Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home (Frankfort-Ilion) Obituaries

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Edward J. Hassett - April 26, 1934 - June 02, 2023

Departed: 06/02/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: MOHAWK – Edward J. Hassett, age 89, of Mohawk, passed away peacefully, on Friday, June 2, 2023, at St. Elizabeth Medical Center, Utica.

He was born on April 26, 1934, in Mohawk, the son of John and Marie (McDonald) Hassett. Ed graduated from Mohawk High School and attended Ithaca College. Mr. Hassett was a veteran of the Korean Conflict, serving in the U.S. Navy, on the USS Bennington. He was CVA-20-AON 3rd class. On November 14, 1964, he was married to Shirley (Brown) Eysaman, at the Blessed Sacrament Church, Mohawk. In his early years, Mr. Hassett worked for the Valley Electric Co., Mohawk. Ed later worked for the Mohawk Post Office, for over 30 years, becoming the Postmaster, retiring in 1992. In his retirement, he drove school bus, for Mohawk Central School. Mr. Hassett was a member of the Blessed Sacrament Church, Mohawk. Ed was one of the last 4 letter athletes to graduate from Mohawk High School. He was a life-long avid fan of Syracuse University Orange, New York Giants and the New York Yankees. He enjoyed camping with his life-long friends. He most enjoyed spending time with his family, especially his wife, children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. The family will always remember Poppi reading “The Night Before Christmas”, to the children and grandchildren, on Christmas Eve.

Ed was a Mohawk Volunteer Fireman and member of the Renegade’s Firematic’s Team and Mohawk Firemen’s Exempt Club. He was also a member of the Mohawk School Board, Mohawk Municipal Board, Mohawk American Legion and was a coach for the Mohawk Little League. Ed also enjoyed going golfing, at Doty’s Golf Course, with his friends.

Surviving family members include his wife, Shirley; his children: Kim DeMayo and her husband, Mike, Julie Waseleski and her husband, Leo, Edward Eysaman and his wife, Cathy, Patti Platts and her husband, Paul, Carol Hall and her husband, Eric, Mike Hassett and his wife, Jade, Mark Hassett and his wife, Kylia; 19 grandchildren; 12 great-grandchildren; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

He was predeceased by his parents; 3 sisters: Mary James, Therese Ray and Helen Lynch; and 2 great-grandsons, Eli and Gavin.

Calling hours will be held on Thursday, June 8, 2023, from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m, at the Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s larger facility, located at 4309 Acme Rd. (old Main St.), between Ilion and Frankfort (315-895-7722).

The Mohawk American Legion Service will be held, on Thursday, June 8, 2023, at 5:30 p.m. and the Mohawk Fire Dept. Service will be held, on Thursday, June 8, 2023, at 5:45 p.m., at the funeral home.

Funeral Services will be held, on Friday, June 9, 2023, at 10:00 a.m., at the Blessed Sacrament Church, E. Main St., Mohawk, where a Memorial Mass will be celebrated by Father Tom Babiuch, Pastor. Burial will follow at Mohawk Cemetery. Anyone wishing to share a memory of Ed, or add to his online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

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Christina "Chris" DiNardo Jackson - July 12, 1933 - May 18, 2023

Departed: 05/18/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: MOHAWK – Christina “Chris” DiNardo Jackson, age 89, formerly of Catherine St., Mohawk, passed away peacefully, on Thursday, May 18, 2023, at St. Luke’s Home, New Hartford.

She was born on July 12, 1933, in Glen Cove, NY, the daughter of Fredrick Charles Podevin and Marion Lamond Podevin and graduated from Mohawk schools. Chris was employed as a receptionist, at Herkimer County Catholic Charities. She was a member of Grace Episcopal Church, Mohawk. Chris lived in California for over 20 years. She enjoyed her flower gardens.

Surviving family members include her four sons: Charles DiNardo and his wife, Mary, of NY Mills, Joseph DiNardo and his wife, Vickie, of Schuyler, Anthony DiNardo and his wife, Annette, of CA and Donald DiNardo and his wife, Yvette, of Oklahoma; her daughters: Marion DiNardo, of CA, Dawn Bower and her husband, Greg, of CA and Cathy Kubica; several grandchildren and great-grandchildren; her sister-in-law, Betty DiNardo; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

She was predeceased by her parents.

Chris was a member of the Anatomical Gift Program, at Upstate Medical Center.

Graveside Services will be held at a later date, at the convenience of the family, at the Mohawk Cemetery. Anyone wishing to share a memory of Chris, or add to her online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

Arrangements and supervision are entrusted to her Family Funeral Director, Don Applegate, at the Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s original location, at 102 West St., Ilion, NY 13357 (315-895-7722).

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Jennie L. Comes - January 13, 1928 - May 12, 2023

Departed: 05/12/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: ILION – Jennie L. Comes, age 95, of Fowler Place, Ilion, passed away peacefully, on Friday, May 12, 2023, at Faxton-St. Luke’s Healthcare, New Hartford.

She was born on January 13, 1928, in Cooperstown, NY, the daughter of John and Ida (Drew) Bala and attended Ilion High School. Jennie was employed at General Electric Co., in Utica, for 15 years. She later worked at CONMED, in Utica.

Surviving family members include her daughter, Dawn Harris and her husband, Thomas, of Sunrise Beach, MO; her sons, David Comes and his wife, Lorraine, of Mohawk and Donald Comes, of Ilion; 12 grandchildren; 36 great-grandchildren; 6 great-great granddaughters; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

She was predeceased by her sisters, Irene Peak, Shirley Kruz and Ethel Capece; her brothers, Jack, James and Harold Bala; and her daughter-in-law, Cheryl Comes.

Funeral Services will be held 2:00 p.m., Sunday, May 21, 2023, at the Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s original location, at 102 West St., Ilion, NY. Visitation will be held Sunday, from 1:00 p.m. to 2:00 p.m., at the funeral home, prior to the Funeral Services. Anyone wishing to share a memory of Jennie, or add to her online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

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Ronald "Ron" W. Schorer - April 02, 1931 - May 10, 2023

Departed: 05/10/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: MOHAWK – Ronald “Ron” W. Schorer, age 92, of Marshall Ave., Mohawk, passed away peacefully, on Wednesday, May 10, 2023, at Ellis Hospital, Schenectady, NY.

He was born on April 2, 1931, in Frankfort, the son of Prosper and Caroline (Seelbach) Schorer and attended Ilion schools. At one time, he was married to Elizabeth “Betty” McCumber. Ron later married Joan Tinkler, in 1965. She passed away on July 17, 2022. Ron was the owner and operator of Ron Schorer General Contractor, of Mohawk, specializing in being an electrician and plumber. He was a member of the Ilion Masonic Lodge.

Surviving family members include his daughter, Donna Papaleo and her husband, James, of Ilion; his son, Clifford Schorer and his wife, Linda, of Norfolk, VA; his grandchildren: Jennifer Papaleo, of Ilion, Jeffrey Papaleo, of Milwaukee, WI, Tammy Trumbauer, of Edwards, CO, Amber Griffis,of Ormond Beach, FL, Grover Trumbauer, of Virginia Beach, VA, Tyrina Ramage, of Norfolk, VA, Mariah Schorer Britt, of Windermere, FL, Amanda, Clifford, Shannon, Ashley, Sabastian, Dillan and Laresa Schorer; his brother, Steven Schorer, of Rome; his step grandchildren: Heather Lerch, Jordan Sochia and her husband, Eric and Savanah and her husband, Andrew Reynolds; his step great-grandchildren: Adriana Lerch and her wife, Erica, Dakota and Autumn Lerch, Rickie Lerch III, Serinna, Myah and Summer Sochea; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

He was predeceased by his son, Ronald Schorer, Jr; his daughters, Christine Trumbauer and Georgianne Nabor; his step sons: Duane and James Loce; and his grandson, Jeff DePasquale.

A Celebration of Ron’s Life and Committal Service will be held 1:00 p.m., Friday, June 9, 2023, at Mt. View Memorial Gardens, Shells Bush Rd., East Herkimer (Town of Little Falls), NY. Anyone wishing to share a memory of Ron, or add to his online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

Ron’s service arrangements and supervision were prearranged and entrusted to his Family Funeral Director and friend, Don Applegate, at the Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s original location, at 102 West St., Ilion, NY (315-895-7722).

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Lawrence W. Brunette, Sr. - October 16, 1941 - May 08, 2023

Departed: 05/08/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: MILLERS MILLS – Lawrence “Larry” W. Brunette, Sr., age 81, of Millers Mills Road, West Winfield (Town of Columbia), went peacefully, to join his wife, Claudia, on Monday, May 8, 2023.

He was born on October 16, 1941, in Ilion, the son of Lawrence J. and June (Ackler) Brunette and attended West Winfield School. He was a Veteran, serving in the U.S. Marines. On April 24, 1966, he was married to Claudia Roberts, in Hartwick, NY. She died on April 26, 2022. Larry was an assembler at Union Fork & Hoe Co., for over 30 years. He enjoyed camping, fishing, hiking and playing Yahtzee with his wife, Claudia.

Surviving family members include his children: Misty Duncan and her husband, Ken, of Ilion, Barb Brunette and her fiancé, Jason, of Troy, NY, Lawrence Brunette, Jr. and his wife, Amber, of Ilion and Bill Brunette and his wife, Victoria, of Ilion; 21 special grandchildren; and 16 great-grandchildren who he adored; his sisters, Ora Anne Gilbert and her husband, Edward, of Hannawa Falls, NY, and Linda Slobodian, of Waterville, NY; his brother, Robert Brunette and his wife, Koren, of Newland, NC; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

He was predeceased by his parents; his wife, Claudia; his sister, Janet Bellstedt; and his grandson, Joshua.

Calling hours will be held 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m., on Thursday, May 11, 2023, at the Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s larger location, at 4309 Acme Rd. (old Main St.), between Ilion and Frankfort. A Celebration of Life Prayer Service will be held immediately following calling hours, at 6:00 p.m., at the funeral home. Anyone wishing to share a memory of Larry, or add to his online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

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Mary Jane Smithson - May 01, 1941 - April 17, 2023

Departed: 04/17/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: ILION – Mary “Jane” (Foisy) Smithson, age 81, of Ilion, passed away, on Monday, April 17, 2023, at St. Elizabeth Medical Center, Utica.

In keeping with Jane’s wishes, there will be no scheduled calling hours or services at this time. Anyone wishing to share a memory of Jane, or add to her online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

Please omit flowers. As an expression of sympathy, memorial contributions may be made to the Ilion Ambulance Fund, Central Fire Station, Ilion, NY 13357, or the Herkimer Community Cat Project, c/o Lynne Orendorf, 7 Michigan Ave., Ilion, NY 13357.

Jane’s family has entrusted her arrangements to their Family Funeral Director and long time friend, Don Applegate, at the Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s original location, at 102 West St., Ilion, NY (315-895-7722).

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Fern L. Helmer - December 21, 1935 - April 12, 2023

Departed: 04/12/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: MOHAWK – Fern L. (Wilson) Helmer, age 87, formerly of Mohawk, passed away peacefully, on Wednesday, April 12, 2023, at St. Luke’s Hospital, New Hartford, NY, with her family by her side.

She was born on December 21, 1935, in Mohawk, the daughter of William and Eva Irene (Myers) Wilson and attended Mohawk schools. On January 26, 1952, she was married to James “Jim” R. Helmer, in Mohawk. He died on August 1, 2016. She worked at Beechnut Nutritious Foods, in Canajohaire, NY, for 39 years, retiring in 1997. She was a member of Blessed Sacrament Church, Mohawk and Ilion-Frankfort VFW Post 502 Auxiliary. After her retirement, some of her biggest joys in life were playing Bingo and going to the Casino.

Surviving family members include her daughter and son-in-law, Donna and Michael Weller, of Ilion; her son, James R. Helmer, Jr., of Mohawk; her grandchildren, Jackie and Jim Kelly, Scott Helmer, Jamie and Kirk Hilts, Francis Helmer, Jr., Amber Helmer, Jean Helmer, Susan Helmer, Darren Helmer, Andrew Helmer, Teena Broadbent, Lionel Weller and Shawn Steinburg and Jim Burke; her great-grandchildren, Caroline Kelly, James Kelly, Alex Helmer, Victoria Helmer, Brynlee Helmer, Madeline Helmer, Hayden Hilts, Emalyn Hilts, Jenna Broadbent, Logan Walker, Devin Walker, Brett Hilts, Joey Helmer, Kyle and Michelle Benjamin and Michelle Benjamin; her great-great grandchildren, Olivea Gaines, Kyler, Trevor, Logan and Kinsley Benjamin; her brothers-in-law, Kenneth Helmer, Harold Moss and Dick Hadcock; several nieces, nephews and cousins; and many friends.

She was predeceased by her son, Francis D. Helmer; her parents; her sisters, Mildred Wilson, Shirley Bereza, Mary Myers, Bertha Eysaman and Elizabeth Hadcock; her brothers, William, Charles, Richard and Seymour Wilson; and her daughter-in-law, Karen Helmer.

Calling hours will be held on Friday, April 21, 2023, from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m., at the Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s original location, at 102 West St., Ilion, NY. A Funeral Service and Celebration of Fern’s Life will follow, at 1:00 p.m., at the funeral home. Burial will be in Mohawk Cemetery, next to her husband, Jim. Anyone wishing to share a memory of Fern, or add to her online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

The family wishes to thank St. Luke’s ICU doctors and nurses. A special thanks to Nicole, Toni and Andrea.

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Winifred H. Kane - December 26, 1928 - April 08, 2023

Departed: 04/08/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: Winifred (Hight) Kane passed away April 8th, 2023. Winnie was born on December 26, 1928, as the daughter of the late Floyd and Marguerite (Williams) Hight. She was a graduate of Frankfort High School and a longtime resident of Schuyler.

She was seventeen when she graduated in 1946. It just so happened that her future husband, Roy Kane, returned from the Navy that same year. Even at seventeen, Winnie was the type of person who knew exactly what she wanted. She gently made sure that he would run into her; she often said,“I chased him until he caught me”.

Winnie married the love of her life, Fred “Roy” Kane on October 30, 1948. From then on practically everything Winnie ever did, she did in tandem with Roy: they milked cows together; she unloaded hay wagons as he worked up in the haymow; when Roy came home with a deer they packaged meat together; they were forever dance partners, from ballroom to square dance; and they went on lunch dates in every diner within a fifty mile radius of Schuyler. Roy and Winnie enjoyed beautiful vacations together and brought balance to their everyday lives. Roy never wrote a check in his life, while Winnie was a fabulous bookkeeper. Roy was the life of the party and Winnie loved to laugh. They shared a love that would compel Roy to drive 100 miles to get her a special pair of shoes; they were a great pair. Even in her last years if you asked Winnie about her life she would tell you “I had a great life” and then tell you about Roy.

Winnie is survived by two loving sons, Scott and Eric, along with their wives Sharon and Nancy. As well as a terrific sister-in-law Esther Goodson and a caring son-in-law William Chapman. She also leaves six grandchildren Andrew Conley, Carey (Conley) Stewart, Rachel (Kane) Mucurio, Dulcie (Kane) Tyo, Brandon Kane and Ruth (Kane) Buchard. She leaves sixteen great-grandchildren: Maureen, Bradley, Sean, Brook, Korin, Evelina, Emily, Madelyn Samantha, Ronald, Faith, Alexandria, Jack, Samuel, Gabriel, and Valerie.

Winnie was predeceased by her beloved daughter, Valerie Conley Chapman, who died too soon, as well as Val’s first husband, Daniel Conley. Winnie was also predeceased by her sisters, Evelyn Bristol, Ruth Olds and Helen Ricci; as well as her brothers, C. Gordon Hight and Claude Hight, and their spouses. Her In-laws who passed before her were Harold (Shyke) Kane, Margaret Ludwig, Hamilton Kane, Ida Doremus, and their spouses.

Winnie spent her final years at The Grand in Ilion. The family would like to thank The Grand for the care provided since 2018.

In keeping with Winnie’s wishes there will be no public calling hours. Her family will gather privately to bid their farewells.

Winifred’s final wishes were pre-arranged and entrusted to the Enea, Ciaccia, Applegate Family Funeral Directors. Online notes of sympathy may be left at www.eneafamily.com.

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Rosemarie (Thibault) Squire - November 17, 1933 - March 24, 2023

Departed: 03/24/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: ILION – Rosemarie (Thibault) Squire, age 89, formerly of Ilion, passed away peacefully, on Friday, March 24, 2023, at Foltsbrook Center, Herkimer, NY.

She was born on November 17, 1933, in Clinton, NY, the daughter of Lucien and Adrienne (Tourigny) Thibault and graduated from Ilion High School. On June 29, 1957, Rosemarie was married to Charles G. Squire, Jr., in Ilion. Charles passed away in 2008. At one time, she was employed at Carter & Manley Law Office, in Ilion. She was a member of the Church of the Annunciation.

Surviving family members include her 3 children: Robert Squire and his wife, Vicki, of Ilion, NY, Christina Holgate and her husband, Paul, of Cazenovia, NY and Debora Cullen and her husband, Peter, of Amherst, NY; 10 grandchildren; 7 great-grandchildren; her brother, Lawrence Thibault and his wife, Jeanne, of Roanoke, TX; and several nieces, nephews, and cousins.

She was predeceased by her parents; her husband, Charles; her son, David Squire; and her brother, Charles Thibault.

Funeral Services will be held 10:30 a.m., Thursday, March 30, 2023, at the Church of the Annunciation, West St., Ilion, where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated by Pastor Paul Catena. The family will receive friends and relatives at the conclusion of the Church Service. There are no scheduled calling hours.

The family would like to thank the staff at St. Elizabeth Hospital and Foltsbrook Center. They felt incredibly supported and are so appreciative of the tender and loving care their mom received. Anyone wishing to share a memory of Rosemarie, or add to her online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

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Paul A. Kidder - November 18, 1946 - March 24, 2023

Departed: 03/24/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: COLUMBIA - Paul A. Kidder passed away peacefully from this earth, on the morning of March 24, 2023. He was born in the Town of Dixfield, Maine, on November 18, 1946, to parents, Wallace and Evelyn Kidder.

After graduating from the University of Maine, Paul served in the United States Navy, from 1969 to 1992 and achieved the rank of Commander before retiring. Upon retirement from the Navy, he worked for the NYS Department of Labor Veterans Affairs, Susquehanna Railroad Company, Clarks Sports Center and Pathfinder Village.

Paul and wife Deborah were married on June 6, 1970.

Paul is survived by his wife, Deborah Kidder; daughter, Kristen King (husband Clark King); grandsons, Spencer and Garret; son, Kyle Kidder (wife Lindsay); granddaughters, Violet, Everly and Penelope; sister, Wendy Pleeter (husband Dan Pleeter); niece, Megan; brother, James Kidder; and nephew, Dustin.

He was predeceased by his son, Michael Kidder (August 1976).

In addition to his various employments, both full and part time, Paul was a volunteer for a host of community organizations and clubs over the years, including Mt. Markham Optimists, Town of Columbia Planning Board, Otsego Land Trust Board Member, Utica Camera Club, Fort Schuyler Club, Millers Mills Grange Member, NYS Canal way Water Trail Steward and many others that we’ve probably forgotten along the way.

There are not enough pages to begin to list the travels and adventures he embarked upon in his lifetime. While some of these were done alone or with old Navy friends, those cherished most were the Memorial Day hikes with his sister and family, backyard trips with grandkids and world explorations with his beloved “Sam”.

Paul was an avid cyclist, hiker, outdoor enthusiast, cider maker, photographer, reader, comedy fan, blues and jazz music lover, donut eater and crossword puzzle solver. Labor of loves included mowing the backyard ball field and church cemetery. Spring was met with a trip to the sap house and preparing the grandkids bikes for summer rides.

Lastly, in fitting fashion, we found these remarks in his memorial instructions - “ I would have to say the probability of us dying seems extremely high” - Pythogoras. “Papa” left suddenly but in true form without any fuss. He’ll be missed but our memories will endure.

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Betty J. Miller - August 21, 1924 - March 17, 2023

Departed: 03/17/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: Betty J. Miller August 21, 1924 – March 17, 2023 Sunset on the evening star, One clear call for me, May there be no moaning of the bar,

When I put out to sea.

ILION - I have always liked this poem by Tennyson. If you are reading it today, I have crossed that bar, and, hopefully, I have reached a safe harbor.

No one knows my life better than me, so let me start at the beginning.

I was born in Spencer, Iowa, on August 21, 1924. My parents were Roy and Marie Donaldson Morris. After me, there was a brother, Richard, and a sister, Phyllis. My mother was one of eight children, and my father was one of thirteen, so there were always lots of aunts and uncles and cousins by the dozens. It was a happy life until World War ll.

I graduated from high school in1941 and later attended a business college in Omaha, Nebraska. I was employed by a local insurance company there. Being war time and knowing that we were all very patriotic ladies, my friends and I frequently attended the dances for the servicemen stationed at the local YMCA. It was at one of those dances that a very handsome young Marine, Paul Miller, asked me to dance. Little did I know he would someday become my husband. Paul was sent to the Pacific War Zone, served on Iwo Jima and saw the American flag being raised at the end of that terrible battle. He went on to be among the first Marines to serve in occupied Japan. Paul returned safely, and we were married in November of 1946 beginning our married life together. We had four children, and Paul was a great husband, a loving father, and a doting grandfather. We were able to take many trips with our children and enjoyed many summers at Lake Pleasant, near Speculator, NY. Life was good through all those years until June of 1994, when Paul passed away. He was so greatly missed by all of us. Still, time and tide waits for no man, and life goes on. Every life has its good times and bad times, but we had far more good times than bad!

A huge thank you to our children and their families who have always been so kind to me through the years. You are all such a blessing and have given me so much to be thankful for. ….And to the Reynolds/Brewer family—We spent so many, many Thanksgivings together highlighted by all of those backyard football games!!! Who can forget those delightful and delicious desserts on Thanksgiving night!?! What great memories!!

….And then, to all of my friends with whom I spent so many good times including The Ilion Historical Club ladies, the Ilion Hospital Guild, Ilion Garden Club, the Tuesday lunch girls, the Bridge club and Skip Bo girls, the Mah-Jong gals, Red Hat girls, my election buddies, the Friends of the Library, and to those who put up with me on the golf course and to anyone else who happened to be part of my life. I thank you!! Also, let me offer a big thank you to all those who answered my often frantic phone calls to save me from one disaster or another. I have truly enjoyed my life, and I believe all of our lives are destined to be exactly as we live them. I am so thankful that mine was such a good one!

Survivors include our sons and their wives, Timothy and his wife, Beverly, Thomas and his wife, Ellen; Dennis and his wife, Holly, and our daughter, JoAnne and her husband, Frank.

Surviving grandchildren include Ryan and Darren Miller, and their wives, Melissa and Johanna, respectively; Elizabeth and Christina Kucerak; Phoebe and Sophie Miller; and Nicholas and Michael Miller. Surviving great grandchildren are Brady and Colin Miller. To all of my surviving nieces and nephews and cousins and their familes, thanks, too, for adding so much joy and love to my life!

My brother, Richard and his wife, Shirley, as well as my sister, Phyllis and her husband, Wally, have all gone on before me. Special thanks to Nan Reynolds Grindle who came to see me at Alpine Nursing Home every Tuesday and Friday. Your many, many kindnesses, as well as your sense of humor, made these past months more bearable. Love you, Nan! To Tudy Brooks, Rita Entwistle and Claude Boyle, thanks for all of the lunches and laughs we shared through the years! To Joanne Murphy, thanks for all of your many kindnesses over the past couple of years before I went to live at Alpine. You were wonderful! Lastly, let me express my deepest thanks to Dick Griffith for your time, your kindness, and all of your handyman skills! There was nothing you couldn’t fix, Dick! You have always held a very special place in my heart! Thanks for visiting me every weekend. It meant so much!

There will be no calling hours or funeral at this time. Applegate funeral home will be in charge of any future arrangements.

If you wish to make a donation in my memory, please consider the Ilion Library or the Ilion Ambulance. Always remember, a hug is a circle of love. Hug Often!!

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Virginia Vandawalker - January 15, 1939 - March 03, 2023

Departed: 03/03/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: ILION – Virginia “Ginny” A. Vandawalker, age 84, of Elm St., Ilion, passed away peacefully, on Friday, March 3, 2023, at The Grand, in Ilion.

She was born on January 15, 1939, in Ilion, the daughter of Leon and Marion (Steele) Vandawalker and graduated from Ilion High School. Virginia worked at Marine Midland Bank, later HSBC, for 35 years, as a bookkeeper, floating teller, computer specialist, supervisor of the Thrift Dept. and operations officer, before retiring in 1994. She was a volunteer for Toys For Tots and very active in various organizations in Ilion High School. For The play, “The Boyfriend”, she made 90 costumes and also made costumes for the “Nunsence Girls”, of Ilion. Her love and talent for sewing was inherited from her mother, Marion. Ginny has made many bridal gowns, bride’s maids’ dresses and prom dresses. Also, she made several Raggedy Ann & Andy dolls for the St. Augustine’s Church Craft Fair. Ginny made Raggedy Ann & Andy dolls and Halloween costumes for many of her nieces. She was a wonderful Quilter. May Ginny be fondly remembered by all who knew her.

Surviving family members include her sisters-in-law, Kathleen “Kathie” Vandawalker and Pamela “Pam” Vandawalker; and many nieces, nephews and cousins.

She was predeceased by her parents; 2 brothers, Ralph and Roger Vandawalker; and her sister, Jean Runyon.

In keeping with Virginia’s wishes, Graveside Services will be held 1:30 p.m., Thursday, May 25, 2023, at Armory Hill Cemetery, Benedict Ave., Ilion. Anyone wishing to share a memory of Virginia, or add to her online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

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Daisy M. Hoover - March 06, 1925 - February 05, 2023

Departed: 02/05/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: MOHAWK – Daisy M. Hoover, age 97, of Mohawk, passed away, on Sunday, February 5, 2023, at St. Elizabeth Medical Center, Utica.

She was born on March 6, 1925, in Des Moines, Iowa, the daughter of Earl and Alice (Bezona) Eitel and attended Des Moines, Iowa schools. At one time, she was married to William Guy Weller, who died many years ago. She later married John “Jack” R. Hoover, on December 16, 1972, in Elkton, MD. He died on May 7, 2001. In her early years, she worked at Sperry Rand Univac, Ilion and Utica, MDS and Laser Precision. Daisy and her husband, Jack, operated Daisy Health Care Products, in Mohawk, for about 12 years, before she retired. She attended the Ilion Methodist Church.

Surviving family members include her daughters, Peggy Hysack and her husband, Frank, of Mohawk and Carol Rioux and her husband, Paul, of CA; her sons, William Weller and his wife, Karen, of Amsterdam and Michael Weller and his wife, Donna, of Ilion; many grandchildren and great-grandchildren; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

She was predeceased by her sister, Anita Templeton; and her brother, William McGraw.

Visitation will be held, on Saturday, February 11, 2023, from 12 noon to 1:00 p.m., at the Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s original location, at 102 West St., Ilion. Funeral Services will be held, at 1:00 p.m., Saturday, at the funeral home, following the visitation. Anyone wishing to share a memory of Daisy, or add to her online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

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Joan JoAnn C. (McKenna) Joy - February 14, 1934 - February 02, 2023

Departed: 02/02/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: ILION – Joan “JoAnn” C. (McKenna) Joy, age 88, of Ilion, passed away peacefully, on Thursday, February 2, 2023, at Valley Health Services, Herkimer, with her family by her side.

She was born on February 14, 1934, in Ilion, the daughter of James and Julia (McCoy) McKenna and graduated from Ilion High School, in 1952. JoAnn married Joseph “Joe” Joy, in August, 1956, at the Church of the Annunciation, Ilion. After Joe’s passing, in 1968, JoAnn was a stay at home mom, raising her 3 sons, Joe, Andrew and Douglas Joy. After the boys were older, JoAnn re-entered the work force, at Ilion High School and later the Ilion Police Department and most recently, Homogeneous Metals, where she retired, in 1990.

JoAnn was a fixture in the Village of Ilion, having lived there her entire life. Known for her quick wit, love of reading, walking and especially love for her family, she will be dearly missed by many.

Surviving family members include her 3 sons, Joseph Joy and his wife, Lori, of Ilion, Andrew Joy, of Myrtle Beach, SC and Douglas Joy, of Herkimer; her cherished grandchildren, Patrick Joy and his fiancée, Leah, of Fredricksburg, TX, Alex Joy and his wife, Maree, of Rome, Adam Joy and Andrew Joy, of Herkimer; 3 great-grandchildren, Bentley, Elizah and Payton; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

JoAnn was predeceased by her parents, James and Julia McKenna; her sister, Mary Greenfield and her husband, Vincent; her brothers, John McKenna and his wife, Nira and Edward McKenna and his wife, Dorothy. Anyone wishing to share a memory of JoAnn, or add to her online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

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Judith J. Butler - August 16, 1939 - January 26, 2023

Departed: 01/26/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: MOHAWK – Judith J. Butler, age 83, of E. Main St., Mohawk, passed away peacefully, on Thursday, January 26, 2023, at Valley Health Services, Herkimer.

Judy’s service arrangements and supervision are entrusted to her Family Funeral Director and friend, Don Applegate, of Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s original location, at 102 West St., Ilion, NY 13357 (315-895-7722).

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Lillian J. Rose - March 26, 1936 - January 09, 2023

Departed: 01/09/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: ILION – Lillian J. Rose, age 86, of Gage Road, Ilion, passed away on Monday, January 9, 2023, after a brief illness, with her family by her side.

Born on March 26, 1936 in Ilion, Lillian was the daughter of the late James and Lillian (Hathaway) Oviatt. She was raised and educated locally and attended Ilion schools. On April 25, 1952, she was married to Edward C. Rose, Sr. in Frankfort, and together they shared in a blessed union of over sixty-seven years, until Ed’s passing on May 11, 2019.

For a time, Lillian was employed with Mele Manufacturing, General Electric and at the Folts Home in the laundry department. Her primary focus, however, was always on the well being of her husband and children. She enjoyed reading, puzzles, crosswords and crocheting, all which helped to keep her mind sharp. She also loved scary movies and her daily television shows. She held an appreciation for nature and enjoyed camping with her family. She also adored her pet birds and her puppy!

Surviving family members include her daughters, Susan Bevins and her husband, Roy, of Ilion and Debra Leonard and her husband, Tony, of Mocksville, NC; her son, Edward C. Rose, Jr., of Ilion; her six grandchildren, Joseph Rose, Amanda Dillard and her husband, Scotty, Sarah Bevins, Roy Bevins, Jr. and his wife, Stephanie, Tracey O’Bryan, and Jennifer Frasier and her husband, Jared; her fifteen great-grandchildren, Blake and his fiancée, Hannah Thompson, Emma, Morgan, Cheyenne, Olivia, Carter, Jayden, Isabella, Quinn, Alayna, Caleb, Kiiya, Beckett, Jordan and Thayer; and her great-great granddaughter, Layla Rose. She also leaves her in-laws, Floyd and Veronica Rose of Ilion and Helen Rose of New Hartford, along with many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, cousins and friends.

She was predeceased by her parents, husband, infant son, Carl Rose, in 1958 and her sisters and brothers-in-law, Alice and Alton Beech, Gladys and Clarence White, Ruth and Jerome Stanley and Dorothy Foster.

Friends and relatives are invited to attend calling hours on Sunday, January 15, 2023 from 2:00PM – 4:00PM at the Applegate-Day & Enea Family’s larger facility, located at 4309 Acme Road, Town of Frankfort, Ilion, NY (315) 894-8000. Lillian’s funeral service and Celebration of Life will commence on Sunday at 4:00PM at the funeral home, immediately upon the conclusion of visitation. Spring interment will take place in Mt. View Memorial Gardens.

For those wishing to do so, please consider memorial contributions to the American Diabetes Association, PO Box 7023, Merrifield, Virginia, 22116. Envelopes will be available at the funeral home.

Lillian’s final wishes have been entrusted to the Enea, Ciaccia and Applegate funeral directors. Online notes of sympathy may be left at www.eneafamily.com.

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Jane Urtz - March 25, 1934 - January 05, 2023

Departed: 01/05/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: MOHAWK – Jane Urtz, age 88, of Catherine St., Mohawk, passed away, on Thursday, January 5, 2023, at St. Elizabeth Medical Center, Utica.

She was born on March 25, 1934, in Utica, NY, the daughter of Leamon and Ethel (Bunce) Steele and graduated from Mohawk Central School. On September 1, 1972, she was married to David Urtz. He died on August 17, 2022. Jane was employed as a bookkeeper, at Holt Bros., of Mohawk, for 30 years, retiring in 1966. She was very fond of cats.

Surviving family members include her son, Jeffrey Crutcher and his wife, Susan, of Poughkeepsie, NY; her grandson, James Crutcher, of Whispering Pines, NC; her great-granddaughter, Sierra; her brothers-in-law, Harold Blovat, of Ilion and Don Urtz and his wife, Joyce, of Richfield Springs, NY; her sister-in-law, Lorraine (Urtz) Covell, of Ilion; several nieces and nephews, including Susan Meeker and her husband, Don, Beth LaBarge and her husband, Dennis, Chester and Billy Blovat and Wendy Chapman and her husband, Brad and her children, Bambi and Rock.

She was predeceased by her stepson, David Urtz, in 1979; her husband, David, in 2022; her parents, her sisters, Eileen Blovat and Lois Treen; and her stepsister, Doris Windecker.

Visitation will be held 11:00 a.m. to 12 noon, on Friday, January 13, 2023, at the Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s original location, at 102 West St., Ilion. Funeral Services will be held at 12 noon, Friday, January 13, 2023, at the funeral home, at the conclusion of visitation. Anyone wishing to share a memory of Jane, or add to her online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

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Glenis Heiland - April 12, 1939 - January 03, 2023

Departed: 01/03/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: ILION-CEDARVILLE – Glenis Heiland, 83, of Cedarville, passed away, on Tuesday, January 3, 2023.

She was born on April 12, 1939, in Corinth, NY, the daughter of Glendon Shipman and Ada (Colson) Shipman. She graduated from Ilion High School. On November 12, 1958, she was married to William R. “Bill” Heiland, at the St. Augustine’s Episcopal Church, Ilion. He died on February 12, 2007. In her early years, she held several administrative positions, at UNIVAC and Duofold. Most recently, in the 1980’s, Glenis co-founded the Superior Home Healthcare, of Mohawk. She enjoyed quilting, crafts and traveling to the St. Lawrence and other trips, with her husband. Glenis had a deep love for animals.

Surviving family members include her daughters, Tamara “Tami” Heiland and her fiancé, Steven LaValley, of Herkimer and Laurie Heiland-Crouch and her husband, James, of Ilion; her 5 grandchildren, Christina Pafumi and her husband, Larry, of Maine, William Bellstedt, of Herkimer, Janelle Crouch-Murray and her husband, Seamus, of Syracuse, Karl Rice, of Frankfort and Journey Crouch, of Ilion; her 4 great-grandchildren, Syd Williams, of Maine, Allison Bellstedt, of Kentucky, Dana Rice and Charlotte Rice, of Ilion; her sister, Luella Harper, of Ilion; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.

She was predeceased by her husband, Bill; her parents; her brothers, Bruce and George Shipman; and her sister, Annabelle Shipman.

Calling hours will be held on Friday, January 6, 2023, from 3:30 p.m. to 5:30 p.m., at the Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s original location, at 102 West St., Ilion. Funeral Services will be held 5:30 p.m., Friday, at the funeral home. Anyone wishing to share a memory of Glenis, or add to her online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

A special heart felt thank you to Jeana Shipman-Case for the love and compassion coordinating her care.

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John M. Jennett - April 23, 1965 - January 01, 2023

Departed: 01/01/2023 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: MOHAWK – John M. Jennett, age 57, of Marshall Ave., Mohawk, NY, passed away, on Sunday, January 1, 2023, at St. Elizabeth Medical Center, Utica, NY.

John’s service arrangements are entrusted to his Family Funeral Director, Don Applegate, at Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s original location, at 102 West St., Ilion (315-895-7722).

A complete obituary will follow.

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John Kolkowski - November 28, 1950 - December 30, 2022

Departed: 12/30/2022 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: John Felix Kolkowski, age 72, a lifelong Mohawk Valley resident, passed away peacefully on Friday afternoon, December 30, 2022, at The Grand at Mohawk Valley, where he had been residing for these last few months.

Born in Little Falls on November 28, 1950, John was the son of the late Joseph and Aniela (Wojteczak) Kolkowski. He was raised and educated locally and worked as a machinist for the Cherry-Burrell Corp in Little Falls.

John is survived by his sister, Donna Kaleta; brother-in-law, Leszek; and nephews, Adam and Joe. He was predeceased by his parents and his brothers, Adam and Edward Kolkowski.

John's graveside service will be held at the convenience of his family. His earthly remains will be laid to rest in St. Mary's Cemetery, East Herkimer.

Final arrangements have been entrusted to the Enea, Ciaccia and Applegate Funeral Directors.

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John Patrick Stubley, Sr. - November 09, 1962 - December 26, 2022

Departed: 12/26/2022 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: ILION-CAROGA LAKE – John Patrick Stubley, Sr., age 60, of Caroga Lake, NY, formerly of Ilion, passed away peacefully, on Monday, December 26, 2022, at home.

John’s service arrangements are entrusted to his long time family friend and Funeral Director, Don Applegate, of the Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s original location, at 102 West St., Ilion, NY (315-895-7722).

A complete obituary will follow.

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Carol Price - June 06, 1944 - December 20, 2022

Departed: 12/20/2022 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: ILION – Mrs. Carol Price, age 78, a longtime Ilion resident, passed away peacefully on Tuesday morning, December 20, 2022, at Little Falls Hospital.

Born in Windsor, Vermont on June 6, 1944, Carol was the daughter of the late Dean and Geraldine (Hill) Cole. Her childhood was spent in Downsville, NY before relocating with her family to Schenectady where she graduated from Mont Pleasant High School.

On June 25, 1966, Carol was married to Darrel L. Price in Bennington, Vermont, and together they shared in a blessed union of over forty-one years until Darrell’s passing on January 17, 2008. For many years, Carol was employed with Lu-Bere Corsetry, Inc. in Utica.

Carol is survived by her daughter, Cindy Yager and husband, Perley, of Ilion; by her three sons, Darrel C. Price and wife, Brenda, of Ilion, Kevin Jette and wife, Michelle, of Connecticut, and Scott Jette of Rome; by her sister, Pam Pritts; and several grandchildren, great-grandchildren and in-laws.

In keeping with Carol’s wishes, there will be no formal funeral services. Her final arrangements have been entrusted to the Enea, Ciaccia & Applegate Funeral Directors. Online notes of sympathy may be left at www.eneafamily.com.

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Verna M. Gydesen - September 19, 1933 - May 28, 2022

Departed: 05/28/2022 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: ILION – Verna M. Gydesen, age 88, formerly of Ilion, passed away peacefully on Saturday, May 28, 2022, at Valley Health Services in Herkimer with her loving daughter, Janet, by her side. She was born on September 19, 1933 to John and Lois (Petrie) Harter. She graduated from Herkimer High School. At one time, Verna was married to Richard James “Jim” Gydesen and they had 2 children together. She later found happiness with her companion, Harold “Herk” Cunningham who passed on October 1, 2000. She adored the Cunningham family and they adored her. Verna was an assembler at General Electric Co., Utica and later worked at Hamilton Digital Controls, Utica, retiring in 1994. She was a member of the Church of the Annunciation. Verna was an artistic woman with a great sense of style and had a great sense of humor. She had a smile that could light up a room. She enjoyed poetry. Verna was “A Beautiful Woman and a Caring Soul”! Surviving family members include her daughter, Janet Cerasi and her husband, Marco, of Ilion; her 4 granddaughters, Lindsay Kaczor and her husband, Michael, Jamie, Brittany and Dani Cerasi; her sister, Linda LaMarche and her husband, Andrew, of Plattsburg; her sister-in-law, Nella Harter, of Ilion; her many nieces, nephews, cousins; and special friends, Kay Mazzara, Jean Warner and the Cunningham family. She was predeceased by her beloved son, James R. Gydesen, the light of her life; her parents, John and Lois; several brothers, William, Frank, John and infant, Brian Harter; and several sisters, “Billie”, Dorothy, Mary and Sherry. Visitation will be held on Thursday, June 2, 2022, from 10:00 a.m. to 11:00 a.m., at the Applegate-Day & Enea family Funeral Home’s larger facility location, at 4309 Acme Rd. (old Main St.), between Ilion and Frankfort. Anyone planning on attending the visitation are asked to wear a mask, to protect the immediate family and others. Thank you for your understanding. Funeral Services will be held at 12 noon, on Thursday, June 2, 2022, at the Blessed Sacrament Church, E. Main St., Mohawk, where a Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated by Father Mark Cunningham, assisted by Sister Mary Jo Tallman, Parish Life Director. Interment will be at St. Mary’s Cemetery, Town of Little Falls. Anyone wishing to share a memory of Verna, or add to her online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com

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Jimmy A. Young - May 21, 1943 - January 24, 2022

Departed: 01/24/2022 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: ILION – Jimmy A. Young, age 78, of Ilion passed away peacefully at his home on Monday, January 24, 2022. Jimmy was born on May 21, 1943 in Fairfield, N.Y., the son of Edward J. and Ella (Eckert) Young and attended West Winfield High School where he was a stand-out track & field, basketball and football athlete.Jimmy was a proud, but humble U.S. Marine, bravely enlisting and serving at the height of the Vietnam Conflict, receiving the Purple Heart as well as other honors. It made him happy and proud to support other family members who joined the Marines and other military branches, and he so enjoyed hearing their stories and sharing in their accomplishments. Jimmy was a member of the American Legion and a lifetime member of the Disabled American Veterans.Jimmy worked as a truck driver at Pacemaker Steel of Utica and then Jim Bonnell Trucking of Little Falls, but his passion was always farming, spending his time in later years at Collins Pride Holsteins in Millers Mills and keeping up with the Hoard’s Dairyman magazines loaned to him. In his retirement Jimmy took much pleasure from spending time with family and friends. Before the pandemic his favorite pastime was heading to Turning Stone Casino or Vernon Downs, enjoying lunch and dreaming of hitting it big. He liked to hunt deer for many years, but believe it or not, had in recent years become interested in the British Royal family, voraciously reading any magazine articles he could get his hands on with gossip about its members. Sitting at his kitchen table Jimmy loved to look at his wall filled with pictures and invitations of all those he loved and cherished. His apartment was filled with other photos and albums and cards that everyone gave to him, appreciating that people took the time to keep him involved in their lives. Family meant everything.Jimmy is survived by many family members including his four sons, eight grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren. Jimmy Young II (Jenn) and Joseph (FaithAnn) Young with Patty (Wheelock) Young gave him grandchildren Stephanie, Marie, Jimmy III and Jessica, as well as Victoria and Brady. Jimmy’s sons Eric (Jenn) Young and Ryan Young with Pattie (Crave-Young) Roberts gave him grandchildren Mya and Jackson. Jimmy was born into a special family that thrived to fifteen siblings! He is predeceased by Sonny, Nancy(Gould), Norma, and Bonnie(King), but many have still been around to share in the laughter and tears. They include his three brothers Jack Young of Millers Mills, Danny (Viyada) Young of Millers Mills and Dick (Peg) Young of Clayville. His cherished sisters include Betty(Albert) Herringshaw of Richfield Springs, Barbara Miller of North Carolina, Donna(Bob) Frazier of Washington State, Kay(Don) Davenport of Oregon, Fay Shook of Texas, Joann(John) Putney of Fairfield and Peggy(Bob) Wheelock of Litchfield; many nieces, nephews, cousins and special friends.Friends and relatives are invited to a Celebration of Jimmy’s Life and Graveside Service with Military Honors, at 2:30 p.m., Friday, May 27, 2022, at the Cedarville Cemetery. A funeral gathering will follow the service.Anyone wishing to share a memory of Jimmy, or add to his online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com.Memorial contributions can be made in Jimmy’s name to the Ed and Ella Young Scholarship fund, c/o Mount Markham Foundation, 500 Fairground Road, West Winfield, NY 13491.Jimmy’s service arrangements are entrusted to his Family Funeral Director, Don Applegate, at Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s original location, at 102 West St., Ilion, NY (315-895-7722).

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Catherine L. Latt - December 22, 1935 - January 14, 2022

Departed: 01/14/2022 (Ilion)

Obituary Preview: ILION – Catherine “Cathy” L. Latt, age 86, of Old Forge Rd., Ilion, passed away peacefully, on Friday, January 14, 2022, at home, with her family by her side.She was born on December 22, 1935, in Etowah, TN, the daughter of Clifford and Margie (Houck) Rowland. Cathy attended E. Frankfort and West Winfield Central Schools. On May 1, 1954, she was married to Frederick “Fred” A. Latt, in Ilion. He died in March of 1996. At one time, she worked at Prine Cleaners. Cathy also was employed as a Waitress, at the Wagon Wheel Restaurant, Empire Diner and Brookside Tavern, as a Prep Cook. She also was an Activities Aide, at Herkimer ARC. She attended St. Augustine’s Church, Ilion. Mrs. Latt enjoyed bowling in the State Editions League and was a member of the Ilion Women of the Moose. Cathy enjoyed spending winters in Florida, with her brother, “Skeeter”Cathy took care of family members and friends, in her home and outside of her home, for many years. She loved to sing and dance, including the Jitter Bug. When she worked in ARC and Senior Citizens, she would take her clients out to events and treated them like family.Cathy was very good at motivating her family and friends. Most importantly, she was a devoted wife, mother and grandmother.Cathy’s daughter, Bonnie Coniguliaro has cared for all of her mother’s needs 24/7 for the past 3 ½ years at the family home with much love and compassion, supported by the help of Cathy’s other four daughters, when needed.Surviving family members include her 5 daughters: Debra Polisse and her husband, Larry, of Norway, Cindy Treen, of Herkimer, Susan Fobare and her husband, Gregg, of Ilion, Lori Countryman and her significant other, Bob Sommer, of Cedarville and Bonnie Coniguliaro and her husband, Paul, with whom Cathy resided, in Ilion; 13 grandchildren; 9 great-grandchildren; and several nieces, nephews and cousins.She was predeceased by her mother and father; her husband; and her brothers, Clifford “Chub”, James “Jimbo”, Louis “Skeeter” and Robert “Bobby” Rowland.A Celebration of Cathy’s Life, Memorial Service, will be held at 10:00 a.m., Saturday, July 16, 2022, at the Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home’s original location, at 102 West St., Ilion, NY. Visitation will be held Saturday, July 16, 2022, from 9:00 a.m. to 10:00 a.m., prior to the service at the funeral home.Anyone wishing to share a memory of Cathy, or add to her online memorial, may go to www.applegateandday.com.

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We believe that every life is unique, and a funeral service should reflect that uniqueness. At Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home, we work closely with you to create personalized services that truly capture the essence of your loved one’s life. From traditional burial services and cremation options to unique memorial ceremonies, our caring staff will guide you through the process of choosing the most fitting tribute.

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Our experienced professionals are here to provide comfort and guidance during some of the most difficult times of your life. The directors and staff at Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home are not only qualified in funeral arrangement and care but also bring a level of empathy unparalleled in our field. We are committed to serving you with utmost respect, and we strive to accommodate any specific requests that may help in creating a memorable service.

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Understanding your needs goes beyond the immediate arrangements following a loss. We offer pre-planning services to relieve your family of the burden of making decisions during a period of grief. By pre-planning your funeral or that of a loved one, you ensure that wishes are honored, and the service is paid for in advance, providing peace of mind for everyone involved. Our pre-planning advisors can guide you through every step, ensuring all your preferences are recorded.

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The journey through grief does not end with the funeral service. Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home extends our commitment to you well past the day of the funeral. We provide aftercare and grief support resources to assist you in coping with your loss. Through counseling services, support groups, and educational materials, we aim to offer comfort and healing during your grieving process.

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Our funeral home is deeply embedded within the Ilion community, understanding the local traditions and values that are important to our clients. We take pride in our involvement and support of various community endeavors and local charities. We believe in giving back to the community that has trusted us for years and forging lasting relationships with the families we serve.

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Should you require our services or have any questions regarding funeral arrangements, pre-planning, or memorial options, the staff at Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home is available to assist you 24/7. You can contact us by phone, email, or visit our facility at 4309 Acme Rd., Ilion, NY, 13357. Trust us to be there for you and your family when you need us the most, ensuring every aspect of your service is managed with dignity and respect.

In every service we provide, at Applegate-Day & Enea Family Funeral Home, we aim to celebrate life, honor memories, and begin the journey to healing. We are here to serve you and turn a challenging time into a memorable tribute to your loved one. Count on us to be your compassionate companion through every step of this pivotal life event.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a written notice of a person's death, typically published in newspapers and online platforms. It serves as a formal announcement and often includes a brief account of the deceased’s life, family, and information about the funeral or memorial services.

Where are obituaries usually published?

Obituaries are traditionally published in local or national newspapers. Nowadays, they can also be found on various online memorial sites, social media, and the websites of funeral homes.

Who can write an obituary?

An obituary can be written by a family member, friend, associate, or sometimes a professional writer or journalist, particularly for prominent individuals.

Is there a standard structure for an obituary?

While there's no one-size-fits-all structure, most obituaries follow a general format that includes the announcement of death, a brief biography, loved ones' names, funeral or memorial service details, and optionally, a special message or anecdote.

What information is traditionally included in an obituary?

Traditional obituaries usually include the full name of the deceased, age, date and place of death, causes of death if desired, a brief summary of the person's life, information about surviving family members, and details concerning the funeral or memorial service.

Can I add a photo to an obituary?

Yes, many obituaries include a photograph of the deceased. This helps readers to identify who the obituary is about and adds a personal touch to the announcement.

Is it necessary to mention the cause of death in an obituary?

No, mentioning the cause of death is optional and based on the preferences of the deceased's family. In some cases, families may choose to keep this information private.

How soon after death should an obituary be published?

An obituary is typically published within a few days after death to inform friends and extended family in time for them to make arrangements to attend the funeral or memorial service. However, the timing can vary depending on the circumstances and the publication schedules of newspapers.

How long should an obituary be?

There is no strict length requirement for an obituary; it can be as brief or as detailed as the family or writer wishes. Some newspapers may have word limit policies, so it's important to inquire about specific guidelines if one is being published in print.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a simple, to-the-point notice that informs the public of someone's passing with minimal detail, while an obituary is typically a more detailed account of the person's life and legacy.

Can I include charitable donation information in an obituary?

Yes, it is common to include a request for charitable donations in lieu of flowers. This enables people to honor the deceased by contributing to a cause that was important to them.

What should I do if I spot an error in an obituary?

If you discover an error in an obituary, contact the newspaper or website where it is published as soon as possible to request a correction. Most publications will be understanding and expedite the correction.

Is there a respectful way to mention a deceased family member predeceased by?

Yes, it is respectful and common to mention predeceased family members. This is often done in a sentence like "She is preceded in death by her beloved husband, John."

Are there any cultural considerations to keep in mind when writing an obituary?

Yes, cultural and religious practices often influence how an obituary is written. It’s important to carefully consider and respect these customs, and consult with family or community leaders if necessary.

What tone is appropriate for an obituary?

The tone of an obituary should be respectful and reflect the spirit of the deceased. This can range from solemn and formal to warm and celebratory, depending on the life and personality of the person being honored.

Can an obituary include details about the person's academic and professional life?

Yes, an obituary often includes significant academic and professional achievements, as a way to honor the deceased's accomplishments and share aspects of their life that were important to them.

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper or website?

To submit an obituary, contact the publication or website for their submission guidelines and pricing information. They will usually require the obituary text, any photos you wish to include, and verification of death.

Is it possible to write one's own obituary?

Yes, some people choose to write their own obituary as part of their end-of-life planning. This can ensure that their life is commemorated in a way that reflects their wishes and provides a personal touch.

How can I ensure an obituary honors the person’s life effectively?

To honor a person's life effectively, focus on the elements that truly highlight who they were as an individual, including their passions, achievements, the impact they had on others, and fond memories shared with loved ones.

Is it acceptable to include humor in an obituary?

Humor can be included in an obituary if it fits the personality of the deceased and is done respectfully. It is a way to celebrate their unique character and can provide a sense of comfort to those grieving.

What if I can't afford to publish an obituary in a newspaper?

If cost is an issue, consider publishing an obituary on social media, a personal website, or a free online memorial site. Many funeral homes also include obituaries on their websites at no extra charge.

Can an obituary be updated or changed after it’s been published?

Once an obituary is printed in a newspaper, it cannot be changed. However, online obituaries can often be edited or updated as needed. Check with the hosting site for their specific policy on obituary updates.