 23, 2024. He was born on December 10, 1939, in Wellsville, NY. William, known to many as Bill, was a loving father, grandfather, and friend.

He is survived by his children: Christopher (Ayame) Gray, Michael Gray, and Jennifer Gray; grandchildren: Skyler, David, Vivian, and Taisen Gray. William was preceded in death by his wife, Ronalee Gray, his parents Clyde and Frances Gray, and his sister, Judith Gray.

A graduate of Cornell University, Bill obtained his BA in 1962 and later attended Cornell Law School, graduating in 1965. Bill relocated to Elmira and spent most of his career performing various legal work, including a brief stint as a judge and many years working as criminal defense attorney. He married Ronalee in 1971, and he became a father to Christopher, Michael and Jennifer. Bill and the kids lost Ronalee to lung cancer just six years later.

Bill had a passion for books and was an avid reader. There was always a pile of half-read books near any chair he sat in. He was quick to talk passionately about whatever he was reading at the moment, and had broad interests that spanned the classics, history and literature.

The family is very thankful for the time we had with him. He had some amazing hospice care, and was able to spend his last few months at home.

Family and friends are invited to visit the Barber Funeral Home, 413 S. Main St., in Horseheads, NY on Monday, April 1, 2024 from 10am to 11am. His memorial service will follow at 11am.

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Beatrice May Southard - February 15, 1929 - March 15, 2024

Departed: 03/15/2024 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: Beatrice May "Bonnie" Southard (Harris)

Age 95 of Erin. She was born February 15, 1929 in Big Flats, NY, the daughter of the late Orin and Jessie (Shaw) Harris. Bonnie passed away peacefully at home, as was her wish, on Friday, March 15, 2024.

In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her dear husband George D. Southard in 1998; along with 4 of her brothers.

She is survived by her children Patricia (Rick) Horton, Bonnie Jean (Dale) Franklin, Stephen (Darlene) Southard, and Juanita (David) Butler; along with many grandchildren, great grandchildren, and great great grandchildren; her brother Richard Harris; step sister Nancy Reed; special cousin Clinton Ray Carpenter; and a host of extended family and friends.

Beatrice took her joy from raising her family; she was proud of how they grew, and what they accomplished. A loving a compassionate matriarch to all generations, she loved playing with her great and great-great grandchildren.

Family and friends are invited to visit the Barber Funeral Home, 413 S. Main St., in Horseheads, NY on Friday, March 22, 2024 from 11 am to 1 pm. Her funeral service will be held there at 1 pm.

She will be laid to rest in Maple Grove Cemetery, Horseheads – in eternal peace with her husband.

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Gary Eugene Brouse - December 18, 1947 - March 01, 2024

Departed: 03/01/2024 (Horseheads)

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Age 76, died March 1st 2024, at Arnot Ogden Hospital, Elmira, NY. Following arterial bypass surgery at Strong Memorial Hospital, Rochester, NY, in November, he suffered from the effects of congestive heart failure, a defective mitral valve and of a long-standing condition of blood abnormalities. He spent 6 weeks at Arnot Ogden where teams of cardiologists, pulmonologists, gastroenterologists, and a hematologist, working in consultation with University of Rochester specialists strove to determine the causes of his condition and to treat him.

Gary was born December 18, 1947 to Harold and Helen (Dietrich) Brouse in Lewisburg, PA. He was the eldest of three children. He graduated from Lewisburg High School in 1965 then attended Williamsport Community College for two years to obtain his associate degree. Gary was hired by Corning Glass Works in 1968 and began work as a draftsman designing glass melting furnaces. He was drafted into the US Army in 1968 and spent the two years of his service in Augsburg, Germany, where he was a Radio Repairman.

Upon discharge from the Army as a SPEC 5 (E 5), Gary returned to work in the Corning Glass Melting Technology division. He trained in CAD/CAM technology and was also a contract worker in Melting Research at the Corning, Inc. Sullivan Park facility after his official retirement from Corning. He received recognition for 50 years with Corning, Inc. in 2018.

Gary met his future wife, Ann Gustina, while they were both active members of the Sports Car Club of America, Glen Region. They competed in amateur racing events and worked as volunteers at the Watkins Glen Race Track for tire testing sessions and several different types of racing events. While not a collector of sports cars, as a young man Gary built a sporty Meyers Manx SR. Then, in his mid to later years, he purchased and drove a bright red Mazda Miata. He was always interested in perusing vehicles at car shows.

Gary and Ann married at St. Cecelia's Catholic Church in Elmira, NY, on April 22, 1978. They enjoyed nearly 46 years of life together. The pair traveled the United States, visiting a multitude of National Parks, National Monuments and historical sites. Their favorite journey of 8,000 miles took them to 12 national parks and monuments in one trip. They also participated in many National Wildlife Federation Family Summit weeks which included many nature-oriented activities in Nova Scotia, Vermont, Colorado, Montana, Utah, Alaska and Hawaii.

Before meeting Ann, Gary enjoyed skiing and golf. He later took up league bowling, vegetable gardening, home landscape design and became a very active hiker. He was an active member of the Finger Lakes Trail Conference. Gary hiked the entire Finger Lakes Trail, spanning almost 600 miles across New York State, completing this trail twice "End to End." He was working on a third E to E when osteoporosis caused a painful spine collapse. He continued hiking on local trails at Tanglewood Nature Center, Elmira, NY, the rail trail in Sperr Park, Big Flats, NY, and other recreational trails in New York State and Pennsylvania. Gary helped other hikers in their attempts to achieve the E to E goal and, for a number of years, was actively involved in helping to maintain the trail.

Gary was also a voracious reader in retirement. He kept the Big Flats Library busy supplying him with books from all over the Southern Tier Library System. Like many people during the COVID pandemic he and Ann became jigsaw puzzle fanatics who worked up to a 2,000 piece puzzle. Gary was predeceased by his parents. He is survived by his loving wife Ann, sister Carol (Brouse) Worley and husband Richard Worley of Elizabethtown, PA, brother Donald Brouse and wife Joanne Brouse of Rockford, nieces Dana Brouse and Meredith Worley Zurin and husband Mikhael Zurin, nephew Riley Zurin, grand-niece Kaitlyn (Zurin) Lashinsky and husband Minakota Lashinsky and their children, aunt Emma (Brouse) Foust, cousin Linda (Dietrich) Guiles and husband Bill Guiles as well as many other cousins

Gary's quiet manner, good listening skills and loyalty will be remembered by all who knew him, even by those whose acquaintance was brief while caring for him in the hospital. He leaves behind many devoted friends including his fellow members of the congregation of Our Saviour's Lutheran Church, Horseheads, NY.

The compassion and caring demonstrated by many of the doctors, nurses and clinical assistants at Arnot Ogden helped ease the anxiety and pain for Gary and his family during his long ordeal. Their kindness will be remembered.

Family and friends are invited to visit the Barber Funeral Home, 413 S. Main St., Horseheads, on Thursday March 7th 2024 from 4 pm to 6 pm. Gary's funeral service will be held there at 6pm. He will be laid to rest in St. Mary's Cemetery, in Corning, NY. Anyone wishing to honor Gary's memory with a charitable gift may direct their donation to: Finger Lakes Trail Conference, 611 Visitor Center Rd, Mt Morris, NY 14510 Horseheads Community Animal Shelter, 150 Wygant Rd, Horseheads, NY 14845 Horseheads Food Pantry at First Presbyterian Church, 2943 Westinghouse Rd, Horseheads, NY 14845

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Sharon Pierce - January 29, 1938 - February 28, 2024

Departed: 02/28/2024 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: Sharon Pierce- Hakes

Age 86 of Hammondsport, NY. Sharon was born on January 29th 1938 in Spencer, NY, the daughter of the late Curtis Rumsey and Doris (Guiles) Berlin. She passed away peacefully at home on Keuka Lake with family by her side on Wednesday, February 28th 2024. She was predeceased by her husband, Thomas F. Hakes in 1997; second husband Gary Pierce in 2017; son Christopher Hakes in 2021; and brother Curt Rumsey in 2017. Remembering her are her daughter Julie (Paul) Pacheco of Chapel Hill, NC; son Steven (Kelly) Hakes of Big Flats, NY; grandchildren Stella, and Paloma Pacheco, and Sydney P. Hakes; along with extended family and friends,

Sharon and Tom raised their family in Horseheads and would later call Keuka Lake their full-time home. They were proprietors of the Beverage Barron and Hatfields Market in Bath NY. Sharons interests were many; she enjoyed roller skating in her youth, gardening, dominoes, golfing, bowling, dancing and good music, and the serenity of Keuka Lake.

She was an active member of the Wayne American Legion and member of the Ladies Auxiliary.

In addition to Keuka Lake, she also enjoyed the mountains at their cabin in the Adirondacks, pontoon boat rides, and cherished time spent with family and friends. A memorial will be announced in May, inviting family and friends to celebrate her life at the Wayne American Legion. She will be laid to rest in the family plot in Pleasant Valley Cemetery in Hammondsport, NY. Those wishing are encouraged to remember Sharon with memorials to Wayne American Legion Ladies Auxiliary, 4926 Bath Road, Wayne, NY 14893

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Armond Manoogian - May 09, 1946 - February 26, 2024

Departed: 02/26/2024 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: Armond Manoogian Jr., 77, of Pine Valley, NY passed away Monday, February 26, 2024. Born May 9, 1946 in Corning, NY, son of the late Armond and Eleanor Manoogian, and survived by his wife of 20 years Mary (Lisi) Manoogian.

Armond served in the U.S. Navy during the Vietnam War, earning the National Defense medal. After his honorable discharge from the Navy, Armond had many jobs in the area, including working for Artistic Greetings in Elmira where he performed several duties such as a machine mechanic. Armond had a love of tinkering with old machines, and would frequent antique shops and rummage sales looking for things to repair. He also loved spending time outdoors, spending many hours in his garden, or finding treasures with his metal detector.

In addition to his parents, he is predeceased by his brother Carl Manoogian, and sister Sandra Lee Manoogian. Along with his wife, he is survived by his son Armond C. Manoogian; stepchildren Mark (Margaret) Mortimer, Jon (Jaime) Mortimer, Cara Mortimer, and Kimberly Mortimer; brothers Edward (Sara) Manoogian, and Vincent (Lia) Manoogian; his dear pet, Lily; and several step grand and great grandchildren, nieces, and nephews.

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Murbel Norton - December 31, 1929 - February 12, 2024

Departed: 02/12/2024 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: Murbel Norton, Age 94 of Elmira, NY, daughter of the late Ray and Minabella Carey, born December 31, 1929 in Watkins Glen, NY, passed away February 12, 2024.

She is survived by her sons William (Diane) Norton and Edward (Deborah) Norton; grandchildren Edward Jr. “Bo” (Sarah) Norton, and Tonya (Cody) Shock; great-grandchildren Christopher (Mike) Stilson, Dylan (Samantha) Norton, Alexis (James) Norton, Ace Stilson, and Kaylee Stilson. She is also survived by many great-great-grandchildren, and many friends.

Murbel grew up in Dundee, graduating Dundee high school in 1948. She then worked as a waitress at restaurants in Dundee and Penn Yan. Later, she volunteered at Arnot Ogden Medical Center. Murbel was a loving and dedicated mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and great-great-grandmother. She was also an animal lover, the family fondly remembering Kitty, her cat. Murbel Also loved puzzles, and NASCAR, especially Jimmy Johnson.

Family and friends are invited to visit Barber Funeral Home, 413 South Main Street, Horseheads on Friday, February 16th from 11am to 1pm. Her funeral service will follow at 1pm.

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John Melvin Russell - July 28, 1952 - February 05, 2024

Departed: 02/05/2024 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: John Melvin Russell

John died unexpectedly Tuesday, February 6th 2024, at home on the family farm. He was born July 28, 1952 in Waverly, NY, the son of the late Richard Burton and Theresa (Doane) Russell. In addition to his parents, John was predeceased by his sister Linda Jane Russell, and brothers Raymond Charles Russell & Richard Burton Russell Jr.

He is survived by his sister Julia Rodman; his daughters Jessica & Sara; along with nieces, nephews, extended family, and many dear friends.

John was a farmer most of his life. He retired from Spencer Van Etten School District, where he worked in the school and as a bus driver.

Honoring his wishes, there will be no public services; a private memorial will be held with family.

Those wishing may remember John in making a donation to your local fire department.

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Keith Herbert Williams - December 02, 1933 - February 02, 2024

Departed: 02/02/2024 (Horseheads)

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Keith Herbert Williams was born in the family farmhouse in Newfield, NY to Harvey Orson Williams and Ruby Tribe Williams. He graduated from Newfield Central School in 1951, Cobleskill Agricultural College in 1954, and served honorably in the US Army 82nd Airborne Division from 1954-1956. On November 26th 1955, he married Barbara Jane Shively of Horseheads, NY. Keith raised his family in Newfield, where he was an active member of the community. He was a member of the Newfield United Methodist Church, Newfield King Hiram Masonic Lodge #784 F&AM; he was an Eagle Chapter Royal Arch Mason. Keith served as Vice President of the NCS School Board, coached Kiwanis baseball, and was a Leader in Cub Scouts. He was a loving family man, and rarely missed a game, match, meet, concert, play, or any activity involving one of his four children. Keith was a very kind and social person who made friends easily and was always eager to get involved and help others. Throughout his life Keith valued faith, family, friends, hard work, service, and nature.

After a 32-year career with NY Telephone/ AT&T/ Lucent Technologies, he and Barbara retired to Caribbean Isles Park in Apollo Beach Florida from 1988-2022, where he served as the first President of the Carribean Isles Co-op, as well as Starter at the golf course. He most recently resided at Bethany Manor in Horseheads, NY. Keith loved spending time with his family and extended family, golfing at Hill and Dale Golf Club, bowling at Ides Bowlodrome on the Masonic Team, deer hunting from the family camp on Benjamin Hill, reading Louis La'Moure Westerns, and watching sports – especially the Bills and Orange.

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Ronald Harry Fields - October 26, 1945 - January 29, 2024

Departed: 01/29/2024 (Horseheads)

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Age 78 of Big Flats, NY. Ron was born in Montour Falls, NY on October 26th 1945, the son of the late Ernest A. and Marion L. (Packard) Fields. He passed away on Monday, January 29th 2024.

In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his brother Ernest Fields in 2013.

Ron is survived by his son Kenneth (Martha Saia) Fields; daughter Cassandra (Michael) Wright; grandchildren Maddesen (Peter) Inirio, and Cameron Wright; great grandchild Ellie Inirio; brother James Fields; sisters Dena Irby, Louise (Chris) Harvey, and Christine (Allen) Lampman.

Ron served in the Army; drafted to Vietnam in December 1966 and receiving an Honorable Discharge in November 1968.

He made a career and retired from what became U.S. Salt, in Watkins Glen, and spent 20 years working with the Gibson Volunteer Fire Dept.

Private services with his family will be held. Burial at Rural Home Cemetery in Big Flats, NY.

Those wishing to honor his life can do so by making a donation to the Vietnam Veteran 803 Museum, 1200 Davis St, Elmira, NY 14901 – or a veterans support network of your choice.

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Thomas Webb - June 06, 1948 - January 28, 2024

Departed: 01/28/2024 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: Thomas W. Webb June 6, 1948-January 28, 2024

Thomas W. Webb, a lifelong resident of Catlin Township, Chemung County, died at home on January 28, 2024 after a long illness.

He was the son of Melvin Wallace Webb and Mary-Jane Lloyd. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by brother Allen Robert Webb, and half-brother Kenneth (Butch) Rollins.

He is survived by brothers David Webb (and spouse Joann Bellows) of Catlin, NY, and George Webb of Houma, LA. He is also survived by sister Mary W. Martin (and spouse David) of Hector, NY and half-sister Peggy Ann Rollins Sauer of Hempstead, NY. He is survived by his nieces Rejeanna Gates and Liz Martin and nephew Christopher Martin.

He attended Big Flats Elementary School and Horseheads High School, and graduated from Corning Community College. He served his country in the US Coast Guard on a Cutter stationed in Miami, conducting at sea drug interdictions, before receiving an honorable discharge and returning to Catlin.

He was employed in the Fiber Optic Lab at Corning Inc., and conducted experiments with fiber optics. His name is associated with many patents registered when he was a technician in the laboratory there. He was held in esteem by coworkers and made significant contributions to the early days of optical amplifiers, devices that make the internet possible. He worked the farm in Catlin all his life.

The family is especially grateful to his niece Rejeanna Gates, who served as his nurse and maintained a bedside vigil in his final week.

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Darryl H. Fink - June 12, 1939 - January 27, 2024

Departed: 01/27/2024 (Horseheads)

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Age 84 of Horseheads, NY. He was born June 12, 1939 in Fallentimber, PA, son of the late Walter and Sylvia (Shomo) Fink and passed away Saturday, January 27, 2024 at Corning Hospital after an extended illness. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by his brother Dale Fink. He is survived by his wife of 62 years, Judith; children Lynette Baker of Fairport, NY, Christina Staight of Barton, NY, Kimberly Wayman of Horseheads, NY, Alan (Sheilagh) Fink of Brockport, NY and Denise (John) Gann of Swansboro, NC; grandchildren Taylor, Brendan, Frank, Kyle, Ryan, Kaitlyn, Tiffany, Frances and Violet; sister Joyce Caretti of Patton, PA. Darryl retired from Sears Roebuck & Co. as store manager after 36 years. He then drove a bus for the Red Cross transporting special needs people, a job he loved. He was a veteran of the U.S. Army; a member of the Knights of Columbus, Junior Achievement and an Honorary Sheriff Deputy. He was a prankster who loved to surprise and joke with his children. He was happiest when surrounded by his family and traveling with his wife. Together they toured over 550 lighthouses. Family and friends are invited to visit Barber Funeral Home, 413 S. Main St., Horseheads on Friday, February 2nd from 5 to 7 pm. His Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Saturday, February 3rd at 10 am in St. Mary Our Mother Church, 816 W. Broad St., Horseheads. Rev. Christopher Linsler, Celebrant. Interment will be in Calvary Cemetery, Altoona, PA at the convenience of the family.

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Edward W. Brown - February 05, 1940 - January 27, 2024

Departed: 01/27/2024 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: Mr. Edward W. Brown of Corning, NY, passed January 27th 2024. He was born February 5, 1940 in Dushore, PA. He is the son of the late Archie and Beatrice (Heller) Brown.

Ed served in the Army from 1959 to 1962. After serving in the Army, he worked as an electrician at Arnot Ogden Medical Center until he retired in 1998. Ed was a lover of the outdoors, and enjoyed hunting and fishing. He also loved his beagles, especially Betsy, who mothered several puppies for the family.

He is predeceased by his brother Robert Brown and his sister B.J. (Frank) Doughty.

He is survived by his son Joseph Brown, “much younger” sister Darlene (Donald) Hill, several nieces, nephews, cousins, and many wonderful friends.

The family would like to thank the staff of Arnot Ogden Medical Center and the staff of Fred & Harriett Taylor Health Center for their warmth and compassion.

A Celebration of Life will take place at the convenience of the family at a later date.

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Sandria Hess - February 16, 1943 - January 24, 2024

Departed: 01/24/2024 (Horseheads)

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Age 80 of Elmira, NY, passed away Wednesday, January 24, 2024. She was predeceased by her husband Paul Lee Hess on November 12, 2022 and 14 brothers and sisters. She is survived by her children Betty (Donald) Montgomery of Elmira, Donald Hess of Ohio, Lisa (Jeffery) Mahler of Horseheads and Michael (Stacy) Hess of Indiana; grandchildren Paul (Erynn) Montgomery, Christine Montgomery, Matthew Hess, and sisters Ashley and Airen, Tiffany Mahler, Chelsey (Chris) Stroell, Jessica Hess and Michaela Hess; great grandchildren Logan and Ella Stroell; last surviving sibling Butch (Mary) Coleman of Elmira. Our Mom was a very caring and special person, loved by everyone. A wonderful wife of 61 years and the best Mom anyone could ever ask for. She was known for her great cooking skills. She made the best roast beef, mash potatoes and gravy dinner. We will miss her sugar cookies that she made every Christmas. She was always the life of the party, made everyone laugh. Our Dad loved her smile and dimples. She loved gardening and her flowers. The stories she would tell were so special. She will leave a hole in our hearts, but is now with Dad and died peacefully because of her trust in Jesus. We love you and will miss you Mom.

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Michael K. Swasta - December 24, 1947 - January 20, 2024

Departed: 01/20/2024 (Horseheads)

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Age 76 of Horseheads, NY. He was born December 24th 1947 in Franklin, PA, the oldest son of the late Michael and Mary (Gaiser) Swasta. Michael passed away peacefully on Saturday January 20th, 2024 with his wife and daughter at his side.

In addition to his parents, Mike was predeceased by his brother and sister-in-law, Jim (Pat) Swasta.

He is survived by his beloved wife Mary E. (Ladew) Swasta; daughter & son in law Tiffany (Eric) Bonus, with grandchildren Nathan and Timothy Bonus, of Rochester, NY; his brother Ronald (Sherry) Swasta of Montgomery, TX; sister Catherine (Marlin Diffenderfer) Schroth, of Breesport, NY; along with several nieces, nephews, cousins, and many dear friends.

Mike served in the Army; he was deployed to Vietnam from 1968 to 1970 as a Specialist, and part of the Field Artillery. After receiving his honorable discharge, he worked as an architect with his mentors at Cassetti & Klein Architects in Elmira, NY. He moved onto several other firms in his earlier years, then began a second career; Mike retired from the City of Ithaca Dept. of Code Enforcement. Mike was an active member of the 1/92 Field Artillery Association, proud of his service with the "Brave Cannons" and enjoyed many reunions with his "brothers".

Family and friends are invited to visit the Barber Funeral Home, 413 S. Main St., in Horseheads, NY, on Sunday, January 28th 2024 from 1 pm to 3 pm. His funeral service will be held there at 3 pm. Mike will be laid to rest in a private service with military honors, at Bath National Cemetery.

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Kristin M. Kohena - November 06, 1974 - January 14, 2024

Departed: 01/14/2024 (Horseheads)

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Kristin was born Wednesday, November 6, 1974 and died peacefully in her sleep at home on Sunday, January 14, 2024. She was 49 years old.

Kristin was the third of three children born to the late Julius D. and Shirley J. (Hilton) Kohena. She was baptized as an Orthodox Christian on December 29, 1974 at Holy Trinity Russian Orthodox Church in Elmira Heights where she was a lifelong member.

In addition to her parents Kristin was predeceased by her maternal grandparents Clifton John and Lola (Wolverton) Hilton and her paternal grandparents John and Anastasia (Haverlak) Kohena. Additionally, she was predeceased by Beatrice Eisenhower who, as Kristin's caregiver for many years, acted as her "Second Mother" by providing many hours of love and support.

Kristin is survived by her sister Kathleen Ann Kohena of Horseheads, NY; brother and sister-in-law John C. and Loueva M. Kohena of Horseheads, NY; niece Jennifer L. Spicer of Horseheads, NY; nephew and spouse Christopher E. and Greta R. Spicer of Bloomingdale, NY; and grandnephews Tully R.R. Spicer of Bloomingdale, NY; Bevan MacPike of Horseheads, NY; Sage E. Kowell-Spicer and wife-to-be Larissa Goalder of Chicago, Ill; and several cousins and their families. In addition, she is survived by her "Irish Sister" Shelley (Wallace) Mitchell of Northern Ireland (UK) with whom she was able to spend two wonderful summers during the 1980's when Shelley was a guest of the Kohena family.

Kristin was diagnosed with Cerebral Palsy before her first birthday. However, her disability did not deter her from living life to the fullest. Kristin was well educated. She began her education by attending the Early Intervention and Pre-School Programs operated by Able-2. She then attended the SCT BOCES Special Education Programs at the Booth Elementary School in Elmira, and the Gardner Road Elementary and Sing Sing Road Schools in Horseheads. After moving to Dryden, NY she continued her education through her attendance at the TST BOCES Special Education Program located at the Darin Smith School and the Dryden High School. She graduated from the Dryden High School on June 16, 1995.

Kristin strongly advocated her for herself. She lived with her parents in Elmira Heights from birth until she turned 14. She then requested to live in a group home. Kristin's reasoning was simple: living in a group would afford her more opportunities to live an active life. She eventually moved to the Evergreen Children's Home in Dryden NY that was operated by the Special Children's Center, now known simply as" Racker". In 1995 she moved to Horseheads to live at the Old Ithaca Road ICF where she resided on Aspen Lane and then Cedar Lane. In 2021 she moved to the Eastburn IRA on Rt. 13.

Kristin engaged herself in many community activities over the years. She was the 1982 and 1983 Southern Tier Easter Seals poster child. She participated in numerous Special Olympics events in the Southern Tier from which she earned numerous Gold Medals. She participated in the Southern Tier's Post Polio and Baseball Camp. She also attended Camp STAR for many years. Since March 2, 1998 she has attended Pathways, Inc. Day Habilitation. Kristin loved going there each day.

Kristin pursued things that brought joy to her life. She loved swimming in Seneca Lake at her family's summer home. She loved her two cats and Anne, her Miniature Collie. She enjoyed riding horses. Her favorite colors were purple and pink. She loved to travel with her family and had visited many places, including Disney World. She loved shopping at Walmart and The Arnot Mall. She enjoyed eating out at Mooney's and Olive Garden. Scary films were always a favorite with her. Finally, Kristin especially enjoyed drinking Pink Cat!

Many people empowered Kristin to live life as she desired. We especially wish to recognize the staffs at Able-2 and Pathways Day Habilitation for their generosity of kindness and patience shown to Kristin over these many years. Your willingness to support Kristin as you did made all the difference in her life. In doing so, you also made all the difference in our life. We have been truly blessed by your actions. The Kohena family could not be more grateful for your efforts.

Family and friends are invited to visit Holy Trinity Orthodox Church, 139 Horseheads Blvd, Elmira Heights, on Wednesday, January 17th 2024 from 6pm to 7pm. Panikihida will be held at 7pm. Her funeral service will be held there on Thursday, January 18th 2024 at 10:30 am. Rev. Fr. David Cowan will officiate. Committal prayers and interment will follow in Holy Trinity Orthodox Cemetery.

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Joseph I. Along - November 08, 1921 - January 08, 2024

Departed: 01/08/2024 (Horseheads)

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Thomas Kargacin - Unknown - January 07, 2024

Departed: 01/07/2024 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: Thomas Kargacin, 83, of Horseheads, passed away peacefully at home with his loving wife of forty-six years, Catherine, at his side.

Besides Cathy, Tom is survived by his brother Kevin (Ava) Kargacin of Fairfax, VA; sister-in-law Anne (Chuck) Swift of Erin, NY; brothers-in-law Arthur (Donalda) Viens of Pansey, AL and Paul (Lisa) Viens of Morrisville, NC; several nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, one great-great-niece and cousins.

Tom had a great love of his country and was both in the Air Force and Army. He retired as a master sergeant from the U.S. Army after a cumulative total of 26 years of service.

Although Tom battled Alzheimer's for 12 years, to the end he always had that mischievous gleam in his eyes whenever he talked about his shenanigans with his childhood friends growing up in Anaconda, MT.

A graveside service with military honors will be will be held at Maple Grove Cemetery, Horseheads, and announced in the spring.

Those wishing may honor Tom with a donation to the Alzheimer's Association, Gary Sines Foundation, or Wounded Warrior Project.

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Carol Iulo - January 14, 1941 - January 05, 2024

Departed: 01/05/2024 (Horseheads)

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Age 82, of Horseheads NY, formally of Milford, CT passed away on Friday January 5th 2024. She was born in New York City on January 14th 1941. Joining her husband James, of 54 years who predeceased her on October 21st 2014. Carol moved to Newtown, CT in 1963 and later lived in Bethel and Brookfield CT, where she raised her two children. For 25 years Carol worked at the Institute of Children's Literature in Redding, CT. Carol and her husband Jim often spent their winters in the Port Charlotte, FL.

Carol is survived by her daughter Kendra (Dan) Griswold of Horseheads, NY, son Colonel James (Jennifer) Iulo, USMC (Ret.) of Virginia Beach, VA, grandchildren Kyle Griswold, Emily (Geoff) Chapman, Alexander and Katherine Iulo; and her great granddaughter Evalynn Chapman. She is also survived by her sister Gail Ravlavsky of Milford, CT, brother Gary Shropshire of FL, along with several nieces, nephews and her closest friends Kathleen Paskus of Shelton CT, Patricia Najjar of Oxford, CT and Claire Brown of Danbury, CT.

Carol is predeceased by her parents Harry and Catherine Shropshire, sisters Joan Zeek and Sandra Shropshire, along with her brother Ronald Shropshire.

The family will have a celebration of life for family and friends announced at a later date, at Kings Highway Cemetery in Milford, CT.

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Sharon Jean Youmans - January 08, 1941 - December 28, 2023

Departed: 12/28/2023 (Horseheads)

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Age 82 of Horseheads, NY. Sharon was born January 8th 1941 in Elmira, NY, the daughter of the late Charles and Alberta (Emery) Latshaw. She passed away in peace at home on Thursday, December 28th 2023.

Sharon grew up in Elmira Heights with her parents, 2 brothers and sister. After graduation, Sharon began working for Hardinge in Elmira. She went on to work for a lawyer and Marine Midland bank, finally, concentrating on computers and working for NYS at the Fire Academy and Elmira Prison. She retired from the Prison after 30 years of service to the State.

Sharon was a devout Christian; she had an unwavering faithfulness that left a mark on everyone around her. As a long-standing member of Friends of the Cross church, she helped many individuals in need. She was dedicated to her alma mater and spent many years on the reunion committee for Elmira Heights High School. Sharon had a core group of friends and cousin, Grace Flint, from childhood that still got together for lunches and days out. We know she will miss these special friends and the shenanigans they got up to. She loved cars and music, which she passed along to her children. Many days were spent driving after church with her kids to sing, look at houses and check out local creeks. She also was a master at decorating cakes and making dolls. In her later years, she spent a lot of time learning about her family history. One wonderful memory in her life was when she was able to visit her great-grandfather's hometown in Germany.

Sharon is survived by her children, Shelly McGilvra, Rex Youmans, Mike (Amber) Youmans, and David (Tammy) Youmans. She is also survived by nine grandchildren: Chelsea (Ulises) Lopez, Connor McGilvra, Ford & Grayson Youmans, David, Elizabeth, Lillian, Caleb, and Malachi Youmans; one great grandchild Julian Lopez, her brother Charles (Rose) Latshaw; along with several dear nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. Sharon was proud of her children and loved spending time with them and her grandchildren.

Family and friends are invited to visit the Barber Funeral Home, 413 S. Main St., in Horseheads, on Saturday, January 6th 2024 from 2:00 to 4:00 pm. Her funeral service will be held there at 4pm. After her service family and friends are invited to gather for food at Friends of the Cross Church, 2618 Goff Road, Corning, NY 14830.

Those wishing may honor Sharon with a donation to St. Jude Children's Hospital.

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Wayne F. Kent - June 12, 1954 - December 13, 2023

Departed: 12/13/2023 (Horseheads)

Obituary Preview: Age 69 of Pine Valley, NY passed into the loving arms of his Savior very unexpectedly on December 13, 2023. He was born June 12, 1954 to Ronald and Eleanore (Forrest) Kent. Wayne graduated from Horseheads High School in 1972 and spent his life on the family farm. He especially enjoyed caring for the animals and was an absolute pro at raking, baling, and stacking hay. And from April-October, he often did it all barefoot. Shoes were an optional thing, despite the many dangers. He also spent many years doing construction and roofing, and if he could get away with it, he did those barefoot as well. Wayne led a challenging life. Some of these challenges were self-inflicted, some a product of the times and the area, and some were simply a part of life. He endured, however, with a faith like Job. Wayne was the kind of person who wanted to help and “rescue” everyone. It didn’t

matter what he was doing, or if he was down to his last dollar, if you needed him, he was there, no questions asked. In his spare time, Wayne loved to read. The Bible was always his favorite book, but he enjoyed reading anything and everything. To have a conversatio nwith him was always enlightening, because he seemed to retain everything he ever read and was well versed in so many subjects it was almost mind-boggling. In addition to doting on the cows and other farm animals, he loved cats and was rarely seen without one (or more) nearby. He also spent many years collecting and rebuilding vintage Cadillacs, guitars, and amplifiers. He and his brother Kenny taught themselves to play guitar as teens and mastered the craft beautifully. And then there was his voice...If you were ever fortunate enough to hear him sing, you were blessed. He truly had the voice of an angel and loved telling stories about his trip to Europe in 1973 to sing with the Horseheads High School Chamber Singers. He also sang with various churches and area choral groups over the years. Wayne loved his grandchildren dearly and rarely missed a recital, concert, or special event, and always showed up in a gray tweed blazer.

Wayne was pre-deceased by his parents, his brother Ken, sister-in-law Diane (Allen), niece Heidi (Kent) Catlin and nephew Ryan Scherer. He is survived by daughters Sarah (David) Wing of Horseheads, Katie (Jared) Morgan of Wellsboro, PA, son Daniel Kody (Lauren LaCorazza) of Horseheads, and stepdaughter Leona Carter of Elmira. His grandchildren Matthew, Ava, Madison, Parker, Evelyn, Mila, Knox, Benjamin, and Franklin. Nieces and nephews Andrea (Rick) Lewis, Alexis, Makayla, Jonathan, Samantha, Noah, Chloe, and Cory. Sister-in-law Betty Jean Kent, and aunt Luella Forrest who made the best pies. Former wives Norma (Kevin) Erickson and Karen (Tim) Thorpe who were still very special to him as well as ex sister-in-law Carole Scherer. Several aunts, uncles, cousins, and extended family, including his cousin Scott who was like his little brother to him. He is also survived by his dear friends Mary Brubaker, Blaze Brockway, Joellen Mulliner, Lenny Kemmerer, John Mahoney, Andy Stevens, Lane Wrenn, Nikki Depue, Joann Schwab, Tom Kaminski, Don at Music Depot and neighbors Michelle and Ryan and their son Ken.

The family wishes to thank Mark, who came to know Wayne through leasing the farm for hunting, for his support and care of Katie and Madison on the night of Wayne’s passing. At Wayne’s request, there will be no services, but he will be interred at the Pine Valley Cemetery surrounded by his beloved Willowglade Farm at the convenience of the family. A Celebration of Life will follow. In honor of Wayne, please do something kind for someone with no expectation of reciprocation or repayment, it will make the world a kinder place.

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Judith F. Buckley - March 24, 1941 - December 01, 2023

Departed: 12/01/2023 (Horseheads)

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Friends and Family are invited to attend her Memorial Celebration at Friends of the Cross Christian Church, 2618 Goff Rd, Corning, NY 14830 in Corning on Saturday, March 23, 2024 at 11am.

Is now in the loving arms of Jesus on December 1st, 2023. Judy was a 54 year resident of Pine Circle, Horseheads.

She was a graduate of Edison High school, Corning Community College, Elmira college and Mansfield University. She worked as a Special Ed teacher in Dryden, NY and Broad Street in Horseheads, NY. Judy also was a teacher's aide for many years at Gardner Rd School prior to completing her education. She impacted many lives with her patience and dedication to her students. Judy had many hobbies. She loved reading, gardening, restoring furniture and genealogy. Judy was a member of Friends of the Cross Christian Church for 32 years. She had a strong faith and love for the Lord that she shared with any and all who would listen. Her faith was unwavering. She loved her kids and grandkids deeply and supported them in all their endeavors.

Judy is survived by son Michael (Katy) Buckley, daughter Kathleen (Gale) Stermer "K.C."; grandchildren Megan (Andrew) Hawk, Jacob (Morgan) Stermer, Patrick Buckley, and Rachel Stermer; great grandchildren Abigail, and Elisa; siblings Glenna Rosplock, her oldest sister and best friend, Rosamond (Reggie) Piatt, John (Judy) Sykes. Kim Treen, and Greg (Debbie) Sykes; numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins; sister-in-law Sue (Jerry) Monahan, brother-in-law Mark Buckley. She was predeceased by her parents Ferris and Beatrice Sykes; brothers-in-law Robert Rosplock, and Karl Treen; and her ex-husband Timothy Buckley.

Arrangements are entrusted to Barber Funeral Home. Family and friends are invited to the Friends of the Cross Christian Church, 2618 Goff Road, Corning, NY on March 23, 2024 from 11am to 12:30pm. The family will have a private ceremony at a later date.

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Understanding that each family's needs are different, Barber Funeral Home offers a range of services to accommodate various preferences and traditions. From traditional funerals to more contemporary celebrations of life, the staff works closely with families to craft services that reflect the unique personality and wishes of the deceased. The funeral home also provides options for cremation, memorial services, and guidance on the choice of caskets, urns, and other funeral products.

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Barber Funeral Home is conveniently located at 413 South Main Street in the heart of Horseheads, NY, and provides ample parking for visitors. The staff is ready to assist with all inquiries, making themselves readily available to answer questions and offer support. Their commitment to accessibility extends to their communications, with options available for families to reach out via phone, email, or in-person visits during their hours of operation. As a fixture of support and care in the Horseheads community, Barber Funeral Home stands as a beacon of hope and a provider of distinguished and empathetic funeral services.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written announcement of a person's death, typically including a brief biography, details about the funeral services, and any memorial information. It serves as a notice to the community and a way to honor the deceased's life.

Where are obituaries usually published?

Obituaries are traditionally published in newspapers, both in print and online. However, they can also be found on dedicated memorial websites, through social media, and at funeral homes.

Who writes an obituary?

An obituary can be written by family members, close friends, funeral directors, or professional writers. Sometimes journalists write obituaries for notable individuals.

Is there a difference between an obituary and a death notice?

Yes, there is a difference. A death notice is a shorter, more straightforward announcement of death, often without the biographical details or personal touches found in an obituary. It typically includes basic information such as the name, age, a statement about the passing, and funeral service details. Obituaries are longer, more detailed, and offer a biographical account of the deceased's life and legacy.

What information is usually included in an obituary?

An obituary usually includes the deceased's full name, age, date of birth, date of death, a summary of their life's most significant milestones and achievements, information about surviving family members, details about funeral or memorial services, and sometimes a special message or a thank you note to those who supported the family during their time of loss.

Are there specific guidelines to follow when writing an obituary?

While there is no set rule, it's important to be respectful and accurate. It's also common to include key life events, contributions, and relationships. Many people choose to highlight the personality and legacy of the deceased to create a meaningful tribute.

How long should an obituary be?

Length can vary widely. Some obituaries are brief, just a few paragraphs, while others can span over a full newspaper column. The length often depends on the space available and the cost if being published in a paid space, as well as the life story and the details the family wishes to include.

Can an obituary be written before someone dies?

Yes, it's possible and also somewhat common to draft an obituary before death occurs. This is especially true for the elderly or those in palliative care, allowing for personal input or to ease the burden on loved ones during a time of grief.

Should an obituary include the cause of death?

Including the cause of death is a personal choice and is not required. Some families prefer to include it, especially if they are raising awareness about a particular illness or condition, while others choose to keep that information private.

Is it okay to include personal sentiments in an obituary?

Absolutely. Sharing personal sentiments can provide a touching tribute and reflect the personality of the deceased. This could include quotations, poems, or even anecdotes that resonate with the spirit of the individual.

What photographs are appropriate for an obituary?

A recent photograph where the deceased looks happy and at ease is often chosen for an obituary. Some families may also choose to include a younger photo to reflect upon the person’s life journey.

How soon after death should an obituary be published?

Obituaries are typically published as soon as the funeral arrangements have been made, which is usually within a few days after the death. This allows for community members to be informed in time to attend services.

What if the deceased doesn't want an obituary?

The wishes of the deceased should be respected. In such cases, families may choose to send private communications about the passing and services or opt for a simple death notice instead.

Can obituaries be used for genealogical research?

Yes, obituaries can be valuable resources for genealogical research as they provide information on family connections, biographical sketches, and sometimes the deceased's ancestors or descendants.

How do cultural differences impact obituaries?

Cultural differences can significantly influence the writing and publishing of obituaries, with each culture having its own customs and practices that dictate what is appropriate to include or omit.

What should be done if an error is found in an obituary?

If an error is discovered, contact the publication immediately to request a correction. Many newspapers and websites are willing to correct factual errors for free.

Can a family choose not to publish an obituary?

Yes, publishing an obituary is a choice, and a family may decide not to have one for reasons such as privacy concerns, cost considerations, or a desire for simplicity.

Are obituaries considered public records?

While obituaries themselves are not public records, the information within them can often be derived from public records such as death certificates.

How does one go about placing an obituary in a newspaper?

To place an obituary in a newspaper, contact the paper's obituary department for their guidelines, pricing, and submission process. Often, there are standard forms and protocols to follow.

Is it appropriate to share an obituary on social media?

Yes, many people now share obituaries on social media to inform a larger community and to facilitate expressions of condolence and support. However, it’s important to ensure the family is comfortable with this before posting.

What can be done to personalize an obituary?

To personalize an obituary, include anecdotes, personal stories, unique characteristics, hobbies, or passions of the deceased. You can also mention their contributions to the community or significant achievements to capture their essence.

How do families handle obituaries for someone who has taken their own life?

Families can choose to mention the cause of death if they wish but are by no means obligated to. The focus of the obituary can remain on celebrating the individual's life, their personality traits, and the joy they brought to others. For some, mentioning their struggle can help in raising awareness and support for mental health issues.