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Larry Weiner - Unknown - July 04, 2021

Departed: 07/04/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Larry Weiner, 77, of Neche, ND, passed away July 4, 2021, at his home. Visitation will be Wednesday, July 7, 2021, from 5:00 to 7:00 p.m. at Askew Funeral Home in Cavalier, ND. A graveside service will be at 1:30 p.m. on Thursday, July 8, 2021, at Vang Cemetery near Vang, ND.

Larry was born December 3, 1943 at Langdon, ND to John and Alice (Olson) Weiner. He grew up at Vang, where he attended country school. He worked construction his entire life and worked for Bill Henschel until the time of his illness. Larry enjoyed visiting with family and friends. He also enjoyed being outside and working at his job. In his younger days, Larry enjoyed playing his guitar.

He was married to Beatrice Tamke and later to Pat Harildstad. He is survived by his daughter, LaDonna Mortenson, Gilby, ND, stepson, Don (Kim) Tamke, Anchorage, AK, five grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren. Also surviving are his siblings, Gaylord (Lorraine) Weiner, Osnabrock, ND, Erma (Eugene) Uecker, Walhalla, ND, Roger Weiner, Dickinson, ND, Orlin (Delores) Weiner, Langdon, ND, and Richard Weiner, Inkster, ND, and several nieces and nephews.

Preceding him in death were his parents, wife, Beatrice, grandson, Tray S. Hertenstein, siblings, Ronald Weiner and Beulah Clifford, grandparents, Hans and Hilda Olson and John and Katherine Weiner.

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Melvin Kristjanson - Unknown - June 29, 2021

Departed: 06/29/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Melvin Kristjanson, 87, of rural Edinburg, ND passed away Tuesday, June 29, 2021 at Sanford Medical Center, Fargo, ND. Funeral service will be held on Wednesday, July 7, 2021 at 2:00 p.m. at the Vikur Lutheran Church, Mountain, ND. Visitation will be held Tuesday, July 6th from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Askew Funeral Home, Cavalier, ND.

Sigurdur Kristjan Melvin Kristjanson was born March 21, 1934 at Walhalla, ND to Johann and Mathildur (Melsted) Kristjanson. He attended school at East Eyford School District and graduated from Mountain High School in 1954. Melvin then attended the State School of Forestry in Bottineau, ND for two years.  After helping on the farm, he was drafted into the U.S. Army in 1958 where he served two years on active duty. After his discharge, he returned home and took over management of the family farm. In 1987, Melvin rented out the cropland and then worked for Sigurdson Farms until 2015. He continued to raise cattle until 2018.

Melvin served as sexton for the Thingvalla Cemetery since 1962. He was a member of the Thingvalla Lutheran Church and now the Pembina Hills Lutheran Church, where he also served on the church council. Melvin also served on the board of the Borg Pioneer Memorial Home and as Thingvalla Township Assessor. He was a member of the Mountain American Legion Post.

On March 21, 1975, Melvin was married to Karen (Austfjord) Heigaard at the Gardar Lutheran Church. He is survived by his wife, Karen; children: Denise (Dennis) Hoffbeck, Olivia Heigaard, Karen (Darren) Houser, Valerie Kristjanson, Vicki (Jason) Sandland, and Ashley Kristjanson (Steven Escher); 12 grandchildren, one great grandson, siblings: Esther Syrup, Joyce Perila, Alfred Kristjanson, George Kristjanson, and several nieces and nephews.

Preceding him in death were his parents, Denis Heigaard (son), Catherine Hoffbeck (grandchild), baby Hoffbeck (grandchild), one brother and six sisters.

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Dennis A. Hartje - Unknown - June 11, 2021

Departed: 06/11/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Dennis A. Hartje, 69, of Cavalier, ND passed away Friday, June 11, 2021 at the Pembina County Memorial Hospital, Cavalier, ND. Funeral service will be held Wednesday, June 16, 2021 at 1:00 p.m. at the United Lutheran Church, Cavalier, ND. Visitation will be held at the church on Wednesday from 11:00 a.m. until the time of services. Dennis A. Hartje was born April 10, 1952 at Grafton, ND to Ardell and Mata (Stark) Hartje. He grew up in Cavalier and graduated from Cavalier High School in 1970. Dennis then attended North Dakota State College of Science in Wahpeton, ND and received a graphic arts degree in 1972. He worked at the Cavalier Chronicle for 32 years and Leever’s Foods as meat manager for 10 years. While married to Beverly Dirks, they had three children, Ryan, Jill, and Brad. Things he enjoyed were spending time with his grandchildren, golfing where he was a two-time club champion, fishing, hunting, and gardening. He always made a mean batch of sauerkraut!

He is survived by his children: Ryan (Lisa) Hartje, Mandan, ND, Jill (Lucas) Mauch, Wyndmere, ND, Brad (Jamie) Hartje, Fargo, ND, grandchildren: Cole Hartje, Logan and Taylor Mauch, Madilynn and Calvin Hartje. Also surviving are his siblings: Marlene (Clarence) Boettger, Judy (Carlton) Ill, Joanne (Roger) Rasmussen, Gary (Karin) Hartje, and Scott Hartje; and sister-in-law, Gwen Hartje.

Preceding him in death were his parents and brother, Mark Hartje.

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Dale Watson - Unknown - June 07, 2021

Departed: 06/07/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Dale Allen Watson was born on May 3 , 1939 to Bruce and Birdie (Bill) Watson on the farm at Bathgate, North Dakota. He graduated from Cavalier High School in 1957, excelling in football and track. He also attended Mayville State College. After serving in the US Army at the Korean Demilitarized Zone, he came home to farm. He married Darlene Dietrich on June 16, 1961 at the Evangelical United Brethern Church in Cavalier. He began an early interest in aviation in high school. He flew for pleasure, began crop dusting, and mastered the helicopter. Local flying was his favorite. Dale also loved playing music with family and friends. His interest in horses began in childhood. Whether it was pleasure horses, work horses or Standardbreds, he loved them all. His interest in harness racing blossomed once he was introduced to it. Around 1977 he acquired Fair May and began an interest that lasted until harness racing was no longer a feature at county fair tracks. He still bred and trained them as long as he was able to do so.

He desired for everyone to hear and understand the saving grace of Jesus so he could see them again. Dale was a member of Cavalier Baptist Church.

Dale was preceded in death by his parents, sister Franny (Cliff) Haislip, in-laws Pete and Margaret Dietrich, Marilyn Watson, Wayne Lawrence and Ray Devitt. He is survived by his wife Darlene, sons Rob, Rick and Mike and daughter-in-law Lisa; grandchildren Miranda, Jake, Hannah, Regan, Isaac, Joshua, Jezimay, Levi and Elias; sisters Betsy Lawrence, Ann Devitt and Beverly(Dave) Guimont; brothers Cecil and Glenn; many dear nieces and nephews; and special friends Eric, Tracy and Jonas Kuhn.

He went to be with the Lord Jesus on June 7, 2021. Funeral Service will be held Monday June 21, 2021 at 10:30 a.m. at the Cavalier Baptist Church, Cavalier, ND. Visitation will be held Sunday June 20, 2021, from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the church.

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Bjork Olafson - Unknown - June 05, 2021

Departed: 06/05/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Björk Eiríksdóttir Olafson, 61, of Edinburg, ND, passed away June 5th, 2021, at her rural Edinburg home.

Björk was born November 6th, 1959, in Reykjavík, Iceland to Eiríkur Ólafsson and Margrét Ólafsdóttir Hjartar. Björk attended schools in Reykjavik. During school, she was a track star in high jump and javelin.  After graduation, Björk worked in various career paths, ranging from working at DHL, The Lions Club International, as an accountant for various companies, to working in the catering business and serving guests at the residence of the President of Iceland. Björk married Gunnlaugur C. Nielsen “Gulli” on August 26, 1995. Shortly after their wedding, Björk, Gulli and their 3 children moved to Namibia, Africa. Björk spent most of her time volunteering for the underprivileged and helping with community events. Gunnlaugur C. Nielsen died on August 23, 1998, after which Björk and her children moved back to Iceland.

In 2003 Björk and Curtis Olafson met at the residence of the former President of Iceland, where Björk was working during a hosted luncheon for a group from the Icelandic Communities Association of North Dakota.  Shortly after they met, Björk & Curtis started their  long-distance relationship. Curtis & Björk exchanged visits between Iceland and North Dakota several times. In 2004 Björk and 2 of her 3 children moved to North Dakota, and on July 31st, 2004, Björk and Curtis were married during the Deuce of August Icelandic Celebration.  During her time in ND, Björk worked in financial services and accounting. In her early days, she was very involved with the Icelandic Communities Association as the treasurer and she frequently volunteered during the August the Deuce celebration.

Björk was an incredibly strong woman who had a heart full of  love. She would always think of others before herself and she took joy in helping others and making people happy. Björk took pride in her cooking and those who were served her food know she was a gourmet chef. She also enjoyed reading and amassed a grand collection of books. In later years, she was a prolific knitter, most often making handmade garments for her favorite people-infants and toddlers. She was a wonderful woman of many adventures and had so much to share based on her life experiences.

Björk showed great strength and courage while often facing serious health challenges.  She was diagnosed with cancer three times during her life, including an early bout of cancer while working very hard to raise three children on her own as a widow.  She was successfully treated for lung cancer with a challenging surgery at Mayo Clinic in 2014, and later treated at Mayo Clinic in 2019 for a second diagnosis of cancer.

Surviving Björk is her husband, Curtis Olafson, children, Heimir (Kólbrún) Heimisson, Iceland, Linda (Thomas) Frey, Harrisburg, SD, and Einar Nielsen, Iceland; step-children, Renata (Greg) Selzer, West Fargo, ND, and Drew (Samantha) Olafson, Cavalier, ND; grandchildren: Kristjan, Natalia, Gunnar, Clara, Gavin, Halle, August, Iris, Anita, and Lillia: sisters, Margrét Eiríksdóttir, Edda Eiríksdóttir and Sæunn Eiríksdóttir, all in Iceland.  She was preceded in death by her parents, her late husband Gunnlaugur C. Nielsen, her brother Þórður Eiríksson, and sister, Sigríður Eiríksdóttir.

A visitation will be held at the Askew Funeral Home, Cavalier, ND, on Wednesday, June 9th from 5-7 PM.  A celebration of her life will be held at the Mountain Community Center, Mountain, ND, on Thursday, June 10th, at 2 PM.  Björk will be brought home to Iceland for a funeral service and burial at her final resting place.

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Leland DeMars - Unknown - May 23, 2021

Departed: 05/23/2021 (Cavalier)

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Betty Bonaime - Unknown - May 15, 2021

Departed: 05/15/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: On Saturday, May 15, 2021 Betty Bonaime, loving wife and mother of six children passed away at the age of 89.

Betty was born on March 22, 1932 in Walhalla, ND to Vernon and Louise Styles. On October 7, 1948, she married Raymond Bonaime. They had a good marriage and a happy family life. They raised four sons, Michael, Larry, David and James, and two daughters, Tina and LuAnne. She was an independent and caring woman. Her husband worked away from home. She took care of the family and the household on her own while he was away. She was the local Avon lady for many years. In their later years they lived in Montana. When her husband retired, they moved back to ND. She lived with James for 10 years after her husband died. She moved to Indiana and lived with Tina for over 2 years.

Betty was preceded in death by her husband, Raymond and her son, Larry, also her Mom and Dad, her brother, Artie Styles and her sister, Pat LaPorte.

Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, May 28, 2021 at 2:00 p.m.at St. Nereus and Achilles Catholic Church in Neche, ND. Visitation will be at the church from 12:00 noon until the time of services.

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Brian Saiger - August 10, 1960 - May 09, 2021

Departed: 05/09/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Brian Jay Saiger was born August 10th, 1960 in Cavalier ND to Wallace and Jeanne Saiger. Brian grew up in Bathgate attending school in Pembina, ND. He later attended and graduated from Landmark Academy in Hayward, CA. Brian also attended Winnipeg Bible College.

Brian had a love of music and was a self-taught pianist/organist with a singing voice that came naturally. Brian also played trombone in his high school band.

Brian enjoyed learning other languages and would often surprise waiting staff at restaurants by speaking in their native language.

Brian was united in marriage to Kay Newell in 1980. Together they had two sons, Cody and Blayne. The boys were Brian’s pride and joy, they always had a special place in his heart.

After moving to California in 1986, Brian was employed by San Francisco transportation industry. Retiring in June 2020, he then moved to Yuma AZ where he resided until his passing.

Brian had a huge heart and a way with words. He would give his shirt off his back to help anyone. Brian touched many lives in his short 60 years.

Brian is survived by his Parents, Wallace and Jeanne Saiger, Mandan ND. Sons Cody Saiger (Charlotte; children Kassidee and Bentlee) Crystal, ND and Blayne Saiger, Grand Forks ND; sister Julie (Doug) Olander, Stanton, ND; uncle, Don (Marlene) Saiger; niece Becky (Praveen) Jayakumar, Las Vegas, NV; nephew Jeff (Amanda) Moos, Mandan, ND; very special cousins Deanna Crance, Alpine WY and Cheryl Messenger, Rigby, ID. Brian is preceded in death by his grandparents Frank and Florence Gelder and grandparents Manuel and Evelyn Saiger.

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David T. Blomquist - Unknown - May 07, 2021

Departed: 05/07/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: David Blomquist went home to be with his Lord and Savior on May 7th, 2021 surrounded by his loving wife and children after a long battle with Parkinson’s Disease.

David was born to Albin and Una Blomquist in Edmore, ND on September 1st, 1942. He grew up on the family farm near Edmore and enjoyed many adventures with his siblings and cousins.  David graduated from Edmore High School and continued his education at Devil's Lake Junior College, he then transferred to Mayville State University and completed his teaching degrees for Math and Science.  He later completed his master's degree at the University of North Dakota.

David married Terrill Levang in Adams, North Dakota on June 27th 1965.   Together they made their home in Pembina North Dakota and raised their three children there.  David taught at the high school for nine years.  He worked during the Summers for the United States Customs Service during his teaching years and later joined full time with the United States Immigration and Naturalization Service stationed at the Pembina and Noyes Ports of entry.   He later transferred to the Neche Port of Entry where he served many years and finished his career as Port Director of the Neche Port of Entry in total he served 33 years in government service.   David received many awards and commendations for his service and in his usual humble manner he would place them in a drawer and never speak of them.  David served his community throughout his life spending many years as the Pembina Public School Board Treasurer and later as the treasurer of the Pembina Cemetery Board.  David served his church as a teacher, elder, treasurer and church chairman.

David enjoyed spending time with his family, children and grandchildren along with fishing, reading and gardening but what he really enjoyed was being able to teach from God's word.  David had that ability to teach to any age group, he taught children as young as first grade and he was able to teach senior saints and all age groups in between.   He was a man of the word and he enjoyed helping others to be able to understand what the word had to say.   He was a true lifelong teacher.

David is survived by his wife Terrill, three children, Patti (David) Kerlin, Jeffrey (Pam) Blomquist and Steven (Alyssa) Blomquist, nine grandchildren (Patti) Lenaya, Chris, Jesse, Ashton (Jeffrey) Sarah, Hannah, Rachel (Steven) Alexander and Vivian and one great grandchild (Chris) Elle, his brother Philip (Virginia) Blomquist and sisters Eunice Nelson and Linda (John) Murphy. He was preceded in death by his grandparents John and Thea Blomquist and Palmer and Emma Overbye, his parents Albin and Una (Overbye) Blomquist his brother Alan (Phyllis) Blomquist and Sister Eleanor Paulson/Baker. Funeral service will be held Friday, May 14, 2021 at 10:00 a.m. at the Pembina Evangelical Free Church, Pembina, ND. A visitation of family and friends will be held on Thursday, May 13th at 7:00 p.m. at the church. The service on Friday will be webcast at www.facebook.com/pembinaefreechurch

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Marlys A. Olson - Unknown - May 06, 2021

Departed: 05/06/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Marlys Ann Olson was born to Peter and Margaret Dietrich on May 10, 1941 in her aunt’s home in Neche, ND. She attended school in Cavalier, ND, and graduated from NDSU in 1963 with a BS degree in speech pathology, pioneering as the first speech therapy teacher in Pembina County. She was married to Bert D Olson on June 14, 1963, at the Evangelical United Brethern Church in Cavalier; was a member of Cavalier Baptist Church. Marlys will be remembered for her unwavering Christian faith, her empathy for others and her love of books, art and animals. She sang for many weddings and funerals in her lifetime. Many knew her as a supportive friend. Her nieces and nephews remember her as “Auntie” with always a warm, uplifting greeting.

Marlys was preceded in death by her husband Bert D Olson her parents, Peter and Margaret Dietrich and her sister-in-law Kay Olson, and niece Jana Lindblad She is survived by her sister, Darlene Watson, brothers-in-law Robert Olson and Dale Watson, nieces Jacki Kuehnel and Juli Olson, nephews Jay Olson, Robert Watson, Richard Watson and Michael Watson and many grandnieces and grandnephews.

Marlys passed away Thursday, May 6, 2021 at her home. Funeral service will be held Monday, May 10, 2021 at 2:00 p.m. at the Cavalier Baptist Church, Cavalier, ND. Visitation will be held Sunday, May 9th from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at the Cavalier Baptist Church.

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Virginia Eagan - Unknown - May 04, 2021

Departed: 05/04/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Virginia (Ginny) Corinne Eagan passed away peacefully on Tuesday, May 4, 2021 at the Pembina County Memorial Hospital, Cavalier, ND. Virginia was born to Flora (Douville) and Charlie Morris on March 10, 1928 in Neche, ND. Her early childhood education took place in Oakes, ND, and she later graduated from Sacred Heart in Fargo, ND. On February 18, 1947, she married Ted Eagan. They resided in Walhalla, where they farmed and raised five children.

Virginia was known for her love of her family, decorating for all of the holidays, playing cards, winning bingo, and enjoying golf. Hole #8 at the Walhalla Country Club was Ginny’s favorite. For many winters, she enjoyed residing in Sunland Village, Mesa, AZ, but in the summer, she loved lake time. She was always ready for a trip, and she traveled everywhere to see her children and grandchildren. Virginia liked to shop - shoes were her specialty. She also enjoyed riding around the farm, checking the crops, and helping out where needed - but she wouldn’t argue if you relieved her of her lunch-making duties. She was also an active member of the St. Boniface Alter Society.

Virginia is survived by her five children, Janis (Greg) Gustafson, Sun Lakes, AZ; Jim (Audrey), Walhalla; Colleen (Bill) Lykken, Grafton, ND; Tom (Connie), Walhalla; and Cathy (Steve) Spicer, Thompson, ND. Virginia is also survived by one brother, Roy (Joanne) Morris, Cavalier, ND, and nieces, Debbie and Peggy. Virginia enjoyed all of her 15 grandchildren, 25 great-grandchildren and two great-great-grandchildren.

Preceding her in death was her parents, as well as her husband of 67 years, Ted Eagan.

Virginia believed in supporting the local community and in lieu of flowers, memorials can be made to the Walhalla Country Club, Pembilier Nursing Center, and the Walhalla Ambulance Service and Fire Department.

Mass of Christian Burial will be held Saturday, May 8, 2021 at 10:30 a.m. at the St. Boniface Catholic Church, Walhalla, ND. Visitation at the church for one hour before the time of services.

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Jean Mountain - Unknown - May 04, 2021

Departed: 05/04/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Jean Elizabeth (Duncan) Mountain went to the Lord on May 4, 2021.  Memorial service will be held Friday, May 14, 2021, at 2:00 p.m. at the Cavalier Presbyterian Church, Cavalier, ND. Visitation will be held for one hour before the time of the service at the church. Masks are optional.

Jean was born in the Neche area on April 1, 1936 to Leslie and Marjorie (Cameron) Duncan.  Jean attended Country School District for grades 1-8th and High School at Neche, ND.  Jean married W. Earl Mountain on October 25, 1953, Earl passed away on September 25, 2010.  Jean and Earl lived on the family farm in the Tyner area until 2000, then they moved into Cavalier, ND.

Jean worked beside Earl on the family farm until Earl retired from farming.  Jean worked outside the home as a CNA at Pioneer Rest Home in Bathgate, ND and at Wedgewood Manor in Cavalier.  She was a member of the Cavalier Presbyterian Church, served as an Elder, sang in choir, was a member of the Presbyterian Women’s club, and taught Sunday School for years.  Jean was a member of the Cavalier Curling Club and was an avid fan of all things curling.    She was a member and served various roles in Tea Time Homemakers and Pembina County Homemakers Organizations.  Jean served as a Den Leader in the Boy Scouts and a 4-H leader.  Jean loved to travel, she was game for all kinds of fun, must have been that April Fools birthday.  Jean enjoyed having family and friends over, it was a treat for visitors to have farm fresh vegetables.

Jean is survived by her three children, Kaye (Ervin) Sott of Cavalier, ND, Sue (Greg) Fritz of Pembina, ND and Scott Mountain of Cavalier, ND.  Two Grandchildren, Shawn Sott (Fargo, ND) and Ryan (Nicole) Sott, Hettinger, ND and 3 Great grandchildren, Trevor Sott (Fargo, ND) and Brodie and Elizabeth Sott (Hettinger, ND).  Sister Margaret (Duncan) Hill and Sandra McNutt.  Jean was preceded in death by her husband W. Earl Mountain, Sister Mary Lou Duncan, Brother John Leslie Duncan and sister in law Margot Duncan, sister in law Jean (Mountain) Cameron, Nephews Thomas Cameron and James Cameron.

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Lorraine Schroeder - Unknown - May 02, 2021

Departed: 05/02/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Lorraine Schroeder, age 92 of Cavalier, ND, passed away Sunday, May 2nd, 2021, at Wedgewood Manor in Cavalier.  Gudrun Anna Lorraine Bjornson was born November 16th, 1928 on the Bjornson family farm, northeast of Mountain, ND to G.E. (Steini) and Loa (Swainson) Bjornson. She attended Eastman Country School and graduated from Cavalier High School in 1946. She was crowned Cavalier Homecoming Queen for 1945.    Lorraine married Ted Schroeder on September 12th, 1946, and farmed with Ted for two years on the Schroeder farmstead located south of Cavalier, then moved into Cavalier for the next 12 years. They built their family home on the farmstead and continued to live there for the next 53 years until Ted’s passing June 13, 2013. Two years later, she moved to Wedgewood Manor.    Lorraine held many jobs over her lifetime; some for hire, many as a volunteer. She had been a secretary for the Pembina County Superintendent of Schools; secretary to the Presbyterian pastor; photographer’s assistant (to Ted), as well as proof reader, reporter, and janitor at The Cavalier Chronicle.    Her talents became more apparent when she became a charter member of the Northeastern North Dakota Heritage Association and began to volunteer her time to various projects and committees. Her ability to organize and her flair for display became a driving passion in her life, while she helped the Heritage Center get established. She spent countless hours volunteering her time, her ideas, and her talent for creating displays for all the ethnic cultures in the area; and also was instrumental in decorating the Center for each holiday of the year.    Henry Duray, then Manager of Icelandic State Park, presented her the 1999 Merit Award as Outstanding Volunteer from the ND State Parks and Recreation Department. Then, in 2006, she received the Governor’s Volunteer Service Award for 20 years of service and devoting over 20,000 hours of time to the Icelandic Heritage Center. This was the “Take Pride In America” award, given to her in Bismarck by Gov. John Hoven. Eight years later, she was given the most prestigious honor available by the Heritage Association. She was selected as an Honorary Board Member, and was presented this award by Alfred Byron for 28 years of service.     She was a very active member of the Trinity United Methodist Church and served in numerous positions there throughout her life. Among those was her involvement with the planning and building committee for the new church building.    She and Ted enjoyed many years square dancing, resulting in many lifelong friendships. Music was an integral part in both of their lives. She and Ted both sang and played guitars at various functions and entertained their family with their harmonizing for both their children and grandchildren.    Survivors include her four children: Judie Gill of Cavalier, Jerry (Kathy) Schroeder of Horace, ND, Tim (Debbie) Schroeder and Lynn (Judy) Schroeder, all of Cavalier; nine grandchildren: Susie Tinnon of Glendale, AZ, Tami Tinnon of Peoria, AZ, Tom (Tori) Tinnon of Austin, TX, and Tari Tinnon of Phoenix, AZ, Karmel (Seth) Janz of Littleton, CO, Colin Schroeder of Thornton, CO, Bill (Heather) Loftsgard of Hoople, ND, Tiffany (Sean) Vannett of Devils Lake, ND, and Timothy Michael (Ashley) Schroeder of Cavalier; 18 great grandchilden; five great great grandchildren; sister, Willis Busse of Langdon, ND; and several nieces, nephews, and grandnieces and grandnephews.    She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband, Ted; grandson, Kipp Schroeder; great grandson, J.D. Warfield; brother, Magnus (Mike) Bjornson; sister-in-law, Doris Biliske-Otto; and brother-in-law, Clair Busse.    Her funeral service will be held at 2:00 pm, Friday, May 7th, 2021 at the Trinity United Methodist Church in Cavalier. A visitation will be held for two hours, from 12 noon to the start of the funeral (masks optional). Interment will be at Zion Cemetery, located two miles east of Cavalier.    Memorials are preferred to the Northeastern North Dakota Heritage Association or the charity of your choice.

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Edward T. Bernhoft - Unknown - April 30, 2021

Departed: 04/30/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Edward Theodore Bernhoft, 86, originally of Cavalier, North Dakota, passed away peacefully in Cameron Park, CA after a brief illness the morning of Friday, April 30, 2021 surrounded by his loving wife of 57 years, Eileen J Bernoft and his faithful canine pal, Dusty. Ed retired in California in 1998 after a 30+ year career as a credit union examiner with the Federal Government and an independent credit union consultant. This career allowed him and his family to experience many parts of this beautiful country - from DC to San Francisco to Denver and back to California. The education that he received from the University of North Dakota at Grand Forks prepared him for a career he loved and excelled in and he remained a loyal supporter of his alma mater and his fraternity, Sigma Chi, for the rest of his life. Go Fighting Hawks! Ed was a firm believer in giving back to the community. He completed many good works through his involvement in Rotary Club and his church. He is particularly proud of the men’s mentoring program that he helped to establish between the Mill Valley United Methodist Church and  San Quentin Prison. Many lives were positively touched by this program. Ed also loved to have a good time and had many friends with whom he enjoyed endless rounds of golf and bridge, cruises and road trips and a really great bottle of California wine. Ed was incredibly proud of his Icelandic heritage and North Dakotan roots and came back for August the Deuce celebrations whenever he could. His last wish was to come home and to be laid to rest with his brother, Orval Bernhoft, his parents, Olafur and Eygerdur Bernhoft, and his maternal grandparents, the Middals. He was also preceded in death by his sister, Doris MacDonald, late of Los Angeles, CA. He is survived by his wife, Eileen, his daughter, Joyce Bernhoft, his son, Edward S. Bernhoft, his nieces, Cyd Wilson, Elizabeth MacDonald, Cynthia Bayer and his nephews Orrin and Charles (Chuck) A. Bernhoft and many great nieces and nephews.

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Laverne Sommer - Unknown - April 28, 2021

Departed: 04/28/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Laverne K. Sommer, 95, was called to his Heavenly home on April 28, 2021 at Wedgewood Manor Nursing Home, Cavalier, ND.  Funeral services will be held Monday, May 3, 2021, at 10:00 a.m. at the Our Savior Lutheran Church, Cavalier, ND. Visitation will be held Sunday, May 2, 2021, from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. with a 7:00 p.m. prayer service at the Askew Funeral Home, Cavalier, ND. Burial will be held in the Cavalier Cemetery.

Laverne was born December 8, 1925 to John and Lillian (Kuschel) Sommer on a farm near Cavalier.  Laverne married Lenora Heuchert on October 9, 1948 at St. Paul’s Lutheran Church, rural St. Thomas, ND.  They operated a sugar beet and small grains farm southeast of Cavalier.

Laverne and Lenora had great faith in Jesus as their Savior and were active members of Our Savior Lutheran Church, Cavalier. Laverne also served on the Pembina County Memorial Hospital Board and during his tenure the Wedgewood Manor Nursing Home was built to serve the residents of the county.  He was also on the board for the Northern Valley Homes.   Laverne enjoyed sports and was an accomplished carpenter and woodworker.

Laverne is survived by his sons Curtis (Pam) Sommer, Fargo, and Kevin (Connie) Sommer, Cavalier.  He has four grandchildren and four great grandchildren:  Amy (Nick) Rosevear, Englewood, CO; Greg (Shelby) Sommer and Clara, Maddie, and Alaina, Maple Grove, MN; Evan (April) Sommer and Kameren, Cavalier; and Jeanna Sommer, Minneapolis, MN.  Also, brothers and sisters in law:  Richard Timian, Edwin (Dolores) Heuchert, Cavalier, and Larry (Ida) Heuchert, Grand Forks.

He was preceded in death by his parents, wife Lenora, infant daughter, and sister Arlys Timian.

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Pattie G Kiemele - Unknown - April 17, 2021

Departed: 04/17/2021 (Cavalier)

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Richard Dwight Winkler - Unknown - April 08, 2021

Departed: 04/08/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Richard Dwight Winkler, 64, of Neche, ND, passed away Thursday, April 8, 2021, at the Altru Hospital, Grand Forks, ND. Mass of Christian Burial will be held Friday, April 16, 2021 at 11:00 a.m. at the St. Nereus and Achilleus Catholic Church, Neche, ND. Visitation will be held Thursday, April 15, 2021 from 5:00-7:00 p.m. with a 7:00 p.m. prayer service at the church. Masks are recommended.

Dwight was born May 7, 1956, in Altona, Manitoba, to Lawrence and Marlene (Renaud) Winkler. He grew up in the Neche area and graduated from Neche High School in 1974. After high school Dwight joined the United States Army and was honorably discharged in 1977. On August 21, 1981, Dwight married Anna Sloan in Cavalier, ND. He was a jack of all trades and worked various jobs in the area. He was currently working as a mechanic at Motorcoach Industries in Pembina.

Dwight enjoyed spending time with his family and grandchildren. He also enjoyed cars and riding his motorcycle.

He is survived by his children: Misty Carriere; Douglas (Jennifer) Winkler; and Tiffany (Matthew) Nord, all of Neche, ND; grandchildren: Brianna Carriere, Jayme Beltran, Diesel and Dominic Winkler, and Christian and Brooklynn Nord; siblings: Darnell (Mary) Winkler, DaVonne (Jamie) Sloan, Duane Winkler, and DesaRae (Tom) Zaharia; and numerous aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his wife, Anna; parents, Lawrence and Marlene; and brother, Darwin Winkler.

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Herbert P. Vosper - Unknown - March 15, 2021

Departed: 03/15/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Herb Vosper, age 96, of Neche, ND died on Monday, March 15th at the Luther Memorial Home in Mayville, ND.  Herbert Paul Vosper was born October 6th, 1924 to Roy and Ruth Vosper.  He grew up and attended school in Neche, and then served two years in the military (Merchant Marines).   On May 6, 1947, Herb married Ramona Symington in Hallock, MN.   He farmed in the Neche area for many years with his beloved brother Wes.  Herb also had a Rupp dealership and sold snowmobiles, motorcycles, mini-bikes and go-carts.  He was active in the community with him being on the Neche Fire Department and also serving as fire chief.  Herb also was the mayor of Neche for several years.

When he retired in the early 1990s, Herb continued to stay busy restoring antique tractors (usually red) and then entering them in numerous parades and events around the area.  One of his greatest joys during his later years was to have his family and friends drive his beautiful tractors in a local parade or celebration.  His favorite celebration was the Pioneer Machinery Show that is held near Cavalier, ND where he won many “best of show” trophies for his tractors. During his last days on this earth, Herb stayed true to himself with him loving visits from his family and friends, drinking lots of Pepsi and also joking with the nurses that were taking care of him.

Herb is survived by his children:  DeNae (Jeff) Strand, Princeton, MN; JoNell (Bob) Hinnenkamp, Harwood, ND; Cindy (Greg) McColl-Hughes, Grand Forks, ND; Brenda (Darwin) Vosper-Johnson, Waterloo, IA and Scott Vosper, Nisswa, MN.  He also is survived by two of his siblings:  June Hanson and Ruth Gulbrandson, along with many nieces, nephews and cousins.  Herb’s grandchildren and step grandchildren include:  Aaron McColl, Katie McColl, Terry Hinnenkamp, Chris Hinnenkamp, Rob Hinnenkamp, Amy Strand, Sara Nelson, Brittany Horn and Jared Hughes.  His blessings also included many great grandchildren:  Adrianna, Amaya, Meelah, Scotty, Aspen, Joslyn, Jarrett, Elin and Callen.  Herb was preceded in death by his parents, wife-Ramona Vosper, son-Terry Vosper, brother-Wes Vosper, sister-Doreen Taber, grandson-Aaron McColl and son in law-Scott McColl.

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Joan P. Robbins - Unknown - March 14, 2021

Departed: 03/14/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Joan P. Robbins, 80, of Cavalier, ND passed away Sunday, March 14, 2021 at the Altru Hospital, Grand Forks, ND. A memorial service will be held Friday, March 19, 2021 at 1:00 p.m. at the Cavalier Presbyterian Church, Cavalier, ND. Masks and social distancing will be required.

Joan was born October 4, 1940, at Great Falls, Montana to Vatis and Vera (Aijala) Page. She grew up in Grand Forks where she graduated from Central High School. Joan then attended the University of North Dakota and then married William Robbins. They moved to Tucson, AZ, where she graduated from the University of Arizona. After moving to Minneapolis, she taught school in Edina and after moving to Cavalier taught at Hamilton and Neche, ND. In 1990, Joan moved to California where she substitute taught and later moved back to Cavalier where she taught Adult Education at the Cavalier Air Force Station.

She is survived by her sons, Charles (Lori) Robbins, Cavalier, ND and Scott Robbins, Hoople, ND; grandsons: Brady (Bailey), Spencer, and Brock Robbins, and Michael Robbins, and her sister, Sue Birilli, Sun City Roseville, CA.

Preceding her in death were her parents.

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Orval L. Reichert - Unknown - March 09, 2021

Departed: 03/09/2021 (Cavalier)

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Darren E. Blanchard - Unknown - March 04, 2021

Departed: 03/04/2021 (Cavalier)

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Douglas K. Olson - Unknown - February 26, 2021

Departed: 02/26/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Douglas “Doug” Olson, 68, passed away on February 26, 2021 at Pembina County Memorial Hospital in Cavalier, ND, due to complications of ALS (Lou Gehrig’s disease). A visitation will be held on Wednesday, March 3, 2021 from 5:00–7:00 pm at the Askew Funeral Home in Cavalier, ND. A memorial service will be held in his honor on Thursday, March 4, 2021 at 1:00 pm at the United Lutheran Church in Cavalier, ND. A webcast of the service will be available to watch on the funeral home website on Thursday afternoon. Social distancing and masks will be required.

Douglas Keith Olson was born December 28, 1952, to Keith and Alice (Sandgren) Olson in Grafton, ND. A lifelong resident of Pembina County, he spent his early years hot-rodding around the streets of his beloved Bathgate, ND, where he lived with his parents and his sister, Linda. He graduated from Neche High School in 1970 and attended the University of North Dakota and North Dakota State University.

Doug started farming at an early age with his dad, which blossomed into a decades-long, successful career in agriculture. He was proud of the business that he built. His shop was a frequent gathering point for fellow farmers, looking to celebrate or lament the latest weather event or local happening—perhaps over a Bud Light (or two).

In April 1970, he worked up the guts to ask his high school crush, Mary Beth Anderson, to their senior prom, sparking a lifelong love affair that carried him through to his last breath. The pair were married at Christ Lutheran Church in Neche, ND on June 28, 1974. They settled in Cavalier, ND and raised three children.

Doug’s love and zest for life were as strong as his broad shoulders. He was an avid reader, gardener, fisherman, and pheasant hunter. He adored his summer weekends at Woodland Resort in Devils Lake, ND, surrounded by friends who feel like family. He enthusiastically road-tripped to NASCAR races around the country, basked in the Florida sun, and enjoyed glorious beach sunsets over the Gulf of Mexico with Mary Beth during winters in retirement.

Doug is survived by his wife, Mary Beth; children: Traci (Justin) Elder, Edina, MN; Tricia (Stasha) Ler, Edina, MN; Tyler (Sarah) Olson, Plymouth, MN; grandchildren Samuel and Quinn Elder, Madeline and Nolan Ler, Colin and Benjamin Olson; sister, Linda (Jim) Dupre’, Rapid City, SD; and many loving aunts, cousins, nieces and nephews. Preceding him in death were his parents.

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William B Keena, Jr. - Unknown - February 25, 2021

Departed: 02/25/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: William Boyd Keena, Jr., 79, of Cavalier, ND, passed away Thursday, February 25, 2021, at the Pembina County Memorial Hospital, Cavalier, ND. A private memorial service will be held Friday, February 26, 2021.

William was born September 30, 1941, in Cavalier, ND, to William B. and Sarah (Anderson) Keena. Bill grew up in the Hamilton area, and graduated from Hamilton High School. He attended college at Mayville State University and then worked for Gregory Ford in Cavalier. Bill moved to California where he worked as a car salesman. He later returned to Cavalier.

He enjoyed riding his bike and playing tennis with his brother, Rodney.

He is survived by his daughter, Sarah (Chris) Hecht; two granddaughters; special friend, Eleanore Bonaime; and siblings: Maxine (Marvin) McIntyre, Rodney (Shirley) Keena, and Sharon (Dale) O’Hara.

He was preceded in death by his daughter, Claire Keena; parents; and siblings Ray and Audrey.

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Judy Hartz-Schmitz - Unknown - January 05, 2021

Departed: 01/05/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Judy Rae Hartz-Schmitz of Granger, Iowa passed away peacefully from cancer with her life-partner, Geoff Whitlow and family by her side on January 5, 2021. Judy was born on September 2, 1956 in Cavalier, ND. She grew up on the family farm and attended Cavalier Public School, graduating in 1974. Judy’s passion for music led to a double major in Vocal and Instrumental Music from Mayville State College. Judy lived in Minnewauken, ND for 11 years and taught K-12 Music. She moved to Granger, IA in 1990 where she was the K-12 Vocal Music teacher at Madrid Public School until retiring in 2014.  An annual highlight for the community was the Minnewauken and Madrid School K-12 Combined Christmas Concert well prepared and performed before a much appreciative audience in a packed gymnasium! Judy’s love for music led to singing at well over 300 weddings and funerals. In 7th grade, she sang at her first wedding. She was an accomplished musician playing at least 10 musical instruments. Judy loved her students, tutored them intensely and was blessed to see them advance their God-given talents in many ways.  One year during Judy’s tenure, Madrid had 17 entries in the Iowa State Music Contest and received 17 Superior ratings, truly exceptional by any standard at any school. Judy was a member of the Granger Emmanuel United Methodist Church. She supported the Madrid Performing Arts Council, the American Choral Director Association and the Music Teachers Association. Judy enjoyed baking delicious morsels to give away. She was a wonderful hostess as she prepared amazing appetizers and goodies for Super Bowl and Christmas parties.  She loved to play her piano and sing. She also played the piano at church. Judy is preceded in death by her parents, Emery Hartz and Lois (Peterson) Hartz, Cavalier, N. Dak. Judy is survived by her life-partner Geoff Whitlow, Granger, IA; sisters, Diana (Mike) O’Shaughnessy, Grand Forks, ND; Carol (Jim) Groven, Grand Forks, ND; brothers, Gary (Janet) Hartz, Poolesville, MD; Dale (Kay) Hartz, Maple Valley, WA; and David (Robin) Hartz, Cavalier, ND as well as 13 nieces and nephews and 22 grand nieces and nephews. Her family and friends will miss her beyond what words can express. The first service is scheduled on Saturday, April 24, 2021 at 11:00 am in the Madrid Community High School gymnasium in Madrid, Iowa.  The live stream for this service is  available at www.grangereumc.org, click on Facebook icon at the bottom of the home page.  A second service will be held at Trinity United Methodist Church in Cavalier, ND at 11:00 am on Tuesday, April 27, 2021.  This service will be webcast on www.askewfuneralhome.com shortly after the service. Go to Judy's obituary and the webcast is available.

Masks are required at both services. Memorials, in lieu of flowers can be sent to the Cavalier Trinity United Methodist Church, or the Granger Emmanuel Methodist Church or the Madrid Community Schools Vocal Music Department in Madrid, IA.

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Bert D. Olson - Unknown - January 05, 2021

Departed: 01/05/2021 (Cavalier)

Obituary Preview: Bert D. Olson, age 79 peacefully passed away January 5, 2021 of complications from the Covid virus. He was born March 25, 1941 in Grafton, ND the youngest son of Bert and Madeleine Olson of Glasston, ND.

Bert grew up on the family farm near Glasston, ND. He attended a one room school house a half mile east of the farm through grade 5 before moving on to Glasston public for grades 6 and 7 then   completing his grade school and high school education in Cavalier. He attended Mayville State College earning a degree in business from 1959 to 1963. On June 14, 1963 he married his childhood sweetheart Marlys Dietrich in Cavalier. The same year he attended basic training in the United States Air Force at Chanute Air force base in Amarillo, TX and took further training in Champaign, IL. He then became a member of the Fargo Air Guard. That same year he acquired Olson Motor Company which he successfully ran until 1994 when it was sold to Swanson Motors.

He was very much an entrepreneur! He ran a custom combining operation, Bert Olson Trucking, housing rentals, dealt in real estate, and owned The Red Bridge Inn, a bed and breakfast in Park Rapids, MN. He was involved in many community organizations; The Cavalier Chamber, The Baptist Church, Board of Directors of United Valley Bank, CII Retail Committee, an avid sports announcer at Cavalier high school football games, the host of the Saturday morning “Coaches Corner” on KXPO radio, and who wouldn’t remember his organization of floats in the annual Christmas Parade. He could be seen racing Division Street on his 4 wheeler making sure everything was timely and in order.

There was only ONE like him!! A servant of the Lord, a loving and dedicated husband, and sincerest friend. He was an avid sports fan. The high school quarterback, and 4 year starter on the Mayville State College football team. Never full of himself, and always offering a helpful hand to others to lift them up. If you were ever in need of most anything Bert was always there with never ending support. Mr. Cavalier as he was fondly referred to was his home, his pride, his lasting legacy. The towns people were his dearest friends and family.

Bert was very much an animal lover. Enjoying his evening walks through the paths he had cut through the bush on his 80 acres of land west of Cavalier. Sitting with his adored wife Marlys on their swing watching the deer frolic in the pasture beyond. They were always accompanied by their beloved dog Ginger more person than dog. Friends might stop by for a visit. Always a story to be told. “Did I ever tell you the story of ……” and the yarn would begin likely to be followed by the next. Never a dull moment in Bert’s presence.

There was seldom a time you didn’t hear his quick footsteps of his boots across the showroom floor at Olson Motors that converted to tennis shoes and white socks below his short pants in the summers. A welcome smile to lasting friends as well as strangers who entered in. Often having to wait for his attention as he competed a phone call, yet always worth the extra time it took just to share a moment of his time. He never did take to fancy I phones, but rather his flip phone. Patient to text the complication of digits to type even one letter. His texts likely short, but always heart felt. To write of his faithfulness as a friend, as a husband, as a supporter of Cavalier and his love of God would take pages!! We are all so thankful to call him our friend! Bert is survived by his wife, Marlys, brother Bob, sister-in-law and brother-in-law, Darlene and Dale, his nieces and nephews Jacki, Juli, Jay, Rob, Rick and Mike. He was preceded in death by his parents Bert and Madeleine Olson and niece Jana, sister-in-law, Kay,

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Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a notice that announces the death of a person, often with a brief account of their life and information about upcoming funeral and memorial arrangements. It is a way to publicly acknowledge the loss, celebrate the deceased's life, and inform the community of the death.

Where are obituaries usually published?

Obituaries are typically published in newspapers—both in print and online—as well as on dedicated digital memorial platforms, funeral home websites, and social media channels.

How does an obituary differ from a death notice?

An obituary is a more detailed account of a person's life and typically includes biographical details, achievements, and information about surviving family members. A death notice, on the other hand, is a shorter, more formal announcement of a person's passing, often limited to basic details such as name, date of passing, and funeral service information.

Who is responsible for writing an obituary?

Obituaries can be written by family members, friends, or the funeral home handling the services. In some cases, individuals pre-write their own obituaries, which are then edited or published by their loved ones after they pass away.

What information is typically included in an obituary?

An obituary often includes the full name of the deceased, dates of birth and death, a brief overview of their life story, family members, notable accomplishments, affiliations, and details on the funeral or memorial services.

How long after a death is an obituary usually published?

The publication of an obituary typically takes place within a few days after death to allow friends and community members to be aware of the death and make arrangements to attend services or offer condolences.

Is it mandatory to publish an obituary when someone dies?

No, it is not legally required to publish an obituary; it is done at the discretion of the family. However, many find it a helpful way to inform the community and honor the memory of the deceased.

How much does it typically cost to publish an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies widely depending on the publication or platform, length of the obituary, and the inclusion of photos or additional features. Newspapers often charge by the line or word, whereas online platforms may offer different packages.

What should one do if they can't afford to publish an obituary?

For those who cannot afford the cost of a traditional obituary in a newspaper, there are free or low-cost options available online, or they may use social media to share the information at no cost.

Can an obituary be published in more than one place?

Yes, an obituary can be published in multiple newspapers and online platforms to reach a wider audience. This is often done when the deceased has connections to different regions or communities.

How can one personalize an obituary?

An obituary can be personalized by including anecdotes, personal stories, quotes, or any other unique aspects that capture the essence of the deceased's life and personality.

Are photos commonly included with obituaries?

Yes, it is quite common to include a photo with an obituary. This helps readers to visually connect with the deceased, especially those who may not have seen them in recent years.

What is considered appropriate etiquette when writing an obituary?

Appropriate etiquette for writing an obituary includes being respectful and truthful, focusing on the positive aspects of the person's life, and ensuring that all survivors are correctly named and described. Sensitivity should be a priority, especially when discussing the cause of death.

Should causes of death be included in an obituary?

Whether or not to include the cause of death in an obituary is a personal choice. Some families prefer to keep this information private, while others may wish to share it, especially if it relates to a public awareness cause or charitable request.

How does one submit an obituary to a newspaper?

To submit an obituary to a newspaper, contact the obituary or classified section of the publication for submission guidelines and deadlines. Often, this can be done either online or through direct collaboration with a funeral home.

Can obituaries serve a legal purpose?

While obituaries are not legal documents, they can serve to notify distant friends or relatives of the death and can also serve as proof of death when canceling accounts, services, or subscriptions.

Is it necessary to include funeral or memorial service details in an obituary?

Including funeral or memorial service details is not necessary but can be helpful for those wishing to pay their respects. Some families choose only to notify family and close friends privately about the details of services.

How can one ensure the accuracy of the information in an obituary?

To ensure accuracy, double-check all facts, dates, names, and spellings with family members, and consider having another person review the obituary before publication.

What if I want to write something more like a life tribute than an obituary?

A life tribute is similar to an obituary but often more personal, detailed, and less formal. If you prefer to write a life tribute, you can certainly do so and focus on stories and memories that best reflect the person's life and impact on others.

How should surviving family members be listed in an obituary?

Surviving family members are usually listed in order of their relationship to the deceased, starting with the closest relatives. Take care to include all those who should be mentioned and clarify relationships as needed to avoid confusion.

What can families do with the online condolences received from an obituary posting?

Families can respond to online condolences to thank individuals for their support, create a keepsake book of the messages for remembrance, or use them as part of a memorial service to share the impact of the deceased’s life.

Is there a standard length for an obituary?

There is no standard length for an obituary. It can be as brief or as detailed as desired. However, costs may influence the length if the obituary is published in a paid space such as a newspaper.

Can an obituary be updated after it has been published?

Once an obituary is published in a newspaper, it typically cannot be updated. However, online obituaries can sometimes be edited or updated after initial publication. It's important to check with the specific platform on their policies regarding updates.