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Nan Swank - May 16, 1947 - October 31, 2022

Departed: 10/31/2022 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Nan Swank, 75, passed away Monday, October 31, 2022, at The Renaissance of Stillwater. Born on June 16, 1947, in Stillwater, OK, she was the daughter of Elmer Chilton Swank and Dorothy Nell (Penner) Swank.
Nan lived in Stillwater most of her life. She graduated from C.E. Donart High School in 1969 and also attended Oklahoma State University. From a young age, Nan developed an exceptional love for reading and was an avid reader throughout her life. She also had a caring heart for animals and often rescued stray cats and dogs, as well as those in animal shelters. At one point she was a member of the Stillwater Elks Lodge #1859 and served as the Exalted Ruler from 2007-2008.
Nan is survived by her brother, Charles (Deanna) Swank of Ellinwood, KS, and a nephew, Tanner Swank of Woodward, OK. She was preceded in death by her parents.
A short graveside service will be held at 4 p.m. on Wednesday, November 9, 2022, at Sunset Memorial Gardens and Mausoleum, 6500 S. Perkins Rd., in Stillwater, with Pastor Will Harper presiding. There will be no visitation as cremation has taken place.
Since Nan loved animals and adopted several cats and dogs over the years, the family requests that, in lieu of flowers, memorials be donated to the Humane Society of Stillwater in care of Strode Funeral Home. Condolences may be sent and notice viewed at strodefh@aol.com .
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Reta Faye Frank - August 19, 1949 - February 07, 2021

Departed: 02/07/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Reta Faye Frank.
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Arthur Brown - October 15, 1927 - January 31, 2021

Departed: 01/31/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Known as "Bud" or "Art" by friends and family, passed away at the age of 93 peacefully in his sleep in Perkins, Oklahoma on January 31, 2021. Arthur was born to Arthur Miles and Ollie Izola (Webb) Brown in Pawnee, Oklahoma on October 15th 1927. He was one of 8 children and is survived by 2 brothers Darrell Brown of Sapulpa, OK and Kellis Brown of Sperry, Ok. and is also survived by many nieces and nephews who love Uncle Bud.
Bud graduated from in Stillwater High School and after graduating he enlisted in the United States Army. during WW II and later served again during the Korean war as a Military Police Officer. After returning home from military service, he learned to lay bricks and became a Union brick layer with Local 5. He worked as a brick layer for 43 years. He worked on many buildings on the OSU campus. He also worked in Oklahoma City, Tulsa, Ponca City and various other cities in Oklahoma. After retirement from brick laying, he enjoyed hobbies such as wood working, fishing, and traveling with his wife Ruth.
While working in Ponca City he met his wife Ruth E. Dickson and they were married on June 20, 1953. His wife passed in January 2005 after 51 years of marriage. Out of the marriage 2 children were born, a son Michael and a daughter Roberta. Bud's children both survive him. Son Mike and wife Vicki Brown of Perkins, OK.; and daughter Roberta Brown-Fanning and life partner Duane Fanning of Ripley, OK. He is also survived by two grandsons Kevin and wife Josie Brown of Omaha, NE (son of Mike and Vicki Brown) and Edward Brown of Stillwater (son of Roberta Brown-Fanning and Duane). He is also survived by 3 great-grandchildren, Jareth K. Brown son of Edward Brown of Oklahoma City. Mason Flint, and Ronni Elaine son and daughter of Kevin and Josie Brown of Omaha, Nebraska.
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Charles Baker - January 16, 1939 - January 21, 2021

Departed: 01/21/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Charles “Chuck” Arthur Baker, 82, of Stillwater, Oklahoma, passed away in his home at Legacy Village on Thursday, January 21, 2021.
Charles was born on January 16, 1939, to Leon and Dora (Childs) Baker in Douglas, Oklahoma. At age 12 Charles suffered a severe illness and survived pioneering lung surgery. After graduating from Douglas High School in 1957, he went on to study accounting at Oklahoma State University.
After graduation, he landed his first job as a manager in Roswell, New Mexico but soon returned to Stillwater and become the payroll director for Oklahoma State University. While working there he met the love of his life Sharon and they wed in May of 1966, going on to adopt two children Kristen and Bradley.
Charles worked hard to provide for his family and give them the life he felt they deserved. His family meant more to him than anything else in the world, something he often mentioned. He was unendingly proud of all his children and grandchildren.
Throughout most of his life, Charles was passionate about donating his time to church, choir, Lions Club, and Town and Gown Theatre. A loyal OSU Cowboys fan through and through, Charles could be found at almost every home basketball and football game for more than 60 years. In recent years he joined the Stillwater Community Singers and enjoyed weekly practices and participated in several concerts.
Charles was predeceased by his wife, Sharon, his parents, and sister Dorothy. He is survived by two children Kristen Hadley and husband, Rick of Stillwater, OK, and Brad Baker and his wife, Jennifer of Corpus Christy, TX; a niece, Robin Hadley of Enid, OK, nephew David Hadley and wife, Caitlyn of Enid, OK, five grandchildren, Samantha, Brittany, Garrett, Abby, and Kylee, and many other dear family and friends.
Memorial services will be conducted at 2:00 P.M. Monday, January 25, 2021, at First United Methodist Church in Stillwater, OK under the direction of the Strode Funeral Home with Rev. Kyle Anderson officiating. Interment will be at the FUMC Columbarium and Memorial Garden in Stillwater, OK. A livestream of his service from the First United Methodist Church will be available on his personal obituary page at strodefh.com.
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Marion Sallee - July 18, 1935 - January 19, 2021

Departed: 01/19/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Marion “Joe” Sallee, 85, of Stillwater, OK, passed away on January 19, 2021.
A private family service will be held on January 26, 2021 at Strode Funeral Home. Reverend Buster Holzer of Livin’ Loud Outdoors will be officiating. Visitation is on a “come and go” basis from Saturday, January 23, through Monday, January 25, from 8:00am to 8:00pm at Strode Funeral Home. A public burial will be held at Fairlawn Cemetary in Stillwater, OK at 11:00am on January 26, 2021.
Joe was born in Pawnee, OK on July 18, 1935 to parents William H Sallee and Edna M “Hope” Sallee. He graduated from Pawnee High School and continued on to Oklahoma State University. Later, he went on to join the Army National Guard from 1957-1965 where he became a Staff Sergeant.
He was married to Golda Mae Potter on August 20, 1965; they were married for 39 years.
Joe retired as a Customer Service Specialist from Oklahoma Natural Gas after 27 years. He painted off and on periodically until he was 80 years old. His hobbies included coaching grandchildren and children in little league, while also playing softball himself and umpiring in his free time. “Grandpa” Joe also enjoyed spending time with his family and watching Pioneer football.
Joe is survived by Brothers (2): Johnnie and Sue Sallee and Lyle and Adeana Sallee and Sisters (5): Nancy Sallee, Rosa Garrison, Phyllis Heisler, Carolyn and Marvin Harrell, and Joyce Heisler. Daughters (3): Rhonda Vogt, Debbie Cawood-Stokes, and Sharon Jones. Surviving Grandchildren (12): Brandy Vogt, Brendin and Courtney Vogt, Pilare Simon, Shannon and Chris Cagle, Tiffany and Jake Hubbard, Cody Anderson, Robert and Christina Anderson, Chad and Joy Cawood, Dawndra Berkenbile, Jerry Cawood, Sean and Christine Cawood, and Kyle Baker. Surviving Great-Grandchildren (18): Sylar Warrior, Mckenna Vogt, Liam Vogt, Kyle Sage, Kymber and Austin Scott, Caris Cawood, Marin Cawood, Hunter Greene, Lillian Berkenbile, Cash Cawood, Carson Cawood, and Case Cawood. Bailey Long, Blaine Long, Mason Hubbard, Alex Anderson, Elianna Anderson, and Jordan Anderson. Great, Great-Grandchildren (2): Ophelia Scott and Olan Scott, and other family and friends.
He is preceded in death by: wife, Golda M “Potter” Sallee; parents, William H Sallee and Edna M “Hope” Sallee, as well as brothers: William “Jr.” Sallee, Leslie Sallee, Jimmie Sallee, and Kenneth Sallee; sister: Marjorie Engle; and sons: Jerry and Larry Cawood.
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Tina Munson - February 04, 1968 - January 18, 2021

Departed: 01/18/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Tina was born in Stillwater Oklahoma in 1968 to Ralph and Linda Sweeny, the eldest of six
children. She was raised in Stillwater and graduated from Ripley High school in 1986. Tina was a huge OSU Cowboys fan, attending many events to support the university as well as Stillwater Public Schools. Tina went on to receive a BS in Nursing and was the Director or Nursing at Southern Oaks Care Center in Pawnee. Tina had five children, Cody, Eric,Jake, Matthew and Margaret. She was also a grandmother of six.
She is survived by her children as well as her parents Ralph and Linda Sweeny and her siblings; Jack, Shawn, Dawn, Christy and Rebecca. Her grandchildren; Payton, Tripp, Keegan, Elana, Kolbie and Dakota.
She will be remembered as a tireless supporter of patient rights as well as care for the elderly and had recently been honored with a Governor’s Commendation for her tireless efforts in patient care during the Covid Pandemic.
A private memorial service will be held for the family on January 26, 2021 at Fairlawn Cemetery under the direction of Strode Funeral Home, a recording will be made available to friends on the Strode Funeral Home website after the services.
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Patty Mogg - October 21, 1928 - January 17, 2021

Departed: 01/17/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Our dear Patty left her earthly body on the morning of January 17, 2021, after a night surrounded by her children, grandchildren, and loved ones.
Patty Lee Compton was born October 21, 1928. The daughter of Clyde T. Compton and Edna P. (McCaslin) Compton. The fourth of five children, she grew up in Minco and Binger, Oklahoma.
She graduated from Binger High School. She married her sweetheart Cicero “Junior” M. Mogg, Jr. in 1947 and together in Binger they grew peanuts, cotton, children (Kay, David, Dennis, and Linda), and a family legacy unlike any other.
She served in the home as a caring mother and wife until the youngest of those children started school, then she served as the principal’s secretary for Eakly schools, and studied at Redlands college after her children left school.
Following the death of her young husband after 31 years of marriage, she moved to Oklahoma City, where she worked in dental care and insurance, she was a loving grandmother to her eight grandchildren, and found both friendship and love when she revived her fondness for swing dancing from her youth. It was swing dancing where she met Mike Yu and they became partners on and off the dance floor. They had more than 25 years of fun, love, friendship, and great memories.
She enjoyed live music and good times with her close friends, gardening, and became a “Master Gardener” taking courses at OSU-OKC. Her pies and pancakes were second to none, and kept smiles on the faces of grandchildren at many sleep overs and holiday dinners.
She will be missed by many, including those she is survived by: partner Mike Yu, sister Jerry Drake, children Kay Rodgers, Dennis Mogg, Linda Gonzalez (Fiancé Terry Coleman), and daughter-in-law Donna Mogg. She is also survived by 8 grandchildren (Robbin, Lindsay, Lacey, Jessica, Chelsea, Jennifer, Samantha, and Thomas), 13 great-grandchildren, and 4 great-great-grandchildren, beloved nieces, nephews, cousins, and her best friend Sue.
She was greeted in eternal life by parents Clyde and Edna Compton, brothers Tommy and Billy Compton, sister Bobby Nix, husband “Junior” Mogg, son David Mogg, and great-great-grandson Tré Backes.
The family would like to thank the Renaissance of Stillwater Staff and Physician’s Choice Hospice.
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Cathy Townsend - March 02, 1945 - January 16, 2021

Departed: 01/16/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Cathy Townsend was a proud Okie from Muskogee who was born March 2, 1945.
On January 16, 2021, she went to join her husband Guy Townsend and her parents Mary and Lenard Farrar in heaven.
She moved to Stillwater in 2011 with her husband so they could enjoy their grandsons and as she said “not miss a thing” . This family did not disappoint.
She attended every Special Olympic bowling event Lennett did and every party at MPOWER; she was so proud of Lennett.
Highlights for her were watching Alleyn in band, followed up by catching him at work. She loved ice cream, so Braum’s was always on her go-to list. She loved attending Brandon’s baseball games and going to see his cows (she loved the fact he was doing something her dad and grandfather did – raising cattle). And of course the baby Collen, the fact he also played baseball was a bonus, but she especially loved his competitive cooking at the Payne County Fair. She was always more nervous than he was. She was so proud of everything they did. Her favorite thing about moving to Stillwater, besides her family, was OSU...she was a fan! She attended OSU Tailgate parties and met what she considered her best friends there. She also attended as many games as she should, always cheering (loudly) on an OSU WIN!!
She is survived by her immediate family in Stillwater, daughters Collett Campbell and Lennett Birgam; her favorite son-in- law Maury Campbell; and her amazing (just ask her) triplet grandsons Alleyn, Brandon and Collen Campbell. She is also survived by her beloved cousin Linda Moore of Pryor, OK and her baby brother Lenard Farrar of Parker, AZ.
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John Mutteloke - June 06, 1948 - January 16, 2021

Departed: 01/16/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: John W. Mutteloke Jr., age 72, of Shawnee, passed away Saturday, January 16, 2021 in Oklahoma City. Funeral services will begin at 2:00 p.m. Tuesday, January 19, 2021 at the Strode Funeral Home Chapel with burial following at the Iowa Tribal Cemetery.
John was born June 6, 1948 in Bristow, Oklahoma to John and Mary (Kent) Mutteloke. He was first married to Gail Mutteloke, then after a divorce was married to Jessie Johnson in 1992.
He served his country honorably in the U.S. Army, and was a member of the Iowa Tribe of Oklahoma. He enjoyed working in his yard and around his home.
He was preceded in death by his grandfather Solomon Kent, his parents, and his nephew Sterling Knight Jr.
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A. Over - December 19, 1921 - January 16, 2021

Departed: 01/16/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Anna ElLouise Over, age 99, was born in Aberdeen, South Dakota. She departed this earth on January 16, 2021. Anna’s life will be honored as she joins her husband, William G. Over, in Arlington National Cemetery. Strode Funeral Home and Cremation is in charge of arrangements.
She met her husband Bill in Rapid City, SD and later married, traveling the world through his military service. Upon returning to Virginia, Anna completed her professional career serving at the Pentagon for the Joint Chiefs of Staff. She loved to dance and performed with the 60 Carats Dance Troup for over 15 years. Her gift of baking earned her the top honor in a baking contest on the Art Linkletter Show.
Anna moved from Fairfax, VA to Stillwater, OK in 2016 and cherished her friends at Primrose Retirement Community. She had a passion for life, always had a sparkle in her eye and shared the most wonderful stories.
Anna loved her family. She is survived by her daughter Judy Gudgel and husband Fred of Stillwater, OK, son William Over and wife Janet of St. Louis, MO, son Stephen Over and wife Judy of Reston, VA, and daughter Rebecca Prendergast and husband Joe of Vienna, VA, 12 grandchildren and 30 great-grandchildren.
Our loving thanks to Primrose Retirement Community and Judith Karmen Hospice for their friendship, compassion and kindness.
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Jan Carlson - July 26, 1934 - January 12, 2021

Departed: 01/12/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Jan Meeker Carlson was born in Hempstead, Nassau Co., New York on July 26, 1934. His parents were Algot Franc Isadore Carlson and Harriet Louise Meeker. He was also greeted by an older sister Abigail.
After graduating from high school, Jan moved to Colorado where he enrolled in the Colorado School of Mines. He later enrolled in the University of Colorado where he received a Master of Arts degree in American Intellectual History. He then enrolled in Colorado State University where he received a Master of Education Degree. After a brief stint as Activity Director at Mankato, Minn., Jan and his family moved to Stillwater, Ok. where Jan received a Doctor of Education Degree in Higher Education from Oklahoma State University. While at OSU, Jan served as Manager of Student Activities and Adjunct Assistant Professor in the School of Educational Studies. Jan also was director of the OSU Madrigal Players for many years.
Scholarly and particularly creative writing was always a passion for Jan. Twice he received the Chester A. Berry Award for Excellence in Scholarly Writing. His favorite was “Turkey Tales,” hardly scholarly but a delight for the young at heart at any age.
For many years, Jan was active in Stillwater’s Town and Gown Community Theater, serving in the various capacities of director, actor, and stagehand. His most recent endeavor was “taking up” the guitar. Despite never having had an ounce of musical training, he practiced daily and loved it. His musically trained wife will miss and cherish his every note. “Come play with me! You won’t forget, I promise Those days we two shall make And when sunset is upon us And memories are all we take Come, play with me!” -JMC
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Seth Merriel - December 26, 1964 - January 11, 2021

Departed: 01/11/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Seth David Merriel Jr. was born in Vincennes, Indiana on December 26, 1964 to Seth David Merriel Sr. And Shirley Ann Merriel. He has one sister Sandra Hancock, brother in-law Donald Handcock, a niece Tania Harvey and Nephew, Tony Wheeler. He was married to Katy Merriel on March 17, 2016 until his death on January 11, 2021.
He graduated South Knox High School in May of 1982, he loved his country which compelled him to go through Basic training in June of 1982 with the Army National Guard at Fort Jackson. Seth never had children of his own, but that didn’t stop him he met and later married Marilyn Jean Hall who had a daughter Desiree that was 11 years old at the time, they became an instant family, Desiree and husband Jeremy Jenkins gave him 4 grandchildren Jean, Riley, Colby, and Shelby.
Unfortunately, Seth and Marilyn divorced 13 years later and that’s when he met and married Katy Cabe, she gave him 3 additional children to love Charles, Daltyn, and Jazmyn, Jazmyn recently gave him another grandson Dallas. He loved his niece Tania Harvey, husband Chris Harvey and their 3 children Andrew, Abigail, and Johnathan and nephew Tony (Jay) Wheeler, and wife Jessica Wheeler.
He was proceeded in death by Seth Sr. and Shirley Merriel, as well as Charles Cabe, Marilyn Hall, and Johnathan Harvey.
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Jeralyn Jackson - February 27, 1933 - January 10, 2021

Departed: 01/10/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Jeralyn Zoeller Jackson (87) passed away on January 10, 2021 in Houston, Texas. At the time of her death, Jeralyn was living at the Brookdale Retirement Community in Houston. Known to her friends and family as Jerry, she was born in San Antonio, Texas on February 27, 1933, the second daughter of Jerome H. Zoeller and Dorothy Evins Zoeller. Jerry attended Incarnate Word College in San Antonio (now the University of the Incarnate Word). At Incarnate Word, Jerry built upon her incredible talent with a Bachelor of Arts in music with a focus on piano performance and education. In addition, she studied flute and continued her studies for many years. Jerry joined the Incarnate Word Community Orchestra at the age of 15 and continued until she graduated in 1956. At that time, Jerry gave a spectacular performance of the Saint Saens Piano Concerto at the Incarnate Word auditorium with her father, Jerome H. Zoeller, conducting the orchestra. Jerry then earned a Master of Arts in Music from the University of Texas, Austin in 1958, where she met her future husband, James Forbes Stuart Jackson, Jr.
Jerry married James in 1960 and the couple raised their family in Stillwater, Oklahoma, where James was Professor of Finance at Oklahoma State University. Jerry earned another Bachelor of Arts degree in English from OSU while in Stillwater.
Jerry was a deeply committed member of the Catholic Church with the constant ability to “walk the walk” of our savior, Jesus Christ, expressing love and compassion wherever she went. Jerry also took great joy in her immediate and extended family, deep friendships, music, quilting, reading, and writing letters. She was the organist and music director at Saint John’s Catholic Church in Stillwater, OK for many years, and taught private piano and flute lessons to many students over the years. Jerry’s family and friends will miss her abundant love and enthusiastic conversations, where her ability to be present in every discussion was unparalleled.
Jerry is survived by her two sons, James Stuart Jackson and his wife Julie Eilers (Houston, TX) and Edward Marsh Jackson and his wife Lauren Dunlap (Long Beach, CA); four grandchildren, Emily Anne Jackson (Long Beach, CA), Maria Elizabeth Jackson (Long Beach, CA), Rebecca Ann Jackson (Houston, TX), and James Stuart Jackson, Jr. (Houston, TX); four siblings, Jerome H. Zoeller Jr. (San Antonio, TX), James P. Zoeller and his wife Harriet “Tommie” Taylor (Gordon, TX), Joyce Zoeller Douglass (Falls Church, VA), Jennifer M. Zoeller (San Antonio, TX). She is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews throughout the country.
Jerry was preceded in death by her husband James Forbes Stuart Jackson, Jr. in 2018 and her daughter, Anne Elizabeth Jackson, who passed at a young age, as well as her sister, Jacqueline Zoeller Bowers.
An online rosary service will be conducted at 7pm on Tuesday, January 19th. A funeral mass will be held at 10am on Wednesday, January 20th, at St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church located at 711 N. Country Club Road, Stillwater, OK 74075. Her Funeral Mass will be live-streamed from .
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Robert Huneycutt - January 09, 1934 - January 09, 2021

Departed: 01/09/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Beloved father, grandfather, and friend to so many, Robert Carl “Bob” Huneycutt passed away peacefully on his birthday, January 9, in Stillwater, Oklahoma, where he had lived since 1972. He was 87 years old and was enjoying his new home in Legacy Village, a local retirement community.
Bob (also known as “Carl” by his parents and siblings) was born to Mr. and Mrs. Robert E. and Edna V. (Crossley) Huneycutt on January 9, 1934 in Sparkman, AR. He was preceded in death by his parents, former spouse and loving mother of his sons, Willene Kroutil, and his oldest son Greg. Bob is survived by his devoted friend and cherished companion Tana Rutan, his brother Norman (Janet) Huneycutt, of Terrell, TX, and his sister Sandra Williams, of Dickson, TN. He is also survived by sons Tim (Sherri) of Perry, OK, Stan (Christy) of Atlanta, GA, and Russell (Leann) of Owasso, OK, and grandchildren MacKenzie, of San Antonio, TX, Alex (Sierra), of Kansas City, KS, and Chloe’ Huneycutt, of Atlanta GA.
Bob was a 1951 graduate of Fairview High School, Camden, AR. Afterwards, he was as an Airman Second Class in the United States Air Force and served as an Aircraft Electrical Systems Instructor during the Korean War. After graduating from the University of Arkansas in 1958, his entire professional career was devoted to the US Department of Agriculture. Bob retired at age 55 from his position as State Administrative Officer for the State of Oklahoma, Soil Conversation Service. After retiring, he became an accomplished investment counselor, actively leading and participating in both The Emeriti and Dollars & Sense Investment Clubs.
Other primary interests throughout his life included his family history and heritage, American history, hunting, fishing and reading on a variety of subjects. Bob valued education and he was always eager to learn. In fact, early in his retirement years, he secured his private pilot’s license and enjoyed flying for many years. He later gave up flying, but stayed involved in flying activities through his limited partnership interest in Red Plains Aviation, through which he leased planes to other students.
Bob’s legacy to us is multi-faceted. He was a follower of Christ, and his life was characterized by faith, hope, and love to those who knew and loved him. He expressed his faith through active service in the community and in local churches throughout his life, including most recently First United Methodist Church in Stillwater. Known for his sincere love, servant heart, and generosity of spirit, he will be dearly missed by his many loved ones and friends.
Daily you could count on Bob to join his McDonald’s breakfast meeting with his “coffee buddies” to fellowship around their common interests. He also met regularly for a men’s prayer breakfast with his brothers in Christ at First United Methodist.
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Winston King - November 01, 1938 - January 07, 2021

Departed: 01/07/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Winston Clarence King was born on November 1, 1938 and passed away with a smile on his face January 7, 2021 in Huntsville, TX. For the protection of all of those we love, a private family graveside service will be held January 16, 2021 at Fairlawn Cemetery, led by Mike Dawes, under the direction of Strode Funeral Home.
He was born in Weatherford, OK and spent his childhood in western Oklahoma (Eakly/Hydro area) where his mother taught the lower grade children in a one room schoolhouse. He graduated from Tulsa Central High School in 1956 with his sweetheart, Shirley Mae Lukenbill. They were married in Tulsa, OK on August 19, 1960. They moved to Stillwater, OK in 1968 where they remained until 2014.
Winston retired from Oklahoma State University in 2000 after 32 years working as Computer Systems Administrator. While at OSU, his coffee breaks at the Student Union would include dozens of college students stopping by to say hello and get a hug. He was a faithful member and elder of the Stillwater Church of Christ where he impacted thousands of people by teaching Bible classes and mentoring college students. His humor will be remembered by all. He was known as Mr. Fix-it because he could do everything from fix a car engine to remodel a house. He spent Friday nights refereeing high school football for 25 years.
Mr. King was predeceased in death by his wife of 56 years (Nov. 2016); parents, Clarence Springer and Rubie Mae (Trotter) King; sister, Neva Clear; brother, Wayne King.
He is survived by daughter, Jamie Sweeney (Patrick) of Tulsa, OK; son, Darren King (Carla) of Edmond, OK; daughter Kelli Fraley (Timothy) of Midway, TX; granddaughters, Erin Stowe (Cody) of Tulsa, OK; Emily Sweeney of Tulsa, OK; grandsons, Davis King and William King of Edmond, OK; Logan Fraley, Corbin Fraley and Reagan Fraley of Midway, TX; great-grandbaby Stowe (arriving March 2021). He is also survived by sister-in-law Mary King of Tulsa, OK and many nieces and nephews.
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Mattie Cook - November 06, 1938 - January 07, 2021

Departed: 01/07/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Mattie Cook.
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Calvin Ools - September 16, 1924 - January 06, 2021

Departed: 01/06/2021 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Calvin Leonard Ools, 96, of Enid, Oklahoma died at his home on January 6, 2021 in Enid. Funeral services will be held at Strode Funeral and Cremation Chapel in Stillwater, OK on Monday January 11, 2021 at 2:00 p.m. with Pastor Dan Thimell officiating, burial will follow at Perkins Cemetery in Perkins, Oklahoma.
Calvin was born on September 16, 1924 in Newcastle, Oklahoma to Joseph and Ethel Ools. He attended schools in Covington, Hayward and various country schools but left school early to help take care of his family.
Calvin married the love of his life Katherine Buckmaster on April 9, 1949 and they raised four daughters, Diane, Ethel, Linda and Brenda.
Calvin joined the Army Air Corps and attained the rank of Sergeant. Following the military, he began working in the oil field as a pumper working 55 plus years before retiring. Calvin was a collector of barbwire and was also a long arm quilter, a wood worker, and enjoyed making lap quilts. He loved the outdoors and visiting family and friends
Calvin was preceded in death by his parents, wife Katherine Marie Ools, three brothers, two sisters, children Diane Navratil and Linda Cook, as well as grandson Mark Navratil and great-grandson Trevor Navratil.
He is survived by 2 daughters Ethel Rudd and husband Bud and Brenda Cooper as well as 14 grandchildren, 38 great-grandchildren and 11 great-great-grandchildren. Calvin was so greatly loved by his grandkids and had a hand in raising so many of them. He was loved by all and will be greatly missed.
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Nancy Patton - July 11, 1935 - December 30, 2020

Departed: 12/30/2020 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Nancy Lee Hamra was born July 11, 1935 in Henryetta, Oklahoma to Nick & Virginia Hamra. She departed this earth December 30, 2020 in Stillwater Oklahoma. Friends and family are welcome to come to Strode Funeral Home Saturday (January 2, 2021) and Sunday (January 3, 2021) from 12:00 p.m.- 6:00 p.m. to spend time with her. Nancy’s life will be celebrated on Monday, January 4, 2021 at the First United Methodist Church in Stillwater, OK at 2:00 p.m. Strode Funeral Home and Cremation is in charge of arrangements.
Nancy grew up in Henryetta and graduated from Henryetta High School in 1952. She attended William Woods College her freshmen year, then transferred to Oklahoma State University where she met her husband, Jon. She was a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority and deeply loved the blue and blue! She graduated from OSU with a degree in Elementary Education which helped support Jon through a tour in the Air Force, dental school and a hospital internship.
When the family moved back to Stillwater to make it their permanent home, Nancy did not hesitate to get involved and serve her community. She was a member of PEO, President of Altrusa, Stillwater Hospital volunteer and buyer, and Kappa Kappa Gamma Alumni President, treasurer and advisor. She served on numerous boards and fundraisers such as Stillwater Museum Association, American Cancer Society, Sheerer Museum, Big Brother/Big Sister, Friends of Music Scholarship Musicales, First United Methodist Church and many others. She was most proud of starting the “Celebrity Waiters” fundraiser for Stillwater’s effort for the Leukemia Foundation. She followed in her father’s footsteps owning and operating a business, Pier 1 Imports, for many years. She loved decorating and entertaining!
Nancy was a fabulous cook and loved to travel and garden! She attended numerous cooking schools in Italy and England. She was famous for her authentic Lebanese and Italian dinners as well as her Christmas toffee and desserts.
She loved her family, friends, OSU, Stillwater and cherished her Christian faith.
She was preceded in death by her husband Jon Patton, parents, and her younger brother Nicky.
She is survived by her daughter Diane Fix and husband Dusty Fix of Stillwater, son Barry Patton and wife Vanessa Patton of Stillwater, grandchildren Dylan Fix, Daxton Fix, Kailey Weiner and husband Jake Weiner, Skyler Patton and wife Chelsea Patton, and great grandson Asher Weiner.
Without doubt, she was the best wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She will be dearly missed.
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Harry Ozment - August 19, 1949 - December 30, 2020

Departed: 12/30/2020 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: On December 30, 2020 part of a story came to its peaceful end. In this tale, our Hero showed us that little is needed to be truly happy. With God, a fishing pole, and a loved one with to share, his cup runneth over. He knew that joy could be had with, or indeed without, catching a single fish.
Often a strait-laced man of few words, the work ethic, kindness and faith instilled in him on the family farm made him an OSU Cowboy, a founding member of his fraternity, a community leader, and crossed his path with that of his lifelong love, an artist.
With her, that work ethic and kindness has been observed and instilled in their 2 boys and will certainly carry on. For in this tale, our Hero’s quest was rewarded with his ultimate happiness. The Love they shared and their faith blessed his adventure with 4 grandsons.
The man we knew will be missed by all of us lucky enough to be part of his story. Fear not. Remember, after all, that only part of this tale has been told. Our Hero’s adventure continues. That happiness he had on Earth is now everlasting as he walks with his Heavenly Father.
Smile. He’s probably fishing right now, reunited with his beloved, and sharing with his older brother stories of grandsons. So what if the fish aren’t biting.
Thanks, Dad.
Pat Ozment was born in Holdenville, Oklahoma on August 9, 1949. He grew up on the Ozment farm in Wetumka, Oklahoma with his three older brothers. After graduating high school he attended Oklahoma State University and earned a bachelor’s degree in Landscape Architecture. During his time in Stillwater, he met his future wife Illene Webb. They were married on July 1, 1978. As Parks Department Director of Ponca City, OK Pat was involved in many projects that are still around to this day. He also helped design and create Chris Salmon Plaza in Stillwater, OK in honor of his and Illene’s close friend, mentor, and former mayor of Stillwater, Chris Salmon. Additionally, Pat was a member of St. Andrews Episcopal Church in Stillwater, OK. Pat will be remembered by his big smile, innate ability to listen as well as share a good story and his willingness to serve his many friends, family and others he encountered on a regular basis.
Pat is preceded in death by his wife Illene, brother Richard Ozment and parents Dean and Hazel Ozment. He is survived by his brothers, Philip Ozment and wife Anne and David Ozment and wife Phyllis, sons Josh and Jimmo Ozment, daughter-in-law Bri and grandsons Adrin, Tavar, Dean & Harry.
Pallbearers include Phil Ozment, David Ozment, Andy Ozment, Joe Richard Ozment, and Steve Ozment. Honorary Pallbearers include Ken Butler, Joe Robertson, Wade Campbell, Winston Trench, Kent Houck, and Art Porter.
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Loyed Brewer - November 16, 1928 - December 28, 2020

Departed: 12/28/2020 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Loyed Vadis Brewer was born November 16, 1928 in Eakley, Oklahoma to James and Eightcy Brewer.
Loyed spent days with his beloved wife Debbie, hunting and fishing. He was the slickest car salesman around. He served the Lord and spent many years in the ministry preaching with his wife Debbie. He loved hunting and fishing with his two knuckle headed boys Jeromiah and Loyed Franklin.
Loyed was sure to teach Emma, Ariel, Chosen and Seven how to fend for themselves. Loyed spent many hours tearing up the highways with his daughter Amanda (his “pick of the litter” as he called her). Loyed loved telling stories of his teen years with his grandchildren, some of his fondest being of boxing while enlisted in the Marine Corp and of his fishing/hunting trips. Loyed loved his family beyond words. He was a protector and great provider as he believed every man should be.
Loyed married Debbie Brewer and had one child Loyed Franklin Brewer and 3 bonus kids Amanda, Betty and Jeremy. He was the grandDAD to Jeromiah Loyed, Ariel Katherine, Emma Renae, Chosen RaeLynn, Seven Marie, and Harley Grace. He was the best great-grandfather to Jeremiah Adriel and Maisie Mae.
Loyed is survived by his brother Wayne of California, 3 children from his first marriage: James Brewer of Florida; Debbie Wise and Patty Sears of Oklahoma. From those children he had 5 grandchildren Angel, Lori, Stacy, Dodie and Shane. Loyed had many great-grandchildren and great-great-grandchildren.
He was proceeded in death by his parents, sister Grace, Granddaughter Angel and an infant son.
Loyed took his final journey to be with the Lord on December 28th 2020. Loyed impacted the lives of everyone he knew.
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Juanita Turner - July 23, 1930 - December 20, 2020

Departed: 12/20/2020 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: An obituary is not available at this time for Juanita Turner.
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Paula Stoll - December 28, 1968 - December 18, 2020

Departed: 12/18/2020 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Paula Marie Stoll, 52, of Stillwater, OK passed away on December 18th in her home surrounded by family. Her funeral will take place at Bible Baptist Church in Stillwater on December 22, 2020 at 1:00 p.m. and burial will follow at the Fairlawn cemetery. Strode Funeral Home and Cremation is in charge of arrangements.
Paula was born on December 28, 1968, in Waupun, WI, to Donald and Mary Alexander. She attended Oklahoma State University and received a degree in Education. She met her soon to be husband, Jerry Max Stoll, at their church, Bible Baptist Church, and they were married in Davenport, OK, on December 31, 1995. She worked as a preschool teacher until the birth of their first child. They lived in Stillwater, where they raised two children together. She was an active member in her church and heavily involved in projects to support special needs adults.
She fought a 20-year battle with cancer and beat every prediction stacked against her.
She is preceded in death by her fathers-in-law, Max Stoll and Michael Green.
She is survived by her parents; husband; two children, Erin Stoll and Steven Stoll; 3 brothers and a sister, Leroy Alexander, James and his wife Patricia Alexander, Paul Alexander, and Patricia and her husband Lee Walker; her mother-in-law, Dee Stoll-Green; and many beloved nieces, nephews, and cousins.
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Karen Vaughan - April 20, 1942 - December 17, 2020

Departed: 12/17/2020 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Karen Kay Hansen Vaughan was born April 20, 1942 to Lawrence and Dorothy Hansen. She passed away surrounded by her 3 children in Enid, OK on December 17, 2020. A graveside service will be held at Sunset Memorial Gardens Cemetery Tuesday, December 22, 2020 at 3:00 p.m. in Stillwater, OK. There will be a visitation and viewing December 22, 2020 from 10:00 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. at Strode Funeral Home in Stillwater.
Karen graduated from Stillwater High School in 1960. She later attended OSU where she met and later married Jack Brisco. Together, they had 3 children. They divorced as Jack started his wrestling career but Karen remained close to Jack and his family. She married J.R. Vaughan in 1970 and from this union she gained a step-son, Robbie and a daughter, Nova born in 1971.
Karen was a very artistic and creative person. She enjoyed quilting and painting. She loved animals and babies. She was a free spirit who marched to the beat of her own drum. Karen was the favorite mom of her children’s friends with her sparkling personality and beautiful smile. She was honest and friendly and taught her family to be kind to others.
Karen is survived by her daughter, Deborah Whatley and husband Craig; daughter, Jennifer Rose; son, Barry Jack Brisco and wife Kristy. Grandchildren, Ashley Brisco-Gillespie, Cole Whatley, Molly Whatley, Savannah Brisco, Jake Brisco, Luke Whatley, and Andie Brisco. Great-grandchildren, Brandon Gillespie and Emersyn Gillespie. She is also survived by her sister, Darla Holland and husband Tom Holland.
She is preceded in death by her husband J.R. Vaughan, daughter Nova Vaughan, step-son Robbie Vaughan and her parents, Lawrence and Dorothy Hansen.
Memorial contributions can be made to Enid SPCA: 1116 Overland Trail, Enid, OK.
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Ina Clary - February 24, 1937 - December 16, 2020

Departed: 12/16/2020 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Ina Faye (Boyd) Clary passed away peacefully on December 16, 2020. Strode Funeral and Cremation is in charge of arrangements.
Ina was born in Payne County to Leo G. and Lela Boyd.
Ina leaves behind three siblings, Vona Parrish; Laurence Boyd; Ona Childers and husband, Keith. She also leaves behind five children Beverly Tackett, Don Clary & wife Vivian, Roberta Clary, Dennis Clary & wife Michelle, Lorna Miller and husband Troy, and Floyd Margason III. Her grandchildren, who she loved dearly, are John and his wife Dawn, Jessica and her husband Gregg, Amanda and her husband Anthony, Nathan and his wife Gina, Robert, Danielle, David, McKayla and her husband Levi, Tyler and his fiancee Katie, Dylan, Kabryn and her husband Tanner, Clair, and Cali; and fifteen great-grandchildren that she adored.
Ina is predeceased by her son, Stevie, her granddaughter, Shelayna Knott, and close family friend Floyd Margason, Jr.
Ina lived her life quietly devoted to God and her children and family. She will be greatly missed.
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Rosalee Bunch - October 04, 1940 - December 15, 2020

Departed: 12/15/2020 (Stillwater)
Obituary Preview: Rosalee Gene Bunch, 80, died Tuesday December 15, 2020 in Stillwater Oklahoma. In accordance with her wishes, a service will not be held. Strode Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.
Rosalee was born in Baltimore Maryland on October 4, 1940 to Delbert Kelley and Gladys (Oats) Kelley.
On April 4, 1962, she married the love of his life, John Bunch in Laurel, Maryland. Together they raised three children and enjoyed 51 years of marriage until John passed away on March 27, 2013.
Rosalee is preceded in death by her husband John, her parents and 5 sisters and 1 brother.
Rosalee is survived by her daughter, Dawn Coleman of Stillwater, OK: daughter, Rhonda Davis of Haysville, KS; son John Bunch Jr., of Guthrie, OK; 13 grandchildren and 20 great grandchildren and her two beloved sisters Edith and Alice in Maryland.
Memorial contributions may be made in Rosalee’s name to the Stillwater Humane Society at 1710 S. Main, Stillwater, OK 74074.
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