Graham Funeral Home & Cremation Services Obituaries

Obituary Preview: Ryleigh Grace Spicer passed away peacefully in the arms of her daddy and mommy on March 11, 2024 at 3 weeks old. Ryleigh was born on February 19, 2024 at 3:13 pm to Shawn and Ashley Spicer. Ryleigh was born with a Congenital Heart Defect, that you wouldn’t have even known she had as she had such an amazing first several days of life, but ultimately passed due to complications from sepsis. She handled every challenge with grace- so fitting that prior to her birth they chose Grace as her middle name. During her brief time on this earth, Ryleigh loved snuggling in daddy and mommy’s arms. She loved listening to daddy sing to her and hearing mommy’s voice. She loved her little hands constantly by her face, and loved having her eyes wide open, looking all around the room. She will be missed immensely, but is now comfortably in the arms of Jesus.She is survived by her siblings;Thorin, Olivia, Shawn Jr, and Kimberly. Her maternal grandparents, Julian and Donna Lang, and paternal grandparents, Donald and Margo Land. Her great Grandfathers Myles Cox and Francis Lang; and many uncles, aunts, and cousins. She was predeceased by her great grandmothers, Barbara Cox and Kathy Lang.A funeral will be held to celebrate Ryleigh Grace, at River Oak Church in Chesapeake on Wednesday, March 20, 2024 at 1p.m She will be laid to rest at Albert G. Horton, Jr. Memorial State Veterans Cemetery. Graham Funeral Home and Cremation Services, Chesapeake will be caring for arrangements.Please visit www.grahamfuneralhome.com to leave a condolence to the family.

Obituary Preview: The Rev. Dr. Edward Lewis Lochstampfor, Jr. passed away Saturday morning, March 9, 2024. In heaven he joins his parents, Edward and Mary Ethel Lochstampfor, his wife, Irene, his infant son, Edward Lochstampfor, III and son, Paul Timothy Lochstampfor.He is survived by his eldest son, Mark Lochstampfor and daughter-in-law, Ann, of St. Simons GA, daughter-in-law, Angella (Paul) of Loysville PA; four grandchildren and three great grandchildren: Erin Lochstampfor-Hall (Zach) of Columbus, OH, Adam Lochstampfor (Brittany) of Brunswick, GA and their two sons, Carson and Tanner, Ben Lochstampfor (Susan) of Honey Brook, PA and their son, Conrad and Nathan Lochstampfor (Faith) of Gettysburg, PA.Edward spent his childhood in Portsmouth, VA, He met his wife at a Campus Crusade for Christ meeting. They were married in 1951 at the Cradock Baptist Church in Portsmouth, Va. He was a graduate of Eastern Seminary, and Columbia Bible College (now Columbia International University), Bethany Bible College. In 1953 Edward joined the army as a chaplain and served in Korea for two years. During their 62-year marriage Rev. Lochstampfor was called as senior Pastor of seven churches in eastern and western Pennsylvania, Ohio, and Massachusetts. He retired in 1992 and moved to Waynesboro, PA. where they lived together for 27 years, and were members of the Paramount Baptist, Hagerstown, MD. Edward moved to St. Simons, GA in 2020 where he enjoyed the beach, his neighbors, worshipping with friends, and spending time with his great grandsons who called him GGP.Family was important to Ed and to Irene. They would tell childhood stories of growing up in Portsmouth and the Tidewater area of Virginia. He spoke often of his father Edward Sr. and his father’s twin brother Edgar, and their six siblings, and of his brother Edgar and family and their missionary work in Africa. Edward was a faithful shepherd in his Christian ministry, bringing many to faith in Christ and helping others deepen their faith. He will be sorely missed and using his words when he bid farewell, “Take care.”The family wishes to thank the many who supported us through the past few years, particularly thanks to Kati Wakeland, and the staff of the Golden Isles Hospice.The interment and graveside service will be Monday, March 18, 3:00 PM at Greenlawn Memorial Gardens, Chesapeake, VA. We also thank Brunswick Memorial Park Funeral Home (Brunswick, GA) and Graham Funeral Home (Chesapeake, VA). Please visit www.grahamfuneralhome.com to leave a condolence to the family.

Obituary Preview: Kirk Duane Young, age 61 of Virginia Beach, VA passed away Friday, March 8th, 2024 at Sentara Virginia Beach Hospital.Kirk was born August 29th, 1962, in Portsmouth Naval Hospital to parents; Charles Edward Young, Jr. (deceased) and Edith K. Young. Kirk, AKA “Kirkwood”, grew up in Chesapeake, VA and graduated from Indian River High School in 1981. After graduation, Kirk worked numerous jobs throughout his life that included: Fines Men’s Store, Allstate Insurance Company, Norfolk Paint Company, Kramer Tire and worked in maintenance jobs for several apartment complexes. Kirk also held the office of vice president for the Pavilion Condominium Association for at least 30 years where he lived.Kirk loved his bachelor lifestyle at “The Beach”. He enjoyed biking on the boardwalk and frequenting his neighborhood restaurants, The Beach Pub, and Mary’s. He was a music guru of Elvis Presley, Jimmy Buffett, The Rolling Stones, The Beatles and many others. His fun-loving personality and charming ways attracted many friends throughout his lifetime, especially his neighborhood friends that became like a second family to him. Kirk spent many hours entertaining friends on his deck at home with his music and great sense of humor. He loved and adored them all.Kirk is survived by his mother, Edith K. Young, sister, Paula Young Theriault, brother, Chuck Young, niece, Jennifer Lynn Wheeler (Christopher Wheeler), niece, Amber Young Vrhovac (Russell Vrhovac), great nephews, Noah Wheeler and Ethan Wheeler, and great nieces, Layla Vrhovac and Lauren Vrhovac.Services will be held at Graham Funeral Home, 1112 Kempsville Road, Chesapeake, VA 23320 on Friday, March 15, 2024, at 2:00 pm. Reception to immediately follow service at Graham Funeral Home. Please visit www.grahamfuneralhome.com to view the service if unable to attend and leave a condolence to the family.

Obituary Preview: Dorothy Scott Forbes, 93, went to be with her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on March 7, 2024. Dorothy was born in Norfolk, Virginia to the late Charles A. and Sarah Oakley Scott. Besides her parents, she was predeceased by her beloved husband, Howard Ray Forbes, Jr.Dorothy graduated from Maury High School in Norfolk. She was employed at the NOW Christian bookstore for many years and was a faithful member of Immanual Baptist Church in Chesapeake. She enjoyed genealogy, word games, and spending time with her family.Left to cherish her memory are her children, Daniel (Debbie) Forbes, Karen (Michael) Padgett, Howard (Valarie) Forbes, Deborah (Barry) Bailey; grandchildren, Christie Bernick (Justin), Jennifer Beasley (Brian), Lori Padgett, Corey Bailey, Kara Copley (KC), Maranda Forbes, Kelly Bailey, and Kady Bailey; great-grandchildren, Charlotte, Daphne, Gavin, Jane, Will, Noah, Nash and Somer.

Obituary Preview: Ray was born on November 8, 1971, and left this world on March 4th, 2024. He was born in Watertown Wisconsin to Ray Fulayter (Sr.), and Sherrill Fulayter. He is survived by his parents Drs. Ray and Sherrill Fulayter; his elder sister, Ruth Middleton, along with her two children, Rivers and Karis Middleton; his younger brother, Dr. Roy Fulayter and his wife Katie, and their seven children, Gregory, Michael, Cooper, and Claire Fulayter, as well as Lincoln, Lily, and Lacy Lee; and his life partner Steven May.Ray was a beloved friend, uncle, brother, son, and individual. He cared deeply for the people around him and showed that care in a myriad of ways. He was an excellent cook, and the memories of his meals will be cherished by all who had the pleasure of enjoying them. As much as good food, Ray adored good conversation. He always added a bit of spice to everything, his own unique flare and pizzazz. He was a highly opinionated man, who was not afraid to stand up for the things he believed in, and stand up for the people he cherished, or people who were unjustly wronged. He was very detail-oriented in everything he did, you would be hard-pressed to find a project that Ray worked on with unfinished or unthoughtful details; everything he did was done well, a trait instilled in him by his parents at a young age.He loved to dress well. Ray valued the importance of looking good and feeling good. He enjoyed wearing clothes that filled him with confidence, like dress clothing, good suits, and nice slacks, but on his dress down days, you would often see him wearing his cat tee shirts. He loved his cat tee shirts. He also had a cat that lived to see 20 years, her name was Brianna. He absolutely adored Brianna and was devastated by her loss, but never forgot the dear companionship she brought to him.Ray loved decorating. His decorating skills surpassed many individuals decorating skills by a mile. He loved making things look beautiful for the season, always bringing so much cheer around the holidays, and enhancing every event with his attention to detail and warm smile.Ray was also a very sassy individual. He was the sass master. If he didn’t like something, you were going to know about it and understand every detail of the injustices he was facing. He would often make up hilarious names accompanying strangers who gave him minor inconveniences, making anyone around him snort with a common recognition of the irritants of the small things. He wouldn’t take any form of injustice given to him by people who thought it was okay to be rude just for the sake of it and would retort and hand it back to those who truly deserved it. He was someone who wouldn’t let those individuals be rude without thinking twice, and for that, he probably changed some people’s opinions about behaving rudely for no reason. He stood up for people, and always wanted those who were picked on to feel like they had a voice. He had no tolerance for any perceived abuses, and that made him someone with a quick temper to anyone who crossed those boundaries.He loved gardening. Everything about gardening he learned from his father, who taught him many things. He kept a garden until the day he left us, always planting new flowers and appreciating the beauty he could cultivate with each passing season.He loved music; he had a large record collection, and enjoyed listening to records while cleaning or cooking. Ray dedicated himself to the care of his home.Ray would often pray as well, and talk to God about his life, family, and struggles.For the last two months of his life, he was able to assist with life challenges in the home of his parents and was a wonderful team player. He was able to nurture a close relationship with his parents, sister, and nieces. This was a great joy as he was in the home multiple times a week, helping with things like groceries, sorting out files, and other tasks that needed to be done. He did all of this without complaint, and even pulled the family together more in the face of challenges, a shining star, when everyone was struggling.Ray wanted to own a restaurant, called Fire Water Ray’s. He wanted to put his recipes into that restaurant for all to enjoy, as well as creating a stage for fine art performers. He loved the fine arts and had a collection of artful cats gifted to him by his sister. Along with his love of fine arts, he enjoyed traveling. He and his partner Steven frequently visited many places in the United States, always sharing pictures of their journeys with family and friends. He and Steven also had a goal to visit Wendy’s in all fifty states, as imparted to them by his nieces.Ray was a giver of unique and wonderful gifts. He never failed to delight and bring joy with the thought that he poured into the things he gave as presents. But the best thing he gave us was his presence. Though he could talk your ear off about his latest inconveniences, he was always a great listener. If you ever had any kind of issue, you could always rely on Ray to listen to you, and offer great advice, and make space and time for you. He always made you feel heard, loved, and accepted. He really was a Ray of Light.There will be a viewing held on Sunday, March 10, 2024, from 2 to 5 pm at Graham Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 1112 Kempsville Road, Chesapeake. A service to celebrate his life will be on Monday, March 11, 2024 at 1 pm also at the funeral home and will be officiated by Dr. James Baker. He will be laid to rest at Colonial Grove Memorial Park, in Virginia Beach, Virginia. If unable to attend, please visit grahamfuneralhome.com to view the service and to leave a condolence to the family.

Obituary Preview: It is with great sadness we announce that Timothy Patrick Reilly, age 62, passed away peacefully in Virginia Beach surrounded by family. Tim was born in Harrisonburg, VA and graduated from Harrisonburg High School in 1980. He received his bachelor's degree from Virginia Tech in 1985. He also held a certificate from The Aviation Institute of Maintenance. He held various positions at Color Tile, GEICO and King Aerospace. He lived in Richmond, Fredericksburg, Virginia Beach, El Paso and Memphis. He was able to travel worldwide with his position at King Aerospace. He recently moved back to Virginia Beach to be near his children.Tim was predeceased by his father James Reilly and his wife Elizabeth and his mother Jean Reilly. Left to cherish his memory are his children Megan Reilly of Virginia Beach and Matthew Reilly of Chesapeake. He also leaves behind his brother Joe Reilly and wife Kimberly of Tampa FL and sister Anne Sidari and husband Phil of Austin TX. Tim also leaves behind a nephew, Colin Reilly, and niece, Peyton Reilly, along with several cousins and friends. Lastly, Tim leaves behind his beloved cat Grace, who will remain with his daughter Megan.Tim enjoyed the beach, movies, tinkering with his automobiles, video games and most of all, spending time with his family. He will be dearly missed. A service to celebrate his life will be held on Sunday, April 7th, at 2 p.m. at Graham Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 1112 Kempsville Road, Chesapeake. All friends and family are welcome to join and celebrate Tim's life. Memorial contributions can be made to the SPCA of Virginia Beach or The American Cancer Society. Please visit www.grahamfuneralhome.com to view the service and to leave a condolence to the family.

Obituary Preview: William Edward (Bill) Noeth, 80 years old, of Chesapeake Virginia, peacefully transitioned to eternal rest on February 29, 2024. He was the son of Elizabeth Schuelker and George Franklin Noeth and brother to George Franklin Noeth, Jr. Bill was born in Bromley, Kentucky and attended Saint Agnes Catholic Church where he received his holy sacraments. As a boy, Bill loved baseball and his favorite dog, Jeb.As a young adult, Bill joined the Navy and proudly served on the U.S.S. Forrestal. The military brought Bill to the Tidewater Area. Bill was an electrician and worked at Atlantic Energy for 33 years before retirement.Bill enjoyed chasing a tiny white ball around any course, anywhere in the US, and golf quickly became a huge part of his life. Bill met some of his best friends on the golf course. He enjoyed the special thrill of experiencing 3 holes-in-one in his life, 2 in the same week, making for a great news story.Bill loved animals and demonstrated that love by fostering and adopting animals in need. One of Bill’s favorite pastimes of late was sitting on a swing and enjoying the sounds of nature around him.Bill leaves to cherish his memory his two children, Rachelle Noeth Compton (David), Dane William Noeth (Georgia); the love of his life for thirty-three years, Virginia Mayo Glancy, her son, Troy Lewis Glancy (Khrystine); and four grandchildren, MaryMichael Compton, Ayden, Brycen, and Charlotte Glancy.Bill will be laid to rest at Albert G. Horton, Jr. Memorial Veterans Cemetery in Suffolk, Virginia, and funeral arrangements are pending. The family requests that in lieu of flowers donations be made to your local animal shelter/rescue in memory of Bill and Jeb.

Obituary Preview: Rebecca “Becky” Ryan Clifton December 2, 1949 ~ February 28, 2024Rebecca “Becky” Ryan Clifton, 74, of Chesapeake VA passed away at Chesapeake Regional Hospital. Becky was a native of Portsmouth VA and a graduate of Norview High School. She was a faithful member of Great Bridge United Methodist Church and the International Brotherhood of Teamsters. Becky was a Next Day Air Clerk with United Parcel Service. She was the daughter of the late Charles E. and Leona Perry Ryan. She is survived by her husband, Joseph “Dickie” Clifton Jr. for over 54 years, a daughter Tracy Clifton Kirby and a son Todd E Clifton; grandsons, Brandon M. Clifton and his wife Bridegett, Ethan L. Clifton and his wife Tori; great grandchildren, Uriah Clifton, Hunter Clifton, River Clifton and Leona Clifton.Services will be held Saturday, March 9th at 11:00 am, at Great Bridge United Methodist Church with a reception to follow.

Obituary Preview: Hal Garbus, born June 15, 1961, to Irvin and Lou (nee Lineberry) Garbus departed this life on Tuesday, February 27, 2024, at Sentara Albemarle Hospital in Elizabeth City, NC. Hal grew up in Maryland and graduated from Glen Burnie High School before moving to Virginia in 1980. He was employed as a truck driver for several years before working as a Heavy-Duty Hauling Operator with West Service Center, Inc. of Chesapeake since February 2011. Hal loved his job and considered his employer and coworkers as family, and the feeling was mutual. Hal was loved and respected by many. He often served as a mentor to young drivers coming into the field of Heavy Hauling. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.In addition to his parents and grandparents, Hal was predeceased by his sister Beth Ann Garbus.Hal’s priority was his family and his main concern after being diagnosed with colon cancer in January 2023. Left to cherish his memory are his wife Donna Rae Harris-Garbus of South Mills, NC, daughter Krystle Slutman and grandchildren Trinity, Bryanah and Peter Slutman of Chesapeake, VA, daughter Kellie Hoyt (Travis) and granddaughters Bristol and Hartleigh Hoyt of Elizabeth City, NC, brother Brad Garbus (Raymond) of Suffolk, VA, niece Amber Garbus of Zuni, VA, and several cousins and close friends scattered across the country.He fought his health battles like a “Champ” - the nickname his father gave him when he was born - with strength and dignity. Because of his strong faith, Hal was confident about where he would spend eternity. Rest easy, Champ. Until we meet again…A memorial service will be held on Saturday, March 16, 2024, at 2pm at Immanuel Baptist Church, 1012 Battlefield Blvd., N, Chesapeake, VA 23320.

Obituary Preview: Charles Wilson Parsons 91, passed away peacefully on Monday, February 26, 2024. Will was born in Halifax, Nova Scotia (Canada). Predeceased by his loving wife of 67 years, Barbara Poyner Parsons, as well as his parents, Guy Hennigar Parsons and Freda Wilson Parsons.Will was an athlete all his life. He loved Football, Hockey, Golf and especially Baseball. At the age of eighteen, he was drafted as a pitcher for the New York Yankees. For the next 9 years he played in the Yankee organization working his way up to Triple A. In an exhibition game against the Yankees themselves, Parsons teamed with Ralph Terry and defeated the Yankees 5-2. Will managed to strike out the likes of Mickey Mantel, Yogi Berra, Roger Maris, Hank Bower and Moose Gowerin. After a major injury to his arm, he was able to play another few years, but was never the same.After baseball, Will worked in the Food Service industry and later owned Summit Marketing. He coached youth baseball teams, taught Sunday School, and was a faithful member of South Norfolk Baptist Church for over 60 years.Will loved his family dearly and delighted in everyone’s company, especially around Holidays and Birthdays. But no one dared disturb the sanctity of the family room during any Yankees baseball game.He is survived by his two children, Terri Lyn Parsons Gleason (Michael) and Christopher Wilson Parsons (Lenora); granddaughter, Kara Evans Cournoyer (Adam); his great-grandson Adam Scott ‘AJ’ Cournoyer, Jr.; and his brother, Eric Burns Parsons (Joan) and their son Eric Gerard Parsons (Kelly).A service to celebrate his life will be held Friday, March 1, 2024, at 11 A.M. at Graham Funeral Home and Cremation Services. The family invites you to join them for a time of fellowship and light refreshments following the service in the reception hall. He will be laid to rest at Chesapeake Memorial Gardens.Please visit www.grahamfuneralhome.com to view the service and to leave a condolence to the family.

Obituary Preview: After stating, “I am ready to be with Jesus,” Diane went to be with Him on February 23, 2024 with her sister at her bedside. She was of the daughter of Mark James (Jack) Harrell, Jr. and Florence Bryant Harrell and was born on Independence Day 1953.A native of South Norfolk, she graduated from Oscar Smith High School, earned a Bachelor of Science in Secondary Education from Old Dominion University in 1975, a Masters in Religious Education from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in 1978. She held several positions in education and also worked in youth ministry.Diane became a computer programmer and worked for the Christian Broadcasting Network for more than 20 years.In 2015, Diane was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. She had a radical surgery that extended her life for almost nine years, but the surgery had side effects which limited her activities for the rest of her life.Diane was a long-time active member of South Norfolk Baptist Church where she sang in the choir, taught Sunday school and Bible study classes, worked as church secretary and served on numerous committees. She was the first deaconess of the church and was responsible for finance and budget.Diane is survived by her sister, Ann Prescott (Alan) and their children, Anisa Glowczak (Steve), Amy Lehman (Eric) and Alan, Jr. (fiancée Sharon); and their grandchildren, Aiden, Trey, Kyra and Callie. She is also survived by an Aunt, Georgia Clasing; a special niece, Shelly Prescott; and many cousins and her church family.In need of extra medical care, Diane moved to Emily Green Shores Assisted Living Facility for the last few months of her life. Her family gratefully acknowledges the exceptional loving care she received from the staff until she passed. While Diane’s sister sat vigil at her bedside, the staff treated her lovingly and made sure she had everything she needed.The family is also very grateful to everyone from Trinity Hospice for their compassionate care of Diane, rapid response to needs and their expert advise and comforting counsel to Ann during the last few days.The family will receive friends at Graham Funeral Home and Cremation Services on Thursday, February 29, 2024, from 6 to 8 pm. A graveside service officiated by Dr. Kyle Rader will be held at Rosewood Memorial Park at 1 pm on Friday, March 1, 2024, where she will be laid to rest beside her parents.

Obituary Preview: Shurman Wayne Price, age 73, of Portsmouth, VA, passed away on February 22, 2024, in Chesapeake, VA. He was born on February 16, 1951, to Nathan and Dean Lee Price.Shurman, known for his funny, sweet, and generous nature, leaves behind a legacy of love and laughter. He was a proud veteran who served in the United States Army in Vietnam. His military associations were a significant part of his life, and he carried the values of loyalty and dedication with him always.He is survived by his beloved wife, Marie Price; his children, Sharon Boykin (her husband, Mark Boykin), Ashley Hampton, Krystal Mills (her husband, John Mills); his grandchildren, Elijah (his wife, Tori), Benjamin, Rachel, Alexa, Johnny, Elizabeth and Joey; as well as his great-grandchild, Morgan. Shurman is also survived by his siblings, David Price and Nathan Price, Jr.; brother-in-law, Jack Reardon; and many nieces and nephews, all whom he loved dearly.He was preceded in death by his father, Nathan Price, Sr., and his mother, Dean Lee Price, as well as his siblings, Ted Price, Loretta Carrol, Dolores Reardon, and Betty Luther.A memorial service to honor and celebrate Shurman's life will be held at Graham Funeral Home, 1112 Kempsville Rd., Chesapeake VA 23320. Following the service, the family invites you to join them for a time of food and fellowship in the reception center of the funeral home. Please visit www.grahamfuneralhome.com to view the service if unable to attend and to leave a condolence to the family.May his legacy of service and love live on in the hearts of those who knew and cherished him.

Obituary Preview: Deborah Kay Zeigler, 72, of Virginia Beach, VA, passed away on February 22nd, 2024, surrounded by her loved ones. Debbie was born on September 29th, 1951, to Robert and Arletta Emminger in Harrisburg, PA.After graduating from Red Land High School in Lewisberry, PA, in 1969, she went on to study at Shippensburg University where she earned a bachelor’s degree in library science and elementary education. She then attended the University of Rhode Island where she earned a master’s degree in library science. Debbie was a substitute teacher before becoming the librarian at Thoroughgood Elementary School in Virginia Beach. Being the avid reader that she was, she found joy in sharing her love of books with the younger generation. She made her library lessons fun and interactive for the students.While attending Shippensburg University, Debbie met Donald Jay Zeigler through a mutual friend, and they were married in the summer of 1973. They enjoyed exploring Pennsylvania and were always in search of the next covered bridge. Debbie and Don went on to have two children, Robert and Megan. Debbie dealt with many medical issues over the years but was able to persevere and watch her children and grandchildren grow up. Her grandchildren were her pride and joy. They made her life worth living and were the reason she fought so hard to overcome her medical struggles. Debbie took great pride in the hobbies and interests of all her grandchildren. She especially enjoyed accompanying them to their school bookfairs, where she would always buy them tons of books!To be loved by Debbie was an absolute gift. She loved unconditionally with a heart of gold. She was the neighborhood mom who always made sure everyone was fed, taken care of, and, most importantly, loved.

Obituary Preview: Joseph C. “Bill” England a resident of the Deep Creek section of the City of Chesapeake passed away February 22, 2024, at the age of 86. He was born in Herdon, WV to the late Worthen Lewis England and Mrs. May Church England. He was also predeceased by his loving wife, Jean Jordan England. Bill served his country in the United States Army; he was retired owner and operator of England’s Plastering Company.Bill is survived by his daughter, Cathy Willis and her husband, Robert; sons, Stephen L. Shattuck and his fiancé, Stephanie, and Brinkley J. Shattuck and his wife, Sherry; six grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren.A service to celebrate his life will be held on Wednesday, March 6, 2024, at 2 p.m. at Graham Funeral Home and Cremation Services, 1112 Kempsville Road, Chesapeake with Pastor Bert Kirk officiating. Please visit www.grahamfuneralhome.com to view the service and to leave a condolence to the family.

Obituary Preview: Patricia Fordyce Jarrard, 76, passed away February 21, 2024. Patricia was born March 25, 1947 in Fairmont, West Virginia to the late Glenn K. and Frances O'Neill Fordyce. She graduated from West Fairmont High School in 1965. She was of Christian faith and a member of Good News Baptist Church. She loved spending time in God's word and was active in many women's Bible studies. Patty was a loving wife, mother and grandmother. Her children were blessed to call her Mom! She loved spending time with family, especially her grandchildren who she loved and adored more than anything. She enjoyed attending as many sporting events, or school events as she could get to to support her grandchildren. She loved her Red Sox baseball and WVU football and would even have games recorded if she wasn't able to watch live. She enjoyed cross stitching and playing pinochle with friends. Traveling back "home" to West Virginia was always a highlight for her. (She missed those West Virginia Mountains!) Patty began working at TRT (now HRT) in the mid to late 70's as a worker's comp administrator until her retirement in 2013.Left to cherish her memory is her loving husband of 27 years, Daniel K. Jarrard; daughter, Shelley Hodgin and husband Ron; son, Geoff Dusenberry and wife Rachel; son, Brian Jarrard and wife Melissa; grandchildren, Travis Hodgin and fiance Makayla, Payton Hodgin and wife Amanda, Trey Hodgin, Jared Dusenberry and significant other Acacia, Jayne Dusenberry, Ian Dusenberry, Amos Jarrard and fiancé Katelyn, Lydia Jarrard, Evelyn Jarrard, Mollie Jarrard, Asher Jarrard, and Axel Jarrard.

Obituary Preview: Shirley Rayfield Casady surrounded by her loving family passed peacefully into the arms of Jesus on Monday, February 19, 2024, at the age of 89 after an extended illness. She was a faithful Christian, loved by all who were blessed to know her. Shirley was born August 31, 1935, in Harnett County of Dunn, North Carolina. She was the daughter of Montgomery and Pauline Rayfield. Shirley married Glenn Jobes and was blessed with two children, Glenda and George. She was naturally talented in design and became an Interior Decorator opening Jobes Upholstery and Interiors on June 13, 1987, in Moyock, NC. She had many occupations and roles including office manager, school bus driver, manager, and designer of her company Jobes Upholstery and Interior. Shirley sang in the choir, taught Sunday School, and worked diligently in and with her church family. As a member of Faith Temple Church she served as clerk, worked in the Woman’s Ministry and was a member of the music team. With her love of music Shirley joined a quartet with her good friend, Nell Turner.Shirley is predeceased by her mother, Pauline; father, Montgomery; husband’s Glenn and William; her son, George; siblings, Earl, Jesse Lee, Margaret, Kathleen, Dorothy and Steve Worth, Jr.She lovingly nurtured two children and was later blessed with two grandchildren. She is survived by her daughter, Glenda White (Bobby); grandchildren, Robert White, and Sarah White; nephew, Steve Worth (Natalie), and their son, Travis (Amy); and extended family and dear friends.Shirley had a passion and talent for art, floral design, jewelry making, music and gardening which was inspiring. Shirley also enjoyed doing puzzles and playing games. Never knowing a stranger, she would eagerly tell everyone of her love for Jesus and His love for them.

Obituary Preview: Antoinette "Toni" Pugh-Baum Stovall, 73, passed away peacefully in her sleep at Chesapeake Regional Hospital on February 19, 2024. Toni was born on AUgust 10, 1950 in Norfolk,Virginia to the late Barbara Burgess Baum, and Charles Yelton Pugh. Besides her parents she was predeceased by her beloved husband, Aubrey David Stovall; and brother, Forrest W. Baum.Toni was a loving mother, and a truly caring person. She graduated from JMU with a Masters degree and spent the following 40 years educating the youth in the city of Chesapeake Public School system as a Teacher. She loved crafting for her classrooms; and in her free time, cross stitch, gardening and flowers.Left to cherish her memory is her only son Jason Stovall and his wife Sharon; grandson, Trent Stovall, sister, Charlene Pullias; brothers, Lance P. Baum, Hugh A. Baum; nephews, W.E. Bonney and Gavin Baum; as well as numerous extended family members, dear friends, and countless students who lives "Mrs. Stovall" personally impacted.The family will receive friends at Graham Funeral Home, 1112 Kempsville Rd. Chesapeake on Wednesday, February 28, 2024 from 5 to 7pm. She will be laid to rest privately in Rosewood Memorial Park, Virginia Beach. Please visit www.grahamfuneralhome.com to leave a condolence to the family.

Obituary Preview: Debora J. Alekna, 66, of Chesapeake passed away peacefully on Saturday February 17th, 2024.She was the daughter of the late Victor and A. Louise Alekna. Left behind to cherish her memory are her two sons, Carson T. Pierce and Colton "Coley" D. Pierce (Leigh); her five grandchildren, Isaac, Lillian, Carlie,, Kenslie and Colton: her brother Johnny; her sisters Betsy, Susie, Shelley and Lisa, as well as numerous beloved family members and friends.The memorial service will be held at 2:30 pm Saturday March 2nd, 2024 at Harvest Assembly of God, 525 Kempsville Road Chesapeake VA 23320. Food and Fellowship will be held immediately following the service in the fellowship hall. Let us come together and celebrate the beautiful life of our loving "Debbie".

Obituary Preview: Dr. Paul C. Lawson (Captain, CHC, USNR-Ret.), 87, US Navy chaplain 1967-1994, pastor at Spurgeon Memorial Baptist Church in Norfolk 1971-2001 and spiritual ministry partner of his late wife Shirley Lawson since they met at Campbellsville Junior College (now University) passed into Eternal Glory on February 14th, 2024. Paul’s higher education included an Associate’s at Campbellsville Junior College, Kentucky, in 1955 followed by a B.A. in Sociology at Georgetown College (KY) in 1957, a Masters of Divinity from (the) Southern Baptist Theological Seminary (KY) in 1960, and a Doctorate of Ministry from San Francisco Theological Seminary (CA) in 1980. His Doctorate was paid for by the Navy, and the title of his dissertation was “Pastoral Care for the Aging: An Inquiry with a Resource Guide.” At the beginning of his freshman year at Campbellsville he met “the prettiest girl on campus” (how he was told to look for her) sophomore Shirley Strader and quickly became her prayer and singing partner, a relationship that would continue through many churches in Kentucky and Virginia. In gratitude, Dr. and Mrs. Lawson set up a Church Music Scholarship in Shirley’s name at Campbellsville University more than 20 years ago. Rev. Lawson served at Mt. Roberts Baptist Church (KY) while he attended Seminary in Louisville, followed by First Baptist Church, Jamestown (KY) 1960-1962 and Stanford Baptist Church (KY) 1962-1967. Paul and Shirley moved to Tidewater in 1967 when Paul became a Navy chaplain, serving in active duty including on the USS VULCAN (AR 5) and with multiple battalions in the 3rd Marine Division in the former Republic of South Vietnam and Okinawa, Japan, until 1971 followed by active reserve duty until 1994, mostly with Naval Air Station Norfolk but also a memorable deployment to Norway as Command Chaplain for the 2nd Marine Expeditionary Brigade, 4th Marine Division, supporting Battle Griffin ‘91. After returning from Okinawa, Paul served as pastor at Spurgeon Memorial Baptist Church in Norfolk, VA 1971-2001, with Shirley as minister of music and choir director during that time, and Shirley and son Paul Stephen providing “feedback” on every sermon during the 15 minute car ride home. After 2001, Dr. Lawson served in interim pastorates at Parkview Baptist (Portsmouth, VA), Buckroe Baptist (Hampton, VA) and Calvary Baptist (Newport News, VA).Paul was the younger child of Pauline (Jaggers) Lawson and Charles Lawson of Magnolia, Kentucky. He is survived by his sister Charline Akins of Elizabethtown, KY, and his son Paul Stephen (Kathy), and his three grandchildren Shaun (Esther), Chloe, and Devon.The funeral service will be at 1pm this Friday, February 16, 2024 followed by visitation, both at Graham Funeral Home, 1112 Kempsville Rd, Chesapeake. You can pay your respects to Dr. Lawson starting at noon on Friday. The internment date is being requested at Arlington National Cemetery, where CAPT Lawson will be laid to rest with full honors in the same grave as his wife. The date is expected to be several months out. Please visit grahamfuneralhome.com to view the service if unable to attend or leave a condolence to the family.

Obituary Preview: Captain John Michael Krupa, United States Coast Guard (retired) crossed the bar on 14 February 2024, at Select Specialty Hospital, Newport News, Virginia, at the age of 69 with his brother and sister-in-law at his side. He is survived by his brother and sister-in-law, Stephen Krupa, Capt, USCG (retired) and Diane Durham, Capt, USCG (retired) of Potomac, Maryland, and his dear friend Sherri Peele of Chesapeake, Virginia.John was born September 18, 1954, in New London, Connecticut. A son of Stephen Krupa and Florence Strazza Krupa, predeceased. He graduated from New London High School in 1972. He graduated from the United States Coast Guard Academy in 1976 with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Management, and was commissioned an Ensign.For the next 30 years he served his country faithfully, reaching the rank of Captain (O-6). He retired in 2006 and settled in Chesapeake, Virginia. At his retirement ceremony the presiding Admiral remarked that John’s career reminded him of the movie Forrest Gump in that John always seemed to be in the thick of things.John was a Cutterman, with over 13 years of sea duty on eight different Coast Guard cutters, commanding four of them. His first assignment was as Operations Officer on United States Coast Guard Cutter (USCGC) IRIS in Astoria, Oregon; along with search and rescue, this cutter primarily serviced aids to navigation along that portion of the west coast. Then he moved to Charleston, South Carolina and took command of USCGC CAPE MORGAN and then USCGC CAPE KNOX. Those cutters were involved in a number of search and rescue and law enforcement operations. Several cases involved working with U.S. Customs Service in the seizure of vessels trying to smuggle narcotics.Moving ashore he was assigned to the Fifth Coast Guard District Rescue and Coordination Center in Portsmouth, VA, responding to search and rescue incidents utilizing various Coast Guard and sometimes Department of Defense assets. For example, as a Senior Controller he was involved in coordinating rescue efforts during the sinking of the SS MARINE ELECTRIC, as well as supporting the subsequent Coast Guard Marine Casualty Report and investigation. That case ultimately led to the requirement for vessels to carry immersions suits, and the establishment of the Coast Guard’s Rescue Swimmer program.His next assignment was as Operations Officer on USCGC MUNRO in Honolulu, Hawaii. During this tour of duty, the cutter was involved in a number of search and rescue and law enforcement cases in the Pacific and Bering Sea. Most notably was the search for the wreckage of Korean Airlines Flight 007, a civilian airliner shot down by Soviet jets in 1983 west of Sakhalin Island. This airliner carried 269 passengers and crew including a U.S. Congressman. MUNRO spent sixty days on scene along with Korean, Japanese, U.S. Navy, and Soviet vessels.John then went to graduate school and earned his MBA from The College of William and Mary, in Williamsburg, Virginia. From there he was assigned to Coast Guard Headquarters in Washington, D.C. working on various aspects of the overall Coast Guard budget.Sea assignment again followed; he became the Executive Officer on USCGC CHEROKEE in Norfolk, Virginia, and then Executive Officer on USCGC ESCANABA in Boston, Massachusetts. Both cutters primary missions were law enforcement, migrant interdiction, and search and rescue along the Atlantic coast and Caribbean Sea. Following those tours, he became the Assistant Chief of Staff for Operations, Coast Guard Caribbean Squadron, in Miami, Florida. There he was deployed on various U.S. Navy ships and Coast Guard cutters conducting counter-narcotics operations in the Caribbean and Eastern Pacific.He soon moved back to Boston, Massachusetts, as Commanding Officer of USCGC ESCANABA. Again, the focus of the cutter’s duties were law enforcement, migrant interdiction, and search and rescue operations in the Atlantic and Caribbean. This required he coordinate some activities with the U.S. Navy, and foreign governments. During his tenure, the cutter seized various vessels for narcotics smuggling in the Caribbean, and fisheries violations in the Georges Bank portion of the North Atlantic.His management skills then led him to be the Comptroller for the Coast Guard Aircraft Repair and Supply Center in Elizabeth City, North Carolina. There he managed a team of 120 personnel handling all aspects of aviation logistics for the entire Coast Guard involving a budget of over $140M (1996 dollars), and an inventory of over 37,000-line items valued at over $650M.He was then assigned as Commanding Officer of USCGC HAMILTON in San Pedro, California, and supervised its homeport change to San Diego, California. He conducted several law enforcement patrols in the Western Pacific, Eastern Pacific, and Bering Sea. A notable event during this assignment was the seizure of the Russian Factory Trawler GISSAR for illegally fishing in U.S. waters off the Aleutian Islands. During this incident, 19 Russian trawlers surrounded HAMILTON, and threatened to ram HAMILTON to prevent the GISSAR from being seized. As played on CNN, the GISSAR’s Captain asked Captain Krupa if he was trying to “start World War III”, to which John replied “I don’t want to start World War III”. Due to his negotiation skills, and after high level USA and Russian discussions, the vessel was eventually taken into custody by a Russian Federal Border Guard vessel.That was John’s last afloat assignment. He was then transferred to Portsmouth, Virginia and assumed the duties as Chief, Operations Oversight and Management for Commander, Atlantic Area. There he was the principal advisor and planner for operations involving counter-drug operations, alien migrant interdiction, fisheries enforcement, and international engagement operations. During this posting, the September 11, 2001 attacks occurred, and John was heavily involved in all aspects of the Coast Guard’s response during that time.John’s last two years of service was as the Chief, Finance Division, Maintenance and Logistics Command Atlantic, Norfolk, Virginia. This assignment proved equally challenging in that his staff was required to respond to hurricanes KATRINA and RITA in support of first responders needs such as obtaining berthing, messing, fuel, mobile communications, personal protective equipment, oil spill and hazardous material cleanup services, and salvage services to clear navigable waters.During his career Captain Krupa was awarded eighteen individual medals and ribbons, several multiple times. Most notably were the Legion of Merit medal, three Meritorious Service Medals with Operational Distinguishing Devices, six Commendation Medals with Operational Distinguishing Devices, one DOT 9-11 Medal Military Ribbon, and one Achievement Medal with Operational Distinguishing Device.John chose not to work after his retirement.In accordance with his wishes, Captain Krupa will be cremated, and his ashes dispersed at sea from a Coast Guard cutter.

Obituary Preview: It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Margaret K. Mallard. Margaret passed away peacefully at her home in Chesapeake, VA at the age of 90 on February 14, 2024. Margaret is predeceased by her husband of 62 years, Eslie "Duck" Mallard, survived by Sisters Shirley Simmons and Joyce Kriner, predeceased brothers Richard King and Dewey King, Jr.Margaret has 2 surviving daughters Deborah Bancroft, her husband Randy and Lori Teeter, her husband Kenvir. In addition there are 3 grandchildren Phillip Spitler, Jr., his wife Sarah, Sean M Spitler, his wife Allison and Katherine Curlett. There are also 9 great-grandchildren Bradley, Alexis and Austin Spitler, Dylan Peberdy, Tobias and Deryck Elkins, Canaan Eslie, Ollie Mike and Hadley Rae Spitler.Margaret was an avid knitter, crocheter and cross stitcher and loved doing puzzle books. Her final resting place will be at Albert G. Horton, Jr. Memorial State Veterans Cemetary, Suffolk. There will be a private ceremony at a later date for immediate family.

Obituary Preview: Billy R. Saulsberry III, born January 19, 1980 at Jacksonville Naval Hospital to Billy R. and Wanda (Whitley) Saulsberry, Jr. He departed this world on February 10, 2024 to join his sister, Marilyn (1970-2013) in the afterlife. He is survived by a brother, Michael and a sister, Katrina. He graduated from Oscar Smith class of 1998 in Chesapeake, Virginia. He married the former Jennifer M. Hall in 1998 and they shared seven children: Billy IV, Eyan, Joshua, Hailie, Ryan, Zachary, and Cassidy. He is also survived by several nieces and nephews. Billy will be forever loved and missed by all who knew him. Please visit grahamfuneralhome.com to leave a condolence to the family.

Obituary Preview: Timothy Allen Furlough, 60, passed away February 7, 2024. Timothy was born locally to the late to the late Warren Leroy Furlough Sr. and Shirley Hodges Furlough. Besides his parents, he was also preceded by his brother, Dana Hodges Furlough. Tim defied the odds in life, he was given a life expectancy less than 6 years, but with the devoted care of his parents and family he lived a full, loved filled life and was always part of the group.Left to cherish his memory is his loving brother, Warren Leroy “Lee” Furlough, Jr. and his wife Linda, nephews, Alex and Connor Furlough; numerous cousins, and extended family members.A private graveside will take place in Riverside Memorial Park, Norfolk. Please visit www.grahamfuneralhome.com leave a condolence to the family.

Obituary Preview: Fe Ibanez Vergara, 85, passed away on February 6, 2024, at her care residence surrounded by her loving family. Fe was born to Hermogenes Ibanez and Corona Conde Ibanez in Sampaloc, Bolinao, Pangasinan, Philippines. She has 2 sisters and 2 brothers - Zaida, Emma, Dante, and Romey. She predeceased by her late husband, Clemencio C. Vergara (Sept. 2021)Fe is survived by her children Joey-Gene (Jodi), Mitzi, Leah (Jason), and the baby-boy Jay (Aimee) . She has numerous grandchildren - Joey Tad (Cherie), Mindi (Tim), James (Sierra), Lyndsey, Madisyn(Josh), Jordyn, Jessica, Blake “Bubby”. Ian William, Maya, Audrey Marie, Kathleen Grace, and Jay Michael. And great grandchildren - Ari, Ensley, Lucas, Ling Ling, Kaiya, EJ, Cameron, Coleson, Easton, Ryleigh, Lincoln, Carter, and one more on the way - RaeganWith Clemencio in the United States Navy, Fe and her husband were assigned various duty stations in the United States and overseas and permanently landing in Norfolk, Virginia in the 1970s. Fe was a homemaker, raised 4 talented children who all graduated from Old Dominion University. She loves to travel, seeing her brother Romey and his children - Rhona, Clifford, Jay, Cheryl, and Janice in Utah and Arizona; traveling with her good friend Auntie Ampering Pactacil. She would always love to go to the Amish Country in Pennsylvania. She would talk for hours on the phone to the her brother Romey in Texas and her sister Emma in California.Her greatest love was her grandchildren, helping raise them and watching them grow up and get married.The Vergara Children (Joey, Mitzi, Leah, and Jay) would like to give thanks and our sincere appreciation the services to EVMS Glennon Center, Sentara Medical Group - Dr. Lipton’s Office, Sentara Cardiology at Princess Ann Campus, and Sentara Hospice - all the CNAs, but especially to Caroline Sherman, Amy Lang and Christine Berry.Special thank you goes to Comfort Living Home Care in Virginia Beach - Peter Obaldo and “Ate” Loida for all the compassion and care that you have given to our mother throughout these years.Memorial Services are TBD and will be posted on her children’s Facebook pages.

Obituary Preview: Emily Louise Mankey, aged 79, passed peacefully into the arms of Jesus on Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 surrounded by her children. Born on June 4th, 1944, in Williamsport, Pennsylvania. Emily touched many lives and was able to spend the last years of her life in her own residence, surrounded by many friends.She was the daughter of John and Jane Mankey. Emily married George Brezenski (deceased) and was blessed with three children, Anita, Michael, and Steve. She was blessed with six grandchildren: Ashley, Brandy, Isabella, Natasja, Brittney, and Andrew. Emily had several wonderful siblings' that reside in various parts of Pennsylvania and Virginia. She is survived by her two brothers, David and Gary and three sisters, Kae, Linda, and Nina.Emily was a very passionate professional healer. She mastered the art of Massage Therapy, studied various natural healing methods to include Reiki, Reflexology and Energy. In addition, she was a talented painter and artist and loved going to movies. She enjoyed studying Native American cultures and collected and used healing stones to bring peace and healing to many people. The family honored her request to be cremated and her remains will spread in two different locations that brought her great joy and peace.