A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home - Ravena Obituaries

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When saying a final farewell to a loved one, the importance of a compassionate and professional setting cannot be overstated. A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home in Ravena, NY, has been serving families in their times of need with unwavering empathy and exceptional service. Located at the heart of Ravena at 9 Main Street, this establishment provides a serene environment for families to honor and celebrate the lives of their loved ones.

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A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home has a rich history of providing care and support to the community of Ravena and its surrounding areas. Rooted in tradition and a deep commitment to the community, the funeral home has built a reputation based on trust and the understanding that each life is unique and so too should be its commemoration. Their philosophy goes beyond the services they offer; it's about creating a personalized experience that pays tribute to the departed while offering solace to the living.

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Karol A. Beck - September 18, 1946 - March 15, 2024

Departed: 03/15/2024 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: RAVENA – Karol A. Beck, 77, passed away peacefully on Friday, March 15, 2024.

Karol was born in Albany on September 18, 1946, daughter of the late Edward and Bernice Graves Beck. She was a lifelong Ravena resident and a graduate of Ravena-Coeymans-Selkirk High School. Following graduation, Karol worked for a short time at the Selective Service office in Albany. She owned and operated the former Floral Designs, worked at the family-owned Beck’s Roller Rink, and worked in the office of her brother Eddie’s business, Beck Contracting, all in Ravena. Karol enjoyed growing and working with flowers. She also had a flair for decorating.

Karol is survived by her brother, Richard (Lois) Beck, her sister-in-law, Lois (late Edward) Beck, niece Diane, nephews Robert and Richard Jr., and several cousins. In addition to her parents and brother, Karol was predeceased by her nephew, Brian Beck.

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Jeremiah A. Ottaviano - September 30, 1933 - January 24, 2024

Departed: 01/24/2024 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: HANNACROIX – Jeremiah A. “Jerry” Ottaviano, 90, passed away on Wednesday, January 24, 2024, at St. Peter’s Hospital.

Born in Plainfield, NJ on September 30, 1933, he was a son of the late Angelo and Rose Dean Ottaviano. Jerry was a Marine Corps Veteran of the Korean War. He worked in the family business, was a carpenter for Henry Mormile Contracting, and a heavy equipment operator at Spancrete in South Bethlehem, retiring many years ago. Jerry was a member of the American Legion and enjoyed whittling.

Jerry is survived by his stepson, Richard (Pat) Bruno; grandchildren, Richard Bruno and Darlene Mergendahl; great-grandson, Jonathan Mergendahl; brother, Phillip “Mickey” (Glenda) Ottaviano; nieces and nephews, Rose Ottaviano, Dorothy Ann Ottaviano-Gordon, Evelyn Ketterer, Tony Ottaviano Jr., Michael Ottaviano, Robert Beck, Kenneth Beck; great-nieces and nephews, Jeremiah Beck, Kenneth Beck Jr., Edward Beck, Michael Savage, Laura Haley; special friends, Ben and Chika Bailey. In addition to his parents, Jerry was predeceased by his beloved wife, Dorothy Ann Beck Ottaviano, who died March 26, 2005; his brother, Tony Ottaviano; and his nephew, Dale Beck.

Calling hours will be Wednesday, January 31st from 4 to 7 p.m. at A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home, 4898 State Route 81, Greenville. The funeral will be Thursday, February 1st at 10 a.m. in the funeral home, followed by burial in St. Patrick’s Cemetery, Coeymans. Memorial donations to the Wounded Warrior Project will be appreciated. Condolence page is available at ajcunninghamfh.com.

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Deborah J. Griffith - March 02, 1969 - January 22, 2024

Departed: 01/22/2024 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: RAVENA – Deborah “Debbie” Griffith passed away peacefully on Monday, January 22, 2024.

Debbie was born on March 2, 1969 in Albany, to Nancy Griffith and the late Robert Griffith. She enjoyed spending time with her friends and family, especially with her companion, John Scaglione.

In addition to her mother, Debbie is survived by her son, Brendon; her brother, Robert and sister, Lisa (Andrew) Flood; as well as her loving nieces and nephew.

Services were held at the convenience of the family. Memorial donations can be made to the Senior Projects of Ravena, 9 Bruno Blvd., or the Congregational Christian Church, 175 Main Street, both in Ravena, NY 12143.

The family expresses thanks to the caring staff at the Riverside Nursing Home in Castleton.

Condolence page is available at ajcunninghamfh.com.

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Gerald T. Van Alstine - October 06, 1942 - July 22, 2023

Departed: 07/22/2023 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: RAVENA - Gerald T. "Jerry" Van Alstine, 80, passed away on Saturday, July 22, 2023, at Albany Medical Center Hospital after a brief illness.

Born on October 6, 1942, to Bertha (nee Rutledge) and Gerald R. Van Alstine, Jerry grew up in Boonville, New York. After graduating from Boonville Central School, where he played trumpet in the band and was a member of the Boy Scouts, he would continue his love of learning, first receiving a bachelor's degree from Siena College and later a master's degree in theology from St. Bernard's Institute in 1998 and a Master of Science from Iona College in 2002. But his proudest moment was graduating with a Master of Arts from Notre Dame College in 2007. From that point on, he was an avid Fighting Irish football fan.

After graduating from Siena College, Jerry began his career as an educator until he retired from Ravena Coeymans Selkirk Central School District, where he had taught social studies, economics, and AP courses. Impassioned by his faith, Jerry was extremely active in his church community as well as Albany Medical Center Hospital, where he provided pastoral care to countless patients, and with the Department of Correctional Services at Greene, Coxsackie, and Hudson correctional facilities. His passion for work in the prison system led to his second career as Catholic Chaplain at Hudson Correctional Facility, where he worked until his passing.

Jerry was proud of his Irish and Dutch heritage. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus, a member of REC, and a member of Cursillo; he also belonged to several car clubs, including the Antique Automobile Club of America. He loved driving around the countryside or attending classic car shows in one of his three antique cars with his lovely wife, Susan.

Jerry was a fun-loving soul, a loyal friend, and had a positive attitude toward everything in life. He strived to go above and beyond anything that was asked of him and prided himself on being available to anyone in need, no matter what. Jerry always had a story and a smile to share with those around him. And when he wasn't entertaining guests or enjoying a good meal, he found great joy in experiencing nature by hiking and camping. He was much loved and will be missed dearly.

Jerry was predeceased by his parents, Gerald and Bertha Van Alstine, and his brother-in-law James Kessler.

Jerry is survived by his beloved wife of 47 years, Susan Van Alstine (nee Kessler); his sisters-in-law, Patricia Greenfield (nee Kessler), and Janet Kessler (nee Benn); his niece, Vanessa Greenfield and her husband, Howard Becker; his nephews, Jeffrey Kessler, and Christian Kessler and his wife Mindi Kessler (nee McAllister), and his adored lab, Lily.

The wake will be on Monday, July 31, beginning at 10 a.m. at St. Vincent de Paul Church, 900 Madison Avenue (corner of Partridge Street), Albany, with Mass following at 11 a.m. Afterward, there will be a brief graveside service at St. Patrick's Cemetery, Blaisdell Ave., Coeymans, with a reception at St. Patrick's Hall to follow.

Donations may be made to St. Vincent’s Food Pantry, 900 Madison Avenue, Albany, NY 12208 and the Capital City Rescue Mission, 259 South Pearl Street, Albany, NY 12202 in lieu of flowers.

Condolence page is available at ajcunninghamfh.com.

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Charles Golding - February 04, 1935 - July 06, 2023

Departed: 07/06/2023 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: SELKIRK – Charles Golding, 88, passed away peacefully at his residence on Thursday, July 6, 2023.

Charles was born in Bennington, VT on February 4, 1935, a son of the late Charles W. and Elizabeth Pellerin Golding. The family moved to East Worcester, NY in 1947. Charles graduated from Worcester Central School in 1953. He then entered the Marine Corps and was honorably discharged in 1956. Charles began working at North American Cement in Howes Cave, and married the former Patricia Milavec in June 1959. They had three children, David, Joyce, and James. The family moved to Selkirk and he worked as Maintenance Manager at Blue Circle Cement (now LaFarge), retiring in 1997. He then drove a school bus for Ravena-Coeymans-Selkirk School District for 14 years.

Charles was active in Boy Scouts and Hudson Valley Little League, and was a lector at St. Patrick’s Church in Ravena for a number of years. He played golf at Sycamore Golf Club in the now-named Golding League, and bowled for many years at Del Lanes.

Charles bought Midway Cafe with a business partner in 1996. The cafe is still open and is now owned by Miguel Lopez and his family.

Charles is survived by his wife, Pat; children, David (Leslie), Joyce, and James (Tracy); grandchildren, Samantha, Andrew, and Bryan; great-grandchildren, Anica, Charlie, and Owen; siblings, Richard (Paula) of Tennessee, Janet Kenyon (Harold) and Linda Decker (George) both of Worcester; a number of nieces and nephews.

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Patricia Ann Stark (Myers) - October 12, 1943 - May 17, 2023

Departed: 05/17/2023 (Ravena)

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Delmar- Patricia Ann Stark (Myers), age 79, passed away May 17,2023 after a battle with metastatic breast cancer. Born in Hudson Falls NY October 12, 1943 to the late Leona Austin Stark and Bernard E. Stark. She spent her childhood growing up in places such as Hudson Falls, New Salem and East Berne NY. She was a graduate of Berne-Knox-Westerlo High

School. She worked most recently at the Dollar Tree in Delmar for about 5 years. She also worked for Bethlehem Central School District as a food service worker for 18 years where she was known as “Miss Pat” by all the kids. Before that she worked for

Blue Cross & Blue Shield for 23 years as a customer service claims rep.

When she wasn’t working, she enjoyed crocheting, sewing, camping and spending time with her family.

She is predeceased by her parents Leona & Bernard Stark, her sister Ellen Youngs and her dear friend Anna Kohler. Survivors include her 3 children whom she loved more than anything-daughter Kelly Anne(Michael), son Stephen Myers, son Walter Myers III (Cassandra) Grandchildren- Joshua Covey (Audrionna), Jeremy Seaburg, Briana Myers(Chris Barber), Joseph Myers, Kyra Myers Great Grandchildren- Sophia Covey, Austin Covey, Elizabeth Barber, Skylar Barber, Logan Barber 2 brothers- Homer Stark, Timothy Stark 3 sisters- Elizabeth Stark, Susie Stark and Sandra VanHoesen (Samuel) As well as

several nieces and nephews.

Visiting hours will be Saturday, June 24th from 9am-11:30am at the A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home, 9 Main Street, Ravena, followed by a service at Onesquethaw Reformed Church, 11 Groesbeck Rd Feura Bush, and interment immediately following at Onesquethaw Union Cemetery. The family is asking that in lieu of flowers, please send donations in her name to: The Community Hospice Foundation 445 New Karner Rd Albany NY 12205

Condolence page is available at ajcunninghamfh.com.

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Angelina T. Meilak - August 28, 1930 - April 24, 2023

Departed: 04/24/2023 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: SELKIRK – Angelina T. “Angie” Meilak, 92, passed away at her residence on Monday morning, April 24, 2023.

Angie was born in New Baltimore on August 28, 1930, a daughter of the late Antonio and Felice Annello Testa. She was a graduate of Ravena-Coeymans High School. Angie worked as a teller at the former Home Savings Bank in Albany. She then moved to New York City for a few years, where she worked at Franklin Savings Bank. Returning to Selkirk, Angie and her husband Chuck opened Meilak’s Mobile Home Park. She was a lifelong communicant of St. Patrick’s Church in Ravena where she volunteered in the thrift shop. Angie was a member of the Selkirk Fire Company Ladies Auxiliary, Mother McAuley Council 3424 Columbiettes, and Senior Projects of Ravena.

Angie is survived by her children, Anthony (Jackie) Meilak, Larry Meilak, and MaryAnn Meilak; 4 grandchildren, Chad, Lindsay, Brittany, and Joshua; 4 great-grandchildren; her sisters, Catherine Testa, Antoinette Robbins, and Anna Ruth Testa; many nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents, Angie was predeceased by her husband, Charles J. Meilak; and siblings, Diana Dutton, Rose Crisafulli, Frank Testa, and Mary Poff.

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Mary Isabelle Jones - September 08, 1935 - March 23, 2023

Departed: 03/23/2023 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: Mary I. Jones, 87, passed away peacefully at home on Thursday March 23, 2023.

Mary has been privately cremated. A Memorial Mass will be held on Monday April 24th at 12noon at the Notre-Dame Church, 11 Church Pl, Malone, NY 12953, followed by burial.

Condolences can be posted at ajcunninghamfh.com.

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Patricia M. Britton - March 09, 1954 - December 14, 2022

Departed: 12/14/2022 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: RAVENA – Patricia Mudge Britton, 68, passed away peacefully at home on Wednesday December 14, 2022. She was born March 9, 1954 in Albany to the late Owen S. Sr. and Angela Morrell Mudge. She was raised in Ravena and after graduating from Ravena Coeymans Selkirk School, she attended Maria College where she earned her degree in nursing. Patricia worked as a registered nurse at St. Peter’s Hospital and as a substitute school nurse at Ravena Coeymans Selkirk Schools. She enjoyed taking trips to the Amish Country in Lancaster, PA, and visiting with her grandsons, Wyatt and Liam.

Patricia is survived by her husband, Ralph Britton Jr.; her sons, Brian and Michael Britton (Alyson); her grandsons, Wyatt and Liam; her siblings, Gloria Tesiero (John, III) of Amsterdam, Edward Mudge Sr. (Cheryl) of Coxsackie, and Owen Mudge Jr. (Kimberly) of Pacifica, CA; and many nieces and nephews.

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Joanne M. Raffiani - June 14, 1942 - November 03, 2022

Departed: 11/03/2022 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: RAVENA – Joanne M. Raffiani, 80, passed away peacefully in her sleep on Thursday, November 3, 2022.

Joanne Marie O’Neill was born in Albany on June 14, 1942, a daughter of the late Martin and Arline Laney O’Neill. Joanne was a lifelong resident of Ravena. She graduated from the former Cardinal McCloskey High School in Albany. In her younger years, Joanne worked at the former Mayone’s Market in Ravena. She then enjoyed a career as a resident counselor with New Visions (formerly Hillside House), a residence for developmentally disabled adults in Coeymans, where she treated the residents like family. Joanne was a communicant of St. Patrick’s Church in Ravena, and a member of Senior Projects of Ravena. She will be remembered as a kind and generous woman who donated to many causes.

Joanne is survived by her daughter, Lori (Joseph) Kozlowski of Albany; four grandchildren, Shawn Roy, Christopher and Tyler Kozlowski, and Morgan Raffiani; her siblings, Eileen (Roger) Hallenbeck, Rev. James O’Neill, and Sharon (William) Miller; many nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents, Joanne was predeceased by her husband, Philippe Raffiani; her son, Kevin F. Raffiani; and her siblings, Thomas J. O’Neill, Mary Ann Jones, Maureen Farinelli, and Kathleen Conrad.

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Christopher J. Dolan - March 01, 1961 - August 04, 2022

Departed: 08/04/2022 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: SELKIRK - Christopher J. Dolan, 61, passed away on Thursday August 4, 2022. A calling hour will be held on Wednesday August 10th from 4 to 5pm at the Legancy Church, 282 Elsmere Ave, Delmar, NY 12054, followed by a funeral service at 5pm. He will be interred with military honors on Thursday August 11th at 2pm at the Saratoga National Cemetery, 200 Duell Rd, Schuylerville, NY 12871.Condolences can be posted at ajcunninghamfh.com.

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Mary C. Driscoll - April 30, 1932 - July 30, 2022

Departed: 07/30/2022 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: RAVENA – Mary C. Driscoll died peacefully in her sleep on Saturday, July 30, 2022. Taught to love God, home, and family by her Mom & “Pops”, Margaret B. and John C. Collins, she learned tolerance and perseverance from her brother, Johnny. Her brothers and brother-in-law (Ollie, Bobby, Jim, Butch, and Freddie) inspired her love of the United States of America and respect for our National Flag; her husband, John, encouraged her to stand up for what she believed in (especially open government by the people, of the people, and for the people). Her sister, Margie, was always a great example for Mary in many ways. Mary and John’s son, John Jr., carried on the family tradition of serving our country in the US Air Force, especially during “Desert Shield”. Mary was both humbled and honored when she received an award for unselfish service at her High School graduation. She was commended by the Troop T of the NYS Thruway for her help in nabbing two fugitives from justice. Mary was selected to be the class speaker at her graduation from the NYS School of Industrial and Labor Relations at Cornell University and in 1990 was selected as “Woman of the Year” for the Albany Division of the NYS Thruway. In 2003, her name was placed on the Honor Roll of the Greater Federation of Women’s Clubs (NYS Federation) in Cooperstown. In 2021, she was honored as “Citizen of the Month” by LaFarge Holcim at the Board of Directors meeting of the Ravena-Coeymans Businessman’s Association. Mary was a member of many local community organizations and always gave 150% of effort to all of them, especially the Fire Police Association of Albany County. Her favorite hobby was sewing “Heirloom Christening Gowns”, made with tender loving care. Mary had everything a woman of her generation could ask for – caring parents, a handsome and loving husband, children she was so proud of, a career (where she not only cracked a couple of glass ceilings, she also broke one), a new home, wonderful grandchildren, a lot of dear friends (especially the Class of ’49 Breakfast Bunch), the staff of MidWay Cafe, Janine’s Floral Creations, Persico’s True Value, and a long life to enjoy it all. Mary is survived by her children, John F. Driscoll Jr. (Kim Ruso-Driscoll), James F. Driscoll (Giovona), and Jeffrey F. Driscoll (Vanessa Lukens); her “fourth son”, Walter Ross (Kathy); her grandchildren, Alexandria, Brianna, Meghan, James, and Jeffrey F., Jr.; special family members, Christian and Ryan Hodson, and Miles Lukens; her loving nephews, Bruce (Elaine) Walcott and their children, Gary (Cheryl) Walcott and their children; her nephews, William (Lauren) Collins and Arthur Collins and their families. Her brother, James Collins (Nancy) also survives, along with their children and grandchildren. She is also survived by her husband’s niece, Janice Fuda, and several other nephews and nieces. She is predeceased by her niece, Cindy Fabiano. Mary wishes to express her thanks to Dr. Geri Aitkin, Dr. Barbara Brazis, Dr. James Phillips, Michelle Masone, NYOH and their staff for their care and concern all these years. Mary was a 16 year cancer survivor. Calling hours will be Wednesday, August 3rd from 9 until 11 a.m. in St. Patrick’s Church, 21 Main Street, Ravena. Funeral Mass will be offered at 11:15 a.m., followed by burial in Chestnut Lawn Cemetery, New Baltimore. If you would like to honor Mary, donations to the Jeffrey F. Driscoll Award Fund, c/o RCS Middle School, 15 Mountain Road, Ravena, NY 12143, or to Brady’s K-9 Saviors, 13 Winnie Avenue, Ravena, NY 12143 would be greatly appreciated. Condolence page is available at ajcunninghamfh.com.

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Katherine Kilmer - July 28, 1934 - June 26, 2022

Departed: 06/26/2022 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: RAVENA – Katherine Dempsey Kilmer, 87, known as “Kay” or “Katie”, passed away on Sunday morning, June 26, 2022 at her residence. Born in Troy on July 28, 1934, she was the only child of the late James and Helen Nicholson Dempsey, and wife of the late Russell G. Kilmer. Katie graduated from Troy High School, class of 1952. She worked for the New York State Senate as secretary to the late Majority Leader, Walter Mahoney. In the 1960’s, she worked for the Republican State Committee. In 1976, Kay went to work for Conrail, retiring in 1994. Bored with retirement, she worked security at Albany International Airport before 9/11. Kay then found her real passion in the STAR Program at Pieter B. Coeymans Elementary School, helping first graders. Devoted mother of John and Peter Kilmer, and Patricia (Ralph) Surrano; grandmother or “Nana” to her cherished grandchildren, Ralph Surrano III, Alexis Surrano, and Kaylee Noll; also survived by her cousin, Sue Layne; her niece, Judi Franken; and her beloved dog, “Mia”. The family offers a heartfelt thank you to the staff of Community Hospice, especially Leah and Michelle. A calling hour will be held on Thursday, June 30 from 9 until 10 a.m. in St. Patrick’s Church, 21 Main Street, Ravena. Funeral Mass will be offered at 10 a.m., followed by burial in St. Patrick’s Cemetery.

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Angus G. Doyle - August 03, 1923 - May 28, 2022

Departed: 05/28/2022 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: COEYMANS – Angus G. “Gus” Doyle, 98, passed into Eternal Life on Saturday, May 28, 2022 at Greene Meadows Nursing Home in Catskill. A resident of Coeymans, he is survived by his loving wife of 54 years, Elizabeth Ann “Betty” DeFlumer Doyle; son, Ronald B. Doyle; grand-daughter, Heather (Gregg) Doyle; brother, Matthew L. Doyle; several great-grandchildren, nieces and nephews. Gus was predeceased by his parents, Byron Robert Doyle and Theresa M. Garrison Doyle; brother, Byron Robert Doyle Jr.; and sister, Elma A. (Doyle) Morris. Gus was a Combat Veteran of the U.S. Army Medical Corps, drafted in 1943, serving in the European Theatre of Operations with the 10th Armored Division during World War II. The 10th and the 103rd Infantry also liberated one of the sub-camps of Dachau in the Landsberg area on April 27, 1945. He earned the Bronze Star, WW II Victory Medal, and several other awards, including the New York State Conspicuous Service Medal, and was Honorably Discharged in 1946. Calling hours will be Thursday, June 2nd from 2 until 4 p.m. at A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home, 9 Main Street, Ravena. A funeral service will be conducted at 3:30 p.m., and the VFW ritual service at 3:45 p.m. Cremation will follow, and burial of his ashes will take place at a later date.

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Mary T. Carnibucci - August 06, 1917 - May 04, 2022

Departed: 05/04/2022 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: RAVENA - Mary Teresa Carnibucci, age 104, passed into everlasting life on Wednesday May 4, 2022 to be with her loving husband and family members. Mary was born in Coeymans to the late William and Angelina Bassotti, the fourth of five children. She was employed by various dress factories in Ravena until her retirement, at which time she and her husband operated their small farm. After her husband’s passing, Mary became a member of the Senior Projects of Ravena, enjoying the company of other seniors going to dinner, taking bus trips, playing cards and bingo with her friends, all of whom have passed on. Still looking for something to do in her 80’s, Mary became a STARS volunteer in Mr. Koblenzer’s classroom at Pieter B. Coeymans Elementary School, where she shared her life experience with the children. Never having completed school, she was deeply touched when the school presented her with her high school diploma. She cherished being with her grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and then great-great grandchildren. She loved puttering in her vegetable and flower gardens. She was a devout Catholic and life-long communicant of St. Patrick’s Church in Ravena. She celebrated her 100th birthday and the Church’s 100th anniversary that same year. A devoted wife, mother, grandmother, she will be remembered for her love of family, strong faith in God, sweet smile, generous trays of Italian cookies, homemade pasta, and industriously crocheting afghans all of which she produced well into her later years. After suffering a serious fall in 2016, she resided at St. Peter’s Nursing & Rehabilitation Facility. She maintained her strong faith in God, continuing to be a smiling and happy person, always appreciative of the care she received there. The family wishes to extend sincere appreciation to the staff of St. Peter’s Nursing Facility, especially her Third Floor caregivers, who gave her such gentle attention during her stay. Also, sincere thanks to Glen Koblenzer and Mark Malenowski, for their friendship, as well as St. Patrick’s Parish Family who have reached out over the years with love, support, cards, and prayers. Mary was predeceased by her husband of 49 years, Joseph P. Carnibucci; son, Dominic J. Carnibucci; infant grandchildren, Traci Sue Carnibucci and Douglas Gibbs; siblings, Mario, Secundo, John Bassotti, and Carmella Francisoni. Survivors include son, Carmon R. Carnibucci, Sr. (Evelyn), daughter, Mary M. Gibbs Lewandowski, and daughter-in-law, Linda Carnibucci; grandchildren, Carmon Carnibucci Jr. (Darlene), Samuel J. Carnibucci, Dominic Carnibucci Jr. (Rene), and Lisa Hindes (TJ); great-grandchildren, Joseph Carnibucci (Melany), Jordan Carnibucci (Jaida Motley), Victoria Carnibucci (Will WIlson), Desiree and Dominic Carnibucci, Kyle and Kiersten McKenna, and Samantha Carnibucci; great-great grandchildren, Lily, Madilyn, and Amilya Carnibucci, Jino and Giana Carnibucci, and Jackson Wilson; and multiple nieces and nephews. Relatives and friends may call at the A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home, 9 Main Street, Ravena, on Monday May 9th from 4 to 8pm. Funeral Mass will be offered at St. Patrick’s Church on Tuesday May 10th at 10am, followed by burial in St. Patrick’s Cemetery.

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Veronica M. Fori - May 26, 1943 - April 15, 2022

Departed: 04/15/2022 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: SELKIRK – Veronica M. “Roni” Fori, 78, passed away peacefully at home on Good Friday morning, April 15, 2022. Roni was born on May 26, 1943, daughter of the late Ralph B. and Raphael “Rae” Palmeri Fori formerly of Coeymans. Roni served the Coeymans and Ravena areas as a hairdresser for 17 years. She was the sole female proprietor of Fori’s Variety Store on Main Street in Ravena for 40 years. Roni had many interests and hobbies throughout her life. She was a devoted lover of animals and had generously donated to several organizations. Roni loved to travel and loved the beach, and was mostly fond of casinos, Atlantic City, and roulette. She spent countless hours on the beaches of Truro and Provincetown on Cape Cod and sporadically went sailing, leaving everyone to wonder where she went. She often gathered her friends and hosted card games, which brought her great joy, as she often wiped everyone out. Roni was known for her love of singing, dancing, and roller skating. She was known by the nickname of “Dead-Eye” as she was a passionate dart player. Roni also was an avid bowler, sponsoring two leagues which left her well known in the community. Roni is survived by her beloved dog, Dilly, and her birds, Charlie, Louie, and Beulah; several cousins and many friends. In addition to her parents, Roni was predeceased by her loving aunt, Mary Dudley. Services and a celebration of her life will be private. For those wishing to remember Roni in a special way, memorial donations to AnimalKind, 721 Warren Street, Hudson, NY 12534 will be appreciated. Special thanks and much appreciation to Community Hospice; the devoted, loving caregivers that were always by her side; and to the staff of A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home for their professionalism. Condolence page is available at ajcunninghamfh.com.

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Harriet R. Bean - July 06, 1924 - March 16, 2022

Departed: 03/16/2022 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: COEYMANS – Harriet R. Bean, 97, passed away on Wednesday March 16, 2022. She was born on July 6, 1924 to the late Joseph and Antoinette DeFlumer. Raised in Coeymans, she then resided in Selkirk for the past 15 years. She worked as a secretary for Powell & Minnock Brickyard in Coeymans. In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her husband, Wallace D. Bean, Jr. and her granddaughter, Andrea Marie Vadney. Harriet is survived by her daughter, Annette (Richard) Vadney; her grandson, Richie Vadney; her sister, Betty (Angus) Doyle, and many nieces and nephews. A graveside service will be held on Tuesday March 22nd at 1pm at the St. Patrick’s Cemetery, Coeymans.

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Robert P. Hagen - May 22, 1970 - November 05, 2021

Departed: 11/05/2021 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: SELKIRK – Robert Patrick Hagen “Fluff”, 51, went to be with his heavenly family on Friday, November 5, 2021.

Robert was born in St. Peter’s Hospital, Albany on May 22, 1970. He resided in Selkirk with his beautiful, devoted, and care giving wife of 18 years, Christine Bradway Hagen. Racing was Robert’s livelihood. He joined the Flach and Tremont family racing teams, where he was fondly known as “Fluff”. Robert helmed the garage and smiled the biggest smile while his team went full-speed-ahead. He truly loved his racing family like his own family. Robert worked as a parts distributor at Elmo’s Speed and Supply in Burnt Hills.

Robert was a devoted husband, son, grandson, unkie, brother, nephew, cousin, and a great friend to all that knew him. He was a generous, trustworthy, kind, loyal, and full of good cheer guy. Robert talked to anyone and everyone; his smile lit up every room. Robert’s faith helped him hold on, even though he was sick. In his last days of life, he was extremely grateful for everyone and every day he was alive.

Robert is survived by his beautiful, devoted wife Christine; his mother, Donna (Kenneth VanAlstyne) Hagen; his sister, Michelle (Irwin) Hagen; his paternal grandmother, Ann Leigh; his loving in-laws, Ed and Bonita Bradway; brothers and sisters-in-law, Steve and Susan O’Malley, Lee (Angela) Bradway, Billy (Christine) Bradway; many nieces and nephews, Kali (Zach) Hoffman, Jillian Hagen, Mackenzie and Kolton O’Malley, Adiranna (“Booger”), Charlotte (Charlie) Bradway, Alex and Austin Bradway. He was predeceased by his father, Robert Hagen; maternal grandparents, Donald and Rita Gager; paternal grandfather, Arthur Hagen.

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Martin C. Lombardo - October 15, 1954 - November 01, 2021

Departed: 11/01/2021 (Ravena)

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Margaret J. Clouse - May 03, 1929 - November 01, 2021

Departed: 11/01/2021 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: COLONIE – Margaret J. Clouse, 92, passed away peacefully on Monday, November 1, 2021, at St. Peter’s Hospital with her sister by her side, following a short illness. Margaret was born on May 3, 1929, in Coeymans, NY to the late Salvadore and Sarah Pascuzzi Clouse. After graduating from the Cathedral Academy in Albany NY, Margaret attended Albany Business College and later moved to Juneau, Alaska where she worked as a legal secretary for the State of Alaska Commissioners for five consecutive Administrations. After retirement in 1987 she moved back to Albany where she loved spending time with her family and friends, keeping fond memories of her time in Alaska.

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Margaret is survived by her beloved sister Esther Rappold; sisters-in-law Judith Clouse and Mary Ann McCarville; many nieces, nephews, cousins, and her beloved friends, Agnes and Paul Millson. In addition to her parents, she is predeceased by her siblings, Rose Farinelli, Mary Jane Fabian, Joseph Clouse, Susan Hanson, Virginia Douglas, Julia Clouse, Peter Clouse, and James Clouse.

Her family wishes to extend their heartfelt gratitude to St. Peter’s Hospital Emergency Department and 2 McCauley staff who provided care and compassion to Margaret and her family during her illness. Special thanks to all of her neighbors and friends who loved and supported her over many years and during her illness.

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Matthew Stephen Mikulski - January 07, 1980 - October 04, 2021

Departed: 10/04/2021 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: Matthew Stephen Mikulski, of South Bethlehem, NY, died peacefully on Monday October 4th. He was an organ donor and was able to save two lives by donating both his kidneys. Matthew was born on January 7, 1980 in Camarillo, California. He grew up in North Brunswick, NJ and moved to the Poconos at 21 years old. In Broadheadsville, PA, Matt met the love of his life, Amanda Marie Gager, and they had two sons Colin and Christian Mikulski. He joined the Brotherhood of the IBEW Local 164 out of Northeastern, NJ and worked there as an industrial electrician for 20 years. During his lifetime Matthew raised his family in Pennsylvania, New Jersey, and New York. Matt was an incredibly hard worker who was the sole bread winner of the family. He enjoyed Amanda’s cooking, spending time with his sons, listening to Colin play guitar, and watching Christian play shortstop and get hits on the baseball diamond. Matt was an avid Yankees, Giants, and Knicks fan. He was a history buff and enjoyed watching the History Channel. He had a sharp wit and laid back demeanor. Matt worked just as hard on his sobriety as he did being a loving spouse and father. He succumbed to his Higher Power and is presently in the loving arms of his Heavenly Father.Matthew is survived by his love, Amanda Marie Gager; his sons, Colin and Christian Mikulski; his parents, Stephen and Jacqueline Mikulski, and Patricia Lyons; his brothers, Daniel and Eric Mikulski; his sisters, Alissa Troyer (Brian), Kelly and Kimmy Lyons; and his nephews, Aiden and Ian. He is also survived by his in-laws Sean and Penny Gager; and brother in law Sean F. Gager (Lauren). Along with so many aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends. Matthew will be missed dearly and his memory cherished by all who knew him.A calling hour will be held on Saturday October 9th from 9:30-10:30am at St. Patrick’s Church, 21 Main St, Ravena, NY 12143, followed by a Funeral Mass at 10:30am. He will then be privately cremated.

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Frances K. DiAcetis - August 25, 1936 - September 29, 2021

Departed: 09/29/2021 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: RAVENA – Frances K. Nunziato DiAcetis, 85, passed away on Wednesday, September 29, 2021 at St. Peter’s Hospital. Born in Albany on August 25, 1936, she was a daughter of the late Ralph and Mary Adams Nunziato. Fran was a lifelong Ravena resident. She was employed by General Aniline Film in Rensselaer, Ravena Iron Company, and for nearly 30 years as a teacher’s aide in the Ravena-Coeymans-Selkirk Central School District before retiring. Fran was a Den Mother for Cub Scout Pack 55 and a Shore Mom for the Red Cross Summer Learn to Swim program in Ravena when her sons were young. She was a communicant of St. Patrick’s Church in Ravena, a member of Catholic Daughters, Mother McAuley Council 3424 Columbiettes, Ravena-Coeymans Historical Society, Senior Projects of Ravena, and the Ravena-Coeymans Democratic Committee. Fran enjoyed her ever-growing collection of cookbooks, fond memories of trips to Europe and Israel, and countless conventions hosted by the NYS Credit Union League and the NYS Conference of Mayors.

Fran is survived by her husband of 61 years, Anthony DiAcetis, Jr.; three sons, Michael DiAcetis (Regina Giordano) of Coxsackie, Thomas DiAcetis (Lisa) of Malta, and Stephen DiAcetis (Mary) of Duval, WA; beloved grandmother of Sarah, Joseph, Katie, and Olivia DiAcetis; doting “Grandma” to the many Pekingeses and Golden Retrievers of the DiAcetis family; sister-in-law of Rosemary and Charles Coons of Ravena, Joan and Bernie Smith of Cape Cod, MA, James McKay of Madison, NJ, and Ann Nunziato; aunt to ten nieces and nephews. In addition to her parents, Fran was predeceased by her brothers, Anthony, Frank, and Joseph Nunziato, and sisters, Evelyn Nunziato and Theresa McKay.

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Angelo A. Rosato - May 05, 1927 - February 07, 2021

Departed: 02/07/2021 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: RAVENA - Angelo Anthony Rosato, 93, entered into eternal rest on Sunday, February 7th, 2021. He was born on May 5, 1927 in Ravena. Angelo was a veteran of the US Naval Service. He had worked for the R-C-S School District for over 40 years retiring as Superintendent of Building and Grounds. He was an avid golfer and bowler, loved to spend winters in Florida enjoying time with his friends, and always enjoyed watching a good sporting event especially if it involved his granddaughters. His greatest joy was spending time with his family and close friends. He was so proud of the life he was able to build.

Angelo is survived by his beloved children, Christine (Bill) Capobianco, Angelo ‘Rocky’ (Deborah) Rosato, and Michael (Karen) Rosato. His adored grandchildren, Katie Rosato (fiance Stephen Fairbrother), Carissa (Lucas) McCullough, and Britni Rosato. His great-granddaughter Harper McCullough, whom he was known to as “Poppy Senior” and loved visiting with. Along with many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his mother and father, Josephine and Angelo Rosato and his four siblings. The family would like to extend their deepest gratitude to Ursula Millett and Crystal Fikert for their long time care and friendship for Angelo.

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David A. Hudson - September 15, 1965 - January 16, 2021

Departed: 01/16/2021 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: NEW BALTIMORE - David A. Hudson, 55, passed away on Saturday, January 16, 2021 at St. Peter’s Hospital of natural causes, not related to COVID-19.

Born in Troy on September 15, 1965, he was a son of the late Robert and Laurel Houseworth Hudson. David was a graduate of Troy High School and had an Associate’s Degree. He lived in Troy for most of his life, and the last five years in Greene County. He was currently employed as an electromechanic at Sonoco Plastics in Chatham. Previously he worked for many years at Ted’s Fish Fry in Brunswick. David will be remembered as a loving father and grandfather.

David is survived by his beloved fiancée, Kristiane Sopris; his grandchildren, Brenna and Sean Michael MacMahon; his siblings, Ruth (John) Yule, Robert Hudson, James Hudson, Theodore “Ted” (Alice) Hudson, Chris (Kim) Hudson, and Mandy Christiansen; many nieces and nephews. In addition to his parents, David was predeceased by his daughter, Melissa MacMahon, and his brother, George Hudson.

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Wallace D. Bean, Jr. - March 03, 1931 - December 26, 2020

Departed: 12/26/2020 (Ravena)

Obituary Preview: COEYMANS – Wallace D. “Wally” Bean, Jr., 89, passed away on Saturday morning, December 26, 2020 after a brief illness.

Wally is survived by his wife, Harriet De Flumer Bean; daughter, Annette Marie Vadney; grandson, Richard Vadney, Jr. Wally was predeceased by his parents, Wallace D. Bean, Sr. and Susan Rackmeyer Bean; and his granddaughter, Andrea Marie Vadney.

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Services Offered by A.J. Cunningham

Recognizing that every individual has a unique story to tell, A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home offers a wide range of services to meet the diverse needs of each family. From traditional funerals and memorials services to more contemporary celebrations of life, the funeral home staff is skilled in crafting services that reflect the wishes and essence of the departed. Moreover, they are proficient in handling various aftercare services, ensuring that families have support even after the funeral is over.

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Experienced and Compassionate Staff

One of the pillars of A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home is its experienced staff, who serve with utmost compassion and professionalism. They understand the needs of grieving families, providing guidance and support through every step of the planning and service process. The staff's commitment to care and their attention to detail make the difficult time easier for those left behind, helping them with paperwork, arrangements, and any other necessities.

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Understanding that grief does not end with the funeral, A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home offers ongoing support and resources to help families cope with their loss. They provide access to counseling services, grief support groups, and educational materials that aim to comfort and aid those who are grieving. The staff can also refer individuals to professional support services when necessary to ensure that no one has to face their grief alone.

Connecting with the Ravena Community

A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home is more than just a business; it's an integral part of the Ravena community. Actively engaging in local events and supporting public causes, the funeral home staff emphasize their commitment to the wellbeing of the people they serve. Their connection with the community extends beyond providing funeral services; they are a shoulder to lean on, a resource for support, and caring neighbors who understand the significance of every life lived within the community.

Testimonials and Feedback

It has been the honor of A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home to serve countless families over the years, and their experiences speak volumes. Testimonials from community members often highlight the funeral home's sensitivity, excellent service, and the way staff turned a challenging time into a memorable tribute. Prospective clients can take comfort in knowing that this is a place where their loved ones will be honored and their wishes respected.

Final Word

At A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home in Ravena, the staff dedicate themselves to providing dignified and earnest services to families during the most challenging times. With a deep understanding of the importance of every life's story, they stand ready to assist with caring, personalized service. Whether it's to plan ahead, for immediate needs, or for grief support, A.J. Cunningham Funeral Home remains a pillar of compassion and professionalism within the Ravena community.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is an obituary?

An obituary is a notice, often in a newspaper or online platform, which announces the death of an individual and offers a brief summary of their life, achievements, and information about the upcoming funeral or memorial service. It also commonly includes a message of remembrance from the family or an invitation to participate in the person’s last rites.

Who typically writes an obituary?

Obituaries can be written by family members, friends, or sometimes by journalists at newspapers. Funeral homes may also offer obituary writing services as part of their packages. It should be composed with care and respect, reflecting the life and values of the person who has passed away.

How long should an obituary be?

The length of an obituary can vary widely. A short obituary may only include basic information and a few sentences while longer ones can span several paragraphs, detailing the person’s life story and impact. It largely depends on the preferences of the family and the space limitations of the publication.

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

A death notice is a more straightforward announcement of a person's passing, often listing the name, age, and date of death, and sometimes the time and place of the funeral service. An obituary is more detailed and personal, often including a biography, family member list, achievements, and special messages.

Can an obituary be published both online and in print?

Yes, obituaries can be published both online and in traditional print media. Many people choose to publish in both formats to reach a wider audience, including those who may not have access to digital platforms.

When should an obituary be published?

An obituary is typically published as soon as practical after the death, often within a few days to a week. This allows time for family and friends to be informed of the passing and the details of any services or memorials to be arranged.

Is there a standard format for writing an obituary?

While there is no strict format, most obituaries follow a general pattern that includes the decedent's full name, age, date of death, a brief overview of their life, family members, notable achievements, service times, and sometimes a special message or poem.

What are the costs associated with publishing an obituary?

The cost of publishing an obituary varies depending on the medium and the length of the text. Newspapers often charge by line, word, or inch, and online platforms may have set fees for posting. It's advisable to check with the specific publication for their rates.

Can anyone submit an obituary for publication?

Generally, family members or the executor of the estate will submit the obituary. However, close friends or other associates with the consent of the family may also submit one. Publications have varying policies, so it's best to inquire directly.

How can one ensure the accuracy of an obituary?

Accuracy in an obituary can be assured by thoroughly checking facts, dates, spelling of names, and other personal details with multiple family members or friends before submission. It may also be helpful to have someone unconnected to the writing process proofread the final draft.

Is it necessary to include cause of death in an obituary?

Including the cause of death is entirely optional and at the discretion of the family. Some families choose to include this information for transparency or to provide context, while others may prefer to keep it private.

Should an obituary include a photo?

Whether or not to include a photo is a personal choice. A photo can provide a recognizable connection to the person for readers, but it will also often increase the cost of publishing, especially in print.

What kind of personal details are appropriate to include in an obituary?

Appropriate personal details in an obituary often include the person’s education, occupation, hobbies, passions, accomplishments, and affiliations with organizations. It is important, however, to avoid including sensitive information that could be misused.

Is it appropriate to mention survivors and predeceased family members?

Yes, it is a common practice to list surviving family members as well as those who have predeceased the individual. This acknowledges important relationships and provides a fuller picture of the person’s family context.

Can an obituary serve as a request for charitable donations?

Yes, families often use obituaries to request charitable donations in lieu of flowers. This is typically phrased as "In memory of [decedent’s name], donations may be made to [organization]."

How do I handle the inclusion of estranged or divorced family members?

When considering estranged or divorced family members, tact and sensitivity are necessary. Inclusion depends on the family's preferences and the nature of the relationship with the decedent. It is not uncommon for some families to omit mention of estranged members, although others opt for an inclusive approach regardless of relationship status.

Are there cultural considerations to keep in mind when writing an obituary?

Certainly. Cultural norms and traditions may influence how an obituary is written and what information is included or omitted. It is important to be sensitive to and respectful of the deceased's and family’s cultural and religious practices.

What if my loved one lived a difficult or controversial life?

An obituary should be written with dignity and respect, focusing on the positive aspects of a person's life. It is not necessary to air personal challenges or controversies publicly; instead, highlight the person’s contributions, love for others, and the impact they had on those around them.

Is it possible to update an obituary after it has been published?

If an obituary is published online, there may be a possibility for updates or corrections, depending on the website’s policy. For printed obituaries, this is typically not possible, so ensuring accuracy before publication is very important.

Should the tone of an obituary be somber or can it be celebratory?

The tone of an obituary can vary; some families prefer a somber and respectful tone, while others may opt for a more celebratory or light-hearted tone, particularly if it reflects the personality or wishes of the deceased. The most important thing is that the tone is appropriate and honors the individual's life and legacy.

Can an obituary be rejected by a publication?

Yes, a publication may reject an obituary if it does not meet their guidelines, contains inappropriate content, or fails to provide required verification of death. Always check the publication’s submission requirements before submitting an obituary.